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All right, we are recording.

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So welcome to our path three or I'm sorry, our phase three session for tonight.

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We are going to do a little ugly Christmas sweater contest.

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We didn't tell you that we were going to do that because we want to surprise you.

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And so we're doing a little contest doesn't have to be a sweater.

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It can be anything that is beautifully gaudy at this time of year.

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You might have a llama sweatshirt on.

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I'll show you that in a second.

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So we're just going to take a little tour.

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I'm looking through the windows here, kind of a small crowd tonight of just 95 of us.

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And that's because a lot of people have a lot of stuff going on at this time of year.

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And that is okay.

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All right.

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So if you think that your attire tonight is just hideous, and you think it could win this

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contest, I think we'll do a couple different categories.

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We'll have a couple of different prizes.

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So let's do, you know, just terrible, the most terrible, gaudy, hideous, ugliest thing

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we've ever seen.

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Okay.

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Ugly, ugly, traditionally ugly Christmas sweater.

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That'll be our first category.

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Okay.

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And then we will do a cute, cute, whimsical, cutie kind of thing.

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Let's do that.

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And then maybe we'll do funniest.

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Okay.

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So ugliest, funniest, and cutest.

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How about those three categories?

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All right.

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So raise your hand if you would like to enter the ugliest ensemble.

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Andy, Michelle, and Pam want to enter the ugliest ensemble.

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Okay.

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And Sandy does.

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And Katrina or Trina and Terry.

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All right.

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Is that it?

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Is that everyone who wants to, because I'm going to, I'm going to spotlight each and

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every one of these people.

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So you guys can get an up close look and we're going to number them.

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And then you're all going to vote.

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You're going to vote 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, who has the ugliest outfit on or the ugliest sweater,

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ugliest shirt.

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Okay.

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All right.

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So that's it.

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All right.

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I'm going to give you three seconds for this closing it, it's closing, going once, going

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twice.

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All right.

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Three times sold to these six people.

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Keep your hand up.

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Please do not put your hand down because I won't be able to find you then.

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So we have Andy, Michelle, Pam, Sandy, Trina, and Terry.

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All right.

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All right.

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So I am going to spotlight first and fore and be on camera y'all.

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You can't say that you have a hideous sweater on if you're not on camera.

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So I'm going to spotlight our first contestants, this contestant number one, all right.

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And spotlight.

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All right.

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Andy, show us what you got.

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Can we see it?

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Show us, kind of show us what you got.

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Tell us about it.

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It's Argyle.

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It's an Argyle sweater.

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So when I got this sweater for my, the first time I had a ugly sweater party, I got this

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like some secondhand store and I thought these looked kind of like snowflakes and I thought

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that it was ugly, like in a literal sense.

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And so I made this my ugly Christmas sweater that I always wear, ugly Christmas sweater.

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All right.

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Perfect.

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All right.

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Let's try on that one.

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Okay.

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So that is contestant number one.

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Okay.

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We have a, a blue and gray and white Argyle sweater that he thinks is perfectly hideous.

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And then contestant number two is Michelle.

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And here is her ugly Christmas sweater.

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Give us a little tour there.

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Oh, we got some dogs.

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We got a dog or polar bear.

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We got a penguin.

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We got some bows.

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Yes.

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And lovely bows for a necklace.

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Yes.

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Yes.

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Bow necklace.

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And in the back, it's not done, you know.

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Oh my gosh.

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It sort of just keeps on giving.

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It gives it, it gives, it gives vibes coming and going.

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All right, you guys, that, that is two.

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That's contestant number two.

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And that is great.

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Thank you so much for participating, you guys.

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You guys are what makes this fun.

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Pam is next.

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I'm going to spotlight her.

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Pam, show us your ugly sweater.

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Hideous sweater.

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Oh, what do we have?

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No men.

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Oh, and some sort of, what is that?

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Is that like a weird tree?

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A squiggly?

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It's just squiggly.

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Squiggly.

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In the back.

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All right, Pam.

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Thank you so much.

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And you guys, that is number three.

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All right.

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We're going to number four.

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Sandy, Sandy, show us your ugly sweater vest thingy, Bob.

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Oh, it's a vest y'all it's given best vibes.

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If I can stand up, it's, um, it's a cardigan.

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It goes all, it goes all the way.

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How long does it go to your knees?

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Yes.

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Oh, no, it goes to the knees.

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You guys.

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All right.

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That is number four.

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That is number four.

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Sandy.

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Thank you so much.

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All right.

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Now we're going to go to five.

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This is Trina's ugly admission.

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Oh, Oh, what is that?

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That's like the abominable snow monster guy.

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You're you're muted.

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I think you're muted.

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Yeah, sorry.

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Yes.

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That's a ugly abominable snowman.

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It is.

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Does he have like sunglasses or something?

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Oh, yep.

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That's it right there.

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So that's Trina's you guys.

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That's one, two, three, four, five.

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That's five.

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And then last but not least.

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We have Terry.

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Terry, show us what you got.

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Oh, this is my sweater.

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Oh, my goodness.

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Oh, it's got cat.

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You guys, it's got cats all over it.

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It's got orange in the back and cats in the front.

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Several cats.

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It's the cat lady sweater.

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Terry, do you like cats?

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Do you have any cats?

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I love cats.

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I did not have any cats.

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Well, you have.

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And I am a cat.

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There you go.

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All right, you guys.

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You saw them.

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There they are.

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Hold on one sec.

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I lost Terry.

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I lost her.

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She put her hand down there.

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Let me go ahead and remove that spotlight.

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All right.

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So you guys saw all the sweaters.

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So we have Andy and the ugly Argyle.

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We have Michelle who has a lot going on there.

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It's kind of, it's given, it's given the vibes coming and going.

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It's the bow necklace.

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She had the bows around her, her.

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We have Pam who had the, um, kind of remember and remember and remember and

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remember snow was at the snow monster, Pam.

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Oh, we have it right here.

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Cheryl.

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You're great.

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Andy's the Argyle.

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Michelle's the polar bear, penguin bows and bells with

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the bows around the neck.

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Pam is a snow man, family Christmas tree.

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Sandy's a sparkle tinsel vest.

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Uh, yes.

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Trina is the snow Yeti abominable snowman and six Terry with the kittens.

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Ornaments and bows.

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All right, you guys, you can only vote for one.

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Please only put up one number one through six.

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What is the ugliest?

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What do we got?

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Cheryl, if you'll look and see, it looks like two got a lot of twos.

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Got some fives going on there.

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A few threes.

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I think, I think the girls actually like your sweater, Andy.

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I think that they like a guy in a preppy Argyle sweater.

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So you hate it, but it looks like women like it.

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Maybe you should wear that on a date.

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So Cheryl, what do you think?

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I think it's, I think it's probably two.

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That two looks like the clear winner.

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So Michelle, you're the winner of the ugliest, most hideous, most

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offensive Christmas sweater.

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That is awesome.

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I hardly win anything.

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So I'm glad I won ugly.

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That's good.

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It's fun.

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You're beautiful.

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All right, you guys go ahead and put your hands down.

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Go ahead and put your, I think I can actually put your hands

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down faster than you can.

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So I'll go ahead and do that.

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Raise your hand.

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If you want to just quickly jump into the funniest, you think you got

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the funniest situation going on?

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Just funny.

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People are gonna look at it.

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They're going to like, Oh, that's funny.

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What do you got?

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Put your hand up.

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Put your hand up.

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If you got a funny sweater on Marsha thinks she has something funny going on.

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Karen, Sarah, it's like we might only have three going once if you're joining.

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Oh, Janet jumped in.

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Who else?

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Anybody else?

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Funny.

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Humorous.

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Humorous.

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Hi.

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I have llamas.

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Save the drama for your llama.

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I have llamas on my sweater.

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Okay.

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So we have Marcia, Karen, Sarah, Janet, and Gina.

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Want to be in the funniest one.

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Going once, going twice, sold.

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To these five ladies that are ready to be funny.

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All right.

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So I'm going to go ahead and show you.

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All right.

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Let's go.

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Here's number one.

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Show us your funny.

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She's got a Sandy hat.

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She has a Sandy hat on.

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What else you got?

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Oh, it's just a big cat face.

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And look at what it said.

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It says very meow.

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Cute.

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All right.

277
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Thank you, Marcia.

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I love that.

279
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Very funny.

280
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All right.

281
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Karen is number two.

282
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Oh,

283
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She's got some.

284
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Snowflakes are kind of white points.

285
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Oh, yeah.

286
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You have a big Rudolph.

287
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The red nose reindeer there.

288
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Yep.

289
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Little, little fur ball.

290
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No little cotton ball nose.

291
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All right.

292
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Karen is number two.

293
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Is on the back.

294
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Oh, show us the back.

295
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Gotta show us.

296
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Oh,

297
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Ugly sweater.

298
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Oh,

299
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That's not a lie.

300
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We gotta make sure we let them know.

301
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Being the ugly sweater.

302
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If you have to be told it's an ugly sweater.

303
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That's yeah.

304
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That's not a lie.

305
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That's not a lie.

306
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Okay.

307
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That's great.

308
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So Karen is number two.

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Everyone.

310
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Take a look there.

311
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Marsha's one.

312
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Karen's too.

313
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Sarah is going to be number three.

314
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Spotlighting.

315
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Here we come.

316
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Look at that.

317
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Oh, no.

318
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I think.

319
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Why didn't you get into the ugliest contest?

320
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I wasn't on here yet.

321
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I missed.

322
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Oh, you weren't.

323
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Okay.

324
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Yeah.

325
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So funniest.

326
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It's a Santee dress.

327
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Got Santa's all over.

328
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There we go.

329
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All right.

330
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Thank you so much.

331
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That was Sarah.

332
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Sarah disappeared from my list, but there she is.

333
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Okay.

334
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And then, so she's three.

335
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Marsha's one.

336
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Karen's two.

337
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Sarah's three.

338
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And then Janet is going to be next.

339
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I got it.

340
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Oh, there's Sarah.

341
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Let me go down and remove.

342
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Okay.

343
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Janet.

344
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You're up.

345
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Show us your funny.

346
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Okay.

347
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So there's this kind of a story behind it.

348
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This is called the cool kids.

349
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The cool kids.

350
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Yeah.

351
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My daughter made it and it's when my sister and all of us went on vacation

352
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and my kids played with me like pickleball.

353
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They did everything with me and I was always with them.

354
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So they consider themselves the cool kids.

355
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So we had a vacation and she had all these made up and we wore them where we went.

356
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Okay.

357
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And that's what the cool kids are made up of.

358
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Okay.

359
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We love the, you know, the Christmas movies and stuff.

360
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We watch those together when they come.

361
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So she put all the characters on there and to represent them.

362
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That's cute.

363
00:13:06.000 --> 00:13:07.000
What's the middle one.

364
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What's the middle person.

365
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On here.

366
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We've got, oh, that's the.

367
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Christmas vacation.

368
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Okay.

369
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I thought for some reason, I immediately thought it was Donald Trump.

370
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I don't know why.

371
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Some of you thought that too.

372
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Okay.

373
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All right.

374
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I love it. Thank you so much.

375
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All right. So you guys saw that is Janet and she is number four.

376
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Thank you, Janet.

377
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All right.

378
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And then Gina.

379
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Gina is five Gina show us your funny sweater.

380
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Okay.

381
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I'm going to show it to you.

382
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But it's a little elf.

383
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And I think it's funny looking.

384
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It's funny, but it's also cute.

385
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Yes.

386
00:14:00.000 --> 00:14:02.000
Yes.

387
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It is cute. It's funny.

388
00:14:03.000 --> 00:14:04.000
Thank you.

389
00:14:04.000 --> 00:14:05.000
Funny.

390
00:14:05.000 --> 00:14:07.000
All right. That's Gina. She's five.

391
00:14:07.000 --> 00:14:11.000
I think I said five.

392
00:14:11.000 --> 00:14:14.000
Cheryl's paying attention, not me. So I'm sure she'll do it for us.

393
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Leah.

394
00:14:16.000 --> 00:14:17.000
Okay.

395
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I'm going to have to stand for this.

396
00:14:18.000 --> 00:14:22.000
Okay.

397
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This is a two part sweater. My cousin has the other half.

398
00:14:25.000 --> 00:14:28.000
What is the.

399
00:14:28.000 --> 00:14:32.000
Vomiting diarrhea and of a reindeer.

400
00:14:32.000 --> 00:14:34.000
That was the ugly sweater.

401
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Let me see.

402
00:14:35.000 --> 00:14:38.000
Go again. Let me see. Let me see.

403
00:14:38.000 --> 00:14:39.000
Can I see it? Okay.

404
00:14:39.000 --> 00:14:44.000
Great.

405
00:14:44.000 --> 00:14:48.000
I got the diarrhea and.

406
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Reindeer head puking.

407
00:14:50.000 --> 00:14:54.000
Oh, my God.

408
00:14:54.000 --> 00:14:56.000
Oh, my gosh. You guys.

409
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Oh, wow.

410
00:15:00.000 --> 00:15:03.040
Yes. Thank you, Leah. That's great. Yes. Very funny. Very,

411
00:15:03.080 --> 00:15:05.800
that very creative. I think that wins the most creative sweater

412
00:15:05.800 --> 00:15:09.720
that I've ever seen before. All right. Thank you. So yes, good

413
00:15:09.720 --> 00:15:14.320
job. Sarah already went and then Sally is jumped in here. So

414
00:15:14.320 --> 00:15:19.920
we'll go ahead and Oh, hold on. Sorry, guys, I clicked off of

415
00:15:19.920 --> 00:15:25.280
it. And now it's gone. Okay. I was in the wrong group.

416
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Hold on a second. I'm trying to grab it again. Shoot. Hang on,

417
00:15:44.760 --> 00:15:47.400
guys. I'm having a little technical difficulties here.

418
00:15:55.960 --> 00:15:59.400
All right, there's Sally. Sally, tell us about your I wanted to

419
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be in the cute group. Okay, well, cute snacks. So just hang

420
00:16:03.600 --> 00:16:06.600
on one more time. One more minute. Don't Okay, she'll be

421
00:16:06.600 --> 00:16:09.080
number one for the cute you guys. So we'll see her in just a

422
00:16:09.080 --> 00:16:12.400
second. She'll be Sani with a boa around her neck in just a

423
00:16:12.400 --> 00:16:15.120
second. All right, let's vote on this. Can you go ahead and put

424
00:16:15.120 --> 00:16:17.240
the recap up there for us?

425
00:16:22.040 --> 00:16:24.160
Hold on a second, you guys, I gotta make sure that everyone

426
00:16:24.160 --> 00:16:33.240
gets on spotlighted. Okay. All right, we're back. Okay, so

427
00:16:33.800 --> 00:16:42.720
funny. We got funny. We have Marcia very meowy. Karen

428
00:16:42.720 --> 00:16:46.160
snowflakes Rudolph with the red nose. Santa Claus dress. The

429
00:16:46.160 --> 00:16:50.440
cool kids is number four. Gina is the elf dress. And then Leah

430
00:16:50.440 --> 00:16:54.120
is the diarrhea reindeer. All right, what do we got? Cheryl?

431
00:16:54.120 --> 00:16:58.840
Who's the winner of this one? I'll see a lot of sixes.

432
00:17:08.920 --> 00:17:10.880
The four and six but looks like sixes.

433
00:17:13.920 --> 00:17:16.760
Okay, you guys, we're gonna have a tiebreaker between four and

434
00:17:16.760 --> 00:17:20.040
six starting right now put up the number that you like best

435
00:17:20.040 --> 00:17:21.960
funniest between four and six.

436
00:17:28.480 --> 00:17:29.800
Gosh, it looks pretty even.

437
00:17:33.640 --> 00:17:36.200
All right, they're both gonna win four and six for funniest.

438
00:17:36.200 --> 00:17:42.600
Yay. Okay, so who are the I know Leah is one of those with with

439
00:17:42.600 --> 00:17:47.080
it. Okay, and then Janet the cool kids. So four and six are

440
00:17:47.080 --> 00:17:49.520
the winners of this one. And last but not least, you guys, we

441
00:17:49.520 --> 00:17:52.600
can move on to our regular scheduled program tonight. We're

442
00:17:52.600 --> 00:17:58.280
going to do the cutest the most endearing the sweetest. Okay,

443
00:17:58.360 --> 00:18:00.800
so I'm going to lower everyone's hands if you think that and we

444
00:18:00.800 --> 00:18:02.800
lower everyone's hands. Now if you think you have the cutest

445
00:18:02.800 --> 00:18:06.280
most endearing sweetest little ensemble, let's see your hands.

446
00:18:07.240 --> 00:18:11.240
Got to end this on a good note after you know, Rudolph had a

447
00:18:11.240 --> 00:18:11.920
blowout.

448
00:18:13.840 --> 00:18:15.400
Need to make sure we end this on a

449
00:18:15.840 --> 00:18:25.000
on a not middle school. No here y'all diarrhea. Don't tell me

450
00:18:25.000 --> 00:18:28.160
you don't think that word is funny because it is. You guys

451
00:18:28.160 --> 00:18:32.360
ever play that game when you were a kid? I can't even

452
00:18:32.360 --> 00:18:37.200
remember now but the punchline of it was always diarrhea. Guys

453
00:18:37.200 --> 00:18:41.640
remember those little rhymes and diarrhea? Okay, it's just me.

454
00:18:41.640 --> 00:18:45.760
Yeah, I came from a very, very depraved place. And so just so

455
00:18:45.760 --> 00:18:46.120
y'all know,

456
00:18:46.560 --> 00:18:51.000
vomit, it makes your mouth turn green. Comet. It makes you it

457
00:18:51.000 --> 00:18:54.200
makes you vomit. So buy some comment and vomit today.

458
00:18:54.640 --> 00:18:57.680
Yeah, that's those are those are the rhymes. Those are the rhymes.

459
00:18:57.920 --> 00:19:01.640
The kids you guys the kids that were kids in the 80s. And you

460
00:19:01.640 --> 00:19:04.800
know, and then, you know, maybe teenagers and 90 we didn't have

461
00:19:04.800 --> 00:19:07.840
a lot of things to do. So we made stuff up. We made rhymes

462
00:19:07.840 --> 00:19:10.800
up. And that's what we did. Okay, so you guys, it's a lot of

463
00:19:10.800 --> 00:19:12.880
people. So we're gonna go ahead and end it there to Elizabeth

464
00:19:12.920 --> 00:19:16.360
going once twice sold to these like looks like 10 people that

465
00:19:16.360 --> 00:19:18.680
are going to be in this we're going to go really fast. Okay,

466
00:19:18.680 --> 00:19:20.920
because we have other things to do tonight. So this is the

467
00:19:20.920 --> 00:19:23.880
cutest. Keep that in mind. Number one, Lisa, tell us about

468
00:19:23.880 --> 00:19:30.240
your all. She's got on a little no man vibe going. Bill Dickens

469
00:19:30.240 --> 00:19:35.160
hat. And she's cute. A little scarf. I love it. So cute.

