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Hello, everybody, welcome to Single Spotlight for June.

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We did not do this in May.

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We are going to be doing some fun things with Spirit Mate Match in July.

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So get excited.

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We're going to have some dating games, we're going to have some single shuffles, and that

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is going to be fun.

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I want to update all of us on our affiliate partnership with ARC.

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So how can I say this nicely?

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It's a brand new app, okay?

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It's brand new, which means that it hasn't been out for long, which means there's not

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a lot of people on it, which means that is why they ask people like me in our community

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to get the word out and to get people to join.

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And so we've done that because I really believe in their mission.

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I've talked to the people that are running this app, that created this app.

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They actually met on a dating app themselves, as far as the couple that's behind this app.

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They put a lot of money and time and energy into it.

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They want to make it better and better and better and better, and they really believe

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in helping people through technology to meet each other, using technology for good and

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not for evil, right?

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And so it's only going to grow, it's only going to get better.

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So give it a shot if you haven't.

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I know that ladies, I was with some of our ladies down in Santa Rosa, Florida last week.

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They showed me some screenshots of the, let's say the caliber of men that they were running

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into on this app.

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Let's say the quality of them.

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And let me tell you, I thought I was getting punked, all right?

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Some of these gentlemen, if we can even call it that, some of these guys look like someone

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went to the community night at the local prison and asked people to create an account.

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I'm not kidding you.

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One guy you could even see that cell, the bars of the cell reflected in his glasses.

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So he definitely was in jail and it was like, whoa, okay.

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So that being said, you guys, I made a decision, I made an executive decision and I told my

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team about it on Monday that we have had SpiritMate technology, SpiritMate Match technology.

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We have owned that technology for a couple of years now.

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For those of you that filled out a profile on SpiritMate Match, raise your hand if you

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filled out a profile on SpiritMate Match.

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It's a lot like a dating app, right?

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But you have to answer a lot of questions.

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It makes it more intricate as far as when the algorithm starts showing you people that

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you have things in common with, like percentages of things in common with.

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And that is how we play the dating game.

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Just so you guys know, I go on there, I pull up the Bachelor or the Bachelorette's profile,

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and then I see their top three or four matches.

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And then I just start contacting those people and saying, hey, are you available for the

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dating game?

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And if they're not available, then I go down to the next best match and the next best match.

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And of course, that technology is able to match people based on, do you want long distance?

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Do you not want long distance?

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How many miles long distance?

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Age gap?

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No age gap.

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How much of an age gap?

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How much of a height difference?

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How much of this?

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How much of that?

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It literally can show us if you like people that eat oatmeal and raisins for breakfast.

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It's able to do anything.

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And if you like oatmeal and raisins for breakfast, ick.

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So I don't know, there's something so icky about raisins.

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I'm not sure what it is, but just, I think what it is, I think what it is, is that when

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I was a little kid, I had a babysitter who made, you know, oatmeal, raisin cookies.

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And she told us that the, that the, that the raisins were ants or bugs or something

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so that we wouldn't want any like, oh, they're gross.

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They're bad.

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These are bugs, you know, and we're like, oh, but of course they weren't.

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There's greedy babysitters in the eighties that wanted to eat all the cookies.

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And so I think that I have a trauma, a trauma, a core wound with raisins.

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So we are talking about what would it look like to allow our community to right now,

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the app fate, that, that spirit may match faces us, the matchmakers it faces us.

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We're the ones that are able to see all of your profiles, but what would happen if we

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just flip the switch and allowed you guys to be able to navigate that?

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And you guys, the reason why I haven't done that in the past is because I want it to build

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up the spirit mate match database or dating base to a percentage of male, female ratio.

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I want it to have at least 60, 40 on there.

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And but now that I see kind of the caliber.

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The quality of the men that you guys are getting anyway, I'm like, well,

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we might as well do it, you know, I mean, a hundred great guys is better

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than five of the ones that I, uh, 500 of the ones that I saw when I was

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looking at those pictures, I wish I could show you those pictures, guys.

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Even you guys would laugh.

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I mean, seriously, all of you guys on here, you guys are Brad Pitts.

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You guys are George Clooney.

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You guys are, you name the heartthrob compared to these poor, unfortunate

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souls that were on the app, but it wasn't just that they weren't attractive.

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They were unkempt.

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One of them had on sunglasses and a bloody butcher knife.

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And what universe would that be?

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The right picture for your dating app profile in what world, you know?

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And so, yes, it is, it is sad.

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And also I really couldn't even vouch for any of these men's

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Christianity there, honestly.

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They looked, they looked really like they need to do a lot of

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hard work if I'm just being honest.

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So now gentlemen, to be fair, I did not get to see the pictures of the

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ladies on the SAP because I was talking to ladies and maybe it's, I mean,

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our beautiful ladies are on there.

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Um, but, uh, yeah, anyway.

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Okay.

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So that brings me to some really fun announcements that I just want to make

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before we get started with single spotlights tonight.

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So first announcement, we're looking at what, what would it take and what

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it would look like for us to just flip the switch and turn spirit mate

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match around towards you guys.

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If that happens, you'd be able to upload more pictures.

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A lot of you are like, oh, I can only upload one picture.

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That's because of how we have it facing, but if it faced you, then it would give

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you more options of doing more things.

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Right.

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And so, um, that is number one.

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Number two is Jackie doorman.com.

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Not just got a facelift, but also got a lot more pages and you guys,

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you know what those pages are.

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I'm so excited.

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Those pages are event pages that have all of the upcoming

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retreats and vacations.

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You guys, we're going to vacation and have transformation.

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This beautiful retreat that I just co-hosted down in Florida was phenomenal.

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And we're going to do a lot more of that.

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You know, we went to Cartagena two years in a row.

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We did a little vacation transformation action there.

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We are planning a camping trip for this fall co-ed camping trip.

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Um, so if you like cabin camping, not tent camp, not tent camp camping, but

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if you like the woods and you like bonfires, you like chill in the air

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and you like live worship music around the fire, if you like those kinds of

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things, if you like recreation, if you like, um, what's it called?

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Um, team building obstacle course in the trees and zip lining and all

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kinds of fun like that, then you're going to want to join us in Northern

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California and we're going to have a really good time at a camp that's

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there that actually is a Christian camp.

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That's what its heritage is.

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That's what it's historically is.

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Um, you guys know that there's a singles cruise happening in

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January already to the Bahamas.

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Uh, we are going to be having another women only inner outer retreat, inner

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beauty, outer beauty retreat in September, um, for the ladies that want to come to

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that, you guys, I'm so excited to say what I'm about to say, we are going to

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have a huge five year, last year, single anniversary party here in Austin, Texas.

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In October.

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So mark your calendar.

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We are going to all gather all of our alumni, all of our success stories,

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all of you singles that are ready to mingle in Austin, Texas, we

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are going to have so much fun.

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It's going to be so, so fun.

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We are going to be doing that in October.

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Uh, in the, in the weekend, right?

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I think it's the 15th, 16th, 17th.

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Anyway, this page on our website will have all the information for those

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of you that are like, Hey, you know, I got a lot out of the hard work.

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Um, but as I progressed, even Jackie's Q and a's and her, you know, love

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seats and even the coaching that we get in our groups, I really just wish that

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I could do an individual one-on-one session and really dig in with a

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great transformational coach while we hear you and we have those coaches.

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And if you didn't know, we do have one-on-ones, but guess what?

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We're going to have an entire coaching page on JackieDorman.com

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where you can pick your coach.

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You can pick the amount of sessions you want to do with that coach.

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You can see what their expertise is.

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Um, you can see reviews on that coach.

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So that will be their couples coaching.

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You're like, yeah, Simba's is great.

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Jackie save your marriage report starts.

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That's wonderful.

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But it is a group environment.

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Me and my boyfriend, girlfriend, and fiance, we want to do a

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little one-on-one with a coach.

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Maybe you want to do a one-on-one Simba's maybe you want to

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have Simba's all to yourself.

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with your coach, or perhaps you just have some things

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that you need to get over.

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You're dealing with the potential of blending a family,

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or you guys have some possible deal breakers,

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but you're not really sure, should I stay or should I go?

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We have couples coaching.

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And you'll be able to do that with an individual coach

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or a couple, like another couple.

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We have experienced couples coaches

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that will be available also there.

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Very excited about that.

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What else?

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So the events page will be going live.

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My podcast page will be going live.

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So if you know someone that you think I should interview,

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that you would love to hear that interview,

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there's somebody that you follow that says things

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that you'd like to have my take on,

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or you think that we would have a great conversation

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vibing with each other and bringing value

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to the audience that listens,

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you can, on that page, on my podcast page,

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you can refer a guest, and maybe it's you.

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Maybe you're like, I should be a guest on the podcast.

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And I know that sounds like, well, maybe not, Jackie,

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but maybe, because I'm actually going to be doing

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single spotlights to the masses.

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So one of the things of being in here,

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yes, you get spotlighted to this community,

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you get to see each other all the time,

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but I'm going to really pump up the volume

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on spotlighting you guys on my social media.

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I'm going to do single spotlights on my YouTube,

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on my podcast, I'm gonna have a segment

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called Single Spotlight, where I just like,

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ask you a few questions, just like we do here,

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so that a wider audience can get a view of you.

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You guys, we have had people get married

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from my single spotlights, we have.

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And the people that I post on my Instagram,

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we have had people get married from just that post.

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We have had people find each other and date

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and get engaged and get married from those posts.

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So they work, and we wanna continue to do that.

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I think that's all the announcements.

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You guys, I'm so excited about

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our five-year anniversary party.

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I really hope that you guys can come and be here live.

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We're gonna have so much fun.

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We're gonna have so much fun.

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And only part of it will be ticketed,

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the rest will be free.

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So we'll have free worship events at the wheelhouse,

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which is the space that David and I and our children

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have renovated for the purpose of building creatives,

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film, fashion, art, music, media, entrepreneurs.

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And so it's a really cool space.

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We'll be doing a lot of live stuff there.

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We'll be having like part singles conference

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with some amazing guests, part worship,

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all that will be free.

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Some of the paid parts of it will be some single shuffles

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and a silent disco and just all kinds of fun things

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that will be happening.

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The ticket price will be really minimal,

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but we'll have to ticket it because we will have to limit

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the amount of people that can come

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to some of those different events.

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Okay, so don't worry about that

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because we'll have other things that are still free

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and you can do, all right?

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Okay, let's get started.

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Should we get started?

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All right, ladies first,

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we have some great gentlemen here that are ready.

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I have lots of hands up.

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I don't know why the hands got up.

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Also, you guys, I am partnering with Heartstrings.

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This is my gorgeous gold-filled charm necklace.

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I wanna show it to all of you

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because every charm on this necklace,

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so you can have all of your charms hang right here together

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or you can space them out the way that I have.

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It could be a bracelet, it could be a necklace,

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but every charm on here is a prophetic word

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from the season that I'm in.

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So I have a pineapple, I have a bee,

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I have the word mama right here.

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I have 1111 someplace, a cross, self-explanatory.

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This is about Song of Songs 2.

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So wear it and declare it is really the theme

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of this affiliation that I'm doing with Heartstrings.

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Gold-filled, not gold-plated.

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You can shower in it, you can swim in it.

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I showered and swam in it in Florida,

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got in the hot tub, got in the pool, all the things.

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It doesn't tarnish, it doesn't turn green.

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It's really awesome.

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I really do believe in declaring

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what God has spoken over us

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and there are hundreds of charms to choose from

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that will be meaningful to you

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and prophetic words over your life.

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And so gentlemen, get one for your sister,

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your mom, someone, ladies,

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and they're really cost-effective.

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I saw a charm bar in Santa Rosa

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because charm necklaces are kind of in style right now.

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They were gold-plated,

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so they're gonna turn green immediately.

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They're gonna rust and just, you know,

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they're gonna get dingy really fast.

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And they were so expensive.

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Like a necklace full of this many charms

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would probably be about $300, okay,

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compared to, you know, $60, $70 with all the charms.

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So yes, it's a yes for me.

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Okay, so let's get started with.

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ladies that I called out since we didn't have time to put a post up we're going to start with Judy and way New Jersey guys i'm on my phone.

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As David is not home he's still in California and I need him to set up my technology because that's how we partner and that's how we roll Okay, so let me try my best here.

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Okay, so let me try my best here.

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Okay, so let me try my best here.

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We do a little ask Jackie action tonight to if we have time.

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All right.

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Miss Judy is spotlighted.

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Looking beautiful. How are you.

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Good. Okay, so tell everyone where do you live.

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I live in way New Jersey.

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Okay, how many years younger you.

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Have you ever been married.

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Yeah, I was married for a really long time.

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And I have a 16 year old and a 10 year old.

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Okay, awesome.

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All right, so Wayne, Wayne, Indiana.

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New Jersey.

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Oh, New Jersey. Okay, sure. Jersey. Did I meet you at the conference.

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I saw you at the conference. I was there.

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Okay, awesome. It was fun, wasn't it was a fun conference.

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Yes, it was.

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Okay, awesome. Okay, so she's in New Jersey.

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Can you can relocate or is there shared parenting.

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There is shared parenting so I can't.

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Okay. And what do you do with your time besides raise your beautiful

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children. What do you, what do you do for your vocation. What are you

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passionate about.

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I do hikes.

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Just recently I went on a hike.

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And I like to read.

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I like to read.

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I'm an accountant.

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And finances and stuff like that.

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What else.

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I've taken some salsa classes.

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What I like, what I don't like. So I'm trying out new things.

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Yeah.

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Were you married really young.

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Yeah, my twenties.

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Yeah.

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So, yeah.

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So, you know,

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you can take on what other people like, right.

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So that's good.

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All right. So salsa.

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Salsa eating accountant.

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I love that. So are you accounting for a company?

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Yes, I am.

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I work for sharp electronics.

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By the way.

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I wasn't aware that I was being.

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Showcase today.

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Okay.

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That's why you didn't know because.

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I was just like you, you, you, you, you.

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Because normally we put up a post for the ladies,

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but we didn't get a chance to do that today. So.

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So yeah. So Judy in Wayne, New Jersey, she likes salsa.

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She likes outdoors and hiking.

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She's got to your children. Are they boys or girls?

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Or both.

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Yeah.

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She's an accountant.

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So she's super smart.

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And good with money.

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Good with numbers.

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And she's just kind of figuring out what she likes right now.

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So I love that. How tall are you?

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Five, three.

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Okay.

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So she's, she's perfect size for really anybody. Right.

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Unlike me five, 10, you know,

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got to have a specialized match when you get this tall.

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Gorgeous smile, gorgeous lady. Thank you.

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Do you go to the church where that, where the conference was held?

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No, I actually go to another church close by.

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Okay.

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A half hour away from there.

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Okay.

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Yeah.

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I'm sure that your church is great. That church that hosted the conference.

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That church is great.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Yes, absolutely. All right.

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Thank you for being a good sport and letting me put you on the spot

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there, Judy.

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So if you want to meet Judy, you can email us.

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I know there's not a lot of guys here live,

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but guys that are watching and replay, you can email us.

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Spotlight.

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At Aaron joy. Is it spotlights or spotlight?

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I think it's spotlight.

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I think it's spot spotlight.

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At Jane media.

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Is it spotlight or spotlight?

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I think it's spotlight.

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Spotlight at Jane media.org.

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If you can just throw that up in the chat so people can see it.

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It's spotlight.

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It's just singular.

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Jane media.org.

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And put Judy, New Jersey and Jay there in the subject line.

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Make sure that you give us a little synopsis of who you are.

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And.

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A picture of you.

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Don't just assume that we know who you are and what you look like.

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Gentlemen, because we will need to see that. Okay.

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So let's go back and forth. We'll do guy, girl, guy, girl.

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And so the next person on my screen is James.

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And so I'm going to spotlight him.

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And we're going to.

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Find out all about him.

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James is such a name for me.

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Let me see. Is this you?

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I'm trying to see.

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I don't think that's you.

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Let me see for a sec. Hold on.

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Guys, once again, I'm on my phone.

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I apologize. I apologize about being on my phone.

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But David's watching some dogs in California and he will be back soon.

