Alright, welcome you guys to a PATH session.
We haven't had one in a while and we're going to have one tonight because God wants us to.
That's why.
Because we really need to get unstuck and we've been talking a lot in Supernatural Saturday
about hitting limits and we're going to talk about that as it pertains to our love lives.
You can apply everything that I've taught in the last couple Supernatural Saturdays
to your whole life, okay?
But tonight we're going to apply it to our love lives because it's important that we
get ready for what's coming.
I'm expecting exponential increase.
I don't know about you, but that's what I'm expecting.
I feel like there's a shift.
I do.
And so I'm going to add my faith to yours and we're going to believe for some amazing
momentum.
You guys, we're in wedding season right now and there's an engagement announcement every
week.
There's a wedding invitation every week.
There's wedding pictures every week.
You know, we're just in that season of time, like in our community.
All kinds of our community, all kinds of people in our community are in Symbus.
People are getting engaged.
People are getting married.
People that got engaged last season are getting married this season.
That is what's happening.
And so I'm surrounded by it.
So it's not hard for me to not, it's not hard for me to have faith.
It would be hard for me to not have faith because it's got a front row seat.
But at the same time, I know what God told me in 2020 when he asked me if I would partner
with this, when he invited me to become, you know, the matchmaker with him.
I was already the matchmaker, but to be his matchmaker, to partner with him as a matchmaker
and as a coach and as a, as a, you know, a heartwork practitioner, you know, when he
asked me to specifically focus on you guys, his single sons and daughters, I know what
he showed me.
And even though we've had over 1600, probably closer to 2000 success stories now, it hasn't
happened yet.
What he showed me hasn't happened.
I feel like what we've seen is the former rain.
Now I need the latter rain and we need them both at the same time.
And I really believe that we're going to have that.
And so I'm believing for that tsunami wave of kingdom marriages.
But I also know that we need to be ready for that.
And there's a lot of you that if love knocked on your door tomorrow, you might just keep
the door shut and you don't know that about yourself because you don't know your subcom,
your subconscious limits.
And so I want to talk about that.
I want to teach about that.
We do a lot of activations.
Go ahead and get something to write with because there's a lot of questions that if you don't
answer them tonight, you're going to answer them at some point.
And I really want to encourage you to dig into this with Holy Spirit.
Consider this, you know, your heart work, advanced heart work, okay?
Because you need to dig into this.
Every single one of you needs to dig into this.
I will tell you that I believe that when God is ready to shift us, when he is ready to
move us, when he is ready to offer us or invite us into something new, he seeds that.
He seeds that.
And I think he seeds it for a while.
And you know why?
Because I think he knows how stubborn we are really, honestly.
He knows how hardheaded we can be.
He knows how, you know, he said to his, Jesus said to his own disciples, you know, like
you have little faith.
What the heck?
You've been with me this whole time.
You've seen all the things that I've done and you still don't believe what's going on,
right?
What is that?
That's the human condition.
Sorry guys, I'm leaning forward because this is so far away from me now.
My husband moved it.
He's like, I can't reach it.
So, but I do have the comments right here.
I always tell him, I'm so, I want to see the comments.
So he has them right here for me.
So that's great.
But now your faces are far away.
So fix one thing, kind of change another, but he knows what we're like, he knows.
He told you that in your flesh, there's going to be what death.
There's going to be death in your flesh.
And that doesn't mean just physical death.
That means death to his ideas, to his ways, to opportunities.
There's going to be death.
If you follow your flesh, there's going to be death.
There's going to be fallout.
There's going to be loss and lack.
There's going to be all of that.
But if we fall after the spirit, we're going to have life and shalom.
I think we kind of downplay peace a lot.
Peace.
Oh yes.
Peace.
Being chill, feeling relaxed.
Not have any worries.
Know.
Y'all shalom is a war word.
It's a warring word.
It means devouring the chaos and confusion.
that's what it means. And so following after the spirit is life and shalom.
That's a horse of a different color, right?
All right, so we are going to press into our subconscious limitations. Do you want to do that?
Of course you don't, but we're going to do it anyway because we need to do it.
Each and every one of us, and this is kind of advanced heartwork because it plays into along
the lines of heartwork, I'm going to pray first. Father God, I just thank you. We cannot receive
this in our flesh. We have to receive it in our spirit. We're asking Lord that you would allow
our spirit ears to be open, to understand, to receive so that we can commute it from here,
from our minds, from our human reasoning, that 18 inch journey down to our hearts where it can get
rooted and planted and bear fruit at an accelerated pace. God, you spoke to me today
and you said that we are living in the time of accelerated harvest. We are living in the time
of Amos 9.13. We are living in the time of the reaper overtaking the sower. And so Lord, we
pray that our hearts would have accelerated harvest of your truth in them. We ask Holy
Spirit that you come alongside each and every one of us. Be the teacher, be the counselor,
help us, be the comforter. Let us see what we need to see. Revelation, insight, and wisdom in Jesus name.
Amen. So I have some friends that are going through some storms, by the way. I just want
to mention this at the beginning of what we're doing tonight together. They're going through
some storms. They've been going through some storms probably for the last year-ish amount
of time. And you guys, they're pretty, they're pretty strong storms that they're going through.
Okay, for those of you that haven't seen my storm video, go watch it. But also we're going to do
Supernatural Saturday on promotion storms, not destruction storms. We're going to do that on
Saturday if you can be there live or watch the replay. Anyway, I was on a call with this friend
today and they've gotten to a point where they just, they just don't, they're not worried about
it anymore. There's lots of things to worry about and they've just decided to, you know,
cast it, cast it on Jesus. Use their Jesus cares board, right? Because he cares for them.
They have no idea how these situations are going to turn out. There's several situations. It's not
just one storm. As soon as one storm starts to die down, another one just whips up. By the way,
that's what's been happening in Austin, Texas. As soon as one blows through, another one's right on
its heels. It's just crazy town. You guys were a golf ball size hail yesterday. And in some parts
of Austin, there was baseball size hail. I'm so glad that I was not in that part.
Okay. So I was talking to this friend today and God gave me a word for them. And, you know,
some of the, some of the situation that they're in requires, um, is at the hands of unscrupulous
people, people who want things that they don't deserve people that are coming with their hands
out for things that, you know, don't belong to them. And you can't squeeze blood out of a turnip,
can you? I never understood that saying when I was a kid, it just means that you can't get
something that isn't there to get. You can't, doesn't matter how much you want it. You can't
get it because it's not there. And that's kind of the attitude of my friend today. Like, well,
you know what? They created the situation by their dishonesty. So let them come and try
to get something. Cause there's nothing left to get kind of thing. And you know what? Holy spirit
spoke to me in that moment. He said, Oh no, there's plenty because my friend thinks that
the abundance of their life and the business and all the things that they, that they have and that
they own, that that has, it's drying up, right? It looks, it looks that way to the naked eye,
but the Lord spoke to me in that, in that moment. And he said, no,
he said, there's, there's just as much as there ever was. There's a free flowing conduit of my
provision and my blessings. He said, but there's a kink in the hose. Have you ever kinked a hose?
