All right, welcome, welcome, welcome to the God, Love, and Me Masterclass.
I'm so thrilled to be here with you.
This is really straight from the Lord.
2012 is the first time that I started teaching this.
I taught it as a full-day event and tried to get out of it.
God had me start, prosper in all things, with three events, God, money, and me.
That went powerful.
Let's just break through the money blocks.
God, health, and me, my favorite, especially teaching the emotional connection and how
I've been doing that since I was 17.
Love it.
When it came time to teach God, love, and me, guess what popped up?
Imposter syndrome.
Who am I to teach anything about love?
The truth is, the first time I went to teach this, I was going through a very painful or
I was about to go through a very painful divorce.
I'd been in a tough 27-year marriage.
I actually came to the event.
It was beautiful at the La Rivage overlooking the river.
Beautiful food laid out, just beautiful place.
I had my assistant there, and I was prepared to return everybody's money.
I couldn't teach it.
Who am I?
Who am I to teach this?
I hadn't shared with anyone, and I honestly thought that because I was going through a
divorce as a Christian woman, which had been many, many, many years of prayer and counseling
and asking for release from God, and I had release from God, I didn't feel that anybody
would want to listen to me.
So I told them, I'm ready to give you all your money back.
I'm not the one to teach you this.
I don't know anything about love.
I'm about to go through a divorce.
I thought I was done.
I thought that was the end of prosper and all things.
What Christian woman would listen to me?
Who am I to teach?
Of course, I was so much in my own stuff.
I never stopped to think that 50% of the people in the room were probably divorced.
That never crossed my mind.
I just got imposter syndrome bad, and I wanted to walk in integrity, and I wanted to return
everyone's money.
What happened that day changed my life forever.
It's the event of all the events I've done over all the decades of speaking.
It's the event that actually really changed my life, and nobody got up to get their money
back, and instead, the amount of love that flooded the room, and they actually ended
up giving me a group hug, and the amount of love that flooded the room, and it was probably
the most powerful masterclass that I taught.
At the end of the masterclass, God had told me to be willing to pray for anyone that wanted
prayer.
We had the most powerful time of prayer.
There was so much healing, so much breakthrough.
There's some really big-name coaches that weren't coaches yet that were birthed that
day.
They were set free, and they launched their business.
It was the first time that I had taken off the masks.
I don't know any of you.
I had spent a lifetime of trying to look like I had it all together when everything was
falling apart, and this was the first time I showed up naked and unashamed.
I had my clothes on, but you guys get what I mean.
It taught me the power of vulnerability and transparency, and it took prosper in all things
and the relationship amongst prosper sisters to whole new levels.
I can't help, but when I come to teach you today, to come back to the roots of that because
still feel, who am I to teach?
I'm not here teaching as a love expert.
I am not teaching as someone who has got it all together.
If you're not OK with that, this is a good time
to sign off and go find your expert.
I am not.
Thank you, Victoria.
She says, I love you.
So I'm thrilled to be here.
I'm a fellow sojourner with you.
You OK with that?
And yet, God has been just talking to me about love
and teaching me about love and telling me to study love.
And I've been a student of love.
And I'm going to share with you what God's been teaching me.
And that's what this is about.
So I'm so excited that you're here.
And first thing in the morning, my voice is a little raspy.
But here we are.
So we're going to start with prayer.
And we're going to talk a little bit about why this course
and what this course is.
And then we're going to dive right in.
So let's open with prayer, shall we?
Oh, Heavenly Father, I just thank you for this opportunity
to study love, because you are love.
Scripture says God is love.
So Lord, it's our chance to get closer to you,
to better understand ourselves, because we were created
by love for love, our love.
Many of us have been through a challenging journey
when it comes to the L word, Lord.
I ask Holy Spirit that you minister in powerful ways today.
I ask that you speak through my mouth.
I ask that you touch hearts.
I ask that you bring healing.
I ask for revelation knowledge to flow.
I ask for wisdom to flow freely.
I ask for a spirit of breakthrough.
You are Jehovah Bel-Perezin, the God of the breakthrough.
I ask that you are breaking through limiting beliefs,
breaking through lies that have been told to us
or spoken over us or we've told ourselves.
I'm asking that this will be a place of profound breakthrough
and that love will flow freely in this place.
We invite you, Holy Spirit, to rule, to reign, to move.
May the words of my mouth, the meditation of my heart
be pleasing in your sight.
We thank you in Jesus' name.
Amen, amen, amen.
So why study love?
Why study love?
Well, first of all, love is the currency of heaven,
the currency of God's creation.
If you broke yourself down to beyond the cells,
to the atoms, to the electrons, neutrons,
to the subatomic particles, and you
get to little bits of light, every photon of that is love.
And it's the source of joy.
It's the source of healing.
It's the source of abundance.
Of course, God is love.
And John 15, 9 says, even as the Father, this is Jesus talking,
even as the Father has loved me.
So Jesus is really aware that he lives and dwells
in the Father's love.
Jesus says, even as the Father has loved me,
I also have loved you.
He says, abide in my love.
So here he's giving this discourse to his followers,
trying to bring the importance of love.
It was his theme message.
It was the greatest commandment.
And he's saying, look, here's the deal.
The Father, the one who created me,
the source, the Father, has loved me.
I've loved you.
Will you abide in that love?
And John 4, 19 says, we love because he first loved us.
us. And 1 Corinthians, Paul wrote one of the greatest
discourses, 1 Corinthians chapter 13, on love. If you
want to read it in every version, one of the greatest
discourses on what is love, how to love, what does love look
like. And he opens by saying, I'll show you a more excellent
way. It was directly following chapter 12, which was on the
gifts. So prophecy and healing and speaking in tongues and
words of knowledge and all the gifts that are described in
1 Corinthians chapter 12. He closes out by saying, but all
above all that, I'll show you a more excellent way. And he goes
through and he does this discourse on love. And then he
wraps it up by saying, if I don't have love, I'm nothing.
He said, I could be the greatest, the biggest
philanthropist, the greatest donor. I could be a martyr,
give myself and die for God. But if I have not, I could, I
could be the best in prophecy and prophesy. But if I have
love, I don't have love, I'm nothing. So why do we study
this? It's the very foundation. And yet, because of, of
wounding, because of what we didn't learn about love, it's
often the furthest thing from our mind. I mean, we crave it,
we want it, we know we need it. But do we really have the
intention of growing our love walk? Do we really study it? Do
we really ask God to teach us? I have placed in my journal, I
wrote a recent post, you probably read it, where I said,
okay, God, download me, teach me the truth about love. And he
gave me a whole discourse on love. That's built some of that
is into, into this. And then there's the practical side of
this. Health. We know it has everything to do with our
health. When, when we feel loved. And when we have love,
and we walk in love, and we give love, we have a stronger
immune system, lowers our blood pressure, we live longer. So
it's tied to our health. It's tied to our happiness. So many
studies about our mood, and about anxiety, and about
depression, you can look up, there's just dozens and
dozens, it's, it's really studied. But here's an
interesting one. Have you ever connected, I pray you get a
real breakthrough on this one, has everything to do with
money? The amount of money in your life? How many of you put
in the chat? How many of you understand there's a direct
correlation between love and money? I'm not talking about
manipulation and marrying for love, none of that stuff. I'm
talking about real, the energy of love and the energy of money.
How many of you have thought about that? Put that in the
chat that you understand, that is directly beginning to
realize recently. Okay, love that. Who else?
Who else? Yep. Okay. Who else?
Here's the interesting thing. They're both tied in our minds
to, okay, there we go. Just learning this love attracts
favor, including money, it's just now starting to connect.
Good. I think you're going to get a deeper connection. This
is amazing. You're going to start seeing this in your life.
It's a profound revelation. Okay. And Mary didn't even know.
She says no. And Victoria, not really for me, but probably so.
Well, where do we get done? We'll ask this question at the
end. Okay. Susan. All right. They both kind of hold the same
spot of some of our deepest needs. We tie money and we tie
love to our sense of security, our sense of safety, right?
If we feel like love is really important for us to feel secure,
safe, and same for money. It's a similar energy. Y'all kind of
get that? Okay. Where it's blocked in one, it's usually
blocked in the other. So the limiting beliefs are very
similar. There's no...
Oh, good man out there.
Money's hard to come by.
