All right. So welcome, welcome. This is such an exciting day. This is just a wrap. It is,
it's bonus day. I would also call it like key day. I would call it foundation day. I would call it
most important day. And we've been working our way through the Prosper system. And I don't always do
it in perfect order, right? But if you're coming in first time today, the replays are up until
midnight Sunday, usually into Monday in the Prosper Women Facebook group. But we've covered
the P in Prosper, which is partner with God, partner with God in business. I mean, we know
to partner with life, but partnering with God in business, what a difference, what a difference
this makes from striving and struggling and sacrificing and stressing to, to joy and peace
and miracles in the marketplace and accessing infinite wisdom, infinite love. So we covered
the first P and then the second P was about renewing the mind. And each of these is really
a step because if we're not partnered with God, we can't renew our mind. We can't do it in our
own strength. We can try, but it's too deep rooted, right? There's too many strongholds.
So, so each of these builds, you know, the first one is, is, is really about, it's about surrender.
It's about trusting God more than even we trust ourselves, which I hope that's what we do,
right? Because you're talking about the creator of heaven and earth. We're made in his image,
but we're finite beings. And so in that relationship, it's about relationship
more than religion. It's about intimacy and it's, it's such a healing thing. So that first P that's,
it's foundational that allows us to start on the second, which is the R, which is renewing of the
mind. And scripture says we're transformed by the renewing of our mind. And this is where,
um, scripture says we take every thought captive. It says that, that the war that we're really
fighting is not carnal. It's not human. And that's what we forget. We think that we're
battling against human things and human people, but the real war is happening inside of ourselves,
inside our own mind. And so it talks about, you know, uh, we're going to get into Exodus today,
when we look at your divine purpose in your divine identity and it's, it's being set free.
And so scripture says that we're transformed and we talked about transform metamorphosis. This is
the, the, the butterfly that the Caterpillar, no wings crawling on the ground, getting stepped on,
whatever the Caterpillar, the transformation to butterfly. What a difference, like what a miracle
this Caterpillar is in this cocoon and in the cocoon, there's so much struggle between Caterpillar
and butterfly. This thing is pushing and stretching. And some of you probably read the
stories where someone sees that and tries to help and snips and let me let this butterfly free.
Let me speed up the process. Let's accelerate this. And they, and they snip it. And then the
butterfly falls lifeless to the ground and dies because that struggle was how the wings got strong
to fly. And so this struggle is primarily in that are the renewing of the mind and the biggest place
that we need to renew the mind is where we're at today. Okay. Which is, which is understanding our
divine identity, who we really are peeling off the layers. So we did the P we did the R
and then we did the O about opening the flow, getting out of this constipation coagulation
stuckness. Right. And we skipped, we went, we went P R O. We did the S which was simplify.
That was so big. You've got to create a space for what you want. Then the next P was purpose and
identity. And we jumped over that because I wanted to give a full two hours to that today,
or at least an hour and a half. Okay. And so we, we, we skipped over that and we skipped over
because of time, the E I'll probably bring some things maybe next week at the E and
We landed the five days of it, right,
with learning how to run and rest at the same time.
It's the resurrected life.
So today is going to bring all of this together.
Like, it's all going to make sense.
You're going to make sense.
Your business is going to make sense.
And so today just super, super excites me.
How many of you are ready and excited?
Pop it in the chat.
And woohoo, yes, yes, yes.
I was enjoying the conversations before we started.
And so let's open with prayer.
So Father God, I just thank you for this day.
You woke us up today, and I thank you for that.
I thank you.
Our heart is beating.
Our lungs are breathing.
All the things happening in our body
we're not even aware as you've fearfully and wonderfully
made us, we give you glory.
We give you honor.
And today we ask that you'll give us
deeper understanding to that fearfully and wonderfully made.
I pray every single man, woman, child listening
to this or the replays that they'll have a breakthrough.
A breakthrough, a shattering of the lies
that maybe have been spoken over them
by others or by themselves or passed down generationally.
I pray just a shattering of the lies
that have kept them stuck, kept them playing small.
I ask for a fresh awareness.
Awareness is the first step to transformation.
I ask for a fresh awareness today.
I ask for fresh life, fresh man, a fresh revelation
to flow today.
I ask that the words of my mouth, the meditation of my heart
will be pleasing to you.
And I ask that your words of life will flow through.
I ask that you open our ears, our eyes, our heart,
that we can see, we can hear, we can
perceive what you're saying to us here and now today.
I give thanks for this incredible opportunity.
Thank you for the technology.
May it work flawlessly.
Thank you, Lord, for the gift of learning,
for the gift of your word, for the gift of your Holy Spirit.
I ask that you activate the rivers of living water
in their belly.
I ask that you break the lies of fear
and the lies of separation and the lies of lack.
And that new life gushes forth.
I ask in Jesus' name, amen.
Amen, amen, amen.
Well, welcome back, ladies.
We have been on a journey.
So excited to be with you.
So the question that we open with
when we're looking at this, if I say to you, who are you?
Or if you're asking yourself, who am I?
Who am I?
What comes to you?
Who am I?
You know, what comes to us most often,
and it starts with the words, I am, right?
I am, which is the name of God.
When Moses was at the burning bush,
and he discovers that he's talking to God.
