WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:05.320 All right, sorry about that you guys, David was trying to leave the meeting and he ended 2 00:00:05.320 --> 00:00:06.320 the meeting accidentally. 3 00:00:06.320 --> 00:00:12.000 So once again, not perfect, make mistakes, and if a woman's not willing to allow you 4 00:00:12.000 --> 00:00:16.840 to make mistakes, then she's not ready to partner, okay? 5 00:00:16.840 --> 00:00:24.200 And if she calls mistakes or flaws in you toxic or abusive, then once again, not ready 6 00:00:24.200 --> 00:00:25.200 to partner. 7 00:00:26.200 --> 00:00:32.200 Sorry guys, someone's trying to force call into my phone. 8 00:00:38.200 --> 00:00:45.560 Okay, so once again, I didn't tell Mike this, I haven't told this new group of guys this, 9 00:00:45.560 --> 00:00:51.480 but I believe that one of the purposes in us even having a co-ed community, besides 10 00:00:51.480 --> 00:00:58.120 for the reason of partnering and finding your spirit mate, is so that you guys can 11 00:00:58.120 --> 00:01:05.680 represent what good, healthy masculinity looks like as you grow in good, healthy masculinity. 12 00:01:05.680 --> 00:01:06.680 Okay? 13 00:01:06.680 --> 00:01:11.960 And I don't want you to feel pressured by that because the pressure is not on you. 14 00:01:11.960 --> 00:01:13.680 All you have to do is continue to show up. 15 00:01:13.680 --> 00:01:15.520 See, I want to say one thing really quickly. 16 00:01:15.520 --> 00:01:19.880 A lot of people sign up, but they don't show up. 17 00:01:19.880 --> 00:01:24.480 We have all kinds of men that are signed up, but they don't show up. 18 00:01:24.480 --> 00:01:30.720 Show up, and these women, if they can't see it, then they don't know that they can be 19 00:01:30.720 --> 00:01:31.720 it. 20 00:01:31.720 --> 00:01:36.760 And so it's important that they see you, so if you can come to things live, that's great. 21 00:01:36.760 --> 00:01:39.040 If you can only come to one thing live, that's great. 22 00:01:39.040 --> 00:01:44.320 Have your camera on, comment in the chat on these live co-ed sessions, let women get to 23 00:01:44.320 --> 00:01:46.000 know you, let them see you. 24 00:01:46.000 --> 00:01:49.680 All of you will have opportunities to be spotlighted for those of you that are not in relationships 25 00:01:50.480 --> 00:01:53.880 or some of you here, like Carlos, for instance, that are in relationships. 26 00:01:53.880 --> 00:01:58.760 By the way, I match made Carlos, you know, they're doing good. 27 00:01:58.760 --> 00:02:00.360 And here's another thing that you guys need to know. 28 00:02:00.360 --> 00:02:04.120 Whether you get match made by us in this community, you meet someone in this community through 29 00:02:04.120 --> 00:02:08.360 an event or you meet someone outside of the community with the heart healing that you're 30 00:02:08.360 --> 00:02:14.400 getting in this community, what you are receiving here, you're going to need here to continue 31 00:02:14.400 --> 00:02:15.400 in the relationship. 32 00:02:15.400 --> 00:02:21.120 Do not cut and run from this community just because you meet a girl, a woman, because 33 00:02:21.120 --> 00:02:26.760 what you have, the work that you're doing to put yourself out there and to meet people, 34 00:02:26.760 --> 00:02:31.240 you're going to continue to do that work at all the levels of relationship with that woman. 35 00:02:31.240 --> 00:02:32.240 Okay. 36 00:02:32.240 --> 00:02:33.680 Let us support you through that. 37 00:02:33.680 --> 00:02:35.560 Let us help you overcome blind spots. 38 00:02:35.560 --> 00:02:36.560 Let us help you. 39 00:02:36.560 --> 00:02:42.560 If you get triggered in relationship, not cut and run, not call it quits, not say, if 40 00:02:42.640 --> 00:02:46.400 you know, if it's, if it's not going perfectly, then it must not be from God. 41 00:02:46.400 --> 00:02:51.120 Let us help you navigate that and decide whether or not we say here, it's a yes until it's 42 00:02:51.120 --> 00:02:53.800 a no decide whether or not it's a no. 43 00:02:53.800 --> 00:02:54.800 Okay. 44 00:02:54.800 --> 00:02:58.000 So hi to all of you guys, all the new guys. 45 00:02:58.000 --> 00:02:59.520 We do have a love seat this month. 46 00:02:59.520 --> 00:03:03.000 If the November calendar is out, I do need some volunteers. 47 00:03:03.000 --> 00:03:05.240 I need someone to volunteer for the dating game. 48 00:03:05.240 --> 00:03:10.320 Now, unfortunately, Mike, you know, we are so thankful that Mike volunteered. 49 00:03:10.320 --> 00:03:11.800 He got kind of all in told. 50 00:03:11.800 --> 00:03:17.440 I told him that I wanted him to be the bachelor and he agreed, which was great. 51 00:03:17.440 --> 00:03:22.920 But he for some reason, Jessica, who he ended up picking. 52 00:03:22.920 --> 00:03:25.440 And the thing is, I knew he was going to pick her. 53 00:03:25.440 --> 00:03:27.760 I knew he was going to pick her. 54 00:03:27.760 --> 00:03:33.840 When I asked her if she would be one of the contestants for some reason, she and he, neither 55 00:03:33.840 --> 00:03:35.620 one of them can relocate. 56 00:03:35.620 --> 00:03:40.360 And so we're going to make sure that that gets fixed and that doesn't happen again. 57 00:03:40.400 --> 00:03:44.640 But it was a win-win and I've talked to her and it was a win on her side as well. 58 00:03:44.640 --> 00:03:48.180 First of all, she, she got to feel what it's like to be chosen. 59 00:03:48.180 --> 00:03:52.720 She got chosen out of those three bachelorettes and that you guys, she was at a low place 60 00:03:52.720 --> 00:03:55.440 thinking that no one's going to pick her. 61 00:03:55.440 --> 00:03:56.440 And so then she got picked. 62 00:03:56.440 --> 00:03:58.300 So that was powerful for her. 63 00:03:58.300 --> 00:04:03.600 And then once again, Mike just represented such a good, godly, you know, not perfect, 64 00:04:03.600 --> 00:04:05.600 but working on it, man. 65 00:04:05.600 --> 00:04:08.560 And that was just huge healing for her as well. 66 00:04:08.560 --> 00:04:12.400 Because I don't know if, and Jessica wouldn't mind me saying this because it's part of her 67 00:04:12.400 --> 00:04:19.519 testimony publicly, but her former husband, the father of her children is in jail. 68 00:04:19.519 --> 00:04:24.360 Like he went to prison for what he did, whatever that abusive stuff was. 69 00:04:24.360 --> 00:04:31.040 And so talk about someone who needs a good representation of masculinity. 70 00:04:31.040 --> 00:04:32.480 And that was years and years ago. 71 00:04:32.480 --> 00:04:33.480 She stayed single. 72 00:04:33.480 --> 00:04:34.880 She raised her children. 73 00:04:34.880 --> 00:04:39.280 Now she wants, now that her kids are grown up, almost fully grown, just one or two at 74 00:04:39.280 --> 00:04:44.600 the house still, she wants to know what it's like to be in relationship, right? 75 00:04:44.600 --> 00:04:46.320 With someone who she can really partner with. 76 00:04:46.320 --> 00:04:48.240 And she's a phenomenal woman. 77 00:04:48.240 --> 00:04:51.320 So I do need volunteers for Friday. 78 00:04:51.320 --> 00:04:56.200 This Friday, I need one person to volunteer to be the bachelor on the dating game. 79 00:04:56.200 --> 00:04:59.560 And I need two volunteers for spotlights. 80 00:04:59.560 --> 00:05:00.080 And so if you're interested. 81 00:05:00.000 --> 00:05:04.400 If you're interested in that, just a direct message 82 00:05:04.400 --> 00:05:07.200 or email admin at JackieDorman.com. 83 00:05:07.200 --> 00:05:10.320 If not, I'm gonna come looking for some of y'all 84 00:05:10.320 --> 00:05:11.920 and see and who is willing. 85 00:05:11.920 --> 00:05:13.720 For those of you that are just starting hard work 86 00:05:13.720 --> 00:05:16.080 and you're like, I'm not ready for that, that's okay. 87 00:05:16.080 --> 00:05:18.920 We understand and we want you to take your time 88 00:05:18.920 --> 00:05:21.200 and get some clarity before you start running 89 00:05:21.200 --> 00:05:23.720 a hundred miles an hour down a dead end road. 90 00:05:23.720 --> 00:05:26.940 Okay, but we're here for you and we want to, 91 00:05:27.940 --> 00:05:31.100 I mean, you guys, I'm still sifting through 92 00:05:31.100 --> 00:05:35.540 the ladies that have written in about Greg and Abram. 93 00:05:35.540 --> 00:05:37.580 I'm still sifting through all of those women 94 00:05:37.580 --> 00:05:39.580 and also the women that want to meet Mike. 95 00:05:39.580 --> 00:05:41.660 And so there's lots of women. 96 00:05:41.660 --> 00:05:44.900 There's at least seven women to every one man 97 00:05:44.900 --> 00:05:46.240 in this community. 98 00:05:46.240 --> 00:05:48.140 And you're like, what, there's only eight of us. 99 00:05:48.140 --> 00:05:48.960 What do you mean? 100 00:05:48.960 --> 00:05:49.940 There's only 56 women? 