Lack, lack-based, very often.
Same limiting beliefs of lack.
Anybody getting any ahas?
If you get any ahas, put aha in the chat.
They're both tied in with our ability to receive.
Some of you really struggle.
Good, you guys are already getting some ahas.
We're just getting started.
We've got a few hours together, OK?
So tied to our ability to receive.
And if you look at love, I've taught this many times,
those of you that have worked with me.
Life, the way that God has created the world,
is very cyclical, OK?
The moisture comes up from the groundwater and the ocean
and everything, and it comes down as rain.
We breathe out carbon monoxide or dioxide, whatever,
and the trees breathe it in.
The trees breathe out, or the plants breathe out,
the oxygen that we breathe out.
So breathing is very symbolic of our life.
So you are usually, most of the women I coach,
are stuck in one side of the breathing.
This is a metaphor for love, too, OK?
Some of you are stuck on trying to get.
This plays out in all parts of life.
You're trying to get more learning, more love, more,
more.
You're just inhaling, taking in, taking in, taking in.
But you're not taking all that you're learning,
all that you're receiving, and putting it
into action in giving.
So if we just breathe in, we die.
Some of you, on the other side, are only breathing out.
You're giving, giving, giving, giving, giving,
and usually giving because you want to get,
whether it's unconscious or not.
You're hoping if you love enough, someone will love you.
If you give enough, someone will give.
If you do enough, someone will do for you.
And so you're breathing out.
And you keep breathing out.
We have to breathe out, and we have to breathe in.
Love is the same way.
Money is the same way, OK?
I see God as love, money as worldly game.
We must play to function.
Ah, so you've got a separation going on, Mary.
That's a disconnect.
It's a disconnect.
We're going to see.
Do you know in the Bible, do you know
Jesus talked more about money than just about every topic?
And I'm going to go into that whole idea of money,
and it's not money.
It's the love of money that is the root of evil
that's misquoted.
But man, did I buy into that one, and maybe you did too.
So I came from an affluent background.
My dad made his first million back in the, like, 40s.
Anyway, I didn't get any of it, but I got a lot
of the learning from it.
Watched him make millions, lose millions,
lived in a very beautiful, I lived in Rolling Hills Rancho
Palo Verde in Southern California,
and had horses, and showed horses,
an indoor swimming pool.
I grew up until the time I was about 12
in a very affluent environment.
But I grew up with a mother who was bipolar,
addicted to pain meds, a father that was alcoholic,
sexually abusive, a pedophile, and very domestically violent.
So I grew up, you know, beautiful Christmas trees
going through the windows, ashtrays
going through fish tanks.
You know, when you're a little kid,
I grew up in absolute trauma and absolute craziness.
So there's a lot of, we're going to talk
about this in just a second, there's
a lot of decisions that you made about love
and about money in your early, early formative years, OK?
And for me, what I got is money makes people crazy, OK?
I don't want any.
So when I found Christ or Christ found me at 17
and they mis-twisted that verse
and I thought money was evil and I agree, I don't want any.
So you wonder then why there's a struggle
because of these beliefs that happen to us.
And so we end up carrying these beliefs
and the same beliefs for money
and the same beliefs for God
usually are happening in our life
and I think you're gonna get some ahas as we go, okay?
And Victoria, you got the belief there's not enough money
and you probably got that there's not enough love too.
So let's look at that for a second.
When you open, if you all have your study guide,
if you don't, we could pop the link in the chat
because you're gonna wanna take notes.
So if you need the study guide,
you could say need study guide,
we'll make sure you got it, but you could be taking notes.
So it opens with the question,
has Disney shaped your view of love?
Most of us grew up on Disney.
Has Disney shaped your view of love?
Okay, she just popped,
those of you saying need the study guide, there it is.
She just popped the link in the chat
so that you guys can have the study guide, okay?
And if you can print it out, you can take notes in there,
but you could be looking at it as well.
So from childhood, we were taught some things about love
and one of them that we were taught,
well, maybe put in the chat, put in the chat.
Did Disney shape your view of love?
Did you grow up thinking love was gonna be a certain way?
Were you waiting for someone to come save you,
rescue you from the evil stepmother
or rescue you from having eaten the poisoned apple
or rescue you from, right?
Okay?
And yeah, save me part in there.
Yeah, Karen.
So waiting for the prince,
so someone else holds your happiness.
I want you guys to think about this.
Someone else hold your happiness.
You're waiting for your happiness and love,
happily ever after to come to you,
rescue you on the white horse
so you can live happily ever after.
Yeah?
So from childhood, we've been taught a couple things.
Yeah, love it.
You guys are seeing this.
I love this, okay?
From childhood, we've been taught,
here's, we're gonna start.
Okay, today is about breaking free
from the limiting beliefs.
Today is about walking in truth.
Today is about being set free.
Today is about bringing transformation, okay?
And so from childhood,
we've been taught that love is something to get.
It's out there.
And we hope that it finds us or comes and rescues us
or we meet it and it just changes our destiny
and everything's all better.
We look at love as something to get.
Okay, good.
Tawana, I love that.
We're gonna talk about that right now.
You're right on, spot on, spot on
because that's the next thing I say.
So we've been taught that love is something to get.
A prince rescues the princess or here's the alternative.
We must earn love by being good enough.
Do we have any strivers in the house?
Put strive in the chat.
Do we have any strivers?
Working hard to be accepted, to be loved, to be received.
Did any of you?
have love in the form of affection and attention pulled away if you weren't a good girl.
Any of you?
How many of you? You guys are connecting with me here. I think I'm, I think I've got
some like-minded sisters here. Okay. All right.
Good. Had to be perfect. Yep. Yep. Okay. Cindy says no. So maybe you grew up in a beautiful
home of love. That's awesome. That's so awesome. Okay. But most of us, if you wonder why you're
still striving and why you're striving so hard to get money, you're striving so hard to get love,
we're getting to the roots of that. So I want you to journal right there real quick. I want you just,
we're going to get you started. Today's just like a prime the pump, get you started. You're going to
go deep with God. You're going to have some tools to transform, but I want you to write down in the
journal right now. How did you first learn about love? What was the message? How did you learn?
The message? How did you learn? I learned that you better work hard. You want affection from
your father. You better be up early, not sleeping. You better be busy. You better be making it happen.
You would get, you better get all A's, no B's because we'd be talking about the B.
So if I did that, if I got first prize in the horse show championship,
yeah. Asla, all A's. Yeah. Loved. Accepted. Okay.
Yeah. Animals were there for me though, not always humans. Okay. So did you learn that?
This is what I want you journaling. What'd you learn from love? That love is not safe.
You know, I learned that the people are supposed to protect me.
We're the ones hurting me. So I learned love is not safe. These are things that you're still,
if you have not healed from, is still coming. Okay. That's so beautiful. Susan learned in church,
Jesus loved me. This I know for the Bible tells me so. Beautiful. So you got introduced to love
early. Love that. So how did you first learn about love and what was the message? I learned that what
I thought was love betrayed me. Okay. These are, these are truths because what we're going to do
today is break through these limiting beliefs and guess what? They also apply to your health.
They apply to your finance, apply to your business. So write it down. Take a minute.
How'd you first learn about love and what did it teach you? Was it safe? Did it feel good? Was it
manipulative? Abused by parents, sisters, sexually abused by a teacher, doctor, and therapist, all
who were supposed to be safe. Yes. I feel for you sister. Same, same. So often the ones we were
supposed to protect us did not. Okay. Goes away at any moment. My mom went through three divorces
by the time I was an adult. Okay. These, these messages, and thank you for sharing in here and
because it blesses everyone to know that you're not alone and we're all going through this,
but these are the messages that are still driving you if you have not dug in to replace them with
God's truth. And that's what we're doing here. That's the purpose of today. We're not lingering
there. We're not staying. This is not psychotherapy. Yes. My master's was in marriage and family
counseling, but we're not dealing with the past. We're moving in the future and we're living in now.
This is just an awareness exercise to go, huh? Where did I get my beliefs about love? And where
did I get my beliefs about money? Because we assign a meaning to everything. Okay. I was always a
striver. It was innate. And I was praised by my mom and love was not withheld or perfection was
not forced, but I was criticized by other families for being goody two-shoes. Okay. Yeah. All of this
is, is affecting where we are now. Thank you for, for sharing all of you that are writing that.