And he's like, what will I tell the people your name is?
Who are you?
And the answer was, I am.
And isn't that interesting that that's
how God identified himself?
Isn't that interesting that that's
what we're continuously saying?
I am or I am not.
And we're unconscious that we're saying the name of God
when we do this.
So most often, if we say, I am, usually jump into a role.
I am a coach.
I'm a healer.
I am a teacher.
I am a best-selling author.
I am a mother.
I am a wife.
You read a bio.
Isn't that where everybody starts?
It's all the roles.
That's how we've come to identify ourselves.
What happens when the roles are no longer there?
I am a world-class athlete until the injury.
I am a mother until we lose the baby or we're experiencing something.
I remember when I went through a painful divorce in 2012, everything that I thought I was was
stripped away.
I was no longer the founder of an international company, international nutritional network
marketing company.
I was no longer a wife.
I was no longer a homeschool mom.
I was no longer the leader of the foundation.
You see, all of a sudden, what happens when the roles are stripped away?
And when we've identified too much with the roles, you see what happens in society when
you no longer have a job.
Who am I without that title?
For women going through empty nest, who am I now?
And there's this almost crisis of identity because for too long, when we're looking at
who we are, we're looking at what we do.
We've also defined ourselves by, I am not.
I am not a speaker.
I am not a writer.
I am not, right?
We identify ourselves with what we're not.
The key is sifting through those layers to get to the core and to make sure that that
core lines up with the truth, with the word of God, right?
And there's so many I am nots that we do, right?
So who we've been saying that we are is a combination of the stories, the narrative
that we've believed because people have told us all our life.
It could be very derogatory.
I am stupid.
I am just not smart, right?
So there's these stories.
I'm not good with money, whatever.
We've got these stories that we've defined as to who we are and who we're not, and we've
got these standards as to what we'll accept and what we'll settle for.
A lot of times this identity is a family identity or a cultural identity.
I've had many coaching clients grew up in our family.
We don't make a lot of money in our family.
We're a family of missionaries.
Money's not part of our life, whatever it is.
But sometimes this gets passed down even.
So we've got this combination of our narrative of who we say we are and our standards, what
we're willing to settle.
And then we've had our experiences, and experiences are really interesting how they shape us.
It's how our little brain tries to figure out to stay safe.
And so very young, many of us, especially you, amazing, born to be leaders, born to
be movers and shakers and world changers, you really had to deal with this because you
didn't fit in the family mold or your mother's mold, right?
And so you learned that it's not safe to be, to be who you really are.
You had to make some shifts because your, your cry, the cry of all of us is to be loved
and accepted.
And especially at that age, who do you have to be loved and accepted, primarily mommy
or daddy or both, maybe as your little older teacher, but you, you just want to be told
that you're loved and that you're accepted and that you're okay.
But you would do certain things naturally and you would be told love gets withdrawn.
You may not even be told, you would be shown.
You would be shown in a scowl.
You would be shown in words.
You would be shown in the withdrawal of privileges or the withdrawal of affection.
Any of you know what I'm talking about?
And it even gets passed down that we learn these ways and we do it to our children.
So they don't behave the way that we think.
They are not a good girl the way that we've defined good girl and they don't get the smile
that they crave.
They get a scowl.
And the man, if you're a woman, the man in your life doesn't do what you think he should
be doing.
And he no longer, that smiley girl that he married, that just the smile would just light
him up.
Ladies, when's the last time you smiled at your man?
We stopped smiling.
They get a scowl.
Any of you guilty?
I'm just curious.
Is it just me?
I'm just curious.
Put in the chat.
Am I just talking to myself here?
I want to know.
This is where we get real.
We get raw.
So this stuff gets passed down and associated at the very core of it is our need to be loved
and accepted.
And accepted and at the core of it is how we even punish and are punished.
And so let me just see.
I want to be able to see the chat and I'm not seeing it.
Give me just a second here.
Okay, there we go.
Now I see you guys.
I love hearing from you.
Okay, there we go.
Yeah.
Because of the family dynamics of marriage on Flying Solo, well, yeah, maybe, but also
we can learn new dynamics, right?
Okay.
I love it.
Kimberly said, I think I may scowl.
Try this, Kimberly.
You know, we've been talking about some things and try this.
Just look at him and give him the biggest smile and just watch what happens.
You guys try this.
I mean, try it with your kids.
Try it with your man.
Try it with anyone.
Just give him a big smile and watch what happens.
Okay.
So, but we've got this, we've got this identity of how we see ourselves and look at the first
verse right there.
It's so fascinating.
I just can't believe this is the scripture 5,000 years ago.
So fascinating.
And it's numbers, look at the number, 1333.
I mean, it's like divine perfection here.
This is like a perfect verse.
Okay.
Got three threes in there.
It says, there we saw the Nephilim, the sons of Anak.
This was, this was the giants, right?
And it says, and we were like grasshoppers in our own sight.
So here you get the self image.
Obviously they're up against giants.
So there's a certain physical truth.
We've said the conditions always exist, but what's really interesting is the mental conditions
around this.
They didn't just say we were, we were many feet shorter or, you know, we were at a disadvantage.
They had height on us.
You know it didn't say something like that.
It wasn't focusing on the circumstances.
