Welcome everybody.
All of you should be in the men's group or phase three, I know we have a couple people from phase two joining us tonight, but we have all kinds of fun programming for February the month of love and we kick it off tonight.
We have a dating game and I'm going to do it a little differently than we've done in the past, I'll explain that in just a second. So we have a dating game tonight.
We obviously have all of our regular stuff, supernatural Saturday, Sunday night activation and next week we are going to have, we had love story already this month.
So if you didn't get to see the replay of that go find it and watch it. And we have a dating game tonight, we're going to have a single spotlight with 10 men and 10 women next week on Thursday, and then the following week we have a love seat.
And I have some special surprises for that. And ladies, we have a Galentine's party this Friday night. For those of you that want to hang out. You want to bring a cocktail or an expresso and you want to wear your holiday, your Valentine's Day stuff look I have
Valentine's nails. Can you see them, and you can join and we're going to do some fun stuff getting you ready for those Valentine's Day dates next year. You don't have any plans on Friday night, hang out with us.
We're going to, and I want you to come as if you were, you know, doing something fun you don't have to get dressed up, but be festive and be ready for some feedback on your lighting, we said we were going to do this last time we didn't get around to it because
we had 20 women spotlighted and 10 men and by the time we got through all 30 of those spotlights we did not have time for this, but we will give you feedback on your lighting will give you feedback on your presentation, we'll do some fun, you know role playing stuff at Galentine's
Day. Let us have some fun, girl talk, and all kinds of different things going on. So join us on Friday night. Okay, everyone, while we're waiting why don't you go ahead and put your, your city and state, except for those of you that are playing bachelor at one
through seven and bachelor. Do not give anything away about yourself.
Everybody else, you guys can tell us where you're at in the world. Go ahead.
My love bug mug guys I'm all Valentine's doubt.
I have a heart sweater that I'm going to wear tomorrow. Send your friends to the challenge it's going to be different than it's ever been I'm going to tell love stories we're going to have all kinds of fun amazing things for Valentine's Week tomorrow, and Thursday and Friday,
Valentine's Day, send your friends to the challenge group, send them to Jackie Dorman calm. Okay, so they can register and give us their email address. It's important that they go that way don't just send them straight to Facebook, make sure you send them through Jackie
Dorman calm, tell them that the banner to register for the challenge is at the top.
It's at the top, and I'll make sure that those replay videos from the challenge get put up in phase three so you guys can watch it too. So you guys can see and have your, your fires of faith stoked by all the fun stuff.
All right, see all those people all over.
Another PSA that I want to do before we get started is you guys be careful out there the flu really is going around. It's really going around I have a bunch of friends that are sick in all different places right now like really sick people that never get the flu.
I guess that it's kind of a stomach flu if you get what I mean. And they are like man I have not. I have not been sick like this since I was a little kid, and they're all recovering everyone's okay but you know who wants to opt out of the flu this year,
let's opt out of whatever that some kind of Nora virus, it's some kind of like stomach flu. We don't want it.
My daughter and her husband and my twin grandbabies all have it right now.
All my good friends have it. If you're in Ohio, stay inside maybe because it seems to be really going around there.
So yes, let's just be careful. Let's wash our hands, let's, you know, just be conscientious about where we're going and what we're doing, because we want to stay safe take your zinc take your vitamin C.
Stay hydrated.
Nora had the flu look.
You guys, it's Nora's birthday today.
A little birdie told me that a little Nora birdie told me that you guys, it is her birthday today so go ahead and give her some high fives. If you have a nice word that you want to speak over her just one word for her this year of her life this new year.
Just, just go ahead and speak it.
The word I have for Nora is extravagant.
I believe that God is going to show you his extravagant love and blessings.
I believe that he's going to show you extravagant breakthrough.
Just want to let you know that God is extravagant.
He is the same God that made 20,000 different species of
butterfly just because he wanted to, because he's extravagant.
If he was a woman, he would not be wearing sensible shoes.
If he was a human woman on the earth, I feel like he'd be wearing some fancy
shoes because he's extravagant.
He's not a sensible God.
He is an outrageously creative, amazing creator.
Look at all those happy birthday.
So my word for Nora is extravagant.
If you have a one word adjective for Nora, drop that in the
chat so she can be blessed.
All right, let me see who we got.
All right, let's see.
We have bachelorette one, two, three, four, five, six, and seven.
They're all here.
And we have the bachelor here as well.
And guess what?
You can't see any of them.
They're all anonymous, including the bachelor.
That's what I thought would be fun this time.
What if nobody knew who each other were?
What if all the bachelorettes were, you know, not seen anonymous and, but
what if the bachelor was anonymous too?
What if only Jackie knows who everyone is?
I thought that'd be fun.
Um, and so that's what we decided to do for this time around.
And we're just going to continue to do fun stuff, um, as we can in phase three.
And, uh, you guys, a lot of people have met and even gotten married from our
shenanigans in phase three from these zoom calls.
So please keep that in mind.
But what's fun about this is that all of these, listen up, all of these
bachelorettes are compatible to our bachelor, regardless of whether there's
chemistry or a love connection, according to spirit mate match, most of these
bachelorettes are at least a 90 to an a hundred percent match.
That's right.
92 and a hundred percent match.
Most of them, not all of them, but most of them.
And you're, you might be like, well, Jackie, why do we have seven of them?
Because I took, I took the top matches and I asked them if they could come tonight,
figuring that, you know, a handful of people wouldn't be available.
And they all said, yes.
And so I'm like, okay, we're going to have seven.
And so what we're going to do is we're going to do it in groups.
We're going to do, um, we're going to do the first game with
bachelorette one, two, three, and four.
And then we're going to do the second game with bachelorette five, six, and
seven, or we'll do the first game with bachelorette one, two, and three.
And the second game with four, five, six, and seven.
Okay.
All right.
So hallelujah.
It's rain and bachelorettes.
That's what's happening tonight.
But the, also the good news is that because there's such high
compatibility between this bachelor and all of these lovely ladies.
They can all talk regardless of who wins tonight.
Um, hopefully they'll be able to make a connection since they
like each other's answers, but everyone has an opportunity to
talk to anyone in this community.
And that includes all of you guys that are watching and replay all
of you guys that are here live.
If any of these bachelorettes are like, wow, I really love the, her answers.
If you want to find out more about her and you can go ahead and reach out to
her finder on social media and reach out.
