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Hello, everybody, welcome to Single Spotlight for June.

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We did not do this in May.

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We are going to be doing some fun things with Spirit Mate Match in July.

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So get excited.

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We're going to have some dating games, we're going to have some single shuffles, and that

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is going to be fun.

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I want to update all of us on our affiliate partnership with ARC.

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So how can I say this nicely?

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It's a brand new app, okay?

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It's brand new, which means that it hasn't been out for long, which means there's not

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a lot of people on it, which means that is why they ask people like me in our community

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to get the word out and to get people to join.

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And so we've done that because I really believe in their mission.

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I've talked to the people that are running this app, that created this app.

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They actually met on a dating app themselves, as far as the couple that's behind this app.

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They put a lot of money and time and energy into it.

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They want to make it better and better and better and better, and they really believe

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in helping people through technology to meet each other, using technology for good and

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not for evil, right?

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And so it's only going to grow, it's only going to get better.

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So give it a shot if you haven't.

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I know that ladies, I was with some of our ladies down in Santa Rosa, Florida last week.

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They showed me some screenshots of the, let's say the caliber of men that they were running

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into on this app.

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Let's say the quality of them.

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And let me tell you, I thought I was getting punked, all right?

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Some of these gentlemen, if we can even call it that, some of these guys look like someone

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went to the community night at the local prison and asked people to create an account.

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I'm not kidding you.

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One guy you could even see that cell, the bars of the cell reflected in his glasses.

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So he definitely was in jail and it was like, whoa, okay.

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So that being said, you guys, I made a decision, I made an executive decision and I told my

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team about it on Monday that we have had SpiritMate technology, SpiritMate Match technology.

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We have owned that technology for a couple of years now.

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For those of you that filled out a profile on SpiritMate Match, raise your hand if you

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filled out a profile on SpiritMate Match.

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It's a lot like a dating app, right?

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But you have to answer a lot of questions.

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It makes it more intricate as far as when the algorithm starts showing you people that

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you have things in common with, like percentages of things in common with.

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And that is how we play the dating game.

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Just so you guys know, I go on there, I pull up the Bachelor or the Bachelorette's profile,

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and then I see their top three or four matches.

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And then I just start contacting those people and saying, hey, are you available for the

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dating game?

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And if they're not available, then I go down to the next best match and the next best match.

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And of course, that technology is able to match people based on, do you want long distance?

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Do you not want long distance?

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How many miles long distance?

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Age gap?

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No age gap.

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How much of an age gap?

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How much of a height difference?

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How much of this?

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How much of that?

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It literally can show us if you like people that eat oatmeal and raisins for breakfast.

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It's able to do anything.

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And if you like oatmeal and raisins for breakfast, ick.

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So I don't know, there's something so icky about raisins.

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I'm not sure what it is, but just, I think what it is, I think what it is, is that when

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I was a little kid, I had a babysitter who made, you know, oatmeal, raisin cookies.

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And she told us that the, that the, that the raisins were ants or bugs or something

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so that we wouldn't want any like, Oh, they're gross.

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They're bad.

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These are bugs, you know?

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And we're like, Oh, but of course they weren't.

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There's greedy babysitters in the eighties that wanted to eat all the cookies.

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And so I think that I have a trauma, a trauma, a core wound with raisins.

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Okay.

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So we are talking about what would it look like to allow our community to right now,

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the app fate, that, that spirit may match faces us, the matchmakers it faces us.

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We're the ones that are able to see all of your profiles, but what would happen if we

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just flip the switch and allowed you guys to be able to navigate that?

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And you guys, the reason why I haven't done that in the past is because I want it to build

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up the spirit mate match database or dating base to a percentage of male, female ratio.

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I want it to have at least 60, 40 on there.

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And but now that I see kind of the caliber.

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The quality of the men that you guys are getting anyway, I'm like, well,

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we might as well do it, you know, I mean, a hundred great guys is better

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than five of the ones that I, uh, 500 of the ones that I saw when I was

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looking at those pictures, I wish I could show you those pictures, guys.

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Even you guys would laugh.

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I mean, seriously, all of you guys on here, you guys are Brad Pitts.

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You guys are George Clooney.

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You guys are, you name the heartthrob compared to these poor, unfortunate

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souls that were on the app, but it wasn't just that they weren't attractive.

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They were unkempt.

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One of them had on sunglasses and a bloody butcher knife.

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And what universe would that be?

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The right picture for your dating app profile in what world, you know?

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And so, yes, it is, it is sad.

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And also I really couldn't even vouch for any of these men's

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Christianity there, honestly.

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They looked, they looked really like they need to do a lot of

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hard work if I'm just being honest.

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So now gentlemen, to be fair, I did not get to see the pictures of the

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ladies on the SAP because I was talking to ladies and maybe it's, I mean,

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our beautiful ladies are on there.

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Um, but, uh, yeah, anyway.

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Okay.

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So that brings me to some really fun announcements that I just want to make

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before we get started with single spotlights tonight.

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So first announcement, we're looking at what, what would it take and what

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it would look like for us to just flip the switch and turn spirit mate

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match around towards you guys.

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If that happens, you'd be able to upload more pictures.

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A lot of you are like, oh, I can only upload one picture.

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That's because of how we have it facing, but if it faced you, then it would give

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you more options of doing more things.

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Right.

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And so, um, that is number one.

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Number two is Jackie doorman.com.

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Not just got a facelift, but also got a lot more pages and you guys,

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you know what those pages are.

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I'm so excited.

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Those pages are event pages that have all of the upcoming

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retreats and vacations.

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You guys, we're going to vacation and have transformation.

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This beautiful retreat that I just co-hosted down in Florida was phenomenal.

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And we're going to do a lot more of that.

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You know, we went to Cartagena two years in a row.

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We did a little vacation transformation action there.

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We are planning a camping trip for this fall co-ed camping trip.

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Um, so if you like cabin camping, not tent camp, not tent camp camping, but

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if you like the woods and you like bonfires, you like chill in the air

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and you like live worship music around the fire, if you like those kinds of

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things, if you like recreation, if you like, um, what's it called?

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Um, team building obstacle course in the trees and zip lining and all

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kinds of fun like that, then you're going to want to join us in Northern

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California and we're going to have a really good time at a camp that's

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there that actually is a Christian camp.

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That's what its heritage is.

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That's what it's historically is.

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Um, you guys know that there's a singles cruise happening in

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January already to the Bahamas.

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Uh, we are going to be having another women only inner outer retreat, inner

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beauty, outer beauty retreat in September, um, for the ladies that want to come to

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that, you guys, I'm so excited to say what I'm about to say, we are going to

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have a huge five year, last year, single anniversary party here in Austin, Texas.

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In October.

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So mark your calendar.

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We are going to all gather all of our alumni, all of our success stories,

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all of you singles that are ready to mingle in Austin, Texas, we

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are going to have so much fun.

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It's going to be so, so fun.

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We are going to be doing that in October.

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Uh, in the, in the weekend, right?

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I think it's the 15th, 16th, 17th.

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Anyway, this page on our website will have all the information for those

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of you that are like, Hey, you know, I got a lot out of the hard work.

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Um, but as I progressed, even Jackie's Q and a's and her, you know, love

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seats and even the coaching that we get in our groups, I really just wish that

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I could do an individual one-on-one session and really dig in with a

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great transformational coach while we hear you and we have those coaches.

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And if you didn't know, we do have one-on-ones, but guess what?

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We're going to have an entire coaching page on JackieDorman.com

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where you can pick your coach.

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You can pick the amount of sessions you want to do with that coach.

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You can see what their expertise is.

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Um, you can see reviews on that coach.

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So that will be their couples coaching.

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You're like, yeah, Simba's is great.

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Jackie save your marriage report starts.

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That's wonderful.

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But it is a group environment.

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Me and my boyfriend, girlfriend, and fiance, we want to do a

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little one-on-one with a coach.

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Maybe you want to do a one-on-one Simba's maybe you want to

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have Simba's all to yourself.

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with your coach, or perhaps you just have some things

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that you need to get over.

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You're dealing with the potential of blending a family,

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or you guys have some possible deal breakers,

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but you're not really sure, should I stay or should I go?

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We have couples coaching.

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And you'll be able to do that with an individual coach

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or a couple, like another couple.

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We have experienced couples coaches

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that will be available also there.

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Very excited about that.

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What else?

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So the events page will be going live.

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My podcast page will be going live.

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So if you know someone that you think I should interview,

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that you would love to hear that interview,

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there's somebody that you follow that says things

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that you'd like to have my take on,

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or you think that we would have a great conversation

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vibing with each other and bringing value

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to the audience that listens,

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you can, on that page, on my podcast page,

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you can refer a guest, and maybe it's you.

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Maybe you're like, I should be a guest on the podcast.

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And I know that sounds like, well, maybe not, Jackie,

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but maybe, because I'm actually going to be doing

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single spotlights to the masses.

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So one of the things of being in here,

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yes, you get spotlighted to this community,

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you get to see each other all the time,

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but I'm going to really pump up the volume

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on spotlighting you guys on my social media.

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I'm going to do single spotlights on my YouTube,

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on my podcast, I'm gonna have a segment

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called Single Spotlight, where I just like,

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ask you a few questions, just like we do here,

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so that a wider audience can get a view of you.

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You guys, we have had people get married

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from my single spotlights, we have.

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And the people that I post on my Instagram,

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we have had people get married from just that post.

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We have had people find each other and date

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and get engaged and get married from those posts.

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So they work, and we wanna continue to do that.

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I think that's all the announcements.

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You guys, I'm so excited about

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our five-year anniversary party.

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I really hope that you guys can come and be here live.

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We're gonna have so much fun.

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We're gonna have so much fun.

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And only part of it will be ticketed,

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the rest will be free.

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So we'll have free worship events at the wheelhouse,

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which is the space that David and I and our children

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have renovated for the purpose of building creatives,

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film, fashion, art, music, media, entrepreneurs.

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And so it's a really cool space.

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We'll be doing a lot of live stuff there.

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We'll be having like part singles conference

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with some amazing guests, part worship,

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all that will be free.

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Some of the paid parts of it will be some single shuffles

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and a silent disco and just all kinds of fun things

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that will be happening.

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The ticket price will be really minimal,

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but we'll have to ticket it because we will have to limit

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the amount of people that can come

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to some of those different events.

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Okay, so don't worry about that

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because we'll have other things that are still free

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and you can do, all right?

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Okay, let's get started.

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Should we get started?

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All right, ladies first,

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we have some great gentlemen here that are ready.

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I have lots of hands up.

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I don't know why the hands got up.

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Also, you guys, I am partnering with Heartstrings.

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This is my gorgeous gold-filled charm necklace.

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I wanna show it to all of you

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because every charm on this necklace,

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so you can have all of your charms hang right here together

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or you can space them out the way that I have.

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It could be a bracelet, it could be a necklace,

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but every charm on here is a prophetic word

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from the season that I'm in.

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So I have a pineapple, I have a bee,

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I have the word mama right here.

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I have 1111 someplace, a cross, self-explanatory.

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This is about Song of Songs 2.

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So wear it and declare it is really the theme

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of this affiliation that I'm doing with Heartstrings.

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Gold-filled, not gold-plated.

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You can shower in it, you can swim in it.

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I showered and swam in it in Florida,

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got in the hot tub, got in the pool, all the things.

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It doesn't tarnish, it doesn't turn green.

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It's really awesome.

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I really do believe in declaring

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what God has spoken over us

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and there are hundreds of charms to choose from

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that will be meaningful to you

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and prophetic words over your life.

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And so gentlemen, get one for your sister,

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your mom, someone, ladies,

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and they're really cost-effective.

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I saw a charm bar in Santa Rosa

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because charm necklaces are kind of in style right now.

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They were gold-plated,

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so they're gonna turn green immediately.

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They're gonna rust and just, you know,

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they're gonna get dingy really fast.

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And they were so expensive.

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Like a necklace full of this many charms

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would probably be about $300, okay,

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compared to, you know, $60, $70 with all the charms.

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So yes, it's a yes for me.

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Okay, so let's get started with.

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ladies that I called out since we didn't have time to put a post up we're going to start with Judy and way New Jersey guys i'm on my phone.

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As David is not home he's still in California and I need him to set up my technology because that's how we partner and that's how we roll Okay, so let me try my best here.

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We do a little ask Jackie action tonight too, if we have time all right miss Judy is spotlighted looking beautiful how are you.

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Good how are you good okay so tell everyone where do you live I live in wayne New Jersey okay how many years younger you.

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I'm 51 any any children or any have you ever been married.

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Yeah I was married for a really long time and I have a 16 year old and a 10 year old okay awesome right so wayne new wayne indiana.

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New Jersey oh new jersey okay sure jersey did I meet you at the conference I saw you at the conference I was there okay awesome it was fun wasn't it was a fun conference.

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Yes, okay awesome okay so she's in New Jersey, can you can relocate or is there shared parenting there is shared parenting, so I can't move Okay, and what do you do with your time besides raise your beautiful children, what do you, what do you do for your vocation, what are you passionate about.

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I do hikes just recently I went on a hike, and I like to read, I like finances I am an accountant, and I'm in finances and stuff like that.

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What else. I've taken some salsa classes, trying to know what I like what I don't like so I'm trying out new things. Yeah.

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Were you married really young.

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Yeah, my 20s. Yeah. Yeah, so that's what's important to try out, find out what you like what you don't like because so often we just take on what other people like, right.

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So that's good. Alright so salsa salsa eating accountant. I love that. So, are you accounting for a company.

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Yes, I am. I work for sharp electronics.

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By the way, I wasn't aware that I was being showcased today.

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No, no, I just picked you just randomly just now.

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I didn't know because I was just like you you you you you because normally we put up a post for the ladies but we didn't get a chance to do that today so.

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Okay, so she has a 16 year old and a 10 year old still at home she cannot relocate right now but that's okay because we have lots of people in Jersey and New York and all of those areas.

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She's an accountant.

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How tall are you.

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Five, three.

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Okay.

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So she's, she's perfect size for really anybody. Right. Unlike me 510, you know, got to have a specialized match when you get a job.

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Okay, so she's, she's perfect size for really anybody right I'm like me 510, you know, got to have a specialized match when you get this tall gorgeous smile gorgeous lady.

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Thank you. Do you go to the church for that, where the conference was held.

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No, I actually go to another church close by. Okay.

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Half hour away from there. Okay.

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Yeah, I'm sure that your church is great that church that host of the conference, that church is great.

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Yes, absolutely. All right. Thank you for being a good sport. Let me put you on the spot there, Judy. So if you want to meet Judy, you can email us.

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I know there's not a lot of guys here live but guys that are watching and replay you can email us spotlight at Aaron joy is a spotlight or spotlight.

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I think it's spotlight.

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I think it's but spotlight at Jane media.org. If you can just throw that up in the chat so people can see it, it's spotlight. It's just singular chain media.org and put Judy, New Jersey and Jay there in the subject line, make sure that you give us a little

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of who you are, and a picture of you. Don't just assume that we know who you are and what you look like, gentlemen, because we will need to see that. Okay, so let's go back and forth. We'll do guy girl guy girl.

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And so, the next person on my screen is James, and so I'm going to spotlight him.

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And we're going to find out all about him.

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James is such a name for me.

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Let me see. Is this you?

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I'm trying to see.

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I don't think that's you.

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Let me see for a sec. Hold on.

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Guys, once again, I'm on my phone.

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I apologize. I apologize about being on my phone.

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But David's watching some dogs in California and he will be back soon.

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Let's see if this happens if I do this.

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It spotlighted you. This is James.

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We're going to find out about him, but I just want to tell you the name James.

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My biological father's name is James.

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My maternal uncle's name is James.

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My maternal grandfather's name is James,

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and my former husband's name is James.

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A lot of James going on in my life.