I mean, the analogy is incredible.
Here's human beings made in the image of God who've been led to the promised land through
a series of miracles by an incredible God.
And they see themselves in their own sight, like grasshoppers, wow.
And the fascinating thing about that is, and so we were in their sight, we are actually
number one, we're discovering who we are and we're rewiring our brain for who we are.
And as we change, people are going to see us differently as we change.
I might've shared this story, but it was, it was.
Such a profound revelation of how this works, right?
So I have this brilliant woman come to me, highly educated,
master's degrees.
She is a licensed clinical counselor.
She's got a beautiful practice, has had it for many, many
years.
She's great with clients.
She's thriving over there.
She desires to move over to the coaching space,
less paperwork, no caps on what you can earn,
less bureaucracy, all that stuff, right?
And so she is making the transition
from being over here in the clinical setting that she knew
to over here to the coaching world.
And it's not flying, meaning she's not getting any clients.
And so I meet with her.
And the first thing I'm doing on these calls, I'm listening.
My ears are trained.
I've been listening to what people say about themselves,
what they believe about money.
It's all in there when you're talking to them.
And so she's just chatting.
And she's saying, yeah, I've struggled.
I've tried this.
I've tried that.
She says, I think I'm at a disadvantage.
I'm like a grasshopper.
I don't have a lot of these coaching certifications.
I'm like a grasshopper.
I don't have the experience.
I'm like a grasshopper.
And it says, and so they saw us.
And so they saw her like a grasshopper.
She believed she was a grasshopper.
They're believing she's a grasshopper.
Are you following me?
Any of you tracking with me?
We're teaching people how to see us.
We're teaching people how to treat us.
And so I'm like, I'm seeing things
from a totally different perspective.
I'm like, whoa, whoa, whoa, back the truck up
for just a second, please.
And I say to her, you don't have certifications.
You've got a master's degree in this specialty.
Did that master's degree and what
you learned in your education go away between here and here?
She says, no.
I says, you've been creating change and transformation
with all your clients for years and years and years.
Did your skill set, did your tools
go away between here and here?
She's kind of starting to smile.
I see she's getting it.
Light is cracking.
And so as I go through this process,
I said, you're not writing a brand new book.
You're adding a chapter to your existing.
And this is the thing that so many of us don't know
is that we keep thinking that when we change, especially
those of you that are creative and multi-passionate
in different ways, that you change professions
or you leave the corporate world or you leave the government
world or whatever and you go here and you think,
oh, I'm just starting all over again.
You're not.
If you can learn to stack your successes.
What I was doing in that free conversation
was having her stack her successes.
You're not starting in the basement every time.
And so here, they forgot to stack their successes.
They forgot that they were serving a God.
And all the things that they had overcome for 40 years,
they forgot for a minute.
And they reverted.
And so she got it.
She got off that call.
And she got a few clients right away.
And then I happened to follow up with her
to see how it was going.
And I was excited.
No clients to three clients.
I was excited.
We did a one-day business breakthrough intensive
because I know that's foundational.
That's the first thing I do is, OK, we
got to break these mindsets, but we got to get clarity.
Absolute, especially in this market.
Who exactly do you serve?
And what is their big problem that you solve?
And how do you have that packaged
in an irresistible offer?
So we do this in the one-day breakthrough intensive.
So we did that.
And so she got these three clients.
And so I follow up.
And I find out she's charging peanuts.
She got three clients, but she did it
by practically giving it away.
Why are we doing this?
Why are we not charging?
And so we talked about the money mindsets.
And I looked at her sales presentation.
Remember, I've been teaching all week.
This is a combination.
It always is.
Mindset plus skill set plus right action equals results.
You should have that memorized by now.
Mindset, right, plus skill set, plus right action equals results.
Right.
So, you know, for many, you know,
Kim and I were having this conversation yesterday.
Right. So there's there's some mindset shift,
but there's also some uplifting skill sets and there's some right actions to take.
So I help her with her sales conversation.
And this is often where coaches fall down.
So I say, OK, you know, tell me, tell me what it is that you're selling.
Sell me. Give me your presentation.
And I could see she was so deep in the weeds.
Right. So I walked her through it.
I get a testimony that night, same day, that night she got a full paying client.
So when I share these things, they impact every area of your life,
how you're seeing yourself.
OK, if you're seeing yourself like a grasshopper, then you're going to set.
We said before, it's the stories that is the standards.
If you're seeing yourself like a grasshopper, you're going to set grasshopper
standards.
And the grasshopper is not going to jump over the building.
If you see yourself as created in the image of God in like Superman, right,
you're going to set Superwoman, Superman standards.
All right. Let me know if like you're relating to what I'm saying.
Any of you, any of you, this is hitting home.
So I'm curious.
I'm curious, maybe make a note for yourself,
where have you said some I am's and where have you said I am not and just settled
there like you said, well, I'm just not good at sales.
But that was just a complete cop out.
Did you take a sales class?
Did you listen in the Prosper Leader
membership to the successful sales conversation and the encore?
There's five hours of sales training right there.
Those of you VIP, you got that for free.
It's in the Prosper Leader membership, right?
Did you do something about it?
Did you say, well, I'm not very good at speaking?
