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So welcome to Sunday night activation, and we are here ready to get some things going.

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And so we're going to talk about something very important tonight coming off of the Supernatural

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Saturday that we just had with regard to intentionality and taking action, making a plan, that kind

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of thing.

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And there's one variable in there that I want to talk about for a little bit so that we

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could have some greater understanding.

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And so let me just do this.

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I start with prayer here just for a moment and let a few more people get on and we'll

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get going.

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Father God, we just thank you, Lord, for tonight.

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We thank you for this time together.

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We thank you, Lord, that you've given us this ability to be able to connect, gather,

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and to be able to hear your heart.

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We thank you, Lord, for all the truth that you're sharing to us.

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We thank you right now, Lord, for all the downloads, all the inspiration, all the movement,

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Lord, that's going to be able to take action from tonight and all the things that are going

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to get accomplished, the goals that are going to get set and ready to go.

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And we just thank you right now, Lord, that you've not forsaken us, that you love us,

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that you are still in our corner, that you are still have our back, that you still want

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us to succeed, that you still want us to move forward, that you have plans and purposes

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for us.

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And we're glad that you have plans because when we screw up, it gets off a plan.

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So you didn't just make one plan, you made many plans so that you could get us back on

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course and you're really good at that.

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And so we humble ourselves, we submit ourselves to your work and to your way, and we just

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thank you for this in Jesus name, amen and amen.

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Hallelujah.

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How many of you are ready?

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Good?

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Ready to go.

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I want to tell you that this message is for you, but it's not just for you, it's for me

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as well.

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I'm working through this message myself, and I want to be transparent in that.

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I'll share some things a little bit later, Bob, but I just want to say that, you know,

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some of the best teachings and the best gifting is when you're going through something and

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you're able to put that together and share it with somebody else.

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So just like in your life, you know, your testimony, your story, your, you know, what

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you've gone through, where you're going, where you've come from and then, and then what is,

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what is ahead of you, all those things are very, very helpful and relevant to other people

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that are around you.

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And so you should do that.

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You should share your life.

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You should talk, you should teach.

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You should, if you're given an opportunity to share in like a public setting or some

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sort of like small group or whatever, you should take that opportunity.

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Tell your story.

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Even if you're afraid to speak, all you have to do is take some time to get your thoughts

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together, write them down on paper and get some notes if you have to, and then share.

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And even if you shared five minutes of an incredible story, you could, you could take

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the opportunity to shift someone's life.

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And it doesn't even have to be a story about one of your best moments.

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It could be a story about one of your worst moments.

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And I'm telling you, God can just take what you give him and he can use it.

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And so I'm just telling you what, you know.

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So I'm going through this process myself.

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And this question came to me many, many years ago when I was teaching.

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And this is the question I want to highlight tonight.

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And I want you to pay attention very closely what I'm about to say.

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Because this question is the most important question in life.

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It is the, it is that important.

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It is the number one, the most important question that you can pursue to answer in

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your life, on your journey, whatever it is.

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So I'm going to talk about tonight, the most important question that you can answer.

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This question is very simple.

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This question is both broad and narrow, so I'm doing my hands like this, broad and narrow.

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You can ask this question for your life.

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You can ask this question for a moment, like in this moment, in this next five minutes,

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in this next day or a season.

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Or you can ask it over all your life.

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And you need to do that.

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You need to do that.

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get good at asking this question and then answering this question.

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How many of you don't want to know what the question is? And you're like, what is this

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question? Like, tell me this question. I'm not even going to ask you to put it in the chat

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and to see if anybody knows the question because that just goes awry very quickly.

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And so I'm not even going to go for feedback. But I'm going to talk about the question

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and I want you to just take, before I reveal the question, I want you to take a moment. I actually

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just take a second moment of silence, about 15 seconds here. I want you to close your eyes

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and I want you to listen to me say the question and I want you to sort of like capture your

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reaction. Okay. I want you to pay attention to what you feel and what you think about,

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what first comes to your mind when you hear this question. And then we'll do some explaining on it.

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So I just want you to take a moment, pause, get in a good space, a good feeling space.

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Think pleasantly about your life. Think about the good things.

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And the question tonight, the most important question you can ask yourself an answer.

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Is what do you want?

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I feel the anointing right there. What do you want?

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And let me explain to you why this question is so important, because it's not a flippant question.

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You are not at Burger King and somebody's asking you, what do you want? Well, I want a hamburger.

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But no, that's not the question that I'm proposing to you tonight. I am asking you the question,

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what do you truly want? And you can understand now that you know the question, how this question is very broad.

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Like, what do you want in your life? What do you want in this season? What do you want today?

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What do you want in this season? What do you want today?

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And if you get good at giving yourself this opportunity, this permission, this blessing

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to answer the question, what do you want? You will begin to reveal so much

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about your life and your purpose. Talk about intentionality. Proverbs 16.9 says a man's,

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actually it says a man plans his way, man plans his course. But in some translation actually says a man's heart plans his course.

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I think it's interesting because in a very religious sense, you hear this like,

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man can make up all his plans, but God really has the answer. And that's really not the essence of the scripture.

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The essence of the scripture is that a man's heart plans his course, but the Lord determines his steps.

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And I'm pretty sure that Jackie shared this scripture on Supernatural Saturday regarding intentionality.

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But you can't get steps. You can't get intentional. You can't take action until you know where you're going, what you want.

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What do you want? If you could define that broadly, seasonally, and then daily,

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you can really begin to get some clarity on where you're going, what you're doing, what is going to be next.

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What are things going to happen? And you say, yeah, but I don't know the future. And yeah, but I can't control this. And I can't do this. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, none of that.

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It has nothing to do with any of that.

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Remember Proverbs, it says a man's or a woman, anybody, his heart, her heart plans her course, her way.

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You declare, you have this moment. What do I want? I want this. And you begin to declare it. You plan that.

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Okay. You say, this is my course. This is where I'm going. Because this is what I want. I'm going after.

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And then God's like, thank you. Let me start giving you the steps. Let me start giving you

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the cobblestones. Not what, like it is tasks, but think of it the

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steps. It's like when you're planning a path. You know, when you're, instead of, I want

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to go down the yellow brick road. This is a weird analogy, but anyway, the actual stones,

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the actual things that you step on to go on the path, those are laid. You don't have any

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involvement when you go down a path and laying those stones, they're laid before you. Am

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I correct? You're the one that's chosen to go down the path, but the path has already

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been laid. And I'm telling you this tonight, that God, you plan your course. You've answered

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the question, what do you want? And God starts laying the stones, laying the path, laying

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the foundation of how to go. That's powerful, guys. Super powerful. So I want to say that

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when you start dealing with this question, and again, this is not something you ask just

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once and then answer it. And then you're like, okay, that's what I want to do. That's it.

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No, no, no. This is a lifelong pursuit. This is a, this is about asking this question all

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along the journey. What do I want? What do I want now? What's going to happen next? What

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do I want? Okay. And this, I'm going to reveal to you why this question matters so much.

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That's, that's the big thing. It's like, okay, now we know this question. We see the beauty

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in doing this. Like if we get clarity and then we start mapping up our, God's mapping

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out our steps, but we have to know why this question is so important. And let me tell

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you that. Number one, if you're taking notes, write this down, it reveals identity. The

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question of what do you want is inextricably, that's a big word right there, tied to who

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you are. You want to find out who you are, you got to ask, answer the question, what

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do you want? It's directly tied to the question of the concept of who you are. Without knowing

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what you want, you will live life reactively instead of intentionally. Okay. So connecting

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to supernatural Saturday, you cannot live life reactively. If you live life reactively,

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you will always be carried away by every wind, every, every storm, every situation, every

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person, everything that's, that's puts a demand upon your life. You will be controlled by

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all of those things. You do not want to be controlled by those things. Some of you are

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comfortable being controlled by those things because you have fear of taking ownership

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for your own life. But I'm telling you one, if you could even answer the simplest version

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of what do you want, you could get started to get excited about where you're going, because

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now you're tapping into the freedom of your life. And that will help you to overcome the

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fear of having ownership in your life. Does that make sense? Okay. So number one, this

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question, why it's so important is because it reveals identity. Proverbs 23, seven as

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a man, as a man thinks of his heart. So is he, so our desires shape our self image. And

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we can talk more about, um, the desires of our heart. It's a moment. Number two, it exposes

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the truth. It exposes the truth. So many of us live our lives in secret or in unrequited

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passions. Uh, we live our lives in such a way we live our life vicariously through others

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because we're afraid or we're not sure of what it is that we want because we never asked

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that question to ourselves. So the, what do you want question gives you a sense of what

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is the truth. It peels back layers of social conditioning. It peels back the layers of

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people pleasing gets, gets rid of people pleasing. It gets rid of fear. It gets rid of false

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humility. I used to ask this question all the time to my students in high school. And

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these were Christian kids, you know, in a Christian high school and all this kind of

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all walks of life and different things. And I would ask them this question, guys, what do

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you want? I'm like, Oh, I just want what God wants. I just want the will of the Lord. I

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just want to be good. And I just want to like giving all the right answers. And I was like,

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that's a bunch of BS guys. That's not what you want. You want a new pair of tennis shoes.

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You want to play, you know, professional basketball. You want to like

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I need you to identify with what you want, not give me the good answer.

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you mean that we do that as believers all the time, like, oh,

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I just want the will of the Lord.

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Like, well, of course you want the will of the Lord.

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We're not talking about whether you want to go out and do,

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you know, dirty deeds, done dirt cheap.

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You know, I'm talking about that.