Okay. One of the first things when I was spending time, those of you that know
my morning spiritual practice.
is most important. It's the first thing I do when I coach someone. I was talking to Cindy,
that's where we start. And how do you have a successful morning spiritual practice?
And part of that for me is journaling. And I have a unique system that I journal and
those that I've shared it with that use it. It takes a minute to learn and do it,
but it's very powerful. And it goes like this. It's a conversation with God
with a pink gel pen. I ask God my questions, what I want to know, whatever. Okay. And
yeah, love it. So it only takes one Cindy. So the mom was love and the dad showed the criticism
and the performance and the hard worker and the tough. And that probably carried over to the men
that you attracted critical criticism, probably carried into yourself, self-criticism,
this stuff lives on. Okay. So journaling, I take a pink pen and I ask God questions
and I pray. Okay. And then I change to my purple gel pen. And we know historically that God will
write through those who are open that God, the Bible says that, that his sheep hear his voice
and that this is a mark of, of walking with the Holy spirit is being able to hear from God.
And one of those ways is through writing. The Bible was written as the Holy spirit inspired
human beings to write. And I believe that the Bible says there's two kinds of word,
right? There's the written word and there's the rainbow word that revealed word. So God
is still speaking. He's still revealing. He still wants us in conversation with him.
And so you allow God to write through you with the purple. So I asked God,
tell me the truth about love. Begin to teach me about love. I use these hard bound journals and
you can see in my journals, there's always, you know, pink and purple as this conversation is
happening. And what's so profound is a lot of it. I have to go look up. It's not something I knew
or even understood. And it often creates a very powerful shift. So here is where I asked God,
I said, teach me, speak to me about the truth of love. Show me love through your eyes.
And this is what God said, child first is understanding the nature of love. You've got
to understand the nature of love. Here's the first thing he gave me. Number one, this is one of the
words I had to look up. I don't use this word. I don't go around thinking about this word. I don't
speak. This word is not in my normal vocabulary. It's when you know the Lord is speaking. Number
one, it's intrinsic. I-N-T-R-I-N-S-I-C. Intrinsic. I had to go look up that word,
tell you the truth. I kind of had a vague sense that I knew what it was, but I really,
not a word I think about. Love is intrinsic. Belonging naturally. Belonging, when I looked
it up, belonging naturally, belonging to the real nature of a thing, not dependent on external
circumstances, inherent, built in. God says, do you see it's already in you? It can never be
taken from you. If something's intrinsic, it can't be added to and it can't be taken away.
That in itself, I want you to think about that. Is that an aha for any of you? Put aha in the chat.
Love, because how many of you have been taught it's something you try to get, you work for,
you strive for, it's going to come to you. It's going to save you. You'll just find it.
Find it. How many of you have seen love as outside of yourself?
The truth, biblically, and we'll support all of this stuff biblically,
because you know everything I do, right? It's scripture, it's science, it's strategy. Any ahas?
Hey. Good, Cindy. Love it. A-ha. A good tree cannot bear bad fruit. It's intrinsic. Good.
That's a really good one, Peggy. I could go on a long rabbit trail about that one. That's a
really good one. I won't right now. Karen. In the past couple of years, I realized I'm a child of
God and that love is the base of all things. It's in you. You are love. You are created by love.
You're created for love. This alone, when you come to that revelation, can start breaking
the belief in lack. Guess what? Guess what's driving you right now for most of you?
The first thing we have to get free from is the belief in lack.
That I need to get something. It's an external locus of control. You're putting the power
externally, outside of yourself. I need to get money. I need to get love. I need to get, right?
And the fear, the lack, fear is always lack-based. I'm going to run out of love. I'm going to run
out of health. I'm going to run out of money. I'm going to run out of time. Lack, lack, lack.
Am I talking to anyone? Is this, is this useful?
One of the first things in renewing our mind, the Bible says we're transformed.
Transformed. That means completely, radically changed. We're transformed by the re, do it again,
new, make brand new, renewing of our mind. Now, this is biblical, how transformation happens.
It's physical. We're literally creating new neural pathways. If you spend a lot of time
meditating on lack, believing in lack, thinking about lack, striving to break lack,
then that's the natural highway that your thoughts go on. See? And God's breaking that spirit of lack.
So the shift you see there on, we're still on page one. If love is not something you achieve,
it's who you are. It's intrinsic. And the first prosperous shift, number one,
when you go through these series, we always have prosperous shifts. So prosperous shift number one,
love is not something you get. It's your identity. Let that sink in for a minute.
Love is not, it's intrinsic. It's already in you and it's who you are. You were created by love,
for love, our love. It's not something that you get. This is why I believe so many relationships
struggle so much because they're living transactional. What are you going to give me?
What are you going to do for me? How are you going to heal me, carry me, be my strength,
be my whatever, be my better half? What? You don't have a half. You're a whole. Shalom. Nothing
missing, nothing broken. You have Christ in you, the hope of glory that does not rely on another
person. Then you're able to come from a totally different place for a relationship, which we'll
talk about. So love is not something you get. It's your identity. Who's getting an aha? Okay.
That face, Mary, I want some explanation. I don't speak emojis. Someone tell me. I think
that's a throwing. Is that a throwing up face? What is that? So talk to me here. You guys are
getting me with your emojis. Talk to me. What does that mean? Okay. Yeah. So you guys are ahas.
This alone, if you've got nothing else, if you could start moving from love, it's not something
outside of yourself, nor is abundance. When we talk about money, nor is healing. We can
get tools out there. We can grow and all of that, but intrinsically.
So let me just divert right here really quick. I want to get pure on scripture here. Okay.
You can think like the world thinks, and that's Romans 12.2 that talks about being transformed
by the renewing of your mind. The first part of that verse, and I think it's down on page
you've got it in there. We'll come to it. I saw it. It's on my page. It's on page like
or it's in part two, but basically it says this,
do not be conformed, con means come together,
formed by, do not be conformed by the world
and its superficial traditions.
But, so it's telling you what not to be,
do not be conformed, that's like a jello mold.
You pour the jello in, it takes the form of the mold,
you take it out of the mold,
it forever has the shape of the mold, okay?
That's what the world can do,
so there's the world's reasoning,
which is fear-based, lack-based, separation-based, okay?
Do not be conformed, con means come together,
formed by the world, but instead be transformed,
not conformed, transformed.
Transformed is permanent change,
it's caterpillar to butterfly.
The butterfly's never gonna be a caterpillar again,
so this is talking about permanent,
it's not a little change, I stuck to the diet for 30 days
and then I fell off the wagon, no.
Transformed is permanent change,
so be transformed by the renewing of your mind.
So if we're gonna think biblically,
it's always from the inside out.
The world is the outside in.
You need makeup and a facelift, you need that purse,
you need that job, you need that car, you need that man.
When I get, when I get clients, when I get money,
when I get fame, when I get recognized,
when I get something from the outside,
then I'll be happy, healthy, prosperous.
That's the world's perspective.
When I get something outside of myself, then I'll be happy.
And so we go after it, we go after fame,
we go after recognition, we go after whatever,
but it's outside of us, that's the world.
God says, out of the heart flow the issues.
So the Bible says, as a man thinketh in his heart,
so is he.
When I first read that, I've been reading the Bible
through all the way through, since I was 17,
I've read it in many translations
over and over and over again.
I would read that and I think, man,
they were really backwards back then.
They thought that we thought with our heart.
We all know we think with our mind
because we live in the age of reason.
Wow, were they advanced.
Science has told the truth of it.
Your heart is an afferent organ.
What does that mean?
Your heart is sending more signals to your brain
than your brain is to your heart.
Your heart is filled with lots and lots
of little mini brains.
Your heart is pumping chemicals to your body,
neuropeptides, Candice Pert named them,
molecules of emotion, taking the emotion
and flooding your body with that emotion.
And it is shaping your health.
And because we're electromagnetic beings,
so think heart, your heart stops, you give it electricity.
Think MRI, magnetic resonance.
We're electromagnetic beings.
Let's be real, that's not woo, that's pure science.
We are radiating a frequency eight to 12 feet
outside of our body.
If you don't believe that, just think about something.
Have you ever walked in a room?
Have you ever been around a couple?