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Let's see if this happens if I do this.

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It spotlighted you. This is James.

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We're going to find out about him, but I just want to tell you the name James.

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My biological father's name is James.

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My maternal uncle's name is James.

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My maternal grandfather's name is James,

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and my former husband's name is James.

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A lot of James going on in my life.

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James, tell us what's your middle name and where are you?

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How old are you and what are you up to in life right now?

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Middle name is Paul.

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James Paul. I like it. JP.

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Yeah. A lot of followers of Christ back then.

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I'm in Nashville.

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Temporarily, I'm transferring down to Austin for work.

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I'm 45 years old and I open health care clinics,

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particularly in mental health for a capital group.

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All throughout Los Angeles for many years,

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and now I'm doing it in other markets right now.

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Wow. I didn't even know that about you.

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That's really interesting.

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Are they holistic mental health or is it community-based?

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Just curious.

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Good question. I worked out in Malibu for many years.

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I'm a clinician designing these rehabs and stuff.

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They get sued or whatever because they don't have good practices,

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and so I go in and reorganize and help them come up to speed.

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I work with a guy named Dr. Lawrence Heller and some other people like

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Gabor Mate and stuff bringing some of these newer therapies to market.

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Wow.

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It's for profit and we also are going to have community-based mental health as well.

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I love that. That's so needed and it's so good

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that people will have access to services.

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You're helping reorganize and restructure and also plant and open,

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but what do you do for fun?

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Good question.

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I have a golden retriever.

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He's 11 months old named Bear and he is awesome.

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I spend a lot of time with him.

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We take weekend trips.

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I have family around here down in Austin,

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so we go visit family and we have a lot of great friends in my church group.

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We golf, a bunch of guys,

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we watch the NBA finals,

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stuff like that, bonfires,

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get in the word, but also have a lot of fun.

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That's awesome. I love that.

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What's your basketball team?

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Detroit Pistons. I'm originally from Michigan.

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Okay. I'll forgive you for that,

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for being from Michigan.

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Detroit's practically Cleveland though,

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if you really think about it,

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and that's where I'm from.

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I mean, it's so close.

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It's so close, right?

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And all of those manufacturing steel cities

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and good old blue collar worker cities.

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Okay. So Detroit Pistons, that's fine.

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And golf, you got a handicap?

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Are you any good at golf?

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I mean, I'm okay.

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Like, I just like to go out and have fun.

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I think the biggest thing is like connecting with like my friends

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and hanging out, you know,

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I'm not like obsessed with it or anything, so.

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Okay. That's cool.

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Golden Retriever. We like that.

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What's your Golden Retriever's name?

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Bear.

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Bear. Okay.

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Ladies, we love that.

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We love a Golden Retriever.

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That's a great, that's a great dog.

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Yeah.

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You have some Michigan fans in here.

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Yay, Michigan.

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Okay, guys, whatever.

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Can I get a Go Bucks?

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All right.

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So let's see what kind of questions we have.

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Okay. So people want to know about your love life.

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Of course.

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Have you ever been married?

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You're 45.

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Are you divorced?

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Do you have any children?

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I've never been married.

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I don't have children.

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Okay. All right.

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Thank you, Michelle, for that OHIO.

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I appreciate it.

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Okay.

505
00:24:30.040 --> 00:24:32.320
We're gonna start, we're gonna start a rumble in here.

506
00:24:32.320 --> 00:24:33.160
Okay.

507
00:24:33.160 --> 00:24:34.280
Who else has questions?

508
00:24:34.280 --> 00:24:35.120
So never married.

509
00:24:35.120 --> 00:24:36.080
James, never been married.

510
00:24:36.080 --> 00:24:36.920
No kids.

511
00:24:37.880 --> 00:24:38.760
Okay.

512
00:24:38.760 --> 00:24:40.200
Do you still want children?

513
00:24:40.200 --> 00:24:42.000
Are you interested?

514
00:24:42.000 --> 00:24:42.840
Yes.

515
00:24:42.840 --> 00:24:44.840
I've had a long time partnership

516
00:24:45.720 --> 00:24:48.800
and she decided in like the last year,

517
00:24:48.800 --> 00:24:50.000
she doesn't want to have kids.

518
00:24:50.000 --> 00:24:52.040
And that's something that, you know,

519
00:24:52.040 --> 00:24:53.520
we've been kind of working through.

520
00:24:53.520 --> 00:24:55.640
And yeah, I would love to have kids.

521
00:24:55.640 --> 00:24:57.440
I'm just getting to that age where

522
00:24:57.440 --> 00:24:58.760
I know it can be unfair to them.

523
00:24:58.760 --> 00:24:59.800
So I'm trying to.

524
00:25:00.000 --> 00:25:01.840
you know, make something happen.

525
00:25:01.840 --> 00:25:03.160
So, yeah.

526
00:25:03.160 --> 00:25:04.000
Yeah, no.

527
00:25:04.000 --> 00:25:05.640
Okay, so are you saying,

528
00:25:05.640 --> 00:25:07.800
am I hearing that you are like,

529
00:25:07.800 --> 00:25:10.480
you're like in the middle of a breakup?

530
00:25:10.480 --> 00:25:13.760
No, we separated like last year.

531
00:25:13.760 --> 00:25:15.040
Okay.

532
00:25:15.040 --> 00:25:15.880
Yeah, she's like,

533
00:25:15.880 --> 00:25:17.800
but that was like,

534
00:25:17.800 --> 00:25:19.400
that was part of the deal breaker

535
00:25:19.400 --> 00:25:21.100
was that you really want to have a family

536
00:25:21.100 --> 00:25:22.600
and she's not interested.

537
00:25:22.600 --> 00:25:24.360
Okay, so that's good to know, ladies.

538
00:25:24.360 --> 00:25:25.180
It's important.

539
00:25:25.180 --> 00:25:26.160
I see some of you are like,

540
00:25:26.160 --> 00:25:29.400
hey, I have a friend that I like to introduce him to.

541
00:25:29.400 --> 00:25:32.160
Remember, this is someone who's been through

542
00:25:32.160 --> 00:25:34.240
a long-term relationship breakup

543
00:25:34.240 --> 00:25:36.400
because they had different visions for the future,

544
00:25:36.400 --> 00:25:38.320
specifically regarding family.

545
00:25:38.320 --> 00:25:40.740
And so that's important to keep in mind.

546
00:25:40.740 --> 00:25:41.580
Okay.

547
00:25:42.900 --> 00:25:43.740
How old?

548
00:25:43.740 --> 00:25:44.560
He said he was 45.

549
00:25:44.560 --> 00:25:45.740
So you guys got that.

550
00:25:45.740 --> 00:25:48.040
Do you, let's just ask you like,

551
00:25:48.040 --> 00:25:49.120
what's your,

552
00:25:49.120 --> 00:25:50.980
instead of your top three favorite books,

553
00:25:50.980 --> 00:25:52.860
cause that'd be hard for me to even figure out,

554
00:25:52.860 --> 00:25:53.700
do you like to read?

555
00:25:53.700 --> 00:25:55.000
And if so, like,

556
00:25:55.000 --> 00:25:57.120
what's a recent read that you really liked

557
00:25:57.120 --> 00:25:58.220
or your favorite book?

558
00:25:59.400 --> 00:26:03.400
Yeah, I think I read like a lot of literature on,

559
00:26:03.400 --> 00:26:05.120
you know, science and stuff like that,

560
00:26:05.120 --> 00:26:06.600
but that's like my job.

561
00:26:06.600 --> 00:26:08.240
I also write,

562
00:26:08.240 --> 00:26:12.240
but I think there's a book called like Scaling,

563
00:26:12.240 --> 00:26:13.360
I think is the best book.

564
00:26:13.360 --> 00:26:14.640
Like Tony Robbins was like,

565
00:26:14.640 --> 00:26:16.620
I'm jealous I never got to write this book.

566
00:26:16.620 --> 00:26:18.560
So I think that that's probably the best thing

567
00:26:18.560 --> 00:26:19.720
I've read in a while.

568
00:26:27.600 --> 00:26:28.920
I think we lost Jackie.

569
00:26:29.400 --> 00:26:34.400
Do you want to freeform a little?

570
00:26:37.760 --> 00:26:41.440
I think I saw someone asking about your height.

571
00:26:42.680 --> 00:26:43.760
Sorry, who is that?

572
00:26:43.760 --> 00:26:45.560
Oh, it's Thomas.

573
00:26:45.560 --> 00:26:46.600
Oh, hey Thomas.

574
00:26:46.600 --> 00:26:48.060
Yeah, I'm 11.

575
00:26:49.200 --> 00:26:51.800
And oh, so this is like a pitch then.

576
00:26:52.680 --> 00:26:54.520
Now I don't have Jackie here.

577
00:26:54.520 --> 00:26:55.760
Let's see.

578
00:26:55.760 --> 00:26:58.520
Well, right now,

579
00:26:58.520 --> 00:26:59.480
I'm renting a home.

580
00:26:59.480 --> 00:27:01.620
I plan on buying a home in Austin.

581
00:27:02.720 --> 00:27:04.920
The market's kind of on the downtrend there.

582
00:27:04.920 --> 00:27:07.560
So I'm gonna probably do that.

583
00:27:07.560 --> 00:27:08.720
I'd like to stay in Austin.

584
00:27:08.720 --> 00:27:10.520
I have a lot of family that's there,

585
00:27:11.760 --> 00:27:14.860
but I'm open to moving to other places.

586
00:27:16.560 --> 00:27:18.560
You know, just have to be something that'd be like,

587
00:27:18.560 --> 00:27:20.360
you know, compromised work through.

588
00:27:20.360 --> 00:27:24.360
So any other things come to mind, Thomas?

589
00:27:25.640 --> 00:27:27.040
Well, we have a question here.

590
00:27:27.040 --> 00:27:28.460
What's your idea of a great weekend?

591
00:27:29.300 --> 00:27:30.260
I feel like you already talked a little bit about that

592
00:27:30.260 --> 00:27:33.060
in regards to like hanging out with people,

593
00:27:33.060 --> 00:27:36.340
a little Bible study, a little time by the fire, community.

594
00:27:38.660 --> 00:27:39.500
Yeah.

595
00:27:39.500 --> 00:27:40.660
And she's back.

596
00:27:40.660 --> 00:27:42.300
Okay, so go ahead and answer that question.

597
00:27:42.300 --> 00:27:43.180
Sorry about that, you guys.

598
00:27:43.180 --> 00:27:45.100
My phone just crashed down.

599
00:27:47.060 --> 00:27:48.940
Yeah, thanks.

600
00:27:48.940 --> 00:27:52.020
Yeah, I think just spending time, you know,

601
00:27:52.020 --> 00:27:54.060
equally out with friends and in community

602
00:27:54.060 --> 00:27:55.780
and kind of having time to like regroup

603
00:27:55.780 --> 00:27:58.140
and do romantic things I think are fun.

604
00:27:58.140 --> 00:28:00.860
Like this last weekend, I was up in like Lake Michigan.

605
00:28:00.860 --> 00:28:02.660
I think it's like beautiful area

606
00:28:02.660 --> 00:28:04.500
up on the sand dunes and everything.

607
00:28:04.500 --> 00:28:09.500
Like, so even a mix of indoor, outdoor, nature,

608
00:28:09.780 --> 00:28:14.500
metro, friends, intimate time, just good balance, I think.

609
00:28:16.540 --> 00:28:18.140
Awesome, okay.

610
00:28:18.140 --> 00:28:20.460
So didn't hear the question, loved the answer.

611
00:28:20.460 --> 00:28:23.660
Okay, so ladies, if you wanna know more about James,

612
00:28:23.660 --> 00:28:28.380
remember 45, single, never married, no kids, wants kids.

613
00:28:29.420 --> 00:28:34.420
You can email spotlight at jmedia.org, put James.

614
00:28:34.620 --> 00:28:38.340
And then do we wanna put Austin or Nashville in the?

615
00:28:38.340 --> 00:28:40.620
I'll be in Austin, July 15th.

616
00:28:40.620 --> 00:28:42.500
So yeah, I'd probably put Austin.

617
00:28:42.500 --> 00:28:43.700
Yeah, that's soon.

618
00:28:43.700 --> 00:28:45.260
All right, we can't wait to meet you in person.

619
00:28:45.260 --> 00:28:48.140
We have a huge singles community here

620
00:28:48.140 --> 00:28:50.820
and Christian community here, so excited for that.

621
00:28:50.820 --> 00:28:53.700
Okay, so James and put Austin.

622
00:28:53.700 --> 00:28:58.060
So James and Austin in the subject line.

623
00:28:58.060 --> 00:29:01.100
Remember, we need your bio and pictures of you.

624
00:29:01.100 --> 00:29:03.460
Don't just assume that we know who you are.

625
00:29:03.460 --> 00:29:06.020
And if you know someone that you would like

626
00:29:06.020 --> 00:29:07.660
to introduce any of these singles to.

627
00:29:07.660 --> 00:29:09.220
Remember friends, this is a community-based

628
00:29:09.220 --> 00:29:11.340
matchmaking movement.

629
00:29:11.340 --> 00:29:13.300
That is what we do here, that is what we do well.

630
00:29:13.300 --> 00:29:16.060
So even if someone is too old, too young,

631
00:29:16.060 --> 00:29:18.660
not in the right place, they can't move

632
00:29:18.660 --> 00:29:20.220
and you can't move either.

633
00:29:20.260 --> 00:29:21.820
But you know someone that you would like

634
00:29:21.820 --> 00:29:22.660
to introduce them to.

635
00:29:22.660 --> 00:29:24.300
You can still write into us and tell us

636
00:29:24.300 --> 00:29:27.060
about your friend, your cousin, your uncle,

637
00:29:27.060 --> 00:29:29.620
whoever it is that you would like to introduce

638
00:29:29.620 --> 00:29:31.420
to one of these singles, all right?

639
00:29:31.420 --> 00:29:34.980
It's important that we work together on this.

640
00:29:34.980 --> 00:29:38.020
All right, so next up, let's go ahead and do a lady.

641
00:29:39.820 --> 00:29:43.180
I apologize for putting these ladies into just

642
00:29:45.820 --> 00:29:48.340
the hot seat sort of with just picking them

643
00:29:48.340 --> 00:29:50.500
out of the blue, all right?

644
00:29:50.500 --> 00:29:55.500
So we're going to, hang on one sec.

645
00:29:55.900 --> 00:29:57.900
Sorry, it's so hard to do this from my phone you guys,

646
00:29:57.900 --> 00:30:00.180
but we just got to roll with it.

647
00:30:00.000 --> 00:30:14.000
Let's get a lady going.

648
00:30:14.000 --> 00:30:19.000
We removed James, now let's get a lady going.

649
00:30:19.000 --> 00:30:22.000
Lauren, do you pronounce your name Lauren or Loren?

650
00:30:22.000 --> 00:30:25.000
Same way as your name.

651
00:30:25.000 --> 00:30:28.000
So Lauren and Loren, you live in Florida?

652
00:30:28.000 --> 00:30:31.000
Yes, I'm in Santa Rosa Beach, Florida.

653
00:30:31.000 --> 00:30:35.000
Yeah, you were just where I just was, and we didn't get a chance to connect.

654
00:30:35.000 --> 00:30:39.000
So okay, so Lauren, tell us, how old are you?

655
00:30:39.000 --> 00:30:44.000
Kind of give us a little preview of what you do, what you like to do,

656
00:30:44.000 --> 00:30:52.000
and then also some relationship history.

657
00:30:52.000 --> 00:30:57.000
Oh, you're muted though.

658
00:30:57.000 --> 00:30:58.000
Can you hear me now?

659
00:30:58.000 --> 00:30:59.000
Mm-hmm.

660
00:30:59.000 --> 00:31:01.000
Okay, sorry.

661
00:31:01.000 --> 00:31:06.000
I'm 41, never been married, don't have kids.

662
00:31:06.000 --> 00:31:12.000
I work for a home health care company, and then I do photography on the side.

663
00:31:12.000 --> 00:31:15.000
Oh, what kind of photography?

664
00:31:15.000 --> 00:31:22.000
Mainly a lot of families that come here to visit, and then weddings and couples too.