101 00:05:49.940 --> 00:05:52.140 No, there's a lot of men that do not show up. 102 00:05:52.140 --> 00:05:53.680 We have a group of men. 103 00:05:53.680 --> 00:05:55.960 We have a group of over a thousand men 104 00:05:55.960 --> 00:05:59.600 that just don't show up, that don't go further, 105 00:05:59.600 --> 00:06:01.000 that don't do their hard work, 106 00:06:01.000 --> 00:06:04.000 that don't show up to things that they're invited to. 107 00:06:04.000 --> 00:06:08.160 And so we really need to have y'all be examples for that. 108 00:06:08.160 --> 00:06:09.760 So that's all that I wanted to say. 109 00:06:09.760 --> 00:06:11.680 And I'll let David go ahead and do the rest 110 00:06:11.680 --> 00:06:13.800 of whatever you guys were working on. 111 00:06:13.800 --> 00:06:15.200 Thanks for being here, guys. 112 00:06:23.680 --> 00:06:28.680 Yeah, you guys, one of the things that just showing up, 113 00:06:33.280 --> 00:06:34.800 if you can do the live things, 114 00:06:34.800 --> 00:06:36.840 it means a lot to the ladies. 115 00:06:36.840 --> 00:06:40.440 I mean, like, cause they, there's a, 116 00:06:40.440 --> 00:06:42.960 I've just, they've always felt encouraged. 117 00:06:42.960 --> 00:06:44.920 And I try to show up as much as I can. 118 00:06:44.920 --> 00:06:48.360 I've been moving, trying to, well, I've been packing, 119 00:06:48.360 --> 00:06:49.600 which has been a lot of work, 120 00:06:49.600 --> 00:06:52.260 but just if you can show up to the live things, 121 00:06:52.260 --> 00:06:56.100 I mean, that, and it gives you an opportunity, right? 122 00:06:56.100 --> 00:06:58.580 So just, I would just encourage you, jump on. 123 00:06:58.580 --> 00:07:00.780 There's a Friday night, Friday morning, 124 00:07:00.780 --> 00:07:02.260 Friday morning prayer call. 125 00:07:02.260 --> 00:07:05.220 Any of it, if you can just show up and represent, 126 00:07:05.220 --> 00:07:06.100 it'd be amazing. 127 00:07:07.780 --> 00:07:10.400 Thank you, Mike, appreciate that. 128 00:07:11.780 --> 00:07:15.660 So guys, yeah, this is just, 129 00:07:15.660 --> 00:07:19.260 I know probably one of the hardest things for men to do 130 00:07:19.260 --> 00:07:22.220 is be vulnerable, you know? 131 00:07:23.040 --> 00:07:25.420 And it's difficult, admittedly, like even the best of us, 132 00:07:25.420 --> 00:07:30.420 like we're, we struggle with, you know, being known 133 00:07:30.660 --> 00:07:35.120 or just, you know, letting our, you know, softer side 134 00:07:35.120 --> 00:07:36.940 and just being vulnerable, you know, 135 00:07:36.940 --> 00:07:39.580 like attending things, just showing up, you know? 136 00:07:39.580 --> 00:07:41.980 Like it's challenging, I get it, right? 137 00:07:41.980 --> 00:07:45.620 But this is the season and time where we're just, 138 00:07:45.620 --> 00:07:47.340 we're just encouraging you. 139 00:07:47.340 --> 00:07:51.300 We're loving you, inviting you into participation, 140 00:07:51.300 --> 00:07:54.420 showing up, like I said at the beginning of the call 141 00:07:54.420 --> 00:07:56.740 and like Jackie was echoing and Mike, you know, 142 00:07:56.740 --> 00:08:00.720 like really being our example tonight, our guinea pig, 143 00:08:03.100 --> 00:08:08.100 that like showing up is half the battle, it really is. 144 00:08:09.940 --> 00:08:13.580 Showing up is half the battle, like being present, you know, 145 00:08:15.580 --> 00:08:20.580 and doing the work that is called the heart work 146 00:08:21.180 --> 00:08:23.820 and some of us are even going like, I don't even know, 147 00:08:23.820 --> 00:08:25.460 like if you've never done the heart work 148 00:08:25.460 --> 00:08:26.700 or anything like it, you're like, 149 00:08:26.700 --> 00:08:28.380 I don't even know what this work is. 150 00:08:28.380 --> 00:08:30.460 Like, I don't even know like how to even do it. 151 00:08:30.460 --> 00:08:33.820 Like, don't worry about it, you know, just be open. 152 00:08:33.820 --> 00:08:35.100 You know, that's the biggest thing 153 00:08:35.100 --> 00:08:37.419 and the biggest thing is your heart posture. 154 00:08:37.419 --> 00:08:40.559 I was just telling someone the other day 155 00:08:40.559 --> 00:08:43.940 that heart posture is everything. 156 00:08:43.940 --> 00:08:48.740 You can have two individuals that say and do the same thing 157 00:08:49.580 --> 00:08:52.580 and because of their heart posture, 158 00:08:52.580 --> 00:08:56.540 one is open towards God, they have like a good nature, 159 00:08:56.540 --> 00:09:01.540 they're like trying to like their heart is towards the Lord 160 00:09:02.140 --> 00:09:04.580 and they're literally doing the same thing 161 00:09:04.580 --> 00:09:08.420 and saying the same thing in imperfection 162 00:09:09.580 --> 00:09:11.420 and then you have another person 163 00:09:11.420 --> 00:09:13.780 whose heart is against the Lord, 164 00:09:13.780 --> 00:09:16.700 they are in opposition to the father 165 00:09:16.700 --> 00:09:19.100 because of hardness of their heart 166 00:09:19.100 --> 00:09:20.900 or because of bitterness or because trauma 167 00:09:20.900 --> 00:09:25.900 that is not allowing them to see their true selves 168 00:09:26.380 --> 00:09:28.620 and they're saying and doing the same things 169 00:09:28.620 --> 00:09:30.420 but the heart posture is the thing 170 00:09:30.420 --> 00:09:31.940 that makes the difference 171 00:09:31.940 --> 00:09:36.540 because God is trying to like reach the one 172 00:09:36.540 --> 00:09:40.300 who is putting their attention towards him. 173 00:09:40.300 --> 00:09:42.100 He can work with that person. 174 00:09:42.100 --> 00:09:44.420 He can lovingly reach out to them. 175 00:09:44.420 --> 00:09:47.540 It's not that he won't or won't want to reach out 176 00:09:47.540 --> 00:09:49.540 to the person whose heart is against him. 177 00:09:49.540 --> 00:09:51.500 It's just that they've hardened their heart against him 178 00:09:51.500 --> 00:09:54.420 in that moment and he can do nothing. 179 00:09:55.260 --> 00:09:56.660 So can God do everything? 180 00:09:56.660 --> 00:09:58.460 No, there are some things God can't do 181 00:09:58.460 --> 00:10:00.140 because of one. 182 00:10:00.000 --> 00:10:04.360 heart posture. It takes a little bit of a bigger breakthrough for that person to 183 00:10:04.360 --> 00:10:07.920 turn around. Like all you have to do is turn around on the path that you are, 184 00:10:07.920 --> 00:10:11.800 just make 180 degrees and turn around. You don't even have to take a step. The 185 00:10:11.800 --> 00:10:17.440 posture is the thing that's important. So I want to champion, number one, the fact 186 00:10:17.440 --> 00:10:21.600 that you're here tonight and you're here in this program, which shows that your 187 00:10:21.600 --> 00:10:25.880 heart posture is like, hey, I want to show up. I want to make a change. I want to see 188 00:10:25.880 --> 00:10:33.400 what God can do through and with me to do the heart work and find this 189 00:10:33.400 --> 00:10:38.280 ultimate relationship that I'm looking for that's in my life. See what the 190 00:10:38.280 --> 00:10:44.120 possibility is. And so I want to champion that, but I also want to 191 00:10:44.120 --> 00:10:50.520 encourage you and invite you in to keep on doing it. Keep on showing up. Do your 192 00:10:50.520 --> 00:10:55.160 heart work. Read the book. Go through the program. Show up with the videos. Do the 193 00:10:55.160 --> 00:11:02.880 questions. Do the inter-seeking. And if you've never done that before, if you're 194 00:11:02.880 --> 00:11:06.320 like, that's just not my thing. I don't really do that. I don't go deep. Do it 195 00:11:06.320 --> 00:11:11.240 anyway. Carlos can attest right now. He's like, look, I never really thought there 196 00:11:11.240 --> 00:11:15.880 was anything to this, but then I finally actually just did it. Because why? Well, 197 00:11:15.880 --> 00:11:19.920 one of the reasons was there was a girl in his life that he had dated for a 198 00:11:19.920 --> 00:11:26.960 little bit, and it ended up not going so well in that they, like, broke up. And 199 00:11:26.960 --> 00:11:31.280 then it was like, wait, wait a minute. I think I, like, had a good thing going 200 00:11:31.280 --> 00:11:37.000 here, but I probably should take my heart work seriously. And then guess what? His 201 00:11:37.000 --> 00:11:40.280 heart posture changed. I don't necessarily know that he really dove 202 00:11:40.280 --> 00:11:45.160 hard into the heart work at the moment, but when his heart posture changed, 203 00:11:45.160 --> 00:11:50.280 because it turned to the Lord, he had this breakthrough moment. And then he's 204 00:11:50.280 --> 00:11:53.560 just, like, trying to describe it like, it wasn't a big deal. It's kind of looked 205 00:11:53.560 --> 00:11:55.800 really weird. He's like, I've never had this before and everything. I'm like, 206 00:11:55.800 --> 00:11:59.320 yeah, because it's a breakthrough. You know, you had a breakthrough. And he's 207 00:11:59.320 --> 00:12:02.800 like, well, maybe it was a breakthrough. And I'm like, no, Carlos, it was a 208 00:12:02.800 --> 00:12:06.760 breakthrough. You're having a breakthrough. And now he's, like, doing his 209 00:12:06.760 --> 00:12:10.680 heart work and his life has changed. And he was a pretty good guy to begin with. 210 00:12:10.680 --> 00:12:14.360 He's a first responder, responsible, good dude, all that kind of stuff. Nothing 211 00:12:14.360 --> 00:12:18.720 wrong with it before that. But he just had this moment where it's like, I needed 212 00:12:18.720 --> 00:12:24.760 this breakthrough. And guess what? He's back in relationship. And some things 213 00:12:24.760 --> 00:12:28.960 are working out, you know, and we love Carlos and we're proud of him. We're 214 00:12:28.960 --> 00:12:36.400 happy for him and we're celebrating him and what's going on. And so, you know, 215 00:12:36.440 --> 00:12:43.680 so just continue to show up. Make sure the heart posture is there. TJ has a 216 00:12:43.680 --> 00:12:48.080 bunch of questions I saw in the chat there. What's your question, TJ? Do you 217 00:12:48.080 --> 00:12:49.960 got to give me one of your questions? 