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Hey

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Hey, this is men's heart check-in on January the 12th

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2026

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2026 the year favor

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So I'm here with mr. Hinshaw. Mr. Silverman and

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you know, um

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David anything that you wanted to bring up

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like it wanted to talk I mean we have a

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We can't we can go anyway, we can go multiple ways tonight

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I just if anybody has any questions that they want to like discuss or

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Or that are like want to share breakthroughs, you know, let's let's do that but otherwise

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You're gonna hear a lot of me talking and I prefer not that

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So, all right cool, well anyways, I guess I'll start off because

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That that quick I am driving right now. Oh, yes the mute unmuting challenge sometimes

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So yeah, what's going on? What's shaking?

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I'm just wondering it's kind of a weird question. But like

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um

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I've been in an environment for years where

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I'm close physical proximity to siblings and

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They're in all the very heavy

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Deliverance ministry and

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All that atmosphere that that brings in. Yeah

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Kind of struggle with that. Like the only reason why I bring it up is I know that you

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Are into like the way you learned it a lot

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And I'm just wondering like what what what is like?

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Healthy and what is like not so healthy if you recall to that

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That's a

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Well, okay, I

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First off we're all called to some sort of I mean Jesus that came to cat sit the captives free

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I mean like so there's some you know, we're supposed to help people, you know come into the kingdom of

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God for you know, Jesus uses us right so

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now there's some people who we there's a demon behind every bush and there's a

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Like there's a demon for everything and I I'm not one of that that mindset I think

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We're pretty good at screwing ourselves up on our own and we you know

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They just give us some helps from time to time, you know, our spirits a real thing completely

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Can we make a just agreements and stuff with that? Absolutely

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but um

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How to say this nicely, um

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There are some people who are demon hunting and that's not I don't I

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Want I I could care less to do deliverance

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Honestly, but I want people free. Does that make sense?

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So my core motivation my core motivation is to set people free. I don't go looking for demons

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They just end up manifesting and I get rid of them people ask for help and I help

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right, so

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Yeah, I mean when it comes to like getting involved with

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Second heaven and territorials and all that kind of stuff. No, I I

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Do I've come against principalities and you know, like I've done that stuff

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So here I mean I and my and my advice to anybody who was ever in any of the situations

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Are you covered is the Lord calling you into it?

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Because if he's not then you're gonna get yourself in a lot of trouble, right?

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And so, I mean I have been against principalities ever since I started my new church

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It's it's it's just part it's it's just part of the gig of who I am and what and I am called to break things

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And to make ways and to where other people can follow

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But do I go looking to deliver people? No, because Jesus didn't really do that. I

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Mean if you let me look I mean he found people people manifest around him, you know

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They um, the the demoniac came up to Jesus for deliverance in the Gerasenes, right?

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Gerasenes, right but like for the most part Jesus wasn't demon hunting either. Does that make sense?

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So yeah the atmosphere around it it can get really intense. And if you haven't

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So one of the things that I do after every session is I just plead the blood of Jesus over me and cleanse break all

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the soul ties

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Because people come in with critters and those critters come off and they're with you and then you just flush them out, right?

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You know like so so when it comes to Abram we're talking about deliverance and stuff

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Kicking it off with that. But you know, I and like I say

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There is I mean there are I mean demons are a real thing people get a lot of people

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One of the hardest things for me is

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when people actually just don't want to be free.

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There's a lot of people who are like, oh, I don't want all.

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They wouldn't say it outright, I want my demons.

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But by their actions, they were like, hey,

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I'm not going to forgive.

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So OK, number one thing that causes demonization

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is unforgiveness, bar none.

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Because it says, do not give the enemy a foothold.

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Well, if you don't forgive, literally,

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you're giving him a foothold to punch you in the face.

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And then he can afflict you.

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So it's really dumb.

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Unforgiveness is really dumb, right?

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And all its friends, like bitterness,

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and holding grudges, and all the others.