And, or if you want a wing woman, you can come through us, however
you want to do it.
Okay.
All right.
Let's get started.
I'm excited.
All right.
So I think I can only, um, maybe spotlight four at a time.
So I'm going to go ahead and spotlight the bachelor.
Okay.
All right.
And then I'm going to spotlight.
All right.
Doing this very carefully.
All right.
So you guys, what we should have right now is we should have spotlighted.
Hold on.
I want to give myself a big zoom window here so I can see the rest of you.
Two, so I'm going to go ahead and zoom in on you guys right now.
Give myself a big zoom window here so I can see the rest of you too.
So it's a screen one, because we have lots of people on here live right now.
I have.
chat open have 148 people, so we have a couple different pages, I should say pages of people so pinned to the first page we have.
bachelorette one, two and three and the bachelor can everyone see that it's not giving me the option to spotlight so can everyone see them pinned there.
No interesting okay.
let's make sure that we get this right.
take a couple minutes to get it all right, we just want to do that.
Okay.
All right, let's see what we've got here.
i'm definitely the host, so that is what we want that's good.
hmm.
Alright, so all of you zoom experts, because this is brand new it I see I don't see spotlight available like it usually is this a zoom upgrade that's not really an upgrade if you know the answer put it in the chat.
I do not see spotlighting available for whatever I only see pinning to first or second screen, which is interesting.
Because normally spotlighting is what is available on our zoom calls.
So if you're a techie and you know the answer put it in the chat and we'll get started here in a SEC.
Okay.
All right, guys just give us a SEC here.
Okay.
yeah even when I do that crystal it's still only giving it's still only giving the the option to pin to the first screen and it could be because their camera is off i'm just guessing that that's possibly the reason why.
i'm.
Okay yeah let's just go to speaker view just go to speaker view on your own zoom once we get talking but i'm going to go ahead and pin them.
i'm going to pin them to the first screen, so that we can find them easily okay bachelor and bachelor bachelor at one, two and three so just hold up and we'll just go back to what we were doing before all right awesome.
All right, I can see them there alright so unmute yourselves bachelor bachelorette one, two and three everyone get unmuted it's time to play the dating game.
Alright, so what I want you to do, starting with the bachelor you're going to be able to ask the questions to these bachelorettes but first.
I want the bachelor to without giving yourself away where you're at how old you are any kind of vital statistics, I want you to tell us a fun fact about yourself bachelor.
Hello, how are you doing.
Good can everyone hear me.
Okay, my volumes down a little bit but go ahead it's not you it's me.
All right, well i'm located over here in a.
No, no, no location.
The location.
No fun fact.
Oh just one fact okay.
Okay.
A fun fact about yourself.
Well i'm actually a hobby beekeeper.
So in my backyard, I have three colonies of honeybees so I collect honey every year.
wow hobby beekeeper I love it and make sure you're talking directly into your MIC because you're going kind of going into the honeybee world.
A hobby beekeeper I love it and make sure you're talking directly into your MIC because you're going kind of going in and out from me alright, so our bachelor is a hobby beekeeper.
and collects honey from his backyard love it all right same for bachelorette one, two and three.
Let's get a fun fact about each of you,
starting with bachelorette number one.
Okay, I am pretty theatrical
and I'm really good at doing voice impressions.
Oh, now we have to have one.
Well, off the cuff, British first thing,
I love London, love Oxford,
really struggle at doing an Australian accent,
but we'll stop there.
Okay, I love it.
Yeah, so good.
Bachelorette number two, what do you got for us?
So I don't know if this is a fun fact,
but I love personal development, love reading.
And it's something that I have done pretty consistently
for almost a decade now.
Okay, awesome.
That's awesome, bachelorette number three.
Okay, I would say a fun fact about me
is that I do hair, I'm a cosmetologist in my spare time.
Oh, in her spare time, so you're a kitchen cosmetologist.
Basement, but yeah.
Yeah, yeah, okay, in your spare time,
cosmetologist, love it.
Okay, all right, so we're gonna get the game started
and here are the questions.
Okay, so bachelor, you are going to ask
whichever ladies you can go in whatever order you want,
you're going to ask them,
what is their favorite guilty pleasure?
You guys keep it PG.
You know what a guilty pleasure is, right?
Okay, you understand?
All right, bachelor, you're up.
Okay, let's start with number three.
Okay, I think mine would probably just be
to have a lazy day and read books all day long.
I think that's a guilty pleasure for me.
All right, bachelor, you're up, this is your show.
You ask whoever, however.
All right, let's go with number one this time.
I would have to say people watching,
like going to a good coffee shop, public square
and just sitting and just observing and having fun.
Okay, yeah, I'm just pausing
because I'm writing some things down.
All right, number two, go ahead.
So I love what number three said,
but I love the love game shows like Love is Blonde.
Okay, all right.
It's hey, it's a guilty pleasure.
And so bachelor, we need to know yours as well.
What's your go-to guilty pleasure?
I don't have too many guilty pleasures,
but I am more or less kind of chill mode at the house
on my off time when not working, when not gymming
or no social time.
Yeah, just hanging out at the house, yeah.
Just hanging out, hanging out at the house.
All right, next question, bachelor, for your bachelorettes.
What is your dream vacation destination?
Oh man, that's a great one.
Let's go number one this time.
Okay, so it would be Italy
and I would wanna go for an extended period of time
and just have basically an Italian family adopt me
and then learn how to do proper Italian cooking
and know what their culture's like.
That's awesome.
Number three.
Mine is, well, I get sunburned really, really easily.
So I like to go north.
So I would wanna go to like Iceland or England, Scotland,
somewhere north so that even if it was summertime,
I would just be able to not be as burned
and not be as hot.
Very fair, I get that.
Let's go number two.
Definitely somewhere tropical like South America,
Costa Rica, somewhere like that.
Awesome.
And don't forget to answer the question yourself, bachelor.
Okay, well, yeah, it would be nice to go to Europe,
probably more like Southern Europe,
you know, the Spanish, Italy, Portugal.
I think that'd be a great start for a European trip.
All right, I love it.
All right, bachelor, going forward,
you're gonna answer this question,
going forward, you're gonna answer the question
yourself first, and then you're going to go
to the bachelorettes for their answers.
What is the most embarrassing thing that you've ever done?
Okay, now-
Wait, I just wanna say one thing.