218 00:12:50.000 --> 00:12:53.640 This is my first time coming on. Unfortunately, I've had numerous problems 219 00:12:53.640 --> 00:12:57.440 always getting on the Zoom. The links are always dead. So, like, I tried just 220 00:12:57.440 --> 00:13:01.240 mainly typing in the number and the meeting ID. And I've finally gotten 221 00:13:01.240 --> 00:13:06.440 through. I literally joined like a month ago, but emotionally I was just not 222 00:13:06.440 --> 00:13:10.400 ready yet. But now I'm, you know, going to show up and I just want to know I'm 223 00:13:10.400 --> 00:13:12.920 doing everything I can to do part of the program. 224 00:13:13.240 --> 00:13:17.520 Tom, unfortunately, unfortunately, without going into too much detail and 225 00:13:17.520 --> 00:13:24.400 oversharing, I was in basically a very toxic situation that finally ended in 226 00:13:24.400 --> 00:13:29.920 May. It was basically a romance scam that basically basically covers the 227 00:13:29.920 --> 00:13:34.320 whole deal. So a lot of money was lost in that. So but I'll just leave it at 228 00:13:34.320 --> 00:13:36.280 that. But. 229 00:13:36.600 --> 00:13:44.600 Um. So I hear you. So I'm just wondering what the regular weekly things are that 230 00:13:44.600 --> 00:13:48.320 are going on, like I mean, obviously there's a check in on Mondays for the 231 00:13:48.320 --> 00:13:57.320 guys. I'm a little lost and overwhelmed as far as, you know, how much, you know, 232 00:13:57.320 --> 00:14:00.040 I want to be involved as much as possible, but I want to know what that 233 00:14:00.040 --> 00:14:04.560 really is. You know, there's always a regular regular, you know, Thursday 234 00:14:04.560 --> 00:14:08.840 thing or regular, you know, whatever. And well, the first and foremost, you 235 00:14:08.840 --> 00:14:13.400 have the app. You have the app. Yeah, I have the app. I've I've read that. 236 00:14:13.400 --> 00:14:15.040 And you're in the men's group on the app. 237 00:14:16.800 --> 00:14:21.480 Um, yeah, that was the other question that was also confusing when I first 238 00:14:21.480 --> 00:14:25.400 joined, the app was in a default mode and then it changed once and then it 239 00:14:25.400 --> 00:14:29.840 changed again as far as certain sections. The important thing is, do you see the 240 00:14:29.840 --> 00:14:35.960 men's group in your app? Uh, yeah. Yeah. Okay. So in that, on the events tab, 241 00:14:36.000 --> 00:14:39.600 the events tab should open up the calendar for you and there's links for 242 00:14:39.600 --> 00:14:43.760 those. And I understand the link. Sometimes there are link issues and 243 00:14:43.760 --> 00:14:50.320 that's not that link necessarily. It's just the, um, how your software is 244 00:14:50.320 --> 00:14:54.120 interacting with your device in terms of whether it wants to open up zoom. One 245 00:14:54.120 --> 00:14:57.840 of the things that standard practice that we have is that if you're logged 246 00:14:57.840 --> 00:15:00.240 into zoom already, either on a 247 00:15:00.000 --> 00:15:05.760 see, or a laptop, or even on your phone, it is easier for your device to understand the link 248 00:15:06.320 --> 00:15:11.920 if you're already logged into the Zoom app, either on your phone or on your computer. So 249 00:15:11.920 --> 00:15:18.800 that's one thing that we found to be helpful. Yeah, so technology can always be, you know, 250 00:15:18.800 --> 00:15:23.680 these like difficulties. So we get it, but we're trying to help people as much as we can. 251 00:15:23.680 --> 00:15:29.200 So there's that, but the schedule is on there. Obviously the Monday nights for heart check-in 252 00:15:29.200 --> 00:15:36.560 for men is very critical and very important. And if you're just joining, really your first 253 00:15:36.560 --> 00:15:41.120 month or so is just really going through the heart work course. And that course is in the 254 00:15:41.120 --> 00:15:48.480 group as well. So it just takes you through five weeks of heart work. There's the ebook, 255 00:15:48.480 --> 00:15:55.280 read the ebook, there's videos, there's some homework and some instructions, pages that 256 00:15:55.280 --> 00:16:01.280 cause you to go through questions. So go through that course, do the heart work, and that should 257 00:16:01.280 --> 00:16:08.480 be a majority of your work here the first month or so, is really what's going on with that. And 258 00:16:08.480 --> 00:16:14.320 then there's some corporate prayer times. You have Supernatural Saturday, and then Faith Friday, 259 00:16:14.320 --> 00:16:18.320 on Friday morning there's a prayer time. And then we have some other events that will show up in 260 00:16:18.320 --> 00:16:24.560 your calendar as well. So basic orientation real quick, you know, just a couple minutes just so 261 00:16:24.560 --> 00:16:30.080 you know. Okay, just trying to understand it. Obviously I don't want to go full gung-ho on every 262 00:16:30.080 --> 00:16:35.280 meeting because... Sure, no, of course, yeah, just take it at your own pace. That's the whole point of this. 263 00:16:35.280 --> 00:16:40.000 We're not trying to shove anything down anybody's throat because it can be overwhelming. So we do 264 00:16:40.000 --> 00:16:43.920 definitely, that's a really good point that you're bringing up there, we do definitely encourage 265 00:16:43.920 --> 00:16:50.720 everyone to go at your own pace. And Mike's shaking his head, he's like, yes, please, you know, like 266 00:16:50.720 --> 00:16:56.240 take it at your own pace. And don't be surprised, you know, this is, remember we should do a little 267 00:16:56.240 --> 00:17:00.560 bit of like, you know, just a minute here of just like really quick HeartWork 101, which is like 268 00:17:00.560 --> 00:17:07.680 first week, which is like, look, this is designed to, the HeartWork course itself is designed to last 269 00:17:08.400 --> 00:17:15.920 five weeks just as a way to give you some sort of a benchmark a little bit. But we have people that 270 00:17:16.880 --> 00:17:22.960 have taken five weeks, 10 weeks, you know, a couple months to do their HeartWork. And that's 271 00:17:22.960 --> 00:17:28.240 completely fine because, you know, everybody is different. Everybody has their own unique 272 00:17:28.240 --> 00:17:34.160 experiences and backgrounds and so forth, schedules, time opportunity, all that taken into 273 00:17:34.160 --> 00:17:41.680 consideration. So you do that to the best of your ability on the pace that you want to do. We've 274 00:17:41.680 --> 00:17:47.520 designed it to be very flexible that way. Okay. So if you feel like you're getting overwhelmed, 275 00:17:48.480 --> 00:17:53.920 don't just completely stop. But we do want you to just like slow down and pause and be like, hey, 276 00:17:54.560 --> 00:18:04.240 no pressure, no big hairy, you know, importance to try to get this done in a certain amount of time. 277 00:18:04.240 --> 00:18:08.320 You know, we want you to be able to process because the biggest thing with HeartWork 278 00:18:09.280 --> 00:18:18.480 is that you're processing through things that you're giving God permission to kind of work 279 00:18:18.480 --> 00:18:25.760 through with you on some things to get to a healthy-hearted position, a healthy-hearted 280 00:18:25.760 --> 00:18:32.960 place in your life. We all have trauma and things that we have in past relationships, 281 00:18:32.960 --> 00:18:39.120 past experiences, just, you know, growing up, that kind of thing that just we get in our own way, 282 00:18:39.120 --> 00:18:45.040 our experiences get in the way of our further development. So HeartWork helps us process 283 00:18:46.000 --> 00:18:52.480 that so that we can get into a healthy-hearted place and can step into the kind of relationship 284 00:18:52.480 --> 00:18:58.640 that we're looking for in our love lives. That's the basic purpose of HeartWork in a nutshell. 285 00:18:59.600 --> 00:19:05.440 So hopefully, and I'm saying all that to hopefully give you some confidence and some peace of mind to 286 00:19:05.440 --> 00:19:10.640 go, hey, this is not a race. This is not a, you know, this is not a sprint to the finish line. 287 00:19:11.200 --> 00:19:13.120 This is a process that you're going to go through. 288 00:19:14.320 --> 00:19:20.080 Yeah, I'm not looking at, yeah, I'm not looking at, it's just, it's just a little confusing because 289 00:19:20.080 --> 00:19:24.880 when I, like within the first week, the app changed twice because it seemed like it was in a default 290 00:19:25.200 --> 00:19:30.560 basic mode and then it changed and then it changed again to like a full men's version. 