Hello, amazing, beautiful people. As you can see, I'm somewhere slightly different in terms
of, I know I've got my background on, but actually I'm sitting in the middle of a hockey
field because I completely forgot with Annabelle's 21st and Kev's birthday and everything going
on in the workshop that I needed to get this done for you guys. So sincere apologies and
thank you for being patient. Thank you for flexing those fruits of the spirit muscles.
Today, we are going to do your superpower and it's very, very exciting to do this with
you today. So before we go into that, let's do a quick share because I want to make sure
that you guys have all done, sorry, the dodginess of this joy, all done what you needed to do
last week. So I have to say, I have had one person, beautiful Angela, she is amazing,
cheering her on. She actually got her values absolutely nailed this week. So well done
to her. Caroline and Sarah have both sent them to me. We've had some backwards and forwards.
So well done to you guys too for getting this nailed. And I pray that you have been reading
them every day. If you haven't done it yet, do it before you get on with this training
because we want to make sure that you go from pain to promise that you are going from what
has been unhelpful in the past to what's helpful now in the future. We want to use
that Pareto principle, 20% of your values, your top 20% will give you 80% of your health
and wellbeing. You won't be anxious, you'll get rid of all your stress, anxiety, worry,
you'll be more self-confident. Why wouldn't we want to be in that space? So I encourage
you to move forward in that space for you. And exactly as we've said, exchanging the
pain for the promise, growing in your values. So we're going to make your promise values
instead of just being a three-lane highway, a six-lane highway. And we're going to carve
a new path. So every time you read your new values and you've got 21 days to read your
new values, actually three cycles of. So the first cycle, well, I can't quite see this.
So first cycle of your 21 days. So if you imagine you've got your old route here for
your pain values. First cycle of 21 days means that while that's happening, the glial cells
take it away, boom, gone. Second cycle of 21 days, the glial cells take another lane
of your old one away. And now this is your dominant, your new pathway is your dominant
pathway. By the third cycle, boom, oh look at that balloons, it's excited. Third cycle,
it's gone. So you now have a brand spanking new highway to new stuff so that then you
will no longer be triggered by that pain. So we're looking for that freedom. Now, I
want you to think about what insights you gained from last week's training, how you've
integrated that learning. You've been reading those values rules every day or what you've
done that you've applied. And then how this has helped you in your relationships because
actually you're starting to see things differently. And instead of being triggered by unhelpful
things or needing people to fill your bucket, you're filling your own bucket. That's gold
because you can fill it any point of any time. And then give yourself a score of how
you're feeling as you're coming into this training and a word of whatever that might
be. And I'm going to give it a score of nine and excited because quite frankly, I'm excited
about sharing this with you today. Now, wrap that up, get your rules to me. Let me see
what you've done. Let me cheer you on. And then we're going to get into an amazing training
I did with Dean Graziosi back in the day, and he is happy for us to share it as long
as we honor him. So thank you to Dean for this training. This is where we really get
to understand why we're here on this planet. This is your true purpose. This is like why
this is where your fire, that fire in your belly comes to get you. But it is often comes
from pain. So what we're going to do is we're going to use that pain as a promise. We're
going to use it as fire and we're going to change it from something painful to something
beautiful. See, just like this tree from something dead to something fruitful. So the first thing
we want to do is ask what success is for you. What's most important for you to have in your
life? And the most important thing of a success for me is to see people living out their true
purpose in Christ. That would be like, whoa, people. And why is it important? So what I'm
going to get you guys to do is what is most important to you? Is it most important to
have a healthy relationship with God?
your husband or your spouse?
Is it most important for you to get your message out
through your art?
Is it most important?
What is it for you that is gonna take you from here
to where you wanna be in the future?
So what is it?
What's that one thing that you wanna do?
And then when we go, okay,
so that would mean I was successful.
Okay, so then why?
Why is that?
That's the first layer.
We're gonna get deep.
We're gonna get right to your core.
So we're gonna take the layers back
and we're gonna say, okay, why is that important to me?
Because living life true to your purpose is fulfillment,
peace, love, joy, all of those fruits of the spirit.
We get that when we are living in line with Christ.
We get it.