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I'm talking about truly like, what do you want?

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many people that are living their lives,

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they don't want because they've never been honest about that.

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So this gives you an opportunity to pose the truth

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and be honest about what you really want.

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There's a quote by Earl Nightingale.

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You don't know who he is. I didn't know he was.

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But I looked up his name.

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He is like this motivational speaker guy way back in the day.

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I don't know if anybody knows that name, but he said a good quote.

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And he said, most people tiptoe through life

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hoping to make it safely to death.

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Think about that for a second.

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How many of you just want to just make it safely to death?

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Like everybody's going to die.

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We all know we're going to die.

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I just want to make it. I just want to get there safely.

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I'm like, no, I'm going to get there safely.

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No, you don't want to tiptoe through life.

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We'll take life by the horns.

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Do you want to have something to be have said of your life?

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Even if it's not super, super grand and for the history books,

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it's OK, you can live a big life and not be in the history books.

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It's OK. But you've lived your full purpose.

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That's what you want, right?

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Number three, answering the question of what do you want?

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Creates direction.

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It creates direction.

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Desire is the starting point of purpose.

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What do you want precedes?

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What should I do?

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What you know when you when you when you get there in a moment

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where you're just having this like mental breakdown

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and you're having a meltdown and you're just like, oh, my God,

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I don't know what to do.

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That will because you don't know what you want.

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You're not in tune with the truth of what's in your heart like I.

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Oh, I don't really understand what I want.

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And so therefore, I don't know what to do.

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That makes sense.

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So it's helpful to like, oh, what do I really want?

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I don't want out of this situation.

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Not what I want, like what I want out of life is too broad.

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And that's a good question to ask when you're really thinking

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like really big 30,000 foot, you know, like I said, but I'm talking about

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like, what do you want? Today.

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And more than just a cheeseburger, right?

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What do I want today? I want to accomplish today.

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I want to do day to day well, you know, they say in time management

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you can't really manage your time until you do one day.

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Well, whatever. It's like, what do you want today?

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That's what I want to do.

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You've written your plan and now God's giving you the steps to do that.

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you're like, man, I really did something today. It's incredible.

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I did all the 10 things on my list. That's awesome.

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I did that today. Well, so now what do I want tomorrow? Right.

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Maybe you're facing a situation with a family member, maybe a situation

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facing a situation at work.

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Like, what do I want out of the situation?

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that I'm having.

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because I'm having trouble with them and I want to call this attention,

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but I'm afraid, but I don't want to lose the relationship,

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but I need to confront what's happening here because it's hurting me.

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And so you call it out, but you can articulate part of that.

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You can articulate, you know, I want to call this out.

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I want to confront this person lovingly, but I also don't want to lose this friendship.

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Then I want this to actually be an opportunity for us to go deeper into relationship.

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what I want out of the situation is not just to get what I, my hurts,

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my hurts healed, but I want to go deeper in relationship.

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So I'm declaring that to you.

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Hey, I want to have a conversation with you.

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might be a little difficult, but in the end, I really want us to go forward in relation.

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I want to be your friend.

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I like you. You like me.

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I'm having this issue.

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You see how much that helps in getting that clarity to define that conversation?

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Super powerful.

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It creates direction.

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You don't, you can't pursue something.

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You can't go down a path if you don't know where you're going.

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with Jesus' death, raise the body of

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Christ, which the prophet Joseph also believed was the body after death.

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And I'll get to that in just a moment. Number, my own four or three or what, what am I?

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This is a matter of course,

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Oh, that was a three. Three things that really, why this question matters is three things.

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Reveals identity, exposes the truth, and creates direction. Okay.

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Um, it's very interesting. There's, here's another section. Okay. A new section.

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Why people avoid this question. Can any of you imagine why people avoid this question?

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There's usually a couple of different things here. Number one, fear of disappointment.

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You got it right. Jennifer Kavins is like fear, fear. Everybody knows fear,

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fear of disappointment. If I want something, and what if I don't get what I want?

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Right. Fear of disappointment, fear of selfishness. Is it wrong for me to want

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more? Is it wrong for me to want what I want? You know, so many mothers, good, wonderful,

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loving mothers, live their lives for their children and for their family, but they didn't

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live any of their life for themselves. And they come to a point, point, a breakdown later on in

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their life. And they're just disappointed and distraught and wondering what happened. It's

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because you live your life for somebody else. And you never gave your permission to ask yourself,

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what do you want? Okay. So it's not selfish to ask this question. It's very important

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that if you're going to be your best, and you're going to do everything that you can do

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with your life, you must ask this question to yourself. You have to, if you're going to shift

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from one place to the next, from one level to the next level. And again, remind me guys,

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remember guys, I'm asking myself these questions today. I'm going through this process.

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to be of any good to anybody else. You're not going to be able to serve at your best. You're

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not going to be able to live and love at your best, right? You have to answer this question.

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You have to answer this question. The other reason that people avoid the question is lack

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of clarity. I've never been taught to ask this question. I've never thought to ask this question.

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I've never been given permission to ask this question. We're giving you permission today

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to ask this question. What do you want? Just what do you want? Just spit it out. Like, what do you

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want? And I had some people were like, I want to do this. I want, you know, and I love that.

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And then people are like, well, I, you know, no, no, no. What do you want? I just, I want a new

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car. Okay. That's awesome. That's like a today thing, right? A seasonal thing, whatever. It's

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not a lifelong thing, but it is getting clarity on what it is you want. Cultural and religious

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programming. This is the worst. We have all been taught that denying our desires, denying ourselves

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is holy and godly, and that we should be desiring something deeper and that there's more, but it's

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not about us. It's about him and all that. I'm like, yes, of course. Hello. Of course it's about

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him, but you're in him. You're part of him. And if you don't know what you want, then you can't

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align into his plan because you're just going to be aimless. So you're going to be in this cell,

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like an amoeba in a cell of God. And you're just really floating around with no direction

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because you're in him, but you have no direction. You have no purpose. You have no clarity. You have

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no identity. So it's powerful. It's most important that it's not denying. I mean, yes, denying your

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flesh. I want candy. Candy is not healthy. Yeah, you should probably deny that. That's denying your

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flesh. That's not denying what you want. I want to go do things that feed my flesh and that make

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me feel good because I'm depressed and down and so forth and I'm just bored. Yeah, no, that you

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may say that that's what you want, but that's not what you want. Again, we're not talking about

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things that are wicked. We're talking about what do you truly as a son or a daughter of God

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as a person living in this world, you want to do something? What do you want?

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to some biblical things.

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Jesus was dealing with blind Bartimaeus,

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and he walks up to the blind guy, and what does he say?

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Does anybody know?

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Walks up to a blind guy.

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This is Jesus now, Jesus heals people.

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He heals all the people.

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He has this miraculous power.

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He is God.

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and says what, right, in the chat.

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What do you want?

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He says, what do you want me to do for you?

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I mean, hello, it's a blind guy.

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I mean, why would you ask this question?

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Jesus asked this question because he needs the individual

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to begin to declare and to identify the moment

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and the situation so that Jesus can take action.

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If the blind man said, hey, I've got this problem

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with this person in my life, with my brother,

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and I really need that relation to be healed,

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and I really just want to get along with my family,

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and I want to go back home to my family

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because I do have this blind thing and everything,

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but I just really want that, Jesus would have been like,

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okay, let me help you with that.

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oh, and by the way, I'm gonna heal your blindness.

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That's kind of cool.

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It just happens to be that he wanted to be healed

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from blindness, and that's what Jesus did,

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and that's the miracle, and that's what happened.

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How much of his life, though, was changed

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by just that one thing?

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I want to be healed of blindness, and he got free.

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How much of his whole life was changed

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just by now his ability to see?

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The man at the pool of Bethesda, John 5,

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walks up to this guy.

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The main reason he's been there the longest

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because he has no one to help him get into the pool.

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moves the waters, he gets healed.

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Everybody knows this.

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and when the water goes, only one person gets healed.

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Not everybody, just one, but you gotta wait

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till the next time the water gets moved.

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That's the story, right?

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This guy's laying there.

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He's been there the longest of anybody,

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and he's like, I have no one to put me into the water.

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Jesus, the healer, more important than the water,

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way more power than the water,

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way more than this phenomena,

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is standing right in front of him,

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knows his situation.

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He goes, do you want to be made well?

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because it's important why.

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This question is, what do you want?

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Can you, are you seeing tonight how I'm teaching this,

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like how important this is?

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this literally is the most important question in the world.

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It's the most important question of your life.

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And if you can get good at it,

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and if you can get clarity and continue

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to ask this question at every moment, every season,

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and even broader for your life,

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you'll be able to get momentum on some things

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that you've not seen momentum on before.

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You'll begin to go from one level to another level.

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You'll begin to see some answers

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to the questions you've been having,

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other questions in your life, amen?

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And it activates your faith, okay?

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So Jesus asked this question repeatedly,

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asking a question,

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any question really,

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but obviously some questions are better than others.

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Asking a question activates your faith.

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James 4.2 says, you do not have because you do not ask.

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well, we're asking God for something.

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Sometimes you have to ask yourself.

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Sometimes you have to ask God.

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It's not just about asking God for something.

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It's about asking questions that then make you think,

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make you search, make you get clarity,

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make you have identity, make you come into this next thing.

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in a certain situation or on a thing.

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God honors authentic desire.

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Delight yourself in the Lord,

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and he will give you the desires of your heart.

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Your desires are often the clues to your calling.

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and I looked up that word delight.

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It means to have just great pleasure in.