291 00:19:31.360 --> 00:19:36.960 So, yeah, and we're working on that. It's a little clunky sometimes, 292 00:19:36.960 --> 00:19:42.480 but we're working on getting through that. I had the same thing happen. The first time I 293 00:19:42.480 --> 00:19:46.560 tried to join the men's, I thought it was the men's check-in. It was like a women's group 294 00:19:46.560 --> 00:19:51.840 and they were like, you know, this probably isn't the right call for you. And I was like, 295 00:19:51.840 --> 00:19:57.600 well, maybe it is. But yeah, I had to like circle back and check in later on the day 296 00:19:57.600 --> 00:19:59.760 because it was the wrong call for sure. Yeah. 297 00:20:00.800 --> 00:20:03.840 Yeah, and i'll go through and i'll go through too, um, i'm getting back to 298 00:20:04.720 --> 00:20:06.720 work, you know, um tomorrow 299 00:20:07.440 --> 00:20:12.000 And um in our community and i'll just do a double check just to make sure everybody's on the right 300 00:20:12.560 --> 00:20:14.880 Path in the right space where there's where there should be 301 00:20:16.320 --> 00:20:18.240 Hey, man 302 00:20:18.240 --> 00:20:20.000 so 303 00:20:20.000 --> 00:20:24.160 Um anything else guys, um anything else you want to mention we have like about 10 minutes here 304 00:20:24.240 --> 00:20:26.320 Just want to make sure we're connecting. Um 305 00:20:27.200 --> 00:20:32.240 Kenton, um, tell us a little bit like, you know, we kind of introduce yourself a little bit kind of what you do and everything 306 00:20:32.320 --> 00:20:35.440 but um, how'd you hear about the group and um, 307 00:20:36.240 --> 00:20:38.560 What is your thoughts towards? Um, 308 00:20:39.600 --> 00:20:46.160 You know like romantic relationship like what what you're wanting to uh accomplish. Um in this season right now 309 00:20:47.040 --> 00:20:49.920 Well, that's thank you very much. Appreciate that. Um 310 00:20:50.560 --> 00:20:52.080 Great question 311 00:20:52.080 --> 00:20:57.680 How did I learn about this group? I learned it through actually through jack one of jackie's books. He had mentioned it 312 00:20:58.640 --> 00:21:01.680 Okay, I thought it'd be great to be able to uh, 313 00:21:02.320 --> 00:21:08.580 Try something different. I like the idea of the matchmaker. She says yeah, i'm a matchmaker. I thought well that's going to be interesting 314 00:21:10.960 --> 00:21:14.640 With the jewish people or others but here in canada, you don't see a lot of that 315 00:21:15.040 --> 00:21:20.960 But anyway, uh, no it intrigued me enough to look at the information and look into what this group was all about 316 00:21:21.360 --> 00:21:23.700 I'm willing to give it a shot because my history 317 00:21:24.400 --> 00:21:26.400 with women is um 318 00:21:26.560 --> 00:21:28.720 um, I was just um divorced, uh 319 00:21:29.520 --> 00:21:34.400 Just uh five years ago and I I stayed available to my wife for four years 320 00:21:34.480 --> 00:21:40.000 Just in case she decided to come back to up to our fourth anniversary. That's that's when I took my ring off 321 00:21:40.640 --> 00:21:44.480 And started the dating realm and boy that sucks up here in canada 322 00:21:45.120 --> 00:21:47.120 School yeah, I can imagine 323 00:21:56.480 --> 00:21:58.480 Oh my 324 00:22:15.360 --> 00:22:20.400 From two men prior to her and I had no no idea that lord was gonna ambush me on this one 325 00:22:20.800 --> 00:22:27.680 So the last year i've been just pouring into her life unconditional love so that she would have a bar to stand on 326 00:22:28.000 --> 00:22:29.740 she understands what 327 00:22:29.740 --> 00:22:31.740 Unconditional love in a man 328 00:22:31.920 --> 00:22:38.640 Should look like as well as a gentleman. I come from a gentleman's background. So it's a little bit different. Uh, 329 00:22:39.040 --> 00:22:44.720 Teaching and background for myself, but up here you'd be a gentleman the women look at you and said, what do you want? 330 00:22:45.440 --> 00:22:47.440 You can open a door and they say what do you want? 331 00:22:48.880 --> 00:22:55.840 Wow, okay. Okay a little bit different up here. That's for sure. But um, and i've had cases where 332 00:22:56.400 --> 00:22:57.040 the women 333 00:22:57.040 --> 00:23:00.320 you know you dated for a couple of times they give you a text messages and they 334 00:23:00.800 --> 00:23:03.760 Rat and rave all over you and you can't figure out have a clue what you did wrong 335 00:23:04.320 --> 00:23:06.320 So it's uh, it's different up here 336 00:23:06.320 --> 00:23:07.920 So i'm looking for 337 00:23:07.920 --> 00:23:12.320 Sort of a new start in a different way and I think this is going to be a good different way 338 00:23:12.560 --> 00:23:15.920 Because I like how you folks are doing it getting to the heart 339 00:23:16.400 --> 00:23:20.100 uh, because one of my ministries lord is taking me into is the brokenhearted 340 00:23:20.720 --> 00:23:25.920 People in life who've been broken through marriage broken through divorce. Yeah 341 00:23:26.640 --> 00:23:28.160 having to find a 342 00:23:28.160 --> 00:23:33.200 Um a spirit mate that fits into that category of ministry is not going to be an easy one 343 00:23:34.320 --> 00:23:35.360 Yeah 344 00:23:35.360 --> 00:23:40.960 no, you're right and we can sugarcoat it all we want to but it's we're not doing anybody any 345 00:23:41.440 --> 00:23:43.440 service by doing it that way because 346 00:23:43.920 --> 00:23:45.920 You know, we just live in 347 00:23:46.400 --> 00:23:48.400 a day and age in a time 348 00:23:49.040 --> 00:23:51.040 where things are 349 00:23:51.340 --> 00:23:54.500 Uniquely a more traumatic and more difficult 350 00:23:55.200 --> 00:23:58.400 In just a different way than it's ever been in this world 351 00:23:59.120 --> 00:24:00.640 but yet 352 00:24:00.640 --> 00:24:04.800 The relationship between a husband and a wife a man and a wife 353 00:24:05.680 --> 00:24:09.840 men and women is extremely valuable and it's it's 354 00:24:10.640 --> 00:24:12.640 very central to the core 355 00:24:12.880 --> 00:24:14.240 of 356 00:24:14.240 --> 00:24:16.960 The purpose the kingdom purpose that we serve as humans 357 00:24:17.600 --> 00:24:23.120 To come together and be in that really and be in relationship like that. It's extremely valuable still 358 00:24:23.680 --> 00:24:29.920 And it's worth contending for and that's right. It's every woman on earth is worth contending for 359 00:24:30.400 --> 00:24:31.200 Yeah 360 00:24:31.200 --> 00:24:33.200 being a retired pastor and 361 00:24:33.680 --> 00:24:34.540 um 362 00:24:34.540 --> 00:24:39.840 Retired police officer. I got to see the good the bad and the ugly of the life that's out there 363 00:24:40.480 --> 00:24:43.220 Can imagine so just how women are so degraded? 364 00:24:44.080 --> 00:24:48.000 And yet we as men in the kingdom in this kingdom 365 00:24:48.560 --> 00:24:54.480 Have a high calling and I think you fool. Most of you men know that we have a high calling that brings us 366 00:24:54.880 --> 00:24:59.840 To the place where we treat our women with so much love and cherishing them 367 00:25:00.000 --> 00:25:02.400 understanding what that word cherish means. 368 00:25:02.400 --> 00:25:03.360 Yeah. 369 00:25:03.360 --> 00:25:05.040 To the point where they look at you, 370 00:25:05.040 --> 00:25:09.100 and I've had this said to me many times, you're not real. 371 00:25:10.040 --> 00:25:12.640 You're not like any other guys I've ever dated. 372 00:25:13.640 --> 00:25:16.600 You can't be real, there's something wrong with you. 373 00:25:16.600 --> 00:25:20.080 And I say, no, no, I know what the word says. 374 00:25:20.080 --> 00:25:21.200 I understand what it says. 375 00:25:21.200 --> 00:25:24.600 And I know through lots of reading, 376 00:25:24.600 --> 00:25:28.200 lots of my own mistakes, that we have a high calling. 377 00:25:28.840 --> 00:25:31.920 We may say it's difficult, but not really. 378 00:25:31.920 --> 00:25:34.640 When we have our first priority in Christ, 379 00:25:34.640 --> 00:25:37.720 we can have a Christ-centered relationship, 380 00:25:37.720 --> 00:25:39.380 a Christ-centered marriage. 381 00:25:39.380 --> 00:25:40.220 Absolutely. 382 00:25:40.220 --> 00:25:41.040 Does that take work? 383 00:25:41.040 --> 00:25:43.920 Absolutely, a lot of work, a lot of hard work, 384 00:25:43.920 --> 00:25:46.520 but both parties have to participate. 385 00:25:46.520 --> 00:25:49.440 They need to do their part to see it work. 386 00:25:49.440 --> 00:25:53.320 And reading your story, David and Jackie, 387 00:25:53.320 --> 00:25:55.400 that was a story in itself. 388 00:25:55.400 --> 00:25:57.720 I laughed with how you first met. 389 00:25:58.120 --> 00:25:59.400 I just had a laugh together. 390 00:25:59.400 --> 00:26:01.760 I guess the only God could do that. 391 00:26:01.760 --> 00:26:03.440 That's so true. 392 00:26:03.440 --> 00:26:05.800 And we get to tell that story over and over and over again, 393 00:26:05.800 --> 00:26:08.320 but it's always extremely entertaining. 394 00:26:08.320 --> 00:26:10.880 We just told it last night to a small group of friends 395 00:26:10.880 --> 00:26:13.760 that we were connecting with after our meeting. 