Raise your hand. If you've ever kinked a hose, you're playing a prank. Someone's water in the
garden. Your brother's trying to get a drink out of the hose and he's got it up there and there's
no water coming out cause you're over here. You got to kink in the hose. You have it folded so
that the water is not flowing freely. And then as soon as he gets that hose right up to his face,
I may or may not be telling a true story right now. You go unkink it, all the water just floods
him in the face, right? Just me. I definitely have done that to many a cousin and many a friend or
sibling. Cause it's fun. It's funny. But sometimes the hose is kinked and no one's kinking it. It's
just caught on something. It's.
just stuck on something. It's just kinked, right? And the free
flow is not flowing out. But that's what God said to me. He
said, I have the hose kinked like he has it kinked. He's
kinking it. And the reason why is because he doesn't want these
unscrupulous people to get any more from it. He doesn't want
that. And as soon as they give up and go away, which they're
going to, because I felt in my heart that that season was
coming to an end, that storm was ending. It had been a long
storm, but it's ending now. And as soon as those folks, or that
storm dissipates and walks away, God's gonna, he's gonna unkink
the hose. There's gonna be lots coming out again. And maybe
that's a word for some of you. Maybe it seems like things have
been in short supply and you really can't figure out why.
It's possible that the supply has been kinked or cut off just
temporarily to keep you from maybe going the wrong direction,
zigging instead of zagging. Or, you know, you've been praying
and asking God. You've been putting things on your Jesus
cares board, I hope. And you've also been praying and asking God
to show you, teach you, show you, heal you, grow you. You've
been giving God permission, you know, to write the story. You've
been saying, Hey, I'll co-author this story with you, God, I need
you to write, I need you to write with me. And so we've got
to trust that what's happening right now is not for our
destruction, but for our promotion. Amen. Amen. Okay. We
all have, you guys, we all have a capacity, because remember,
we're not gonna talk about our whole lives right now. We're
only gonna talk about our love lives. We all have a capacity,
an internal capacity to live, to love and to be loved, to receive
love, to give love. We all have kind of a thermostat, a setting
inside of us. And that setting has been set by your past
experiences. It's been set by your origin family. For some of
you, that has been set by inherited trauma. It's been set
by things that didn't even happen to you, but they happened
to people that came before you. Maybe even people that you never
even knew. We all have this. Can you acknowledge that this is
true? And if you don't believe it, you don't have to believe
it. But that doesn't make it any less true. It doesn't make it
any less true. At all. I have some notes here. Each of us has
a limit. We have a limit. We have a watermark that we have
never been past. Each and every one of us have never been past
that. And every time we get close and we get up to it, we
just fall right back down. We never go further. But you guys,
we have to go further. We have to go further. You want to know
why? Because this is the reason why we're divorced. This is the
reason why we're not married. This is the reason why those
relationships are not working out. Because of whatever your
limit is. So we need to acknowledge it. And then we need
to receive the grace to break through it. And you guys, it's
not going to be easy. We're going to do it in God's power,
not our own, but we're going to have to be conscious of it until
we're fully free from it. Make sense? We're going to have to
stay self aware of it. So we're not sabotaging ourselves. All
right. So let's get into some activations here about this. So
why do we push away the very thing that we've prayed for?
Sometimes? Why do we do that? We do that in a lot of areas. But
why do we do that? Because once again, we have an internal limit
of how much love, how much success, how much intimacy that
we will allow ourselves to have. If you follow me on Instagram,
you'll see that I posted something that says love is not
found, it's allowed. I know that a lot of you will find this
really hard to believe, but you have a love affair with
punishment. It's just part of the curse. You could have grown
up in an amazing family that was really fair to you and kind to
you, but you still have a love affair with punishment. And the
reason why is because it's just the cursed flesh. And I know
myself, and I'm assuming you are not following after the
spirit 100% of the time either. And so when we don't follow
after the spirit, remember, in the flesh, there's death, and
that's part of it. Punishment. We won't allow ourselves to be
happier than this. This is as happy as I'm allowed to be. If I
go a little higher than this, nope. Now I got to punish
myself. I got to work.
Worry about something.
Come on, you guys.
How many times have you been having a really great day?
Everything's going good.
Your hair's looking great.
And then all of a sudden,
you just start thinking about something negative
and start worrying about it.
Raise your hand if you've ever done that.
You're having a good week.
You're having a good month.
You're getting excited.
You're making changes.
You're making strides.
You're kicking butt.
You're taking names later.
And then all of a sudden,
you start worrying about something.
You're picking a fight with somebody.
Right?
You stubbed your toe.
You're like, well, Jackie, that was an accident.
Was it though?
I want you to think about every time
that you've gotten hurt.
Every single time that you've gotten hurt,
I want you to write it down.
Every time that you've gotten hurt,
you've hurt yourself some way.
You burned your hand on the curling iron.
You stubbed your toe.
You whatever.
Okay?
Broke your foot.
Whatever.
You started a exercise routine
and all of a sudden, you have sciatica.
All of a sudden, you've slipped a disc.
I want you to write all that down
and I want you to see if there's a pattern
of when you start to break out,
when you start to go forward,
when you start to approach that watermark
and start to break through,
is that when you got hurt?
Is that when it happened?
Take some inventory.
Guys, the Bible tells us that we should be wise.
That we should know what's going on.
There's a war going on out there
and there's a war going on in here.
I don't expect you to believe me right now.
When God started talking to me about this subject,
I didn't believe it either.
But then I started doing a little bit of inventory.
And I was like, oh yeah.
When I had the wake up call with Jackie on Periscope,
by the way, you guys, that was the first streaming service.
The first streaming service on your phone was Periscope.
Okay?
Live streaming, just like we're doing now.
I had a show.
The first podcast.
This is before podcasts.
The first podcast.
I had a podcast, if you will,
called The Wake Up Call with Jackie.
And thousand people watched it every morning.
It was a daily show.
It happened at 10 a.m. Eastern.
And y'all know it was fire,
because you know me.
I did it 100 days in a row, you guys.
Just like if I had a talk show on television.
I did 100 days in a row.
People were getting set free.
People were joining my heart workshop.
People were meeting Jesus.
All kinds of crazy stuff was happening.
Woo-hoo!
Amazing!
Great!
And then,
there was a knock on my front door.
Who could it be?
It's my mother,
who I have a very distant relationship with.
And she's having a nervous breakdown on my front porch.
Why is that?
Because she just got diagnosed with breast cancer.
And she came to my house.
And she moved in my house on that day.
