WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:07.800 So hello, hello, hello and welcome back. Thank you for joining us live. For those of you 2 00:00:07.800 --> 00:00:11.240 who've got your guided worksheets, I hope you've had a chance to get them printed off 3 00:00:11.240 --> 00:00:15.800 or just you can, they're editable PDFs so you can tap them into the into the laptop 4 00:00:15.800 --> 00:00:20.880 too as you go. So whatever works best for you is great. And hopefully you've got yourself 5 00:00:20.880 --> 00:00:26.240 a cup of tea, cup of coffee, whatever, a glass of water, whatever it might be. I can see 6 00:00:26.240 --> 00:00:31.440 the cat in the back at least is getting herself all snuggled in so that you're ready to just 7 00:00:31.440 --> 00:00:37.520 come and have some fun. Now, I won't actually show the screen in terms of we'll just share, 8 00:00:37.520 --> 00:00:43.640 but anyone had like, ah, I really thought about this from yesterday's training. So anything 9 00:00:43.640 --> 00:00:51.280 for anyone that went, hmm, I really watched my words or whatever it might be. Anything 10 00:00:51.280 --> 00:01:04.120 pop for anyone. I love the way I was paying more attention. Oh, I'm sorry. That's right. 11 00:01:04.120 --> 00:01:11.040 I'm paying attention like this morning with my grandkids, especially. And so school just 12 00:01:11.040 --> 00:01:16.800 ended. I work at a school. And so we're done as of yesterday. And so it's a little easier 13 00:01:16.800 --> 00:01:21.480 to just be a little calmer and settled because I don't have to be up doing whatever. I'm 14 00:01:21.480 --> 00:01:29.280 just off now. So but, you know, sometimes I get a little bit pushed and I'm not always 15 00:01:29.280 --> 00:01:35.480 as sweet with the grandkids as I'd like to be because we all live together. And it's 16 00:01:35.480 --> 00:01:40.520 like, but this morning was good. It just was just more calm and more. Let's pay attention 17 00:01:40.520 --> 00:01:46.440 to how we're how we're talking. And especially with my youngest granddaughter, I told her 18 00:01:46.440 --> 00:01:49.160 this morning, we were talking and she was telling me about something that happened. 19 00:01:49.160 --> 00:01:57.280 And I said, Well, always remember, just use kind words. So, yeah, yeah, actually, there's 20 00:01:57.280 --> 00:02:01.840 a bit of a testimony we did. So these guys actually hang out with me and Fruits of Spirit 21 00:02:01.840 --> 00:02:07.960 with Brilliant. And one of the ladies who who started doing Fruits of Spirit has never 22 00:02:07.960 --> 00:02:12.760 heard of Graham didn't know anything about any of his teachings and came last term, and 23 00:02:12.920 --> 00:02:18.680 grandmother. And she was always like, not that this is you. But you know, she was always 24 00:02:18.680 --> 00:02:22.720 like this with her granddaughter, her granddaughter was hurt, and her granddaughter was struggling 25 00:02:22.720 --> 00:02:28.200 with things and her dad had gone away, and she was living with them for a while. And 26 00:02:28.200 --> 00:02:33.400 but just working through the fruits, just working through kindness and goodness and 27 00:02:33.400 --> 00:02:39.920 coming back to her granddaughter with love. It's transformed their relationship, absolutely 28 00:02:39.920 --> 00:02:45.600 transformed their relationship. And it's like, Oh, this is so good. So you're right, 29 00:02:45.600 --> 00:02:52.360 just having that moment to just be present. And yes, end of terms, end of school, especially 30 00:02:52.360 --> 00:02:59.400 when you're teaching or involved in school, it's all on like it's full noise. And so you've 31 00:02:59.400 --> 00:03:03.480 got that double portion, you're hanging out with us, and you're getting a chance to breathe, 32 00:03:03.520 --> 00:03:09.920 which is great. And to just, you know, by the God, help Lisa in this beautiful time 33 00:03:09.920 --> 00:03:16.600 that she's got to just really rest in you and be able to be who she's called to be just 34 00:03:18.000 --> 00:03:26.320 you know, that's, it's that breathing space to regroup, reset, and go right, okay, we've 35 00:03:26.320 --> 00:03:32.440 got this. So I love that. I love that. That's a lovely testimony to start with. Anyone else 36 00:03:32.440 --> 00:03:36.120 want to share? You don't have to, but if you would like to, anything you want to share 37 00:03:36.120 --> 00:03:41.520 from yesterday's training, or just how you were following kind of getting up and getting 38 00:03:41.520 --> 00:03:42.440 going in your day? 39 00:03:49.920 --> 00:03:57.680 Realize that something I sort of said to dad last night. I know when he doesn't like something 40 00:03:57.680 --> 00:04:02.400 I've said, because he'll get up, make himself a coffee and sort of just remove himself from 41 00:04:02.400 --> 00:04:10.640 the conversation. But I was trying to encourage him, get him to move. We don't have to sit and 42 00:04:12.040 --> 00:04:20.760 wait for God all the time, you know, and I use the illustration that, you know, if you're 43 00:04:20.760 --> 00:04:26.800 looking for a job, you don't just sit back and wait, you actually go for jobs, and then 44 00:04:26.800 --> 00:04:31.120 God will give you, you know, so I'm trying to tell him, let's step out and you know, and he 45 00:04:31.160 --> 00:04:42.280 didn't like it. And just sometimes you've got even the words you use for other people, you 46 00:04:42.280 --> 00:04:50.240 know, sort of needs to sometimes suit them. Like, it's a whole new ballgame. We don't have 47 00:04:50.240 --> 00:04:56.680 to go into that. But it was like, okay, I understand he's not quite there with that sort 48 00:04:56.680 --> 00:04:59.960 of conversation. So but yeah, it's 49 00:05:00.000 --> 00:05:03.080 It was really a, I hope now it's like. 50 00:05:04.240 --> 00:05:09.240 Yeah. And it's, Jesus met people where they were, 51 00:05:09.520 --> 00:05:12.600 not where he was, but where they were. 52 00:05:12.600 --> 00:05:14.840 And so I think that's another little, you know, 53 00:05:14.840 --> 00:05:19.200 it's a little shimmy with our words is we can see, 54 00:05:19.200 --> 00:05:21.480 and again, we can't read the label from inside the jar. 55 00:05:21.480 --> 00:05:23.800 So your dad's got no idea what you can see. 56 00:05:23.800 --> 00:05:25.800 You can see stuff that he can't see. 57 00:05:25.800 --> 00:05:28.480 All of us can see stuff in each other 58 00:05:28.480 --> 00:05:30.640 that we can't see for ourselves. 59 00:05:30.640 --> 00:05:32.920 And I believe it's like when we come together 60 00:05:32.920 --> 00:05:35.440 and we work in this scenario or whatever, 61 00:05:35.440 --> 00:05:39.360 and, but we've got to come with love and kindness 62 00:05:39.360 --> 00:05:42.040 and go, okay, I can see this. 63 00:05:42.040 --> 00:05:43.200 And I've got a scenario 64 00:05:43.200 --> 00:05:45.720 with my amazing bestest friend on the planet. 65 00:05:45.720 --> 00:05:49.080 I caught up with her yesterday and I've been praying 66 00:05:49.080 --> 00:05:50.480 because I'm like, because we chatted 67 00:05:50.480 --> 00:05:51.800 and we'd nutted some stuff out, 68 00:05:51.800 --> 00:05:53.880 but I couldn't go there with, 69 00:05:53.880 --> 00:05:56.480 you just want life the way you want it to be. 70 00:05:56.520 --> 00:05:58.880 You, you know, so that she's at just a little bit 71 00:05:58.880 --> 00:06:00.640 of loggerheads with her husband's 72 00:06:00.640 --> 00:06:02.960 not quite fitting the mold she wants. 73 00:06:02.960 --> 00:06:05.840 And he's, you know, so it's just that ee, ee, ee, ee. 74 00:06:05.840 --> 00:06:08.640 And I'm like, okay, I'm going to have to pray about this. 75 00:06:08.640 --> 00:06:10.600 And I'm going to have to ask God, 76 00:06:10.600 --> 00:06:13.280 how, what do you want me to say to her? 77 00:06:13.280 --> 00:06:15.680 And how do I share it with her 78 00:06:15.680 --> 00:06:18.520 that she'll be able to receive what I've got to say 79 00:06:18.520 --> 00:06:19.560 without getting offended, 80 00:06:19.560 --> 00:06:21.280 without going and making a cup of coffee 81 00:06:21.280 --> 00:06:23.160 or whatever it might be, you know? 82 00:06:23.160 --> 00:06:24.200 And so it's having that, 83 00:06:24.200 --> 00:06:25.720 it's having that relationship with God 84 00:06:25.720 --> 00:06:26.600 to be able to do that. 85 00:06:26.600 --> 00:06:28.160 But just choosing the words, 86 00:06:28.160 --> 00:06:29.160 just because I see it, 87 00:06:29.160 --> 00:06:31.440 doesn't mean to say I have to say it. 88 00:06:31.440 --> 00:06:33.120 And just because I see it, 89 00:06:33.120 --> 00:06:36.440 doesn't mean that I should speak it 90 00:06:36.440 --> 00:06:39.520 until God has said, actually, this is how to share it, 91 00:06:39.520 --> 00:06:41.640 or this is, you know, whatever it might be. 92 00:06:41.640 --> 00:06:43.880 So it's an interesting journey, 93 00:06:43.880 --> 00:06:45.600 being aware of our words. 94 00:06:45.600 --> 00:06:46.600 Brilliant. 95 00:06:46.600 --> 00:06:47.440 I love it. 96 00:06:47.440 --> 00:06:48.280 Well done. 97 00:06:48.280 --> 00:06:49.720 And I know Amy was on fire yesterday. 98 00:06:49.720 --> 00:06:54.000 She got lots done in her personal life yesterday. 99 00:06:54.000 --> 00:06:56.240 So anything you want to share, Ames, 100 00:06:56.240 --> 00:06:58.240 or should we get cracking with the day? 101 00:07:01.120 --> 00:07:05.960 Yeah, no, it was good to get some stuff done yesterday. 