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All right, so welcome to your Phase 1 HeartWork weekly coaching session,

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session one. There is another session tonight at 8 p.m. Eastern, 7 Central, 5

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Pacific. It will be under a completely, it will be over a completely different set

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of activations, different set of coaching topics because Bethany will be leading

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that tonight and I see her notes, so I see what she's gonna talk about and

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what's on her heart and I may, I may touch on a couple of those things but I

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have sort of my own agenda of what our Holy Spirit's taking me as well and so

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we'll record both sessions so you guys can have the replays in your replay

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section. So I'd like to get to know you guys really quickly. If you don't know

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who I am, you should have been seeing me in your videos. My name is Jackie Dorman.

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Welcome to me, Jackie D is what I always say and I am the founder of Last Year

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Single. I'm also the creator of the HeartWork and I hope you're enjoying it.

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I just got a amazing, beautiful testimony this morning in my inbox which I will

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tell you guys about in just a second but I want to get to know you guys so let me

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know in the chat or you can unmute yourself. There's not a lot of us here

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right now. Tell me what week, what, what week of Phase 1 are you in? Week 1, 2, 3,

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4, or 5? Let me see. Who are the week 1 folks? Who just started? All right, so

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Sophie just started. Anybody else? Okay, I see you guys. I see the chat. Mary, that's

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okay. That's all right. We have a week, we have a week 3. We have a week 2.

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What all the way, who else? We have a week 1, Sophie. So you guys are just kind of

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all over the map in here. Any week 4, week 5 folks? Forgiveness week, week 4,

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that's a doozy. Got, got several people in the revealing for healing week 2, the

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understanding your heart, the process. We have people in the confession week, week

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3. You guys, I just want to take a moment to let you know that this phase of your

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program is so important. It is going to lay the foundation of everything that

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comes after this for you, okay? And so it'd be, it'd be really easy to, in our

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busy lives, to kind of mail it in. Like, okay, I checked the boxes, I watched the

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video, you know, I half-heartedly read this, I answered a few questions, I showed

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up to one or two coaching sessions. It's easy to do that. We all have distractions

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in our lives. We're all super, what we call, busy, all of us. But I want to

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remind you that God drew you here. A lot of you may have been sitting on the fence

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for a long time before you finally pulled the lever and got in here, okay? I

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see that Amy got my reference to a cronk there. Oh, so you gotta, you know, it took

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you a minute, most of you, it took you a minute to make this decision. Do I really

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need this? Is this the right thing to do? Is this what God's telling me to do? Is

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this even necessary? I remember there has been lots of times in my life where I

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was presented with an option to do some type of training of something that I

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wanted on the other side of that training, but I already had so much real

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life experience. I was always like, do I really need that training? I kind of, you

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know, been to the rodeo, have the t-shirt, have them up. Anybody else? And yet, God

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wanted me to go through that training for some reason, and he wanted me to

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humble myself, you know, under the teaching and coaching of someone else,

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and I learned a lot, and I got a lot of breakthrough. It's really easy when we

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get to this stage of our lives, especially if you've been in the

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spiritual community for enough time that you've heard enough sermons, you've read

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enough scriptures, you've listened to enough TikTok psychology videos, you've

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done the sozo's and the inner healing and the therapy and the counseling that

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you're like, I already know this stuff. I'm gonna breeze past this, and

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I'm gonna get to where the good stuff is. Let's get to the good part, which is

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where the men at? Where's the dating at? Where's the spirit made at? I get it. I

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got you. I understand, but I will tell you that the heart work is

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supernatural. While some of it may be stuff that you've heard some version of

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before, I will tell you that I didn't go to therapy. I didn't go to counseling. I

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didn't read inner healing books. I've only been to one sozo in my whole life,

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and so the stuff that's in this book is a download from heaven, okay? It doesn't

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come from anyone else's teaching or anyone else's anything. It's a download

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from heaven. I will tell you that I experienced a powerful inner healing

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ministry. It was a three-day seminar when I...

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I was in my mid thirties, that changed my life.

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And that's really where the impetus of me wanting to help other people do their heartwork

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came from.

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And I didn't think that I needed to go to that.

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I didn't.

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I knew Jesus.

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I knew Holy Spirit.

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You know, I had been, I'd been through deliverance, you know, I didn't need to go to that, but

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I went to it and I'm going to tell you guys, it rocked my world and changed my life.

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And this, this first part, this phase one of this, it is designed to do the same thing.

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It is divinely designed to do the same thing.

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So please press in, please believe that there's something more that God can teach you.

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There's something more that Holy Spirit can show you.

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Please know that you're never stuck on the outside.

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You're only ever stuck on the inside.

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I want to tell you something about my phone.

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I have, I'm on my phone right now, so I can't show it to you guys, but I have a new phone.

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I have a brand new, special, fancy iPhone 15 with all the bells and whistles, little

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special camera phone.

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But I didn't get it because I thought that I deserved it.

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I didn't get it because I was like, you know what?

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I really need this and I'm going to go out and get it.

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No, I got it because my old phone was hijacked.

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And the reason why that's important to this session, no matter if you're in week one,

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two, three, four, five, is because a lot of times, you know, we kind of have the mantra,

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if it's not broken, don't fix it.

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But I want to tell you something, it is broken.

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It is broken.

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And God wants to fix it.

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God wants to give you new.

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I was raised in a family that kept the plastic on the couches so the couches wouldn't wear

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out y'all.

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Crinkle, crinkle, crinkle every time you sat down because underneath those Afghans

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was plastic because my nanny did not want those couches to get messed up because she

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was going to keep them for the rest of her life.

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What is that?

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That's a poverty mentality.

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Let me tell you about my old phone.

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It was outdated.

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It was running slow.

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The battery was dying quickly.

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The camera, you know how they have little three little cameras in the back?

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None of the cameras, little glass was completely shattered.

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So it was sharp.

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It was sharp edges back there.

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Y'all, it was tore up from the floor up, but because it still worked to a certain level,

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I did not feel urgency to go replace it.

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Do you hear me?

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And then I was at the park with my little granddaughter who's two years old.

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I have twin grandbabies, boy and girl, two years old, and they're busy y'all.

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They're busy.

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And so chasing her around, making sure she doesn't get in trouble.

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And there was this wall of water at the park, like a little cascade of water kind of fountain

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where the kids can splash and play in it.

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And I sat my phone on the top of this wall of water.

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Why?

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I don't know.

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To make sure that she didn't get soaking wet to pull her back.

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And I caught out of the corner of my eye, my phone making its journey down into the

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center of the fountain, out of sight, never to be found again.

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I saw it.

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I saw movement and I turned my head just in time to see like a little sailboat, my phone

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go down the drain.

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I did try to find it, fish it out.

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It was not coming back.

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It was over.

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The very next day I went to AT&T and I got a new phone because that phone was paid for.

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It was done.

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It was ready.

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I could have had the upgrade all along, but I just didn't make time in my life for the

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upgrade.

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I was trying to make this work.

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I was duct taping it.

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I was trying to just make it work because it's convenient.

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It's easier.

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And so I just want to let you guys know my phone wasn't lost.

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It was pruned.

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It was taken from me.

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I believe that was God setting me up to get what I should have gotten months and months

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and months earlier, maybe even a year earlier.

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And that was a better working phone that met the needs that I have because I do all my

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work from my phone.

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I'm one of those people.

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I'm a phone only person.

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I do have a computer.

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I have a laptop.

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I have an iPad.

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I never use those things.

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I just do it all from the phone, which is why I probably have carpal tunnel.

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All right.

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But my point is valid.

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So I want you to think about that for a second.

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What are you trying to make work?

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What are you trying to make do with in life?

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God wants you to know that there's an upgrade available.

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You don't have to make do with that thing that no longer meets your needs.

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That's no longer sufficient for what you need.

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You can let that go.

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Guys, I didn't let it go.

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It was taken.

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Now, I'm not saying that God's going to take it from you if you don't let it go.

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That's not the message here.

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But I do want to let you know that you can let it go before it disappears.

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And you guys know what?

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If I would have let it go, if I would have went ahead and surrendered to the idea that

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I deserve a better phone and I don't need to try to make do with this anymore, then

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I wouldn't have had to go through that harrowing 24 hours of missed work and missed messages

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and all the things that I needed to be doing when my phone was gone.

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You can have a seamless transition if you go ahead and let it go now.

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So go ahead and think about that for a second.

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Close your eyes.

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See if Holy Spirit will bring anything up that you're making do with that you deserve

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an upgrade in.

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God wants to give you an upgrade in and it's time to let that thing go.

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And if you think of anything, if anything comes up, it might come up after our meeting

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today.

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It might come up, you know, in a dream tonight or tomorrow when you're in your time of devotion

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or prayer in the morning or the afternoon or in your car driving, or maybe it'll come

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up in the shower later on tonight before you go to bed.

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But if it's coming up right now, go ahead and put it in the chat.

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All right, I don't see anyone putting anything up, so we're going to go ahead and move on.

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So welcome to all of you week one people.

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Welcome to heartwork phase one.

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It is going to be a powerful time if you will allow it to be a powerful time.

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I know a lot of times we don't like to quit and give up y'all because, you know, we're

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not quitters, but sometimes you need to quit.

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Sometimes you got to quit.

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Sometimes you got to give up.

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It's not called settling.

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It's called surrendering.

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And that's what week one is all about.

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Week one is about the divine surrender, the supernatural surrender.

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And so you guys, best practices for this phase of our program is make sure that you're showing

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up as much as you can show up in your group post, even if it's something that you're just,

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you know, thinking about amusing on posted in the group so that other people can see

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it.

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It's going to, you know, your breakthrough creates breakthrough for other people.

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Also make sure that you're coming to at least one prayer session, even if that's just supernatural

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Saturday or Sunday night activation faith Friday, you can make it during the week to

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a prayer session.

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Great.

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Wonderful.

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Those times are going to be so amazingly supportive for you.

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Supernatural Saturday is a phenomenal time that's recorded that we have all, all community

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comes to that.

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We have it every week and God really speaks to us on that supernatural Saturday session

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and it is in your replays.

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So if you can't be there live, make sure that you listen to it.

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And then if you're available on Sunday night, you can come activate those ideas with us.

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We would love to see you there on Sunday night activations.

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So distractions, galore friends, it's going to happen.

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You're going to have to make sure that you have decided that this is important and that

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you're going to prioritize it so that you can get everything out of it that you want

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to get out of it.

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And I told you, I thought I'd tell you a fun story about, um, about a testimony that I

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got this morning.

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So I got a testimony about this blue bracelet.

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Does anyone know what the blue bracelet is?

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Does anyone follow me on Instagram?

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And you heard me talk about this before.

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So about a year ago, maybe a little over a year, probably two years ago, actually, God

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told me to have these blue bracelets created and they just say last year, single on the

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front of them.

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It's etched in.

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You probably can't see it on the camera.

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And then inside they say, Jeremiah 6, 16 guys.

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Funny story.

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Um, the marketer that worked for me that I had make these bracelets, I told her what

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I wanted and I told her to go order them, right?

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She's not a believer.

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So the first time these bracelets came, the first shipment of like a thousand of these

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suckers, right?

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They said last year, single on them, but inside, okay, it's kind of like Donald Trump saying

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two Corinthians on the inside.

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It said Jeremiah 16, six, very different y'all than Jeremiah 6, 16, Jeremiah 16, 16, six.

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says, and the Lord will snatch you bald-headed, basically, is what the Scripture says.

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Your baldness will be your reproach or something crazy.

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Okay, so I had to have them remade, but Jeremiah 6.16 is the banner over this movement when

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God told me to start it almost five years ago, and that is, the ancient of days has

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ancient ways.

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your peace can increase.

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And so, apparently, that was lost on my marketer, but we did get the real bracelets.

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And you guys, I started handing them out at speaking engagements, and then it was like

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the Sisterhood of the Traveling Bracelet.

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Because what began to happen is, testimonies began to roll in about love stories that happened

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after they put on their blue bracelet, right?

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Because we prayed over these, and we believed that these were significant of people's last

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year single, and they're blue, because blue is the color of covenant.

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You know how people say something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue?

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The reason why blue was used in that old, you know, kind of superstitious little mantra

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was because blue was thought to ward off the evil one from your marriage.

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But it also is the color of the vow, it's the color of covenant, it's the color of loyalty,

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it's the color of peace.

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And so, that's why it's blue.

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It glows in the dark.

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I just added that at the last minute.

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I'm like, hey, make them glow in the dark.

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I want them to glow in the dark, too.

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And so, this morning, this is what I got in my inbox.

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I got pictures of an engagement of a girl in the community, just like you.

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She joined the program.

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And she said, here's the photo exactly a year ago when you gave me the blue bracelet and

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prayed over me.

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She said, yesterday, a year later, I was proposed to and got engaged.

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And so, that's why phase one is so important because you are going to get in relationships,

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but are you going to be able to sustain them?

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Are you going to be able to really let someone in?

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Are you going to be able to get over the speed bumps that are on every road to true love?

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Every road to true love has speed bumps.

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Are you going to be able to get over them?

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That is what we're doing here, friends, all right?

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And so, better out than in.

