How you guys doing? Doing good.
Good.
So
Rebecca, you want to kick us off in prayer?
Yeah, let's do it. Am I? I'm not muted. Am I you can hear me?
Okay. Okay. Awesome. Heavenly Father, thank you for this time
together. Lord, thank you for bringing us together collectively
to grow just for iron to sharpen iron for us to spur each other
on. Thank you that we get to come as empty vessels for
filling up today, Lord. I thank you for Ray and how you're using
him. Thank you for the anointing on his life. Just pray that you
would speak through him today, Lord and guide us as we just
dedicate this session to you. We pray that you would reveal only
your truth. And give us the spiritual eyes and ears we need
today, Lord increase our wisdom, help us with discernment. We
want to hear from you. We pray that you just help us take
charge and run with it. Lord. I love in Isaiah when it says this
is the way walk in it help us walk in the direction you're
calling us to do. We're just grateful that you're as close as
the mention of your name. And we're thankful that you're such
a faithful friend to us who stays closer than a brother. We
love you, Lord, we invite you to have your way today. And we pray
these things in Jesus name. Amen.
Amen. Yay. Awesome. Awesome. All right. So first, first thing I
know we got a lot or maybe not a lot. I don't know. I know we
have some new people on. So if you would please raise your
hand if this is your first meeting you're making your
digital hand. So it should be under react. So react, raise
hand. Okay. I know sometimes people struggle with that. Maybe
if you're on your phone or something, but yeah, raise your
keep them raised. Because I want to make sure and by the way,
let me see. So Rhea, you're one of them. This is your first
time. Yeah, find my hand.
Yeah. And so I just want to make sure. So I want to make sure
especially if it's your first time, or or if you've been on an
and I haven't gotten to you personally yet. You can raise
your hand for that too. But I want to make sure that we get to
all the people that are new that have not gone through with yet.
And so we'll just have to remember Rhea if she can't find
the hand. Are you driving? Are you able to talk or? Oh, I'm
stopped. Oh, okay. And so all right, so I will need it. I need
a different view. Let me see here. Okay. So I'll actually
I'll start I got an edge to start with Rhea. But first, let
me just do a quick prayer.
Okay, so a few of you what I've learned is if you guys are under
spiritual warfare stuff, I get wrong answers when I pray about
you. So a couple of you were and now you're not at least
currently. So that's good. I'd remove that. Kim, what's up? You
got something share?
No, I think this is my first meeting.
Yeah, okay. I'll come back to you. I want to hit Rhea first
then we'll we'll come back to you. Sounds good.
Okay. All right. So Rhea being I can't even find how to get my
video back on the enemy messing with you. Oh, good. Oh, I'm not
good at this. Sorry. So so just to help you with that and
anything in life, right. So definitely, you know, today's
Proverbs today's February is a February Yeah, February 18th.
Right. So Proverbs 1821 says death and life's in the power of
the tongue, those who love it will eat its fruit. So we what I
am constantly training people on and they get it, you know, it
comes easier and easier and easier is we want to no longer
honor and edify language that that limits us. So different
language you use is in the past, I struggled with this sort of
thing, but I'm getting better and better. And so that way,
you breathe hope and life. That way you you help your
ministering spirits help you out versus staying under an old
deal. Right. I used to I always used to say, you know, I'm not
struggle with this stuff. And so use that in, and this is for all
going to be able to do this. I'm not going to be able to do that.
of you use this in every area of your life. Okay, you know what,
I'm not going to be able to do that. I'm not going to be able
to do that. I'm not going to be able to do that. I'm not going
so learn to catch yourself when you go to say, I'm not good at
this, or I suck at this, or man, this, I'm just so bad at this,
you catch it and say, you know what, I used to struggle with
this, but I feel like I'm getting better and better. And
that that will breathe life into you actually getting better and
better. Does that make sense? Rhea? That makes sense? Yes.
Yeah. All right. And so let me for first, I just want to do
prayer about you. And I know I've done some of this with you
before outside of here.
Fine.
Okay, so
the one the only the one thing one thing, the one thing that
was I was nudge, you know, to, to share with you and and and
help you with is what's called our act. And, and I don't know
if I've talked to you about this particular thing before.
Because I know I've talked to you about like agreements and
strongholds and different things. And so are all of us
just kind of, I mean, it has to be God's design, right? All of
us, all of us adults, I don't know what age, but all of us
adults have an act. And, and this act, and I didn't come up
with that word, it actually came from landmark form, they
actually use that word is actually my first personal
breakthrough was discovering my act. And this act was set in
childhood. And it had it drives us unwillingly until we're aware
of it. And then we have a chance of taking the wheel back and
taken over, right, but until we're aware of it, we're on
auto, we're on we're the passenger, and this act is the
driver. So my act was I'll show you. So when people would doubt
me, that was that would fuel me. So my best performance would
come when someone would doubt me, the and that may not sound
that bad, right? Like, Oh, that's not that bad, right?
Well, the problem is, once I proved myself, and no one else
doubted me, I would lose steam, and I'd have to go start a new
career. So I would have all these careers where I would I
would, you know, get the highest review ever given ever. And
then I'd like, Oh, y'all believe in me? I'd weird out,
and I gotta get out of here. And so I would, you know, I'd have
all these these good careers that could have been great, cut
off, because my act would flare and go search for somewhere where
people doubted me. Right. And so you either get that or you don't
like because that's, I haven't found too many people that
that's their act, but but I'll show you with now I still have
it, actually. But I get to choose. So it'll flare, like
someone I'll sense that someone's doubting me or
underplaying me or whatever. And it'll it'll flare and it'll want
to flex, it'll want me to brag or want me to tell them how big
time I am or whatever. But with awareness, I can choose, I can
say, Nah, I don't need to do that. Right? Where in the past,
it was unwilling, I would just, I would flex on them, I would
brag, or I'd boast or be whatever, right? And it just
wasn't good. And so what I what I get, and okay, what I so this
this act is a thing that you would be pummeled with pretty
much all the time.
And so the act is not something we can actually pray off.
It's not a, well, I don't need that anymore.
It actually is a pathway
for who we're called to actually help.
Because whoever we're called to help
is the person that we know inside and out.
So God has equipped us to know this type of person
inside and out so we can best serve them.
So an example is if people come to me
and they've unfortunately lost a child,
at some point, they're not gonna listen to me.
They're gonna say, well, you don't know what it's like.
And they're right.
You know, I can't imagine it.
I can't pretend to imagine it.
I don't know the pain that they're feeling.
So I have to point them to someone or something
that is someone that lost a child.
So I'll point them to the Ed Milett Granger Smith podcast
where Granger, his son drowned in a pool.
And he said, you know what?
I'm gonna put a gun to his head and found Jesus.
It's an amazing podcast.
Even if you haven't lost a child,
like I cried like a baby.
And so they, you know, people,
they want, they feel the best
when they're with someone who understands them.
So our act is actually an equipping.
It's an equipping of who we're actually called most to serve.
And when we serve this type of person,
we're gonna give them the best.
So there have been times when I share with you your act,
there's been times where you've helped someone with this.
I'm positive.
And you didn't know why, but it felt really good
because, you know, he's, you know,
God the father, not the godfather.
He's not a taskmaster.
He's not gonna give us a purpose that sucks.
He's not gonna give us a purpose that's like draining
and like, oh geez, I'm supposed to break rocks in the sun.
God, okay.
He's gonna give us a purpose that lights us up,
that keeps us awake at night, that fires us up.
We look forward to it, okay?
But to get there, we gotta get past this.
We gotta become aware of what is it that's been driving us?
What is that simple statement that's been driving us?
And now, okay, how do we go and serve others
that we know so well because they're us, right?
And so yours is, you know, one that I do see.
I think, you know, the industry,
and I think, you know, with what I do,
I think a lot of people come into this industry
with this type of act, either similar or exact.
And so the act that I get for you is I'm not enough.
And so I'm not enough-
That's not surprising.
Yeah, I'm not, it usually isn't.
Most people, when they hear their act,
they're usually not like, really?
Oh, I don't think so.
That's usually not the reaction.
It's usually like, oh yeah, that makes sense.
And so this would be an involuntary hammering
that you would have on basically everything that you go for.
And this can work one of two ways.
There are, you know, I just spent time
with someone who makes over $200,000 a month,
and their act is I'm not enough.
So it shows up in two different ways, right,
that I've seen.
Either you become the workaholic, rewardaholic,
I have to go and conquer everything
to try to fill this void that I'm not enough,
but it never does.
Or it's used as a, well, I can't do that
because, you know, I'm not enough.
I'm not gonna be able, you know?
So it's usually one or the other.
It's usually not in between.
It's usually not someone that's like doing pretty good.
It's either they're killing it,
but they're unhappy and unfulfilled,
or they're falling short of their goals
because they have this, you know, I'm just not enough.
How can I go and accomplish those goals?
And so we can't, I can't give you a men in black moment
and, you know, flash it out of your head
or something like that.
What we're designed and meant to do
is to be aware of it and to actually tame it.
And so this means that you will have this come up.
It's not gonna stop, but you get to say, you know what?
I am enough because I'm a child of God.
And so we get to reframe.
So yours is a reframing.
And so, and I would encourage you,
and I really believe, you know,
if you look at 1 Corinthians 9, 27,
I tame the body, I make it my slave.
2 Corinthians 10, five, I take captive every thought,
make it obedient to Christ.
So you're, were to take, you know, that thought captive,
understand it, okay.
Is it obedient to Christ? Of course it's not. I'm a child of God. I am worthy.
You're enough, and you're worthy because you're a child of God.
And so that's what you want to reframe to. I get to do this thing because I am enough,
because of what Jesus did on the cross. And so it's turning to Him, right?
And all of heaven's favor is attracted to you because of Jesus inside of you, right?
It's not our performance. It's not if Ray had a good week or whatever. We're not under performance,
just like my kids aren't under performance. I don't some days really, really love Graham
because he got an award at school, and I'm really upset. I don't love Sabrina because
God loves us because of Jesus in us, not because of our performance.
He loves us because we're a child of God and because Jesus is with us.
And so this is your battlegrounds for I'm not enough. And it shouldn't actually be a battle.
It'll get easier and easier and easier, just like with me. It got easier and easier and easier to
notice that I'll show you and say, I don't need to do that. Does this make sense?
Yes.
And so when you have this, probably a goal, right? Like you probably are like,
you know what, today I'm going to whatever, reach out to five people or whatever,
when it flares and when it's like, well, you know, you're not enough.
Why would they sign up with you? Or you're not enough. Like, you know,
who are you to make rank or whatever? When you have that come up, you know,
you know what, I am enough because I'm a child of God and I'm going to do this.
And so you get to practice that. You get to practice taming that act that's been
controlling you for so long. And that is a practice. And anything that we practice,
we get better at. You know, we get better at practicing peace, patience, joy, kindness,
gentleness, you know, all that. Anything that we practice, we get better at.
So the more that you practice noticing the act of I'm not enough and reframing it to,
I'm a child of God, I am enough and he's enough and I'm worthy because of whose I am.
Then you can start, you'll get better and better and better. And the voice will get lesser and
lesser and lesser and lesser. But it also equips you to go and help all the people that have no
clue about acts that have no clue that they're struggling with this whole I'm not enough.
And one thing I've noticed is when I talk about someone's act, anyone that has the same or a
similar one, they like they really perk up when they when they hear me talk to someone and it's
similar to theirs or the same as theirs because it just resonates, right? You're called to go and
help others who don't feel enough. And I bet somewhere in your life, maybe probably multiple
times, you've helped someone that didn't feel enough and you help them do something. And I
bet it felt great. Yes. Does that does anything come up for you around that?
Well, it comes up from my other multi-level marketing company that I was with. I'm still
with them. I'm just not really working the business. But it's about helping people feel
better. Yeah. You know, and is it like, like, very specifically, people who don't feel enough?
Have you ever? Have you ever noticed that when you help someone who just doesn't feel like they're
worthy or doesn't feel like they're enough? That would probably be like, really, like emotional
cocaine for you. Because when we walk in our purpose and we help someone,
we're like really meant to help. It's going to it's going to feel really good.
I can't say that I've really been in that position to where I was with somebody that
didn't feel enough because I don't know how to tell. Yeah, you don't you don't ask them or yeah,
they don't reveal that it's not something most people would reveal. And so how do you tell?
I'm paying attention to their language. You know, it usually won't come out like I'm not enough,
but it'll come out with. I've never been very good at this thing, or yeah, I always struggle
with this, or yeah, I sure try to do this thing, but it just never works like it can come out and
in multiple ways. You know, and so you'll you'll notice like like what I would encourage you to do
is.
you know, step one for you, no question, is I would set some action steps and when,
okay, because it will, when this flares, you get to practice and say,
no, I am enough. I'm a child of God. I'm going to go do this thing.
So I would set some action steps, whether it's reaching out to five people
or doing a video or whatever.
And then the second would be if you go and you notice that you feel really good doing something,
I would pray about it and ask if there's, hey, Lord, is there any association here?
Is there any association with, you know, why, why, why did this make me feel so good?
Like us, us like inspect that, you know, like, why do we feel so good?
Because I know like for me, you know, three months in, you know, to accepting Christ,
you know, I was asked to do, and I was, I was very nervous.
I was asked to do a sermon in Costa Mesa, California.
And then they, they said, hey, you know, let us know if you need help with altar call.
And I'm like, altar call, like, what are you talking about?
Like I, I'd never even seen one because I didn't respond to an altar call.
So I Googled how to run altar call the night before and I do it.