396 00:26:13.760 --> 00:26:18.060 And it was just fun all over again. 397 00:26:19.760 --> 00:26:23.280 But it is really the way it happened. 398 00:26:23.280 --> 00:26:26.600 And God just used it as a way 399 00:26:26.600 --> 00:26:30.480 to introduce that connection point, 400 00:26:30.480 --> 00:26:35.480 regardless of what was happening emotionally in the moment. 401 00:26:39.760 --> 00:26:43.080 Well, thank you, Kenton, for sharing. 402 00:26:43.080 --> 00:26:46.920 I mean, everything you share is really, really awesome. 403 00:26:46.920 --> 00:26:49.800 And you speak from certainly a position 404 00:26:49.800 --> 00:26:51.880 of experience and wisdom. 405 00:26:51.880 --> 00:26:55.040 And I'm sorry that you had went through 406 00:26:55.040 --> 00:26:57.000 what you went through with your marriage, 407 00:26:57.000 --> 00:27:02.000 but we see this a lot and seen this before, 408 00:27:03.560 --> 00:27:08.280 where, I don't know how long you were married. 409 00:27:08.280 --> 00:27:09.880 How long were you married? 410 00:27:09.880 --> 00:27:11.760 I was married 36 years. 411 00:27:11.760 --> 00:27:12.640 36 years. 412 00:27:12.640 --> 00:27:15.280 And actually just one day cut up 413 00:27:15.280 --> 00:27:17.000 and left in the middle of a counseling session, 414 00:27:17.000 --> 00:27:18.080 our first one. 415 00:27:18.080 --> 00:27:20.800 Yeah, and it's not uncommon. 416 00:27:20.840 --> 00:27:22.800 I've heard that story before. 417 00:27:22.800 --> 00:27:27.480 And in both ways, it's not just women, 418 00:27:27.480 --> 00:27:31.640 but we hear this story a lot. 419 00:27:31.640 --> 00:27:36.360 And, but there's a lot of information to God's 420 00:27:36.360 --> 00:27:41.360 just still saying, it doesn't have to end that way. 421 00:27:44.000 --> 00:27:47.140 Maybe that particular relationship ended, 422 00:27:47.140 --> 00:27:48.900 but it doesn't have to be the end of the story 423 00:27:48.900 --> 00:27:49.740 for your life. 424 00:27:49.740 --> 00:27:50.940 It doesn't have to be the end of the story 425 00:27:50.940 --> 00:27:54.780 for someone else's life, someone else's love life as well. 426 00:27:55.860 --> 00:27:58.420 That's all depends on how you chose your mate 427 00:27:58.420 --> 00:27:59.260 in the first place. 428 00:27:59.260 --> 00:28:00.660 And I chose badly. 429 00:28:00.660 --> 00:28:03.900 So, and that's, and I take full responsibility for that. 430 00:28:03.900 --> 00:28:08.100 I was just, my wife hung on that long. 431 00:28:11.100 --> 00:28:11.940 I mean, yeah. 432 00:28:11.940 --> 00:28:13.900 And I can, I, yeah, yeah. 433 00:28:13.900 --> 00:28:16.500 I don't know you're in a unique situation, but yeah. 434 00:28:16.820 --> 00:28:20.260 I can see that the same time though, 435 00:28:20.260 --> 00:28:25.260 it, there becomes a time after, you know, 436 00:28:26.780 --> 00:28:29.620 a season that's determined by the Lord himself 437 00:28:29.620 --> 00:28:32.080 where it feels like it's just like, you know, 438 00:28:32.080 --> 00:28:35.180 people make their decisions, you know? 439 00:28:35.180 --> 00:28:37.660 And unfortunately, you know, 440 00:28:39.380 --> 00:28:41.340 it took 36 years for that to play out 441 00:28:41.340 --> 00:28:44.100 and it maybe didn't have to. 442 00:28:44.100 --> 00:28:45.700 But again, it's just one of those situations 443 00:28:45.700 --> 00:28:48.220 is what it is and you're facing it. 444 00:28:48.220 --> 00:28:49.060 You're dealing with it. 445 00:28:49.060 --> 00:28:52.700 You're dealing with it in as full of grace as possible. 446 00:28:52.700 --> 00:28:55.340 As that's what I'm hearing from you. 447 00:28:55.340 --> 00:28:59.980 And, and that's mean something. 448 00:28:59.980 --> 00:29:02.740 Certainly means something in the kingdom perspective. 449 00:29:02.740 --> 00:29:06.780 And I think there will be definitely reward for that 450 00:29:08.620 --> 00:29:11.300 as you have tried to do that and deal with that 451 00:29:11.300 --> 00:29:13.820 in grace and love and truth and so forth. 452 00:29:14.980 --> 00:29:17.100 I found out for myself and that this might be something 453 00:29:17.100 --> 00:29:18.300 all the men might go through as well. 454 00:29:18.300 --> 00:29:19.140 I don't know. 455 00:29:19.140 --> 00:29:20.660 I can only speak for myself this time, 456 00:29:20.660 --> 00:29:23.740 but I get attached way too quickly to somebody 457 00:29:23.740 --> 00:29:25.860 and start bonding way too quickly. 458 00:29:25.860 --> 00:29:28.100 And I've got to learn how to not to do that. 459 00:29:28.100 --> 00:29:31.020 Yeah, we do get to do some attachment theory. 460 00:29:31.020 --> 00:29:33.580 You know, there's a lot of discussion around that right now 461 00:29:33.580 --> 00:29:36.140 in terms of just like culturally speaking, 462 00:29:36.140 --> 00:29:38.660 but there's something definitely to say 463 00:29:38.660 --> 00:29:43.580 about the ways we attach and learning about how we attach, 464 00:29:43.580 --> 00:29:45.660 learning the ways that we have proclivities 465 00:29:45.660 --> 00:29:47.260 to attach to people, 466 00:29:47.260 --> 00:29:49.500 how we can bring some healing to that as well. 467 00:29:49.500 --> 00:29:51.220 And so that's something that we get into 468 00:29:51.220 --> 00:29:52.300 later on in the program. 469 00:29:52.300 --> 00:29:55.900 So definitely we can address that as well. 470 00:29:57.340 --> 00:29:58.820 But thanks for sharing that. 471 00:29:58.820 --> 00:30:00.060 That's important to know. 472 00:30:00.000 --> 00:30:03.640 It's important to know. 473 00:30:03.640 --> 00:30:09.560 So guys, I just want to, you know, thank you and encourage you for being here tonight. 474 00:30:09.560 --> 00:30:10.560 Sorry. 475 00:30:10.560 --> 00:30:11.560 It was a little bit crazy and hectic technologically. 476 00:30:11.560 --> 00:30:15.240 I hung up on everybody, so that was me. 477 00:30:15.240 --> 00:30:22.320 And next week we will be, we have added a second time during the day in order to try 478 00:30:22.320 --> 00:30:28.240 to invite some of our international and like those that are like in different time zones 479 00:30:28.240 --> 00:30:30.440 to be able to participate. 480 00:30:30.440 --> 00:30:33.780 So we're trying to make sure that we have some coverage for that as well. 481 00:30:33.780 --> 00:30:35.640 So we'll be adding that next week. 482 00:30:35.640 --> 00:30:39.000 We have two times, I think one's at noon. 483 00:30:39.000 --> 00:30:43.440 I don't know if it's noon Eastern or noon, but I can't, it's on this, it's on the schedule, 484 00:30:43.440 --> 00:30:44.440 noon central. 485 00:30:44.440 --> 00:30:46.800 And of course then this regular time as well. 486 00:30:46.800 --> 00:30:51.960 So we're going to try to add that so that guys can participate. 487 00:30:51.960 --> 00:30:54.500 Some others show up different times. 488 00:30:54.500 --> 00:30:59.300 So whatever time works for you and best for you, then definitely do that. 489 00:30:59.300 --> 00:31:00.300 Amen. 490 00:31:00.300 --> 00:31:01.300 Yeah. 491 00:31:01.300 --> 00:31:02.300 Hold up. 492 00:31:02.300 --> 00:31:03.300 Who's there? 493 00:31:03.300 --> 00:31:04.300 This is Hunter. 494 00:31:04.300 --> 00:31:05.300 Hey, Hunter. 495 00:31:05.300 --> 00:31:06.300 How are you? 496 00:31:06.300 --> 00:31:07.300 Hey, it's okay. 497 00:31:07.300 --> 00:31:08.300 I just re-edited my spirit mate match profile about me. 498 00:31:08.300 --> 00:31:09.300 It's okay if I keep on doing it or someone can check in and help me out with it. 499 00:31:09.300 --> 00:31:10.300 Have a look at it. 500 00:31:10.300 --> 00:31:11.300 You can, you can update that spirit mate match profile as much as you want to. 501 00:31:11.300 --> 00:31:12.300 You should be able to. 502 00:31:12.300 --> 00:31:31.460 And so matter of fact, it's encouraged for you to keep updating that and keep refining 503 00:31:31.460 --> 00:31:36.500 that and making it better and adding some more detail in as much as you can so that 504 00:31:36.500 --> 00:31:42.200 it's continually updated and accurate so that we can make the best matches for you. 505 00:31:42.200 --> 00:31:50.120 And then of course, we'll be having heartwork coaches reach out as well on those profiles 506 00:31:50.120 --> 00:31:51.320 and matches. 507 00:31:51.320 --> 00:31:55.280 And I haven't heard any from coaches yet, but I guess I need to re-edit some more to 508 00:31:55.280 --> 00:31:57.440 get them coming in or... 509 00:31:57.440 --> 00:31:58.440 That's fine right now. 510 00:31:58.440 --> 00:31:59.440 We'll just stop. 511 00:31:59.440 --> 00:32:04.560 I mean, we're at this point, we're still doing the intake and profiling process, so we're 512 00:32:04.560 --> 00:32:05.800 not really at the stage yet. 513 00:32:05.800 --> 00:32:09.400 So let me update you guys, for those of you that are new about spirit mate match. 514 00:32:09.400 --> 00:32:12.120 So right now we are at our intake phase. 515 00:32:12.120 --> 00:32:17.960 I think we have about 140 guys and we have about 500 women in the dating base, in the 516 00:32:17.960 --> 00:32:20.000 database on spirit mate match. 