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Yeah, no, I mean, he built a house, right?

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And so when people finally get tired of having him ruling

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their house, and they're like, hey, can you help me?

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I have no problem doing that, right?

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Because Jesus came to set the captives free.

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But when captives still want to be captives,

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you can't really set them free.

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Is that kind of what you're asking?

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I know this is kind of a, does that help?

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I kind of gave you a huge question.

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So I honored you by even responding to you,

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because it was kind of heavy, just to sit in the least.

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But yeah, it is answering it.

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I mean, I do want to come on the part that you said, yeah,

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just the human condition, and error, and not really

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knowing God's ways.

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And then the enemy wants to come in and pour gasoline

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on it, on our error.

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Yeah, I mean, he's like.

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And you don't want to just say, oh, it's all the demon's fault.

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Well, I mean, the enemy has no power

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except what he gets from the children of God, right?

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So when he says, you've got this, and then you're like,

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oh, yeah, I do, then guess what?

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You do, because you just agreed to it.

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He's kind of throwing out contracts, saying, hey,

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would you sign this?

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Would you sign this?

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Would you sign this, right?

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Yeah, that's a great way to look at it, yeah.

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And so, OK, so if unforgiveness, the number one thing

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to set people free is repentance.

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You're like, hey, I made a kind of, you know what?

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I repent.

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I turn.

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I break all agreements with that.

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You know what?

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I was angry when I said that.

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Vows.

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Like, I've done so many.

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I had to break so many vows that I made.

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Like, I will never do that.

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I will never be that.

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I will never be like my dad.

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You know what I mean?

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Which intrinsically sounds OK, but it binds you in a state

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where you can't move, right?

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And God's like, hey, we need.

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And so vows or breaking vows and word curses, that's where

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this is a bit.

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I guess that is part of heart work, but like, you know,

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I guess that's where we're going today, right?

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So yeah, limits you in the ways that God does not

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limit you.

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Correct, yes.

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Jesus came that would be free, right?

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And so we get ourselves, we put ourselves in boxes, both

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literally and like mentally and figuratively, right?

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And God's like, you know what?

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I didn't make boxes around you.

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The sky is the limit.

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It's really your ceiling.

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We build our ceilings.

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We're like by obedience and decision decisions and our

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faith, right?

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And so like, but like, I mean, like the number one heartwork

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thing, man, is unforgiveness.

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I mean, like you should always be you should never have any

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unforgiveness towards yourself, towards anybody, right?

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Because I mean, because it's just it's just like toxic

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waste, right?

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Like trying to like I mean, was it Socrates that says

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unforgiveness is like drinking poison and expecting the

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other person to die?

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Like, it's it's like it's it's and I mean, I've been I've

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been doing this for a long time.

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And it's amazing.

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Amazing is so they're not or I'm blown away by how people

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won't let things go.

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I mean, it's killing, literally killing them.

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And it breaks my heart every single time, right?

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Like because I'm like, you understand.

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I mean, I've had the conversation.

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You understand this is killing you.

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And they're like, yeah.

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And you don't want to let it go.

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No.

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I'm like, all right, well, then we're done here because

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there's nothing more I can I can't help you anymore.

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Like, you know, and I mean, I don't turn to some people

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like, well, turn them over to Satan and then they'll

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repent. But I'm like, that's one precedent.

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And it's not somebody who's just having a hard time

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letting go of something that was really hurt.

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Yeah, well, they kind of already are kind of turned

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over to him if you want to be technical.

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They're 100 percent.

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No, I mean, the reality is he's owning them.

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That's why they won't let him go.

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And then I pray, you know, I mean, I mean, I will pray

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for them, but like a lot of times I intercede for those

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people that they would actually come to a place where

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they could let it go.

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And 60, 40, 70, 30% of the time, after some time, a lot of times they come back and go,

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I'm ready to let go now.

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And those are beautiful things, right?