And 20 people came to Christ and that feeling, I'm like, I want more of this.
Like whatever this is, I want more of it.
And so, you know, almost, I mean, certainly every week,
but almost every day I'm walking someone through to Christ and that's the Holy Spirit.
I'm just being obedient. The Holy Spirit's pulling them to Christ.
And because that's a, that's, I identified that feeling,
the most exhilarated feeling I'd had in my entire career,
regardless of all the millions and the stages and yada, yada.
That was the feeling that stood out more than anything I'd ever done.
I want more of that. And so pay attention to that.
Because that, that is God's favor is upon that.
And he wants you to experience more of that.
Just like you would want, you know, anyone that has kids,
you'd want your kids to experience joy.
You'd want them to experience zeal and excitement and, you know, you know,
something like that. I would, I would just pay attention to that.
But step one, for sure, set some new action goals when it pops up and it will,
you get to say, you get to practice and say, no, I am enough.
I'm a child of God. Go and do the thing.
And I think you're starting to see some progress.
Yes. Thank you, Ray.
That cool? Helpful?
Yes. Very.
Everyone give, give Ria some love, give her some love.
Awesome. Thanks for being vulnerable.
Kind of required in here.
Awesome. All right. So let's, let's get back.
To.
Oh, a lot of you have hands up now.
Kim, you still around? Are you toast?
I'm here.
Hello.
Okay. Yeah.
So what's happening.
What's up.
So.
I should be told I had the time to be here.
And I found myself wanting to avoid this call.
So I stopped myself kind of dead in my tracks and I said, whoa.
That means we need to be on the call. So I'm here.
Nice. Nice.
Yeah.
So.
I don't get to, I need, I need to.
I need to be on the call.
So, you know, with you, I'll just say, what's the number one thing I can
help with.
I really don't know that I have any questions.
I will say thank you to Ria for raising her hand because.
Right.
You you're such a natural mentor and the Holy spirit just flows
through you.
Sometimes you talk so fast.
I couldn't take notes fast enough and you dropped so many nuggets for
me.
So, you know, I, I.
I recognize some of myself in that.
You know, you know what I do financially.
And I will find myself.
Better performer.
When I'm backed against the wall.
So if it's not pressure paralyzed,
I don't feel the need to get after it as consistently as I do when
things are going well, you know?
So, yeah. So, so just.
Yeah.
I remember hearing this from Tom Hopkins.
Who's been around forever.
When my kids were little,
we used to listen to Tom Hopkins every morning.
And it was, what was his saying?
I'm alert. I'm alive and I feel great.
And so for those that don't know, Tom Hopkins was a sales trainer.
He was, you know,
popular or like when Zig Ziglar and everyone.
Don't so either I either tell them to go, you know, make it or go spend it
and so
um, but we don't have to operate that way and so I would just
Because any I I I really believe you know book of hebrews talks about how angels are ministering spirits
So those who are who are saved
I believe
when
When it says death and life's in the power of the tongue those who love it will eat its fruit
I like I actually believe that that's an equipping or an unequipping of angels to help us
An equipping or unequipping a favor to go in front of us
and and so
When we speak I only seem to operate, you know when my back's against the wall
Then that is going to be our reality
And so I would just say in the past I noticed that I really performed when my back was against the wall
But it's so cool that god's helping me get that better and better
and and then I would also
You know, we know the the hack right the bio hack to to prayer and that's you know
Mark 11 24 and philippians 4, you know says when you pray praise if you've already received and also
In everything with prayer and petition in thanksgiving present your request to god
and and so
Both of them are saying the same thing and that is uh, go to him with gratitude for what it is that you want
And and so I am one of my major filters when I read or listen to the bible
is is listening for
um
What is a trait that I want to make sure I have?
So when I when I listen to uh, isaiah 11 3 and 4 he says, um, he will delight in being obedient to the lord
So my very first reaction to that was lord. Do I delight in being obedient to you and I got no
And in that one word in prayer I got I was being obedient
but for my desires
And and so there was it was it was I was making this little trade-off with god of of hey
I'll go do this if you ask me to but i'm sure you're gonna bless me, right?
You're gonna take care of dog, right? You're gonna hook ray up, right?
So I was I was doing it but for ray's desires and so in that moment I prayed I said father
Thank you for helping me put your will above my desires
and I felt a physical change when I prayed that and that day he had me fast and
literally ever since then
Things have been different. It's been really incredible
And and so and I know you know, isaiah 55 8 9 says his ways are higher than our ways
So I know that you know, yes, he has great plans for me. So I don't gotta worry about it
I'm gonna worry about you know, what exactly is my desire here?
I want to make sure you know, god knows that um, you know
My desire is his will and his will is is higher than than my thoughts. And so
Let's just rock that out
And and so i'm i'm always looking for traits. I'm always looking for what traits
Um, do I trust him? Do I rely on him? Do do I put him first?
Do I seek first the kingdom of god like all of the all these verses?
Point me to the traits that I want and I just go to him and thank him for helping me with those traits
and so we want to be
You know careful of we don't we don't you know, we don't need our back against the wall, you know
Uh psalm 35 27 the lord delights in the prosperity and well-being and peace of his servant
So he delights in your prosperity like he thinks it's wonderful just like we do, you know, you know for if our kids doing well
We're like, yes, that's awesome
You know, we're not you know, if they're struggling we're not like serves him, right, you know, like that's not us and we're not perfect
You know, we do the best job we can
uh, he's the perfect father and so I would just you know, catch yourself anytime you you find yourself saying a
um
diminutive
Trait associated with a personal pronoun
And so because we we just don't we don't want to go there. We don't want that. We don't want to keep it
Thank you, thank you for pointing that out I appreciate it and uh
I knew I was I was meant to be here
So I appreciate your time and I will stay and uh, see what else I can learn from the group
So thank you to everyone who's raised your hand because we learned just as much from you
yeah, thank you and
And you know, it's it's common to just you know, i'm just telling it like it is
Right, you know, that's what most people do and telling it like it is keeps it like it is
So if you want to keep it like it is then keep telling it like it is, you know, um,
And so but you probably don't want to do that
All right, we will go to eddie
So eddie, it's your first time I believe right? Yes, sir. All right. So let me let me do
prayer
About you
So, first off, Eddie, you were one of the ones dealing with some spiritual warfare stuff.
Are you aware of that? Do you feel that?
Not exactly.
And is there anything going on in your house at all? Any appliances or flooding or anything
like that?
No.
No? OK. All right. One second.
So, Eddie, you were one of the ones dealing with some spiritual warfare stuff. Are you
aware of that?
Not exactly.
All right.
Did you resonate with what I was saying to Rhea?
Absolutely.
Yeah, because you got the same one. So your act is I'm not enough. So that's you would
naturally resonate with that.
But there's also some other Rhea I've done some work with in past things. And so there's
more stuff. Let's help you with here.
OK, so two other things. One, I get that you have an agreement. And so, first of all,
everything I said to Rhea applies to you. Right. So whenever you have that thought of
I'm not enough, it's first of all, that's not true.
It's actually it's a it's a tool that that that you have to to practice walking as a
child of God. And and so when we get the I'm not enough chatter, we're like, you know,
I am enough. I'm a child of God. So you will tame that. And it's just it's just practicing
that. You also have something called an agreement and an agreement is not something you
agree to, but it's something you agreed to at some point in your life. And an agreement
is very strong. It is a spiritual agreement. It's kind of like a contract that allows the
enemy to mess with you. And so the agreement, sometimes it's the same as the act. Yours
isn't. The agreement is it won't work. So the agreement of it won't work would for most if
they go to start something, there's kind of this nagging thought of that's not going to
work. And you might come to the conclusion of why bother? It's not going to work. Do you ever
have that kind of thing?
Sometimes, sometimes.
And so that one, go ahead. I'm sorry.
There are times where like, I'm a bit of an like, because my my act is not good enough.
I've trained my mind to just be on the other side, like you said, workaholic. But
because I've done a lot of personal development, I've also kind of trained my mind and say I can do
anything and nothing's gonna stop me. I'm gonna make it happen regardless. But oftentimes, I end
up overworking myself to make sure that it happens. Because I know that my act is, you know,
not enough.
But you get to the end of those results, and you still don't feel any different.
Correct.
Right. That's the problem.
Right. So like when I when I was, you know, chatting with, you know, one of my clients, you
know, $200,000 a month, he's got the act of I'm not enough. It doesn't he could be to $200
million a month. He's still without awareness, he's still going to have that thought and be
like, What the heck? What do I got to do?
And, and so, you know, I resonate with that, because I
kept trying to make success fulfilling to me. And it just
never did. Like, I was grateful for it, like, cool. But it
never, it never gave me what I was looking for. And and so I
knew something was missing. And that's what I kind of, I'm just
like 2020. I'm just like, man, I gotta do something else,
because this ain't working. I'm not gonna do more of this. And
and so, you know, we can, so I'm supposed to give you your
three words. We'll get to that. And so the good news is
agreements, we can just pray off. And second, and I have
something. So Eddie, send me a, if you would, a direct message
on Instagram or Facebook, because I guess something I'm
not supposed to cover on here that I'll do with you
separately. Different topic, but but we can pray off the
agreement. And and so just remember that, though, send me
a direct message, because I don't know how many people I'm
gonna, he's gonna have me do this with. So I'll forget. And
so first, let's let's pray off the agreement of it won't work.
And so Father was so grateful for you, Father, thank you for
your presence, Father, thank you for breaking off the agreement
of it won't work from Eddie, thank you for breaking that
agreement right now, Lord, in Jesus name. Amen. Amen. Thank
you. And so you're still going to get the I'm not enough.
That's not going away. But it sounds like you've trained
yourself at least. But your weapon against really, it's an
identity struggle. And that's what I had, you know, I fixed my
identity struggle, like one year ago, to the month, you know,
February of last year is when I fixed my identity. Your identity
because most people operate and their identity is what have I
done? What am I? What have I accomplished? What am I doing?
What do I have that kind of stuff? And no matter the answer,
it's never enough. Never. Now, we may pretend to others that it
is, yeah, I just got a new boat or yacht or whatever, right? We
may pretend that it is, but it never is. And so the to break
that identity crisis, we have to find what is our actual identity?
What is our real identity? How does God see us? And so one
thing that he showed me is that all of us have a special unique
identity with him. And there's three words that he'll give me
when I pray about this with people. And so I'll do this
first, and then I got one more thing for you. And so
So it is. So your identity, how God sees you, the real you is
bold, kind and wise. That's your three words. So it feels good,
right? Yeah, I resonate with all three of those words. Yeah,
usually people do. And, and so that's anything that is anti
bold, kind and wise is false is a lie. Discard it. And so this
is a great weapon. When when the enemy is messing with you, the
enemy is going to try to make you think that you're timid or
scared, that you're mean or a jerk and that you're dumb. Like
that's what the enemy is going to focus on because the enemy is
just trying to, the enemy does not want you to walk in your
identity. And and so the way that I say it, I'm, I'm bold,
loving and authentic. That's, that's my three words. And so I
say it every morning, I'm, I hold my heart and I'm like, I'm
a bold, loving, authentic man of God. And that just anchors me, I
am not what I do, what I've done, what I have, what I've
accomplished, all those things are great, or not great,
whatever. That's my identity. So I don't I don't struggle trying
to locate my identity, and awards or money or net worth or
any of that stuff, all that stuff's fine. But it's not my
source. It's not it's not who I am. It's not my identity. And so
that that will help you with that. Do you have kids?
No, we um, we're working on it. And God timing. We raised our
nephew. He's 12. We had him since he was three. But still
in prayer for our own.
we had a few miscarriages and I was still working on it.
Yeah. Okay. I do get that you have a heart wall,
and a heart wall is when we've either been betrayed,
abandoned, or hurt,
and so we draw the conclusion of,
wow, when I trust someone, they just hurt me,
so we create a heart wall.
So there are people that you let in, right?
But most people you don't let in, right?
You know, your default setting with a heart wall,
your default setting would be to keep them at distance.
Now, that doesn't mean you don't smile at them,
you're not nice to them because, you know,
you're bold, kind, and wise, right?
So you would be kind to everyone,
but you would keep them at a distance, okay?
Now, the reality is that, yes, we can always be betrayed,
we can always be lied to, we can always be let down.
Almost a daily basis, the Lord's revealing someone to me
that doesn't appreciate me,
and he's moving them out of my life,
and I'm like, okay, all right, Lord, no problem, right?
And, you know, someone that I maybe thought appreciated me
or that, you know, I appreciated,
doesn't appreciate me, he's moving them out of my life,
that's okay.
What we don't wanna do, though,
is have a default setting of a heart wall
because it lessens our light.
And, you know, Matthew 5, 14, 16,
we're called to be the light of the world,
the city on the hill that can't be hidden.
When we are not generous with our energy,
then we condemn our light to more match our expectations.
And so when we, you probably will feel a difference
because we can pray this off.
And so we'll pray off the heart wall.
You'll probably notice that might be easier
for you to feel joy, it might be easier for you
to be more welcoming and have more energy toward people
that otherwise you might be more kind of distant with.
Does that make sense?
Yeah, well, on the heart wall,
I'm not sure if that resonates
because I'm pretty trusting of people.
Like, until you prove me wrong, I trust everybody.
I know that's probably not the way to be,
but that's kind of how I am.
It's an impressive way to be, actually.
I mean, it's an impressive way to be
if you can pull that off.
Most of us have been hurt and damaged
and we're not in that space.
I don't know that I've been hurt in that way
Yeah.
Where I don't trust people.
Okay, let's pray it off,
see if you notice anything anyway.