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James, tell us what's your middle name,

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and where are you,

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how old are you,

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and what are you up to in life right now?

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Yeah. Middle name is Paul.

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James Paul. I like it. JP.

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Yeah. A lot of followers of Christ back then.

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I'm in Nashville.

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Temporarily, I'm transferring down to Austin for work.

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I'm 45 years old,

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and I open healthcare clinics,

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particularly in mental health for a capital group.

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All throughout Los Angeles for many years,

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and now I'm doing it in other markets right now.

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Wow. I didn't even know that about you.

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That's really interesting.

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Are they holistic mental health,

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or is it community-based? Just curious.

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Good question. I worked out in Malibu for many years.

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I'm a clinician designing these rehabs and stuff.

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They get sued or whatever because they don't have

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good practices and so I go in and reorganize

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and help them come up to speed.

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I work with a guy named Dr. Lawrence Heller,

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and some other people like Gabor Mate and stuff,

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bringing some of these newer therapies to market.

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Wow.

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It's for profit,

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and we also are going to have community-based mental health as well.

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I love that. That's so needed,

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and it's so good that people will have access to services.

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You're helping reorganize and restructure,

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and also plants and open,

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but what do you do for fun?

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Good question. I have a golden retriever.

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He's 11 months old named Bear, and he is awesome.

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I spend a lot of time with him.

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We take weekend trips.

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I have family around here down in Austin,

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so we go visit family.

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We have a lot of great friends in my church group,

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so we golf, a bunch of guys.

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We watch the NBA finals,

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stuff like that, bonfires.

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Get in the word, but also have a lot of fun.

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That's awesome. I love that.

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What's your basketball team?

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Detroit Pistons. I'm originally from Michigan.

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Okay. I'll forgive you for that,

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for being from Michigan.

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Detroit's practically Cleveland, though,

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if you really think about it, and that's where I'm from.

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I mean, it's so close. It's so close, right?

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And all of those manufacturing steel cities

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and good old blue-collar worker cities.

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Okay, so Detroit Pistons, that's fine,

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and golf, you got a handicap?

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Are you any good at golf?

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I mean, I'm okay. I just like to go out and have fun.

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I think the biggest thing is connecting with my friends

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and hanging out.

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You know, I'm not, like, obsessed with it or anything, so.

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Okay, that's cool.

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Golden Retriever, we like that.

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What's your Golden Retriever's name?

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Bear, yeah.

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Bear, okay.

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Ladies, we love that.

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We love a Golden Retriever.

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That's a great dog.

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Yeah.

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You have some Michigan fans in here.

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Yay, Michigan!

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Okay, guys, whatever.

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Can I get a Go Bucks?

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All right, so let's see what kind of questions we have.

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Okay, so people want to know about your love life,

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of course.

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Have you ever been married?

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You're 45.

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Are you divorced?

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Do you have any children?

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I've never been married.

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I don't have children.

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Okay, all right.

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Thank you, Michelle, for that OHIO.

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I appreciate it.

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Okay, we're gonna start a rumble in here.

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Okay, who else has questions?

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So never married.

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James, never been married.

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No kids.

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Okay.

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Do you still want children?

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Are you interested?

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Yes, I've had a long-time partnership

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and she decided in the last year

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she doesn't want to have kids

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and that's something that we've been kind of working through

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and yeah, I would love to have kids.

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I'm just getting to that age

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where I know it can be unfair to them,

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so I'm trying to.

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you know, make something happen.

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So, yeah.

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Yeah, no.

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Okay, so are you saying,

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am I hearing that you are like,

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you're like in the middle of a breakup?

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No, we separated like last year.

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Okay.

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Yeah, she's like,

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but that was like,

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that was part of the deal breaker

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was that you really want to have a family

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and she's not interested.

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Okay, so that's good to know, ladies.

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It's important.

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I see some of you are like,

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hey, I have a friend that I like to introduce him to.

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Remember, this is someone who's been through

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a long-term relationship breakup

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because they had different visions for the future,

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specifically regarding family.

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And so that's important to keep in mind.

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Okay.

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How old?

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He said he was 45.

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So you guys got that.

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Do you, let's just ask you like,

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what's your,

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instead of your top three favorite books,

492
00:25:50.980 --> 00:25:52.860
cause that'd be hard for me to even figure out,

493
00:25:52.860 --> 00:25:53.700
do you like to read?

494
00:25:53.700 --> 00:25:55.000
And if so, like,

495
00:25:55.000 --> 00:25:57.120
what's a recent read that you really liked

496
00:25:57.120 --> 00:25:58.220
or your favorite book?

497
00:25:59.400 --> 00:26:03.400
Yeah, I think I read like a lot of literature on,

498
00:26:03.400 --> 00:26:05.120
you know, science and stuff like that,

499
00:26:05.120 --> 00:26:06.600
but that's like my job.

500
00:26:06.600 --> 00:26:08.240
I also write,

501
00:26:08.240 --> 00:26:12.240
but I think there's a book called like Scaling,

502
00:26:12.240 --> 00:26:13.360
I think is the best book.

503
00:26:13.360 --> 00:26:14.640
Like Tony Robbins was like,

504
00:26:14.640 --> 00:26:16.620
I'm jealous I never got to write this book.

505
00:26:16.620 --> 00:26:18.560
So I think that that's probably the best thing

506
00:26:18.560 --> 00:26:19.720
I've read in a while.

507
00:26:27.600 --> 00:26:28.920
I think we lost Jackie.

508
00:26:29.400 --> 00:26:34.400
Do you want to freeform a little?

509
00:26:37.760 --> 00:26:41.440
I think I saw someone asking about your height.

510
00:26:42.680 --> 00:26:43.760
Sorry, who is that?

511
00:26:43.760 --> 00:26:45.560
Oh, it's Thomas.

512
00:26:45.560 --> 00:26:46.600
Oh, hey Thomas.

513
00:26:46.600 --> 00:26:48.060
Yeah, I'm 11.

514
00:26:49.200 --> 00:26:51.800
And oh, so this is like a pitch then.

515
00:26:52.680 --> 00:26:54.520
Now I don't have Jackie here.

516
00:26:54.520 --> 00:26:55.760
Let's see.

517
00:26:55.760 --> 00:26:58.520
Well, right now,

518
00:26:58.520 --> 00:26:59.480
I'm renting a home.

519
00:26:59.480 --> 00:27:01.620
I plan on buying a home in Austin.

520
00:27:02.720 --> 00:27:04.920
The market's kind of on the downtrend there.

521
00:27:04.920 --> 00:27:07.560
So I'm gonna probably do that.

522
00:27:07.560 --> 00:27:08.720
I'd like to stay in Austin.

523
00:27:08.720 --> 00:27:10.520
I have a lot of family that's there,

524
00:27:11.760 --> 00:27:14.860
but I'm open to moving to other places.

525
00:27:16.560 --> 00:27:18.560
You know, just have to be something that'd be like,

526
00:27:18.560 --> 00:27:20.360
you know, compromised work through.

527
00:27:20.360 --> 00:27:24.360
So any other things come to mind, Thomas?

528
00:27:25.640 --> 00:27:27.040
Well, we have a question here.

529
00:27:27.040 --> 00:27:28.460
What's your idea of a great weekend?

530
00:27:29.300 --> 00:27:30.260
I feel like you already talked a little bit about that

531
00:27:30.260 --> 00:27:33.060
in regards to like hanging out with people,

532
00:27:33.060 --> 00:27:36.340
a little Bible study, a little time by the fire, community.

533
00:27:38.660 --> 00:27:39.500
Yeah.

534
00:27:39.500 --> 00:27:40.660
And she's back.

535
00:27:40.660 --> 00:27:42.300
Okay, so go ahead and answer that question.

536
00:27:42.300 --> 00:27:43.180
Sorry about that, you guys.

537
00:27:43.180 --> 00:27:45.100
My phone just crashed down.

538
00:27:47.060 --> 00:27:48.940
Yeah, thanks.

539
00:27:48.940 --> 00:27:52.020
Yeah, I think just spending time, you know,

540
00:27:52.020 --> 00:27:54.060
equally out with friends and in community

541
00:27:54.060 --> 00:27:55.780
and kind of having time to like regroup

542
00:27:55.780 --> 00:27:58.140
and do romantic things I think are fun.

543
00:27:58.140 --> 00:28:00.860
Like this last weekend, I was up in like Lake Michigan.

544
00:28:00.860 --> 00:28:02.660
I think it's like beautiful area

545
00:28:02.660 --> 00:28:04.500
up on the sand dunes and everything.

546
00:28:04.500 --> 00:28:09.500
Like, so even a mix of indoor, outdoor, nature,

547
00:28:09.780 --> 00:28:14.500
metro, friends, intimate time, just good balance, I think.

548
00:28:16.540 --> 00:28:18.140
Awesome, okay.

549
00:28:18.140 --> 00:28:20.460
So didn't hear the question, loved the answer.

550
00:28:20.460 --> 00:28:23.660
Okay, so ladies, if you wanna know more about James,

551
00:28:23.660 --> 00:28:28.380
remember 45, single, never married, no kids, wants kids.

552
00:28:29.420 --> 00:28:34.420
You can email spotlight at jmedia.org, put James.

553
00:28:34.620 --> 00:28:38.340
And then do we wanna put Austin or Nashville in the?

554
00:28:38.340 --> 00:28:40.620
I'll be in Austin, July 15th.

555
00:28:40.620 --> 00:28:42.500
So yeah, I'd probably put Austin.

556
00:28:42.500 --> 00:28:43.700
Yeah, that's soon.

557
00:28:43.700 --> 00:28:45.260
All right, we can't wait to meet you in person.

558
00:28:45.260 --> 00:28:48.140
We have a huge singles community here

559
00:28:48.140 --> 00:28:50.820
and Christian community here, so excited for that.

560
00:28:50.820 --> 00:28:53.700
Okay, so James and put Austin.

561
00:28:53.700 --> 00:28:58.060
So James and Austin in the subject line.

562
00:28:58.060 --> 00:29:01.100
Remember, we need your bio and pictures of you.

563
00:29:01.100 --> 00:29:03.460
Don't just assume that we know who you are.

564
00:29:03.460 --> 00:29:06.020
And if you know someone that you would like

565
00:29:06.020 --> 00:29:07.660
to introduce any of these singles to.

566
00:29:07.660 --> 00:29:09.220
Remember friends, this is a community-based

567
00:29:09.220 --> 00:29:11.340
matchmaking movement.

568
00:29:11.340 --> 00:29:13.300
That is what we do here, that is what we do well.

569
00:29:13.300 --> 00:29:16.060
So even if someone is too old, too young,

570
00:29:16.060 --> 00:29:18.660
not in the right place, they can't move

571
00:29:18.660 --> 00:29:20.220
and you can't move either.

572
00:29:20.260 --> 00:29:21.820
But you know someone that you would like

573
00:29:21.820 --> 00:29:22.660
to introduce them to.

574
00:29:22.660 --> 00:29:24.300
You can still write into us and tell us

575
00:29:24.300 --> 00:29:27.060
about your friend, your cousin, your uncle,

576
00:29:27.060 --> 00:29:29.620
whoever it is that you would like to introduce

577
00:29:29.620 --> 00:29:31.420
to one of these singles, all right?

578
00:29:31.420 --> 00:29:34.980
It's important that we work together on this.

579
00:29:34.980 --> 00:29:38.020
All right, so next up, let's go ahead and do a lady.

580
00:29:39.820 --> 00:29:43.180
I apologize for putting these ladies into just

581
00:29:45.820 --> 00:29:48.340
the hot seat sort of with just picking them

582
00:29:48.340 --> 00:29:50.500
out of the blue, all right?

583
00:29:50.500 --> 00:29:55.500
So we're going to, hang on one sec.

584
00:29:55.900 --> 00:29:57.900
Sorry, it's so hard to do this from my phone you guys,

585
00:29:57.900 --> 00:30:00.180
but we just got to roll with it.

586
00:30:00.000 --> 00:30:14.000
Let's get a lady going.

587
00:30:14.000 --> 00:30:19.000
We removed James, now let's get a lady going.

588
00:30:19.000 --> 00:30:22.000
Lauren, do you pronounce your name Lauren or Loren?

589
00:30:22.000 --> 00:30:25.000
Same way as your name.

590
00:30:25.000 --> 00:30:28.000
So Lauren and Loren, you live in Florida?

591
00:30:28.000 --> 00:30:31.000
Yes, I'm in Santa Rosa Beach, Florida.

592
00:30:31.000 --> 00:30:35.000
Yeah, you were just where I just was, and we didn't get a chance to connect.

593
00:30:35.000 --> 00:30:39.000
So okay, so Lauren, tell us, how old are you?

594
00:30:39.000 --> 00:30:44.000
Kind of give us a little preview of what you do, what you like to do,

595
00:30:44.000 --> 00:30:52.000
and then also some relationship history.

596
00:30:52.000 --> 00:30:57.000
Oh, you're muted though.

597
00:30:57.000 --> 00:30:58.000
Can you hear me now?

598
00:30:58.000 --> 00:30:59.000
Mm-hmm.

599
00:30:59.000 --> 00:31:01.000
Okay, sorry.

600
00:31:01.000 --> 00:31:06.000
I'm 41, never been married, don't have kids.

601
00:31:06.000 --> 00:31:12.000
I work for a home health care company, and then I do photography on the side.

602
00:31:12.000 --> 00:31:15.000
Oh, what kind of photography?

603
00:31:15.000 --> 00:31:22.000
Mainly a lot of families that come here to visit, and then weddings and couples too.

604
00:31:22.000 --> 00:31:23.000
Awesome.

605
00:31:23.000 --> 00:31:26.000
Okay, well, that's good to know for when we have our next retreat down there,

606
00:31:26.000 --> 00:31:28.000
because we did hire a photographer.

607
00:31:28.000 --> 00:31:30.000
So good to know that you're there.

608
00:31:30.000 --> 00:31:36.000
All right, and so no children, never been married, and what do you –

609
00:31:36.000 --> 00:31:40.000
so obviously you're creative, you like photography, home health.

610
00:31:40.000 --> 00:31:45.000
Well, what else do you like to do for fun besides photography?

611
00:31:45.000 --> 00:31:49.000
We have some really great state parks around here that I like to go to,

612
00:31:49.000 --> 00:31:51.000
to walk for exercise.

613
00:31:51.000 --> 00:31:57.000
And then I lead a women's group, sorry, with one of my friends.

614
00:31:57.000 --> 00:32:00.000
And then I'm involved with church.

615
00:32:00.000 --> 00:32:01.000
Okay.

616
00:32:01.000 --> 00:32:03.000
What do you guys do in your women's group?

617
00:32:03.000 --> 00:32:09.000
Right now we are studying a series called Ribology from Charlotte Gamble.

618
00:32:09.000 --> 00:32:10.000
Okay.

619
00:32:10.000 --> 00:32:12.000
I'm sorry, what was the name of it?

620
00:32:12.000 --> 00:32:14.000
Ribology.

621
00:32:14.000 --> 00:32:17.000
What is that?

622
00:32:17.000 --> 00:32:22.000
Ribology, it's basically about the woman's role as the rib.

623
00:32:22.000 --> 00:32:24.000
Okay.

624
00:32:24.000 --> 00:32:26.000
Ribology, y'all.

625
00:32:26.000 --> 00:32:28.000
Rib, like a rib.

626
00:32:28.000 --> 00:32:29.000
Okay.

627
00:32:29.000 --> 00:32:30.000
All right, cool.

628
00:32:30.000 --> 00:32:31.000
Awesome.

629
00:32:31.000 --> 00:32:33.000
Okay, well, that sounds fun.

630
00:32:33.000 --> 00:32:34.000
Let's see.

631
00:32:34.000 --> 00:32:38.000
Ladies, gentlemen, anyone have any questions that we could just kind of dig

632
00:32:38.000 --> 00:32:40.000
in a little bit with Lauren?