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And then you watch them get free and you're like, man, God, you used me.

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So like I say, unforgiveness, vows.

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If you're dealing with somebody who's demonized, like washing yourself in the blood of Jesus

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because like, I've had some, I've had some crazy stuff, right?

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Like I don't like what in the world is going on in the Lord's, like he didn't flush.

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And I'm like, Oh yeah.

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So everything that fell off of them ends up in your, in your space and you got to get

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rid of it.

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It's not a big, it's not, it's, it's not a big deal unless you don't do it and you're

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not in, you're kind of not paying attention, but I hope that's helpful.

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Hey, bro.

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How you doing, bro?

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I'm doing good, man.

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Good to see you guys.

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Always love seeing you.

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Come on.

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So when I, um, like at one point talking about, um, it's like a head game and how you, um,

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it's all in your head, you need to change your mind in order to get out of the jail.

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It's in your head.

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So I think I got lucky when I caught a case and I had a counselor and I was young, I was

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like 23 and the guy for like weeks and weeks kept harp, harpering on is that you're like,

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you're about to go to jail and you messed up and all this shit, but until you are free

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inside your mind, it really doesn't matter where you are.

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So even though I was like, you know, locked up for a little bit, I was still like, I just

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changed my perspective.

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Um, because I was like really bitter about it for a really long time.

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Like my, like Abram Dukas versus the United States of America.

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So there was like, you know, a thing where it's like you start hating society and all

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that stuff.

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And so you have to let it go and move forward.

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Well, I mean, positive.

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You don't really have a choice is how you do have a choice.

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But the not do it is stupid.

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Like in my head, I just convinced myself of this.

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Like, you don't have a choice, but you go forward.

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Stop the poor me victim.

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Um, and you should be, you should be really proud of yourself, Abram, because like, um,

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forward.

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So you know how many people I watch just sit.

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It's, it's, it's, it's a high, high percentage.

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And that's, I'm proud of you.

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I think a lot of people like, uh, like chicks, you know, if they get, you know, molested,

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I mean, all kinds of stuff, like you have to eventually let things go because you're

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holding yourself back.

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You're right.

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Like you're, you know, so it's, it's easy to say hard to do.

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Oh yeah.

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No, I mean, like you say, easy, easy solution.

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Very hard to do.

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And, and just to even face, I mean, even facing a lot of this stuff, right.

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I mean, just, you have to face it to actually deal with it, to realize it's killing you.

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Right.

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And so, um, and that's why I love Jackie's book.

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Like the heart that starts out with heartwork because that's, I mean, like it's, it's, you

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can't have a good relationship if your heart, if you're, if you're a wreck, I mean, it's

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just not, I mean, I'm sure there's probably like one in a million.

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Right.

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But like, you know, but, but like, you know, and I used to do things for other people and

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I was realizing like, you know, and I'm just gonna do this for me.

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That was a big, big step.

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It's like, Oh, I got to do this.

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So I get this.

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And I'm like, no, I want to do this so I can get free, so I can get stronger.

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And like, um, so I can just be fully who, who God made me to be, you know,

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I had a business partner who, um, ripped me off for like 40 K.

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No, I remember.

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And so that took a lot of praying for me to forgive that person.

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And it wasn't about him.

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It was all about me.

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Cause you're in prison.

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Cause I was in prison emotionally for a long time.

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It was like really angry stuff.

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So yeah.

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Praying helps man.

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Praying works.

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You know how many have had this vision?

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I'm sure other people have had it before of like people sitting in a prison cell and the

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gates open, but they're like, I mean like there's, there's no, they've never actually

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been locked in it.

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I mean, they've, they've, they've, they, you know, everybody, we're all powerful people.

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We have choice.

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We have the opportunity to choose and not choosing as a choice.

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Um, like, you know, like, like so many other people, like, well, I don't want to shoot.

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I'm not going to choose.

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I'm like, well, you just did.

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It's like, there is no not making a choice.