Guess what I no longer did after that day?
Anyone wanna guess?
What do you think stopped?
Go ahead and unmute yourself.
Blurt it out.
What do you think?
Taking notes.
Podcast.
Periscope.
Yep.
Yeah.
I went 100 miles an hour into a brick wall, y'all.
And not only did I stop doing Periscope,
I actually stayed in bed for three months.
My body started hurting.
I started worrying that I had cancer, too.
The bottom of my feet hurt so bad
that I couldn't walk on them, you guys.
I could not walk on my feet.
Was there anything really wrong with me?
No.
I had just hit that glass ceiling and bounced back.
I couldn't go any further.
And you guys, sometimes we can't go any further
because we really do have hard work to do
and that's why we can't get past.
But sometimes it's just demonic interference
and sometimes it's just self-sabotage and punishment
that's happening inside of ourselves.
We won't allow ourselves to have anything more than this.
And the reason why is because no one that came before us
ever had any more than this.
Our family never got higher than this.
They never had better marriages than this.
They never had better finances than this.
Are you following me?
I know you think that blessings or breakthrough
or what's it called?
Abundance is just for certain special people,
but it isn't.
It's for all of us.
us it's the kingdom way but in order to have that we have to understand that
whatever our limited capacity is we have to acknowledge it and then we have to
do what what needs to be done in order to go past it
okay all right so you guys a lot of times we're actually pushing away
whether we know it or not we're pushing away the very thing that we prayed for
the very thing that we say we want we're pushing it away because somewhere deep
down inside we don't think we deserve it somewhere deep down inside we we believe
that it's not going to be good for us and we'll go through some of those
barriers here in a second okay so we're not second singleness because there's
no one out there let's go ahead and just defuse that bomb before it goes off and
blows up our destiny let's just let it go it's a lie it's a lie you guys we're
not single because there's no other singles out there we're not single
because of our lack of desirability we're not single because of any of these
reasons we're not single because of where we live or what church we go to
we're not single because of any of those things we're single because we're stuck
in these limitations some of you have been single for decades decades and some
of you are single because every time you choose someone you choose the same
person different day different clothes different name same person all of this
is the same thing it's those watermarks every single one of it all right so
start thinking about yourself here as we go through some of this so when we do
meet someone okay you're subconscious you know for those of you that are in
in relationships sometimes when you get into relationship you begin to feel like
this is scary I don't trust this you know this feels different what's going
on here your soul your heart in the areas where it's been wounded and broken
and traumatized where it's not been fully healed and none of us are fully
healed it will resist expansion your heart is a resisting expansion okay all
right so let's talk about some signs that you're hitting your love limit and
you guys for those of you that haven't even stuck your toe in the water yet you
can put this in your pocket for later for those of you that are actively out
here dating meeting people you can put it now you can put it you can put it
into practice now okay all right so here are some signs and I know that the
psychologists call this you know anxious attachment avoid an attachment and all
the different things but here are the signs that you're hitting a limit in
your love life you catch feelings and then you immediately spiral into anxiety
you start to get feelings for someone and then you immediately spiral into
anxiety what if they don't like me back what if they're what if what if I did
the wrong thing what if I said the wrong thing what if I texted the wrong thing
what if they didn't like the way I look tonight they haven't talked to me in
four hours what could it mean you catch feelings and then you spiral into this
anxiety loop okay write it down if it's you okay here's another one you nitpick
you nitpick at people you're just looking for things to criticize about
people you nitpick you ghost you try to get to know someone and then you're like
oh and then you just disappear as soon as someone tries to get close to you
you're gone you're done okay you date people who aren't emotionally available
that is your max I know we want to blame it on them oh they're not emotionally
available no the reason why you're dating them or the reason why you
continue to pick people that are emotionally unavailable is because you
are hitting your watermark does that make sense it's your top shelf you guys
I need to know that you're getting this because it's gonna get more complicated
it's gonna get more complicated so are you tracking with me am I explaining
this well okay when you date people habitually
With any type of negative pattern, you are hitting your limit, not theirs.
You're hitting your limit.
Okay.
All right.
So we date people who are emotionally unavailable.
And the reason why is because if they're emotionally unavailable, then we don't have to be either.
You get spiritually, what did I write here?
You get spiritually, yeah.
So you get super, super, super involved with them by date three.
And then by date four, you just hit the crash.
Okay.
So you're like flying high and then whoop.
All right.
Here's another one.
Here's something that you guys need to know.
You are not blocked because God is holding love back.
There's the next lie.
You're not single because there's no one out there.
That's not true.
And you're not single because God is blocking love.
I had someone ask me today in a VIP session if it was possible that God just didn't want
them to have what they so, so desired, which was marriage.
So it's possible that God just, you know, isn't going to let me have this.
You guys, God created you for this.
And the evidence of that is the fact that you're here.
Your desire is the only evidence that you need for God's plan and desire for you.
Your desire is mirroring his divine design of you.
So you're not blocked because God is holding love back.
You're blocked because, and please write this down.
And I know that I probably said this on Supernatural Saturday, but I'm going to say it again.
You're blocked because your soul, okay, got your flesh.
What are we?
We are spirits, right?
We're spirits.
We're eternal beings.
We're spirits.
Your spirit is redeemed.
When you have the new birth experience, your spirit is redeemed.
It's going to heaven.
Your spirit.
Okay.
Got to follow after the spirit so that you don't fulfill the lust of the flesh.
You're a spirit that lives in a body that possesses a soul.
That's your heart part.
That's the epicenter of your mind, will, and emotions.
And when we do the heart work, that's what we're dealing with because we're all the trauma,
all the bad information.
This is where the curse is trying to, you know, control and create false identities,
cursed identities instead of your God identity as a son and daughter.
Okay.
So with that in context, let me say this.
You are blocked because your soul cannot hold what your spirit has been asking for.
And friends, this is in every area, not just your love life.
And just so you know, it's not because, it's not because God doesn't think that you're
good enough or you're not, you know, ready spiritually.
It's because you are saying that you're not, you are showing that you cannot hold it.
This doesn't have anything to do with God holding out on you.
God gives us stuff to grow into.
He trusts us.
He stretches us past our comfort zones.
Okay.
All right.
So let's talk about some common blocks.
Okay.
Some subconscious vows, some spiritual ceilings that we just can't get through.
Let's talk about that.
And then I'll go ahead and put up in the chat, which one you most resonate with.
You want to do that?
Let's do that.
Okay.
All right.
Number one, there's something wrong with me.
Any version of this, you guys, there's something wrong with me.
I'm not normal.
I remember all the time, just, I wish I was normal.
I wish I could be normal.
I believe this lie that I was intrinsically flawed.
And this is very generational.
This comes from inherited trauma.
It comes from abuse.
It comes from your childhood.
It comes from you being born into a family that doesn't understand you because they're
all scientists and you're a poet.
