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Thank you, Cheryl.

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Awesome.

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So single spotlight, it is December 4, 2025.

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In case somebody's referring back to this, this is your chance

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to get spotlighted in a lot of creative ways.

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We start out with some fun questions.

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I ask you to go run and go get something in the house.

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You bring it back.

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You raise your little avatar hand and I call on you.

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And I try to call on a lot of people.

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So if 10 of you go find the item, then I'm going to call

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on all 10 of you, then after we have some fun,

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I'm going to start spotlighting specific people.

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If the guys are on tonight, I always like to try

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to spotlight the guys and then I will try to spotlight

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at least a half a dozen women who've not been spotlighted yet.

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I've got all sorts of fun questions.

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And you guys, by the way, start writing these questions down.

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You know, sometimes I just make some stuff up

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and you're always wondering, like, what do you ask somebody

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on a date without finding out too much?

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Like, what are some good level two dating questions?

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These are all good level two dating questions, typically.

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They're fun ways to do it.

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Okay. So are you all ready for your very first?

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I've got to turn my little light on, though,

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because I can't see Bufkus.

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All right.

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This is what happens when you turn something.

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All right.

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You have to go find the equivalent

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or an actual ugly sweater.

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So if you have an ugly Christmas sweater, go get it.

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If you wear reindeer ears, Santa ears, something that's

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over the top that you would wear

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to an ugly sweater Christmas party.

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It's really big in the south.

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We did not do this up north, but it's really big in the south.

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I don't know how if folks do it in Canada.

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Cheryl, you can tell me.

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But if you don't have an ugly sweater, maybe there's,

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like, some reindeer ears or something else that you might.

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All right.

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So go find your.

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Okay. All right.

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Are we back?

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I don't see Avatar hands yet.

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Look at Gale with her headpiece on.

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Oh, my gosh.

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Pam is ready.

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Okay. Raise your Avatar hand if you're ready to show it to me.

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All right.

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Gale, you are up first.

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What you got for us?

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Tell us what you got.

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Unmute.

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My ears.

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I love them.

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I think I have flowers.

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I had to have flowers.

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Oh, my gosh.

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I love it.

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I love it.

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I love it.

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I love it.

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Okay.

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Pam Petty, you are ready to go.

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Show us what you got.

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So I have, it's got a snowman and a snowman.

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Is it ugly or is it just cute?

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I got to know.

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Oh, I think it's ugly.

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But can I tell the story behind it?

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If it's really fast.

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Yep.

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Yeah.

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So it was my mom's.

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And when we were moving her into assisted living, it was among her

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things and ready to go out the door.

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And I said, oh, I'm going to take that.

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And my mom has dementia and a few months later, she said, where's

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that Christmas sweater that I had?

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Did you put it to Goodwill?

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So I told her I did not go to Goodwill.

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I'm glad you have it.

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I'm glad you have it.

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Megan, what you got girl?

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So I have, I'm trying to pull it up here.

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Here we go.

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My grandmother's sweatshirt.

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And I found it in the attic at my parents' house.

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And I think my mom used to wear it too, but she made it.

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My grandmother did the embroidery here or whatever you call it.

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And I thought it was awesome.

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Cause it was an authentic, ugly sweater.

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I didn't even know they were doing that in that long ago.

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I love it.

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So sweet.

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Regina, what you got?

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I just decided to wear it.

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I love it.

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Yes.

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Extra points for wearing it.

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Yeah.

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I was like, I have to prepare this for Christmas party.

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So I just wore it.

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I love it.

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All right.

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I saw somebody in a headpiece.

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Who did I see?

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Raise your little hand.

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I saw you with a headpiece on.

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Where'd you go?

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Somebody had a headpiece on.

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I saw it.

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She took it off.

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I'm not going to, I'm not going to call you out on it.

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Merrily.

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I know you were, I know you had a headpiece on girl.

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Okay.

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So ugly sweater did not win people over this time.

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That's okay.

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That's okay.

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Y'all are too cool for the ugliest sweater.

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I got another one for you.

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The next one is if you have a Christmas tree up, go pluck off your favorite

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ornament off your Christmas tree.

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Go plunk off.

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If you don't have a tree up, but you have a cute handheld size

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old Christmas decoration, go get it and come back.

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Ornaments. Anybody got some ornaments? Oh, okay. Kathy, show

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us your ornament.

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It's a heart ornament. Anyhow, my son gave my mother hearts

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every year. And so she decorated a tree. I kept one of

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them. He has the rest. But this is my favorite. She's been gone

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for seven years in heaven.

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I love it. I love it. I can tell who are my Christmas people

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because they're ready to go again. Pam, what do you got?

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It is a pine skier that's made from a pine cone.

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Love.

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He has little skis and a ski pole.

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I love it. Gail, do you have one too?

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Um, the last year, my word was believe. And I have two

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ornaments. This has supposed to light up.

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I love it. I love it.

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Believe and this little bird says just believe.

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Nice. Nice. Regina, do you have an ornament for us?

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I do. So it's a globe with a plane because I love to travel.

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So it's my favorite.

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I love it. I love it. I love it. Tanya, what you got for us?

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I have um, this was given to me before my retirement. It's

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handmade. It's a cross. It looks like a sport. Of course, I don't

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have a tree, but I have other decorations. And so I but I say

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this because I just think it's so pretty. It has a cross on it

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with little jewels.

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So I love it. It's so pretty. Megan, what you got?

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Um, I have a couple handmade ones. My sister made these. It

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was like an art show. And she gave me them. I love them. And

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my aunt, she's an artist as well. And she had made this

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before she passed away and gave it to me. So it's a nice little

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heirloom.

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Love it. Yeah, I love it. Okay, you guys, everybody has to

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participate in this one because God forbid if you don't have

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this next item, go grab your shower gel. Go get the shower

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gel or bar soap. You can get the bar soap. If you use some fancy

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soap. We're gonna learn a lot about you right here.

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Look, I see a lot of people off camera. I'm not liking this. I

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need more people to get on camera. Okay, Pam, what you got?

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Tell us what brand it is. And what your scent?

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It might be Canadian. It's native. It's all natural. And

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the scent is lilac and white tea.

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Nice. Nice. I love it. Okay. Look at Gail is on it tonight.

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Gail, Gail, Gail, Gail.

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I use goat milk from Australia.

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Okay. Okay. See? I love it. Very cute. Regina, what you got?

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What you use?

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I use Vanny cream. It's a very

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no scent.

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Body. Nice. I love it. I love it. Is it Oh, Kelly, what you

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got, girl? I can't see you much. But what you got?

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You're muted, though.

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Come off mute, girl.

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Sorry, I just got it. It's a new one. It's winter candy apple.

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Oh, that sounds amazing.

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No, good.

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Oh my goodness. That's so good. Tanya, did you go yet?

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I have dove.

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Look at this. The bar is soaked up. No less. Yes. All right.

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Dawn, Dawn, what you got?

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All right. I have a brand new one. I got this is like a real

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expensive one. It's from the body shop. And it's a Moringa

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shower gel vegan style. But it was a gift for me. And it is

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luxurious.

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Nice. Y'all, I just start I just switched over to this. It's

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pretty bougie. It's this waterless skin cleanser called

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Olivita. It's from Europe. And it's the waterless stuff. And

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I'm obsessed.

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Everybody keeps telling me that I'm glowing.

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They're like, oh, it's because you're married.

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That might be some of it,

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but I actually think it's the skincare line,

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and I just got the shower gel,

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because I'll tell you what,

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sometimes the most expensive stuff, you guys, lasts forever.

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Like, I bought it like four months ago,

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and I'm not even a third of the way through my product yet.

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All right, I'm gonna go to the next question.

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Let's see.

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Okay, go grab the oldest thing that's in your refrigerator,

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the thing that you think has been there the longest.

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Yeah, yeah, that item.

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No shame in this, you guys.

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I don't care if it's expired.

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By the way, I'm now, you guys know I'm married to a nurse

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who has found that 90% of my first aid kit supply

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is expired.

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He goes, you know there's expiration on this stuff,

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and I'm like, wait, what are you talking about?

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Like, I didn't know that was the thing.

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Yeah.

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Okay, look at, where is everybody?

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Okay, I don't see raised hands here.

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Expiration dates are suggestions.

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That's what I'm saying, girlfriend.

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I've not died yet.

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Pam, what's the oldest thing in your fridge?

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I probably have older,

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but this is a very old, dead sourdough starter

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that's probably been in there two years.

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Oh gosh, is it working?

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Would it still work?

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Probably not.

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Yeah, that's what I'm thinking.

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Probably not.

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Okay, Megan, what you got?

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I didn't realize this was expired

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until I looked in the expiration date.

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Worcestershire sauce, the hardest thing in this fridge.

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Wait, that expires?

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I didn't know it expired either,

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but I haven't used it in like seven years, apparently.

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Oh my gosh, that's hilarious.

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Regina, what'd you find?

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Hidden dates, and it was expired almost three years ago,

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so I better throw it away.

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See, I'm just here, public service announcement, people.

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Candy, what you got?