102 00:07:08.600 --> 00:07:09.840 I have noticed 103 00:07:13.720 --> 00:07:15.480 things have dampened a little bit 104 00:07:18.640 --> 00:07:19.960 in regards with 105 00:07:20.960 --> 00:07:23.720 where my mind's going straight to at times. 106 00:07:23.720 --> 00:07:24.560 Yeah. 107 00:07:31.080 --> 00:07:33.160 Around some of the old behaviours. 108 00:07:33.160 --> 00:07:34.240 Yeah. 109 00:07:34.240 --> 00:07:36.720 And of course, when you start to take ground, 110 00:07:36.720 --> 00:07:38.040 so you're looking again, 111 00:07:38.040 --> 00:07:38.880 and God's given you, 112 00:07:38.880 --> 00:07:41.960 he gave you a beautiful revelation yesterday 113 00:07:41.960 --> 00:07:43.720 with the game that you played with him. 114 00:07:43.720 --> 00:07:45.160 So what's going to happen? 115 00:07:45.160 --> 00:07:46.680 You're going to get tested. 116 00:07:46.680 --> 00:07:47.520 So that's fine. 117 00:07:48.040 --> 00:07:48.880 We've got this. 118 00:07:48.880 --> 00:07:50.000 No, you are the weakest link. 119 00:07:50.000 --> 00:07:50.840 Goodbye. 120 00:07:50.840 --> 00:07:51.960 I'm going this way. 121 00:07:51.960 --> 00:07:52.800 And you're choosing, 122 00:07:52.800 --> 00:07:54.320 and that's what you did yesterday. 123 00:07:54.320 --> 00:07:55.240 I mean, this had been, 124 00:07:55.240 --> 00:07:57.000 this was before the coaching yesterday. 125 00:07:57.000 --> 00:07:58.760 You were having some tough stuff going on, 126 00:07:58.760 --> 00:07:59.880 and it was kind of, 127 00:07:59.880 --> 00:08:01.560 but you turned the corner. 128 00:08:01.560 --> 00:08:03.840 You went, nah, nah, I'm going to go this way. 129 00:08:03.840 --> 00:08:06.200 So yes, that old stuff is going to try and come back, 130 00:08:06.200 --> 00:08:08.760 but you're like, no, no, it's not who I am. 131 00:08:08.760 --> 00:08:09.720 I'm going this way. 132 00:08:09.720 --> 00:08:11.720 And you've got some beautiful words from God yesterday 133 00:08:11.720 --> 00:08:13.200 to encourage you to. 134 00:08:13.200 --> 00:08:14.800 So keep going. 135 00:08:14.800 --> 00:08:15.640 You've got this. 136 00:08:15.640 --> 00:08:16.480 You've got this. 137 00:08:16.760 --> 00:08:17.600 You've got this. 138 00:08:17.600 --> 00:08:19.960 You made some massive progress yesterday, 139 00:08:19.960 --> 00:08:21.160 and you're really aware of, 140 00:08:21.160 --> 00:08:22.200 oh, it's because of this. 141 00:08:22.200 --> 00:08:23.040 It's because of this. 142 00:08:23.040 --> 00:08:23.880 It's because of that. 143 00:08:23.880 --> 00:08:24.720 Boom, right, there you go. 144 00:08:24.720 --> 00:08:25.760 Put it back into order. 145 00:08:25.760 --> 00:08:27.040 It was lovely. 146 00:08:27.040 --> 00:08:29.880 Alrighty, let's share the screen so we can get going. 147 00:08:29.880 --> 00:08:31.320 Oh, we don't need that bit. 148 00:08:32.320 --> 00:08:34.640 And what we've done today is key four. 149 00:08:34.640 --> 00:08:37.960 We've just done it verbally rather than writing it down, 150 00:08:37.960 --> 00:08:40.200 which you can do by all means, 151 00:08:40.200 --> 00:08:43.400 but it's the recap, review, and reflect. 152 00:08:43.400 --> 00:08:45.640 And so yesterday we looked at hearing his voice, 153 00:08:45.640 --> 00:08:48.040 the words have power, and the choice is yours. 154 00:08:48.040 --> 00:08:49.960 And all of you have just witnessed 155 00:08:49.960 --> 00:08:51.480 that you are making good choices. 156 00:08:51.480 --> 00:08:54.000 You are pausing, you are thinking, 157 00:08:54.000 --> 00:08:56.640 you are responding, not reacting. 158 00:08:56.640 --> 00:08:59.000 So even just from yesterday's training, 159 00:08:59.000 --> 00:09:01.680 all of you have got something out of that. 160 00:09:01.680 --> 00:09:05.480 And when I review, I look at the love. 161 00:09:05.480 --> 00:09:08.400 So the life, love, insight, freedom, and engagement. 162 00:09:08.400 --> 00:09:09.320 So what love? 163 00:09:09.320 --> 00:09:12.480 What did I notice that shifted in my heart? 164 00:09:12.480 --> 00:09:15.600 So for many of you, it may have been the pause button. 165 00:09:16.560 --> 00:09:17.800 What were the light bulb moments? 166 00:09:17.800 --> 00:09:20.720 Actually, if I come with kindness, 167 00:09:20.720 --> 00:09:25.280 it's going to allow us to connect, whatever it might be. 168 00:09:25.280 --> 00:09:27.760 And then freedom, what are the chains that have been broken 169 00:09:27.760 --> 00:09:29.520 that have set you free? 170 00:09:29.520 --> 00:09:31.960 And in Amy's case, there's some old lies 171 00:09:31.960 --> 00:09:33.560 that have tried to come back into her head. 172 00:09:33.560 --> 00:09:36.080 No, you are the weakest link, goodbye. 173 00:09:36.080 --> 00:09:37.520 No, I'm going to go this way. 174 00:09:37.520 --> 00:09:38.360 I'm going to get this done. 175 00:09:38.360 --> 00:09:39.480 I'm going to get this done. 176 00:09:39.480 --> 00:09:42.320 I'm going to do some things that I know bring me joy, 177 00:09:42.320 --> 00:09:44.920 not going back into the other space. 178 00:09:45.240 --> 00:09:46.080 And then engagement, 179 00:09:46.080 --> 00:09:48.440 how has this helped you deepen your relationships 180 00:09:48.440 --> 00:09:50.240 and connect with those around you? 181 00:09:50.240 --> 00:09:53.400 And straight away, Kerry's witnessed that, 182 00:09:53.400 --> 00:09:56.000 oh, hold on a minute, dad's gone off for his cup of tea. 183 00:09:56.000 --> 00:09:58.640 Okay, he's not ready for this conversation yet. 184 00:09:58.640 --> 00:10:00.240 That's okay, I can be patient. 185 00:10:00.000 --> 00:10:03.280 God's got all the time in the world, so have I. 186 00:10:03.280 --> 00:10:05.560 It's not my will, it's his will. 187 00:10:05.560 --> 00:10:07.720 And he wants dad to come home to Christ, 188 00:10:07.720 --> 00:10:08.960 he wants dad to come home. 189 00:10:08.960 --> 00:10:10.920 So I know God's got this, 190 00:10:10.920 --> 00:10:14.080 I'll just follow in what you asked me to do, Lord. 191 00:10:14.080 --> 00:10:14.920 I love it. 192 00:10:14.920 --> 00:10:16.200 Instead of carrying on going, 193 00:10:16.200 --> 00:10:18.760 oh no, you need to do this, you need, you know what? 194 00:10:18.760 --> 00:10:21.080 No, he doesn't just let it be. 195 00:10:21.080 --> 00:10:22.100 So well done. 196 00:10:23.040 --> 00:10:26.240 So you can write in there what it is for you 197 00:10:26.240 --> 00:10:28.960 that has popped for you so far. 198 00:10:28.960 --> 00:10:30.480 Give yourself a score out of 10 199 00:10:30.480 --> 00:10:32.320 and you know that I'm always an eight. 200 00:10:32.320 --> 00:10:35.080 I'm always ready for what the day has got to bring to me. 201 00:10:35.080 --> 00:10:36.680 And this morning I've managed to do 202 00:10:36.680 --> 00:10:38.500 another couple of chapters of my books 203 00:10:38.500 --> 00:10:40.280 in terms of recording it. 204 00:10:40.280 --> 00:10:43.120 So we're now at chapter 11, quite excited. 205 00:10:43.120 --> 00:10:45.040 I've got seven chapters to go 206 00:10:45.040 --> 00:10:48.280 and then the audio, we can start to put it together 207 00:10:48.280 --> 00:10:50.760 and get the audio book out, that'd be so cool. 208 00:10:50.760 --> 00:10:53.440 So I'm quite, again, quite excited 209 00:10:54.360 --> 00:10:56.520 because things are moving forward. 210 00:10:56.520 --> 00:10:59.560 Okie dokie, now big training today. 211 00:10:59.560 --> 00:11:03.080 These guys have heard it before, but it is just, 212 00:11:03.080 --> 00:11:07.880 you can't hear this more than like however many times. 213 00:11:07.880 --> 00:11:11.080 So we've got two concepts here. 214 00:11:11.080 --> 00:11:13.160 It's one concept, but I want to share it with you 215 00:11:13.160 --> 00:11:14.440 because I'm going to break it down. 216 00:11:14.440 --> 00:11:18.200 So ultimately, perfect love casts out all fear. 217 00:11:18.200 --> 00:11:20.080 That is what I'm breaking down today 218 00:11:21.360 --> 00:11:23.360 or unpacking rather than breaking down. 219 00:11:23.360 --> 00:11:25.520 I'm unpacking that today. 220 00:11:25.520 --> 00:11:27.960 So there are two concepts here, 221 00:11:27.960 --> 00:11:31.480 the empowerment dynamic, which is a book by David Emerald 222 00:11:31.480 --> 00:11:33.360 and the dreaded drama triangle, 223 00:11:33.360 --> 00:11:35.960 which was some incredible work done way back 224 00:11:35.960 --> 00:11:38.560 by Dr. Stephen Cartman. 225 00:11:38.560 --> 00:11:40.200 Now I promised you guys 226 00:11:40.200 --> 00:11:42.680 that you were going to live in the top 5%. 227 00:11:42.680 --> 00:11:45.800 You were going to be a top 5% by the end of today 228 00:11:45.800 --> 00:11:49.320 because the top 5% live in the empowerment dynamic. 229 00:11:50.520 --> 00:11:53.400 90 to 95% of the population 230 00:11:53.440 --> 00:11:55.920 live in the dreaded drama triangle. 231 00:11:56.920 --> 00:12:00.760 And the difference between the two is taking responsibility. 