It might have been your parents,
might have been someone, a friend or whatever.
You walked in a room and they didn't say a word.
They tried to put a smile on for you,
but they had been like fighting, arguing.
You ever walked into a room like that
and we say it was so thick you could cut it with a knife.
Any of you know what I'm talking about?
Say yes in the chat.
Any of you know what I'm talking about?
What the heck was that?
Energy, we're all so sensitive to that.
So we're radiating this energy.
So love can be radiated, we're gonna practice that.
Hate can be radiated, fear can be radiated.
And by the way, faith and fear both attract.
The Bible says that which I feared has come upon me.
Okay?
So faith and fear both attract.
And faith and fear cannot coexist.
Fear and love cannot coexist, they're opposite.
Okay?
All right.
So just get this, so you know, am I thinking,
am I conforming to the world,
which means I think that what I need is outside of myself,
and that's what I'm striving for
in order to be happy, healthy, prosperous,
or I'm gonna reason biblically
that out of the heart flow all the issues of life.
The Bible says, above all, guard your heart,
for out of it the mouth speaks,
out of it flows the issues of life,
furthermore, we're called, biblically,
we're called the temple of the Holy Spirit,
we're a container of God.
The Bible says we're a temple of the Holy Spirit.
So the Holy Spirit lives in us.
That's why we have Christ in me, the hope of glory.
It also says we have the mind of Christ.
It says out of your innermost being,
another word for heart or deep spirit,
out of your innermost being
will flow rivers of living water.
The woman at the well was trying to get
what she wanted outside.
Getting the water, of course we need water,
we have a body, we're a body, spirit, soul, right?
We have spirit, soul, and body.
So the body needs food, air,
we have to take care of our body.
So she's there getting her water
and Jesus asked her for a drink.
And she's tripped out, number one, he's a man,
number two, he's a Jew and she's a Samaritan,
like there's no conversation
and he's asking her for a drink.
And she's like, you don't have anything to draw from.
And he did what he often did,
he would take what's right in front
and give the spiritual corollary.
He said, if you only knew who it was
that was asking for a drink,
you would ask for a drink
and I would give you living water
and you would never thirst again.
But whoa, I want some of that.
Rivers of living water will flow
out of your innermost being.
So I want you first to just think about for a minute,
you might wanna make a note there.
Have I been living, have I been conforming to the world
that I think what I need to be happy, healthy, prosperous
is outside of me?
Or have I been reasoning biblically
that everything is in me?
Love is already in me, abundance is already in me.
What is it?
I'm curious.
Any ahas, pop ahas in the chat,
is something opening up for you here?
Because this is life-changing.
Any ahas?
Okay.
All right.
Now, we're gonna dive deeper.
That was just to like wet your appetite.
But here's what we're gonna do.
I know the mind can only absorb what the seed can absorb
or however that saying goes, okay?
Quick five-minute break, quick five-minute break.
Get up, stretch, get a drink of water
because I want you to get this
because that was just laying a foundation.
We're gonna get really juicy here.
We're gonna get really practical, okay?
So get up, stretch, get a drink of water,
move right at the top of the hour.
We're gonna start back again, okay?
You wanna pause for the-
The recording?
Thank you.
Where is it?
Okay.
Welcome back, welcome back, welcome back.
So I would love, what was, from this first part,
what was your biggest takeaway?
We want this to land, we want this to be practical,
we want you to be able to apply it.
What was your biggest takeaway?
Brenda, I think that Cindy's asking you to repeat
what you had said about the women at the well.
Okay, will do.
Thank you.
So the woman at the well was focusing external on the water.
External on the water.
And it was all about getting the water,
which is natural, we're physical.
And Jesus was trying to teach a difference.
So,
Our body has a physical thirst.
Our soul and our spirit has a different thirst.
And physical water can solve our physical thirst.
But we all, any of you know that feeling
of that spiritual thirst,
it's that feeling of knowing there's got to be more.
And no physical thing can solve that.
Any of you know what I'm talking about?
It's that soul hunger, that soul thirst.
Says, I know there's got to be more.
And Jesus was talking that that would come from within,
not the well, but within.
Rivers, the water that I'll give you,
you'll never thirst again.
It's living water.
He was talking spiritual.
And the Bible says rivers of living water will flow
out of our innermost being.
So the supply is coming.
Notice it's coming from inside.
Out of the heart flows the issues of life.
Out of your innermost being
will flow rivers of living water, right?
And so it's realizing that what,
and that's why the Bible says,
what is in you is greater than anything on the outside.
What is in you is greater than anything in the world, okay?
Because it's much stronger.
When you tap into this, you understand this.
You'll never have to get love.
You're going to live from such an abundance of love.
You're going to be able to overflow and give love.
And we talked about some of you that have struggle
receiving, receiving love, receiving money.
It's the same open, receptive heart.
Being able to receive love
because it's not coming from a needy place.
It's not coming from a lack.
It's not coming from a striving and grasping of love.
It is being able to open your heart
to receive all that God has for you.
Love, abundance.
If you look at the people in scripture,
they were the wealthiest.
If God had a problem with abundance or prosperity,
then he really had a problem with Abraham
or had a problem with lot that the land
couldn't even contain them.
They had so much.
Or King David, the most wise and most prosperous.
Or I could go on and on, Esther or Joseph.
So if God has a problem with making people wealthy,
but that's not what the Bible says.
So it's the love of money.
Why is that a problem?
Because it's idolatry.
It's looking that money is your security.
Money is your safety.
Money is where you can get happiness or whatever.
So that's idolatry, the love of money.
And God says, I'll have no other before me.
So the reason that the love of money is the root of evil
is because it's looking for money.
And that word money, by the way, is mammon.
It's looking to money to be your safety, your security.
Your source.
There's one source, which is God.
Everything else is a re-source.
It's already on the earth, the gold, the silver.
All of that is a resource.
It's not the source.
Money is never the source.
If you look to money as your source,
you're going to be disappointed,
and it will be a source of lots of pain and struggle.
All right.
So I want to see here some of your biggest takeaways.
Okay.
Less striving, exude love, not trying to get it.
That is such a big breakthrough.
You guys really get this.
It's so huge.
The woman at the well was thirsty for love.
Yeah, she'd had, what, seven to eight husbands, 100%.
Good, good point.
Good point.
Okay.
What's the process that the heart is sending messages?
What just happened?
Computer just went somewhere else.
What's the process the heart is sending messages
to the mind?
Yeah.
So the mind-heart-mouth connection is throughout scripture.
So you think a thought, and the feeling,
the thought won't typically affect you that much,
not to the fullest extent.
So let me give you like a crazy-
is the example.
You could think, I am a duck.
I am a duck.
And you're never going to become a duck, right?
So you could think it all you want,
but it's not actually creating the change.
You might act weird or be frustrated.
But if you take a thought and apply the feeling
and you start living in the feeling tonality,
and the science of this now is that every thought
has a frequency.
Frequency means the speed of the wave.
Everything in life is waves, sound waves, air waves,
microwaves, like everything is frequency
in the world that we live in.
And so the frequency, the wavelength
that we're operating at produces a result within the body.
And it actually, if it's below 250,
the frequency, it actually creates dis-ease.
Think about the word dis-ease, dis, out of ease.
When we're out of ease, below 250,
we start having sicknesses.
Now, the neuropeptides, the neuropeptides,
the molecules of emotion link to certain organs in the body.
This is getting into God helping me.
I'm not gonna spend too much time there.
So some of you mentioned criticism, okay?
Criticism will very often affect the kidneys.
Grieving often affect the lungs.
Anger, bitterness, resentment often affect the liver.
So you can begin, and we know these things,
like you go, oh, I just, you know,
I felt it in the pit of my stomach, right?
Or you say, I couldn't stomach that,
or I couldn't digest that, right?
Or, so like we kind of know this,
but the science has really clarified that.
And so when you have the thought,
and then you attach the feeling to it,
and then when you speak it, you harvest it,
and that's what we see all the way through scripture.
If you think with your mind and believe in your heart
and confess, there it is, mind, heart, mouth,
you shall be saved.
I mean, it's the mechanism all the way through scripture.
Okay, hopefully that helps you there.
That's kind of a deep, that's a whole nother subject.
Okay, I've spent a lot of my life giving myself,
this crazy thing keeps taking me somewhere else.