There's something wrong with me.
And how that gets played out is when you're trying to.
be in relationship with other people, not even just love relationship,
but friendships and community. You have this unconscious
current inside of you. That's saying,
if they really knew me, they wouldn't like me. Come on,
y'all. If they really knew me, they wouldn't like me.
I'm going to mess this up.
I'm going to say the wrong thing.
I'm going to do the wrong thing because I am just a train wreck.
Not normal. I'm not like other people.
I'm inherently flawed.
I need you to get honest, you guys, so you can get free. If this is you,
I want to see you in the chat. Audra, thank you for being vulnerable.
She has spoken that over herself so many times.
Okay.
Look at all of these people.
Yes, yes, yes, yes. Okay. And so what happens sometimes,
sometimes you'll just hide and you just won't put yourself out there.
You won't be vulnerable.
You won't allow other people in because you know that if they,
you believe if they come in, they're just going to leave anyway, right?
You're afraid of abandonment.
So you'll just make sure that that never happens.
But the rest of you become people pleasers.
That's what happens with this block.
We become people pleasers and you can be more than one.
For those of you that are like, Oh,
I need to wait and hear two, three, four before I decide if I'm number one.
Now you can be more than one. You can have more than one block.
Y'all there can be more than one kink in your hose.
All right. Give me more than one kink in your hose.
So for those of you that are not hiding and just avoiding relationship because
you think that people are just not going to like you anyway,
the rest of you are become people pleasers.
You're overcompensating in relationships. You're over giving,
you're over performing, you're over spiritualizing.
You become the consummate giver that attracts takers.
And that's a true story. Let's see you.
Say it. You're a giver that attracts takers. Say me, me, me, me,
me, me in the comments. Oh, I see lots of hands up. Yep. Yep. Yep.
Yep. Because you know, I'm damaged goods. There's something wrong with me.
I'm not normal. I'm not like other people.
And so I have to overcompensate so that people won't run away from me.
I got to hang some meat around my neck so the family dog will play with me.
Right.
And some people grow up and maybe get really successful at what they do for a
career and stuff. And you know,
you think that this is gone because now you're successful.
Remember I told you that this is, this was one of mine. I'm inherently flawed.
There's something wrong with me. I'm not normal. You know, I mean,
I might not be the most beautiful woman in the world, but I'm good looking.
I grew up to be good looking. I grew up to be smart and well-spoken.
I grew up to be successful to some, to some level.
But this, if I don't address it, it's still going to be there.
None of that is going to change it.
Do you guys understand that that's not going to change it?
This is about identity and that's what causes these watermarks.
You can't fake it till you make it.
You will be it and they will see it. That is the way this works.
Denise, you're so sweet.
All right.
So for those of you that said, I'm number one,
remember you can be more than one. But for those of you said that,
just said that you were number one, here is the breakthrough truth for you.
Okay.
You are not intrinsically flawed. You are fearfully and wonderfully made.
You are fearfully and wonderfully made. You might be different,
but that's because you're a Maverick. You might think differently.
You might look differently. You might not have fit in your family.
You might've been the black sheep is what they called you,
but you're not the black sheep.
You might've been what they called a square peg in a round hole,
but you're not that you are made different on purpose.
You think differently on purpose.
It's a beautiful, wonderful, unique design. You're not too much.
You're not too late. You're not disqualified.
You're the answer to somebody's prayer.
out there and you always have been right as you are now, okay?
So let's go to block two.
If I step out, if I go past this watermark, because remember, nobody else has gone past
this.
A lot of times it's a family thing.
If I go past this, I'll be alone.
Let me give you an example.
I'm the only person in my family that, you know, got divorced, got remarried, and then
stayed remarried.
I've been married for 18 years, right?
Second time around.
But I feel like people were judging me.
Oh, who do you think you are, right?
You think you're better than everybody else.
I always felt like that was what was happening.
And so that's part of this right here.
If I go off to college, you know, no one else in my family has gone to college.
If I'm not poor as a church mouse, like the rest of my family, if I have some money, if
I go wherever the new frontier is, I'm going to be alone, I'm going to be ostracized.
Once again, it's the fear of being different at some level.
You're afraid of leaving people behind.
You're afraid of not being included anymore because now you've leveled up.
And so a lot of times we'll stay small to stay safe.
We'll settle.
We won't shine.
If that's you, let's see it.
You're afraid of people thinking you're too big for your britches.
You're afraid of losing the people in your life because you've gone further than them
and you don't want to be alone and you don't want people to think you've outgrown them.
Some of you, this has become true.
Ladies, this could be also, you know, if I'm who I am, then I'm not going to be able to
get married because no man is going to want a woman that's a leader.
The gifts that you have, the things that you carry, you think that you have to dumb yourself
down because no man's going to want to partner with you if you're being your true self.
And that's not true, okay?
The truth is, is that when your person comes, I used to say to our first class, the inaugural
class of this in 2020, you can fall down on the ground and flop around like a fish and
they're still going to fall in love with you.
When your person comes and you're willing to receive the love and allow it, that's the,
that's the thing.
That's what we're talking about today.
It's not about whether you're worthy of love, it's about whether or not you'll allow yourself
to be worthy of love.
They're not going to ask you to shrink though, whoever that person is, okay?
In fact, like my husband, they'll probably fan your flame.
My husband fans my flame.
He is a string to my kite.
He likes to see me fly really high.
He's got that string so that I don't fly away somewhere into the trees and hurt myself.
Okay, all right, here's another one and you guys, a lot of you are living here secretly
maybe to yourself.
Maybe you don't know you're living here, but you're living here and here's the next one.
You think that it's going to be too much trouble to go past this point.
It's going to be hard.
It's going to be a burden.
You're going to have to change too much.
It's going to be painful.
This is a very common block and a lot of times it's unconscious, but it shows up in the way
that you're sabotaging yourself, okay?
You're afraid to go deeper into relationship with people because they're going to need
too much from you, okay?
They're going to drain you.
You're going to lose yourself.
You're going to feel controlled.
You're going to have to compromise and do things that you don't want to do.
Every time I say that, you got to let go of me to become we.
You just cringe because you don't want to let go of me to become we.
You want to stay me and have we.
Yes.
You already feel like you're at capacity in your life and even though you say you want
love and you want marriage, you also don't know where you're going to get the juice from
to sustain that because you're already maxed out.
This should be a lot of you.
I want to see whoever, who all this is, let's see it.
It's just too much trouble, it's too much trouble.
You meet someone, they're great, but then they're, they're wanting to communicate and
you're just tired.
You don't have any more words.
You used all your words.
You don't have any more words, gentlemen.
There's this girl, she was great, we hung out, but now she's texting me and she wants
to communicate.
She wants to get on the phone.
It's like, oh, I don't got any more words.
I don't have anything more to give here.