Patience, which you guys have been
to get this video to this week.
Kindness, all of those things, all of those things come.
All come and are fully available to us.
And that's 24 seven when we are in him.
He is in us.
And the reason that that's important to me
is because I'm overseeing the dead walking.
I'm overseeing people being trapped by,
I'm over, I'm overseeing people being less than.
And I think the worst part for me
is when people call themselves Christians
and then we don't do what we're called to do.
It just breaks my heart.
So why is it important to me that the dead aren't walking
and it's now we walk alive in Christ?
Why is it important to me that not overseeing people
so being less than?
Because I believe we are all,
you know, actually what I believe is when one of us,
oh, there's a song like that, Mamma Mia song.
♪ One of us is dying, one of us is crying. ♪
You know, it's like, oh my goodness, one of us.
So if one of us is hurting, unwell or whatever it might be,
the rest of us are affected, it affects us all.
That's all.
And why is that important to me?
Why is it important that we're all fit and healthy?
Because wouldn't that be such a wonderful world to live in?
So each time, I mean, I'm just talking you through
as I do mine, but I want you to think
about what it is for you.
What is it for you that really gets,
and usually by about now, about level five, four, five,
and six, you might start bursting into tears.
And that's a good thing, because actually we've found
the heart of what is most important to you.
We've found the real deal for you.
So again, one of us is hurting, it's unwell,
affects us all, so why is that important to me?
Because I want to have world peace.
I really want to have peace.
In our hearts and minds.
Because when we get to be like that,
we get to cover the earth with his love.
And why, specifically, why is that so important to me?
Because I want to go to heaven with no regrets.
I do not want to get to the end of my days
and go, my goodness, I could have talked to this person,
or I could have done that, or I could have done this.
I don't want to go to, I just don't want that.
I really want to, I want to go to, you know,
why is it important to me?
Because I want to go to sleep at night
in peace.
And to wake up new every morning to be the best.
best I can be. I want to bring love. I want to bring, I want to receive love from God.
I want to bring this love into people's hearts and minds. Boom! Job done. So team, that is
my challenge for you is to just keep digging, keep digging, keep digging, keep digging until
you know why you are on this planet, till you know why you're here, till you know what
the purpose is. And then we also have the amazing pot of gold, Elate. And so this is,
I use an example, we've got a situation. So Elate is about flipping from where you are
now to where you want to be. It's about when you are triggered, you need to pause and you
need to work some stuff out. So this is in challenging circumstances. This is a system
you can use to refresh and restore yourself in any situation. So the first thing is we
want to celebrate how far you've come. The fact that you're here, we're over halfway,
your self-awareness of the treasure within and celebrating you for doing the last exercise.
You have found the gold from the inside out. And that's what happens here. We're looking
at the inside. So when we hit a roadblock or a setback or come across something we weren't
expecting, it's great to have a system to overcome. And I know many of you are in many
battles every day. We'll use this system. So first consider the situation or the circumstances
or the challenging relationship that you're in and that you want to change. So for some
people, it could have that energy to get out of bed and get up and get going.
For some, it's about having that spirit of love, power and sound mind as opposed to
other spirits that can be in our heads and in our minds.
So whatever it is for you and for me this week, it was to honour
one of our leaders when I wanted to punch her lights out. So that's how it goes.
And what we want to do is apply the ELATE framework to this situation. So the first
thing is to step outside of yourself and assess your own emotions and decisions.
And my first question, is it me or is it God? And if it's not good, it's not God.
So that's how I start with. If I'm feeling angry, frustrated, upset, overwhelmed, stressed, anxious,
that's not good. It's not God. So it's me. It's me that's got the issue, not God.
So the next thing that I need to do is pay attention to what my body and those who genuinely
care for me. So pay attention to what my body's doing and to what others who care for you have to say.
And for me, it is often I have to, because I know I'm cross, I know I'm frustrated,
I know I'm not feeling that good. So I have to go back to God and say, God,
who do you want to be for me in this space or situation? Or how are you, God, going to show,
because he's never going to let us down. He's never going to leave us or forsake us. How are
you going to show up for me right now? So I have to turn to him and ask him. I may go to others
and discuss things with them. Help me unpack this. This is how I'm feeling. But I have to
go to trusted people who genuinely care for me, who don't have their own agendas.