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So, during this time, please post as much as you can.

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Don't feel like you're dominating the conversation.

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If you're having thoughts, post about them.

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Use the Ask a Coach button.

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Show up to these lives if you can.

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If you can't, put your questions in the roll call so the coaches can answer your questions

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and you can listen to the replay.

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Take it seriously.

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Believe that this is going to happen for you.

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And the very last thing that I want to say before I start answering your questions from

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phase one, two, three, and four in the curriculum is this.

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You're not just here for yourselves.

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You are here for members of your family, generations to come, that you will never meet on earth.

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You will only meet them in heaven.

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The work that you're doing now is going to echo in eternity, friends.

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It really is.

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All God ever wanted was a family.

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That's what this entire life is about.

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And so, your spirit mate, that covenant that you make together, the people that are impacted

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by that covenant and your lineages and legacies, on to people that you won't ever even get

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to see on earth, that is what you're here about.

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You are a Kinsman Redeemer.

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Amen?

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Amen.

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Let's get started.

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So, the mic is open.

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Anyone who has a question of any kind of week one, two, three, four, or five, we can

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jump into some topics.

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If some things are coming up and revealing for healing that you want input on.

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The only thing that I really don't want to get into with 13 people here is trying to

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get into any kind of complicated dream interpretation, okay?

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I do interpret dreams, but I need them in writing.

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I need to read them.

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I need to process with the Holy Spirit and look at it.

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And so, we're not going to get into that here, but everything else is open for discussion.

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I'm not going to put you in breakouts.

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We do usually do that during these sessions, but there's just not enough of you.

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There's only 13 of you.

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So, we'll just have one big breakout here together, okay?

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So, let's go ahead and jump in.

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Who has a question they want to ask?

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I do, Jackie.

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So I have, you know, I've done the counseling, I've done a lot of work, and now here I am.

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And by doing this, I feel like it's been just week one brought up like so much stuff I needed,

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like the second week to just sort of try to process all of it. But it just feels like more

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stuff is coming up in in part of me thinks, am I imagining this? Like, how do I there's so much

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stuff? I feel like that. I've been through that. I don't know. It's just a lot. And do I trust the

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process that it's all coming up? It's because God wants it to come up and for me to feel and and

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heal. Yes, absolutely. And you guys, I know that if you're having if you're having an experience

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like Sophie, sometimes it can just feel like you're a mess. You can feel really messy. And I

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just want to encourage you that that's not going to last. That's not your new normal. Messy is not

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your new normal. But we repress things, especially in a busy culture that we live in, we don't have

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time to process that stuff when it happens. And so either gloss over it, or we get a partial

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healing in it, we feel okay, you know, I'm doing okay, I'm moving forward. And we don't ever really

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take the time to allow God to give us truth about that stuff or get deep into that wound to where

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it's not going to sabotage future success, right. And so that's why this is a set aside time for you

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guys, go ahead and be messy. Don't be afraid to be messy. Don't even hide in this group. Don't say,

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okay, I'm way too messy. No one else seems to be as messy as me. So I'm not going to share.

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No, be messy. The messy you are, the greater success that you're going to have in the rest

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of this program. I promise you that. So Sophie, I'm so glad you're messy. And I'm glad that there's

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a lot of stuff coming up. And you're a lot of people like, man, I went to therapy, I went to

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counseling. Why is this still coming up? I dealt with this back then, because there's elements of

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it that didn't get dealt with because the tools weren't available yet. Or your level of healing

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wasn't ready for that yet. And so that's why God does things the way he does them,

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because he knows what we're ready for. Okay, thank you.

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So make sure you're in week one, right? Yes.

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Okay. So just so you know, in week two and three and four, you're going to continue to receive more

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tools to unpack those boxes and get resolution on the stuff that's coming up.

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Okay. So just go ahead and write it down in your journal and understand that you're going to,

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as you go forward, get more and more support and tools to deal with the stuff that you're

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feeling right now. Okay. I eliminated like all the apps, the dating apps, and I'm freeing myself up

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just to have space into here. My life coach thinks that I should date so that it brings up the

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anxiety that comes when dating. Yes, you're going to do that in phase two.

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Okay. So after you get out of the heart work, we do want, we push y'all out there. We give you a

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dating challenge because exactly what your life coach is saying is true. There is some healing

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that can only happen. There are some things that will only surface when you're faced with

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a possibility of a romantic relationship. But right now we're dealing with you, right? We're

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dealing with the stuff that doesn't have to do with that. It has to do with origin family. It

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has to do with your relationship with God, yourself, things that you really shouldn't be

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unpacking in relationship. Okay. Great. And you guys, that reminds me, Sophie, thank you for

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bringing that up. You are all on a dating sabbatical. Okay. I just want to tell you that

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I've helped hundreds and hundreds and hundreds and hundreds and hundreds and hundreds and hundreds of

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people get married now. And the ones that did not respect the dating sabbatical rule of phase one,

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they always end up coming back to phase one. Yeah. They might meet someone in phase one

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because the enemy is a counterfeiter and you can end up running off a hundred miles an hour down a

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dead end road thinking, woohoo, like a bird with a French fry. But then you always end up right

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back here. So you guys just start here. An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure. Just,

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it's only five weeks. You're not going to miss out on your spirit mate. And if you're really scared

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that you're going to, if you don't stay on the apps, then that's called anxious attachment.

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And we need to unpack that. And you guys, we really dig into anxious attachment and boundaries

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and divine feminine types of topics, all of that in phase two. Okay. So, all right. Who else has

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a question? Let's jump in. Thank you, Sophie. I have a question. Okay, go ahead. Can you hear me?

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Yeah, we can hear you. I just wanted to make sure y'all could hear me.

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Okay. So you've talked about a little bit. So I'm in week three.

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me. But I haven't really started looking at this stuff in week

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three. But my question is, how is this different? This time the

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healing part because like she Sophie just said, I've done so

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so I went I've got I have a counselor I've gone to for

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years and we've done like breaking soul ties we've done

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breaking bitter judgments and inner vows and so my and so I'm

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like how is this time different? Now I know that there's things I

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need healing in. But my question is why hasn't it happened before

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now? And how is this time different? Because

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Kimberly, I think you might have froze. Okay, even I have

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you're breaking up, you're breaking up a little bit. I

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don't know if that makes sense. But my question is, how is this

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We got you. We got you. We got your question. You're you're

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breaking up a little bit there with your

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you guys. And if you if you've read the materials, it actually

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it actually says that question just right out, doesn't it? It

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says, why is this time different? That's in that's in

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the first that's in the first phase of heartwork. That's in

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the first week of heartwork. How is this time different? And it

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talks about how it's about supernatural surrender. You

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guys, we can we can approach a lot of stuff at an intellectual

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level. We have a lot of we have a lot of information. We live in

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an information age. All of you guys could be a amateur

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psychologist with all the stuff that's out there. You could be

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an amateur. You could when I say amateur, I just mean, you know,

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if you don't have the certificate or the degree, you

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can't really be a paid one, but you can be an amateur one,

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right? Not a professional one. Guys, there's so much stuff out

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there, but we receive it at a intellectual level. We

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understand it, it makes sense to us, but somehow it doesn't get

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activated in our lives. And so my my answer to Kimberly and to

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anyone who would say, you know, why hasn't it happened yet?

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I've had all this stuff. I would think that I would be better now

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or I'd be fixed now. Well, that information hasn't made that 18

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inch journey down into the heart place, the soul place, right?

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There are things in this place of you that are still causing

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the behaviors, right? Because behavior follows identity. And

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when we have broken identity, that's based on bad information

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and lies, we're still going to continue to act out of that

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identity. You can't change the behavior, you have to change the

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identity. And so that is what the hard work really focuses on.

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It focuses on bringing you back into alignment with the identity

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that God created you for. Like, for instance, let me give you

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this example. Jeremiah, the prophet, everyone know who that

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dude was? Raise your hand if you've heard of him before. Okay,

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great prophet, right? One of the greats, one of the majors. Okay,

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so a major in the major and minor category, major prophet.

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Okay, but we find him talking to God and saying, I can't be a

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prophet. Don't we see him saying that to God? Like, I can't. And

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he's giving reasons why. Guys, that's a counterfeit identity. We

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don't know anything about Jeremiah's life. The Bible

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doesn't tell us about his life. It doesn't tell us why he would

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be insecure in his identity. It doesn't tell us why he would not

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feel confident about stepping into the callings of God on his

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life. But then God says something very interesting that I think is

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really important for all of us to see. It's God says this back

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to him. He says, I knew you even before I formed you in your

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mother's womb. And when I knew you before you were even formed

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in your mother's womb, I ordained you to be a prophet to

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the nations. Whoa. There's a real you in there. Underneath all

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these layers, friends, there's a real you that God knew before

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you were even formed in your mother's womb. And our job is to

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help you step into that. That's what we're doing here. So if you

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wonder what's different, that's what's different. We know that

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there's counterfeits, and there's real. And most of us

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have been living out of a lot of counterfeit identities, because

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trauma doesn't just hurt us. Come on, say with me, it creates

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different versions of us. Trauma doesn't just hurt us. Every time

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you have a trauma y'all you splinter. You're like Jackie,

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00:29:37.520 --> 00:29:39.920
you're telling me that we have multiple personalities, sort of

450
00:29:40.840 --> 00:29:45.200
not in a clinician type of way, not in the weird, scary horror

451
00:29:45.200 --> 00:29:50.040
movie type of way. But yes, I am saying that you are such a

452
00:29:50.040 --> 00:29:55.000
beautiful, complex computer, your brain, your mind, that you

453
00:29:55.000 --> 00:29:58.760
will actually make adjustments in order to not have that pain

454
00:29:58.760 --> 00:29:59.800
happen to you again.

455
00:30:00.000 --> 00:30:04.520
Whether you know it or not.

456
00:30:04.520 --> 00:30:08.520
And the problem is, is that those counterfeits cannot inherit the promises of God on your

457
00:30:08.520 --> 00:30:09.520
life.

458
00:30:09.520 --> 00:30:13.800
Those counterfeits can't step into the callings of God on your life.

459
00:30:13.800 --> 00:30:18.920
That's why God had to say to Jeremiah, um, I know the real you and what you're saying

460
00:30:18.920 --> 00:30:22.280
right now is not true.

461
00:30:22.280 --> 00:30:24.280
Does that minister to anybody?

462
00:30:24.280 --> 00:30:25.520
Okay.

463
00:30:25.520 --> 00:30:27.120
So Kimberly, that's how it's different.

464
00:30:27.120 --> 00:30:32.080
So babe, if you're at week three, which is your confession week, and you don't really

465
00:30:32.080 --> 00:30:36.280
feel like you're having any revealing for healing, go back to week one.

466
00:30:36.280 --> 00:30:37.440
Okay.

467
00:30:37.440 --> 00:30:43.800
With the faith and belief that God has called you here to pull back the layers of counterfeit

468
00:30:43.800 --> 00:30:51.520
so that you can live the life that he has already pre-purposed for you guys.

469
00:30:51.520 --> 00:30:54.720
You know, Romans eight 28, we all love to quote that scripture, right?

470
00:30:54.720 --> 00:30:58.240
And all things work to the good of those that love God are called according to his

471
00:30:58.240 --> 00:30:59.240
purpose.

472
00:30:59.240 --> 00:31:02.840
But y'all, we need to, we need to continue with Romans eight 29.

473
00:31:02.840 --> 00:31:05.880
In fact, let me just grab it real quick.

474
00:31:05.880 --> 00:31:06.880
Hang on sisters.

475
00:31:06.880 --> 00:31:07.880
Holy Spirit's taking us somewhere.

476
00:31:07.880 --> 00:31:26.120
I know probably people probably think my passion is to help people get married and

477
00:31:26.120 --> 00:31:31.000
I love, I love, love, love being a matchmaker and I love restoring marriage and family and

478
00:31:31.000 --> 00:31:36.560
being a revivalist, but really honestly, my biggest passion is breaking people free from

479
00:31:36.560 --> 00:31:40.840
counterfeit and from religion because you can't just read the Bible.

480
00:31:40.840 --> 00:31:42.920
You got to read the Bible.

481
00:31:42.920 --> 00:31:44.080
Okay.

482
00:31:44.080 --> 00:31:47.600
You got to know what God is saying and what he wants to do in your life.

483
00:31:47.600 --> 00:31:51.520
I want people to live at the highest level that they can live.

484
00:31:51.520 --> 00:31:52.600
Okay.

485
00:31:52.600 --> 00:31:58.320
So we quote Romans eight 28 because we love it and it sounds so good and it's such a promise.

486
00:31:58.320 --> 00:32:00.360
Oh, God's going to turn this mess in the ministry.

487
00:32:00.360 --> 00:32:02.880
God's going to turn this test and do a testimony.

488
00:32:02.880 --> 00:32:04.080
God's not done yet.

489
00:32:04.080 --> 00:32:05.080
Right.

490
00:32:05.080 --> 00:32:08.400
You guys that know that there's no Hebrew word for tragedy.

491
00:32:08.400 --> 00:32:13.560
There's no Hebrew word for the word tragedy because the Jews believed that if it was bad,

492
00:32:13.560 --> 00:32:14.920
God wasn't done yet.