And so Father, we're so grateful for you, Father.
Thank you for your presence, Father.
Thank you for breaking off
and disintegrating the heart wall from Eddie.
Thank you for disintegrating that heart wall right now,
Lord, in Jesus name.
Amen.
So make sure you send me that direct message.
And then, what is, do you have a,
like a number one hot question
you want to ask me or anything?
Yes.
I mean, I have lots, but I'll just start with one.
One of my biggest challenges that I've been having
is figuring out my niche.
Like when I do my messaging
to try to attract clients for my business.
Because, you know, like I don't want to just,
I want to recruit people for my business, of course,
but I haven't been able to narrow down on my niche
of what my messaging would be,
what my brand would be.
So I kind of do the whole entrepreneur thing,
but that's too broad.
So I don't know how to like channel it in
where I can get more of my ideal type of clients
that I like to get.
Yeah.
Okay.
So here's an exercise, all right?
So an exercise is,
what have I been through?
What have I overcome?
What have I survived?
What have I gone through?
Because what we've gone through is an equipping,
is an equipping of who we absolutely
have authority to go and help.
And so it's now, so what I would,
can you, let's see if we can narrow this down.
And so,
Can you give me some things of what you've been through?
Yeah, I was kicked out of my parents' house at 18.
All right.
And so I started becoming an entrepreneur
right around that time.
And I've kind of been on my own ever since.
I mean, I'm married, but in terms of as an adult,
from that point, I've always,
so there's always been some challenges financially
because I just kind of was struggling working three jobs,
trying to just kind of make my way.
And, you know, I've had some success in network marketing,
but it's kind of going back and forth.
So like even right now, just, you know, full transparency,
like we've gotten to like a six figure income at one point,
but now I'm driving Uber just to kind of
make up for some of that income that's gone.
And so I've had, you know, lots of challenges,
whether it be just me personally as a person,
mindset mentally, and just, you know,
my journey, if you will, if that makes sense.
So here's what I get is it's a combination
of I see who you help is a combination
of that combines rejection with I'm not enough.
And so the next phase of this is the three questions.
So the three questions are, who do I help?
How do I help them?
And why should they listen to me?
So it's, I get that it's some form of communication of,
it's something around, you know,
I help people who struggled with their worth
and been rejected.
It's something like that.
It's probably not the exact words,
but I would play with that and I would pray on that.
And I would say, you know, one of my favorite prayers is,
Lord, what more do you have to say about this?
And ask that specific, you know, give him, you know,
we wanna do as much work as we can
and present to him our presented works
so he can bless the work of our hands.
And so I don't just say, Lord, what's my tagline?
I make some guesses, you know, I'm like, is this one?
Is this close?
Is this closer?
And so I get that it's something around
worth being enough and rejection.
And so question one is gonna be in that
I help people who struggle with their worth
and have been rejected.
Question three, we'll skip
because we'll come back to question two.
Question three is why should they listen to me?
Because as a teenager, I was kicked out of my house
and I was rejected and I faced rejected
all throughout my life and struggled with, you know,
my worth, you know,
and with that still became a successful business owner.
That's why they should listen to you.
Do you get that?
Yeah.
Step two, question two is where
we get to be a little creative.
And so step question two is how do I help them?
So we do not help them by recruiting them.
We don't help them by selling them a thing.
We help them with some kind of process
or system or blueprint or, you know,
there's other words, you know, that you could use,
but I always like to encourage people
to have a number there.
So, you know, I help people that struggle with their worth
and have been rejected.
I help them with a four-step process
to cleanse their mind of all the past
and step into their new future.
And then step number three, you know,
you know, after being rejected as a teenager
and having rejection throughout my life
and struggled with worth,
I've now created a successful business.
So that right there, I know it's kind of rough,
but that right there is a successful brand.
That's a brand that people will tune into.
And so, and by the way, when you say,
I help people with a four-step process to, you know,
cleanse their past and walk into a new future,
well, guess what?
They need something to fill that new future.
And so what's that new future?
Could be your opportunity.
opportunity, but it's not mentioned in the branding statements.
Does that make sense?
And so I pray around that, but I don't think we're very far off.
I think I think we're pretty close.
I think it has to do with rejection, not enough worth.
And, you know, you get to it's your playground on number two.
Right. Is it a seven step process?
Is it a four step blueprint? Is it three exercises?
What is it? You know, and so you want it.
You said I've done a lot of self-development to get over this.
Not enough.
OK, so you've been a warrior fighting against this thing.
And so, OK, if you had to boil it down, how did you do it?
And so like, you know, is that seven steps, six steps, five steps, four steps,
you know, whatever, and when you attract people to that brand,
they're going to want to fill a new future.
They're going to want to walk in a new creation.
And that's, you know, by the way, second Corinthians 517.
And so, you know, and you'll be able to say, well, you know,
there's a lot of options out there, but, you know, here's the one I chose.
And here's why.
And they're going to already trust you and they're going to sign up.
Does that help?
Very much so.
And also what this does is it gives you a mantle.
Most people don't have their mantle.
They don't know, you know, what is their anointing?
What is their their who are they actually called to help?
And so they're just they're just throwing content at the wall.
They see this guy do this.
I'll try that, you know, oh, you know,
and so they're just throwing content at the wall and, you know, nothing is growing.
There's no velocity. There's no momentum.
When you're under a mantle, you're like, OK,
is what I'm about to talk about under this mantle.
If not, don't talk about it.
You know, like, you know, what what God showed me was, you know,
I help business owners increase their profits while putting God first.
And and it brings together, you know,
you know, the two things I'm called to help
with business and relationship with God and, you know, and it just excites me.
And so if I if I look at, OK, you know, am I talking about something that isn't
under that if it is I don't need to be doing it?
I need to just walk away from that thing,
whether it'll make money or not, that shouldn't be the the criteria.
Right. OK, thank you.
And and so Heather's asking,
where do we put our brand information on Facebook and our bio?
Yeah, everywhere.
But it's the most important is for you to know, right, for you to walk in that.
And so.
Awesome, great job, Eddie, give give Eddie some love, give him some love.
Awesome, awesome.
All right, let's go.
Hold on.
Jonah.
What's up, what's happening?
You're muted, so, you know.
You're muted.
Good, yes, how are you?
Awesome, man, glad you're here.
Thank you. OK, all right.
Let me pray about you real quick.
Thank you.
All right, so two things.
I get that your act you've heard me at this point, you've heard me talk about a little bit.
So I get that the act is I can't do it.
So this would be a very prominent thought of like you want to do something,
but you have this thought of I can't do it.
You ever experienced that?
I'm sure.
There's a second thing that is similar to some that we've heard and the agreement.
And again, the agreement is not something you agree with.
You know, just like the act isn't something you agree with.
It's just it's going to be a prominent pounding, a prominent thought.
The agreement is it won't last.
Now, it won't last usually makes it very difficult in relationships, usually,
because if we're if we're like, you know, you know, walking on eggshells,
I ain't going to last, you know, like they usually kind of creates the problem
we're trying to avoid.
And and so that agreement, you know, that one is something we can we can pray off,
you know, yay.
But the combination of I can't do it, it won't last.
That's a debilitating combo of, you know, so you've probably had big goals
and you just not going for them.
Is that right?
Do you feel like that's accurate?
Yeah.
And so let's we can go ahead and pray off the agreement.
And so, Father, we're so grateful for you, Father.
Thank you for your presence, Father.
Thank you for breaking off the agreement of it won't last from Jonah.
Thank you for breaking that agreement from Jonah right now, Lord, in Jesus name.
Amen.
Okay.
And so just like all the all the rest, right?
You're you will feel the most empowered when you help someone do something
they don't think they can do.
That's when you're going to just be on fire.
You're like, man, man, that felt great.
You know, that felt really good.
And and so, you know, helping.
So you probably have a a real love for, like, the underdog, I would guess.
People that don't think they can do it.
Okay.
And so so, yeah.
So what how can I best help you?
What's your what's your number one question?
I don't have any questions at the moment yet.
I'm just here to listen.
Oh, okay.
All right.
My discouragement would be that whenever you have that thought of, you know, I can't do it.
You know what?
Yes, I can.
And just take over.
Take the wheel.
Right.
And we'll keep listening.
You'll you'll get some more stuff there.
Jonah, everyone.
Awesome.
You got it.
Thank you.
Michelle.
Hello.
Hey.
What's happening?
How are you?
Oh, it's cold here in Minnesota.
Oh, man.
I usually at this point, I tell people what it is down here.
And it's so cruel.
I probably won't do it.
I won't do it.
How's that?
Unless you want me to.
I don't care.
We had it was like 18 below yesterday.
It was what?
Yesterday was 18 below in the morning.
And today it was like 14 below.
Oh, my goodness.
I think it's two above right now.
Holy cow.
Wow.
Got it.
All right.
So.
So with you, I can just get to ask the question.
So what's your number one burning question?
I have been for months struggling on my who, why, and my how.
Okay.
I kind of gave, not gave up, so to speak, but I haven't put barely anything into my business
because I keep hitting that.
And for a while I was like, oh, this is cool.
This is cool.
And then I, I don't know if I think I was listening to something.
It's like, okay, if something, so say I go this road.
So say I go this road or this commercial or advertise, you know, whatever.
I need to stick with that for, you know, six months or whatever.
And then go back and evaluate it.
If it's not working, then I need to look.
So it's, I'm just still everything I, and I used to listen to more because I do audio
books on my way to and from work, but I used to do, you know, try and get as much in.
And some of them.
or a little mix, you know, you should go this way, or you
should go this way. So I'm trying to narrow it down. And
I've really been pulled and drawn to listening to your
podcasts and your books. And so I've been trying to kind of
stick, you know, just on the same line, but I just cannot get
those three.
Okay. All right. Let's all right now. Let me
worry about you.
You got some spiritual stuff going on too. It's made it very
difficult. It's like I'm like trying to chase something. Do
you feel that? Do you know that?
I kind of wondered. I've been wondering.
Yeah.
Okay, took me a sec here. So I get that the act, your act is,
it won't work. And so the person that has, it won't work,
is would probably have a lot of starts, not finishes. And, and
so where you start something, and it sounds good at first, but
there's a, well, I don't think this is going to work. And then
your agreement is it's not working. So it's kind of a
combo. One, two punch there. It won't work. It's not working. So
that would probably have you start and start and not finish a
lot of stuff. Do you feel like is that accurate?
If I was, yeah, if I like, think about it a little bit. I did
realize this morning, and I hadn't thought about it. Um,
that I go back to I don't know if I was in like, probably 1415.
It's I haven't thought about for years, but it's I had gotten
mine, I went out for softball got mono. And then wasn't played
again, wasn't better had to play again. But then it was like, I
realized today that I just quit. I just kind of like, well, you
know, spend this long, I'm not gonna, you know, play anymore.
And then I brought me to I think the following year of playing
softball. And I recall if it's coming to me correctly, I didn't
get to play the position I wanted. So that was kind of
going hand in hand and didn't like finish the year. And then I
my senior year, I
barely into volleyball that I had played for how many years, and I didn't like how it was
going, and so then I quit. And I blamed it on, well, they're, you know, all they want
to do is this, this, and this. And so then I kept piling up, and it's, I brought that
into like, different work. You know, in my younger years, I'm thinking, well, I was young,
you know, I quit because I didn't have a, you know, I didn't like the schedule, or I
didn't like who I worked with.
And it, it won't work, and it's not working, can have lots of different meanings. Like,
it's not working for me. It's not working for what I want. It won't work to help me
get that goal I have. Right. So it's, it's, you know, very valuable is the word I think.
And so the, so one, the, the it won't work, is that the act is that will you to be aware
of that. And, you know, and the truth is, I mean, you know, almost anything you do consistently
will work, right? But what are you wanting it to work for? You know, like, what exactly
you so knowing, with, I think one thing that would be very important for you, and for whoever
you help, is to have the end goal in mind. Like, you know, when I'm, if I'm, if I'm talking
to a client, and it's not clear, I may ask, Hey, if we work together, how will we know
if it's successful? And, you know, and they can say, Well, you know, if I double my income,
or if I do this, then that will have been successful. And so with you, whatever you
start, I would I would identify, okay, how will I know if this is successful? How will
I know if this is moving in the right direction, and have benchmarks have, you know, have different
things like have like a plan. And that's going to really help you from falling to the it
won't work scenario. And when you have that thought, which you will continue to have it,
when you have that thought of it won't work, be like, you know what, it is working. That'll
be your your chance to practice that it is working, I am moving toward, you know, my
goal. And, you know, because the problem is, if you don't, if you don't get that, we can
come up with 50 different taglines that aren't going to work to, right, you'll just you'll
just burn through taglines, you know, you'll, you'll hire different branding experts, and
they'll help you with the next tagline. And that won't work either. And so, you know,
it's, it's, this thing is with you. But it's not to conquer us, it's for us, us to tame,
it's for us to take the controls. And, and so that's, that's a primary thing to learn,
then we can get into the specifics of, okay, who do you help? How do you help them? You
know, why should they listen to me kind of thing? Does that make sense?
Yeah, would that kind of pull into like, changing it up? Like, so my job, like, if I'm, because
right now, I've been struggling with it, but it's like, not going the way I would like,
so to speak. And I'm kind of like, trying to tell myself, it's not that it's, I mean,
it's gonna happen anywhere, but I need to change my attitude. And it's maybe it's me
that's not working, you know, the way I would like, why do you know, if it kind of like,
because at first, I was like, Oh, I need a different job. I need to look for a different
job. This is this and this isn't going right at work. But then it kind of hit me that it's
possibly me that you know, the issue and I need to fix me, you know, pray through it or
what have you different thought process different, you know,
pray, yeah, let's, let's first pray off that agreement. So Father, we're so grateful for
you, Father, thank you for your presence. And Father, thank you for breaking off the
agreement of it's not working for Michelle. Thank you for breaking that agreement right
now, Lord, in Jesus name. Amen. Amen.
