All right, so welcome to your Phase 1 HeartWork weekly coaching session,
session one. There is another session tonight at 8 p.m. Eastern, 7 Central, 5
Pacific. It will be under a completely, it will be over a completely different set
of activations, different set of coaching topics because Bethany will be leading
that tonight and I see her notes, so I see what she's gonna talk about and
what's on her heart and I may, I may touch on a couple of those things but I
have sort of my own agenda of what our Holy Spirit's taking me as well and so
we'll record both sessions so you guys can have the replays in your replay
section. So I'd like to get to know you guys really quickly. If you don't know
who I am, you should have been seeing me in your videos. My name is Jackie Dorman.
Welcome to me, Jackie D is what I always say and I am the founder of Last Year
Single. I'm also the creator of the HeartWork and I hope you're enjoying it.
I just got a amazing, beautiful testimony this morning in my inbox which I will
tell you guys about in just a second but I want to get to know you guys so let me
know in the chat or you can unmute yourself. There's not a lot of us here
right now. Tell me what week, what, what week of Phase 1 are you in? Week 1, 2, 3,
4, or 5? Let me see. Who are the week 1 folks? Who just started? All right, so
Sophie just started. Anybody else? Okay, I see you guys. I see the chat. Mary, that's
okay. That's all right. We have a week, we have a week 3. We have a week 2.
What all the way, who else? We have a week 1, Sophie. So you guys are just kind of
all over the map in here. Any week 4, week 5 folks? Forgiveness week, week 4,
that's a doozy. Got, got several people in the revealing for healing week 2, the
understanding your heart, the process. We have people in the confession week, week
3. You guys, I just want to take a moment to let you know that this phase of your
program is so important. It is going to lay the foundation of everything that
comes after this for you, okay? And so it'd be, it'd be really easy to, in our
busy lives, to kind of mail it in. Like, okay, I checked the boxes, I watched the
video, you know, I half-heartedly read this, I answered a few questions, I showed
up to one or two coaching sessions. It's easy to do that. We all have distractions
in our lives. We're all super, what we call, busy, all of us. But I want to
remind you that God drew you here. A lot of you may have been sitting on the fence
for a long time before you finally pulled the lever and got in here, okay? I
see that Amy got my reference to a cronk there. Oh, so you gotta, you know, it took
you a minute, most of you, it took you a minute to make this decision. Do I really
need this? Is this the right thing to do? Is this what God's telling me to do? Is
this even necessary? I remember there has been lots of times in my life where I
was presented with an option to do some type of training of something that I
wanted on the other side of that training, but I already had so much real
life experience. I was always like, do I really need that training? I kind of, you
know, been to the rodeo, have the t-shirt, have them up. Anybody else? And yet, God
wanted me to go through that training for some reason, and he wanted me to
humble myself, you know, under the teaching and coaching of someone else,
and I learned a lot, and I got a lot of breakthrough. It's really easy when we
get to this stage of our lives, especially if you've been in the
spiritual community for enough time that you've heard enough sermons, you've read
enough scriptures, you've listened to enough TikTok psychology videos, you've
done the sozo's and the inner healing and the therapy and the counseling that
you're like, I already know this stuff. I'm gonna breeze past this, and
I'm gonna get to where the good stuff is. Let's get to the good part, which is
where the men at? Where's the dating at? Where's the spirit made at? I get it. I
got you. I understand, but I will tell you that the heart work is
supernatural. While some of it may be stuff that you've heard some version of
before, I will tell you that I didn't go to therapy. I didn't go to counseling. I
didn't read inner healing books. I've only been to one sozo in my whole life,
and so the stuff that's in this book is a download from heaven, okay? It doesn't
come from anyone else's teaching or anyone else's anything. It's a download
from heaven. I will tell you that I experienced a powerful inner healing
ministry. It was a three-day seminar when I...
I was in my mid thirties, that changed my life.
And that's really where the impetus of me wanting to help other people do their heartwork
came from.
And I didn't think that I needed to go to that.
I didn't.
I knew Jesus.
I knew Holy Spirit.
You know, I had been, I'd been through deliverance, you know, I didn't need to go to that, but
I went to it and I'm going to tell you guys, it rocked my world and changed my life.
And this, this first part, this phase one of this, it is designed to do the same thing.
It is divinely designed to do the same thing.
So please press in, please believe that there's something more that God can teach you.
There's something more that Holy Spirit can show you.
Please know that you're never stuck on the outside.
You're only ever stuck on the inside.
I want to tell you something about my phone.
I have, I'm on my phone right now, so I can't show it to you guys, but I have a new phone.
I have a brand new, special, fancy iPhone 15 with all the bells and whistles, little
special camera phone.
Okay.
But I didn't get it because I thought that I deserved it.
I didn't get it because I was like, you know what?
I really need this and I'm going to go out and get it.
No, I got it because my old phone was hijacked.
And the reason why that's important to this session, no matter if you're in week one,
two, three, four, five, is because a lot of times, you know, we kind of have the mantra,
if it's not broken, don't fix it.
But I want to tell you something, it is broken.
It is broken.
And God wants to fix it.
God wants to give you new.
I was raised in a family that kept the plastic on the couches so the couches wouldn't wear
out y'all.
Crinkle, crinkle, crinkle every time you sat down because underneath those Afghans
was plastic because my nanny did not want those couches to get messed up because she
was going to keep them for the rest of her life.
What is that?
That's a poverty mentality.
Let me tell you about my old phone.
It was outdated.
It was running slow.
The battery was dying quickly.
The camera, you know how they have little three little cameras in the back?
None of the cameras, little glass was completely shattered.
So it was sharp.
It was sharp edges back there.
Y'all, it was tore up from the floor up, but because it still worked to a certain level,
I did not feel urgency to go replace it.
Do you hear me?
And then I was at the park with my little granddaughter who's two years old.
I have twin grandbabies, boy and girl, two years old, and they're busy y'all.
They're busy.
And so chasing her around, making sure she doesn't get in trouble.
And there was this wall of water at the park, like a little cascade of water kind of fountain
where the kids can splash and play in it.
And I sat my phone on the top of this wall of water.
Why?
I don't know.
To make sure that she didn't get soaking wet to pull her back.
And I caught out of the corner of my eye, my phone making its journey down into the
center of the fountain, out of sight, never to be found again.
I saw it.
I saw movement and I turned my head just in time to see like a little sailboat, my phone
go down the drain.
Okay.
I did try to find it, fish it out.
It was not coming back.
It was over.
The very next day I went to AT&T and I got a new phone because that phone was paid for.
It was done.
It was ready.
I could have had the upgrade all along, but I just didn't make time in my life for the
upgrade.
I was trying to make this work.
I was duct taping it.
I was trying to just make it work because it's convenient.
It's easier.
And so I just want to let you guys know my phone wasn't lost.
Okay.
It was pruned.
It was taken from me.
I believe that was God setting me up to get what I should have gotten months and months
and months earlier, maybe even a year earlier.