665
00:31:22.000 --> 00:31:23.000
Awesome.

666
00:31:23.000 --> 00:31:26.000
Okay, well, that's good to know for when we have our next retreat down there,

667
00:31:26.000 --> 00:31:28.000
because we did hire a photographer.

668
00:31:28.000 --> 00:31:30.000
So good to know that you're there.

669
00:31:30.000 --> 00:31:36.000
All right, and so no children, never been married, and what do you –

670
00:31:36.000 --> 00:31:40.000
so obviously you're creative, you like photography, home health.

671
00:31:40.000 --> 00:31:45.000
Well, what else do you like to do for fun besides photography?

672
00:31:45.000 --> 00:31:49.000
We have some really great state parks around here that I like to go to,

673
00:31:49.000 --> 00:31:51.000
to walk for exercise.

674
00:31:51.000 --> 00:31:57.000
And then I lead a women's group, sorry, with one of my friends.

675
00:31:57.000 --> 00:32:00.000
And then I'm involved with church.

676
00:32:00.000 --> 00:32:03.000
Okay, what do you guys do in your women's group?

677
00:32:03.000 --> 00:32:09.000
Right now we are studying a series called Ribology from Charlotte Gamble.

678
00:32:09.000 --> 00:32:10.000
Okay.

679
00:32:10.000 --> 00:32:12.000
I'm sorry, what was the name of it?

680
00:32:12.000 --> 00:32:14.000
Ribology.

681
00:32:14.000 --> 00:32:17.000
What is that?

682
00:32:17.000 --> 00:32:18.000
Ribology.

683
00:32:18.000 --> 00:32:22.000
It's basically about the woman's role as the rib.

684
00:32:22.000 --> 00:32:24.000
Okay.

685
00:32:24.000 --> 00:32:26.000
Ribology, y'all.

686
00:32:26.000 --> 00:32:28.000
Rib, like a rib.

687
00:32:28.000 --> 00:32:29.000
Okay.

688
00:32:29.000 --> 00:32:30.000
All right, cool.

689
00:32:30.000 --> 00:32:31.000
Awesome.

690
00:32:31.000 --> 00:32:33.000
Okay, well, that sounds fun.

691
00:32:33.000 --> 00:32:34.000
Let's see.

692
00:32:34.000 --> 00:32:35.000
Ladies, gentlemen,

693
00:32:35.000 --> 00:32:39.000
anyone have any questions that we could just kind of dig in a little bit with

694
00:32:39.000 --> 00:32:40.000
Lauren?

695
00:32:40.000 --> 00:32:42.000
I did not do that at the beginning.

696
00:32:42.000 --> 00:32:47.000
I should have, but.

697
00:32:47.000 --> 00:32:48.000
All right, let's see.

698
00:32:48.000 --> 00:32:52.000
People are like, you look gorgeous.

699
00:32:52.000 --> 00:32:56.000
Tell us about your tattoos is the question.

700
00:32:56.000 --> 00:32:58.000
Yes.

701
00:32:58.000 --> 00:33:02.000
They're there.

702
00:33:03.000 --> 00:33:04.000
I don't know.

703
00:33:04.000 --> 00:33:07.000
I really wish I could shed them.

704
00:33:07.000 --> 00:33:11.000
Like a snake, but.

705
00:33:11.000 --> 00:33:15.000
Yeah, they're a product of my early thirties.

706
00:33:15.000 --> 00:33:16.000
So that happens.

707
00:33:16.000 --> 00:33:21.000
We all have them.

708
00:33:21.000 --> 00:33:23.000
So you're like they were meaningful then,

709
00:33:23.000 --> 00:33:24.000
but they're not so meaningful now.

710
00:33:24.000 --> 00:33:25.000
Yes.

711
00:33:25.000 --> 00:33:26.000
Gotcha.

712
00:33:26.000 --> 00:33:28.000
Well, just so you know, it's super painful,

713
00:33:28.000 --> 00:33:29.000
but you can get them removed.

714
00:33:29.000 --> 00:33:30.000
Okay.

715
00:33:30.000 --> 00:33:31.000
All right.

716
00:33:31.000 --> 00:33:32.000
Awesome.

717
00:33:32.000 --> 00:33:34.000
Thank you so much.

718
00:33:34.000 --> 00:33:35.000
I'm just kidding.

719
00:33:35.000 --> 00:33:36.000
I'm just joking.

720
00:33:36.000 --> 00:33:41.000
Okay.

721
00:33:41.000 --> 00:33:43.000
Melissa Don wants to know what makes you come alive.

722
00:33:43.000 --> 00:33:47.000
So what do you just absolutely love?

723
00:33:47.000 --> 00:33:50.000
I absolutely love just connecting with other women.

724
00:33:50.000 --> 00:33:58.000
That's probably my favorite.

725
00:33:59.000 --> 00:34:02.000
Yeah.

726
00:34:02.000 --> 00:34:05.000
I think that's one of the top things, just connecting with others.

727
00:34:05.000 --> 00:34:07.000
And then of course, photography too.

728
00:34:07.000 --> 00:34:09.000
Photographing weddings is probably one of my top.

729
00:34:09.000 --> 00:34:12.000
Top things that I love too.

730
00:34:12.000 --> 00:34:14.000
Awesome. And are you interested in having children?

731
00:34:14.000 --> 00:34:16.000
I'm open to it. Yes.

732
00:34:16.000 --> 00:34:19.000
Open to it. Okay.

733
00:34:19.000 --> 00:34:20.000
Let's see. How tall are you?

734
00:34:20.000 --> 00:34:24.000
I'm five too.

735
00:34:24.000 --> 00:34:26.000
Okay. All the fun size girls are showing up tonight.

736
00:34:26.000 --> 00:34:27.000
All right.

737
00:34:27.000 --> 00:34:28.000
I'm not sure if you wanted to.

738
00:34:28.000 --> 00:34:29.000
I'm not sure if you wanted to.

739
00:34:29.000 --> 00:34:30.000
I'm not sure if you wanted to.

740
00:34:30.000 --> 00:34:32.000
I'll put the restrictions there. So that's good.

741
00:34:32.000 --> 00:34:37.000
All right, let me see.

742
00:34:37.000 --> 00:34:39.000
Let me just check and make sure that there's no other questions you

743
00:34:39.000 --> 00:34:41.000
guys, if you want to meet, if you want to meet Lauren.

744
00:34:41.000 --> 00:34:44.000
Then you can put her name and Florida.

745
00:34:44.000 --> 00:34:46.000
In the subject line of your email.

746
00:34:46.000 --> 00:34:48.000
If you know someone, she should meet ladies.

747
00:34:48.000 --> 00:34:50.000
If you want to matchmake her with someone that you know,

748
00:34:50.000 --> 00:34:55.000
gentlemen that are watching here live or in replay.

749
00:34:56.000 --> 00:34:58.000
All right.

750
00:34:58.000 --> 00:35:01.000
So with that, we will just.

751
00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:03.240
Okay, because we don't have time to go looking you up.

752
00:35:03.240 --> 00:35:06.360
All right, people are like,

753
00:35:06.360 --> 00:35:09.200
hey, why don't we just match make Lauren and James?

754
00:35:09.200 --> 00:35:11.120
Okay, all right, fun, fun.

755
00:35:11.120 --> 00:35:14.160
Okay, so let's move on here.

756
00:35:18.440 --> 00:35:20.060
Thank you so much, Lauren.

757
00:35:20.060 --> 00:35:23.240
Okay, ladies are being good sports tonight,

758
00:35:23.240 --> 00:35:27.960
just letting me put them into the spotlight.

759
00:35:27.960 --> 00:35:32.960
Okay, and next up we have another eligible bachelor,

760
00:35:33.520 --> 00:35:37.560
Joel Noah, Fort Myers got Florida in the house tonight.

761
00:35:37.560 --> 00:35:41.280
Okay, so Joel, you are spotlighted.

762
00:35:41.280 --> 00:35:45.480
You know the drill by now, so tell us where you're from.

763
00:35:45.480 --> 00:35:47.800
We can see Fort Myers, but are you from Florida

764
00:35:47.800 --> 00:35:50.960
or did you just move there because you like the weather

765
00:35:50.960 --> 00:35:52.600
and then what do you do for a living?

766
00:35:52.600 --> 00:35:53.440
How old are you?

767
00:35:54.360 --> 00:35:56.120
So I'm mostly from Florida.

768
00:35:56.960 --> 00:35:59.000
I was born in Pennsylvania,

769
00:35:59.000 --> 00:36:02.880
but over the course of education and moving places,

770
00:36:02.880 --> 00:36:04.240
I'm mostly from Florida,

771
00:36:04.240 --> 00:36:06.880
but I've been in Fort Myers for 10 years.

772
00:36:06.880 --> 00:36:07.720
Okay.

773
00:36:07.720 --> 00:36:09.000
I'm a veterinarian.

774
00:36:09.000 --> 00:36:12.800
I am almost 36.

775
00:36:12.800 --> 00:36:17.520
And does that answer everything you just asked?

776
00:36:17.520 --> 00:36:18.480
Yeah, I think so.

777
00:36:18.480 --> 00:36:19.960
But now that you're a veterinarian,

778
00:36:19.960 --> 00:36:21.840
I have all kinds of questions.

779
00:36:21.840 --> 00:36:26.200
Okay, so like large animals to small animals,

780
00:36:26.200 --> 00:36:29.040
like what's the craziest thing you've ever seen

781
00:36:29.040 --> 00:36:31.600
an animal eat and survive?

782
00:36:32.840 --> 00:36:34.280
We don't want to hear any sad stories

783
00:36:34.280 --> 00:36:35.680
because we love animals.

784
00:36:35.680 --> 00:36:40.680
Yeah, craziest thing I've seen an animal eat.

785
00:36:42.000 --> 00:36:43.760
That you've had to remove, but it made it.

786
00:36:43.760 --> 00:36:45.080
Yeah, yeah.

787
00:36:47.160 --> 00:36:49.320
Well, it's not particularly crazy,

788
00:36:49.320 --> 00:36:53.680
but I've removed some little toy figurines

789
00:36:54.600 --> 00:36:56.040
from animals before.

790
00:36:56.040 --> 00:36:58.800
So it's a little interesting to pull

791
00:36:58.800 --> 00:37:02.800
like a tiny little miniaturized human out of an animal.

792
00:37:02.800 --> 00:37:04.720
It's like, why did you eat that?

793
00:37:04.720 --> 00:37:05.720
What were you thinking?

794
00:37:05.720 --> 00:37:07.800
What's happening here?

795
00:37:07.800 --> 00:37:11.520
So yes, we love, love, love animals, don't we ladies?

796
00:37:11.520 --> 00:37:13.520
Okay, so what made you want to be a veterinarian?

797
00:37:13.520 --> 00:37:15.560
Did you always just love animals?

798
00:37:15.560 --> 00:37:17.040
So ever since I was little,

799
00:37:17.040 --> 00:37:19.240
I had wanted to be a veterinarian

800
00:37:20.040 --> 00:37:22.000
and my parents had kind of encouraged that in me.

801
00:37:22.000 --> 00:37:26.160
But as I grew up, the thing that sort of solidified that

802
00:37:26.160 --> 00:37:29.120
for me was being able to help people and animals

803
00:37:29.120 --> 00:37:32.160
because I know that helping a person's animal

804
00:37:32.160 --> 00:37:34.800
can really make a huge impact on their life.

805
00:37:34.800 --> 00:37:36.960
And so that was something that really drew me

806
00:37:36.960 --> 00:37:40.280
into the field as I matured and got older.

807
00:37:40.280 --> 00:37:41.320
Gosh, that's so true.

808
00:37:41.320 --> 00:37:44.280
It's such a kingdom job because for a lot of people,

809
00:37:44.280 --> 00:37:45.920
they're animals, are their family,

810
00:37:45.960 --> 00:37:49.360
they're their fur children, so to speak.

811
00:37:49.360 --> 00:37:53.440
So yes, that is a very, that's a ministry for sure.

812
00:37:53.440 --> 00:37:54.920
So, okay, love that.

813
00:37:54.920 --> 00:37:58.120
So Fort Myers, beautiful area, moved down from Pennsylvania.

814
00:37:58.120 --> 00:37:59.960
Okay, what do you like to do for fun?

815
00:38:00.880 --> 00:38:02.760
So I like all kinds of things,

816
00:38:02.760 --> 00:38:06.120
anything outdoors or science and nature related.

817
00:38:06.120 --> 00:38:09.760
So paddle boarding, kayaking, hiking,

818
00:38:09.760 --> 00:38:11.760
anything with the ocean,

819
00:38:11.760 --> 00:38:14.200
anything science and nature.

820
00:38:14.200 --> 00:38:16.360
I love growing things.

821
00:38:16.360 --> 00:38:21.360
I like collecting fossils and old things like books.

822
00:38:21.880 --> 00:38:25.560
And of course I love animals, work with my own animals.

823
00:38:25.560 --> 00:38:29.640
And then I also get to the privilege of volunteering

824
00:38:29.640 --> 00:38:32.160
with the local sea turtle monitoring program.

825
00:38:32.160 --> 00:38:34.160
So I get to do that once a week

826
00:38:34.160 --> 00:38:35.760
during sea turtle nesting season.

827
00:38:35.760 --> 00:38:37.760
So that's a lot of fun.

828
00:38:37.760 --> 00:38:40.360
So you get to like monitor like the nests,

829
00:38:41.000 --> 00:38:42.440
are you like, are you present

830
00:38:42.440 --> 00:38:45.240
when they start making their way to the sea?

831
00:38:45.240 --> 00:38:47.760
So most of the time, no.

832
00:38:47.760 --> 00:38:50.280
So what I'll do is I'll drive down

833
00:38:50.280 --> 00:38:53.760
and interpret the marks on the beach.

834
00:38:53.760 --> 00:38:56.280
And if it's a nest, I'll mark off the nest.

835
00:38:56.280 --> 00:39:00.800
And then the coolest part comes after they've hatched,

836
00:39:00.800 --> 00:39:03.680
then you get to go and dig it up

837
00:39:03.680 --> 00:39:06.240
and see how many have hatched and how many made it.

838
00:39:06.240 --> 00:39:09.840
And occasionally you get a few stragglers that pop up

839
00:39:09.840 --> 00:39:10.680
when that happens.

840
00:39:10.680 --> 00:39:12.360
So that's always pretty fun.

841
00:39:12.360 --> 00:39:14.760
Oh my gosh, that sounds so fun.

842
00:39:14.760 --> 00:39:17.120
I've seen sea turtle nests on the beach before

843
00:39:17.120 --> 00:39:18.080
when I've been traveling

844
00:39:18.080 --> 00:39:19.640
and I thought that that was pretty cool.

845
00:39:19.640 --> 00:39:20.600
So that's awesome.

846
00:39:20.600 --> 00:39:22.200
Okay, ladies, we know that you have questions.

847
00:39:22.200 --> 00:39:25.120
So go ahead and start firing away

848
00:39:25.120 --> 00:39:29.200
and we will ask the questions.

849
00:39:31.120 --> 00:39:32.520
Pets, pets, pets.

850
00:39:33.560 --> 00:39:34.640
Yes, have you ever been married?

851
00:39:34.640 --> 00:39:35.480
Do you have any kids?

852
00:39:35.480 --> 00:39:36.320
Do you want them?

853
00:39:37.320 --> 00:39:38.680
Never married, no kids.

854
00:39:38.680 --> 00:39:40.160
And I do want kids.

855
00:39:40.160 --> 00:39:42.640
That's actually pretty important to me, so.

856
00:39:43.680 --> 00:39:45.760
Okay, guys, that's part of his non-negotiables.

857
00:39:45.760 --> 00:39:46.960
Definitely wants that.

858
00:39:48.040 --> 00:39:49.200
We already, he already told us

859
00:39:49.200 --> 00:39:50.840
what he likes to do outside in Florida.

860
00:39:50.840 --> 00:39:53.240
What other questions, ladies, do you have?

861
00:39:55.000 --> 00:39:58.280
Loves anything science-related, outdoor-related.