And and so
I, I, a brand to pray around and think about is the starters, not finishers.
I think if you, if you went in, cause we're, you know, what we've dealt with
our whole lives, right, we're, we're, we know we can speak that language.
And, and so, um, you know, I help people who, um, have struggled with, with
starting their plans, goals, and, uh, objectives, but just never quite finish.
That would be very specific and it would really resonate with
people that struggle with that.
And so I would pray, I would pray around that, but that looks like
there might be, I suspect there might be stages to it because you're
getting over this yourself, you know, and, and, but you know, how this
person thinks, you know, you understand them cause that's, that's been you.
Right.
Um, and so I, I, I, there's probably stages to this kind of thing, but
that's where I would spend some prayer.
Lord, what, what do you have to add around this?
What do you have to, uh, what can you help me with around this?
And, and of course, you know, we'll keep moving you forward and, and,
you know, helping as we go along.
Okay.
Does that help?
Yes.
Yeah.
Gives me, yeah, sort of like something to focus on and think, yeah.
Streamline right into something versus, oh, I like, you know, this quote.
So I'm going to post that.
I like this quote.
I'm going to, this will help me.
Yes.
I can already feel better.
And I kind of wondered this morning when I remembered that from all those years
ago, it's like, oh, that, you know, adding up your life and thinking to
different things, it's like, I did it here and here and here and here it's
like the pattern reveals the pattern always reveals, so it's, it's always,
let me look at, you know, it's not what we know, you know, cause you know,
what we know is like, okay.
Um, the pattern is real and the, and the pattern shows us what have we been
thinking consistently and, and how have we been showing up consistently?
And so, um, I think, you know, I feel like God's favor brought those memories
up to you for, for this moment.
So you could have that breakthrough.
Would there be any, um, like verses to like go and read and, or pray on
to help like just me personally, not even just the business, but just to help
me grow and to be better.
So I'm not constantly thinking, oh, well, I don't want to work here anymore
because of this, or I don't want to.
Yeah.
So I can better myself with that aspect.
Yeah.
So, um, so Proverbs 26, um, would be helpful for you to study.
Um, a very powerful proverb is Proverbs 26, 15 and Proverbs 26, 15, depending
on what translation you're using.
Um, you know, the new King James says, um, um, the lazy man buries his hand
in the bowl, it wearies it, it wearies him to draw it back to his mouth.
Okay.
Yeah.
I was listening to one of your podcasts earlier last week or something that
resonated with you kind of that's yeah, that's the starter, not the finisher.
That's that's like they, he, the, they have their hand in the bowl and
they just kind of Peter out, they don't finish right now, the King James
version, I believe says, um, Uh, he buries it in his bosom.
And so when they mentioned bosom, that's more of an, I have this intention in my
heart, but I never actually execute.
And, and so, um, but let me, you know, sometimes I'm nudged to do this
and I I'm not, I should do it with you.
Um, there is, I don't know if it's, I don't know if it's always, but there,
there is, um, a, um, Graham cook calls this an inheritance verse.
So in different seasons of our life, we can have an inheritance verse that
God is basically God's promise to us that he really wants us to know.
And so I, I I've had, uh, you know, over the last, you know, since I understood
this, I've had three different ones.
And, and so the first one was really rough, really, really rough, man.
It was a real punch to the face.
Um, the second one was around protection and the third one is just beautiful.
It's just amazing. So that's the season I'm in right now is this very wonderful verse. And so let me
Okay
Okay, so I don't know this one off top my head I have a rough idea
I think it has to do with speaking through you but jeremiah 1 9
I gotta look this one up
Ah, yeah, this is super cool. Um, and so
So your inheritance verse at least right now for this season is jeremiah 1 9
Then the lord reached out his hand and touched my mouth and said to me. I have put my words in your mouth
So he's going to guide you on what to say
Is what this what this is saying to me and that's that that's what i'm that's what i'm getting
and so what I do with my inheritance verse is
um
I I play with it like I I looked up every single version of my inheritance verse
and and they're you know, because like in the hebrew it could be a little different and and the
I mean, there's so many of them, you know, like I use biblegateway.com
And you can just hit the down arrow and you can look at all of them
and you know, and so
um
So
He doesn't want me to share mine. But anyway, so
Uh, it's just cool. Like I want to know it and so now I do with inheritance verse
I do say it out loud twice a day
And so twice a day I say it out loud. I just I just i'm honored by it
This is a great one for you. He's gonna so he's one he's wanting you to trust and moving forward
He's gonna he's gonna put words in your mouth. He's gonna speak through you
That's pretty cool. Okay. I have one other person that i've ever had get that one. Um, which is cool
So, okay. Awesome. Well, keep us in the loop
Does he give you the three words for me?
Okay
um
Yeah
So
So same as my wife gentle wise and kind
That's what I got, okay
Nice do you like that? I do. Yeah. Yeah easy people like it. Cool
Very good. Awesome. All right. All right. Appreciate you so much. You got it. Let's go to evelyn
Hi
Hey, what's happening? I'm thankful to i'm thankful to be here
Yeah
Awesome. Hey, I know I know it's a it's a commitment. It's a risk. It's a
you know
that uh
these kind of things
When you make these investments, they pucker you up
Yes, it does
um, well
I
I'm struggling with who it is. I'm to serve
um
You know having a brand
my three words
um
I've been with this company and i've been buying from them, but I haven't gotten anybody in
because i'm not really sure on
who I am supposed to
you know who my target audience is I I just
Don't know i've been through a lot of things through my life
So there's a lot of different things. I think I could probably use as my target audience, but I just don't know
for sure
sure
um
Okay
You
So did you uh, do you resonate when I was talking to ria and eddie about their act
Yes, yeah, so it's I get that's a same i'm not enough
Yes
um
Very unique.
So I get, um, act, I'm not enough.
So that's going to, you know, our, your, your mission is to overcome that.
Your mission is to tame that, is to recognize it, take the wheel and, and, and you decide
I am enough.
I'm a child of God, whatever, whatever empowers you to move past that, whatever that looks
like.
The agreement of, and I think someone else had this one to, uh, yeah, Eddie, like you,
you and Eddie Barry, you had the two things, same, uh, it won't work.
And so if there's this pervasive thought that it's like, it's not going to work.
Look, I told you that's how the enemy works.
It'd be like, look, I told you it wouldn't work.
See, see how it didn't work.
I told you, like, do you, does that resonate?
Yes, it does.
Yeah.
Totally.
Um, and so, you know, that, that we can pray off.
So let's go ahead and do that.
And so father was so grateful for you, father.
Thank you for your presence for the, thank you for breaking off the agreement from Evelyn
of it won't work.
Thank you for breaking that agreement right now, Lord, in Jesus name.
Amen.
Now you do have, um, and by the way, none of y'all have as many things as I had, you
know, like I had way worse, way more stuff, uh, just way, way more stuff.
I mean, entities, all kinds of stuff.
And, um, and so you do have a side agreement and a side agreements always interesting one
because, uh, I have to walk you through praying it off.
I actually can't pray it off you for some reason.
Um, and, um, I don't know.
I had three, by the way.
You have one.
So again, I got more than most, um, but the side agreement is I can't do it.
And so there would be this thought of starting something and be like, well, what am I thinking
here?
Like the, I can't do this thing, you know?
Um, and so I remember how to do this.
Um, okay.
So I will type it out for you cause you actually have to say this one.
I can't do it.
Okay.
So you would, you would just say this out loud.
You want me to say it now?
Sure.
Yeah.
Why not?
Then I can, then I can make sure I can pray and make sure it's gone.
I break off the agreement of, I can't do it in Jesus name.
I break this off right now in Jesus name.
Awesome.
Okay.
So we got the agreement off.
We got the side agreement off.
Uh, very unique three words.
I don't know that I've, this is very unique.
So you're, you're a unique individual, um, at, um, yeah.
And so I get gentle, brave, and wise.
Gentle, brave, and wise.
So you've had to make some tough decisions
that you stepped into bravery, guaranteed,
because you just wouldn't have that if that wasn't the case.
So very cool.
I came out of an abusive marriage in 2018.
So that was hard.
And then having to learn again who I am,
re-knowing, you know, getting to know who I am.
And so that was hard.
And now I'm, for right now, in this season of time,
I'm working at the Colorado State Penitentiary,
which is really rough.
But that's where I'm at for right now.
And so I want to get this online business going
so I don't have to continue working
at that state penitentiary.
Yeah.
When I left my husband,
the reason why I'm working there
is because when I left my husband,
he left me with a lot of bills.
So I am paying a lot of things that he hasn't paid.
And so I've learned with forgiving him and letting it go
and letting God take care of him.
I've dealt with my six kids.
At first they were upset
because why did you stay with him so long
with him being the way he was?
I was scared.
I didn't know what to do.
But I finally, one of my daughters helped me.
Come on, let's just get out of it.
And so I did.
And I moved here to Colorado.
I was in Oklahoma.
And now I know God wants me to do this.
He wants me to help.
I feel like other women that have been abused also.
That's right.
A hundred percent.
No question.
I just don't know how to do it.
I have a mother who's still alive
and she's the type that keep it hush hush.
Don't say anything.
Keep your problems to yourself.
And my sister-
Was she abused?
I don't think so.
Not that I know of.
And my sister, she went to college.
She's got the good job.
She's got the nice house.
And me, I left with the clothes on my back.
So her and I are not really close,
even though I guess she's in a different season of life.
I am too.
So it's just all these things coming at me.
And that's why it's like I get frozen on what to say.
Yeah.
So yeah.
So no, there was no question.
No question that you're,
you know, it's gonna be around.
I don't think your brand is,
I help people leave abusive marriages,
but it is around, I help people,
I help women who struggle with their self-worth
take the bold actions they know they need to
or something like that.
It's gonna be something like that.
And so it's speaking boldness, courage, and bravery
to women that struggle with their self-worth.
It's gonna be something around that.
And that's where you're gonna,
it's gonna be your play land.
It's gonna be just a blast.
You're just gonna love it.
And very obvious, why should they listen to you?
You know, you're just gonna use what you've done.
And so that's what I would pray around.
I would pray around for guidance on what does that look like
but that's, you're right there.
I mean, you're really close because,
and here's the thing, like most people
that haven't figured out their,
I call it their mantle, right?
Like there's just the overriding mantle
that I fall underneath this,
I've got God's favor, things are good.
And by the way, it's 2 Samuel 11, one, I believe.
And it says at the time of the year
when Kings went out to battle, David stayed home.
And so when we walk, when we're outside of our anointing,
when we're outside of our mantle, bad things happen.
Because when David stayed home,
very next verse is Bathsheba,
he becomes an adulterer, a murderer, falls from grace.
And so the more we were under that mantle,
we're under God's favor, we got that.
blessing. We're feeling great. It's just great. It's when we get distracted, when we go off to the left or right,
you know, keep my eyes pointed forward. And so I would just, you know, pray around that of, you know, what does
that, you know, what exactly does that look like? How will I help them? What are some of the steps that I took? What
gave me the bravery? You should be asking yourself that question. And because it was probably traumatic, you may
ask, Father, thank you for restoring my memories. You know, like he restored some of my memories from childhood of
like the worst day of childhood where, you know, I got part of my neck ripped off. And, you know, it was just really,
really bad. He restored that memory. He pieced it all together of what, of what happened, what what exactly
happened there? What was the sequence? And, and, and what, what I what character flaws did I develop because of that,
that weren't actually me. So like, for example, after I was betrayed by that guidance counselor, I actually became a
thief. I just I just I did it as a mechanism to push people away from me. And, you know, and I just I started stealing
stuff. And I prayed on that. I'm like, Lord, did I steal stuff before that day? No. So like, that wasn't my identity. But
because of the hurt, I became something I wasn't. And he restored that that memory to me. And so when you know, when
there's trauma, our brain will try to block it out and black it out. And so I would I would ask, you know, okay, what did I
do? What was the sequence of events that that led me to be brave, because that's who you are. And and so that'll, that'll
really help people it really well.
Well, I also remembered, my father, he died in 2006. He wasn't a very good father when I was growing up, and I hated him. When I
became a Christian, God told me you need to forgive your dad. And I told God, I can't. I actually I hate him. And, but if you
want me to help me, and he did. And I still remember sitting on the couch next to him. And I told him that I loved him. And he
told me he was sorry for being such a bad father. So I still have that wonderful memory. And then he died in 2006. But at least we
got to talk.
So good. And that is the key. You know, it's second Corinthians 12, nine, my grace is sufficient for you for my power is made
perfect in your weakness. When we recognize we can't do something. And we just ask for help me with this. He does. And and he helped me
forgive my dad. And when I went up to see my you know, my dad last year at his brother's funeral, he he didn't he didn't say sorry. He said
it in his own way, in his own kind of awkward way. And he said, he goes, Yeah, you know, you know, to go back, you know, I'd make
different decisions.