And that was a better working phone that met the needs that I have because I do all my
work from my phone.
I'm one of those people.
I'm a phone only person.
I do have a computer.
I have a laptop.
I have an iPad.
I never use those things.
I just do it all from the phone, which is why I probably have carpal tunnel.
All right.
But my point is valid.
So I want you to think about that for a second.
What are you trying to make work?
What are you trying to make do with in life?
God wants you to know that there's an upgrade available.
You don't have to make do with that thing that no longer meets your needs.
That's no longer sufficient for what you need.
You can let that go.
Guys, I didn't let it go.
It was taken.
Now, I'm not saying that God's going to take it from you if you don't let it go.
That's not the message here.
But I do want to let you know that you can let it go before it disappears.
And you guys know what?
If I would have let it go, if I would have went ahead and surrendered to the idea that
I deserve a better phone and I don't need to try to make do with this anymore, then
I wouldn't have had to go through that harrowing 24 hours of missed work and missed messages
and all the things that I needed to be doing when my phone was gone.
You can have a seamless transition if you go ahead and let it go now.
So go ahead and think about that for a second.
Close your eyes.
See if Holy Spirit will bring anything up that you're making do with that you deserve
an upgrade in.
God wants to give you an upgrade in and it's time to let that thing go.
And if you think of anything, if anything comes up, it might come up after our meeting
today.
It might come up, you know, in a dream tonight or tomorrow when you're in your time of devotion
or prayer in the morning or the afternoon or in your car driving, or maybe it'll come
up in the shower later on tonight before you go to bed.
But if it's coming up right now, go ahead and put it in the chat.
All right, I don't see anyone putting anything up, so we're going to go ahead and move on.
So welcome to all of you week one people.
Welcome to heartwork phase one.
It is going to be a powerful time if you will allow it to be a powerful time.
Okay.
I know a lot of times we don't like to quit and give up y'all because, you know, we're
not quitters, but sometimes you need to quit.
Sometimes you got to quit.
Sometimes you got to give up.
It's not called settling.
It's called surrendering.
And that's what week one is all about.
Week one is about the divine surrender, the supernatural surrender.
And so you guys, best practices for this phase of our program is make sure that you're showing
up as much as you can show up in your group post, even if it's something that you're just,
you know, thinking about amusing on posted in the group so that other people can see
it.
It's going to, you know, your breakthrough creates breakthrough for other people.
Also make sure that you're coming to at least one prayer session, even if that's just supernatural
Saturday or Sunday night activation faith Friday, you can make it during the week to
a prayer session.
Great.
Wonderful.
Those times are going to be so amazingly supportive for you.
Supernatural Saturday is a phenomenal time that's recorded that we have all, all community
comes to that.
We have it every week and God really speaks to us on that supernatural Saturday session
and it is in your replays.
So if you can't be there live, make sure that you listen to it.
And then if you're available on Sunday night, you can come activate those ideas with us.
We would love to see you there on Sunday night activations.
Okay.
So distractions, galore friends, it's going to happen.
You're going to have to make sure that you have decided that this is important and that
you're going to prioritize it so that you can get everything out of it that you want
to get out of it.
And I told you, I thought I'd tell you a fun story about, um, about a testimony that I
got this morning.
So I got a testimony about this blue bracelet.
Does anyone know what the blue bracelet is?
Does anyone follow me on Instagram?
And you heard me talk about this before.
So about a year ago, maybe a little over a year, probably two years ago, actually, God
told me to have these blue bracelets created and they just say last year, single on the
front of them.
It's etched in.
You probably can't see it on the camera.
And then inside they say, Jeremiah 6, 16 guys.
Funny story.
Um, the marketer that worked for me that I had make these bracelets, I told her what
I wanted and I told her to go order them, right?
She's not a believer.
So the first time these bracelets came, the first shipment of like a thousand of these
suckers, right?
They said last year, single on them, but inside, okay, it's kind of like Donald Trump saying
two Corinthians on the inside.
It said Jeremiah 16, six, very different y'all than Jeremiah 6, 16, Jeremiah 16, 16, six.
says, and the Lord will snatch you bald-headed, basically, is what the Scripture says.
And I was like, oh, that's not good, that is not.
Your baldness will be your reproach or something crazy.
Okay, so I had to have them remade, but Jeremiah 6.16 is the banner over this movement when
God told me to start it almost five years ago, and that is, the ancient of days has
ancient ways.
And if you're tired of the chaos and confusion, he will point you to the good path so that
your peace can increase.
And so, apparently, that was lost on my marketer, but we did get the real bracelets.
And you guys, I started handing them out at speaking engagements, and then it was like
the Sisterhood of the Traveling Bracelet.
Because what began to happen is, testimonies began to roll in about love stories that happened
after they put on their blue bracelet, right?
And why?
Because we prayed over these, and we believed that these were significant of people's last
year single, and they're blue, because blue is the color of covenant.
You know how people say something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue?
The reason why blue was used in that old, you know, kind of superstitious little mantra
was because blue was thought to ward off the evil one from your marriage.
But it also is the color of the vow, it's the color of covenant, it's the color of loyalty,
it's the color of peace.
And so, that's why it's blue.
And you guys, you know what else?
It glows in the dark.
And so, it's like a spotlight.
I just added that at the last minute.
I'm like, hey, make them glow in the dark.
I want them to glow in the dark, too.
And so, this morning, this is what I got in my inbox.
I got pictures of an engagement of a girl in the community, just like you.
She joined the program.
And she said, here's the photo exactly a year ago when you gave me the blue bracelet and
prayed over me.
She said, yesterday, a year later, I was proposed to and got engaged.
And then she goes on about how the heart work changed her life and prepared her for this
moment.
And so, that's why phase one is so important because you are going to get in relationships,
but are you going to be able to sustain them?
Are you going to be able to really let someone in?
Are you going to be able to get over the speed bumps that are on every road to true love?
Every road to true love has speed bumps.
Are you going to be able to get over them?
That is what we're doing here, friends, all right?
And so, better out than in.
So, during this time, please post as much as you can.
Don't feel like you're dominating the conversation.
If you're having thoughts, post about them.
Use the Ask a Coach button.
Show up to these lives if you can.
If you can't, put your questions in the roll call so the coaches can answer your questions
and you can listen to the replay.
Take it seriously.
Believe that this is going to happen for you.
And the very last thing that I want to say before I start answering your questions from
phase one, two, three, and four in the curriculum is this.
You're not just here for yourselves.
You are here for members of your family, generations to come, that you will never meet on earth.
You will only meet them in heaven.
The work that you're doing now is going to echo in eternity, friends.
It really is.
All God ever wanted was a family.
That's what this entire life is about.
And so, your spirit mate, that covenant that you make together, the people that are impacted
by that covenant and your lineages and legacies, on to people that you won't ever even get
to see on earth, that is what you're here about.
You are a Kinsman Redeemer.
Amen?
Amen.
All right.
Let's get started.
So, the mic is open.
Anyone who has a question of any kind of week one, two, three, four, or five, we can
jump into some topics.