232 00:12:00.760 --> 00:12:02.120 That's it. 233 00:12:02.120 --> 00:12:05.600 So in the dreaded drama triangle, 234 00:12:05.600 --> 00:12:07.040 which is the stuff we put in the God box, 235 00:12:07.040 --> 00:12:09.240 I'm going to talk to you about that in a minute, 236 00:12:09.240 --> 00:12:11.560 we live in fear. 237 00:12:11.560 --> 00:12:16.560 And fear is false evidence appearing real. 238 00:12:16.680 --> 00:12:20.720 So it feels real, it looks real, but it's a lie. 239 00:12:21.720 --> 00:12:26.720 And it's the enemy's way of keeping us stuck, trapped, 240 00:12:29.040 --> 00:12:31.320 and not doing what we're called to do. 241 00:12:32.760 --> 00:12:35.680 And we can go between three points. 242 00:12:35.680 --> 00:12:37.840 We can be the victim. 243 00:12:37.840 --> 00:12:39.440 Oh my goodness, no one loves me. 244 00:12:39.440 --> 00:12:40.760 I haven't got enough money. 245 00:12:40.760 --> 00:12:42.040 I haven't got this. 246 00:12:42.040 --> 00:12:42.960 Oh my goodness. 247 00:12:42.960 --> 00:12:46.960 Whatever it might be, we can be the victim. 248 00:12:46.960 --> 00:12:48.920 And what we do is we take our hands off. 249 00:12:48.960 --> 00:12:52.400 And we go, oh, poor me, I'm so helpless. 250 00:12:52.400 --> 00:12:55.120 I can't do whatever it might, I can't. 251 00:12:55.120 --> 00:12:57.200 The moment we say I can't, 252 00:12:57.200 --> 00:12:59.600 we're putting ourselves into the victim's shoes. 253 00:13:01.040 --> 00:13:03.280 There is often a persecutor. 254 00:13:03.280 --> 00:13:05.280 And we can also be that persecutor. 255 00:13:05.280 --> 00:13:07.040 We can move into that space. 256 00:13:07.040 --> 00:13:10.720 When we're attacking somebody, oh, you have to do this, 257 00:13:10.720 --> 00:13:13.000 we've become the persecutor. 258 00:13:13.000 --> 00:13:18.000 But the persecutor can be a business, a system, a person. 259 00:13:18.440 --> 00:13:19.840 It can be lots of different things, 260 00:13:19.840 --> 00:13:23.560 but ultimately it's what is coming against you 261 00:13:23.560 --> 00:13:26.960 as you see it in that season or in that moment. 262 00:13:27.880 --> 00:13:30.520 So it could be somebody you're arguing with. 263 00:13:30.520 --> 00:13:33.200 It could be a business or a leader 264 00:13:33.200 --> 00:13:35.920 that isn't doing things the way you see it. 265 00:13:35.920 --> 00:13:38.360 And you're feeling like you're then a victim. 266 00:13:38.360 --> 00:13:41.080 So we can sit in these spaces at any time. 267 00:13:42.560 --> 00:13:45.480 And then the other one is being the rescuer. 268 00:13:45.480 --> 00:13:48.480 So we can sit in the, oh, let me do that for you. 269 00:13:49.360 --> 00:13:54.240 Let me, and actually the rescuer is a really masked coach. 270 00:13:54.240 --> 00:13:57.800 So a rescuer is let me take it away from you. 271 00:13:57.800 --> 00:14:00.840 I'm a caretaker, not a caregiver. 272 00:14:00.840 --> 00:14:02.640 So the rescuer is a caretaker. 273 00:14:03.720 --> 00:14:06.320 And what they do is they do it for you. 274 00:14:08.480 --> 00:14:11.360 Instead of showing you how to do it, 275 00:14:11.360 --> 00:14:14.240 they disempower you by doing it for you. 276 00:14:14.240 --> 00:14:15.720 If you can do it for yourself. 277 00:14:16.840 --> 00:14:18.440 So it's like, for example, 278 00:14:18.440 --> 00:14:21.240 if I was to tie my children's shoelaces 279 00:14:21.240 --> 00:14:24.120 when they're capable of doing it for themselves, 280 00:14:24.120 --> 00:14:25.600 I am taking the care away 281 00:14:25.600 --> 00:14:28.080 and they're not learning to do that for themselves. 282 00:14:28.080 --> 00:14:30.280 If I make the bed for them 283 00:14:30.280 --> 00:14:31.840 when they can make it for themselves, 284 00:14:31.840 --> 00:14:34.400 I'm disempowering them, I'm rescuing them. 285 00:14:34.400 --> 00:14:35.960 And I'm wanting life my way. 286 00:14:35.960 --> 00:14:37.560 I'm wanting to be in control. 287 00:14:37.560 --> 00:14:39.400 And that's what the Dreaded Trauma Triangle 288 00:14:39.400 --> 00:14:42.200 is all about, control. 289 00:14:42.240 --> 00:14:43.960 Every single person on here 290 00:14:43.960 --> 00:14:47.200 or every single one wants to be in control. 291 00:14:49.040 --> 00:14:51.000 Do you want to ask a question, Amy? 292 00:14:51.000 --> 00:14:51.840 I saw you put your finger up. 293 00:14:51.840 --> 00:14:53.720 Yeah, I'm not sure if this is relevant, 294 00:14:53.720 --> 00:14:57.320 but when you talk about the rescuer, 295 00:14:57.320 --> 00:15:00.120 the analogy I sort of get is give a man a fish. 296 00:15:00.000 --> 00:15:03.760 you can feed them for a day, teach them to fish, you can feed for life. 297 00:15:03.760 --> 00:15:07.520 That's right, because that's the one I use when I go into, which is we're about to hop into, 298 00:15:07.520 --> 00:15:12.400 which is, that's when you flip from the rescuer to the coach. Absolutely right. But that's, 299 00:15:12.400 --> 00:15:18.240 that's spot on, that's spot on. So we've got the dreaded drama triangle, all about fear, 300 00:15:18.240 --> 00:15:23.920 all about control, all about being less than. And what somebody noticed, and one of the, when 301 00:15:23.920 --> 00:15:29.440 I coach them with this analogy, look, if you are the victim down here, look how much weight is 302 00:15:29.440 --> 00:15:40.000 above you. Like you've got the, it's all weighty, it's heavy, and it feels oppressive. Now, 303 00:15:40.560 --> 00:15:47.520 we don't have to stay there, thankfully, because God is about love, and love is living out valour 304 00:15:47.520 --> 00:15:56.480 or courage every day. So we have, we're new every morning, we get to live courageously every day. 305 00:15:56.480 --> 00:16:02.240 We get to walk, and if you look, this triangle has got a beautiful tip towards the creator. 306 00:16:03.200 --> 00:16:09.600 So it's light, it's easy, because the bulk is behind you, not ahead of you. 307 00:16:10.800 --> 00:16:17.040 So what we do here is we've got the creator, how can I, what can I do, how can I move forward? 308 00:16:17.040 --> 00:16:22.400 We've got the coach, is the person who is the caregiver, so they're the person that teaches 309 00:16:22.400 --> 00:16:27.120 you to fish, which is what Amy was talking about, and instead of being the persecutor, 310 00:16:27.680 --> 00:16:35.680 it becomes the challenge. What I love about the enemy is he's stupid. I love the fact that he's 311 00:16:35.680 --> 00:16:44.000 stupid, and he is totally uncreative. He does the same thing, that accusing finger that he pointed 312 00:16:44.000 --> 00:16:53.120 at Jesus has not changed. That's his gig. So when we get a, when we feel something comes against us, 313 00:16:54.240 --> 00:17:00.240 against us, throughout a drama triangle, it's actually for us, because it's God pointing to 314 00:17:00.240 --> 00:17:06.079 our next upgrade. I think it's brilliant, and he lets the enemy point it out to us. I think when 315 00:17:06.079 --> 00:17:13.040 he says consider it joy in all circumstances, he genuinely means it, because there is always a 316 00:17:13.040 --> 00:17:18.400 promise attached to the problem. So the persecutor is the problem, the challenge is the promise, 317 00:17:19.040 --> 00:17:25.839 and so we get to choose what we look for. So ultimately, the victim in this becomes the 318 00:17:25.839 --> 00:17:32.080 creator, how can I, not I can't, but how can I. The persecutor or the problem becomes the promise, 319 00:17:32.080 --> 00:17:36.960 the challenge, like, oh, how am I going to get my next upgrade now? This is brilliant. 320 00:17:36.960 --> 00:17:42.320 And the rescuer becomes the coach. Instead of caretaker, I'll do that for you, give you fish, 321 00:17:42.320 --> 00:17:47.920 I become a caregiver, a coach. Let me show you how, let me show you how to fish, and then you 322 00:17:47.920 --> 00:17:54.080 can eat the rest of your life. Brilliant. And we call this the great exchange. You can go, so Amy, 323 00:17:54.080 --> 00:18:01.760 bless her heart, has created some God boxes for me that are sold in the local bookstore, 324 00:18:01.760 --> 00:18:06.640 but ultimately you can use a tissue box, and you can put all your rubbish in the tissue box, 325 00:18:06.640 --> 00:18:10.880 and then ask God for the great exchange. I love it, and he gives you all the good stuff. 326 00:18:11.760 --> 00:18:18.880 So that's, and also we've got here, the victim is limited, God is limitless, he is endless, 327 00:18:18.880 --> 00:18:25.360 he is eternity, he's got more in his pocket than we could ever imagine. So I've got a quick whip 328 00:18:25.360 --> 00:18:31.760 here for you guys, and I'm sure some of you have been writing in that already. So what I want you 329 00:18:31.760 --> 00:18:38.880 to consider right now, so key six, God box. We are now, I talked about the fact that you would 330 00:18:38.880 --> 00:18:46.560 have somewhere safe. Actually, before I go on, any questions on that concept, on how it works? 331 00:18:51.840 --> 00:18:59.120 You're all quiet, so I'm guessing you're good. So what we want to do, great. We're going to do the 332 00:18:59.120 --> 00:19:05.840 great exchange, and to do that, the first thing we need to do, be aware of the things that are false. 333 00:19:06.800 --> 00:19:12.960 There's false evidence appearing real, aware of the things that trip us up, aware of the things 334 00:19:12.960 --> 00:19:18.400 that we don't like, aware of the things that are coming against us. So what I'd like you to do 335 00:19:19.520 --> 00:19:25.760 is look up in there, just write down anything right now that's challenging you, that's coming 336 00:19:25.760 --> 00:19:31.280 against you, where you're a victim, where you're whatever it might be, and get them down there. 