Yeah, that's the best he got. You know, I mean, I don't hold it against him. Like, that's the best he got. Like, that's the most real thing he
said to me my entire life. And, and so and I do he moved God moved me from forgiveness, pass that to compassion. Like I, you know, I feel
for him. He's an undeveloped me, I would be him if I hadn't done all this work. And, you know, and God didn't guide me on all this
stuff. And and so I can be mad at him. And so very, very powerful. So that that's another that should that's one of your so you're you
already have two keystone stories, right? So I have different keystone stories. One of them is forgiving my dad. That's definitely a
keystone story for you. Because a lot of women, when you hold a spirit of offense against someone, it invites other stuff at you.
Yes,
just does one of the prayers that I do is do they have any spirits of offense against anyone. And so when we have a spirit of offense, and this is
from Ephesians 426 27, says, Be angry, but do not send don't let the sun go down in your anger, lest you give the devil a foothold. And, and so
that foothold is a spirit of offense. I don't know if it's only a foothold, it could be it could be other things too. But I definitely know
it's spirit of offense is tied in there. And and so when we don't forgive someone because they don't deserve it, and they're not even
sorry, well, that nowhere in Scripture doesn't say forgive them if they are sorry. Nowhere, nowhere, forgive them if they deserve it. No,
it doesn't say that. You know, Mark 1125 says, When
you stand praying, forgive anyone of anything, so your
Heavenly Father can forgive you. Yeah, definitely. So we actually
when we aren't forgiving of others, we need to ask for
forgiveness. How about that? Yeah, because we're not following
God's rule, right? We're not following his his, his, you
know, his word, the Word of God, we're not following it when we
hold resentment and bitterness against anybody, regardless of
whether they're sorry. And if you only forgive those who are
sorry to you, what difference is that to you like that? You're
not that's not Christian, right? And so you already have two
keystone stories, the abuse of marriage, the forgiving of dad,
I mean, you're you, I think, in a very short order, I think you
can see some real velocity with this. Okay. And the fact that
you're working in penitentiary, I mean, that that's, you know,
that says something that says,
that takes bravery takes bravery. Yes. No question. No
question. Well, I'm excited to watch your evolution, Evelyn.
Okay, thank you. You got it.
Beverly. That's my mom's name.
She's actually here. What's going on?
Are you here? Thank you. Yeah, thanks for being here. We're
excited to have you. And so yeah, so what's the number one
thing you want to ask?
Oh, man, I just want to go through with these. These
people have have you pray over me and and I'm stuck on a few
things. So I'll let you pray first and then we can go from
there. Right. Okay.
So no agreements or strongholds or any of that stuff. The act is
I can't do it. So you've probably resonated with a few
people I've talked to on here. So there would be when you when
you would start something, there would be this thought of I can't
do that. You might even have a why bother? I don't know if you
ever get that. Why bothers like, absolutely the language of I
can't do it. And so you know that that's not something we can
you know, pray off. That's something that you get to tame
you get to practice your can do it Ness. And and so when you
have that thought, I can't do it. So you know what? Yes, I
can. I'm a child of God. I can do all things through Christ who
strengthens me, right? You can find, you know, scripture that
backs that up, you can find, you know, with the Lord at my right
hand, I will not be shaken, you know, like, there's, I have, you
know, there's just different verses out there that are just
really, really powerful. And I would, you know, speak to
myself more than I listened to myself. And so, you know, you
may have a power set of verses that, you know, that you just,
you know, go to when you feel that I can't do it, Ness show
up. Does that make sense?
Yes, but that and, and I agree with you, it's just that it
seems to have been since last fall, this has hit me, you know,
I have a friend, I'm losing a lot of friends and things like
that. And it's just, I have and the other thing I have is no
confidence going on social media. But I have a product that
can help these people, these friends of mine, but they, they
just don't seem to want to do it. They just almost they give
up and, and I'm losing, you know, physically, physically.
I'm a nurse, by the way. So I'm always I'm into health and
wellness. And, and I found products that gave me my life
back. And that's what I want to do for others. And so I'm just
having a little difficulty. I just got blocked.
Yeah, so big thing with nurses, is
You've been a nurse a long time?
I did, but I had to give it up, you know, 25 years ago because of my health.
And so I got into health and wellness and that's where I've gone is the other vent, right?
Yeah, because, you know, like as a, as an, so you, at least my experience is nurses have posture around nursing and like they, they, they, they know what to do.
They're confident, they make decisions, they make it happen.
And a lot of times that same nurse whose posture gets into network marketing and deer in headlights.
Does that resonate?
Yes.
Yeah.
But I've been in a network marketing a long time.
So I'm, I resonate so because I deal with that.
And when I'm trying to talk to nurses, I get it totally.
Yeah.
Right.
And so, okay.
So I don't want to deal in too many different things.
So the, we'll come back around to what is your posture in your, in your business.
But anytime you have that thought of, I can't do it or anything like that,
you just speak to yourself more than you listen to yourself, step into power.
You are confident as a nurse, you can be confident here and feel good too.
Um, the three words I get for you are all great.
I mean, they always are, right?
This is how God sees us.
Loving, gentle, and wise, loving, gentle, and wise.
So you are, I'm positive, a great friend.
I'm sure that there's, you have, you know, people that just really appreciate your friendship.
And, and sometimes I, I think you may struggle with,
I want it more for them than they want it.
Because someone who's loving, gentle, and wise might struggle with that.
And, you know, like, ah, I just want it for them.
And so you do have to, so I want you to think about as a nurse,
you had stubborn patients, I'm sure that you had to, you know,
you had to speak to them quite frankly, and, and you had to use candor.
And, and so don't be afraid to have a loving side of that,
um, with any people that aren't doing the work and complaining.
Does that make sense?
Yes.
Yeah.
And so, you know, be okay with, you know, there's probably times where you're like,
Mr. Thompson, for you to get better, you're gonna have to stop smoking.
You know, they ain't helping you, anybody.
And, and you, you've had to give, you know, advice that they didn't want to hear.
But you, you had to be frank with them.
And, and so don't be afraid to do that.
So like, you know, I, when I would specifically recruit people, like,
you know, I want to make sure they have clear expectations.
I hate unclear expectations.
I hate it.
Can't stand it.
And, and so, you know, if someone asks me, well, how, how quick until I'm making big money?
I'd say, well, what if it takes five years?
And they're like, five years?
I'm like, yeah, what if it takes five years for you to make big money?
Are you going to make big money in five years if you don't do this?
Well, no.
Okay.
So what if it takes five years?
You know what I mean?
So I just would use frankness and candor if I felt like they had any unrealistic expectations.
And I remember this lady called me, I'm just getting these stories are just popping up for you.
So I feel like they're going to help.
This lady calls me and she goes, hey, I want to join your team because my, my last,
I want to join your team because I'm leaving my company because my current upline sucks.
That's always a red flag.
Right.
And, and so I said, why do they suck?
You know, I want to know this or else I'm the next guy on the suck list.
And, and so I said, why do they suck?
And, and she said, they never call me.
And I'm like, okay, are you saying that you call them and they never call you back?
No, they just never call me.
And I'm like, okay, if they would call you, what would they say?
And she goes, well, you know, like pump me up and see how I'm doing and check on me and stuff.
I'm like, okay, got it.
Got it.
I'm like, okay, well, I'm not going to call you either.
Just so you're aware, I'm not going to call you now.
If you call me, I will always call you back.
I'll message you, I'll reply to you.
You ask me a question, I'll always answer it.
Now, if you go to town, if you go make it rain,
if you go start getting a bunch of sales, I'll call you.
That's gonna happen.
But if you're not, I'm not gonna,
I'm not going to laden you with this idea
that you're supposed to call every person
in your organization because you're not.
And so if I did that with everyone in my organization,
one, I wouldn't bring new,
I wouldn't have time to bring new people in.
And two, I would give them an unrealistic expectation
that they can't fulfill either.
And so I don't call everyone in my organization.
If they reach out to me, I always reach back out to them.
And so unfortunately, I'm not gonna call you either.
And because I helped her understand
and have a clear expectation, she's like,
all right, that's fair, well, how do I join?
Oh, okay.
Now you can join before you couldn't, I wouldn't let you.
And so don't be afraid of in a loving way
to share your realistic expectations with people.
What kind of work will they need to do?
Okay, and a lot of times, Ray,
I'm working at helping them get their health back
on track first before they,
and then after then they think,
oh, I should be helping people too.
And I wanna get more in prevention than helping,
because people get so down low,
then they don't wanna fight.
And so, yeah, so it's, yeah, and that's,
and I have a problem with my own confidence
putting myself on social media.
It's how I grew up.
Someone else said there, you were taught not to talk,
and it's like, nothing goes outside the household.
Now I grew up in a lovely family,
but still I had a troublesome brother
and nothing went outside, but everybody knows.
So I wanna, let's use our driver
to get us past a limitation, okay?
So when, so you are,
you're going to feel your greatest
when you're helping someone do something
they don't think they can do.
Because if your act is I can't do it,
then you're gonna naturally be equipped
to help people that also don't think they can do it.
And so let's use that drive
to have you show up bigger on social media.
So if you wanna go and help more people
that don't think they can get better,
that don't think they can be healthier,
that don't think they can do whatever,
then you're gonna reach them through social media.
And you sharing your story is going to help them.
So you're gonna be able to help people
that don't think they can do it
by you getting over the thing
you don't think you can do it, right?
And so you going and being more vulnerable on social media,
you don't gotta talk about your brother,
because I don't get that your brother
has to do with your purpose,
but you going on there and sharing
in a loving, gentle and wise way,
how people can get better when they don't think they can.
Let me help equip you with how to improve your health
even when you don't think you can.
That's what I'm getting, use that as a driver.
Well, if I'm gonna reach more people,
then I'm gonna have to be bolder on social media,
bolder about my purpose.
I'm gonna have to be bolder on social media,
bolder about what?
Helping them accomplish something
they don't think they can do.
Does that make sense?
Yes.
And so I would, just to come back to the three questions,
who do I help?
And I think,
and you're gonna have to be frank too.
Like if you're telling someone to take your supplements,
you're gonna have to be like,
hey, listen, if you don't take them as I'm suggesting,
it's not gonna work.
Like just like a nurse, you're gonna have to tell them,
like don't just take one a week
and think it's gonna do something, it's not.
And I know a lot of people they get supplements
and they take them as they think they should
versus what you may know better
or what the bottle even tells them.
And so be frank with them.
But what I would look at,
what have I overcome that I didn't think I could do?
And that's your answers to part three,
which is why should they listen to me?
Because you overcame your own.
health issues, right?
Yes.
But that's perfect.
I mean, now, you know, careful, you're
not going to mention the product or the supplement
or the company in the three questions,
just not how they work.
So you want to be careful in a branding bio kind of scenario
when you're with a health and wellness company.
We're not saying I beat cancer three times
and then you're leading them to a supplement,
can't do that, even if it's real, it's not legal.
And so you're going to have a, why should they listen to me,
should be answered.
I had health challenges that forced me out
of my nursing career, but I was able to overcome them,
and now I show others how to do that,
how to overcome their challenges.
OK.
So that probably just off the cuff
is probably a decent answer to the question number three.
Question number two is you're probably
going to have to be a little bit creative and come up with,
OK, what are four things, three things, seven things, 10
things, 21 things, whatever.
What are the things that, if done,
will help them overcome that health challenge
that they don't think they can overcome?
OK.
And so it doesn't mention the company,
but it is a series of mindset hacks,
perhaps some eating suggestions, things around that.
Does that make sense?
Yes.
Thank you very much.
Does that give you ground to run on?
Yes, thank you.
OK.
Great.
Awesome.
Thank you.
Beverly, everyone.
Give Beverly some love.
OK.
All right.
Let's go to Alyssa.
Alyssa in the house.
Hey, how are you?
Good, thank you.
How are you?
Thanks for staying on.
I know these can get long.
We go until we're done.
That's OK, thank you.
Yeah.
So what's the number one thing you want to ask or focus on?
Well, you helped me last time with my marketing
and who I spoke to.
And it's helped a lot.
So thank you for that.
But I think the whole three words, the act, agreements,
I didn't get any of that.
And so that's kind of what.
And I'm, by the way, he's teaching me
stuff all the time, like all the time.
And so it's interesting because the thing about the act
is I learned that in 2009.
It was my first actual breakthrough with myself.
And I kind of forgot about it.
And then recently, I was with someone.
And I got nudged to pray about that for them.
And I'm like, oh, man, I forgot about that.
Am I supposed to be praying about that?
And so sometimes he reminds me of things.
Sometimes he'll guide me to something new.
All right, so let me, I just don't want to assume.
So I'll just go through the list.
OK.
Yeah, so you probably resonated with Michelle.
Do you remember me talking to Michelle about work?
It won't work.
Oh, yeah.
Yeah, all right, all right.
I prayed with you before, right?
Yeah.
OK, all right.
Because it's got a green light to skip a whole bunch of stuff.
Oh, man, you're a firecracker, huh?
Am I right?
Yeah.
So yeah, you had the same as my, you had the same as my,
you had the same as my, yeah, you had the same as my,
so yeah, you had the same as my daughter.
So you are bold, daring, and brave.
It's all alpha with you.
Oh, wow, OK.
That's same, same with Sabrina. Bold, daring and brave. She
keeps me on my toes. I remember we were we were at a waterfall
in Costa Rica. And all these crazy people are jumping off the
waterfall. It's 33 feet. And she's like, Come on, Dad. I'm
like, Wait, what? Like no, no one her age. Like no kid is up
there. It's 33 feet. And she's like, Come on, Dad, you're doing
it. And I'm like, I'll just take pictures. She goes, Come on,
Dad. And so you know, she gets me up there. And she's just
he's a firecracker, man. So you do you keep people on their
toes is what I get. Okay. Okay. So the act, it won't work. And
so that's an interesting combination. That's really
interesting. So I think I wonder if maybe you have this thought
of, I don't know if this is going to work, but screw it. I'm
doing it anyway. Kind of. Uh huh. Yeah, that that would make
sense. That's an interesting guy. And so but
really interesting. Do you do? But the act eventually wins.