If some things are coming up and revealing for healing that you want input on.
The only thing that I really don't want to get into with 13 people here is trying to
get into any kind of complicated dream interpretation, okay?
I do interpret dreams, but I need them in writing.
I need to read them.
I need to process with the Holy Spirit and look at it.
And so, we're not going to get into that here, but everything else is open for discussion.
I'm not going to put you in breakouts.
We do usually do that during these sessions, but there's just not enough of you.
There's only 13 of you.
So, we'll just have one big breakout here together, okay?
All right.
So, let's go ahead and jump in.
Who has a question they want to ask?
I do, Jackie.
So I have, you know, I've done the counseling, I've done a lot of work, and now here I am.
And by doing this, I feel like it's been just week one brought up like so much stuff I needed,
like the second week to just sort of try to process all of it. But it just feels like more
stuff is coming up in in part of me thinks, am I imagining this? Like, how do I there's so much
stuff? I feel like that. I've been through that. I don't know. It's just a lot. And do I trust the
process that it's all coming up? It's because God wants it to come up and for me to feel and and
heal. Yes, absolutely. And you guys, I know that if you're having if you're having an experience
like Sophie, sometimes it can just feel like you're a mess. You can feel really messy. And I
just want to encourage you that that's not going to last. That's not your new normal. Messy is not
your new normal. But we repress things, especially in a busy culture that we live in, we don't have
time to process that stuff when it happens. And so either gloss over it, or we get a partial
healing in it, we feel okay, you know, I'm doing okay, I'm moving forward. And we don't ever really
take the time to allow God to give us truth about that stuff or get deep into that wound to where
it's not going to sabotage future success, right. And so that's why this is a set aside time for you
guys, go ahead and be messy. Don't be afraid to be messy. Don't even hide in this group. Don't say,
okay, I'm way too messy. No one else seems to be as messy as me. So I'm not going to share.
No, be messy. The messy you are, the greater success that you're going to have in the rest
of this program. I promise you that. So Sophie, I'm so glad you're messy. And I'm glad that there's
a lot of stuff coming up. And you're a lot of people like, man, I went to therapy, I went to
counseling. Why is this still coming up? I dealt with this back then, because there's elements of
it that didn't get dealt with because the tools weren't available yet. Or your level of healing
wasn't ready for that yet. And so that's why God does things the way he does them,
because he knows what we're ready for. Okay, thank you.
So make sure you're in week one, right? Yes.
Okay. So just so you know, in week two and three and four, you're going to continue to receive more
tools to unpack those boxes and get resolution on the stuff that's coming up.
Okay. So just go ahead and write it down in your journal and understand that you're going to,
as you go forward, get more and more support and tools to deal with the stuff that you're
feeling right now. Okay. I eliminated like all the apps, the dating apps, and I'm freeing myself up
just to have space into here. My life coach thinks that I should date so that it brings up the
anxiety that comes when dating. Yes, you're going to do that in phase two.
Okay. So after you get out of the heart work, we do want, we push y'all out there. We give you a
dating challenge because exactly what your life coach is saying is true. There is some healing
that can only happen. There are some things that will only surface when you're faced with
a possibility of a romantic relationship. But right now we're dealing with you, right? We're
dealing with the stuff that doesn't have to do with that. It has to do with origin family. It
has to do with your relationship with God, yourself, things that you really shouldn't be
unpacking in relationship. Okay. Great. And you guys, that reminds me, Sophie, thank you for
bringing that up. You are all on a dating sabbatical. Okay. I just want to tell you that
I've helped hundreds and hundreds and hundreds and hundreds and hundreds and hundreds and hundreds of
people get married now. And the ones that did not respect the dating sabbatical rule of phase one,
they always end up coming back to phase one. Yeah. They might meet someone in phase one
because the enemy is a counterfeiter and you can end up running off a hundred miles an hour down a
dead end road thinking, woohoo, like a bird with a French fry. But then you always end up right
back here. So you guys just start here. An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure. Just,
it's only five weeks. You're not going to miss out on your spirit mate. And if you're really scared
that you're going to, if you don't stay on the apps, then that's called anxious attachment.
And we need to unpack that. And you guys, we really dig into anxious attachment and boundaries
and divine feminine types of topics, all of that in phase two. Okay. So, all right. Who else has
a question? Let's jump in. Thank you, Sophie. I have a question. Okay, go ahead. Can you hear me?
Yeah, we can hear you. I just wanted to make sure y'all could hear me.
Okay. So you've talked about a little bit. So I'm in week three.
me. But I haven't really started looking at this stuff in week
three. But my question is, how is this different? This time the
healing part because like she Sophie just said, I've done so
so I went I've got I have a counselor I've gone to for
years and we've done like breaking soul ties we've done
breaking bitter judgments and inner vows and so my and so I'm
like how is this time different? Now I know that there's things I
need healing in. But my question is why hasn't it happened before
now? And how is this time different? Because
Kimberly, I think you might have froze. Okay, even I have
you're breaking up, you're breaking up a little bit. I
don't know if that makes sense. But my question is, how is this
different?
We got you. We got you. We got your question. You're you're
breaking up a little bit there with your
you guys. And if you if you've read the materials, it actually
it actually says that question just right out, doesn't it? It
says, why is this time different? That's in that's in
the first that's in the first phase of heartwork. That's in
the first week of heartwork. How is this time different? And it
talks about how it's about supernatural surrender. You
guys, we can we can approach a lot of stuff at an intellectual
level. We have a lot of we have a lot of information. We live in
an information age. All of you guys could be a amateur
psychologist with all the stuff that's out there. You could be
an amateur. You could when I say amateur, I just mean, you know,
if you don't have the certificate or the degree, you
can't really be a paid one, but you can be an amateur one,
right? Not a professional one. Guys, there's so much stuff out
there, but we receive it at a intellectual level. We
understand it, it makes sense to us, but somehow it doesn't get
activated in our lives. And so my my answer to Kimberly and to
anyone who would say, you know, why hasn't it happened yet?
I've had all this stuff. I would think that I would be better now
or I'd be fixed now. Well, that information hasn't made that 18
inch journey down into the heart place, the soul place, right?
There are things in this place of you that are still causing
the behaviors, right? Because behavior follows identity. And
when we have broken identity, that's based on bad information
and lies, we're still going to continue to act out of that
identity. You can't change the behavior, you have to change the
identity. And so that is what the hard work really focuses on.
It focuses on bringing you back into alignment with the identity
that God created you for. Like, for instance, let me give you
this example. Jeremiah, the prophet, everyone know who that
dude was? Raise your hand if you've heard of him before. Okay,
great prophet, right? One of the greats, one of the majors. Okay,
so a major in the major and minor category, major prophet.