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Miss Melissa, I'm so glad to hear that honey does not expire.

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Candy, what you got?

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Say that again.

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You're cutting out, girl.

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Oh, okey-dokey, is it time to open up the fridge?

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Oh, okey-dokey, is it time to throw it out?

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That's the question.

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I'm having a hard time hearing you,

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but can anybody else see what she's got?

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Gotcha, gotcha.

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See that, you got kids that'll check for you.

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I love that.

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Okay, any other, like, you guys are so funny.

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No one's playing tonight.

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Okay, we're gonna ask the serious questions next,

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but I got a few more silly ones, hold on.

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No, all right, I'm gonna call it,

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I'm gonna call it,

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because I've got some good regular questions.

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Okay, I am gonna make sure, I'm gonna do like,

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this time I'm gonna like pull a bunch of folks

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to ask these questions, and so I'm gonna pull,

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Cheryl, do you want, if you're a guy,

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and you wanna be on, get your camera on.

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So, and Cheryl's gonna pin all the guys first,

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because I think we got like three or four guys here tonight.

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We got one, two, we got like three guys tonight.

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We're gonna pin the guys,

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and then I'm gonna pin a few more ladies.

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Are you, I see David Wright's here,

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the other David's here, are you David's,

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are you guys available to get on camera?

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John, you're here, are you able to get on camera?

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Yeah, I can, one second.

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Okay, all right, and I'm only gonna look at,

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I'm gonna change my view, so I only see,

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hide non-video participants.

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Wow, I don't have very many people on the camera,

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so guess who I'm gonna get,

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uh, I'm gonna start spotlighting people, man.

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Okay, let's see.

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Am I spotlighted?

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Yeah, you are, if I'm doing it right.

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Yeah, I see my face.

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Gail, I'm making you, Gail, I'm spotlighting you.

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You've never let us spotlight you.

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Sarah, I see you.

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Okay, wait, Kelly, I'm not, wait, where'd you go, Sarah?

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Wait, what, what's happening?

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Uh, Cheryl, did we start, what happened?

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Did I start, what happened to the people I just spotlighted?

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Where'd they go?

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You changed your view?

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I see Regina, Dave, and Gail.

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You do, well, what do I want?

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Do I want multi-speaker?

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You want, uh.

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Multi-speaker, okay, that'll work.

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Okay, wait, hold on.

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Just give me the names and I'll highlight them.

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Uh, uh, uh, uh, uh.

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Oh, canceled.

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Okay, um, Anna, oh, I can see Anna.

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Anna, Anna looks like I got a nice, clear shot of her.

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We're gonna spotlight Miss Anna.

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Okay, David, make sure you get the other date.

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Oh, David, are you here?

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David Henshaw, are you there, buddy?

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I'm here.

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Okay.

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Okay.

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All right, and then spotlight Kelly Stotler.

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I'm putting up some OGs tonight.

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I feel like my OG's in the little spotlight.

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Okay, so I've got my two Davids.

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I got Regina, Sarah, Anna, Gail,

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and can you get Kelly Stotler?

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Will that work?

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I'll have one, two, three, four, five, six.

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See God's holy number, seven.

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I need your camera on, please.

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Oh, I thought it was on.

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If she can't get it on camera.

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All right, so Sarah, you're my upper left corner,

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so you're gonna be in the seat of courage, okay?

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You know what that means, the seat of courage?

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It means you always get to go first.

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Okay, so are you listening, everybody?

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Here's your first question.

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You are cooking for your date for the first time.

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What are you making?

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Sarah, you are up.

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Sarah, can you hear me?

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You have to unmute.

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I'm sorry about that.

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If I was, the question was about cooking for the first time.

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Yeah, what you making?

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I would definitely have some kind of dessert in there,

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probably like a pumpkin bread kind of a dessert,

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but as for the meal, I think I'd be making

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really hard questions.

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I enjoy cooking, so probably like a cheap pan meal

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with like some kind of chicken or something.

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I'm not a big fan of chicken,

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but I'm not a big fan of chicken.

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Chicken or steak, lots of veggies.

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Okay, I love it.

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Regina, what you cooking?

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Okay, I love to cook and I do it often.

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So I will first ask what his food restrictions are,

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if he has any allergies or anything like that.

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If none, then I will probably make pasta,

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make my own sauce, have some protein in it,

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and with some vegetables and make some sugar-free dessert.

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Nice, I love it, I love it.

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David Wright, what you cooking?

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Oh, okay, so I've learned from my mistakes

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and so I think what I would make now is bulgogi.

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I made chili once and I literally,

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I was putting the chili in the fridge

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and you know that scene from The Office

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where the man slips and the chili falls over?

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I actually did that.

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The chili fell all over my fridge and I fell in it

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and it was hilarious, but I was like,

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never again make chili on a first date.

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Oh no, oh no, I love that.

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See, I was thinking about it

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for all of the other reasons, ladies.

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If it's got beans in it,

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that just could be a disaster in the bathroom.

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That's where I, of course, was going with it.

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Ha ha ha, it's a good thing I'm already married.

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Gail, what would you make?

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I love salmon, but I would ask him if,

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you know, what he would prefer.

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I would make salmon in this watermelon salad that I make.

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Nice, I love watermelon salad.

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But of course I would have to make a dessert

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with sugar in it.

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Of course you would, I love it.

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Okay, David Wright, you have to go back

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and tell some folks what bulgogi is.

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So bulgogi is Korean beef

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and it's like fermented Korean beef

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and it's really good for your gut

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and yeah, it's delicious

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and it can go with basically everything.

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So I would make bulgogi and then probably with.

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like kasha, which is like buckwheat grouts,

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cause it's gluten-free and it's delicious and the best.

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I love it.

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Anna, you are up girl, what you making us?

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Probably some kind of fish

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because it's really hard to mess up.

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So if it would be like a white fish,

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maybe like a Mediterranean style salad with it,

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maybe some kind of grain, if it were salmon,

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maybe asparagus, roasted potato, just something healthy.

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I don't know.

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Nice, okay.

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David, Henshaw, what you making?

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Probably something, I guess, pasta dish wise, Italian,

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you know, sauce and some protein with it, most likely.

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And some veggies on the side.

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Nice.

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I'm not really a huge dessert guy, but

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That's okay.

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It's probably because I didn't have it

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that often growing up, so yeah.

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That's good.

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I think a stuffed chicken marsala was my go-to dish.

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Kelly Stotler, round it out, what you making us?

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All right, so for me,

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it would depend on what time of the year it was.

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If it's in the warmer climate, I would definitely do salmon.

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I make a really good salmon that you have olive oil

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and garlic and lemons with it and you bake it

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and then you put, you know, slices of lemon all on it

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and then serve it with asparagus and definitely a dessert.

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And then if it's in the cooler months, I make amazing soups.

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So I make a really good Thai soup.

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Oh, I could use that right now

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because it's been raining all day in Nashville,

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like 25 degrees.

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Love it.

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All right, are you guys ready for your, those are good.

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You guys made me hungry and you're all like healthy cooks.

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I love it.

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And I noticed not one of you picked Mexican food,

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which I'm totally okay with,

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but I always feel like fajitas used to be

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like the go-to thing.

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Okay, the most interesting dating activity

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you thought you would hate,

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but you surprisingly or secretly liked it.

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So either you came up with it

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or the other person came up with it.

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And you're like, really?

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That sounds like the dorkiest date idea.

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And you're like, wow,

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that was actually more fun than I thought.

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If you did not actually have that date

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and you're like, but I haven't had a date in 10 years,

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then think of a date that somebody told you about

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that you would think, I'm not sure I would like that,

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but maybe secretly you would.

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Okay, Sarah, you're in the seat of courage.

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You go first.

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So I'm thinking something that might be super fun

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is some kind of a scavenger hunt kind of a date.

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So I don't really have too many details on that right now.

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It's just kind of a thought and process, but yeah.

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That's good.

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And it's so funny that you said that,

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because I could see me being so annoyed

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by a scavenger hunt date.

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Like, oh my gosh, this is the dumbest thing,

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but then totally getting super competitive and into it.

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So I totally get you.

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Okay, Regina, what you got for us?

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I would say miniature golf.

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It's not my thing, but I tried it and it was not that bad.

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There you go.

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And by the way, you guys, if you are here,

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there are, oh gosh, there are only 40, 70 of you on tonight.

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If you guys are here tonight,

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feel free to answer the questions in there,

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because remember, this is community matchmaking.

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So, you know, we're spotlighting seven or eight people

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up here, but you guys are also spotlighted too in the wings

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and people might go, oh my gosh,

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you'd be perfect for somebody.

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Okay, David, you're up.

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What's a date idea that you thought was really nuts,

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but you ended up liking it?

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Me or Henshaw?

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No, right, you're, I'm sorry, you're, yeah, you.

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So karaoke.

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I was like, oh, I don't know.

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Like, I don't really sing.

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And it is so much fun.

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Yeah, and then like, especially when you like,

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my friend was like, just stick to Roxanne.

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I was at the bar and they were like, I didn't know.

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And they were like,

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and this lovely Filipino couple was like, trust me,

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you pick Roxanne and every Filipino in here

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will back you up.