337 00:19:31.280 --> 00:19:35.920 Because if we can write them in, we can then give them to God, which we'll do in a moment. 338 00:19:35.920 --> 00:19:41.280 So just take a moment to write down anything at the moment, unhelpful thoughts, 339 00:19:42.000 --> 00:19:46.320 unkind words, whatever it might be that is coming against you right now. 340 00:19:52.000 --> 00:19:53.200 Or that you want to get rid of. 341 00:20:30.000 --> 00:20:35.000 . 342 00:20:35.000 --> 00:20:40.000 . 343 00:20:40.000 --> 00:20:45.000 . 344 00:20:45.000 --> 00:20:50.000 . 345 00:20:50.000 --> 00:20:55.000 . 346 00:20:55.000 --> 00:21:00.000 . 347 00:21:00.000 --> 00:21:05.000 . 348 00:21:05.000 --> 00:21:10.000 . 349 00:21:10.000 --> 00:21:15.000 . 350 00:21:15.000 --> 00:21:20.000 . 351 00:21:20.000 --> 00:21:25.000 . 352 00:21:25.000 --> 00:21:30.000 . 353 00:21:30.000 --> 00:21:35.000 . 354 00:21:35.000 --> 00:21:40.000 . 355 00:21:40.000 --> 00:21:45.000 . 356 00:21:45.000 --> 00:21:50.000 . 357 00:21:50.000 --> 00:21:55.000 . 358 00:21:55.000 --> 00:22:00.000 . 359 00:22:00.000 --> 00:22:05.000 . 360 00:22:05.000 --> 00:22:10.000 . 361 00:22:10.000 --> 00:22:15.000 . 362 00:22:15.000 --> 00:22:20.000 . 363 00:22:20.000 --> 00:22:25.000 . 364 00:22:25.000 --> 00:22:30.000 . 365 00:22:30.000 --> 00:22:35.000 . 366 00:22:35.000 --> 00:22:40.000 . 367 00:22:40.000 --> 00:22:45.000 . 368 00:22:45.000 --> 00:22:50.000 . 369 00:22:50.000 --> 00:22:55.000 . 370 00:22:55.000 --> 00:23:00.000 . 371 00:23:00.000 --> 00:23:05.000 . 372 00:23:05.000 --> 00:23:10.000 . 373 00:23:10.000 --> 00:23:15.000 . 374 00:23:15.000 --> 00:23:20.000 . 375 00:23:20.000 --> 00:23:25.000 . 376 00:23:25.000 --> 00:23:30.000 . 377 00:23:30.000 --> 00:23:35.000 . 378 00:23:35.000 --> 00:23:40.000 . 379 00:23:40.000 --> 00:23:45.000 . 380 00:23:45.000 --> 00:23:50.000 . 381 00:23:50.000 --> 00:23:55.000 . 382 00:23:55.000 --> 00:24:00.000 . 383 00:24:00.000 --> 00:24:05.000 . 384 00:24:05.000 --> 00:24:10.000 . 385 00:24:10.000 --> 00:24:15.000 . 386 00:24:15.000 --> 00:24:20.000 . 387 00:24:20.000 --> 00:24:25.000 . 388 00:24:25.000 --> 00:24:30.000 . 389 00:24:30.000 --> 00:24:35.000 . 390 00:24:35.000 --> 00:24:40.000 . 391 00:24:40.000 --> 00:24:45.000 . 392 00:24:45.000 --> 00:24:50.000 . 393 00:24:50.000 --> 00:24:55.000 . 394 00:24:55.000 --> 00:24:57.000 . 395 00:25:00.000 --> 00:25:03.480 Letting my eyes deceive me and falling into the busy trap. 396 00:25:03.480 --> 00:25:06.900 I'm going to release that and give that to you, Jesus. 397 00:25:06.900 --> 00:25:11.280 I'm going to take my hands off my rubbish 398 00:25:11.280 --> 00:25:13.400 and I'm going to give it to you. 399 00:25:15.680 --> 00:25:17.080 And that's what I want you to do. 400 00:25:17.080 --> 00:25:18.600 I want you to declare this. 401 00:25:18.600 --> 00:25:19.640 You can put yourself on mute 402 00:25:19.640 --> 00:25:23.000 and just say it quietly in your own space or whatever, 403 00:25:23.000 --> 00:25:28.000 but tell Jesus that you are giving this to him. 404 00:25:28.720 --> 00:25:31.080 You're giving it back to God 405 00:25:31.080 --> 00:25:34.600 because Jesus paid in full for all of this. 406 00:25:34.600 --> 00:25:36.960 And there's a lovely story for those of you 407 00:25:36.960 --> 00:25:39.280 who may or may not be aware. 408 00:25:39.280 --> 00:25:41.520 I love repeating it because it just cracks me up 409 00:25:41.520 --> 00:25:44.560 where Graham Cook, who used to hang, 410 00:25:44.560 --> 00:25:46.760 like does, you know, has dreams. 411 00:25:46.760 --> 00:25:48.000 You know, like Kerry, has dreams. 412 00:25:48.000 --> 00:25:50.160 He's often in heaven with Jesus 413 00:25:50.160 --> 00:25:53.400 and he often has some really good chats up there. 414 00:25:53.400 --> 00:25:55.560 And then one day, and he's so used to going up 415 00:25:55.560 --> 00:25:57.920 and he said, they've got this like little tent 416 00:25:58.840 --> 00:25:59.680 that they hang out in. 417 00:25:59.680 --> 00:26:00.520 There's always good food there. 418 00:26:00.520 --> 00:26:01.840 They have a good chat, a good yarn. 419 00:26:01.840 --> 00:26:03.440 It's always great fun. 420 00:26:03.440 --> 00:26:08.440 And one day he's there and Jesus' face looks like thunder 421 00:26:08.440 --> 00:26:13.040 and he's like, holy, what have I done? 422 00:26:13.040 --> 00:26:15.760 And he's like, oh, I think I'll just hide in this tent 423 00:26:15.760 --> 00:26:17.200 and then maybe Jesus will go away. 424 00:26:17.200 --> 00:26:18.920 Jesus doesn't go away. 425 00:26:18.920 --> 00:26:21.000 But, and so he walks over and he says, 426 00:26:21.000 --> 00:26:23.320 give me back what's mine. 427 00:26:24.280 --> 00:26:26.560 And Graham's like, oh my goodness, what have I done? 428 00:26:27.160 --> 00:26:29.360 What am I holding onto that belongs to you, Jesus? 429 00:26:29.360 --> 00:26:30.200 I love you. 430 00:26:30.200 --> 00:26:31.280 Like, what the heck? 431 00:26:33.000 --> 00:26:34.880 And he says, give me back what's mine. 432 00:26:34.880 --> 00:26:36.640 And by this time he's crying. 433 00:26:36.640 --> 00:26:39.920 He's like, what have I taken of yours? 434 00:26:39.920 --> 00:26:44.920 Guilt, shame, anxiety, stress, worry, 435 00:26:46.000 --> 00:26:48.240 all the burdens of life, in my case, 436 00:26:48.240 --> 00:26:50.000 not being, my lack of, 437 00:26:50.000 --> 00:26:52.400 not being on top of my administration, 438 00:26:52.400 --> 00:26:55.760 not being on, letting my eyes look at chocolate cakes 439 00:26:55.800 --> 00:26:57.320 and things and then eat them. 440 00:26:57.320 --> 00:26:59.040 That's really unhelpful. 441 00:27:00.080 --> 00:27:02.880 And then falling into the busy trap, 442 00:27:02.880 --> 00:27:04.360 getting into other people's lanes, 443 00:27:04.360 --> 00:27:07.560 being busy as opposed to being in the business 444 00:27:07.560 --> 00:27:08.480 of the kingdom. 445 00:27:09.760 --> 00:27:14.160 Jesus paid in full for all of your stuff 446 00:27:15.080 --> 00:27:16.600 and it belongs to him. 447 00:27:16.600 --> 00:27:19.040 So I want you right now, whatever you've written down 448 00:27:19.040 --> 00:27:20.960 and you can write more down later, 449 00:27:20.960 --> 00:27:22.280 I want you to release it. 450 00:27:22.280 --> 00:27:24.680 Verbally tell Jesus, 451 00:27:24.680 --> 00:27:27.480 thank you that you paid in full for this. 452 00:27:28.680 --> 00:27:33.680 Lord, I'm giving you back the stuff that you paid for, 453 00:27:33.920 --> 00:27:35.360 that belongs to you. 454 00:27:37.120 --> 00:27:38.600 And I release it to you. 455 00:27:43.080 --> 00:27:45.280 And then you're going to write them down 456 00:27:45.280 --> 00:27:47.680 and stick them in a God box or a tissue box, 457 00:27:47.680 --> 00:27:49.120 or you're going to put them somewhere 458 00:27:49.120 --> 00:27:50.320 that is no longer yours. 459 00:27:51.200 --> 00:27:52.920 And when you do that, 460 00:27:52.920 --> 00:27:55.400 we're then going to ask the great exchange. 461 00:27:55.400 --> 00:27:56.760 Because what I love about Jesus 462 00:27:56.760 --> 00:27:58.600 is he doesn't leave that room empty. 463 00:27:59.920 --> 00:28:01.840 He's so cool. 464 00:28:01.840 --> 00:28:05.240 He gives us then what we need. 465 00:28:06.120 --> 00:28:08.840 We have to release it first to clear the room 466 00:28:08.840 --> 00:28:11.080 and then he can give us what we need. 467 00:28:14.080 --> 00:28:16.640 So give us a thumbs up 468 00:28:16.640 --> 00:28:19.240 when you've given it back to Jesus 469 00:28:19.480 --> 00:28:21.800 and you're ready to do the great exchange. 470 00:28:21.800 --> 00:28:24.040 Lisa's like, yeah, I'm so ready. 471 00:28:25.600 --> 00:28:28.080 I think it's funny that when I got sick 472 00:28:29.280 --> 00:28:31.000 so that I didn't have to walk over to the house 473 00:28:31.000 --> 00:28:31.840 with my rubbish, 474 00:28:31.840 --> 00:28:34.760 dad put the wheelie bin just outside my door. 475 00:28:34.760 --> 00:28:35.960 That's my God box. 476 00:28:35.960 --> 00:28:37.440 That's been my God box. 477 00:28:37.440 --> 00:28:39.320 It's like this massive big bin. 478 00:28:39.320 --> 00:28:41.240 It's like, yeah, it's like. 479 00:28:41.240 --> 00:28:43.640 Great, great. 480 00:28:43.640 --> 00:28:44.480 I love it. 481 00:28:44.480 --> 00:28:47.920 So you can throw whatever rubbish you want to put in there, 482 00:28:47.920 --> 00:28:48.880 but you know what? 483 00:28:49.520 --> 00:28:50.360 It is like the wheelie bin. 484 00:28:50.360 --> 00:28:52.640 It just goes, it's gone. 485 00:28:52.640 --> 00:28:55.240 And once the wheelie bin's been picked up, 486 00:28:55.240 --> 00:28:57.640 Jesus has just picked up your stuff, by the way, 487 00:28:57.640 --> 00:28:58.920 you can't take it back. 488 00:28:59.840 --> 00:29:02.720 The reason I use a tissue box or a God box 489 00:29:02.720 --> 00:29:07.720 is because what often happens is unintentionally 490 00:29:07.920 --> 00:29:09.920 we pick that rubbish back up. 491 00:29:09.920 --> 00:29:13.400 We go and rummage in the flipping bin 492 00:29:13.400 --> 00:29:15.680 and start picking it back up again. 