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There is everything.

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And, you know, and it's like, might as well make the choices that I made.

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Everything's hard.

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Choose your heart.

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Being broken's hard. Getting healed is hard.

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Marriage is hard. Divorce is hard.

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Choose your heart.

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I want the heart that leads to freedom and life

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rather than the one that leads to death.

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So, choose life over death.

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Right?

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You know,

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new level, big devil.

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I'm like, you know what, that's not even a thing.

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Unless you allow it.

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The enemy is a liar,

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and if you agree with the lie,

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then you empower the liar.

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Right?

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And I don't know about you guys,

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but he's always throwing,

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and I'll be the first to say,

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dude, I empower him a lot.

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Just being real.

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But then, that's why repentance, okay?

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So, forgiveness.

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So, alright.

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Man, I so am,

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sorry, I'm a little,

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I'm kind of freewheeling right now

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So, okay, saying I forgive you

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is great.

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I don't want to discredit that,

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but it's,

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unless that turns

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into a heart posture,

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you really haven't forgiven them.

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Right? And so,

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people are like, well, and here's the thing that I found

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in my history,

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I got a PhD in forgiveness, right?

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You know, it would come back up,

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and I'd be like,

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no,

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I forgave that.

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I let them go.

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So, what I would encourage

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everybody to do is

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let it go again.

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When the enemy keeps beating that drum

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to try to get you to pick it back up,

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you just say,

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hey, no, I forgave them.

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That was done.

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And if you have to, write it in a book.

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And say, it happened this day,

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this time, I forgave them,

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and I let it go.

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Pray blessings.

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So, every time, I don't know,

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I'm kind of a militant kind of guy,

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like when the enemy hits me,

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I want to hit him back.

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He would come at me, and I'd just start praying

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for the person. And I'd just start going around

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just praying and just blessing people.

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I'm like, if you're going to come at me,

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I'm going to go blessed and do what God's called me to do.

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Right?

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But, you know, my stepdad,

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number one,

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gosh, dude, he's destroyed my,

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I mean, he almost killed me a couple times.

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made my life hell

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from about five to,

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shit, yeah,

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20, right?

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So, little time, right?

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No forgiveness there.

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And, you know, I remember one day

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I came home, it was Father's Day.

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Oh, you know, the Lord has a funny,

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funny way of doing things,

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right?

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So I came home on a Father's Day.

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So it was Father's Day, and I knew,

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it's like honor your father and mother,

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and I was wrestling with the Lord all day long.

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I was on my Mustang, driving like an idiot

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because I was upset.

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I came home at like 6.30 at night,

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and my car was loud.

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I mean, you could hear it two blocks away.

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So there's no,

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I thought about, I wonder how far I can coast

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so I can just cruise into the driveway.

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So I come around the corner,

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and I had a,

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I gave my mom my Ranchero,

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and my stepdad is sitting on the Ranchero.

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And the Lord's like,

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so you got a choice.

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Right? He's like, you either let it go,

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or you continue this way.

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And so,

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I did. I let it go.

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And I felt that million pound monkey come off my back.

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And I walk,

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I remember walking up to him,

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and I was like, you know,

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I'm going to wish you a happy Father's Day for what's coming.

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Not for what's happened.

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I was like,

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there's so much stuff.

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I was like, I don't want to hear your stuff.

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Because all you do

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is throw stinky stuff.

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you know, and then I,

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and it broke off, that shackle.

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That yoke.

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But then it came back like,

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hours later, weeks later.

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And I started praying for him.

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Right? And then,

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on Father's Day,

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another Father's Day,

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I led him to Jesus.

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I mean, like.

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So, God's in the business of

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full circles.

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Right?

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And I know that was the word for like, last year.

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Was it last year?

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You know what?

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I'm terrible with time, and I apologize, Jackie.

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But like, God's a full circle God.

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Right?

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And the circles may not

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necessarily include the same people.