493
00:32:14.920 --> 00:32:15.920
Come on.

494
00:32:15.920 --> 00:32:17.920
Let's give some snaps on that.

495
00:32:17.920 --> 00:32:18.920
Jesus.

496
00:32:18.920 --> 00:32:19.920
All right.

497
00:32:19.920 --> 00:32:21.600
Romans eight 28.

498
00:32:21.600 --> 00:32:22.600
Let's do it.

499
00:32:22.600 --> 00:32:31.160
Um, this is the new American standard Bible Romans eight 28 and we know that God causes

500
00:32:31.160 --> 00:32:35.800
all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according

501
00:32:35.800 --> 00:32:37.160
to his purpose.

502
00:32:37.160 --> 00:32:45.000
But then 29 goes on to say this for those whom he foreknew, he knew you, not this version

503
00:32:45.000 --> 00:32:51.520
of you, the real you, he knew you for those whom he foreknew, he also predestined to become

504
00:32:51.520 --> 00:32:57.680
conformed to the image of his son so that he would be the firstborn among many brethren.

505
00:32:57.680 --> 00:33:05.800
And these whom he predestined, he also called and these who he called, he also justified

506
00:33:05.800 --> 00:33:10.120
and these who he justified, he also glorified y'all.

507
00:33:10.120 --> 00:33:11.360
That's you.

508
00:33:11.360 --> 00:33:17.600
And the reason why all things work to your good is because he foreknew you, okay?

509
00:33:17.600 --> 00:33:25.120
He called you, he chose you, he justified you and he glorified you in Christ.

510
00:33:25.120 --> 00:33:31.040
Now it's our job to catch up and step into all that because it's already done.

511
00:33:31.040 --> 00:33:32.560
God does not live inside of time.

512
00:33:32.560 --> 00:33:38.200
You guys realize that heaven is not a place, it is a dimension and that dimension is all

513
00:33:38.200 --> 00:33:42.920
around us outside of the dimension that you can see, taste, touch, feel, smell.

514
00:33:42.920 --> 00:33:46.880
Some of y'all can, you guys can, you guys can get into the other dimension.

515
00:33:46.880 --> 00:33:48.600
Raise your hand if you're a seer.

516
00:33:48.600 --> 00:33:53.400
Raise your hand if you feel that other dimension all the time, even if you can't see it, sometimes

517
00:33:53.400 --> 00:33:54.400
you feel it.

518
00:33:54.400 --> 00:33:57.440
Raise your hand if you feel it.

519
00:33:57.440 --> 00:34:01.000
Sometimes you're like, oh, there's angels around, there's stuff going on.

520
00:34:01.000 --> 00:34:02.000
Why?

521
00:34:02.000 --> 00:34:03.000
Because they're just in another dimension, y'all.

522
00:34:03.000 --> 00:34:04.000
They're not far away.

523
00:34:04.000 --> 00:34:09.320
I want, I think it's important that you understand that they're in the same, they're in the same

524
00:34:09.320 --> 00:34:14.760
space as us in another dimension.

525
00:34:14.760 --> 00:34:16.239
God doesn't live in heaven, y'all.

526
00:34:16.239 --> 00:34:18.080
Heaven lives in God.

527
00:34:18.080 --> 00:34:21.480
This is important stuff.

528
00:34:21.560 --> 00:34:24.760
It's important because Kimberly asked the big question, how is this different?

529
00:34:24.760 --> 00:34:26.760
This is how it's different.

530
00:34:26.760 --> 00:34:27.760
Okay.

531
00:34:27.760 --> 00:34:28.760
It's a mindset shift.

532
00:34:28.760 --> 00:34:34.360
And if you shift your mindset, you're going to understand that God has been for you the

533
00:34:34.360 --> 00:34:35.360
whole time.

534
00:34:35.360 --> 00:34:36.360
He's always been for you.

535
00:34:36.360 --> 00:34:37.360
God is for you.

536
00:34:37.360 --> 00:34:38.760
And life is for you.

537
00:34:38.760 --> 00:34:44.440
He doesn't want you to live this way even any more than you want to live this way.

538
00:34:44.440 --> 00:34:45.440
He doesn't.

539
00:34:45.440 --> 00:34:46.440
Okay.

540
00:34:46.440 --> 00:34:50.199
So we have to make these mindset shifts so that we can step into what God already foreknew

541
00:34:50.239 --> 00:34:51.239
about us.

542
00:34:51.239 --> 00:34:57.440
Remember, Jeremiah 29 tells us that his plans are to give us a hope in a good future.

543
00:34:57.440 --> 00:34:58.440
Okay.

544
00:34:58.440 --> 00:35:00.040
And if you read it in another translation.

545
00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:02.000
and it actually says to give you the future

546
00:35:02.000 --> 00:35:03.340
that you're hoping for.

547
00:35:06.080 --> 00:35:07.680
Coolness?

548
00:35:07.680 --> 00:35:12.680
All right, so outside of time in this other dimension,

549
00:35:13.140 --> 00:35:14.260
it's already done.

550
00:35:16.040 --> 00:35:17.300
That's why Jesus said,

551
00:35:18.760 --> 00:35:20.720
you know what Jesus did when he died on the cross, right?

552
00:35:20.720 --> 00:35:23.560
He connected us in this forgotten, forsaken,

553
00:35:23.560 --> 00:35:26.320
cursed dimension to the other dimension.

554
00:35:26.320 --> 00:35:27.720
We got reconnected.

555
00:35:27.720 --> 00:35:29.820
The bridge was reestablished.

556
00:35:30.900 --> 00:35:34.280
Well, he did exactly that.

557
00:35:34.280 --> 00:35:36.120
Do you guys ever wonder in the Old Testament

558
00:35:36.120 --> 00:35:38.560
while only the chosen few people heard from God,

559
00:35:38.560 --> 00:35:40.980
the prophets and the special people?

560
00:35:40.980 --> 00:35:43.960
Because that bridge was not operational,

561
00:35:46.080 --> 00:35:47.180
but it is now.

562
00:35:49.380 --> 00:35:50.960
That veil was torn in half.

563
00:35:50.960 --> 00:35:52.640
We can go into the holiest of holies.

564
00:35:52.640 --> 00:35:55.740
We can get into the presence of the otherworldliness.

565
00:35:55.740 --> 00:36:00.240
God wants to invade earth with heaven through you.

566
00:36:01.820 --> 00:36:02.860
All right, that's it.

567
00:36:02.860 --> 00:36:05.140
That's my preach for today, and we're gonna move on.

568
00:36:05.140 --> 00:36:06.380
What's our next question?

569
00:36:07.740 --> 00:36:08.580
Nicole.

570
00:36:09.820 --> 00:36:12.460
It's probably a follow-on to the question

571
00:36:12.460 --> 00:36:14.900
that was just asked, but it's just kind of confirmation.

572
00:36:14.900 --> 00:36:19.480
I started this program in June, and the hard work,

573
00:36:19.480 --> 00:36:22.060
but somehow I'd missed the whole sequence of it,

574
00:36:22.060 --> 00:36:24.140
and I think I wasn't paying close attention

575
00:36:24.140 --> 00:36:25.820
to the whole thing.

576
00:36:25.820 --> 00:36:29.500
So what happened, two days after I started, I met this guy,

577
00:36:29.500 --> 00:36:32.860
and I thought, oh, wow, this is the guy.

578
00:36:32.860 --> 00:36:36.540
And it was like, when you're going down God's path,

579
00:36:36.540 --> 00:36:40.740
something is thrown in front of you, and it just felt like,

580
00:36:40.740 --> 00:36:43.060
but I was just triggered when you were talking

581
00:36:43.060 --> 00:36:44.980
about saying you're a mess,

582
00:36:44.980 --> 00:36:47.220
or you feel like a mess is gonna get messy,

583
00:36:47.220 --> 00:36:52.020
but this guy was so close to what I was looking for

584
00:36:52.020 --> 00:36:53.980
that I was doing it in parallel with this,

585
00:36:54.820 --> 00:36:56.460
and I was like, look how fast God's working,

586
00:36:56.460 --> 00:36:59.540
and I did not hear about the dating moratorium.

587
00:36:59.540 --> 00:37:00.860
I didn't hear it.

588
00:37:00.860 --> 00:37:03.700
And then finally, I was also on week five,

589
00:37:03.700 --> 00:37:04.960
and then finally I said,

590
00:37:04.960 --> 00:37:06.460
so how's your dating moratorium going?

591
00:37:06.460 --> 00:37:07.300
I'm like, what?

592
00:37:08.300 --> 00:37:10.260
And it wasn't real for me.

593
00:37:10.260 --> 00:37:13.420
So I guess what happened is this guy,

594
00:37:13.420 --> 00:37:14.800
God was very patient with me.

595
00:37:14.800 --> 00:37:16.980
He allowed me to go into this, but you know what?

596
00:37:16.980 --> 00:37:19.420
He said to me, and my spirit, my heart was,

597
00:37:20.020 --> 00:37:24.580
you know, he feels real, but Nicole, he's a false flag.

598
00:37:24.580 --> 00:37:25.960
He looks real.

599
00:37:25.960 --> 00:37:26.800
He sounds real.

600
00:37:26.800 --> 00:37:28.860
It seems real, but he's not the one.

601
00:37:28.860 --> 00:37:31.820
And I kept saying, oh, this can't be, this can't be.

602
00:37:31.820 --> 00:37:34.020
And he took me down many weeks,

603
00:37:34.020 --> 00:37:35.040
and though I was doing the work,

604
00:37:35.040 --> 00:37:38.340
I didn't realize what was happening.

605
00:37:38.340 --> 00:37:40.820
And then finally I heard about this dating moratorium,

606
00:37:40.820 --> 00:37:44.180
and I started hearing this guy use words

607
00:37:44.180 --> 00:37:46.340
that were making me feel like it wasn't real.

608
00:37:46.340 --> 00:37:49.040
So I just wanna affirm what you have said,

609
00:37:49.660 --> 00:37:52.440
and that was my experience, why I'm coming back to.

610
00:37:52.440 --> 00:37:55.440
I wasn't asked to come back to, but now I'm learning.

611
00:37:55.440 --> 00:37:58.000
You really do need to pay attention to all these parts

612
00:37:58.000 --> 00:38:00.160
and really pay attention to the readings,

613
00:38:00.160 --> 00:38:02.160
to the videos and all this, and then we'll come together.

614
00:38:02.160 --> 00:38:05.760
But you can be assured if you're going down God's path

615
00:38:05.760 --> 00:38:09.040
that the enemy's gonna throw some false flags in your way

616
00:38:09.040 --> 00:38:12.500
where it seems like it's the perfect thing, and it's not.

617
00:38:12.500 --> 00:38:14.000
So I just wanna encourage you,

618
00:38:14.000 --> 00:38:16.080
and I affirm what Jackie is saying

619
00:38:16.080 --> 00:38:17.560
is it's been in my life like this.

620
00:38:17.560 --> 00:38:19.400
So I'm back to the basics again

621
00:38:19.400 --> 00:38:21.320
as I'm doing phase two as well,

622
00:38:21.320 --> 00:38:24.120
but I'm a little scared about that dating thing.

623
00:38:24.120 --> 00:38:26.580
I'm gonna just say that seems like a really aggressive.

624
00:38:26.580 --> 00:38:28.800
So I'm kind of taking myself back to say,

625
00:38:28.800 --> 00:38:30.760
okay, I need to redo this.

626
00:38:30.760 --> 00:38:31.880
I love it, I love it.

627
00:38:31.880 --> 00:38:33.800
Thanks so much for telling us that, you guys.

628
00:38:33.800 --> 00:38:35.940
And it's happened to so many people before.

629
00:38:35.940 --> 00:38:38.560
She didn't hear about the dating sabbatical,

630
00:38:41.280 --> 00:38:44.080
but even if she would have, she met this.

631
00:38:44.080 --> 00:38:49.080
And this is why we, part of the reason,

632
00:38:49.280 --> 00:38:50.680
so Nicole, I'm glad you brought this up.

633
00:38:50.680 --> 00:38:52.640
Part of the reason why there's a dating sabbatical

634
00:38:52.640 --> 00:38:54.660
is not only to keep you guys focused,

635
00:38:54.660 --> 00:38:58.040
but because you're in such a prophetic supernatural time

636
00:38:58.040 --> 00:39:01.680
during phase one especially, that if anyone shows up,

637
00:39:01.680 --> 00:39:05.280
you might read the signs wrong, right?

638
00:39:05.280 --> 00:39:06.560
You might think just what Nicole said.

639
00:39:06.560 --> 00:39:08.480
Wow, God, you are quick.

640
00:39:09.760 --> 00:39:13.500
I just opened the book and here he is, woo-hoo, right?

641
00:39:13.540 --> 00:39:17.900
And so you might put the wrong emphasis, right?

642
00:39:17.900 --> 00:39:18.900
What is that old saying?

643
00:39:18.900 --> 00:39:21.940
The wrong emphasis on the wrong syllable.

644
00:39:23.100 --> 00:39:24.860
You don't wanna put the wrong emphasis

645
00:39:24.860 --> 00:39:26.060
on the wrong syllable.

