So the thing I really want to talk to you today is how do you unlock the power of your
yoke?
You know, we've talked a lot about being yoked with the Lord.
What does that mean?
And we, you know, we've, we've used as our foundation, Matthew 11, 20, we really use
three key scriptures.
So when you're thinking about kingdom executive, partnering with God, leading with God, and
by the way, my book, Leading with God will be out shortly, right, Jenny?
And what we're going to do with that is what we, the three core scriptures we've built
around is Matthew 11, obviously 28 through 30, as the foundation of Jesus saying, come,
you can't come and yoke with me if you're stressed out, heavy laden burden, hey, let's
start step one, let's exchange that for rest, because that sets us up.
It activates our yoke, our partnership in the Lord.
So, and then he said, come and learn from me, for I am humble and I'm lowly.
That means he will talk to your level wherever you are, and he knows what you need.
He has a dream for your business, he has a dream for how you're going to do this together.
And so he moves us out of this servant mode, trying to do things for God, and starts to
move us into friendship mode, doing things with God.
And that ties into the scripture where Jesus said, I don't call you servants any longer,
I call you friends.
Why?
Because servants don't know what their master is doing, but friends do, and I will teach
you, I love this, everything the Father taught me.
So now the yoke gets him, you get invited to the yoke, and then the Father pitches in,
and he says, oh, and by the way, the Father, you are God's workmanship created in yoke,
created in Jesus, which the Father has prepared beforehand for you to do what?
For you to actually walk in, for you to truly execute on, to truly step into those prepared
things.
Now, I don't think that the Father is talking about he's prepared every little, you know,
thing you're going to do, and what you're going to have for breakfast tomorrow morning
or whatever, you know, who you're going to hire.
What he's talking about is his purposes, God's purposes.
He's so committed to his purposes, and as you, you know, drive your business into the
world, you get all the pushback from people's wills and people, you know, because he's not
going to override everybody's will to execute, because he won't go against himself.
So in that situation, he has to navigate through all the people's will.
The person he wanted you to join your team and didn't, the person who joined your team
and shouldn't have, et cetera, all that stuff, the client you thought you were going to get,
the position you thought you were going to get, God navigates all that stuff because
his purposes are ultimately immovable.
But between here and his purpose being fulfilled, there are a multitude of pathways left open
to a lot of people being involved, and the Lord honoring their free will in the process.
So what does that mean?
Well, that leads us to Romans 8.28, which is he's so confident in himself and in his
partnership with you that he says all things, all this stuff, even if it looks like it's
going wrong, all things work together for the good of them that love God, our partnership,
and are called according to his purpose.
Back to the purpose word again.
So what the Lord is saying to us is, I'm in this with you.
Hey, you partnered with Jesus in this business, so you have a yoke partner.
And then a few months ago, we started breaking through what does the yoke mean.
Such a clever word because the world listens to that and says it sounds so restrictive,
sounds harsh, and God hides freedom in a word that sounds harsh to the world.
Isn't that clever?
I think that's genius.
And so he hides your biggest freedom, the place you're going to find the deepest fulfillment,
the most freedom, the feel most alive, he hides in this idea of yoke because you and
Jesus are one.
And you know, when we say brilliant, God loves you in the same way that he loves Jesus.
People go, well, what about me, which is such a crazy thing to say, because it means you
don't realize you and he are one.
The part you're talking about died, the old you died, and now the new you, which is Christ
in you, is the new you.
And so God loves you in exactly the same way he loves Jesus.
And so that sets you up and positions you in the most favorable part in his heart.
It positions you in favor.
So now we don't function towards favor, we're not trying to walk towards favor, we're not
trying to dial favor in through our behavior and performance.
We function from favor because we are in yoke with the one.
For whom all of heaven is attracted to
So that's an extraordinary starting place. So I put that as just a quick
Start up thought around just bring everybody up to speed in case you've missed a few
As we've gone through this. So what does yoke mean to you this partnership this?
It means you can use everything you get from the lord as yoke something
The lord started speaking to me about this and he said hey, I want you to learn our yoke voice
You have a voice. I have a voice but when we're ministering together, there's a yoke voice. That's different
And I thought well, what is that then lord?
And so it's not just tone and presentation and quality of delivery
It's about capturing element of his heart that you so uniquely express that yoke voice
And lord, what about those promises? Yeah, those are yoke promises. They're in jesus. So we'll say what's the difference?