Okay, but we find him talking to God and saying, I can't be a
prophet. Don't we see him saying that to God? Like, I can't. And
he's giving reasons why. Guys, that's a counterfeit identity. We
don't know anything about Jeremiah's life. The Bible
doesn't tell us about his life. It doesn't tell us why he would
be insecure in his identity. It doesn't tell us why he would not
feel confident about stepping into the callings of God on his
life. But then God says something very interesting that I think is
really important for all of us to see. It's God says this back
to him. He says, I knew you even before I formed you in your
mother's womb. And when I knew you before you were even formed
in your mother's womb, I ordained you to be a prophet to
the nations. Whoa. There's a real you in there. Underneath all
these layers, friends, there's a real you that God knew before
you were even formed in your mother's womb. And our job is to
help you step into that. That's what we're doing here. So if you
wonder what's different, that's what's different. We know that
there's counterfeits, and there's real. And most of us
have been living out of a lot of counterfeit identities, because
trauma doesn't just hurt us. Come on, say with me, it creates
different versions of us. Trauma doesn't just hurt us. Every time
you have a trauma y'all you splinter. You're like Jackie,
you're telling me that we have multiple personalities, sort of
not in a clinician type of way, not in the weird, scary horror
movie type of way. But yes, I am saying that you are such a
beautiful, complex computer, your brain, your mind, that you
will actually make adjustments in order to not have that pain
happen to you again.
Whether you know it or not.
And the problem is, is that those counterfeits cannot inherit the promises of God on your
life.
Those counterfeits can't step into the callings of God on your life.
That's why God had to say to Jeremiah, um, I know the real you and what you're saying
right now is not true.
Does that minister to anybody?
Okay.
So Kimberly, that's how it's different.
So babe, if you're at week three, which is your confession week, and you don't really
feel like you're having any revealing for healing, go back to week one.
Okay.
With the faith and belief that God has called you here to pull back the layers of counterfeit
so that you can live the life that he has already pre-purposed for you guys.
You know, Romans eight 28, we all love to quote that scripture, right?
And all things work to the good of those that love God are called according to his
purpose.
But y'all, we need to, we need to continue with Romans eight 29.
In fact, let me just grab it real quick.
Hang on sisters.
Holy Spirit's taking us somewhere.
I know probably people probably think my passion is to help people get married and
I love, I love, love, love being a matchmaker and I love restoring marriage and family and
being a revivalist, but really honestly, my biggest passion is breaking people free from
counterfeit and from religion because you can't just read the Bible.
You got to read the Bible.
Okay.
You got to know what God is saying and what he wants to do in your life.
I want people to live at the highest level that they can live.
Okay.
So we quote Romans eight 28 because we love it and it sounds so good and it's such a promise.
Oh, God's going to turn this mess in the ministry.
God's going to turn this test and do a testimony.
God's not done yet.
Right.
You guys that know that there's no Hebrew word for tragedy.
There's no Hebrew word for the word tragedy because the Jews believed that if it was bad,
God wasn't done yet.
Come on.
Let's give some snaps on that.
Jesus.
All right.
Romans eight 28.
Let's do it.
Um, this is the new American standard Bible Romans eight 28 and we know that God causes
all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according
to his purpose.
But then 29 goes on to say this for those whom he foreknew, he knew you, not this version
of you, the real you, he knew you for those whom he foreknew, he also predestined to become
conformed to the image of his son so that he would be the firstborn among many brethren.
And these whom he predestined, he also called and these who he called, he also justified
and these who he justified, he also glorified y'all.
That's you.
And the reason why all things work to your good is because he foreknew you, okay?
He called you, he chose you, he justified you and he glorified you in Christ.
Now it's our job to catch up and step into all that because it's already done.
God does not live inside of time.
You guys realize that heaven is not a place, it is a dimension and that dimension is all
around us outside of the dimension that you can see, taste, touch, feel, smell.
Some of y'all can, you guys can, you guys can get into the other dimension.
Raise your hand if you're a seer.
Raise your hand if you feel that other dimension all the time, even if you can't see it, sometimes
you feel it.
Raise your hand if you feel it.
Sometimes you're like, oh, there's angels around, there's stuff going on.
Why?
Because they're just in another dimension, y'all.
They're not far away.
I want, I think it's important that you understand that they're in the same, they're in the same
space as us in another dimension.
God doesn't live in heaven, y'all.
Heaven lives in God.
This is important stuff.
It's important because Kimberly asked the big question, how is this different?
This is how it's different.
Okay.
It's a mindset shift.
And if you shift your mindset, you're going to understand that God has been for you the
whole time.
He's always been for you.
God is for you.
And life is for you.
He doesn't want you to live this way even any more than you want to live this way.
He doesn't.
Okay.
So we have to make these mindset shifts so that we can step into what God already foreknew
about us.
Remember, Jeremiah 29 tells us that his plans are to give us a hope in a good future.
Okay.
And if you read it in another translation.
and it actually says to give you the future
that you're hoping for.
Coolness?
All right, so outside of time in this other dimension,
it's already done.
That's why Jesus said,
you know what Jesus did when he died on the cross, right?
He connected us in this forgotten, forsaken,
cursed dimension to the other dimension.
We got reconnected.
The bridge was reestablished.
Well, he did exactly that.
Do you guys ever wonder in the Old Testament
while only the chosen few people heard from God,
the prophets and the special people?
Because that bridge was not operational,
but it is now.
That veil was torn in half.
We can go into the holiest of holies.
We can get into the presence of the otherworldliness.
God wants to invade earth with heaven through you.
All right, that's it.
That's my preach for today, and we're gonna move on.
What's our next question?
Nicole.
It's probably a follow-on to the question
that was just asked, but it's just kind of confirmation.
I started this program in June, and the hard work,
but somehow I'd missed the whole sequence of it,
and I think I wasn't paying close attention
to the whole thing.
So what happened, two days after I started, I met this guy,
and I thought, oh, wow, this is the guy.
And it was like, when you're going down God's path,
something is thrown in front of you, and it just felt like,
but I was just triggered when you were talking
about saying you're a mess,
or you feel like a mess is gonna get messy,
but this guy was so close to what I was looking for
that I was doing it in parallel with this,
and I was like, look how fast God's working,
and I did not hear about the dating moratorium.
I didn't hear it.
And then finally, I was also on week five,
and then finally I said,
so how's your dating moratorium going?
I'm like, what?
And it wasn't real for me.
So I guess what happened is this guy,
God was very patient with me.
He allowed me to go into this, but you know what?
He said to me, and my spirit, my heart was,
you know, he feels real, but Nicole, he's a false flag.
He looks real.
He sounds real.
It seems real, but he's not the one.
And I kept saying, oh, this can't be, this can't be.
And he took me down many weeks,
and though I was doing the work,
I didn't realize what was happening.
And then finally I heard about this dating moratorium,
and I started hearing this guy use words
that were making me feel like it wasn't real.
So I just wanna affirm what you have said,
and that was my experience, why I'm coming back to.
I wasn't asked to come back to, but now I'm learning.
You really do need to pay attention to all these parts
and really pay attention to the readings,
to the videos and all this, and then we'll come together.