646
00:39:27.460 --> 00:39:28.980
All right, what's the next?

647
00:39:28.980 --> 00:39:30.300
Thank you, Nicole, that's wonderful.

648
00:39:30.300 --> 00:39:32.660
So glad that you've circled back around

649
00:39:32.660 --> 00:39:34.340
and that you're getting breakthrough.

650
00:39:34.340 --> 00:39:36.900
You guys don't worry about when it's time to go to phase two,

651
00:39:36.900 --> 00:39:38.020
when it's time to date.

652
00:39:38.020 --> 00:39:39.900
Yes, there's gonna be things that come up

653
00:39:39.900 --> 00:39:42.500
just like Sophie told us at the beginning,

654
00:39:42.780 --> 00:39:46.340
her life coach said, yes, it is gonna trigger more stuff,

655
00:39:46.340 --> 00:39:47.820
but it's gonna be different.

656
00:39:47.820 --> 00:39:49.980
It's gonna hit differently, okay?

657
00:39:49.980 --> 00:39:51.460
You're gonna know what to do with that stuff

658
00:39:51.460 --> 00:39:53.340
and you're also gonna have this beautiful community

659
00:39:53.340 --> 00:39:55.420
around you of God-defendedness,

660
00:39:55.420 --> 00:39:57.600
and so it's gonna be great.

661
00:39:57.600 --> 00:40:00.600
All right, all of you guys know what God-defendedness is.

662
00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:00.720
This is right.

663
00:40:00.720 --> 00:40:01.400
God defense.

664
00:40:01.400 --> 00:40:02.640
Have you heard that video yet?

665
00:40:03.360 --> 00:40:05.840
Being God defended is the game changer, friends.

666
00:40:06.360 --> 00:40:08.220
You don't got to be sleeping with one eye open.

667
00:40:08.220 --> 00:40:12.760
God will show you what you need to see when you need to see it about other people.

668
00:40:14.160 --> 00:40:17.680
And as long as you're not stubborn and you're not like, no God,

669
00:40:17.680 --> 00:40:18.780
I don't want to look at it.

670
00:40:18.920 --> 00:40:19.840
I refuse.

671
00:40:19.900 --> 00:40:22.400
I want to go on and do it my own way.

672
00:40:22.740 --> 00:40:25.000
As long as you don't do that, you're going to be fine.

673
00:40:25.480 --> 00:40:26.600
All right, Mary, you're up.

674
00:40:30.000 --> 00:40:35.320
Hi, I'm joining you from Scotland, so it's kind of evening here.

675
00:40:35.600 --> 00:40:36.360
Oh, wow.

676
00:40:37.480 --> 00:40:43.200
So, um, I actually joined your program just for a few days in summer and I

677
00:40:43.200 --> 00:40:48.800
bought your book and, um, so I've been on a dating sabbatical for a little

678
00:40:48.800 --> 00:40:54.240
while, but I still feel quite stuck and I'm kind of, it's partially been

679
00:40:54.240 --> 00:40:58.980
answered, but I just wonder, should I expect more healing from these live

680
00:40:58.980 --> 00:41:04.540
sessions because we're all interconnecting, um, I've had some

681
00:41:04.540 --> 00:41:07.620
healing and I've, and it's been amazing.

682
00:41:07.620 --> 00:41:10.540
So I just want to say thank you for writing, writing the book.

683
00:41:11.020 --> 00:41:17.620
It's been amazing how God has actually changed the way I pray about a

684
00:41:17.620 --> 00:41:20.900
particular partner that I've no longer praying for a soulmate.

685
00:41:20.900 --> 00:41:24.300
I've been praying for a spirit mate, somebody who meets the same purpose,

686
00:41:24.900 --> 00:41:28.380
but I still feel that there's areas of being stuck and I know it's relating

687
00:41:28.380 --> 00:41:31.820
to like childhood and things, so I'm just wondering, do I expect to have

688
00:41:31.820 --> 00:41:37.260
more, am I expecting to be sort of crying and, or, you know, just more

689
00:41:37.260 --> 00:41:38.420
healing on, on that?

690
00:41:39.220 --> 00:41:39.740
That's good.

691
00:41:39.740 --> 00:41:40.580
That's a good question.

692
00:41:40.580 --> 00:41:41.180
Thank you for that.

693
00:41:41.180 --> 00:41:42.340
What week are you on right now?

694
00:41:42.940 --> 00:41:44.180
This is my first week.

695
00:41:44.460 --> 00:41:44.980
Oh, yes.

696
00:41:45.260 --> 00:41:45.540
Okay.

697
00:41:45.540 --> 00:41:48.300
Well, yes, you can expect more revealings for healings.

698
00:41:48.340 --> 00:41:48.820
Okay.

699
00:41:49.180 --> 00:41:50.900
You can expect that for sure.

700
00:41:51.260 --> 00:41:54.580
Um, but you guys, it doesn't necessarily have to come in the form of, you know,

701
00:41:54.620 --> 00:41:56.820
being like a blubbery mess.

702
00:41:56.900 --> 00:41:57.420
Okay.

703
00:41:57.860 --> 00:42:00.340
Of crying and snotting up the carpet is what I say.

704
00:42:00.340 --> 00:42:03.020
You don't, you don't have to expect necessarily that.

705
00:42:03.500 --> 00:42:07.100
Um, it could, it could come in any, any form or fashion.

706
00:42:07.660 --> 00:42:11.060
Um, you know, it could come in just a knowing that I have to deal with this,

707
00:42:11.060 --> 00:42:12.660
you know, that this is being highlighted.

708
00:42:12.860 --> 00:42:16.100
You might start having dreams about a certain event that took place in your

709
00:42:16.100 --> 00:42:19.580
life and, you know, God's highlighting that and telling you that there's

710
00:42:19.580 --> 00:42:20.940
still trauma locked in that.

711
00:42:20.940 --> 00:42:25.940
So you start to, when anything comes up, you want to invite Holy spirit.

712
00:42:25.940 --> 00:42:28.380
And that's what that first week permission slip is all about.

713
00:42:28.820 --> 00:42:34.500
Um, you want to invite God to show you, you know, what it's all about.

714
00:42:35.580 --> 00:42:35.940
You know?

715
00:42:35.940 --> 00:42:36.420
Yeah.

716
00:42:36.460 --> 00:42:36.780
Okay.

717
00:42:36.780 --> 00:42:40.100
I remember what happened in this situation, but God's saying, you remember

718
00:42:40.100 --> 00:42:43.020
what happened in this situation, but you don't really know what

719
00:42:43.020 --> 00:42:44.300
happened in this situation.

720
00:42:44.820 --> 00:42:46.820
Invite me in to show you the greater truth.

721
00:42:47.820 --> 00:42:52.260
Invite me in to show you the lies that you believed because of this situation.

722
00:42:53.220 --> 00:42:55.980
Does everyone have access to the revealing for healing cycle?

723
00:42:56.060 --> 00:42:59.700
I think you get that in week two or maybe week one.

724
00:42:59.740 --> 00:43:01.540
I don't know how they have it set up right now.

725
00:43:01.900 --> 00:43:04.540
You guys, you're getting me as a coach today, but you guys know I

726
00:43:04.540 --> 00:43:06.380
don't ever coach in phase one anymore.

727
00:43:06.380 --> 00:43:10.380
So I woke up today and I told your coach, Bethany, I was like, Hey,

728
00:43:10.380 --> 00:43:11.700
I'd like to do the first session.

729
00:43:11.700 --> 00:43:12.300
Is that okay?

730
00:43:12.300 --> 00:43:13.180
And she's like, sure.

731
00:43:13.460 --> 00:43:16.100
And so for whatever reason, we're here together.

732
00:43:16.100 --> 00:43:18.180
So let's just believe that God has something great.

733
00:43:18.700 --> 00:43:23.660
Um, so, um, but Mary, yes, you can expect to have more, you know, feel the

734
00:43:23.660 --> 00:43:25.500
feels to heal the feels moments.

735
00:43:25.580 --> 00:43:26.100
Okay.

736
00:43:26.420 --> 00:43:27.740
And I want to also encourage you.

737
00:43:28.060 --> 00:43:31.620
Um, one of my love stories that's on the back of my married in 12 months or less

738
00:43:31.620 --> 00:43:34.180
book, there's pictures of success stories on the back.

739
00:43:34.180 --> 00:43:35.500
In fact, I think I have one right here.

740
00:43:35.780 --> 00:43:37.860
No, that's not my book.

741
00:43:38.020 --> 00:43:39.380
It looked like it, but it's not.

742
00:43:39.700 --> 00:43:40.180
Um,

743
00:43:42.820 --> 00:43:43.780
maybe I have one.

744
00:43:44.820 --> 00:43:45.620
Let me look real quick.

745
00:43:45.620 --> 00:43:45.980
Hold up.

746
00:43:47.100 --> 00:43:47.860
I might have them.

747
00:43:49.340 --> 00:43:49.700
Okay.

748
00:43:49.820 --> 00:43:50.180
I do.

749
00:43:50.980 --> 00:43:51.460
I do.

750
00:43:51.540 --> 00:43:52.140
I have one.

751
00:43:52.300 --> 00:43:52.580
All right.

752
00:43:52.620 --> 00:43:56.260
This, this, this book is a whole different book than what y'all are doing right now.

753
00:43:56.740 --> 00:44:02.140
Um, this, where is she at this success story right here?

754
00:44:03.140 --> 00:44:04.060
Guys, I'll see them.

755
00:44:05.700 --> 00:44:06.020
Yeah.

756
00:44:06.100 --> 00:44:07.540
So you remind me of her.

757
00:44:07.580 --> 00:44:12.020
Um, she was, she's, she's in the UK, she's in England and she was one of my first

758
00:44:12.020 --> 00:44:15.140
international students and she came to me during lockdown.

759
00:44:15.580 --> 00:44:17.700
And so England was really locked down.

760
00:44:17.740 --> 00:44:19.740
Europe was really, really locked down.

761
00:44:19.980 --> 00:44:22.100
And so she wasn't seeing anybody else.

762
00:44:22.140 --> 00:44:23.540
Like everyone was quarantined.

763
00:44:23.540 --> 00:44:26.860
And so she was, the only thing that she could do is like walk, take these big,

764
00:44:26.860 --> 00:44:29.820
long walks out in the countryside where she lived.

765
00:44:30.100 --> 00:44:33.500
And she ended up meeting someone who introduced her to her spirit mate.

766
00:44:35.740 --> 00:44:39.740
She got, she got married you guys during lockdown season.

767
00:44:39.740 --> 00:44:44.340
Like she, like, you know, she met her person and got married during a time when

768
00:44:44.620 --> 00:44:46.140
everyone was very disconnected.

769
00:44:46.140 --> 00:44:51.980
So I just want to encourage you guys that, um, God has really fun plans and

770
00:44:51.980 --> 00:44:55.300
they're not dependent on anything that you think they're dependent on.

771
00:44:56.060 --> 00:44:57.900
So Mary to stay the course.

772
00:44:57.940 --> 00:44:58.260
Yes.

773
00:44:58.260 --> 00:44:59.300
There's going to be healing.

774
00:44:59.740 --> 00:45:00.060
We're glad.

775
00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:01.880
I had to have you all the way from Scotland.

776
00:45:01.880 --> 00:45:02.720
Thank you.

777
00:45:02.720 --> 00:45:04.520
Mary of Scots.

778
00:45:04.520 --> 00:45:06.840
That's me and that's my surname as well.

779
00:45:06.840 --> 00:45:08.080
I love it.

780
00:45:08.080 --> 00:45:08.920
Royalty.

781
00:45:08.920 --> 00:45:11.400
See, you got the whole royalty thing down already.

782
00:45:11.400 --> 00:45:12.240
Here we go.

783
00:45:13.200 --> 00:45:14.040
All right.

784
00:45:14.040 --> 00:45:14.860
Love that.

785
00:45:14.860 --> 00:45:16.440
Thank you.

786
00:45:16.440 --> 00:45:17.280
Maureen.

787
00:45:18.320 --> 00:45:21.320
And someone, actually I think iPhone might've been next,

788
00:45:21.320 --> 00:45:22.440
but I don't know what your name is.

789
00:45:22.440 --> 00:45:24.360
It just says iPhone.

790
00:45:24.360 --> 00:45:25.500
Gabrielle.

791
00:45:25.500 --> 00:45:26.340
Gabrielle.

792
00:45:26.340 --> 00:45:27.620
Okay, you go next and then Maureen.

793
00:45:27.620 --> 00:45:28.460
Gabrielle.

794
00:45:30.140 --> 00:45:32.760
Oh yeah, I kind of had a, hi Jackie.

795
00:45:33.700 --> 00:45:35.660
I had a problem with the whole Zoom thing

796
00:45:35.660 --> 00:45:37.160
and it's doing some weird things,

797
00:45:37.160 --> 00:45:38.400
but can you hear me okay?

798
00:45:38.400 --> 00:45:39.240
I can.

799
00:45:39.240 --> 00:45:40.120
Okay, good.

