watch this moving forward um do you want to pull up do you would how would you rather do it would
you like to pull up your account and we you can share your screen and we can walk you i can walk
you through it that way or would you rather me pull it up on my account and you can see it that
way i'm not sure what would be more helpful i wonder can i you know what would be really helpful
to where you can get into my account okay and i don't know how to do that um i don't know how
i don't even i do know what my of course i know what my passwords are probably not
um but maybe and then showing me what to click on what to do in well it doesn't matter like if
it's in your account i can still see it it's just the it makes it real when you can see it
applied to your situation does that make sense i agree um let me if i put in the chat yeah
i'm guessing it'll be my email
yeah yeah either your phone number or your email whichever you had set up for your account
i've got two emails so it'll be one of either and i'm not sure which because obviously once i'm in
like thousands of years ago so those are the two um emails and then i'll just put my phone number
in there i'm guessing you'll do it as a new zealander
27
um that's the phone number but it has a it's a plus what are we plus 64 here
yeah plus 64 um so you just drop the zero and do the 64 and then the password
i think is that i'm praying that that's the password otherwise i might have to think again
um i'm trying one email
i know i'm the same with my facebook i'm like it could either be this one or it could be okay
let's try the next email copied how did your event this last week go
i was like oh my goodness why lane is next level so ultimately the whole point of doing this was
to help her launch her heart healing business okay and so this is she's gone through the process
she's got certified that's all been sitting in the background for a while and she just got this
i need to do this now so bless her heart um that's what she's done and um just next level
everybody that was on the call got uh she hot seated a couple of people so um one lady put
her hand up so we walked her through and then we were like any questions and we were going to do
our pitch and a lady came up and she said oh actually i've had four incidences at work this
week where i've you know butted heads with people and she said i know it's a cyclical thing i know
that it keeps happening and um so while he said she looked at me and she said right what do we do
i said okay i think the holy spirit's saying forget the pitch forget the whatever you guys
are all part of brilliant you all know what a pitch looks like you all know what an offer looks
like we're not going to share the heart of it but the heart is that we're here to heal people
or to walk in allow jesus to do what he needs to do hands up who's up for walking this lady
through another session rather than sharing what we do so that's what we did and it was amazing
i cried the whole way through it as jesus just walked her and it was so in every situation
jesus has the moment they've closed their eyes jesus has held their hand
i've watched him walk them back as wyling's just prompting them but just walk them back
to that first mention so there's a bit of navigation and wilderness to get through but
get back to that first experience where it first happened and then so she shared that and you know
she said look i'm sorry for what's happened where's jesus and he was right in front of her
and she said he's right in front of me and um and she said well what's he saying or what's he doing
she said he's looking at me with eyes of compassion i was just like you know like it was just uh and
then it's like he
pulls that out. At that moment, he pulled it out, she crossed over, and every single memory
that was attached to that lie, and that root got pulled out at the same time for good.
And then just gently, that while I'm with him, just gently and Holy Spirit just water back out,
she was instead of being crushed by the four people and going through a cycle, and she was
just radiant and so good. And so basically, the plan for the course is to take people through
that heart healing process, but also give them some, a little bit not in the same way as Holly,
but giving people tools. So giving people tools to walk in their newness advantage,
walk in their new life, walk in because they've been, they've only known the cycle that they've
had before. And so doubling up and giving people tools to be able to stay in this space and to
focus on Jesus and not back. So that's, that's the double portion. And it has, I've done games
to begin with just to get people to hear him and see him. So I just did, you know, a game with God,
and then they had to draw their shoes. And then how that applies to now. So in both situations,
he spoke directly into them about where they're at now, what their season is, what their assignment
is, what the calling is. And so that's the two together, we do the heart healing. And then what
is your assignment? Like, what are you called to do? So we get they get real clarity over the six
weeks on what they're doing and where they're going. I love that. Yeah, I love that. I love
that you guys were able to flow with because realistically, like, yes, the pitch matters
in the end scheme of getting people into whatever you're wanting them like the purpose of running
the workshop, but like, there's, it'll be honored that you guys actually took the time to care for
the person. Yeah, but that's amazing. Okay, I need you to approve that notification somewhere.
Yes, ma'am. Facebook should come up. As this San Diego device is trying to log in,
you should be able to click it and then press. Yes. Okay, it's not come up on
my messages there.
Or WhatsApp
or messenger. It would be in Facebook. I'll be in Facebook. That'll be why I'm looking in the
wrong place. So I go into Facebook notifications. Hawksbury hockey. No, it's not in there. Let me
just flick back to
let me see if I go to account center, go to account center first switch.
Oh, God. That's I'm in that one. See if it comes up if I'm in this one.
Turn on notifications.