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It doesn't mean to like,

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oh, give yourself over to the Lord.

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All of you.

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and like be a servant to God and give up everything you want first.

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Because I think most people think delight yourself in the Lord

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or when it's to give some sort of command, I think religiously.

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I don't know about everybody, but I just you know, I get the sense of like when

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when the religious version of scripture is always

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you got to do something to get yourself right before and do this

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before God will do something right.

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We all understand that as human beings.

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but it kind of gives that same feeling if it's preached in religious context.

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like go and go like, my gosh, like, why would I do anything else?

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Why would I follow anybody else?

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That's the kind of delighting that you come to the Lord.

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So do you like yourself in the Lord?

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The desires where in your heart, the desires that what he already placed there.

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just find the desires of your heart, ask yourself the question, answer

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the question, what do you want?

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you get truthful, you clarity, you get direction.

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They're asking this question.

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They're really they're they're they're want to get momentum.

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I need to help them.

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But it is.

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How to answer the question, honestly,

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and this is part of getting into some of its activation.

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Now, what I'm going to do is.

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I just want to make sure that I've got everything I wanted to go over.

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There's one other thing I want to talk about in just a second.

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I'll just kind of briefly do this, but I'll do that in a second.

453
00:32:04.500 --> 00:32:08.720
But I want to share this link because I have a little activation guide

454
00:32:09.180 --> 00:32:11.760
that goes with this teaching that helps you start activating

455
00:32:11.760 --> 00:32:12.840
this question in your life.

456
00:32:12.840 --> 00:32:14.760
So let me get it.

457
00:32:15.900 --> 00:32:16.640
And.

458
00:32:17.980 --> 00:32:20.100
Hopefully this works, because I think this is just a little bit

459
00:32:20.300 --> 00:32:22.960
hopefully this works, because I think this is just like a share link

460
00:32:23.580 --> 00:32:26.300
to Google Doc that.

461
00:32:29.060 --> 00:32:32.800
I put together and I'm going to share it in the comments.

462
00:32:34.060 --> 00:32:35.860
I hope that works.

463
00:32:35.860 --> 00:32:38.100
I hope you can grab that link.

464
00:32:38.100 --> 00:32:41.360
We'll try to make it available somewhere else, but it's just a really rough link.

465
00:32:41.360 --> 00:32:45.360
I put it there's a Google Docs and bring it up on your computer

466
00:32:45.440 --> 00:32:48.040
if you can, if you want to, or you can do it later or you can.

467
00:32:48.220 --> 00:32:50.100
Hey, if you're old school like me,

468
00:32:50.100 --> 00:32:53.680
you can print it out and do things and like write on it and do stuff.

469
00:32:54.060 --> 00:32:57.680
So that's a little activation guide

470
00:32:58.360 --> 00:33:01.160
that we won't necessarily take the time to go through that.

471
00:33:01.160 --> 00:33:05.860
But we'll get a sort of a mini version of it tonight in our activation.

472
00:33:05.860 --> 00:33:07.200
Is that OK?

473
00:33:08.660 --> 00:33:11.000
So the window here.

474
00:33:12.240 --> 00:33:13.660
How many are getting something out of this?

475
00:33:13.660 --> 00:33:16.300
If you're getting something out of this, put yes in the chat.

476
00:33:17.300 --> 00:33:19.220
How many are beginning breakthrough?

477
00:33:19.220 --> 00:33:20.640
I mean, how many are you like?

478
00:33:20.640 --> 00:33:21.720
I don't want you to just placate.

479
00:33:21.720 --> 00:33:24.680
Seriously, I do not need the placating.

480
00:33:24.940 --> 00:33:27.940
I, I really want you to get breakthrough.

481
00:33:27.940 --> 00:33:28.940
I want you to get some.

482
00:33:28.940 --> 00:33:30.520
I want you to get freedom.

483
00:33:30.520 --> 00:33:32.020
I want you to get clarity.

484
00:33:32.020 --> 00:33:33.940
I was like, oh, my gosh, I never knew this.

485
00:33:33.940 --> 00:33:34.560
I understand that.

486
00:33:34.560 --> 00:33:35.560
Like, this is so important.

487
00:33:35.560 --> 00:33:37.820
Like, yes, I'm going to start doing this.

488
00:33:39.280 --> 00:33:42.280
That's the kind of good.

489
00:33:43.280 --> 00:33:43.860
So good.

490
00:33:44.900 --> 00:33:45.920
Love it, love it, love it.

491
00:33:46.820 --> 00:33:47.320
All right.

492
00:33:48.880 --> 00:33:53.000
How to answer these questions, honestly, keep on with the chat.

493
00:33:53.000 --> 00:33:53.500
That's good.

494
00:33:55.540 --> 00:33:59.500
You have to, number one, I'm starting all these three points and everything.

495
00:33:59.500 --> 00:34:00.840
So if you're taking notes, it's all good.

496
00:34:01.380 --> 00:34:05.140
How to answer the question, honestly, what is the question is, what do you want?

497
00:34:06.720 --> 00:34:11.760
You don't get to edit the question, the answer to the question.

498
00:34:13.360 --> 00:34:15.860
By sounding what's acceptable.

499
00:34:16.360 --> 00:34:20.980
Like, you know, you have to say out the thing that you're afraid of.

500
00:34:23.040 --> 00:34:24.280
You have to just speak it out.

501
00:34:25.159 --> 00:34:26.560
Jackie and I, we both do this.

502
00:34:26.560 --> 00:34:27.639
We do it in different ways.

503
00:34:27.699 --> 00:34:30.159
And if you don't do it, I think you're crazy.

504
00:34:30.400 --> 00:34:31.920
And that is talk to yourself.

505
00:34:32.380 --> 00:34:34.600
You have to talk to yourself.

506
00:34:35.500 --> 00:34:37.920
Most people think that if you talk to yourself, you are crazy.

507
00:34:37.980 --> 00:34:40.760
I say that if you don't talk to yourself, you are crazy.

508
00:34:41.440 --> 00:34:43.679
And I'm just saying that you've got to talk this stuff out.

509
00:34:43.679 --> 00:34:46.860
So if you're not wanting to write it down, if you're not a writer, if you talk or

510
00:34:46.860 --> 00:34:51.300
whatever, just be in the car or walking around your house or walking in a private

511
00:34:51.300 --> 00:34:55.699
place for lots of times, my prayers are literally just me talking to myself.

512
00:34:57.380 --> 00:35:00.020
You know, Jackie will walk out of the bedroom.

513
00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:01.640
Sometimes she won't even know that I'm there

514
00:35:01.640 --> 00:35:02.320
and she'll be talking.

515
00:35:02.320 --> 00:35:03.160
I'm like, who are you talking to?

516
00:35:03.160 --> 00:35:04.800
She goes, oh, I'm just talking to myself.

517
00:35:04.800 --> 00:35:06.120
And she's just talking about, she's

518
00:35:06.120 --> 00:35:07.960
like a whole blue streak of just whatever.

519
00:35:07.960 --> 00:35:09.720
And sometimes she's actually on the phone

520
00:35:09.720 --> 00:35:11.880
and I don't even know that she has the phone there.

521
00:35:11.880 --> 00:35:13.280
So she's always going.

522
00:35:13.280 --> 00:35:17.040
But you don't want to say and answer

523
00:35:17.040 --> 00:35:19.280
the question of what do you want with just acceptable.

524
00:35:19.280 --> 00:35:20.560
What's acceptable?

525
00:35:20.560 --> 00:35:21.400
What's OK?

526
00:35:21.400 --> 00:35:21.960
What's right?

527
00:35:21.960 --> 00:35:22.880
What's the right word?

528
00:35:22.880 --> 00:35:24.840
No, no, no, there's no right answer.

529
00:35:24.840 --> 00:35:26.320
This is one of those questions where

530
00:35:26.320 --> 00:35:29.480
there is no right answer.

531
00:35:29.480 --> 00:35:32.200
This is one of those questions where you're like,

532
00:35:32.200 --> 00:35:33.400
just spit it out.

533
00:35:33.400 --> 00:35:36.080
Just get it out.

534
00:35:36.080 --> 00:35:38.240
And if you're a writer, that's one of those people

535
00:35:38.240 --> 00:35:41.360
that just writes constantly and gets that stuff out.

536
00:35:41.360 --> 00:35:42.160
That's awesome.

537
00:35:42.160 --> 00:35:43.920
But those of you that are not writers,

538
00:35:43.920 --> 00:35:47.080
I want to encourage you to actually be a writer.

539
00:35:47.080 --> 00:35:49.160
Literally just like, don't worry about grammar.

540
00:35:49.160 --> 00:35:51.320
Don't worry about like, nobody's going to see this.

541
00:35:51.320 --> 00:35:52.840
Just write.

542
00:35:52.840 --> 00:35:54.640
Just write.

543
00:35:54.640 --> 00:35:57.560
And if you don't like writing, just talk.

544
00:35:57.600 --> 00:36:01.640
And then when you talk, make sure you record it.

545
00:36:01.640 --> 00:36:04.640
So talk it into your phone and record it so you have it.

546
00:36:04.640 --> 00:36:06.640
Because it'll be important for you

547
00:36:06.640 --> 00:36:12.000
to go back to your answer of what do you want

548
00:36:12.000 --> 00:36:17.560
and hear your voice saying and declaring, I want this.

549
00:36:17.560 --> 00:36:18.240
I want that.

550
00:36:18.240 --> 00:36:20.480
I want peace and freedom.

551
00:36:20.480 --> 00:36:22.480
And then like, well, what do you want peace in?