Okay, giving myself physical to get love and money.
Yes, work as a hairstylist, form is aerobic.
Okay, okay, all physically draining.
Okay, yes, if it's where are you coming from?
Okay, so many of you over givers,
if you're giving from the rivers of living water,
if you're giving from the incredible abundance,
you're so filled up, a full cup spills out all over
and is giving all the time, you'll never be drained.
Okay, I'm giving you today,
and I'm gonna be more fired up and more energized
at the end of this three hours than when I started.
I'm operating in my gifts
and I'm giving you out of my abundance.
I'm just spilling out over you,
it's not gonna make me tired,
it's not gonna make me feel like I'm lacking,
like I need to go replenish myself.
In fact, I'm gonna leave here and tonight,
I'm gonna go salsa dancing.
Okay, so I want you to understand,
but when we're giving from a place of fear, I hope,
or we're giving from a place of lack, I need money,
I need clients, we're giving from a place of lack,
I need love, I hope if I give enough,
a lot of women over givers,
they get taken advantage of with men in relationships,
they wonder why men never provide for them,
never give to them, they never open that door.
Okay, so it's this energy is what I want you to begin
to understand that everything underneath the fruit
of everything is a frequency, it's a wavelength.
So if it's less than 250, it's forming disease in the body
and it's going to radiate,
that's gonna form dysfunction and lack
and all kinds of things, okay?
So hopefully that helps clarify that.
When you're giving out of fullness,
so some of you over givers are giving to everyone else
and you're not giving to yourself.
And we're gonna get to that verse right now
about why it's important.
So, okay, my dad always said...
to emanate love. That's so cool. That's so cool. Another word for radiate, because that's what
we've been called to do, is just radiate, okay? So good. I love, I love, I think you guys are
getting the gist already, okay? So let's keep going. The greatest commandment, when they,
when the Jews, who had hundreds and hundreds and hundreds of commandments, said, Jesus, teacher,
tell us what is the greatest commandment, and Jesus said, open with the word love,
love the Lord your God, there it is, with your whole being, with your whole heart, soul, mind,
like whole being, love God, and love, the second is just like it, love your neighbor as, and you
could circle that word as you love yourself. So those of you over givers that aren't loving
yourself, you can't actually be loving someone else. You're, now you're just draining, and now
you're getting those issues that you just talked about. So notice the three objects of our love
in this verse. There's three objects of love. Number one, there's God, and that's our primary
love. That's what we're supposed to give our entire being, love the Lord your God with all
your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind. That's the primary. Then, interestingly, neighbor,
so, so God is primary, neighbor is proportional. You can only love your neighbor as, it's
proportional. The third is self, and it's assumed that we're called to love ourselves. That's why
he said love your neighbor as you love yourself. Well, when you really get an idea of who you are,
your, your love for yourself, because of your love for God, so as you love God, you love yourself
more. You become like David, where he said, wow, I think it's Psalms 119, when I consider
like how amazingly you made me, how fearfully and wonderfully I'm created. When you, when you consider
and if you think of your body as a temple,
and the Bible has a lot to say about that. Your body is a temple, a container of God,
Christ in me, the hope of glory, right? Um, when you consider that, then you're very careful what
you attach to. That's why it says, should you attach emotionally or physically, sexually, or
emotionally, when you're attached, should you be joining these two things, the very temple of God
and the spirit of God, should you be joining it? So, we see these three objects of love. God is primary,
the neighbor is proportional. I love my neighbor as it's proportional, and self is assumed,
and it's in degrees. So, the more that I'm able to love myself with God's love, the more I am
able to pour out and love others, because I'm filling up with God's love, okay? So, this was
when I was going through God teaching me about love, that was number two. Number one is it's
intrinsic. Number two, love is ever expanding and limitless. It can grow and expand infinitely. You
could spend the rest of your life growing your love and never reach the outer edges of it.
Can you imagine that?
It's never exhausted. It's inexhaustible.
There's always more to discover. There's always a higher, a deeper, a wider of love, and that's
why Paul talks about how great is this love, how high, how wide, how deep. Paul was trying to come
up with this. He couldn't come up with enough words to describe the love of God, which, of
course, is in us. So, it's ever expanding, limitless, and yeah, the next thing God's
said is the application has infinite forms and variety.
So a mother's love, the love for God,
friendship love, romantic love.
Number four, God says it multiplies or it
grows when it's shared, like electricity.
So again, we're talking waves.
If you've ever studied physics, I
know Cindy and I were talking, we were both pre-med,
so we did a lot of this stuff.
And so you have these waves in physics,
and they have a frequency how high
and how close they are together.
So you've got these waves.
If you have two opposing waves coming together,
so one is going down and one is going up,
they'll cancel each other.
This is basic physics.
If you have two waves going the same direction,
they will multiply each other.
They get bigger.
So God said it multiplies like electricity.
When it's joined, you experience a higher voltage.
So this is why when we sink with the love of God,
this is the power of worship.
This is the power of just soaking
in the presence of God, because you're joining
and you're intensifying the frequency.
It's also why I have the Prosper Women, the Prosper Leader
membership.
Because together, we are stronger and higher and better.
And this is what's happening.
The more each of you are giving to each other
and you're sinking and you're collaborating,
this is why biblically competition doesn't exist.
It's collaboration.
And so love multiplies when it's joined.
So if you tap into the love of God, it multiplies.
If you are in sync in romantic love,
if you can both be in sync that you're not
striving and trying to take from each other and all of that,
if you're in sync, it multiplies.
And that's why it can be so intense.
And so love grows when it's given.
But again, not from a place of lack.
It's given from the overflow.
And so you're giving from the fruit, not the root.
Think of a tree.
If a tree lets you pick all of its fruit, no problem.
More fruit's going to come.
Where does it come from?
I want you to think about a tree for a second.
This is the most profound example from nature.
I've got a beautiful lemon tree right now.
Gorgeous lemon tree.
So many lemons.
So, so many.
It's just beautiful just to look at.
And once I've picked all of those,
maybe made some juice, lemonade, frozen ice cubes, whatever.
I've picked all of those.
The tree looks like it's naked.
Like, oh, no.
All the fruit is gone.
That tree should be stressing and fearful, right?
Should be looking to other trees to borrow.
It should be really, like, biting its limbs, right?
Its nails, right?
Because all the fruit is gone.
Like, times that you don't see money.
Or not.
What's going to happen next spring?
Next summer?
What's going to happen?
More fruit's going to come.
Where does that fruit come from?
Does it go borrow from the tree next door?
Does it beg God to please give it fruit?
I'm so curious.
These beautiful lemons, where in the world
do they, year after year?
I've been in this house 12 years.
I've seen these beautiful lemons every year.
Where the heck do these lemons come from?
I want you to tell me.
Jesus always said, look at nature
and you'll discover the truth.
Where in the world do these lemons come from?
Somebody tell me.
Anybody getting an aha?
Because if you understood the tree,
you would understand your life.
Where does the resources keep coming from?
Anybody getting something here?
Seed, OK?
But it's not getting the lemons from the seed anymore.
The seed made the tree.
That was done.
One seed made the tree.
But I want to know where the lemons come from.
Someone tell me.
Where do the lemons come from?
Is anybody getting anything?
Is just me fascinated with this?
Or is this something just a myth?
to think about. It's coming from within and it's inexhaustible and it'll keep on coming
and this is what Jesus tried to explain about us. It's amazing. So love gives naturally
true love gives that's why God so loved that he gave. So I want you to look at page 2 on
your guide. Okay, and this was a visual that God gave me and so you understand the flow
this this waterfall was like a three-tiered waterfall. They grabbed my attention. Okay.
So at the top of the waterfall is the source waterfall starts with the source at the top
of the water at the top of the waterfall is the source. Well, the source is God God is
love first John 4 8 the source is God. But then it says in Romans 5 5 for God's love
has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit. So the source is God, but
that love the second tier of the waterfall is our heart has been poured into our heart.
And then from that overflow, then we're able to spill out to others. So think about that
waterfall. There's always the source never be confused. God is the source but God's love
has been poured into our heart. And out of that abundance were able to pour into others.