And so the act, I would imagine that you may struggle with
finishing. Yeah. So you boldly go after this thing, you go and
you buy a franchise, or you, you go make this big leap, and
everyone's like, you're crazy. And and so you go after it, and
you make that leap that most people would never, ever make.
But you just don't complete. And you just don't finish it. And
because eventually, that act just works on us until we're
like, well, it's it's it won't work. Let me go make another big
leap. Mm hmm. Does that make sense? Oh, yeah, I have 500
sports bras sitting in my house right now, because I came up
with this great plan. Got the inventory. And now I'm having
trouble selling them. Yeah, yeah, it's not gonna work.
It's not gonna work. So. So our act is, is, is there for us to
tame, like, it's for us to take control of and wrench control
away from. And and so it's, and it's who you know, you're,
you're called to help people that are, you know, starters,
not finishers, right? They start stuff, they don't finish.
You're, you're called to to learn that in in and of
yourself. And and they're, they're gonna love you. All
right. Okay, I just because they people that have like, it's
such a unique combination. Like people that have it won't work
starters, not finishers. They they need someone to boldly
tell them about consistency. They need someone to boldly and
bravely tell them that, you know, hey, when you have this
thought, you keep after it, like, keep going, keep going,
you got this, keep going. And that's why, you know, certain
people resonate with the David Goggins of the world and the,
you know, the in your face, you know, kind of people, because
they, they, they, they energetically lack that, and
they, they need that, you know, they need that, that, that, you
know, right, they need that boldness, and, and you can, and
you can deliver it. And, and so, so, so instead of, I think
the hack for you is, instead of I boldly start this new thing
and go all in, only to abandon it too soon. It's to stay
locked in and ask yourself this question, what would be bold
about this? What's a bold way that I could I could make this
happen that could get this to work.
And so what I'll have you do is you boldly leap into something.
And then instead of boldly leaping into another thing,
instead boldly leap in the same thing.
OK, what if one of my buddies, Cesar Rodriguez,
his deal is 10 times bolder, 10x bolder, be 10x.
I forget his actual tagline.
But you could say, OK, I got these sports bras.
And this is just an example.
Who knows, is that your end all be all?
Probably not.
But maybe, I don't know.
And so like, OK, instead of what's
something I can be bold, daring, and brave about today?
OK, how can I be bolder about this?
What's a bold decision that would
move this needle instead of some new needle?
Because you can just keep bolding it, the same thing,
and keep it fresh for you, keep it interesting for you.
I would just keep asking that question.
In fact, that might be, like I have certain daily questions
I ask.
Lord, is there anyone you want me to reach out to or pray about?
There's just certain daily questions I ask.
And this might be a good daily question for you.
How can I be bolder in what I'm doing right now?
And giving God permission to give you
a bold idea about what you're doing, not a new idea.
So you're just boldly jumping in like a kangaroo, right?
But you're in the same, how do I be bold about this?
How do we bold about this?
And if you think about, Jeff Bezos
is an amazing example of this.
That's a bold guy.
I haven't prayed about him, but that's a bold guy
that he just continuously, I mean,
they do, I think, like $10 billion a year
off cloud computing.
He owns Amazon, but he's been so bold for so long
in the same thing.
It's crazy.
And that's why it's such a dominating force.
But that's what I get for you, is
how do we be bold about this thing right here?
Whatever your focus is.
And I would look at, maybe you have multiple focuses
going on right now.
I would imagine you probably do, right?
Yeah.
And so I would just ask, okay, Lord,
what can I be, what's a bold decision
I can make about this thing?
What's a bold decision I can make about this thing?
And another prayer for all of you,
and this is one I do every single day,
I spend three minutes every single morning,
and I just, first I pump myself up,
because I did, I listened to the Jordan Peterson,
Tony Robbins thing, and it's like a million hours.
I don't like long podcasts,
but there are two really good things
that I got out of that podcast.
And one, that when you're in an excited physical state,
change lasts longer.
That's an important thing.
And so what I had been doing
is I'd been doing this three minute exercise every morning,
where I, at first I just visualize
things in my business happening
and things in my life happening.
And then I kind of got turned on
to just thanking God for his favor in those things.
And so I would sit there and be like,
thank you, God, for favor with my rank makers.
Thank you, God, for favor
with sales and marketing mentorship,
for faith and finance mastermind,
for, you know, and I have different affiliate agreements
and different things.
And so I would just go through,
thank you for favor with my parenting,
thank you for favor with my kids and my wife,
thank you for favor in my neighborhood in Naples, Florida,
thank you for my favorite.
And so I just go through as many as I can come up with
during three minutes, I set a timer,
and then timer dings, I'm done.
Now, I get in a physical excited state,
so I do this kind of thing and I just,
you know, and then I get into it.
That's another thing that I would suggest all of you do,
is, you know, just thank God that his favor goes before you
in all of these different areas of your life.
And I've seen it happen.
You know, like I'm supposed to, it's interesting.
I'm supposed to, well, I'm not supposed to,
I'm speaking at an event next month
for Graham Cook and Dion,
and they're actually at a studio
that I haven't been to in quite a few years.
And so I just, you know, I'm like, you know,
God, thank you for your favor that goes before me
in this, for this.
event, the people who run the studio, who never reach out to
me ever, reach out to me yesterday and said, Hey, you
know, we're just we're at this, the audio is we're at this loud
ass bar, and we were thinking about you. And, you know, and
we're, you know, just just thinking about you, we hope
you're doing well, we never get to talk to you. And, you know,
God bless you. And, and they don't know I'm speaking there.
They don't know I'm about I'm gonna see them next month. But
God's favor went before me and had them think of me. Pretty
cool. And so I see that, you know, I'll see where I'll go
somewhere and someone will, you know, you'll say something to me
or someone will give me a gift or something. And it's just
like, just God's favor showing up all over the place and God's
favor showing up, not because of my performance, but because all
of heaven, all of heaven's goodness is attracted to me
because of Christ in me. And I'm just I'm just thanking him for
that for that favor. And and so helpful. Yes. Yeah.
Incredibly. Thank you. As for bold statements in that
vertical, right? Not horizontal, vertical, right? Thank you for
new bold ideas around this vertical. And you'll you'll
just it'll be more exciting for you. Okay. Cool. Cool. Thank you
so much. Yay. That was great. That was fun. Kim, what's
happening? Hey, I'm excited to catch you live. Right? It's
crazy, but I'm excited to finally be able to be on here
with you. And we've been watching the replays and keeping
up but Oh, wow. It's good to be cool. So yeah. Anyway, pages and
pages of notes already and just thank you for the session. It's
been fantastic. I'm still working. So I'm still working on
honing in. Like everybody else, the niche who's who I'm really
speaking with, I really believe I've got the direction. Honing
it in is what I'm doing now. But I wanted to see if you have any
guidance as far as my act, the mantle I ought to be working
under. And if you've got an inheritance verse for this
season.
Hmm, I've never gotten this one. Wow.
Okay. All right. So never gotten this one. Pretty rare to
get one I've never had. But in this, I can imagine some of
this work may come from possibly, but the act that I get
is I'll be stopped. So were you at, I think you were, you were
at faith over fear. Have you ever heard Jess talk about
permission?
Yes.
Did that resonate with you?
It sure did.
Yeah.
Because what I, what I get is there may have been some time in your life where you
were feeling good about something and going after something, but you were stopped.
Like you were parents canceled practice or you were, you know, whatever you were
starting something you were excited about, but they said, no, you can't do that.
And I don't know if, I don't know, but it's a permission thing.
It's a, do, do I have permission to play as, as big as I want?
Well, I I'll be stopped.
You know, they're going to stop me.
Someone's going to stop me.
And, um, you know, so I don't know the exact origin of it, but that's, that's what I get.
Okay.
I can see that it's deeper than somebody just saying you can't do it.
Right.
So someone will stop me, you know, like compliance will stop me or the
authorities or someone's going to say, Hey, you can't do that.
You know, like that's, that's what I get.
And so, um, so it's a permission thing of, you know, you want, you know, um, so
probably the counter to that would be, uh, I have permission to play as big as I want.
Okay.
God, God gives me permission to play as big as I want.
That's probably the overcomer of that.
Um,
okay.
And you said inheritance first.
That's really good though.
I can see that.
So we can't get rid of it by it's just to recognize it and say, Hey,
now, you know, you're, you're not serving me in this example.
I'm going to play big.
I'm going to go after it because there might be a timidity.
You might have like a big idea and then think, uh, I don't know if I can do the,
you know, and so like you, you don't be like, you know what, I can do it.
Let's go.
Right.
So more, more boldness moving forward.
Okay.
Um, inheritance, I get, um, it's working on your, it's working on your thoughts.
Um, and it's, uh, it's second Corinthians 10, five.
That's what I got.
Is that, you know, to, and I, and I bet they're, you know, related of this is
your key, this, what I get is this is your key of, so second Corinthians 10,
five, you may know is, uh, take captive every thought, make it obedient to Christ.
And so, um, you know, for, for you to, um, and, and this, by the way, isn't,
I gotta be careful to not put this as something we do, even though that, that
versus very much, um, it's more like, I really see our duty and this kind of
context is awareness and that God's prompt.
So an inheritance versus like God's promise.
So what I get from this is God's going to help you take captive those thoughts.
Right.
So one of the fruit of the spirit is self-control.
It's kind of a weird one, you know, like joy.
Okay.
That makes sense.
Peace.
And you know, all that self-control like, well, what I get from this is, uh, God's
going to help you with the self-control to tame those thoughts, to help those
thoughts and, and I, and, and you.
The I'll be stopped the timidity around that, giving you permission to play
bolder and he's, he's going to help you with that.
That's what I get.
That's all very good.
Thank you.
Yeah.
Well, so mantle to work under.
So, um,
I, I mean, the word, the word I get is potential.
The word I get is helping people that, um, have a lot of fear in their heart.
Like, you know, I had, I had a friend who had a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a,
a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a.
That know, not think, but know that they're not operating out of their potential.
And helping them to helping them to play bigger, helping them to be bolder.
And in doing so, that's also going to help you.
Right?
Because I think there's, I believe there's a piece of you that knows that you're, you're
under your potential and, and that you, you, you, you're, you're going, you're going into
a bigger level and, and you're to help people with that, help people that, you know, I so
this is interesting.
So I'll try one out for you, but always pray on these things because a lot of time, what
I found is a lot of times I'll, I'll get something that isn't the thing, but leads me to the
thing.
Right.
And, and so like, you know, don't always like, Oh, you should, you know, like, cause there's
been things that I thought like, Oh, that's a good idea, but it actually led me to the
better idea.
And so I got, I help people accept this is again, I'm just wanting to, I help people
accept, accept, I help people accept God's permission to play bigger.
I think there's somewhere around in there, there's something in there.
I'll pray around that.
See what, see what other ideas come up for you around that.
Okay.
I'll do that.
And, and, and I bet when you're training that when you're speaking to play in bigger, that
really resonates with you.
Definitely.
Yep.
Yeah.
Growing into the person that you need to be, to be able to step out into your purpose.
Yeah.
Cause we'll always, this is the way God equip it will always feel best when we're walking
in our anointing and you're, you're anointed at that you're anointed at helping people
play bigger and, and, and it is a permission thing like receiving, he had me say, accepting
not receiving, but except I guess accepting does make sense, accepting.
I help people accept the permission that they are meant to play bigger, something like that.
I see permission, bigger, bolder, underlying tone of potential.
Okay.
So in a way that I'm sorry, go ahead.
Okay.
And you, you probably already have a number two.
So if you were tasked with what are the four, six, seven, 10 steps for someone to accept
permission to play bolder, what would it look like?
You probably already have that.
Yeah.
And so why would they listen to you?
It's that you went and did things successfully that you didn't have permission to do.
Or you weren't sure if you had permission to do that's, I think, I think that'll give
you some, some groundwork.
Yes, it does quite a bit actually.
Okay.
Because I've, I've also felt that I was pretty much two things.
I feel that I've been wired to be an equipper all my life.
So that, I mean, that's, I've equipped people for the tasks that God had in front of them.
So, you know, there was our kids or professionally, that was what I did as a career prior to,
you know, when I was home.
But then the other part is I feel I'm being called something to do with helping women
when life's transitions happen.
A lot of times, even the good things, you know, like a transition of, I homeschooled
our kids cradle to college.
And so once that job was over, I've faced the transition of you, you've worked yourself
out of a job.
What's next in your life, you need to have a place that has impact, you know, that you've
got meaning and you know, that you're going to do something that make, that means something.
People have all kinds of different things that happen in their lives that are transitional.
So I don't know.
This kind of dovetails in with that whole thing of being able.
a play bigger into your next season.
Who do you need to become to be able to step out into that next level of, of what
God's calling you to do and to serve.
Yeah.
Do you feel like, like, cause normally I don't, I won't get God in the, in the
tagline, but with you, I did, are you feeling called to be more faith forward?
I am.
And I didn't know if that, yeah.
Cause he, normally he won't, I won't get a, use his name in the
tagline, but with you, I did.
Um, so like, you know, some scripture that'll help too, is, um, you know,
second Corinthians five 17, you know, the oldest passed away, the, you're a new
creation, so new creation and several of the Psalms say, sing a new song.