517 00:32:20.000 --> 00:32:21.840 And so we definitely want more guys to sign up. 518 00:32:21.840 --> 00:32:25.280 So if you have not done that, even if you're in your heartwork phase and you're not ready 519 00:32:25.280 --> 00:32:29.900 to meet anyone, go ahead and fill out your spirit mate match profile anyway. 520 00:32:29.900 --> 00:32:34.660 You can find that link in the resources part of the app. 521 00:32:34.660 --> 00:32:38.000 So go to your resource tab and look, and you'll be able to find it there. 522 00:32:38.000 --> 00:32:41.640 And then also, fill it out very thoroughly. 523 00:32:41.640 --> 00:32:42.640 Okay. 524 00:32:42.640 --> 00:32:44.120 Remember, I'm the only person that sees it. 525 00:32:44.120 --> 00:32:47.080 Me and my matchmakers are the only ones that see it right now. 526 00:32:47.080 --> 00:32:48.080 Not the women. 527 00:32:48.080 --> 00:32:51.120 They're not going to be just like a dating app scrolling through the profiles. 528 00:32:51.120 --> 00:32:52.200 Not right now. 529 00:32:52.200 --> 00:32:56.920 And we're using these to curate in-person events right now during the intake phase. 530 00:32:56.920 --> 00:33:01.740 We're using it to curate events and we're using it to do some online events. 531 00:33:01.740 --> 00:33:07.740 So in-person and online, and also these dating games and different things, just until we 532 00:33:07.740 --> 00:33:11.140 get enough men filling out their profiles. 533 00:33:11.140 --> 00:33:13.660 And then we have a couple of plans. 534 00:33:13.660 --> 00:33:18.860 And one of those plans is to possibly allow you to look through your matches on your own 535 00:33:18.860 --> 00:33:23.260 and be able to contact those people via DMs or direct messaging through the spirit mate 536 00:33:23.260 --> 00:33:24.260 match app. 537 00:33:24.260 --> 00:33:25.260 Okay. 538 00:33:25.260 --> 00:33:29.620 We want to get away from technology as much as possible with matchmaking. 539 00:33:29.620 --> 00:33:31.780 Community-based matchmaking is what we want to do. 540 00:33:31.780 --> 00:33:37.700 You have a much better chance of really liking someone if you see them interacting in community, 541 00:33:37.700 --> 00:33:40.580 which is why we're going to have more and more of those live events a month. 542 00:33:40.580 --> 00:33:44.900 We have two this month in November and one love seat with Spotlight. 543 00:33:44.900 --> 00:33:47.540 So we have three opportunities. 544 00:33:47.540 --> 00:33:51.740 Basically three weeks of this month, once a week, we have an opportunity for you to 545 00:33:51.740 --> 00:33:54.340 meet all kinds of people in real time. 546 00:33:54.340 --> 00:33:55.340 Okay. 547 00:33:55.340 --> 00:33:59.500 And so please look at your calendar and make sure that you come to that live if you can. 548 00:33:59.500 --> 00:34:00.500 All right. 549 00:34:00.500 --> 00:34:01.500 All right. 550 00:34:01.500 --> 00:34:03.500 David, did you want to say anything else? 551 00:34:03.500 --> 00:34:04.500 I have a question. 552 00:34:04.500 --> 00:34:05.500 It's John here. 553 00:34:05.500 --> 00:34:06.500 Okay. 554 00:34:06.500 --> 00:34:07.500 Go ahead, John. 555 00:34:07.500 --> 00:34:11.500 The local groups, I saw there's a couple. 556 00:34:11.500 --> 00:34:17.500 I'm kind of like in between, if it's Redding, Sacramento, I'm kind of in between Sacramento 557 00:34:17.500 --> 00:34:19.500 and San Francisco. 558 00:34:19.500 --> 00:34:21.500 We have a San Francisco one now. 559 00:34:21.500 --> 00:34:25.500 We have a San Francisco and then we have a Redding, Sacramento. 560 00:34:25.500 --> 00:34:26.500 Yeah. 561 00:34:26.500 --> 00:34:27.500 Right. 562 00:34:27.500 --> 00:34:31.500 So I'm kind of in the middle and I didn't hear anything from the San Francisco one, 563 00:34:31.500 --> 00:34:35.500 but I heard from like the Redding, Sacramento one and they're like, why don't you try the 564 00:34:35.500 --> 00:34:37.500 San Francisco one? 565 00:34:37.500 --> 00:34:41.500 But I'm like an hour from each, so I'm in the middle. 566 00:34:41.500 --> 00:34:42.500 Okay. 567 00:34:42.500 --> 00:34:43.500 Well, here's the good news. 568 00:34:43.500 --> 00:34:49.500 The good news is that those obviously are kind of hubs, but there are people that are 569 00:34:49.500 --> 00:34:54.500 in all of those groups that live like you all in between those cities. 570 00:34:54.500 --> 00:34:55.500 Right. 571 00:34:55.500 --> 00:34:56.500 Right. 572 00:34:56.500 --> 00:34:59.500 And so there's smaller groups of people that get together and do things. 573 00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:02.240 Now, what city are you in? 574 00:35:02.240 --> 00:35:03.580 I'm in Brentwood. 575 00:35:03.580 --> 00:35:04.420 Okay. 576 00:35:04.420 --> 00:35:06.720 So we definitely do have people that, 577 00:35:06.720 --> 00:35:09.920 women that are, you know, in that area as well. 578 00:35:10.880 --> 00:35:11.840 And so- 579 00:35:11.840 --> 00:35:14.940 Well, Brentwood, Northern California, not Southern. 580 00:35:14.940 --> 00:35:15.780 Okay. 581 00:35:15.780 --> 00:35:18.040 But once again, those people are all gonna join 582 00:35:18.040 --> 00:35:19.880 the groups nearest to them. 583 00:35:19.880 --> 00:35:22.340 So just because it has that city name on it, 584 00:35:22.340 --> 00:35:24.240 it doesn't mean that everyone in that group 585 00:35:24.240 --> 00:35:25.160 lives in those cities. 586 00:35:25.160 --> 00:35:28.200 They all live around about those cities just like you. 587 00:35:29.040 --> 00:35:30.360 Now, are those groups open now? 588 00:35:30.360 --> 00:35:31.200 Are they closed? 589 00:35:31.200 --> 00:35:33.040 Because you got to get permission to get in. 590 00:35:33.040 --> 00:35:36.360 I haven't got any feedback yet to join the group. 591 00:35:36.360 --> 00:35:38.480 I put in the request. 592 00:35:38.480 --> 00:35:39.300 Okay. 593 00:35:39.300 --> 00:35:40.140 Yeah. 594 00:35:40.140 --> 00:35:44.720 The moderators, if you put the request in over the weekend, 595 00:35:44.720 --> 00:35:45.560 is that what you did? 596 00:35:45.560 --> 00:35:48.880 No, it's been about two weeks or a week and a half. 597 00:35:48.880 --> 00:35:49.800 Oh, really? 598 00:35:49.800 --> 00:35:50.800 Which group? 599 00:35:51.720 --> 00:35:54.280 Well, like I said, I did the Reading, Sacramento. 600 00:35:54.280 --> 00:35:55.480 I did hear back from them. 601 00:35:55.480 --> 00:35:57.160 They said, why don't you try San Francisco? 602 00:35:57.160 --> 00:35:59.560 And I did San Francisco and I answered Crickets. 603 00:36:01.960 --> 00:36:02.800 Okay. 604 00:36:02.800 --> 00:36:07.200 So the Reading group didn't allow you to come into it? 605 00:36:07.200 --> 00:36:08.680 Well, it did not allow. 606 00:36:08.680 --> 00:36:12.520 The person said, well, you're closer to San Francisco 607 00:36:12.520 --> 00:36:13.680 or something like that. 608 00:36:14.600 --> 00:36:15.440 Okay. 609 00:36:15.440 --> 00:36:16.600 All right, whatever. 610 00:36:16.600 --> 00:36:20.400 I'll say something to the moderators of both those groups. 611 00:36:20.400 --> 00:36:22.240 You should be able to join both those groups. 612 00:36:22.240 --> 00:36:25.240 And guys, just rule of thumb if you're new. 613 00:36:25.240 --> 00:36:26.760 Try to join a single city 614 00:36:26.760 --> 00:36:28.680 that's within a four-hour drive of you 615 00:36:28.680 --> 00:36:30.800 if there isn't one in your city 616 00:36:30.800 --> 00:36:32.720 so that there is a possibility 617 00:36:32.720 --> 00:36:34.560 that there are people in that group 618 00:36:34.560 --> 00:36:38.040 that are local to you around where you live. 619 00:36:38.040 --> 00:36:42.080 And you should be able to. 620 00:36:42.080 --> 00:36:45.280 And if you live two hours from one of the single cities 621 00:36:45.280 --> 00:36:47.680 and three hours from the other, you can join both of them. 622 00:36:47.680 --> 00:36:50.520 We just don't want people joining single cities 623 00:36:50.520 --> 00:36:53.600 that are not anywhere near them, like across the country. 624 00:36:53.880 --> 00:36:57.000 But if you're gonna be visiting a city 625 00:36:57.000 --> 00:36:59.560 and you wanna see who in the community lives in that city, 626 00:36:59.560 --> 00:37:01.280 then you can also join a single city 627 00:37:01.280 --> 00:37:02.920 if you're like taking a trip, 628 00:37:02.920 --> 00:37:06.720 you're gonna go to a city because of a work event 629 00:37:06.720 --> 00:37:10.280 or something else, you also can join that group 630 00:37:10.280 --> 00:37:11.960 to see who you might be able to meet up with 631 00:37:11.960 --> 00:37:13.480 when you're in town, okay? 632 00:37:14.560 --> 00:37:16.840 And I'll look into that, John. 633 00:37:16.840 --> 00:37:17.680 Never mind. 634 00:37:17.680 --> 00:37:19.520 Thank you, appreciate it. 635 00:37:19.520 --> 00:37:20.360 All right. 636 00:37:20.360 --> 00:37:21.280 So this is Andy right here. 637 00:37:21.280 --> 00:37:24.680 So since we're talking about single cities, 638 00:37:24.680 --> 00:37:27.520 I'm in like the Detroit, Michigan area. 639 00:37:28.800 --> 00:37:32.280 There's not really any groups that are close to me. 640 00:37:33.240 --> 00:37:35.360 I guess the closest would be the Columbus, Ohio, 641 00:37:35.360 --> 00:37:37.840 but that's like really far from me. 642 00:37:37.840 --> 00:37:41.200 Yeah, but there's a lot of people in the Columbus group 643 00:37:41.200 --> 00:37:44.480 that actually live in Cleveland and even in Detroit. 