633
00:32:40.000 --> 00:32:42.000
I did not do that at the beginning.

634
00:32:42.000 --> 00:32:43.000
I should have.

635
00:32:43.000 --> 00:32:48.000
But, all right, let's see.

636
00:32:48.000 --> 00:32:51.000
People are like, you look gorgeous, da, da, da.

637
00:32:51.000 --> 00:32:54.000
Tell us about your tattoos is the question.

638
00:32:54.000 --> 00:32:57.000
Yes.

639
00:32:57.000 --> 00:32:59.000
They're there.

640
00:32:59.000 --> 00:33:05.000
I really wish I could shed them like a snake.

641
00:33:06.000 --> 00:33:11.000
But, yeah, they're a product of my early 30s, so.

642
00:33:11.000 --> 00:33:12.000
That happens.

643
00:33:12.000 --> 00:33:13.000
We all have them.

644
00:33:13.000 --> 00:33:16.000
It happens, yeah.

645
00:33:16.000 --> 00:33:19.000
So you're like, they were meaningful then, but they're not so meaningful now.

646
00:33:19.000 --> 00:33:20.000
Yes.

647
00:33:20.000 --> 00:33:21.000
Gotcha.

648
00:33:21.000 --> 00:33:24.000
Well, just so you know, it's super painful, but you can't get them removed.

649
00:33:24.000 --> 00:33:25.000
Yes.

650
00:33:25.000 --> 00:33:26.000
Okay.

651
00:33:26.000 --> 00:33:27.000
All right.

652
00:33:27.000 --> 00:33:28.000
So, way to go, Thomas.

653
00:33:28.000 --> 00:33:31.000
Bring up the wrong question.

654
00:33:31.000 --> 00:33:32.000
No, I'm just kidding.

655
00:33:32.000 --> 00:33:33.000
I'm just joking.

656
00:33:33.000 --> 00:33:35.000
Okay.

657
00:33:35.000 --> 00:33:38.000
Melissa Dawn wants to know what makes you come alive.

658
00:33:38.000 --> 00:33:41.000
So what do you just absolutely love?

659
00:33:41.000 --> 00:33:46.000
I absolutely love just connecting with other women.

660
00:33:46.000 --> 00:33:48.000
That's probably my favorite.

661
00:33:48.000 --> 00:33:53.000
I have some younger girls that I mentor and meet with.

662
00:33:53.000 --> 00:33:56.000
And, you know, we talk about dating and being single.

663
00:33:56.000 --> 00:34:01.000
And that's probably one of the top things, just connecting with others.

664
00:34:01.000 --> 00:34:03.000
And then, of course, photography, too.

665
00:34:03.000 --> 00:34:08.000
Photographing weddings is probably one of my top things that I love, too.

666
00:34:08.000 --> 00:34:09.000
Awesome.

667
00:34:09.000 --> 00:34:12.000
And are you interested in having children?

668
00:34:12.000 --> 00:34:14.000
I'm open to it, yes.

669
00:34:14.000 --> 00:34:15.000
Open to it.

670
00:34:15.000 --> 00:34:16.000
Okay.

671
00:34:16.000 --> 00:34:17.000
Let's see.

672
00:34:17.000 --> 00:34:18.000
How tall are you?

673
00:34:18.000 --> 00:34:20.000
I'm 5'2".

674
00:34:20.000 --> 00:34:21.000
Okay.

675
00:34:21.000 --> 00:34:23.000
All the fun-sized girls are showing up tonight.

676
00:34:23.000 --> 00:34:24.000
All right.

677
00:34:24.000 --> 00:34:25.000
All right.

678
00:34:25.000 --> 00:34:26.000
No height.

679
00:34:26.000 --> 00:34:29.000
There's not going to be any height restrictions there, so that's good.

680
00:34:29.000 --> 00:34:30.000
All right.

681
00:34:30.000 --> 00:34:32.000
Let me just check and make sure that there's no other questions.

682
00:34:32.000 --> 00:34:35.000
You guys, if you want to meet Lauren,

683
00:34:35.000 --> 00:34:42.000
then you can put her name and Florida in the subject line of your email.

684
00:34:42.000 --> 00:34:44.000
If you know someone she should meet, ladies,

685
00:34:44.000 --> 00:34:46.000
if you want to matchmake her with someone that you know,

686
00:34:46.000 --> 00:34:48.000
gentlemen that are watching here live or in replay,

687
00:34:48.000 --> 00:34:52.000
please go ahead and send us that information, pictures, bios.

688
00:34:52.000 --> 00:34:55.000
Remember, if you don't include that,

689
00:34:55.000 --> 00:34:59.000
we will just move your email to the trash can.

690
00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:03.240
Okay, because we don't have time to go looking you up.

691
00:35:03.240 --> 00:35:06.360
All right, people are like,

692
00:35:06.360 --> 00:35:09.200
hey, why don't we just match make Lauren and James?

693
00:35:09.200 --> 00:35:11.120
Okay, all right, fun, fun.

694
00:35:11.120 --> 00:35:14.160
Okay, so let's move on here.

695
00:35:18.440 --> 00:35:20.060
Thank you so much, Lauren.

696
00:35:20.060 --> 00:35:23.240
Okay, ladies are being good sports tonight,

697
00:35:23.240 --> 00:35:27.960
just letting me put them into the spotlight.

698
00:35:27.960 --> 00:35:32.960
Okay, and next up we have another eligible bachelor,

699
00:35:33.520 --> 00:35:37.560
Joel Noah, Fort Myers got Florida in the house tonight.

700
00:35:37.560 --> 00:35:41.280
Okay, so Joel, you are spotlighted.

701
00:35:41.280 --> 00:35:45.480
You know the drill by now, so tell us where you're from.

702
00:35:45.480 --> 00:35:47.800
We can see Fort Myers, but are you from Florida

703
00:35:47.800 --> 00:35:50.960
or did you just move there because you like the weather

704
00:35:50.960 --> 00:35:52.600
and then what do you do for a living?

705
00:35:52.600 --> 00:35:53.440
How old are you?

706
00:35:54.360 --> 00:35:56.120
So I'm mostly from Florida.

707
00:35:56.960 --> 00:35:59.000
I was born in Pennsylvania,

708
00:35:59.000 --> 00:36:02.880
but over the course of education and moving places,

709
00:36:02.880 --> 00:36:04.240
I'm mostly from Florida,

710
00:36:04.240 --> 00:36:06.880
but I've been in Fort Myers for 10 years.

711
00:36:06.880 --> 00:36:07.720
Okay.

712
00:36:07.720 --> 00:36:09.000
I'm a veterinarian.

713
00:36:09.000 --> 00:36:12.800
I am almost 36.

714
00:36:12.800 --> 00:36:17.520
And does that answer everything you just asked?

715
00:36:17.520 --> 00:36:18.480
Yeah, I think so.

716
00:36:18.480 --> 00:36:19.960
But now that you're a veterinarian,

717
00:36:19.960 --> 00:36:21.840
I have all kinds of questions.

718
00:36:21.840 --> 00:36:26.200
Okay, so like large animals to small animals,

719
00:36:26.200 --> 00:36:29.040
like what's the craziest thing you've ever seen

720
00:36:29.040 --> 00:36:31.600
an animal eat and survive?

721
00:36:32.840 --> 00:36:34.280
We don't want to hear any sad stories

722
00:36:34.280 --> 00:36:35.680
because we love animals.

723
00:36:35.680 --> 00:36:40.680
Yeah, craziest thing I've seen an animal eat.

724
00:36:42.000 --> 00:36:43.760
That you've had to remove, but it made it.

725
00:36:43.760 --> 00:36:45.080
Yeah, yeah.

726
00:36:47.160 --> 00:36:49.320
Well, it's not particularly crazy,

727
00:36:49.320 --> 00:36:53.680
but I've removed some little toy figurines

728
00:36:54.600 --> 00:36:56.040
from animals before.

729
00:36:56.040 --> 00:36:58.800
So it's a little interesting to pull

730
00:36:58.800 --> 00:37:02.800
like a tiny little miniaturized human out of an animal.

731
00:37:02.800 --> 00:37:04.720
It's like, why did you eat that?

732
00:37:04.720 --> 00:37:05.720
What were you thinking?

733
00:37:05.720 --> 00:37:07.800
What's happening here?

734
00:37:07.800 --> 00:37:11.520
So yes, we love, love, love animals, don't we ladies?

735
00:37:11.520 --> 00:37:13.520
Okay, so what made you want to be a veterinarian?

736
00:37:13.520 --> 00:37:15.560
Did you always just love animals?

737
00:37:15.560 --> 00:37:17.040
So ever since I was little,

738
00:37:17.040 --> 00:37:19.240
I had wanted to be a veterinarian

739
00:37:20.040 --> 00:37:22.000
and my parents had kind of encouraged that in me.

740
00:37:22.000 --> 00:37:26.160
But as I grew up, the thing that sort of solidified that

741
00:37:26.160 --> 00:37:29.120
for me was being able to help people and animals

742
00:37:29.120 --> 00:37:32.160
because I know that helping a person's animal

743
00:37:32.160 --> 00:37:34.800
can really make a huge impact on their life.

744
00:37:34.800 --> 00:37:36.960
And so that was something that really drew me

745
00:37:36.960 --> 00:37:40.280
into the field as I matured and got older.

746
00:37:40.280 --> 00:37:41.320
Gosh, that's so true.

747
00:37:41.320 --> 00:37:44.280
It's such a kingdom job because for a lot of people,

748
00:37:44.280 --> 00:37:45.920
they're animals, are their family,

749
00:37:45.960 --> 00:37:49.360
they're their fur children, so to speak.

750
00:37:49.360 --> 00:37:53.440
So yes, that is a very, that's a ministry for sure.

751
00:37:53.440 --> 00:37:54.920
So, okay, love that.

752
00:37:54.920 --> 00:37:58.120
So Fort Myers, beautiful area, moved down from Pennsylvania.

753
00:37:58.120 --> 00:37:59.960
Okay, what do you like to do for fun?

754
00:38:00.880 --> 00:38:02.760
So I like all kinds of things,

755
00:38:02.760 --> 00:38:06.120
anything outdoors or science and nature related.

756
00:38:06.120 --> 00:38:09.760
So paddle boarding, kayaking, hiking,

757
00:38:09.760 --> 00:38:11.760
anything with the ocean,

758
00:38:11.760 --> 00:38:14.200
anything science and nature.

759
00:38:14.200 --> 00:38:16.360
I love growing things.

760
00:38:16.360 --> 00:38:21.360
I like collecting fossils and old things like books.

761
00:38:21.880 --> 00:38:25.560
And of course I love animals, work with my own animals.

762
00:38:25.560 --> 00:38:29.640
And then I also get to the privilege of volunteering

763
00:38:29.640 --> 00:38:32.160
with the local sea turtle monitoring program.

764
00:38:32.160 --> 00:38:34.160
So I get to do that once a week

765
00:38:34.160 --> 00:38:35.760
during sea turtle nesting season.

766
00:38:35.760 --> 00:38:37.760
So that's a lot of fun.

767
00:38:37.760 --> 00:38:40.360
So you get to like monitor like the nests,

768
00:38:41.000 --> 00:38:42.440
are you like, are you present

769
00:38:42.440 --> 00:38:45.240
when they start making their way to the sea?

770
00:38:45.240 --> 00:38:47.760
So most of the time, no.

771
00:38:47.760 --> 00:38:50.280
So what I'll do is I'll drive down

772
00:38:50.280 --> 00:38:53.760
and interpret the marks on the beach.

773
00:38:53.760 --> 00:38:56.280
And if it's a nest, I'll mark off the nest.

774
00:38:56.280 --> 00:39:00.800
And then the coolest part comes after they've hatched,

775
00:39:00.800 --> 00:39:03.680
then you get to go and dig it up

776
00:39:03.680 --> 00:39:06.240
and see how many have hatched and how many made it.

777
00:39:06.240 --> 00:39:09.840
And occasionally you get a few stragglers that pop up

778
00:39:09.840 --> 00:39:10.680
when that happens.

779
00:39:10.680 --> 00:39:12.360
So that's always pretty fun.

780
00:39:12.360 --> 00:39:14.760
Oh my gosh, that sounds so fun.

781
00:39:14.760 --> 00:39:17.120
I've seen sea turtle nests on the beach before

782
00:39:17.120 --> 00:39:18.080
when I've been traveling

783
00:39:18.080 --> 00:39:19.640
and I thought that that was pretty cool.

784
00:39:19.640 --> 00:39:20.600
So that's awesome.

785
00:39:20.600 --> 00:39:22.200
Okay, ladies, we know that you have questions.

786
00:39:22.200 --> 00:39:25.120
So go ahead and start firing away

787
00:39:25.120 --> 00:39:29.200
and we will ask the questions.

788
00:39:31.120 --> 00:39:32.520
Pets, pets, pets.

789
00:39:33.560 --> 00:39:34.640
Yes, have you ever been married?

790
00:39:34.640 --> 00:39:35.480
Do you have any kids?

791
00:39:35.480 --> 00:39:36.320
Do you want them?

792
00:39:37.320 --> 00:39:38.680
Never married, no kids.

793
00:39:38.680 --> 00:39:40.160
And I do want kids.

794
00:39:40.160 --> 00:39:42.640
That's actually pretty important to me, so.

795
00:39:43.680 --> 00:39:45.760
Okay, guys, that's part of his non-negotiables.

796
00:39:45.760 --> 00:39:46.960
Definitely wants that.

797
00:39:48.040 --> 00:39:49.200
We already, he already told us

798
00:39:49.200 --> 00:39:50.840
what he likes to do outside in Florida.

799
00:39:50.840 --> 00:39:53.240
What other questions, ladies, do you have?

800
00:39:55.000 --> 00:39:58.280
Loves anything science-related, outdoor-related.

801
00:39:59.360 --> 00:40:00.200
That's all.

802
00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:00.840
Good.

803
00:40:07.360 --> 00:40:09.400
All right, so someone is asking

804
00:40:09.400 --> 00:40:11.080
if you're willing to relocate

805
00:40:12.040 --> 00:40:14.920
or if Florida is where you wanna stay.

806
00:40:14.920 --> 00:40:16.760
Yeah, so I definitely wanna stay,

807
00:40:16.760 --> 00:40:18.120
well, I wanna stay here.

808
00:40:18.120 --> 00:40:20.200
I have some pretty deep roots here.

809
00:40:20.200 --> 00:40:24.560
The job I'm at, I have been at since I graduated that school

810
00:40:24.560 --> 00:40:27.880
so a decade now, and they're like a second family to me.

811
00:40:27.880 --> 00:40:30.560
And I also have family here as well.

812
00:40:30.560 --> 00:40:35.560
And then I also have some childhood history here.

813
00:40:36.520 --> 00:40:37.960
And then we used to always come

814
00:40:37.960 --> 00:40:40.960
and vacation to Sanibel Island, which is-

815
00:40:40.960 --> 00:40:41.800
Oh, yeah.

816
00:40:41.800 --> 00:40:42.960
Right here, yeah.

817
00:40:42.960 --> 00:40:44.600
Yeah, Sanibel Island.

818
00:40:44.600 --> 00:40:45.800
Yeah, I'm pretty deep.

819
00:40:45.800 --> 00:40:48.120
That's actually where I do the sea turtle monitoring,

820
00:40:48.120 --> 00:40:50.400
but I'm pretty deeply rooted here.

821
00:40:50.400 --> 00:40:52.200
But I am open to long distance,

822
00:40:52.200 --> 00:40:54.240
but I would say Florida is so big

823
00:40:54.240 --> 00:40:58.320
that I would just probably geographically limit that

824
00:40:58.320 --> 00:41:03.320
to Florida just because Pensacola is like a nine-hour drive

825
00:41:03.400 --> 00:41:05.120
and Jacksonville is like a six-hour drive.