Yep.
So that, that indicates new seasons and, you know, so sing a new song, new
creation, both of those would be good.
But if you go, if you go that route, which I think you are, um, that'd be good.
You know, good to use.
Okay.
Those are good things to use that, that newness.
What's that?
Okay.
That's excellent.
Um, as far as the tagline, did you, was there something specific that was shared?
Yeah, I'm not saying a tagline, but just under the mantle, you know, like, you
know, like if, if I'm going to share a quote, it's not, you know, if it's going
to be, it's up to me, like I'm, you know, that's, eh, you know, but you know,
walk in the new creation, like, Ooh, that'll resonate with people that are,
that you're meant to help, you know, it's time for you to, to let go of
the past and sing a new song.
Like, you know, another one is a Wayne Dyer quote, and he says, don't
die with the music inside you.
I love that.
Yeah.
That's a good one.
You know, so any, anything like that, that there's potential inside
of you, that's your people.
That's your people.
And I do think it's cool.
The new, the whole new season thing.
Cause that's, that's our, honestly, I think it's our biggest challenge.
Our biggest challenge is to walk in the new season always, and to not beat up
the old, not try to work on the old.
And that's why second Corinthians five 17.
And so such a critical verse.
Okay.
That's exciting.
This is really confirmation from where I have felt this was going.
So yeah, very good.
This is all helpful.
Thank you.
You're welcome.
Great.
Okay.
Let's go.
You guys have been so patient.
Let's go to Marianne.
Hey, what's happening?
How are you?
I'm good.
Awesome.
And so, yeah, what's, what's the number one thing you want to focus on?
How can I help?
Gosh, well, it's been already amazing.
I think I've probably resonated with several people and, but I guess I would
too, like, just a couple of questions answered on the, like my act, I don't
think you give it, you didn't, haven't given me that, an agreement, my mental.
I think I know, but gosh, today has been really different in the fact that.
Because I feel like I know my niche and I know I thought I knew my mantle, but,
and maybe it all, maybe it all will conjugate together.
I don't know.
I'm a little bit like a little bit, uh, what's the word not confused, but anyway,
anyway, I, yeah, just an act.
If you happen to hear or something, three words, that would be amazing.
An inheritance verse.
I mean, they're all like, yes, yes, yes.
Yeah.
Why not?
Okay.
So you probably resonated with Beverly of the,
cause the act I get is I can't do it.
So that would be like, you know, I want to do this thing,
but I don't think I can do it.
I start this thing, but I don't know if I can do it.
And does that resonate?
Yes, totally.
And so again, you know, like our, you know,
the deal with an act is for us to overcome it, you know?
And so we're going to feel our best when we help people
that don't think they can do it.
So I don't know if you ever taught kids
or anything like that, like that.
I was a teacher.
You were a teacher.
So yeah, that makes sense.
And so like, you probably loved helping kids learn things
they didn't think they could do,
tie their shoes or, you know, whatever, you know,
like, you know, people that don't think they can do it.
That's where we're going to feel really good.
Like I love teaching people that don't think they can do
whatever it is I'm teaching them to do.
The-
I've been a nutrition educator for the last 25 years, so.
Yeah.
I, you know, I graduated from teaching children
to teaching women.
Yeah.
I love.
So the three words, all great, of course,
gentle, loving, and brave.
Gentle, loving, brave, great combo.
Your inheritance, which I don't, I don't,
I don't know this, the full thing off the top of my head,
but I do know part of it, but I get Isaiah 55, eight, nine,
which is, talks about how God's ways
are higher than our ways.
And so what I get from that
is that you may be a very logical thinker
and you may be a little analytical.
Do you get that?
And to lean on him, to turn to him more
and to lean on, like, let me just pull up the verse
because I actually don't know the full thing
off the top of my head.
So it says, for my thoughts are not your thoughts,
neither are your ways my ways, declares the Lord.
As the heavens are higher than the earth,
so are my ways higher than your ways
and my thoughts than your thoughts.
So he's encouraging you to be more dependent on him.
And so like, you know, with my, with my wife, right?
So one day she asked me, she goes,
do your prayers ever make logical sense?
Because a lot of times they don't, you know,
like I'm nudged to do something
that literally doesn't make sense until it does.
And so that has been a real struggle for her
because she'll say, well, I think we should do this.
And what she says is very logical.
It's perfect logic, but it's not what God wants.
And so I'm like, I hear you.
And what I've learned to do,
this is what I do with my wife,
is when she comes to me and says,
I think we should do this.
And I've already prayed on it.
And I know that's not the answer.
I'll say, get into prayer.
I'll listen to what you get in prayer.
Three times in a row, she's gotten,
Ray knows the answer.
Listen to what he's gonna say, three times.
Now that's very difficult for her to accept.
But, you know, so what I'm getting is
he's blessed you with,
you're smart, right?
No doubt.
Be more dependent on him than your own logic.
So before you make some move,
like get into prayer and just say,
God, do I got this right?
Can I confirm this with you?
And you can do this a few different ways.
You can ask for a sign if you want.
Lord, show me a sign.
And like I shared this the other day,
but this is my first ever book, right?
So I wrote this in 2010, okay?
And someone pointed this out to me.
In chapter 13, I talk about the water buffalo story
of when I went to a church in Grand Rapids
and said, God, if you're real,
I want to hear the words water buffalo.
Like, I didn't know I had that in that book
because I'd actually forgotten it
until a few months after I came to Christ.
And I remembered, I'm like, oh yeah,
I remember going to that church and I had water buffalo.
I didn't know I had that in this book.
It's crazy.
And so-
I just started reading that.
Yeah, yeah.
And so I would just,
you know, give him permission to guide you.
And, cause magic things happen.
You know, like I have,
Honestly, probably the biggest project of my life
that came to me, it 100% lacked logic when I first got it,
but it's gonna be end up,
I believe gonna end up being the biggest project of my life.
And it's got, I mean, it's just unbelievable
the picture he's painted out for this thing.
And not one of it is my idea, like just none of it.
And an interesting thing is when I prayed about this,
I got a two page download on this thing.
And when I went to the guy that I'm supposed to do it with,
God gave me every single piece except my compensation.
And so he asked me, he's like,
well, how will you be compensated?
I'm like, I don't know, Lord didn't give me that.
And so he's like, what about this?
And he makes me the most generous offer
I've ever been given.
And I mean, I almost cried because,
and I said, I'm like, wow, that's more generous
than I would have thought.
And he goes, yeah, I figured that.
Because I'm just so used to people nickel and diamond me.
And so many companies that I've helped and like,
can we throw you a quarter of fresh penny?
And I'm just used to that.
And I do whatever he asked me to do.
So I don't care about that.
But to be offered such a generous,
it was just such a blessing and so cool and all God,
none of my logic.
So there's opportunity out there for you
by turning to him and relying on him more
than your own very strong logic and intellect
is what I get from that inheritance.
That makes so much sense because I feel like
I have been trying to do a lot of it.
I mean, I'm always in prayer and in the word,
but it's like, then I go to do something
or create or whatever.
And I feel like I leave God out of the picture
because, okay, now I've prayed
and I think I've figured out
what you want me to do with this.
And then I go do it.
And it's like, something is not gelling.
So I'm not, yeah, there's a disconnect somewhere.
So that makes perfect sense.
He's, I mean, he's very gentle.
And like what I've learned in the beginning,
I would get something from him and I'd be like,
all right, Lord, I'm gonna go do that thing.
And I would go and actually it wasn't for me
to do that thing.
It was for me to go at it as if I was doing that thing,
but for him to lead me to a different direction.
You know, weird, like it would have me have a conversation
that I thought, oh, you're having me do this
because of this.
And I would draw my own conclusions.
And it's like, no, I'm having you do that
so I can hedge you here.
I'm having you do that so you can realize
that they don't actually appreciate you.
And so, you know, multiple times he's had me do something.
I'm like, oh, cool.
Then they're gonna hire me or something.
And so I go and they totally don't appreciate it.
And he's like, yeah, I wanted you to know this.
You would stop pursuing them.
Stop it.
I'm taking them away from you.
Like, I don't want you around people
that don't appreciate you.
And so like, I've had like, oh, okay.
Because, you know, like, you know,
Apostle Paul said, I forget where this is,
but it's, you know, I can't be a people pleaser
and a servant of Christ.
And so I've learned that in spades.
I've learned that so much of, you know, let me,
I am, God is not here to have me please everybody.
And he's here to have me roll up my sleeves
and work with the right people
and to, you know, to be fruitful with the right people,
but not to please everybody.
That's just not in the cards.
And so, and that needs to be okay.
And if it's not okay,
then I'm putting my desires above his will.
And so, yeah.
Yeah, perfect.
Does that help?
Yes, absolutely.
Thank you.
Because a lot of times I feel that you've just said it,
you know, I'm going in this direction,
but he wants me in that direction to show me something else.
Exactly, exactly.
And I keep moving my direction.
I'll give you a crazy example.
This is a crazy example.
So, I was praying and someone asked me
to speak at this event.
And so, you know, I prayed about it
because I just don't, I don't do anything without prayer.
And so I prayed about it.
I get, yes, tell him you can speak there.
Like, okay.
And so I do it.
And then like a week later, maybe two weeks later,
I'm like, man, you really want me to speak there?
Like, I don't feel like I'm called to speak there.
And I just felt nudged to pray about it again.
Tell them you can't speak there.
I'm like, ah, that doesn't look good.
Like, ah, I'm like, okay.
And so I go and I tell them and they were disappointed.
They didn't like that, but they said something to me
and they said, you know,
because I assumed this would really piss them off.
And so, you know, I said, hey, listen,
you know, I know, you know, I don't know why,
but I feel like I'm not supposed to speak there
and I apologize and maybe I was mistaken and whatever.
And, you know, if that affects our relationship,
I understand.
They came back and said, hey, you've helped me so much.
There's nothing you could do to hurt the relationship.
God wanted me to experience that,
which I would not have experienced
if I didn't tell him I'd speak there and then take it away.
Like, that's how amazing he is.
He'll have you do something like that.
Now, does that make sense?
It doesn't make any sense.
It completely lacks logic,
but his ways are higher than our ways.
And so like, it's trusting him in the,
this doesn't make senseness and he'll show up.
So.
Absolutely.
Well, thank you.
You're welcome.
Rooting for you.
Thank you so much.
Yay, awesome.
All right.
Our friend, Heather.
And we'll, so we got two people.
We'll finish with, is it Lubna?
My eyes are kind of going to be.
Am I saying that right?
Yeah.
So Heather.
Where'd you go?
Oh, there she is.
Hey, what's happening?
I'm sorry.
I'm having a hard time hearing you.
My mute is off.
Okay.
I can hear you right now.
Okay.
I better not move.
Yeah.
In the country, so that could be part of it.
It's weird.
Maybe I need to move towards my kitchen counter.
Okay.
Is this better?
Okay, that right there seems to be better.
Stand on one leg.
Oh.
Boy, make it quick so the other person can go.
What's your number one?
Just if we, like in every meeting, if we, you know,
one, you're going to learn from all the people
that aren't you, right?
So like, you know, if you're just attending this,
you're going to learn a lot.
And some of you said you had seven, 10 pages of notes.
So that's number one.
Number two, if when we're on,
if we just focus on what's the number one thing,
what's the big hot poking bear?
What's the number one thing that's messing with you?
I'm going to pray around that thing.
And we're, you know,
we're going to get you a movement in that area.
Right now, actually last time it was,
we've learned that I think it was a spiritual,
it was a spiritual battle that I was in
because you got the word mill.
There was a lot of people that did have something on it.
And then I looked up every verse I could think of
that I wound up looking up mill.
I looked online and it gave me like,
I would say over 10 things with mill in it, in the script.
So at least God gave me an exercise
to read the Bible a little bit more because-
There you go.
That's interesting.
It was like the Holy spanking, I guess.
You know, it was just, I got a lot from it
in terms of people and stuff that just helped with that.
And it was so neat to actually have a messages from you.
So I was like, whoa, this is different.
Like I've never experienced like the one-on-one,
like literally text messaging.
So it gave me some reassurance too,
because putting out so much,
I know God was talking to me to do it.
My husband was like on board.
And then after I started committing,
now I'm part of the Facebook group
because I missed some of, there was gaps that I wasn't in.
So I was starting to, well.
books out and I'm like, am I making the right decision?
And they got, um, Raymond reached out because he's like, okay, we need,
and that gave me more peace of mind.
Like, he's like, it's okay to have that.
Yeah.
Well,
I mean, it, it, it takes courage to, to be in something like this, you know,
to, to be vulnerable, to invest, right.
You know, to get uncomfortable.
Like, like it takes, it takes some, you know, I never asked someone to do
something I haven't done, you know, and I, I remember my first investments in
coaching and I still, you know, still to this day, I have multiple, you know,
coaches that I, that I pay.
And, um, so yeah, I get it.
Yeah.
Ever since that, it was like, everything that could go wrong has gone wrong.
Our washing machine died.
And okay.
We know that this is not from God and God is just taking
care of even the finances.
Like, I don't know how we're making it, but God is taking.
So it's like, he's given me that.
Like, it's like, he's wooing me all over again.
Nice.
I like that.
I'm a Christian.
If God said move, I'm going, you know,
and I housebound, I forgot what it felt like to be like scared, but
excited because God's got me.
Yeah.
Like you really had to wake me up.
Yeah.
It's decent that I didn't want, didn't ask for.
And so, yeah, I'm really excited.
Um, I'm really excited because I don't have three words.
I have an idea.
Okay.