You guys can be putting your own-
answers in the chat. All right. So that people can get to know all of you too. Go ahead bachelor.
Okay. So this is like embarrassing, but no one really knows unless I tell them.
Um, so basically, um, I was a kiddo. I was like two and a half years old
and, um, I was waiting to take a shower and, uh, the shower was warming up and I decided to,
um, uh, pee in the kitchen and I slipped in the kitchen and I broke my little leg.
I broke my left leg. And then I actually have a picture of the cast
and it's about as long as a Comcast controller. So my, you know, my mom and dad told me he didn't
stop me. I would just swing that thing around and just keep on going. So, uh, yeah, pretty crazy.
All right. Okay. Go ahead and ask your bachelorettes. All right. Let's go. Um, number
one. Oh, I appreciate your vulnerability with P story. First and foremost. Um, I too have a P
story. Um, mine was whenever I was in middle school and, um, I was standing in line and my,
for lunch and my friend, she made me laugh and she made me laugh so hard that I peed my pants.
And I was so embarrassed that I went into the school counselor's office, sat in P pants
on the chair, lied to them and said, um, that I spilled something on my pants.
And then my grandma came and rescued me and she picked me up.
Completely understandable. The fib, I get it. Uh, number two, go ahead.
So mine's also a kid's story. Mine was somewhere in elementary. I was in a spelling bee and I
actually miss spelled the word embarrassed. And I will never forget that.
That's a hard word. That's a hard word. All right. Keep going.
I get it. I get it. That's a tough one. Uh, number three, please go ahead.
Um, so mine was when I first started driving. Um, I was really excited to like, you know,
go to all the drive-thrus. I wanted to go to the bank. I wanted to do all the things.
So I was just being silly with my friends and we were singing and I was like, let's just do,
let's just sing everything instead of talk it. And so we were at the Taco Bell drive-thru
and I, they dared me to sing the order and I had like five friends. So I had to sing the entire
order and the, the people at Taco Bell were just like laughing into the, they were laughing the
entire time. And I was like, Oh my gosh, this is like, they're going to like ban us from Taco
Bell for the rest of our lives. When we got to the window, they were like, that was fantastic.
Your order is free. So that was fun. It was like an embarrassing, but that's awesome.
That is fun and funny. I just want to say with all the peace stories, my son, when he was young,
he was wanting to really see where the P came out or the poop came out. I actually,
is what I think was happening. And there was just a little voice screaming from the bathroom,
help me. I peed in my eye. I peed in my eye and yeah. And we never let him live that down. And
we tell all of his girlfriends, all three of the girlfriends he's ever had. No, get to know that
story. All right. So thank you guys for answering that. All right. Our next question is, and
bachelor, you were going to answer it first. What is your ideal first date activity?
Well, to be honest, it kind of depends on the situation. Cause sometimes I like to
kind of prefer activity dates. This could be maybe shooting pool, maybe going bowling.
You know, that way you can kind of check out if someone's competitive. If someone
is not competitive, doesn't care. So that's kind of neat to find out. So yeah, I would say
probably an activity date. Yeah. Maybe, you know, it just depends on where they're at, but yeah,
maybe go climbing, you know, something like that, or, you know, go to the woods, maybe do some,
a little bit of hiking, a little short trail. Yeah. Something to do. I think sit down serious
dust a little bit down the road. You have, I've taught you well, bachelor. I'm so proud of that
answer. So proud of that answer. Okay. Bachelorette. No, you tell them you pick them
in order, pick them out of order. However, let's do it. Let's go. Let's go. Number two,
let's go. Number two, please. Honestly, I would say the same thing, something not sitting across
from each other, a hike, you know, not too secluded, obviously, but something where we're active.
Yeah, I agree. You could probably.
still near something. So I got to watch out, got to be safe. So
number one, go ahead.
Steal you.
Um, I would say something definitely an activity, but my
my preference would be something that neither of us have done. So
if it's like, oh, it's a new experience, and you get to do it
together, whatever that is. Yeah, because I've done that
even just with, you know, friends, lady friends where
you're sitting and having coffee and it can get too deep too
quick. So fun's really important to me.
I like that first experience. Yeah, that's awesome. Okay,
number three, go ahead.
Okay, so I love a game night. But I don't know if that's like
a first date idea. Because, you know, sometimes you can get a
little, you know, competitive or whatever. And usually you have
to have more more than just the two. So maybe a hot air balloon
ride would be fun. Or I don't know, a stroll through a
vineyard. I don't know. I'm trying to I'm trying to think of
something different than like, going on a hike because I think
a hike would be fun.
That sounds good. Yeah, whatever you feel, you know, whatever you
feel. Okay, that's awesome.
You're taking notes, I hope right.
I'm writing everything down.
Okay. All right. All right. Easy one. It's just kind of a yes or
no answer. Do you believe in love at first sight?
Bachelor?
Well, I think I think the younger me might have thought
that I mean, of course, you know, we've always we've seen
people that we're maybe attracted to, but I think the
older I get, I think I'm looking for more of a mature love, which
is more, more about the inside stuff. Less about the outside
stuff. Of course, outside stuff's important, staying
healthy and all that. It's a big part of my life. But man, I
don't care how good looking you are. If you don't have if
you're not a good inside man. I'm over it.
All right, good answer. Your bachelorettes.
Okay, let's go number two.
Same honestly, I don't know if I believe in love at first sight
because I have not truly experienced that.
Fair enough. All right, number two, number three.
Okay, so I haven't personally experienced it. But I do believe
that it can happen. My mom and dad, my dad saw my mom. He was
in the back row of the church, and she was in the front. And he
saw her up there. And he was like, that's, that's the one for
me. And she was only 14 years old, and he was 16. And they've
been together ever since. So I do believe that it can happen.
But I think that you have to work at it and stuff. So I
think, yes, yes, I do. I believe in it.
I'm so glad that you didn't end that story with she was 14. And
he was 36. Praise the Lord. Okay, I didn't know where we
were going when she said she was 14. Okay. All right. Good.
Number one, go ahead, please.
Bachelorette three, that's so sweet, your parents story.
Personally, I, I think that it comes with time, I think that
there's that initial excitement. And what I've learned over
experience is that, what does it look like to have a real
relationship come from that, and then going based off of going
based off of what you have in real time, you know, because
sometimes you can see somebody and be attracted to them, but
there's not anything that sparks from that. So that's something
that I've been learning is what does it look like to engage in
relationships in real time?