And then I have to activate. So I have to take action based on the evaluations and the insights
that I've got. So that could be. And in this situation, I had to consider how I was feeling
that was about and I needed to go back and sort a situation out or if it's for you and it's like
oh my goodness so Sally's told me to do this or Kerry suggested to do this or somebody or
I heard about this app that Angela suggested so get on the pet app and do it
or it could be to get on the Bible app that Amy put in and do it. It could be to write an email
actually it isn't write an email it's always to speak for me speak to the elders or leaders in
elders or leaders in charge
and have a calm discussion because I've worked stuff through and offer solutions
so that's another thing to do is you want to come with a solution
and then be grateful grateful for what you've learned thank you lord
for his words
thank you lord
for his peace
thank you lord
for your grace
that overwhelm and love that overwhelms me
even if you're not feeling it at that point in time I thank him before I've got the breakthrough
and I find that I thank him for the breakthrough that I'm looking for it will come and it comes
every time so whatever it is for you and thank you for connection
rather than disconnection
and then seek support and wisdom from others to move forward so get others find others to help
you to move forward to take you to the next level so work with those around me
with those around me
in peace and love
boom job done and get off my own backside
and get on with what needs to be done that's it so
we're going to evaluate if it's not good it's not god so whatever the situation is we need his
wisdom his presence his insights so first of all pause take into account where you're at how you're
feeling what's going on then ask god ask god ask the holy spirit to guide you and come into the
space and show you what to do speak to you guide you give you the help and the wisdom and the
insight sometimes we just have to put on some worship music to find that we'll ask god we're
not we can't hear it straight away put on some worship music get you get your bible study out
whatever it is get into that space where you can hear his voice and then activate take action on
what you need to do now part of the listening and taking action so you've done some action to get
the listening that's fine but you take action you get moving because if you stay where you are and
you stay stuck that's it the game's over and we don't want that you've got to get moving he can
steer a moving ship he can't see you i can't steer a parked car and then thank him thank him he's
always with you thank you that he'll never leave you or forsake you thank you that you can do all
things in christ who can strengthen you thank you that you do not have a you know a spiritual fear
but of love power and sound mind bring it on and then seek the support get others on board with you
and you guys are great in this chat you are really empowering and encouraging each other and that's
exactly what this is about so what we've learned today is to understand how to take your pain into
your promise is to understand your why's what really motivates you and why you do what you do
because actually that's what we're called to do and then that everything you need in life is
actually inside of you it's actually inside how you feel what your emotions are
What you're up to, it's all inside, it's all in your heart.
And then the importance of being self-aware.
You know, it's really important to be aware of what God is doing in your life and where
you are, and not just what you want, not just where you want to be.
And the other thing is also out of the darkness into the light, when we get it out of the
darkness, out of inside of us and into the light, boom, we're in a great space.
And when we slow down, everything speeds up.
When we take the time to be with God, when we hear his voice, we're in a space that we
can actually start moving forward.
So what are your action steps going to be from today?
I'd love to hear what your action steps are.
You can put them in the chat, you can share them in that space, but I encourage you to
think about what your action steps should be today or could be today.
And mine are around just keep going.
I have to keep going, recording these episodes, making sure that we're doing the recordings
for the radio, making sure I'm constantly moving forward.
So just keep going, keep producing.
And keep listening.
So here we are, boom, boom, boom, and my self-reflection, where am I feeling?
I'm actually feeling like an eight out of 10 at the moment because I am, and you know
what?
I've just got to sit.
I feel like I need to absorb some information.
So I'm feeling contemplative is the word I've got now.
That's how I'm feeling.
So I came in as a nine.
I was excited to share this with you, excited to be here.
I've dropped slightly because I'm actually going to just go in and really think about
what needs to be done.
So consider this.
Get going.
Next week is your inheritance and your true identity.
And I can't wait to do that with you all.
So have an amazing, God-blessed weekend.
And I'm going to see you.
Sorry, the light is terrible here because I'm at a hockey turf.
I will see you on Monday.
I love you.
God bless you.
Take care.
See you soon.
Bye for now.