644 00:37:44.480 --> 00:37:48.920 So once again, Detroit is less than a four hour drive 645 00:37:48.920 --> 00:37:50.000 from Columbus, Ohio. 646 00:37:50.040 --> 00:37:51.680 I know because I used to live in Columbus 647 00:37:51.680 --> 00:37:53.000 and I've driven to Detroit. 648 00:37:53.000 --> 00:37:55.520 And so that would be your single city, join it. 649 00:37:55.520 --> 00:37:57.520 And there's tons of people in that group 650 00:37:57.520 --> 00:38:02.520 that live in Cleveland, in Toledo, in Detroit, 651 00:38:02.520 --> 00:38:04.760 in other areas of Michigan 652 00:38:04.760 --> 00:38:06.720 because that is the nearest single city. 653 00:38:06.720 --> 00:38:08.720 You guys, single cities get formed 654 00:38:08.720 --> 00:38:12.960 when someone wants to be the moderator of that place 655 00:38:12.960 --> 00:38:15.840 and there's enough people living in that region 656 00:38:15.840 --> 00:38:18.080 where another one would pop up. 657 00:38:18.080 --> 00:38:22.240 So that's how all 25 of these single cities came to be. 658 00:38:22.240 --> 00:38:24.600 And the more and more people 659 00:38:24.600 --> 00:38:26.680 that start to be part of our community 660 00:38:26.680 --> 00:38:28.480 in those regions and areas, 661 00:38:28.480 --> 00:38:31.560 the more single cities will pop up. 662 00:38:31.560 --> 00:38:36.120 So Detroit may have one before too long. 663 00:38:36.120 --> 00:38:39.600 So anyway, join the one that's nearest to you. 664 00:38:39.600 --> 00:38:42.480 Don't just assume, which is what I just said to John, 665 00:38:42.480 --> 00:38:46.360 don't just assume because it is called Columbus single city 666 00:38:46.360 --> 00:38:48.920 that the people there only live in Columbus 667 00:38:48.920 --> 00:38:52.680 because once again, everyone within a four hour range 668 00:38:52.680 --> 00:38:56.520 of there, or if they're not anywhere near a single city 669 00:38:56.520 --> 00:38:57.640 and that's the nearest one to them, 670 00:38:57.640 --> 00:38:59.360 maybe they live eight hours away, 671 00:38:59.360 --> 00:39:01.800 that is a single city that they're gonna join. 672 00:39:01.800 --> 00:39:06.720 And the one that they have the most likely chance 673 00:39:06.720 --> 00:39:08.600 of actually getting together in person 674 00:39:08.600 --> 00:39:10.640 or coming to an in-person event. 675 00:39:10.640 --> 00:39:12.640 And so that would be your single cities 676 00:39:12.640 --> 00:39:13.480 to go ahead and join it. 677 00:39:13.480 --> 00:39:15.120 There's lots and lots of amazing women 678 00:39:15.160 --> 00:39:17.520 in the Columbus, Ohio single city 679 00:39:17.520 --> 00:39:20.440 from areas that are within just an hour, 680 00:39:20.440 --> 00:39:23.560 maybe less than that to you, John. 681 00:39:23.560 --> 00:39:25.320 I mean, Randy, wait, no. 682 00:39:25.320 --> 00:39:26.160 Who was that? 683 00:39:26.160 --> 00:39:27.000 Randy. 684 00:39:28.000 --> 00:39:29.200 Andy. 685 00:39:29.200 --> 00:39:30.320 All right, that's cool. 686 00:39:30.320 --> 00:39:31.160 Sorry. 687 00:39:31.160 --> 00:39:32.000 Okay. 688 00:39:32.000 --> 00:39:34.640 So everyone clear on the single city? 689 00:39:34.640 --> 00:39:35.960 Yeah, one more thing. 690 00:39:35.960 --> 00:39:37.320 How would that work though? 691 00:39:37.320 --> 00:39:40.080 Like what are the meetings like 692 00:39:40.080 --> 00:39:41.840 and like how long do you stay? 693 00:39:41.840 --> 00:39:44.480 Cause like if you were gonna drive for like four hours, 694 00:39:44.480 --> 00:39:46.520 like how does that even work? 695 00:39:46.520 --> 00:39:50.280 Like with the gatherings and all that? 696 00:39:50.280 --> 00:39:51.320 Well, first of all, 697 00:39:51.320 --> 00:39:53.360 you don't have to necessarily drive four hours 698 00:39:53.360 --> 00:39:56.680 because it could be a lot closer to you 699 00:39:56.680 --> 00:39:59.120 and it works all different types of ways 700 00:39:59.120 --> 00:39:59.960 because they. 701 00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:03.440 there's all kinds of events that single cities do. 702 00:40:03.440 --> 00:40:05.440 You know, there may be event in your area, 703 00:40:05.440 --> 00:40:07.640 you won't know until you join the single city 704 00:40:07.640 --> 00:40:09.000 and look at the calendar in there 705 00:40:09.000 --> 00:40:10.600 and see what they have going on. 706 00:40:10.600 --> 00:40:12.880 And you might just meet someone in there 707 00:40:12.880 --> 00:40:15.880 that in the page itself that you wanna get to know 708 00:40:15.880 --> 00:40:17.760 and then you guys can meet halfway. 709 00:40:17.760 --> 00:40:20.500 You know, both of you drive an hour and a half, 710 00:40:20.500 --> 00:40:24.120 have lunch somewhere and on a Saturday and drive home. 711 00:40:24.120 --> 00:40:27.360 So once again, guys, if you're not willing 712 00:40:27.360 --> 00:40:30.520 to do long distance, even within a two hour drive, 713 00:40:30.520 --> 00:40:34.360 three hour drive to date someone who lives that far away, 714 00:40:34.360 --> 00:40:35.480 that's fine. 715 00:40:35.480 --> 00:40:36.320 You don't have to, 716 00:40:36.320 --> 00:40:39.260 if you want someone who lives in your neighborhood, 717 00:40:40.260 --> 00:40:43.640 but we may not be able to offer you that, 718 00:40:43.640 --> 00:40:45.880 you may not meet them within our community, 719 00:40:45.880 --> 00:40:49.480 but we will help you have the skills and the tools 720 00:40:49.480 --> 00:40:51.240 that you need relationally, 721 00:40:51.240 --> 00:40:52.680 even if you meet someone who lives 722 00:40:52.680 --> 00:40:55.080 in your own neighborhood, okay? 723 00:40:55.120 --> 00:40:58.600 So there's lots of important things to be had here 724 00:40:58.600 --> 00:41:01.520 besides just, can you introduce me to a girl 725 00:41:01.520 --> 00:41:04.160 that lives five mile radius from me? 726 00:41:07.200 --> 00:41:09.360 I know everyone wants that low hanging fruit guys, 727 00:41:09.360 --> 00:41:10.200 I get it. 728 00:41:11.480 --> 00:41:13.920 You know, you can't get any closer 729 00:41:13.920 --> 00:41:15.200 than David and I's love story. 730 00:41:15.200 --> 00:41:17.400 I was literally his next door neighbor. 731 00:41:17.400 --> 00:41:18.320 All right. 732 00:41:18.320 --> 00:41:20.280 But that's not gonna happen for everybody. 733 00:41:20.280 --> 00:41:22.920 So let's be in it to win it, okay? 734 00:41:22.920 --> 00:41:23.760 Okay. 735 00:41:23.840 --> 00:41:27.640 Okay, what is four hours investment 736 00:41:27.640 --> 00:41:29.880 for a chance at finding your spirit mate? 737 00:41:29.880 --> 00:41:31.400 I mean, like literally any of you guys 738 00:41:31.400 --> 00:41:33.640 would try four hours in the, you know, 739 00:41:33.640 --> 00:41:35.940 so just encouragement, right? 740 00:41:38.040 --> 00:41:40.040 Another thing I was gonna ask. 741 00:41:42.280 --> 00:41:43.120 Yeah, go ahead. 742 00:41:44.720 --> 00:41:45.920 Me? 743 00:41:45.920 --> 00:41:47.440 Yeah, whoever has a question, go ahead. 744 00:41:47.440 --> 00:41:48.280 I do. 745 00:41:48.280 --> 00:41:52.280 Well, I'm only living in the city area, 746 00:41:52.320 --> 00:41:54.680 but I don't know if I can join the Columbus area 747 00:41:54.680 --> 00:41:56.480 because I was born and raised in Ohio 748 00:41:56.480 --> 00:41:58.800 and I still have family living out there. 749 00:41:58.800 --> 00:42:01.000 It's not so much I'm close to Columbus or Ohio, 750 00:42:01.000 --> 00:42:02.680 I'm like twice, compared to four, 751 00:42:02.680 --> 00:42:04.400 I'm twice that far away, 752 00:42:04.400 --> 00:42:07.160 but I still have connections and family out there. 753 00:42:07.160 --> 00:42:09.520 For sure, and Hunter brings up a really good point. 754 00:42:09.520 --> 00:42:11.440 And I think I kind of made that point, 755 00:42:11.440 --> 00:42:13.520 but I'm gonna make it again. 756 00:42:13.520 --> 00:42:16.880 And that is, if you could see yourself relocating 757 00:42:16.880 --> 00:42:18.940 to an area because you're from there, 758 00:42:18.940 --> 00:42:21.560 or you have family there, your parents still live there, 759 00:42:21.600 --> 00:42:23.760 or, you know, whatever reason, 760 00:42:23.760 --> 00:42:25.720 you've always wanted to live there, 761 00:42:25.720 --> 00:42:28.320 then, you know, be open to that. 762 00:42:28.320 --> 00:42:31.200 Be open to meeting someone in that place or that area, 763 00:42:31.200 --> 00:42:34.120 especially if it's someplace where you have family 764 00:42:34.120 --> 00:42:36.220 and, you know, it wouldn't be a stretch 765 00:42:36.220 --> 00:42:37.380 for you to move there. 766 00:42:38.320 --> 00:42:41.760 Especially when I got, I still got family out there, 767 00:42:41.760 --> 00:42:43.560 but okay, that's a good, thank you, Jackie. 768 00:42:43.560 --> 00:42:44.800 That's all I need to know. 769 00:42:44.800 --> 00:42:47.520 And I was just gonna hope to talk about the, 770 00:42:47.520 --> 00:42:50.220 I'll share a breakthrough next week that I had. 771 00:42:52.480 --> 00:42:54.640 Okay, well, we're glad that you had a breakthrough, Hunter. 