470
00:19:35.160 --> 00:19:40.000
Number one, you guys little snowman. Okay. Regina is up with

471
00:19:40.000 --> 00:19:46.120
number two. Regina, what do you got? Oh, I have dolphins. And

472
00:19:47.600 --> 00:19:52.480
it makes bells. They're wearing antlers. Oh, dolphins with

473
00:19:52.520 --> 00:19:58.640
antlers. So cute bells. It's a sound it's a sound sweater.

474
00:19:58.680 --> 00:20:00.040
Alright, so that's for Gina.

475
00:20:00.000 --> 00:20:02.560
Hey, you guys with the blue dolphin bell sweater.

476
00:20:02.560 --> 00:20:03.880
And then we're going to spotlight.

477
00:20:03.940 --> 00:20:06.920
Amber is next number three, but Amber, what do you got?

478
00:20:08.160 --> 00:20:08.480
Okay.

479
00:20:08.480 --> 00:20:10.040
I have, um, Mr.

480
00:20:10.040 --> 00:20:13.600
Coca-Cola polar bear with the heart and some little trees and stuff.

481
00:20:13.600 --> 00:20:16.040
My dad loved Coca-Cola and so it was just a good memory.

482
00:20:16.040 --> 00:20:17.360
So a recent purchase.

483
00:20:18.000 --> 00:20:19.120
Oh, I love that.

484
00:20:19.120 --> 00:20:20.800
You guys, that is nostalgic right there.

485
00:20:20.800 --> 00:20:22.560
The, the Coca-Cola polar bear.

486
00:20:22.560 --> 00:20:23.040
Love it.

487
00:20:23.100 --> 00:20:24.280
Very, very cute.

488
00:20:24.720 --> 00:20:25.000
All right.

489
00:20:25.000 --> 00:20:26.560
Vicki is next.

490
00:20:26.560 --> 00:20:31.760
Oh, you got a jingle bell.

491
00:20:32.800 --> 00:20:33.520
Cute.

492
00:20:33.840 --> 00:20:35.680
Oh, and in your, oh yes.

493
00:20:35.720 --> 00:20:39.240
Yellow V-neck with some reindeers and Santies and presents.

494
00:20:39.600 --> 00:20:40.920
Very cute.

495
00:20:40.960 --> 00:20:42.560
We're going to hear you coming, girlfriend.

496
00:20:42.600 --> 00:20:43.160
All right.

497
00:20:43.840 --> 00:20:44.480
Cute, cute.

498
00:20:44.520 --> 00:20:45.520
All right, Sally.

499
00:20:45.800 --> 00:20:47.280
Oh, Sally's coming over here yet.

500
00:20:47.280 --> 00:20:48.960
Cause I told her to spotlight for everyone.

501
00:20:49.600 --> 00:20:50.000
Okay.

502
00:20:50.040 --> 00:20:52.600
I can change out my boas black or white.

503
00:20:53.040 --> 00:20:55.440
And I, uh, hold on a second.

504
00:20:55.440 --> 00:20:56.960
I got the wrong person spotlighted.

505
00:20:57.960 --> 00:20:59.120
Hold on.

506
00:20:59.920 --> 00:21:01.280
She's going to be next.

507
00:21:01.280 --> 00:21:03.520
Crystal will be next, but Sally was talking.

508
00:21:03.600 --> 00:21:04.760
All right, go ahead now, Sally.

509
00:21:05.240 --> 00:21:07.760
So I have a white boa or a black one.

510
00:21:08.200 --> 00:21:08.800
You can choose.

511
00:21:10.880 --> 00:21:12.520
You got a little Santa romper on.

512
00:21:12.760 --> 00:21:13.640
It's a romper.

513
00:21:14.320 --> 00:21:15.760
Oh, look at, look at those cuffs.

514
00:21:15.800 --> 00:21:17.760
You guys have to see those white cuffs at the bottom.

515
00:21:19.800 --> 00:21:20.440
All right.

516
00:21:20.560 --> 00:21:20.880
Okay.

517
00:21:20.880 --> 00:21:23.200
So Sally's got the Santa romper on.

518
00:21:23.520 --> 00:21:26.600
And then we have crystal next crystal.

519
00:21:26.600 --> 00:21:29.200
Show us your cute got to believe sweater on.

520
00:21:29.840 --> 00:21:30.160
Yeah.

521
00:21:30.200 --> 00:21:32.280
I think this is supposed to be an ugly sweater.

522
00:21:32.280 --> 00:21:33.640
I've had this thing on all day.

523
00:21:33.640 --> 00:21:35.320
Cause we had a thing at school today.

524
00:21:35.720 --> 00:21:37.880
So, but I think it's cute.

525
00:21:37.920 --> 00:21:42.160
So it makes noise and it has Santa and a little reindeer.

526
00:21:42.920 --> 00:21:44.000
Oh, what noise does it make?

527
00:21:44.320 --> 00:21:45.440
It has bells on it.

528
00:21:46.240 --> 00:21:47.560
So it has bells.

529
00:21:47.560 --> 00:21:49.480
Cute present.

530
00:21:49.560 --> 00:21:49.720
Yeah.

531
00:21:49.720 --> 00:21:52.560
And it looks like the reindeer's nose is like shiny.

532
00:21:53.000 --> 00:21:55.800
Like glittery, but I think everybody's acute.

533
00:21:55.800 --> 00:21:57.960
Like I said, I have my teacher, mommy eyes on today.

534
00:21:57.960 --> 00:22:00.000
So just tell me about your sweet picture, baby.

535
00:22:00.000 --> 00:22:00.840
It's all cute.

536
00:22:01.480 --> 00:22:02.600
Oh, it is cute.

537
00:22:02.600 --> 00:22:03.000
All right.

538
00:22:03.000 --> 00:22:03.800
So we got that.

539
00:22:03.840 --> 00:22:08.200
We got the Santa and reindeer there with crystal, the bells on.

540
00:22:08.200 --> 00:22:09.760
We have Brenda next.

541
00:22:11.560 --> 00:22:13.120
Brenda show us your cute sweater.

542
00:22:13.680 --> 00:22:17.040
So it's a, this has Santa just different.

543
00:22:17.880 --> 00:22:18.880
That's really retro.

544
00:22:18.880 --> 00:22:19.600
That's cute.

545
00:22:19.720 --> 00:22:23.480
The kids would be at the thrift store, girlfriend, because that's

546
00:22:23.480 --> 00:22:24.960
retro it's a retro sweater.

547
00:22:25.200 --> 00:22:25.960
It's my mom.

548
00:22:25.960 --> 00:22:27.240
She passed last November.

549
00:22:27.240 --> 00:22:28.960
So it's mine now.

550
00:22:29.680 --> 00:22:30.240
Yes.

551
00:22:30.240 --> 00:22:31.120
It's very cute.

552
00:22:31.160 --> 00:22:32.920
Very, very vintage.

553
00:22:32.960 --> 00:22:33.320
Love it.

554
00:22:33.400 --> 00:22:33.800
Okay.

555
00:22:34.160 --> 00:22:35.520
So that was Brenda.

556
00:22:35.520 --> 00:22:37.080
And then Shawnee is next.

557
00:22:37.120 --> 00:22:38.560
What do we got for Shawnee?

558
00:22:39.280 --> 00:22:40.880
Oh, she's looking pretty.

559
00:22:40.920 --> 00:22:41.520
What do we got?

560
00:22:42.080 --> 00:22:44.360
So this is his work from my closet.

561
00:22:44.360 --> 00:22:45.840
I've got a candy cane dress.

562
00:22:46.840 --> 00:22:47.120
Points.

563
00:22:47.120 --> 00:22:47.520
Yeah.

564
00:22:47.840 --> 00:22:48.240
Three.

565
00:22:48.640 --> 00:22:56.800
And yes, cute little DIY costume there for Shawnee looking beautiful.

566
00:22:56.840 --> 00:22:57.720
Love it.

567
00:22:57.760 --> 00:22:58.440
Got it.

568
00:22:58.480 --> 00:22:58.880
Okay.

569
00:22:58.880 --> 00:23:00.760
And then how many more that we have?

570
00:23:00.760 --> 00:23:01.560
Well, we have Cheryl.

571
00:23:01.640 --> 00:23:03.240
Cheryl's going to be in this contest.

572
00:23:03.240 --> 00:23:05.240
Make sure you're taking notes still girlfriend though.

573
00:23:05.440 --> 00:23:06.400
I need you to take notes.

574
00:23:06.920 --> 00:23:08.280
Cookie cookie sweater.

575
00:23:08.320 --> 00:23:09.480
Oh, got gingerbread.

576
00:23:09.680 --> 00:23:13.560
It's got the gingerbread man and woman on it and a candy cane.

577
00:23:14.560 --> 00:23:20.960
We see you a present snowflakes and just says cookie on it.

578
00:23:24.360 --> 00:23:27.920
Candy cookie inspector.

579
00:23:28.360 --> 00:23:30.680
Oh, cookie inspector.

580
00:23:30.720 --> 00:23:31.720
Okay.

581
00:23:31.720 --> 00:23:32.840
Very cute.

582
00:23:32.840 --> 00:23:34.840
I'm too short to cookie inspector.

583
00:23:34.840 --> 00:23:35.640
That makes sense.

584
00:23:35.640 --> 00:23:36.560
Cookie inspector.

585
00:23:36.600 --> 00:23:37.080
Love it.

586
00:23:37.080 --> 00:23:38.240
Very cute.

587
00:23:38.240 --> 00:23:39.240
All right.

588
00:23:39.240 --> 00:23:40.880
Elizabeth is next.

589
00:23:40.880 --> 00:23:42.360
Elizabeth, what do we have?

590
00:23:42.560 --> 00:23:44.000
Mine's more boring than cute.

591
00:23:44.000 --> 00:23:45.520
Maybe, but feral.

592
00:23:46.160 --> 00:23:46.480
Yeah.

593
00:23:46.520 --> 00:23:46.920
Yes.

594
00:23:46.920 --> 00:23:47.600
It's very cute.

595
00:23:47.600 --> 00:23:48.320
Very vintage.

596
00:23:48.360 --> 00:23:49.080
Love that too.

597
00:23:49.080 --> 00:23:52.600
Got the little cherries, little Holly, little Holly berries on there.

598
00:23:52.680 --> 00:23:53.080
Yeah.

599
00:23:53.200 --> 00:23:53.480
Yeah.

600
00:23:53.720 --> 00:23:54.040
Yeah.

601
00:23:54.040 --> 00:23:54.760
That's great.

602
00:23:54.800 --> 00:23:55.280
Love it.

603
00:23:55.360 --> 00:23:55.880
Okay.

604
00:23:55.880 --> 00:23:58.400
And then Vicki is back.

605
00:23:59.080 --> 00:24:02.560
Um, hold on a second.

606
00:24:03.840 --> 00:24:06.360
Uh, move spotlight.

607
00:24:07.320 --> 00:24:07.720
Okay.

608
00:24:07.800 --> 00:24:09.200
Vicki is back.

609
00:24:09.880 --> 00:24:10.680
Vicki, what are you?

610
00:24:11.000 --> 00:24:11.720
Oh, she's back.

611
00:24:11.760 --> 00:24:12.720
She's like, I'm cute.

612
00:24:12.760 --> 00:24:14.800
You didn't think I was funny, but I'm definitely cute.

613
00:24:15.160 --> 00:24:15.760
All right.

614
00:24:15.800 --> 00:24:17.120
Very cute.

615
00:24:17.360 --> 00:24:20.360
We saw Vicki's so Vicki is, is, is next.

616
00:24:20.360 --> 00:24:22.000
I don't know what number one, but Cheryl does.

617
00:24:22.000 --> 00:24:22.880
And that's all that matters.

618
00:24:23.400 --> 00:24:25.360
Um, and then Elizabeth, you already went, right?

619
00:24:28.360 --> 00:24:30.360
The Holly, the berries, right?

620
00:24:31.120 --> 00:24:31.400
Yes.

621
00:24:31.400 --> 00:24:31.920
I already went.

622
00:24:32.760 --> 00:24:33.360
Okay, great.

623
00:24:33.520 --> 00:24:34.080
Wonderful.

624
00:24:34.240 --> 00:24:34.720
Okay.

625
00:24:34.800 --> 00:24:36.920
Let's see what we're voting on.

626
00:24:37.520 --> 00:24:39.880
Let's get a little infographic up of that.

627
00:24:41.160 --> 00:24:41.560
All right.

628
00:24:41.840 --> 00:24:46.840
We have, um, and I'm not in the contest, but I want you guys to see how

629
00:24:46.840 --> 00:24:48.040
cute my sweater is.

630
00:24:48.040 --> 00:24:49.080
I'm not in the contest.

631
00:24:49.080 --> 00:24:49.480
Okay.

632
00:24:49.520 --> 00:24:50.400
Do not vote for me.

633
00:24:50.880 --> 00:24:53.080
Um, but I want you guys to see how cute this is.

634
00:24:53.880 --> 00:24:55.480
Look at these llamas.

635
00:24:56.200 --> 00:24:57.400
Isn't that cute?

636
00:25:00.000 --> 00:25:03.240
It said is, and y'all the tag still on the sweater.

637
00:25:03.260 --> 00:25:04.120
Cause I ain't keeping it.

638
00:25:04.480 --> 00:25:07.640
I wore it just for you and I will give it to someone else because I don't need it.

639
00:25:07.880 --> 00:25:08.280
All right.

640
00:25:08.700 --> 00:25:09.200
Okay.

641
00:25:10.000 --> 00:25:10.920
It'll be a present.

642
00:25:10.980 --> 00:25:14.160
It'll be a ugly Christmas spreader sweater present for someone.

643
00:25:14.440 --> 00:25:14.820
Okay.

644
00:25:14.840 --> 00:25:17.400
So we got the votes are coming.

645
00:25:18.240 --> 00:25:20.160
We have Lisa, we have Regina.

646
00:25:20.160 --> 00:25:20.680
We have Amber.

647
00:25:20.680 --> 00:25:21.180
We have Vicky.

648
00:25:21.180 --> 00:25:22.080
We have crystal.

649
00:25:22.180 --> 00:25:24.560
We have Brenda, Shawnee, Cheryl, and Elizabeth.

650
00:25:25.560 --> 00:25:29.640
And I see guys with stuff on that obviously don't want to play this

651
00:25:29.640 --> 00:25:31.680
game for whatever reason, and that's fine.

652
00:25:32.680 --> 00:25:34.560
I know you guys weren't expecting this game tonight.

653
00:25:36.040 --> 00:25:36.540
All right.

654
00:25:38.400 --> 00:25:39.560
What number is Shawnee?

655
00:25:40.680 --> 00:25:48.840
Shawnee is number eight candy cane dress outfit.

656
00:25:52.880 --> 00:25:53.520
All right, Cheryl.

657
00:25:53.520 --> 00:25:59.080
I need you to pick the winner because I am getting ready for what's next.

658
00:26:00.280 --> 00:26:01.400
I think it's Shawnee.

659
00:26:03.800 --> 00:26:05.120
Oh, it's Shawnee.

660
00:26:05.560 --> 00:26:06.200
Is it Shawnee?

661
00:26:06.240 --> 00:26:06.800
Is it eight?

662
00:26:12.680 --> 00:26:14.960
What's the, what are the two that are getting the most?

663
00:26:14.960 --> 00:26:15.460
Okay.

664
00:26:21.840 --> 00:26:22.920
It looks like maybe.

665
00:26:25.920 --> 00:26:29.520
Yeah, it looks like maybe eight, five close second, but it looks like eight.

666
00:26:29.560 --> 00:26:30.060
Okay.

667
00:26:30.440 --> 00:26:30.800
All right.

668
00:26:30.800 --> 00:26:31.840
So Shawnee won that.

669
00:26:31.840 --> 00:26:35.440
So if you can just send me the winners of that Cheryl, and we will

670
00:26:35.440 --> 00:26:37.680
get them an emailed gift card.

671
00:26:38.600 --> 00:26:39.920
Merry Christmas, you guys.

672
00:26:39.920 --> 00:26:42.920
Thank you for playing wonderful.

673
00:26:43.920 --> 00:26:44.920
Wonderful time.

674
00:26:45.520 --> 00:26:46.020
All right.

675
00:26:46.320 --> 00:26:49.160
Now you guys, we are going to jump in to our shenanigans.

676
00:26:49.560 --> 00:26:49.840
All right.

677
00:26:49.840 --> 00:26:51.520
We have a lot of stuff to cover tonight.

678
00:26:51.520 --> 00:26:55.480
We've got some ask Jackie questions that we want to get covered tonight.

679
00:26:56.000 --> 00:26:58.960
Um, we can do a little bit of love seats tonight as well.

680
00:26:59.240 --> 00:27:00.880
We have, it's already seven 30.

681
00:27:00.880 --> 00:27:03.040
So we're going to go ahead and jump into this.

682
00:27:04.080 --> 00:27:04.920
All right.

683
00:27:05.040 --> 00:27:12.400
Uh, who has been, um, let me ask you a question who has been, if you haven't

684
00:27:12.400 --> 00:27:15.080
seen the January calendar, I think it goes up tomorrow.

685
00:27:15.320 --> 00:27:20.880
We have a lot of, um, we have a lot of stuff going on in January for phase three.

686
00:27:20.880 --> 00:27:23.720
So for this group, we have a lot of stuff going on in January.

687
00:27:23.720 --> 00:27:26.240
We're trying out some new things.

688
00:27:26.480 --> 00:27:27.760
We're going to actually have a shuffle.

689
00:27:27.760 --> 00:27:31.280
You guys, you're going to have to register for it, but it will be free.

690
00:27:31.320 --> 00:27:33.720
If you're a student in the community, it will only be for

691
00:27:33.720 --> 00:27:35.680
students and it will be free.

692
00:27:36.040 --> 00:27:39.520
And so, but you have to register for it because that's the only way that we'll

693
00:27:39.520 --> 00:27:41.560
know who's definitely coming.

694
00:27:41.720 --> 00:27:43.160
Cause these things don't work.

695
00:27:43.160 --> 00:27:46.160
If you say you're coming and then you don't come right.

696
00:27:46.480 --> 00:27:49.720
And so it's really important because that throws the nut, throws the

697
00:27:49.720 --> 00:27:50.960
nut, throws the nut, throws.

698
00:27:51.280 --> 00:27:55.120
The number is where we assign you kind of different dates.

699
00:27:55.440 --> 00:27:58.120
So the way we're going to do this online, and we're also going to do these in

700
00:27:58.120 --> 00:28:00.560
the single cities in 2025 as well.

701
00:28:01.280 --> 00:28:05.200
But for instance, um, if you register for the online one that we're going to

702
00:28:05.200 --> 00:28:10.960
have in January, then you will, we will use, we will use our database that

703
00:28:10.960 --> 00:28:14.320
you, you know, your profile that you filled out and we will find the people

704
00:28:14.320 --> 00:28:15.280
that are compatible to you.

705
00:28:15.280 --> 00:28:18.760
And if they've signed up as well, you know, kind of like the bachelor, the

706
00:28:18.760 --> 00:28:21.480
show, you might have one, one-on-one.

707
00:28:22.080 --> 00:28:26.640
You know, group, as far as breakout rooms, you might be one-on-one with

708
00:28:26.640 --> 00:28:29.920
someone in a room and then it'll shift.