Or did you shift the mindset and say,
I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me and I'm going to up level
my skill set so that I am good at sales in a heart centered,
integrous, God glorifying way, I am good at speaking.
Did you read my successful speaking secrets of Jesus?
Like, did you did you listen to anything on how to speak?
You see, we just kind of the lowest level of sinking down is what you see here.
It's an apathy kind of place.
It's a settling place.
And so they're just like, well, you know what?
We were like grasshoppers and that's how they saw us.
And it's all hopeless.
You want to know how to rise through these
levels of shedding the beliefs.
And seeing who God
has called you to be, and so all of this is inside of you,
you've learned it all week, but it's shedding those grasshopper
beliefs about yourself.
Am I talking to anybody?
OK, Susan, this is the very topic of my meditation this morning.
Yes.
Yeah. And I love that.
She says, I tell myself I need many things in my business.
Right. And yet I'm not being resourceful.
I love it. You're here today.
You're staying in the game.
I appreciate your honesty and your transparency with that.
That's the key. There's never a lack of resources.
There's only a lack of us being resourcefulness.
God has put all the resources on the planet,
the cattle on a thousand hills, the gold, the silver, the infinite wealth.
I mean, everything is already here.
It's the resourcefulness, but you won't tap in.
This is this is the little glitch right here.
You won't tap into the resourcefulness
if you're still stuck in the grasshopper mindset.
That victim mindset that, you know, I can't, which is really I won't,
but I can't and.
It's been this way for generations, this is what happens in my family,
whatever it is, yada, yada, yada, the stories that we tell.
OK, am I talking to anybody, anybody getting something already?
One of the things I encourage you when you're listening to this is that you're
making notes on the side, the thing that really jumps and then go deep afterwards to.
to really apply this.
So there's how we see ourselves,
and then there is how others see us.
And this is really amazing.
Jesus asks a question.
Who do people say I am?
And they start throwing out answers.
Well, some say you're a prophet.
Some say you're Elijah, come back.
Some say you're a good teacher, kind of like today.
Some people say a lot of things.
And then he looks at them and he says,
but who do you say that I am?
We're reading from your study guide.
By the way, did you all get the new study guide for today?
If not, Linda, I'm afraid,
in case some people didn't get it,
if you could put the link.
It's different than the original study guide.
I did email it out today, so it should be in your email.
But Linda, yeah, we're getting people did not get it.
So Linda, could you pop the study guide link,
or all of you, it is in your email.
I did send it today to everybody.
But yeah, Linda's gonna get it and pop it in there for you
because I know it's different than the other,
and I want you to have this, okay.
But we'll read from it now while she's getting you that.
Okay, yeah, people are saying thank you,
they didn't get it.
Okay, so Jesus says, but who do you say that I am?
And of course, Simon Peter is always the first
to pop up and pop off, right?
And he says, you are Christ, the Messiah, the anointed.
You are the son of the living God.
There it is, you guys, there's the Google link
for the study guide.
Can you put it in the Facebook group too, please, Linda?
All right, so then Jesus answers him and says, blessed.
I'm reading from the Amplified translation,
so it gives you all the words, happy, spiritually secured,
favored by God, are you Simon, son of Jonah?
Because flesh and blood, mortal man
did not reveal this to you, but my father who is in heaven.
Now, many of you have probably read that,
you've glossed over that, and you're like, wow, okay,
the Holy Spirit really spoke through Peter
and Peter got it.
What I want you to notice in this that's really important,
this is something that the Lord hit me with,
I think it was at one of the last retreats
I was doing for his view, and it really hit me
and I taught on this, for Jesus to recognize
that Peter's answer was truth,
he had to already know his own identity.
He would not have been able to answer that
if he was not already rock solid himself in who he was.
You get that?
So in that moment, he wasn't seeking affirmation,
oh, tell me who am I?
Come on, guys, I need you to pick me up,
encourage me, please, really, do you see that in me?
Oh, thank you, I don't see that in myself.
How often do we do that?
You know, what do you guys see?
Oh, really, you see that, you get a compliment, right?
And either you just resist it and go,
no, definitely, that's not me, you don't believe it,
or you go, oh, thank you, right?
Jesus wasn't doing that here.
He just went, you know what,
you're walking in divine revelation,
that's exactly who I am.
Where did he get that from?
Where did he know so well?
Well, he heard from the Lord,
I'm sure growing up, he heard the miracle stories,
how he was born in a virgin and how, you know,
the wise men came and the angels came.
I'm sure he had a history that kind of helped a little bit
to set him apart, but when he went to get baptized
before his ministry and the heavens opened
and the voice of God spoke and said,
this is my son in whom I'm well pleased.
And the Holy Spirit landed on him like a dove.
There you had Father, Son, and Holy Spirit right there.
He got his identity from the Father.
What did God say about him?
He had heard cool stories from his parents
and from his cousins, you know.
and all the miracles and stuff.
He'd heard cool stories.
And many of you have sat in churches
or you've heard cool stories from your parents or whatever,
but it didn't become real.
I don't think until that moment
when he tapped in and he heard God himself.
But that wasn't enough because we can read the word
and go, wow, says that I'm created in the image of God.
Wow, says that I'm, you know,
son and daughter of the most high God.
Wow, says I'm a temple of the Holy Spirit.