826
00:41:05.120 --> 00:41:10.120
So I'm all the way down in the southwest corner, so.

827
00:41:10.680 --> 00:41:12.040
Yeah, that makes sense.

828
00:41:12.040 --> 00:41:14.800
Okay, so he's rooted, you guys, in Florida,

829
00:41:14.800 --> 00:41:16.480
wants to stay in that area, makes sense.

830
00:41:16.480 --> 00:41:17.520
His practice is there.

831
00:41:17.520 --> 00:41:19.120
He's a doctor, he's a vet.

832
00:41:19.120 --> 00:41:24.000
So that's not easy to rebuild those types of relationships.

833
00:41:24.760 --> 00:41:27.720
Those are very relational jobs in the community.

834
00:41:27.720 --> 00:41:29.520
And so building the trust of community.

835
00:41:29.520 --> 00:41:31.160
And so, yeah.

836
00:41:31.160 --> 00:41:33.960
So if you are interested in,

837
00:41:33.960 --> 00:41:37.440
if you're in the greater Florida regions

838
00:41:37.440 --> 00:41:39.720
and you're interested in getting to know Joel

839
00:41:39.720 --> 00:41:41.360
or you know someone who should be interested

840
00:41:41.360 --> 00:41:42.280
in getting to know him,

841
00:41:42.280 --> 00:41:45.160
you can put Joel in the subject line, Florida,

842
00:41:45.160 --> 00:41:48.720
Joel, Florida, spotlight at jmedia.org.

843
00:41:48.720 --> 00:41:51.680
Don't forget, bio pictures, gotta have them.

844
00:41:51.680 --> 00:41:53.400
All right, Joel, thank you so much

845
00:41:53.400 --> 00:41:55.040
for spotlighting tonight.

846
00:41:55.040 --> 00:41:56.720
Really appreciate it.

847
00:41:56.720 --> 00:41:58.920
Guys, we have a lot of never married,

848
00:41:58.920 --> 00:42:00.880
no kids spotlights tonight.

849
00:42:00.880 --> 00:42:02.920
So if you're in that boat

850
00:42:02.920 --> 00:42:04.160
and you felt like you were all alone

851
00:42:04.160 --> 00:42:05.600
and everyone else has been married

852
00:42:05.600 --> 00:42:07.840
and possibly divorced, has children, all the things,

853
00:42:07.840 --> 00:42:09.320
it's just not true.

854
00:42:09.320 --> 00:42:11.120
Because so far tonight,

855
00:42:11.120 --> 00:42:13.640
that is kind of what we've been rolling with

856
00:42:13.640 --> 00:42:14.920
for the most part.

857
00:42:14.920 --> 00:42:16.320
Okay, all right.

858
00:42:16.320 --> 00:42:18.800
Okay, so let's see.

859
00:42:18.800 --> 00:42:21.920
I also wanted to spotlight,

860
00:42:23.200 --> 00:42:24.680
I had a couple other ladies on here

861
00:42:24.680 --> 00:42:25.800
that I was gonna spotlight,

862
00:42:25.800 --> 00:42:26.760
but now they've disappeared.

863
00:42:26.760 --> 00:42:28.760
I think they're running from me.

864
00:42:28.760 --> 00:42:31.080
I think they're trying to get away.

865
00:42:31.080 --> 00:42:33.080
All right, I'm gonna get Stephanie up

866
00:42:33.080 --> 00:42:34.200
because I see her.

867
00:42:34.200 --> 00:42:36.840
You can run, but you cannot hide, my friend.

868
00:42:36.840 --> 00:42:38.280
Okay, spotlight.

869
00:42:39.400 --> 00:42:41.120
All right, Stephanie,

870
00:42:41.120 --> 00:42:43.200
I know you weren't expecting to be spotlighted,

871
00:42:43.200 --> 00:42:45.240
but here you are, you look great.

872
00:42:45.240 --> 00:42:47.960
Tell us who you are, where you are,

873
00:42:47.960 --> 00:42:48.920
how old you are,

874
00:42:48.920 --> 00:42:51.120
and give us some relationship history.

875
00:42:51.120 --> 00:42:52.280
Okay, hey, Jackie.

876
00:42:53.360 --> 00:42:55.120
I am 34 years old.

877
00:42:55.120 --> 00:42:57.760
I'm in Grand Rapids, Michigan.

878
00:42:57.760 --> 00:42:59.440
No kids, never married.

879
00:42:59.440 --> 00:43:01.600
Oh, but I'm also, I'm open to relocating.

880
00:43:01.600 --> 00:43:03.760
In fact, I feel like I sense

881
00:43:03.760 --> 00:43:06.760
that God is gonna plant me somewhere else soon.

882
00:43:06.760 --> 00:43:10.080
So I'm open to that, yeah.

883
00:43:11.280 --> 00:43:13.760
All right, Stephanie's in Grand Rapids, Michigan.

884
00:43:13.760 --> 00:43:17.840
She's 35, never married, wants kids, no kids now.

885
00:43:18.760 --> 00:43:20.800
I'm sorry, how much?

886
00:43:20.800 --> 00:43:23.080
Actually, I'll be 34 in a couple of days.

887
00:43:23.080 --> 00:43:25.320
I aged you, I'm so sorry.

888
00:43:25.320 --> 00:43:29.640
Okay, all right, and so what do you do for a living?

889
00:43:29.640 --> 00:43:32.560
Vocation, and also, what do you do for fun?

890
00:43:32.560 --> 00:43:34.720
Yeah, so I'm a counselor.

891
00:43:34.720 --> 00:43:37.520
I have a practice here in Grand Rapids,

892
00:43:37.520 --> 00:43:42.520
and for fun, I love hiking, being outdoors, reading.

893
00:43:44.360 --> 00:43:46.320
I'm working on a, I'm almost done

894
00:43:46.320 --> 00:43:49.000
with a fitness certification to be a fitness instructor.

895
00:43:49.000 --> 00:43:51.080
From a word you gave, Jackie.

896
00:43:51.080 --> 00:43:53.520
Awesome, I love it.

897
00:43:53.520 --> 00:43:57.800
Yes, I'm also, love gardening.

898
00:43:57.800 --> 00:44:00.960
I'm a little bit crunchy, so I love natural health.

899
00:44:03.080 --> 00:44:05.320
Like, I make my own deodorant and all that.

900
00:44:05.320 --> 00:44:07.960
And no, no one's ever told me I smell before.

901
00:44:07.960 --> 00:44:08.800
Oh, I love it.

902
00:44:08.800 --> 00:44:10.240
What do you make it out of?

903
00:44:11.640 --> 00:44:14.280
Coconut oil, arrowroot powder.

904
00:44:15.280 --> 00:44:17.600
Uh, there's one other ingredient.

905
00:44:17.600 --> 00:44:18.840
I'm blanking right now, but.

906
00:44:18.840 --> 00:44:20.520
Magnesium?

907
00:44:20.520 --> 00:44:22.000
No.

908
00:44:22.000 --> 00:44:23.960
Think that would make you tired, though.

909
00:44:26.320 --> 00:44:28.560
Yeah, okay, she makes her own deodorant, y'all.

910
00:44:28.560 --> 00:44:30.200
She smells great.

911
00:44:30.200 --> 00:44:32.520
Okay, so people are asking how tall you are.

912
00:44:32.520 --> 00:44:34.120
You have a bunch of hype girls in the comments.

913
00:44:34.120 --> 00:44:36.000
They're like, Stephanie, yeah.

914
00:44:36.000 --> 00:44:40.040
Okay, so how tall are you for some reason?

915
00:44:40.040 --> 00:44:41.640
Gwen wants to know.

916
00:44:41.640 --> 00:44:43.560
Five five, I'm a good day.

917
00:44:43.600 --> 00:44:47.240
Okay, so she's a little over average height.

918
00:44:47.240 --> 00:44:50.880
We have a taller, taller one here, five five.

919
00:44:50.880 --> 00:44:54.000
Okay, so let's see.

920
00:44:54.000 --> 00:44:56.800
And she does feel, she's willing to relocate.

921
00:44:56.800 --> 00:45:00.200
She does feel like that might be in God's plan for her.

922
00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:03.000
Grand Rapids is a beautiful area though, Michigan.

923
00:45:03.000 --> 00:45:06.720
I will concede that Michigan is beautiful, okay,

924
00:45:06.720 --> 00:45:08.160
because it is.

925
00:45:08.160 --> 00:45:09.920
All right, family, you know,

926
00:45:09.920 --> 00:45:12.000
and everyone who's been spotlighted,

927
00:45:12.000 --> 00:45:14.360
and really everybody, if you have siblings,

928
00:45:14.360 --> 00:45:15.760
let's see it in the chat.

929
00:45:15.760 --> 00:45:17.520
If you're an only child, let's see that.

930
00:45:17.520 --> 00:45:20.560
So Stephanie, all the people that have spotlighted already,

931
00:45:20.560 --> 00:45:22.760
let's see, you know, and if you do have siblings,

932
00:45:22.760 --> 00:45:24.320
just be like, I'm the oldest child,

933
00:45:24.320 --> 00:45:25.840
two brothers, two sisters, whatever.

934
00:45:25.840 --> 00:45:26.800
Let's just see that,

935
00:45:26.800 --> 00:45:29.240
because that really does make a difference.

936
00:45:29.280 --> 00:45:30.720
It really does.

937
00:45:30.720 --> 00:45:34.640
Only children have a lot of trouble sharing, okay?

938
00:45:34.640 --> 00:45:36.360
I'm married to an only child,

939
00:45:36.360 --> 00:45:38.880
and I'll like go in my husband's closet,

940
00:45:38.880 --> 00:45:40.080
and I'll take a pair of his socks,

941
00:45:40.080 --> 00:45:43.120
or something like, hey, those are mine.

942
00:45:43.120 --> 00:45:47.040
And I'm like, so, so what?

943
00:45:47.040 --> 00:45:50.560
Okay, so Sibs, and where are your parents?

944
00:45:50.560 --> 00:45:51.400
Are they alive?

945
00:45:51.400 --> 00:45:53.000
Where are your family?

946
00:45:53.000 --> 00:45:57.000
Yes, so my parents are outside of Detroit area.

947
00:45:57.240 --> 00:46:00.600
I have one younger brother, he's in Dallas, Texas.

948
00:46:02.160 --> 00:46:04.720
And I think, yeah, my parents,

949
00:46:04.720 --> 00:46:07.120
they're doing a little bit of caretaking

950
00:46:07.120 --> 00:46:09.520
for a couple of grandparents that are alive,

951
00:46:09.520 --> 00:46:13.680
but I think they are like not necessarily

952
00:46:13.680 --> 00:46:16.720
gonna stay in Michigan long-term, so.

953
00:46:16.720 --> 00:46:18.800
Okay, all right.

954
00:46:18.800 --> 00:46:21.040
James, she's kind of almost from your hometown,

955
00:46:21.040 --> 00:46:25.560
so, you know, got some roots, there you go.

956
00:46:25.560 --> 00:46:27.480
All right, so let's see if,

957
00:46:27.480 --> 00:46:31.960
I just wanna see if anyone else, all right.

958
00:46:35.400 --> 00:46:36.720
Got a lot of people in there.

959
00:46:36.720 --> 00:46:37.640
Is it your birthday?

960
00:46:37.640 --> 00:46:40.120
Why are people saying happy birthday?

961
00:46:40.120 --> 00:46:41.960
Oh, in a few days, it is.

962
00:46:41.960 --> 00:46:42.800
Okay.

963
00:46:42.800 --> 00:46:45.840
I think I mentioned a few days, I'm turning 34.

964
00:46:45.840 --> 00:46:50.040
Okay, awesome, happy birthday.

965
00:46:50.040 --> 00:46:50.880
Thank you.

966
00:46:51.760 --> 00:46:54.440
All right, lots of people in there

967
00:46:54.440 --> 00:46:58.320
saying that give it up for the middle children, woo-hoo.

968
00:46:58.320 --> 00:47:02.800
Okay, we have lots of oldest children, youngest children.

969
00:47:07.440 --> 00:47:08.360
Yeah, so I'm just looking through.

970
00:47:08.360 --> 00:47:11.600
We have a few, just a few only children.

971
00:47:11.600 --> 00:47:13.680
You guys, just because we had Joel tonight,

972
00:47:13.680 --> 00:47:15.880
if you have a pet, what would you like to know?

973
00:47:15.880 --> 00:47:18.400
Is it a dog, is it a cat, is it a parakeet,

974
00:47:18.400 --> 00:47:22.080
is it a turtle, a ferret, a snake, God forbid?

975
00:47:22.080 --> 00:47:24.520
I had one student, she had like tons of snakes

976
00:47:24.520 --> 00:47:27.360
and I was really scared all the time.

977
00:47:27.360 --> 00:47:29.360
She'd come on like lives like this

978
00:47:29.360 --> 00:47:30.960
and she'd have the snakes.

979
00:47:31.880 --> 00:47:33.640
It's like, I don't know what we're doing here,

980
00:47:33.640 --> 00:47:35.920
but I don't like it.

981
00:47:35.920 --> 00:47:40.160
So, but yeah, put up in the comments if you have a pet

982
00:47:40.160 --> 00:47:42.320
and if you do, what type of pet

983
00:47:42.320 --> 00:47:44.800
because inquiring minds wanna know.

984
00:47:44.800 --> 00:47:48.320
All right, so Stephanie, you like outdoor stuff.

985
00:47:48.320 --> 00:47:50.260
You're crunchy, as you can say.

986
00:47:50.300 --> 00:47:52.060
People are like, she's a prayer warrior too.

987
00:47:52.060 --> 00:47:54.820
So people, you got a lot of hype friends

988
00:47:54.820 --> 00:47:56.940
in the comments right now.

989
00:47:56.940 --> 00:48:00.180
She's 5'5", she's 34 almost,

990
00:48:00.180 --> 00:48:05.180
and she is right now in Michigan, Grand Rapids,

991
00:48:05.420 --> 00:48:09.580
but she is willing to move for love,

992
00:48:09.580 --> 00:48:11.060
to move wherever God has her.

993
00:48:11.060 --> 00:48:13.060
And so that's awesome.

994
00:48:13.060 --> 00:48:16.060
All right, thank you so much for being here with us.

995
00:48:16.980 --> 00:48:18.100
Thanks, Trent.

996
00:48:18.100 --> 00:48:18.940
Yep.

997
00:48:21.260 --> 00:48:23.460
All right, I'm coming for you, Thomas.

998
00:48:23.460 --> 00:48:24.300
Get ready.

999
00:48:25.160 --> 00:48:26.900
Get ready, sir.

1000
00:48:26.900 --> 00:48:27.980
Okay.

1001
00:48:27.980 --> 00:48:29.780
Okay, remove spotlight.

1002
00:48:31.820 --> 00:48:32.660
All right.

1003
00:48:34.020 --> 00:48:35.540
Don't charge, just having fun.

1004
00:48:35.540 --> 00:48:36.380
So fun.

1005
00:48:37.340 --> 00:48:38.180
Right.

1006
00:48:39.900 --> 00:48:42.420
All right, Thomas is here.

1007
00:48:42.420 --> 00:48:44.220
Thomas is fun and he's funny

1008
00:48:44.220 --> 00:48:47.260
and he's been part of the men's group for some time now

1009
00:48:47.260 --> 00:48:49.260
and it's time to marry him off.

1010
00:48:49.260 --> 00:48:50.780
So tonight's the night.

1011
00:48:50.780 --> 00:48:51.620
Right, ladies?

1012
00:48:51.620 --> 00:48:54.460
Okay, so Thomas, tell us where you are

1013
00:48:54.460 --> 00:48:57.140
and just a little bit about yourself,

1014
00:48:57.140 --> 00:49:00.700
your age, where you come from, what you do,

1015
00:49:00.700 --> 00:49:01.980
just anything you want to share.