Good answers. I don't know how you're gonna choose. I just want
to let you know, and this is how it's gonna go. So the bachelor
is going to choose between these three. Okay, and then we're
going to reveal the two that he doesn't choose. All right. And
then we're going to have the next set. And then he's going to
ask some questions, and he's going to choose one from them.
And then those two bachelorettes are going to be given some
questions. And then we're going to find out who he feels like
just based on this game tonight that he wants, that he's most
compatible with, wants to have a conversation with, but once
again, can meet all the bachelorettes, and all of you can
meet each other as well. We want to make sure that we're keeping
all of these dating lines open. All right. I love this question.
So let's ask this question. What's your favorite thing about
yourself?
Bachelor?
Over time, just through life experience, I've realized that
I've, I've developed a way to always stay positive. So you
know, bad things are going to happen in life. That's how it
goes. But how you react, how you respond, all the matters. So
I'm
Um, yeah, staying positive for sure.
Awesome.
Love it.
All right, let's go number three.
Um, okay.
So my personality I think is my favorite thing about myself.
Um, I, I just really like things and I get really excited
and passionate about things.
And I think that that's, um, I think that that's a, that's a blessing.
I think that's a gift that I got from, from God and from my life and from
my people that I've been around.
And so I think that probably that is my, my favorite
thing about myself for sure.
Okay.
Awesome.
Number two.
Um, probably my resilience.
I used to say before, oh, we can't say anything about age.
Okay.
Um, years ago I used to say, I felt like I had already lived three lives.
So yeah, probably my resilience.
That's awesome.
All right.
Number one.
Um, my favorite thing about me is my heart and it's so
obviously expressed through my face.
Um, having my heart, it used to be calloused and hard and just with what
God's done through my life and through people, my heart is tender and I just
love staying in that place and not being afraid to show my heart to people.
Awesome.
I love it.
And we're going to ask both batches of bachelorettes this question.
So we'll ask it here and then we'll ask it in the next group.
And that is, um, what is, if you could have dinner with any.
Biblical historical figures.
So anyone from the Bible, except for Jesus, if you could have dinner with any
historical by a Bible figure, anyone from the Bible, um, who would it be?
And why bachelor you go first, not Jesus y'all.
We all know everyone would eat with Jesus.
All right.
We need, we need someone else.
We need to see that, you know, that there's actually other
people in the Bible besides Jesus.
We're going to test your Bible knowledge.
Okay.
All right, go ahead.
What do you got who and why?
Oh, I'm stuck between kind of two.
Um, you can invite them both if you like.
I think I want to hang out with, um, Moses and, um, I like, um, Abraham.
Okay.
And why?
And they, they just went through it and, uh, they had to be so strong.
And, um, they were like giving this message to walk it out.
And, um, it's pretty neat.
Pretty neat.
So I like that.
Yep.
Got to walk it out.
I've made a lot of sacrifices.
You're right to, to walk it out.
All right, go ahead and ask your bachelorettes.
Okay.
Let's go.
Number two.
Probably Joseph.
Um, I grew up watching that movie.
It's animated Joseph King of dreams.
I believe it's called, and I loved it.
It still speaks to me today.
I even have it now, um, because he obviously faced so much hardship and he
went many, many years of going through things like that before he was able to
fulfill that, um, of the promise that God gave him.
Awesome.
Um, number one.
Okay.
Are we allowed to choose two?
Cause if so, I definitely have to go for it.
Um, first would be Moses.
I've been reflecting on him a lot and how he's a friend of God.
And what process he had to go through in that and being willing to carry a
people in his heart.
So the leadership and then just being willing to walk out, um, leading a nation
and following the voice of the Lord.
Like my mind is just blown.
Um, I want to be a leader like Moses and then I want to also be with Paul because
of his tenacity and then just what he knows, like the things that God shared
with him in private, and it'd be cool to know more of the things that God told him.
Cool.
Great answer.
Okay.
Number three.
Um,
Okay, so I feel like if I was a disciple, I would be Peter.
So I would like to know and hang out with him
and just, you know, see how similar we really are.
And then David, I think that it would be really amazing
to just hear his stories firsthand of, you know,
the lion, the bear, Goliath, you know,
but then also to hear, you know, his poet's heart
and just to chat with him about that kind of thing.
I think it would be amazing.
Plus he's probably hot, just saying.
He probably is.
Just saying.
Okay, so good.
All right, the time has come.
Out of these three bachelorettes,
who do you feel like you're vibing with the most tonight?
Once again, you can have an opportunity
to meet all of them in the future,
but who are you vibing with the most tonight?
All you guys watching,
think about who you're vibing with as well,
because all's fair in love and war.
And so you're gonna have to pick one of these ladies
and then the other two will reveal themselves
and then we'll bring up the other bachelorettes
for, yeah, four, five, six, and seven.
What do you got?
I don't wanna choose.
And ladies, don't be offended
because every time we've ever played this dating game,
the bachelor has ended up talking to all of the bachelorettes
because that's the way it should be.
Yeah, I want everyone to know I'm not,
I don't wanna hurt anyone's feelings.
Your roommate match says you're compatible
to all these ladies.
So who are you vibing with the most
out of these answers right here, right now, tonight?
I'm gonna go with number one.
Shoot, I was supposed to let you guys vote
who you think he's gonna pick,
but raise your hand if you thought
he was gonna pick number one.
I kind of felt like that might be the case
because you guys were vibing.
You both wanna meet up with Moses.
I mean, you're vibing a little bit there.
All right, okay.
So everyone's putting up their hands.
All right, I see a lot, lots of hands.
I'm gonna lower all the hands right now
because I want to reveal bachelorette number three.
Turn on your camera and just tell us about yourself.
Where do you live?
Tell us some things about yourself
for everyone who's watching
and also for The Bachelor for later.
Tell us all about you, bachelorette number three.
Hi.
I'm Rhonda.
I live in Ohio and I, what were we supposed to say?
Just anything.
Just tell us anything about you.
Just, you know, have you ever been married?
Do you have any kids?
Tell us stuff about you.
No, okay, so never been married, no kids.
I don't know if anybody was watching.
I was the two truths and a lie girl.
So I live in Northeastern Ohio.
Yeah.
So yeah, that's me.
I love to travel.
I love to go to baseball games and yeah, that's it.
And where in Ohio?