709
00:28:29.960 --> 00:28:32.720
And then you'll be with two or three other people that we have

710
00:28:32.720 --> 00:28:34.360
curated and for you to be with.

711
00:28:34.600 --> 00:28:37.120
And then you might be with like 10 other people and there'll be

712
00:28:37.120 --> 00:28:38.720
activities in all of these places.

713
00:28:38.720 --> 00:28:43.520
When you get to that breakout room, the people in there, it won't be random.

714
00:28:43.560 --> 00:28:47.520
It will be people that we've assigned to be with you in that room.

715
00:28:47.960 --> 00:28:52.280
And you've been assigned to be with them, you know, and vice versa, then you'll

716
00:28:52.280 --> 00:28:54.480
have like some things to do in there.

717
00:28:54.760 --> 00:28:55.200
Okay.

718
00:28:55.200 --> 00:28:58.800
With each other, some questions to be asked, some fun things to do,

719
00:28:59.160 --> 00:29:01.160
and it will be really fun that way.

720
00:29:01.160 --> 00:29:04.080
It's never really awkward because there's other people around, but

721
00:29:04.080 --> 00:29:07.160
yet we know that all the people that end up together in those rooms are

722
00:29:07.160 --> 00:29:09.040
compatible in one way, shape, or form.

723
00:29:09.920 --> 00:29:10.360
All right.

724
00:29:10.840 --> 00:29:11.840
So cool.

725
00:29:12.000 --> 00:29:12.480
Fun.

726
00:29:12.680 --> 00:29:13.120
Yes.

727
00:29:13.480 --> 00:29:15.080
So we have stuff like that on the calendar.

728
00:29:15.080 --> 00:29:16.880
Of course, we're gonna do lots of single spotlights.

729
00:29:16.880 --> 00:29:25.120
You guys, I have so many quality men that are, you know, hit me up on my social

730
00:29:25.120 --> 00:29:30.000
media, people that are getting referred from other people, so many guys coming

731
00:29:30.000 --> 00:29:33.720
in right now in this season that I want to spotlight for those of you that are

732
00:29:33.720 --> 00:29:36.240
why I don't spotlight women, because it doesn't make any sense.

733
00:29:36.640 --> 00:29:36.920
Okay.

734
00:29:36.920 --> 00:29:40.480
I'm a very, I'm a very efficient person and it makes more sense for me to

735
00:29:40.480 --> 00:29:44.520
spotlight the men to all of the women and have you respond then for

736
00:29:44.520 --> 00:29:45.960
me to spotlight the women.

737
00:29:45.960 --> 00:29:47.080
But do I spotlight women?

738
00:29:47.080 --> 00:29:47.440
Yes.

739
00:29:47.840 --> 00:29:51.880
I have been spotlighting you ladies that said yes to spotlights.

740
00:29:52.120 --> 00:29:56.240
I have been spotlighting you within the men's groups.

741
00:29:56.640 --> 00:30:00.000
And we do have some people now that are.

742
00:30:00.000 --> 00:30:04.440
or talking to others based on those spotlights.

743
00:30:04.440 --> 00:30:06.560
And so if that hasn't happened for you yet

744
00:30:06.560 --> 00:30:09.480
and you have said yes to being spotlighted,

745
00:30:09.480 --> 00:30:10.320
just hang tight

746
00:30:10.320 --> 00:30:13.800
because we are putting out spotlights every week, okay?

747
00:30:15.380 --> 00:30:18.720
Tameka, there is a post in the phase three Facebook group

748
00:30:18.720 --> 00:30:20.760
and it's tagged to the featured section.

749
00:30:20.760 --> 00:30:23.320
And it just, it basically is like a permission slip

750
00:30:23.320 --> 00:30:24.700
to be spotlighted.

751
00:30:24.700 --> 00:30:28.440
So you can find it in the featured section of the Facebook

752
00:30:29.360 --> 00:30:33.720
for the women, the women's Facebook page.

753
00:30:33.720 --> 00:30:35.080
All right, you guys ready?

754
00:30:36.400 --> 00:30:38.060
How did we, how did we say yes?

755
00:30:38.060 --> 00:30:39.280
How did you miss the announcement?

756
00:30:39.280 --> 00:30:40.240
You guys, you have to look,

757
00:30:40.240 --> 00:30:41.080
you have to make sure

758
00:30:41.080 --> 00:30:43.160
that you're checking the announcements.

759
00:30:43.160 --> 00:30:44.640
On the app, there's just,

760
00:30:44.640 --> 00:30:47.560
there's a little button that's called announcements.

761
00:30:47.560 --> 00:30:49.120
You wanna definitely click that

762
00:30:49.120 --> 00:30:50.380
and look at all the announcements.

763
00:30:50.380 --> 00:30:52.440
Those are all things that us as coaches and admins

764
00:30:52.440 --> 00:30:54.000
have tagged for you to see.

765
00:30:54.000 --> 00:30:56.720
And then on Facebook and your Facebook page,

766
00:30:56.720 --> 00:30:59.560
and you guys know you're the only phase that has that.

767
00:30:59.560 --> 00:31:02.280
You're the only phase that has a group on the app

768
00:31:02.280 --> 00:31:06.780
and you also have a group on Facebook, a private group.

769
00:31:06.780 --> 00:31:09.360
So on the Facebook, you wanna go to the little toolbar,

770
00:31:09.360 --> 00:31:11.600
go to featured, click on that

771
00:31:11.600 --> 00:31:14.400
because that is how you're going to be able to get

772
00:31:14.400 --> 00:31:18.240
to our announcements there, okay?

773
00:31:19.940 --> 00:31:21.480
I'm just gonna give you a little visual

774
00:31:21.480 --> 00:31:24.000
because I know people are visual learners

775
00:31:24.000 --> 00:31:26.360
and so I'm just gonna give you a little visual.

776
00:31:27.040 --> 00:31:29.840
Okay, gentlemen, yours looks the exact same as this.

777
00:31:29.840 --> 00:31:33.800
So this is the ladies' Facebook page, all right?

778
00:31:33.800 --> 00:31:35.400
And there's a little toolbar there.

779
00:31:35.400 --> 00:31:39.000
It says chats, featured, and then more.

780
00:31:39.000 --> 00:31:41.160
And if you hit more, there's a bunch more stuff.

781
00:31:41.160 --> 00:31:42.480
But featured is what you want.

782
00:31:42.480 --> 00:31:46.040
So if I hit featured, it's gonna show you all of the posts

783
00:31:46.040 --> 00:31:46.860
that we've pinned,

784
00:31:46.860 --> 00:31:49.800
including about tonight's ugly sweater party.

785
00:31:49.800 --> 00:31:51.640
So all the things that we've pinned,

786
00:31:51.640 --> 00:31:53.780
all the announcements that we have.

787
00:31:53.780 --> 00:31:57.820
And so if you scroll down about,

788
00:31:57.820 --> 00:32:00.500
I don't, I don't, I don't, I don't,

789
00:32:00.500 --> 00:32:05.500
you're gonna find that announcement about single spotlights.

790
00:32:06.260 --> 00:32:09.460
It has a picture of me, little old me, Jackie D,

791
00:32:09.460 --> 00:32:11.060
as if I'm a spotlight.

792
00:32:11.060 --> 00:32:13.860
And then it says exactly what we need from you

793
00:32:13.860 --> 00:32:15.260
and you're gonna post that in the comments.

794
00:32:15.260 --> 00:32:18.140
Guys, you have one that looks just like that as well.

795
00:32:18.140 --> 00:32:20.280
All right, and then of course on the app,

796
00:32:20.920 --> 00:32:24.480
I'm gonna show you there too.

797
00:32:27.200 --> 00:32:30.260
So you see at the top of the app, there's community,

798
00:32:30.260 --> 00:32:32.680
there's announcements, there's courses, there's replays,

799
00:32:32.680 --> 00:32:34.720
there's events, and there's resources.

800
00:32:34.720 --> 00:32:36.800
Click the announcements and you're gonna see everything

801
00:32:36.800 --> 00:32:37.920
that's been pinned.

802
00:32:37.920 --> 00:32:40.560
Guys, check those announcements on the app

803
00:32:40.560 --> 00:32:43.200
and featured on Facebook every day

804
00:32:43.200 --> 00:32:45.320
to see what we're saying to you, okay?

805
00:32:45.320 --> 00:32:47.120
It's really important that you keep up with that

806
00:32:47.120 --> 00:32:49.040
because otherwise you're gonna show up

807
00:32:49.040 --> 00:32:50.000
two months from now and be like,

808
00:32:50.000 --> 00:32:52.080
hey man, how did I miss out on that?

809
00:32:52.080 --> 00:32:53.960
That's how you missed out on it, okay?

810
00:32:53.960 --> 00:32:55.240
So make sure that you're keeping up

811
00:32:55.240 --> 00:32:57.680
with all of the different things that we're offering you.

812
00:32:57.680 --> 00:32:58.720
Sound cool?

813
00:32:58.720 --> 00:33:00.960
You guys, Ask Jackie has not been something

814
00:33:00.960 --> 00:33:05.120
that has been happening regularly because of the app.

815
00:33:05.120 --> 00:33:07.240
I wasn't able to go live in the app.

816
00:33:07.240 --> 00:33:09.560
That feature just became available.

817
00:33:09.560 --> 00:33:12.520
And so because of that, we haven't been doing Ask Jackie.

818
00:33:12.520 --> 00:33:14.080
And so we're gonna start doing it again

819
00:33:14.080 --> 00:33:17.480
now that the live feature is back, praise God.

820
00:33:17.480 --> 00:33:20.480
And not back, but now that it exists,

821
00:33:20.480 --> 00:33:21.880
we're gonna be doing it again.

822
00:33:21.880 --> 00:33:23.880
And so if you put a question in Ask Jackie

823
00:33:23.880 --> 00:33:26.120
and it never got answered, you can do it again.

824
00:33:26.120 --> 00:33:26.960
And guess what?

825
00:33:26.960 --> 00:33:30.200
It's only gonna be for the men's group and phase three ladies.

826
00:33:30.200 --> 00:33:32.920
Okay, that is what it's gonna be for going forward.

827
00:33:32.920 --> 00:33:36.240
So when people get to phase three as women,

828
00:33:36.240 --> 00:33:39.280
they'll be able to participate in that, all right?

829
00:33:39.280 --> 00:33:42.920
So I have really old questions

830
00:33:42.920 --> 00:33:44.280
in the Ask Jackie app right now.

831
00:33:44.280 --> 00:33:46.400
Some of them back from October.

832
00:33:46.400 --> 00:33:49.120
So go ahead and put your questions up.

833
00:33:49.120 --> 00:33:50.600
Little Ask Jackie questions.

834
00:33:50.600 --> 00:33:51.800
It's different from love seats

835
00:33:51.800 --> 00:33:53.120
because it's an actual question.

836
00:33:53.120 --> 00:33:54.320
You're not gonna get in a love seat.

837
00:33:54.320 --> 00:33:56.440
We're not gonna have a conversation about it.

838
00:33:56.440 --> 00:33:58.040
For those of you that are commenting right now,

839
00:33:58.040 --> 00:33:59.560
how do we register?

840
00:33:59.560 --> 00:34:01.200
It's gonna be on the January calendar.

841
00:34:01.200 --> 00:34:04.040
All the information for January will be on the calendar,

842
00:34:04.040 --> 00:34:06.240
including how to register for the shuffle.

843
00:34:06.240 --> 00:34:08.400
And so be looking for the calendar.

844
00:34:08.400 --> 00:34:10.320
Guess where it's gonna be?

845
00:34:10.320 --> 00:34:12.000
Somebody guess.

846
00:34:12.000 --> 00:34:14.600
Where's the calendar gonna be when it gets posted?

847
00:34:15.600 --> 00:34:17.480
Obviously the links and everything

848
00:34:17.480 --> 00:34:19.639
always end up in your events in the app.

849
00:34:19.639 --> 00:34:21.760
That's where you're gonna find the things

850
00:34:21.760 --> 00:34:24.120
that are happening today and the links to get to them.

851
00:34:24.120 --> 00:34:26.600
But the actual physical calendar

852
00:34:26.600 --> 00:34:29.199
just kind of tells you about what's gonna happen

853
00:34:29.199 --> 00:34:30.639
in the month of January.

854
00:34:30.639 --> 00:34:32.600
Where do you guys think that's gonna be?

855
00:34:33.920 --> 00:34:36.120
It's gonna be tagged in the featured section.

856
00:34:36.120 --> 00:34:38.880
Yes, we're gonna take every individual event

857
00:34:38.880 --> 00:34:40.520
and put it in the events.

858
00:34:40.520 --> 00:34:43.800
But if you wanna look at it all together in one place,

859
00:34:43.840 --> 00:34:48.840
you're gonna look for the actual infographic about that.

860
00:34:52.600 --> 00:34:57.360
You're gonna look for that in the featured section

861
00:34:57.360 --> 00:34:59.960
of your Facebook page or the-

862
00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:04.040
announcement section of your app, OK?

863
00:35:04.040 --> 00:35:06.480
Please guys, it never changes.

864
00:35:06.480 --> 00:35:08.300
That's what it always is, and so let's

865
00:35:08.300 --> 00:35:09.640
make sure that we're doing that.

866
00:35:23.080 --> 00:35:24.640
And this is what a calendar looks

867
00:35:24.640 --> 00:35:26.760
like when it's an infographic.

868
00:35:26.760 --> 00:35:29.080
You guys see it?

869
00:35:29.080 --> 00:35:32.040
Yeah, we do obviously take each of these things

870
00:35:32.040 --> 00:35:34.160
and put them in the events with the link,

871
00:35:34.160 --> 00:35:38.800
but you can look at it in a linear way, all in one place.

872
00:35:38.800 --> 00:35:41.160
OK, and that's tagged in the featured section

873
00:35:41.160 --> 00:35:44.880
of your Facebook page, and also in the announcement section

874
00:35:44.880 --> 00:35:50.200
of your app tomorrow, because it's not January yet.

875
00:35:50.200 --> 00:35:50.700
Cool?

876
00:35:50.700 --> 00:35:52.720
Any other questions about that?

877
00:35:52.720 --> 00:35:54.680
All right, you guys, holiday time

878
00:35:54.680 --> 00:35:58.520
is a really important time to be out there single and mingle.

879
00:35:58.520 --> 00:36:00.080
Single and mingle during this time.

880
00:36:00.080 --> 00:36:02.920
People are more open than they have been

881
00:36:02.920 --> 00:36:04.760
all year to meeting someone.

882
00:36:04.760 --> 00:36:07.400
And so we want to make sure that we are not wasting this time

883
00:36:07.400 --> 00:36:11.240
together tonight, because this is where you have

884
00:36:11.240 --> 00:36:15.640
to be reminded that people that are not on apps all year long

885
00:36:15.640 --> 00:36:17.000
are on them right now.

886
00:36:17.000 --> 00:36:23.600
I know you hate apps, but go ahead and turn on your profile

887
00:36:23.600 --> 00:36:26.200
again on that app, because there are people there that

888
00:36:26.200 --> 00:36:28.840
have not been there all year.

889
00:36:28.840 --> 00:36:30.360
You're like, Jackie, how do you know?

890
00:36:30.360 --> 00:36:31.480
Because this is what I do.

891
00:36:31.480 --> 00:36:32.320
This is what I do.

892
00:36:32.320 --> 00:36:33.240
This is what I do.

893
00:36:33.240 --> 00:36:35.000
If you haven't noticed, this is what I do.

894
00:36:35.000 --> 00:36:37.880
And so I'm going to tell you they are there.

895
00:36:37.880 --> 00:36:40.800
I can't tell you how many people meet people

896
00:36:40.800 --> 00:36:43.240
at this time of year on apps where it's like,

897
00:36:43.240 --> 00:36:44.520
where have you been all my life?

898
00:36:44.520 --> 00:36:47.000
Well, they weren't on the app, but now they are.

899
00:36:47.000 --> 00:36:49.760
People are really, really willing, more willing

900
00:36:49.760 --> 00:36:51.880
than ever to do things that people have been

901
00:36:51.880 --> 00:36:54.120
telling them to do all year.

902
00:36:54.120 --> 00:36:55.500
They're like, hey, you know what?

903
00:36:55.500 --> 00:36:56.500
You should get on an app.

904
00:36:56.500 --> 00:36:58.340
They're like, no, no, no.

905
00:36:58.340 --> 00:36:59.740
And then at this time of the year,

906
00:36:59.740 --> 00:37:01.020
you're like, oh, what the heck?

907
00:37:01.020 --> 00:37:03.100
I'm going to try it.

908
00:37:03.100 --> 00:37:03.980
What am I going to do?

909
00:37:03.980 --> 00:37:04.820
I'm going to try it.

910
00:37:04.820 --> 00:37:07.020
So people are places.

911
00:37:07.020 --> 00:37:07.620
They're out.

912
00:37:07.620 --> 00:37:08.420
They're about.

913
00:37:08.420 --> 00:37:09.460
They're going to parties.

914
00:37:09.460 --> 00:37:12.420
People that consider themselves not really social butterflies.

915
00:37:12.420 --> 00:37:14.700
They haven't been going to anything all year.

916
00:37:14.700 --> 00:37:20.540
They do not want to go through another year, 2025, alone.

917
00:37:20.540 --> 00:37:23.140
And so they are going to be motivated.

918
00:37:23.140 --> 00:37:24.300
Please listen.

919
00:37:24.300 --> 00:37:27.180
From now until about April, there's

920
00:37:27.180 --> 00:37:30.420
going to be high motivation, high, high, high motivation,

921
00:37:30.420 --> 00:37:31.300
just like the gyms.

922
00:37:31.300 --> 00:37:35.460
The gyms are going to be full until about March-ish.

923
00:37:35.460 --> 00:37:38.340
And then people are going to be like, who likes me fat?

924
00:37:38.340 --> 00:37:38.900
Anyone?

925
00:37:38.900 --> 00:37:40.100
Anyone?

926
00:37:40.100 --> 00:37:41.220
Who likes me fluffy?

927
00:37:41.220 --> 00:37:42.580
I'm just going to stay this way.

928
00:37:42.580 --> 00:37:43.580
Anybody?

929
00:37:43.580 --> 00:37:44.080
Anybody?

930
00:37:44.080 --> 00:37:46.380
Because this is hard, and I don't want to do it.

931
00:37:46.380 --> 00:37:49.220
So that is what's going to happen.

932
00:37:49.220 --> 00:37:51.220
People are going to be super motivated.

933
00:37:51.220 --> 00:37:53.020
But I want to tell you this.

934
00:37:53.060 --> 00:37:54.740
There is no new year magic.

935
00:37:54.740 --> 00:37:56.940
Nothing in your life is going to change unless you do.

936
00:37:56.940 --> 00:37:59.540
And you have been here, and you've been doing the work,

937
00:37:59.540 --> 00:38:01.940
and you've been doing the heart work and the inner work,

938
00:38:01.940 --> 00:38:03.460
and you're ready.

939
00:38:03.460 --> 00:38:04.540
You're not perfect.

940
00:38:04.540 --> 00:38:06.860
No, but you're ready.