772 00:42:54.640 --> 00:42:55.480 That's exciting. 773 00:42:55.480 --> 00:42:57.820 And you should also share that in your men's group 774 00:42:57.820 --> 00:42:59.780 by making a post about it as well. 775 00:42:59.780 --> 00:43:02.840 So you guys hype each other up. 776 00:43:02.840 --> 00:43:04.800 Definitely be sharing, you know, 777 00:43:04.800 --> 00:43:06.800 your breakthroughs, your wins. 778 00:43:06.800 --> 00:43:07.980 If you need prayer for anything, 779 00:43:07.980 --> 00:43:09.760 make sure you're posting that in your group as well. 780 00:43:09.760 --> 00:43:12.520 The women have, they're a lot better 781 00:43:12.520 --> 00:43:13.640 at supporting one another. 782 00:43:13.640 --> 00:43:16.160 I know women are a lot more community minded 783 00:43:16.160 --> 00:43:19.700 or communal than men are, but, you know, 784 00:43:19.700 --> 00:43:20.860 we're trying to change that 785 00:43:20.860 --> 00:43:23.020 because God created you for a relationship, 786 00:43:23.020 --> 00:43:25.380 not just with women, but also with each other. 787 00:43:25.380 --> 00:43:28.820 And so definitely, you know, support one another 788 00:43:28.820 --> 00:43:31.220 and we appreciate you guys. 789 00:43:31.220 --> 00:43:32.460 I need guys for Friday. 790 00:43:32.460 --> 00:43:33.740 Don't forget about that. 791 00:43:33.740 --> 00:43:37.900 I will be posting in your men's chat on Facebook. 792 00:43:37.900 --> 00:43:39.240 So if you are in the, 793 00:43:41.660 --> 00:43:43.740 you're not in the men's Facebook group as well, 794 00:43:43.740 --> 00:43:45.300 it's just kind of a bonus group, 795 00:43:45.300 --> 00:43:47.700 but it has a lot better chat features. 796 00:43:47.700 --> 00:43:48.860 If you're not in there, 797 00:43:48.860 --> 00:43:51.140 then let us know so we can add you to that group as well. 798 00:43:51.140 --> 00:43:52.300 Okay? 799 00:43:52.300 --> 00:43:55.180 Which Facebook group you dropped out for a second? 800 00:43:55.180 --> 00:43:56.020 Yeah, what is that? 801 00:43:56.020 --> 00:43:58.620 It's just the 1822 Men's Community Group. 802 00:43:58.620 --> 00:44:00.180 Okay, I'm in that, yeah. 803 00:44:00.180 --> 00:44:01.020 Okay, yeah. 804 00:44:01.020 --> 00:44:02.020 And then there's a chat. 805 00:44:02.020 --> 00:44:04.380 So if you look on the toolbar, there's the word chat. 806 00:44:04.380 --> 00:44:08.420 If you click that, there's an ongoing chat going on there. 807 00:44:08.420 --> 00:44:11.020 So if you're ever lost, you don't know, 808 00:44:11.020 --> 00:44:12.660 is there something going on tonight? 809 00:44:12.660 --> 00:44:14.260 The link's not working. 810 00:44:14.260 --> 00:44:16.600 You need to show up and say something in that chat 811 00:44:16.600 --> 00:44:18.200 because someone will answer you. 812 00:44:19.860 --> 00:44:22.660 Whether it's one of our team members or each other. 813 00:44:24.740 --> 00:44:27.940 Okay, I think anyone else have any other questions? 814 00:44:27.940 --> 00:44:29.180 I had a question about the cities. 815 00:44:29.180 --> 00:44:31.740 I think the closest one is Washington, DC. 816 00:44:31.740 --> 00:44:36.740 I mean, like Allentown, Bethlehem, Pennsylvania, correct? 817 00:44:39.380 --> 00:44:40.940 Where are you located? 818 00:44:42.140 --> 00:44:44.060 Allentown, Bethlehem, Pennsylvania. 819 00:44:44.060 --> 00:44:45.660 It's just basically like an hour and a half 820 00:44:45.660 --> 00:44:46.920 north of Philadelphia. 821 00:44:47.920 --> 00:44:49.200 Okay, all right. 822 00:44:49.200 --> 00:44:52.200 So yeah, you're kind of far from DC and DC just popped up. 823 00:44:54.200 --> 00:44:56.280 Yeah, that would be your closest one right now 824 00:44:56.280 --> 00:44:59.040 because DC is brand new, but DC is popping. 825 00:44:59.040 --> 00:45:00.200 And there's a lot of. 826 00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:03.160 people that live in different places like Harrisburg, Pennsylvania, and 827 00:45:03.160 --> 00:45:05.340 different areas that are in that DC group. 828 00:45:05.660 --> 00:45:07.320 So, and in the New York group. 829 00:45:07.320 --> 00:45:10.300 So if I were you, I would join, even though it's more for more than four 830 00:45:10.300 --> 00:45:12.260 hours, I would join New York and DC. 831 00:45:14.300 --> 00:45:14.800 Okay. 832 00:45:15.460 --> 00:45:19.500 Because before, before, before DC existed, there was only New York. 833 00:45:19.720 --> 00:45:25.820 So New York has a crazy range of people in it that live in Pennsylvania 834 00:45:25.820 --> 00:45:29.780 that live in Maryland that, you know, just, I think you get what I'm saying. 835 00:45:30.380 --> 00:45:32.520 You're talking, you're talking New York city, right? 836 00:45:33.240 --> 00:45:33.740 Okay. 837 00:45:33.800 --> 00:45:34.860 That's what it's called. 838 00:45:34.860 --> 00:45:38.880 But, but once again, because there was no other single city in that 839 00:45:38.880 --> 00:45:42.620 area, a lot of people joined, even people that live in Pennsylvania. 840 00:45:44.520 --> 00:45:44.900 Okay. 841 00:45:44.920 --> 00:45:45.880 Thank you for clarifying. 842 00:45:45.880 --> 00:45:46.380 I appreciate it. 843 00:45:46.880 --> 00:45:49.460 So those two groups, you're going to find people that are more local 844 00:45:49.460 --> 00:45:51.780 to you, DC and New York city. 845 00:45:52.500 --> 00:45:52.960 All right. 846 00:45:52.960 --> 00:45:58.360 So, um, once again, wide variety, wide range of locations for 847 00:45:58.360 --> 00:45:59.500 people in those two groups. 848 00:46:01.000 --> 00:46:01.500 Okay. 849 00:46:01.560 --> 00:46:02.060 Thank you. 850 00:46:02.840 --> 00:46:04.080 How far are you away from Harrisburg? 851 00:46:05.800 --> 00:46:08.760 Uh, that's probably like an hour and 10 minutes. 852 00:46:09.160 --> 00:46:09.460 Yeah. 853 00:46:09.460 --> 00:46:12.780 We have a quite a, we have quite a few people in that area, so we 854 00:46:12.780 --> 00:46:14.040 might end up with a Harrisburg. 855 00:46:14.160 --> 00:46:16.440 We might end up with a Harrisburg single city real soon. 856 00:46:16.960 --> 00:46:17.460 Okay. 857 00:46:17.640 --> 00:46:18.040 Okay. 858 00:46:18.040 --> 00:46:21.600 You're saying what basically the people in Harrisburg are going to DC are 859 00:46:21.600 --> 00:46:23.420 tagged at DC now, basically though, right? 860 00:46:23.440 --> 00:46:25.960 They're just, they're just in those, they're just in those pages. 861 00:46:26.000 --> 00:46:29.520 They're not necessarily going to events in those cities, but it 862 00:46:29.520 --> 00:46:32.760 doesn't mean it doesn't mean that the events only happen in those cities. 863 00:46:32.760 --> 00:46:33.520 That's what I'm trying to 864 00:46:37.680 --> 00:46:44.160 I'm just saying rather than being New York city, they're probably 865 00:46:45.000 --> 00:46:46.600 the DC instead of New York city. 866 00:46:46.600 --> 00:46:47.440 That's what that's all asking. 867 00:46:47.440 --> 00:46:47.940 Yeah. 868 00:46:48.160 --> 00:46:51.720 I am not saying that are necessarily always going to events there. 869 00:46:51.760 --> 00:46:52.260 Yeah. 870 00:46:52.640 --> 00:46:56.440 No, but, but just so you know, DC is brand new. 871 00:46:56.480 --> 00:46:59.240 And so that, that group just got created. 872 00:46:59.240 --> 00:47:01.560 So I would definitely join the New York city group to, to 873 00:47:01.560 --> 00:47:03.040 find people in your area as well. 874 00:47:04.400 --> 00:47:04.900 Okay. 875 00:47:04.900 --> 00:47:05.400 Thank you. 876 00:47:06.120 --> 00:47:07.280 Any other questions, guys? 877 00:47:07.920 --> 00:47:11.440 Anybody guys are clear. 878 00:47:16.480 --> 00:47:18.720 And, and I know Hunter's done with the hard work. 879 00:47:18.720 --> 00:47:19.320 Who are you? 880 00:47:19.320 --> 00:47:20.680 All of you still doing the hard work. 881 00:47:20.680 --> 00:47:22.320 All you new guys are in there. 882 00:47:22.360 --> 00:47:22.860 Okay. 883 00:47:22.920 --> 00:47:26.200 So John, did you just, did you, is that just volunteered for the 884 00:47:26.200 --> 00:47:27.720 left seat, John, or was that 885 00:47:30.240 --> 00:47:30.740 was it? 886 00:47:31.520 --> 00:47:33.400 Well, Hey, what the hell? 887 00:47:33.400 --> 00:47:34.280 Volunteer too. 888 00:47:35.280 --> 00:47:35.780 All right. 889 00:47:36.200 --> 00:47:36.920 So there you go. 890 00:47:37.840 --> 00:47:39.640 I just started my work, but I'm not ready yet. 891 00:47:40.920 --> 00:47:41.420 Okay. 892 00:47:44.480 --> 00:47:47.400 Well, I will jump into, I'll jump into the chat and solidify 893 00:47:47.400 --> 00:47:48.960 some of those volunteers. 894 00:47:49.000 --> 00:47:54.520 And so definitely be checking that chat out this week and, and we'll, 895 00:47:54.520 --> 00:47:57.760 and we'll get it, we'll get it all organized and ready to go. 896 00:47:57.800 --> 00:47:58.300 Okay. 897 00:47:59.960 --> 00:48:00.600 All right. 898 00:48:00.760 --> 00:48:01.440 Okay, guys. 899 00:48:01.480 --> 00:48:02.320 Thanks so much. 900 00:48:02.360 --> 00:48:03.080 Have a great night. 901 00:48:03.640 --> 00:48:04.140 Bye-bye.