I can't find any. Would it be in the meta site? Is that where I would need to see it?
No, it would typically come up under your Facebook. I'm trying to think I wonder if
whatever your account is has to do you have multiple Facebook accounts?
That's good. So I've just flicked to both of them. I've got a personal and a business,
the Sally and inspiring perspectives. Yeah. So that will, I don't know if that changes which
account you're in. Okay, let's just go to account to go to account center first switch
to your main Facebook profile. Oh, I see. It must be my main one.
Sometimes you have to refresh and it'll come up. I can also
here we go.
No, that's lovely. Holly bless her. She's gorgeous.
Ah, okay, go back here.
That's all shortcuts. How do I find my account center? You see, this is how help and support.
That's unhelpful. Well, maybe we just stick with going through what you've got.
So I'm going to go back to my main account and I'm going to go to my business and I'm going to
switch.
Oh, that's unhelpful. Well, maybe we just stick with going through what you've got.
Or maybe I'll do it now.
I thought it would just come up and say that it, I can't find any, any notification anywhere.
If you're in, oh, let me, what does it look like?
If so, if you're in your Facebook and you go to the notifications at the bottom, this
part.
Yeah.
Let's do that.
It should be either on the top or sometimes you could take a little scroll and it.
Yeah.
So there's nothing.
Is it that top?
Is it that top one?
No, that's Hawke's Bay hockey.
Oh, refresh it.
Pull down like this.
Okay.
Oh, bear with.
I've gone back to, I don't know where I've gone now, inbox.
Something random's going on.
Let's just home.
Start again.
Oh, I'm into somewhere really weird now.
Facebook.
Thank you.
So refresh it.
Yeah.
Now there's nothing.
There's nothing.
I thought it might've been about a message for inspiring perspectives, but there's nothing
that's just stayed with Hawke's Bay hockey.
Weird.
I'm going to check my other one, which is I go here, do the same thing.
Yeah.
Now I've got some random lady from a hundred X and a VH adding to her story, turn on notifications.
Not now.
So there's nothing on either of those notifications.
Well, okay, well, I will show you.
On my end and then we can, yeah, cause we don't want to waste your time.
No, you're fine.
Yeah.
Let me show you on my end so that you can take it.
So what has been good with a little bit of boosting that we have done with absolutely
no direction.
Well, the little bit, actually I did take in like, Oh, I can change my, um, like instead
of it just going to the website, I sent them to the, you know, to the event page.
So that was a bonus because Bruce showed us, I think, well, you showed us how to do that
the other week.
I'm like, okay, I'll do that bit, you know, and I'll do that bit.
So that's been helpful, but, um, we, we know that we don't, I feel like we don't get cold
people coming into courses.
It's like they might come into a free workshop, but that, you know, they're not going to come
into a course.
So I've kind of just directed them at the moment to, um, either the website or, but,
you know, it might be too, we might direct that to YouTube or we might direct them to
somewhere that they don't have to take any action like YouTube or a free workshop or
whatever has kind of been, I'm taking them at the moment.
That's I think that's fine.
I think taking them there, cause a lot of times when you're doing stuff, especially
in the beginning of running workshops or things, you're going to have people who are
warm audiences that come to your stuff first, even if you're boosting, but it's kind of
the same thing how we're like, um, just, just do it.
You're going to get the following.
They're going to start to see where you're at and what you're doing, like seeing what
you're doing and then they'll want to be involved.
Okay.
So you're going to go to your profile of whatever account it is you're wanting to send your
ads from.
Okay.
So you've already done this bit where you can go here and just hit boost post and then
it'll open up, especially if you're on your computer, it'll open up your boosted post
like page for you to be able to do some different things.
So you'll want to make sure Bruce has a few ad accounts, so you'll want to make sure it's
in the right.
I wonder what's going to happen if I change this because it's not the right ad account.
He has multiple, normally you have maybe one or two.
Okay.
So it'll take you to the same place.
This is the button that Bruce was talking about.
If you wanted to have no button, but you're wanting to have the learn more, you can have
a sign up button.
You can kind of change whichever you feel is needed.
We usually use learn more.
Okay.
I did look at this and then couldn't work out how to do it.
So this is brilliant.
Okay.
And then you're going to have the button destination will typically just be to your website.
Okay.
And then you're just going to type in whatever your website URL is, if that's your event
page, if that's the registration page from zoom, et cetera.
Whatever you want.
So.
URL to be, because when you click learn more, it'll take them there.
Right.
And I think I got confused that I couldn't change the website and I
didn't want them to go to the website.
But then once I realized I could change the URL there and put in whatever, I think
that's so the learn more button got it destination website, and then you put your,
whatever it is that you're going to put in there.
Brilliant.
And then you can come down and do your audience.