I feel stretched thin.
Ladies, you too.
The next morning he's like, good morning.
I hope you have a good day.
You're like, nope, delete block.
That's going to be too high maintenance.
Can I just only talk to you when I want to and can't we just like get married and then
when I want to cuddle, we'll cuddle and watch a movie or something, but then we'll just
go to our separate lives and separate corners of the house and life so that we can just
not exhaust each other.
Yes, Jesse, will it be worth it?
These are all part of the same block.
Same block.
Yeah.
Can we just be married on the weekends, John?
Can we just be on the, can we just be weekend, weekend warriors?
Can we do that?
And you guys, I know that we're all laughing right now, but I promise you some of you unconsciously
have these blocks.
You do.
And it's part of the reason why you're here and you don't have the thing that you say
you want.
Let's buy a duplex.
Yeah, let's live next door.
Let's be neighbors.
David and I started as neighbors.
Why can't we just be neighbors now?
Conjugal visits, just like prison.
I think Dave is on here.
Babe, are you here?
I'm just, I'm just being funny, but are you here?
I see you.
Are you here?
I am here and I am scared.
Joking.
No, you're doing a great job, babe.
It's awesome.
It's good stuff.
Thank you, honey.
Love you.
So you guys, the secret fears of this, of this block are they're going to need too much
from me.
They're going to drain me.
They're going to, I'm going to lose myself.
I'm going to feel controlled.
They're going to want to do things that I don't want to do.
Some somewhere along the line in this relationship, they're going to make decisions that I just
don't agree with, that I just don't want.
And I'm going to have to just suck it up buttercup, right?
Not that they're going to be in charge, but you guys in marriage, there's always going
to be some moment where you're not going to see things eye to eye and someone's going
to have to concede, okay?
So this is, this block is why we sit in the waiting room.
Not because God's late.
You guys, I really want you to let go of the lies where you're blaming God for everything.
Okay?
God lives outside of time.
He's not late for anything.
We live inside the time continuum, not him.
That's why heaven's eternal.
And that's why the, you know, the next dimension is eternal without time and none of us can
wrap our heads around that.
I bet you if you try to think about eternity, it just starts to either scare you and you
get panicked or your mind just explode.
You're like, I don't, I don't understand.
Will we sleep?
Will we eat?
How will we know what to do next?
What do you mean?
It never ends.
It never ever ends.
What do you mean?
He lives there in that dimension.
Of course, we're inside of him too, but you understand what I'm saying.
He has that paradigm.
We don't necessarily have it, but it's inside of us, right?
We're carrying eternity inside of us somewhere, but this is why we stay in the waiting room.
Not because God's late, but because our heart is too tired and love hasn't even gotten here
yet.
Our love, our capacity to allow love, you guys, it's really a lot lower than we think.
And I just want to tell you something it's not it's not about you you're not fatally flawed
you're not broken but the culture is broken that we're living in and this is why we're having these
blocks it's been broken obviously ever since the curse but in more modern times ever since the
you know the the gasoline powered motor and technology and lights you guys know that they
used to sleep twice they got to sleep two times we barely get to sleep once
these folks went to bed as soon as the sun went down because there was no electricity
there was nothing to do you know how your parents may have said nothing good happens after midnight
well these folks believe nothing good happens after sunset as soon as the sun goes down you're
going to bed so they would go to bed and you can imagine like depending on where you lived
the sun could be setting at five six o'clock in the winter time so you're going to bed but then
what are they doing they get up they get up like at three four o'clock in the morning with a candle
and they read and they eat something and they do something they have like they're like hobbits they
have first and second breakfast and these folks have first and second sleep time and we barely
get to sleep at all because it's not the same world and I know that we're like the frog in
the boiling pot you guys know what that means right raise your hand if you don't know what
that means if it's some kind of American ism and you're like I don't know what that means okay
so it just means that if you put something in a pot of water when it's just regular water and
then you turn on the you turn on the heat you know it's it's it's different if you get throw
it into the boiling water right it's like ah but it's different it's it's but if you are in the
water and the water's slowly heating up and slowly heating up you don't notice it as much right it's
like being desensitized we're desensitized is a better way to say it so I know that we are the
frogs in the boiling pot because we are born into this and that's why we also have all these
limitations you guys because these are presets does anyone have any presets on anything do you
have presets I know not a lot of people listen to the radio anymore but you guys know what presets
are right that's what we're talking about here we have presets a lot of you okay your thermostat
in your house is probably preset you might even be the kind of person that gets mad if someone
messes with it it's preset to the exact temperature that you want it at guys these are presets that we
have and we were born with them you guys some of them some of them happened as a result of
the trauma that we've experienced but a lot of them we were already born with
yes Rachel Rochelle I don't know if it's Rachel or Rochelle but she has preset photo filters
yeah Swarna I explained that the impression is just being a frog in a pot is just about
being desensitized about how things are slowly heating up and you don't notice it because you've
you've been in the water the whole time as it's been heating up by degree and by degree and pretty
degree and by degree and pretty soon you're boiled you're cooked and you didn't even know
okay so these are the presets you guys our heart is tired already this last block we're already
tired you guys we're already exhausted and this can be really practical can be what you're eating
what you're doing what you're not doing it could be like a family preset you just come from a whole
line of people with low capacity for relationship well anyone to say that in the comments right now
you come from a family line that just has like limited bandwidth for intimacy and vulnerability
in relationship with people they call themselves introverts they call themselves shy they just
can't handle to be around people for any amount of time they just have very very very low capacity
come on let's see it let's see it let's see it you weren't you weren't created that way
this is a preset
some of you the exact opposite you need a room full of people all the time you can never have
a quiet moment you don't like to be in the quiet you don't like to be alone you're always looking
for the party you're always looking for the fun we call you extroverts but really what it is is
that you don't want to be alone with your own self and your own thoughts you don't want to have a
chance to think you want to fill up your schedule every waking moment with something to distract you
and that's a problem
when we see those folks you need all the attention we may even call you a main character at times
lovingly
You're not just the life of the party, you are the party.
And you guys, I think a lot less people are like that nowadays.
I don't know if it happened after COVID or before COVID, but people are just, we have
a lot lower capacity, have you noticed that?
Have you noticed that we have a lot of excuses of why we just really don't have the bandwidth
to connect?
Okay, so we're moving forward, all right.
So here's your breakthrough truth if you were one of those people that says, yeah, I feel
like love is going to be too hard, too difficult, it's going to be a burden.
Here's your breakthrough truth, healthy love will feel like shalom.
It'll feel like peace, not pressure, it really will.
It's not going to be perfect, that's not a P word that we're using here.
We don't want perfection, we want peace.
The right relationship won't cost you yourself, your wholeness, okay?
It will magnify your wholeness, it will multiply your wholeness.
Yeah, it'll feel like home.