Hey, and that's the great commandment and there's some scriptures there for you to meditate
on. So here's where it gets important. Go to the next page. Okay, that little Roman
soldier there. Okay, this statue of David. Okay, as we start to embrace God's love remember
we're breaking these lies the lies and belief and lack and all of these things as we embrace
God's love we start to learn to see ourselves as God sees us. So the poet Rumi said something
so profound Rumi says this your task is not to seek for love. Too many people are chasing
love striving love and it runs the more you chase it the more it runs just like money
the more you chase it the more it runs away. It's a law chase anything it runs away be
open and receptive and it comes to you. Okay, so Rumi says your task is not to seek for
love. We got to break the Disney spell. Okay, not looking for my night and shining armor
on a white horse. Your task is not to seek for love. But instead seek and find all the
barriers within yourself. You have built against it. You say that again, your task is not to
seek for love but seek and find all the barriers within yourself. You've built against it.
That's pretty profound. That's pretty profound. So as we embrace God's love we learn to see
ourself like he sees us and so we start removing we start removing the labels the names the
limitations that were placed on us by others or by myself. I'm not this you are this and
we start removing the masks that we put on to try to protect ourself. We can show up
authentically Shakespeare William Shakespeare says God has given you one face and you make
yourself another. Okay, Michelangelo, he would take this block of marble and he would chip chip
chip chip chip chip and you'd end up with this gorgeous statue if you've ever been to the Louvre
in Paris and Michelangelo said I just when they asked him how did you how did you come up with
David? How did you do that? And Michelangelo said I just chip away the stone that doesn't
look like David. I just chip away everything that's not David. This is what God has already
made you perfect. He's made you love. He's made you beautiful. He's made you with infinite potential
and yet in order we think to protect ourselves we add these layers. We wear these masks for
safety.
We think if we close our heart to love, we'll be protected
and we won't get hurt, but all we've done
is lock ourselves inside.
And then all we do is just repeat a cycle.
One of the things I do at night, I've
been teaching myself Spanish.
And one of the things I do at night
is I only, if I watch Netflix for an hour or something just
to unwind, I'll only watch it in Spanish.
This is how I keep my Spanish fluent.
So some of these ones are just crazy.
So I've been watching this, Envidiosa, which is envy.
So it's about this woman that is just absolutely all
she's ever wanted is to be married and have a baby.
And she's absolutely envious of everybody that gets that.
Everybody gets that ahead of her.
And she just gets so much envy.
She gets so much irritation.
She actually gets a rash on her face, which by the way,
that was really accurate because when
we have strong irritation, it comes out in the skin
very often.
So if you're extremely agitated, angry, or whatever,
you get these rashes.
I mean, unless you rolled in poison oak
and there's a natural source, but usually
there's a spiritual source.
And so she just struggles and struggles
because her father abandoned her.
And she's reliving, this is what we do.
So her father left and left her sitting
on the stairs with her sister waiting to take her to a movie.
When she was young, 6, 7, 8, never came, never came again.
She never saw her dad.
So the dad abandoned her.
And some of you really struggle with abandonment.
That's one of my core issues, right?
And so she ends up playing it out,
which is what we do the rest of her life.
And so she ends up pushing away all the people in her life.
And the last scene in this series
is a man that wants to just stand by her side
and just stay.
And she tries so hard to push him away and push him.
Her anger rages, her nagging, her whatever.
She just does everything unconsciously
to push him away because she's afraid of being abandoned
if she can push him away first.
And he addresses that just smack on and says,
I'm not going anywhere.
Why do you think everybody leaves?
And she got the revelation.
The last scene, she gets it.
This is so true of ours.
What of these patterns are you living out and repeating
over and over and over again?
So the next page goes through some of the studies
with love, like depression and anxiety.
Those that were most self-critical
were most likely to be depressed and have
difficulties in relationship.
The physical symptoms, for example, in your hands.
Arthritis on the right is being rigid and perfectionistic
or controlling personality, severe self-criticism.
Kidneys, deep, unconscious resentments,
unfounded criticism of others, repressed emotion.
So those were taken from the book Feelings Buried Alive,
Never Die.
There's a bunch of really good books that the whole science
of psychoneuroimmunology, that the symptoms in your body
are not random.
They're directly tied to emotions.
That's a whole other talk.
That's God, health, and me.
So the idea is love in action, a full cup,
naturally spills over.
So when we're filling up in God's love, when we're open,
when we're receptive, we naturally spill out.
And it reflects in health and longevity.
And it reflects in our finances.
Our love starts building trust and attracts provision.
And in business and relationships,
we strengthen connection.
So here's a little journaling exercise now.
So we already talked about what you first learned about love.
And in what ways have you and do you still
believe that you have to work for or earn love?
I want you just to be aware.
Awareness is the first step of transformation.
So in what ways are you still either believing or striving
or working to earn love?
A little place to just awareness.
And you can keep this conversation going with God
and study scripture.
We're going to replace it with truth.
Are you still striving for love?
Hey, thank you guys for sharing.
I've pushed away a lot of my relationships.
Yeah, usually that's fear, fear of the same thing repeating, you're recreating either
the abandonment or the abuse or the, you're recreating it.
So here's a, here's an example.
You guys, I had a coaching client and she was, she was a prospective coaching client.
I was just meeting her for the first time and she kept talking about abuse.
And she said, my father abused me when I was a child and she says, and then my husband
abused me so much abuse and I'm listening.
And then, then she starts catching my attention.
She says, I'm being abused by my boss at work.
I'm starting to see a pattern now.
Look for patterns.
I'm thinking, okay.
And she, then the final one, she says, so she said, my father abused me.
My husband abused me.
My boss is abusing me.
And then, then I, it was just like crystal clear.
She said, my neighbors are abusing me.
I thought, okay, okay, okay.
I said to her, sister, where are you abusing yourself?
Of course she argued with me.
Oh no, no, I'm not abusing myself.
I take really good care of myself.
I exercise.
You know, where are you abusing yourself?
No, no, no.
I don't, I don't abuse myself.
I eat really good.
I have a good diet.
Like all of this abuse, let's look within, let's think biblically, where are you abusing
yourself?
So I came from a different angle because she was sure she wasn't.
When you look in the mirror at yourself, what do you do?
She says, oh wow, I, I really beat myself up.
She just, it just came out right before she knew what she was saying.
I said, yeah, that would be abuse.
It's always there.
We're living out these patterns and recreating the external world is a reflection.
Scripture is so clear.
It's a reflection, either within ourselves or collectively as a society, we're manifesting
in our external world that the form, the external never comes first.
The internal comes first.
So what we do now is we have awareness.
I've brought like this whole part to you.
The idea was awareness and you could write this down.
Awareness is the first step to transformation.
You want to bring transformation, you got to be aware.
Awareness is the first step to transformation.
And then when we're aware, we can begin to replace it with truth.
We can replace it with truth.
Now I don't have time to do this today.
I do it in coaching, but when I start to see these, these patterns and these things come,
the first step is awareness and I help them come to awareness.
And then I help them to see that every thought, which ends up becoming an opinion, which is
a, you know, a strongly held belief, a strongly held opinion, and starts getting lived out.
It's producing a fruit.
Okay.
And so if we can look at that, and if we don't like the fruit, the external manifestation,
we've got to go back to the root, okay?
And so you come to the awareness and then you can choose.
Life is about God-given choice.
You can choose a new belief.
You can choose a new thought.
You can choose a new action.
You can choose a new vocabulary.
See the vocabulary of lack is one vocabulary, the vocabulary of abundance is totally different.
How much are you speaking lack?
I lack sleep.
I didn't get enough sleep.
I lack time.
I don't have enough time.
I lack money.
Like we lack, lack, lack.
We're speaking it.
That's one vocabulary.
Abundance is a different.
Sickness has a vocabulary.
Health is a different vocabulary.
Do you get this?
So as we're changing reverse engineering, the mind, heart, mouth, we can start replacing.
these lies with truth.
And so we said it earlier on part two here,
removing the illusions is number one,
we're learning to reason biblically.
So prosperous shift number two that you see on this page,
love isn't something external to chase,
it flows from the inside out.
So then we have to remove, number two,
remove the illusions that are blocking love.
So it begins with the awareness, we identify,
what's the limiting beliefs I've been believing?
About money, about love, about life, about business,
what's the limiting beliefs?
Because you've been living those out.
And then we begin to remove those lies,
we begin healing those past wounds,
those past misconceptions.