So you can let it do the suggested audience where it's kind of nice to have
Facebook run it because it is very clever.
It does take whatever your caption is, whatever's in your video.
And it will, it somehow smartly thinks of what are the people that would.
Watch this video based off of your keywords, based off of things like that.
And it, so Facebook is clever and how it sends things out, but you can hit
this little edit button right here.
Okay.
And you can change the age range just to help it a little bit, because if you want,
if you're like, are, this is where you take your niche into mind.
Okay.
Yeah.
I want to look at what is the age range?
What is the gender?
What is the destination?
And so if you were using, like, let's say you're going to get a different audience.
If I'm like, okay, my audience is like 30 to 60 rather than 65 plus, which ends up
being, if a 90 year old has Facebook, that's fine, but then you can kind of
target it down just a little bit.
And you can also change your, you can add locations right now.
It has us just in the United States.
So where you could say, like, I want it to be New Zealand.
You could change it to be, instead of it being like the United States as a whole,
I could probably target only California.
So like, I will do that.
If my dad's running a local event, you'll target to like, I want
to target this one specific area.
Great.
So you can adjust those things.
You can also toggle this off.
If you don't want people outside of those perimeters, you can toggle this
off and it won't reach external people from whatever you've parameters you've set.
Okay.
So toggle off means that they just.
So if you toggle it, if it's on, it'll automatically be on and Facebook
will show your posts to people outside of your selected cities.
Right.
Toggle it off.
They will just do where you've asked.
Sometimes it's not a problem that it reaches outward, but if you were to be
running a local in-person event, it wouldn't make sense for it to reach
people who are in Mexico and you there.
So that's kind of where you can think.
And then there's also some detailed targeting that you could do.
Now this is, let's see.
This is things that are really generic.
Like you could do coaching.
These are people who are interested in coaching, interested in let's say mentorship.
Now it used to be much more detailed where I could go in and put, I could go in and put Graham Cook.
I could put Bethel.
I could put all of those things.
I could put all of those things, but Facebook has made it to where you can't
target religion at all, which is oh, so frustrating.
So I know people have gotten away with it by like, some people have put as
Christians, and I don't know if I would recommend this because it would open up
a different audience, but I know some people have put like Chick-fil-A as
their, as one of their interests because Christians or it's known as God's chicken.
You know what I mean?
Like some people try loopholes of that way, which is, which is very funny.
I don't know if I would suggest that, but like people are getting creative with it.
Um, so that's kind of, you can adjust those small things, make sure you hit
save, um, and then it'll update here for you.
Oh, brilliant.
So that's, if you want the advantage audience, you can also just do, which I
would say do for now, but you can also hit all and you could do people you
choose, and then you can edit it.
You can do people who like your page, which would be only people.
It'll only show it to people who are on your page.
or people who like your page and people similar to them,
which then will create a lookalike audience,
which a lookalike audience is it'll take the type of people
that are already in your platform
and it'll find users like those people.
But if your page only has a hundred people on it,
then that would be,
I wouldn't recommend the lookalike audience, but yeah.
So, which we can go into, I'm going to be creating a,
or I have some things together to help
if you guys are wanting to look into more
of like actually running Facebook ads,
because there's more, you can be more detailed.
But I think for right now,
just boosting your post and getting it out there.
Yeah. It's fine.
And to be honest for me, it's boosted,
using an event as an opportunity to boost the posts,
normally.
So my normal posts, we're just leaving as they are.
They just poodle along.
That's part of what I'm doing.
And then we're going to boost as I do events.
So I've got, obviously I've got the,
we've boosted right the way through.
We've got another one to boost today,
which I'll do in a bit more detail.
So this is great for the time to love course.
And I'm not bothered if people don't sign up,
it's just, this is me getting the reps in.
And also at low cost.
And I feel like this is a good space to practice
at $2 a day, to just get it out there
and see what response we get.
But it is growing the following.
And it's like, okay, so if it's growing the following,
I've got more people to market to in the future.
So if that's the only thing that it does,
and as you say, they follow,
and then they like what you do,
and then they become more involved.
So I'm kind of seeing this as extending the 10 pegs,
extending my reach, and just using the,
because we've got Beauty From Ashes
is the next collaborative event I'm doing
with Jessie at the end of September.
The book of that?
Yeah, I'm so excited about that.
So we're going to do a collaborative,
like a collaborative book where everyone
that is interested and wishes to,
gets to write one chapter from the,
whatever that it can be, fictional, non-fictional,
it doesn't matter, but it's that chapter of where Jesus,
where they were in their pit of doom
to where they are now in their bed of roses, ultimately,
or whatever it is for them.
And it's all, so the key is him,
and it's all about everyone's different,
how he meets each one of us so beautifully
and so differently.