But you can be assured if you're going down God's path
that the enemy's gonna throw some false flags in your way
where it seems like it's the perfect thing, and it's not.
So I just wanna encourage you,
and I affirm what Jackie is saying
is it's been in my life like this.
So I'm back to the basics again
as I'm doing phase two as well,
but I'm a little scared about that dating thing.
I'm gonna just say that seems like a really aggressive.
So I'm kind of taking myself back to say,
okay, I need to redo this.
I love it, I love it.
Thanks so much for telling us that, you guys.
And it's happened to so many people before.
She didn't hear about the dating sabbatical,
but even if she would have, she met this.
And this is why we, part of the reason,
so Nicole, I'm glad you brought this up.
Part of the reason why there's a dating sabbatical
is not only to keep you guys focused,
but because you're in such a prophetic supernatural time
during phase one especially, that if anyone shows up,
you might read the signs wrong, right?
You might think just what Nicole said.
Wow, God, you are quick.
I just opened the book and here he is, woo-hoo, right?
And so you might put the wrong emphasis, right?
What is that old saying?
The wrong emphasis on the wrong syllable.
You don't wanna put the wrong emphasis
on the wrong syllable.
All right, what's the next?
Thank you, Nicole, that's wonderful.
So glad that you've circled back around
and that you're getting breakthrough.
You guys don't worry about when it's time to go to phase two,
when it's time to date.
Yes, there's gonna be things that come up
just like Sophie told us at the beginning,
her life coach said, yes, it is gonna trigger more stuff,
but it's gonna be different.
It's gonna hit differently, okay?
You're gonna know what to do with that stuff
and you're also gonna have this beautiful community
around you of God-defendedness,
and so it's gonna be great.
All right, all of you guys know what God-defendedness is.
This is right.
God defense.
Have you heard that video yet?
Being God defended is the game changer, friends.
You don't got to be sleeping with one eye open.
God will show you what you need to see when you need to see it about other people.
And as long as you're not stubborn and you're not like, no God,
I don't want to look at it.
I refuse.
I want to go on and do it my own way.
As long as you don't do that, you're going to be fine.
All right, Mary, you're up.
Hi, I'm joining you from Scotland, so it's kind of evening here.
Oh, wow.
So, um, I actually joined your program just for a few days in summer and I
bought your book and, um, so I've been on a dating sabbatical for a little
while, but I still feel quite stuck and I'm kind of, it's partially been
answered, but I just wonder, should I expect more healing from these live
sessions because we're all interconnecting, um, I've had some
healing and I've, and it's been amazing.
So I just want to say thank you for writing, writing the book.
It's been amazing how God has actually changed the way I pray about a
particular partner that I've no longer praying for a soulmate.
I've been praying for a spirit mate, somebody who meets the same purpose,
but I still feel that there's areas of being stuck and I know it's relating
to like childhood and things, so I'm just wondering, do I expect to have
more, am I expecting to be sort of crying and, or, you know, just more
healing on, on that?
That's good.
That's a good question.
Thank you for that.
What week are you on right now?
This is my first week.
Oh, yes.
Okay.
Well, yes, you can expect more revealings for healings.
Okay.
You can expect that for sure.
Um, but you guys, it doesn't necessarily have to come in the form of, you know,
being like a blubbery mess.
Okay.
Of crying and snotting up the carpet is what I say.
You don't, you don't have to expect necessarily that.
Um, it could, it could come in any, any form or fashion.
Um, you know, it could come in just a knowing that I have to deal with this,
you know, that this is being highlighted.
You might start having dreams about a certain event that took place in your
life and, you know, God's highlighting that and telling you that there's
still trauma locked in that.
So you start to, when anything comes up, you want to invite Holy spirit.
And that's what that first week permission slip is all about.
Um, you want to invite God to show you, you know, what it's all about.
You know?
Yeah.
Okay.
I remember what happened in this situation, but God's saying, you remember
what happened in this situation, but you don't really know what
happened in this situation.
Invite me in to show you the greater truth.
Invite me in to show you the lies that you believed because of this situation.
Does everyone have access to the revealing for healing cycle?
I think you get that in week two or maybe week one.
I don't know how they have it set up right now.
You guys, you're getting me as a coach today, but you guys know I
don't ever coach in phase one anymore.
So I woke up today and I told your coach, Bethany, I was like, Hey,
I'd like to do the first session.
Is that okay?
And she's like, sure.
And so for whatever reason, we're here together.
So let's just believe that God has something great.
Um, so, um, but Mary, yes, you can expect to have more, you know, feel the
feels to heal the feels moments.
Okay.
And I want to also encourage you.
Um, one of my love stories that's on the back of my married in 12 months or less
book, there's pictures of success stories on the back.
In fact, I think I have one right here.
No, that's not my book.
It looked like it, but it's not.
Um,
maybe I have one.
Let me look real quick.
Hold up.
I might have them.
Okay.
I do.
I have one.
All right.
This, this, this book is a whole different book than what y'all are doing right now.
Um, this, where is she at this success story right here?
Guys, I'll see them.
Yeah.
So you remind me of her.
Um, she was, she's, she's in the UK, she's in England and she was one of my first
international students and she came to me during lockdown.
And so England was really locked down.
Europe was really, really locked down.
And so she wasn't seeing anybody else.
Like everyone was quarantined.
And so she was, the only thing that she could do is like walk, take these big,
long walks out in the countryside where she lived.
And she ended up meeting someone who introduced her to her spirit mate.
She got, she got married you guys during lockdown season.
Like she, like, you know, she met her person and got married during a time when
everyone was very disconnected.
So I just want to encourage you guys that, um, God has really fun plans and
they're not dependent on anything that you think they're dependent on.
So Mary to stay the course.
Yes.
There's going to be healing.
We're glad.
I had to have you all the way from Scotland.
Thank you.
Mary of Scots.
That's me and that's my surname as well.
I love it.
Royalty.
See, you got the whole royalty thing down already.
Here we go.
All right.
Love that.
Thank you.
Maureen.
And someone, actually I think iPhone might've been next,
but I don't know what your name is.
It just says iPhone.
Gabrielle.
Okay, you go next and then Maureen.
Gabrielle.
Oh yeah, I kind of had a, hi Jackie.
I had a problem with the whole Zoom thing
and it's doing some weird things,
but can you hear me okay?
I can.
Okay, good.
So I am starting week three and like,
I think it was Nicole.
And I'm hearing other people say I've done a lot of stuff,
you know, cause some people,
maybe they haven't done work on themselves,
but, and I think the thing when somebody said,
what's different is for me, you know,
I've gone to counseling or done healing things or whatever.
And I obviously I'm in a church and stuff,
but the thing that is the biggest thing
that I think you're doing is making it okay.
That what all we want is a family
and to be a part of something.
And I just feel like if you're older
and you've been married and divorced,
there's just so much negativity about,
well, why do you want to meet somebody again?
Or I'm fine by myself.
I mean, even my mom is like,
you just learn to be happy by yourself, you know?
And it's like, this is what's in my heart.