Well, the difference is every promise god has given you for your life
For your business for your team
He gave to jesus in you so it doesn't go anywhere
Can't get messed up. Can't get lost. Can't get derailed
Every promise is held by jesus in you now
That's pretty good news
And then I realized so there's yoke promises then there's you know
Yoke voice and then you can literally start adding yoke anything to that including your yoke business
So the question is how do we up level this to a neck because I think when I hear
a lot of executive training programs
A lot of it has got to getting them to shift their thinking to move to a new mind
But the bible says you have the mind of christ
Okay, so we have the mind of christ
We're in yoke
We have yoke permission and yoke promises yoke provisions that that the father's already prepared before and for us to walk in
so the question is
How do we step in to that potential? In other words, how do we kind of do a 10x shift in our yoke?
So to set a baseline i'd like you to answer four questions quick if you would you can run a piece of paper or
Notes or whatever you want to do
Question number one. I just want to set a baseline then we're going to talk and then we're going to come back to this
Number one. What are the three things you need right now can be in your life your business your team
What are the three things you need?
right now
So write that down
What are the three things you need not right now?
And by the way, just like pull them straight out of your heart. Don't overthink these answers to these questions
Just whatever's right there in front of you just go with that
Okay, are we ready to go to the next one next one is
So what are the three things you need right now? Just simple bullet points
What is your unique ability?
What is your yoke ability
When you and the lord partner up something unique is expressed what is that
And don't say well, I don't know just out of your heart don't over don't let your mind lead the conversation
Just straight out of your spirit from your inner being just write what comes to you
If you already know pretty cool
So it's not just your unique ability. It's your yoke ability your you and jesus together. What happens?
He has abilities you have abilities, but when you're together, what happens?
There's an ability there
That is straight out of heaven that you were designed and purposed for he fashioned and shaped you
Right down to jeremiah 29 11. I know
The intentions the kind intentions I have towards you. I know some bibles translate as plans
It's sort of an odd english word for that
But it literally means these kind intentions to bless you prosper give you hope and a future. So what is that?
Got that am I going too fast slow down? How are we doing? We're good
All right. Next question then is um
Right now what is it you want for your life
Just what do you want?
Simple question. What do you want?
Now when I say that
don't
Don't
Don't say well
Don't generalize it like oh, I just want his will and I just want what's best for the universe
And I want peace for all mankind. Okay, we get that. That's lovely. What do you want?
What burns in you what grips you what's his man? I want this
If it's got multiple elements write the multiple elements, what is it you want?
Okay, so if jesus arrived physically in person right now in where in the room you're sitting in and he says to you
I just want his will and I just want what's best for the universe
just gave you in full the desires of your heart.
What is it you want?
What did he just give you?
What do you want?
If God gave you the desires of your heart, what did he just give you?
And I'm not just talking about he put his desires in you,
but if those desires were fulfilled, if he gave you what you wanted,
what would he just have given you? Okay. How are we doing?
Still need time? Just indicate to me if you're good.
If you need time, we can take, we don't have to rush through this.
This is the main thing I really want to get across.
Okay.
And then
let's go to, okay,
if you had clarity and courage and a
powerful conviction about what you're doing and you had
all the resources you need, so you had clarity,
you know what it's about. You had the courage,
you had the conviction and all the resource you need.
What would you do next?
And it's okay to say, I'll be doing exactly what I'm doing now.
That's fine. If that's what it is.
So what we're attempting to do here is to
start you in a very provocative conversation
with your yoke partner, with Jesus. Lord,
one of the questions I love most when we launched the ambassador program,
when we were telling people how to think about this,
because we knew that when you offer somebody an opportunity or a business
thing, the first thing they're going to think of is all the downstairs
practicalities. Can I have time? Am I going to do this? How much money can I make?
How many people will I impact? And those are all good things,
but we wanted to immediately make it a relational engagement moment,
a direct learning moment. So we gave them this question, ask the father,
what is your dream for my impact? Father,
what is your dream for my impact?
And what that, what that unlocks in people is it,
it takes them away from looking to their past.
So I want to steal an idea from Dan Sullivan for a minute.
When he talks about two X and 10 X, when he's talking about two X,
he says the reason why, and we've talked a bit about this,
but just do a super fast recap that when you're thinking two X,
you're consulting your past.
You're negotiating with your past for your future.
So you're going to your past and saying, well,
it took a hundred units of effort to get to this. And so if we're going to do two X,
it's going to take 200 units.
And I'm just discouraged now because I have no idea I'm going to double my
effort, right?