493 00:29:16.680 --> 00:29:18.080 Hmm. 494 00:29:18.080 --> 00:29:20.280 So the reason for the God box is you leave it 495 00:29:20.280 --> 00:29:23.680 and you are only allowed to think about that thought 496 00:29:23.680 --> 00:29:27.760 or do that thing if you think you're bigger than God, 497 00:29:27.760 --> 00:29:30.280 in which case, take a piece of paper out the God box 498 00:29:30.280 --> 00:29:31.200 and have it back. 499 00:29:32.800 --> 00:29:36.800 But the reality is I just use it as a physical idea 500 00:29:36.800 --> 00:29:38.280 so that it's like when you think, 501 00:29:38.280 --> 00:29:39.520 no, no, it's in the God box. 502 00:29:39.520 --> 00:29:40.960 No, I've left it with God. 503 00:29:40.960 --> 00:29:42.560 No, I've left it with God. 504 00:29:42.560 --> 00:29:43.480 I'm going to do this. 505 00:29:44.240 --> 00:29:46.920 It's a physical thing that just helps you see 506 00:29:46.920 --> 00:29:48.840 or leave it where you need to leave it. 507 00:29:49.840 --> 00:29:53.560 And so, key seven, now's the fun stuff. 508 00:29:54.440 --> 00:29:55.600 We've got rid of the fear. 509 00:29:55.600 --> 00:29:57.200 We've got rid of the dreaded drama triangle. 510 00:29:57.200 --> 00:29:58.680 We've got rid of all that stuff. 511 00:29:58.680 --> 00:30:00.080 We're giving it back to Jesus. 512 00:30:00.000 --> 00:30:04.560 I go, come on Jesus, what have you got for me in exchange? 513 00:30:04.560 --> 00:30:07.760 And this is about living out valor or courage every day. 514 00:30:07.760 --> 00:30:09.160 But what I want you to consider 515 00:30:09.160 --> 00:30:10.000 and I want you to write down now, 516 00:30:10.000 --> 00:30:11.520 I want you to ask God, 517 00:30:12.360 --> 00:30:15.560 okay God, what are you gonna give me 518 00:30:15.560 --> 00:30:18.620 in exchange for the stuff that I've written down? 519 00:30:20.360 --> 00:30:21.680 What am I looking at? 520 00:30:21.680 --> 00:30:23.000 What can I claim? 521 00:30:23.000 --> 00:30:26.320 What can I hold onto that is noble, right and true? 522 00:30:27.480 --> 00:30:29.320 What is the love you wanna give me now? 523 00:30:29.400 --> 00:30:32.320 So I want you just to take a moment to write that down. 524 00:30:33.560 --> 00:30:35.360 That's what you're gonna stick on your wall. 525 00:30:35.360 --> 00:30:36.980 That's what you're gonna put on your forehead. 526 00:30:36.980 --> 00:30:38.360 That's what you're gonna put on the mirror 527 00:30:38.360 --> 00:30:41.160 in the bathroom every time you go in there, 528 00:30:41.160 --> 00:30:44.460 whatever it might be, that's what you're gonna claim. 529 00:30:44.460 --> 00:30:46.920 So I'll just give you a moment or two to do that. 530 00:31:59.320 --> 00:32:04.320 So I'll just give you a moment or two to do that. 531 00:32:59.320 --> 00:33:00.160 Okay. 532 00:33:29.320 --> 00:33:30.160 Okay. 533 00:33:59.320 --> 00:34:00.160 Okay. 534 00:34:29.320 --> 00:34:30.159 Okay. 535 00:34:38.440 --> 00:34:39.440 How are you getting on team? 536 00:34:39.440 --> 00:34:41.199 Do you need a little bit more time? 537 00:34:42.719 --> 00:34:43.560 I'm good. 538 00:34:44.400 --> 00:34:45.239 You're good? 539 00:34:45.239 --> 00:34:46.080 Yeah. 540 00:34:46.080 --> 00:34:47.560 Good, okay. 541 00:34:47.560 --> 00:34:52.560 So this is now how you walk into your new identity. 542 00:34:56.080 --> 00:34:57.180 This is now your claim. 543 00:34:57.180 --> 00:34:59.980 Has everyone got something to claim? 544 00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:13.600 in exchange. Okay, and how do you feel now sitting on that? Oh, 545 00:35:14.880 --> 00:35:17.480 I think I've just we haven't walked in it yet. So we're just 546 00:35:17.480 --> 00:35:21.360 sitting on that almost like a knife edge. It's like, Oh, got 547 00:35:21.360 --> 00:35:25.720 rid of that. I've got this I've got this that I can now claim as 548 00:35:25.720 --> 00:35:27.800 my inheritance. How are you feeling about that? 549 00:35:31.400 --> 00:35:38.680 lighter? Yeah. It's great. It's not. Yeah, it's like not. It's 550 00:35:38.680 --> 00:35:43.200 just not all my responsibility. And I don't have to. I have to 551 00:35:43.200 --> 00:35:46.200 by myself to begin with, which I know, but I don't always 552 00:35:46.200 --> 00:35:50.280 practice that as well as I should. Right. But it's, he's 553 00:35:50.280 --> 00:35:53.720 always got always there for me. So all these things that I drag 554 00:35:53.720 --> 00:35:57.160 around, it's like, No, that's, that's not even true. So 555 00:35:58.840 --> 00:36:01.560 celebrating you look, I'm going to give you one of God's little 556 00:36:01.560 --> 00:36:05.920 hearts. You know, celebrating you because you're absolutely 557 00:36:05.920 --> 00:36:09.880 right. And he says, Come all who are heavily laden, and I will 558 00:36:09.880 --> 00:36:15.040 give you rest. Because we carry the ball and chain, we carry the 559 00:36:15.040 --> 00:36:21.160 world stuff on our shoulders, without realizing. And it's 560 00:36:21.200 --> 00:36:25.720 like, Oh, okay. And the moment we give back to Jesus, what 561 00:36:25.720 --> 00:36:31.600 belongs to him, it's like, Oh, that's right. My yoke is easy 562 00:36:31.600 --> 00:36:38.160 and my burden is light. So good. Hey, like, it's crazy good. 563 00:36:39.720 --> 00:36:40.160 It is. 564 00:36:41.120 --> 00:36:45.200 I don't know about you. But for me, it goes from head. Because 565 00:36:45.400 --> 00:36:48.360 I didn't ever start in the head knowledge, God bless his heart, 566 00:36:48.400 --> 00:36:51.160 kept me out of church and religion and all that kind of 567 00:36:51.160 --> 00:36:56.000 stuff. So I'm relatively new in this space. And so it's all 568 00:36:56.000 --> 00:37:00.600 heart knowledge for me. And it's like, Come on, get your heart 569 00:37:00.600 --> 00:37:03.840 out, not your head, because your heart will inform your head to 570 00:37:03.840 --> 00:37:07.440 get your heart back out. Let's do this together. Let me let 571 00:37:07.440 --> 00:37:12.280 your heart and my heart be one. Let's do this together. And I 572 00:37:12.280 --> 00:37:16.640 just love the fact that he sews this into our hearts, that then 573 00:37:16.640 --> 00:37:20.080 informs our minds, which is why I wanted you to speak it out. I 574 00:37:20.080 --> 00:37:24.640 wanted you to speak out that you were giving that to God. Because 575 00:37:24.640 --> 00:37:28.360 then you release it, you release it to him. And it tells your 576 00:37:28.360 --> 00:37:35.640 brain, it's God's now not yours. Crazy, eh? Like crazy good. 577 00:37:37.240 --> 00:37:43.840 Okay, and then your job now going out from here is to read 578 00:37:43.840 --> 00:37:48.160 this to yourself, every moment of every flipping day that you 579 00:37:48.160 --> 00:37:52.600 need to until it's in that beautiful head, head of yours 580 00:37:52.640 --> 00:37:56.160 gone from your heart to your head, and it becomes your new 581 00:37:56.160 --> 00:37:59.360 normal kingdom normal. Does that make sense? 582 00:38:02.160 --> 00:38:02.520 Yes. 583 00:38:03.520 --> 00:38:06.320 Amy's like, Oh, I'm having to really think about this. I can 584 00:38:06.320 --> 00:38:09.720 see the expression on her face. She's like, Oh, really grapple 585 00:38:09.720 --> 00:38:15.480 with this. Does anybody want to share what they exchanged? So 586 00:38:15.480 --> 00:38:19.200 what they've given back to Jesus? And then what they've got in 587 00:38:19.200 --> 00:38:22.440 return? Does anybody want to share one of those? 588 00:38:26.360 --> 00:38:28.840 I'll share a lot of it because I also have a question. 589 00:38:29.240 --> 00:38:30.760 Great. Love that. 590 00:38:32.840 --> 00:38:42.120 So some of the stuff God sort of told me was like, you know, 591 00:38:45.440 --> 00:38:48.920 you're beautiful, strong enough, always loved and never alone. 592 00:38:52.080 --> 00:38:57.760 And that also in regards to one of the old habits, which I'll be 593 00:38:57.760 --> 00:39:06.720 vulnerable and brave and self arm sort of left me feeling not 594 00:39:06.720 --> 00:39:10.520 so great, because what he had to say about that was, you know, I 595 00:39:10.520 --> 00:39:17.560 live in you and hurting yourself is hurting me. And I was a bit 596 00:39:17.560 --> 00:39:22.640 like, okay, don't know where to go from that. 597 00:39:23.640 --> 00:39:28.160 What I get straight up, thank you for being so open and honest, is 598 00:39:28.160 --> 00:39:31.360 that how great is your God? 599 00:39:35.160 --> 00:39:42.280 What I love, what I feel or sense he's telling you is to keep your 600 00:39:42.280 --> 00:39:46.800 eyes on him, not on ourselves in our flesh. Keep your eyes on the 601 00:39:46.800 --> 00:39:51.200 Holy Spirit, keep your eyes on God. Because he loves you because 602 00:39:51.320 --> 00:39:53.720 because he loves you because he loves you because he loves you. 603 00:39:55.960 --> 00:39:56.720 And that 604 00:39:58.240 --> 00:40:00.080 because you love God 605 00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:07.200 and you do love him and he's probably the one you love the most. He's encouraging you to 606 00:40:08.320 --> 00:40:16.800 lean into that and lean into him because as you do that he will literally put his arms around you 607 00:40:16.800 --> 00:40:24.560 and those other thoughts will go away because you honour him more than you do yourself right now 608 00:40:24.560 --> 00:40:30.800 but he wants to bring you together because you are together he does live inside of you 609 00:40:30.800 --> 00:40:34.480 it's actually so intimate and so everything that we do 610 00:40:36.560 --> 00:40:43.440 we've got