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But like, he'll bring you in a circle.

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So,

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I hope that's helpful.

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Sorry, I'm kind of spitballing.

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But like,

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I just encourage you, man, let it all go.

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I keep no accounts.

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But you know the hardest person to forgive?

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Dude right here. I did a sozo session and we did the all the usual suspects, my grandfather,

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like, like, dude, it was just, I have a list, right? And they're like, yeah, nothing there,

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been there, done that. We beat that horse dead. Like, and then they're like, oh, what about you?

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I'm like, forgive me? Nah, I'm good. You know, but like, you know, so that was a whole nother

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thing of, it's not just those who have hurt you, but you have to forgive yourself and forgive God.

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And the other one, the other one, people, I mean, I, I give you permission. Okay. Like if you need,

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if you need permission, I give you permission to forgive God because some people think that

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he's so high and mighty that you don't have to forgive him. It's, I had to forget, dude,

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there's days where I have to, I'm like, Lord, I forgive you. It's now the causality is it's,

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I'm not getting there. I'm not going to go there, but like, I'm just going to give you guys permission

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to like, literally, if you have to forgive God for stuff that happened, I had to forgive God

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for my childhood, right? I had to forgive, you know, and like, and so when I, hey, hey, Andrew.

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So like, don't forgive yourself, forgive those who've hurt you, keep the unforgiveness. The

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hardest person for me to forgive is myself, by the way, just, I don't know about you all, if you're

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one of those people and I, and you've probably heard me tell a story, but I'm going to tell it

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again, just in context, like I did something really stupid. And in the, right in the middle,

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right, right. Oh, like just, I heard Jesus weeping. Cause I was like crucifying myself.

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Right. You know? And so like, basically I heard Jesus weeping. He's like, I don't care what you

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did. I just care that you broke fellowship. And I, and that, and you're being so mean to yourself.

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Right. He's like, you know, he's like, you're not loving yourself well. And I, and I, and I,

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and I'll be honest, guys, I didn't treat myself better because of me. I treated it because I

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knew it broke Jesus' heart. I like to say I had the, you know, like I'm pretty straight up with

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my, for me, I was like, I don't care about me, but Jesus being concerned about me loving myself.

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Well, I'm going to be concerned about that because, but like when we, when we're mean to

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ourselves, it breaks God's heart too. So, all right, Mr. Andrew, our,

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you had the trip? Yes. Oh, here are feeding your face. How did it go? Really well.

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Yep. I met her family and everything and we're really in love and it's great.

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Oh, and that's it. Come on, bro. Like, like, like there's got to be more sister.

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Uh, why would, why would I keep the sisters together? You'll move to California, dude.

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Yeah. You need to get, you need to get out of there, dude.

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It's warmer here. Well, kind of actually, it's been pretty cold lately. So Andrew, why,

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why would I be proud of you, bro? Like I want to, the fact that you went, you had a good time. Like,

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dude, I'm just, I'm beyond ecstatic for you, dude. That's so cool.

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I was saying that, I was saying that, um, he would be proud of me because I am starting to

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like declutter, you know, and organized because I'm going nuts sitting at home, you know? And so

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I know that I was thinking of him a few times. Oh yeah. Because yeah. So all you have to do,

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bro, is break your arm. Okay. And then you'll have like months of just nothing to do. Going

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crazy. Yes. That's it. Hey, you got time, right? If you got the time. Happen to hear about your

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girl, man. That's awesome. Yeah. So what was your favorite part of your trip? Well, I mean, um,

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it's kind of cool. Um, being in your family and seeing your family's house and everything.

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It's very different how they do things over there. And, um,

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it's pretty cool. Um, of course your family's communal, right? It's more communal. Is that

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one of the big differences? Yeah. Like, um, so her family's house is right next to her, um,

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two houses of her uncles and, um, and her cousins. So like, it's like the whole,

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like a few houses are like all family and, um, and, um, their house is like unfinished and she

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wants to like make money to help them like finalize it. But it's kind of interesting that

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the house can like have no windows and, um, some rooms like the electrical outlets are not like

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finished, but it's still functional because it's like a warm climate. Like they can.