862
00:39:59.360 --> 00:40:00.200
That's all.

863
00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:00.840
Good.

864
00:40:07.360 --> 00:40:09.400
All right, so someone is asking

865
00:40:09.400 --> 00:40:11.080
if you're willing to relocate

866
00:40:12.040 --> 00:40:14.920
or if Florida is where you wanna stay.

867
00:40:14.920 --> 00:40:16.760
Yeah, so I definitely wanna stay,

868
00:40:16.760 --> 00:40:18.120
well, I wanna stay here.

869
00:40:18.120 --> 00:40:20.200
I have some pretty deep roots here.

870
00:40:20.200 --> 00:40:24.560
The job I'm at, I have been at since I graduated that school

871
00:40:24.560 --> 00:40:27.880
so a decade now, and they're like a second family to me.

872
00:40:27.880 --> 00:40:30.560
And I also have family here as well.

873
00:40:30.560 --> 00:40:35.560
And then I also have some childhood history here.

874
00:40:36.520 --> 00:40:37.960
And then we used to always come

875
00:40:37.960 --> 00:40:40.960
and vacation to Sanibel Island, which is-

876
00:40:40.960 --> 00:40:41.800
Oh, yeah.

877
00:40:41.800 --> 00:40:42.960
Right here, yeah.

878
00:40:42.960 --> 00:40:44.600
Yeah, Sanibel Island.

879
00:40:44.600 --> 00:40:45.800
Yeah, I'm pretty deep.

880
00:40:45.800 --> 00:40:48.120
That's actually where I do the sea turtle monitoring,

881
00:40:48.120 --> 00:40:50.400
but I'm pretty deeply rooted here.

882
00:40:50.400 --> 00:40:52.200
But I am open to long distance,

883
00:40:52.200 --> 00:40:54.240
but I would say Florida is so big

884
00:40:54.240 --> 00:40:58.320
that I would just probably geographically limit that

885
00:40:58.320 --> 00:41:03.320
to Florida just because Pensacola is like a nine-hour drive

886
00:41:03.400 --> 00:41:05.120
and Jacksonville is like a six-hour drive.

887
00:41:05.120 --> 00:41:10.120
So I'm all the way down in the southwest corner, so.

888
00:41:10.680 --> 00:41:12.040
Yeah, that makes sense.

889
00:41:12.040 --> 00:41:14.800
Okay, so he's rooted, you guys, in Florida,

890
00:41:14.800 --> 00:41:16.480
wants to stay in that area, makes sense.

891
00:41:16.480 --> 00:41:17.520
His practice is there.

892
00:41:17.520 --> 00:41:19.120
He's a doctor, he's a vet.

893
00:41:19.120 --> 00:41:24.000
So that's not easy to rebuild those types of relationships.

894
00:41:24.760 --> 00:41:27.720
Those are very relational jobs in the community.

895
00:41:27.720 --> 00:41:29.520
And so building the trust of community.

896
00:41:29.520 --> 00:41:31.160
And so, yeah.

897
00:41:31.160 --> 00:41:33.960
So if you are interested in,

898
00:41:33.960 --> 00:41:37.440
if you're in the greater Florida regions

899
00:41:37.440 --> 00:41:39.720
and you're interested in getting to know Joel

900
00:41:39.720 --> 00:41:41.360
or you know someone who should be interested

901
00:41:41.360 --> 00:41:42.280
in getting to know him,

902
00:41:42.280 --> 00:41:45.160
you can put Joel in the subject line, Florida,

903
00:41:45.160 --> 00:41:48.720
Joel, Florida, spotlight at jmedia.org.

904
00:41:48.720 --> 00:41:51.680
Don't forget, bio pictures, gotta have them.

905
00:41:51.680 --> 00:41:53.400
All right, Joel, thank you so much

906
00:41:53.400 --> 00:41:55.040
for spotlighting tonight.

907
00:41:55.040 --> 00:41:56.720
Really appreciate it.

908
00:41:56.720 --> 00:41:58.920
Guys, we have a lot of never married,

909
00:41:58.920 --> 00:42:00.880
no kids spotlights tonight.

910
00:42:00.880 --> 00:42:02.920
So if you're in that boat

911
00:42:02.920 --> 00:42:04.160
and you felt like you were all alone

912
00:42:04.160 --> 00:42:05.600
and everyone else has been married

913
00:42:05.600 --> 00:42:07.840
and possibly divorced, has children, all the things,

914
00:42:07.840 --> 00:42:09.320
it's just not true.

915
00:42:09.320 --> 00:42:11.120
Because so far tonight,

916
00:42:11.120 --> 00:42:13.640
that is kind of what we've been rolling with

917
00:42:13.640 --> 00:42:14.920
for the most part.

918
00:42:14.920 --> 00:42:16.320
Okay, all right.

919
00:42:16.320 --> 00:42:18.800
Okay, so let's see.

920
00:42:18.800 --> 00:42:21.920
I also wanted to spotlight,

921
00:42:23.200 --> 00:42:24.680
I had a couple other ladies on here

922
00:42:24.680 --> 00:42:25.800
that I was gonna spotlight,

923
00:42:25.800 --> 00:42:26.760
but now they've disappeared.

924
00:42:26.760 --> 00:42:28.760
I think they're running from me.

925
00:42:28.760 --> 00:42:31.080
I think they're trying to get away.

926
00:42:31.080 --> 00:42:33.080
All right, I'm gonna get Stephanie up

927
00:42:33.080 --> 00:42:34.200
because I see her.

928
00:42:34.200 --> 00:42:36.840
You can run, but you cannot hide, my friend.

929
00:42:36.840 --> 00:42:38.280
Okay, spotlight.

930
00:42:39.400 --> 00:42:41.120
All right, Stephanie,

931
00:42:41.120 --> 00:42:43.200
I know you weren't expecting to be spotlighted,

932
00:42:43.200 --> 00:42:45.240
but here you are, you look great.

933
00:42:45.240 --> 00:42:47.960
Tell us who you are, where you are,

934
00:42:47.960 --> 00:42:48.920
how old you are,

935
00:42:48.920 --> 00:42:51.120
and give us some relationship history.

936
00:42:51.120 --> 00:42:52.280
Okay, hey, Jackie.

937
00:42:53.360 --> 00:42:55.120
I am 34 years old.

938
00:42:55.120 --> 00:42:57.760
I'm in Grand Rapids, Michigan.

939
00:42:57.760 --> 00:42:59.440
No kids, never married.

940
00:42:59.440 --> 00:43:01.600
Oh, but I'm also, I'm open to relocating.

941
00:43:01.600 --> 00:43:03.760
In fact, I feel like I sense

942
00:43:03.760 --> 00:43:06.760
that God is gonna plant me somewhere else soon.

943
00:43:06.760 --> 00:43:10.080
So I'm open to that, yeah.

944
00:43:11.280 --> 00:43:13.760
All right, Stephanie's in Grand Rapids, Michigan.

945
00:43:13.760 --> 00:43:17.840
She's 35, never married, wants kids, no kids now.

946
00:43:18.760 --> 00:43:20.800
I'm sorry, how much?

947
00:43:20.800 --> 00:43:23.080
Actually, I'll be 34 in a couple of days.

948
00:43:23.080 --> 00:43:25.320
I aged you, I'm so sorry.

949
00:43:25.320 --> 00:43:29.640
Okay, all right, and so what do you do for a living?

950
00:43:29.640 --> 00:43:32.560
Vocation, and also, what do you do for fun?

951
00:43:32.560 --> 00:43:34.720
Yeah, so I'm a counselor.

952
00:43:34.720 --> 00:43:37.520
I have a practice here in Grand Rapids,

953
00:43:37.520 --> 00:43:42.520
and for fun, I love hiking, being outdoors, reading.

954
00:43:44.360 --> 00:43:46.320
I'm working on a, I'm almost done

955
00:43:46.320 --> 00:43:49.000
with a fitness certification to be a fitness instructor.

956
00:43:49.000 --> 00:43:51.080
From a word you gave, Jackie.

957
00:43:51.080 --> 00:43:53.520
Awesome, I love it.

958
00:43:53.520 --> 00:43:57.800
Yes, I'm also, love gardening.

959
00:43:57.800 --> 00:44:00.960
I'm a little bit crunchy, so I love natural health.

960
00:44:03.080 --> 00:44:05.320
Like, I make my own deodorant and all that.

961
00:44:05.320 --> 00:44:07.960
And no, no one's ever told me I smell before.

962
00:44:07.960 --> 00:44:08.800
Oh, I love it.

963
00:44:08.800 --> 00:44:10.240
What do you make it out of?

964
00:44:11.640 --> 00:44:14.280
Coconut oil, arrowroot powder.

965
00:44:15.280 --> 00:44:17.600
Uh, there's one other ingredient.

966
00:44:17.600 --> 00:44:18.840
I'm blanking right now, but.

967
00:44:18.840 --> 00:44:20.520
Magnesium?

968
00:44:20.520 --> 00:44:22.000
No.

969
00:44:22.000 --> 00:44:23.960
Think that would make you tired, though.

970
00:44:26.320 --> 00:44:28.560
Yeah, okay, she makes her own deodorant, y'all.

971
00:44:28.560 --> 00:44:30.200
She smells great.

972
00:44:30.200 --> 00:44:32.520
Okay, so people are asking how tall you are.

973
00:44:32.520 --> 00:44:34.120
You have a bunch of hype girls in the comments.

974
00:44:34.120 --> 00:44:36.000
They're like, Stephanie, yeah.

975
00:44:36.000 --> 00:44:40.040
Okay, so how tall are you for some reason?

976
00:44:40.040 --> 00:44:41.640
Gwen wants to know.

977
00:44:41.640 --> 00:44:43.560
Five five, I'm a good day.

978
00:44:43.600 --> 00:44:47.240
Okay, so she's a little over average height.

979
00:44:47.240 --> 00:44:50.880
We have a taller, taller one here, five five.

980
00:44:50.880 --> 00:44:54.000
Okay, so let's see.

981
00:44:54.000 --> 00:44:56.800
And she does feel, she's willing to relocate.

982
00:44:56.800 --> 00:45:00.200
She does feel like that might be in God's plan for her.

983
00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:03.000
Grand Rapids is a beautiful area though, Michigan.

984
00:45:03.000 --> 00:45:06.720
I will concede that Michigan is beautiful, okay,

985
00:45:06.720 --> 00:45:08.160
because it is.

986
00:45:08.160 --> 00:45:09.920
All right, family, you know,

987
00:45:09.920 --> 00:45:12.000
and everyone who's been spotlighted,

988
00:45:12.000 --> 00:45:14.360
and really everybody, if you have siblings,

989
00:45:14.360 --> 00:45:15.760
let's see it in the chat.

990
00:45:15.760 --> 00:45:17.520
If you're an only child, let's see that.

991
00:45:17.520 --> 00:45:20.560
So Stephanie, all the people that have spotlighted already,

992
00:45:20.560 --> 00:45:22.760
let's see, you know, and if you do have siblings,

993
00:45:22.760 --> 00:45:24.320
just be like, I'm the oldest child,

994
00:45:24.320 --> 00:45:25.840
two brothers, two sisters, whatever.

995
00:45:25.840 --> 00:45:26.800
Let's just see that,

996
00:45:26.800 --> 00:45:29.240
because that really does make a difference.

997
00:45:29.280 --> 00:45:30.720
It really does.

998
00:45:30.720 --> 00:45:34.640
Only children have a lot of trouble sharing, okay?

999
00:45:34.640 --> 00:45:36.360
I'm married to an only child,

1000
00:45:36.360 --> 00:45:38.880
and I'll like go in my husband's closet,

1001
00:45:38.880 --> 00:45:40.080
and I'll take a pair of his socks,

1002
00:45:40.080 --> 00:45:43.120
or something like, hey, those are mine.

1003
00:45:43.120 --> 00:45:47.040
And I'm like, so, so what?

1004
00:45:47.040 --> 00:45:50.560
Okay, so Sibs, and where are your parents?

1005
00:45:50.560 --> 00:45:51.400
Are they alive?

1006
00:45:51.400 --> 00:45:53.000
Where are your family?

1007
00:45:53.000 --> 00:45:57.000
Yes, so my parents are outside of Detroit area.

1008
00:45:57.240 --> 00:46:00.600
I have one younger brother, he's in Dallas, Texas.

1009
00:46:02.160 --> 00:46:04.720
And I think, yeah, my parents,

1010
00:46:04.720 --> 00:46:07.120
they're doing a little bit of caretaking

1011
00:46:07.120 --> 00:46:09.520
for a couple of grandparents that are alive,

1012
00:46:09.520 --> 00:46:13.680
but I think they are like not necessarily

1013
00:46:13.680 --> 00:46:16.720
gonna stay in Michigan long-term, so.

1014
00:46:16.720 --> 00:46:18.800
Okay, all right.

1015
00:46:18.800 --> 00:46:21.040
James, she's kind of almost from your hometown,

1016
00:46:21.040 --> 00:46:25.560
so, you know, got some roots, there you go.

1017
00:46:25.560 --> 00:46:27.480
All right, so let's see if,

1018
00:46:27.480 --> 00:46:31.960
I just wanna see if anyone else, all right.

1019
00:46:35.400 --> 00:46:36.720
Got a lot of people in there.

1020
00:46:36.720 --> 00:46:37.640
Is it your birthday?

1021
00:46:37.640 --> 00:46:40.120
Why are people saying happy birthday?

1022
00:46:40.120 --> 00:46:41.960
Oh, in a few days, it is.

1023
00:46:41.960 --> 00:46:42.800
Okay.

1024
00:46:42.800 --> 00:46:45.840
I think I mentioned a few days, I'm turning 34.

1025
00:46:45.840 --> 00:46:50.040
Okay, awesome, happy birthday.

1026
00:46:50.040 --> 00:46:50.880
Thank you.

1027
00:46:51.760 --> 00:46:54.440
All right, lots of people in there

1028
00:46:54.440 --> 00:46:58.320
saying that give it up for the middle children, woo-hoo.

1029
00:46:58.320 --> 00:47:02.800
Okay, we have lots of oldest children, youngest children.

1030
00:47:07.440 --> 00:47:08.360
Yeah, so I'm just looking through.

1031
00:47:08.360 --> 00:47:11.600
We have a few, just a few only children.

1032
00:47:11.600 --> 00:47:13.680
You guys, just because we had Joel tonight,

1033
00:47:13.680 --> 00:47:15.880
if you have a pet, what would you like to know?

1034
00:47:15.880 --> 00:47:18.400
Is it a dog, is it a cat, is it a parakeet,

1035
00:47:18.400 --> 00:47:22.080
is it a turtle, a ferret, a snake, God forbid?

1036
00:47:22.080 --> 00:47:24.520
I had one student, she had like tons of snakes

1037
00:47:24.520 --> 00:47:27.360
and I was really scared all the time.

1038
00:47:27.360 --> 00:47:29.360
She'd come on like lives like this

1039
00:47:29.360 --> 00:47:30.960
and she'd have the snakes.

1040
00:47:31.880 --> 00:47:33.640
It's like, I don't know what we're doing here,

1041
00:47:33.640 --> 00:47:35.920
but I don't like it.

1042
00:47:35.920 --> 00:47:40.160
So, but yeah, put up in the comments if you have a pet

1043
00:47:40.160 --> 00:47:42.320
and if you do, what type of pet

1044
00:47:42.320 --> 00:47:44.800
because inquiring minds wanna know.

1045
00:47:44.800 --> 00:47:48.320
All right, so Stephanie, you like outdoor stuff.

1046
00:47:48.320 --> 00:47:50.260
You're crunchy, as you can say.

1047
00:47:50.300 --> 00:47:52.060
People are like, she's a prayer warrior too.

1048
00:47:52.060 --> 00:47:54.820
So people, you got a lot of hype friends

1049
00:47:54.820 --> 00:47:56.940
in the comments right now.

1050
00:47:56.940 --> 00:48:00.180
She's 5'5", she's 34 almost,

1051
00:48:00.180 --> 00:48:05.180
and she is right now in Michigan, Grand Rapids,

1052
00:48:05.420 --> 00:48:09.580
but she is willing to move for love,

1053
00:48:09.580 --> 00:48:11.060
to move wherever God has her.