1016
00:49:01.980 --> 00:49:03.500
Salient details.

1017
00:49:03.500 --> 00:49:05.060
Yes, salient details.

1018
00:49:06.140 --> 00:49:07.620
Oh, he's really good at puns.

1019
00:49:07.620 --> 00:49:08.460
He's really good at pun.

1020
00:49:08.460 --> 00:49:09.460
He's very punny.

1021
00:49:09.460 --> 00:49:10.860
All right, go ahead.

1022
00:49:10.860 --> 00:49:12.860
Yeah, always looking for good pun pals.

1023
00:49:14.860 --> 00:49:16.740
Yes, I was born at a very young age.

1024
00:49:17.740 --> 00:49:20.220
I live in Los Angeles.

1025
00:49:21.620 --> 00:49:23.060
I was born in Northern California,

1026
00:49:23.060 --> 00:49:26.580
lived in Colorado from the age of nine to 22,

1027
00:49:27.660 --> 00:49:30.940
have lived in London and Paris and New York a little bit

1028
00:49:30.940 --> 00:49:35.060
and absolutely love culture and the arts.

1029
00:49:35.060 --> 00:49:38.260
I would say I have a background

1030
00:49:38.260 --> 00:49:42.060
of being radically religious and pharisaical

1031
00:49:42.060 --> 00:49:44.540
and Jesus setting me free from that.

1032
00:49:44.620 --> 00:49:47.860
And I am absolutely stunned and amazed

1033
00:49:47.860 --> 00:49:52.220
at how good God is and how wonderful my commotions are.

1034
00:49:52.220 --> 00:49:54.660
I was even raised believing that it was wrong to date

1035
00:49:54.660 --> 00:49:56.500
and wrong to court.

1036
00:49:56.500 --> 00:50:01.500
And so dating has been a wild, crazy thing.

1037
00:50:00.000 --> 00:50:05.520
the adventure and as much as I've wanted to be married since and my plan was to get engaged

1038
00:50:05.520 --> 00:50:10.520
to 21 and married at 22, I was very much not emotionally ready at that time. So I'm so

1039
00:50:10.520 --> 00:50:17.720
happy that God calls us to good things and then allows us to go through processes to

1040
00:50:17.720 --> 00:50:24.520
get ready for those good things. So my work, I work at UCLA, I lead the team that does

1041
00:50:24.520 --> 00:50:30.880
conflict resolution for the campus. So for over 88,000 people, so for the general campus

1042
00:50:30.880 --> 00:50:35.720
and then the health side. So I also worked with doctors and nurses and researchers and

1043
00:50:35.720 --> 00:50:41.640
all kinds of others that are having conflict with each other. Never married, no kids, looking

1044
00:50:41.640 --> 00:50:47.520
so forward to being a husband and a father. I think other questions that have tended to

1045
00:50:47.520 --> 00:50:54.880
come up are like what I do for fun. Aside from taking care of my two pet houseplants,

1046
00:50:54.880 --> 00:51:02.360
I love to read so much. I'm currently reading a book called The Fifth Discipline about systems

1047
00:51:02.360 --> 00:51:09.120
theory. I read the fairy queen for five minutes every day out loud, which is epic poetry from

1048
00:51:09.120 --> 00:51:14.160
the 16th century. It's absolutely stunningly wonderful. I love supernatural creativity.

1049
00:51:14.160 --> 00:51:20.320
I play keys on my church's worship team. I'm taking electric guitar lessons, getting back

1050
00:51:20.320 --> 00:51:25.600
into scuba diving, which I feel like is so spiritually meaningful for me to explore.

1051
00:51:26.320 --> 00:51:32.480
I got a really good pathetic word about living life like I'm exploring the ocean instead of

1052
00:51:32.480 --> 00:51:36.080
trying to pull a rabbit out of a hat. And ever since then, things have really,

1053
00:51:36.080 --> 00:51:42.880
really been changing also in my life. So anyway, that's both a lot and just a little bit.

1054
00:51:44.400 --> 00:51:52.000
I love it. It's good. It's enough in a good way. But I'm sure ladies have more questions.

1055
00:51:52.960 --> 00:51:56.880
Ladies, what questions do you have? He doesn't have pets. He has houseplants.

1056
00:51:56.880 --> 00:52:01.920
Are you allergic to pets? Only emotionally allergic to some pets.

1057
00:52:03.840 --> 00:52:11.520
I mean, no, I'm not physically allergic to pets. I am a big, big fan of animals that

1058
00:52:11.520 --> 00:52:16.720
care and act well and a little bit less of... Here in LA, we have a lot of spoiled

1059
00:52:17.840 --> 00:52:22.960
pets that don't really have a lot of boundaries. So I'm a big fan of healthy pet ownership.

1060
00:52:24.160 --> 00:52:31.440
Awesome. I'm a big fan of clean houses that have animals because I just house sat for someone,

1061
00:52:31.440 --> 00:52:36.080
which is why I'm in Austin and David is still in California because I was like,

1062
00:52:36.080 --> 00:52:40.720
I can't take these dogs anymore. They stink so bad. They need a bath. They needed a bath four

1063
00:52:40.720 --> 00:52:52.480
years ago. And I think that people get animal smell blind. I know it's like smell, but blind.

1064
00:52:52.480 --> 00:52:56.400
They're just like, they don't know because they smell like dog themselves. So they don't know

1065
00:52:56.400 --> 00:53:02.800
that their dog smells or their cats or whatever. So no for me. It's a no for me.

1066
00:53:04.160 --> 00:53:06.240
I think a couple other questions that I'm seeing.

1067
00:53:07.040 --> 00:53:09.120
Yes, Thomas, go ahead. You take over.

1068
00:53:11.360 --> 00:53:16.880
Am I willing to relocate? I am. I had a supernatural dream where I felt like God

1069
00:53:16.880 --> 00:53:23.040
was encouraging me to be in California for now, but I don't think that that's necessarily forever.

1070
00:53:23.040 --> 00:53:31.120
So I feel like I'm led to be here for now, but I'm open if called elsewhere. I spent the month

1071
00:53:31.120 --> 00:53:36.320
of March in India and Pakistan and it was really life-changing, felt super great.

1072
00:53:36.880 --> 00:53:46.400
And other tall, I'm six, one and a half. And let's see here. Other questions.

1073
00:53:46.400 --> 00:53:49.760
I don't think that we asked Joel how tall he was. Joel, put how tall you are in the chat.

1074
00:53:49.760 --> 00:53:50.800
Go ahead, Thomas.

1075
00:53:50.800 --> 00:53:55.840
Okay. Where would I like to go on vacation? Oh, I want to go everywhere. I mean, if I could,

1076
00:53:55.840 --> 00:54:01.600
if I could have my dream vacation, the International Space Station, that would be

1077
00:54:01.760 --> 00:54:05.920
that would be like the best. If I could go up there for a couple months,

1078
00:54:06.480 --> 00:54:09.200
like do some science experiments, look at the galaxies.

1079
00:54:10.160 --> 00:54:17.280
Wow. Okay. Two places that I absolutely do not ever want to go is down in a sub and up in a

1080
00:54:17.280 --> 00:54:21.280
rocket. So that's all you, Thomas. Well, I'm glad you're already married.

1081
00:54:23.840 --> 00:54:30.000
Yes, that's good. Okay. So because we are not having anything in common, sir. What about LA

1082
00:54:30.080 --> 00:54:37.120
traffic? I mean, you know, it's not my favorite, but someone has to love Los Angeles. And I feel

1083
00:54:37.120 --> 00:54:42.560
like it's one of the biggest privileges of my entire life to live here and try to love people

1084
00:54:42.560 --> 00:54:48.240
here because there are so many people here just hungry for love. It's so true. What part of LA

1085
00:54:48.240 --> 00:54:53.680
do you live in? I live in Santa Monica, which is America. Oh gosh. You live in a gorgeous area.

1086
00:54:53.680 --> 00:54:59.840
It's so amazing. I love it so much. And my rent is $500 a month. Stop it.

1087
00:55:00.000 --> 00:55:01.240
because of a miracle.

1088
00:55:01.240 --> 00:55:05.880
I prayed that God would help me pay off my student loans.

1089
00:55:05.880 --> 00:55:09.540
And then two weeks later, I got this incredible place.

1090
00:55:09.540 --> 00:55:10.600
It's amazing.

1091
00:55:10.600 --> 00:55:13.120
That is like unheard of.

1092
00:55:13.120 --> 00:55:14.840
Yeah, it's a miracle.

1093
00:55:14.840 --> 00:55:17.440
Yeah, how close are you to the beach?

1094
00:55:17.440 --> 00:55:19.400
I'm like 30 blocks.

1095
00:55:19.400 --> 00:55:20.240
Okay.

1096
00:55:20.240 --> 00:55:21.080
Not too bad, not too bad.

1097
00:55:21.080 --> 00:55:22.920
It's an easy 30 block walk.

1098
00:55:22.920 --> 00:55:24.040
I'm good.

1099
00:55:24.040 --> 00:55:24.880
Yeah.

1100
00:55:24.880 --> 00:55:26.080
So if you need someone to watch

1101
00:55:26.080 --> 00:55:29.600
your $500 a month apartment, then let me know.

1102
00:55:30.120 --> 00:55:32.880
Pakistan, why were you in Pakistan?

1103
00:55:32.880 --> 00:55:34.480
Oh, you know, I had worked

1104
00:55:34.480 --> 00:55:36.160
and done conflict resolution training

1105
00:55:36.160 --> 00:55:38.520
for people from India and Pakistan in the past,

1106
00:55:38.520 --> 00:55:39.840
along with some other countries.

1107
00:55:39.840 --> 00:55:42.240
And I was invited to a wedding in India.

1108
00:55:42.240 --> 00:55:45.320
And so I was like, I can't go there and not go to Pakistan.

1109
00:55:45.320 --> 00:55:47.440
So, you know, they used to be one country

1110
00:55:47.440 --> 00:55:50.520
and I feel like God's heart is so much for both places.

1111
00:55:50.520 --> 00:55:53.400
Pakistan, it means the land of the pure

1112
00:55:53.400 --> 00:55:55.040
and there's so much purity there.

1113
00:55:55.040 --> 00:55:57.240
It's just not devoted to Jesus yet.

1114
00:55:58.120 --> 00:56:01.480
Yet, yet, you guys, yet.

1115
00:56:01.480 --> 00:56:03.240
Wow, love that so much.

1116
00:56:03.240 --> 00:56:04.280
Loved hearing from you,

1117
00:56:04.280 --> 00:56:06.920
just hearing so much more from you, Thomas.

1118
00:56:06.920 --> 00:56:09.080
You know, this is rich stuff.

1119
00:56:09.080 --> 00:56:11.440
So ladies, if you want to know more about Thomas,

1120
00:56:11.440 --> 00:56:14.120
which I'm feeling like a lot of you will,

1121
00:56:14.120 --> 00:56:15.800
all of the men that have been spotlighted tonight,

1122
00:56:15.800 --> 00:56:18.280
all of the ladies that have been spotlighted tonight,

1123
00:56:18.280 --> 00:56:23.280
please, Thomas and California,

1124
00:56:23.360 --> 00:56:26.200
Callie, in the subject line of the email,

1125
00:56:26.200 --> 00:56:28.240
don't forget to include your information

1126
00:56:28.240 --> 00:56:30.080
and your pictures so that we can,

1127
00:56:30.080 --> 00:56:32.280
and tell us, guys, when you email into us,

1128
00:56:32.280 --> 00:56:34.640
tell us why you think that you should meet this person

1129
00:56:34.640 --> 00:56:36.480
or if you're actually trying to matchmake

1130
00:56:36.480 --> 00:56:39.800
someone else with them, why they should meet them.

1131
00:56:39.800 --> 00:56:42.000
Like, let us know that you listened

1132
00:56:42.000 --> 00:56:46.640
and you, you know, have an actual thing besides,

1133
00:56:46.640 --> 00:56:48.640
oh, hey, they're a guy, she's a girl,

1134
00:56:48.640 --> 00:56:49.720
maybe they should meet.

1135
00:56:49.720 --> 00:56:51.920
Okay, tell us more about why you think

1136
00:56:51.920 --> 00:56:53.640
that it would be a good match.

1137
00:56:53.640 --> 00:56:54.760
How old are you?

1138
00:56:54.760 --> 00:56:56.480
Did you say 44, right?

1139
00:56:56.480 --> 00:56:57.520
44, yep.

1140
00:56:57.520 --> 00:57:00.600
Yep, 44, that's the number of favor.

1141
00:57:00.600 --> 00:57:05.600
Okay, so he is 44 years old and wants children.

1142
00:57:05.960 --> 00:57:07.200
Did you say if you were open to people

1143
00:57:07.200 --> 00:57:08.040
that already have children?

1144
00:57:08.040 --> 00:57:10.600
I'm assuming that you're open to a multicultural match

1145
00:57:10.600 --> 00:57:14.360
since you're so cultural, like any color,

1146
00:57:14.360 --> 00:57:18.400
any from anywhere, any language kind of situation.

1147
00:57:18.400 --> 00:57:19.600
I'm just assuming.

1148
00:57:19.600 --> 00:57:24.600
I am open to anyone that my heart says yes to.

1149
00:57:24.760 --> 00:57:25.600
I love that.

1150
00:57:25.600 --> 00:57:29.120
And that I feel like God is giving a yes to.

1151
00:57:29.120 --> 00:57:31.640
And so absolutely.

1152
00:57:31.640 --> 00:57:34.200
I recently felt like God encouraged me

1153
00:57:34.200 --> 00:57:36.440
to ask out someone who has a child

1154
00:57:36.440 --> 00:57:38.400
and that was kind of a new experience for me,

1155
00:57:38.400 --> 00:57:41.120
but it really helped me kind of sort through that

1156
00:57:41.120 --> 00:57:44.760
and be able to be in a place of saying, you know, yes,

1157
00:57:44.760 --> 00:57:48.840
like everyone needs like lovers and marriage partners,

1158
00:57:48.840 --> 00:57:51.760
not just people who haven't been through that experience.

1159
00:57:51.760 --> 00:57:52.760
Love it.

1160
00:57:52.760 --> 00:57:56.240
You guys, Thomas, you're awesome.

1161
00:57:56.240 --> 00:57:59.640
Okay, ladies, if you want to know more,

1162
00:57:59.640 --> 00:58:02.240
go ahead and let us help you.

1163
00:58:02.240 --> 00:58:03.080
Let us connect you.

1164
00:58:03.080 --> 00:58:04.200
May you all be blessed.

1165
00:58:04.200 --> 00:58:06.000
Yes, absolutely.

1166
00:58:06.000 --> 00:58:08.800
And we have, I hope we have another lady.

1167
00:58:10.400 --> 00:58:13.240
Please help me remember who you are.

1168
00:58:16.080 --> 00:58:19.360
Guys, such great, such great spotlights tonight.

1169
00:58:19.360 --> 00:58:24.200
All the men, all the women, such great spotlights.

1170
00:58:24.200 --> 00:58:25.040
Oh, it was Joan.

1171
00:58:25.040 --> 00:58:26.520
Is Joan hiding?

1172
00:58:26.520 --> 00:58:28.800
Joan, are you hiding from me?

1173
00:58:28.800 --> 00:58:29.640
Let me see.

1174
00:58:31.640 --> 00:58:32.480
All right.

1175
00:58:36.120 --> 00:58:37.280
Get your questions.

1176
00:58:37.280 --> 00:58:39.560
We'll do 15 minutes of Ask Jackie here.

1177
00:58:40.440 --> 00:58:41.600
I don't see Joan.