And we replace them with truth.
I would add that to that list, replace with truth.
So let's do that right now.
I want you to write down, this is
where you get to get involved and begin to experience this.
And thank you guys for sharing a lot of this.
OK, I think it's why I don't follow up with clients.
Yes, so here's the thing, because I'm also
pushing money away.
Yes, because you've got a limiting belief about yourself,
and you've got a limiting belief about your money
or about your business, and you're operating on that.
So yes, absolutely.
Love that you guys are getting the awareness.
So then, yeah, you won't follow up.
Very accurate, I love that.
So here's the exercise.
Number one, write down, what's the main limiting belief
that you're becoming aware of today?
Write it down.
What's the limiting belief that you got awareness of today?
Limiting belief.
What's the limiting belief that you got awareness of today?
Write that down.
And now, give you time, make sure you got that.
What's the limiting belief?
Now, here's the exercise.
It's really powerful.
This is a time of prayer.
I want you to go into a time of prayer right now.
And I want you to ask God to show you
the truth about yourself, about this limiting belief.
Ask God to show you the truth.
Ask him to show you you as he sees you.
This is a very powerful journal prayer right now.
You have a certain belief about yourself, about life,
about God, about love.
Now, ask God in prayer to show you the truth, to show you
you as he sees you.
OK, we're going to take just a couple of minutes.
I want you to really go into that prayer.
Ask God to show you, you, as he sees you.
Such a powerful exercise.
God, show me the truth.
Like David said, I desire truth in my inward being.
Show me the truth.
Speak truth, Lord.
Holy Spirit, I ask for revelation knowledge to flow. Speak truth. Break through the lies. Break through the strongholds.
Holy Spirit, I ask for revelation knowledge to flow.
Begin to come back as you're able.
Who got some revelation from that who had a shift.
Who had something.
Karen, I see you're raising your hand.
Poppy and just put shift in the chat if you want to say what the shift was great. If you just want to say shift up in the chat, let me know if something I was really praying that strongholds get broken that lies get torn down.
Love to hear what came.
Hey awesome Amanda says shift.
Hey beginning of awareness Susan.
Karen.
I wrote I'm not enough I heard immediately I am abundant. I love that so beautiful.
So to, you know, put that in writing where you can see it and begin to meditate chew on that what does that mean God said I'm under, what does that mean.
Wow.
Hey, shift.
The lemon tree got me it took a while. Yeah, I'm so glad I mean I was out in my backyard Victoria and the more it's like weird and those crazy lemons come from beautiful juicy yellow like lemon layer in the world.
when the tree's naked, that next year they're going to come again. And this is how God wants
us to live, that there's never-ending supply. God in us, there's an infinite supply that we
never run out. And there's so many scriptures of that. I'm so glad that you got that.
Oh, beautiful. Cindy said, I'm seeing. I love, thank you guys for being vulnerable and willing
to share, you know, being on this side of the chair, teaching, I just love knowing that it's
making impact. Okay. Tawana, I belong. That's a good one. There's several on this call that
that's an important, they've just so much wanted all their life to belong. And so they've
tied themselves into a pretzel trying to belong, right? And when you get to the root of it and
you understand you already belong, that's so, so, so amazing. So glad that you got that.
Now on the next page, if you can think of it, if you already know the scriptures,
so here's how it works. Whatever limiting belief that you've had, you are gathering evidence.
We are meaning making machines. We're always gathering evidence for what we believe. So if
you believe that there's a lack, you're going to see lack everywhere. You're gathering. Just look,
just look at my checkbook and my bank account. Just look like there's lack. I'm telling you,
look at the world there. Look at how many people lack. There's just, and you're gathering evidence.
Same thing for love. Oh, love never works. That's a fairy tale. There's no good men left.
There's so many good men left. Beautiful God loving men, but we're keeping them away because
we think there's no good men, right? So these beliefs are so self-limiting. And so as you get
the awareness, then from that awareness, we want to gather new evidence. So on the next page,
it says there's lines there for you to write a new biblical belief to replace each lie.
The best way to gather evidence now is begin to find biblical verses or chapters or books
that support the new belief. Okay. Oh, I love this. I got to read all this. This is so good.
Thank you, Tracy. Reminded I don't need to strive to be anything. I simply need to be me. Can you
imagine how beautiful that is? If we would just authentically be ourselves and not try to be
the lemon trees, not trying to be a peach tree, right? Linda got a beautiful revelation on that.
You know, the daffodil is not trying to be the rose. Come on. You are so beautiful. You are made
for your divine purpose. You are unique. You have a unique thumbprint, a unique eye print.
You have a unique purpose. You have a unique design. Only you can do that. And there's no
lack. And so I love that. Simply need to be me. That's so beautiful. Okay. Bev got a shift. Thank
for speaking up that people won't see the value of what I bring. That's a big one. The imposter
syndrome that comes up a lot for new coaches that people won't see the value of what you bring.
So there's an exercise for that. Let me just give a side bonus, any of you that relate to that.
One of the exercises I do with my coaching clients is I have them take out a sheet of paper.
And on that white sheet of paper, they just start scribbling all over all the ways that they add
value, all the ways they help. I help them get clarity. I help them discover their purpose. I
help like all the way to start writing and just fill up the page with all the ways you add value.
Keep that in a clear sheet, keep it nearby before you get on the phone, before you talk to a
potential client, just look at that again. And then for most that experience is like, wow,
actually I add a lot of value. Like let's stop this chatter, this nonsense. I've had a lot of
value, right? And that helps with that Bev. So thank you for bringing that up. You're not the
only one to feel that. Okay. Susan, money issues, guilt over debt, blame and shame can't be trusted
with money. Okay. Listing for the truth. Okay. I love that. That's so, that's so beautiful. So
of these frequencies, okay. The lowest frequency that we have recorded, the lowest wavelength that
we have recorded is shame. And it's something
I think you want to eliminate from your vocabulary and from your mind.
OK, it's used to control.
It's used for manipulation.
Parents will say you should be ashamed of yourself.
Teachers will say you should be ashamed.
Even have, you know, kids and family or
whatever begin to try to put shame on you, do not receive shame.
It's not of God.
OK, and it's the lowest frequency below that is like death.
You can't go any lower.
So we want to raise that frequency.
And so, Susan, we should do a coaching around that and we'll raise that frequency
and get right past that and move into action and solutions.
And but right now with what we're doing, take the the truth.
And if you know God's word.
Write some biblical verses to support your new truth.
So those of you that said, I'm I'm seeing I am love.
I am enough like you're breaking the lies of lack that I not enough.
I don't have enough. It's all lack.
All of that is just fear based lack.
They're all just different forms.
I don't have enough lack.
I am not enough lack.
Right.
My clients won't think I'm enough lack.
These are all these are all just lack based thinking.
Right.
And so.
Right now, I want you to write down some biblical verses.
And nowadays with chat, TPT or even all of the AI that's built into all the search
engines, if you don't know, just type in what verses help break
the belief in shame or what verses, you know.
Counter that, you know, what verses teach that I am prosperous or that I am love or
what verses help free me from guilt or whatever it is you're struggling.
If you don't know, you can look them up.
Chat, TPT can give you a really great Bible study, ask it to write you a Bible
study, tell me all the verses to break the fear or break the shame or break
the guilt or break through debt, whatever.
OK.
Really good, really good.
So write some verses down or look up, find some verses real quick.
Then we'll keep moving.
Write down.
We're gathering evidence for the new belief.
The new belief, the truth, replacing lies, breaking down strongholds.
Hey, Heather. Hey, Jamie.
I didn't say hi to you earlier.
I didn't see you, see you pop in there.
Glad you're here.
Find some more evidence.
That young man.
Gather that evidence.
And then what happens is going to be repetition.
You learned the belief that you have now by repetition.
You kept on repeating over and over.
Oh, no, I don't have enough.
Put the feeling to it.
Oh, my goodness. Right.
And and it becomes part of you.
And so we begin to change this with repetition of the truth.
So let's just say, OK, I don't have enough.
I lack and you can see behind me
or another verse would be, my God will supply all my needs according to his
riches in glory. Right.
Never have the righteous been forsaken nor bacon for bread.
Right.
I don't know if I can do it.
I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.
OK, so begin to have.
The verses, it could be around healing.