800
00:45:40.120 --> 00:45:43.780
So I am starting week three and like,

801
00:45:43.780 --> 00:45:45.320
I think it was Nicole.

802
00:45:47.440 --> 00:45:50.760
And I'm hearing other people say I've done a lot of stuff,

803
00:45:50.760 --> 00:45:51.600
you know, cause some people,

804
00:45:51.600 --> 00:45:53.520
maybe they haven't done work on themselves,

805
00:45:53.520 --> 00:45:57.640
but, and I think the thing when somebody said,

806
00:45:57.640 --> 00:46:01.040
what's different is for me, you know,

807
00:46:01.040 --> 00:46:04.560
I've gone to counseling or done healing things or whatever.

808
00:46:04.560 --> 00:46:06.640
And I obviously I'm in a church and stuff,

809
00:46:06.640 --> 00:46:10.160
but the thing that is the biggest thing

810
00:46:10.160 --> 00:46:13.880
that I think you're doing is making it okay.

811
00:46:13.880 --> 00:46:17.480
That what all we want is a family

812
00:46:17.480 --> 00:46:21.120
and to be a part of something.

813
00:46:21.120 --> 00:46:24.160
And I just feel like if you're older

814
00:46:24.160 --> 00:46:26.400
and you've been married and divorced,

815
00:46:26.400 --> 00:46:28.920
there's just so much negativity about,

816
00:46:28.920 --> 00:46:30.680
well, why do you want to meet somebody again?

817
00:46:30.680 --> 00:46:32.280
Or I'm fine by myself.

818
00:46:32.280 --> 00:46:34.900
I mean, even my mom is like,

819
00:46:34.900 --> 00:46:37.400
you just learn to be happy by yourself, you know?

820
00:46:37.400 --> 00:46:40.240
And it's like, this is what's in my heart.

821
00:46:40.240 --> 00:46:41.640
And if I can't share it with you,

822
00:46:41.640 --> 00:46:43.840
then I'm not even going to open my mouth and tell you

823
00:46:43.840 --> 00:46:46.320
if you're just going to slam me back down

824
00:46:46.320 --> 00:46:49.800
because I want to be with a healthy man,

825
00:46:49.800 --> 00:46:52.880
not just any man, a healthy Christian man.

826
00:46:52.880 --> 00:46:54.860
And it's like, I feel like this,

827
00:46:54.860 --> 00:46:58.060
what you're doing just gives me permission to go,

828
00:46:58.060 --> 00:47:02.060
I can ask for this without feeling stupid.

829
00:47:02.060 --> 00:47:03.660
I feel like people, you know,

830
00:47:03.660 --> 00:47:05.060
and I have certain guy friends,

831
00:47:05.060 --> 00:47:08.660
oh, you know, like married, like who wants to be,

832
00:47:08.660 --> 00:47:11.420
you know, all of that, there's a lot of negativity.

833
00:47:11.420 --> 00:47:12.240
There really is.

834
00:47:12.240 --> 00:47:13.080
Oh no, there is.

835
00:47:13.080 --> 00:47:14.340
And I appreciate you saying that.

836
00:47:14.340 --> 00:47:17.020
And yes, you guys, you have permission to want this.

837
00:47:17.020 --> 00:47:17.840
Yes.

838
00:47:17.840 --> 00:47:18.680
You have permission to want this,

839
00:47:18.680 --> 00:47:20.580
but I'm going to go even one step further.

840
00:47:20.580 --> 00:47:21.740
I'm going to go one step further

841
00:47:21.740 --> 00:47:23.620
than you have permission to want it.

842
00:47:23.660 --> 00:47:24.500
Yeah.

843
00:47:24.500 --> 00:47:26.820
It is your divine design.

844
00:47:26.820 --> 00:47:27.820
It is.

845
00:47:27.820 --> 00:47:31.460
And when you said that, I'm like-

846
00:47:31.460 --> 00:47:33.260
It's the reason why you want it.

847
00:47:33.260 --> 00:47:34.100
Yeah.

848
00:47:34.100 --> 00:47:36.420
You're connected to real identity, authentic identity.

849
00:47:36.420 --> 00:47:38.820
This is how God made us.

850
00:47:38.820 --> 00:47:41.780
And you put that in the book.

851
00:47:41.780 --> 00:47:45.840
And I was like, every time I get like, oh, well, you know,

852
00:47:45.840 --> 00:47:47.500
you should just be happy.

853
00:47:47.500 --> 00:47:49.900
And you know, you have a good job and you live by the beach.

854
00:47:49.900 --> 00:47:52.580
I'm like, no, this is how God made me.

855
00:47:52.580 --> 00:47:54.660
And God knows what's in my heart.

856
00:47:54.660 --> 00:47:56.060
And I'm not going to give up.

857
00:47:56.060 --> 00:47:59.820
Another person said, what's different now?

858
00:48:00.800 --> 00:48:01.640
You know what?

859
00:48:01.640 --> 00:48:03.540
It doesn't really matter what's different now.

860
00:48:03.540 --> 00:48:06.220
All that matters is God is here right now

861
00:48:06.220 --> 00:48:07.740
and that we have support

862
00:48:07.740 --> 00:48:10.020
and we have to believe that it is different, period.

863
00:48:10.020 --> 00:48:12.300
You guys, the only two times in the Bible

864
00:48:12.300 --> 00:48:15.220
where any leader kind of gave people permission

865
00:48:15.220 --> 00:48:16.980
not to partner, first of all,

866
00:48:16.980 --> 00:48:18.620
you remember we're dealing with curse.

867
00:48:18.620 --> 00:48:20.540
We're dealing with the curse, right?

868
00:48:20.540 --> 00:48:21.900
It's important that you guys remember this.

869
00:48:22.220 --> 00:48:23.500
The only two times that happened

870
00:48:23.500 --> 00:48:27.260
were for the hardness of your heart, okay?

871
00:48:27.260 --> 00:48:30.220
That's when uncoupling or unpartnering,

872
00:48:30.220 --> 00:48:33.220
Moses gave permission for the hardness of our heart.

873
00:48:33.220 --> 00:48:35.660
And that is to keep people out of abuse.

874
00:48:35.660 --> 00:48:37.380
Okay, people are being abused.

875
00:48:37.380 --> 00:48:41.060
God gave divorce to help people to get out of abuse

876
00:48:41.060 --> 00:48:42.500
and not just infidelity, y'all.

877
00:48:42.500 --> 00:48:44.140
That's not correct teaching.

878
00:48:44.140 --> 00:48:45.580
And if you haven't watched my divorce

879
00:48:45.580 --> 00:48:46.820
and remarriage session yet,

880
00:48:46.820 --> 00:48:49.300
you're going to really get your mind blown there.

881
00:48:49.300 --> 00:48:51.700
Okay, and then the second time, you guys,

882
00:48:52.460 --> 00:48:54.380
is as the result of persecution.

883
00:48:54.380 --> 00:48:56.660
People don't realize that Paul's famous speech

884
00:48:56.660 --> 00:48:59.100
in Corinthians about, you know,

885
00:48:59.100 --> 00:49:01.780
he wishes that everyone could stay single like him.

886
00:49:01.780 --> 00:49:04.380
He's saying that because he realizes

887
00:49:04.380 --> 00:49:06.820
that they are going to be persecuted

888
00:49:06.820 --> 00:49:10.100
and possibly murdered for their newfound faith.

889
00:49:10.100 --> 00:49:12.500
It's very, it's a lot easier to be single

890
00:49:12.500 --> 00:49:14.660
and not have kids and a spouse at home

891
00:49:14.660 --> 00:49:16.780
if you're going to be arrested and imprisoned

892
00:49:16.780 --> 00:49:20.860
and, you know, beaten and possibly killed, okay?

893
00:49:20.980 --> 00:49:23.300
There's a lot going on in those scriptures

894
00:49:23.300 --> 00:49:25.180
that people do not take into context

895
00:49:25.180 --> 00:49:28.620
as far as the historical context of those scriptures.

896
00:49:28.620 --> 00:49:29.980
Exactly.

897
00:49:29.980 --> 00:49:33.460
The book of Genesis shows you God's intentions

898
00:49:33.460 --> 00:49:36.500
in his creation, and that is that we would be a family,

899
00:49:36.500 --> 00:49:39.620
that we'd be male and female, and that we would partner,

900
00:49:39.620 --> 00:49:42.220
and that we are better together and not good alone.

901
00:49:42.220 --> 00:49:44.340
And the word good there means perfect

902
00:49:44.340 --> 00:49:46.740
or complete or finished.

903
00:49:46.740 --> 00:49:48.460
And women, especially, you guys,

904
00:49:48.460 --> 00:49:51.660
our whole purpose in existing is to partner.

905
00:49:52.580 --> 00:49:53.780
Absolutely.

906
00:49:53.780 --> 00:49:54.940
Okay?

907
00:49:54.940 --> 00:49:58.700
So take that and hold on to it,

908
00:49:58.700 --> 00:50:00.700
put it in front of the Lord and say, hey.

909
00:50:00.000 --> 00:50:01.200
God, this is your idea.

910
00:50:01.200 --> 00:50:02.200
Yeah.

911
00:50:02.200 --> 00:50:05.960
And then also go on and go forward to say,

912
00:50:05.960 --> 00:50:08.000
because there will be people that stay single

913
00:50:08.000 --> 00:50:10.400
during this reality that we're living in,

914
00:50:10.400 --> 00:50:12.040
during the earth reality.

915
00:50:12.040 --> 00:50:15.320
And the reason always will be, without exception,

916
00:50:16.800 --> 00:50:20.440
the hurt and the pain in the world, okay?

917
00:50:20.440 --> 00:50:23.400
And people not being able to overcome that

918
00:50:23.400 --> 00:50:26.280
in order to trust and partner, okay?

919
00:50:26.280 --> 00:50:29.400
And so let's make sure that we understand that

920
00:50:29.400 --> 00:50:32.280
and we are part of the revival that's happening

921
00:50:32.280 --> 00:50:34.720
and helping other people to engage with that too.

922
00:50:34.720 --> 00:50:36.520
So thank you so much, Gabriella.

923
00:50:36.520 --> 00:50:37.760
We appreciate you being here.

924
00:50:37.760 --> 00:50:41.920
Thank you for reminding us that this is our divine design

925
00:50:41.920 --> 00:50:44.080
and that is part of the supernatural.

926
00:50:44.080 --> 00:50:45.400
Absolutely.

927
00:50:45.400 --> 00:50:47.760
You have the right to ask for what you want.

928
00:50:47.760 --> 00:50:48.600
You have the right.

929
00:50:48.600 --> 00:50:50.320
Just love, you know?

930
00:50:50.320 --> 00:50:51.800
Yeah, praise God.

931
00:50:51.800 --> 00:50:53.040
All right.

932
00:50:53.040 --> 00:50:55.480
Okay, I think Maureen's next and then Jeannie.

933
00:50:55.480 --> 00:50:56.320
Okay.

934
00:50:56.320 --> 00:50:58.440
Hi Jackie, it's nice to meet you.

935
00:50:58.480 --> 00:50:59.920
Nice to meet you.

936
00:50:59.920 --> 00:51:03.800
My friend Pam Kelly introduced me to the program

937
00:51:03.800 --> 00:51:06.200
and she's over here in the Panhandle of Florida.

938
00:51:07.280 --> 00:51:08.560
I went back to session one.

939
00:51:08.560 --> 00:51:10.480
I was starting in phase one

940
00:51:10.480 --> 00:51:13.440
and I'm just trusting the Lord to kind of lead me in this.

941
00:51:14.640 --> 00:51:17.480
I signed up because I had a broken relationship

942
00:51:17.480 --> 00:51:18.360
that fell apart

943
00:51:18.360 --> 00:51:21.400
and I'm really having a hard time getting over it

944
00:51:21.400 --> 00:51:24.880
and I'm trying to feel the field and work through the pain.

945
00:51:24.880 --> 00:51:28.400
And I'm just struggling with believing someone was the one

946
00:51:29.360 --> 00:51:31.760
and his dad's name who passed away

947
00:51:31.760 --> 00:51:34.120
was the same name as my two twins I lost.

948
00:51:34.120 --> 00:51:36.360
So I think that was like a God moment for me

949
00:51:36.360 --> 00:51:37.360
in that relationship.

950
00:51:37.360 --> 00:51:38.560
Like, wow, like what are the chances?

951
00:51:38.560 --> 00:51:41.120
Okay, so let's stop right there for a second.

952
00:51:41.120 --> 00:51:42.840
Okay, you guys, everyone listen.

953
00:51:42.840 --> 00:51:43.960
Yes, please.

954
00:51:43.960 --> 00:51:45.920
So right from the beginning of this relationship,

955
00:51:45.920 --> 00:51:50.920
she was putting prophetic emphasis on things, okay?

956
00:51:51.360 --> 00:51:52.880
And I'm not saying that's wrong,

957
00:51:52.880 --> 00:51:56.520
but I am saying that that can create a soul tie right away.

958
00:51:57.200 --> 00:52:00.320
Because we start seeing things through the perspective of,

959
00:52:00.320 --> 00:52:02.160
hey, God sent me this person.

960
00:52:02.160 --> 00:52:05.600
Look, the signs are all aligning.