Because what two X does is it looks to your past and it tries to extrapolate who
you've been until now as to who you're going to be in the future.
But the kingdom doesn't work this way because you're in a yoke with the,
with three geniuses of the universe, father, son, and Holy spirit.
What 10 X does is it says, well, if we're going to 10 X,
we've got to go from a hundred units to a thousand units of effort.
And if efficacy and impact,
I can't look to the past cause we've never done that before.
So we have to refresh new thinking. That's what we're doing today.
I want to start you off on a new way of thinking with the Lord.
So 10 X growth happens though,
when you eliminate 80% that only delivers incremental results.
So that means you have to figure out what's the 20% where the multiplication
exists because that 20% is also where your,
your unique ability, your yoke ability lies in that 20%.
So that kind of transformation shifts our thinking for with the Lord.
So I've been going through this for about a year.
And when I started this conversation with the Lord,
I was a bit unsure about it. And all that happened, I saw a title.
That's all I saw. It was some YouTube title or something.
It's probably Dan Sullivan's book or whatever.
And I just saw 10 X is easier than two X. That's all I saw.
I didn't read the book or watch anything at that time. And I said,
but the Lord just grabbed that thing. You know how he does. And he's, Oh,
this is important. Pay attention. So he grabbed, he gripped my heart.
You know, you know, our stuff sometimes just jumps up and bites you in the heart.
Yeah. Well that one did that for me. Just bit me so hard. And I said, Lord,
I've been doing so much two X.
stuff we're trying to you know get teams moving we're moving at a good pace but it doesn't feel
like this is an expression of what you've called me to this doesn't feel like a yoke thing this
just feels like permission upstairs and doing pretty well downstairs stuff and and and you know
oh i get that i get that but it wasn't enough i mean how many of you right now as you're listening
to this just it just wakes you up when i say what you've got isn't enough for you anybody you want
to raise your hands and let me know okay so i'm talking to three or four you that's fantastic
well we'll have fun on this together i know for most of us in the kingdom there's not enough
we want so much more but we don't want to be you know we want to do it in his will we don't want
to get into believerism we don't want to get into presumption and all these other little things we
think are holding us up but actually none of i wanted to swipe that away and i want to say this
transformation is going to require three c's it's going to require courage clarity and conviction
courage to let go of what no longer belongs to you this is like super hard to do this is really
hard to do because the 2x stuff in us brought us to this place but what brought you here is not
going to take you to your 10x level in jesus not at all so you can't look to your past and who
you've been in your past and what got you here you have to have a whole new way of thinking secondly
clarity clarity about your unique ability in jesus your yoke ability can i keep calling it
yoke ability you know what i mean by now with that word so that that's the one thing that so
encapsulates your life and your purpose and inspires you and when you do it you go i feel
so alive when i do this i'm so like everything everything in me feels like i was born to do this
that's the ability i'm talking about the thing that fires you up and drives you forward
and then the third thing is conviction to the conviction to pursue what god is placed in your
life without needing to justify to anyone okay let's talk about those things quick so
here's just what we've been learning as a team uh and you know if a lot of people have shared the
whole partnership with you know the higdon group and some of the things we're doing glenn joining
us and some of the things are all those kind of what i feel like 10x movements i'm just going to
be pretty transparent and just tell you how i got there and i hope that's helpful to you as you
process this with the lord honestly i feel like if you could take some time and go and work on
the go and talk to the lord about this because i think this is the thing that 10x is your and by
the way when i say 10x i don't mean within 12 months or some sort of time frame i'm just that
you're heading there because 10x requires subtraction to get to multiplication sounds
contradictory but it's true 10x requires a subtraction of the things you're doing not more
stuff not working harder so we have to subtract so how much do we have to subtract well it turns
out about 80 so here's the question what's the 80 i need to let go of so the 20 can consume
my heart and mind you know in other words what am i like really in the habit of doing
you know what's my history here whatever it is and and so the key borrowing from dan on this
the key here is it's about who first then what who can take this off my plate
who there 80 of what you do can be taken off by some by somebody else right you can hand off 80
of what you do so that's the subtraction piece now obviously we're not saying do do this in two
days but you have to start the process of the subtraction so that you can access the multiplication
multiplication not not a downstairs intuitive thought right so let's talk for a second then
so that was point number one what's the 80 i need to let go point number two
focusing on the 20 so now we focus on the what so if who can deal with the 80 the what deals with
the 20 and here's what are we talking about what deserves your attention
father what deserves our yoke attention
jesus what deserves what's your standard for what requires my attention
Because if I say what's my standard, I probably set it way too low and give too much stuff
my attention, right?