But none of that matters until we internalize that, right?
So it's interesting what it says.
It says that he went in the desert straight from there
to fast and actually even to be tested.
This is the butterfly pressing against the cocoon.
Because it actually, when you read the scriptures,
it says the Holy Spirit led him into the desert
to be tested and tempted.
And what exactly was he tested in?
It's the same thing you're going to be tested in
before you step fully into your full identity
of who you are.
You're always gonna be tested in the same two areas
he was tested in.
What did it say?
If you are the son of God.
Prove it by doing this.
If, you see the first thing that's gonna be attacked
is your identity.
If you're the son of God.
All right, prove it.
Get into works.
If you think you're really, really powerful,
get in there and prove it.
The second thing that gets attacked that's so interesting
is did God really say?
We need you to mute, please.
Did God really say?
So you're going to be attacked in two areas,
in your identity and in the word.
This is what you have to grow through and be rock solid
and know I am who God says I am.
I can do what God says I can do.
What did we read yesterday about the rest?
That they didn't enter into the rest
because they didn't add their faith to the word.
They had the word,
but they didn't add their faith to the word.
So you've got the word who you are.
You've maybe even seen miracles,
read miracles, heard miracles,
but you've got to add your faith to that word.
And you've got to identify who you are.
I need you to mute yourself, please.
Can you see, Linda, who that is?
Powerful, okay.
So the question as you're beginning all of this is,
does how you see yourself right now line up with the word?
Are your thoughts, your feelings, your words,
do they line up with truth?
Do they line up with the word of God?
Now, let me tell you how I can almost immediately know
that you're believing a lie.
Just right off the top, I can tell you're believing a lie.
Here's your lie detector test.
It makes you feel really lousy.
You feel fear, you feel frustration,
you feel limiting beliefs, you feel stuck,
you feel paralyzed.
Like you feel any of these low frequency things,
I'm already telling you you're believing a lie.
There's your lie detector test.
You feel contracted.
You see, fear contracts.
Are you feeling creative and expansive?
Then there's a good chance you're tapped into truth.
So there's, are you feeling heavy?
These are just little, your body telling you.
You feeling heavy?
Chances are you're not tapped into truth.
You feeling light, feeling joy, expansion?
Chances are.
Any of you relating, I'm just curious.
I wanna pause for a second.
Hop in the chat.
What's jumping out for you?
Let's digest this.
Joy.
Tell me more.
Okay.
You're feeling joy.
You're feeling creative.
You're probably tapped in with truth.
It's hitting home.
Butterfly jumping out at you.
The story of the struggle.
It's all part of the process.
Love it.
Anybody else getting something right now
that you can just apply and glean right here, right now?
So you're looking at what you're saying to yourself,
primarily your self-talk,
and is it empowering or is it disempowering?
Love it.
Love what you guys are writing.
Is what I'm saying to myself.
So there's a series of four questions.
Let's let somebody in.
There we go.
There's a series of questions that I often ask.
So first lie detector is you can just go,
am I feeling contracted?
Am I feeling heavy?
It's probably lie-based.
Am I feeling expansive, creative, light?
You're probably tapped into the truth, okay?
That's like just a quick lie detector, okay?
Yes.
Speak to yourself, even in the mirror,
even in front of your husband.
Absolutely.
Love that.
So often when I need to get the root of this with someone,
they'll come to me and basically in my own way,
I'm saying, tell me your story.
And they're basically telling me what they can't do
and what they're not,
and what it is that's keeping them from that.
That's kind of the story.
Remember, we're all part of our story and our standards.
So I write down, you could do this yourself.
So I write down what it is that they're saying, okay?
And some of you I've done this with already.
Linda, are you open to sharing?
Do you remember when we did this process?
Are you open or is it too far removed?
That is probably not top of mind.
Pop in the chat or unmute yourself.
I could give a real example.
So the process of what?
The intensive that you did?
Where we looked at what it was you were believing,
and then we asked a series of four questions,
and then we did some tapping.
Do you remember some of that?
Is that fresh in you?
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Okay, so are you open to sharing here?
Is that okay or not?
Yeah.
Okay, all right.
Sometimes real is just better than me making it up
because I do this all day,
but you're right in front of my camera, so it's you.
You get to choose this, okay.
So thank you for participating.
So the first thing is I have them make a statement.
Do you remember your statement that you were making
before we worked through it at all or the gist of it?
There were a bunch.
I think it was something like,
I need to go along to get along.
I think it was-
Yeah, that was one.
That was absolutely one.
Okay, yeah.
So it was about settling.
She had just been taught,
whether I believe in something or whether I like it or not,
I need to go along to get along.
And then was there anything more?
I mean, this is just off the top of my head.
Do you remember?
Well, that was one
because I'm sandwiched between two sisters
that have really big personalities.
So that was definitely one
where I was the one that was leaned on
to just go with the flow, go with the flow, right?
And then one of the other ones connected to my business,
because we were working the mindset coach aspect
and the created to bloom business now
is the one that you've said before.
And that is, it'll just take up all my time.
It'll be so much work.
Thank you for reminding me.
Yeah, yeah.
So there was two couched in there.
There was one that was kind of creating
some resentment and stuckness and stuff.
And the second one was here she's launching
her created to bloom, her VA business.
