Hello, amazing, beautiful people. My sincere apologies, this was a wee bit late. But welcome,
welcome, welcome. This is it. This is like the wrap up of our first 10 weeks of the Great
Exchange. So I'm super excited to be sharing this with you. So for those of you who went,
actually, I'm just going to invest in the DIY course, boom! Yay! We're celebrating you
now. And for those of you who are part of the mentoring and have decided to continue
on, this is your line in the sand because where you are now is now going to be, the
ceiling you've got now from where you were, is now going to be your new floor for the
next round. Very exciting. So what we're going to do today is we are literally going to review
what you guys have covered over the last 10 weeks. Let's have a wee look. Oh, that's not
what we want or that, but this is. Okay. So the first thing we're going to do is we
just actually, for those who joined us on Anzac, that was actually the last kind of
training that we did. So we looked at the Dreaded Drama Triangle and the Empowerment
Dynamic. We looked at the God Box and what to put in there, which we actually did at
the beginning. So it was a good recap and the Great Exchange. So making sure that we're
asking Jesus, what are we exchanging this for? What is it that we've got? So I just
encourage you for a moment before we go into the bigger reflection of the whole time that
we've been together so far this year. What did you notice with that training or with
session nine? So you had both of those in there. You could use either one. What did
you notice that really shifted in your heart? What was it that popped for you? So it could
have been that God is fun. And it just, you know, it's meant to be an adventure. It's
meant to be fun. It could have been that you've got to literally give back to Jesus what belongs
to him. And it could be that you now know your purpose, you know, your true identity
and purpose, where you're going to go to from here. So it's like, yes, I know exactly what
I'm up to. I know my two, two words. So I've got my true identity and purpose in this season. And
I'm ready to go. So whatever it is for you, write that down. And if you want to pause this, you can
and then give yourself a score out of 10. And I'm going to say I'm a nine out of 10 today. My
gorgeous daughter's popped back for the weekend. I've actually got her dog under my feet at the
moment because she's gone out to go and help the owners of the horses that she looks after.
They've driven from Auckland today. And then my word is, I think I am excited. Actually, I am
excited for sure. So, um, so whatever it is for you, get that in there. Now, I want to be able to
I had some amazing notes to help me with this. So just bear with as I find my wee notes, will help
me make sure that I am giving you the best that you need. So I want to just look at the last 10
weeks that we've been together. And the first week, we actually did the game of hearing from God,
because we want to unlock your authentic self, the real you. So we had our game with God. And we
looked at with funny that we've done it right at the beginning. And right at the end, we've
sandwiched, actually, what do I still need to give and it was interesting how much people had last
week in making sure that all that had to be given to God. So right here right now. I want you to
think about what it was that was insightful back then. And again, it may have been that God
actually wants to engage with me. Or maybe it was that actually the old man is dead. Along with all
the stuff, all the stuff that Jesus paid for. All sickness, all disease, all unhelpful thoughts, all
of it. Boom, thank you, you are the weakest link. Goodbye. And then when you get to exchange it for
something new, we get to exchange it for the spirit, we get to exchange it for the new. So
The new, know the plans I have to you to prosper you,
you know, to give you hope in the future,
to prosper you and not to harm you,
give you hope in the future.
That's God, you know, the old is gone and the new has come.
Jesus took everything for us
so that we could reign victorious with him.
How cool is that?
And then the next one was all about,
we looked at the three hours,
we looked at that, which we've just done here.
So our three hours, recap, review, reflect,
because then we're tracking our progress.
So the power, and that's what we're doing,
we're taking it to another level.
We're looking at the quarter and saying, oh my goodness.
So, you know, power,
power of reflection,
and which allowed you to track the done list and progress.
Because all God is interested in and what's being done,
not what you haven't done, not where you failed,
not where you didn't do, but what you did do,
where you did love on somebody,
where you did offer something to someone.
And we looked at life being an order.
So the order of faith, family, finance,
and then fun and friends.
We also looked at intentional alignment,
keeping yourself in alignment with God and with Christ.
And that's about keeping our eyes on the prize
and just shimmying in when we need to.
So when we looked at that priority order,
which we've just said.
So it's about getting your life in order.
And when life is in order, there is peace,
there is rest, there is calm,
all the opposite of stress or anxiety or worry
or any of that stuff.
No, no, you are the weakest link, goodbye.