1054
00:48:11.060 --> 00:48:13.060
And so that's awesome.

1055
00:48:13.060 --> 00:48:16.060
All right, thank you so much for being here with us.

1056
00:48:16.980 --> 00:48:18.100
Thanks, Trent.

1057
00:48:18.100 --> 00:48:18.940
Yep.

1058
00:48:21.260 --> 00:48:23.460
All right, I'm coming for you, Thomas.

1059
00:48:23.460 --> 00:48:24.300
Get ready.

1060
00:48:25.160 --> 00:48:26.900
Get ready, sir.

1061
00:48:26.900 --> 00:48:27.980
Okay.

1062
00:48:27.980 --> 00:48:29.780
Okay, remove spotlight.

1063
00:48:31.820 --> 00:48:32.660
All right.

1064
00:48:34.020 --> 00:48:35.540
Don't charge, just having fun.

1065
00:48:35.540 --> 00:48:36.380
So fun.

1066
00:48:37.340 --> 00:48:38.180
Right.

1067
00:48:39.900 --> 00:48:42.420
All right, Thomas is here.

1068
00:48:42.420 --> 00:48:44.220
Thomas is fun and he's funny

1069
00:48:44.220 --> 00:48:47.260
and he's been part of the men's group for some time now

1070
00:48:47.260 --> 00:48:49.260
and it's time to marry him off.

1071
00:48:49.260 --> 00:48:50.780
So tonight's the night.

1072
00:48:50.780 --> 00:48:51.620
Right, ladies?

1073
00:48:51.620 --> 00:48:54.460
Okay, so Thomas, tell us where you are

1074
00:48:54.460 --> 00:48:57.140
and just a little bit about yourself,

1075
00:48:57.140 --> 00:49:00.700
your age, where you come from, what you do,

1076
00:49:00.700 --> 00:49:01.980
just anything you want to share.

1077
00:49:01.980 --> 00:49:03.500
Salient details.

1078
00:49:03.500 --> 00:49:05.060
Yes, salient details.

1079
00:49:06.140 --> 00:49:07.620
Oh, he's really good at puns.

1080
00:49:07.620 --> 00:49:08.460
He's really good at pun.

1081
00:49:08.460 --> 00:49:09.460
He's very punny.

1082
00:49:09.460 --> 00:49:10.860
All right, go ahead.

1083
00:49:10.860 --> 00:49:12.860
Yeah, always looking for good pun pals.

1084
00:49:14.860 --> 00:49:16.740
Yes, I was born at a very young age.

1085
00:49:17.740 --> 00:49:20.220
I live in Los Angeles.

1086
00:49:21.620 --> 00:49:23.060
I was born in Northern California,

1087
00:49:23.060 --> 00:49:26.580
lived in Colorado from the age of nine to 22,

1088
00:49:27.660 --> 00:49:30.940
have lived in London and Paris and New York a little bit

1089
00:49:30.940 --> 00:49:35.060
and absolutely love culture and the arts.

1090
00:49:35.060 --> 00:49:38.260
I would say I have a background

1091
00:49:38.260 --> 00:49:42.060
of being radically religious and pharisaical

1092
00:49:42.060 --> 00:49:44.540
and Jesus setting me free from that.

1093
00:49:44.620 --> 00:49:47.860
And I am absolutely stunned and amazed

1094
00:49:47.860 --> 00:49:52.220
at how good God is and how wonderful my commotions are.

1095
00:49:52.220 --> 00:49:54.660
I was even raised believing that it was wrong to date

1096
00:49:54.660 --> 00:49:56.500
and wrong to court.

1097
00:49:56.500 --> 00:50:01.500
And so dating has been a wild, crazy thing.

1098
00:50:00.000 --> 00:50:05.520
the adventure and as much as I've wanted to be married since and my plan was to get engaged

1099
00:50:05.520 --> 00:50:10.520
to 21 and married at 22, I was very much not emotionally ready at that time. So I'm so

1100
00:50:10.520 --> 00:50:17.720
happy that God calls us to good things and then allows us to go through processes to

1101
00:50:17.720 --> 00:50:24.520
get ready for those good things. So my work, I work at UCLA, I lead the team that does

1102
00:50:24.520 --> 00:50:30.880
conflict resolution for the campus. So for over 88,000 people, so for the general campus

1103
00:50:30.880 --> 00:50:35.720
and then the health side. So I also worked with doctors and nurses and researchers and

1104
00:50:35.720 --> 00:50:41.640
all kinds of others that are having conflict with each other. Never married, no kids, looking

1105
00:50:41.640 --> 00:50:47.520
so forward to being a husband and a father. I think other questions that have tended to

1106
00:50:47.520 --> 00:50:54.880
come up are like what I do for fun. Aside from taking care of my two pet houseplants,

1107
00:50:54.880 --> 00:51:02.360
I love to read so much. I'm currently reading a book called The Fifth Discipline about systems

1108
00:51:02.360 --> 00:51:09.120
theory. I read the fairy queen for five minutes every day out loud, which is epic poetry from

1109
00:51:09.120 --> 00:51:14.160
the 16th century. It's absolutely stunningly wonderful. I love supernatural creativity.

1110
00:51:14.160 --> 00:51:20.320
I play keys on my church's worship team, I'm taking electric guitar lessons, getting back

1111
00:51:20.320 --> 00:51:26.640
into scuba diving, which I feel like is so spiritually meaningful for me to explore. I got

1112
00:51:26.640 --> 00:51:32.720
a really good pathetic word about living life like I'm exploring the ocean instead of trying

1113
00:51:32.720 --> 00:51:36.960
to pull a rabbit out of a hat. And ever since then, things have really, really been changing

1114
00:51:37.280 --> 00:51:42.800
in my life. So anyway, that's both a lot and just a little bit.

1115
00:51:44.400 --> 00:51:52.000
I love it. It's good. It's enough in a good way. But I'm sure ladies have more questions.

1116
00:51:52.960 --> 00:51:56.880
Ladies, what questions do you have? He doesn't have pets. He has houseplants.

1117
00:51:56.880 --> 00:52:01.920
Are you allergic to pets? Only emotionally allergic to some pets.

1118
00:52:02.800 --> 00:52:08.960
I mean, no, I'm not. I'm not physically allergic to pets. I am a big, big fan of

1119
00:52:10.240 --> 00:52:16.000
animals that care and act well, and a little bit less of it here in LA, we have a lot of kind of

1120
00:52:16.000 --> 00:52:22.000
like spoiled kind of pets that don't really have a lot of boundaries. So I'm a big fan of healthy

1121
00:52:22.000 --> 00:52:30.560
pet ownership. Awesome. I'm a big fan of clean houses that have animals because I just house

1122
00:52:30.560 --> 00:52:36.080
sat for someone, which is why I'm in Austin and David is still in California because I was like,

1123
00:52:36.080 --> 00:52:40.720
I can't take these dogs anymore. They stink so bad. They need a bath. They need a bath four

1124
00:52:40.720 --> 00:52:51.040
years ago. Okay. And so no. And I think that people get like animal smell blind. I know it's

1125
00:52:51.040 --> 00:52:55.200
like smell, but blind. Like they're just like, they don't know because they smell like dog

1126
00:52:55.200 --> 00:53:00.800
themselves. So they don't know that their dog smells or their cats or whatever. So no,

1127
00:53:00.800 --> 00:53:06.240
no, no for me. It's a no for me. I think a couple other questions that I'm seeing.

1128
00:53:07.040 --> 00:53:09.120
Yes. Thomas, go ahead. You, you take over.

1129
00:53:11.360 --> 00:53:16.880
Am I willing to relocate? I am. I had a supernatural dream where I felt like God

1130
00:53:16.880 --> 00:53:23.040
was encouraging me to be in California for now, but I don't think that that's necessarily forever.

1131
00:53:23.040 --> 00:53:29.520
So I feel like I'm, I'm led to be here for, for, for now, but I'm, I'm open if called

1132
00:53:29.520 --> 00:53:33.920
elsewhere. Like I spent the month of March in India and Pakistan and it was really

1133
00:53:33.920 --> 00:53:41.120
life-changing. Felt super great. And other tall, I'm six, one and a half.

1134
00:53:44.480 --> 00:53:49.680
And let's see here. Other questions. I don't think that we asked Joel how tall he was. Joel,

1135
00:53:49.680 --> 00:53:51.680
put how tall you are in the chat. Go ahead, Thomas.

1136
00:53:52.320 --> 00:53:56.880
Where would I like to go on vacation? Oh, I want to go everywhere. I mean, if I could,

1137
00:53:56.880 --> 00:54:02.400
if I could have my dream vacation, the international space station, that would be

1138
00:54:03.120 --> 00:54:08.080
like the best. If I could go up there for a couple months, like do some science experiments,

1139
00:54:08.080 --> 00:54:15.200
look at the galaxies. Wow. Okay. Two places that I absolutely do not ever want to go

1140
00:54:15.200 --> 00:54:20.960
is down in a sub and up in a rocket. So that's all you Thomas. Well, I'm glad you're already

1141
00:54:20.960 --> 00:54:28.400
married. Yes, that's good. Okay. So because we are not having anything in common, sir.

1142
00:54:29.040 --> 00:54:35.120
What about LA traffic? I mean, you know, it's not my favorite, but someone has to

1143
00:54:35.120 --> 00:54:40.240
love Los Angeles. And I feel like it's one of the biggest privileges of my entire life

1144
00:54:40.800 --> 00:54:46.240
to live here and try to love people here because there are so many people here just hungry for love.

1145
00:54:46.800 --> 00:54:51.600
It's so true. What part of LA do you live in? I live in Santa Monica, which is America. Oh gosh,

1146
00:54:51.600 --> 00:54:58.720
you live in a gorgeous area. It's so amazing. I love it so much. And my rent is $500 a month.

1147
00:55:00.000 --> 00:55:01.240
because of a miracle.

1148
00:55:01.240 --> 00:55:05.880
I prayed that God would help me pay off my student loans.

1149
00:55:05.880 --> 00:55:09.540
And then two weeks later, I got this incredible place.

1150
00:55:09.540 --> 00:55:10.600
It's amazing.

1151
00:55:10.600 --> 00:55:13.120
That is like unheard of.

1152
00:55:13.120 --> 00:55:14.840
Yeah, it's a miracle.

1153
00:55:14.840 --> 00:55:17.440
Yeah, how close are you to the beach?

1154
00:55:17.440 --> 00:55:19.400
I'm like 30 blocks.

1155
00:55:19.400 --> 00:55:20.240
Okay.

1156
00:55:20.240 --> 00:55:21.080
Not too bad, not too bad.

1157
00:55:21.080 --> 00:55:22.920
It's an easy 30 block walk.

1158
00:55:22.920 --> 00:55:24.040
I'm good.

1159
00:55:24.040 --> 00:55:24.880
Yeah.

1160
00:55:24.880 --> 00:55:26.080
So if you need someone to watch

1161
00:55:26.080 --> 00:55:29.600
your $500 a month apartment, then let me know.

1162
00:55:30.120 --> 00:55:32.880
Pakistan, why were you in Pakistan?

1163
00:55:32.880 --> 00:55:34.480
Oh, you know, I had worked

1164
00:55:34.480 --> 00:55:36.160
and done conflict resolution training

1165
00:55:36.160 --> 00:55:38.520
for people from India and Pakistan in the past,

1166
00:55:38.520 --> 00:55:39.840
along with some other countries.

1167
00:55:39.840 --> 00:55:42.240
And I was invited to a wedding in India.

1168
00:55:42.240 --> 00:55:45.320
And so I was like, I can't go there and not go to Pakistan.

1169
00:55:45.320 --> 00:55:47.440
So, you know, they used to be one country

1170
00:55:47.440 --> 00:55:50.520
and I feel like God's heart is so much for both places.

1171
00:55:50.520 --> 00:55:53.400
Pakistan, it means the land of the pure

1172
00:55:53.400 --> 00:55:55.040
and there's so much purity there.

1173
00:55:55.040 --> 00:55:57.240
It's just not devoted to Jesus yet.

1174
00:55:58.120 --> 00:56:01.480
Yet, yet, you guys, yet.

1175
00:56:01.480 --> 00:56:03.240
Wow, love that so much.

1176
00:56:03.240 --> 00:56:04.280
Loved hearing from you,

1177
00:56:04.280 --> 00:56:06.920
just hearing so much more from you, Thomas.

1178
00:56:06.920 --> 00:56:09.080
You know, this is rich stuff.

1179
00:56:09.080 --> 00:56:11.440
So ladies, if you want to know more about Thomas,

1180
00:56:11.440 --> 00:56:14.120
which I'm feeling like a lot of you will,

1181
00:56:14.120 --> 00:56:15.800
all of the men that have been spotlighted tonight,

1182
00:56:15.800 --> 00:56:18.280
all of the ladies that have been spotlighted tonight,

1183
00:56:18.280 --> 00:56:23.280
please, Thomas and California,

1184
00:56:23.360 --> 00:56:26.200
Callie, in the subject line of the email,

1185
00:56:26.200 --> 00:56:28.240
don't forget to include your information

1186
00:56:28.240 --> 00:56:30.080
and your pictures so that we can,

1187
00:56:30.080 --> 00:56:32.280
and tell us, guys, when you email into us,

1188
00:56:32.280 --> 00:56:34.640
tell us why you think that you should meet this person

1189
00:56:34.640 --> 00:56:36.480
or if you're actually trying to matchmake

1190
00:56:36.480 --> 00:56:39.800
someone else with them, why they should meet them.

1191
00:56:39.800 --> 00:56:42.000
Like, let us know that you listened

1192
00:56:42.000 --> 00:56:46.640
and you, you know, have an actual thing besides,

1193
00:56:46.640 --> 00:56:48.640
oh, hey, they're a guy, she's a girl,

1194
00:56:48.640 --> 00:56:49.720
maybe they should meet.

1195
00:56:49.720 --> 00:56:51.920
Okay, tell us more about why you think

1196
00:56:51.920 --> 00:56:53.640
that it would be a good match.

1197
00:56:53.640 --> 00:56:54.760
How old are you?

1198
00:56:54.760 --> 00:56:56.480
Did you say 44, right?

1199
00:56:56.480 --> 00:56:57.520
44, yep.

1200
00:56:57.520 --> 00:57:00.600
Yep, 44, that's the number of favor.

1201
00:57:00.600 --> 00:57:05.600
Okay, so he is 44 years old and wants children.

1202
00:57:05.960 --> 00:57:07.200
Did you say if you were open to people

1203
00:57:07.200 --> 00:57:08.040
that already have children?

1204
00:57:08.040 --> 00:57:10.600
I'm assuming that you're open to a multicultural match

1205
00:57:10.600 --> 00:57:14.360
since you're so cultural, like any color,

1206
00:57:14.360 --> 00:57:18.400
any from anywhere, any language kind of situation.

1207
00:57:18.400 --> 00:57:19.600
I'm just assuming.

1208
00:57:19.600 --> 00:57:24.600
I am open to anyone that my heart says yes to.

1209
00:57:24.760 --> 00:57:25.600
I love that.

1210
00:57:25.600 --> 00:57:29.120
And that I feel like God is giving a yes to.

1211
00:57:29.120 --> 00:57:34.120
And so absolutely, I recently felt like God encouraged me

1212
00:57:34.200 --> 00:57:36.440
to ask out someone who has a child

1213
00:57:36.440 --> 00:57:38.400
and that was kind of a new experience for me,

1214
00:57:38.400 --> 00:57:41.120
but it really helped me kind of sort through that

1215
00:57:41.120 --> 00:57:44.760
and be able to be in a place of saying, you know, yes,

1216
00:57:44.760 --> 00:57:48.840
like everyone needs like lovers and marriage partners,

1217
00:57:48.840 --> 00:57:51.760
not just people who haven't been through that experience.

1218
00:57:51.760 --> 00:57:54.200
Love it, you guys.

1219
00:57:54.200 --> 00:57:56.240
Thomas, you're awesome.