Youngstown.
Okay, and how old are you?
Oh, 45.
45, Youngstown, Ohio.
I know people in Youngstown.
All right, thank you, Rhonda, for being with us.
Bachelorette number two, reveal yourself.
Hello.
Hi.
Tell us who you are.
Me too.
I'm in Arkansas.
Ooh, got my phone.
Say your name again.
Lena.
Can you hear me?
Yeah, just talk a little louder.
I'm gonna turn my volume up real quick.
Can you hear me now, better?
Yes.
Pana, I'm 30.
I'm in Arkansas, Northeast Arkansas.
Lived here.
My daughter pretty much loves.
I have a mother, never been married,
and I have an 11-year-old daughter.
I love watching her play sports, volleyball, basketball.
That's just kind of the season of life we're in right now.
And didn't you say that you might be thinking
about a move in the future?
From Arkansas?
To Florida.
To Florida, okay.
To let everyone know where you might be headed here
soon in the future.
Okay, so Hannah, thank you so much for being with us.
Bachelorette number one, do not reveal yourself
because we are gonna be doing some more with you
in a minute.
Okay, we're about to have some more fun.
You guys, are you having fun?
Heck yeah.
Heck yeah, we're having a lot of fun.
Okay, all right, so let me do my thing here.
Okay, I'm going to remove these pins.
Next up we have Bachelorette number four adding her,
Bachelorette number five,
Bachelorette number six,
and Bachelorette number seven.
We have all of you here.
We are going to start with the questions and you are going to answer them first.
Then you are going to ask your Bachelorettes.
Remember when you are answering,
try not to give anything away about yourself,
your age,
whether you have been married before,
where you live,
what is the one skill you wish you could master?
If you could master a skill,
which skill do you wish you could master?
Everyone,
don't forget,
put your answers in the chat so people can get to know you as well.
I can't sing.
It would be nice if I could carry a tune.
Are you tone deaf?
No.
I cannot sing.
Nobody wants to hear me sing.
It would be nice to carry a little tune.
That would be cool.
That is fair.
I have a question.
Can you hear me?
Yes.
Share a fun fact about yourself.
We didn't do that with you guys.
Fun fact,
I am a gold medal winner.
Tell us more.
I can't tell you more without telling you who I am.
I am a gold medal winner.
I can tell you the sport.
What skill do you want to master?
I would say the piano.
I had to play it when I was a kid.
Then I gave up.
My mom wanted me to play and I gave up.
I really regret it now.
Go ahead,
I have a question.
My fun fact is,
I am really good at directions.
In my friend group,
they always make me the designated driver.
I would like to be able to sing.
I am pretty awful.
My friend says everyone can be taught.
I will sing at church.
I do feel bad for the people next to me.
Fair enough.
Number four.
Fun fact,
I love to hike.
My favorite place I have been to
is angels landing in Utah.
A skill would be learning to play guitar.
I have tried to teach myself for years.
Keep going.
Okay.
Seven.
Number seven.
Hi,
my fun fact is,
my dad taught me how to be pretty handy.
I am really good at fixing things.
I put together my own furniture.
A skill I would really like to be good at,
would be public speaking.
I know that is basic.
I have so much to say,
but as soon as I get in front of a group of people,
I am a little too nervous.
I would love to have that natural public speaking skill.
Keep going,
keep trying.
Here is a little teaching moment.
Believe it or not,
I dropped out of speech class in college
twice.
I was so nervous to talk in front of other people.
I remember saying to the office
that I did not see myself ever needing
the skill of public speaking.
It can happen.
It can happen,
but you have to be willing to be really nervous
or bad at it until you are good at it.
All of my friends that play the guitar
So just keep going y'all.
All right, next question, next question.
say that one day it clicked.
All right, what's one thing you find really attractive
in a person?
Bachelor, you're first up.
Are we talking, well, I'll get away from more
than maybe the physical stuff.
So the kind of behavioral stuff,
people that want to spend time with their family,
you know, that's huge.
Yeah, people that even let's say, you know,
a mom with her kid, just being a good mom,
you know, that warms my heart.
So stuff like that, yeah.
All right, go ahead, you're bachelorettes.
Okay, let's go number seven.
I like this question.
I feel that I'm really attracted to people,
you know, men that are really good with people.
So if I could just bring them around
to any group of people, my family, my friends,
my work environment, that he's gonna help, you know,
talk and chat with people and be really engaging,
but also like intentional, you know,
asking people questions and just like,
even if there's, let's say like drama in a situation
that he handles it really well and he's very composed,
calm and really wise and mature
for any situation that we come across.
I like that, drama free.
Number six, go ahead, please.
Okay, I'm gonna be a little vain.
Not really, but so I'm really attracted to clean shoes.
Men who actually wear clean shoes.
I can't stand a man with dirty shoes.
But on a better note, I like someone who is,
who's kind and is very thoughtful of other people.
That's a big one for me.
If I can notice that they're very kind, that's huge for me.
So I'm really attracted to that.
Okay, awesome.
Number five.
I'm really attracted to guys
that are good conversationalists.
I am passionate about a lot of things
and I'm always interested in learning
about what they're passionate about.
And so to be able to have a conversation together,
but then also with family and friends,
I think is a really good skill.
Okay, okay.
Number four.
I agree with the kindness answer.
I think that's really important
to see how people treat each other.
I think that one's really important.
Awesome.
All right.
Is that everyone?
Think so.
All right, let's go on to the next question.
What's the best gift, Bachelor, that you've ever been given?
What's the best gift that you've ever received?
And you guys, let's not say life, let's not say salvation.
We all know that those are the best gifts,
but let's talk about another gift besides that.
There's a gift that I got for this last Christmas
that I'm not really sure it's appropriate to talk about,
but it's a hat.
It has a saying on it.
And if you were in my circle, it'd make a lot of sense.
But I don't think I could talk about it on this one.
But it was really funny, super thoughtful by my family.
They all pitched in, got me a little hat
with a little saying on it.
I would say most recently,
that is the best gift I've gotten in a while.
Okay.
You'll tell us what it is.
Okay.
You'll tell us afterwards,
because obviously it's giving you away somehow.
All right.
Go ahead.
Okay, number four.
I would tell you my favorite is concert tickets.
I love country music,
and I got concert tickets to see Lady A,
and they're my favorite.
So I would say that was my favorite gift.
Okay.
Awesome.