And if I can't share it with you,
then I'm not even going to open my mouth and tell you
if you're just going to slam me back down
because I want to be with a healthy man,
not just any man, a healthy Christian man.
And it's like, I feel like this,
what you're doing just gives me permission to go,
I can ask for this without feeling stupid.
I feel like people, you know,
and I have certain guy friends,
oh, you know, like married, like who wants to be,
you know, all of that, there's a lot of negativity.
There really is.
Oh no, there is.
And I appreciate you saying that.
And yes, you guys, you have permission to want this.
Yes.
You have permission to want this,
but I'm going to go even one step further.
I'm going to go one step further
than you have permission to want it.
Yeah.
It is your divine design.
It is.
And when you said that, I'm like-
It's the reason why you want it.
Yeah.
You're connected to real identity, authentic identity.
This is how God made us.
And you put that in the book.
And I was like, every time I get like, oh, well, you know,
you should just be happy.
And you know, you have a good job and you live by the beach.
I'm like, no, this is how God made me.
And God knows what's in my heart.
And I'm not going to give up.
Another person said, what's different now?
You know what?
It doesn't really matter what's different now.
All that matters is God is here right now
and that we have support
and we have to believe that it is different, period.
You guys, the only two times in the Bible
where any leader kind of gave people permission
not to partner, first of all,
you remember we're dealing with curse.
We're dealing with the curse, right?
It's important that you guys remember this.
The only two times that happened
were for the hardness of your heart, okay?
That's when uncoupling or unpartnering,
Moses gave permission for the hardness of our heart.
And that is to keep people out of abuse.
Okay, people are being abused.
God gave divorce to help people to get out of abuse
and not just infidelity, y'all.
That's not correct teaching.
And if you haven't watched my divorce
and remarriage session yet,
you're going to really get your mind blown there.
Okay, and then the second time, you guys,
is as the result of persecution.
People don't realize that Paul's famous speech
in Corinthians about, you know,
he wishes that everyone could stay single like him.
He's saying that because he realizes
that they are going to be persecuted
and possibly murdered for their newfound faith.
It's very, it's a lot easier to be single
and not have kids and a spouse at home
if you're going to be arrested and imprisoned
and, you know, beaten and possibly killed, okay?
There's a lot going on in those scriptures
that people do not take into context
as far as the historical context of those scriptures.
Exactly.
The book of Genesis shows you God's intentions
in his creation, and that is that we would be a family,
that we'd be male and female, and that we would partner,
and that we are better together and not good alone.
And the word good there means perfect
or complete or finished.
And women, especially, you guys,
our whole purpose in existing is to partner.
Absolutely.
Okay?
So take that and hold on to it,
put it in front of the Lord and say, hey.
God, this is your idea.
Yeah.
And then also go on and go forward to say,
because there will be people that stay single
during this reality that we're living in,
during the earth reality.
And the reason always will be, without exception,
the hurt and the pain in the world, okay?
And people not being able to overcome that
in order to trust and partner, okay?
And so let's make sure that we understand that
and we are part of the revival that's happening
and helping other people to engage with that too.
So thank you so much, Gabriella.
We appreciate you being here.
Thank you for reminding us that this is our divine design
and that is part of the supernatural.
Absolutely.
You have the right to ask for what you want.
You have the right.
Just love, you know?
Yeah, praise God.
All right.
Okay, I think Maureen's next and then Jeannie.
Okay.
Hi Jackie, it's nice to meet you.
Nice to meet you.
My friend Pam Kelly introduced me to the program
and she's over here in the Panhandle of Florida.
I went back to session one.
I was starting in phase one
and I'm just trusting the Lord to kind of lead me in this.
I signed up because I had a broken relationship
that fell apart
and I'm really having a hard time getting over it
and I'm trying to feel the field and work through the pain.
And I'm just struggling with believing someone was the one
and his dad's name who passed away
was the same name as my two twins I lost.
So I think that was like a God moment for me
in that relationship.
Like, wow, like what are the chances?
Okay, so let's stop right there for a second.
Okay, you guys, everyone listen.
Yes, please.
So right from the beginning of this relationship,
she was putting prophetic emphasis on things, okay?
And I'm not saying that's wrong,
but I am saying that that can create a soul tie right away.
Because we start seeing things through the perspective of,
hey, God sent me this person.
Look, the signs are all aligning.
How long was the relationship
and how long has it been over?
Three months and it's been over one month.
He's the first guy I prayed with, went to church with
and my twins were Benjamin and Franklin
and his dad was Benjamin Franklin.
Three months and it's been over for one month
and he ended it, I'm assuming.
Yeah.
Okay, and what reason did he give you?
I thought I wanted someone in my life,
but now I'm thinking I wanna be just alone
and my kids and my granddaughters and us.
Okay, said no man ever.
So he's-
What'd you say?
I said, said no man ever.
So you know that there's more to the story than that, right?
That's just him trying to nobly,
without looking like a butthole,
leave the relationship, okay.
Yeah, I mean, his mom abandoned him.
He's got his wife left and rejection issues too.
So he was rejecting me
because I brought up a situation that was,
I wanted to talk more on the phone every now and then
and he thought he wasn't meeting my needs
and he ended it, so.
Oh, okay.
So, all right, so asking,
so we call that, you guys, in phase two,
this is gonna go into a little bit of phase two coaching,
but we call those bids for attention, right?
So if we put out a bid for connection,
a bid for attention to a potential partner
or even in marriage to a partner and they reject it,
even if they reject it with something like that,
like, oh, I'm not good enough for you
because I'm not providing enough,
instead of providing what we're asking for,
they come back with, you know, if you want that,
then, you know, I must not be enough
because I don't wanna give you that.
You guys, that is a, you know, yellow flag,
possibly red flag,
depending on the other things that come around it.
So when you were asking for something very normal,
how often were you seeing this guy
if you were just asking to talk on the phone more?
How often did you see him in person?
We saw him every weekend,
but he was just texting me every day
and we rarely talked on the phone,
but we would meet and go to church
and we would have a date and I met his kids.
His kids are adults, 20s.
So I went to church with his kids and him and, you know.
So you saw him just on Sundays, every weekend, one day?
No, no, no, no, no.
Sometimes a Saturday night date, Friday night date.
Okay, so every weekend?
Yeah.
Why only on the weekend?
I don't know.
Well, he works a lot.
His, you know, he's up at 5 a.m.
and works till 6 or 7 p.m.
and apparently-
Okay, so basically what he was saying is,
hey, you know, I like hanging out with you on the weekend
because if you only dated for three months,
you only saw him on the weekend,
that means you only spent, you know,
10 to 12 weekends with him.
Okay.
So he liked it on the weekend.
He liked, you know, compartmentalizing the relationship
to that, to hanging out, going to church, whatever,
but he didn't really want-
a talk during the week.
Yeah, he wanted to be in his routine, do his thing,
kind of want to have his cake and eat it too kind of thing.
Yeah, well, the first two weeks it was,
I just want to see you even if it's for five minutes,
every day he wanted to see me the first two weeks
and then it died off real quick.