to realise that if we our bodies are a temple like our bodies are a temple 611 00:40:43.440 --> 00:40:48.080 like and i'm still working on that because you know i love chocolate um you know it's like 612 00:40:48.080 --> 00:40:56.720 i you know i've done i've done like i've and it's in that whole journey and eyes for me 613 00:40:56.720 --> 00:41:03.840 is the battle i'm in at the moment so amy's battle is in her thoughts and again she'll 614 00:41:03.840 --> 00:41:07.680 see something or she'll think of something and it will take her down an unhelpful route 615 00:41:08.240 --> 00:41:14.480 i will see nice chocolate brownie or i will see 616 00:41:16.400 --> 00:41:20.640 some chocolate chip cookies that i've made for hockey and the boys are eating them 617 00:41:20.640 --> 00:41:23.920 and i will see them and go oh i'd quite like that 618 00:41:26.400 --> 00:41:33.440 and god said no you've got to keep your eyes where are we going with this i've given you 619 00:41:33.440 --> 00:41:39.520 and you amy both of us we have already been blessed with the spirit of self-control 620 00:41:41.200 --> 00:41:48.400 that's not us it's not in our strength he's given it to us for us to claim 621 00:41:51.360 --> 00:41:57.680 and it comes from the spirit not from the flesh it comes from god not from earth 622 00:41:58.640 --> 00:42:04.320 and so when we look towards him when we claim our inheritance when you claim i am beautiful 623 00:42:04.320 --> 00:42:10.400 i am chosen i am loved whatever you wrote down on your piece of paper that he gave you in exchange 624 00:42:12.560 --> 00:42:15.600 you have to have it written on your foreheads every time you're going 625 00:42:15.600 --> 00:42:20.880 you know go to the toilet or whatever you know you go into your bathroom you can see it 626 00:42:21.920 --> 00:42:26.480 or stick it on your kitchen doors or whatever every time you have a cup of tea it's right 627 00:42:26.560 --> 00:42:33.040 in front of you i'm beautiful and you know what let it sow into your heart not head heart 628 00:42:35.120 --> 00:42:42.880 because that will shift your head does that make sense but it is scary it is like and then you go 629 00:42:42.880 --> 00:42:48.640 oh you know every time i eat a chocolate biscuit i'm disrespecting god you know or whatever it 630 00:42:48.640 --> 00:42:55.440 might be you know like and it sounds but it's like actually that's where i've got to be i have 631 00:42:56.400 --> 00:43:04.000 got if i want to be more jesus-like i need to honor him in everything not just in some bits 632 00:43:04.000 --> 00:43:10.640 but jesus bless his heart knows we're all stuffed and so he just takes us one step at a time 633 00:43:13.040 --> 00:43:20.480 and you have been in such a good space do not let that little flipping toad get anywhere near you 634 00:43:20.560 --> 00:43:28.800 right now you know you've got so many tools and so many weapons to kick his backside so hard 635 00:43:28.800 --> 00:43:30.720 he can't even sit here in the country 636 00:43:33.120 --> 00:43:36.320 so use them because he's placed them already in your hands 637 00:43:38.080 --> 00:43:44.160 so father god i thank you that amy shows up i thank you that she's here i thank you that you 638 00:43:44.160 --> 00:43:50.160 love her i thank you that she's chosen i thank you that she's beautiful and most of all i thank 639 00:43:50.160 --> 00:43:57.440 you holy spirit that you live in her and it's you that she can partner with that will give her the 640 00:43:57.440 --> 00:44:03.440 strength that will give her the courage and actually holy spirit what i love most about you 641 00:44:04.880 --> 00:44:11.920 is that you are gentle you are loving you are kind there's no retribution in this 642 00:44:11.920 --> 00:44:17.840 that's the enemy's plan it's all about compassion and empathy and love 643 00:44:19.840 --> 00:44:28.400 and so lord just pour your love over amy right now overwhelm her with your love 644 00:44:29.680 --> 00:44:37.600 because just as we're talking about this perfect love casts out all fear and you enemy can just 645 00:44:37.600 --> 00:44:47.440 get lost because god has got her he loves her he's for her and nothing can come against her 646 00:44:49.040 --> 00:44:56.320 because the god in you will always be bigger than anything else that comes against you 647 00:44:58.960 --> 00:45:02.960 amen 648 00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:03.760 Was that helpful? 649 00:45:03.760 --> 00:45:04.760 Yep. 650 00:45:04.760 --> 00:45:11.680 And that wake-up call, actually, that every time we do something that is out of line with 651 00:45:11.680 --> 00:45:16.640 his will, we're disrespecting him, is super helpful. 652 00:45:16.640 --> 00:45:24.840 Use it to help you focus, because that chocolate biscuit in the moment, or that thought in 653 00:45:24.840 --> 00:45:30.760 the moment, you feel rubbish afterwards. 654 00:45:30.760 --> 00:45:35.800 So what he's trying to show us is how to look on the other side, just keep going, just keep 655 00:45:35.800 --> 00:45:36.800 going. 656 00:45:36.800 --> 00:45:40.520 Tune into my spirit, tune into what I've given you. 657 00:45:40.520 --> 00:45:41.520 I've given you self-control. 658 00:45:41.520 --> 00:45:42.520 Make sense? 659 00:45:42.520 --> 00:45:43.520 Yep. 660 00:45:43.520 --> 00:45:44.520 Did you have been on fire? 661 00:45:44.520 --> 00:45:51.200 She walked into church last Sunday like a diva. 662 00:45:51.200 --> 00:45:55.660 She was like, honestly, I was like, who is this woman in front of me? 663 00:45:55.660 --> 00:45:56.800 So what's happened? 664 00:45:56.800 --> 00:46:00.640 You've been putting it out there, you've been taking ground, you've been doing your devotion. 665 00:46:00.640 --> 00:46:06.080 She's done 30 days of, well, she's doing 30 days of devotion, she's on 23 today, and so 666 00:46:06.080 --> 00:46:07.080 he's trying to take you out. 667 00:46:07.080 --> 00:46:08.080 No! 668 00:46:08.080 --> 00:46:09.080 Get lost! 669 00:46:09.080 --> 00:46:10.080 You are the weakest link. 670 00:46:10.080 --> 00:46:11.080 Goodbye. 671 00:46:11.080 --> 00:46:12.080 I'm getting on with the stuff God's given me to do. 672 00:46:12.080 --> 00:46:13.080 Thank you. 673 00:46:13.080 --> 00:46:14.080 Done. 674 00:46:14.080 --> 00:46:21.880 So you just focus on the brilliant things, and I'm expecting the diva to come back in 675 00:46:21.880 --> 00:46:22.880 on Sunday. 676 00:46:22.880 --> 00:46:23.880 No pressure. 677 00:46:23.880 --> 00:46:30.880 Done it once, I'd like to see it again, please. 678 00:46:30.880 --> 00:46:33.440 Honestly, that poor girl. 679 00:46:33.440 --> 00:46:38.480 You guys, you know, in the States and in Australia, you can get away from me. 680 00:46:38.480 --> 00:46:39.840 She's got no flippin' hope. 681 00:46:39.840 --> 00:46:40.840 She's up the road. 682 00:46:40.840 --> 00:46:50.920 Everyone else can hide, Amy, you've got nowhere to, you know, God has such a sense of humor. 683 00:46:50.920 --> 00:46:56.560 He's like, I'm just going to put this random woman in your path and with your family, and 684 00:46:56.560 --> 00:47:02.280 you have got no get out of jail free card, because she can see you. 685 00:47:02.280 --> 00:47:03.280 Just as he can. 686 00:47:03.280 --> 00:47:08.200 And he sees you now, look at him, he's making you laugh, I love him, you know, he sees you, 687 00:47:08.200 --> 00:47:09.200 he loves you. 688 00:47:09.200 --> 00:47:12.200 He wants you to have fun and embrace life. 689 00:47:12.200 --> 00:47:16.200 So just, no, I'm going this way. 690 00:47:16.200 --> 00:47:17.200 Good. 691 00:47:17.200 --> 00:47:18.200 Less. 692 00:47:18.200 --> 00:47:19.200 Okay. 693 00:47:19.200 --> 00:47:23.200 Anyone else want to share an exchange or something that they've got? 694 00:47:23.200 --> 00:47:24.200 Yeah. 695 00:47:24.200 --> 00:47:25.200 Go carry. 696 00:47:25.200 --> 00:47:26.200 Do have an exchange. 697 00:47:26.200 --> 00:47:30.200 But first, Amy, when you walk into church on Sunday, you know where the cameras are 698 00:47:30.200 --> 00:47:31.200 going to go to the first one. 699 00:47:31.200 --> 00:47:35.200 I want to see you walking in because I watch that church service. 700 00:47:35.200 --> 00:47:36.200 All right. 701 00:47:36.200 --> 00:47:37.200 Tell me the cameras are. 702 00:47:37.200 --> 00:47:44.200 I want to I want to say, I want to say I'm getting up and speaking. 703 00:47:44.200 --> 00:47:48.200 Oh, at the first service. 704 00:47:48.200 --> 00:47:49.200 Yeah. 705 00:47:49.200 --> 00:47:50.200 Bye. 706 00:47:50.200 --> 00:47:51.200 Bye. 707 00:47:51.200 --> 00:47:55.200 Oh, oh, isn't that interesting? 708 00:47:55.200 --> 00:47:56.200 Hmm. 709 00:47:56.200 --> 00:47:57.200 Let me see. 710 00:47:57.200 --> 00:48:03.200 So you're about to get up on stage again, and share the goodness of God. 711 00:48:04.200 --> 00:48:07.200 Oh, and you're having some unhelpful thoughts right now. 712 00:48:07.200 --> 00:48:08.200 Hmm. 713 00:48:08.200 --> 00:48:10.200 I wonder what that is. 714 00:48:10.200 --> 00:48:16.200 Oh, oh, that'll be you, you little toad trying to stop me. 715 00:48:16.200 --> 00:48:17.200 Well, you know what? 716 00:48:17.200 --> 00:48:18.200 You can get lost. 717 00:48:18.200 --> 00:48:20.200 I've got work to do and it's for God. 718 00:48:20.200 --> 00:48:22.200 So out the way. 719 00:48:22.200 --> 00:48:23.200 I'm going this way. 720 00:48:28.200 --> 00:48:29.200 Perfect. 