941
00:38:06.860 --> 00:38:08.340
And guess what?

942
00:38:08.340 --> 00:38:11.740
These new opportunities with other people,

943
00:38:11.740 --> 00:38:13.820
OK, I'm not going to go all the way to calling them

944
00:38:13.820 --> 00:38:15.380
relationships, because not all of them

945
00:38:15.380 --> 00:38:16.620
are going to be relationships.

946
00:38:16.620 --> 00:38:19.380
But these new opportunities to get to know other people

947
00:38:19.380 --> 00:38:22.940
are going to show you where you still need to work.

948
00:38:22.940 --> 00:38:26.140
It's going to show you what you still need to work on.

949
00:38:26.140 --> 00:38:27.820
I keep getting freaked out by my sweater,

950
00:38:27.820 --> 00:38:29.780
because these llamas have scarves on,

951
00:38:29.780 --> 00:38:32.300
and they keep tickling me, little scarves,

952
00:38:32.300 --> 00:38:35.780
little llama scarves, OK?

953
00:38:35.780 --> 00:38:37.380
It's a scary sweater, because I keep

954
00:38:37.380 --> 00:38:39.820
thinking there's a scorpion on me, but there isn't.

955
00:38:39.820 --> 00:38:42.660
It's just a little llama scarf.

956
00:38:42.660 --> 00:38:48.940
So you guys, the stuff that the areas where you're not

957
00:38:48.980 --> 00:38:51.180
fully healed, and we all have them,

958
00:38:51.180 --> 00:38:52.380
you're going to notice them.

959
00:38:52.380 --> 00:38:54.380
But you're going to know what tools to use.

960
00:38:54.380 --> 00:38:57.300
And you're going to be able to come here and jump into an Ask

961
00:38:57.300 --> 00:39:00.260
Jackie or Love Seed or just post in your group.

962
00:39:00.260 --> 00:39:03.100
You guys, there's dating coaches that are looking at your posts.

963
00:39:03.100 --> 00:39:06.060
And so if you post, we're going to give you feedback.

964
00:39:06.060 --> 00:39:07.500
We have an amazing team.

965
00:39:07.500 --> 00:39:09.220
We have an amazing team of people

966
00:39:09.220 --> 00:39:14.940
that teach what I believe and what I coach to you better

967
00:39:14.940 --> 00:39:17.900
than I can, because all of them are former students,

968
00:39:17.900 --> 00:39:19.860
former success stories of ours.

969
00:39:19.860 --> 00:39:23.820
All of them are coaches in their own right, peer coaches.

970
00:39:23.820 --> 00:39:25.380
Some of them are therapists.

971
00:39:25.380 --> 00:39:28.980
They are counselors in their other life, not in here,

972
00:39:28.980 --> 00:39:30.340
but in their other life.

973
00:39:30.340 --> 00:39:32.340
And they have a lot of things to share with you

974
00:39:32.340 --> 00:39:34.540
to help you to keep moving forward

975
00:39:34.540 --> 00:39:39.220
in these new opportunities, OK?

976
00:39:39.220 --> 00:39:41.820
And you guys, I really want to hit this home.

977
00:39:41.820 --> 00:39:46.460
The full circle word that I have been releasing over you,

978
00:39:46.460 --> 00:39:48.260
it's happening, you guys.

979
00:39:48.260 --> 00:39:50.660
People are having full circle moments.

980
00:39:50.660 --> 00:39:52.460
People that they met, get this.

981
00:39:52.460 --> 00:39:53.580
Here's just a few.

982
00:39:53.580 --> 00:39:56.900
There have been several people that come to me and have said,

983
00:39:56.900 --> 00:39:58.740
I met someone years ago.

984
00:39:58.740 --> 00:40:01.340
Someone introduced me to them.

985
00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:02.640
Um, it was like, nah, and nothing ever happened.

986
00:40:02.880 --> 00:40:04.120
They didn't call.

987
00:40:04.380 --> 00:40:07.020
Um, you know, there was no, there was no follow through.

988
00:40:07.020 --> 00:40:09.580
We never even went on a date for some of these stories.

989
00:40:09.580 --> 00:40:10.520
We never even went on a date.

990
00:40:10.520 --> 00:40:14.600
And then all of a sudden, boom, here they are back, back around.

991
00:40:14.980 --> 00:40:16.320
I ran into them again.

992
00:40:17.220 --> 00:40:18.400
I was like, oh, wow.

993
00:40:18.460 --> 00:40:19.000
Okay.

994
00:40:19.040 --> 00:40:19.860
I remember you.

995
00:40:19.860 --> 00:40:21.960
You're and now they're in a relationship.

996
00:40:23.120 --> 00:40:24.300
This is happening.

997
00:40:24.760 --> 00:40:29.060
It's happened at least three times since that full circle word has been released.

998
00:40:29.360 --> 00:40:32.740
Is that not incredible now?

999
00:40:32.740 --> 00:40:35.300
So let's talk about some criteria real quickly.

1000
00:40:35.860 --> 00:40:40.020
Um, if someone shows up from your past, should you give it a shot?

1001
00:40:40.760 --> 00:40:41.980
What's the criteria for that?

1002
00:40:43.460 --> 00:40:47.540
If it was a toxic relationship that you were in and they circle back around

1003
00:40:47.540 --> 00:40:48.780
at this time of year, that's a no.

1004
00:40:50.100 --> 00:40:50.600
Okay.

1005
00:40:50.780 --> 00:40:51.280
Okay.

1006
00:40:51.460 --> 00:40:51.960
Okay.

1007
00:40:52.160 --> 00:40:52.660
Okay.

1008
00:40:53.140 --> 00:40:55.260
It wasn't a good one for whatever reason.

1009
00:40:55.500 --> 00:40:56.460
And you got out of it.

1010
00:40:56.540 --> 00:40:57.460
Don't get back in it.

1011
00:40:58.340 --> 00:40:59.500
That doesn't make any sense.

1012
00:41:00.680 --> 00:41:01.180
Okay.

1013
00:41:01.180 --> 00:41:08.620
The only exception to that is there has to have been an exceptionally huge change

1014
00:41:10.220 --> 00:41:11.940
in whoever was the problem here.

1015
00:41:12.020 --> 00:41:13.700
And both of you probably were the problem.

1016
00:41:13.700 --> 00:41:15.500
You guys were probably poking each other's orphan.

1017
00:41:15.540 --> 00:41:16.040
Okay.

1018
00:41:16.900 --> 00:41:19.420
Some of y'all were just poking each other because he was having

1019
00:41:19.420 --> 00:41:20.660
sex and you shouldn't have been.

1020
00:41:20.880 --> 00:41:22.780
So don't get back into that relationship.

1021
00:41:23.060 --> 00:41:23.560
All right.

1022
00:41:23.780 --> 00:41:24.280
All right.

1023
00:41:24.540 --> 00:41:25.040
All right.

1024
00:41:25.300 --> 00:41:25.800
All right.

1025
00:41:26.200 --> 00:41:27.160
To poke people.

1026
00:41:27.160 --> 00:41:31.040
And I think you can still do it, but it always seemed overtly sexual to me.

1027
00:41:31.040 --> 00:41:32.220
It's like, why are you poking me?

1028
00:41:32.220 --> 00:41:33.680
What are we, what's happening here?

1029
00:41:34.000 --> 00:41:34.500
Okay.

1030
00:41:34.720 --> 00:41:39.520
So don't go back into something that you got out of, right?

1031
00:41:39.520 --> 00:41:40.600
You dodged that bullet.

1032
00:41:41.320 --> 00:41:42.960
Don't get, don't get back in front of it.

1033
00:41:43.800 --> 00:41:47.640
Now, if it was something that just never got off the ground, you were in a

1034
00:41:47.640 --> 00:41:53.160
different place in your heart, geographically, um, you know, it never

1035
00:41:53.160 --> 00:41:55.880
really got, you know, going off the runway to take off.

1036
00:41:55.920 --> 00:41:56.920
That's a possibility.

1037
00:41:57.320 --> 00:42:00.840
And if it was just a thought or idea and it never even made it to the runway,

1038
00:42:00.880 --> 00:42:04.640
like it was just like, someone was like, Hey, you need to meet my, my cousin, Greg.

1039
00:42:05.200 --> 00:42:05.700
Okay.

1040
00:42:06.880 --> 00:42:08.440
By the way, I'm going to spotlight a Greg.

1041
00:42:08.680 --> 00:42:09.920
I'm going to spotlight a Greg.

1042
00:42:10.240 --> 00:42:12.880
He used to be in this community and now he's back.

1043
00:42:12.880 --> 00:42:15.640
It's a full circle moment and he is ready to find his wife.

1044
00:42:15.720 --> 00:42:17.680
And so I'm going to be spotlighting him this week.

1045
00:42:17.920 --> 00:42:20.120
I spotlighting a bunch of our guys this week.

1046
00:42:20.160 --> 00:42:21.680
So please be paying attention.

1047
00:42:21.880 --> 00:42:23.160
I want to let you in on a little secret.

1048
00:42:23.760 --> 00:42:29.120
I do spotlight people on my social media publicly, but I do not give

1049
00:42:29.120 --> 00:42:31.120
the public first dibs on those people.

1050
00:42:31.560 --> 00:42:33.880
You guys get first dibs on those people.

1051
00:42:34.120 --> 00:42:34.620
All right.

1052
00:42:34.880 --> 00:42:39.160
If I can't find a suitable match for them within our community, that's

1053
00:42:39.160 --> 00:42:43.960
when I will entertain ideas of safe and healthy people, uh, that

1054
00:42:43.960 --> 00:42:45.480
are outside of our community.

1055
00:42:45.520 --> 00:42:47.440
But you guys always get first dibs.

1056
00:42:47.720 --> 00:42:54.400
So don't jump on Instagram and be like, Hey, I want this or that.

1057
00:42:54.880 --> 00:42:57.280
I will post that same person in our private group.

1058
00:42:57.520 --> 00:42:58.040
Okay.

1059
00:42:58.040 --> 00:43:01.200
And that is where you want to comment because then I know you're a

1060
00:43:01.200 --> 00:43:03.240
student and then, then you get first dibs.

1061
00:43:04.040 --> 00:43:09.400
I know I make it sound like the last donut on the plate, but dibs,

1062
00:43:09.520 --> 00:43:11.160
someone's got to call dibs.

1063
00:43:11.320 --> 00:43:12.000
All right.

1064
00:43:12.320 --> 00:43:14.720
And so that will be there.

1065
00:43:15.040 --> 00:43:19.160
Also don't get stressed out if you're not like the criteria of what we're

1066
00:43:19.160 --> 00:43:22.320
looking for for that match, because there's more where that came from.

1067
00:43:22.320 --> 00:43:24.560
You guys get rid of the ideas of scarcity.

1068
00:43:24.720 --> 00:43:28.440
If you're going to get rid of anything, that's ruining your, not just your

1069
00:43:28.440 --> 00:43:31.040
love life, but your life, it is scarcity.

1070
00:43:33.400 --> 00:43:34.480
I want to tell you something.

1071
00:43:36.440 --> 00:43:38.360
Nothing that you need has left the earth.

1072
00:43:39.600 --> 00:43:40.120
All right.

1073
00:43:40.600 --> 00:43:41.920
It's still available to you.

1074
00:43:42.360 --> 00:43:43.440
It's all still here.

1075
00:43:43.480 --> 00:43:46.480
Cycling, cycling, cycling.

1076
00:43:46.720 --> 00:43:51.800
And so you don't have to worry that if someone else gets that donut, that

1077
00:43:51.800 --> 00:43:54.520
there's not going to be another donut because I promise you there's

1078
00:43:54.520 --> 00:43:57.440
going to be another donut, right?

1079
00:43:57.760 --> 00:44:03.840
There is supply and demand does not resonate in the kingdom.

1080
00:44:05.320 --> 00:44:07.160
It doesn't it.

1081
00:44:07.480 --> 00:44:13.080
There's always an endless supply, but we have to believe that.

1082
00:44:13.880 --> 00:44:14.920
It's about what we believe.

1083
00:44:14.960 --> 00:44:15.840
It's not about what God can do.

1084
00:44:15.840 --> 00:44:16.760
It's about what we believe.

1085
00:44:17.200 --> 00:44:17.680
Okay.

1086
00:44:17.960 --> 00:44:21.000
Um, someone saying my ex texted me last week and I closed the door.

1087
00:44:21.000 --> 00:44:21.920
Good for you.

1088
00:44:22.560 --> 00:44:29.360
You guys do not give into the, you know, nostalgia of this season.

1089
00:44:30.000 --> 00:44:31.920
Don't look at it through rose colored glasses.

1090
00:44:31.920 --> 00:44:35.880
Look at it through reality.

1091
00:44:35.920 --> 00:44:37.680
You know what that relationship was like.

1092
00:44:38.080 --> 00:44:42.040
And if you're thankful that you were able to get out of it, don't get back into it.

1093
00:44:43.800 --> 00:44:44.320
Right.

1094
00:44:45.480 --> 00:44:46.080
Full circle.

1095
00:44:46.240 --> 00:44:49.960
Anyone else having any full circle moments, bad or good in the way of,

1096
00:44:50.160 --> 00:44:55.040
you know, people circling back around things happening, opportunities

1097
00:44:55.040 --> 00:44:57.640
coming around anything.

1098
00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:06.440
Gina wants a donut with chocolate icing and a little candy sprinkles.

1099
00:45:06.440 --> 00:45:09.960
All right.

1100
00:45:09.960 --> 00:45:12.360
You know, Gina, we're just like, you want a chocolate man?

1101
00:45:12.360 --> 00:45:15.280
Cause that's what you're saying right there.

1102
00:45:15.280 --> 00:45:16.280
And that's fine.

1103
00:45:16.280 --> 00:45:19.120
Cause we have some great guys that I'm going to guess.

1104
00:45:19.120 --> 00:45:23.920
I'm so excited that, you know how many people message me and say, is this group just for

1105
00:45:23.920 --> 00:45:27.800
white people?

1106
00:45:27.800 --> 00:45:32.120
Because of the success stories that I put on my Instagram and I'm like, no, I promise

1107
00:45:32.120 --> 00:45:36.800
it's not, but I have to attract more diversity.

1108
00:45:36.800 --> 00:45:37.800
Right.

1109
00:45:37.800 --> 00:45:42.520
And I'm just really excited that we've had people coming in from every nation in the

1110
00:45:42.520 --> 00:45:43.520
world.

1111
00:45:43.520 --> 00:45:47.120
We've, I mean, they all live, most of them in America, but you know, originally from

1112
00:45:47.120 --> 00:45:50.320
every nation, we have people coming from India.

1113
00:45:50.320 --> 00:45:55.840
We have all kinds of different, you know, people coming from Asian countries originally

1114
00:45:55.840 --> 00:46:01.880
their families coming from those countries South Africa, Africa, different age, different

1115
00:46:01.880 --> 00:46:02.880
specifically.

1116
00:46:02.880 --> 00:46:04.640
The person said, do you have any Nigerians?

1117
00:46:04.640 --> 00:46:07.920
And yes, I just had a Nigerian success story just the other day.

1118
00:46:07.920 --> 00:46:08.920
Yes.

1119
00:46:08.920 --> 00:46:10.800
Columbia for sure.

1120
00:46:10.800 --> 00:46:11.800
Definitely Mexico.

1121
00:46:11.800 --> 00:46:15.520
We've had several success stories from Mexico, several Canadian.

1122
00:46:15.520 --> 00:46:20.160
I know mostly, you know, not all Canadians are really white people.

1123
00:46:20.160 --> 00:46:25.960
I know it's cold there, but we've had Hispanic Canadian success stories.

1124
00:46:25.960 --> 00:46:33.440
It had you know, people of color success stories from Canada, specifically West Africa in South

1125
00:46:33.440 --> 00:46:35.320
Africa.

1126
00:46:35.320 --> 00:46:38.560
And I'm trying to think of what else, what other things do we have?

1127
00:46:38.560 --> 00:46:42.600
We have people coming in from Tanzania.

1128
00:46:42.600 --> 00:46:44.560
We have people coming in from New Zealand.

1129
00:46:44.560 --> 00:46:56.400
We have people coming in from Ireland excited Singapore trying to think there's one that

1130
00:46:56.400 --> 00:47:00.480
I saw the other day, Switzerland.

1131
00:47:00.480 --> 00:47:02.720
So that's exciting to me.

1132
00:47:02.720 --> 00:47:07.520
Hopefully that's exciting to who would be open to an international love story.

1133
00:47:07.520 --> 00:47:11.640
Like seriously, like you would have to move to a different country in order for it to

1134
00:47:11.640 --> 00:47:13.960
be raise your avatar hand.

1135
00:47:13.960 --> 00:47:19.120
Cause I can't see all the windows who would be open to that?

1136
00:47:19.120 --> 00:47:20.120
Get those hands up.

1137
00:47:20.120 --> 00:47:22.000
Cause I feel like you're declaring this right now.

1138
00:47:22.000 --> 00:47:25.600
You're releasing this into the atmosphere.

1139
00:47:25.600 --> 00:47:30.120
When you're raising your hand, you're like almost volunteering for something right now.

1140
00:47:30.120 --> 00:47:34.840
Just in case you didn't know you're, you're saying, okay, God, you're saying it in front

1141
00:47:34.840 --> 00:47:35.840
of all of us.

1142
00:47:35.840 --> 00:47:36.840
We're witnesses.

1143
00:47:36.840 --> 00:47:37.840
You're saying, I'll do it.

1144
00:47:37.840 --> 00:47:38.840
I'll go.

1145
00:47:38.840 --> 00:47:39.840
Okay.

1146
00:47:39.840 --> 00:47:40.840
All right.

1147
00:47:40.840 --> 00:47:41.840
Beautiful.

1148
00:47:41.840 --> 00:47:42.840
Wonderful.

1149
00:47:43.720 --> 00:47:47.280
Virgina is being honest.

1150
00:47:47.280 --> 00:47:49.360
She said, I'll be open to them moving to me.

1151
00:47:49.360 --> 00:47:50.360
Okay.

1152
00:47:50.360 --> 00:47:51.360
Okay.

1153
00:47:51.360 --> 00:47:52.360
Okay.

1154
00:47:52.360 --> 00:47:53.360
Okay.

1155
00:47:53.360 --> 00:47:54.360
This is important.

1156
00:47:54.360 --> 00:47:55.360
Be honest.

1157
00:47:55.360 --> 00:47:56.360
Okay.

1158
00:47:56.360 --> 00:47:57.360
All right.

1159
00:47:57.360 --> 00:47:58.360
So raise your hand.

1160
00:47:58.360 --> 00:48:00.440
If you, you just, the non-negotiable is you can't relocate.

1161
00:48:00.440 --> 00:48:01.680
You're not going to relocate.

1162
00:48:01.680 --> 00:48:02.760
It's a non-negotiable.

1163
00:48:02.760 --> 00:48:05.160
You know, you're not going to do it.

1164
00:48:05.160 --> 00:48:08.720
You know that your love story has to come to where you are already be where you are

1165
00:48:08.720 --> 00:48:14.360
because of whatever reason you have taken it up with God.