I like that, Michelle, I agree.
But we have to remember that some people's home was not a good place and it wasn't a
safe place.
So whatever you would think of when you think of a home that's safe, that's what it should
feel like.
But for some of you, if it feels like home and the home you came from ain't a good place
like me, then you want to definitely watch for that, right?
Okay, all right.
And here's the last one, it's kind of like number two but a little bit different and
that is that you've just been told and you've internalized this and the people before you
might have been told this too and a lot of times we get told this as women and gentlemen,
I think sometimes you get told this as well, but you're too much, you're too intimidating,
you're too demanding, you're too independent, you're too something, T-O-O, that's this block.
And so you believe that you're too much of whatever that is.
And so in order for you to connect, now you believe that you have to lower something.
You get it?
Now you believe that because I've been told that I'm a lot, now I have to become less.
I have to become less.
I have to dumb myself down.
I have to dim my light.
I got to dull my wit in order to be chosen.
I want you to, I want truth now you guys, how many of you emotionally and mentally high
maintenance people and the reason why I say that is because you're a sapiosexual, you
need conversation, you need connection.
Okay.
You need humor.
You need banter.
How many of you pretend to be low maintenance just to get someone to like you?
Ladies, you pretend like you just don't know the answer.
What?
You pretend like you haven't, haven't read a bazillion books.
You're so smart and that you're not a rocket scientist because you actually might be one.
Yep.
Lots of you.
Okay.
How many, how many of you guys, men included, men and women, these questions are for everybody.
How many of you, hold on.
Okay.
Sorry.
How many of you have been told that you talk too much?
Just be honest.
How many of you have been told that?
You talk too much, all right.
How many of you got detention in school for talking?
How many of you have been told that you need too much attention?
Keep putting it in.
You've been told that you need too much attention.
You're too emotionally high maintenance.
Let's see it.
How many of you have been told that you
think that you're better than other people,
or you're smarter than other people, or that you're arrogant?
Guys, this is what happens.
This is how we get blocked.
Come on, put it up, put it up, put it up, put it up, put it up.
OK.
And you guys, no one is going to think that you're actually this.
Only 0.01% of the population actually is this as far as a mental illness.
But how many of you have been accused of being a narcissist?
I have.
You guys, I had a want ad for an assistant.
And I really just, you know, I bullet pointed everything that I needed.
And this mean girl said, you sound like a narcissist.
And I was like, I need an assistant.
What am I, Cruella de Vil?
How many people?
You've been told you're a narcissist.
You've been told you're selfish.
You've been told that you lack empathy.
You don't know when to stop talking.
You don't know.
You don't read the room.
Oh, yeah.
That word is way overused, you guys.
But I'm just saying.
It's OK for you to say that here, because that just
goes along with this block.
People are accusing you of being too much, OK?
Guys, just because other people, and listen,
I'm not saying that you don't have some toxic traits.
I don't know each and every one of you personally.
So let Holy Spirit show you, because there
might be some things in each one of these blocks
that you need to work on, that you need to come into agreement with
or come out of agreement with so that you can move forward here.
That's what this whole session is about, about you
asking supernatural questions so that you
can get supernatural answers.
It's OK for there to be silence.
You don't have to fill it with all kinds of words all the time.
Some of you might be afraid of silence, because it was during the silence
that people said things to you that you didn't want to hear.
It was during the silence that abuse or hurt happened.
It was during the silence where you felt rejected and not wanted.
And so you try to fill up all the silence with words.
Some of you just, frankly, spend way too much time alone
so that when you get with other people, you use all your words.
And you have a surplus of them now, because you
haven't been talking to anybody.
If you had 25,000 words to use this week,
and you haven't talked to anyone, you're going to use 25,000 words
on that date.
And guess what?
It ain't going to be good.
So Dawn, I want you to dig deeper into, I can't stand silence, says Dawn.
Our sister, she doesn't like silence.
But the Bible says that God's not in the earthquake,
and he's not in the storm, but he's in the still, small voice.
You can only hear that voice in the silence, getting quiet.
So ask yourself why you can't stand it.
It's important to dig deeper into that.
There's a breakthrough there for you.
Maddie, pets don't say much.
OK.
All right.
You guys, we want to be who we really are.
So we're not going to shrink just to get someone to choose us.
But at the same time, you're going to have to be who you really are.
And you're going to have to be who you really are.
You know, we want to understand that there might be some attributes and some aspects of
And you're going to have to be who you really are.
this block that need to be addressed and need to be changed, okay? Not all of them but some of them.
And so here's your breakthrough truth for those of you that have this block. The one
and not the one like the one but the one who sees you fully is going to love you.
They're going to love every part of you. Your eccentricities. You guys, I'm very eccentric
and my husband loves me and guess what? He's very eccentric and I love him, okay?
We are eccentric people.
So the one who sees you really sees you. You let them really see you.
You know, they're going to love you. They are. That person's going to fully love you.
Your light is not going to be too bright for their eyes. It's true.
It's true. Oh wow, someone works at a prison with 700 inmates. That's a lot. Okay.
Okay, you guys. Okay, we're gonna move on here.
So go ahead and put your numbers up. One, two, three, four. If you had more than one,
go ahead and put them in the chat. Say like I'm one and three, two and four. Let's see those.
If you resonated with anything about any of those presets.
Janine's one, three and four. We have three and four. We have one, three and four. One and two.
I'm all of them says Juliana. One and two, one and three, four, two, four.
Look and see who has the same ones as you. You guys are not rowing those boats alone.
All right, so we're going to go back up to the beginning about these sabotages. Okay,
these preset sabotage blocks. And I'm just going to give you a little bit of teaching over those.
So when you are the kind of person that sabotage, you sabotage the relationship or the connection
with getting too close too fast. Okay, you're planning the date. You're planning the wedding
by date three and then by date four, it's over with. Okay, you're planning the wedding by date
four and then by date five, it's over with. Okay, so if you sabotage by getting too close too fast,
because you're rushing in, if you're all in on day three, you barely even know this person.
You know, you have a tendency to trauma bond instead of build.
The reason why, one of the reasons why that could be happening. This is just one of the reasons why.
Okay, is that you are afraid that if you don't lock it down, lock it in that you're going to be
left behind, that you're going to be rejected. You're going to give them way too much time to
get to know you and they're not going to like you anymore. You want to kind of really surf that wave
of infatuation fast. Lock it in, lock it down, get them hooked. And of course you're not consciously
thinking this. You guys understand this is all unconscious behavior. That's the problem.
But the lie behind that is, is that if I give them any time to really get to know me,
if I'm not doing my song and dance and showing them my highlight reels from the very beginning
to try to get them to fall in love with me, then they're not going to like me.
No, you guys.
One of our single spotlights from the last single spotlight met someone right after the single
spotlight. They've known each other for three weeks and they're already engaged.