721 00:48:29.200 --> 00:48:30.200 Perfect. 722 00:48:30.200 --> 00:48:31.200 I love it. 723 00:48:31.200 --> 00:48:32.200 Kerry. 724 00:48:32.200 --> 00:48:33.200 Oh, yeah. 725 00:48:33.200 --> 00:48:34.200 My exchange. 726 00:48:34.200 --> 00:48:36.200 It was so involved in the dream. 727 00:48:36.200 --> 00:48:38.200 Even even had a part of it. 728 00:48:38.200 --> 00:48:40.200 So it's just been incredible. 729 00:48:40.200 --> 00:48:49.200 But basically, there was practically one thing that God said, exchange it with this. 730 00:48:49.200 --> 00:48:51.200 And that covers all of that. 731 00:48:51.200 --> 00:48:52.200 It's like, wow. 732 00:48:52.200 --> 00:48:53.200 Yeah. 733 00:48:53.200 --> 00:48:54.200 Yeah. 734 00:48:54.200 --> 00:49:02.200 So I said, oh, it was all about my co-creating. 735 00:49:02.200 --> 00:49:03.200 Right. 736 00:49:03.200 --> 00:49:04.200 You know, co-creating. 737 00:49:04.200 --> 00:49:06.200 He says, you co-create with me. 738 00:49:06.200 --> 00:49:08.200 You got the Holy Spirit in you. 739 00:49:08.200 --> 00:49:13.200 And I looked and I thought, that covers that. 740 00:49:13.200 --> 00:49:16.200 That covers that. 741 00:49:16.200 --> 00:49:18.200 So, yeah. 742 00:49:19.200 --> 00:49:23.200 It's been a wild ride the last couple of days. 743 00:49:23.200 --> 00:49:33.200 Because just knowing how the Holy Spirit is going to activate that creation with me. 744 00:49:33.200 --> 00:49:34.200 The creativity. 745 00:49:34.200 --> 00:49:38.200 And I actually, and I hope Dad really saw this. 746 00:49:38.200 --> 00:49:46.200 I did see his face sort of just, you know, he got up and moved over to his chair as his mind was going. 747 00:49:46.200 --> 00:49:49.200 But yesterday, I decided to write a chapter. 748 00:49:49.200 --> 00:49:56.200 And without him, because he likes to use all these software programs and stuff to write stuff for him. 749 00:49:56.200 --> 00:50:00.200 And I went, it's been just driving me nuts. 750 00:50:00.000 --> 00:50:05.520 So I sat there and just started writing a chapter and I said, Dad, come and listen to this. 751 00:50:05.520 --> 00:50:12.960 And even I was wowed. I read it and I thought this was the Holy Spirit, this was not me. 752 00:50:14.400 --> 00:50:17.440 And he's just looking at me, he goes, where did you hear that from? I said, I just wrote it. 753 00:50:19.040 --> 00:50:26.000 And then the dream last night, it was about me writing a book and transcribing. 754 00:50:26.000 --> 00:50:30.480 It was actually transcribing, not just writing, I was transcribing. And I realized, 755 00:50:30.480 --> 00:50:34.160 and the whole, every time I woke up, it was Holy Spirit's doing, Holy Spirit's doing. 756 00:50:34.160 --> 00:50:41.120 And he gave me chapters three, four, five, six, seven, like, but it was not for the book, 757 00:50:41.120 --> 00:50:49.120 but each word, like five was John, like it was just John. But number five means grace and 758 00:50:49.120 --> 00:50:54.480 abundance. And John was the beloved and stuff. So, and he gave me three foreign words. 759 00:50:55.360 --> 00:51:01.120 As well, the chapters and just the whole translation, it was like, I was just mind 760 00:51:01.120 --> 00:51:08.320 blown. I logged on to this and I'm still, I was still sort of like, you know, but this is all 761 00:51:08.320 --> 00:51:15.040 just, it's just all intertwined. Plus the game yesterday, the hopscotch. Yeah, it's sort of. 762 00:51:15.920 --> 00:51:16.480 Having fun. 763 00:51:16.480 --> 00:51:25.440 Holy Spirit, we're on adventures with God because it's fun. It's an adventure. It's exciting. It's 764 00:51:25.440 --> 00:51:29.760 like, what treasure have you got for me today, God? You know, what are you going to show me 765 00:51:29.760 --> 00:51:35.040 today? Because every day is a new day. And every day he wants to release something special within 766 00:51:35.040 --> 00:51:42.000 us. But you're right. The key is the Holy Spirit and the Holy Spirit lives in each one of us. 767 00:51:42.000 --> 00:51:46.400 That's time to go. And what I love about the kingdom and God is it's an inside job. 768 00:51:48.080 --> 00:51:53.840 Because he's inside of us. So it's an inside, it's nuts. And it's like we have nothing can 769 00:51:53.840 --> 00:52:00.960 separate us because he's inside us. Like, it's like, this is crazy. And we still go rushing 770 00:52:00.960 --> 00:52:06.560 off in our own strength. And then I often say God's hasn't happened for a while, but he goes, 771 00:52:06.560 --> 00:52:12.320 I'm over here. And I'm like, Oh, okay, I'm coming back. Sorry. You know, like, because I've gone 772 00:52:12.320 --> 00:52:20.160 off doing it in my own strength. And the way that I know, instantly, is as I am I free in what I'm 773 00:52:20.160 --> 00:52:26.080 doing? Is this a pull motivation? Or am I trying to push in my own strength? There's a there's a 774 00:52:26.080 --> 00:52:32.320 real you learn to be aware of that. So but yeah, come on, you know, I'm not going to say, Oh, 775 00:52:32.320 --> 00:52:38.720 there's a real you learn to be aware of that. So but yeah, commissioning, co creating, co laboring, 776 00:52:38.720 --> 00:52:44.720 we don't do anything on our own. We do it with him in all moments. So for Amy, the moment she 777 00:52:44.720 --> 00:52:50.960 takes the eyes off the prize, when she's thinking about other things, that's not co laboring with 778 00:52:50.960 --> 00:52:55.920 him. That's not co creating with him. That's not going on a mission with him. That's going on a 779 00:52:55.920 --> 00:53:00.960 mission with somebody else. And so it's and it's literally as black and white as that every time I 780 00:53:01.120 --> 00:53:03.920 eat a chocolate biscuit. I don't know I'm talking about chocolate biscuits today. 781 00:53:04.800 --> 00:53:11.440 But every time I go down that route, I'm not honoring God. I'm not making my body my temple. 782 00:53:12.720 --> 00:53:21.280 I'm making my flesh, my idol, unhelpful. Anyway. So yeah, for all of us, whatever it is, it's the 783 00:53:21.280 --> 00:53:26.640 Holy Spirit. I love that. So keep tuning in, because he's got you and you are tuning in 784 00:53:26.640 --> 00:53:32.400 because he's given you heaps to stay there. Great. And Lisa, anything you want to share 785 00:53:32.400 --> 00:53:38.480 with us before we wrap this up? Yeah, one of the one of the big ones for me 786 00:53:39.040 --> 00:53:47.040 has been for quite a while is finances. And so it's just, it's remembering who really is the 787 00:53:47.040 --> 00:53:54.720 provider. You know, and that I start from fullness, I don't, I'm not trying to get to fullness, 788 00:53:54.720 --> 00:54:01.040 and I need to get that. So it's also up here. So I don't have to be going. 789 00:54:03.600 --> 00:54:10.240 But it's like, no, he, he knows, and he's got all this stuff. And I became a brilliant ambassador. 790 00:54:10.240 --> 00:54:15.840 So I'm excited about what may happen there. And just, you know, who knows what he's going to do. 791 00:54:15.840 --> 00:54:20.560 But it's like, I just need to keep my eyes on him and go, it's this isn't about me working harder, 792 00:54:20.560 --> 00:54:24.400 or because I thought about, well, maybe I'll get a summer job. And then that's just, 793 00:54:24.400 --> 00:54:28.480 I never have peace with that. And it's like, no, because what I want to do this summer while I'm 794 00:54:28.480 --> 00:54:37.520 off is get closer to him and just create routines that I also do as school starts again. Because, 795 00:54:38.080 --> 00:54:44.400 you know, when I go back to school, it's like, and, but it doesn't have to be like that. And 796 00:54:44.400 --> 00:54:53.040 I love what I do. I get to work with special ed kids, and I love it. So yeah, it's just putting 797 00:54:53.040 --> 00:54:59.920 things in place that will continue as I move through whatever the day brings. So I make 798 00:55:00.000 --> 00:55:03.360 And I love that I love that you've released that and said actually I'm 799 00:55:03.360 --> 00:55:08.320 gonna give that back to you God because you said you'll be my provider you said 800 00:55:08.320 --> 00:55:13.240 that you would you know and it's lovely you've got so many scriptures about 801 00:55:13.240 --> 00:55:17.920 actually he's gonna provide for you actually you know seek me first and my 802 00:55:17.920 --> 00:55:22.320 righteousness and all things will be given to us including our finance and it 803 00:55:22.320 --> 00:55:28.960 is that flesh you know all of us it's the flesh spirit juggle it's that 804 00:55:28.960 --> 00:55:36.320 tension that we have and so all of us are in our own battles but the battle is 805 00:55:36.320 --> 00:55:40.780 never with each other the battle isn't it's always if we take it upstairs God 806 00:55:40.780 --> 00:55:46.720 will always give us the answers so well done ladies and you know Lisa you know 807 00:55:46.720 --> 00:55:52.520 ice we sit in that financial battle you know I have had to release the business 808 00:55:52.520 --> 00:55:57.360 to God I've had to release things to him you know and so it is it's like okay I'm 809 00:55:57.360 --> 00:56:02.960 just trusting you and you know what I am having the most fun in this season 810 00:56:02.960 --> 00:56:07.680 that I've ever had and for those of us that overseas we can't be ambassadors 811 00:56:07.680 --> 