And then, so it cost me in total 20 grand New Zealand dollars
to write my book, have it edited, have it published,
and get it out there, which was like next level.
And we're going to do it for 500 bucks
in terms of people come in,
we'll walk for six months with them
on their writing and their editing,
and then we'll crowd fund for the last part.
So it's a whole year's project,
but we'll guarantee them an international bestseller.
And depending on how many people sign up and say,
actually, yes, we'd like to be part of it,
that extend, again, it's about extending people's reach.
So, and the next one after this
is the heart of a true leader.
And that's sort of in six months or a year's time.
So we're just looking at how we'll do it,
but we're looking at this becoming a thing.
And then, because it gets people out there,
even if, say, for example, I don't know,
Holly writes something in there,
it'll extend her reach a little bit like this.
It extends your reach to people that might read my books,
but have not been introduced to Holly.
So my people will buy the book for me,
but then they'll get introduced to Holly,
and then they'll get introduced to Yarp,
and then they'll get introduced to,
and then they go, oh, I really like what Holly wrote.
Holy heck, I want her books.
You know, like, so it's that,
it's just giving them that taster.
So that's next, and I'll be wanting to really pump
what I can do for that,
because we've only got a couple of weeks to advertise that,
because that's at the end of September.
So my suggestion is always going to be run,
especially if you're running such a low-cost boost,
run it for as long as you can.
Okay. Up to it.
I wouldn't say, like,
if you knew about it six months in advance,
don't run it for six months,
because what you do is you lose your audience,
because people forget about the event.
But, like, if you could do two weeks or a week,
I think that would be massive.
Because we did, so, for example,
we had, we used to do a...
budget for emerging profits would do a budget of let's say $10,000 for the week.
Yeah.
So you're running with that much for one week.
So then you're getting all of this ad spend pumped in one week, but we,
whenever someone else purchased emerging profits, their ad account had never had
ads ran, and so Facebook has a smaller trust with you and lets you run under
less dollars, and so then I had to experiment with running the same ad
spend across two months instead of across one week, and I got a massive
amount of signups, but a lot less people who joined because people were like,
oh, I'm so interested, but they're interested for two months, and then
they forget that the event is happening to in two months in the future.
Whereas if I'm going to run it this amount of time, a week, Facebook has
less time to learn the audience that I'm wanting, but it will still get a
ton of people who are more interested because it's happening this week.
Does that make sense?
So just trying to explain, run it for two months, I would say run it for two
weeks, maybe at most a month, as long as you're posting and you're boosting.
But I think that this is a great place to like, you can make it to where you
just do the suggested, you're just kind of giving your, adjusting your few
things, it will show you over on this right-hand side, the estimated amount
of people that it's going to send it to for the cost that you're putting in.
So if I'm putting $2 in, it's going to shrink it in half.
Yeah.
Even if I put $4 a day and it still adds it a little bit, but even if you're
reaching at a dollar, even if you're reaching 5,000 people a day, there's
still, you'll probably get a hundred out of 5,000 that are watching.
Yeah.
You're still getting more reach than you were, than the video was just
running to your own personal page.
So I would say do that.
You can choose.
I mean, you've done this part where you're able to edit.
What I've done is exactly as you've said in terms of, so Jesse and I've just done
a really raw, like we videoed something yesterday, we just recorded something
yesterday just to go out.
So whether, whether he'll edit it or flick it to me, I don't know, but we'll
put something out and then we will literally that, and then I'll do some
more, but that will run right the way through to the free workshop.
So it'll get, so that's every time I've done a new ad and done something
different, I've just run it to the, to the workshop or run it to the deep
dive or whatever it's been.
Um, so that's been, so we, if we get it out in the next couple of days,
it'll be a full two weeks, but I've just been up until the event.
That's great.
Um, that's great.
And then I would say Bruce was helpful.
I think in last time, making the adjust, helping the copy adjustments, making
sure that you're wanting to put when your day and time are in your, cause I
think, let's see, um, I think in your post, let me make sure that no one is,
uh, I don't think anyone's waiting in the waiting room.
I never had that looking, looking at that.
Let me see.
When was that?
Not last week.
Okay.
What's this one?
Nope.
Not that one.
This one.
Nope.
Not this one, man.
Where did he comment that this one?
Yeah, I would even take, which I can drop it in the comments
here, if that's helpful.
Yeah, but you can, oh, I can go back in and find this.
Okay.
But I would say I would take this and give him like, do something super
similar because if you can give people, you don't need it to be a super long
lengthy caption, but give them a little, maybe three sentence blurb of what it
is that you're doing, maybe not even that long.
And then like, like he said this Saturday, I'm hosting a free live
call to help you discover blank.
Join me for a live event and then give them the date and the time.