552
00:36:22.480 --> 00:36:24.200
What do you want freedom from?

553
00:36:24.200 --> 00:36:27.400
I want freedom from whatever.

554
00:36:27.400 --> 00:36:29.000
I don't want to put words in your mouth

555
00:36:29.000 --> 00:36:32.920
because I want you to really just say it all.

556
00:36:32.920 --> 00:36:35.960
And if you want to start categorically, you can.

557
00:36:35.960 --> 00:36:37.440
That's a really good way to do this.

558
00:36:37.440 --> 00:36:38.680
You can start with categories.

559
00:36:38.680 --> 00:36:42.160
Just talk about what I want in my relationship.

560
00:36:42.160 --> 00:36:45.800
What do I want in my spiritual life?

561
00:36:45.800 --> 00:36:49.040
What do I want in my career?

562
00:36:49.040 --> 00:36:52.560
What do I want health-wise?

563
00:36:52.560 --> 00:36:55.200
What do I want for my legacy?

564
00:36:55.240 --> 00:37:00.680
Like, when I'm older and I'm at the end of my life

565
00:37:00.680 --> 00:37:05.880
or even past beyond my life, how do I want to be remembered?

566
00:37:05.880 --> 00:37:07.880
And not only that, but what do you

567
00:37:07.880 --> 00:37:11.160
want to leave as a legacy to your children,

568
00:37:11.160 --> 00:37:12.400
your children's children?

569
00:37:12.400 --> 00:37:15.120
What do you want to leave as an inheritance?

570
00:37:15.120 --> 00:37:16.560
Maybe it's not money.

571
00:37:16.560 --> 00:37:19.000
Money would be great, but a legacy inheritance

572
00:37:19.000 --> 00:37:21.320
is not always money.

573
00:37:21.320 --> 00:37:23.800
You can have a faith inheritance, a faith legacy

574
00:37:23.800 --> 00:37:25.320
that you have left to your children

575
00:37:25.320 --> 00:37:28.720
because you prayed for them and you broke through for them.

576
00:37:28.720 --> 00:37:33.800
And my children, I believe, are a legacy of my prayers.

577
00:37:36.880 --> 00:37:40.000
I am certainly a legacy of my mom's prayers.

578
00:37:40.000 --> 00:37:42.680
And I think that because my mom's generation,

579
00:37:42.680 --> 00:37:46.440
my aunt was the one who brought Jesus to our family.

580
00:37:46.440 --> 00:37:48.200
Those generations before, we don't really

581
00:37:48.200 --> 00:37:49.640
know if they were believers or not.

582
00:37:49.640 --> 00:37:52.920
But we believe that somewhere in our past generations,

583
00:37:52.920 --> 00:37:56.120
there was somebody praying for generations of people

584
00:37:56.120 --> 00:37:57.960
they would never meet.

585
00:37:57.960 --> 00:38:00.760
And they left an inheritance, a legacy.

586
00:38:00.760 --> 00:38:02.520
So how do you want to be remembered?

587
00:38:08.280 --> 00:38:12.440
And some of the next level questions that go along

588
00:38:12.440 --> 00:38:17.640
with what do you want, there's a bug flying around here,

589
00:38:17.640 --> 00:38:22.600
might be, well, why do I want that?

590
00:38:22.600 --> 00:38:23.240
What do I want?

591
00:38:23.240 --> 00:38:24.120
Oh, I want this.

592
00:38:24.120 --> 00:38:25.400
Oh, well, that's kind of weird.

593
00:38:25.400 --> 00:38:26.320
Never heard that before.

594
00:38:26.320 --> 00:38:28.480
Or I was afraid to admit that, but I said that.

595
00:38:28.480 --> 00:38:31.200
Now I'm going to explore, why do I want that?

596
00:38:31.200 --> 00:38:32.720
Maybe there's something in your life

597
00:38:32.720 --> 00:38:35.280
that you've always internally felt like, this is what I want.

598
00:38:35.280 --> 00:38:37.320
And then you say it.

599
00:38:37.320 --> 00:38:39.240
You answer the question.

600
00:38:39.240 --> 00:38:43.320
And then like, why do I want that?

601
00:38:43.320 --> 00:38:48.400
Oh, I want that because that's what my mom wanted for me.

602
00:38:48.400 --> 00:38:51.840
Or that's what so-and-so wanted.

603
00:38:51.840 --> 00:38:55.000
And I've identified that with them.

604
00:38:55.000 --> 00:38:57.280
That's not really what I want.

605
00:38:57.280 --> 00:39:01.520
And then you go back to, what do I want?

606
00:39:01.520 --> 00:39:03.680
See how beautiful that is?

607
00:39:03.680 --> 00:39:06.600
See how wonderful that is to be able to get clarity?

608
00:39:06.600 --> 00:39:10.280
Because it causes you to just be honest and introspective.

609
00:39:13.200 --> 00:39:15.440
And another question, next level question,

610
00:39:15.440 --> 00:39:19.800
goes with what do I want is, who told me I couldn't have that?

611
00:39:22.120 --> 00:39:23.880
Lots of times you're answering the question,

612
00:39:23.880 --> 00:39:26.760
what do I want, honestly.

613
00:39:26.760 --> 00:39:29.680
And then you feel like, eh, and then the voice comes in,

614
00:39:29.680 --> 00:39:32.080
like, ah, you can't really have that.

615
00:39:32.080 --> 00:39:33.080
Why did you say that?

616
00:39:33.080 --> 00:39:34.240
Don't answer that question.

617
00:39:34.240 --> 00:39:35.080
You can't have that.

618
00:39:35.080 --> 00:39:37.440
And then you're like, OK, who is that?

619
00:39:37.440 --> 00:39:40.280
Who's telling me that I couldn't have it?

620
00:39:40.280 --> 00:39:42.280
What's that voice in my head that's telling me

621
00:39:42.280 --> 00:39:44.960
I couldn't have what I want?

622
00:39:44.960 --> 00:39:47.840
Again, I just want to make this clear.

623
00:39:47.840 --> 00:39:49.920
We are not talking about wicked things.

624
00:39:49.920 --> 00:39:53.080
We are talking about the true intentions of your heart.

625
00:39:53.080 --> 00:39:55.920
We're talking about the true passions and the desires

626
00:39:55.920 --> 00:39:59.800
that God has given you in your heart that are aching and

627
00:39:59.800 --> 00:40:01.360
desiring.

628
00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:02.360
hiring to come out.

629
00:40:02.360 --> 00:40:05.520
And quite honestly, everybody around you

630
00:40:05.520 --> 00:40:11.280
is aching and waiting for those desires to come out of you.

631
00:40:11.280 --> 00:40:13.880
Did you know that?

632
00:40:13.880 --> 00:40:15.280
Did you know that there are people

633
00:40:15.280 --> 00:40:18.800
around you that are waiting for you to be your best self?

634
00:40:18.800 --> 00:40:21.000
Talk about being directly connected

635
00:40:21.000 --> 00:40:23.200
to your spirit mate.

636
00:40:23.200 --> 00:40:24.760
Hello.

637
00:40:24.760 --> 00:40:27.440
What if you start answering the question, what do you want?

638
00:40:27.440 --> 00:40:29.080
And this just starts coming out of you.

639
00:40:29.080 --> 00:40:31.480
You start actually being this person that you want to be.

640
00:40:31.480 --> 00:40:33.960
And then all of a sudden, the person

641
00:40:33.960 --> 00:40:36.000
that you've been waiting for, your spirit mate,

642
00:40:36.000 --> 00:40:39.680
comes out of thin air.

643
00:40:39.680 --> 00:40:42.360
What a novel concept.

644
00:40:42.360 --> 00:40:48.280
What an incredible, mind-blowing truth and reality.

645
00:40:48.280 --> 00:40:49.560
Talk about doing the hard work.

646
00:40:55.040 --> 00:40:57.080
Here's another question.

647
00:40:57.080 --> 00:41:04.080
What am I afraid of will happen if I pursue this?

648
00:41:04.080 --> 00:41:07.440
If I get clarity on what I want, and then I get it written down,

649
00:41:07.440 --> 00:41:09.360
and I start making plans, and then God

650
00:41:09.360 --> 00:41:13.480
starts showing me the steps, and I start going that direction,

651
00:41:13.480 --> 00:41:18.760
what am I afraid of will happen if I do this?

652
00:41:18.760 --> 00:41:21.000
My world will get turned upside down.

653
00:41:21.000 --> 00:41:23.520
You'll turn other people's worlds upside down.

654
00:41:23.520 --> 00:41:25.760
And I know that can be scary.

655
00:41:25.800 --> 00:41:27.920
Some people are like, yeah, burn it all down.

656
00:41:27.920 --> 00:41:28.440
Let's go.

657
00:41:28.440 --> 00:41:29.080
Let's do it.

658
00:41:29.080 --> 00:41:29.920
That's cool.

659
00:41:29.920 --> 00:41:31.320
Some of you are bold like that.

660
00:41:31.320 --> 00:41:33.760
Other people are like, oh my God, I don't know.

661
00:41:33.760 --> 00:41:36.160
I can't upset the apple cart.

662
00:41:36.160 --> 00:41:38.840
What will people think?

663
00:41:38.840 --> 00:41:39.640
Another old song.

664
00:41:39.640 --> 00:41:42.880
What will people think if they find out I'm a Jesus?

665
00:41:42.880 --> 00:41:44.320
OK.

666
00:41:44.320 --> 00:41:45.800
What are people going to think?