1220
00:57:56.240 --> 00:57:59.640
Okay, ladies, if you want to know more,

1221
00:57:59.640 --> 00:58:02.240
go ahead and let us help you.

1222
00:58:02.240 --> 00:58:03.080
Let us connect you.

1223
00:58:03.080 --> 00:58:04.200
Name all the West.

1224
00:58:04.200 --> 00:58:06.000
Yes, absolutely.

1225
00:58:06.000 --> 00:58:08.820
And we have, I hope we have another lady.

1226
00:58:10.400 --> 00:58:13.240
Please help me remember who you are.

1227
00:58:16.080 --> 00:58:19.360
Guys, such great, such great spotlights tonight.

1228
00:58:19.360 --> 00:58:24.160
All the men, all the women, such great spotlights.

1229
00:58:25.000 --> 00:58:25.840
Oh, it was Joan.

1230
00:58:25.840 --> 00:58:26.660
Is Joan hiding?

1231
00:58:26.660 --> 00:58:28.760
Joan, are you hiding from me?

1232
00:58:28.760 --> 00:58:29.600
Let me see.

1233
00:58:31.600 --> 00:58:32.440
All right.

1234
00:58:36.080 --> 00:58:37.200
Get your questions.

1235
00:58:37.200 --> 00:58:39.540
We'll do 15 minutes of Ask Jackie here.

1236
00:58:40.400 --> 00:58:41.560
I don't see Joan.

1237
00:58:41.560 --> 00:58:43.640
Can Joan raise her hand if she still wants to be,

1238
00:58:43.640 --> 00:58:45.000
if she wants to be spotlighted?

1239
00:58:45.000 --> 00:58:47.920
I don't want to put anyone on the spot

1240
00:58:47.920 --> 00:58:49.240
if they really don't want to be.

1241
00:58:49.240 --> 00:58:50.920
But if you do, raise your hand

1242
00:58:50.920 --> 00:58:52.240
because I'm searching your name

1243
00:58:52.280 --> 00:58:54.140
and it says you're not here.

1244
00:58:56.040 --> 00:58:57.680
Let me, it's in alphabetical order.

1245
00:58:57.680 --> 00:58:59.120
Let me look down here.

1246
00:59:02.160 --> 00:59:05.240
Joan said that she was actually in a suddenly relationship,

1247
00:59:05.240 --> 00:59:06.640
so she's not available.

1248
00:59:06.640 --> 00:59:08.120
Oh, all right, girl.

1249
00:59:08.120 --> 00:59:09.120
All right, come on.

1250
00:59:09.120 --> 00:59:12.240
Okay, so let's go ahead and do a little Q&A

1251
00:59:12.240 --> 00:59:14.200
if we want to for the next 15 minutes.

1252
00:59:14.200 --> 00:59:15.200
If you have any questions,

1253
00:59:15.200 --> 00:59:19.160
we'll do a little bit of Ask Jackie right now

1254
00:59:19.160 --> 00:59:21.020
since I'm here and I'm Jackie.

1255
00:59:21.020 --> 00:59:23.540
So let's go, right?

1256
00:59:23.540 --> 00:59:26.020
Actually, I saw someone volunteered

1257
00:59:26.020 --> 00:59:27.620
as tribute to be spotlighted,

1258
00:59:27.620 --> 00:59:29.540
so I'm going to go ahead and spotlight her

1259
00:59:29.540 --> 00:59:34.140
because I see her here, Anna, and spotlight.

1260
00:59:34.140 --> 00:59:35.860
All right, girl, give it to us.

1261
00:59:35.860 --> 00:59:37.120
Where are you?

1262
00:59:37.120 --> 00:59:37.960
Where are you?

1263
00:59:37.960 --> 00:59:38.780
Who are you?

1264
00:59:38.780 --> 00:59:40.060
Give us all the deets.

1265
00:59:40.060 --> 00:59:41.780
Yeah, my name is Anna.

1266
00:59:41.780 --> 00:59:43.340
I live in Kentucky right now.

1267
00:59:43.340 --> 00:59:46.980
I'm about two miles from downtown Cincinnati.

1268
00:59:46.980 --> 00:59:49.920
Freshly 44, just turned 44 on Sunday.

1269
00:59:51.060 --> 00:59:52.460
And I'm thankful you're spotlighting me

1270
00:59:52.460 --> 00:59:53.740
because I've been trying to reach you all

1271
00:59:53.740 --> 00:59:56.020
about your extended car warranties.

1272
00:59:56.020 --> 00:59:58.020
So here I am.

1273
00:59:58.020 --> 00:59:59.060
Here you are.

1274
00:59:59.060 --> 00:59:59.900
Okay.

1275
01:00:00.000 --> 01:00:07.840
You guys, true story, my poor son, who is just as naive as a newborn baby in the woods,

1276
01:00:07.840 --> 01:00:12.980
he actually believed the extended car warranty thing, and he actually gave them his credit

1277
01:00:12.980 --> 01:00:15.020
card number.

1278
01:00:15.020 --> 01:00:20.820
And then afterwards, he's like, yeah, you know, my car warranty expired, and I was like,

1279
01:00:20.820 --> 01:00:21.820
yeah!

1280
01:00:21.820 --> 01:00:26.940
And so we were able to get the bank to charge it back, but anyway, that just reminded me

1281
01:00:26.940 --> 01:00:27.940
of that.

1282
01:00:27.940 --> 01:00:35.580
So she is like in that triangle, Indiana, Kentucky, Ohio situation right there, okay?

1283
01:00:35.580 --> 01:00:39.900
And she actually is one of the moderators of our Siegel City there, and so we love her.

1284
01:00:39.900 --> 01:00:40.900
I've met her in person.

1285
01:00:40.900 --> 01:00:43.580
She's phenomenal, phenomenal woman.

1286
01:00:43.580 --> 01:00:49.380
So never married, no kids, I mean, I'm just talking about, you know, what do you do for

1287
01:00:49.380 --> 01:00:50.380
fun?

1288
01:00:50.380 --> 01:00:51.380
What are you passionate about?

1289
01:00:51.380 --> 01:00:57.900
We just, I mean, Thomas just like blew us, he's like a poem of a man, a poem of a man

1290
01:00:57.900 --> 01:00:59.100
just happened.

1291
01:00:59.100 --> 01:01:03.060
And so let's find out, like, what floats your boat, honey?

1292
01:01:03.060 --> 01:01:05.300
Yeah, I love to travel, as you know.

1293
01:01:05.300 --> 01:01:06.300
Yes, I do.

1294
01:01:06.300 --> 01:01:10.260
Yeah, I'm headed to Europe, actually, July 2nd.

1295
01:01:10.260 --> 01:01:13.180
So I'm going to Paris first.

1296
01:01:13.180 --> 01:01:18.080
I have been there a couple of times, but I'm specifically going because they have an exhibit

1297
01:01:18.080 --> 01:01:20.740
at the Louvre that I want to see.

1298
01:01:21.740 --> 01:01:28.540
I guess designers go in and get inspiration from different artwork.

1299
01:01:28.540 --> 01:01:34.940
And so they're exhibiting the original artwork that inspired the couture fashion.

1300
01:01:34.940 --> 01:01:36.220
So I'm really excited to see that.

1301
01:01:36.220 --> 01:01:39.980
And then I'm doing a land tour, I'm flying into Budapest, and I'm going to Vienna and

1302
01:01:39.980 --> 01:01:41.900
Prague and then coming home.

1303
01:01:41.900 --> 01:01:43.860
So pretty excited about that.

1304
01:01:43.860 --> 01:01:44.860
I love Europe.

1305
01:01:44.860 --> 01:01:45.860
That's exciting.

1306
01:01:45.980 --> 01:01:52.460
And you, okay, so I remember you telling me in Columbia that, you know, you just wanted

1307
01:01:52.460 --> 01:01:56.940
to travel, you hadn't been married yet, and you weren't, you know, wait any longer for

1308
01:01:56.940 --> 01:01:57.940
someone to travel with.

1309
01:01:57.940 --> 01:02:00.580
And so you just start traveling solo.

1310
01:02:00.580 --> 01:02:02.860
That is amazing.

1311
01:02:02.860 --> 01:02:08.700
And so like, what was the very first place that you went to as a solo traveler?

1312
01:02:08.700 --> 01:02:11.820
I went to Rome solo.

1313
01:02:11.900 --> 01:02:16.100
And then I went from Rome down to Trieste.

1314
01:02:16.100 --> 01:02:18.980
Is that right?

1315
01:02:18.980 --> 01:02:19.980
I think that's right.

1316
01:02:19.980 --> 01:02:23.820
And then I went on a Mediterranean cruise and came home.

1317
01:02:23.820 --> 01:02:28.060
So I started traveling in 2019.

1318
01:02:28.060 --> 01:02:31.820
And then I was all excited about traveling solo and wanting to go more.

1319
01:02:31.820 --> 01:02:35.540
And then of course, I scheduled a couple trips and then the pandemic.

1320
01:02:35.540 --> 01:02:40.140
So I've been going pretty much every year, even if it was within the States, like during

1321
01:02:40.140 --> 01:02:42.820
COVID, I went with my parents to the national park.

1322
01:02:42.820 --> 01:02:48.260
We took a train from Cincinnati down to Utah and Salt Lake City.

1323
01:02:48.260 --> 01:02:53.340
And then we went to Grand Tetons and Yellowstone National Park.

1324
01:02:53.340 --> 01:02:54.340
That's awesome.

1325
01:02:54.340 --> 01:02:57.700
So if you've been afraid to travel, friends, first of all, that's why Last Trip Single

1326
01:02:57.700 --> 01:03:02.260
exists because we want to, if you're afraid to travel solo, we want to give you people

1327
01:03:02.260 --> 01:03:04.300
to travel with.

1328
01:03:04.300 --> 01:03:05.300
And we're doing that.

1329
01:03:05.300 --> 01:03:07.500
And so we're going to continue to do that.

1330
01:03:07.500 --> 01:03:09.420
And I just think that's incredible.

1331
01:03:09.700 --> 01:03:10.700
I think that you're incredible.

1332
01:03:10.700 --> 01:03:11.700
I think it's incredible.

1333
01:03:11.700 --> 01:03:13.020
This girl is brilliant.

1334
01:03:13.020 --> 01:03:14.420
She is so intelligent.

1335
01:03:14.420 --> 01:03:15.780
She is so cultured.

1336
01:03:15.780 --> 01:03:16.780
She's so curious.

1337
01:03:16.780 --> 01:03:20.180
I'd say she's such a curious personality.

1338
01:03:20.180 --> 01:03:23.420
Did you tell people what you actually do for a living that allows you to go on all these

1339
01:03:23.420 --> 01:03:24.420
fancy trips?

1340
01:03:24.420 --> 01:03:25.420
No, I didn't.

1341
01:03:25.420 --> 01:03:31.180
So my degree is actually in fine art, but I've worked for a bank coming up on 20 years.

1342
01:03:31.180 --> 01:03:35.900
So I'm currently what's called a business information security officer or BISO.

1343
01:03:35.900 --> 01:03:39.700
And all that is, is basically a liaison between information security.

1344
01:03:39.700 --> 01:03:43.220
And I represent the consumer bank at a financial institution.

1345
01:03:43.220 --> 01:03:45.380
So I represent about like 13,000 people.

1346
01:03:45.380 --> 01:03:49.480
I'm kind of a consultant, educational person.

1347
01:03:49.480 --> 01:03:50.540
So I'm looking for something new.

1348
01:03:50.540 --> 01:03:51.900
I want to be an insider threat.

1349
01:03:51.900 --> 01:03:54.820
That's really, my skill set is finding gaps.

1350
01:03:54.820 --> 01:03:59.780
And so I love, I used to be an anti-money laundering and I really miss that kind of

1351
01:03:59.780 --> 01:04:01.460
catching the bad guy type thing.

1352
01:04:01.460 --> 01:04:02.460
Yeah.

1353
01:04:02.460 --> 01:04:03.460
Yeah.

1354
01:04:03.460 --> 01:04:04.460
That's exciting.

1355
01:04:05.020 --> 01:04:06.020
Okay.

1356
01:04:06.020 --> 01:04:10.900
So you guys, if you know anyone that this phenomenal human should meet, then please

1357
01:04:10.900 --> 01:04:11.900
email us.

1358
01:04:11.900 --> 01:04:12.900
Put Anna.

1359
01:04:12.900 --> 01:04:13.900
Okay.

1360
01:04:13.900 --> 01:04:14.900
It's Anna.

1361
01:04:14.900 --> 01:04:17.900
You know, it's, it's like frozen.

1362
01:04:17.900 --> 01:04:18.900
Anna.

1363
01:04:18.900 --> 01:04:19.900
Yes.

1364
01:04:19.900 --> 01:04:20.900
Right.

1365
01:04:20.900 --> 01:04:21.900
Frozen.

1366
01:04:21.900 --> 01:04:22.900
Okay.

1367
01:04:22.900 --> 01:04:23.900
The heroine of frozen.

1368
01:04:23.900 --> 01:04:24.900
So Anna.

1369
01:04:24.900 --> 01:04:25.900
And then of course, should they put Kentucky?

1370
01:04:25.900 --> 01:04:26.900
Yes.

1371
01:04:26.900 --> 01:04:27.900
Okay.

1372
01:04:27.900 --> 01:04:28.900
KY.

1373
01:04:28.900 --> 01:04:33.060
Anna and KY, give us the information of why she should meet whoever this is, including

1374
01:04:33.060 --> 01:04:38.620
if it's you gentlemen, and I'm so exciting for this trip that you're going on.

1375
01:04:38.620 --> 01:04:39.620
It sounds fun.

1376
01:04:39.620 --> 01:04:40.620
I wish I was going.

1377
01:04:40.620 --> 01:04:41.620
I want to go to Paris.

1378
01:04:41.620 --> 01:04:45.900
I heard Paris is going downhill and I want to get there before it goes all the way.

1379
01:04:45.900 --> 01:04:50.060
I'm going to get there before they burn the Eiffel Tower down.

1380
01:04:50.060 --> 01:04:51.060
Okay.

1381
01:04:51.060 --> 01:04:53.220
So let's do a little ask Jackie action.

1382
01:04:53.220 --> 01:04:54.940
We just have a few more minutes here.

1383
01:04:54.940 --> 01:04:56.380
We have about 10 minutes.

1384
01:04:56.380 --> 01:04:57.380
We can do some questions.

1385
01:04:57.380 --> 01:04:59.740
Let me see if there was anything in the chat.

1386
01:05:00.000 --> 01:05:08.400
Yes, yes, you guys, there's so many phenomenal people in our communities and I'm so glad

1387
01:05:08.400 --> 01:05:12.320
that you guys get to meet each other and we're going to have lots and lots more stuff over

1388
01:05:12.320 --> 01:05:13.320
the summer.

1389
01:05:13.320 --> 01:05:14.320
Please plug into your single city.

1390
01:05:14.320 --> 01:05:18.600
If there isn't a single city where you live, please consider hosting or starting one.

1391
01:05:18.600 --> 01:05:19.680
We will support you.

1392
01:05:19.680 --> 01:05:21.160
We will help you start that.

1393
01:05:21.160 --> 01:05:24.600
I guarantee you there's other people in the movement that are around you, you just don't

1394
01:05:24.600 --> 01:05:25.600
know them yet.

1395
01:05:26.120 --> 01:05:31.320
If you're interested in that at all, please email us to admin at JackieDorman.com because

1396
01:05:31.320 --> 01:05:34.300
the more single cities, the more meetup groups we have, the better.

1397
01:05:34.300 --> 01:05:39.640
Don't forget, we're going to be having that huge anniversary party in October in Austin.

1398
01:05:39.640 --> 01:05:45.600
If you are someone who has to put vacation time in really far in advance, that's where

1399
01:05:45.600 --> 01:05:47.640
you want to put it.

1400
01:05:47.640 --> 01:05:48.640
Let's see.

1401
01:05:48.640 --> 01:05:52.200
All right, Amy is saying, hey, I'm down here in Lexington.

1402
01:05:52.200 --> 01:05:53.200
Let's go.

1403
01:05:53.200 --> 01:05:54.200
All right.