Yeah.
So I think this is a really great model of having this top portion
be maybe two, three sentences.
Don't make it super, super lengthy, but just giving people, because if
you're going to, sometimes you go through Facebook and you're like,
Ooh, I want to see what they're doing.
And you'll read all of it.
Most of the time people are just flicking through their account and
aren't taking a ton of time, but we'll.
watch your video more than they would read it, and then they'll go back and read it after.
So that's what I would say to do for the post. And then for you to be able to manage this
afterwards, because once you hit boost post, then it's kind of like, oh, where did it,
how do I manage it? Did you sort out, you can come over to your, it'll put it into your ads manager.
Yeah, no, I haven't even looked at, I think I've looked at,
I've kind of looked, yeah, they've come up and said they've given me a notification and I've
sort of clicked in there, but I haven't gone any further than that.
So if you go into your ads manager, it's going to look
overwhelming, but I promise it's not, if you're just going to the one thing.
So ignore everything that's in this like top portion, because all you're going to go find
once it loads, maybe it's in, no, it's in this account. It's loading.
Slowly. There we go. Oh my goodness. So you're going to see your boosted posts that are in here.
Okay. So it'll pop up on this side. It'll pop up your ad that you'll see because it'll,
it'll be toggled on. Yeah. So then you can come in and you can just hit edit,
or you can view the chart so you can actually see how people are responding to it.
Hold on. How did you get to that bit? What did you view? Did you just click on it?
I do. I clicked on edit. If you, if you hover over it, you can see it'll say edit.
Okay. But you can also view
what's happening in it by viewing your chart. I think I've seen that.
But if you're coming over to edit, you can also see in here, you can see
how much, what is my cost per result? So for every, for every one person they're costing about
this much. Now that may be too in depth and it can be something you can look into at a different
time, but this will give you like, okay, this is how much each person is counting as. Yeah.
And that's good to know. It is. It's good to know. And it's good to be able to look at and
be like, okay, so for this many people, this is how much they're costing me. So I'm paying
a dollar 16 per person to view my stuff. Okay. But then you can come in here and you can edit it
and you can, it'll, you'll be able to actually look into your ad. If you're wanting to adjust
anything for your boosted post, you'll be able to come in and make some little adjustments in here.
Okay. But that would be how you could go in. So the ads manager is the only thing that I was like,
I bet you, she hasn't looked at the ads manager. And then that's where you can also edit your
cards that you're paying with. Okay. And things of that nature, you can edit all of that. So
yeah. Is that helpful? Very helpful. Thank you. And it's all, it just takes time to learn it. I
feel like I'm super slow and right. I've done that, but okay. I've taken the graphic off. Okay.
I've done that one thing. And like, I keep saying, no, you've done that one thing. And then it's the
next one thing. And then it's the next one thing. So we boosted posts. That was one thing done.
And now this has been really helpful because I can now start to tweak it and it'll be great
because you'll be able to directly compare the boosted post results from a time to love. And
I know they're different products, but then the boost post results for the beauty from ashes.
So it's kind of like, well, you know, I've got like, okay, well, and it's just honing those
skills, I guess. Um, but it has been interesting. I think we'll end up with
54, come to the free workshop. We had 10 turn up and show up to the, um, $47 one.
That's not bad. I think we're going to end up with eight for the paid course.
So in terms of statistics, I think it's good. The been interesting. And again, like we've had
to offer half price for some people because they just can't afford it. So it's like, okay,
but you've got to so when you're not getting it free, you know, we either do this or we, you know,
so, um, but they're all people who we personally know, or are one. So it's somebody's come and
they've said, come with me. You know, it's that I'm just, you know, that's been consistent all
the way through the stuff I've done. And maybe, you know, maybe some of this, but I suppose for
me now, because the reach I need to get further reach is that following and then the like,
and then they're involved. And so it's just taking them on.