1178
00:58:41.600 --> 00:58:43.680
Can Joan raise her hand if she still wants to be,

1179
00:58:43.680 --> 00:58:45.040
if she wants to be spotlighted?

1180
00:58:45.040 --> 00:58:47.960
I don't want to put anyone on the spot

1181
00:58:47.960 --> 00:58:49.280
if they really don't want to be,

1182
00:58:50.160 --> 00:58:51.680
but if you do, raise your hand

1183
00:58:51.680 --> 00:58:53.040
because I'm searching your name

1184
00:58:53.040 --> 00:58:54.880
and it says you're not here.

1185
00:58:56.760 --> 00:58:58.440
Let me, it's in alphabetical order.

1186
00:58:58.440 --> 00:58:59.960
Let me look down here.

1187
00:59:02.920 --> 00:59:06.040
Joan said that she was actually in a suddenly relationship,

1188
00:59:06.040 --> 00:59:07.440
so she's not available.

1189
00:59:07.440 --> 00:59:08.880
Oh, all right, girl.

1190
00:59:08.880 --> 00:59:09.880
All right, come on.

1191
00:59:09.880 --> 00:59:13.040
Okay, so let's go ahead and do a little Q&A

1192
00:59:13.040 --> 00:59:14.960
if we want to for the next 15 minutes.

1193
00:59:14.960 --> 00:59:16.000
If you have any questions,

1194
00:59:16.000 --> 00:59:19.120
I'm going to do a little bit of Ask Jackie right now

1195
00:59:19.120 --> 00:59:21.000
since I'm here and I'm Jackie.

1196
00:59:21.000 --> 00:59:23.520
So let's go, right?

1197
00:59:23.520 --> 00:59:25.960
Actually, I saw someone volunteered

1198
00:59:25.960 --> 00:59:27.560
as tribute to be spotlighted,

1199
00:59:27.560 --> 00:59:29.520
so I'm going to go ahead and spotlight her

1200
00:59:29.520 --> 00:59:34.120
because I see her here, Anna, and spotlight.

1201
00:59:34.120 --> 00:59:35.800
All right, girl, give it to us.

1202
00:59:35.800 --> 00:59:37.080
Where are you?

1203
00:59:37.080 --> 00:59:37.920
Where are you?

1204
00:59:37.920 --> 00:59:38.760
Who are you?

1205
00:59:38.760 --> 00:59:40.000
Give us all the deets.

1206
00:59:40.000 --> 00:59:41.720
Yeah, my name is Anna.

1207
00:59:41.720 --> 00:59:43.280
I live in Kentucky right now.

1208
00:59:43.280 --> 00:59:46.920
I'm about two miles from downtown Cincinnati.

1209
00:59:46.920 --> 00:59:49.880
Freshly 44, just turned 44 on Sunday.

1210
00:59:51.000 --> 00:59:52.400
And I'm thankful you're spotlighting me

1211
00:59:52.400 --> 00:59:53.680
because I've been trying to reach you all

1212
00:59:53.680 --> 00:59:55.960
about your extended car warranties.

1213
00:59:55.960 --> 00:59:57.960
So here I am.

1214
00:59:57.960 --> 00:59:59.000
There you are.

1215
00:59:59.000 --> 00:59:59.840
Okay.

1216
01:00:00.000 --> 01:00:07.840
You guys, true story, my poor son, who is just as naive as a newborn baby in the woods,

1217
01:00:07.840 --> 01:00:12.980
he actually believed the extended car warranty thing, and he actually gave them his credit

1218
01:00:12.980 --> 01:00:15.020
card number.

1219
01:00:15.020 --> 01:00:20.820
And then afterwards, he's like, yeah, you know, my car warranty expired, and I was like,

1220
01:00:20.820 --> 01:00:21.820
yes!

1221
01:00:21.820 --> 01:00:26.940
And so we were able to get the bank to charge it back, but anyway, that just reminded me

1222
01:00:26.940 --> 01:00:27.940
of that.

1223
01:00:27.940 --> 01:00:35.580
So she is like in that triangle, Indiana, Kentucky, Ohio situation right there, okay?

1224
01:00:35.580 --> 01:00:39.900
And she actually is one of the moderators of our Siegel City there, and so we love her.

1225
01:00:39.900 --> 01:00:40.900
I've met her in person.

1226
01:00:40.900 --> 01:00:43.580
She's phenomenal, phenomenal woman.

1227
01:00:43.580 --> 01:00:49.380
So never married, no kids, I mean, I'm just talking about, you know, what do you do for

1228
01:00:49.380 --> 01:00:50.380
fun?

1229
01:00:50.380 --> 01:00:51.380
What are you passionate about?

1230
01:00:51.380 --> 01:00:57.900
We just, I mean, Thomas just like blew us, he's like a poem of a man, a poem of a man

1231
01:00:57.900 --> 01:00:59.100
just happened.

1232
01:00:59.100 --> 01:01:03.060
And so let's find out, like, what floats your boat, honey?

1233
01:01:03.060 --> 01:01:05.300
Yeah, I love to travel, as you know.

1234
01:01:05.300 --> 01:01:06.300
Yes, I do.

1235
01:01:06.300 --> 01:01:10.260
Yeah, I'm headed to Europe, actually, July 2nd.

1236
01:01:10.260 --> 01:01:13.180
So I'm going to Paris first.

1237
01:01:13.180 --> 01:01:18.080
I have been there a couple of times, but I'm specifically going because they have an exhibit

1238
01:01:18.080 --> 01:01:20.740
at the Louvre that I want to see.

1239
01:01:21.740 --> 01:01:28.540
I guess designers go in and get inspiration from different artwork.

1240
01:01:28.540 --> 01:01:34.940
And so they're exhibiting the original artwork that inspired the couture fashion.

1241
01:01:34.940 --> 01:01:36.220
So I'm really excited to see that.

1242
01:01:36.220 --> 01:01:39.980
And then I'm doing a land tour, I'm flying into Budapest, and I'm going to Vienna and

1243
01:01:39.980 --> 01:01:41.900
Prague and then coming home.

1244
01:01:41.900 --> 01:01:43.860
So I'm pretty excited about that.

1245
01:01:43.860 --> 01:01:44.860
I love Europe.

1246
01:01:44.860 --> 01:01:45.860
That's exciting.

1247
01:01:45.980 --> 01:01:52.460
And you, okay, so I remember you telling me in Columbia that, you know, you just wanted

1248
01:01:52.460 --> 01:01:56.940
to travel, you hadn't been married yet, and you weren't, you know, wait any longer for

1249
01:01:56.940 --> 01:01:57.940
someone to travel with.

1250
01:01:57.940 --> 01:02:00.580
And so you just start traveling solo.

1251
01:02:00.580 --> 01:02:02.860
That is amazing.

1252
01:02:02.860 --> 01:02:08.700
And so like, what was the very first place that you went to as a solo traveler?

1253
01:02:08.700 --> 01:02:11.820
I went to Rome solo.

1254
01:02:11.900 --> 01:02:16.100
And then I went from Rome down to Trieste.

1255
01:02:16.100 --> 01:02:18.980
Is that right?

1256
01:02:18.980 --> 01:02:19.980
I think that's right.

1257
01:02:19.980 --> 01:02:23.820
And then I went on a Mediterranean cruise and came home.

1258
01:02:23.820 --> 01:02:28.060
So I started traveling in 2019.

1259
01:02:28.060 --> 01:02:31.820
And then I was all excited about traveling solo and wanting to go more.

1260
01:02:31.820 --> 01:02:35.540
And then of course, I scheduled a couple trips and then the pandemic.

1261
01:02:35.540 --> 01:02:40.140
So I've been going pretty much every year, even if it was within the States, like during

1262
01:02:40.140 --> 01:02:42.820
COVID, I went with my parents to the National Park.

1263
01:02:42.820 --> 01:02:48.260
We took a train from Cincinnati down to Utah and Salt Lake City.

1264
01:02:48.260 --> 01:02:53.340
And then we went to Grand Tetons and Yellowstone National Park.

1265
01:02:53.340 --> 01:02:54.340
That's awesome.

1266
01:02:54.340 --> 01:02:57.700
So if you've been afraid to travel, friends, first of all, that's why Last Trip Single

1267
01:02:57.700 --> 01:03:02.260
exists because we want to, if you're afraid to travel solo, we want to give you people

1268
01:03:02.260 --> 01:03:04.300
to travel with.

1269
01:03:04.300 --> 01:03:05.300
And we're doing that.

1270
01:03:05.300 --> 01:03:07.500
And so we're going to continue to do that.

1271
01:03:07.500 --> 01:03:09.420
And I just think that's incredible.

1272
01:03:09.700 --> 01:03:10.700
I think that you're incredible.

1273
01:03:10.700 --> 01:03:11.700
I think it's incredible.

1274
01:03:11.700 --> 01:03:13.020
This girl is brilliant.

1275
01:03:13.020 --> 01:03:14.420
She is so intelligent.

1276
01:03:14.420 --> 01:03:15.780
She is so cultured.

1277
01:03:15.780 --> 01:03:16.780
She's so curious.

1278
01:03:16.780 --> 01:03:20.180
I'd say she's such a curious personality.

1279
01:03:20.180 --> 01:03:23.420
Did you tell people what you actually do for a living that allows you to go on all these

1280
01:03:23.420 --> 01:03:24.420
fancy trips?

1281
01:03:24.420 --> 01:03:25.420
No, I didn't.

1282
01:03:25.420 --> 01:03:31.180
So my degree is actually in fine art, but I've worked for a bank coming up on 20 years.

1283
01:03:31.180 --> 01:03:35.900
So I'm currently what's called a business information security officer or BISO.

1284
01:03:35.900 --> 01:03:39.700
And all that is, is basically a liaison between information security.

1285
01:03:39.700 --> 01:03:43.220
And I represent the consumer bank at a financial institution.

1286
01:03:43.220 --> 01:03:45.380
So I represent about like 13,000 people.

1287
01:03:45.380 --> 01:03:49.480
I'm kind of a consultant, educational person.

1288
01:03:49.480 --> 01:03:50.540
So I'm looking for something new.

1289
01:03:50.540 --> 01:03:51.900
I want to be an insider threat.

1290
01:03:51.900 --> 01:03:54.820
That's really, my skill set is finding gaps.

1291
01:03:54.820 --> 01:03:59.780
And so I love, I used to be an anti-money laundering and I really miss that kind of

1292
01:03:59.780 --> 01:04:01.460
catching the bad guy type thing.

1293
01:04:01.460 --> 01:04:02.460
So yeah.

1294
01:04:02.460 --> 01:04:03.460
That's exciting.

1295
01:04:03.460 --> 01:04:04.460
Okay.

1296
01:04:05.020 --> 01:04:10.900
So you guys, if you know anyone that this phenomenal human should meet, then please

1297
01:04:10.900 --> 01:04:11.900
email us.

1298
01:04:11.900 --> 01:04:12.900
Put Anna.

1299
01:04:12.900 --> 01:04:13.900
Okay.

1300
01:04:13.900 --> 01:04:14.900
It's Anna.

1301
01:04:14.900 --> 01:04:17.900
You know, it's, it's like frozen.

1302
01:04:17.900 --> 01:04:18.900
Anna.

1303
01:04:18.900 --> 01:04:19.900
Yes.

1304
01:04:19.900 --> 01:04:20.900
Right.

1305
01:04:20.900 --> 01:04:21.900
Frozen.

1306
01:04:21.900 --> 01:04:22.900
Okay.

1307
01:04:22.900 --> 01:04:23.900
The heroine of frozen.

1308
01:04:23.900 --> 01:04:24.900
So Anna.

1309
01:04:24.900 --> 01:04:25.900
And then of course, should they put Kentucky?

1310
01:04:25.900 --> 01:04:26.900
Yes.

1311
01:04:26.900 --> 01:04:27.900
Okay.

1312
01:04:27.900 --> 01:04:28.900
KY.

1313
01:04:28.900 --> 01:04:33.060
Anna and KY, give us the information of why she should meet whoever this is, including

1314
01:04:33.060 --> 01:04:38.620
if it's you gentlemen, and I'm so exciting for this trip that you're going on.

1315
01:04:38.620 --> 01:04:39.620
It sounds fun.

1316
01:04:39.620 --> 01:04:40.620
I wish I was going.

1317
01:04:40.620 --> 01:04:41.620
I want to go to Paris.

1318
01:04:41.620 --> 01:04:45.940
I heard Paris is going downhill and I want to get there before it goes all the way.

1319
01:04:45.940 --> 01:04:50.060
I'm going to get there before they burn the Eiffel Tower down.

1320
01:04:50.060 --> 01:04:51.060
Okay.

1321
01:04:51.060 --> 01:04:53.220
So let's do a little ask Jackie action.

1322
01:04:53.220 --> 01:04:54.940
We just have a few more minutes here.

1323
01:04:54.940 --> 01:04:56.380
We have about 10 minutes.

1324
01:04:56.380 --> 01:04:57.380
We can do some questions.

1325
01:04:57.380 --> 01:04:59.740
Let me see if there was anything in the chat.

1326
01:05:00.000 --> 01:05:08.400
Yes, yes, you guys, there's so many phenomenal people in our communities and I'm so glad

1327
01:05:08.400 --> 01:05:12.320
that you guys get to meet each other and we're going to have lots and lots more stuff over

1328
01:05:12.320 --> 01:05:13.320
the summer.

1329
01:05:13.320 --> 01:05:14.320
Please plug into your single city.

1330
01:05:14.320 --> 01:05:18.600
If there isn't a single city where you live, please consider hosting or starting one.

1331
01:05:18.600 --> 01:05:19.680
We will support you.

1332
01:05:19.680 --> 01:05:21.160
We will help you start that.

1333
01:05:21.160 --> 01:05:24.600
I guarantee you there's other people in the movement that are around you, you just don't

1334
01:05:24.600 --> 01:05:25.600
know them yet.

1335
01:05:26.120 --> 01:05:31.320
If you're interested in that at all, please email us to admin at JackieDorman.com because

1336
01:05:31.320 --> 01:05:34.300
the more single cities, the more meetup groups we have, the better.

1337
01:05:34.300 --> 01:05:39.640
Don't forget, we're going to be having that huge anniversary party in October in Austin.

1338
01:05:39.640 --> 01:05:45.600
If you are someone who has to put vacation time in really far in advance, that's where

1339
01:05:45.600 --> 01:05:47.640
you want to put it.

1340
01:05:47.640 --> 01:05:48.640
Let's see.

1341
01:05:48.640 --> 01:05:52.200
All right, Amy is saying, hey, I'm down here in Lexington.

1342
01:05:52.200 --> 01:05:53.200
Let's go.

1343
01:05:53.200 --> 01:05:54.200
All right.

1344
01:05:55.200 --> 01:05:56.200
Boston will host.

1345
01:05:56.200 --> 01:05:57.200
Yes.

1346
01:05:57.200 --> 01:05:58.200
Let's do it up there.

1347
01:05:58.200 --> 01:05:59.200
Okay.

1348
01:05:59.200 --> 01:06:03.560
I feel that it's a challenge to find the balance between giving someone a chance that I'm not

1349
01:06:03.560 --> 01:06:08.120
attracted to and letting it be a yes until it's a no and trusting my own heart and letting

1350
01:06:08.120 --> 01:06:10.600
it have a voice when it feels like it's saying no.

1351
01:06:10.600 --> 01:06:14.640
I feel that if I keep giving it a chance that I'm leading someone on if my heart isn't in

1352
01:06:14.640 --> 01:06:19.360
it, how long should I give a chance if there's no attraction before I say it's not a good

1353
01:06:19.360 --> 01:06:20.920
bit?

1354
01:06:20.920 --> 01:06:21.920
It is a great question.