Number five.
My favorite gift is usually an experience.
So depending on who's giving me the gift,
but usually when it's my birthday or my mom's,
we'll get each other a spa day
or go to a country concert together.
So really just to give and receive an experience.
I like enjoying with that person.
Okay.
Number seven.
When I was 22,
my mom gave me this homemade,
like handmade piece of art.
She's an artist,
and it was kind of like a gift from my mom.
and it's like a plaque with a heart
and it had a little poem on it.
So I would say that was my favorite gift.
And when I read this poem, I cried
Okay.
Number eight.
because it was like the first time I realized
that my mom got who I was and it's really short.
I would say that was my favorite gift.
So I'm just gonna say it was something like,
I'm not reading it word for word,
but it was something like,
and still there's not enough time
for all of the books I want to read
and the friends I want to see
and the walks I want to take.
It was pretty short, but I thought,
wow, my mom really gets me.
Like it was really sweet to me.
So I just loved that gift.
Well, that's awesome.
All right, number six.
For my birthday last year,
my niece, she gave me a snow globe.
I love Christmas.
She gave me a snow globe
and it had like something very detailed
to what I do for a living.
And then she actually created a car.
She made the car with all these different,
like, I don't know, stencils
and all these different things.
And then she made a video
and sent it to me and had it delivered to my house
because she doesn't live here in the state.
So that was a pretty special gift
that I can think of right now.
Wow.
Awesome.
That is special.
Okay.
All right.
Before we get to our last question
about what biblically historical figure,
we're going to ask this question.
If you were stranded on a desert island,
what person or actually what people
would you want there with you?
You can name up the three people
that you would want there with you on that desert island.
Or three people.
Are we trying to survive
or are we just going to like slowly die together?
It's up to you, bro.
It's up to you.
You're stranded.
You get to choose who's going to be there.
Who's going to be there stranded with you.
All right, well, I'm trying to survive, I think.
I think I'm going to,
my younger brother, Adam, for sure.
Can't live without that guy.
And, you know, it's basic, it's a basic answer,
but you know, also my older brother.
Just three brothers hanging out on islands trying to survive.
Okay.
So you have three brothers.
We just found out that you have three brothers.
Okay.
Who are you going to pick first
for the three hour tour?
If you know what we're saying,
if you know what I mean by that, go ahead.
Number seven.
I would take my closest family member.
So my mom, my brother, my two sisters,
because I think combined,
we all have the skills to enjoy life
for as long as we'll have it and survive.
My brother, he could accomplish anything
and us girls are so good at cooking
I think we can make it.
Right.
So you said one brother and two sisters?
That's right.
One brother, an older brother, and two younger sisters.
Okay. Number five.
I would bring my mom
because she's honestly, I would survive with her there.
She's master of everything.
I'd bring my brother as well.
And I'd probably bring my childhood best friend
who's the closest thing I have to a sister.
We've known each other since we were three.
Okay. Number six.
It could be anyone, right?
Yeah.
Any three people.
Okay. So if we're trying to survive,
I need to have a chef there.
Someone who can cook.
Um, probably one of my brothers
just because they're all hilarious
and they're huge and they can keep me safe.
And man, I need somebody who can,
who's very resourceful.
I don't know.
I don't know who I would bring,
but someone who's very resourceful.
I can like make a boat out of, I don't know, something.
I don't know.
I can't think of someone
I would really want to be stranded on the island with.
Chef? A chef and a brother so far.
A chef and my brother, that's it.
My chef and my brother, that's it.
And maybe Jackie, you want to come?
You can come.
You know, you know you want me there.
You know you want me there.
All right.
Cause we're going to probably die,
but we're going to die laughing.
We're going to die laughing.
That's what's going to happen.
And eating.
That's awesome.
Something, maybe another person.
You're going to have to have someone there for food,
That's true.
Not me.
All right.
Keep going bachelor.
All right.
Number four.
That was the best answer so far.
I would bring my dad cause he can do anything.
So hopefully he could get us off the island.
I would bring my mom.
She would help keep us calm.
And I would bring my best friend
because at least we could have a party
while we're trying to get off the island.
Awesome.
I love it.
All right.
And you already said Moses and Abraham,
but ask the question to these new bachelorettes
out of any biblically historical figure besides Jesus,
who would they wanna have dinner with?
There's something to be said for that kind of...
Someone's speaker's on.
Oh, I got him.
That's fine.
Go ahead.
Okay, ladies.
Yeah, let me know who maybe one or two people biblically
that you would like to hang out, get to know over dinner.
Let's go with number four.
Mine would actually also be Moses.
I always loved the little cartoon movie,
The Prince of Egypt, growing up.
And then just, I still love reading the part
where God comes to him in the burning bush
and he is basically saying, pick anybody else.
And I feel like I relate to that.
Just getting out of my comfort zone
has been a little hard for me.
So I feel like I relate to him a lot.
So yeah, it would be Moses.
Awesome.
Okay, let's go with number six.
I would definitely say Solomon,
being the wisest and the richest.
I'm pretty sure there's a lot to learn
sitting directly in front of him.
And this person isn't like a real one to know who it is,
but the Proverbs 31 woman.
I don't know who she is,
but I would love to sit down with her
and see how she did it all.
Okay, awesome.
Number five.
Okay, not to be on repeat like everyone else,
but I do happen to be doing a study on Moses
because when I'm learning about something,
it's kind of where I want to dig in.
But I mostly want to talk to him about the pressure
and way he would have felt with leading all the people
and his dependency on God
and just the struggles he faced still being a leader
and obviously still falling short.
But yeah, that's who I choose if I had to choose today.
I get it, I get it.
Okay, number seven.
I would love to have dinner with Ruth.
I think that she is a strong woman of God.
She is just such a hard worker
and she's also kind to all around her,
her family and the way she cared for Naomi.
And I just also loved how she was so determined
to meet the man that was right for her
and to just really hold on to her faith and determination.
And she was a true helper and partner to him.
So I would really want to learn from her.
That's awesome.
All right, you're about to make a decision,
so take a look at your notes.
And just so you guys know,
I'm pretty sure that Proverbs 31
is an allegory about the bride of Christ.
So if you really read it,
because I was just on the wisdom challenge
and Proverbs 31 was one of the two Proverbs
that I was called to speak on.
And if you really read the Proverbs 31 passage,
you see a lot of typology of the bride of Christ.