the journey as opposed to because people already know you so they've already been on the journey
and so they jump straight in but maybe that's the it's just going to be a slow burn it is a slow
burn but you will have some random people i think that'll just hop in they're like oh this is
amazing and then the word gets out because eventually it won't just be the people that
you're seeing that you know and it'll be fun whenever you're like oh my goodness i actually
have no idea who any of these people are that's what's it's kind of fun to be able to do the first
round of it when you do know people because it's a little bit more comforting whenever you're like
oh i know these people that's nice it's like speaking to friends versus going through to
100 people that you're like these are all strangers well and is it yeah because that
whoever signed up there's two people i know direct and everybody else i don't know like
that so they're people that they brought with them so you're right in terms of they have said
hey look come with us they brought those so that this is probably the first time that i'm in that
space where people have put their hand out and invited somebody else um which is super cool
so i'm stoked excellent good um did you figure out i well i did figure out if you're ever going
to use the zoom registration page i figured out how to send out an email how to set up the email
if you were ever going to do that for getting people into your event directly i also if i also
had a work session with holly two hours ago yeah that i put that that's all we talked about
and i did also show her how to set up her restream so if you ever wanted to think about doing that
you could watch the replay for that one and see like is this something i'm interested in what
does it even look like because we're walking through what her actual restream page looks like
and then i show her setting up the zoom meeting the zoom registration and then the zoom registration
email that'll go out directly to them that way okay i will watch the replay i think i just got
to try and create some time for it but because what i really need to i restream is a thing isn't
it it's like that's a another bucket of something that i might have to learn um yes so we've got a
website we've got which is irrelevant for this but we would because what i i think i've done this
before um once where we did the free workshop and it was live on facebook at the same time
so i that's my next thing is and i'd probably want to do it i guess on youtube i think the
restream what are you wanting to do on youtube and facebook or just on youtube if i could do
if we i'll talk to jesse and see how up how open he is because we're not doing anything personal
in this one it's not like we're doing heart healing and we don't want the general public
to see like that would be scary um but although tina was like i said tina do you mind if i put
this on my you know because it's you that's walked through this thing and she was amazing she's no
you just show it anywhere i'm like what the heck you know like you're opening your heart to the
world she's i don't care you just you know if it so she was great so i was able to find a workshop
you know wait put it on our chat and put it on wherever and say hey look this is what we did
yeah um but i think what i'll do this time if it is possible so i might try and catch up with you
shoot i'm away in let me just have a look on oh i won't be able to do when what day was today
with thursday today aren't we today for you yes yeah i don't know what i don't know what time
annabelle's playing hockey yet because i'm at a national hockey tournament with my daughter next
week um the games are um so what time is it for you now it's 2 47 for me okay so it's quite
sensible time all right let me
wednesday i won't be able to do um because we're out for most of the day the
so we did nine o'clock today didn't we for me which i didn't realize you said tuesday wednesday
meaning tuesday for me wednesday for you because i had a work session that we did in the past on
my wednesday it's the only oh right and i was thinking i'm sure we did it tuesday like i know
i'm so sorry i didn't know i didn't even consider that no it's and it is it's so confusing because
of the days ahead and you know if i say tuesday it could be tuesday for you or it could be tuesday
i get so confused as well so that's not an issue
Could we, if it works for you, and as long as the hockey game doesn't clash, could we
do the same time, same slot next week?
Sure.
Okay.
Would you rather, would you rather do it?
No, you're quite busy on your Wednesdays, aren't you?
Well, I'm gonna, so I've basically cleared most of my diary, and I'll hop into a couple
of things.
I'm not doing everything.
I've cleared Girl Power out, I've cleared other things out on a Wednesday, because I'm
away, and that actual day is their day off for the tournament, so I'm gonna spend the
day with Mud Order.
Okay.
But, I've said no to Girl Power.
I have to do, yeah, because I'll come, what I'll do is I'll come to Tribe because it'll
be 7am and she won't want to get out of that, so I'll be at Tribe, and then I'll do my normal
group straight afterwards, so that doesn't change, but then I'll be out for the rest
of the day.
I think we've got our last B-Sol at 5am too, so if this time works next week.
The 7, that would be my 7, is that your 18th?
Yeah, yeah.
Okay.
If you need to move it any, I have, let me actually move it to that day.
I have nothing else that entire day, so if you wanted, oh no, earlier makes no sense.
If you wanted it to be later, we can, if you wanted it to be earlier, we can, but this
time is great for me.
Okay.
I mean, the only thing I might do is go an hour earlier if Annabelle says, oh look, my
hockey game's at half past nine, you know, like, so I'll just, it should, I'm expecting
that they get them to do quite well, so their games will be later, but we won't, because
they cross over on Wednesday, which is their day off, and then they start, they're in pool
play from there, so it's kind of, they have to win that game, and then they're here, and
then they win that game, or they lose that game, and then they're here, so there's a
kind of a three-hour, four-hour gap that they could be in each day, but you don't know until
you kind of get there, but if you're available, what I would love to do is work out how to,
so if I'm going to run like a Zoom call, because that's what we'll do, we'll do the Zoom call
for whoever's registered, and if we can live stream it to YouTube, Facebook,
and that would be amazing. Okay, I have it, and I'm putting it in the tribe calendar now,
and then if we need to move it, we can. Brilliant. Whatever works for you. I'm like genuinely so open
my schedule-wise, so open, so, except for Tuesdays. Tuesdays for me are my worst day. I sit,
probably similar to you, I sit in a meeting 8 to 9, and then I sit in a meeting now 10 to 12,
12 to 1, 1 to 2.30, and then sometimes after that, and I'm just, by the end of my day, I'm like,
sometimes we had, last week we had a call with Bruce that was my time,
7 to 10, and then I had a 10 to 12, 12 to 1, 1 to 2.30, and I literally, by the end of the,
I'm like running back a bathroom directly here, and I'm literally like, run to pee,
run to get a drink of water, run to grab a snack, come back, sit down, run, and it's all on Zoom.