And the thought was, if I grow this,
I'm going to lose all my freedom, right?
And we talked about that all week
that that's a straight up value conflict, okay?
And so what it does is it keeps us
putting the gas in the brakes.
Many of us have these, if I do this, I'm going to lose
or I'm going to lose my friends.
Or if I do this, I'm going to lose my freedom.
Or, you know, we have these.
things about what we're going to lose, okay?
And so what we did, so the first thing you do
is you just got to get clear on what is it
that you've been believing, okay?
And because this is what's keeping you stuck.
So I'm giving you some real examples.
And the first question that I ask and you ask yourself is,
is that, you could write this down and you say,
is that true?
Can I absolutely know that's true?
And I didn't invent these questions.
This comes from the work and I'm trying to think
of her name right now, but is that true?
Can I absolutely know that's true?
It might feel true,
because that's why you've been believing it.
But when you really back up and you go,
no, actually it's not true.
Like, do you absolutely know beyond a shadow of a doubt
that if you build a business
that you're going to lose your freedom?
Do you absolutely know,
like whatever it is you've been believing, right?
And so the first thing that happens is we realize
what the Bible calls cleverly crafted stories.
We believe these stories, 2 Corinthians 10, five.
We believe these stories that exalt themselves above truth.
And so that was a story exalting itself above truth.
Because if that was true,
then every single person that has a big business
has no freedom.
I'm sorry, most of the eight figure earners I know
take month long vacations often.
They take one week off a month.
They've got a team doing everything for them.
I'm sorry, I don't see that as true.
I don't think anybody would go into business
if that was true.
And yet I believe that lie
because it had been my experience personally.
Because of my own wounding,
operating from my core wounding
and my desire for perfectionism,
I thought because of my own programming,
I thought I had to work myself to the bone
seven days, 24 hours a day, okay?
So my experience or what had been passed on to me,
I saw my father do that.
He was a workaholic.
What gets passed down generationally,
we believe it's true.
That's why we believed it.
But when we back up and we go, is that true?
And then we go, no, actually it's not.
And that's what I did with Linda
because she knows, she saw.
Like the bigger my business got,
the more freedom I had.
I remember the day that probably four or five years ago
when I hired a professional lead generation team
and I never had to look for a lead again.
I'm sorry, that's freedom in my opinion.
My calendar's always booked.
That's pretty darn freedom.
I know where the leads are coming from.
And then I remember when I hired a copywriter.
And then I remember when I hired several VAs.
And then I remember when AI came out and I teach you all
and I bonused you an AI course
in the Prosper Leader membership as part of VIP.
If you're not VIP, by the way, I don't even understand.
I offered you for $47, you got $197 membership.
If you haven't done that yet, I don't get it.
And in there was an AI course
to save you 15 to 20 hours a week.
That in itself, by the way, was $47.
Like, come on, I don't even understand.
It's beyond me, right?
So I encourage you, Linda put the VIP link.
It's just crazy.
If you're not VIP yet, I don't understand.
I'm offering you the world, okay?
But anyway, so we decided, no, it's not true.
And this is where what we're learning today,
the rubber meets the road.
And so we then came to the conclusion,
oh, actually, that's a lie.
That's what the Bible calls a cleverly crafted tale
that exalts itself above truth.
So the truth is I've been believing a lie.
That's what's been keeping me stuck, paralyzed, playing small.
I've been believing a lie.
You've got to come to that revelation first.
And then the second question to take that deeper
is when you believe that lie, what's the fruit?
Because every thought and feeling has a fruit.
What's the fruit of believing that?
And she would say, I play small.
I don't even know if you remember some of the fruit, Linda,
but pop up, I'm doing this off my head.
But believing that lie, that if you build a big business,
you were going to lose your freedom,
what kind of fruit was that producing?
Well, then you don't, I don't build.
I just stay stuck.
Yeah, stuckness, playing small.
It's usually because you've been believing a lie about.
yourself or about life in your business, okay? So you identify it's a lie and then you look at the
fruit. Now, Linda will tell you, I repeat this over and over. I'm wanting this to just really
get in. So I'll say, so you've been believing a lie and I'll repeat that. And the fruit of
believing that lie is that it's kept you playing small, not earning the income that you wanted to
earn, not experiencing the fulfillment you wanted to experience, not touching lives the way you
wanted to touch lives, wanted to get that. Okay. Linda, she's asking for the promo code. I'm
thinking that's for the VIP. Is that what you're asking? Okay. I think she put it there, but pop
it again there if you could, Linda, the VIP code. Okay. So we've been believing this lie and then
it has this fruit. So now I'm going to expand and you're going to expand yourself. So you've
been going, what's the lie I've been believing about myself that I can't do this, that I don't
know enough, that I'm too old, that I'm too fat, that I don't have enough education, that I don't
have enough training, that I, what is the lie you've been believing about yourself that you can't do
what God has called you to do? And what fruit is that producing? Get clear on that. What is it
keeping you from? Touching lives? Having the joy and satisfaction and fulfillment of it?
Earning the money? Having freedom? What is this lie you've been believing about yourself?
What is it? So then I say to expand the mind, if you are willing to let go, you've been believing
a lie, it produces this fruit. If you were willing to let go of that lie and release that lie,
what would be the fruit? What would be the fruit?