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And I was like, and they did.

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It was me and 30 Filipinos all belting Roxanne.

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It was amazing.

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See, and David, I could totally see you doing karaoke.

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I mean, that is hilarious.

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I love it.

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Gail, what you got?

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Two things.

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I went bowling and I totally suck at it,

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but it was so much fun.

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It was like, I mean, I got so many gutter balls.

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It was amazing.

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I love it.

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And you were like,

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and shame you.

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All right, what was the second one?

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The second one was the golfing, was miniature golfing.

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There you go, there you go.

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We had fun though.

518
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I love it, I love it.

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00:25:13.480 --> 00:25:14.640
Anna, what you got?

520
00:25:15.620 --> 00:25:18.460
I guess the closest thing I have is,

521
00:25:18.460 --> 00:25:21.360
like I always wanted to get into golf

522
00:25:21.360 --> 00:25:23.960
and my first game of golf was on a date

523
00:25:23.960 --> 00:25:26.400
and I wasn't sure how it was going to go,

524
00:25:26.400 --> 00:25:28.720
like whether my confidence would be completely crushed

525
00:25:28.720 --> 00:25:30.600
because it was like an 18 holer.

526
00:25:30.600 --> 00:25:31.880
Oh boy.

527
00:25:31.880 --> 00:25:34.580
I was playing with like all these guys that were like,

528
00:25:35.520 --> 00:25:37.160
I don't know, they've been playing for a long time

529
00:25:37.160 --> 00:25:38.600
but ended up being the opposite.

530
00:25:38.600 --> 00:25:41.920
It was a lot of fun and it was a good time.

531
00:25:41.920 --> 00:25:43.560
I love it, I love it.

532
00:25:43.560 --> 00:25:45.360
All you adventurous golf people.

533
00:25:45.360 --> 00:25:49.200
David, and by the way, an 18 hole golf date

534
00:25:49.200 --> 00:25:50.720
could be really long.

535
00:25:50.720 --> 00:25:53.040
So you hopefully really liked the person,

536
00:25:53.040 --> 00:25:54.480
people you were hanging out with.

537
00:25:54.480 --> 00:25:56.780
David Henshaw, what you got for us?

538
00:25:57.780 --> 00:26:00.860
I don't know, I just try to think something up.

539
00:26:00.860 --> 00:26:03.540
It's just, I don't know,

540
00:26:03.540 --> 00:26:05.100
maybe going to some kind of museum

541
00:26:05.100 --> 00:26:07.820
but the feature of the current exhibit

542
00:26:07.820 --> 00:26:10.180
is not something I'm really into.

543
00:26:10.180 --> 00:26:11.020
Yeah, that's good.

544
00:26:11.020 --> 00:26:13.180
But probably I could get into it

545
00:26:13.180 --> 00:26:15.780
even if it's not something that's a real big interest.

546
00:26:15.780 --> 00:26:16.620
That's so true.

547
00:26:16.620 --> 00:26:17.620
Before I went.

548
00:26:17.620 --> 00:26:18.940
That's so true.

549
00:26:18.940 --> 00:26:21.420
Like it could be make or break when you go to a museum,

550
00:26:21.420 --> 00:26:23.020
like if you like what's going on.

551
00:26:23.020 --> 00:26:23.900
That's awesome, I love it.

552
00:26:23.900 --> 00:26:25.500
All right, Kelly, how about you?

553
00:26:27.340 --> 00:26:30.620
So I haven't done anything

554
00:26:30.620 --> 00:26:34.340
that I didn't think I would enjoy, to be honest with you.

555
00:26:34.340 --> 00:26:38.820
I love putt-putt golf and I've done that.

556
00:26:38.820 --> 00:26:42.020
And I actually did a scavenger hunt.

557
00:26:42.020 --> 00:26:43.940
I did not know if I was gonna like it.

558
00:26:43.940 --> 00:26:45.420
I guess that's really what you asked.

559
00:26:45.420 --> 00:26:47.140
I didn't know if I was gonna like it or not.

560
00:26:47.140 --> 00:26:48.860
And it was a scavenger hunt

561
00:26:48.860 --> 00:26:51.100
and it was a video scavenger hunt

562
00:26:51.100 --> 00:26:54.020
that I actually found.

563
00:26:54.020 --> 00:26:56.180
I did a lot of research and found this thing

564
00:26:56.180 --> 00:26:57.860
that was available in Jacksonville

565
00:26:57.860 --> 00:26:59.140
and it would give you places to go

566
00:26:59.140 --> 00:27:02.500
and you would have to videotape going to those places

567
00:27:02.500 --> 00:27:04.740
and then submitting it.

568
00:27:04.740 --> 00:27:06.580
So that was neat.

569
00:27:06.580 --> 00:27:09.700
Okay, you guys, you're getting really good day ideas here.

570
00:27:09.700 --> 00:27:11.100
So hang on to that.

571
00:27:11.100 --> 00:27:13.620
Okay, next question.

572
00:27:14.660 --> 00:27:18.380
Something that you accomplished before you were 18 years old

573
00:27:18.380 --> 00:27:20.980
that you're actually still really proud of.

574
00:27:20.980 --> 00:27:22.820
So up to 18 years old,

575
00:27:22.820 --> 00:27:27.180
something you accomplished that you're still proud of.

576
00:27:27.180 --> 00:27:28.300
Sarah, you're up.

577
00:27:33.180 --> 00:27:34.620
I enjoy playing violin.

578
00:27:34.620 --> 00:27:37.660
And so in my high school years,

579
00:27:37.660 --> 00:27:39.460
I had the opportunity to play with a local orchestra

580
00:27:39.460 --> 00:27:41.180
as a winner of a solo competition.

581
00:27:41.180 --> 00:27:45.980
And it was a lot of fun to just share music with people.

582
00:27:45.980 --> 00:27:47.460
I love that.

583
00:27:47.460 --> 00:27:48.860
Can you still play?

584
00:27:48.860 --> 00:27:50.380
I do still play, yes.

585
00:27:50.380 --> 00:27:51.420
That's awesome.

586
00:27:51.420 --> 00:27:52.980
I love that.

587
00:27:52.980 --> 00:27:55.340
Okay, Regina, how about you?

588
00:27:55.340 --> 00:27:58.580
Okay, one of my favorite classes from high school

589
00:27:58.580 --> 00:28:01.860
as a senior was creative writing class.

590
00:28:01.860 --> 00:28:04.540
And we were supposed to write a poem

591
00:28:04.540 --> 00:28:08.140
and my teacher said that it was really good

592
00:28:08.140 --> 00:28:10.100
and she encouraged me to submit it.

593
00:28:10.100 --> 00:28:11.180
Now I didn't win it,

594
00:28:11.180 --> 00:28:13.300
but the fact that she encouraged me to submit it,

595
00:28:13.300 --> 00:28:15.220
that was very flattering.

596
00:28:15.220 --> 00:28:16.060
I'm proud of it.

597
00:28:16.060 --> 00:28:17.780
I love that, I love that.

598
00:28:17.780 --> 00:28:18.860
David Wright.

599
00:28:19.860 --> 00:28:22.900
Yeah, so I actually got to dance professionally

600
00:28:22.900 --> 00:28:23.980
in the Nutcracker once.

601
00:28:23.980 --> 00:28:25.460
So that was a good time.

602
00:28:25.460 --> 00:28:30.460
I just love learning about you, buddy.

603
00:28:30.700 --> 00:28:33.380
Gail, I believe you, buddy.

604
00:28:36.380 --> 00:28:37.220
What about you, Gail?

605
00:28:37.220 --> 00:28:38.220
What you got?

606
00:28:38.220 --> 00:28:39.940
It's my sketching.

607
00:28:39.940 --> 00:28:43.460
I, you know, and I'm still sketching.

608
00:28:43.460 --> 00:28:44.300
I love that.

609
00:28:44.300 --> 00:28:46.220
So you started it young.

610
00:28:46.220 --> 00:28:47.340
Yeah.

611
00:28:47.340 --> 00:28:48.380
I love that.

612
00:28:48.580 --> 00:28:51.220
I never took a class, so.

613
00:28:51.220 --> 00:28:52.060
There you go.

614
00:28:52.060 --> 00:28:53.060
I love that.

615
00:28:53.060 --> 00:28:54.860
Okay, Anna, what you got for us?

616
00:28:55.860 --> 00:28:57.100
This one's really hard.

617
00:28:57.100 --> 00:28:59.580
I don't know.

618
00:28:59.580 --> 00:29:03.900
I can't think of one thing I'm like so proud of.

619
00:29:06.540 --> 00:29:11.340
I'm just gonna say playing the piano,

620
00:29:12.980 --> 00:29:15.580
playing some like tough pieces when I was younger.

621
00:29:15.580 --> 00:29:17.700
I don't play as much anymore,

622
00:29:18.060 --> 00:29:19.380
I don't know.

623
00:29:19.380 --> 00:29:20.300
I love it.

624
00:29:20.300 --> 00:29:21.140
I love it.