667
00:41:49.320 --> 00:41:50.560
What's so-and-so going to say?

668
00:41:50.560 --> 00:41:53.560
Who cares what so-and-so says?

669
00:41:53.560 --> 00:41:54.320
I love them.

670
00:41:54.320 --> 00:41:56.200
God bless them.

671
00:41:56.200 --> 00:41:58.520
But they're not you.

672
00:41:58.520 --> 00:42:00.600
And they may not be answering the question,

673
00:42:00.600 --> 00:42:03.120
what do you want?

674
00:42:03.120 --> 00:42:04.440
But you are.

675
00:42:04.440 --> 00:42:06.280
You're asking the question, what do I want?

676
00:42:06.280 --> 00:42:06.880
What do I do?

677
00:42:06.880 --> 00:42:08.280
Where do I go?

678
00:42:08.280 --> 00:42:09.880
Where do I want to be?

679
00:42:09.880 --> 00:42:11.320
Yes.

680
00:42:11.320 --> 00:42:14.120
And get excited about it.

681
00:42:14.120 --> 00:42:16.880
OK, living into the answer.

682
00:42:16.880 --> 00:42:20.120
So wanting something is not enough.

683
00:42:20.120 --> 00:42:22.360
You must align your life with it.

684
00:42:22.360 --> 00:42:24.120
And so when you're answering this question

685
00:42:24.120 --> 00:42:28.600
and doing the work to work through this question,

686
00:42:28.600 --> 00:42:30.000
it creates action.

687
00:42:30.000 --> 00:42:33.120
And it creates alignment, not wanting.

688
00:42:33.120 --> 00:42:35.240
It creates action in your life.

689
00:42:35.240 --> 00:42:40.880
And it brings you out of wanting into action taking, OK?

690
00:42:40.880 --> 00:42:45.040
It helps you to desire.

691
00:42:45.040 --> 00:42:48.680
Excuse me, it helps you to shape your goals and your habits.

692
00:42:48.680 --> 00:42:52.840
So out of the what do I want question

693
00:42:52.880 --> 00:42:53.880
comes a lot of things.

694
00:42:53.880 --> 00:42:56.840
Well, if I want that, then I'm going to have to do this.

695
00:42:56.840 --> 00:42:59.040
And so I've declared I want this.

696
00:42:59.040 --> 00:43:00.720
There's a certain level of excitement.

697
00:43:00.720 --> 00:43:02.640
And God's creating these steps for me.

698
00:43:02.640 --> 00:43:04.600
And so now I've got to take these steps.

699
00:43:04.600 --> 00:43:06.720
And so those steps create habits.

700
00:43:06.720 --> 00:43:10.960
They create goals that I want to take so many steps.

701
00:43:10.960 --> 00:43:12.880
I want to take 100 of these cobblestones

702
00:43:12.880 --> 00:43:14.040
that God's put in front of me.

703
00:43:14.040 --> 00:43:15.240
I want to do 100 of them.

704
00:43:15.240 --> 00:43:18.160
Because when I get to 100, then it

705
00:43:18.160 --> 00:43:19.480
means that I've done something.

706
00:43:19.480 --> 00:43:20.760
It means I've lost the weight.

707
00:43:20.760 --> 00:43:22.560
It means that I have found the person.

708
00:43:22.560 --> 00:43:25.280
It means that I have accomplished the financial goal.

709
00:43:25.280 --> 00:43:27.880
It means that I have done X, Y, Z, right?

710
00:43:27.880 --> 00:43:29.680
So it creates this habit.

711
00:43:29.680 --> 00:43:30.800
It creates goals.

712
00:43:30.800 --> 00:43:32.000
It creates boundaries.

713
00:43:32.000 --> 00:43:35.600
It creates focus for you.

714
00:43:35.600 --> 00:43:37.760
And it creates prayers.

715
00:43:37.760 --> 00:43:41.000
Because now you have something to pray into.

716
00:43:41.000 --> 00:43:43.000
I've declared what I wanted.

717
00:43:43.000 --> 00:43:44.320
I've written it down.

718
00:43:44.320 --> 00:43:45.480
I'm getting clarity on this.

719
00:43:45.480 --> 00:43:46.400
Now I can pray into it.

720
00:43:46.400 --> 00:43:49.760
Like, Lord, I just said that I wanted this.

721
00:43:49.760 --> 00:43:53.440
And then what's beautiful about this process

722
00:43:53.440 --> 00:43:58.360
is that sometimes we don't answer the question just

723
00:43:58.360 --> 00:43:59.200
exactly perfectly.

724
00:43:59.200 --> 00:44:00.720
We get out like, I want this.

725
00:44:00.720 --> 00:44:01.840
I want a red sports car.

726
00:44:01.840 --> 00:44:03.120
I'm like, OK, that's cool.

727
00:44:03.120 --> 00:44:04.840
We can go after a red sports car.

728
00:44:04.840 --> 00:44:07.040
But Holy Spirit's like, but what about, you know?

729
00:44:07.040 --> 00:44:10.600
And then He lovingly telling you, like, that's cool.

730
00:44:10.600 --> 00:44:12.480
And then one day, you all of a sudden desire,

731
00:44:12.480 --> 00:44:16.160
you're like, I really don't want a red sports car.

732
00:44:16.160 --> 00:44:17.440
Maybe I want a blue one.

733
00:44:17.440 --> 00:44:18.520
No, I'm just kidding.

734
00:44:19.320 --> 00:44:21.440
I'm just saying, Holy Spirit has a way

735
00:44:21.440 --> 00:44:24.200
of helping you then get that focus and get that direction.

736
00:44:24.200 --> 00:44:25.200
But you got to be moving.

737
00:44:27.880 --> 00:44:28.560
What did they say?

738
00:44:28.560 --> 00:44:29.760
You can't steer a parked car.

739
00:44:29.760 --> 00:44:32.480
You can't steer a jet ski.

740
00:44:32.480 --> 00:44:34.200
It's not moving in the water, right?

741
00:44:41.120 --> 00:44:45.400
And I want you to have courage.

742
00:44:45.440 --> 00:44:49.600
I want you to be encouraged.

743
00:44:49.600 --> 00:44:57.320
I want you to get wind in your sails by taking on this message

744
00:44:57.320 --> 00:45:00.360
and realizing the truth of this message.

745
00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:04.440
because I want you to feel like,

746
00:45:04.440 --> 00:45:08.240
wow, this could be a game changer.

747
00:45:08.240 --> 00:45:13.400
This could be something like I could be a different person.

748
00:45:13.760 --> 00:45:18.280
I'm excited about accomplishing something now.

749
00:45:18.280 --> 00:45:24.320
I've tried it a million times and everybody was telling me,

750
00:45:24.320 --> 00:45:25.840
and I watched all YouTube videos,

751
00:45:25.840 --> 00:45:27.680
and TikTok, and Instagram,

752
00:45:27.680 --> 00:45:29.640
and everybody's got a plan for this and a plan for that,

753
00:45:29.640 --> 00:45:31.920
and how you do this, and how you do that.

754
00:45:31.920 --> 00:45:34.760
I've tried to do it and I failed every time,

755
00:45:34.760 --> 00:45:37.680
blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.

756
00:45:38.040 --> 00:45:42.040
Maybe it's just because you've never answered the question,

757
00:45:42.040 --> 00:45:45.680
what do I want? You internalized it,

758
00:45:45.680 --> 00:45:47.560
like you internalized,

759
00:45:47.560 --> 00:45:48.840
oh, I want to get fit,

760
00:45:48.840 --> 00:45:50.480
and then you watch a video on it,

761
00:45:50.480 --> 00:45:52.160
and then you try to do it and you failed.

762
00:45:52.160 --> 00:45:55.840
But maybe you never articulated the desire.

763
00:45:55.840 --> 00:45:57.000
Maybe you never spoke it out.

764
00:45:57.000 --> 00:45:58.800
Maybe you never prayed into it.

765
00:45:58.800 --> 00:46:01.440
Maybe you never really got clarity on it

766
00:46:01.440 --> 00:46:04.240
because you just thought it was, oh, that was just me.

767
00:46:04.240 --> 00:46:06.080
I was feeling terrible about myself,

768
00:46:06.080 --> 00:46:07.800
and so I just thought I would get fit,

769
00:46:07.800 --> 00:46:09.400
but no, it doesn't work.

770
00:46:10.600 --> 00:46:13.880
I actually said one time way back a long time ago,

771
00:46:13.880 --> 00:46:15.360
someone invited me to the gym,

772
00:46:15.360 --> 00:46:16.840
and I was going and everything.

773
00:46:16.840 --> 00:46:19.440
I was young, and I just didn't like it.

774
00:46:19.440 --> 00:46:22.560
I didn't get into it, and I wasn't declaring what I wanted.

775
00:46:22.560 --> 00:46:23.560
You know, I really wasn't into it.

776
00:46:23.560 --> 00:46:25.960
I was just going just because they told me to,

777
00:46:25.960 --> 00:46:27.720
and I said, bro, that's why, you know,

778
00:46:27.720 --> 00:46:30.760
working out, it just doesn't work out for me.

779
00:46:30.760 --> 00:46:33.680
And, well, pun there, a little joke.

780
00:46:33.680 --> 00:46:34.520
I don't know if you got that.

781
00:46:34.520 --> 00:46:35.960
Anybody who's listening,

782
00:46:35.960 --> 00:46:38.360
working out is not working out for me.