Always, when I ask the first question, you've been believing a lie, what's the fruit? Always
low frequency, fear, doubt, stuck, angry, sad, paralyzed, always low frequency fruit.
Because every thought and belief has a fruit. If you're willing to let go of that belief, those
thoughts, those feelings, what's the fruit? I'd be creative. I'd be free. I would just totally go for
it. I'd be top of the world. I'd be on the moon. I would just, it would be fun. I'd be so excited.
I would, and so it's always a high frequency. And then I'll just dive it in one more time
and I'll say, can you give me any good reason? You've been believing a lie. Can you give me
any good reason to continue to hold that lie? And the answer will be no, no.
And here's where the rubber meets the road, ladies. You're God-given ability to choose.
God has given you ability to choose your thoughts, or he wouldn't have told you to
take every thought captive. God has given you the ability to renew your mind,
or he wouldn't have told you that's how you're transformed.
I say, are you willing to choose to let go of that lie, that belief, that thought?
And then she said, yes. Now, if I'm working with you one-on-one, I will walk you through EFT,
some tapping to wire the new belief. And I do it in a way that we completely obliterate
and crush and smash the old belief. And we just, just dig in the new belief. And what happens,
Linda, after we do that process, how did you feel? What changed for you?
You know, free, I felt very released. And I actually, that's when I created my mindset
coloring book. Love it. You know what I can do? I can do some really cool things here. So I just,
yeah, because I had done your prosper plan. I had done your prosper plan. I had done your
yeah, because I had done your prosper plan or learn the KDP process. And I'm like, you know,
I could, I could do something with this. So, I mean, it just, I gave myself permission
to do the things. Right. And I think I told you the other day, I got a download and God said,
if you're not, if you're not doing what I called you to do, you're serving the other guy.
Yeah. I was like, so, so you got clear that it was a lie. You chose, we rewired. And right away,
you started creating products. You started growing your new company. You started getting
some clients. You had new.
peace. And this is what we do. This is how it works. Okay. So I love this. And I hope that
this part is helping you. So we saw on the next page where Jesus got his identity. And so there's
this exercise there that you can do afterwards that says, who do you say you are? What do you
most commonly say about yourself? What do you put after the words I am? And then there's an
exercise. I hope you do this afterwards to really experience this. How does that compare to who God
says that you are? Right? How does that compare with who God says you are? So we saw in Matthew
four, three to six, that the tempter comes and tempts him with the words if.
And what we see here on your notes is that if you don't know your identity, if you don't get
clear on who you are, others will tell you who they think you should be. So if you're not stepping
up and being who you say, who God says you are, then other people are going to tell you who you
are and put you in position and hold you like we saw. We saw ourselves as grasshoppers. They saw
us as grasshoppers. They put us in the grasshopper field and that was that. Yeah? Any of you like
picking up what I'm putting down? Okay. So a lot of this in your study guide is you discover who
you are by removing what you are not. There is a peeling away and I see why today. This doesn't
happen to me very often, but the Lord told me to pull this out of my bookshelf and it just wouldn't
leave me alone. So I grabbed it. It's something I read a long time ago. It's called Letting Go,
The Pathway of Surrender by Dr. David Hawkins. He's the same one that wrote Power versus Force,
right? And I was like, why is God just telling me to pick that up? So I picked it up. I thought,
well, I'll just set it there. I got things to do to get ready for this morning. And the Lord's like,
no, I want you reading this this morning. And probably five times talking to you, this has come
up in what I'm talking about right now. What we wrote here, we tap into who we are at your very
essence. You are who God made you to be. It's in your very DNA. You know, the story of Michelangelo
and the statue of David. I've been to the Louvre. I've seen that magnificent statue.
And there is the place where Michelangelo was asked, how do you take a piece of marble? You've
just got this square stone. And how do you carve like this magnificent of David? I mean,
the details are incredible. And he answered simply, I simply remove, I chip away everything
that is not David. So he's chip, chipping on the stone, chip, chip, chipping on the stone. And
pretty soon you see a leg and chip, chip, chipping. And the muscles start coming out and he's chip,
chip, chipping. You see an arm and chip, chip. And like pretty soon you got every detail.
It was there inside of the stone. David was there the whole time.
Michelangelo took off what was not so that you could see what it was. He didn't build David.
He didn't, it wasn't pottery or clay that I'm going to build this. He chipped away everything
that was not. Do you get that? This is what God is calling you to do in this day and age. And,
and so I looked through this this morning. I thought, man, it's been years since I've read
this and let me just go through the chapters. And, you know, the first chapter is the mechanism of,
of letting go. And it goes through the anatomy of emotions and then it starts walking you through.
And if you've ever studied power versus force, you understand he's a physician. He's a psychiatrist.
He's, he's really brilliant. I could, I could grab the power versus force, but
what he saw that we all know is that all these emotions have a frequency. Everything that God
made has a frequency. Look, I'm not getting new age or woo-woo. When I say frequency, I mean,
I mean, it's vibrating, it has a wavelength.
And it means some of the wavelengths
are really high and close together.
Some of them are really spread out, okay?
And we call that a frequency.
And everything that God created in the universe
has a frequency.