Praise the Lord.
So now I'm not saying it's not going to work out. That's not for me to say, but I'm just saying,
if you're the kind of person that tries to lock it down fast, this is probably the reason why.
All right. So here are some signs that you are sabotaging connections with this type of intensity.
You ready? If you see yourself in any of these, put the key words in the chat.
Oh no, Hunter, I'm not exaggerating. Three weeks and they're engaged. The wedding is in December.
Promise. Okay.
Here are some signs. You overshare.
Quickly to speed up the intimacy you overshare really fast to speed up the emotional connection in the intimacy
To make an emotional connection fast. Remember you guys you're not doing it on purpose. It's not conscious behavior. These are presets
You assume God sent them because you prayed about it
You prayed God
I really really want to meet someone and then you opened up your app and someone swiped on you. Well, that must be them
No
You wrap the connection up in spiritual language with a nice bow
You're over spiritualizing it before you've really tested it out in real life
Gina I love how you guys I love how honest you guys are being tonight. Vulnerable well being vulnerable is really the key to breakthrough
She says I met someone who shared my birthday and I thought maybe that was a sign
It's a sign that your mom's got pregnant about the same time
Okay
next
You need constant reassurance
From the trauma of your childhood or even possibly the trauma of you know, a parent or a grandparent. It's not even your trauma
But you've internalized the idea that if someone isn't constantly telling you that they love you
They're not constantly paying attention to you. Then that means that they don't they don't want you anymore
They're about to leave they're gonna abandon you
You need constant reassurance
So you you need constant reassurance or attention so you're performing for it you're performing for it all the time
You're trying to make connections. You're trying to up the intimacy
Some of you will even go as far as having sex in order to keep the attention and the reassurance alive
I'm not gonna ask for those of you that do that to tell me but I promise you
You're gonna do it
I'm not gonna ask for those of you that do that to tell me but I promise you that is a barrier
If you have never been able to be in a relationship without ending up in the sheets you guys that's a preset
And whether you know it or not, it's not a high sex drive
It's not oh, I thought they loved me and we're gonna get married
No, if it's a pattern it is because you are trying to buy
reassurance with your body
It doesn't work those relationships almost always end right afterwards or you just become a friend with benefits
And that's even worse
You get emotionally married before your
Relationship is really secure. So you're acting like married folk anyone do that?
You're emotionally acting like you've been married for 20 years. You'll say things like well, we feel like we've known each other our whole lives. No
That's a preset
Okay
Guys it's not about rushing to the promise
I it's it's good for you to understand that the person that is really going to be able to walk out
This with you with longevity
That you don't have to be in a rush
Okay
God wants you to become the person who can handle this and steward this and have capacity to get past this mark
So this relationship has longevity
You guys we're not good we're not here for a good time we're here for a long time
Okay, that needs to be the motto of your relationships. I'm not here for a good time. I'm here for a long time
I want to be able to sustain this
sustain it
Proverbs 19 to if you want to write this down, I think this is an amazing scripture right here for this
desire without knowledge
Desire without knowledge so desire for someone without knowing them
Is not good. That's scripture desire without knowledge is not good
And then here's the second part how much more will hasty feet miss the path
Hasty means rushing. Have you guys ever heard the saying haste makes waste?
It just means that if you're rushing around you're gonna forget something you're gonna break something you're gonna spend
coffee on your shirt. You're trying to get to work, you're late, you're being hasty,
get a flat tire, make things even worse. Haste makes waste. Desire without knowledge is not
good. How much more will hasty feet miss the path? It's not a great scripture. It's a great
one. So guys, I know that you're just going fast because you think that's what's safe,
but speed does not equal safety. Real love is not urgent. Fear is urgent. Isn't fear
always rushing us? Hurry up, hurry up, hurry up. You're going to be late. You're going
to miss out. You're going to miss the boat. FOMO, FOMO, FOMO. And remember, the opposite
of love is fear. So fear comes from the kingdom of darkness and the enemy is always rushing
us. You don't want to know how you can tell whether it's God or the devil when you're
having these thoughts in your mind or if it's just your broken flesh. The enemy always likes
to try to masquerade as a divine voice. Okay, remember, Lucifer fell from heaven. He knows
the language. Come on, y'all. He knows the language. He speaks spiritually. You know
that, right? But he doesn't speak from love because he doesn't have that. He can only
speak from the opposite of love, which is fear. Fear is the reigning commodity in the
kingdom of darkness. And so anything that's laced with fear or punishment, that is not
God's voice. Anything that makes you feel like if you don't hurry up, if you don't do
it right now. And there's even preaching out there that tries to reinforce that. Delayed
obedience is disobedience. No, friends. I told you at the beginning of this tonight,
God seeds our heart. He seeds our heart. He sows seeds in our heart before he starts inviting
us into things. He's preparing us because he knows what we're made out of, which is
dust. Okay? This frame that we're in is part, is cursed. And he knows that. So he is patient.
These are the fruit of the spirit. Patience, love, peace, joy. If God's talking to you,
he is going to, even when he's bringing correction, it's going to feel hopeful. It's going to
feel positive. It's going to feel merciful. It's not going to feel rushed. It's not going
to feel like pressure. It's not going to feel like punishment. Okay? So I don't know
who that's for, but it's for somebody. All right. Real love is not urgent. It's steady.
It's steady. It's steady. Steady the course. Your person, your person, your partner will
not need you to hurry. They will want you to be whole. They will want you to be sure.
I have the privilege to go to a wedding in August, right here, down here in Dripping
Springs, private client. She came to me with horrible avoidant attachment. Her, um, her
block was preset. Love is going to be a burden. It's going to be too much. They're going to
ask for too much from me. I'm not emotionally available. I can't give it to them. It's just
too much. And I walked with her in her singleness and then she met someone because that usually
happens when I'm working with someone. She met someone and then they began to date. She
tried to cut and run probably a million times, but this man was so patient. He was so kind.
He didn't rush her. He didn't give her ultimatums. He didn't say, I need to know whether or not
you're my girlfriend right now. He prayed for her. He helped her. He made her feel safe
and they dated for a whole year like this. And then they got engaged and now she's happy
to marry him. God knows what you need and how to get it to you.
All right. And last but not least, you guys, love takes capacity. Go watch that storm video
that I posted in all your groups. There's a pruning happening. There's a purging happening.
We have to make room. We don't need to manifest more love. We need to make room for more love.
Beloved, I pray that you prosper and be in good health even as your soul prospers. That's
third John 1 and 2, 1 verse 2. What does this mean? This means that love will only grow
to the level that our soul can expand. We're only going to be able to grow.
Or receive I should say to the level of our expansion
So let's go ahead and expand now. Do you guys want to put some expanders in?