961
00:52:07.160 --> 00:52:08.520
How long was the relationship

962
00:52:08.520 --> 00:52:10.200
and how long has it been over?

963
00:52:11.320 --> 00:52:13.520
Three months and it's been over one month.

964
00:52:13.520 --> 00:52:16.040
He's the first guy I prayed with, went to church with

965
00:52:16.040 --> 00:52:18.240
and my twins were Benjamin and Franklin

966
00:52:18.240 --> 00:52:19.960
and his dad was Benjamin Franklin.

967
00:52:22.760 --> 00:52:25.240
Three months and it's been over for one month

968
00:52:25.240 --> 00:52:27.200
and he ended it, I'm assuming.

969
00:52:27.200 --> 00:52:28.040
Yeah.

970
00:52:28.040 --> 00:52:30.840
Okay, and what reason did he give you?

971
00:52:30.840 --> 00:52:32.800
I thought I wanted someone in my life,

972
00:52:32.800 --> 00:52:35.240
but now I'm thinking I wanna be just alone

973
00:52:35.240 --> 00:52:37.280
and my kids and my granddaughters and us.

974
00:52:38.680 --> 00:52:40.920
Okay, said no man ever.

975
00:52:40.920 --> 00:52:43.000
So he's-

976
00:52:43.000 --> 00:52:44.080
What'd you say?

977
00:52:44.080 --> 00:52:45.480
I said, said no man ever.

978
00:52:45.480 --> 00:52:48.840
So you know that there's more to the story than that, right?

979
00:52:48.840 --> 00:52:52.200
That's just him trying to nobly,

980
00:52:52.200 --> 00:52:54.240
without looking like a butthole,

981
00:52:54.240 --> 00:52:56.240
leave the relationship, okay.

982
00:52:56.240 --> 00:52:58.560
Yeah, I mean, his mom abandoned him.

983
00:52:58.560 --> 00:53:01.120
He's got his wife left and rejection issues too.

984
00:53:01.120 --> 00:53:02.280
So he was rejecting me

985
00:53:02.280 --> 00:53:04.760
because I brought up a situation that was,

986
00:53:04.760 --> 00:53:06.640
I wanted to talk more on the phone every now and then

987
00:53:06.640 --> 00:53:08.480
and he thought he wasn't meeting my needs

988
00:53:08.480 --> 00:53:10.040
and he ended it, so.

989
00:53:10.040 --> 00:53:11.520
Oh, okay.

990
00:53:11.520 --> 00:53:14.640
So, all right, so asking,

991
00:53:14.640 --> 00:53:16.440
so we call that, you guys, in phase two,

992
00:53:16.440 --> 00:53:19.040
this is gonna go into a little bit of phase two coaching,

993
00:53:19.040 --> 00:53:21.800
but we call those bids for attention, right?

994
00:53:21.800 --> 00:53:23.760
So if we put out a bid for connection,

995
00:53:24.160 --> 00:53:26.880
a bid for attention to a potential partner

996
00:53:26.880 --> 00:53:30.720
or even in marriage to a partner and they reject it,

997
00:53:30.720 --> 00:53:33.000
even if they reject it with something like that,

998
00:53:33.000 --> 00:53:34.480
like, oh, I'm not good enough for you

999
00:53:34.480 --> 00:53:35.720
because I'm not providing enough,

1000
00:53:35.720 --> 00:53:38.120
instead of providing what we're asking for,

1001
00:53:38.120 --> 00:53:40.760
they come back with, you know, if you want that,

1002
00:53:40.760 --> 00:53:42.840
then, you know, I must not be enough

1003
00:53:42.840 --> 00:53:44.840
because I don't wanna give you that.

1004
00:53:44.840 --> 00:53:49.160
You guys, that is a, you know, yellow flag,

1005
00:53:50.400 --> 00:53:51.440
possibly red flag,

1006
00:53:51.440 --> 00:53:54.760
depending on the other things that come around it.

1007
00:53:54.760 --> 00:53:57.960
So when you were asking for something very normal,

1008
00:53:57.960 --> 00:53:59.960
how often were you seeing this guy

1009
00:53:59.960 --> 00:54:01.880
if you were just asking to talk on the phone more?

1010
00:54:01.880 --> 00:54:03.520
How often did you see him in person?

1011
00:54:03.520 --> 00:54:05.080
We saw him every weekend,

1012
00:54:05.080 --> 00:54:07.760
but he was just texting me every day

1013
00:54:07.760 --> 00:54:10.400
and we rarely talked on the phone,

1014
00:54:10.400 --> 00:54:11.760
but we would meet and go to church

1015
00:54:11.760 --> 00:54:14.200
and we would have a date and I met his kids.

1016
00:54:14.200 --> 00:54:16.520
His kids are adults, 20s.

1017
00:54:16.520 --> 00:54:19.440
So I went to church with his kids and him and, you know.

1018
00:54:19.440 --> 00:54:22.480
So you saw him just on Sundays, every weekend, one day?

1019
00:54:22.480 --> 00:54:23.320
No, no, no, no, no.

1020
00:54:23.320 --> 00:54:26.440
Sometimes a Saturday night date, Friday night date.

1021
00:54:26.440 --> 00:54:28.000
Okay, so every weekend?

1022
00:54:28.000 --> 00:54:28.840
Yeah.

1023
00:54:28.840 --> 00:54:30.920
Why only on the weekend?

1024
00:54:30.920 --> 00:54:31.800
I don't know.

1025
00:54:31.800 --> 00:54:32.800
Well, he works a lot.

1026
00:54:32.800 --> 00:54:34.680
His, you know, he's up at 5 a.m.

1027
00:54:34.680 --> 00:54:36.400
and works till 6 or 7 p.m.

1028
00:54:36.400 --> 00:54:37.440
and apparently-

1029
00:54:37.440 --> 00:54:39.280
Okay, so basically what he was saying is,

1030
00:54:39.280 --> 00:54:43.000
hey, you know, I like hanging out with you on the weekend

1031
00:54:43.000 --> 00:54:44.480
because if you only dated for three months,

1032
00:54:44.480 --> 00:54:45.400
you only saw him on the weekend,

1033
00:54:45.400 --> 00:54:47.520
that means you only spent, you know,

1034
00:54:47.520 --> 00:54:49.240
10 to 12 weekends with him.

1035
00:54:50.040 --> 00:54:50.880
Okay.

1036
00:54:50.880 --> 00:54:52.200
So he liked it on the weekend.

1037
00:54:52.200 --> 00:54:55.560
He liked, you know, compartmentalizing the relationship

1038
00:54:55.560 --> 00:54:59.000
to that, to hanging out, going to church, whatever,

1039
00:54:59.000 --> 00:55:00.320
but he didn't really want-

1040
00:55:00.000 --> 00:55:01.320
a talk during the week.

1041
00:55:02.600 --> 00:55:05.520
Yeah, he wanted to be in his routine, do his thing,

1042
00:55:05.520 --> 00:55:07.760
kind of want to have his cake and eat it too kind of thing.

1043
00:55:07.760 --> 00:55:10.080
Yeah, well, the first two weeks it was,

1044
00:55:10.080 --> 00:55:12.040
I just want to see you even if it's for five minutes,

1045
00:55:12.040 --> 00:55:14.120
every day he wanted to see me the first two weeks

1046
00:55:14.120 --> 00:55:15.680
and then it died off real quick.

1047
00:55:15.680 --> 00:55:17.960
I felt like I got love bombed.

1048
00:55:17.960 --> 00:55:19.720
I don't know what that is, but.

1049
00:55:19.720 --> 00:55:21.560
You guys, there are a lot of people out there,

1050
00:55:21.560 --> 00:55:25.880
and we'll talk about this more in phase two, okay,

1051
00:55:25.880 --> 00:55:27.960
which is the Love Story Accelerator.

1052
00:55:28.000 --> 00:55:30.480
There are a lot of people that their trauma

1053
00:55:30.480 --> 00:55:32.560
has caused them to have attachment issues.

1054
00:55:32.560 --> 00:55:34.520
And so we'll dig into attachment issues.

1055
00:55:34.520 --> 00:55:37.080
You'll actually take an attachment quiz yourself

1056
00:55:37.080 --> 00:55:39.880
to kind of come up with your own attachment stuff.

1057
00:55:39.880 --> 00:55:43.280
But what you're describing is what we call disorders

1058
00:55:43.280 --> 00:55:45.600
or anxious avoidant attachment.

1059
00:55:45.600 --> 00:55:48.480
So they come in kind of hot, they come in hot,

1060
00:55:48.480 --> 00:55:51.520
but then they pull away quick, right?

1061
00:55:51.520 --> 00:55:53.960
They think they want it, they're super excited about it,

1062
00:55:53.960 --> 00:55:58.600
but then something about it causes them to retreat

1063
00:55:58.600 --> 00:56:00.720
and say, yeah, this isn't the one.

1064
00:56:00.720 --> 00:56:03.240
But instead of telling you that you're not the one,

1065
00:56:03.240 --> 00:56:04.720
he said, I want to be alone.

1066
00:56:04.720 --> 00:56:06.680
I guarantee you that that's not the truth.

1067
00:56:06.680 --> 00:56:08.240
The truth is, is that there was something

1068
00:56:08.240 --> 00:56:12.120
about the relationship that with his level of healing,

1069
00:56:12.120 --> 00:56:16.120
which is not a lot, he decided was not,

1070
00:56:16.120 --> 00:56:18.120
you weren't the right one for him.

1071
00:56:19.440 --> 00:56:21.480
Okay, so Maureen, you're moving on

1072
00:56:21.480 --> 00:56:22.880
and you're in the heart work.

1073
00:56:22.880 --> 00:56:24.320
And so I really want to encourage you

1074
00:56:24.320 --> 00:56:27.720
to visit that soul tie session, okay?

1075
00:56:27.720 --> 00:56:28.560
If you're not-

1076
00:56:28.560 --> 00:56:29.880
What section is that in?

1077
00:56:29.880 --> 00:56:31.600
Does anyone know where it is?

1078
00:56:31.600 --> 00:56:33.760
I think, is it in week three?

1079
00:56:33.760 --> 00:56:35.040
Maybe week three, I think.

1080
00:56:35.040 --> 00:56:36.640
I did go through it, but I'll go through it again.

1081
00:56:36.640 --> 00:56:38.680
I'm going through everything again, so.

1082
00:56:38.680 --> 00:56:40.240
Okay, it's a bonus session in there.

1083
00:56:40.240 --> 00:56:44.960
Go through that, make sure that you're allowing God

1084
00:56:44.960 --> 00:56:47.480
to help you make room for someone new

1085
00:56:47.480 --> 00:56:50.680
because you were really excited about this relationship

1086
00:56:50.680 --> 00:56:52.720
and you still are, okay?

1087
00:56:53.720 --> 00:56:54.640
To a certain degree.

1088
00:56:54.640 --> 00:56:56.560
Now, I also want you to make a plan

1089
00:56:56.560 --> 00:56:58.800
of what you're going to do during your heart work phase

1090
00:56:58.800 --> 00:57:02.280
if, you know, Mr. Weekend shows back up.

1091
00:57:04.760 --> 00:57:06.960
Because chances are, he will.

1092
00:57:06.960 --> 00:57:08.480
Yeah.

1093
00:57:08.480 --> 00:57:09.720
What are you going to do?

1094
00:57:12.120 --> 00:57:12.960
I want you to start to think,

1095
00:57:12.960 --> 00:57:14.080
you don't have to answer me right now.

1096
00:57:14.080 --> 00:57:14.920
Okay.

1097
00:57:14.920 --> 00:57:16.000
I want you to start to think about that

1098
00:57:16.000 --> 00:57:17.840
and pray about that, you know?

1099
00:57:17.840 --> 00:57:19.280
Should I give him another chance?

1100
00:57:19.280 --> 00:57:22.280
What's the criteria in which he would have another chance?

1101
00:57:22.280 --> 00:57:25.840
What would need to change in order for us to start again?

1102
00:57:25.840 --> 00:57:26.680
And, you know.

1103
00:57:26.680 --> 00:57:28.080
I think I already have the answer for that.

1104
00:57:28.080 --> 00:57:30.320
I don't want anything but a friendship right now.

1105
00:57:30.320 --> 00:57:33.160
And I'm working on this program.

1106
00:57:33.160 --> 00:57:35.200
If you want to be my friend,

1107
00:57:35.200 --> 00:57:37.520
but we'd have to have some sort of friendship boundary.

1108
00:57:37.520 --> 00:57:40.160
I don't know what that would look like, but.

1109
00:57:40.160 --> 00:57:41.920
It's really hard to go back to a friendship

1110
00:57:41.920 --> 00:57:43.880
with someone you've been romantically connected to,

1111
00:57:43.880 --> 00:57:44.720
just so you know.

1112
00:57:44.720 --> 00:57:47.560
It's actually pretty, it's pretty impossible.

1113
00:57:47.560 --> 00:57:50.400
But unless you're like divorced and raising kids together,

1114
00:57:50.400 --> 00:57:53.000
then sometimes people can be friends at some level.

1115
00:57:53.000 --> 00:57:53.840
Okay.