Yeah, good on you, and just, I mean, it's got nothing to do with anything, but it kind of,
so have you bought the lovely house that you're in, because your mum was doing your
curtains and things, so is this like your new home, is this? This is, we are renting. It is
a million thousand dollars to buy, I mean, it is so many dollars to buy a house, and we just cannot
afford it currently, but we're miraculously able to rent it. We doubled our rent from our apartment
before, and the Lord is, we thought we couldn't afford that apartment, and the Lord has somehow
miraculously made our bank account work to live here, so it's perfect. It's a three bed, two bath,
it'll be, I'm able to have an office, we'll have a room, we have a guest room, which will hopefully
be a child's room eventually, and then we have space, and a backyard, which we have,
San Diego, there's no, no one has backyards, no one. But you have. If you do, they're like
this big, but we have a pretty decent size, we have two avocado trees, we have two lemon trees,
we have a pomegranate tree, an orange tree, a fig tree, she had a spot for a raised bed garden,
and then she has a spot for an in-ground garden, and then she has a gazebo, and she has a deck.
We were like, this is amazing, I could have never in my wildest dreams, so yes.
Isn't he good? And I love the fact that all of that fruit, it's like, that's so God blessed,
you know, all the things to put in that backyard. It's a, you know, it's, you know, the, it is the
tree of life, trees of life, you know, feeding you. That's beautiful. I'll show you out my window.
We, it's, it's a lot of fun. And we have like this, our front, it's cute because it's, she
really liked gardening. So like our front yard has all of this and this really pretty tree.
Oh, very sunny. It's half of our house is not furnished because you're not there yet.
Absolutely no way that we could like this whole room has nothing in it yet. And that's okay.
Nothing in it yet, but we have, let's see out. This is my kitchen window. So we have our deck
and then we have all the trees that are over. It's like avocado trees over here and everything
else goes around the corner, but it's nice. My husband set up the little shade thing because
it's so bright, but I'm getting bored of working in the office all day long. And so he's like,
I set it up so that you could work outside if you want. So it was very sweet of him.
Bless him. That is so cool. And how, you know, you don't have to tell me how long have you been
married? Two years, two and a half years. We got married in June of 23. So two years.
Oh, gorgeous. It's just so gorgeous. And I, you know, dad comes up on my Facebook feed every now
and again. And, you know, like, so I feel like I get little glimpses and pockets that obviously
shared, but it's like, oh my goodness. It is so, do you know what? It's so lovely. I can feel it.
It's so lovely to see his children blessed. You know, like, it's so lovely to, you know,
you've got a beautiful backyard, you know, your husband's put the sale up so that you don't have
to sit in your office all day, every day. And it just, and providing you with what you need. And,
you know, I'm grumpy with God. I'm like, seriously, God will put all this work into this.
And like, not one sign up like that. So I get stroppy with him. And he's like, Sally,
look how I provided for you, you're going to Christchurch for a week. And I'm giving you a
retreat place that would cost you two grand. Nothing, because they're my people who have
blessed you. Oh, that's right. And are you hiring a car next week? No. So if you add those two up,
you would have had to have earned five grand to have paid for those. Yeah, back in your box,
Sally web. Just look at what I'm doing for you. Not what I'm not doing for you, because you think
it needs to be this way. Yeah, we are. It's it's a I said to Kim this morning, I said, I am over
feeling like I am a leech in this family for finance. I said, I, you know, it's just, I'm
going to hang out with God. And I'm going to keep doing what he's asking me to do. But I'm like,
Oh, you know, and I met with a the chaplain at our local school this week. And he's creating a
job for me bless his cotton socks. He is he's like, you've come and volunteered for five years.
He said, I see what you do. I see what you do for the boys. He said, I'm going to go and see if we
can I need some help because I can't do I can't look after 550 boys on my own for pastoral care
for teaching for chapels for whatever he said, I just it's like this is nuts and run the mountain
bike club from school. So he's doing a restructure. And he went to the headmaster who said, Oh, look,
you're gonna ask me for money, and we haven't got it in the budget. And he said, Well, would you
support it if we found the money? He's already got two people who've personally said that they
would put money into me going into the school paid. Oh, like that, that's favor. And I'm like,
seriously, God, he says no. And what he said was, what happens in this school is once you're in,
it then flows from there, you go in, you prove yourself and then they want more. And he said,
so you will potentially be full time by the end of the year, but we're going to come in on like
10 hours a week. I said, I've learned he said, I've learned in this game to be patient. He said,
no other chaplain has had an office or a classroom. And in five years, I've got an office
under classroom. He said, you've lived through this time with me because you know, I had nothing
like I was literally with my backpack going to the next place and whatever. So he said,
just be patient. And I'm like, Oh, you know, I don't want to learn patience. I want it now.