1355
01:06:22.000 --> 01:06:32.480
You guys, when we first started the movement, we're almost five years in, I would say unless

1356
01:06:32.480 --> 01:06:38.600
there's something very overtly disconcerting about the person, like you don't feel safe

1357
01:06:38.600 --> 01:06:42.080
because you guys never want to ignore your gut, ladies.

1358
01:06:42.080 --> 01:06:46.960
We want to heal our intuition so it isn't suspicion, but at the same time, if you have

1359
01:06:46.960 --> 01:06:51.700
some sort of gut feeling about someone, that's there to keep you safe.

1360
01:06:52.480 --> 01:06:55.140
If you're disconcerted about something, if something just doesn't sit right with you

1361
01:06:55.140 --> 01:06:59.780
or doesn't add up, then listen to your intuition.

1362
01:06:59.780 --> 01:07:02.420
I don't believe that you can miss out on your spirit mate when you're following after the

1363
01:07:02.420 --> 01:07:06.820
Holy Spirit, so just go ahead and exit stage right if that's the case.

1364
01:07:06.820 --> 01:07:10.880
But if there isn't anything and it's just a situation where this isn't what you pictured

1365
01:07:10.880 --> 01:07:14.580
or expected, give it three days.

1366
01:07:14.580 --> 01:07:17.740
If they keep wanting to see you, give it three days.

1367
01:07:17.740 --> 01:07:19.220
We don't want to string someone along.

1368
01:07:19.220 --> 01:07:23.460
We don't want to let them think that we're really into them when we're not and then we're

1369
01:07:23.460 --> 01:07:26.660
hurting people's feelings and breaking hearts.

1370
01:07:26.660 --> 01:07:31.340
Also we want to give ourselves a chance to really see who this person is because oftentimes

1371
01:07:31.340 --> 01:07:36.820
women especially are more attracted to personality than they are just outer appearance, just

1372
01:07:36.820 --> 01:07:39.060
like at face value.

1373
01:07:39.060 --> 01:07:44.360
A lot of times personality makes us see someone way differently when we are allowing ourselves

1374
01:07:44.360 --> 01:07:47.860
to get to know them, get to know their sense of humor and all the different things.

1375
01:07:47.860 --> 01:07:51.340
That's why single spotlights are so fun because you just see a picture of someone, you're

1376
01:07:51.340 --> 01:07:52.940
like, eh, I'm not interested.

1377
01:07:52.940 --> 01:07:56.300
But then you see them animated, you see them talking about what they're passionate about,

1378
01:07:56.300 --> 01:08:00.180
you get to know them, you get to know their sense of humor and the things that you have

1379
01:08:00.180 --> 01:08:03.180
in common and they're just chemistries created.

1380
01:08:03.180 --> 01:08:09.420
The number one thing that I hear of my success stories on the female side is, Jackie, I would

1381
01:08:09.420 --> 01:08:13.580
have never given this guy a chance had it not been for you and I'm so glad I did because

1382
01:08:13.580 --> 01:08:18.180
I'm so happy as they're getting married, right?

1383
01:08:18.180 --> 01:08:23.220
So give it at least three chances, okay?

1384
01:08:23.220 --> 01:08:28.060
And if by the third chance you're just like, I could never imagine kissing this person,

1385
01:08:28.060 --> 01:08:33.740
I'm just not attracted to them at all, then consider matching them with someone else in

1386
01:08:33.740 --> 01:08:37.420
the community or just sending them to the community.

1387
01:08:37.420 --> 01:08:41.479
You don't have to match make them, just consider it, ladies, please.

1388
01:08:41.479 --> 01:08:47.720
If the fish is not the right fish for you, don't just throw it back in, okay?

1389
01:08:47.720 --> 01:08:49.399
Don't throw it back in.

1390
01:08:49.399 --> 01:08:55.560
We need it here because I guarantee that we probably know someone who's a good match for

1391
01:08:55.560 --> 01:08:56.560
that guy.

1392
01:08:56.560 --> 01:08:59.439
Gentlemen, you're a different story.

1393
01:08:59.439 --> 01:09:09.880
Men pretty much know immediately whether or not they're going to be attracted and it's

1394
01:09:09.880 --> 01:09:11.680
based on a lot of different factors.

1395
01:09:11.680 --> 01:09:18.200
I would love for men to give it at least three dates, I would, unless there's some huge reason

1396
01:09:18.200 --> 01:09:20.680
why it's a non-negotiable.

1397
01:09:20.680 --> 01:09:26.319
I do tell men that and they do continue to tell me after even one conversation or one

1398
01:09:26.319 --> 01:09:30.040
just short coffee date, lunch date, nah, I'm not interested.

1399
01:09:30.040 --> 01:09:34.279
So I'm still working on that.

1400
01:09:34.279 --> 01:09:41.279
But ladies, people can really grow on you and in a good way, not in a I'm settling type

1401
01:09:41.279 --> 01:09:42.279
of way.

1402
01:09:42.279 --> 01:09:43.279
So I would say three.

1403
01:09:43.279 --> 01:09:48.080
Three is the sweet spot unless God tells you differently to where you're not going to be

1404
01:09:48.080 --> 01:09:51.319
hurting someone's feelings or leading them on and you're also giving yourself a chance

1405
01:09:51.319 --> 01:09:52.319
to really see them.

1406
01:09:52.319 --> 01:09:54.320
Remember, let's do action dates.

1407
01:09:54.320 --> 01:09:59.040
Sitting across from someone at food is not a really good way to see their personality.

1408
01:09:59.040 --> 01:10:00.040
A lot of people feel really intimidated.

1409
01:10:00.000 --> 01:10:03.280
intimidated, especially if they don't know you at all,

1410
01:10:00.040 --> 01:10:01.040
So I would say three is the sweet spot unless God tells you differently to where you're

1411
01:10:01.040 --> 01:10:02.040
not going to be hurting someone's feelings or leading them on and you're also giving

1412
01:10:02.040 --> 01:10:02.040


1413
01:10:03.280 --> 01:10:08.280
and you've had very little precursor to the date.

1414
01:10:08.400 --> 01:10:10.760
So let's get out, let's see each other's personalities,

1415
01:10:10.760 --> 01:10:13.040
let's do something fun so that we have a chance

1416
01:10:13.040 --> 01:10:14.720
to really see who that person is.

1417
01:10:14.720 --> 01:10:15.760
Okay, you're right.

1418
01:10:15.760 --> 01:10:18.480
Holding the tension between I'm not really attracted

1419
01:10:18.480 --> 01:10:21.320
and it's a yes until it's a no can sometimes be hard.

1420
01:10:21.320 --> 01:10:22.760
How long should you wait to give Guy

1421
01:10:22.760 --> 01:10:25.000
your phone number on an app?

1422
01:10:25.000 --> 01:10:29.760
I mean, it's hard to say this.

1423
01:10:29.760 --> 01:10:31.040
It's hard to answer this question

1424
01:10:31.040 --> 01:10:33.360
because it could be a scammer.

1425
01:10:33.360 --> 01:10:38.360
Now, people do create Google numbers for this reason,

1426
01:10:39.960 --> 01:10:41.560
and so that's a number that's not associated

1427
01:10:41.560 --> 01:10:42.400
with your phone.

1428
01:10:42.400 --> 01:10:47.320
I personally, you guys, if I was single on an app

1429
01:10:47.320 --> 01:10:49.680
and I think I'm talking to a real person,

1430
01:10:49.680 --> 01:10:52.420
I'm doing my best to vet them out,

1431
01:10:52.420 --> 01:10:54.520
I wouldn't really care about giving my phone a break

1432
01:10:54.520 --> 01:10:56.360
because you can always block them.

1433
01:10:56.360 --> 01:11:00.040
You can always block people that are trying to talk to you

1434
01:11:01.600 --> 01:11:03.840
outside of the app, all right?

1435
01:11:04.800 --> 01:11:06.760
You guys, the scammers, we used to be able to tell you

1436
01:11:06.760 --> 01:11:07.960
exactly what they were up to,

1437
01:11:07.960 --> 01:11:11.360
but AI has changed the game, my friends.

1438
01:11:11.360 --> 01:11:12.860
AI has changed the game.

1439
01:11:12.860 --> 01:11:15.360
Like you can be even voice, I'm not voice,

1440
01:11:15.360 --> 01:11:18.420
you can even be FaceTiming with someone who's not real.

1441
01:11:20.120 --> 01:11:22.520
They could literally be AI.

1442
01:11:22.520 --> 01:11:24.640
And so the way you're gonna know that

1443
01:11:24.640 --> 01:11:26.880
is if they seem too perfect,

1444
01:11:26.880 --> 01:11:30.660
they're probably some sort of algorithm or bot.

1445
01:11:31.860 --> 01:11:33.600
So let's be careful with that.

1446
01:11:33.600 --> 01:11:35.120
If they seem kind of filtered,

1447
01:11:37.000 --> 01:11:39.840
and then of course, we used to be able to tell the scammers

1448
01:11:39.840 --> 01:11:41.660
and the spammers by broken English,

1449
01:11:41.660 --> 01:11:42.700
we can't do that anymore

1450
01:11:42.700 --> 01:11:45.640
because they're using AI for their responses.

1451
01:11:45.640 --> 01:11:49.360
And so we really, really, really have to get in person

1452
01:11:49.360 --> 01:11:50.840
as much as we can.

1453
01:11:50.840 --> 01:11:53.840
And if something feels off, it probably is.

1454
01:11:55.120 --> 01:11:59.520
If it seems too good to be true, it's too good to be true.

1455
01:11:59.520 --> 01:12:01.640
If someone, no offense, friends,

1456
01:12:01.640 --> 01:12:04.560
I mean, we all have a certain attractiveness about us

1457
01:12:04.560 --> 01:12:06.740
and beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

1458
01:12:06.740 --> 01:12:11.560
But if someone who's a culturally,

1459
01:12:11.560 --> 01:12:14.440
what culture considers beautiful or handsome,

1460
01:12:14.440 --> 01:12:15.400
if they're like a 10

1461
01:12:15.400 --> 01:12:17.640
and you kind of consider yourself a five,

1462
01:12:17.640 --> 01:12:21.060
it's probably not, it's probably not a thing, okay?

1463
01:12:21.060 --> 01:12:26.060
If they look airbrushed like that one Ryan Gosling movie,

1464
01:12:26.280 --> 01:12:28.700
she's like, you look airbrushed because he's so handsome.

1465
01:12:28.700 --> 01:12:33.100
If they look airbrushed, no.

1466
01:12:33.100 --> 01:12:36.300
If they look like they're one of the inserts in the frame

1467
01:12:36.300 --> 01:12:38.900
when you buy the frame, you know what I mean?

1468
01:12:38.900 --> 01:12:41.700
They probably are the insert in the frame.

1469
01:12:41.700 --> 01:12:46.700
Their picture probably is one of those mass produced models

1470
01:12:46.720 --> 01:12:49.380
of inside the picture frame, okay?

1471
01:12:49.380 --> 01:12:52.460
So gentlemen, I know that you think

1472
01:12:52.460 --> 01:12:54.180
that you're all that in a bag of chips,

1473
01:12:54.180 --> 01:12:56.860
but if some girl who looks like a supermodel

1474
01:12:56.860 --> 01:13:00.420
who's 30 years younger than you is trying to talk to you,

1475
01:13:00.420 --> 01:13:03.340
she's scamming you, baby, all right?

1476
01:13:03.340 --> 01:13:05.540
So let's get with the times.

1477
01:13:07.180 --> 01:13:08.300
I would give my phone number.

1478
01:13:08.300 --> 01:13:10.700
You can always block them unless you really think

1479
01:13:10.700 --> 01:13:14.560
that you're talking to Jake from State Farm

1480
01:13:14.560 --> 01:13:18.100
because other than that, let's just call it a day.

1481
01:13:19.420 --> 01:13:23.220
I'm not not recommending the ARC app

1482
01:13:23.220 --> 01:13:26.140
because there are good people on there, okay?

1483
01:13:26.140 --> 01:13:28.500
I know a few people that are talking to people right now

1484
01:13:28.500 --> 01:13:30.460
that have already gotten together with people.

1485
01:13:30.460 --> 01:13:34.140
I'm just saying, there's a great amount

1486
01:13:34.140 --> 01:13:36.140
of interesting profiles on there.

1487
01:13:36.140 --> 01:13:38.620
So if you can pick through,

1488
01:13:38.620 --> 01:13:40.540
I know that they have a speed dating event coming up,

1489
01:13:40.540 --> 01:13:41.660
I think on the 29th.

1490
01:13:41.660 --> 01:13:45.260
So the affiliate link is gonna be up till July.

1491
01:13:45.260 --> 01:13:47.780
If you guys want to sign up through our link,

1492
01:13:48.220 --> 01:13:49.860
there are gonna be special bonuses

1493
01:13:49.860 --> 01:13:51.820
and stuff for the people.

1494
01:13:51.820 --> 01:13:53.500
Is Jake single?

1495
01:13:53.500 --> 01:13:54.340
I don't know.

1496
01:13:55.380 --> 01:13:56.660
He likes to wear khakis though.

1497
01:13:56.660 --> 01:13:58.460
Any thoughts on how to set healthy boundaries

1498
01:13:58.460 --> 01:13:59.300
around dating apps?

1499
01:13:59.300 --> 01:14:01.220
I had to take a break for a bit and it's been great.

1500
01:14:01.220 --> 01:14:02.340
Yes, it is great.

1501
01:14:02.340 --> 01:14:04.420
But I also feel like it's time to get intentional again

1502
01:14:04.420 --> 01:14:06.460
and I just don't want to get to the place of working

1503
01:14:06.460 --> 01:14:08.020
at like a job or being disappointed

1504
01:14:08.020 --> 01:14:09.620
by the lack of quality matches.

1505
01:14:09.620 --> 01:14:10.980
Well, how about getting intentional

1506
01:14:10.980 --> 01:14:12.860
about in-person community?

1507
01:14:12.860 --> 01:14:14.700
You don't have to get intentional about dating apps.

1508
01:14:14.700 --> 01:14:15.540
Take a break.

1509
01:14:16.540 --> 01:14:18.660
If you don't find joy, you guys,

1510
01:14:18.660 --> 01:14:21.780
if stuff is stealing your joy, literally,

1511
01:14:21.780 --> 01:14:23.820
then it's summertime.

1512
01:14:24.820 --> 01:14:26.540
Lots of people doing things in person.

1513
01:14:26.540 --> 01:14:29.980
You guys, there's all kinds of meetup groups now.

1514
01:14:29.980 --> 01:14:33.500
Apps that are not dating apps, they're meetup groups.

1515
01:14:33.500 --> 01:14:35.580
They are like new in town groups.

1516
01:14:35.580 --> 01:14:36.700
Look, Google it.

1517
01:14:36.700 --> 01:14:38.620
You will find places.

1518
01:14:38.620 --> 01:14:40.060
There's one called,

1519
01:14:40.580 --> 01:14:45.580
it's just for like people who want to like meet new people

1520
01:14:46.060 --> 01:14:47.380
in the town that they're in.

1521
01:14:47.380 --> 01:14:48.420
It's like a dinner thing.

1522
01:14:48.420 --> 01:14:49.940
They'll assign you to have dinner

1523
01:14:49.940 --> 01:14:52.020
with five or six other strangers.

1524
01:14:53.380 --> 01:14:54.780
And I, time left.

1525
01:14:54.780 --> 01:14:56.060
Yeah, time left.

1526
01:14:56.060 --> 01:14:58.660
Is that the one with the dinner stuff, Candice?

1527
01:14:58.660 --> 01:14:59.500
Is that the one?

1528
01:14:59.500 --> 01:15:00.820
Oh, I'm sorry.

1529
01:15:00.000 --> 01:15:02.000
The dinners?

1530
01:15:00.820 --> 01:15:01.660
I'm sorry.

1531
01:15:01.660 --> 01:15:02.500
I'm sorry.