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Actually live in there, even though it's like open to the elements, which is kind of strange thinking

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Yeah, that's crazy. Mm-hmm, and they don't even have a um, like a running toilet

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They just have like a toilet you have to pour water in by hand and that's how they flush it. You have to squat

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over it, you know and

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We have a I mean we don't realize how good we have it, right

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Like seriously, like I'm like, I'm like, excuse me. You gotta do what?

489
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And their shower, um, the showers literally we have to pour water over your head. Oh, so it's like camping but not

490
00:25:40.260 --> 00:25:47.260
Yeah, mm-hmm, but right, you know and so but it's only like that because the house is not finished yet. Yeah

491
00:25:47.860 --> 00:25:53.220
Well, I don't have that many peers sounds like I mean, I I you know, I mean in a way I'm jealous

492
00:25:53.900 --> 00:26:01.120
Right, it's like my brother lives in Washington my cousin lives it back in North Carolina and all these are people who I love

493
00:26:01.120 --> 00:26:07.220
I would love to have dude that they live next door dude our kids. It would be just so amazing

494
00:26:07.860 --> 00:26:10.020
Right, like, you know, and so yeah

495
00:26:10.860 --> 00:26:18.180
In a way, I have like jealousy, right, you know, but well, you know, it's interesting because um, I

496
00:26:18.700 --> 00:26:21.860
Don't know why because I was thinking about so, you know, it says

497
00:26:23.460 --> 00:26:28.420
Jesus says I go to build go to my father's house to build them build the mansion, right?

498
00:26:29.300 --> 00:26:31.300
or whatever like like

499
00:26:31.900 --> 00:26:38.140
basically, like the whole Hebrew thing was the guy would go back and he built an add-on to his father's house and

500
00:26:38.560 --> 00:26:40.560
The father wouldn't let him

501
00:26:41.900 --> 00:26:44.660
The father was one determined when he could go get his bride

502
00:26:45.460 --> 00:26:49.380
So they would get betrothed like, you know, and then he'd go build onto his father's house

503
00:26:49.380 --> 00:26:53.140
Get it ready for her. Then the father be like go you can go

504
00:26:54.460 --> 00:26:59.620
And go get your bride now, but he's the one that determined it not the groom, which I thought was crazy

505
00:27:00.220 --> 00:27:03.620
You know and like when you're saying it's unfair. I'm like, it's just kind of funny

506
00:27:03.620 --> 00:27:07.180
No, like, you know just reminded me of like how how?

507
00:27:08.740 --> 00:27:10.100
You know

508
00:27:10.100 --> 00:27:17.540
Jesus is preparing is finishing our place for us. That's true. Yeah, right like isn't that I don't know why that story came to mind

509
00:27:17.540 --> 00:27:23.660
But it's like I mean, he's out. He's there. So the word mansion can be addition to so like, you know, yeah

510
00:27:23.660 --> 00:27:26.660
You know like or it's an addition to a mansion like, you know

511
00:27:26.660 --> 00:27:30.700
Like mansions are multiple rooms and you add an addition to another room another house. It's

512
00:27:31.500 --> 00:27:33.500
so

513
00:27:36.140 --> 00:27:37.820
So

514
00:27:37.820 --> 00:27:39.420
right now

515
00:27:39.420 --> 00:27:44.100
Like we moved on from our courtship phase to be like in our serious relationship phase

516
00:27:44.900 --> 00:27:48.860
Yeah, so that's cool and um, but the thing is is that um

517
00:27:50.220 --> 00:27:53.220
Before she gets married. She wants to finish this renovation

518
00:27:54.980 --> 00:27:56.980
In order to do that she needs to

519
00:27:57.540 --> 00:28:03.420
She needs to get a better job that actually makes her enough money, which means that she's trying to like find a job abroad