00:56:14.120 it's just for the US so it's great lean into that because you're passing such a 812 00:56:14.120 --> 00:56:19.120 blessing on to people you know the opportunity even if the only thing 813 00:56:19.120 --> 00:56:23.960 people did was have seven days with Graham bring it on you know but that's 814 00:56:23.960 --> 00:56:32.200 it costs nothing but yet if they've got the opportunity to go goodness this is 815 00:56:32.200 --> 00:56:37.440 like a whole new world then they'll lean in they get the blessing and so do you 816 00:56:37.440 --> 00:56:43.120 that's God's double portion which is the minimum so just yeah I encourage you to 817 00:56:43.120 --> 00:56:47.960 and share your testimonies you know Amy's been doing a daily devotional on 818 00:56:47.960 --> 00:56:53.760 her Instagram page or whichever pages they are and Facebook just to share who 819 00:56:53.760 --> 00:56:57.680 your journey share your journey around what Graham does for you or what 820 00:56:57.680 --> 00:57:01.360 brilliant does for you or I learned this today or if I hadn't been in brilliant I 821 00:57:01.360 --> 00:57:04.160 wouldn't have had this connection I've just been on adventures with God or 822 00:57:04.160 --> 00:57:08.640 whatever it is but because what you'll do is when you share it people will 823 00:57:08.640 --> 00:57:13.120 start picking it up and then when you go oh and if anybody's interested you can 824 00:57:13.120 --> 00:57:17.080 get a you know but build the relationship first share what it's doing 825 00:57:17.080 --> 00:57:21.360 for you and then people will start asking you you won't even have to people 826 00:57:21.360 --> 00:57:26.000 will start coming to you how did you end up sorting this out how did you why 827 00:57:26.000 --> 00:57:30.800 are you oh my goodness they'll see the change in you and that change will be 828 00:57:30.800 --> 00:57:35.600 what brings you know what brings it so we just take that I love it we've got 829 00:57:35.600 --> 00:57:40.560 about three minutes just bear with I'll quickly share this so what I would like 830 00:57:40.560 --> 00:57:45.720 you guys to do is just consider out of today's training you know we've just 831 00:57:45.720 --> 00:57:50.920 done how to reflect review recap understanding the dreaded drama triangle 832 00:57:50.920 --> 00:57:54.880 versus the empowerment dynamic because we want the empowerment dynamic putting 833 00:57:54.880 --> 00:57:59.280 the God box getting rid of the old baggage safely rather than dumping it on 834 00:57:59.280 --> 00:58:03.760 other people and getting cross we can give it to God and then exchanging it 835 00:58:03.760 --> 00:58:10.000 letting Jesus fill you up so what activation do you want to do from 836 00:58:10.000 --> 00:58:15.480 today's session how do you want that to show up for you so just put a couple of 837 00:58:15.480 --> 00:58:23.800 things in there I'm gonna read my new declarations that he's just given me 838 00:58:23.800 --> 00:58:31.600 over those situations and I might even print them off to be honest print them 839 00:58:31.600 --> 00:58:39.360 off and put in put by my cup of tea put by the kettle because I'll put them by 840 00:58:39.360 --> 00:58:44.600 the kettle I can read them on kettles boiling so I'm at immediately habit 841 00:58:44.600 --> 00:58:50.680 stacking where can I put these in my face that I will see them two or three 842 00:58:50.680 --> 00:58:55.840 or four times a day so I can get those reps in so I can just read them for now 843 00:58:55.840 --> 00:59:04.440 and get it plugged in and then again for me some of you know I coach on evening 844 00:59:04.440 --> 00:59:08.000 and morning routines so getting back in you know making sure that I focus on my 845 00:59:08.000 --> 00:59:13.160 evening and morning routine which is where I do the reflection and stuff like 846 00:59:13.160 --> 00:59:19.840 that so just whatever it is for you and then how do you feel now as you're going 847 00:59:19.840 --> 00:59:25.360 out of this session do you feel motivated do you feel thoughtful you 848 00:59:25.360 --> 00:59:29.680 know what is it that you feel I'm a nine out of ten I've got to go and put my 849 00:59:29.680 --> 00:59:38.280 tennis shoes on because that's the next that's the next venue for me 850 00:59:44.040 --> 00:59:48.120 and while you're just writing those in the things I'd like you to remember is 851 00:59:48.120 --> 00:59:51.720 the choices we make determine the directions our lives take and the people 852 00:59:51.720 --> 00:59:58.080 we become you're going to get to make some really good choices today and if 853 00:59:58.080 --> 01:00:01.800 need be keep offloading 854 01:00:00.000 --> 01:00:04.720 in the old baggage as it comes up during the day today or tomorrow or whatever. 855 01:00:04.920 --> 01:00:06.760 You know, and place it where it belongs in 856 01:00:06.960 --> 01:00:12.320 the God box, give it back to Jesus and keep exchanging it for your new luggage 857 01:00:12.520 --> 01:00:19.360 so it can come up all the time, but the whole of heaven is available to you. 858 01:00:19.560 --> 01:00:21.120 Claim it. 859 01:00:23.800 --> 01:00:25.800 And then for day three, 860 01:00:26.040 --> 01:00:29.800 we're going to look at, we're going to do a really fun exercise 861 01:00:30.000 --> 01:00:33.480 and I've done it two or three times and it's amazing what God has given me each 862 01:00:33.680 --> 01:00:38.120 time it's been crack up. So what have you got to offer that's 863 01:00:38.120 --> 01:00:40.840 uniquely you to the world, the reason you're on this planet? 864 01:00:41.040 --> 01:00:43.200 We're going to find out your zone of genius 865 01:00:43.400 --> 01:00:47.560 and potentially how to achieve more in your school holidays, perhaps Lisa, 866 01:00:47.760 --> 01:00:50.720 you know, in the next 10 weeks than you did in the last 10 months, 867 01:00:50.920 --> 01:00:54.160 because there's some things that we can share and we're to find tribe because 868 01:00:54.160 --> 01:00:56.720 that's where we want to stay connected. 869 01:00:56.920 --> 01:01:01.920 So any questions before I pray you guys out and let you get on 870 01:01:02.120 --> 01:01:05.240 with the one to three things you've just put on your list? 871 01:01:06.760 --> 01:01:07.800 You're all good. 872 01:01:08.000 --> 01:01:08.880 I want chocolate. 873 01:01:09.080 --> 01:01:10.800 You shouldn't have kept mentioning it. 874 01:01:11.000 --> 01:01:12.240 So 875 01:01:13.040 --> 01:01:14.240 I'm not. 876 01:01:14.440 --> 01:01:17.840 That's OK. I'm just testing you to see how well you'll get on with your flesh. 877 01:01:17.960 --> 01:01:19.400 You know, the spirit of the flesh. 878 01:01:19.400 --> 01:01:22.480 You just hang out with the Holy Spirit and there's a test for today. 879 01:01:22.600 --> 01:01:24.640 You mean that? Thanks. 880 01:01:24.840 --> 01:01:27.520 I love it. So, Father God, we thank you for these 881 01:01:27.520 --> 01:01:31.400 beautiful ladies that have turned up today and showed up and been able to be here. 882 01:01:31.480 --> 01:01:34.160 We bless those that are actually watching the replay. 883 01:01:34.360 --> 01:01:36.080 You know, I know Vanessa is going to be watching it. 884 01:01:36.080 --> 01:01:38.160 And there's a few that are going to be watching the replay. 885 01:01:38.360 --> 01:01:41.320 So, Lord, we just bless all of those watching the replay. 886 01:01:41.520 --> 01:01:44.240 But we just thank you. We thank you for this time together. 887 01:01:44.440 --> 01:01:45.880 We thank you for your wisdom. 888 01:01:46.080 --> 01:01:47.200 We thank you for your insight. 889 01:01:47.400 --> 01:01:51.960 We thank you that you say, do not fear because I've overcome the world 890 01:01:52.160 --> 01:01:53.840 and I love the fact that we don't have 891 01:01:54.040 --> 01:01:57.000 to fear because you've overcome the world and you live in us. 892 01:01:57.200 --> 01:01:58.200 It's brilliant. 893 01:01:58.400 --> 01:02:00.560 I just think that's nuts. 894 01:02:00.760 --> 01:02:02.600 So thank you, Lord, 895 01:02:02.800 --> 01:02:08.680 that you paid in full for all anxiety, all stress, all worry, whatever it might be. 896 01:02:08.880 --> 01:02:13.520 And we just release that to you because it's yours, it's your stuff. 897 01:02:13.720 --> 01:02:15.720 And we thank you for the great exchange. 898 01:02:15.720 --> 01:02:16.960 We thank you for your love. 899 01:02:16.960 --> 01:02:18.120 We thank you for your wisdom. 900 01:02:18.320 --> 01:02:19.360 We thank you for your insight. 901 01:02:19.560 --> 01:02:25.520 We thank you, Holy Spirit, for all the fruit that you have given each 902 01:02:25.720 --> 01:02:32.400 one of us that is ripe and ready to go so that we can claim it. 903 01:02:32.600 --> 01:02:35.640 So I just say thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you, Lord, 904 01:02:35.840 --> 01:02:40.240 for this group, for these people, for those walking with us and for our families. 905 01:02:40.440 --> 01:02:46.560 And I bless each one of them today and always in Jesus name. 906 01:02:46.760 --> 01:02:48.240 Amen. 907 01:02:50.120 --> 01:02:51.160 Love you all, ladies, 908 01:02:51.360 --> 01:02:56.040 and we will look forward to seeing you same time, same place tomorrow. 909 01:02:56.240 --> 01:02:57.240 Have fun. 910 01:02:57.440 --> 01:02:58.840 God bless each of you. 911 01:02:59.040 --> 01:03:00.680 Take care. Bye.