Jesus paid in full for all that.
And Jesus lives in me.
So I don't need to have any of that.
Thank you very much.
And then the third week, and I encourage you,
pause on this, get your worksheets out,
look at what you wrote down,
look at what you learned in this time.
So we looked then at the power of words,
your words that you get to speak over others
and making sure that every now and again,
we put that mirror up to make sure
that we're only speaking kindness and love and truth.
And then also the shield of faith
that if somebody says an unkind word,
no, sorry, it's just going to fire it up,
it's going to come and it's going to drop to the floor.
It's not yours.
It's not yours to carry.
And it was never yours in the first place
because out of our heart, our mouth speaks.
So here was all about the power of words.
Your words and mine, you know, others,
and then take, yeah, absolutely.
And it's actually, I forgot about the Velcro and Teflon.
I was reminded of that recently on BESOL.
But, you know, you want to be like Teflon to the good stuff
and, sorry, Teflon to the bad stuff
and Velcro to the good stuff.
So the Teflon, it all just falls off.
Can't stick to you.
Brilliant.
And then, but be like Velcro, hold on to the good stuff.
You know, Mary treasured all that stuff
in her heart with Jesus.
She just treasured it.
I just love it.
She held on and just treasured things, you know,
and I'll put here Teflon, that's an update actually.
I didn't talk about that, but it was brilliant.
Teflon and Velcro, so bring it on.
So we get to choose which ones stick to us
and which ones don't.
And then we had good old love over fear
because perfect love casts out all fear.
And all we did in that was literally work through
all of those things.
Are we in love?
Are we in fear?
Are we in love?
Are we in fear?
So it's all to do with behavior and emotions are signals.
The signals to tell you whether you're going
in the right direction or not.
They feel real, but they're actually not real
because they pass.
Emotions always pass, but they're also energy for motion.
And we want to make sure that we're thinking big picture,
we're in the calm, we're there, ready to go.
So just whatever popped for you, excuse me, teeth.
Excuse me, sorry about that.
Whatever popped for you, emotions are signals
and that you, perfect love casts out all fear.
You have, Jesus is over comes to serve you.
And then we had all that column about how to look
in the positive, how to look, how to be in the behavior
we want, not the ones we don't want.
So there might've been some for you in there
that really popped.
And then the power of forgiveness.
I love this because we know that unforgiveness
is like drinking poison and expecting the other person
to die.
The only person who suffers from unforgiveness is you.
So get rid, get rid, exchange it.
We looked at the great exchange and the God box again.
So we've done it three times.
So hopefully you guys have got the message now.
You can put it in the God box and then it stays there.
It is no longer yours.
And you're only allowed to take it out
if you think you're bigger and better than God.
Frankly, if you think you can create the world,
bring it on, but otherwise it stays there.
And you are not allowed to think it,
but what you are allowed to do is do that great exchange
and exchange them for whatever it is
that God's going to give you, usually a fruit of the spirit.
So forgiveness, so we had a forgiveness
and we had the God box again and the great exchange in here.
And it's good because actually we need to hear these things
more than once to make sure
that we are really embedding this learning.
And then all about finding your winning lane,
your zone of genius and your field of favor.
So we looked at your tribe
and we looked at tracking progress
and we looked at your lanes,
like collaboration, not competition.
Funny, this morning I played tennis
and the collaborators won over the competitors.
I thought that was gold.
Oh, look, and then I've even got my things.
So collaboration over competition.
Wins every time, I just thought that was great.
And then also, you're tracking your progress,
which is to gain what you're learning
is what you're tracking, not the gap, not the gap,
not where we haven't been, not what we haven't done.
Interesting, because that's also where we started.
And then also how to find your tribe,
how to find the people that really will lift you up.
And do you know, we really are the sum
of the people we have around us.
So I encourage you to always have people
that are ahead of you or with you,
peer group and ahead of you,
so that you keep growing exponentially and learning.
And then seven was all about values.
You know what, that is your runway.
When you know what your values are,
and also when you kick out all those things
that have been holding you back,
you literally have that straight line on which to run.
And so what we've done is we've made that
like a beautiful, easy, open runway
for you to be able to get going in.
And you'll expect to find others in that space.
So I'm hoping that each one of you
has been reading your values rules.
And what you'll find is that there is a new piece,
there is a rest, and often there's restoration.
So he's restoring you back to your master setting
rather than your default mode.