520
00:28:04.380 --> 00:28:06.380
and

521
00:28:06.860 --> 00:28:12.780
One of the places we're looking for a job for her is in Canada so that I can cross the border to visit her

522
00:28:13.060 --> 00:28:15.060
but the problem is is that like, um

523
00:28:16.380 --> 00:28:23.300
Like you have to find a workplace that we're going to sponsor you, you know, I'd say a sponsor right? Yeah. Yeah, and she's like, um

524
00:28:23.940 --> 00:28:26.540
She's like basically entry-level. So it's like

525
00:28:27.420 --> 00:28:31.980
You know in a country like Canada, they might be looking for someone who's like super qualified

526
00:28:32.380 --> 00:28:39.820
Yeah, and she's just like, you know, like she has her degree and she's she's like I've experienced in some programs

527
00:28:40.260 --> 00:28:42.260
but she's not like, um,

528
00:28:43.740 --> 00:28:48.380
Love yeah, she's not top tier. So it's like, um, how do you find a job?

529
00:28:49.780 --> 00:28:54.740
With that kind of thing. So it's it's kind of tough, you know, she might have to go somewhere else like Ireland or

530
00:28:55.460 --> 00:29:01.340
Lord Jesus, we just asked that you would intervene and that you would guide and open up even doesn't matter

531
00:29:01.340 --> 00:29:04.580
What what level we're at Lord that you can open up the doors

532
00:29:04.580 --> 00:29:09.260
We just asked it you'd open doors that no man can shut and that you would guide the whole process

533
00:29:09.780 --> 00:29:13.980
And give Andrew peace and wisdom and how to support and

534
00:29:15.260 --> 00:29:17.260
Yeah, or or Lord just drop

535
00:29:18.380 --> 00:29:22.700
Finances in favor where it just gets finished so then she can move on Lord

536
00:29:22.700 --> 00:29:28.860
However, we're not gonna limit you because you're limitless, but we just praise you and thank you for what you're doing. Amen

537
00:29:28.860 --> 00:29:34.380
Thank you, Lord. Yeah, so and I'm willing to I'm willing to you know, help her family out with that

538
00:29:35.020 --> 00:29:37.020
Financially, but the thing is that she doesn't want

539
00:29:37.780 --> 00:29:41.180
Me to be burdened with it. So she wants to like do it herself. So

540
00:29:42.820 --> 00:29:47.380
So I'm in a position right now, it's it's kind of

541
00:29:51.380 --> 00:29:55.100
Yeah, very similar but in a different completely different way how much I want to share

542
00:29:56.340 --> 00:30:00.020
So I forget the levels. I'm so tired. I hadn't paid attention because I haven't

543
00:30:00.000 --> 00:30:07.080
So, I haven't been on a date for three years, and now I've had two in the last two weeks

544
00:30:07.080 --> 00:30:08.820
with the same gal.

545
00:30:08.820 --> 00:30:12.760
The one that my friend set me up with, that I said that, you know, like, I was surrendering

546
00:30:12.760 --> 00:30:17.840
my life and then got—just for people who might watch this.

547
00:30:17.840 --> 00:30:25.680
So long story short, too late, I had surrendered my life and my dating life and everything

548
00:30:25.680 --> 00:30:31.360
to the Lord at church on the altar, and at the same time my good friend was setting me

549
00:30:31.360 --> 00:30:38.240
up on a date, you know, and then that week we had a date, and we really connected.

550
00:30:38.240 --> 00:30:44.640
And now, I think level two is like you're just like in community, and then level three

551
00:30:44.640 --> 00:30:51.560
is like you're like—I think so, I think we're level three and change.