625
00:29:21.140 --> 00:29:22.740
David Henshaw, what you got?

626
00:29:24.780 --> 00:29:26.820
I guess I'll share two quick ones.

627
00:29:26.820 --> 00:29:29.340
I'm really proud of a pen and ink drawing I did

628
00:29:29.340 --> 00:29:30.540
when I was in elementary school

629
00:29:30.540 --> 00:29:33.260
of a cardinal on a pine branch.

630
00:29:33.260 --> 00:29:38.260
And also in high school,

631
00:29:38.340 --> 00:29:40.060
I took an architectural drafting class.

632
00:29:40.060 --> 00:29:44.980
So I designed to custom all original residences

633
00:29:45.820 --> 00:29:48.420
and did a blueprint of them.

634
00:29:48.420 --> 00:29:49.860
Nice.

635
00:29:49.860 --> 00:29:50.900
Nice.

636
00:29:50.900 --> 00:29:51.940
I love it.

637
00:29:51.940 --> 00:29:53.180
Kelly, what you got?

638
00:29:54.940 --> 00:29:59.940
So I was the first person in our county.

639
00:30:00.000 --> 00:30:07.840
to be dual enrolled. I started taking college classes after my eighth grade year in school

640
00:30:07.840 --> 00:30:15.360
and so I graduated from high school when I was 16 and moved away from home and onto a

641
00:30:15.360 --> 00:30:22.440
college campus when I was 16 years old. I love that. So fun. I'm not surprised girl.

642
00:30:22.440 --> 00:30:31.800
I love it. Okay, think about this one. Something you failed at but you learned so much and

643
00:30:31.800 --> 00:30:38.120
it was one of those things you can now see how in all things God makes something good.

644
00:30:38.120 --> 00:30:49.920
So something that you failed at but you still learned a lot. Sarah, you're up.

645
00:30:49.920 --> 00:30:56.800
Something that I failed at, I mean not, it felt like failure in my eyes like it was my worst

646
00:30:56.800 --> 00:31:02.320
grade ever I guess in college was actually my bible class and it was just so eye-opening.

647
00:31:02.320 --> 00:31:08.400
It was so many new ways of looking at things from more of a holistic like overview of the bible

648
00:31:08.400 --> 00:31:14.160
and just like a lot of cultural and background knowledge and that like the archaeological or

649
00:31:14.160 --> 00:31:19.360
just the background of things I'd not really been exposed to before that class so that was

650
00:31:19.440 --> 00:31:24.400
really hard to take that that was like kind of almost close to failing grade but it was something

651
00:31:24.400 --> 00:31:30.080
that I'm really grateful for that had just taught me so much in that time. That's good.

652
00:31:30.640 --> 00:31:35.680
That's so good. I mean my world is getting rocked in seminary. I thought I knew the bible really

653
00:31:35.680 --> 00:31:43.040
well and I mean it's a lot. It's a lot. Regina. Okay, sorry. It's not going to be a fun one.

654
00:31:43.040 --> 00:31:50.880
This is what I can think of right now. Failed in my recent relationship. It's something that

655
00:31:50.880 --> 00:31:57.840
I was blindsided and the ex broke up with me but I am still grateful because I am learning

656
00:31:58.720 --> 00:32:08.240
to trust God that even when things don't work out, he loves me and I learned to not

657
00:32:08.800 --> 00:32:16.000
become exclusive so quick and to get to know people. Regina, you did so good too by the way.

658
00:32:16.000 --> 00:32:22.560
I kind of helped coach Regina and she was a rock star dating him and his loss and your future

659
00:32:22.560 --> 00:32:29.440
husband's gain. That's all we're gonna say. David Wright, you're up. Yeah, so I didn't specifically

660
00:32:29.440 --> 00:32:34.320
fail but I would say school because I really struggled growing up in school and to the point

661
00:32:34.400 --> 00:32:40.320
that I never thought that I would graduate high school and I actually graduated valedictorian.

662
00:32:40.320 --> 00:32:46.080
So yeah, I went to college and you know have a career and it's been amazing but that was

663
00:32:46.080 --> 00:32:50.240
definitely to God's glory but I never thought I would be able to graduate high school so that

664
00:32:50.240 --> 00:33:01.280
was a big win. Love it. I love that. Gail. Well, mine was also a high school experience but I quit

665
00:33:01.280 --> 00:33:12.800
high school and then I got my GED and went on to college and worked in the hospital but

666
00:33:12.800 --> 00:33:21.440
my sociology teacher discovered in college, discovered I was dyslexic. I kept

667
00:33:21.840 --> 00:33:32.000
you know transposing letters and but I was carrying a 4.0 in college so. Wow. Girl, I would

668
00:33:32.000 --> 00:33:37.280
have never guessed that you left high school. That is amazing to learn that about you. Well,

669
00:33:37.280 --> 00:33:50.160
there's a whole. I'm sure there is. Anna, what about you? Yeah, I think the biggest thing that

670
00:33:50.400 --> 00:33:56.400
comes to mind, I failed so much like with so many things but the biggest thing is this chemistry

671
00:33:56.400 --> 00:34:02.480
class I took in college. I really thought I would be a pharmacist. I thought I would have like this

672
00:34:02.480 --> 00:34:08.080
good stable job but I just kept failing it and I didn't get a lot from the class. Like if you ask

673
00:34:08.080 --> 00:34:14.719
me anything about chemistry, I can't tell you but God really turned it around and you know when I

674
00:34:14.719 --> 00:34:19.600
asked him what I should go for and what I should do, he told me what it was and he completely

675
00:34:20.000 --> 00:34:26.560
changed the trajectory of my life and career so I'm super grateful for that. I love that.

676
00:34:26.560 --> 00:34:28.560
I love that. David Henshaw.

677
00:34:34.960 --> 00:34:39.199
I'm just thinking of something. It's not necessarily the biggest thing. I don't know

678
00:34:39.199 --> 00:34:45.760
if it's so much a failure. It was just more of a disappointment I guess. The first car that I ever

679
00:34:45.760 --> 00:34:51.840
got, my dad was helpful in getting that for me and I enjoyed working on it but I was never able

680
00:34:51.840 --> 00:34:57.520
to get it on the road and it was unfortunate because it was older and the stuff that I like

681
00:34:57.520 --> 00:34:59.920
like a classic car. I mean it's the oldest car ever.

682
00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:06.800
had it was a 1970 model so but I did enjoy it while I had it. I grew up in a place where

683
00:35:06.800 --> 00:35:12.080
there's a lot of land so I drove around on the property at least so. There you go, there you go.

684
00:35:12.800 --> 00:35:21.120
Kelly. Okay this is going to be comical because I shared about how young I was when I started

685
00:35:21.120 --> 00:35:32.480
college. I failed courses that first year in college and ended up on academic probation.

686
00:35:34.400 --> 00:35:44.480
So yeah but I learned that you need to show up for things like it's you know a bunch of the courses

687
00:35:44.480 --> 00:35:50.480
just didn't interest me and you know I was 16 going on 17 and I just so I just wouldn't go

688
00:35:50.480 --> 00:35:59.120
sometimes and I learned you need to show up for things that you know may not you know be up your

689
00:35:59.120 --> 00:36:06.160
alley at times and do the uncomfortable and in order to move ahead in life sometimes. I mean

690
00:36:06.160 --> 00:36:12.240
what a metaphor for life right? Yes. Although that brings up everybody did you guys ever used

691
00:36:12.240 --> 00:36:17.600
to have this horrible dream in your 20s that you were about to go into a final exam and you never

692
00:36:17.600 --> 00:36:22.640
went to any of the classes or was that just me? I'd be like but I didn't go to any of the classes

693
00:36:22.640 --> 00:36:28.400
how am I going to take this final? So there you go. But that actually happened to me. Apparently

694
00:36:28.400 --> 00:36:36.640
that actually happened to you. I love it. Okay that's awesome. Okay this is a funny silly one.

695
00:36:37.760 --> 00:36:45.280
If you found out someone was coming over for an unexpected visit on any given day, best day,

696
00:36:45.280 --> 00:36:51.200
worst day, how much time would you really need to get your house enough ready for that company to

697
00:36:51.200 --> 00:37:06.880
show up? Sarah. In order to get a house ready at the time I'm embarrassed you know you're like

698
00:37:06.880 --> 00:37:13.760
someone's like someone's like hey I'm around the corner and you're like awesome give me x minutes.

699
00:37:13.760 --> 00:37:22.560
How many minutes you giving them asking for? I think it would depend on how prepared I was over

700
00:37:22.560 --> 00:37:28.720
that span of time like before. Assume the worst. Assume your worst case scenario Sarah. My goodness

701
00:37:30.720 --> 00:37:36.880
at least probably 10-15 minutes like that would be amazing. Okay I'll give you a cup of tea though

702
00:37:36.880 --> 00:37:41.360
while you're you know getting ready. There you go. Sounds good. Regina how about you?

703
00:37:42.320 --> 00:37:46.480
I'd say about 30 minutes just at least for the surfaces.