1166
00:48:14.360 --> 00:48:20.400
And you believe that it's a non-negotiable because you have shared custody possibly.

1167
00:48:20.400 --> 00:48:25.400
Maybe you're the only child taking care of an aging parent or sibling.

1168
00:48:25.400 --> 00:48:29.560
You just got situations that right now in this season, maybe different season and be

1169
00:48:29.560 --> 00:48:30.560
different story.

1170
00:48:30.560 --> 00:48:32.960
But in this season, you can't, okay.

1171
00:48:32.960 --> 00:48:34.760
So that's not too many.

1172
00:48:34.760 --> 00:48:35.760
Raise your hand.

1173
00:48:35.760 --> 00:48:41.480
If you are open to an inter racial relationship, it doesn't matter what races could be anything.

1174
00:48:41.480 --> 00:48:42.480
Okay.

1175
00:48:42.480 --> 00:48:45.160
I said, I already asked for international.

1176
00:48:45.160 --> 00:48:51.200
Now I'm asking for interracial inter ethnic.

1177
00:48:51.200 --> 00:48:52.200
Look at all those hands.

1178
00:48:52.200 --> 00:48:54.400
You guys look at all those hands.

1179
00:48:54.400 --> 00:48:57.040
Look at all those hands.

1180
00:48:57.040 --> 00:48:59.520
I really feel like Holy spirit's on this.

1181
00:48:59.520 --> 00:49:02.720
So we're going to keep rolling with this because once again, I feel like you're declaring something

1182
00:49:02.880 --> 00:49:08.680
When you raise your hand to these questions, I lower those hands, raise your hand ladies.

1183
00:49:08.680 --> 00:49:13.720
If you are open to just the ladies, I just want the ladies for this one.

1184
00:49:13.720 --> 00:49:14.720
Okay.

1185
00:49:14.720 --> 00:49:18.720
If you are open to a younger man, raise your hand.

1186
00:49:18.720 --> 00:49:26.720
If you're open to a younger man, younger, younger, younger, younger, younger.

1187
00:49:26.720 --> 00:49:29.520
All right.

1188
00:49:29.520 --> 00:49:32.080
Now I'm going to, now I'm going to really mess you up.

1189
00:49:32.440 --> 00:49:33.440
Raise your hand.

1190
00:49:33.440 --> 00:49:37.720
If you're open to a man who's 10 years younger, not that's not in the same decade of life

1191
00:49:37.720 --> 00:49:40.920
as you, not in the same decade.

1192
00:49:40.920 --> 00:49:42.780
If you're in your thirties, he's in his twenties.

1193
00:49:42.780 --> 00:49:45.600
If you're in your forties, he's in the forties, he's in the forties, he's in the forties.

1194
00:49:45.600 --> 00:49:46.680
He's in his teens.

1195
00:49:46.680 --> 00:49:49.800
He's in his forties.

1196
00:49:49.800 --> 00:49:50.800
Let's see those hands.

1197
00:49:50.800 --> 00:49:51.800
Not as many.

1198
00:49:51.800 --> 00:49:58.400
You're like younger, but not that much younger.

1199
00:49:58.400 --> 00:49:59.400
Okay.

1200
00:49:59.400 --> 00:50:00.400
All right.

1201
00:50:00.000 --> 00:50:04.920
And I noticed that a lot of the older ladies, the ladies that are old enough to know better,

1202
00:50:00.400 --> 00:50:00.400


1203
00:50:04.920 --> 00:50:06.120
they're like 45 and up.

1204
00:50:06.120 --> 00:50:09.000
They're the ones that are like, yeah, I'll take 10 years younger.

1205
00:50:09.000 --> 00:50:10.000
Okay.

1206
00:50:10.000 --> 00:50:12.500
All right.

1207
00:50:12.500 --> 00:50:14.520
Raise your hand gentlemen.

1208
00:50:14.520 --> 00:50:20.240
If you are willing to date an older woman, not 10 years older, but just older, okay.

1209
00:50:20.240 --> 00:50:21.640
She's older than you.

1210
00:50:21.640 --> 00:50:23.100
She could be six months older.

1211
00:50:23.100 --> 00:50:29.080
She could be, you know, six years older, but she's older than you raise your hand.

1212
00:50:29.080 --> 00:50:35.080
Our two, two of our youngest guys said yes to that.

1213
00:50:35.080 --> 00:50:36.080
All right.

1214
00:50:36.080 --> 00:50:41.080
She's older than you for four guys said yes.

1215
00:50:41.080 --> 00:50:44.460
Right.

1216
00:50:44.460 --> 00:50:48.120
Raise your hand man or woman.

1217
00:50:48.120 --> 00:50:54.960
If you're still trying to have a biological child, not, not through blended family, not

1218
00:50:54.960 --> 00:50:59.320
through adoption, not through fostering from your own body, ladies, gentlemen, from your

1219
00:50:59.320 --> 00:51:01.360
own body child, raise your hand.

1220
00:51:01.360 --> 00:51:06.640
If you're still trying to do that, that's still part of the plan.

1221
00:51:06.640 --> 00:51:11.720
Raise them up.

1222
00:51:11.720 --> 00:51:13.560
You guys, I got a cute guy.

1223
00:51:13.560 --> 00:51:18.880
I got a cute guy right now, um, that I just got that is in the Nashville area, but he's

1224
00:51:18.880 --> 00:51:19.880
only 31.

1225
00:51:19.880 --> 00:51:21.200
He's just a little nugget.

1226
00:51:21.200 --> 00:51:22.200
Okay.

1227
00:51:22.200 --> 00:51:32.200
So, um, if we have any girls that are in their late twenties, early thirties, you know, go

1228
00:51:32.200 --> 00:51:35.240
ahead and instant message me right now so I can see you.

1229
00:51:35.240 --> 00:51:37.560
So then I'll come looking for you, but I'm going to spotlight him.

1230
00:51:37.560 --> 00:51:38.640
So look at all those hands.

1231
00:51:38.640 --> 00:51:41.760
You guys look at all those hands of people that are like, yep.

1232
00:51:41.760 --> 00:51:49.720
So trying to have a, trying to push a baby out, at least one want to do it.

1233
00:51:49.720 --> 00:51:50.720
Okay.

1234
00:51:51.720 --> 00:51:54.400
All right.

1235
00:51:54.400 --> 00:51:59.600
If you are over the age of 35, which the doctors consider advanced maternal age, which is so

1236
00:51:59.600 --> 00:52:00.600
ridiculous.

1237
00:52:00.600 --> 00:52:01.600
Okay.

1238
00:52:01.600 --> 00:52:02.640
Women can have babies into menopause.

1239
00:52:02.640 --> 00:52:07.680
So into their fifties, um, I have met people that have had babies that at that age, and

1240
00:52:07.680 --> 00:52:14.880
God promised us that this movement would be marked by women having, um, babies late in

1241
00:52:14.880 --> 00:52:15.880
life.

1242
00:52:15.880 --> 00:52:16.880
Okay.

1243
00:52:16.880 --> 00:52:18.920
So we know that we're going to have lots of success stories like that, and we already do.

1244
00:52:19.120 --> 00:52:26.480
Um, but I want to know if you are over 40 years old and you are, and you're still believing

1245
00:52:26.480 --> 00:52:31.400
to have a biological child from your own body as a lady, women only let's see your hands

1246
00:52:31.400 --> 00:52:38.400
40 and up.

1247
00:52:38.400 --> 00:52:46.840
Okay.

1248
00:52:46.840 --> 00:52:50.760
We're believing with you and we know you can, it's not, the thing is, it's not, it's not

1249
00:52:50.760 --> 00:52:54.160
even like, we don't even really need God to get involved because it's not impossible thing.

1250
00:52:54.160 --> 00:52:55.160
It's a very possible thing.

1251
00:52:55.160 --> 00:52:56.800
And it happens all the time.

1252
00:52:56.800 --> 00:52:57.800
Okay.

1253
00:52:57.800 --> 00:53:03.600
So, um, but there's just a lot of weird press out there around, you know, women not being

1254
00:53:03.600 --> 00:53:09.520
able to have children after the age of 40, which to 40, which to 40, which to 40, which

1255
00:53:09.520 --> 00:53:10.520
is okay.

1256
00:53:10.520 --> 00:53:15.360
Um, especially with modern, you know, help and aids of just, you know, some bioidentical

1257
00:53:15.360 --> 00:53:18.720
progesterone and just some different things that body along.

1258
00:53:18.720 --> 00:53:19.720
Okay.

1259
00:53:19.720 --> 00:53:27.000
And so gentlemen, if you are over 40 and you also are believing to have a child from your

1260
00:53:27.000 --> 00:53:32.160
body, um, I mean, obviously you're not going to give birth to a child, but you're going

1261
00:53:32.160 --> 00:53:37.640
to have a wife that you and her together have a biological child.

1262
00:53:37.640 --> 00:53:39.680
Um, raise your hand.

1263
00:53:39.680 --> 00:53:45.320
I know we don't have as many men here tonight, though it might not be a lot of hands.

1264
00:53:46.280 --> 00:53:47.280
Okay.

1265
00:53:47.280 --> 00:53:50.280
Over 40 still want a baby.

1266
00:53:50.280 --> 00:53:51.280
All right.

1267
00:53:51.280 --> 00:53:52.280
Three.

1268
00:53:52.280 --> 00:53:53.280
All right.

1269
00:53:53.280 --> 00:53:54.280
Thanks guys.

1270
00:53:54.280 --> 00:53:55.280
Appreciate that.

1271
00:53:55.280 --> 00:53:57.640
Cause I want you to get to know each other.

1272
00:53:57.640 --> 00:54:01.320
It's really important that, you know, the people that you're here in this community

1273
00:54:01.320 --> 00:54:05.360
with and that so many of you are desiring the same things.

1274
00:54:05.360 --> 00:54:08.480
And do you guys know, I know I say this all the time, but it's important that I tell you

1275
00:54:08.480 --> 00:54:14.000
again, we have engagement announcements and marriage announcements and baby announcements

1276
00:54:14.000 --> 00:54:19.360
practically every week in this community for people that have are in this community

1277
00:54:19.360 --> 00:54:23.880
graduated from this community, people that have had sex because of sex, they've had sex

1278
00:54:23.880 --> 00:54:26.640
because of this community, but they've always, they've also had success.

1279
00:54:26.640 --> 00:54:32.000
It's a word that I really wanted to say, um, because of this community, they had sex and

1280
00:54:32.000 --> 00:54:34.240
they had success because of this community.

1281
00:54:34.240 --> 00:54:36.040
Yes, that's right.

1282
00:54:36.040 --> 00:54:38.040
Um, that's right.

1283
00:54:38.040 --> 00:54:39.040
Okay.

1284
00:54:39.040 --> 00:54:40.040
All right.

1285
00:54:40.040 --> 00:54:41.040
That's all good stuff.

1286
00:54:41.040 --> 00:54:42.040
Okay.

1287
00:54:42.080 --> 00:54:43.080
All right.

1288
00:54:43.080 --> 00:54:46.000
Um, we have, it's eight o'clock, so we have at least 15 more minutes.

1289
00:54:46.000 --> 00:54:48.320
I want to jump into some ask Jackie questions.

1290
00:54:48.320 --> 00:54:49.320
These are really old.

1291
00:54:49.320 --> 00:54:53.920
If you guys want me to answer them, I will, but I, I'm more, I'm more inclined to just

1292
00:54:53.920 --> 00:54:59.640
kind of blank these out and let you guys start putting new ones in now that we're going to

1293
00:54:59.640 --> 00:55:00.000
be.

1294
00:55:00.000 --> 00:55:04.640
asked Jackie again for just phase three and just the men's group at the beginning of the year.

1295
00:55:06.320 --> 00:55:10.240
Rachel said that I'm a riot, but I promise you, I saw it out of the corner of my mind,

1296
00:55:10.240 --> 00:55:14.320
out of the corner of my eye. And I thought it said, you're an idiot, Jackie. And I was like, well,

1297
00:55:15.600 --> 00:55:22.000
sometimes it takes a lot to offend me. You guys just so you know, it's a good thing to

1298
00:55:22.000 --> 00:55:26.560
have a soft heart, but I have thick skin. All right. We're going to start new. Yes, Ruth. I

1299
00:55:26.560 --> 00:55:31.440
agree. You're going to start new, start new, start new, start new. I want to address something

1300
00:55:31.440 --> 00:55:35.280
every once in a while. It doesn't happen that often, but every once in a while, we have a guy

1301
00:55:35.280 --> 00:55:40.800
and a girl in this community that the guy or the girl ended up in this community because of the

1302
00:55:40.800 --> 00:55:44.480
other one, they were dating, they knew each other and they were like, Hey, this is a cool community.

1303
00:55:44.480 --> 00:55:49.040
You need to join it. And then they joined it and then they broke up. And so we have two people in

1304
00:55:49.040 --> 00:55:54.240
the community that used to be in a, you know, some level of relationship that now are here

1305
00:55:55.200 --> 00:55:59.520
together in this community, but they're not together anymore. And I just want to let you

1306
00:55:59.520 --> 00:56:04.560
know, every time that that's ever happened they have been able to wish each other well,

1307
00:56:04.560 --> 00:56:09.360
realize that, Hey, we weren't the match for each other. And they have both gone on to

1308
00:56:10.080 --> 00:56:17.360
have success in every instance that we had that happen that for one. And in that instance, those

1309
00:56:17.360 --> 00:56:23.360
two people got back together and got married. So there you have it. So I'm just telling you

1310
00:56:23.360 --> 00:56:28.000
this community is big enough for everyone, right? And if you find out that you're not

1311
00:56:28.000 --> 00:56:32.560
compatible to someone or the, your levels of healing, here's the thing, they don't have to

1312
00:56:32.560 --> 00:56:36.720
be a bad person. I'm not just talking about, you know, two people in this community together,

1313
00:56:36.720 --> 00:56:41.360
but just in general, the person that you decide not to continue in relationship with for whatever

1314
00:56:41.360 --> 00:56:45.600
reason, it doesn't mean that they're a terrible person or they're abusive or toxic. You don't

1315
00:56:45.600 --> 00:56:51.440
have to put that label on it because it's probably not true. Do you guys know that only 0.05% of the

1316
00:56:51.440 --> 00:56:58.560
population actually has narcissistic personality disorder. So that means that your ex that you

1317
00:56:58.560 --> 00:57:04.560
thought was a narcissist and you told everyone was a narcissist probably wasn't because the odds are

1318
00:57:04.560 --> 00:57:10.160
just not in your favor. That's a very, very, very small, small, small amount of people because

1319
00:57:10.160 --> 00:57:18.080
narcissism is a mental disorder. It's a mental illness. It's a personality disorder that's

1320
00:57:18.080 --> 00:57:24.800
categorized in the DSM-5 as a mental illness. And so you just didn't probably date a narcissist.

1321
00:57:24.800 --> 00:57:29.600
You dated someone who was emotionally underdeveloped, someone who was stuck,

1322
00:57:29.600 --> 00:57:34.480
someone who needs some heart healing. Okay. That's a sidebar, but the people that you decide not to

1323
00:57:34.480 --> 00:57:39.680
go forward with into deeper relationship, it could just be a timing issue. It could just mean that

1324
00:57:39.680 --> 00:57:45.920
you guys are, you're poking each other's wounds. You both have unhealed wounds that are antagonistic

1325
00:57:46.000 --> 00:57:52.160
to each other's unhealed wounds. Okay. One person's being controlled and the other person's

1326
00:57:52.160 --> 00:57:56.960
afraid of being abandoned. This person's afraid of being controlled as kind of moving a whole

1327
00:57:56.960 --> 00:58:00.720
relationship. They're backing up. If a person sees them backing up, they're like, no, no,

1328
00:58:00.720 --> 00:58:07.600
don't go. Don't go. No, it would have been funnier if I had like a sock puppet on or something,

1329
00:58:07.600 --> 00:58:15.120
but you see how this doesn't work when you have that, right? We call that the anxious avoidant

1330
00:58:16.800 --> 00:58:25.040
pairing. And that's probably the worst one, honestly, because one person is just the more

1331
00:58:25.040 --> 00:58:29.280
this person does what they do, the more this person is going to just keep moving away further

1332
00:58:29.280 --> 00:58:33.440
and further, which is going to antagonize this person and bring out their worst self,

1333
00:58:33.440 --> 00:58:41.280
not their best self. How do I feel pressured? How do I not feel pressured when I am not ready

1334
00:58:41.280 --> 00:58:46.480
after five months to say, I love you. Oh, you guys, this just happened to another couple of

1335
00:58:46.480 --> 00:58:52.720
months. She said, I love you. They've been together for five months. And it's not you,

1336
00:58:52.720 --> 00:58:56.560
whoever this person is. It's not you. So this, I want you to know this happening for other people.

1337
00:58:57.600 --> 00:59:04.480
Guys, this llama sweater is itchy and it's hot. Okay. So, um, is it wrong to give someone else

1338
00:59:04.480 --> 00:59:12.160
a sweater that you've sweated in? That's the dilemma of this sweater. Okay. So she said,

1339
00:59:12.160 --> 00:59:16.880
I love you, not this person, but this other couple that I'm talking about. And he didn't say it back.

1340
00:59:18.720 --> 00:59:27.920
What do you do? Right? Well, you guys, for some people, I love you means something

1341
00:59:27.920 --> 00:59:33.040
different for everyone as far as saying it in relationship. Okay. For some people,

1342
00:59:33.040 --> 00:59:37.120
it's kind of like a promise of, Hey, we're going to be together. Like I feel for you,

1343
00:59:37.120 --> 00:59:40.960
the deepest level of emotion and affection that I can feel for someone.

1344
00:59:42.560 --> 00:59:46.800
So for some people, that's like super serious. It isn't just like, I love pizza. You know,

1345
00:59:47.600 --> 00:59:52.880
I love king of Queens. I love, no, it's like, I am making a commitment to you with my words.

1346
00:59:53.440 --> 00:59:59.840
And so if you're seeing someone that has that kind of idea about, I love you, it's not just.

1347
01:00:00.000 --> 01:00:03.920
term of endearment. It's a promise. They're not going to say it very lightly and they're

1348
01:00:03.920 --> 01:00:08.720
definitely not going to say it until they're ready.

1349
01:00:08.720 --> 01:00:12.280
And if you're the person that's not ready to say, I love you and someone that you're

1350
01:00:12.280 --> 01:00:18.560
in relationship that you definitely care for, maybe even deeply says, I love you and you

1351
01:00:18.560 --> 01:00:22.960
just do not feel like you can say it back. I think that it's important for you in that

1352
01:00:22.960 --> 01:00:29.300
moment to say to them, thank you so much. You know, can you, can you tell me what you

1353
01:00:29.300 --> 01:00:33.620
mean by that?

1354
01:00:33.620 --> 01:00:38.020
Because if they can tell you what they mean by that, like, you know, I just, um, you know,

1355
01:00:38.020 --> 01:00:42.580
I, I feel really deep affection for you. Like if they can, they can explain what, why they're

1356
01:00:42.580 --> 01:00:46.300
saying that right now and what they mean by that. You might be able to meet them there

1357
01:00:46.300 --> 01:00:49.980
and say, yeah, I feel the exact same way.