783
00:46:38.360 --> 00:46:41.320
All right, so I'm just saying,

784
00:46:41.320 --> 00:46:44.720
if you tried it before and failed a million times,

785
00:46:44.720 --> 00:46:45.720
maybe this time's different

786
00:46:45.720 --> 00:46:47.800
because you're really, truly asking yourself,

787
00:46:47.800 --> 00:46:49.200
what do I want?

788
00:46:49.200 --> 00:46:51.600
Like, what do I really, really want?

789
00:46:51.600 --> 00:46:53.760
Tell me what you want, what you really, really want.

790
00:46:53.760 --> 00:46:55.880
Tell me what you want right there.

791
00:46:55.880 --> 00:46:56.880
There's that song.

792
00:46:59.160 --> 00:47:02.120
So I guess in the chat, here's our activation,

793
00:47:02.120 --> 00:47:05.120
our mini activation for,

794
00:47:05.120 --> 00:47:07.920
yes, everything is a song with me, that's for sure.

795
00:47:11.080 --> 00:47:13.960
In our small activation, we've got eight minutes left.

796
00:47:13.960 --> 00:47:18.000
I want you to take some time to just articulate,

797
00:47:18.000 --> 00:47:20.040
like, hopefully you have the guide.

798
00:47:20.040 --> 00:47:21.520
We'll try to make that available somewhere else

799
00:47:21.520 --> 00:47:22.640
if you don't have it or whatever,

800
00:47:22.640 --> 00:47:24.680
you can email in and we'll try to,

801
00:47:24.680 --> 00:47:27.200
but hopefully you can grab it from the chat there.

802
00:47:28.240 --> 00:47:30.520
And, but I want you to give one small thing.

803
00:47:30.520 --> 00:47:31.760
What's one small step?

804
00:47:31.760 --> 00:47:35.800
What's one, what's the first step, you know, for you?

805
00:47:35.800 --> 00:47:37.040
What do you want?

806
00:47:37.040 --> 00:47:41.280
What's one thing that you can do today or tomorrow that,

807
00:47:41.280 --> 00:47:42.880
and I'm not talking about the big plan.

808
00:47:42.880 --> 00:47:44.480
I'm not talking about like, oh, I'm gonna do this,

809
00:47:44.480 --> 00:47:46.240
and I'm gonna get like the big idea.

810
00:47:46.240 --> 00:47:47.200
I'm not talking about the big idea.

811
00:47:47.200 --> 00:47:52.200
I'm just like, what's one action that you can take?

812
00:47:55.400 --> 00:47:58.600
Today or tomorrow and put it in the chat.

813
00:47:58.600 --> 00:48:00.360
Yeah, baby steps, I like that.

814
00:48:02.760 --> 00:48:03.600
My parents.

815
00:48:09.240 --> 00:48:13.200
Yeah, talk about intentionality.

816
00:48:13.200 --> 00:48:14.960
What's one small step?

817
00:48:16.560 --> 00:48:18.720
You know, Jesus Cares Board is really cool.

818
00:48:21.400 --> 00:48:23.080
That's why it's an activation.

819
00:48:23.080 --> 00:48:25.160
It kind of goes along with this, you know,

820
00:48:25.160 --> 00:48:28.480
the Jesus Cares Board, a lot of you have done those

821
00:48:28.480 --> 00:48:31.920
because it's a way of visually representing

822
00:48:31.920 --> 00:48:33.440
what it is you want.

823
00:48:33.440 --> 00:48:36.520
So maybe you get your Jesus Cares Board back out again.

824
00:48:36.520 --> 00:48:37.760
Maybe you start putting sticky notes

825
00:48:37.760 --> 00:48:41.520
on your bathroom mirror all over the place,

826
00:48:41.520 --> 00:48:43.760
but I don't want you to do a million things.

827
00:48:43.760 --> 00:48:45.560
Like, ladies, you're famous.

828
00:48:45.560 --> 00:48:46.880
Like, oh, I'm gonna do this, I'm gonna do that.

829
00:48:46.880 --> 00:48:47.960
I'm gonna think of like a hundred things.

830
00:48:47.960 --> 00:48:52.160
Like, no, no, no, no, just do, just think of one thing.

831
00:48:54.080 --> 00:48:56.520
People are gonna pray about what I want,

832
00:48:56.520 --> 00:48:59.000
take the time, spend more time with God.

833
00:48:59.000 --> 00:49:01.360
I love, Lauren, I love that, spend more time with God,

834
00:49:01.360 --> 00:49:04.160
but I feel like that's too broad

835
00:49:04.160 --> 00:49:07.520
because I feel like it's like, I'm going to like,

836
00:49:07.520 --> 00:49:08.560
I'm gonna spend some more time with God.

837
00:49:08.560 --> 00:49:10.960
No, I'm gonna get up at 7 a.m.

838
00:49:10.960 --> 00:49:13.520
and I'm going to do 15 minutes of really thinking about,

839
00:49:13.520 --> 00:49:17.400
like, be very specific in this step, guys, okay?

840
00:49:17.400 --> 00:49:18.840
Be very specific in this step.

841
00:49:18.840 --> 00:49:23.840
What's one step of an action that you can take today

842
00:49:26.120 --> 00:49:31.120
towards dealing with this question, what do I want?

843
00:49:34.560 --> 00:49:37.880
I mean, truly, the first step really is asking the question.

844
00:49:38.920 --> 00:49:40.520
You know, that's really the first step.

845
00:49:40.520 --> 00:49:45.160
First step is literally, okay, what do I want?

846
00:49:45.160 --> 00:49:46.400
That's really the first step.

847
00:49:46.400 --> 00:49:50.280
So first step for everyone should be, what do I want?

848
00:49:52.200 --> 00:49:57.200
Okay, and then taking the time to really process that,

849
00:50:00.000 --> 00:50:05.720
Hopefully, the asking, the journal guide or the work guide that I shared with you will

850
00:50:05.720 --> 00:50:13.320
help you to process through that question.

851
00:50:13.320 --> 00:50:16.400
Spending 10 minutes a day, spend the course, good.

852
00:50:16.400 --> 00:50:19.840
Commit to posting something on social, good.

853
00:50:19.840 --> 00:50:22.520
Going to drive, lift three nights a week.

854
00:50:22.520 --> 00:50:23.520
Pay down your debt, good.

855
00:50:23.520 --> 00:50:27.680
Baby steps, I was at the airport, a place to try to intentionally smile at people, that's

856
00:50:27.680 --> 00:50:28.680
cool.

857
00:50:28.680 --> 00:50:32.160
Intentionally smile at people, looking them in the eye and become more approachable, available.

858
00:50:32.160 --> 00:50:33.160
I love that.

859
00:50:33.160 --> 00:50:35.160
I'm going to redo my Jesus Care Board.

860
00:50:35.160 --> 00:50:37.720
After I get up, declare praise verses and what I want.

861
00:50:37.720 --> 00:50:42.280
Pray with revelation, remember, memorize, meditate, relate, because I know my problem.

862
00:50:42.280 --> 00:50:43.280
I want to be debt-free.

863
00:50:43.280 --> 00:50:44.280
I love that.

864
00:50:44.280 --> 00:50:45.280
You just declared it out.

865
00:50:45.280 --> 00:50:47.680
Anybody going to declare what you want in here?

866
00:50:47.680 --> 00:50:52.080
I like the action steps, but I see now some of this thing, I want to be debt-free.

867
00:50:52.080 --> 00:50:54.040
So today I paid a big portion of that off.

868
00:50:54.040 --> 00:50:55.040
Wow, that's awesome.

869
00:50:55.040 --> 00:50:58.040
Look at Robin.

870
00:50:58.400 --> 00:50:59.400
Record talking to myself.

871
00:50:59.400 --> 00:51:00.400
That's good.

872
00:51:00.400 --> 00:51:01.400
Love that.

873
00:51:01.400 --> 00:51:02.400
Getting myself more structure in my day.

874
00:51:02.400 --> 00:51:03.400
Eliminate one strike.

875
00:51:03.400 --> 00:51:04.400
These are growing by so fast.

876
00:51:04.400 --> 00:51:05.400
You guys are...

877
00:51:05.400 --> 00:51:06.400
Be in bed by 10.

878
00:51:06.400 --> 00:51:07.400
I love that.

879
00:51:07.400 --> 00:51:08.400
The goal.

880
00:51:08.400 --> 00:51:09.400
How do you get the work guide?

881
00:51:09.400 --> 00:51:10.400
Somebody posted it right under there for you.

882
00:51:10.400 --> 00:51:11.400
It's a Google Docs.

883
00:51:11.400 --> 00:51:12.400
I shared it with you.

884
00:51:12.400 --> 00:51:13.400
I need to do a Jesus Care Board.

885
00:51:13.400 --> 00:51:14.400
Yes.

886
00:51:14.400 --> 00:51:15.400
Make one t-shirt design.

887
00:51:15.400 --> 00:51:16.400
Love it.

888
00:51:16.400 --> 00:51:17.400
I want to fall in love.

889
00:51:17.400 --> 00:51:18.400
I want to fall in love.

890
00:51:18.400 --> 00:51:19.400
I want to fall in love.

891
00:51:19.400 --> 00:51:20.400
I want to fall in love.

892
00:51:20.400 --> 00:51:21.400
I want to fall in love.

893
00:51:21.400 --> 00:51:22.400
I want to fall in love.

894
00:51:22.400 --> 00:51:23.400
I want to fall in love.

895
00:51:23.400 --> 00:51:24.400
I want to fall in love.

896
00:51:24.400 --> 00:51:25.400
I want to fall in love.