Go ahead and stretch
Get some more capacity going here. I
Remember when I learned how to swim underwater
It takes practice holding your breath so you can hold it longer and longer and longer and longer because you're expanding your lung capacity
And God wants to expand our heart capacity so we can break through these blocks
Yes, I was thinking about Isaiah 54 to Megan stretcher stretch your tent pegs
Expand its expansion time
For those of you that are not familiar with Isaiah 54 go read it. It just basically is saying that it's time to break forth
Where we've been boxed in and make room for more
Okay
All right
So guys if you feel like you've hit a ceiling if you really believe like tonight's
Path session is really speaking to you
You've hit a ceiling in different areas of your life
This can apply to any area of your life where you just haven't gotten past the same place
Every time you get close to going past it, you just take you know, three steps forward and five steps back
You fall back down
alright
It's not because love isn't available
It's because we need a bigger container
It's time for us to have a bigger container
Luke 537 and I I spoke about this on the on the supernatural Saturday, but no one puts new wine into old skins
New love requires new capacity new alignment new discernment and
Here's your activation
All right
So if you believe these things you want to activate these things I will copy and paste these into the group so you can have
them but here they are I
Will no longer sabotage the love that God is trying to send
God will show me
where I
have presets and
blocks and
I will allow him to
Stretch me past
These beliefs I
Expand in love
intimacy and joy
every day
Every day I'm expanding in love joy and intimacy. I move at the pace of peace
Not panic I
Am ready for the relationship I am preparing for I
Take a
Big step into love fully fearlessly and faithfully
Okay, you guys I'm gonna put some journal prompts let me see
I'm gonna put some journal prompts for you and this will be your homework and
You guys this can be part of what we activate on Sunday night
Because we're not gonna go to get off this subject because God is showing me that this is the real reason why we're not having
success
So many of us we don't realize it, but we just really do not have the bandwidth to be able to
Receive what it is that we're asking for. It's really important. It's really really important
Okay, this is not letting me copy and paste for some reason which is really annoying
Can someone remind me of
on the keyboard how you
Copy something since the mouse isn't working. I don't remember. I'm not a man see
Command C. Thank you. You're amazing. I love you. Thank you. Thank you very much. Okay
Oh
That's not letting me do that either. Okay, let me see
Is there a chat up here then the chat down here is not
Allowing me to do anything
Okay, I'll say these questions and then I'll post them in your group here the questions what's my preset in love
Where do I start to self-sabotage?
Yeah, Vicki, I did all that, it doesn't work.
I don't think the mouse is connected.
What's my upper limit in love?
Where do I start to self-sabotage?
What's my preset?
What's my highest limit?
Which of the four blocks is the loudest in this season?
And if someone wants to scribe this and write it down, that'd be great.
Which of the four blocks is the loudest in this season?
Do I sabotage by retreating or by rushing?
And you guys, it's not when you're in a relationship, it's before you even get into a relationship.
And then four, what would it look like to stay rooted, steady, and open to real love?
What would it look like for you to stay open to real love?
For you to stay open to real love, what would that look like?
What would need to shift?
What would need to shift in your schedule?
What would need to shift in your surroundings?
What would need to be pruned?
What would need to be purged in order for you to have the capacity, the bandwidth to
expand and stay open to real love?
What needs to change?
What mindsets?
What beliefs?
What input?
What community?
And last but not least, who are you when you stop resisting and start receiving?
Who are you?
What does that person look like?
The person that stops resisting more and starts receiving.
God told me this years ago and I'm going to release it over you guys right now.
If you want the more, you have to let go of the less.
What's the less that you're letting go of?
Who are you when you stop resisting and start receiving?
You might even want to give that person a nickname.
I know that God, in prayer one day, God had been talking to me about butterflies and how
I was in a metamorphosis, I was in a transformation.
He was talking to me about that.
And then one day in prayer, God just very gently and very fatherly said, oh, my sweet
little Vanessa.
Well, my name is not Vanessa, y'all.
My middle name is not Vanessa.
No one in my family's name is Vanessa.
There's no Vanessa that lives here.
So immediately I'm like, God, you don't even know my name.
I don't understand.
You know, because I wasn't that mature in the Lord yet.
Anyway, I felt like the God, I felt like, you know, Holy Spirit was like, go, go, go
look up the name Vanessa.
And you guys, this is before Google.
This is before being able to do it like this.
I had to actually go and look up Vanessa.
And you know what it means?
It means butterfly.
That's what the name means.
It actually means butterfly.
And that was what God had me studying and that's what he had been saying to me and talking
to me about.
Yes, Michelle, it means butterfly.
And so, um, so perhaps there's even some, you know, name that can be a spiritual sort
of alter ego of you expanding, you know, in a good way.
Names are powerful.
They are.
All right.
So Father God, we thank you for this time together.
Lord, we thank you that we don't have to stay stuck, that you're inviting us into the more.
But in order for us to have the more, we have to let go of the less.
We have to let go of the less, not just from our own lives, not from trauma, but also from
our generations.
It's time for us to embrace the abundance that Jesus died to give us in every area.
Help us to see the areas where we're resisting, where we are not receiving.
It's not that you're not trying to give to us, it's that we are not receiving.
And so Lord, I pray that you would expand us, expand our capacity.
To love to be loved because we are from love and we've been created to love
For love and so God we just thank you for all of these things all these truths tonight
Help us to see ourselves very clearly help us to not hold on to anything
That's familiar just for the sake of familiarity or safety
Help us to see that that thing that we think is keeping us safe is actually the thing that is destroying us
It's time for us to let that go and allow you to fill that space with something that is going to
Help us to receive the very things that you have always wanted to give us in
Jesus name a
man
Alright friends, please answer those questions. I will make sure that you get those questions
You'll get the declarations and the questions. We can't activate this
Sunday night and
Supernatural Saturday will be all about
It'll be all about the storm that's promotion
But we will go back to single spotlights. We'll even do a dating game next you guys
So I know that those of you like I want the dating game. I want this I want that
Well, yeah
We have to have this
So that we can have that
Because what good is doing any of that if we don't have the capacity to receive the very thing that's being offered to us
All right, so let's do this work so that we can actually have some success from these spotlights, all right, okay
I'll see you soon. Bye everyone. Oh wait one little thing for those of you that join the arc dating app
Those speed dating events are going to be listed. There's three of them in June
You will be able to go to those they are virtual
They are on this app and they have a lot of different really cool things
That we are going to have as a community that is an affiliate of them
So you just have to hang tight all you have to do now is click the affiliate link download the app
You don't have to find people on there. If you don't want to you can just download the app being waiting for these speed dating events
That's awesome. They're coming in June. We have the dates already. We'll post that stuff. We're gonna keep you informed
But this is just the beginning. We're gonna do a bunch of stuff with the arc
Okay
So let's all get on the arc
Cool. All right. See you soon. Bye. Thank you Jackie. Bye. Bye