1358
01:00:49.980 --> 01:00:54.100
You know, I will tell you my middle daughter, who's now married to her husband. They've

1359
01:00:54.100 --> 01:00:57.820
been married for almost five years. They have twin, my twin grand babies that are two and

1360
01:00:57.820 --> 01:01:03.220
a half years old. She got married at 25 years old. Okay. They had been dating for three

1361
01:01:03.220 --> 01:01:10.140
years, the younger couple, but they said, I love you probably about a year into their

1362
01:01:10.140 --> 01:01:14.860
dating courtship relationship. And she came to me and she said, mom, I, you know, I do

1363
01:01:14.860 --> 01:01:18.660
love him, but I don't, don't feel comfortable. You know, he said it to me and I said it back,

1364
01:01:18.660 --> 01:01:23.780
she said, but I know we're both in school and we're, we're not going to be getting engaged

1365
01:01:23.780 --> 01:01:24.780
or married anytime soon.

1366
01:01:24.780 --> 01:01:27.620
And she goes, and I just want to kind of save that for later. She's got, I want this

1367
01:01:27.620 --> 01:01:33.800
to become like a, I love you. Love you. She just didn't want that. And so she had a conversation

1368
01:01:33.800 --> 01:01:38.860
with him and I thought this was super mature of her. And she was like, Hey, you know, I,

1369
01:01:38.860 --> 01:01:42.940
you know, we deeply care for each other, but I think that we can kind of put a pause on

1370
01:01:42.940 --> 01:01:49.260
saying I love you until later on in our relationship, maybe till after we're engaged guys, it is

1371
01:01:49.260 --> 01:01:54.340
okay to let someone that you care about, that you're getting deeper and deeper into relationship

1372
01:01:54.900 --> 01:02:01.140
to let them know that, you know, it's, these are setting boundaries. These are the boundaries

1373
01:02:01.140 --> 01:02:11.300
that you have around certain things. Okay. Certain, certain expressions of physical love

1374
01:02:11.300 --> 01:02:16.980
of verbal love. It's okay. Now, if they think that's completely unromantic and you're taking

1375
01:02:16.980 --> 01:02:21.220
all the spontaneity, spontaneity out of relationship and it's offensive to them, then that might

1376
01:02:21.220 --> 01:02:27.220
actually not be the right person for you long-term. Okay. Because if you're expressing

1377
01:02:27.220 --> 01:02:31.820
to them that it may, that it may, that it may, that it makes you be expressing, I love

1378
01:02:31.820 --> 01:02:40.540
you five months in, then it might be a situation where, you know, and if they don't, if they

1379
01:02:40.540 --> 01:02:45.340
are not like, Oh, that's fine. You know? Okay. Let's, let's, let's make a plan here. Okay.

1380
01:02:45.340 --> 01:02:49.460
Let me read, read this question. I have told him I'm not ready. So he has stopped saying

1381
01:02:49.460 --> 01:02:52.820
it, but it's still kind of the pink elephant in the middle of the room. Thank you. You

1382
01:02:52.820 --> 01:02:57.060
know, there's ways to show someone that you love them. iPhone. I don't know who you are.

1383
01:02:57.060 --> 01:03:02.700
There's some way there's ways to show people how much you care for them without saying

1384
01:03:02.700 --> 01:03:08.340
I love you. Okay. But I want to say this. If you have a block to, I love you because

1385
01:03:08.340 --> 01:03:11.920
people have said it in the past and they didn't mean it and they broke your heart and they

1386
01:03:11.920 --> 01:03:16.660
basically were using, I love you to try to, you know, build an emotional connection with

1387
01:03:16.660 --> 01:03:20.540
you so they could get what they wanted from you, whether that was time, money, sex, whatever,

1388
01:03:20.540 --> 01:03:26.420
then you got to get healed of that. How many raise your hand and be honest. How many people

1389
01:03:26.420 --> 01:03:33.980
feel like in the past you were manipulated by, and you, you know, allowed the relationship

1390
01:03:33.980 --> 01:03:39.780
to progress to areas that, you know, you really wouldn't have by the words. I love you or

1391
01:03:39.780 --> 01:03:47.740
simple words, similar conversations caused you to feel like this was a commitment. It

1392
01:03:47.740 --> 01:03:53.540
was a forever situation. You put your guard down, you allowed this person in further.

1393
01:03:53.540 --> 01:03:58.700
It turned out to be not a healthy situation. And it turned out that they were trying to

1394
01:03:58.700 --> 01:04:03.260
build emotional rapport with you in order to get something else that they wanted. Look

1395
01:04:03.260 --> 01:04:14.860
at all those hands, you guys. And I'm pretty sure they're all female ends. Yep. All right.

1396
01:04:14.860 --> 01:04:18.920
So iPhone, I don't know if you're a man or a woman, but if you're a woman, it's possible

1397
01:04:18.920 --> 01:04:24.060
that this is your situation. It's possible that you're just not ready for that because

1398
01:04:24.060 --> 01:04:33.900
it feels manipulative to you at this stage of the game position like that as be honest,

1399
01:04:33.900 --> 01:04:39.100
Hey, I ran, I rushed into this level of relationship in the past and it didn't go well. So can

1400
01:04:39.100 --> 01:04:44.780
we just still, can we just enjoy getting to know each other? Can we just enjoy falling

1401
01:04:44.780 --> 01:04:51.260
in love with each other and having to, you know, put these kinds of this language and

1402
01:04:51.260 --> 01:04:56.980
these labels on it makes sense to everyone. Everyone understand that's a really good question.

1403
01:04:56.980 --> 01:05:00.020
Thank you for asking it.

1404
01:05:00.000 --> 01:05:01.280
I finger toucans.

1405
01:05:01.280 --> 01:05:05.080
Rachel, you remember, I do have those.

1406
01:05:05.080 --> 01:05:05.920
Okay.

1407
01:05:08.360 --> 01:05:10.560
Leslie's saying she has an anxious avoiding pairing

1408
01:05:10.560 --> 01:05:12.480
and you guys can work out.

1409
01:05:12.480 --> 01:05:14.640
Anxious avoid, anxious avoid, anxious avoid,

1410
01:05:14.640 --> 01:05:17.300
anxious avoid, made about their fears

1411
01:05:17.300 --> 01:05:20.640
and communicate about what's behind their behaviors.

1412
01:05:20.640 --> 01:05:22.920
They can make it, they really can.

1413
01:05:22.920 --> 01:05:25.320
But you have to do the hard work in order to do that.

1414
01:05:25.320 --> 01:05:26.800
How do you tell men you're angry

1415
01:05:26.800 --> 01:05:28.960
when they ask for your phone number on an app

1416
01:05:28.960 --> 01:05:30.940
after five minutes?

1417
01:05:32.440 --> 01:05:35.540
Okay, well, it is a dating app.

1418
01:05:36.720 --> 01:05:38.920
Okay, so unless they're a scammer

1419
01:05:38.920 --> 01:05:40.360
that's trying to get you to go on WhatsApp,

1420
01:05:40.360 --> 01:05:42.560
if they want your actual phone number,

1421
01:05:42.560 --> 01:05:46.040
I mean, they saw your picture,

1422
01:05:46.040 --> 01:05:48.120
they're talking to you, they like you,

1423
01:05:48.120 --> 01:05:50.000
they wanna talk, possibly go on a date,

1424
01:05:50.000 --> 01:05:51.560
they don't wanna stay on the app.

1425
01:05:51.560 --> 01:05:54.240
And this is especially true of older folks, okay,

1426
01:05:54.240 --> 01:05:55.640
that just don't wanna do the,

1427
01:05:55.640 --> 01:05:57.520
they don't wanna be on the dating apps at all,

1428
01:05:57.520 --> 01:05:59.760
and they don't understand how to use the dating apps.

1429
01:05:59.760 --> 01:06:01.480
So you have to be able to discern the difference.

1430
01:06:01.480 --> 01:06:04.600
Is this someone who's really motivated

1431
01:06:04.600 --> 01:06:06.080
to get to know you and go on a date

1432
01:06:06.080 --> 01:06:07.600
and just wants to do it the old fashioned way?

1433
01:06:07.600 --> 01:06:08.800
They wanna talk to you on the phone,

1434
01:06:08.800 --> 01:06:12.840
they wanna get off this stinking app.

1435
01:06:12.840 --> 01:06:14.040
That's cool, that's great.

1436
01:06:14.040 --> 01:06:15.680
You shouldn't be angry about that.

1437
01:06:15.680 --> 01:06:17.120
They're motivated, they wanna go forward.

1438
01:06:17.120 --> 01:06:19.760
It's not a talking app, it's a dating app.

1439
01:06:19.760 --> 01:06:21.760
But if they're doing it for some nefarious purpose,

1440
01:06:21.760 --> 01:06:23.120
you have to be able to discern that too.

1441
01:06:23.120 --> 01:06:24.440
Oh, this person wants my phone number,

1442
01:06:24.440 --> 01:06:25.840
this person's up to no good.

1443
01:06:26.080 --> 01:06:29.080
This is what you have to be able to discern.

1444
01:06:29.080 --> 01:06:34.080
A lot of people will use a Google phone number.

1445
01:06:36.240 --> 01:06:38.600
So if someone asks for their phone number,

1446
01:06:38.600 --> 01:06:42.440
they'll get it, right?

1447
01:06:42.440 --> 01:06:43.280
But it's just a number

1448
01:06:43.280 --> 01:06:45.400
that's not your personal cell phone number.

1449
01:06:45.400 --> 01:06:47.240
You don't even have to tell them that

1450
01:06:48.280 --> 01:06:50.400
so that you can really vet the person out

1451
01:06:50.400 --> 01:06:52.000
and see what they're up to.

1452
01:06:52.000 --> 01:06:53.320
If you guys need information

1453
01:06:53.320 --> 01:06:54.760
on how to create a Google number,

1454
01:06:54.760 --> 01:06:56.760
we can do that for you as well.

1455
01:06:56.760 --> 01:06:59.000
Lots of people laughing here.

1456
01:06:59.000 --> 01:06:59.920
Let's see.

1457
01:07:06.560 --> 01:07:08.240
Kat Leslie said, you can always block them.

1458
01:07:08.240 --> 01:07:09.480
Just bless them and block them.

1459
01:07:09.480 --> 01:07:11.160
You can't block people from your phone,

1460
01:07:11.160 --> 01:07:13.200
not just from your social media.

1461
01:07:13.200 --> 01:07:15.240
You can't, you can't do that.

1462
01:07:15.240 --> 01:07:16.280
You'll condort.

1463
01:07:18.600 --> 01:07:21.280
Okay, Febreze it.

1464
01:07:21.280 --> 01:07:23.480
Someone needs to, oh, Febreze my sweater.

1465
01:07:23.480 --> 01:07:26.280
I'm like, what the heck are we talking about right now?

1466
01:07:26.280 --> 01:07:30.040
Just wash it and then give it, oh yeah.

1467
01:07:30.040 --> 01:07:31.440
I'll leave the tag on it.

1468
01:07:31.440 --> 01:07:33.400
Te Amo, he didn't completely ignore

1469
01:07:33.400 --> 01:07:35.080
that she said it though, did he?

1470
01:07:36.800 --> 01:07:38.320
You guys, I don't know what we're talking about.

1471
01:07:38.320 --> 01:07:40.000
I gotta get caught up here.

1472
01:07:42.520 --> 01:07:43.920
Oh, he didn't completely ignore

1473
01:07:43.920 --> 01:07:45.520
that she said it though, did he?

1474
01:07:47.720 --> 01:07:49.120
You're talking about my scenario.

1475
01:07:49.120 --> 01:07:51.520
Okay, so let me think for a second.

1476
01:07:51.520 --> 01:07:53.400
Yes, he did ignore it.

1477
01:07:54.240 --> 01:07:55.080
In this scenario that I'm talking about,

1478
01:07:55.080 --> 01:07:56.600
not these folks, but this other couple,

1479
01:07:56.600 --> 01:07:59.600
she said it and he kind of just like played it off.

1480
01:07:59.600 --> 01:08:01.200
He did.

1481
01:08:01.200 --> 01:08:02.760
Yes, that is what he did.

1482
01:08:02.760 --> 01:08:07.160
And you guys, that's not a good thing to do.

1483
01:08:07.160 --> 01:08:08.000
It isn't.

1484
01:08:08.000 --> 01:08:08.920
We're talking about I love you again,

1485
01:08:08.920 --> 01:08:09.960
just in case you're lost.

1486
01:08:09.960 --> 01:08:11.200
I was lost for a minute.

1487
01:08:11.200 --> 01:08:13.600
I stopped saying I love you to my European colleagues

1488
01:08:13.600 --> 01:08:15.920
at work because they thought I was in love with them.

1489
01:08:15.920 --> 01:08:18.880
When I was trying to say, oh my God, you're the best.

1490
01:08:18.880 --> 01:08:20.920
Love you, but not like I'm in love with you.

1491
01:08:20.920 --> 01:08:23.040
Yeah, some people take it super seriously.

1492
01:08:23.720 --> 01:08:26.000
You cannot tell people you love them, right?

1493
01:08:26.000 --> 01:08:28.319
I have accidentally done that on business calls

1494
01:08:28.319 --> 01:08:30.200
because I'm so used to telling people I love them.

1495
01:08:30.200 --> 01:08:31.920
My kids, my husband, like just, you know,

1496
01:08:31.920 --> 01:08:34.160
people at church love you, you know, and stuff.

1497
01:08:34.160 --> 01:08:35.600
Getting off the phone of a business call,

1498
01:08:35.600 --> 01:08:36.880
someone I don't know at all.

1499
01:08:36.880 --> 01:08:37.720
Okay, yes.

1500
01:08:37.720 --> 01:08:38.560
Okay, thank you.

1501
01:08:38.560 --> 01:08:39.399
Talk to you later.

1502
01:08:39.399 --> 01:08:40.800
Love you.

1503
01:08:40.800 --> 01:08:42.720
It's the equivalent of that friends episode

1504
01:08:42.720 --> 01:08:45.160
where Rachel kisses the guy from Ralph Lauren

1505
01:08:45.160 --> 01:08:47.880
because she thinks that as it's a job interview

1506
01:08:47.880 --> 01:08:49.000
and he's opening the door,

1507
01:08:49.000 --> 01:08:51.960
kind of leaning out to like let her leave.

1508
01:08:51.960 --> 01:08:53.479
And he leans forward because he opens the door

1509
01:08:53.479 --> 01:08:54.920
and then she kisses him on the cheek

1510
01:08:54.920 --> 01:08:57.000
because he didn't know it was a job interview

1511
01:08:57.000 --> 01:08:58.080
and she kissed him on the cheek.

1512
01:08:58.080 --> 01:09:00.720
Yeah, it's the equivalent of that.

1513
01:09:00.720 --> 01:09:03.399
When you tell someone on a business call that you love them,

1514
01:09:03.399 --> 01:09:05.840
you're like, what have I done?

1515
01:09:05.840 --> 01:09:06.960
What have I done?

1516
01:09:08.120 --> 01:09:09.439
All right.

1517
01:09:09.439 --> 01:09:11.120
I've been off dating apps for over a year now

1518
01:09:11.120 --> 01:09:12.279
because I hadn't felt,

1519
01:09:12.279 --> 01:09:16.080
I hadn't been getting any replies to my first messages

1520
01:09:16.080 --> 01:09:19.040
despite having a good profile and wasting my money.

1521
01:09:19.040 --> 01:09:20.840
So I switched over to matchmaking only

1522
01:09:20.840 --> 01:09:22.479
because it made me angry all the time

1523
01:09:22.479 --> 01:09:23.319
and it wasn't healthy,

1524
01:09:23.319 --> 01:09:25.359
but not saying, well, you know, Andy,

1525
01:09:25.359 --> 01:09:26.760
one of the things that we do for you

1526
01:09:26.760 --> 01:09:29.640
and guys, we're gonna be doing this in the new year over,

1527
01:09:29.640 --> 01:09:32.080
you guys, oh, on the January calendar, you guys,

1528
01:09:32.080 --> 01:09:34.920
we have a session called New Year Makeover.

1529
01:09:34.920 --> 01:09:36.840
I wanna tell you what that is.

1530
01:09:36.840 --> 01:09:41.840
That is making over how you present yourself to the world.

1531
01:09:41.920 --> 01:09:44.439
So Andy's saying, oh, my profile,

1532
01:09:44.439 --> 01:09:48.200
like what were you saying in those initial comments?

1533
01:09:48.200 --> 01:09:49.479
There's a lot of you in here

1534
01:09:49.479 --> 01:09:51.880
that are pretty neuro-spicy, okay?

1535
01:09:51.880 --> 01:09:53.319
You're pretty neuro-spicy,

1536
01:09:53.319 --> 01:09:54.480
meaning that, you know,

1537
01:09:54.480 --> 01:09:56.960
you kind of dance to the beat of your own drum.

1538
01:09:56.960 --> 01:09:58.280
And I just want you to know,

1539
01:09:58.280 --> 01:09:59.920
there are people.

1540
01:10:00.000 --> 01:10:05.060
for all of you. I know that I seem pretty normal, but I'm not. Okay. And it takes a

1541
01:10:05.060 --> 01:10:09.740
very special man to be married to me. Now there's a lot of men in my lifetime that wanted

1542
01:10:09.740 --> 01:10:15.940
to be with me because they thought I was pretty on the outside and you know, but they didn't

1543
01:10:15.940 --> 01:10:22.900
know what was underneath the skin here. And it's a lot of crazy. Okay. Um, because I have

1544
01:10:22.900 --> 01:10:28.620
pretty bad ADHD. I mean, I think you can see it even here while I'm doing this and a lot

1545
01:10:28.620 --> 01:10:34.380
of stuff going on. There's someone for everyone for sure. But how are we going to present

1546
01:10:34.380 --> 01:10:39.660
ourselves to the world? Okay. I just told a client the other day, they were trying so

1547
01:10:39.660 --> 01:10:43.780
hard to say all the right things to this person that they're kind of dating. And I said, be

1548
01:10:43.780 --> 01:10:50.300
yourself walking on eggshells and trying to pick all your words. So carefully, you guys,

1549
01:10:50.300 --> 01:10:54.360
that's kind of a harbinger of anxious attachment where you think that you can screw it up.

1550
01:10:54.360 --> 01:10:58.520
If you do one wrong thing, you got to be yourself. They're eventually going to know who you are.