And I think that that was an allegory, honestly.
All right, not that us women ain't amazing,
because we are, right?
But that's a lot of pressure.
It's a lot of pressure.
Okay, all right.
But I'm gonna sit down with her too,
because she's us and praise the Lord.
Okay, all right, I'm looking through here.
I wrote about a lot of notes.
All right, go ahead and make your decision.
I'm gonna let people vote on your decision
after you've made it.
Tell me when you're done
and I'll let people tell us
who they think you picked out of this batch of bachelorettes.
Oh, you want me to pick before people?
No, no, I want you to just get it in your head
so they're not influencing you.
You got it?
You know?
Yeah, I think I know.
All right, go for it.
I see sixes and sevens so far.
This is who they think you picked,
who they thought you were vibing with, with the answers.
I mainly see sixes and sevens.
All right, tell us, bachelor.
I think I'm gonna go with number seven.
All right, people feel the vibe.
Look at all the sevens, some sixes and some sevens.
All right, so we're gonna let the other bachelorettes
reveal themselves one by one.
starting with, we'll just go this way. Starting with bachelorette, number six, reveal yourself.
Tell us who you are, where you're from. Talk, tell us what you do.
You see me? Yeah, we see you. Um, hello.
My name is Jill. I am in Los Angeles. Uh, I am a police officer, um, and not married, no kids,
the youngest of 13 kids. Um, I love to travel and, uh, I love to eat because I had to have a chef.
And you're an entrepreneur. And I'm an entrepreneur. Yes, I am. Yes, that is true.
I know Jill. I've met Jill several times in person and she is
top notch. All right. Bachelorette number five. Who are you?
Hi, I'm Heather. Um, I'm 39. I live in the Dallas Fort Worth area. Um, I'm an estate planning
attorney, but I like to joke with all my friends. I'm the least lawyer, lawyer you'll ever meet.
Uh, and I think that rings true when I meet people. I love to travel. I love, um, working
out and, uh, kind of crunchy holistic, non-toxic health. Um, and I'm a new Texan. So I only moved
here last summer and I'm loving it so far. Where did you move from Los Angeles? Oh,
okay. All right, girl. All right. Bachelorette number four. Who are you?
Hey, hi. Um, my name is Kayla. I am from Jamesville, North Carolina,
and it's a really small town, like a farming community. Um, that is actually what I do
with my dad, a farm. Um, so we have chickens, cows, uh, props. Um, let's see, never married, no kids.
Um, that's about it. All right, Kayla. It's so good to meet you. All right, ladies. Thank you
so much for joining us. Once again, um, we're, we're going to do lots and lots more of this.
Love it. I'm going to remove these pins really quick. Let me just do that. And then I'm going
to pin the two bachelorettes that are going to continue, um, on here. And, um, let's give me
a second. I want to do this real quick. Remove the pin, remove the pin. Okay. I'm going to leave
seven pinned. All right. And can you remind me which bachelorette from the first batch y'all?
Who was it? Bachelorette one, two, three. It was three. Somebody told me bachelor. What was
your bachelor? Oh, one, one, one, one. Okay. Thank you. Okay. Let's see.
Right. You guys were almost to the end here. Lots of fun stuff happening. So I got seven and
one and the bachelor pinned up and we have a couple questions for this lightning round.
Are you ready? Okay. If you could only eat one food for the rest of your life, what would it be?
Bachelor. And it could be a genre of food as well. It doesn't have to be an item. It could
be a genre, like a type of food. Um, that's hard for me because I love food and I cook a lot,
but, um, I would say if it was like a protein, uh, lamb would be my number one.
Uh, but item, I could probably eat pizza every day. Wow. Pizza every day. Okay. Ask your
bachelorettes. Okay. I think we're still going by the numbers, right? So yes.
Seven. Go ahead. My food that I would eat for the rest of my life would be pizza as well.
I actually make homemade stromboli, which is kind of like pizza and I just love it.
All right. Love it. That's a good answer. Number one.
Thank goodness you said genre because I got nervous. Um, the genre would be Mediterranean.
Um, cause I feel so good when I eat it. And then food wise, oh gosh,
I think I'm going to say something basic like chicken. I love chicken.
Everything tastes like chicken at the end of the day. All right. So strong homemade
stromboli and chicken. Um, bachelor, what is your biggest pet peeve?
What really greats you? What annoys you? Tell us. Okay. So it can be applied to
almost anything. So the whole micromanaging thing. So
Let's say I'm doing something, you know, whatever.
And you watch me, you're watching me do it.
Now, if I'm completely being, um, I'm not very good at it.
I'm just all over the place.
Not, not being very like functional and you want to come in and help me like do
better and make my life easier.
Hey, I'm all ears.
But at the end of the day, if me and you do something a little bit different, you
know, and it, and it irks you and you're trying to tell me to like stack it a
certain way, it doesn't really matter.
So I think micromanaging, um, yeah, like, you know, you're going to do things and
I'm going to do things and it's okay if we do things differently, you know, as
long as it gets done.
Uh, but of course, if you need my help, I'll help you do it better.
If it's more functional, of course, I'll take your advice if you're
trying to make my life easier.
So I don't know if that's a easy,
micromanaging pet peeve.
Got it.
Yeah.
Yes.
Everyone put your, put your pet peeves in the chat.
We want to see what, what irks you bachelor, ask your bachelorettes.
But I will say like, you know, if you tell me to do something, you know, um,
I'll, I'll get it, you know, and I'll, I'll start doing it that way.
I don't mind learning things, doing things a little bit differently.
So it's, I'm not super stiff.
It's just that, you know, little details to me sometimes don't matter.
Depends on what we're doing.
Yeah.
Got it.
It's your question for your bachelorettes.
Okay.
Let's go with number seven.
My pet peeve is mean people.
I just think there's no reason for that.
I, I just think that people will need to kind of have a little more self
control and, you know, just maybe learn how to talk things out and ask questions.
Talk things out and ask questions instead of just being mean,
no mean people.
Yeah. So true.
Tone's important.
All right.
Number one, please go.
Mine is gossiping and talking negatively about other people.
Um, it's one of those things where as soon as I hear it, I'll kind of listen.
And if I don't see like a shift in the conversation, it's like, all
right, I'm going to go somewhere else.
It's like, I want to see people's hearts in the midst of that and, you know,
believe the best, but I just don't value, um, talking poorly about others.