1116
00:57:53.840 --> 00:57:56.440
But I would say that you're going to be out

1117
00:57:56.440 --> 00:57:58.120
of the heart work pretty quickly.

1118
00:57:58.120 --> 00:58:00.280
So even after you're out of the heart work,

1119
00:58:00.280 --> 00:58:03.240
in phase two, say he wants to pick up

1120
00:58:03.240 --> 00:58:04.760
where we got you guys left off.

1121
00:58:04.760 --> 00:58:06.560
I want you to really pray about

1122
00:58:06.560 --> 00:58:09.000
what would need to be the criteria

1123
00:58:09.000 --> 00:58:11.320
of giving that another chance, okay?

1124
00:58:11.320 --> 00:58:13.120
Because worst, best case scenario,

1125
00:58:13.120 --> 00:58:14.840
this guy got afraid of his own shadow

1126
00:58:14.840 --> 00:58:16.400
and he just cut and run

1127
00:58:16.400 --> 00:58:18.680
because he doesn't have the level of healing that he needs

1128
00:58:18.720 --> 00:58:20.560
in order to sustain relationship.

1129
00:58:20.560 --> 00:58:23.240
Worst case scenario is, you know,

1130
00:58:23.240 --> 00:58:25.840
he is talking to somebody else.

1131
00:58:25.840 --> 00:58:26.680
Yeah.

1132
00:58:26.680 --> 00:58:29.640
He, I know the trauma was a big issue.

1133
00:58:29.640 --> 00:58:31.760
God showed me the trauma in his life big time.

1134
00:58:31.760 --> 00:58:35.240
So lots of, lots of abandonment issues, so.

1135
00:58:35.240 --> 00:58:36.400
Right.

1136
00:58:36.400 --> 00:58:37.880
But keep that counselor hat off

1137
00:58:37.880 --> 00:58:39.360
because you aren't his coach.

1138
00:58:39.360 --> 00:58:40.720
Amen, amen.

1139
00:58:40.720 --> 00:58:41.560
All right.

1140
00:58:41.560 --> 00:58:43.960
It's his, between him and God, not me.

1141
00:58:43.960 --> 00:58:45.040
Amen.

1142
00:58:45.040 --> 00:58:47.440
And you guys also, I just want to let you know,

1143
00:58:47.440 --> 00:58:49.560
if you're an empath, raise your hand if you are one.

1144
00:58:49.560 --> 00:58:50.400
Me?

1145
00:58:52.280 --> 00:58:56.280
If you're an empath, then you usually are the,

1146
00:58:56.280 --> 00:58:58.280
the person that, you know, with,

1147
00:58:58.280 --> 00:58:59.200
if you're not healthy,

1148
00:58:59.200 --> 00:59:01.440
you're going to get trauma bonded, okay?

1149
00:59:01.440 --> 00:59:04.360
Empaths are the people that end up with abusers and addicts

1150
00:59:04.360 --> 00:59:06.480
more than any other type.

1151
00:59:06.480 --> 00:59:09.720
And the reason why is because you see the good in people.

1152
00:59:09.720 --> 00:59:11.360
You see who they could be.

1153
00:59:11.360 --> 00:59:12.560
And that's a gift,

1154
00:59:12.560 --> 00:59:14.760
but please do not let that gift get overextended

1155
00:59:14.760 --> 00:59:16.720
and become a weakness in your dating life.

1156
00:59:17.080 --> 00:59:17.920
Yeah.

1157
00:59:17.920 --> 00:59:18.760
I need a secure man.

1158
00:59:18.760 --> 00:59:20.120
I need a secure attachment.

1159
00:59:20.120 --> 00:59:20.960
You do.

1160
00:59:20.960 --> 00:59:21.880
You need, yeah.

1161
00:59:21.880 --> 00:59:24.800
And so if, if Mr. Weekend comes back around,

1162
00:59:24.800 --> 00:59:26.920
send him to our program to do the guy's work.

1163
00:59:26.920 --> 00:59:27.760
Okay.

1164
00:59:27.760 --> 00:59:28.600
Perfect, okay.

1165
00:59:28.600 --> 00:59:30.240
Send him to do the hard work for the guys.

1166
00:59:30.240 --> 00:59:31.720
Jeannie, go for it.

1167
00:59:31.720 --> 00:59:32.640
Yeah.

1168
00:59:32.640 --> 00:59:34.000
Yeah.

1169
00:59:34.000 --> 00:59:36.200
By the way, this has been really great.

1170
00:59:36.200 --> 00:59:38.120
I just feel like I've learned a ton.

1171
00:59:38.120 --> 00:59:39.960
Every time I open the book or hear a video,

1172
00:59:39.960 --> 00:59:41.240
thank you so much,

1173
00:59:41.240 --> 00:59:43.000
because I've just learned a lot

1174
00:59:43.000 --> 00:59:46.120
and hopefully seeing a lot of changes.

1175
00:59:46.760 --> 00:59:47.600
But I do,

1176
00:59:47.600 --> 00:59:51.080
I did realize that kind of running into one block

1177
00:59:51.080 --> 00:59:53.800
and I'm only on week three,

1178
00:59:53.800 --> 00:59:55.440
so I'm sure you probably talk about it,

1179
00:59:55.440 --> 00:59:58.280
but I know when we saw you in person,

1180
00:59:58.280 --> 00:59:59.120
you said something about,

1181
00:59:59.120 --> 01:00:00.520
are you willing to relocate?

1182
01:00:00.000 --> 01:00:06.880
okay. And I think I'm in a church that there's a lot of coming and going, people come in,

1183
01:00:06.880 --> 01:00:15.600
people leave, they train and leave, train and leave. And so I guess I'm really happy where I

1184
01:00:15.600 --> 01:00:20.720
am. I like living on the West Coast because my kids are scattered on the West Coast, my adult

1185
01:00:20.720 --> 01:00:29.440
kids, things like that. And I realized the whole idea of relocation, it's a block, I can tell,

1186
01:00:29.440 --> 01:00:35.520
I can feel it. And I'm like, I guess, yeah, just kind of your thoughts on that. I don't know,

1187
01:00:35.520 --> 01:00:42.320
just your thoughts on what to do to get out of that block, I guess, because I know God has the

1188
01:00:42.320 --> 01:00:46.880
best plan. And if he wants me to relocate with someone, it'll be the best. I just feel that

1189
01:00:46.880 --> 01:00:52.480
block. And I just wondered what you thought about. So you guys just continue, this is my advice for

1190
01:00:52.480 --> 01:01:00.720
that. You guys, in life, just continue to revisit that permission slip, okay? It is just a model of

1191
01:01:00.720 --> 01:01:06.240
any kind of surrender prayer that you would have in your life to God. You know, mine is just teach

1192
01:01:06.240 --> 01:01:10.880
me, show me, heal me, grow me. You know, God knows that I'm all in. He knows that he's the most

1193
01:01:10.880 --> 01:01:14.720
important thing to me and I'm going to follow after him. But I will tell you that I believe

1194
01:01:14.720 --> 01:01:20.560
that God in the seasons of my life, because life is seasonal, I believe in the seasons of my life,

1195
01:01:20.560 --> 01:01:26.400
God leads me by desire. The word of God says that when I have intimacy with him, which I do,

1196
01:01:26.400 --> 01:01:32.080
I am an intimate lover of God, that the desires of my heart are consummated or impregnated from

1197
01:01:32.080 --> 01:01:37.520
the intimacy that I have with God. And so I can trust my heart. And that's what all of you guys

1198
01:01:37.520 --> 01:01:43.200
are here to do. You're here to do the heart work so that going forward, there isn't anything in

1199
01:01:43.200 --> 01:01:49.520
your heart out of fear, out of, you know, some sort of, you know, trauma-based identity. It's

1200
01:01:49.520 --> 01:01:55.920
just, you would do it if you felt like doing it, but you don't feel like doing it. And it's not

1201
01:01:55.920 --> 01:02:00.320
because you're holding out. It's not because you're rebellious or disobedient. It's because

1202
01:02:00.320 --> 01:02:03.760
it's not a desire because it doesn't need to be a desire. Does that make sense?

1203
01:02:03.760 --> 01:02:07.200
Yeah. Yeah. And that's good about having the healed heart.

1204
01:02:07.200 --> 01:02:11.120
Yeah. So just work on your heart work right now and don't worry about whether or not you

1205
01:02:11.120 --> 01:02:16.800
would relocate. I believe with all my heart that if somewhere down the line, your spirit mate,

1206
01:02:17.600 --> 01:02:22.640
your love story required you to relocate, that you in that moment, not this moment,

1207
01:02:22.640 --> 01:02:26.160
would be willing to do that. Gotcha. Yeah. Thank you. Yeah.

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01:02:26.160 --> 01:02:29.600
Does that sound good y'all? That sounds right. Thank you. Yeah.

1209
01:02:29.600 --> 01:02:33.920
Let's not, let's not try to, and this is why you guys, and I, once again,

1210
01:02:33.920 --> 01:02:38.160
I'm borrowing a little bit from phase two, but this is why I hate it when people interview

1211
01:02:38.880 --> 01:02:42.880
people that they're just meeting that you have no connection with yet. You're just meeting this

1212
01:02:42.880 --> 01:02:48.480
person on a date and you're asking them questions about the future. Would they be willing to do this

1213
01:02:48.480 --> 01:02:53.200
or that? Do they want children? How many, you know, would they be willing to relocate? You guys,

1214
01:02:53.200 --> 01:02:59.040
you can't ask people that outside of the season of which God would be softening their heart to do

1215
01:02:59.040 --> 01:03:04.640
that. That's right. Okay. It's just have fun and get to know that person. It's not important for

1216
01:03:04.640 --> 01:03:08.960
you to ask all those questions. If things start to get serious, then y'all can dig in a little bit

1217
01:03:08.960 --> 01:03:14.480
more on those topics. Cool. That's good. Thank you. You're welcome, Jeannie. Thanks. All right. So,

1218
01:03:15.520 --> 01:03:23.120
Amy. Oh no. Did you have your hand up or no? No. Amy's like, no. Okay. Any more questions,

1219
01:03:23.120 --> 01:03:28.640
you guys? Amy's like, no, not me. Oh, Kimberly's back. Hi.

1220
01:03:28.720 --> 01:03:32.800
So your connection was a little bit bad, but it looks like it's better now. So let's check you

1221
01:03:32.800 --> 01:03:42.080
out. What's up? Sorry. I'm trying to remember now what my question was. Oh, so is it okay if I ask

1222
01:03:42.080 --> 01:03:51.200
one more question? Sure. Yeah. I'm just, I'm just teasing you. No, it's okay. So I've done week one

1223
01:03:51.200 --> 01:03:58.480
and week two. I really haven't gotten to week three yet, but I know the Lord has given me a

1224
01:03:59.040 --> 01:04:05.440
two memories and my life has been crazy for the past two weeks. I went out of town and

1225
01:04:05.440 --> 01:04:15.520
so I haven't even had a chance to like deal with those memories with healing. But my question is,

1226
01:04:16.720 --> 01:04:21.280
I'm a little bit scared that I'll ask him and then I won't get an answer because I feel like

1227
01:04:21.280 --> 01:04:26.000
that's happened to me in the past where like I'm in the middle of healing, even like with my

1228
01:04:26.000 --> 01:04:33.200
counselor. And, uh, she'll say, okay, we'll ask the Lord a question. And then she'll say,

1229
01:04:33.200 --> 01:04:39.760
what is he saying? And I'll be like, I'm not really hearing anything or I'm not sure what

1230
01:04:39.760 --> 01:04:46.080
he's saying or whatever. So when I deal with these two memories, I want to make sure that

1231
01:04:46.080 --> 01:04:52.240
I do hear the Holy spirit and he is able to give me the healing I need because he's giving me the

1232
01:04:52.240 --> 01:04:57.520
answer I need. Does that make sense? It does make sense. You guys, if you have something come

1233
01:04:57.520 --> 01:04:59.840
up in these first couple of weeks, you know, like

1234
01:05:00.000 --> 01:05:02.880
Sophie said she had a bunch of stuff coming up in week one,

1235
01:05:02.880 --> 01:05:04.440
and Kimberly's only in week two

1236
01:05:04.440 --> 01:05:06.200
and having a bunch of stuff come up.

1237
01:05:06.200 --> 01:05:07.880
Guys, make sure that you write those things down

1238
01:05:07.880 --> 01:05:09.040
in your heart work journal.

1239
01:05:09.040 --> 01:05:10.480
If you're not feeling anything more

1240
01:05:10.480 --> 01:05:13.640
except maybe the memory coming up,

1241
01:05:13.640 --> 01:05:14.960
then you can use it,

1242
01:05:14.960 --> 01:05:17.080
you can use those memories in week three

1243
01:05:17.080 --> 01:05:19.800
to do your confession templates,

1244
01:05:19.800 --> 01:05:22.320
in week four to do your forgiveness templates,

1245
01:05:22.320 --> 01:05:24.800
to do your revealing for healing cycle.

1246
01:05:24.800 --> 01:05:27.160
So it's coming to the surface, right,

1247
01:05:27.160 --> 01:05:29.760
from the unconscious to the conscious mind,

1248
01:05:29.800 --> 01:05:30.880
and you're remembering it.

