Hey friends, before you start this journey together, I want to tell you something really
important.
When two people decide to heal, grow, and soften together, heaven celebrates.
Let me also be real with you.
That's when hell gets a little bit nervous because a healed individual is very powerful,
but a healed couple, a unified, connected, set free couple, that's an unstoppable force.
So before you begin the heart work for couples, I want to prepare you for what you might feel
along the way.
Around here, we don't just feel the feels, we heal the feels.
So I'm not trying to scare you, but I want to make sure that nothing catches you off
guard.
So here are some things that you might start to feel.
Old emotions, old patterns, old fears, they might start to come to the surface.
We call that the revealing for healing.
And sometimes you might even feel a little irritated or frustrated at your mate, at your
partner.
But I want to remind you, your partner's not the problem.
Healing is stirring up all the things that you've tucked away and kept hidden for years
and years.
And let me tell you the truth.
The enemy's favorite weapon against couples is not chaos, it's silence.
It's secrecy.
It's isolation.
It's that quiet lie that whispers, deal with this alone.
Don't say anything.
Don't be honest.
Don't bring it into the light.
But this journey is going to do the opposite.
It's going to bring things into the light gently and safely, but with lots and lots
of hope.
And the moment things come into the light, the enemy loses his power.
You may experience distractions during this time together.
You may suddenly feel too busy.
Random arguments may pop up and you might feel the urge to just shut down, withdraw.
You may feel vulnerable, even exposed at moments, but none of that means it isn't working.
In fact, it actually means it is working.
Healing will always disrupt what's been hurting you.
And freedom will always confront what's been binding you.
And so the light is here to reveal the darkness and all the things that have been trying to
hide on the inside.
Because we're never stuck on the outside, only the inside.
And so if you stay tender, you stay honest, you stay in agreement, you stay aligned, even
when you don't feel like it, you're going to experience something beautiful.
Your hearts are going to start to soften.
Your connection is going to deepen.
Your communication is going to get more and more clear.
You're going to feel safer.
Your passion is going to reignite.
Your vision will align.
And you'll remember why God brought you together in the first place.
If you've been married for five minutes or 50 years, this process isn't going to be perfect.
This is going to be a journey that's for everyone, as long as you're willing to show up, willing
to listen, willing to heal, and just willing to begin.
So take a deep breath, go ahead and take each other's hands and welcome the heartwork into
your life.
So welcome to the Heartwork for Couples.
I am here on this journey with you and I cannot wait to see what God restores, what
He rebuilds, and what He resurrects in your relationship.
Let's heal together.
Let's go.