But Father, what is your standard for our yoke of what requires our yoke attention?
What do you want us to focus on together?
So the Who helps us get rid of the 80% over time.
More and more Whos, we hand stuff off, and then we move more and more to the What.
What requires my attention?
Okay, so personal story here for a minute.
So about a couple of years ago, and throughout my life, I've always had this thing about
leadership and about the kingdom, but I never knew how to connect the two.
Then about five or six years ago, it started to become really connection.
Because everything I heard, when I heard the word kingdom leadership, all I heard was
Christians in business, and it was all about principle.
And in my view, principle is a downstairs expression of an upstairs relational reality.
And the reason why principles work is because you can do principle without relationship.
You can follow the principles of Scripture and not know the Lord from Adam.
And they'll work for you.
It's like gravity.
They're like the laws of heaven.
They work for everyone, and it's God's kindness to all.
And so I'm not against people teaching principle, but I felt it was a very small thing.
Every time I hear, oh, these are the core principles of the kingdom, I always hear small
in my head, because it feels like there's no yoke piece to this.
What's the kingdom advantage?
Where's the relational engagement?
Where's the direct learning?
Where's stepping into the things the Father has set before us?
Where's that?
And I could never find that, even though we ran a leadership company at the time.
So my own journey was this, Lord, what requires my attention?
And then the Lord said, kingdom leadership requires your attention.
That's what requires our attention.
I said, well, what does that mean?
Now that's a good question to start.
What does that mean for us, Lord?
And the Lord said, I, sorry, just got a little overwhelmed for a minute.
The Lord said, I want to change the way churches are run.
I want to change the way businesses are run.
And I want to change the way families are run.
That's going to require kingdom leadership.
And I said, okay, that's a big, that's a lot.
And so if you look at the, for those of you on the Berlin School of Leadership, and this
year we offer our electives for the first time, look what the electives all are.
Those are the electives.
They're addressing those core issues.
So the question I said to the Lord is, okay, I want to focus everything on the 20%.
Help me get there.
And the Lord isn't saying, he's not doing this as an exercise to measure you and judge
you by.
He's doing this as an exercise to invite you into his heart for you.
He's inviting you into his space, into his life.
And he's constantly trying to get God to connect into their lives.
This is how you get God, invite God into your life.
You should just involve God in your life.
And he's zero interested in that plan.
He's interested in inviting you into his life in the kingdom, which is massive and full
of life and full of authority.
And it shifts the world.
First it shifts your world.
It activates the kingdom in you.
Then it activates the kingdom in others.
And when we get into this, the immediate pushback is it isn't practical.
Well, you know, we have to pay the bills.
It's like God doesn't know about that.
It's really hilarious.
Okay, number three, am I living from want or need?
I'm going to borrow from Dan on this little illustration because I think it's a really
good one.
But before I do, let's just put it into our framework.
See need is a downstairs thing.
I need this.
I need to pay the bills.
I need to do payroll.
I need to I need this.
I need a you know, I need an EA, which I do, by the way.
And so do you, Ben.
And so does Jenny.
I need this. I need this.
I need. And that's why I asked you to start with your needs, because need starts in a
place of scarcity.
People who are need focused think of all resources as a single pie.
And then if you if you want more, if you want more than you need, then you must be
taking it from somewhere else.
Somebody else is going to suffer.
Oh, well, you're just a CEO and you got rich on the backs of all your employees.
I'm sure that's been said to you once at least in your life.
Right.
OK, but none of that.
That's true, that comes from a scarcity driven by needs mindset that says there's a limited
supply and if you want more than you need, you're out of line, which is by the way the
foundation of socialism.
It's based on the idea that there's this one pie which magically appears, no one ever talks
about how it actually got there, it magically appears and now it's best to let some authority
govern who gets what.
So that is the foundational idea, the kingdom deeply rejects this idea because the kingdom
starts with an upstairs abundance.
There's literally nothing that you cannot have in God.
So your yoke with Jesus wants something, I asked you earlier what do you want?
Now when I say that, most of us feel that when we answer that question we have to justify
it.
Because if I said to you why do you want that and then you tell me and I'll say but why
do you need that?
How many of you had that question asked?
Why do you need that?
I don't need it, I want it.
I don't need justification for what I want.
But when that one is born in God's heart then instead of justification all I need is permission.