I don't have, and I just, I'm, I'm, I don't know what God's let's get that.
Let's get that for you.
Yeah.
Um, and what, one thing that popped up for me is, um, I forget where it's at.
I want to say Matthew seven, but don't quote me on that one.
Um, where it talks about, you know, God will, you know, does, does the sparrow
reaper, so, you know, like God will take care of us, however, however, uh, he
won't multiply us where we're not good stewards, so our level of stewardship
is very important if we want multiplication, if we, if we want to
increase, increase our, uh, following our brand, our money, we need, we,
he's very much about stewardship.
That's when, that's been one of the biggest areas, um, that he's grown in
me in that, you know, I, you know, I've had, you know, twice where I've, I've
made a lot of money, wasn't a good steward of it and, you know, it doesn't
mean I was stupid with it necessarily, but not a good steward of it.
And so like, he'll, he'll only continue to bless where you're, where you have
the stewardship capability to, to, to make it last.
And so it doesn't mean he won't provide for you.
Right.
He'll make, he'll make things happen.
Right.
We get, we get to pay our bills, but if we're just here to pay our bills,
that's, you know, kind of lame, you know, like we, we want to step into more
influence and more, you know, uh, more reach and more helping.
Um, and so, yeah, I did get a nudge right away to get into your inheritance,
but let's pray the other things too.
Okay.
Hmm.
yes.
Okay, so you you have a very sensitive act. And, and so I'm not called to share it publicly, but I will, I will send it to you privately.
Let's.
Let me do the other things first and then I'll send that to you. That's what I'm getting.
But I can tell you this is a very big calling.
So I'll just leave it at that,
but I will share some stuff around it at the end.
Okay, so all right, so first, I don't think I've ever gotten this one either.
So the three words, I don't know if your husband can hear this, but he'd probably agree
with it, tough, tough, loving, and wise.
Oh, you hear that husband?
Uh-huh.
Yeah, that's it.
I've never gotten tough.
Tough loving and wise, that's good.
And so the inheritance verse, again, this is God's promise to you.
And this is really one of my favorites, is 2 Corinthians 12, 9.
And look up the exactness of it, but it is Jesus is talking to the Apostle Paul and he
says, my grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in your weakness.
It's been showing up a lot lately.
So what I believe why that verse is because you think you have to overcome it on your
own.
And he's saying, where you're willing to admit that you can't, that's where I'll step in.
Does that make sense?
It does.
And it's amazing how that came out, because that's where I've been struggling, is I know
I need him.
Yeah.
Probably why I've been housebound for so long, because until I recognize that he's got me.
And so it's just, you know, turning to him and just recognizing, Lord, I can't do this.
Thank you for helping me do this.
And just turning to him always.
And so the act.
Why do I always cry on this?
So I'm going to, I'm going to, I'm going to direct message you your act because it's a
sensitive one.
And I'm sometimes I'm told not to share it publicly.
So you know, you were given a very large challenge, which has led to a very large calling.
And so when you read this, I want you to think about that this is the exact people you're
called to help.
People that think this is who you're called to help.
And this, this is a very powerful thing, okay.
And so this is, this is a thought that you will have been inundated with your whole life.
And know that there's you're not alone.
There's others, but you're actually called to lead them.
You're called to take that territory, you're called to go and help this type of person.
And so I imagine this has to do with birth and you'll, you'll get what I mean when you,
I think you'll get what I mean when I send you the act.
Okay.
All right.
Let me send it to you.
And then, yeah, you got it.
And this might be emotional.
for you to, to, you know, I imagine it will be, but
it should have been the morning Heather, because I feel like God
always speaks to me. Like, I thought there was something wrong
with me as a child, because I was always sensitive. All the
time. Good, bad, good movie. Good book. It's like God would
use his spirit to just open something and break me in a good
way. Yeah. So just look at this, not as a condemnation,
because it's not, it's a it's a calling. This is who you're
called to help, because you are equipped to help them because
you've been dealing with this thought your whole life. Okay.
And so, well, we'll not have Heather off camera, we'll grab
our last person here, and I am sending it to you now.
So Heather, do you get it? Yeah, I'll let you. I'll let
you percolate on that one. Wow. Yeah, it's. Yeah, yeah, I
figured that. Yeah. All right. So let's and how do I say your
name? love now? Yeah, love now. Love now. Right. I love it. I
love it. I love it. And so yeah, so what's number one thing I can
help you with?
Love now, I just went to mute. Sorry. Yeah, I can hear you.
Yes. So my. Alright, so I do resonate with most of the things
you've talked about already on the call. And, but I would need
help with that. Yeah, I would need help with that. Yeah, I
would need help with my, my acts and then guidance around that.
And then three words, but most importantly, is what I've been
struggling with. I have an idea of who I want to help. Now, my
struggle is with how to come up with a message, the mission
statement. I think it falls under the mantle and how to
attract the right person in terms of who I need to help.
That is where my struggle is my biggest struggle is now at the
minute. And I believe that also feeds into my messaging in terms
of my content and all that because I feel that I'm just
doing the right thing, but it's not working. That's how I'm
feeling, but not to give up. But I just saw that I just need a
little bit of a tweak. Yeah, around what I'm doing. And then
it will get me to, you know, I tried the right person, my dual
client, so I can help them. Well. Yeah.
Yeah. Yeah, I think you keep freezing, but I can hear you the
whole time. Yeah. No problem. Okay. And so first thing that
came up, because you were like, Hey, if I if I march in this
direction, how will I attract people? And so a good verse
around that is Deuteronomy 817 and 18. It says you will think
it's by your mind that you create wealth, but remember the
Lord, your God who gave you the power to get wealth. And and so
basically, when you're walking in your anointing, he's going to
bless it. And so you won't have to, you know, yes, we are, you
know, Psalm 78 7072 says David led with a contrite heart and
skillful hands. So we are to grow in skill, and we're going
to help you in that right, the sales and marketing mentorship.
And so but you're going to see favor, right? When you're when
you're walking in your anointing, and you're going and
helping the person you're meant to help, you're going to see
favor, you're going to see breakthroughs, you're going to
see people come to you that you like, wow, how did they even
find me? Like, I get that all the time, you know, like, I'll
go to events. And I'll go to events that have nothing to do
with what I do. And someone will come up and be like, Hey, man, I
watch all your videos. I'm like, really? And you work for the
hospital? Like, like, you're not in network marketing? No, I just
love it. I'm like, huh, you know, and that's like, so you'll
have that kind of stuff happen. Because, you know, john 327 says
that our Heavenly Father is responsible for all results. All
results. So if you take that into consideration, like, oh,
man, really? Wow. So if I if I'm walking on hers under his will,
and I'm and his ways are higher than my ways, and then dying,
you know, like, I'm gonna be getting results. That's pretty
awesome. And so, all right, let me let me pray about all this.
Okay, and so you probably resonated with Marianne and I think one other person had this, Jonah.
The act that I get is I can't do it.
And so that can have you in a type of analysis paralysis of, of you, like, you know, looking
at, well, is this, is this the right thing?
Like, you know, cause it, cause if it's, if it's not perfectly right, that ain't going
to work.
Have you ever thought that?
Yeah, I'm kind of, it's not that I can't do it.
But I think for me, it's more of, I do it and I want to see the results quickly.
And so if I'm not seeing the results, perhaps at the time I want to see the results, I get
discouraged.
So the, the, my initial efforts, the energy, the enthusiasm, which I started doing it,
it dwindles, it decreases with time.
So yours is multidimensional, okay.
So you start in this scenario, you're not getting results.
So then it kicks in.
I can't do it.
Well, I can't do this.
It's not getting results.
Does it?
Yeah.
Right.
And so I think for most, it's more one dimensional of, I just can't do it.
For you, it's like, okay, I'm going along while I'm not getting results.
I can't do this.
And so I can't, I can't keep doing this.
It's not getting results.
And this, this actually, this makes your explanation makes sense because your three words, one of
them is very unique.
I don't, I think I've gotten this maybe one other time, the three words I get for you
and, and, and it does matter the order.
So the order, it goes by what, what's more the primary.
So your three words are smart, gentle, and wise.
And so smart of your, your figuring out, Hey, you know, I'm not getting results, you know?
And so I get smart, gentle, and wise is your, is your three words, which is great.
You know, that's, that's a good thing.
And so one second.
So I, the, the very thing that has held you back is, is really what you're called to help
others with.
And that is people who have been attempting something for a long time, but haven't seen
results.
That's what I get, which you may not like, but you will.
So for example, one of my favorite stories, I mean, I say it all the time, Amy Murphy,
Amy Murphy was, she had been in network marketing for 17 years, had never made more money than
she spent, finds my training.
She's made $5 million in her company.
The reason I love that story is it gives so many people who have 17 years or less hope.
So you are a hope dealer, you are a person that you're going to be the equipper of people
that are going to bring so much hope.
And so people who have struggled, you're going to know how to help them get that result they've
been after for a long time, because you're going to be able to figure it out.
You're smart, you're going to be able to figure it out for them.
And I bet, I'm willing to bet, you've actually figured this out for other people.
Am I right?
Yes, I have, a number of times.
So you've actually felt the exhilaration of walking in your anointing by you helping someone
who had tried to do something for so long.
and you were smart enough to figure out,
you just need to do this.
Just do, do, dee, right?
You give them like two tweaks
and like all of a sudden they're getting a result.
And that probably felt really, really good
because that's actually your anointing.
Does that help?
Absolutely, it helps, yeah.
But you, now remember like the purpose of our act
is for us to tame it,
is for us to be greater than it
and recognize it as it's serving us,
but it's serving us to serve others.
And so the, I can't keep doing this thing
that's not getting results, right?
You're to overcome that and tame that
and you go get the results.
But I believe you're gonna get the results
by helping other people with their lack of results.
Get their results, right.
Yeah.
And that's good, and the great thing about that
is every single time you do this,
it's not just you help that person,
you help the whole legion of people
that are gonna hear that story and say, holy crap.
They, that's, and I remember when I was,
you know, the top income earner of a company,
we used to do these team calls every week
and it really was team stories.
I actually didn't train my team a whole lot.
We had a library, we had an archive,
but I didn't do a whole bunch of trainings for them.
I just did stories mainly and not made up stories.
We would have, you know, we would feature somebody.
And the most listened to call
was my friend Linda out of England.
She actually splits time between England and Spain.
She had been in the business for two years
and finally got her first two customers.
That was the most listened to call
because it brought the most hope.
And so you're a hope dealer
and you're gonna help all these people
that you help go get a result that haven't gotten one.
That's exactly me, yeah.
And so just like you're on the hunt
because your smartness.
So you literally, you know,
I help people who've been at it a long time with no results.
Like that's such an interesting and bold brand
because you would think that's the least likely people
I wanna work with.
These people, they've been at it for years
and they haven't created a result.
That's actually your superpower.
You're gonna be able to help people,
or you can right now, you don't have to wait.
You can help people right now that haven't had a result.
They've been at it a long time.
You're equipped to go and help them.
That's pretty awesome.
It's unique, yeah.
Yes, thank you so much.
Yeah, that makes sense, absolutely makes sense.
Really, really cool.
That's what I needed to hear.
So like I said, I've been on it
and it's like, I'm still doing it.
I see myself doing it.
I have no issues.
I have no struggle with putting in the work,
but I think just going for the long haul
and putting in the work and just wait
to see the results as and when it happens.
That is where my struggle is.
Become a heat seeking missile for people
that have been at it a long time, but haven't had a result.
That's like the last people
that most people would pick, right?
So there's magic in that too, right?
You're picking people
that most people would pick last, right?
And there's,
yeah, there's a story of,
I think about Jesus and the lepers, right?
And so imagine the life of a leper, right?
All of a sudden you got leprosy, you're unclean.
No one wants to be around you.
Your wife stops touching you, like all that.
Like you're helping the people
that most people might shy away from
because that person doesn't get results,
but you're gonna be able to help them get results.
And so I just think that's very admirable and very cool.
So become a heat seeking missile.
Who's been at it a long time, hasn't had a result.
I don't know if you have a team,
but anyone in your team that's been at it a long time,
no result, you wanna get under the hood.
You're gonna give them a few little tweaks
and they're gonna start getting results.
God's gonna bless that.
Yeah.
Cool.
All right, yeah, very helpful.
Very, very helpful.
Thank you so much.
Thank you.
Yeah, well, awesome.
Well, awesome guys.
All right, we broke a record, three hours and six minutes.
But I appreciate you guys.
Let me pray us out.
And again, if I didn't get to you individually,
let's make sure I get with you on the next one.
And hopefully you wanna be able to learn from everyone else
because I don't think anyone could possibly be on here
and not have learned something
from whether I talked to you personally or not.
And so Father, we're so grateful for you.
Father, thank you for this session, Lord.
Father, thank you for helping us.
Thank you for blessing us.
Thank you for blessing our families
and the work of our hands, Lord.
And Father, I just lift up everyone on this call, Lord.
Father, thank you for blessing them
from the top of their head to the tips of their toes.
Father, thank you for giving them
that wisdom and discernment.
Father, thank you for speaking to them.
Thank you for helping them to discern your voice always,
Lord.
Father, thank you for helping them to see their anointing
and help them see themselves the way that you see them,
Lord.
And we're just so grateful for you.
We're so grateful for you.
You're worthy of our praise.
You're worthy of our glory, honor, power, and strength.
And we are honored to be your children.
We thank you in the mighty name of Jesus Christ.
Amen.
All right, guys.
Appreciate you so much.
Appreciate you.
Love you guys.
Rooting for you.
Bye, guys.