704
00:37:48.880 --> 00:37:54.400
I love it. See my place is so small. I only need like five hot minutes. I mean

705
00:37:54.400 --> 00:38:00.960
David Wright what you got? How fast can you get the house ready? So it's not so much about getting

706
00:38:00.960 --> 00:38:06.240
the house ready but more about me being prepared for the guests. So I would probably need like

707
00:38:06.240 --> 00:38:12.720
three hours just for my mental state to be like okay you are coming into my house. Like just to

708
00:38:12.720 --> 00:38:18.480
me be prepared to be like okay I'm ready to have you come because like it's a lot for me for someone

709
00:38:18.480 --> 00:38:22.160
to be like they're always like oh cool art they start touching my stuff and I'm like put that down

710
00:38:22.160 --> 00:38:29.760
so like I have to be ready for you to touch all my cool stuff. That is hilarious. I mean we just

711
00:38:29.760 --> 00:38:34.560
learned something. Do you guys you see how sometimes these silly questions you learn some really

712
00:38:34.640 --> 00:38:42.720
interesting things about people. Gail how about you? I don't know like maybe a half an hour.

713
00:38:45.200 --> 00:38:53.440
I love surprises though. I mean I would love someone at the door come in and help me with my

714
00:38:53.440 --> 00:39:02.080
gosh. Anna how about you? I mean I'd like to say that I could make it in 20 minutes. Like at this

715
00:39:02.080 --> 00:39:09.120
point I'm just throwing the trash out, shoving the dishes in the dishwasher I don't know how to use.

716
00:39:09.920 --> 00:39:15.120
Depending on who's coming like I have a journal like when certain people come that I can't trust

717
00:39:15.120 --> 00:39:19.520
I'll like hide it. If I know they won't look through it I'll leave it. Just like little things

718
00:39:19.520 --> 00:39:26.720
like that. That's hilarious. I love it y'all. Okay I'm gonna ask everybody a whole group the

719
00:39:26.800 --> 00:39:29.760
whole group a question after we finish. David Henshaw what you got?

720
00:39:31.280 --> 00:39:34.720
I'm not copying Dave but the first thing that came to my head was at least three hours maybe

721
00:39:34.720 --> 00:39:42.160
to six hours so I'm ready. And to comment on your last thing like you had dreams of like

722
00:39:42.720 --> 00:39:49.920
not studying enough for your finals. Well being in bands, wind ensemble and jazz band throughout

723
00:39:49.920 --> 00:39:55.360
high school and in college I always had dreams that you know the night of the concert I'm on

724
00:39:55.360 --> 00:40:00.080
stage and I didn't practice hardly at all. So that were those were my bad dreams.

725
00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:06.560
Oh my gosh, that's hilarious. Okay, you guys ladies take note that the two men

726
00:40:07.280 --> 00:40:09.720
Needed more time than the ladies

727
00:40:10.120 --> 00:40:17.280
This is a lesson that if we want to show up at their doorstep and they freak out and they don't want to just let

728
00:40:17.280 --> 00:40:19.600
Us in maybe it's not about us

729
00:40:20.280 --> 00:40:24.240
Maybe it's about them. So this was a good lesson here Kelly. How about you?

730
00:40:26.400 --> 00:40:28.400
I'm kind of a neat freak

731
00:40:28.920 --> 00:40:30.440
So

732
00:40:30.440 --> 00:40:36.720
People could could just stop by. I mean like on my on my worst day, huh?

733
00:40:37.240 --> 00:40:40.080
I'm not surprised. I mean I

734
00:40:40.880 --> 00:40:42.880
I'm like gosh, is that bad?

735
00:40:44.120 --> 00:40:46.640
But I just I do I like things clean

736
00:40:46.640 --> 00:40:50.160
I mean like I you know, I didn't put the pill I made up my bed today

737
00:40:50.160 --> 00:40:52.240
But I didn't put the pretty pillows on it

738
00:40:52.240 --> 00:40:56.840
But I but and so that was that was like but normally all my pillows are on it

739
00:40:57.640 --> 00:41:02.800
So, um, yeah, it's I wish people would just stop by

740
00:41:04.880 --> 00:41:11.640
I love it. Okay peanut gallery the people that are not spotlighted raise your hand if you're like man come over anytime

741
00:41:11.640 --> 00:41:13.640
I don't care. My house is fine. I

742
00:41:14.520 --> 00:41:18.600
Want to see how many people wouldn't care and they just be like just come on over

743
00:41:21.440 --> 00:41:24.460
Okay, y'all probably made your bed in the morning too didn't you

744
00:41:25.420 --> 00:41:26.780
Nope. Oh

745
00:41:26.780 --> 00:41:30.980
Okay, look at my bold genies bald Cheryl's bald

746
00:41:31.740 --> 00:41:38.380
Wisdom's bald Megan and Pam. We got some bold people. I love it. Okay next question

747
00:41:47.220 --> 00:41:53.300
I've done this one before but this is still a good question. How would your good friends describe you?

748
00:41:54.460 --> 00:41:56.460
Sarah you're up

749
00:41:58.100 --> 00:42:01.700
Friends would describe me as creative as innovative

750
00:42:02.780 --> 00:42:09.820
I enjoy time out. So it enjoys time outside whether it's skiing or whether it's hiking being outside nature

751
00:42:10.820 --> 00:42:15.540
Enjoying time with people around me and yeah investing while and encouraging them

752
00:42:16.060 --> 00:42:18.780
There are a few things that would friends would describe me

753
00:42:19.900 --> 00:42:21.900
Awesome, Regina. How about you?

754
00:42:22.060 --> 00:42:26.020
I would say friends would describe me as adventurous funny

755
00:42:28.220 --> 00:42:30.220
Resilient

756
00:42:30.620 --> 00:42:32.620
Reliable and empathetic

757
00:42:33.180 --> 00:42:35.180
Nice David, right?

758
00:42:35.700 --> 00:42:41.540
yeah, so I actually asked my friends because I had answered this question twice with you before and I

759
00:42:42.060 --> 00:42:46.260
Told my friend my friend watched the interview and she goes that's not how we would describe you at all

760
00:42:46.260 --> 00:42:51.380
Well, they said they said you're really funny they're like you're hilarious but they're like you're the kind of guy we would trust our house

761
00:42:51.380 --> 00:42:52.700
Too so they're like, you know

762
00:42:52.700 --> 00:42:58.900
If we needed one guy to watch the movers or like one guy to watch our kids or like they're like you're really really

763
00:42:59.140 --> 00:43:03.540
Responsible and they're like you're not just a goof. So they're like don't just portray yourself as a goof, buddy. I

764
00:43:04.180 --> 00:43:06.180
Love it. I love it

765
00:43:06.540 --> 00:43:08.540
gal

766
00:43:09.940 --> 00:43:14.780
I love it. I love it. I love you. You're funny. You're funny. You're funny

767
00:43:15.780 --> 00:43:20.460
I actually text someone. How would you describe?

768
00:43:24.220 --> 00:43:28.260
Loving she said loving creative joyful

769
00:43:30.260 --> 00:43:33.220
Hopeful like encouraging I

770
00:43:35.900 --> 00:43:39.740
Love that I love that Anna I

771
00:43:39.780 --> 00:43:41.780
I

772
00:43:41.780 --> 00:43:45.820
Mean my good friend that's a little biased because they're my good friends

773
00:43:46.100 --> 00:43:51.600
So they're gonna be like the coolest person to hang out with but that's why they want to hang out with me

774
00:43:52.140 --> 00:43:57.780
A few of them say go-getter, but that's not true. I think I just roll with it

775
00:43:58.940 --> 00:44:01.900
Like everything that's coming to my life has been from God

776
00:44:02.900 --> 00:44:10.620
And then a super and I've heard that a few times I have a nephew so I try to be involved in his life

777
00:44:11.900 --> 00:44:13.900
Awesome. I love it David. I

778
00:44:16.700 --> 00:44:21.460
Don't know goofy giggly like the dad joke kind of stuff when I'm in a

779
00:44:22.020 --> 00:44:27.340
More upbeat mood, I guess usually which is most the time in groups and then I guess when I'm more reserved

780
00:44:27.860 --> 00:44:29.860
Sometimes more reserved more pensive

781
00:44:30.100 --> 00:44:33.980
At other times, I love it, I love it Kelly

782
00:44:36.940 --> 00:44:38.940
I've been told

783
00:44:38.940 --> 00:44:43.140
I'm wise and insightful and a good listener

784
00:44:44.180 --> 00:44:46.180
fun and

785
00:44:46.620 --> 00:44:48.620
Trustworthy and loyal

786
00:44:48.940 --> 00:44:55.540
Yes, ma'am. I love it. All right, you guys were fabulous. I love it. Thank you guys so much for playing

787
00:44:55.540 --> 00:44:59.940
Cheryl you can unpin them. I see a handful of people

788
00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:04.800
People that are on camera, Marilee from Ontario,

789
00:45:04.800 --> 00:45:09.360
Kathy Gustin from Jackson, Brenda from Illinois.

790
00:45:10.800 --> 00:45:12.120
Is it Wisdeen?

791
00:45:12.120 --> 00:45:13.760
Wisdeen, is that your name?