1404
01:05:55.200 --> 01:05:56.200
Boston will host.

1405
01:05:56.200 --> 01:05:57.200
Yes.

1406
01:05:57.200 --> 01:05:58.200
Let's do it up there.

1407
01:05:58.200 --> 01:05:59.200
Okay.

1408
01:05:59.200 --> 01:06:03.560
I feel that it's a challenge to find the balance between giving someone a chance that I'm not

1409
01:06:03.560 --> 01:06:08.120
attracted to and letting it be a yes until it's a no and trusting my own heart and letting

1410
01:06:08.120 --> 01:06:10.600
it have a voice when it feels like it's saying no.

1411
01:06:10.600 --> 01:06:14.640
I feel that if I keep giving it a chance that I'm leading someone on if my heart isn't in

1412
01:06:14.640 --> 01:06:19.360
it, how long should I give a chance if there's no attraction before I say it's not a good

1413
01:06:19.360 --> 01:06:20.920
bit?

1414
01:06:20.920 --> 01:06:21.920
It is a great question.

1415
01:06:22.000 --> 01:06:32.480
You guys, when we first started the movement, we're almost five years in, I would say unless

1416
01:06:32.480 --> 01:06:38.600
there's something very overtly disconcerting about the person, like you don't feel safe

1417
01:06:38.600 --> 01:06:42.080
because you guys never want to ignore your gut, ladies.

1418
01:06:42.080 --> 01:06:46.960
We want to heal our intuition so it isn't suspicion, but at the same time, if you have

1419
01:06:46.960 --> 01:06:51.700
some sort of gut feeling about someone, that's there to keep you safe.

1420
01:06:52.480 --> 01:06:55.140
If you're disconcerted about something, if something just doesn't sit right with you

1421
01:06:55.140 --> 01:06:59.780
or doesn't add up, then listen to your intuition.

1422
01:06:59.780 --> 01:07:02.420
I don't believe that you can miss out on your spirit mate when you're following after the

1423
01:07:02.420 --> 01:07:06.820
Holy Spirit, so just go ahead and exit stage right if that's the case.

1424
01:07:06.820 --> 01:07:10.880
But if there isn't anything and it's just a situation where this isn't what you pictured

1425
01:07:10.880 --> 01:07:14.580
or expected, give it three days.

1426
01:07:14.580 --> 01:07:17.740
If they keep wanting to see you, give it three days.

1427
01:07:17.740 --> 01:07:19.220
We don't want to string someone along.

1428
01:07:19.220 --> 01:07:23.460
We don't want to let them think that we're really into them when we're not and then we're

1429
01:07:23.460 --> 01:07:26.660
hurting people's feelings and breaking hearts.

1430
01:07:26.660 --> 01:07:31.340
Also we want to give ourselves a chance to really see who this person is because oftentimes

1431
01:07:31.340 --> 01:07:36.820
women especially are more attracted to personality than they are just outer appearance, just

1432
01:07:36.820 --> 01:07:39.060
like at face value.

1433
01:07:39.060 --> 01:07:44.360
A lot of times personality makes us see someone way differently when we are allowing ourselves

1434
01:07:44.360 --> 01:07:47.860
to get to know them, get to know their sense of humor and all the different things.

1435
01:07:47.860 --> 01:07:51.340
That's why single spotlights are so fun because you just see a picture of someone, you're

1436
01:07:51.340 --> 01:07:52.940
like, eh, I'm not interested.

1437
01:07:52.940 --> 01:07:56.300
But then you see them animated, you see them talking about what they're passionate about,

1438
01:07:56.300 --> 01:08:00.180
you get to know them, you get to know their sense of humor and the things that you have

1439
01:08:00.180 --> 01:08:03.180
in common and they're just chemistries created.

1440
01:08:03.180 --> 01:08:09.420
The number one thing that I hear of my success stories on the female side is, Jackie, I would

1441
01:08:09.420 --> 01:08:13.580
have never given this guy a chance had it not been for you and I'm so glad I did because

1442
01:08:13.580 --> 01:08:18.180
I'm so happy as they're getting married, right?

1443
01:08:18.180 --> 01:08:23.220
So give it at least three chances, okay?

1444
01:08:23.220 --> 01:08:28.060
And if by the third chance you're just like, I could never imagine kissing this person,

1445
01:08:28.060 --> 01:08:33.740
I'm just not attracted to them at all, then consider matching them with someone else in

1446
01:08:33.740 --> 01:08:37.420
the community or just sending them to the community.

1447
01:08:37.420 --> 01:08:41.479
You don't have to match make them, just consider it, ladies, please.

1448
01:08:41.479 --> 01:08:47.720
If the fish is not the right fish for you, don't just throw it back in, okay?

1449
01:08:47.720 --> 01:08:49.399
Don't throw it back in.

1450
01:08:49.399 --> 01:08:55.560
We need it here because I guarantee that we probably know someone who's a good match for

1451
01:08:55.560 --> 01:08:56.560
that guy.

1452
01:08:56.560 --> 01:08:59.439
Gentlemen, you're a different story.

1453
01:08:59.439 --> 01:09:09.880
Men pretty much know immediately whether or not they're going to be attracted and it's

1454
01:09:09.880 --> 01:09:11.680
based on a lot of different factors.

1455
01:09:11.680 --> 01:09:18.200
I would love for men to give it at least three dates, I would, unless there's some huge reason

1456
01:09:18.200 --> 01:09:20.680
why it's a non-negotiable.

1457
01:09:20.680 --> 01:09:26.319
I do tell men that and they do continue to tell me after even one conversation or one

1458
01:09:26.319 --> 01:09:30.040
just short coffee date, lunch date, nah, I'm not interested.

1459
01:09:30.040 --> 01:09:34.279
So I'm still working on that.

1460
01:09:34.279 --> 01:09:41.279
But ladies, people can really grow on you and in a good way, not in a I'm settling type

1461
01:09:41.279 --> 01:09:42.279
of way.

1462
01:09:42.279 --> 01:09:43.279
So I would say three.

1463
01:09:43.279 --> 01:09:48.080
Three is the sweet spot unless God tells you differently to where you're not going to be

1464
01:09:48.080 --> 01:09:51.319
hurting someone's feelings or leading them on and you're also giving yourself a chance

1465
01:09:51.319 --> 01:09:52.319
to really see them.

1466
01:09:52.319 --> 01:09:54.320
Remember, let's do action dates.

1467
01:09:54.320 --> 01:09:59.040
Sitting across from someone at food is not a really good way to see their personality.

1468
01:09:59.040 --> 01:10:00.040
A lot of people feel really intimidated.

1469
01:10:00.000 --> 01:10:03.280
intimidated, especially if they don't know you at all,

1470
01:10:00.040 --> 01:10:01.040
So I would say three is the sweet spot unless God tells you differently to where you're

1471
01:10:01.040 --> 01:10:02.040
not going to be hurting someone's feelings or leading them on and you're also giving

1472
01:10:02.040 --> 01:10:02.040


1473
01:10:03.280 --> 01:10:08.280
and you've had very little precursor to the date.

1474
01:10:08.400 --> 01:10:10.760
So let's get out, let's see each other's personalities,

1475
01:10:10.760 --> 01:10:13.040
let's do something fun so that we have a chance

1476
01:10:13.040 --> 01:10:14.720
to really see who that person is.

1477
01:10:14.720 --> 01:10:15.760
Okay, you're right.

1478
01:10:15.760 --> 01:10:18.480
Holding the tension between I'm not really attracted

1479
01:10:18.480 --> 01:10:21.320
and it's a yes until it's a no can sometimes be hard.

1480
01:10:21.320 --> 01:10:22.760
How long should you wait to give Guy

1481
01:10:22.760 --> 01:10:25.000
your phone number on an app?

1482
01:10:25.000 --> 01:10:29.760
I mean, it's hard to say this.

1483
01:10:29.760 --> 01:10:31.040
It's hard to answer this question

1484
01:10:31.040 --> 01:10:33.360
because it could be a scammer.

1485
01:10:33.360 --> 01:10:38.360
Now, people do create Google numbers for this reason.

1486
01:10:39.960 --> 01:10:41.560
And so that's a number that's not associated

1487
01:10:41.560 --> 01:10:42.400
with your phone.

1488
01:10:42.400 --> 01:10:47.320
I personally, you guys, if I was single on an app

1489
01:10:47.320 --> 01:10:49.680
and I think I'm talking to a real person,

1490
01:10:49.680 --> 01:10:52.420
I'm doing my best to vet them out,

1491
01:10:52.420 --> 01:10:54.520
I wouldn't really care about giving my phone a break

1492
01:10:54.520 --> 01:10:56.360
because you can always block them.

1493
01:10:56.360 --> 01:11:00.040
You can always block people that are trying to talk to you

1494
01:11:01.600 --> 01:11:03.840
outside of the app, all right?

1495
01:11:04.800 --> 01:11:06.760
You guys, the scammers, we used to be able to tell you

1496
01:11:06.760 --> 01:11:07.960
exactly what they were up to,

1497
01:11:07.960 --> 01:11:11.360
but AI has changed the game, my friends.

1498
01:11:11.360 --> 01:11:12.860
AI has changed the game.

1499
01:11:12.860 --> 01:11:15.360
Like you can be even voice, I'm not voice,

1500
01:11:15.360 --> 01:11:18.420
you can even be FaceTiming with someone who's not real.

1501
01:11:20.120 --> 01:11:22.520
They could literally be AI.

1502
01:11:22.520 --> 01:11:24.640
And so the way you're gonna know that

1503
01:11:24.640 --> 01:11:26.880
is if they seem too perfect,

1504
01:11:26.880 --> 01:11:30.660
they're probably some sort of algorithm or bot.

1505
01:11:31.860 --> 01:11:33.600
So let's be careful with that.

1506
01:11:33.600 --> 01:11:35.120
If they seem kind of filtered,

1507
01:11:37.040 --> 01:11:39.840
and then of course, we used to be able to tell the scammers

1508
01:11:39.840 --> 01:11:41.660
and the spammers by broken English,

1509
01:11:41.660 --> 01:11:42.700
we can't do that anymore

1510
01:11:42.700 --> 01:11:45.640
because they're using AI for their responses.

1511
01:11:45.640 --> 01:11:49.360
And so we really, really, really have to get in person

1512
01:11:49.360 --> 01:11:50.840
as much as we can.

1513
01:11:50.840 --> 01:11:53.840
And if something feels off, it probably is.

1514
01:11:55.120 --> 01:11:59.520
If it seems too good to be true, it's too good to be true.

1515
01:11:59.520 --> 01:12:01.640
If someone, no offense, friends,

1516
01:12:01.640 --> 01:12:04.560
I mean, we all have a certain attractiveness about us

1517
01:12:04.560 --> 01:12:06.740
and beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

1518
01:12:06.740 --> 01:12:11.560
But if someone who's a culturally,

1519
01:12:11.560 --> 01:12:14.440
what culture considers beautiful or handsome,

1520
01:12:14.440 --> 01:12:15.400
if they're like a 10

1521
01:12:15.400 --> 01:12:17.640
and you kind of consider yourself a five,

1522
01:12:17.640 --> 01:12:21.060
it's probably not, it's probably not a thing, okay?

1523
01:12:21.060 --> 01:12:26.060
If they look airbrushed like that one Ryan Gosling movie,

1524
01:12:26.280 --> 01:12:28.700
she's like, you look airbrushed because he's so handsome.

1525
01:12:28.700 --> 01:12:33.100
If they look airbrushed, no.

1526
01:12:33.100 --> 01:12:36.300
If they look like they're one of the inserts in the frame

1527
01:12:36.300 --> 01:12:38.900
when you buy the frame, you know what I mean?

1528
01:12:38.900 --> 01:12:41.700
They probably are the insert in the frame.

1529
01:12:41.700 --> 01:12:46.700
Their picture probably is one of those mass produced models

1530
01:12:46.720 --> 01:12:49.380
of inside the picture frame, okay?

1531
01:12:49.380 --> 01:12:52.460
So gentlemen, I know that you think

1532
01:12:52.460 --> 01:12:54.180
that you're all that in a bag of chips,

1533
01:12:54.180 --> 01:12:56.860
but if some girl who looks like a supermodel

1534
01:12:56.860 --> 01:13:00.420
who's 30 years younger than you is trying to talk to you,

1535
01:13:00.420 --> 01:13:03.340
she's scamming you, baby, all right?

1536
01:13:03.340 --> 01:13:05.540
So let's get with the times.

1537
01:13:07.180 --> 01:13:08.300
I would give my phone number.

1538
01:13:08.300 --> 01:13:10.700
You can always block them unless you really think

1539
01:13:10.700 --> 01:13:14.560
that you're talking to Jake from State Farm

1540
01:13:14.560 --> 01:13:18.100
because other than that, let's just call it a day.

1541
01:13:19.420 --> 01:13:23.220
I'm not not recommending the ARC app

1542
01:13:23.220 --> 01:13:26.140
because there are good people on there, okay?

1543
01:13:26.140 --> 01:13:28.500
I know a few people that are talking to people right now

1544
01:13:28.500 --> 01:13:30.460
that have already gotten together with people.

1545
01:13:30.460 --> 01:13:34.140
I'm just saying, there's a great amount

1546
01:13:34.140 --> 01:13:36.140
of interesting profiles on there.

1547
01:13:36.140 --> 01:13:38.620
So if you can pick through,

1548
01:13:38.620 --> 01:13:40.540
I know that they have a speed dating event coming up,

1549
01:13:40.540 --> 01:13:41.660
I think on the 29th.

1550
01:13:41.660 --> 01:13:45.260
So the affiliate link is gonna be up till July.

1551
01:13:45.260 --> 01:13:47.780
If you guys want to sign up through our link,

1552
01:13:48.260 --> 01:13:49.860
there are gonna be special bonuses

1553
01:13:49.860 --> 01:13:51.820
and stuff for the people.

1554
01:13:51.820 --> 01:13:53.500
Is Jake single?

1555
01:13:53.500 --> 01:13:54.340
I don't know.

1556
01:13:55.380 --> 01:13:56.660
He likes to wear khakis though.

1557
01:13:56.660 --> 01:13:58.460
Any thoughts on how to set healthy boundaries

1558
01:13:58.460 --> 01:13:59.300
around dating apps?

1559
01:13:59.300 --> 01:14:01.220
I had to take a break for a bit and it's been great.

1560
01:14:01.220 --> 01:14:02.340
Yes, it is great.

1561
01:14:02.340 --> 01:14:04.420
But I also feel like it's time to get intentional again

1562
01:14:04.420 --> 01:14:06.460
and I just don't want to get to the place of working

1563
01:14:06.460 --> 01:14:08.020
at like a job or being disappointed

1564
01:14:08.020 --> 01:14:09.620
by the lack of quality matches.

1565
01:14:09.620 --> 01:14:10.980
Well, how about getting intentional

1566
01:14:10.980 --> 01:14:12.860
about in-person community?

1567
01:14:12.860 --> 01:14:14.700
You don't have to get intentional about dating apps.

1568
01:14:14.700 --> 01:14:15.540
Take a break.

1569
01:14:16.540 --> 01:14:18.660
If you don't find joy, you guys,

1570
01:14:18.660 --> 01:14:21.780
if stuff is stealing your joy, literally,

1571
01:14:21.780 --> 01:14:23.820
then it's summertime.

1572
01:14:24.820 --> 01:14:26.540
Lots of people doing things in person.

1573
01:14:26.540 --> 01:14:29.980
You guys, there's all kinds of meetup groups now.

1574
01:14:29.980 --> 01:14:33.500
Apps that are not dating apps, they're meetup groups.

1575
01:14:33.500 --> 01:14:35.580
They are like new in town groups.

1576
01:14:35.580 --> 01:14:36.700
Look, Google it.

1577
01:14:36.700 --> 01:14:38.620
You will find places.

1578
01:14:38.620 --> 01:14:40.060
There's one called,

1579
01:14:40.660 --> 01:14:45.660
it's just for like people who want to like meet new people

1580
01:14:45.700 --> 01:14:47.020
in the town that they're in.

1581
01:14:47.020 --> 01:14:48.060
It's like a dinner thing.