Could be around all of these things.
OK.
Love it.
OK.
I love that Ephesians three, 20.
Now to him who is able
to do immeasurably more than all we could ask, imagine, according to his power,
that's at work within us. Beautiful, beautiful.
OK, let's take a four.
minute break. We're going to get into part three. Oh, it's the
best. It's the juiciest. But I want you awake, drink some
water, move. I'm going to push pause. Let's come back at the
top of the hour stretch, do some jumping jacks, get some fresh
air. Come on, come on. Let's have lots of energy for part
three. Okay.
Recording in progress.
I love I love your comments. I love your takeaways. So I love
the fact that you realize you say I struggle with this a lot
more than I thought. Yeah. So many of us we think if you think
like a victim, here's different levels of awareness. If you
think like a victim, you think that life is just happening to
you. The victim mentality is everything's happening to me.
Why does this always happen to me? Why do I keep going through
this all the time? Because you're you haven't gotten to
the root, you're just reacting out the same patterns over and
over again. So the next level of awareness life is happening to
me. The next level of awareness is when you start to realize
biblically, wow, what I think really does matter. I'm called
to be transformed by the renewing of my mind. Wow, the
Bible has so much to say about my words. I am speaking, like
into existence things I made in the image of God and my words,
the Bible says the power of life and death is in the tongue. Wow,
I have power with my thoughts. I have power with my words, the
power of life and death is in the tongue. The second part of
that verse is and we eat the fruit thereof. Okay, so wow, my
feelings really have that much impact me just mulling in a
certain state, a certain frequency actually affects my
organs actually creates dis-ease. Really? Yeah,
psychoneuroimmunology is a huge field. The relationship between
our feelings and our immune system, our health, incredible,
incredible. I love when I'm talking about levels of
awareness. Victim, life is happening to me, poor me, life's
happening to me, you're waiting for everything outside of you to
change. Then you get some awareness that I can make
certain things happen. That's a lot of the self-help world out
there. Just make it happen. Manifest it. That's most of the
self-help, which is it's a much higher frequency, at least you
started to take some of your power back and you're not acting
as a victim, just everything's happening to you. It's a higher
level of awareness. An even higher level of awareness is
life is happening through me, which is what we're really
talking about here. I start to have the awareness of my
identity. Who am I in Christ? What power and what authority
has been given? What am I allowing to create through me?
That's a higher level of awareness. I love that many of
you are growing in awareness. Just the awareness that I
struggle with this more than I thought. Most people are not
thinking about their thinking. They're just busy doing their
human doings. They're not human beings. I love the very fact
that your name means worthy of love. This is what I strongly
believe. I believe you have a divine identity, who you are in
Christ. I believe you have a divine purpose. It's my great
joy to help people discover their purpose. I believe you
have a God given vision that you're here to live out. Part
of that is there is something in you that you're here to prove.
I love that it's built right in your name. You're here to prove
the truth. Scripture says that you're more than worthy of love.
Because you're the apple of God's eye. You're made in his
image. You're dearly loved. Each of us have something. The more
you understand your purpose and your vision, this is where
coaching is so powerful. This is why community is so powerful.
For me, I was so taught that you have to strive and you have to
sacrifice. I was raised that in order to be successful, you
sacrifice. You sacrifice sleep. My dad used to say, I can sleep
when I'm dead. He died early because of that.
that forget about it, just work.
Do what others won't now so you can do what others can't.
And so people just sacrifice, sacrifice health,
sacrifice relationships, sacrifice your life,
sacrifice your joy, all of that, right?
And so I'm here, Prosper in All Things,
the name of my company, I'm here to prove 3 John 2.
3 John 2 goes like this, beloved.
So it starts with love, be loved, be loved.
Above all, I pray you may prosper in all things,
physically, relationally, spiritually, financially,
prosper in all things, and be in health,
even as your soul prospers.
That's 3 John, OK?
So beloved, I pray that you prosper in all things
and be in health, even as your soul prospers.
Your soul is your mind, will, and emotions.
This is an equation.
As your mind, your will, and your emotions prosper,
you're going to prosper in all things.
So my whole life has been dedicated
to proving, to living that out, to teaching it.
You're here to prove something as well.
And for Christ, for God, for love, OK?
So, so beautiful.
Let me see.
You guys put all kinds of stuff here I want to read.
OK.
Reset and refreshing in the midst of the journey.
Love it, OK?
Oh, you heard that too, I'll sleep when I'm dead.
Isn't that annoying?
OK, yeah.
No, I get plenty of sleep.
Our sleep is tied to our immune system.
Get plenty of sleep, unless I'm dancing.
OK, Nicole, Hebrews 10, 35 and 36.
So do not throw away your confidence.
It will be richly rewarded.
That hits home to me.
Love it, with I am enough.
So good, you guys are getting some good, juicy stuff.
I love that.
OK, here's the next concept then.
It's an extension of that, part three,
is that we now start living from instead of for.
We start living from love instead of for love.
Or another way of looking at this
is we're living from who God says we are.
We're living from abundance.
We're living from this overflow, from this fullness.
We're living from God in me.
Not trying to get to something or trying to work for something.
That can sound like a little nuance.
But that's the difference, the split
of where those two end up, working for or trying
to get to something and working from something
is like night and day, where you end up.
Peace, health, abundance, joy.
All of it.
So it's a super exciting concept, really.
I could really spend a lot.
Most of us, and I kind of talked about this at the beginning,
most of us are constantly trying to get to something.
And part of the power of you really applying this
and really having joy is learning to live in the now.
So let me get a drink here.
We've been taught a timeline model of things,
that there's a past.
And a lot of us spend a lot of time
in that past, which leads to what you're talking about.
Shame, blame, regret, all kinds of low frequency.
Or nostalgia, just wishing for the good old days.
But it robs our present.
So most of us are either living in the past
or we think that the past is what is creating our future.
And so we think we're just a result of our past.
Or we're living in the future.
And we're missing what's happening right here.
So we keep trying to get to something.
When I get this, once I have this, after I get this,
then I can be happy, healthy, prosperous.
So we're always putting off everything in the future.
And Jesus had so.
so much to say about take no thought for tomorrow.
Tomorrow has enough worries of its own.
Have so much to say about living in the present.
And it's in this moment and this moment alone
that your prayers are answered.
It's in this moment that you can create transformation.
It's in this moment.
God showed me once in prayer that all of eternity
is contained in every moment.
It's a holographic universe,
but the idea is in this very moment is everything.
When we can learn to stop rushing, hurrying,
trying to get to something that is sacrificing our present
and stay grounded right here in right now.
If we can understand that the past does not exist anymore,
you can't go in the past and change it.
You can't go do anything with it.
It's gone.
The only thing you can do in your memory,
because it's just a memory,
is you can reactivate it
and keep bringing it into the present
and rob the joy from the present.
And like I said, take you in a low frequency.
You're looking in the past, so you're in shame.
You're in blame.
You're in regret.
You're in disappointment.
You're in disillusionment, whatever.
When you can understand that the past is gone
and you can bless it, you can release it,
you can glean it like a field.
Let me pull, what was the lessons?
Let me bring the lessons.
What was the blessings?
Let me bring the blessings.
But beyond that, we're not gonna dwell there.
We don't allow ourselves to dwell there.
We're gonna live right here, right now.
This is how true transformation happens.
So the truth is the past does not create your present.
What's interesting about that is that we're seeing the past
through our present lens.
So you all understand that you don't see life as it is.
You see it as you are.
You've got to understand first and foremost perception,
right, point of view, perspective, right?
So we're looking at our past
through the lens of what we know today.
And we're imprinting that on there.
So the past does not have to equal the present.
You can actually reframe your past
and you can choose to make it a blessing.
You can choose to thank God for it.
You can choose to say,
because of that, I learned and I became.
Because of that, I'm able to.
So you can glean the blessings,
you can forgive and release the rest.
If you're still living in the past with unforgiveness,
this is a bondage that is robbing everything from you.
We don't forgive someone for their sake
or because they deserve it.
It's for our sake.
You ever heard unforgiveness is like drinking a poison
and hoping that it kills the other person?
No, it's a poison that's killing you.
And so there's a wonderful exercise that you can do
and you can write this down,
but you can say, I release.
So you literally need to let go.
Some of you need to actually visualize