792
00:45:13.760 --> 00:45:14.880
Am I saying it right?

793
00:45:14.880 --> 00:45:16.080
Okay, I wanted to spotlight you.

794
00:45:16.080 --> 00:45:18.080
I've not seen you before.

795
00:45:18.080 --> 00:45:21.040
And Mickey, Mickey, Denver.

796
00:45:21.040 --> 00:45:22.160
I wanna spotlight you.

797
00:45:22.160 --> 00:45:26.760
So Cheryl's gonna unspotlight all the peeps

798
00:45:28.200 --> 00:45:29.520
and add in the people.

799
00:45:29.520 --> 00:45:31.620
I just mentioned.

800
00:45:32.680 --> 00:45:33.520
Da, da, da.

801
00:45:35.880 --> 00:45:36.920
Mickey, you can do it.

802
00:45:36.920 --> 00:45:38.000
Do you not wanna do it?

803
00:45:38.000 --> 00:45:39.680
Are you gonna let me do it?

804
00:45:39.680 --> 00:45:41.640
Are you gonna let me ask you questions?

805
00:45:41.640 --> 00:45:43.340
You can do it, Mickey.

806
00:45:43.340 --> 00:45:44.580
I won't bite, I promise.

807
00:45:44.580 --> 00:45:45.840
You gotta get used to it.

808
00:45:47.160 --> 00:45:49.520
See, look it, you got a cheering fan already.

809
00:45:56.200 --> 00:45:58.040
Are you still untagging people, Cheryl?

810
00:45:58.040 --> 00:45:58.880
There you are.

811
00:46:00.520 --> 00:46:02.920
Sorry, can you repeat the names?

812
00:46:02.920 --> 00:46:03.760
Because I was-

813
00:46:03.760 --> 00:46:05.720
Well, no, just untag Sarah

814
00:46:05.720 --> 00:46:08.600
and I'll read you the names again real quick.

815
00:46:08.600 --> 00:46:11.920
We have Brenda from Illinois.

816
00:46:13.160 --> 00:46:16.640
Brenda with a SCH from Illinois.

817
00:46:29.560 --> 00:46:30.960
Here, let me see if I could

818
00:46:32.240 --> 00:46:34.460
start spotlighting people and help you.

819
00:46:45.760 --> 00:46:47.720
All right, now I gotta find you.

820
00:46:47.720 --> 00:46:48.640
Mickey, where'd you go?

821
00:46:48.640 --> 00:46:50.160
I'm not gonna...

822
00:46:50.160 --> 00:46:51.680
That spotlight.

823
00:46:51.680 --> 00:46:53.800
There you are.

824
00:46:53.800 --> 00:46:55.680
That spotlight.

825
00:47:00.400 --> 00:47:05.280
Who else did I, is that everybody I said?

826
00:47:05.280 --> 00:47:06.320
That might be everybody I said.

827
00:47:06.320 --> 00:47:07.600
Okay, there's five of you,

828
00:47:07.600 --> 00:47:09.800
but I got a bunch of questions and it's already 10 of.

829
00:47:09.800 --> 00:47:13.560
So we're gonna see, I love it.

830
00:47:13.560 --> 00:47:15.080
See your scene, baby.

831
00:47:15.080 --> 00:47:15.920
I seen it.

832
00:47:15.920 --> 00:47:16.740
Okay, all right.

833
00:47:16.740 --> 00:47:18.960
So, Westine, you're in the seat of courage.

834
00:47:18.960 --> 00:47:21.660
So you're gonna be the first one going every time.

835
00:47:23.000 --> 00:47:25.040
What was your first job?

836
00:47:25.560 --> 00:47:28.560
My first job was working as a cashier

837
00:47:28.560 --> 00:47:31.440
in the gift shop at Hurricane Harbor,

838
00:47:31.440 --> 00:47:34.760
which was a walking distance from my house.

839
00:47:34.760 --> 00:47:36.080
Awesome.

840
00:47:36.080 --> 00:47:37.280
Kathy, how about you?

841
00:47:39.160 --> 00:47:40.280
Sorry, young people,

842
00:47:40.280 --> 00:47:42.360
but I was an Olin Mills telemarketer.

843
00:47:42.360 --> 00:47:46.560
I sold port photographs for people and their families.

844
00:47:46.560 --> 00:47:48.760
I remember Olin Mills.

845
00:47:48.760 --> 00:47:51.680
We used them at the church I worked at, man.

846
00:47:51.760 --> 00:47:53.560
Now you know I'm older.

847
00:47:53.560 --> 00:47:54.560
That's all good.

848
00:47:54.560 --> 00:47:55.400
Brenda.

849
00:47:57.000 --> 00:48:01.600
Well, other than babysitting, I did detasseling corn

850
00:48:01.600 --> 00:48:03.640
and I lasted one day.

851
00:48:03.640 --> 00:48:05.400
It was utterly exhausting

852
00:48:05.400 --> 00:48:08.680
and I was freezing by the time I got home.

853
00:48:08.680 --> 00:48:09.520
I love that.

854
00:48:09.520 --> 00:48:10.880
That's so fun.

855
00:48:11.800 --> 00:48:13.840
Is it Merrily, am I saying it right?

856
00:48:13.840 --> 00:48:14.680
Tell me.

857
00:48:14.680 --> 00:48:15.800
Merrily, like Bob.

858
00:48:15.800 --> 00:48:16.920
Merrily.

859
00:48:16.920 --> 00:48:17.760
Oh, like Bob.

860
00:48:17.760 --> 00:48:18.600
Merrily.

861
00:48:19.120 --> 00:48:20.240
Merrily, like Bob.

862
00:48:20.240 --> 00:48:21.400
Merrily.

863
00:48:21.400 --> 00:48:22.480
Oh, like Bob Merrily.

864
00:48:22.480 --> 00:48:24.080
I love that, even better.

865
00:48:24.080 --> 00:48:24.920
Awesome.

866
00:48:25.920 --> 00:48:30.760
My first job was a summer job in an insurance company

867
00:48:30.760 --> 00:48:32.400
where my mom worked

868
00:48:32.400 --> 00:48:36.400
and I was typing documents on a typewriter.

869
00:48:36.400 --> 00:48:39.000
I learned how to typewriter too.

870
00:48:39.000 --> 00:48:40.600
I love it.

871
00:48:40.600 --> 00:48:41.440
I love it.

872
00:48:41.440 --> 00:48:43.840
Mickey, what you got, girl?

873
00:48:43.840 --> 00:48:46.040
I worked at Whataburger.

874
00:48:46.040 --> 00:48:47.680
Whataburger can be.

875
00:48:47.680 --> 00:48:49.440
I love it.

876
00:48:49.440 --> 00:48:50.280
I love it.

877
00:48:50.280 --> 00:48:51.840
Y'all, I worked at a clothing store.

878
00:48:51.840 --> 00:48:52.920
It was so the eighties.

879
00:48:52.920 --> 00:48:56.360
We sold a discount Izod and Polo

880
00:48:56.360 --> 00:48:58.840
and Ricky Schroeder was one of my first people

881
00:48:58.840 --> 00:49:00.440
I checked out at the counter.

882
00:49:00.440 --> 00:49:01.600
I almost died.

883
00:49:02.760 --> 00:49:05.160
Okay, we're back at the top.

884
00:49:05.160 --> 00:49:07.280
If you had to move,

885
00:49:07.280 --> 00:49:11.080
what would you miss most about your home or your town?

886
00:49:12.520 --> 00:49:13.360
Zane.

887
00:49:14.360 --> 00:49:18.640
So I would miss, San Antonio is very friendly.

888
00:49:18.640 --> 00:49:21.200
I would miss the friendliness of people.

889
00:49:21.200 --> 00:49:22.560
Oh, good.

890
00:49:22.560 --> 00:49:23.400
That's good.

891
00:49:23.400 --> 00:49:24.960
Kathy, how about you?

892
00:49:24.960 --> 00:49:26.000
So similar.

893
00:49:26.000 --> 00:49:28.520
I was an army brat and I've used to move, move, move

894
00:49:28.520 --> 00:49:31.720
but I've been in Wichita, Kansas for about 35 years.

895
00:49:31.720 --> 00:49:33.400
And I would also miss the friends

896
00:49:33.400 --> 00:49:36.200
because it is very friendly Midwestern town.

897
00:49:36.200 --> 00:49:37.240
And I was in sales

898
00:49:37.240 --> 00:49:39.680
and I have a lot of friends that were clients

899
00:49:39.680 --> 00:49:41.680
but I'm also willing to move.

900
00:49:41.720 --> 00:49:45.120
So yeah, I'm one of those people

901
00:49:45.120 --> 00:49:46.320
that God says you're gonna move.

902
00:49:46.320 --> 00:49:48.000
I don't know if it's in, if it's here

903
00:49:48.000 --> 00:49:51.200
or where it's gonna be, but I will be on the move again.

904
00:49:51.200 --> 00:49:52.040
Love it.

905
00:49:52.040 --> 00:49:52.880
I love it.

906
00:49:52.880 --> 00:49:53.720
Brenda.