1582
01:14:48.060 --> 01:14:49.460
They'll sign you to have dinner

1583
01:14:49.460 --> 01:14:51.540
with five or six other strangers.

1584
01:14:52.780 --> 01:14:54.260
And I, time left.

1585
01:14:54.260 --> 01:14:55.580
Yeah, time left.

1586
01:14:55.580 --> 01:14:58.260
Is that the one with the dinner stuff, Candace?

1587
01:14:58.260 --> 01:14:59.100
Yeah.

1588
01:14:59.100 --> 01:14:59.940
I don't know.

1589
01:14:59.940 --> 01:15:00.780
I'm not sure.

1590
01:15:00.000 --> 01:15:02.000
The dinners?

1591
01:15:00.780 --> 01:15:01.620
I don't know.

1592
01:15:01.620 --> 01:15:02.460
I don't know.

1593
01:15:02.000 --> 01:15:04.000
Yes, it is.

1594
01:15:02.460 --> 01:15:03.300
I don't know.

1595
01:15:03.300 --> 01:15:04.140
I don't know.

1596
01:15:04.000 --> 01:15:06.000
Candice has done them all.

1597
01:15:04.140 --> 01:15:04.980
I don't know.

1598
01:15:04.980 --> 01:15:05.820
I don't know.

1599
01:15:05.820 --> 01:15:06.660
I don't know.

1600
01:15:06.000 --> 01:15:08.000
It was super fun.

1601
01:15:06.660 --> 01:15:07.500
I don't know.

1602
01:15:07.500 --> 01:15:08.340
I don't know.

1603
01:15:08.000 --> 01:15:10.000
Yeah.

1604
01:15:08.340 --> 01:15:09.180
I don't know.

1605
01:15:10.000 --> 01:15:12.000
Yeah.

1606
01:15:12.000 --> 01:15:14.000
You guys, if you want to get intentional, try some new stuff.

1607
01:15:14.000 --> 01:15:16.000
You don't have to do the apps.

1608
01:15:16.000 --> 01:15:18.000
You literally don't.

1609
01:15:18.000 --> 01:15:20.000
I promise you that you don't.

1610
01:15:20.000 --> 01:15:22.000
Okay?

1611
01:15:22.000 --> 01:15:24.000
Spirit mate match.

1612
01:15:24.000 --> 01:15:26.000
We're going to see about turning that front ways.

1613
01:15:26.000 --> 01:15:28.000
Our team is, you know, we started talking about it on Monday.

1614
01:15:28.000 --> 01:15:30.000
So meet up is another one.

1615
01:15:30.000 --> 01:15:32.000
Yes, you guys.

1616
01:15:32.000 --> 01:15:34.000
The dinner thing is called time left.

1617
01:15:34.000 --> 01:15:36.000
No spaces.

1618
01:15:36.000 --> 01:15:38.000
It's basically the premise of time is too short.

1619
01:15:38.000 --> 01:15:40.000
Like time left.

1620
01:15:40.000 --> 01:15:42.000
You know?

1621
01:15:42.000 --> 01:15:44.000
Like time is too short to not have relationships and community.

1622
01:15:44.000 --> 01:15:46.000
Visit some new churches.

1623
01:15:46.000 --> 01:15:50.000
Candice, for instance, she's our new marketing manager here at Jane Media.

1624
01:15:50.000 --> 01:15:56.000
She is the reason why the beautiful website is coming out with all those new pages.

1625
01:15:56.000 --> 01:15:58.000
She's also single and ready to mingle, gentlemen.

1626
01:15:58.000 --> 01:16:04.000
But she just moved to Austin from Dallas to work, you know, closer in proximity to us.

1627
01:16:04.000 --> 01:16:06.000
When she moved here, she just signed up for everything.

1628
01:16:06.000 --> 01:16:08.000
She signed up for a bunch of small groups.

1629
01:16:08.000 --> 01:16:10.000
She has something going on every night.

1630
01:16:10.000 --> 01:16:12.000
And, yes, that sounds like it's tiring.

1631
01:16:12.000 --> 01:16:14.000
But it's just for a season.

1632
01:16:14.000 --> 01:16:16.000
It's not for the rest of her life.

1633
01:16:16.000 --> 01:16:18.000
She's going to an apologetics group.

1634
01:16:18.000 --> 01:16:20.000
She's going to this group.

1635
01:16:20.000 --> 01:16:26.000
I invited her to join the small group, the gun club group, you know, the shooting group at church.

1636
01:16:26.000 --> 01:16:28.000
And she was just like, I don't know about that.

1637
01:16:28.000 --> 01:16:30.000
Then she saw that she was one woman to 40 men.

1638
01:16:30.000 --> 01:16:32.000
She's like, yes.

1639
01:16:32.000 --> 01:16:34.000
Yes, I will join.

1640
01:16:34.000 --> 01:16:36.000
Ladies, join gun groups.

1641
01:16:36.000 --> 01:16:38.000
Okay?

1642
01:16:38.000 --> 01:16:40.000
Take up golfing.

1643
01:16:40.000 --> 01:16:42.000
Seriously.

1644
01:16:42.000 --> 01:16:46.000
If you want to spend your money on something, spend it on a session with a golf pro.

1645
01:16:46.000 --> 01:16:48.000
Go to the driving range.

1646
01:16:48.000 --> 01:16:50.000
Hit balls.

1647
01:16:50.000 --> 01:16:52.000
Hire the guy.

1648
01:16:52.000 --> 01:16:54.000
You know, it's not that expensive.

1649
01:16:54.000 --> 01:16:56.000
You know, $20, $30 an hour to show you how to hit the balls.

1650
01:16:56.000 --> 01:16:58.000
Go to places like Topgolf.

1651
01:16:58.000 --> 01:17:00.000
Go places where there's a majority of men.

1652
01:17:00.000 --> 01:17:02.000
You know where men are not?

1653
01:17:02.000 --> 01:17:04.000
In Target.

1654
01:17:04.000 --> 01:17:06.000
Okay?

1655
01:17:06.000 --> 01:17:10.000
So let's go to where the boys are.

1656
01:17:10.000 --> 01:17:12.000
You never know who you might meet.

1657
01:17:12.000 --> 01:17:14.000
Gentlemen, the ladies are at Target.

1658
01:17:14.000 --> 01:17:16.000
So if you want to meet a woman, you can go there.

1659
01:17:16.000 --> 01:17:18.000
All right?

1660
01:17:18.000 --> 01:17:20.000
But yes.

1661
01:17:20.000 --> 01:17:22.000
Guys, you got to get out there.

1662
01:17:22.000 --> 01:17:24.000
You got to meet new people.

1663
01:17:24.000 --> 01:17:26.000
You got to meet new people.

1664
01:17:26.000 --> 01:17:28.000
You have to.

1665
01:17:28.000 --> 01:17:30.000
So if you want to be intentional, you want to prioritize, this is summertime.

1666
01:17:30.000 --> 01:17:32.000
Prioritize in person.

1667
01:17:32.000 --> 01:17:34.000
Okay?

1668
01:17:34.000 --> 01:17:36.000
Okay.

1669
01:17:36.000 --> 01:17:38.000
Let's give the apps a rest for the summer.

1670
01:17:38.000 --> 01:17:40.000
Shall we?

1671
01:17:40.000 --> 01:17:42.000
Let's do it.

1672
01:17:42.000 --> 01:17:44.000
Let's do it.

1673
01:17:44.000 --> 01:17:46.000
Everyone's like, heck yeah.

1674
01:17:46.000 --> 01:17:48.000
Okay.

1675
01:17:48.000 --> 01:17:50.000
All right.

1676
01:17:50.000 --> 01:17:52.000
Let's see.

1677
01:17:52.000 --> 01:17:54.000
All right.

1678
01:17:54.000 --> 01:17:56.000
Elizabeth, the Krav Maga.

1679
01:17:56.000 --> 01:17:58.000
How do you say that?

1680
01:17:58.000 --> 01:18:00.000
So she's part of some Taekwondo situation that has men in it.

1681
01:18:00.000 --> 01:18:02.000
I don't even know how to say it.

1682
01:18:02.000 --> 01:18:04.000
Krav Maga.

1683
01:18:04.000 --> 01:18:06.000
Krav Maga.

1684
01:18:06.000 --> 01:18:08.000
It sounds like a Star Wars character.

1685
01:18:08.000 --> 01:18:10.000
It's Hebrew.

1686
01:18:10.000 --> 01:18:12.000
It sounds like a Star Wars character.

1687
01:18:12.000 --> 01:18:14.000
It's like self-defense.

1688
01:18:14.000 --> 01:18:16.000
And I actually just finished a class and hopped on.

1689
01:18:16.000 --> 01:18:18.000
It's so great.

1690
01:18:18.000 --> 01:18:20.000
It sounds great.

1691
01:18:20.000 --> 01:18:22.000
And actually, I take that back.

1692
01:18:22.000 --> 01:18:24.000
It sounds like a Star Trek character.

1693
01:18:24.000 --> 01:18:26.000
But yeah.

1694
01:18:26.000 --> 01:18:28.000
Yeah.

1695
01:18:28.000 --> 01:18:30.000
One of my brides that, you know, I helped her get married.

1696
01:18:30.000 --> 01:18:32.000
She just got married.

1697
01:18:32.000 --> 01:18:34.000
She's into that Krav Maga.

1698
01:18:34.000 --> 01:18:36.000
She was doing it all the way up to her wedding.

1699
01:18:36.000 --> 01:18:38.000
So you guys, we have such a great and wonderful community.

1700
01:18:38.000 --> 01:18:40.000
Love all you guys so much.

1701
01:18:44.000 --> 01:18:46.000
If you live in the Austin, Texas area,

1702
01:18:46.000 --> 01:18:48.000
we're going to be putting together a dance small group.

1703
01:18:48.000 --> 01:18:50.000
So for the people that want to go country dancing,

1704
01:18:50.000 --> 01:18:52.000
two-step dancing,

1705
01:18:52.000 --> 01:18:54.000
dancing, you know, country style dancing,

1706
01:18:54.000 --> 01:18:56.000
we're going to.

1707
01:18:56.000 --> 01:18:58.000
There's lots of big dance places here.

1708
01:18:58.000 --> 01:19:00.000
We have Mavericks.

1709
01:19:00.000 --> 01:19:02.000
We have Broken Spoke.

1710
01:19:02.000 --> 01:19:04.000
We have Wild West.

1711
01:19:04.000 --> 01:19:06.000
And so we're going to be doing that.

1712
01:19:06.000 --> 01:19:08.000
It's going to be super fun.

1713
01:19:08.000 --> 01:19:10.000
So if you're into that or you want to learn how to do that,

1714
01:19:10.000 --> 01:19:12.000
we're going to be doing that here in Austin.

1715
01:19:16.000 --> 01:19:18.000
There is a brand-new Single City OC.

1716
01:19:18.000 --> 01:19:20.000
So if you're in Southern California,

1717
01:19:20.000 --> 01:19:22.000
there's a brand-new Single City OC.

1718
01:19:22.000 --> 01:19:24.000
If you haven't joined it, please join.

1719
01:19:26.000 --> 01:19:28.000
We're going to be putting together some things

1720
01:19:28.000 --> 01:19:30.000
for Single City OC and Single City LA.

1721
01:19:32.000 --> 01:19:34.000
We're not going to forget about our people.

1722
01:19:34.000 --> 01:19:36.000
Thomas, where do you go to church out there?

1723
01:19:36.000 --> 01:19:38.000
Do you go to Evergreen?

1724
01:19:38.000 --> 01:19:40.000
Do you go to Vintage?

1725
01:19:40.000 --> 01:19:42.000
What do you got?

1726
01:19:42.000 --> 01:19:44.000
I go to Vintage.

1727
01:19:44.000 --> 01:19:46.000
You do?

1728
01:19:46.000 --> 01:19:48.000
Awesome.

1729
01:19:48.000 --> 01:19:50.000
I love Evergreen too, though.

1730
01:19:50.000 --> 01:19:52.000
I nip over there every once in a while.

1731
01:19:52.000 --> 01:19:54.000
Tommy is the pastor at Evergreen.

1732
01:19:54.000 --> 01:19:56.000
He's single and ready to mingle ladies.

1733
01:19:56.000 --> 01:19:58.000
So if you live out in that area,

1734
01:19:58.000 --> 01:20:00.000
you have no problem marrying a pastor.

1735
01:20:00.000 --> 01:20:02.000
I know a guy.

1736
01:20:00.000 --> 01:20:06.160
person that started the worship program at Vintage, Lydia, I match made her and brought her from,

1737
01:20:06.960 --> 01:20:11.360
you know, where she was to here to Austin, and she is going to be getting engaged and

1738
01:20:11.360 --> 01:20:19.280
getting married here soon. So sorry, we stole her. I'm so sorry. Yeah, I'm glad she's on God's path.

1739
01:20:19.280 --> 01:20:24.720
Yeah, but she, I played keys with her. She helped teach me how to learn worship keys.

1740
01:20:25.040 --> 01:20:34.000
Wow. Well, you need to come to Austin and visit us. Yeah. He's like, yeah, maybe Austin is cool.

1741
01:20:34.000 --> 01:20:41.840
Okay. So yes, she's here and she is in love and getting married. Okay. So, all right, friends,

1742
01:20:43.040 --> 01:20:48.000
New York, New Jersey, Columbus, Ohio, just shouting out some of the single city groups.

1743
01:20:48.000 --> 01:20:55.040
We have some in Canada. We have Calgary. We have BC. We'd love to open one in Toronto. So if you're

1744
01:20:55.040 --> 01:21:00.960
here, this is your sign. If you want to open one in the, on the, in the East side of Canada,

1745
01:21:00.960 --> 01:21:11.520
we'd love to do that. We have California, Reading, and LA, and now the OC. We have

1746
01:21:11.840 --> 01:21:18.880
Columbus, Ohio. I said that we have Indiana, Kentucky, Louisville, that area. We have Nashville.

1747
01:21:18.880 --> 01:21:26.160
We have Atlanta. We have Orlando. We have Jacksonville. We have Tampa. We have Austin,

1748
01:21:26.160 --> 01:21:37.280
Dallas, Houston, San Antonio, Colorado Springs, Scottsdale, and also Phoenix area, Arizona.

1749
01:21:37.440 --> 01:21:44.160
So if you did not hear your place called, then that means we're calling you to help us to start

1750
01:21:44.160 --> 01:21:49.120
a single city in that area. Okay. I'm sure that there are some that I've totally messed up and

1751
01:21:49.120 --> 01:21:55.840
missed, but they do exist. All right. So let's prioritize in person, shall we? I really do think

1752
01:21:55.840 --> 01:22:01.440
that that is a word for us. We want to prioritize in person as much as we can. And what we'll do is

1753
01:22:01.440 --> 01:22:12.800
let's make, Candace, let's make a cheat sheet of, of, of links for people that are in-person things,

1754
01:22:13.920 --> 01:22:19.360
you know, like time left and different things. And you guys, we will put that, we will put that PDF

1755
01:22:19.360 --> 01:22:25.600
up in your groups. Okay. To kind of give you an idea of some things that you can do that probably

1756
01:22:26.160 --> 01:22:31.680
are available in your area. They may not be fully, but one of them will be so that you can go ahead

1757
01:22:31.680 --> 01:22:39.200
and go after that. Sound good. All right, friends, JackieDorman.com 2.0 coming soon with all kinds

1758
01:22:39.200 --> 01:22:47.440
of things for you guys to be able to connect to with events and retreats and, um, information and

1759
01:22:47.440 --> 01:22:52.400
all different types of things that you guys need. And then Spirit Mate Match 2.0,

1760
01:22:52.400 --> 01:22:58.160
facing you, not facing me. We're going to, uh, continue to talk about that as a team and see

1761
01:22:58.160 --> 01:23:05.120
what that rollout would be like. Don't forget Arc, give it a shot. Let's see, uh, that, that affiliate,

1762
01:23:05.120 --> 01:23:13.440
that special offer ends in July for us and Arc. And there is one more speed dating event. Okay.

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All right. Love you guys. Have a great one. See you soon.