You know, and that's when we get caught up in emotions,
when things trigger us, especially those negative,
you know, those negative values that can trigger us
and fire us, and that's really unhelpful.
So good to get rid of those.
And then number eight was that seven levels deep.
I made you go quite deep to work out what was,
what was your pain?
What really drove you?
Where was that intrinsic motivation?
So all of this is so that we can get going next term,
it's going to be nuts.
So what we've done is we've cleared all the decks,
we've worked out where your real fire in your belly is.
And also we're looking at elate.
And elate was about responding, not reacting.
So we were learning how to respond,
to take that breath or work it through rather than react.
And then also how to look at the promise, not the pain.
Because we want to be, you know, we move towards pleasure.
So we want to move towards God, move towards love,
move towards the things that will serve us and help us grow.
And then we actually did week nine with the Anzac workshop.
So that will be in your,
in all of the trainings going forward, you will have that.
And we looked at how to hear from God.
We looked at, again, the great exchange.
So we piled everything into our God box
we could possibly think of.
And then we asked God,
we asked Jesus for the great exchange.
And then we also did those two words, you know,
what are the two words from your memories and your life
that is actually the reason that you're here.
So hopefully you've got some great insights in there of,
and I love the game because the game this time
was different from the game at the beginning.
And part of the game was, so he's shown me,
and I'm sure he's shown you guys
a very different game this time
because he's upgrading you.
He's taking you to the next level.
And then we got rid of more rubbish.
Because that's it, it's not just once done,
it's always done.
Sometimes things come back,
but also there'll be more rubbish, you know,
there'll be more things to challenge you,
more rubbish that comes back.
And so this time we're exchanging it again,
boom, up to the next level.
And then your two words of why you're really here.
That is an incredible nine words.
weeks of insight, digging deep, pulling out the weeds, planting your garden.
And what we'll do in the next ten weeks is we're going to look at how really
to pump and be who you call to be and how to be super productive,
but also live your dreams.
We're going to do some more dreaming with God, which is super cool.
So Key 19 is actually looking at your session highlights.
So which were the sessions that were most significant for you and why?
Why were they most significant?
And obviously, we wrote the book, The Great Exchange.
And that was to literally, I can, you have the authority.
Well, I have the, whether you want to call it authority or permission.
The authority and permission.
To kick anything that is not of God into touch.
He said, my kingdom come, my will be done on Earth as it is in heaven.
There is no sickness in the kingdom in heaven.
There is no horrible people in heaven.
So we have complete authority to take
full ownership of our lives and just accept the good and repel the bad.
So we could talk about Teflon and Velcro here.
You know, actually, I'm in charge.
I choose what I accept and what I don't accept.
And the choice that something else that may have popped for you is the choice is mine.
You know, the choices we make determine
the directions our lives take and the people we become.
So, you know, the choice is yours.
Everything that I am doing right now,
my whole environment, my extra few kilos around my tummy is
because of choices I've made around food.
It's the choices I have made along the way.
So I am where I am because the choices I've made.
So just have a think for you about
what these what is really meant for you in your day to day life.
And then personal growth.
Have a consideration for yourself about specific areas where you've noticed
positive changes in your life over the first quarter of the year.
Now, in some of this group, I have seen just a big softening.
Of hearts and an opening of minds.
Which has massively shifted.
Relationships.
You know, into one of connection,
into ones of love and to ones of joy, just really bringing people together,
and that's what I've seen, this just this beautiful coming together
rather than the butting heads, the softening of hearts,
that softens our words, that opens up a whole new world.
Of love, peace and joy.
It's all yours, it's all yours for the taking.
So you have a think and obviously some
of the things and some look future intentions.
Oh, that's interesting.
I've got some I need to just sort that out for you guys so that the
formatting comes right round.
But and then going to personal growth,
there might be some actual achievements that you've been really proud of over
this time, so it could have been keeping on top of my home.
It could have been clearing out a whole heap of stuff.
It could be launching a book.
And this course.
Because right at the beginning of this course, then launched it or written it.
So here we are.
We've done it.
We have written it, but, you know,
we haven't finalized all the worksheets, et cetera.
So that's been amazing.
You know, and what else have you guys done during this time?
You know, some of you might have had trips home.
Some of you might have done some other stuff that you've been doing.
And Anzac workshop, because that's how she ended up being part of this.