907
00:49:56.320 --> 00:49:59.320
I've lived where I am since 1978.

908
00:50:00.000 --> 00:50:06.560
these seven so the familiarity knowing where everything is um i love the there's a river walk

909
00:50:06.560 --> 00:50:12.720
downtown where i live and so there's just i know where yeah the familiarity i would not miss the

910
00:50:12.720 --> 00:50:21.920
cold though i bet marley just like you brenda i would not miss the cold so when i move i will

911
00:50:21.920 --> 00:50:28.560
be going somewhere that's not cold but what i'll miss is the beautiful fall sceneries that we have

912
00:50:28.560 --> 00:50:37.680
in the region here beautiful colors yeah nice mickey you're up i if i moved i would probably

913
00:50:37.680 --> 00:50:45.280
miss the mountains um i i don't really like the cold but i would miss the mountains there you go

914
00:50:45.280 --> 00:50:53.520
i love that awesome okay next question what tv show are you ashamed to admit that you watch

915
00:50:54.480 --> 00:51:01.440
love is blind right here ms dean which you got uh so i used to religiously watch married at

916
00:51:01.440 --> 00:51:08.880
first sight with my roommate and we would joke that we were the fourth expert so lots of commentary

917
00:51:09.680 --> 00:51:15.120
love it catchy how about you oh gosh we were like twins married at first sight just got to binge

918
00:51:15.120 --> 00:51:19.440
watch i didn't even know they only showed peacock i didn't have peacock i didn't know what's on my

919
00:51:20.160 --> 00:51:25.200
son's girlfriend said oh no it's over and i go what so i got to binge it i was thrilled oh my

920
00:51:25.200 --> 00:51:36.160
gosh brenda um i have not watched tv in years so i don't um okay yeah that says a lot that's good

921
00:51:36.160 --> 00:51:44.880
that's good marley how about you same here i i don't have a tv but i found myself caught in dar

922
00:51:44.880 --> 00:51:55.360
man videos on facebook five ten to ten minutes videos and it's always the same stories but i

923
00:51:55.920 --> 00:52:05.280
yeah i i watch them sometimes i love it mickey i like watching cop on youtube oh yes i know

924
00:52:05.280 --> 00:52:11.600
what you're talking about i love it okay this is this one's going to tell us how much of a

925
00:52:11.600 --> 00:52:17.760
learning spirit you guys have what have you learned just this week in the last seven days

926
00:52:18.400 --> 00:52:27.440
miss dean you're up i can't think of anything specific i mean i can't think of anything i

927
00:52:27.440 --> 00:52:32.240
guess i learned i spent time with my nieces and nephews so i learned how to calm them down and

928
00:52:32.240 --> 00:52:41.520
how to cut a splinter out of a finger hey that's a good tool to have that's awesome kathy so after

929
00:52:41.680 --> 00:52:47.600
supernatural saturday i realized at 66 there wasn't a lot of firsts i hadn't really done so

930
00:52:47.600 --> 00:52:51.600
i'm still kind of struggling to figure out my first is going to be but i think it's going to

931
00:52:51.600 --> 00:52:58.080
be i like somebody had posted in the facebook book group about buying their future spirit mate a gift

932
00:52:58.080 --> 00:53:03.360
and so i kind of like that so i'm going to like grab onto that one i love that brenda how about

933
00:53:03.360 --> 00:53:10.480
you well the lord lovingly and gently is really highlighting some of the anxiety i've battled with

934
00:53:10.480 --> 00:53:15.520
my whole life and so he's been talking to me and i'm like oh that's anxious oh okay so he's

935
00:53:15.520 --> 00:53:21.360
wanting me to surrender that and walk in faith and renewing my mind and so it's been a whole journey

936
00:53:21.920 --> 00:53:26.880
with a lot of you know from jackie's teachings and other teachings so it's been really good as

937
00:53:26.880 --> 00:53:35.360
he's like highlighting things i'm like okay let's go yeah let's go god yeah i love it marley so i'm

938
00:53:35.360 --> 00:53:41.680
reading a book called soundtrack and what i learned from it is that we all have soundtracks

939
00:53:42.800 --> 00:53:48.720
in our minds and that we can actually pick the soundtrack we don't have to accept what comes to

940
00:53:48.720 --> 00:53:56.320
our mind so that was an eye-opener i love that i love it thanks for sharing that mickey well i was

941
00:53:56.320 --> 00:54:06.000
really proud of myself because i wanted to figure out how to put um hand soap on my sink and but

942
00:54:06.560 --> 00:54:11.840
have it so that i could you know i used to be on youtube all these videos where people do things

943
00:54:11.840 --> 00:54:22.800
really fast and but anyway so i got it to uh that i ran into the hand soap and i was just really

944
00:54:22.800 --> 00:54:32.880
proud that i did it all by myself i love it i love it okay um besides getting married and you

945
00:54:32.880 --> 00:54:37.440
can say that if you want to claim that what is something that you're looking forward to doing

946
00:54:37.440 --> 00:54:48.560
in the next 12 months was dean you're up i think more travel is in my future maybe somewhere that

947
00:54:48.560 --> 00:54:55.840
i've never been so no idea where that is but travel i love that wizzy were you at the five

948
00:54:55.840 --> 00:54:59.840
year reunion no i missed it because i had

949
00:55:00.000 --> 00:55:02.600
at a flight that did not get in on time.

950
00:55:02.600 --> 00:55:03.440
No, I'm sorry.

951
00:55:03.440 --> 00:55:05.720
I just thought, I felt like I met you,

952
00:55:05.720 --> 00:55:07.220
but I guess I haven't met you.

953
00:55:08.240 --> 00:55:09.480
Kathy.

954
00:55:09.480 --> 00:55:12.880
Well, I think it might has to test for tamer dating.

955
00:55:12.880 --> 00:55:14.440
I'd like to find somebody I could go out with

956
00:55:14.440 --> 00:55:16.360
that I'd like to go out with more than two times.

957
00:55:16.360 --> 00:55:18.900
I'm not having very good luck,

958
00:55:18.900 --> 00:55:20.220
but two is pretty good for me,

959
00:55:20.220 --> 00:55:22.360
but I'm going for that third date

960
00:55:22.360 --> 00:55:24.640
and trying to get to that third phase eventually.

961
00:55:24.640 --> 00:55:27.680
You mean like the second date with a person, right?

962
00:55:27.680 --> 00:55:29.160
Perfect, gotcha.

963
00:55:29.160 --> 00:55:30.880
All right, we're going to believe with you.

964
00:55:30.880 --> 00:55:32.960
We're believing with you.

965
00:55:32.960 --> 00:55:34.460
Brenda, how about you girl?

966
00:55:36.560 --> 00:55:38.920
I feel like there's an opportunity

967
00:55:38.920 --> 00:55:41.160
to travel up the West Coast sometime next year.

968
00:55:41.160 --> 00:55:45.160
I just know there's different, yeah, people to visit.

969
00:55:45.160 --> 00:55:46.980
And so it's kind of,

970
00:55:46.980 --> 00:55:49.600
I'm pondering what that would look like and when.

971
00:55:49.600 --> 00:55:51.200
Nice, nice.

972
00:55:51.200 --> 00:55:53.000
Marley, how about you?

973
00:55:53.000 --> 00:55:56.040
So I just got an email today

974
00:55:56.360 --> 00:55:59.520
about a number of points that I've accumulated

975
00:55:59.520 --> 00:56:01.720
and that I can use towards a trip.

976
00:56:01.720 --> 00:56:04.680
So that's what I think I will be doing

977
00:56:04.680 --> 00:56:06.600
in the next 12 months.

978
00:56:06.600 --> 00:56:08.040
I love it, I love it.

979
00:56:08.040 --> 00:56:09.880
Mickey, how about you?

980
00:56:09.880 --> 00:56:12.320
I haven't had a chance to think about that.

981
00:56:12.320 --> 00:56:14.320
That's a good question.

982
00:56:14.320 --> 00:56:15.160
I'm not sure.

983
00:56:16.560 --> 00:56:17.400
Okay, well, you know what?

984
00:56:17.400 --> 00:56:20.320
I'm going to task you so you don't let this one go

985
00:56:20.320 --> 00:56:22.400
and everyone's going to hold you accountable.

986
00:56:22.400 --> 00:56:23.760
In the next week,

987
00:56:23.800 --> 00:56:26.400
you're going to share in the Facebook,

988
00:56:26.400 --> 00:56:28.020
whatever phase you're in,

989
00:56:28.020 --> 00:56:28.860
you're going to say,

990
00:56:28.860 --> 00:56:30.240
hey, here's what I'm going to,

991
00:56:30.240 --> 00:56:31.640
I was held accountable to this

992
00:56:31.640 --> 00:56:34.680
and here's what I'm going to do in the next 12 months.

993
00:56:34.680 --> 00:56:36.740
I want you to dream, girl.

994
00:56:36.740 --> 00:56:39.440
You guys, I'm actually going to be graduating from seminary

995
00:56:39.440 --> 00:56:40.980
in the next six months.