897
00:51:25.400 --> 00:51:26.400
Make one t-shirt design.

898
00:51:26.400 --> 00:51:27.400
Love it.

899
00:51:27.400 --> 00:51:29.180
I want to fall in love.

900
00:51:29.180 --> 00:51:30.640
Absolutely.

901
00:51:30.640 --> 00:51:34.480
I declare I will be married.

902
00:51:34.480 --> 00:51:35.480
Pray for what I...

903
00:51:35.480 --> 00:51:38.400
Pray for what I want daily.

904
00:51:38.400 --> 00:51:40.580
I think that's what that says.

905
00:51:40.580 --> 00:51:45.340
You invited a guy at church to your birthday party next month.

906
00:51:45.340 --> 00:51:46.340
Does that count?

907
00:51:46.340 --> 00:51:47.880
Of course it does.

908
00:51:47.880 --> 00:51:50.180
Any action towards what it is you want counts.

909
00:51:50.180 --> 00:51:53.440
How many people we have on here right now?

910
00:51:53.440 --> 00:51:54.440
100?

911
00:51:54.480 --> 00:51:55.480
Is that 106?

912
00:51:55.480 --> 00:51:56.480
Awesome.

913
00:51:56.480 --> 00:51:57.480
160.

914
00:51:57.480 --> 00:51:58.480
Oh, 160?

915
00:51:58.480 --> 00:51:59.480
166.

916
00:51:59.480 --> 00:52:00.480
Praise God.

917
00:52:00.480 --> 00:52:01.480
This is so good.

918
00:52:01.480 --> 00:52:02.480
It's all...

919
00:52:02.480 --> 00:52:03.480
This is good stuff, guys.

920
00:52:03.480 --> 00:52:04.480
I really appreciate you getting into this.

921
00:52:04.480 --> 00:52:05.480
Start conversations with people you don't know.

922
00:52:05.480 --> 00:52:06.480
Wow, that's powerful.

923
00:52:06.480 --> 00:52:07.480
Most people are afraid to do that.

924
00:52:07.480 --> 00:52:08.480
In the world we live in today, it's crazy out there.

925
00:52:08.480 --> 00:52:09.480
You don't know...

926
00:52:09.480 --> 00:52:10.480
Never know what you're going to get.

927
00:52:10.480 --> 00:52:11.480
Start conversations with people you don't know.

928
00:52:11.480 --> 00:52:26.480
Make a plan to kick that in the butt.

929
00:52:26.480 --> 00:52:27.480
New job.

930
00:52:27.480 --> 00:52:30.880
Schedule a meeting with the estate lawyers to finalize documents.

931
00:52:30.880 --> 00:52:32.480
Yeah, you got to get on that.

932
00:52:32.480 --> 00:52:33.480
It's good.

933
00:52:33.480 --> 00:52:35.280
Any action toward what we want?

934
00:52:35.280 --> 00:52:36.280
Yes.

935
00:52:36.280 --> 00:52:37.280
Counts.

936
00:52:37.280 --> 00:52:38.280
Keep on praying, declaring, dropping, hanky.

937
00:52:38.280 --> 00:52:39.280
Yeah.

938
00:52:39.280 --> 00:52:40.280
Physically fit.

939
00:52:40.280 --> 00:52:41.280
Believe motherhood.

940
00:52:41.280 --> 00:52:42.280
A great marriage for me.

941
00:52:42.280 --> 00:52:43.280
I want to take business mentoring to expand my business.

942
00:52:43.280 --> 00:52:44.280
Love that.

943
00:52:44.280 --> 00:52:45.280
Yeah.

944
00:52:45.280 --> 00:52:46.280
Love that, Kim.

945
00:52:46.280 --> 00:52:47.280
It's like actually working through the question.

946
00:52:47.280 --> 00:52:48.280
Yeah.

947
00:52:48.280 --> 00:52:49.280
That's huge.

948
00:52:49.280 --> 00:52:50.280
That's not minimal.

949
00:52:50.280 --> 00:52:51.280
Like actually working through the question.

950
00:52:51.280 --> 00:52:52.280
Because I feel like I truly don't know what I want in any area of my life.

951
00:52:52.280 --> 00:52:53.280
That's so powerful.

952
00:52:53.280 --> 00:52:54.280
Like just taking it seriously.

953
00:52:54.280 --> 00:52:55.280
Yeah.

954
00:52:55.280 --> 00:52:56.280
Yeah.

955
00:52:56.280 --> 00:52:57.280
Yeah.

956
00:52:57.280 --> 00:52:58.280
Yeah.

957
00:52:58.280 --> 00:52:59.280
Yeah.

958
00:52:59.280 --> 00:53:00.280
Yeah.

959
00:53:00.280 --> 00:53:01.280
Yeah.

960
00:53:01.280 --> 00:53:02.280
Yeah.

961
00:53:03.280 --> 00:53:04.280
How does that feel?

962
00:53:04.280 --> 00:53:05.280
You know I think you get it.

963
00:53:05.280 --> 00:53:06.280
I feel like I truly don't know what I want in any area of my life.

964
00:53:06.280 --> 00:53:07.640
That's so powerful.

965
00:53:07.640 --> 00:53:09.120
Like just taking it seriously.

966
00:53:09.120 --> 00:53:13.280
Some of you like here's my first step.

967
00:53:13.280 --> 00:53:16.280
I'm just going to take this seriously.

968
00:53:16.280 --> 00:53:20.720
That's a huge step.

969
00:53:20.720 --> 00:53:23.040
Love that.

970
00:53:23.040 --> 00:53:25.480
Clean out my closet.

971
00:53:25.480 --> 00:53:27.180
Love it.

972
00:53:27.180 --> 00:53:29.240
Organize my room.

973
00:53:29.240 --> 00:53:30.240
Yeah.

974
00:53:30.240 --> 00:53:32.600
Sometimes you just get your space cleared out.

975
00:53:32.600 --> 00:53:37.560
Then you can say I find it difficult to really have clarity and very clear thought and in

976
00:53:37.560 --> 00:53:41.080
a cluttered messy environment in space.

977
00:53:41.080 --> 00:53:42.080
You know.

978
00:53:42.080 --> 00:53:44.680
Cut my hours back at work.

979
00:53:44.680 --> 00:53:45.680
Not get discouraged.

980
00:53:45.680 --> 00:53:46.680
Keep going.

981
00:53:46.680 --> 00:53:47.680
Meet new people.

982
00:53:47.680 --> 00:53:48.680
Go through your workbook.

983
00:53:48.680 --> 00:53:49.680
Want to be retired.

984
00:53:49.680 --> 00:53:50.680
Love that.

985
00:53:50.680 --> 00:53:51.680
That's perfect.

986
00:53:51.680 --> 00:53:52.680
Like want to be retired.

987
00:53:52.680 --> 00:53:53.680
So what's it going to mean?

988
00:53:53.680 --> 00:53:57.200
What's it going to take for me to be retired?

989
00:53:57.200 --> 00:54:00.480
Start writing my five top dreams.

990
00:54:00.480 --> 00:54:01.480
Printing the document.

991
00:54:01.480 --> 00:54:02.480
Do you want to work tonight?

992
00:54:02.480 --> 00:54:03.480
Schedule the trip.

993
00:54:03.480 --> 00:54:04.480
Schedule the vacation.

994
00:54:04.480 --> 00:54:06.240
Schedule the trip.

995
00:54:06.240 --> 00:54:09.160
I want to go someplace I've never been before.

996
00:54:09.160 --> 00:54:10.160
Okay.

997
00:54:10.160 --> 00:54:12.800
Got to get a ticket.

998
00:54:12.800 --> 00:54:14.480
Schedule the ticket.

999
00:54:14.480 --> 00:54:16.560
Make the plan.

1000
00:54:16.560 --> 00:54:17.600
Decide where the place is going to be.

1001
00:54:17.600 --> 00:54:18.880
Maybe you already have it on your wall.

1002
00:54:18.880 --> 00:54:19.880
Like I want to go to Hawaii.

1003
00:54:19.880 --> 00:54:20.880
I've never been there.

1004
00:54:20.880 --> 00:54:21.880
I want to go to Greece.

1005
00:54:21.880 --> 00:54:22.880
I've never been there.

1006
00:54:22.880 --> 00:54:23.880
How am I going to do it?

1007
00:54:23.880 --> 00:54:24.880
I don't have the money to do it.

1008
00:54:24.880 --> 00:54:27.000
Well, this is when you start articulating.

1009
00:54:27.800 --> 00:54:28.800
I was like, all right.

1010
00:54:28.800 --> 00:54:29.800
Let's get the plans going.

1011
00:54:29.800 --> 00:54:30.800
I want to create these steps.

1012
00:54:30.800 --> 00:54:33.800
That's what his word says.

1013
00:54:33.800 --> 00:54:34.800
Hallelujah.

1014
00:54:34.800 --> 00:54:35.800
Apply for a passport.

1015
00:54:35.800 --> 00:54:36.800
Yeah.

1016
00:54:36.800 --> 00:54:37.800
If you're going to go international, you can't go without a passport.

1017
00:54:37.800 --> 00:54:38.800
So you got to get a passport first.

1018
00:54:38.800 --> 00:54:39.800
Love that.

1019
00:54:39.800 --> 00:54:40.800
Ah, so good.

1020
00:54:40.800 --> 00:54:41.800
All right.

1021
00:54:41.800 --> 00:54:42.800
We are right at one hour, guys.

1022
00:54:42.800 --> 00:54:43.800
And I'm going to be honorable to that.