So that is super cool.
But you think about what you've done and then your future intentions.
Where to from here?
You know, what are we going to do from here?
Do you want to continue?
So the mentoring group are already continuing.
They're like, yes, come on, let's get our dreams put into action
and let's get the action done so they're ready to take form.
For those of you who've just said, right,
actually, I'm just going to do this 10 weeks.
Maybe you want to come and join us.
You want to come either come live and join us or you might want to do the DIY again.
The choice is yours.
So just have a think about where you want to go to from here.
Whether you want to make massive progress and really move forward.
And for me in the next quarter, I'm looking hopefully, well I say hopefully,
I'm looking to launch a podcast by the end of the next quarter.
Obviously, we've got the radio show.
That's something else we did during this last quarter to continue with that.
and continue with brilliant small groups
and our home groups.
We're going to, in the next quarter, May, June, July,
yes, we're gonna go to Australia
to see kids, children and grandchildren.
What else are we gonna do in this quarter?
We are gonna get on top of the garden.
I need to get on top of the garden, get on top,
oops, of the garden.
So that might be our little mission.
So I've got a bit of a challenge for you guys.
I would love you to celebrate success
because the power of sharing the journey of adventure
is all yours.
It actually, it empowers others,
but it releases it in you.
So the first thing I want you to do,
we did talk about this at some point,
is how do you celebrate?
Reflect on how you recognize your achievements
and tell yourself you did it, you made it.
So how do you do it?
You know me, I have my happy dance.
I might go out for dinner with my husband
because of course everything's about food.
I'm a kid.
I might just do a high five, you know, yay, yes.
Actually, I'm more fist pumped than a high five,
but you know, I might fist pump, whatever it is.
I get quite excited, but I'm quite happy to do it with,
I don't need everybody else to know about it particularly.
So there's that.
And then, so think about you, how do you celebrate?
And then evaluate your progress.
How often do you pause to evaluate your progress?
And if it's the first time today, celebrate that.
And if this is a muscle you haven't flexed before,
you have flexed before, share your successes
that you've experienced through repetition.
So what I want you to do is I want you to come next
on Monday, for those of you who are coming live,
I want you to come back and share what you've learned,
how you've grown, what's been a real,
what's the progress you've made, you know?
And obviously in here, I can put, you know, the book launch.
I can put the course launch.
And actually I can put up and coming courses,
because we've got a few coming up with collaborators,
with others.
So we're going to do some work together.
Two of us are going to do some work together going forward.
So that is your mission.
How do you celebrate and what's your progress?
So what I would like you to do, look at that,
recap, review and reflect, think about it,
owning your life journey and then honor.
Take a moment to honor yourself and the others in the group
and share what you've learned, what you've grown,
what has been the best for you.
So your call to adventure ultimately is to look back,
look at how far you've come.
Because what I want you to do here,
this becomes your line in the sand, especially here,
evaluating progress here and your future intentions
and things here.
These last two pages actually become your line in the sand
of where you are now,
so that you can literally leap forward
over the next three months.
So these last two pages, really important.
So create my new floor.
That's what you're going to do.
So you're going to look up what you've achieved
and how you've grown.
And then you may, well, I would say,
start dreaming with God to find out where to next
and go out and celebrate at whatever that is.
Go to church, do whatever it is that you do to celebrate.
And then how are you feeling?
And of course, I'm a little bit tired.
I've been doing a bit of yawning.
Sorry, Tim.
So I'm ready for, I'm actually ready for the weekend.
I'm ready to move on, do some stuff,
have some fun and the week ahead,
because we've got a lot going on.
I've finally started to record the book.
We seem to have got it sorted with audacity.
So that's exciting.
So remember, you have the power to claim your inheritance.
Your adventure awaits,
and it's all about abundance and prosperity.
And bookending your day with your declarations
will literally transform your life.
So have an amazing, amazing, God-blessed weekend.
I will look forward to seeing those of you
who are part of Mentoring on Monday.
And those of you who are DIYs,
who have gone all the way through this course,
you've filled your boots, you've done it yourself.
I really want to celebrate you,
because I'm a.
Docker, I need friends with me.
So well done for persevering.
Well done for getting to this stage.
And please let me know how you're getting on.
What are your celebrations?
We'd love to know what's been best for you too.
Have an amazing, God bless weekend.
Love you all.
Take care, bye.