But I've got all these things. Because otherwise, if he gave me 1000 people now,
I would not be able to cope. So being
on this journey with you guys has been fantastic
in terms of like, just do this one thing,
just do this one thing,
just do this one thing and keep growing.
So I do really appreciate you guys.
I did send an email to Bruce this week
saying, how am I gonna do this?
How am I gonna-
He had forgotten it and said he would respond.
I had to forward it.
Yeah, and it's not like at the end of the day,
I have no expectations.
You've got to pay your wages too.
Like it's, we've all got to,
we're giving what we've got in our hand.
So we've all got to do what's right for us,
what's right for each of us that God is calling us.
I just, I've either got to,
and I kind of, the reason I partly need a response
from Bruce is because at that sort of crossover point,
do I really invest in this, get the app?
Because I'm gonna come into October
through to the end of the year
is probably like a quiet time for me
in terms of everything's rolling,
but I'm planning for next year.
I'm going, right, what am I gonna do?
Am I gonna, because I can get an app on my phone
from my website, so I can do it,
but we're cowboying everything.
So it's that balance between $600 a month
at the moment for me,
675 I think comes out for New Zealand dollars
into you guys for what's the ROI?
How can I make this, how can I make this work?
And is there somewhere that like, as you say,
like me then going, because the leaders in life group
are all people with their own businesses.
I passionately believe like without,
I'm completely convicted that an app is the way to go
because I believe that Facebook, social media,
all those spaces and all the WhatsApps,
and they're so good,
they're gonna get more and more and more clogged up
and more confusing for people
that having the clarity of just going to one space
and getting it.
Yeah, there's a bit of a,
you've got to look in another space,
but I think I've kind of overcome that.
I've got all my like WhatsApp messenger brilliant
and pioneers in a little box on my phone.
And so then it pops up with a message
and it doesn't matter which one it's it,
you know, and then I'll check them.
So I feel I'm learning to overcome some of that.
The clunkiness in the background's quite hard,
but I've just, you know, if I,
so that's really kind of my email is,
are you open?
Not, would this potentially work?
Not, and that's fine.
I have no qualms either way.
I just, I suppose I just need to know
what am I investing in?
And I need to get over my poverty mindset of,
well, I've done a whole year
and you haven't done anything yet, Sal,
and I need to actually just keep going
and keep pushing through.
So there is a bit of my like,
in that, that is my human flesh,
not the spirit, if that makes sense.
So, and that was like on the call yesterday with Holly,
I'm like, yeah, I'm so in that little fear thing.
Like, how am I going to afford next year?
How am I going to stay?
Like, I was so, and I still,
I'm still working through it.
I can feel it.
I'm still working through it,
but I want it to be God, not me.
Yeah.
And I want to do the right thing,
but I can't keep paying money out that I don't have.
Yeah, of course.
We get that.
Oh, so frustrating because you can see it.
You can see the benefit.
You can, like, you guys are amazing.
And, but anyway, sorry.
No, don't be sorry.
Ah, anyway, I am super grateful for your time.
And I'm so excited for your beautiful home.
And you, I thought it was funny
when you shared with us the other week,
how mom, like, well, she can't reach at the moment.
You're like, she's, you know, she's waiting for surgery
or she's waiting for something.
And I was like, I love that.
And so she comes and she's like, right,
I'm just going to do all my beautifulness around your home.
And I was like, yes, go God.
Because every time you close your curtains,
every time you close your curtains, you think of your mom.
You know, like, it's such a beautiful connection
and it gave her a window of opportunity to come,
which she wouldn't have otherwise had.
So I thought that was, I laughed as God had created
this space through her not being able to do the extensions,
but she could come and hang out with her daughter.
And I was like, yes, go God.
I love it too.
That's good.
That's so good.
Okay, next week.
We'll look at linking those,
how to link those, and that'd be great.
Because then what we'll do is we'll run Beauty From Ashes
as the biggest event that we can
by putting it out live on YouTube
and live on Facebook will be amazing.
Yep.
Father God, bless Macy, bless.
all the tribe social team and all the families and all those that are involved
in this Lord and just pour out your blessing, your grace, your favour
and that beautiful multiplication of who you are
in Jesus name. Amen. Amen. All right gorgeous lady we love you
bless you thank you.