1532
01:15:02.000 --> 01:15:04.000
Yes, it is.

1533
01:15:02.500 --> 01:15:03.340
I'm sorry.

1534
01:15:03.340 --> 01:15:04.180
I'm sorry.

1535
01:15:04.000 --> 01:15:06.000
Candice has done them all.

1536
01:15:04.180 --> 01:15:05.020
I'm sorry.

1537
01:15:05.020 --> 01:15:05.860
I'm sorry.

1538
01:15:05.860 --> 01:15:06.700
I'm sorry.

1539
01:15:06.000 --> 01:15:08.000
It was super fun.

1540
01:15:06.700 --> 01:15:07.540
I'm sorry.

1541
01:15:07.540 --> 01:15:08.380
I'm sorry.

1542
01:15:08.000 --> 01:15:10.000
Yeah.

1543
01:15:08.380 --> 01:15:09.220
I'm sorry.

1544
01:15:10.000 --> 01:15:12.000
Yeah.

1545
01:15:12.000 --> 01:15:14.000
You guys, if you want to get intentional, try some new stuff.

1546
01:15:14.000 --> 01:15:16.000
You don't have to do the apps.

1547
01:15:16.000 --> 01:15:18.000
You literally don't.

1548
01:15:18.000 --> 01:15:20.000
I promise you that you don't.

1549
01:15:20.000 --> 01:15:22.000
Okay?

1550
01:15:22.000 --> 01:15:24.000
Spirit mate match.

1551
01:15:24.000 --> 01:15:26.000
We're going to see about turning that front ways.

1552
01:15:26.000 --> 01:15:28.000
Our team is, you know, we started talking about it on Monday.

1553
01:15:28.000 --> 01:15:30.000
So meet up is another one.

1554
01:15:30.000 --> 01:15:32.000
Yes, you guys.

1555
01:15:32.000 --> 01:15:34.000
The dinner thing is called time left.

1556
01:15:34.000 --> 01:15:36.000
No spaces.

1557
01:15:36.000 --> 01:15:38.000
It's basically the premise of time is too short.

1558
01:15:38.000 --> 01:15:40.000
Like time left.

1559
01:15:40.000 --> 01:15:42.000
You know?

1560
01:15:42.000 --> 01:15:44.000
Like time is too short to not have relationships and community.

1561
01:15:44.000 --> 01:15:46.000
Visit some new churches.

1562
01:15:46.000 --> 01:15:50.000
Candice, for instance, she's our new marketing manager here at Jane Media.

1563
01:15:50.000 --> 01:15:56.000
She is the reason why the beautiful website is coming out with all those new pages.

1564
01:15:56.000 --> 01:15:58.000
She's also single and ready to mingle, gentlemen.

1565
01:15:58.000 --> 01:16:04.000
But she just moved to Austin from Dallas to work, you know, closer in proximity to us.

1566
01:16:04.000 --> 01:16:06.000
When she moved here, she just signed up for everything.

1567
01:16:06.000 --> 01:16:08.000
She signed up for a bunch of small groups.

1568
01:16:08.000 --> 01:16:10.000
She has something going on every night.

1569
01:16:10.000 --> 01:16:12.000
And, yes, that sounds like it's tiring.

1570
01:16:12.000 --> 01:16:14.000
But it's just for a season.

1571
01:16:14.000 --> 01:16:16.000
It's not for the rest of her life.

1572
01:16:16.000 --> 01:16:18.000
She's going to an apologetics group.

1573
01:16:18.000 --> 01:16:20.000
She's going to this group.

1574
01:16:20.000 --> 01:16:26.000
I invited her to join the small group, the gun club group, you know, the shooting group at church.

1575
01:16:26.000 --> 01:16:28.000
And she was just like, I don't know about that.

1576
01:16:28.000 --> 01:16:30.000
Then she saw that she was one woman to 40 men.

1577
01:16:30.000 --> 01:16:32.000
She's like, yes.

1578
01:16:32.000 --> 01:16:34.000
Yes, I will join.

1579
01:16:34.000 --> 01:16:36.000
Ladies, join gun groups.

1580
01:16:36.000 --> 01:16:38.000
Okay?

1581
01:16:38.000 --> 01:16:40.000
Take up golfing.

1582
01:16:40.000 --> 01:16:42.000
Seriously.

1583
01:16:42.000 --> 01:16:46.000
If you want to spend your money on something, spend it on a session with a golf pro.

1584
01:16:46.000 --> 01:16:48.000
Go to the driving range.

1585
01:16:48.000 --> 01:16:50.000
Hit balls.

1586
01:16:50.000 --> 01:16:52.000
Hire the guy.

1587
01:16:52.000 --> 01:16:54.000
You know, it's not that expensive.

1588
01:16:54.000 --> 01:16:56.000
You know, $20, $30 an hour to show you how to hit the balls.

1589
01:16:56.000 --> 01:16:58.000
Go to places like Topgolf.

1590
01:16:58.000 --> 01:17:00.000
Go places where there's a majority of men.

1591
01:17:00.000 --> 01:17:02.000
You know where men are not?

1592
01:17:02.000 --> 01:17:04.000
In Target.

1593
01:17:04.000 --> 01:17:06.000
Okay?

1594
01:17:06.000 --> 01:17:10.000
So let's go to where the boys are.

1595
01:17:10.000 --> 01:17:12.000
You never know who you might meet.

1596
01:17:12.000 --> 01:17:14.000
Gentlemen, the ladies are at Target.

1597
01:17:14.000 --> 01:17:16.000
So if you want to meet a woman, you can go there.

1598
01:17:16.000 --> 01:17:18.000
All right?

1599
01:17:18.000 --> 01:17:20.000
But yes.

1600
01:17:20.000 --> 01:17:22.000
Guys, you got to get out there.

1601
01:17:22.000 --> 01:17:24.000
You got to meet new people.

1602
01:17:24.000 --> 01:17:26.000
You got to meet new people.

1603
01:17:26.000 --> 01:17:28.000
You have to.

1604
01:17:28.000 --> 01:17:30.000
So if you want to be intentional, you want to prioritize, this is summertime.

1605
01:17:30.000 --> 01:17:32.000
Prioritize in person.

1606
01:17:32.000 --> 01:17:34.000
Okay?

1607
01:17:34.000 --> 01:17:36.000
Okay.

1608
01:17:36.000 --> 01:17:38.000
Let's give the apps a rest for the summer.

1609
01:17:38.000 --> 01:17:40.000
Shall we?

1610
01:17:40.000 --> 01:17:42.000
Let's do it.

1611
01:17:42.000 --> 01:17:44.000
Let's do it.

1612
01:17:44.000 --> 01:17:46.000
Everyone's like, heck yeah.

1613
01:17:46.000 --> 01:17:48.000
Okay.

1614
01:17:48.000 --> 01:17:50.000
All right.

1615
01:17:50.000 --> 01:17:52.000
Let's see.

1616
01:17:52.000 --> 01:17:54.000
All right.

1617
01:17:54.000 --> 01:17:56.000
Elizabeth, the Krav Maga.

1618
01:17:56.000 --> 01:17:58.000
How do you say that?

1619
01:17:58.000 --> 01:18:00.000
So she's part of some Taekwondo situation that has men in it.

1620
01:18:00.000 --> 01:18:02.000
I don't even know how to say it.

1621
01:18:02.000 --> 01:18:04.000
Krav Maga.

1622
01:18:04.000 --> 01:18:06.000
Krav Maga.

1623
01:18:06.000 --> 01:18:08.000
It sounds like a Star Wars character.

1624
01:18:08.000 --> 01:18:10.000
It's Hebrew.

1625
01:18:10.000 --> 01:18:12.000
It sounds like a Star Wars character.

1626
01:18:12.000 --> 01:18:14.000
It's like self-defense.

1627
01:18:14.000 --> 01:18:16.000
And I actually just finished a class.

1628
01:18:16.000 --> 01:18:18.000
And I hopped on late.

1629
01:18:18.000 --> 01:18:20.000
It's so great.

1630
01:18:20.000 --> 01:18:22.000
It sounds great.

1631
01:18:22.000 --> 01:18:24.000
And actually, I take that back.

1632
01:18:24.000 --> 01:18:26.000
It sounds like a Star Trek character.

1633
01:18:26.000 --> 01:18:28.000
But yeah.

1634
01:18:28.000 --> 01:18:30.000
Yeah.

1635
01:18:30.000 --> 01:18:32.000
One of my brides that, you know, I helped her get married.

1636
01:18:32.000 --> 01:18:34.000
She just got married.

1637
01:18:34.000 --> 01:18:36.000
She's into that Krav Maga.

1638
01:18:36.000 --> 01:18:38.000
She was doing it all the way up to her wedding.

1639
01:18:38.000 --> 01:18:40.000
But yeah.

1640
01:18:40.000 --> 01:18:42.000
It's so great.

1641
01:18:42.000 --> 01:18:44.000
It's such a wonderful community.

1642
01:18:44.000 --> 01:18:46.000
Love all you guys so much.

1643
01:18:46.000 --> 01:18:48.000
If you live in the Austin, Texas area,

1644
01:18:48.000 --> 01:18:50.000
we're going to be putting together a dance small group.

1645
01:18:50.000 --> 01:18:52.000
So for the people that want to go country dancing,

1646
01:18:52.000 --> 01:18:54.000
two-step dancing,

1647
01:18:54.000 --> 01:18:56.000
dancing, you know,

1648
01:18:56.000 --> 01:18:58.000
country style dancing.

1649
01:18:58.000 --> 01:19:00.000
We're going to.

1650
01:19:00.000 --> 01:19:02.000
There's lots of big dance places here.

1651
01:19:02.000 --> 01:19:04.000
We have Mavericks.

1652
01:19:04.000 --> 01:19:06.000
We have Broken Spoke.

1653
01:19:06.000 --> 01:19:08.000
We have a lot of big dance places.

1654
01:19:08.000 --> 01:19:10.000
We're going to be putting together a dance group.

1655
01:19:10.000 --> 01:19:12.000
It's going to be super fun.

1656
01:19:12.000 --> 01:19:14.000
So if you're into that,

1657
01:19:14.000 --> 01:19:16.000
or you want to learn how to do that,

1658
01:19:16.000 --> 01:19:18.000
we're going to be doing that here in Austin.

1659
01:19:18.000 --> 01:19:20.000
There is a brand new single city OC.

1660
01:19:20.000 --> 01:19:22.000
So if you're in Southern California.

1661
01:19:22.000 --> 01:19:24.000
Yeah, there's a brand new single city OC.

1662
01:19:24.000 --> 01:19:26.000
If you haven't joined it, please join.

1663
01:19:26.000 --> 01:19:28.000
We're going to be putting together.

1664
01:19:28.000 --> 01:19:30.000
Some things for single city OC.

1665
01:19:30.000 --> 01:19:32.000
And single city LA.

1666
01:19:32.000 --> 01:19:34.000
We're not going to forget about our.

1667
01:19:34.000 --> 01:19:36.000
Our people.

1668
01:19:36.000 --> 01:19:38.000
Thomas, where do you go to church out there?

1669
01:19:38.000 --> 01:19:40.000
Do you go to Evergreen?

1670
01:19:40.000 --> 01:19:42.000
Do you go to Vintage?

1671
01:19:42.000 --> 01:19:44.000
What do you got?

1672
01:19:44.000 --> 01:19:46.000
I go to Vintage.

1673
01:19:46.000 --> 01:19:48.000
Awesome.

1674
01:19:48.000 --> 01:19:50.000
I love Evergreen too though.

1675
01:19:50.000 --> 01:19:52.000
I nip over there every once in a while.

1676
01:19:52.000 --> 01:19:54.000
Tommy is the pastor at Evergreen.

1677
01:19:54.000 --> 01:19:56.000
And he's single and ready to mingle ladies.

1678
01:19:56.000 --> 01:19:58.000
So if you live out in that area,

1679
01:19:58.000 --> 01:20:00.000
you have no problem marrying a pastor.

1680
01:20:00.000 --> 01:20:02.000
I know a guy.

1681
01:20:00.000 --> 01:20:06.160
person that started the worship program at Vintage, Lydia, I match made her and brought her from,

1682
01:20:06.960 --> 01:20:11.360
you know, where she was to here to Austin, and she is going to be getting engaged and

1683
01:20:11.360 --> 01:20:19.280
getting married here soon. So sorry, we stole her. I'm so sorry. Yeah, I'm glad she's on God's path.

1684
01:20:19.280 --> 01:20:24.720
Yeah, but she, I played keys with her. She helped teach me how to learn worship keys.

1685
01:20:25.040 --> 01:20:34.000
Wow. Well, you need to come to Austin and visit us. Yeah. He's like, yeah, maybe Austin is cool.

1686
01:20:34.000 --> 01:20:41.840
Okay. So yes, she's here and she is in love and getting married. Okay. So, all right, friends,

1687
01:20:43.040 --> 01:20:48.000
New York, New Jersey, Columbus, Ohio, just shouting out some of the single city groups.

1688
01:20:48.000 --> 01:20:55.040
We have some in Canada. We have Calgary. We have BC. We'd love to open one in Toronto. So if you're

1689
01:20:55.040 --> 01:21:00.960
here, this is your sign. If you want to open one in the, on the, in the east side of Canada,

1690
01:21:00.960 --> 01:21:11.520
we'd love to do that. We have California, Reading, and LA, and now the OC. We have

1691
01:21:11.840 --> 01:21:18.880
Columbus, Ohio. I said that we have Indiana, Kentucky, Louisville, that area. We have Nashville.

1692
01:21:18.880 --> 01:21:26.160
We have Atlanta. We have Orlando. We have Jacksonville. We have Tampa. We have Austin,

1693
01:21:26.160 --> 01:21:37.280
Dallas, Houston, San Antonio, Colorado Springs, Scottsdale, and also Phoenix area, Arizona.

1694
01:21:37.440 --> 01:21:44.160
So if you did not hear your place called, then that means we're calling you to help us to start

1695
01:21:44.160 --> 01:21:49.120
a single city in that area. Okay. I'm sure that there are some that I've totally messed up and

1696
01:21:49.120 --> 01:21:55.840
missed, but they do exist. All right. So let's prioritize in person, shall we? I really do think

1697
01:21:55.840 --> 01:22:01.440
that that is a word for us. We want to prioritize in person as much as we can. And what we'll do is

1698
01:22:01.440 --> 01:22:13.120
let's make, Candace, let's make a cheat sheet of, of, of links for people that are in-person things,

1699
01:22:13.120 --> 01:22:18.880
you know, like time left and different things. And you guys, we will put that, we will put that PDF

1700
01:22:18.880 --> 01:22:25.120
up in your groups. Okay. To kind of give you an idea of some things that you can do that probably

1701
01:22:25.120 --> 01:22:30.000
are available in your area. They may not be for you, but they are available in your area.

1702
01:22:30.400 --> 01:22:35.440
They may not be fully, but one of them will be so that you can go ahead and go after that.

1703
01:22:35.440 --> 01:22:43.360
Sound good? All right, friends, JackieDorman.com 2.0 coming soon with all kinds of things for you

1704
01:22:43.360 --> 01:22:50.960
guys to be able to connect to with events and retreats and information and all different

1705
01:22:50.960 --> 01:22:58.080
types of things that you guys need. And then Spirit Mate Match 2.0, facing you, not facing me.

1706
01:22:59.040 --> 01:23:04.240
We're going to continue to talk about that as a team and see what that rollout would be like.

1707
01:23:04.240 --> 01:23:13.600
Don't forget Arc. Give it a shot. Let's see that, that affiliate, that special offer ends in July

1708
01:23:13.600 --> 01:23:18.960
for us and Arc. And there is one more speed dating event. Okay. All right. Love you guys.

1709
01:23:18.960 --> 01:23:20.400
Have a great one. See you soon.