So we say it brilliant, upstairs permission leads to downstairs bold action.
So what is it you want in God?
What is it you want more than anything else?
And if he arrived in the room and he said I just gave you all of that, what did he just
give you?
So I don't live from justifying why do you want that house?
Why do you want that ministry?
Why do you want this?
What do you need that for?
And that need question what do you need that for and justification comes from the scarcity
downstairs worldly mindset.
Because Jesus' answer is all things are possible.
Let me introduce you to the Father.
All things are possible.
The genius Holy Spirit who created the universe wrote the word of God's counseling the entire
church bringing everyone to wholeness and fullness.
He's in on this what is it you need?
Where are we going?
I know I'll take care of your needs according to my riches and glory.
Yeah, yeah, consider that done.
The downstairs bits, you know, yes payroll, get that.
I know what you need.
And Jesus said your Father knows what you need before you even ask Him.
So clearly need wasn't like the key driver.
He's like, man, yeah, consider that.
You can take that for granted.
You know, as Graham says, when God grants you something, He expects you to take Him
for granted.
So all this, oh, don't be in presumption, brothers, all downstairs scarcity mindset
designed to lock you into a small space.
What is what will unleash the kingdom is leaders who become fiercely courageous about their
20 percent, about I want this.
God places that want.
God puts His desires in your heart so that He can partner with you in them so that He
can bring all of heaven's resources to connect with you in that.
That's a whole different.
So God is not trying to talk you out of your wants.
He's trying to talk you into His want.
He's talking you out of your need focus into His desire that He's placed in your heart
because He wants to ignite those wants together with you.
So now you can ask the question.
So Father, what do we want?
Jesus, what are we wanting here?
And a lot of times when I ask the Lord that question, He goes, what do you want?
He wants it to be a relationship.
You're not a servant.
You're a friend.
This doesn't work in servant mode.
I just talked about you cannot access your yoke in servant mode.
It's not possible.
And that's why I think a vast amount of believers focus on being a servant.
And obedience is the number one thing.
Of course we're obedient.
If the Lord said something, why wouldn't I be?
I love my Father.
I love Jesus.
I love the Holy Spirit.
Of course we're going to partner and do it.
But it's such an elementary thing.
Because children focus on obedience.
Sons and daughters focus on identity and authority.
What are we doing here?
When you're sitting with the Father and you're looking over the estate, you know, like in
Downton Abbey, you're sitting over the estate and you say, hmm, shall we build a market
over there?
Yes, let's build a market over there.
And we could open up all those houses and we can do this for the community and we can
build that.
And what if we did this?
But you wouldn't speak about that to a five-year-old.
You'd say, go and clean your room and be obedient.
And the church got stuck there somehow in the obedience mode.
Because that keeps you in the eternal babyhood of the believer.
Well, you know, obedience is important.
Of course.
Jesus learned obedience. We all learn obedience. Obedience is included. It's obvious. Yes,
of course, it's included, but that's not the big thing. Sorry, a little passionate there
for a moment. Okay, backing down a moment. So number four is what is your core ability?
What is your yoke ability? What is your unique ability that God fashioned and formed you?
Let's get into that and then we'll wrap this. Now, if you think when I asked you, do you
have abilities? How many of you put down multiple answers to that? Three, four, five, six, two.
Okay, some people. Okay. So when you put on multiple answers, it means if you put on 10,
probably seven of them could be done by someone else. You're just learning because you haven't
got rid of the 80% yet. But if you got it down to one or two things, you're definitely
honing in and the Lord's. It's only caring about what God thinks about the thing you
love most. One of the biggest freedom moments for me in the last two years was when the
Lord said to me, you do not have to have an opinion on what everyone else is doing. You
only have to have my opinion on what you're doing. So people come to you. What do you
think of this ministry? Bless them. I don't know. Even if I do know, you know, people
pitch me all the time because they know I've been connected to various ministries or various
things. What do you think of this? And what do you think so and so's theology? I'm sure
that's between them and the Lord. But I do know what the Lord thinks about theology.
You want to hear about that? So it's so free. Marcus Aurelius once said, exercise your right
to have no opinion over the things of which you have no control. Isn't that the most kingdom
mindset thing right away? Why are believers where we're not in our core ability because
we're all on social media shouting and mouthing off about stuff we have absolutely no control
over? Now, if God's called you to that and that's your thing and God's... So I ask people
this all the time. You're interested in this thing and that thing and this thing and you
think, oh, well, I just want to be informed. I've just got a broad group of interest. You
know, I have abilities. No, that's the very 80% nonsense that's keeping you away from
your 20% core ability because you're not in on the game. You're not committing to that.