Everything is vibrating, everything is moving, okay?
And what he began to see
is that there's low frequency emotions,
and you all know this in experience.
And there's high frequency emotions.
And the high frequency emotions,
everything over, I think it's 200 in my head right now,
brings strength and health to the body.
And everything below 200 brings dis-ease.
Well, this lines up with scripture.
What are the highest frequencies that they measured
using either applied kinesiology
or using instruments?
What were the highest frequencies?
Love, peace, joy?
Any of those sound familiar?
Like the fruits of the Holy Spirit?
What was the absolute lowest frequency before you die?
This is it, the dis-ease.
The lowest frequency was shame.
I didn't get into the E part of the Prosper system.
We'll do that, or you could see it
inside of the Prosper Leader membership.
But the lowest frequency was shame.
And so what we found is that with each breakthrough
of letting go of a previous low frequency
and you go to a higher frequency,
you become stronger and more creative.
And what's interesting about this
is it changes your view of yourself.
We're talking about self-perception.
It changes your view of yourself,
and it changes your view of God.
I'm gonna jump up and grab it.
Hold on.
Oh, if I don't knock anything over.
Yep, I knocked something over, but here we are.
You can tell this is off the cuff,
and the Lord just reminds me of things.
Okay, here's his book, Power Versus Force, same author, okay?
And so let me just pull up the frequency chart
really quick, okay?
And so the interesting thing about this
is that the frequency you're operating at,
the emotion that you're clinging to where you're living,
it has a fruit.
We already gave that example, okay?
So shame is the very lowest, has a frequency of 20, okay?
And so in that place,
there's kind of humiliation and that type of thing.
But look, your life view when you're in shame
is life is miserable.
And your God view is God is very despising.
He despises me, he despises us.
We're worthless sinners, we're worms, whatever, right?
And as you rise up, maybe you get to apathy, which is 50.
And so that's more like despair, right?
And so when you are in apathy,
then your life view is life is pretty hopeless.
And your God view is God is very condemning.
So interesting, your view of God will change as you change.
This is an amazing thought.
It's all in scripture, by the way, I don't have time today.
But we work our way up to grief
and then we work our way up to fear.
So fear is at 100.
And at least it's got way more energy
and stronger than shame or guilt or grief.
At least you're starting to get some movement
going with fear.
Fear can motivate you.
Fear can motivate you to get going and do things
and whatever.
And so that feels more like anxiety.
And so you see life as frightening.
You see God is punitive.
Now we work our way up, we work our way to anger.
We work our way up to pride and we get to 200,
which is courage.
And when we're at 200 courage,
now this is where the breakthrough,
where everything below 200 is creating dis-ease
in your body, okay?
But when we get to 200 at courage,
now life seems feasible.
Like maybe, maybe I can do this.
And God seems permitting,
like maybe God will let me do this.
And then we get up into neutrality.
That's where like, man, I just need to relearn
what I've been doing has not been working.
And I'm getting some important messages.
What are they?
Yes.
Okay, so we get to this.
And so now we work our way all the way up to 200.
these high-level frequencies, okay?
And so we get to love at 500,
and now we see life is benign, life is loving,
life makes things available.
I have a sense of reverence.
I start feeling revelation,
and my view of God is God is loving.
And I get to 540 at joy,
and at joy, I'm starting to see,
wow, everything's complete in life.
God really has already supplied all my needs,
and God is one, as he said that he was.
And we work our way up to peace,
where we start seeing life as perfect,
and God is in everything and everyone,
and we work our way up.
And so this process then of letting go
is why did God remind me?
Because as I let go of the apathy and depression
that says I can't, which really is I won't,
and I let go of the blame,
and I start choosing the positive,
and I start changing my company,
I bump up to grief.
And in grief, I have to start handling the loss.
What was it that put me in apathy?
I lost, and I started giving up.
And so it walks you through,
and as you get into fear,
and how the healing affects of love,
you'll start moving into desire.
And we've talked about that all week.
And then you may feel some anger,
and pride, and humility, and joy, and gratitude,
and you get into courage, and you get into acceptance,
and you get into love, and love healing,
and unconditional love, and so on.
So it's like this we're seeing with David,
the whole goal of this is chipping away
everything that you are not.
So we're gonna pick up there,
we're gonna pick up there,
we're gonna take a short break,
but we're gonna look at the story
of the exodus in scripture,
and what that actually represents in our life.
Not only is it historical, and in the Bible,
the word of God, but it's really representative
of what we're going to do as you are,
remember we talked about this is a hero's journey.
And so you're in a form of an exodus,
you're leaving a slavery of self-imposed expectations,
of perfectionism, of fear, of doubt, of worry,
whatever it is that's kept you stuck and enslaved,
and God is taking you on this hero's journey.
We've been working through the prosperous system
to where you're going from soul tired
to total soul prosperity.
Who's with me?
Say with you.
Who's with me?
Say with you.
And we're going to take like a three minute break,
like a stand up, go to the bathroom,
stretch, shake it out,
maybe maximum five minutes,
I'll be right back with you,
and I just want you to be fresh, okay?
So we'll see you in three to five minutes,
as fast as we can do this.
Let me stop the recording,
and I can't do that in Facebook,
so I wonder if there's some music we can be playing or song.