I felt like I got love bombed.
I don't know what that is, but.
You guys, there are a lot of people out there,
and we'll talk about this more in phase two, okay,
which is the Love Story Accelerator.
There are a lot of people that their trauma
has caused them to have attachment issues.
And so we'll dig into attachment issues.
You'll actually take an attachment quiz yourself
to kind of come up with your own attachment stuff.
But what you're describing is what we call disorders
or anxious avoidant attachment.
So they come in kind of hot, they come in hot,
but then they pull away quick, right?
They think they want it, they're super excited about it,
but then something about it causes them to retreat
and say, yeah, this isn't the one.
But instead of telling you that you're not the one,
he said, I want to be alone.
I guarantee you that that's not the truth.
The truth is, is that there was something
about the relationship that with his level of healing,
which is not a lot, he decided was not,
you weren't the right one for him.
Okay, so Maureen, you're moving on
and you're in the heart work.
And so I really want to encourage you
to visit that soul tie session, okay?
If you're not-
What section is that in?
Does anyone know where it is?
I think, is it in week three?
Maybe week three, I think.
I did go through it, but I'll go through it again.
I'm going through everything again, so.
Okay, it's a bonus session in there.
Go through that, make sure that you're allowing God
to help you make room for someone new
because you were really excited about this relationship
and you still are, okay?
To a certain degree.
Now, I also want you to make a plan
of what you're going to do during your heart work phase
if, you know, Mr. Weekend shows back up.
Because chances are, he will.
Yeah.
What are you going to do?
I want you to start to think,
you don't have to answer me right now.
Okay.
I want you to start to think about that
and pray about that, you know?
Should I give him another chance?
What's the criteria in which he would have another chance?
What would need to change in order for us to start again?
And, you know.
I think I already have the answer for that.
I don't want anything but a friendship right now.
And I'm working on this program.
If you want to be my friend,
but we'd have to have some sort of friendship boundary.
I don't know what that would look like, but.
It's really hard to go back to a friendship
with someone you've been romantically connected to,
just so you know.
It's actually pretty, it's pretty impossible.
But unless you're like divorced and raising kids together,
then sometimes people can be friends at some level.
Okay.
But I would say that you're going to be out
of the heart work pretty quickly.
So even after you're out of the heart work,
in phase two, say he wants to pick up
where we got you guys left off.
I want you to really pray about
what would need to be the criteria
of giving that another chance, okay?
Because worst, best case scenario,
this guy got afraid of his own shadow
and he just cut and run
because he doesn't have the level of healing that he needs
in order to sustain relationship.
Worst case scenario is, you know,
he is talking to somebody else.
Yeah.
He, I know the trauma was a big issue.
God showed me the trauma in his life big time.
So lots of, lots of abandonment issues, so.
Right.
But keep that counselor hat off
because you aren't his coach.
Amen, amen.
All right.
It's his, between him and God, not me.
Amen.
And you guys also, I just want to let you know,
if you're an empath, raise your hand if you are one.
Me?
If you're an empath, then you usually are the,
the person that, you know, with,
if you're not healthy,
you're going to get trauma bonded, okay?
Empaths are the people that end up with abusers and addicts
more than any other type.
And the reason why is because you see the good in people.
You see who they could be.
And that's a gift,
but please do not let that gift get overextended
and become a weakness in your dating life.
Yeah.
I need a secure man.
I need a secure attachment.
You do.
You need, yeah.
And so if, if Mr. Weekend comes back around,
send him to our program to do the guy's work.
Okay.
Perfect, okay.
Send him to do the hard work for the guys.
Jeannie, go for it.
Yeah.
By the way, this has been really great.
I just feel like I've learned a ton.
Every time I open the book or hear a video,
thank you so much,
because I've just learned a lot
and hopefully seeing a lot of changes.
But I do,
I did realize that kind of running into one block
and I'm only on week three,
so I'm sure you probably talk about it,
but I know when we saw you in person,
you said something about,
are you willing to relocate?
okay. And I think I'm in a church that there's a lot of coming and going, people come in,
people leave, they train and leave, train and leave. And so I guess I'm really happy where I
am. I like living on the West Coast because my kids are scattered on the West Coast, my adult
kids, things like that. And I realized the whole idea of relocation, it's a block, I can tell,
I can feel it. And I'm like, I guess, yeah, just kind of your thoughts on that. I don't know,
just your thoughts on what to do to get out of that block, I guess, because I know God has the
best plan. And if he wants me to relocate with someone, it'll be the best. I just feel that
block. And I just wondered what you thought about. So you guys just continue, this is my advice for
that. You guys, in life, just continue to revisit that permission slip, okay? It is just a model of
any kind of surrender prayer that you would have in your life to God. You know, mine is just teach
me, show me, heal me, grow me. You know, God knows that I'm all in. He knows that he's the most
important thing to me and I'm going to follow after him. But I will tell you that I believe
that God in the seasons of my life, because life is seasonal, I believe in the seasons of my life,
God leads me by desire. The word of God says that when I have intimacy with him, which I do,
I am an intimate lover of God, that the desires of my heart are consummated or impregnated from
the intimacy that I have with God. And so I can trust my heart. And that's what all of you guys
are here to do. You're here to do the heart work so that going forward, there isn't anything in
your heart out of fear, out of, you know, some sort of, you know, trauma-based identity. It's
just, you would do it if you felt like doing it, but you don't feel like doing it. And it's not
because you're holding out. It's not because you're rebellious or disobedient. It's because
it's not a desire because it doesn't need to be a desire. Does that make sense?
Yeah. Yeah. And that's good about having the healed heart.
Yeah. So just work on your heart work right now and don't worry about whether or not you
would relocate. I believe with all my heart that if somewhere down the line, your spirit mate,
your love story required you to relocate, that you in that moment, not this moment,
would be willing to do that. Gotcha. Yeah. Thank you. Yeah.
Does that sound good y'all? That sounds right. Thank you. Yeah.
Let's not, let's not try to, and this is why you guys, and I, once again,
I'm borrowing a little bit from phase two, but this is why I hate it when people interview
people that they're just meeting that you have no connection with yet. You're just meeting this
person on a date and you're asking them questions about the future. Would they be willing to do this
or that? Do they want children? How many, you know, would they be willing to relocate? You guys,
you can't ask people that outside of the season of which God would be softening their heart to do
that. That's right. Okay. It's just have fun and get to know that person. It's not important for
you to ask all those questions. If things start to get serious, then y'all can dig in a little bit
more on those topics. Cool. That's good. Thank you. You're welcome, Jeannie. Thanks. All right. So,
Amy. Oh no. Did you have your hand up or no? No. Amy's like, no. Okay. Any more questions,
you guys? Amy's like, no, not me. Oh, Kimberly's back. Hi.