What you're doing is diluted it to this broad. Now I know everything about nothing. You know,
you know, but now you need to get to know more and more about less and less. And ask
the Lord, what do you... I'm not saying you shouldn't, you know, watch the news and stay
informed, but don't get fixated on it. Don't get engaged. You know what I'm talking about,
all the news junkies out there. You know what I'm saying? Get free from that. It's a trap.
It's bondage designed to keep you in mediocrity. It really is. So abandon opinions on all other
fights and focus on your fight, your one thing, your unique ability, that one thing. For me,
that's kingdom leadership. That's what I care about. I want to see it established in the
people around me. I want to see, you know, Bridget and I are very focused on this and
how this works in a marriage, in a family, in raising kids. We're super focused on how
the church is governed. That's why we run a whole church governance course. And every
single person who listens to that church governance course says, I've never heard this before.
People with two PhDs in theology told me that. Just saying, there's a kingdom way that so
grips you and all you care about is the transformation of the bride. Because Jesus has an extraordinarily
high opinion of His bride and He's asking us to have the same. But we spend all the
time telling her who she's not and He's not in on that plan. I tell you right away, God
is not in the plan telling the bride who she's not and the church what she's not. And we've
all done that. I'll speak about myself here. So the Lord said, I want you to come in agreement
with what I am raising a beautiful bride. Would you attend to her? Would you tell her
she's beautiful? Will you tell her she's loved, that she's fully accepted, that I'm with her,
that I'll never leave her, nor forsake her? Why are we doing all this church hurt and
all this stuff? Yes, I get that there's bad governance out there, but I also get there's
good governance. There are people who are really good at church governance and they
bring so much life to so many people. So it's going to take courage, guys, clarity and conviction.
Now I want to give you a practical thing as we go through it. You know how we always do
the four square thing, right? So think about your impact versus effort, right? So let's
draw four squares with impact and effort. And you know the thing that for you, it's
such a joy to you and it's also high impact. That's obviously your quadrant one thing.
The thing that's low joy to you and takes tremendous effort is obviously a four. So
I ask the Lord, give me, give me, how do you see
What will help this group of so-called CEOs step into that space with you?
And the Lord said, a lot of leaders are like a hot air balloon.
But they've got these strings or these ropes are tied.
So they fire up, they crank the heat, get excited, get focused.
The balloon starts to rise and then it stops. Why?
It's still got the ropes tied.
And so that's where we get stuck.
And so what are the ropes? The ropes are quadrant two, three and four.
The 80 percent, the stuff you need to be getting rid of.
Cutting those ropes is you getting rid of the stuff that isn't core to what you do.
That other people can do.
To free you up to do less.
So as we subtract the ropes, we hit the multiplication in height.
I love that.
So this may help you identify your core ability.
If it does not feel like you're being exposed in a way like, wow, OK, I'm out there now.
Then, you know, it's not your core ability.
I mean, when we stepped out in this new program, right.
Right. When we stepped out in this new program, it felt exposing.
Right. Oh, you're peddling the word of God.
You know, all the stuff, all the religious scarcity, need based stuff started to flush.
And that's OK. That's part of bringing healing to some of those people.
And so the question is what. So that's a good question.
What would thrill me and expose me at the same time? That's a great question.
What would thrill me? What would thrill you right now?
That you would feel like, oh, my goodness, how good is my life?
And at the same time feel really exposed.
Secondly, what if what if your life feels more what feels like play to you is power to others?
What feels like play to you is power to others.
And finally, what's the thing that makes me feel most alive when I do it?
There's so much grace flowing through me that I leave energized with more energy after the thing than before the thing.
Look, guilt, guilt about this, about being successful and growing and having an impact.
Guilt is the story you tell yourself about what you deserve.
Living as a new creation is about living a life that he deserves and paid for you to have.
So your unique ability is not about what you do.
It's about how you do what you do in the unique way you do it.
So let's go back to the four questions.
Would you change your answers now?
What are the three things you need right now?
Yep, put them in there, but Lord, you know I need them.
Take him off the stress table. No need for stress there.
What is your core ability? Lord, what's that yoke ability that we have together?
And what is it you want more than anything in this world?
That if God gave it to you, you'd know that you received it.
And then, if you have that clarity and courage and conviction, and you already have all the resources of heaven, what would you do next?