1249
01:05:30.880 --> 01:05:33.040
So it's okay for you to put it aside

1250
01:05:33.040 --> 01:05:35.000
and apply some other things to it

1251
01:05:35.000 --> 01:05:36.480
as you go forward in the five weeks

1252
01:05:36.480 --> 01:05:38.480
and see if some more stuff is revealed

1253
01:05:38.480 --> 01:05:40.200
about those specific memories,

1254
01:05:40.200 --> 01:05:42.560
the people that are involved in those memories,

1255
01:05:42.560 --> 01:05:44.200
the way that you felt.

1256
01:05:44.200 --> 01:05:46.320
You know, one thing that you can definitely do, you guys,

1257
01:05:46.320 --> 01:05:48.360
is if a memory comes up,

1258
01:05:48.360 --> 01:05:49.920
it's not just about what happened

1259
01:05:49.920 --> 01:05:51.440
and who it happened with,

1260
01:05:51.440 --> 01:05:54.120
but it's also about, how did I feel?

1261
01:05:55.680 --> 01:05:57.560
You know, write down, how did I feel?

1262
01:05:57.560 --> 01:05:58.760
Did I feel angry?

1263
01:05:58.760 --> 01:06:00.520
Did I feel humiliated?

1264
01:06:00.520 --> 01:06:03.000
Did it make me feel afraid?

1265
01:06:03.000 --> 01:06:05.840
Has that fear bled over into other areas of my life

1266
01:06:05.840 --> 01:06:08.560
where now I'm avoiding certain people and certain things

1267
01:06:08.560 --> 01:06:12.200
or certain, you know, certain activities

1268
01:06:12.200 --> 01:06:16.600
that maybe I used to enjoy because of this memory,

1269
01:06:16.600 --> 01:06:18.560
because of like this trauma?

1270
01:06:18.560 --> 01:06:19.920
And so that's what you can do.

1271
01:06:19.920 --> 01:06:22.520
You can dig deeper into that, okay, Kimberly?

1272
01:06:22.520 --> 01:06:25.320
And as far as, you know, what is God saying about it?

1273
01:06:25.320 --> 01:06:28.840
You know, we're not really asking that in week one and two.

1274
01:06:28.840 --> 01:06:30.080
The only time we really ask,

1275
01:06:30.080 --> 01:06:32.120
what is God saying about something

1276
01:06:32.120 --> 01:06:35.040
is in the forgiveness template week four.

1277
01:06:35.040 --> 01:06:37.080
We ask when you're forgiving people

1278
01:06:37.080 --> 01:06:39.840
and you're forgiving them of specific situations,

1279
01:06:39.840 --> 01:06:41.640
then you sit with that forgiveness

1280
01:06:41.640 --> 01:06:43.680
and ask God to show you the truth.

1281
01:06:43.680 --> 01:06:46.480
So this isn't like Sozo where we're always asking God to,

1282
01:06:46.480 --> 01:06:49.320
like, you know, what is God saying?

1283
01:06:49.320 --> 01:06:50.160
You know?

1284
01:06:50.160 --> 01:06:53.000
And so a lot of people struggle with what is God saying.

1285
01:06:53.000 --> 01:06:55.080
And so if that, if you're one of those people

1286
01:06:55.840 --> 01:06:56.680
I just want to let you know that

1287
01:06:56.680 --> 01:06:58.960
sometimes it doesn't come as words.

1288
01:06:58.960 --> 01:07:01.400
Sometimes it just comes as peace.

1289
01:07:01.400 --> 01:07:02.880
Just comes as a feeling.

1290
01:07:02.880 --> 01:07:07.880
Just comes as, you know, a verse that you see in scripture

1291
01:07:07.960 --> 01:07:11.560
that, you know, just really makes you feel

1292
01:07:11.560 --> 01:07:13.360
like you can move forward.

1293
01:07:13.360 --> 01:07:15.760
And, you know, sometimes you hear little snippets

1294
01:07:15.760 --> 01:07:18.040
in a sermon in your spiritual community

1295
01:07:18.040 --> 01:07:20.040
or something on Supernatural Saturday

1296
01:07:20.040 --> 01:07:21.680
or something on a poster.

1297
01:07:21.680 --> 01:07:25.000
You know, God speaks to us through lots of ways,

1298
01:07:25.800 --> 01:07:27.040
besides just sitting there and, you know,

1299
01:07:27.040 --> 01:07:28.160
kind of white knuckling it

1300
01:07:28.160 --> 01:07:30.560
to see if we can hear something.

1301
01:07:30.560 --> 01:07:31.400
Okay?

1302
01:07:31.400 --> 01:07:32.640
But then with those memories,

1303
01:07:32.640 --> 01:07:36.640
do I not do the revealing for healing whole steps?

1304
01:07:38.200 --> 01:07:39.040
Or do I just-

1305
01:07:39.040 --> 01:07:40.000
No, yeah, you can.

1306
01:07:40.000 --> 01:07:43.640
But if you get to that last portion of, you know, like,

1307
01:07:43.640 --> 01:07:45.640
you know, is there some kind of resolution?

1308
01:07:45.640 --> 01:07:47.880
Is there some sort of truth in this?

1309
01:07:47.880 --> 01:07:49.840
And you don't really feel anything right now,

1310
01:07:49.840 --> 01:07:54.840
it's okay to table that and take those to the other areas.

1311
01:07:55.160 --> 01:07:56.000
Okay.

1312
01:07:56.000 --> 01:07:57.400
You know, maybe that's all that you need for that.

1313
01:07:57.400 --> 01:07:58.920
Maybe it's just a, it's just,

1314
01:07:58.920 --> 01:08:01.120
that's just coming up so you can release it.

1315
01:08:02.560 --> 01:08:03.400
You know?

1316
01:08:05.200 --> 01:08:07.520
You guys, we do have,

1317
01:08:07.520 --> 01:08:12.360
we do have a bonus session of really honing our skills

1318
01:08:12.360 --> 01:08:14.240
of hearing from God.

1319
01:08:14.240 --> 01:08:15.640
Like, you know, in all the different ways

1320
01:08:15.640 --> 01:08:18.160
that God talks to us, the different receptors.

1321
01:08:18.160 --> 01:08:20.640
I don't know if you guys know who Dana McCullum is

1322
01:08:20.640 --> 01:08:23.040
and Bethany Hicks, but they are dear friends of mine

1323
01:08:23.040 --> 01:08:25.600
and they run something called The Prophetic Company.

1324
01:08:25.600 --> 01:08:29.560
And so Bethany came, Bethany Hicks, not your Bethany.

1325
01:08:29.560 --> 01:08:33.760
She came in and she really taught people, you know,

1326
01:08:33.760 --> 01:08:38.319
some very basic ways of how God is always talking to us.

1327
01:08:38.319 --> 01:08:40.040
And I think that was really helpful.

1328
01:08:40.040 --> 01:08:43.680
And so you guys will be able to get ahold of that curriculum

1329
01:08:43.680 --> 01:08:45.840
as you go forward, okay?

1330
01:08:45.840 --> 01:08:47.359
Thank you, Kimberly, for that question.

1331
01:08:47.359 --> 01:08:50.880
I feel like so many people, they have that question too.

1332
01:08:50.880 --> 01:08:54.520
They just, they just, you know,

1333
01:08:54.520 --> 01:08:57.399
and you guys, here's the deeper thing.

1334
01:08:57.399 --> 01:08:59.399
Kimberly, I want you to dig into

1335
01:09:01.240 --> 01:09:06.240
when was the first time that you ever felt unheard in life?

1336
01:09:07.120 --> 01:09:09.439
Because you guys, when we have a fear about asking,

1337
01:09:09.439 --> 01:09:12.000
because we're afraid that no one's gonna answer,

1338
01:09:12.000 --> 01:09:15.240
no one's gonna respond, specifically God,

1339
01:09:15.240 --> 01:09:18.279
like, you know, he's supposed to be this benevolent,

1340
01:09:18.279 --> 01:09:20.279
loving father and everyone else acts

1341
01:09:20.279 --> 01:09:21.960
like he's so good to them.

1342
01:09:21.960 --> 01:09:24.720
But what happens if I ask him for something

1343
01:09:24.720 --> 01:09:25.560
and he doesn't give it?

1344
01:09:25.560 --> 01:09:27.279
Or what happens if I ask him a question

1345
01:09:27.279 --> 01:09:29.200
and I don't hear an answer?

1346
01:09:29.200 --> 01:09:30.399
You know, is he not talking to me?

1347
01:09:30.399 --> 01:09:32.040
Does he not love me?

1348
01:09:32.040 --> 01:09:35.760
I think the greater thing we can dig into is, you know,

1349
01:09:35.760 --> 01:09:38.120
that fear of God not answering

1350
01:09:39.040 --> 01:09:43.279
or that fear of us not understanding how he's answering.

1351
01:09:43.279 --> 01:09:45.479
So Kimberly, you can really dig into,

1352
01:09:45.479 --> 01:09:47.000
did you feel unseen as a child?

1353
01:09:47.000 --> 01:09:52.000
Did you feel unheard, you know, in your life anywhere?

1354
01:09:52.240 --> 01:09:53.240
Did you feel that way?

1355
01:09:53.240 --> 01:09:55.880
Did you feel like you just didn't matter?

1356
01:09:55.880 --> 01:09:59.520
And when you needed something and you needed clarity

1357
01:09:59.520 --> 01:10:00.360
or you needed.

1358
01:10:00.000 --> 01:10:06.640
information or wisdom. There wasn't anyone there to give it to you and to help you. Those are even

1359
01:10:06.640 --> 01:10:12.480
bigger topics that could be behind the fear that you have of that exercise. Do you hear what I'm

1360
01:10:12.480 --> 01:10:23.680
saying? Thumbs up. Are you going to tell me if you have ever felt like that?

1361
01:10:24.400 --> 01:10:32.320
Sorry, I didn't know if I was supposed to keep talking. Well, I'm trying to think back in my

1362
01:10:32.320 --> 01:10:40.640
life. I probably did because I'm the youngest in my family. There were probably times I didn't

1363
01:10:40.640 --> 01:10:48.240
feel heard, but I guess I would have to ask the Lord if there was a specific time and see if

1364
01:10:49.200 --> 01:10:56.320
I get anything. Not just in your family, but it could be in your job, in your career,

1365
01:10:56.320 --> 01:11:03.840
it could be with friends, it could be with Him. You can see other people having these vibrant

1366
01:11:03.840 --> 01:11:08.160
relationships with God where it feels like He's talking to them all the time and maybe feel left

1367
01:11:08.160 --> 01:11:13.280
out of that because you don't always know what God's saying and things can be really confusing.

1368
01:11:14.000 --> 01:11:17.680
There's lots of different topics that you can dig into there and see if there's anything.

1369
01:11:19.200 --> 01:11:28.800
Okay. Awesome. I will say I do feel like I have felt like that, but I know it's not true now,

1370
01:11:28.800 --> 01:11:34.320
but maybe it's a lie I need to have broken or something, but throughout the years,

1371
01:11:35.520 --> 01:11:41.760
when I was younger in my faith, I felt like that the super spiritual prophets or the super

1372
01:11:41.840 --> 01:11:48.960
spiritual people were the ones that heard from God and that the regular people

1373
01:11:50.400 --> 01:11:58.560
didn't necessarily have those supernatural things happen. I don't believe that now,

1374
01:11:58.560 --> 01:12:02.000
but I think when I was younger, I did, so maybe there's something to that.

1375
01:12:03.120 --> 01:12:08.400
No, yeah, and that's what I was addressing. I think a lot of people do somewhere along the

1376
01:12:08.400 --> 01:12:13.680
line do believe that and it isn't true. God is always talking and He's always talking to

1377
01:12:13.680 --> 01:12:18.880
all of us and just learning the ways that He communicates to us individually because He's

1378
01:12:18.880 --> 01:12:25.040
an individual God are really important. Hopefully, you'll all be taught more about that as you go

1379
01:12:25.040 --> 01:12:29.120
forward because we really do dig into those kinds of subjects in phase two and phase three as we go

1380
01:12:29.120 --> 01:12:33.040
forward. Okay. All right. Well, if there's no other questions, I want to go ahead and let you

1381
01:12:33.040 --> 01:12:37.680
all go for the day. We're right about 75 minutes, which is where we like to try to keep these

1382
01:12:37.680 --> 01:12:41.840
coaching sessions. Does anyone else have anything burning on their heart they want to ask before we

1383
01:12:41.840 --> 01:12:49.600
go? All right. Happy heartworking this week, ladies. Supernatural Saturday. I gave you a

1384
01:12:49.600 --> 01:12:53.920
little taste of it today with that Romans 8 28. So I hope to see you guys there for some more

1385
01:12:53.920 --> 01:13:00.720
goodness on that subject because God wants us to go forward as He foreknew us and we'll talk about

1386
01:13:00.720 --> 01:13:05.760
that on Supernatural Saturday. So if you can't be there, watch the replay and I'll see you soon.

1387
01:13:05.760 --> 01:13:07.600
Bye, everyone. Blessings.