996
00:56:40.980 --> 00:56:42.880
I'm so super excited about that.

997
00:56:43.880 --> 00:56:44.880
I know, y'all.

998
00:56:44.880 --> 00:56:46.520
Okay, here's the funny,

999
00:56:46.520 --> 00:56:48.600
though I'm graduating with a master's

1000
00:56:48.600 --> 00:56:50.440
in biblical and theological studies

1001
00:56:50.440 --> 00:56:52.600
and I was going to do this extra certificate

1002
00:56:52.600 --> 00:56:53.680
in pastoral care

1003
00:56:53.680 --> 00:56:57.320
because I'm doing all the classes in my chaplain work.

1004
00:56:57.320 --> 00:56:58.360
And the advisor, of course,

1005
00:56:58.360 --> 00:57:00.400
I think some of it's to get more money out of me,

1006
00:57:00.400 --> 00:57:02.420
but he's like, okay, you're only,

1007
00:57:02.420 --> 00:57:03.760
when you graduate in May,

1008
00:57:03.760 --> 00:57:06.800
you're only three credits away from the certificate,

1009
00:57:06.800 --> 00:57:10.600
but you're only five credits away from the double master's.

1010
00:57:10.600 --> 00:57:12.800
Don't you want a master's in pastoral care too?

1011
00:57:12.800 --> 00:57:14.560
And I'm like, oh, shoot.

1012
00:57:14.560 --> 00:57:17.240
So of course I'm going after the double master's,

1013
00:57:17.240 --> 00:57:19.280
but it's only one class next fall

1014
00:57:19.280 --> 00:57:21.160
and one class the following spring.

1015
00:57:21.160 --> 00:57:24.080
So it's going to take like a year for that to happen.

1016
00:57:24.080 --> 00:57:27.040
All right, last question, ladies.

1017
00:57:27.040 --> 00:57:30.200
Tell us what you're doing for Christmas.

1018
00:57:30.200 --> 00:57:31.280
Really easy one.

1019
00:57:31.280 --> 00:57:32.120
Wizzy.

1020
00:57:33.000 --> 00:57:36.080
I'm actually going to be staying in town here.

1021
00:57:36.080 --> 00:57:37.060
So I won't see family,

1022
00:57:37.060 --> 00:57:41.280
but I'll spend time with some of my Bible study group

1023
00:57:41.280 --> 00:57:42.600
that I've known for a long time.

1024
00:57:42.600 --> 00:57:46.360
And then I'll do Christmas with family the week after.

1025
00:57:46.360 --> 00:57:47.200
Awesome.

1026
00:57:47.200 --> 00:57:48.020
I love it.

1027
00:57:48.380 --> 00:57:49.220
Kathy.

1028
00:57:51.540 --> 00:57:55.260
I am going to spend Christmas meeting my new granddaughter.

1029
00:57:55.260 --> 00:57:56.940
Her name's Zoe.

1030
00:57:56.940 --> 00:57:58.700
I'm anxious to meet her.

1031
00:57:58.700 --> 00:58:00.100
Yay, I love that.

1032
00:58:00.100 --> 00:58:00.940
I love it.

1033
00:58:00.940 --> 00:58:01.980
Brenda.

1034
00:58:01.980 --> 00:58:03.580
I'm going to a girlfriend's house

1035
00:58:03.580 --> 00:58:05.860
and she and I laugh together and have,

1036
00:58:05.860 --> 00:58:07.900
she's a wonderful cook and she's helping me

1037
00:58:07.900 --> 00:58:08.720
learn how to cook.

1038
00:58:08.720 --> 00:58:10.220
So it'll be a good day.

1039
00:58:11.620 --> 00:58:13.100
I love it.

1040
00:58:13.100 --> 00:58:13.940
Marlee.

1041
00:58:14.940 --> 00:58:19.940
I will be traveling to another province

1042
00:58:20.340 --> 00:58:22.220
to spend time with family.

1043
00:58:22.220 --> 00:58:24.580
So with my sister, her family,

1044
00:58:24.580 --> 00:58:27.300
nephews, nieces, and all that.

1045
00:58:27.300 --> 00:58:28.140
I love it.

1046
00:58:28.140 --> 00:58:29.660
Mickey, how about you?

1047
00:58:29.660 --> 00:58:33.660
Well, I'm going to go visit my mom and my brother

1048
00:58:33.660 --> 00:58:36.900
and his family for Christmas in Dallas.

1049
00:58:36.900 --> 00:58:37.740
Awesome.

1050
00:58:37.740 --> 00:58:38.560
I love it.

1051
00:58:38.560 --> 00:58:39.400
I love it.

1052
00:58:39.400 --> 00:58:41.180
Thank you guys so much for playing.

1053
00:58:41.180 --> 00:58:45.100
All right, I'm going to un-pin you

1054
00:58:45.100 --> 00:58:47.280
so I can see everybody.

1055
00:58:48.180 --> 00:58:52.940
Da da da da, da da da, da da da da.

1056
00:58:52.940 --> 00:58:53.900
Thank you guys so much.

1057
00:58:53.900 --> 00:58:55.860
You guys were so much fun.

1058
00:58:55.860 --> 00:58:56.700
All of you.

1059
00:58:56.700 --> 00:58:58.300
I loved talking to all of you.

1060
00:58:58.300 --> 00:59:00.180
Let's do view gallery.

1061
00:59:00.180 --> 00:59:02.500
Okay, you guys, it was so fun talking to you.

1062
00:59:02.500 --> 00:59:05.220
I am sitting on my hot spot in the car,

1063
00:59:05.220 --> 00:59:07.620
so I'm going to wrap it up.

1064
00:59:07.620 --> 00:59:09.540
And I just want to,

1065
00:59:09.540 --> 00:59:11.180
I'm actually just going to pray over you

1066
00:59:11.180 --> 00:59:12.100
if you guys don't mind,

1067
00:59:12.100 --> 00:59:13.500
because the next time you'll see me,

1068
00:59:13.500 --> 00:59:15.480
it'll be 2026, right?

1069
00:59:16.420 --> 00:59:17.420
Father God, I just thank you

1070
00:59:17.420 --> 00:59:19.180
for each and every single person,

1071
00:59:19.180 --> 00:59:20.780
everybody that is here live,

1072
00:59:20.780 --> 00:59:23.420
everybody that will be watching this in the replay.

1073
00:59:23.420 --> 00:59:28.020
Father God, let these spotlights remind every person here

1074
00:59:28.020 --> 00:59:30.180
that they deserve to be spotlighted,

1075
00:59:30.180 --> 00:59:33.380
that they deserve to be highlighted from heaven.

1076
00:59:33.380 --> 00:59:36.220
And if there's somebody who has felt uncomfortable

1077
00:59:36.220 --> 00:59:37.440
about getting on camera,

1078
00:59:37.440 --> 00:59:39.420
Father God, I ask that you nudge them

1079
00:59:40.260 --> 00:59:41.380
in the new year that they would be ready

1080
00:59:41.380 --> 00:59:43.960
and willing for me to spotlight them,

1081
00:59:43.960 --> 00:59:45.700
that they just see this as an opportunity

1082
00:59:45.700 --> 00:59:48.860
to practice celebrating who you've called them to be.

1083
00:59:49.700 --> 00:59:52.500
Father God, I ask that you are with every single person

1084
00:59:52.500 --> 00:59:54.180
through the holiday season,

1085
00:59:54.180 --> 00:59:59.020
that there is never a moment that they feel away from you.

1086
00:59:59.020 --> 00:59:59.860
Father God,

1087
01:00:00.000 --> 01:00:05.400
moment that they feel lonely or sad, that you are near the brokenhearted, that you come

1088
01:00:05.400 --> 01:00:06.400
alongside them.

1089
01:00:06.400 --> 01:00:10.160
And Father God, I just ask for a touch from heaven for each person.

1090
01:00:10.160 --> 01:00:14.500
I ask that you give them a God wink, that you surprise them with something that is only

1091
01:00:14.500 --> 01:00:20.840
going to be from you, that whether it's a money, financial need that they have, whether

1092
01:00:20.840 --> 01:00:24.960
it's an emotional need, a spiritual need, a practical need, Father God, I ask that you

1093
01:00:24.960 --> 01:00:30.200
meet it, that you meet it before December 31st so that they can give you all the glory,

1094
01:00:30.200 --> 01:00:31.320
honor, and praise.

1095
01:00:31.320 --> 01:00:33.260
So we thank you for each and every single person here.

1096
01:00:33.260 --> 01:00:37.080
We ask that you keep them safe until we can see each other again.

1097
01:00:37.080 --> 01:00:39.400
In Jesus' mighty name, amen.

1098
01:00:39.400 --> 01:00:40.400
Amen.

1099
01:00:40.400 --> 01:00:41.400
Thanks, Renee.

1100
01:00:41.400 --> 01:00:42.400
Bye, Rizzo.

1101
01:00:42.400 --> 01:00:43.400
Love you.

1102
01:00:43.400 --> 01:00:44.400
Thank you, Renee.

1103
01:00:44.400 --> 01:00:44.900
Bye.