1551
01:10:59.420 --> 01:11:04.040
They don't, but there's some things that we do that we think are being ourself, but they're

1552
01:11:04.040 --> 01:11:07.520
actually pretty unhealthy. And so I'm going to unpack that stuff. We're going to do a

1553
01:11:07.520 --> 01:11:12.160
little makeover, a little inner makeover, a little outer makeover. Okay. It's going

1554
01:11:12.160 --> 01:11:17.680
to be really fun time. Uh, lots of practical stuff. Lots of other people are going to break

1555
01:11:17.680 --> 01:11:21.440
out rooms. You can go to breakout rooms depending on what you want to work on. So if you want

1556
01:11:21.440 --> 01:11:26.400
to work on your outside image, maybe go over to that color, my world people, they're going

1557
01:11:26.400 --> 01:11:31.400
to tell you what colors look best on you. You may go over here, learn a few other kind

1558
01:11:31.400 --> 01:11:35.520
of tips and tricks. What's in the bag kind of things. Other others of you might be like,

1559
01:11:35.520 --> 01:11:40.080
Hey, how do I, how do I talk to someone? How do I have conversations? I want to improve

1560
01:11:40.080 --> 01:11:44.320
the way that I talk to people when I'm just first meeting them, because I can't tell you

1561
01:11:44.320 --> 01:11:49.200
how many success stories we've had where whoever the person is, that's my student, whether

1562
01:11:49.200 --> 01:11:53.440
it's a man or a woman, they just don't pick up on social cues.

1563
01:11:53.440 --> 01:11:57.840
It's hard for them to pick on. So in fact, raise your hand, please. If you feel like

1564
01:11:57.840 --> 01:12:03.080
it's very difficult for you to pick up on social cues, you're not really sure what's

1565
01:12:03.080 --> 01:12:10.000
appropriate or not appropriate to say or do in a situation. Let's see the hands, hands,

1566
01:12:10.000 --> 01:12:27.040
hands, hands. Okay. Keep raising your hand. If you're not good at expressing emotions,

1567
01:12:27.040 --> 01:12:33.560
if you don't always even know what emotion you're feeling, what emotion am I? I don't

1568
01:12:34.560 --> 01:12:40.320
Okay. Look at all those hands going up. This is good. This is important. So that is what

1569
01:12:40.320 --> 01:12:44.120
that session is going to cover. And you guys, you don't have to just pick one breakout room

1570
01:12:44.120 --> 01:12:48.880
the entire time. It'll be a two hour session. You can just go from breakout to breakout

1571
01:12:48.880 --> 01:12:53.640
to breakout and get in all the information of all that different mentors and coaches

1572
01:12:53.640 --> 01:12:58.760
that will be there. And we're going to bring you the best of the best in those areas. Okay.

1573
01:12:58.760 --> 01:13:03.120
People that really can give you even better advice than I could give you in the area of

1574
01:13:03.120 --> 01:13:19.480
their expertise. Okay. Important stuff. I already said this, but just giving, if you're

1575
01:13:19.480 --> 01:13:24.520
not a client of mine, there are a few private clients here. I am on a wait list. So please

1576
01:13:24.520 --> 01:13:28.720
don't be like, I want to be a private client. I am going to have a few private clients graduate

1577
01:13:28.720 --> 01:13:32.200
at the beginning of the year. So I will have some spots open for that. That means just

1578
01:13:32.280 --> 01:13:36.760
really digging down into your stuff and really helping you on more of a one-on-one basis

1579
01:13:36.760 --> 01:13:42.160
to get freedom and breakthrough and success in your love life and other areas of your

1580
01:13:42.160 --> 01:13:48.480
life as well. But as far as LA's within this community go, um, just answering that post

1581
01:13:48.480 --> 01:13:52.400
in the featured section of your group, saying that you're willing to be spotlighted. Like

1582
01:13:52.400 --> 01:13:56.800
Nitin asked that question and I've spotlighted Nitin probably at least three or four times.

1583
01:13:56.800 --> 01:14:02.680
You guys, I will tell you this. If you're a super picky person and I know that, okay.

1584
01:14:02.680 --> 01:14:08.640
And I spotlight you and hopefully I'm helping a lot of you get out of your pickiness. Okay.

1585
01:14:08.640 --> 01:14:12.560
Because that's just trauma as far as I'm concerned. And you need to trust your coach. You guys

1586
01:14:12.560 --> 01:14:16.600
don't, don't, don't hire a coach. If you're not going to trust them, don't hire a doctor.

1587
01:14:16.600 --> 01:14:20.800
If you're not going to trust them, don't hire a trainer in the gym. If you're not going

1588
01:14:20.800 --> 01:14:25.400
to trust them, you got to trust them. You hire them. You believe that they know what

1589
01:14:25.400 --> 01:14:28.680
they're doing and that's why you're giving them your money. And so you got to trust them.

1590
01:14:28.680 --> 01:14:32.840
You got to do what they say. I just had this conversation with a private male client the

1591
01:14:32.840 --> 01:14:38.080
other day. He fights me every single time I try to introduce him to someone, he fights

1592
01:14:38.080 --> 01:14:42.520
me. He's like, Oh, I don't know. I don't know. I don't think I'm attracted. It's a picture.

1593
01:14:42.520 --> 01:14:47.000
It's a 2d image. This is not an animated image. Okay. You don't know if you like this person

1594
01:14:47.000 --> 01:14:50.520
or not, you're gonna have to trust me because I know you well enough to know what you're

1595
01:14:50.520 --> 01:14:54.160
looking for and not just what you want, but what you need and you got to trust. And guess

1596
01:14:54.200 --> 01:14:58.760
what? We had a long conversation. I almost fired him. I'm just being real with you guys.

1597
01:14:58.760 --> 01:15:00.000
I almost fired him. Okay.

1598
01:15:00.000 --> 01:15:04.640
I've introduced him to five or six amazing women. And he's always just like, you know,

1599
01:15:06.160 --> 01:15:11.120
in some cases doesn't even give it one conversation. And in other cases ends up

1600
01:15:11.120 --> 01:15:17.120
going on only one date and just like, nah, I'm not interested. You don't know. Okay. And I'm

1601
01:15:17.120 --> 01:15:23.840
talking about amazing women. Okay. So I almost fired him and he finally decided to trust me.

1602
01:15:23.840 --> 01:15:28.960
There was one girl that I had, I had shown him that I think is a great match for him in every

1603
01:15:28.960 --> 01:15:33.200
way, shape or form also has the personality. That's going to pull him out of his shell.

1604
01:15:33.200 --> 01:15:38.400
And it's going to be magic together. And he didn't even want to give her a chance based on her photo

1605
01:15:38.400 --> 01:15:42.960
because, oh, she's not, she's pretty, but she's not my type. And so guess what he did. And I just

1606
01:15:42.960 --> 01:15:47.120
got a message from him the other day. And he said, I really loved our conversation. I'm,

1607
01:15:47.120 --> 01:15:54.640
I'm really looking forward to spending time with her. Oh, what? No, trust your coach,

1608
01:15:55.440 --> 01:16:03.680
trust your matchmaker trust. You got to trust. Okay. And so that being said, um,

1609
01:16:03.680 --> 01:16:08.960
spotlights for all of you in phase three happen when you say yes to them. And guess what?

1610
01:16:10.320 --> 01:16:14.800
If the people that it's, it's sometimes a lot of quick process. So for instance,

1611
01:16:14.800 --> 01:16:18.640
I might take the spotlight. Like I spotlighted, like, I don't know, seven or eight of you ladies

1612
01:16:18.640 --> 01:16:23.840
that said yes already, I've already spotlighted you. So I post you in an all men's group of like

1613
01:16:23.840 --> 01:16:29.280
a thousand men. Okay. And then I just say to them, Hey, I don't give them your name. They

1614
01:16:29.280 --> 01:16:32.720
don't know your name. They just know your location. Like, you know, the city that you live

1615
01:16:32.720 --> 01:16:38.480
in and your age. And that's it. That's all I did on those spotlights. I said, if you want to know

1616
01:16:38.480 --> 01:16:45.920
more about this, one of these women, then I need you to like the picture and I'll DM you. So all

1617
01:16:45.920 --> 01:16:49.760
the pictures got likes, there wasn't one of them that didn't get any likes. And then what I did is

1618
01:16:49.760 --> 01:16:53.840
I went through the likes and I looked at that man's profile, looked at what he's posting,

1619
01:16:53.840 --> 01:16:59.200
what he's doing, how old is he? You know, what are the things that he's saying on his social media

1620
01:16:59.200 --> 01:17:05.040
and for the ones that seem safe for the ones that seemed appropriate in age. And I mean like the

1621
01:17:05.040 --> 01:17:08.640
life in their years, not just the years in their life and all the different things that I reached

1622
01:17:08.640 --> 01:17:13.440
out to them and said, okay, Hey, tell me more about yourself. Have you filled out a spirit

1623
01:17:13.440 --> 01:17:17.840
made mash profile? Can I look at it? Where is it? What name is it under? Okay. So this is what I do.

1624
01:17:17.840 --> 01:17:22.720
And you guys, it's very time intensive. You know, this is a perfect time for me to say this.

1625
01:17:22.720 --> 01:17:29.600
I need probably two matchmaking assistants. I'm looking for that right now. And I'm going to

1626
01:17:31.360 --> 01:17:35.440
fill those positions from within the community for, and if I don't and can't,

1627
01:17:35.440 --> 01:17:41.920
then I'm going to fill that, those positions from outside of the community if I have to. Okay.

1628
01:17:41.920 --> 01:17:46.400
Because I need help going through the profiles. I'm only one person and there's lots and lots

1629
01:17:46.400 --> 01:17:51.920
of profiles. Now there's lots of different things going on. And so I need people to volunteer to be

1630
01:17:51.920 --> 01:17:56.480
part of that process. Um, the main thing that you would have to have is you'd have to be very

1631
01:17:56.480 --> 01:18:01.760
computer savvy. You'd have to be a high level communicator. You'd have to be very intuitive,

1632
01:18:01.760 --> 01:18:06.320
very teachable. And you also would have to have a high level of discretion. Okay.

1633
01:18:07.360 --> 01:18:13.360
A high level of discretion. I'm not going to throw a wolf into the sheep's pen. Okay. And so if you're

1634
01:18:13.360 --> 01:18:18.160
not the kind of person who is wanting to help other people find love, and you're just wanting

1635
01:18:18.160 --> 01:18:23.600
to go through all my profiles to find yourself someone then nah, that's not what I need right now.

1636
01:18:23.600 --> 01:18:28.480
Okay. High, high level of discretion. All right. And it could be a guy or a girl,

1637
01:18:28.480 --> 01:18:34.000
and I could use at least two, two little helpers. I'm God's little helper. You'll be my little help

1638
01:18:34.000 --> 01:18:40.720
for, okay. Okay. We were going to put that out. We're going to post that, but I just went ahead

1639
01:18:41.440 --> 01:18:45.360
and said it to you. So that kind of looks like what the single spotlights look like. Same on

1640
01:18:45.360 --> 01:18:51.120
social media. People DM me. And if I'm like, Oh no, this person is, you know, I'll look at their

1641
01:18:51.120 --> 01:18:55.920
social media and it's just like, no, you guys, we try our best to be part of your God defense system.

1642
01:18:56.960 --> 01:19:02.480
All right. And some people, even though they don't fit the criteria that I've posted, as far as age

1643
01:19:02.480 --> 01:19:06.880
bracket and geographic location, especially if the match and chief, the match and chief, the match

1644
01:19:07.840 --> 01:19:14.560
the match people still, they waste my time by sending me themselves when they don't fit.

1645
01:19:14.560 --> 01:19:18.800
They don't fit what I'm asking for. And so that takes up more time. Does that make sense?

1646
01:19:18.800 --> 01:19:23.840
So please do not respond to a profile. That's the scarcity mentality. Don't respond to a profile

1647
01:19:23.840 --> 01:19:28.240
that you don't fit because all you're going to do is waste my time. All right. And then I'm going to

1648
01:19:28.240 --> 01:19:31.760
have to tell you, Oh, sorry, you know, this isn't the right fit for you, but there'll be others.

1649
01:19:31.760 --> 01:19:36.400
I'm going to tell you in advance, there will be others, lots of others. If we can move faster and

1650
01:19:36.400 --> 01:19:43.200
we can't move fast. If people are trying to reply to everything because they don't want to miss out

1651
01:19:43.200 --> 01:19:48.400
no FOMO y'all FOMO is not a kingdom emotion. It's not a kingdom emotion. There's no FOMO.

1652
01:19:49.600 --> 01:19:58.400
No one else is going to get what you, what, what belongs to you. Okay. All right. All righty. Okay.

1653
01:19:58.400 --> 01:19:59.680
So let's go here.

1654
01:20:00.000 --> 01:20:03.120
Jackie is being vaccinated, a red flag.

1655
01:20:04.240 --> 01:20:09.680
Um, only if you think it is, I mean, I don't think vaccinations

1656
01:20:09.680 --> 01:20:12.080
or non-vaccinations are ever red flags.

1657
01:20:12.480 --> 01:20:17.840
Um, I think that if someone is just blindly following whatever the

1658
01:20:17.840 --> 01:20:22.000
government or whatever big pharma is telling them to do, that's not someone

1659
01:20:22.000 --> 01:20:25.880
that I want to be involved with as far as romantically and raise children with.

1660
01:20:26.800 --> 01:20:29.400
I don't want to argue with my husband about whether or not I'm going to give

1661
01:20:29.400 --> 01:20:33.200
my baby in the hospital after I give birth to it, you know, 10 vaccinations

1662
01:20:33.200 --> 01:20:34.680
before it ever even leaves, not sure.

1663
01:20:34.680 --> 01:20:35.760
They give babies.

1664
01:20:35.920 --> 01:20:38.160
I just had twins, grand grandchildren.

1665
01:20:38.440 --> 01:20:40.020
I was there when my daughter gave birth to them.

1666
01:20:40.020 --> 01:20:42.160
I was in the hospital in the room with her.

1667
01:20:42.160 --> 01:20:43.000
I was there with her.

1668
01:20:43.000 --> 01:20:43.800
So it was my husband.

1669
01:20:44.160 --> 01:20:44.600
Okay.

1670
01:20:44.840 --> 01:20:45.600
And so.

1671
01:20:46.400 --> 01:20:51.360
They want to give more vaccinations to little infants that are just

1672
01:20:51.360 --> 01:20:55.320
born than all of us that were raised in the seventies, eighties and

1673
01:20:55.320 --> 01:20:57.880
nineties and nineties and nineties and nineties.

1674
01:20:59.400 --> 01:21:00.120
That's not okay.

1675
01:21:00.120 --> 01:21:00.920
That's no bueno.

1676
01:21:01.880 --> 01:21:04.320
These little babies haven't even had a chance to be out of the womb and

1677
01:21:04.320 --> 01:21:06.040
they're getting all this stuff put in them.

1678
01:21:06.320 --> 01:21:08.640
And it's not just even about what the vaccination is made out of.

1679
01:21:08.640 --> 01:21:11.280
It's about what all of the carrier stuff is made out of heavy

1680
01:21:11.280 --> 01:21:13.200
metals, all different types of stuff.

1681
01:21:13.400 --> 01:21:17.640
You guys, whether you believe it or not, it's highly linked to neurodiversity.

1682
01:21:17.640 --> 01:21:19.720
It's highly linked to autism specifically.

1683
01:21:20.320 --> 01:21:21.840
It is the research is there.

1684
01:21:21.840 --> 01:21:23.240
You guys it's there.

1685
01:21:23.600 --> 01:21:24.120
Okay.

1686
01:21:24.800 --> 01:21:25.440
It's there.

1687
01:21:25.760 --> 01:21:30.080
I can promise you that, that a lot of trauma causes neurodiversity is

1688
01:21:30.080 --> 01:21:34.080
diversity is diversity is diversity is one personality and it comes from trauma.

1689
01:21:34.600 --> 01:21:35.120
Okay.

1690
01:21:35.520 --> 01:21:39.200
Trauma will cause it, but there are so many kids when I was a kid and you

1691
01:21:39.200 --> 01:21:42.160
were a kid in grade school, we didn't have any autistic kids in our class.

1692
01:21:42.560 --> 01:21:43.080
Okay.

1693
01:21:43.560 --> 01:21:46.200
And the reason why is because we didn't have all these vaccinations.

1694
01:21:46.200 --> 01:21:49.640
We didn't have all these chemicals in our food supply, all

1695
01:21:49.640 --> 01:21:50.880
the pollutants in our water.

1696
01:21:50.880 --> 01:21:52.840
We didn't have what there is now.

1697
01:21:53.120 --> 01:21:57.480
And some people's bodies are just very sensitive to this toxic overload.

1698
01:21:59.280 --> 01:22:00.760
Some people's bodies can't handle it.

1699
01:22:01.600 --> 01:22:02.120
Okay.

1700
01:22:02.600 --> 01:22:04.160
And all different types of things.

1701
01:22:04.200 --> 01:22:07.880
So to answer your question, I think it's a yellow flag when someone isn't

1702
01:22:07.880 --> 01:22:11.360
willing to do the research themselves and decide what's best for them.

1703
01:22:13.360 --> 01:22:17.960
And wants to blindly just follow, you know, whatever schedule is out there

1704
01:22:17.960 --> 01:22:19.600
as far as vaccinations are concerned.

1705
01:22:20.080 --> 01:22:20.580
Okay.

1706
01:22:21.300 --> 01:22:24.420
This was my prayer during COVID I was awesome.

1707
01:22:24.420 --> 01:22:28.100
So I was in Texas, so already kind of more of a conservative

1708
01:22:28.100 --> 01:22:29.620
place, not really a liberal place.

1709
01:22:29.620 --> 01:22:32.700
But I also live in Austin, Texas, which is a very liberal place.

1710
01:22:33.180 --> 01:22:34.820
And we couldn't go outside without masks.

1711
01:22:34.820 --> 01:22:36.820
You couldn't even be out outside farmer's markets.

1712
01:22:36.820 --> 01:22:39.380
You couldn't, you know, you get kicked out, you get arrested.

1713
01:22:39.780 --> 01:22:40.980
Um, it's pretty serious.

1714
01:22:41.020 --> 01:22:41.580
Okay.

1715
01:22:41.980 --> 01:22:45.580
And none of us, of course, had ever experienced anything like that before,

1716
01:22:45.820 --> 01:22:48.860
but I just had a conversation with God because of what I do and what I was

1717
01:22:48.860 --> 01:22:54.260
already doing when the lockdown started, I said, God, I said, I trust you that if

1718
01:22:54.260 --> 01:23:00.260
I need to get this vaccination in order to be able to go where I need to go to

1719
01:23:00.260 --> 01:23:04.460
fulfill my assignment, then I will trust that whatever they inject into me, isn't

1720
01:23:04.460 --> 01:23:09.420
going to hurt me because I'm not going to let that stand in the way of what

1721
01:23:09.420 --> 01:23:10.340
you've called me to do.

1722
01:23:12.260 --> 01:23:14.020
And that's the conversation that I have with God.

1723
01:23:14.180 --> 01:23:15.660
And I didn't end up ever having to get it.

1724
01:23:16.340 --> 01:23:19.540
By the time that I had to travel and I had to go places to speak and do what I

1725
01:23:19.540 --> 01:23:24.300
do, they weren't requiring vaccinations in those places.

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01:23:24.340 --> 01:23:27.540
So I never had to get it, but I was willing to do whatever I needed to do in

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01:23:27.540 --> 01:23:30.900
order to continue to, you know, fully focus and go forward.

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01:23:31.260 --> 01:23:32.300
Guys, we have a love story.

1729
01:23:32.300 --> 01:23:33.660
That's going to be on love story.

1730
01:23:33.660 --> 01:23:35.740
At the end of this month, we have a holiday love story.