So your connection was a little bit bad, but it looks like it's better now. So let's check you
out. What's up? Sorry. I'm trying to remember now what my question was. Oh, so is it okay if I ask
one more question? Sure. Yeah. I'm just, I'm just teasing you. No, it's okay. So I've done week one
and week two. I really haven't gotten to week three yet, but I know the Lord has given me a
two memories and my life has been crazy for the past two weeks. I went out of town and
so I haven't even had a chance to like deal with those memories with healing. But my question is,
I'm a little bit scared that I'll ask him and then I won't get an answer because I feel like
that's happened to me in the past where like I'm in the middle of healing, even like with my
counselor. And, uh, she'll say, okay, we'll ask the Lord a question. And then she'll say,
what is he saying? And I'll be like, I'm not really hearing anything or I'm not sure what
he's saying or whatever. So when I deal with these two memories, I want to make sure that
I do hear the Holy spirit and he is able to give me the healing I need because he's giving me the
answer I need. Does that make sense? It does make sense. You guys, if you have something come
up in these first couple of weeks, you know, like
Sophie said she had a bunch of stuff coming up in week one,
and Kimberly's only in week two
and having a bunch of stuff come up.
Guys, make sure that you write those things down
in your heart work journal.
If you're not feeling anything more
except maybe the memory coming up,
then you can use it,
you can use those memories in week three
to do your confession templates,
in week four to do your forgiveness templates,
to do your revealing for healing cycle.
So it's coming to the surface, right,
from the unconscious to the conscious mind,
and you're remembering it.
So it's okay for you to put it aside
and apply some other things to it
as you go forward in the five weeks
and see if some more stuff is revealed
about those specific memories,
the people that are involved in those memories,
the way that you felt.
You know, one thing that you can definitely do, you guys,
is if a memory comes up,
it's not just about what happened
and who it happened with,
but it's also about, how did I feel?
You know, write down, how did I feel?
Did I feel angry?
Did I feel humiliated?
Did it make me feel afraid?
Has that fear bled over into other areas of my life
where now I'm avoiding certain people and certain things
or certain, you know, certain activities
that maybe I used to enjoy because of this memory,
because of like this trauma?
And so that's what you can do.
You can dig deeper into that, okay, Kimberly?
And as far as, you know, what is God saying about it?
You know, we're not really asking that in week one and two.
The only time we really ask,
what is God saying about something
is in the forgiveness template week four.
We ask when you're forgiving people
and you're forgiving them of specific situations,
then you sit with that forgiveness
and ask God to show you the truth.
So this isn't like Sozo where we're always asking God to,
like, you know, what is God saying?
You know?
And so a lot of people struggle with what is God saying.
And so if that, if you're one of those people
I just want to let you know that
sometimes it doesn't come as words.
Sometimes it just comes as peace.
Just comes as a feeling.
Just comes as, you know, a verse that you see in scripture
that, you know, just really makes you feel
like you can move forward.
And, you know, sometimes you hear little snippets
in a sermon in your spiritual community
or something on Supernatural Saturday
or something on a poster.
You know, God speaks to us through lots of ways,
besides just sitting there and, you know,
kind of white knuckling it
to see if we can hear something.
Okay?
But then with those memories,
do I not do the revealing for healing whole steps?
Or do I just-
No, yeah, you can.
But if you get to that last portion of, you know, like,
you know, is there some kind of resolution?
Is there some sort of truth in this?
And you don't really feel anything right now,
it's okay to table that and take those to the other areas.
Okay.
You know, maybe that's all that you need for that.
Maybe it's just a, it's just,
that's just coming up so you can release it.
You know?
You guys, we do have,
we do have a bonus session of really honing our skills
of hearing from God.
Like, you know, in all the different ways
that God talks to us, the different receptors.
I don't know if you guys know who Dana McCullum is
and Bethany Hicks, but they are dear friends of mine
and they run something called The Prophetic Company.
And so Bethany came, Bethany Hicks, not your Bethany.
She came in and she really taught people, you know,
some very basic ways of how God is always talking to us.
And I think that was really helpful.
And so you guys will be able to get ahold of that curriculum
as you go forward, okay?
Thank you, Kimberly, for that question.
I feel like so many people, they have that question too.
They just, they just, you know,
and you guys, here's the deeper thing.
Kimberly, I want you to dig into
when was the first time that you ever felt unheard in life?
Because you guys, when we have a fear about asking,
because we're afraid that no one's gonna answer,
no one's gonna respond, specifically God,
like, you know, he's supposed to be this benevolent,
loving father and everyone else acts
like he's so good to them.
But what happens if I ask him for something
and he doesn't give it?
Or what happens if I ask him a question
and I don't hear an answer?
You know, is he not talking to me?
Does he not love me?
I think the greater thing we can dig into is, you know,
that fear of God not answering
or that fear of us not understanding how he's answering.
So Kimberly, you can really dig into,
did you feel unseen as a child?
Did you feel unheard, you know, in your life anywhere?
Did you feel that way?
Did you feel like you just didn't matter?
And when you needed something and you needed clarity
or you needed.
information or wisdom. There wasn't anyone there to give it to you and to help you. Those are even
bigger topics that could be behind the fear that you have of that exercise. Do you hear what I'm
saying? Thumbs up. Are you going to tell me if you have ever felt like that?
Sorry, I didn't know if I was supposed to keep talking. Well, I'm trying to think back in my
life. I probably did because I'm the youngest in my family. There were probably times I didn't
feel heard, but I guess I would have to ask the Lord if there was a specific time and see if
I get anything. Not just in your family, but it could be in your job, in your career,
it could be with friends, it could be with Him. You can see other people having these vibrant
relationships with God where it feels like He's talking to them all the time and maybe feel left
out of that because you don't always know what God's saying and things can be really confusing.
There's lots of different topics that you can dig into there and see if there's anything.
Okay. Awesome. I will say I do feel like I have felt like that, but I know it's not true now,
but maybe it's a lie I need to have broken or something, but throughout the years,
when I was younger in my faith, I felt like that the super spiritual prophets or the super
spiritual people were the ones that heard from God and that the regular people
didn't necessarily have those supernatural things happen. I don't believe that now,
but I think when I was younger, I did, so maybe there's something to that.
No, yeah, and that's what I was addressing. I think a lot of people do somewhere along the
line do believe that and it isn't true. God is always talking and He's always talking to
all of us and just learning the ways that He communicates to us individually because He's
an individual God are really important. Hopefully, you'll all be taught more about that as you go
forward because we really do dig into those kinds of subjects in phase two and phase three as we go
forward. Okay. All right. Well, if there's no other questions, I want to go ahead and let you
all go for the day. We're right about 75 minutes, which is where we like to try to keep these
coaching sessions. Does anyone else have anything burning on their heart they want to ask before we
go? All right. Happy heartworking this week, ladies. Supernatural Saturday. I gave you a
little taste of it today with that Romans 8 28. So I hope to see you guys there for some more
goodness on that subject because God wants us to go forward as He foreknew us and we'll talk about
that on Supernatural Saturday. So if you can't be there, watch the replay and I'll see you soon.
Bye, everyone. Blessings.