1023
00:54:43.800 --> 00:54:44.800
Thank you.

1024
00:54:44.800 --> 00:54:45.800
Thank you.

1025
00:54:45.800 --> 00:54:46.800
Thank you.

1026
00:54:46.800 --> 00:54:47.800
Thank you.

1027
00:54:47.800 --> 00:54:48.800
Thank you.

1028
00:54:48.800 --> 00:54:49.800
Thank you.

1029
00:54:49.800 --> 00:54:50.800
Thank you.

1030
00:54:50.800 --> 00:54:51.800
Thank you.

1031
00:54:51.800 --> 00:54:52.800
Thank you.

1032
00:54:52.800 --> 00:54:53.800
Thank you.

1033
00:54:53.800 --> 00:54:54.800
Thank you.

1034
00:54:54.800 --> 00:54:55.800
Thank you.

1035
00:54:55.800 --> 00:54:56.800
Thank you.

1036
00:54:56.800 --> 00:54:57.800
Thank you.

1037
00:54:57.800 --> 00:54:58.800
Thank you.

1038
00:54:58.800 --> 00:54:58.800


1039
00:55:00.000 --> 00:55:03.640
I really enjoy teaching it, talking about it.

1040
00:55:03.640 --> 00:55:05.960
We're talking about this for some time.

1041
00:55:05.960 --> 00:55:07.680
I've been bothering Jackie with it.

1042
00:55:07.680 --> 00:55:10.640
And you're like, just write down the notes.

1043
00:55:10.640 --> 00:55:13.200
But just while you're going to teach this,

1044
00:55:13.200 --> 00:55:14.960
teach this to the people, all right?

1045
00:55:18.080 --> 00:55:21.880
I have another one called Unworthy but Chosen.

1046
00:55:21.880 --> 00:55:24.440
It's so good.

1047
00:55:24.440 --> 00:55:26.600
You can think, I'll just give you a little teaser.

1048
00:55:26.920 --> 00:55:29.960
Um, this was the thought.

1049
00:55:29.960 --> 00:55:32.760
You can maybe do this a little research on your own,

1050
00:55:32.760 --> 00:55:34.360
this thought.

1051
00:55:34.360 --> 00:55:38.320
My thought was is, it's really weird.

1052
00:55:38.320 --> 00:55:39.840
I felt unworthy.

1053
00:55:39.840 --> 00:55:41.400
I still feel unworthy times.

1054
00:55:41.400 --> 00:55:43.000
I know everybody's felt unworthy.

1055
00:55:43.000 --> 00:55:44.640
Like, you just don't feel like you deserve it.

1056
00:55:44.640 --> 00:55:45.840
You don't feel worthy of it.

1057
00:55:45.840 --> 00:55:48.800
You don't feel like you can do it.

1058
00:55:48.800 --> 00:55:50.520
You just don't feel worthy.

1059
00:55:50.520 --> 00:55:52.720
You feel unworthy.

1060
00:55:52.720 --> 00:55:53.840
I was curious.

1061
00:55:53.840 --> 00:55:55.640
And I asked myself this question.

1062
00:55:55.640 --> 00:56:02.120
I said, every person, every character that's in the Bible

1063
00:56:02.120 --> 00:56:09.040
that found themselves in front of the angel of the Lord

1064
00:56:09.040 --> 00:56:13.480
or found themselves literally in front of God, like Moses,

1065
00:56:13.480 --> 00:56:17.720
or found them before Jesus, or even found themselves

1066
00:56:17.720 --> 00:56:20.480
before a disciple or a prophet or an apostle,

1067
00:56:20.480 --> 00:56:22.000
one of those, they found themselves.

1068
00:56:22.000 --> 00:56:24.600
There's many stories and instances in the Bible

1069
00:56:24.600 --> 00:56:27.160
where a regular human being like you and me

1070
00:56:27.160 --> 00:56:31.400
found themselves in front of this person

1071
00:56:31.400 --> 00:56:35.920
and literally fell on their face and said, I'm unworthy.

1072
00:56:35.920 --> 00:56:40.960
John the Baptist said, I'm unworthy to even untie his laces

1073
00:56:40.960 --> 00:56:42.720
when he was in front of Jesus.

1074
00:56:42.720 --> 00:56:44.680
Here's the dude that was the most radical believer

1075
00:56:44.680 --> 00:56:45.640
you could ever be.

1076
00:56:45.640 --> 00:56:47.080
If you want to be the most radical believer

1077
00:56:47.080 --> 00:56:50.560
you ever could be, John the Baptist is your guy.

1078
00:56:50.560 --> 00:56:53.240
And he's like, I'm unworthy to untie sandals.

1079
00:56:53.240 --> 00:56:57.880
But in every instance, in every instance

1080
00:56:57.880 --> 00:57:00.920
where the character is finding himself unworthy

1081
00:57:00.920 --> 00:57:05.680
before in the presence of Jesus, God, an angel, all this,

1082
00:57:05.680 --> 00:57:11.560
none of those superior beings, God himself, Jesus, an angel,

1083
00:57:11.560 --> 00:57:16.480
a prophet, an apostle, none of them,

1084
00:57:16.480 --> 00:57:21.960
none of them agreed with the person.

1085
00:57:21.960 --> 00:57:25.000
Think about that for a second, that for a second.

1086
00:57:25.000 --> 00:57:28.000
Jesus, somebody came before Jesus and said, I'm unworthy.

1087
00:57:28.000 --> 00:57:29.960
Jesus didn't go, that's right, you're unworthy.

1088
00:57:29.960 --> 00:57:31.080
I'm Jesus.

1089
00:57:31.080 --> 00:57:34.360
He didn't say that.

1090
00:57:34.360 --> 00:57:37.160
Matter of fact, when they called, oh, you are good,

1091
00:57:37.160 --> 00:57:40.400
Jesus, he goes, why do you call me good?

1092
00:57:40.400 --> 00:57:43.760
Father's the only one that's good.

1093
00:57:43.760 --> 00:57:45.880
And this is a whole teaching, but you

1094
00:57:45.880 --> 00:57:47.640
can explore some of your own.

1095
00:57:47.640 --> 00:57:50.400
I want you to answer the question yourself, why?

1096
00:57:51.280 --> 00:57:54.280
They affirmed, they didn't say, oh, yeah, that's right,

1097
00:57:54.280 --> 00:57:55.080
you are unworthy.

1098
00:57:55.080 --> 00:57:58.520
They said, get up from here, stand up.

1099
00:57:58.520 --> 00:58:01.840
Well, not in a hateful way, like, hey, what are you doing?

1100
00:58:01.840 --> 00:58:03.640
Just stand up, talk to me.

1101
00:58:03.640 --> 00:58:05.520
I'm here to give you a message.

1102
00:58:05.520 --> 00:58:09.640
I'm here to reveal something to you.

1103
00:58:09.640 --> 00:58:12.720
Not one of them were rebuked for saying

1104
00:58:12.720 --> 00:58:14.920
I'm unworthy or agreed with.

1105
00:58:14.920 --> 00:58:16.720
They were actually encouraged to stand up,

1106
00:58:16.720 --> 00:58:18.760
to rise up, to be something, to be elevated,

1107
00:58:18.760 --> 00:58:21.040
to be exalted, to be honored.

1108
00:58:21.040 --> 00:58:23.160
Matter of fact, when Jesus' disciples

1109
00:58:23.160 --> 00:58:25.920
were arguing themselves, talking about who's

1110
00:58:25.920 --> 00:58:28.880
going to be the greatest in the kingdom of heaven,

1111
00:58:28.880 --> 00:58:32.920
Jesus didn't rebuke them about wanting to be great.

1112
00:58:32.920 --> 00:58:36.240
He showed them how to be great.

1113
00:58:36.240 --> 00:58:41.400
And he said, being the servant of all or being the servant

1114
00:58:41.400 --> 00:58:45.200
is the greatest thing, right?

1115
00:58:45.240 --> 00:58:50.040
Notice how God never agrees with you in your unworthiness.

1116
00:58:50.040 --> 00:58:53.000
He always calls you up higher.

1117
00:58:53.000 --> 00:58:55.600
So that's something you want to think about, Sean,

1118
00:58:55.600 --> 00:58:56.720
and ask about that.

1119
00:58:56.720 --> 00:58:58.640
The whole teaching about that's really good.

1120
00:58:58.640 --> 00:58:59.480
God bless you guys.

1121
00:58:59.480 --> 00:59:00.640
I love you all.

1122
00:59:00.640 --> 00:59:03.160
Hope you got a lot out of this tonight.

1123
00:59:03.160 --> 00:59:05.840
If you missed the download in the comments,

1124
00:59:05.840 --> 00:59:08.440
just email into us, and we can maybe share that link with you

1125
00:59:08.440 --> 00:59:09.600
or somewhere, I don't know.

1126
00:59:09.600 --> 00:59:12.040
Maybe you can put it in the app or something.

1127
00:59:12.040 --> 00:59:15.440
Go back and listen to Supernatural Saturday

1128
00:59:15.440 --> 00:59:17.120
if you didn't get it, and connect

1129
00:59:17.120 --> 00:59:20.280
that with the teaching tonight, the full scope of that.

1130
00:59:20.280 --> 00:59:22.480
We'll see you on the next live and whatever it is.

1131
00:59:22.480 --> 00:59:23.080
God bless you.

1132
00:59:23.080 --> 00:59:23.880
Love you.

1133
00:59:23.880 --> 00:59:26.800
Have a great, great night.

1134
00:59:26.800 --> 00:59:28.880
Thank you, Dee.