1731
01:23:35.740 --> 01:23:38.420
There's going to be several couples from this community that have gotten

1732
01:23:38.420 --> 01:23:39.540
married because of this community.

1733
01:23:39.540 --> 01:23:42.380
They're going to come back and tell you their stories, let you ask them any and

1734
01:23:42.380 --> 01:23:43.580
all questions that you want to ask.

1735
01:23:43.580 --> 01:23:48.180
But one of the stories he's Canadian, she's from here, you guys, they broke up

1736
01:23:48.180 --> 01:23:52.060
several times because he could not get out of Canada because when they met, it

1737
01:23:52.060 --> 01:23:54.780
was part of the vaccinated as part of it was what, you know, heavy, heavy

1738
01:23:54.780 --> 01:23:59.500
vaccination stuff, he refused to get vaccinated, could not come to see her.

1739
01:23:59.660 --> 01:24:02.780
So they broke up and then they try again.

1740
01:24:02.780 --> 01:24:06.740
It looked like he got turned away at the border twice, even when the, even when

1741
01:24:06.740 --> 01:24:11.980
the, the, you know, the, the rules kind of got lifted a little bit, but he was

1742
01:24:12.100 --> 01:24:15.500
And then finally, you guys, when they had just kind of forgotten about each

1743
01:24:15.500 --> 01:24:17.460
other and gone their separate way, I just want to go on record.

1744
01:24:17.860 --> 01:24:20.540
I knew that they were meant to be together and I knew that they were each

1745
01:24:20.540 --> 01:24:23.380
other's person and I will fight for you.

1746
01:24:23.620 --> 01:24:24.140
Okay.

1747
01:24:24.180 --> 01:24:27.140
If I feel that that's true, I'm not going to push it on you.

1748
01:24:27.260 --> 01:24:29.500
I'm not going to try to manipulate you into it.

1749
01:24:30.260 --> 01:24:36.100
But as soon as I saw the open door and that was, he had a dream about her, even

1750
01:24:36.100 --> 01:24:38.460
though they hadn't talked in a, I think they hadn't talked in a year.

1751
01:24:38.500 --> 01:24:42.260
And he messaged me and just said, Hey, I had a dream about this.

1752
01:24:42.260 --> 01:24:43.740
And I said, Oh, okay.

1753
01:24:43.740 --> 01:24:44.340
Yeah.

1754
01:24:44.620 --> 01:24:45.140
Uh-huh.

1755
01:24:45.380 --> 01:24:48.100
And I, I told him what I thought, the interpretation of the interpretation,

1756
01:24:48.100 --> 01:24:50.540
the interpretation, the interpretation, getting back together.

1757
01:24:50.900 --> 01:24:55.260
And then I was talking to her and I just said, Hey, have you talked to so-and-so

1758
01:24:55.260 --> 01:24:56.540
fully knowing that she had a dream?

1759
01:24:56.540 --> 01:24:57.460
And he said, no.

1760
01:24:57.620 --> 01:24:58.180
I know.

1761
01:24:58.180 --> 01:24:58.580
I know.

1762
01:24:58.580 --> 01:24:59.860
I don't have an answer to that.

1763
01:24:59.860 --> 01:25:00.180
I know.

1764
01:25:00.000 --> 01:25:02.960
hadn't. And she said, no, you know, I haven't Jackie, come on,

1765
01:25:00.180 --> 01:25:00.620
I know.

1766
01:25:00.620 --> 01:25:01.100
I know.

1767
01:25:01.500 --> 01:25:01.980
I know.

1768
01:25:02.020 --> 01:25:02.340
I know.

1769
01:25:02.340 --> 01:25:02.700
I know.

1770
01:25:02.700 --> 01:25:03.020
I know.

1771
01:25:02.960 --> 01:25:06.160
I've moved on. She's like, give it up, let it go. And I said,

1772
01:25:03.020 --> 01:25:03.580
I know.

1773
01:25:03.580 --> 01:25:03.900
I know.

1774
01:25:03.900 --> 01:25:04.580
I know.

1775
01:25:04.580 --> 01:25:04.780
I know.

1776
01:25:04.780 --> 01:25:05.060
I know.

1777
01:25:05.060 --> 01:25:05.500
I know.

1778
01:25:05.500 --> 01:25:05.860
I know.

1779
01:25:05.860 --> 01:25:06.100
I know.

1780
01:25:06.100 --> 01:25:06.500
I know.

1781
01:25:06.160 --> 01:25:08.720
okay, that's fine. She goes, well, why are you asking? And I

1782
01:25:08.720 --> 01:25:12.360
said, well, since you asked why I'm asking, he had a dream

1783
01:25:12.360 --> 01:25:15.240
about you. And that's where I left it. And guess what? She

1784
01:25:15.240 --> 01:25:17.920
contacted him wanted to know about the dream. He told her and

1785
01:25:17.920 --> 01:25:20.480
they gave it one more chance. This time he was able to get

1786
01:25:20.480 --> 01:25:23.160
across the border with no vaccination. And now they're

1787
01:25:23.160 --> 01:25:27.880
married. Third time's a charm. And that's the other thing that

1788
01:25:27.880 --> 01:25:30.200
I want to say, just because you've tried something in the

1789
01:25:30.200 --> 01:25:33.160
past doesn't mean that it's not worth trying again. If you

1790
01:25:33.160 --> 01:25:35.520
really feel like you should try it. And even though you're

1791
01:25:35.520 --> 01:25:38.200
arguing with yourself about, hey, it's never worked before,

1792
01:25:38.320 --> 01:25:40.760
it doesn't mean it won't work now. So I don't think the

1793
01:25:40.760 --> 01:25:46.320
vaccinations are necessarily a red flag. But it depends on what

1794
01:25:46.320 --> 01:25:50.600
the mentality is behind that. I have another client who had a

1795
01:25:50.600 --> 01:25:53.680
childhood cancer, he almost died at 18 years old of a rare

1796
01:25:53.680 --> 01:26:00.360
genetic colon cancer. Okay. And guess what? God, but also

1797
01:26:00.360 --> 01:26:06.560
medicine saved his life. God use medicine to save his life. And

1798
01:26:06.560 --> 01:26:08.920
so he's not against medicine. And you're never going to tell

1799
01:26:08.920 --> 01:26:11.080
him that medicine doesn't work for some people. So do you guys

1800
01:26:11.080 --> 01:26:15.600
see what I'm saying here? As far as pharmacy, as far as far as

1801
01:26:15.600 --> 01:26:19.960
far as pharmaceuticals say that fast 20 times, as far as

1802
01:26:19.960 --> 01:26:23.520
pharmaceuticals go, do you see how everyone has a different

1803
01:26:23.520 --> 01:26:25.400
relationship with different things? And that's why it's

1804
01:26:25.400 --> 01:26:29.400
really important to not have dogma. Okay, not be closed

1805
01:26:29.400 --> 01:26:33.960
minded and think that you know everything. I don't think that

1806
01:26:33.960 --> 01:26:36.880
you should be like, I'm not going to date you if you took

1807
01:26:36.880 --> 01:26:40.760
the shot. Now, once again, if they're rabid conspiracy

1808
01:26:40.760 --> 01:26:44.080
theorists, you might not date them because of that. And or if

1809
01:26:44.080 --> 01:26:46.920
there's someone who's a lemming and just does whatever, you

1810
01:26:46.920 --> 01:26:49.120
know, big government tells them to do, you might not go out with

1811
01:26:49.120 --> 01:26:51.480
them because of that. But it's important to get to know people

1812
01:26:51.480 --> 01:26:53.840
to find out, you know, maybe they were in the medical field

1813
01:26:53.840 --> 01:26:56.600
and they felt like me. They're like, Hey, this is what God

1814
01:26:56.600 --> 01:26:58.960
called me to do. I'm a doctor and I'm not going to stop being

1815
01:26:58.960 --> 01:27:01.320
a doctor and I'm not going to lose my job. I'm just going to

1816
01:27:01.320 --> 01:27:04.720
do it. And I'm just going to trust the Lord. Right?

1817
01:27:05.840 --> 01:27:07.560
Different strokes for different folks, guys.

1818
01:27:11.840 --> 01:27:16.880
All right. Thank you, Lillian for saying that. Yes. I can't

1819
01:27:16.880 --> 01:27:19.480
carry my baby nephew because I haven't been vaccinated. Oh,

1820
01:27:19.480 --> 01:27:21.840
yeah. You guys, so many families have been destroyed by

1821
01:27:21.840 --> 01:27:24.000
this vaccination. You know, there's people that are not

1822
01:27:24.000 --> 01:27:27.120
spending Christmas together this year and they haven't for the

1823
01:27:27.120 --> 01:27:31.880
last five years because of this. That's our own family. David's

1824
01:27:31.920 --> 01:27:36.360
parents used to spend every holiday, every holiday with his

1825
01:27:36.360 --> 01:27:39.280
cousins that were like his siblings that he was raised

1826
01:27:39.280 --> 01:27:42.920
around, not David's, but his father's cousins that were like

1827
01:27:42.920 --> 01:27:45.960
his siblings. He's an only child. And those people are like

1828
01:27:45.960 --> 01:27:49.640
his siblings and they won't, they won't see each other. Now

1829
01:27:50.560 --> 01:27:52.480
they would see them, but they won't see them because they

1830
01:27:52.480 --> 01:27:55.000
didn't get vaccinated. So they won't see them. And that's very

1831
01:27:55.000 --> 01:28:00.160
sad. I really encourage you that if something like this, if you

1832
01:28:00.400 --> 01:28:03.560
wrote someone off because they got the vaccination or they made

1833
01:28:03.560 --> 01:28:06.080
some decision in your life that you didn't approve of, and now

1834
01:28:06.080 --> 01:28:08.120
you're not friends with them anymore, or now you're not

1835
01:28:08.120 --> 01:28:11.640
family with them anymore. I want you to think about letting that

1836
01:28:11.640 --> 01:28:16.840
go. I want you to think about repenting of that. I want you to

1837
01:28:16.840 --> 01:28:20.600
think about having a change of heart and mind about that. If

1838
01:28:20.600 --> 01:28:24.720
that's you that someone won't see, I want you to pray and see

1839
01:28:25.600 --> 01:28:28.600
if you can see some breakthrough full circle moments, you guys,

1840
01:28:28.600 --> 01:28:31.280
not just about your love life. It's about a lot of things. God

1841
01:28:31.280 --> 01:28:34.080
wants to bring relationships back full circle. He wants to

1842
01:28:34.080 --> 01:28:36.800
bring divine alignments. And so let's just pray into that as we

1843
01:28:36.800 --> 01:28:40.200
end here, father, we thank you for divine alignments. We thank

1844
01:28:40.200 --> 01:28:42.360
you for tonight. We thank you for what's coming up in the new

1845
01:28:42.360 --> 01:28:44.560
year, Lord. I pray that everyone's here that they don't

1846
01:28:44.560 --> 01:28:47.000
give up on their love story just simply because it didn't happen

1847
01:28:47.000 --> 01:28:50.120
in the 2024 calendar year. You have great and amazing things

1848
01:28:50.120 --> 01:28:52.520
for us in this year of manifestation that we're going

1849
01:28:52.520 --> 01:28:57.320
into Lord, this full circle year that we're going into so many

1850
01:28:57.320 --> 01:29:01.120
opportunities are going to come back into that Harbor, Lord,

1851
01:29:01.360 --> 01:29:03.120
those boats are going to blow their horn and they're going to

1852
01:29:03.120 --> 01:29:06.040
invite us to get back on board. And so Lord, I pray for that

1853
01:29:06.040 --> 01:29:08.800
right now. God, I thank you for divine connections and

1854
01:29:08.800 --> 01:29:11.760
alignments. Lord, I thank you for divine opportunities.

1855
01:29:12.040 --> 01:29:14.680
Father, we just thank you for divine connections. God, we just

1856
01:29:14.680 --> 01:29:17.680
thank you, Lord, that every single thing that you have for

1857
01:29:17.680 --> 01:29:20.840
us is yes. And amen. We thank you, Lord, that you've been

1858
01:29:20.840 --> 01:29:23.480
prepared hearts to be able to not just receive, but also

1859
01:29:23.480 --> 01:29:26.600
sustain the blessings and the upgrades that you have for our

1860
01:29:26.600 --> 01:29:29.720
lives, Lord, in, in our relationships, in our finances,

1861
01:29:29.720 --> 01:29:33.920
in our health, in every area, Lord. And we just thank you, God

1862
01:29:33.960 --> 01:29:36.560
that you're leading and guiding us in this season. I just feel

1863
01:29:36.560 --> 01:29:39.960
like this saying this in the spirit in this season, be open

1864
01:29:39.960 --> 01:29:43.560
to yes. I had someone say to me the other day that this is my

1865
01:29:43.560 --> 01:29:48.160
season of yes. That's what they said. Um, just randomly when I

1866
01:29:48.160 --> 01:29:51.520
was with them. And, um, and I want, I want to release that

1867
01:29:51.520 --> 01:29:54.720
over you guys, full circle moments in your season of yes.

1868
01:29:54.720 --> 01:29:58.400
Unless you have a really good reason, a really God reason to

1869
01:29:58.400 --> 01:29:59.040
say no.

1870
01:30:00.000 --> 01:30:06.160
yes this year. Okay. Now I'm not talking about boundary things where people are using you and

1871
01:30:06.160 --> 01:30:10.880
you're always getting taken advantage of because you can't say no, not talking about that. I'm

1872
01:30:10.880 --> 01:30:16.400
talking about, don't say no out of fear. Don't say no, because you don't have enough time or money

1873
01:30:16.400 --> 01:30:22.000
start building with what God has in his pockets. Not what you have in yours, right? A lot of people

1874
01:30:22.000 --> 01:30:26.000
will say, I don't have the time and I have the money, but this is the year that you need to

1875
01:30:26.000 --> 01:30:31.520
start questioning why it shouldn't be okay with you that you don't have the time or the money to

1876
01:30:31.520 --> 01:30:36.320
do what you want to do in life. It shouldn't be okay. And so instead of giving that excuse,

1877
01:30:36.880 --> 01:30:42.160
stop using it as an excuse and use it as a catalyst to find out why you don't have time

1878
01:30:42.160 --> 01:30:48.720
and why you don't have money to do what you want to do. Resources, not just money, but resources,

1879
01:30:48.720 --> 01:30:55.120
time being a resource as well. Maybe it's time to, excuse the pun, but maybe it's time that you

1880
01:30:55.120 --> 01:30:59.600
clear the slate. You got rid of some things that are on your calendar that don't belong there.

1881
01:31:00.160 --> 01:31:03.360
I just took on a private client. This is not someone who's going to graduate cause they just

1882
01:31:03.360 --> 01:31:07.200
started, but I asked them to do a few things and they said, well, I don't know if I have time to

1883
01:31:07.200 --> 01:31:11.440
do that. And I said, well, then you don't have time for a relationship guys. I'm a straight

1884
01:31:11.440 --> 01:31:16.800
tutor. Uh, some of you would really be offended to have me as a private, private coach,

1885
01:31:17.760 --> 01:31:21.680
because if you're going to spend your hard earned money to have me as a private coach,

1886
01:31:21.680 --> 01:31:27.280
then I have a duty to tell you the truth here. It gets diffused. Cause no one knows that I'm

1887
01:31:27.280 --> 01:31:32.240
talking to them specifically, but I will tell you that sometimes when I say very specific

1888
01:31:32.240 --> 01:31:37.760
things on these broadcasts, I am talking to someone specifically, but because I'm just

1889
01:31:37.760 --> 01:31:42.320
talking into a mass of people, people don't get offended as easily, but guess what? When

1890
01:31:42.320 --> 01:31:48.400
you're a one-off client of mine, there can be no mystery at who I'm talking to. You can't look

1891
01:31:48.400 --> 01:31:52.240
around and say, Hmm, oh, that can't be for me. She gotta be talking to somebody else. No,

1892
01:31:52.240 --> 01:31:59.840
it's just me and you there. So, you know, it's you. All right. But God has gifted me in this

1893
01:31:59.840 --> 01:32:04.000
area. And I want to help you. I want to get out of your own way and out of God's way so that you

1894
01:32:04.000 --> 01:32:08.480
can have the things that God has already set aside for you. They're yours. They belong to you.

1895
01:32:08.480 --> 01:32:12.640
They're sitting at will call. Let's go pick them up. Let's go pick them up. It's time.

1896
01:32:14.080 --> 01:32:17.920
Okay. So if you are someone who always uses the excuse that I don't have time,

1897
01:32:17.920 --> 01:32:21.680
or I don't have enough resources, instead of saying that even one more time,

1898
01:32:23.040 --> 01:32:28.320
the next time someone asks you, and you're about to say that I want you to stop and use

1899
01:32:28.320 --> 01:32:36.560
your heartwork tools and find out why, because you have to make time. Okay. Of course you don't

1900
01:32:36.560 --> 01:32:41.040
have it. You have to make, you have to make time for the things you really want. And this has to

1901
01:32:41.040 --> 01:32:48.480
be the time that you do it. All right. Oh, yes. Well, if you're ready to be offended,

1902
01:32:48.480 --> 01:32:55.200
I'm ready to offend because nothing will upgrade you faster than offense. Write this down. Offense

1903
01:32:55.200 --> 01:33:00.720
is always pointing to an unhealed part of your heart. If you get offended, it doesn't matter

1904
01:33:00.720 --> 01:33:06.160
what you get offended about. It's always pointing to an unhealed part of your heart. It doesn't

1905
01:33:06.160 --> 01:33:09.760
matter if the thing is offensive. Why does it offend you? That's the real question.

1906
01:33:11.520 --> 01:33:16.400
Okay. Cause I see a lot of offensive stuff and it doesn't offend me because I don't have any

1907
01:33:16.400 --> 01:33:24.800
horse in that race. Okay. Now the thing that should offend us all is what's happening to

1908
01:33:24.800 --> 01:33:31.040
the families of this world because of the lack of kingdom marriage, that should offend us all.

1909
01:33:31.040 --> 01:33:35.840
And that righteous offense should get us motivated to do whatever it takes to be part of the solution.

1910
01:33:36.400 --> 01:33:40.080
Right. I love you guys. Thanks for such a great night. You guys made it great.

1911
01:33:40.080 --> 01:33:46.000
If you won tonight, we will email you a gift card. Cheryl is going to give us the names and

1912
01:33:46.000 --> 01:33:50.480
I look forward to seeing all of you in the next couple of sessions of the last sessions of this

1913
01:33:50.480 --> 01:33:54.800
year, by the way, are having communion on Christmas. If you can join us on Christmas night,

1914
01:33:54.800 --> 01:34:00.400
we will have a Christmas Eve, Christmas Eve. Yeah. We will have a little bit of worship,

1915
01:34:00.400 --> 01:34:04.960
some communion, um, a little bit of prophetic action. I'm going into Christmas. If you can't,

1916
01:34:04.960 --> 01:34:09.920
no problem. We will definitely tape that record that. Otherwise we're probably going to be seeing

1917
01:34:09.920 --> 01:34:26.400
you after the next couple of sessions in the new year. Right. See you soon. Bye everyone.