Good stuff.
All right.
Next question.
What's one thing you're really good at, but most people wouldn't guess they
wouldn't, they wouldn't guess that you're really good at this bachelor.
What's your answer?
All of you put your hidden talents in the chat.
We want to see what are your hidden talents that you're really good at.
Go ahead and do a humble brag, but no one would know.
Oh, that's a hard one.
Take a second.
Consider it.
People are organizing people are talking about their life.
People are organizing.
People are acting.
People are really good at managing their money and dancing.
You guys, you ever seen Elaine on Seinfeld dance?
That's me.
Okay.
I'm not a good dancer.
Just want to let you know, right.
My rhythm has not caught up with my almost six foot body just is not there.
Humor, funny baking.
Okay.
I don't, I don't know.
That's a hard one for me.
I'm pretty much, um, open book where my heart on my sleeve.
I know, but none of these people know you.
So what are you really good at?
Go ahead and humble brag.
What are you really good at?
Oh, well, I mean, I'm good at cooking and stuff like that.
I don't know if that's a brag.
There you go.
Most people wouldn't think that men are good at cooking.
And so there you go.
You just answered the question.
You're good at cooking.
We love it.
Ladies who loves a man who can cook.
Yes.
All right.
Ask your bachelorettes.
Same question.
Okay.
Number one, go ahead.
Um, okay.
So two things came to mind.
Cause at first I thought we were doing like a skill.
So I rhyme really well, particularly when I'm tired.
And then one more thing would be making people feel safe for their, for their
hearts to feel safe, to take up space.
And I'm a good listener.
All right.
She rhymes y'all.
She's got bars.
She's spitting some bars.
All right.
We like it.
Go ahead.
You're a rapper.
That's cool.
Yeah.
Um, number seven.
Only when she's tired though.
She's a sleepy rapper.
Okay.
I am an amazing planner.
I could plan experiences really well.
My friends love when, um, you know, it's when you're working on a project and
you're like, Oh, I'm going to do this and I'm going to do this and I'm going to do
this and I'm going to do this and I'm going to do this and I'm going to do this.
we're planning a night out. I'll give them all the ideas of, you know, which, which restaurant we should check out, which fun activity, which neighborhood we should be walking around.
I'll just give them all the ideas and then I'll also like plan as far as timing and driving and, you know, which place has a good vibe or, you know, where to get the coffee and so on. So I'm a really great planner.
Love it. Okay, the moment has come. Are you going to pick Stromboli? She makes the homemade Stromboli.
She is a planner. She dislikes mean people. Are you going to pick, that's Bachelorette number seven, Bachelorette number one, she likes chicken.
She makes people feel safe. She's a good listener. She's spitting those bars when she's tired.
All right. She doesn't like gossip. If you don't got nothing nice to say, don't sit next to her.
Okay.
She doesn't want to hear it.
Bachelor. Okay, we're gonna let people guess.
Got lots of ones, lots of sevens. If we got a divided group right now.
I'm gonna go with number one.
Reveal yourself. Let's let you reveal yourself too. Let's let you reveal yourself first and then you can pick, you can pick. Go ahead.
Our bachelor tonight is a black screen.
Central California chef extraordinaire and entrepreneur wants to have a pizza truck and it's a good thing because he won't see pizza for the rest of his life.
And so that makes sense. All right. Okay. And so tell us who you chose who you were most vibing with tonight.
Hard decision.
I don't even want to make this decision. Everyone, by the way, just all the ladies here. Thank you so much for your time.
I appreciate all the answers and everything.
But, um, number one.
Bachelorette number one. All right before bachelorette number one reveals yourself bachelorette number seven if you would reveal yourself.
Tell us something about yourself.
Hi.
Jamie. Yes, Jamie right okay Jamie tell us about you.
Hi, I'm Jamie, I live in Cleveland, Ohio, I'm 45, never been married, I don't have kids.
I've lived in Cleveland all my life, I actually work for the Visitors Bureau here so I talk travel, I promote Cleveland.
My job is to promote the city and it's really fun.
We're so glad that you that you are with us. JB is in phase one of our program. I did let her come because of the algorithm because you know everyone's on spirit mate match and so it's just like, sometimes I don't know what phase they're in, but she's still
doing her hard work, and we love her and we're so glad and she's from my hometown.
All right, Cleveland. Okay, and then the bachelor that was chosen tonight that vibe, the hardest with with that Abram tonight is bachelorette number one bachelor number one please reveal yourself.
Tell us who you are.
Hi guys. My name is Jacqueline, and I.
So I'm Jacqueline, I'm 33 years old, single never married no kids, and I'm currently in Northern California, and I work as a registered nurse, and, you know, really value my family, my community and having fun and balance life, you know, still figuring that out.
So, yes.
Yes. Were you the person that said that you wanted to public speak.
Nope, that was, that was a different bachelor I was like you're doing great. Okay.
Awesome. You ladies, beautiful, wonderful. I know, Abram feels like the king of the hill tonight, all of these amazing wonderful women that the spirit mate match software said you're compatible with.
And so we love it you guys it's been really fun tonight. Go ahead and if you haven't introduced yourself and you came in late go ahead and do that, tell us where you live.
How old you are anything you want to say there in the chat because there's lots of men and women on here tonight. And we're going to do more and more of these types of gatherings, we're going to do more and more y'all.
Okay, so what do we have up we have spirit, we have spotlights coming up on the 20th, you have Galentine's this Friday we have spotlights coming up next week, we're going to spotlight 10 women and 10 men.
If you didn't already sign up for that chances are those slots are already closed.
And so you will be in the next batch.
We're gonna do that probably a couple of times a month
if we can.
We might go ahead and do that on love seats as well
the next week.
If we have people that wanna be spotlighted,
you'll get a couple of minutes to tell the entire community
and all the replay community about you,
where you're from, who you are,
and how they can connect with you.
All right?
All right, thanks for joining us tonight.
Abram, I will give you all the information that you need
to connect with Jacqueline and any of the bachelorettes
that you would wanna connect with.
That goes for all of you gentlemen.
If you saw any lady that you're like, wow, she's amazing.
You know what, Abram, sorry about your luck, bro,
but I'm gonna get there first.
Go ahead and let us know
and we will help make that introduction for you.
You guys, I hope you had fun tonight
and we'll see you soon.
Bye everyone.
Bye, Jackie.
Bye-bye.