552
00:30:51.560 --> 00:30:57.760
But she's in a position where, single mom, right, doesn't have a lot of cash, stuck

553
00:30:57.760 --> 00:31:05.080
in a predicament, and I mean, I'm just like, hey, I have the resources and the—it's

554
00:31:05.080 --> 00:31:12.320
like, hey, I want you free, and I want you to be—regardless if it's me or not, but

555
00:31:12.320 --> 00:31:19.120
like I just—so I was like, hey, I'm willing to invest in this so I can get you free.

556
00:31:19.160 --> 00:31:25.480
So I just share that because I literally had that conversation Saturday, so it's not yesterday.

557
00:31:25.480 --> 00:31:31.760
I was like, sorry, it's Monday, I try to keep everything straight, but yeah.

558
00:31:31.760 --> 00:31:34.520
My full day back from the Bahamas.

559
00:31:34.520 --> 00:31:35.520
Welcome back!

560
00:31:35.520 --> 00:31:36.520
Nice, Bahamas.

561
00:31:36.520 --> 00:31:43.720
Yeah, I just have—I had a little social experience, and a lot of the ladies I heard

562
00:31:43.720 --> 00:31:47.320
said, even though it wasn't that bad, Jackie even zoomed in on us.

563
00:31:47.320 --> 00:31:51.440
I told her, bad news is I didn't get a girl, the good news is I didn't experience this.

564
00:31:51.440 --> 00:31:56.040
She told me that there's someone in the girls' group that a girl or two might be interested

565
00:31:56.040 --> 00:32:02.880
in me, and she says to shoot out on administrationjackiedorman.com, thinking, all right, what to write, because

566
00:32:02.880 --> 00:32:06.680
I don't know if this is an exaggeration.

567
00:32:06.680 --> 00:32:20.760
But anyway, Hunter, you're looking—dude, I love the beard, obviously, you're looking

568
00:32:20.760 --> 00:32:21.760
pretty studly, bro.

569
00:32:21.760 --> 00:32:25.920
I just want to—you're looking really good, dude, I mean, like chick magnet.

570
00:32:25.920 --> 00:32:30.240
No, I'm going to need to get my fade done, too.

571
00:32:30.240 --> 00:32:33.760
So, but look, I like your look, dude.

572
00:32:33.760 --> 00:32:39.680
It's kind of rugged, it's rugged, it's like—so Jackie doesn't play, so if Jackie says she

573
00:32:39.680 --> 00:32:45.520
has something, she has something, like, do what she says, all right?

574
00:32:45.520 --> 00:32:53.280
Jackie doesn't play around, like, so email admin at jackiedorman.com, all right?

575
00:32:53.280 --> 00:32:58.760
But dude, I would keep that—that look is—that look really—dude, you're looking pretty

576
00:32:58.760 --> 00:33:02.440
studly, dude, I love it, I'm digging it.

577
00:33:02.440 --> 00:33:03.440
It's rugged, it's—yeah.

578
00:33:03.440 --> 00:33:09.080
And another thing, too, is that I found a way to communicate a little better with women.

579
00:33:09.080 --> 00:33:11.360
I made some little mistakes, but you know what?

580
00:33:11.360 --> 00:33:15.760
I don't become antisocial, I didn't turn them off so bad, I cleared it up.

581
00:33:15.760 --> 00:33:17.680
Some things I shouldn't have brought up, but you know what?

582
00:33:17.680 --> 00:33:22.280
I just say, it's honest, like, learn not to bring it in, and I make up for it, and I now

583
00:33:22.280 --> 00:33:24.600
have two or three of my friends on Facebook with.

584
00:33:24.600 --> 00:33:25.600
Yeah.

585
00:33:25.600 --> 00:33:30.480
So I figured, you know what, why not just—I was like, where are the—and Jackie's like,

586
00:33:30.480 --> 00:33:31.480
where are the other guys?

587
00:33:31.520 --> 00:33:36.080
There's—there's one guy who I'm rooming with who's level three, the other guy is off

588
00:33:36.080 --> 00:33:40.440
somewhere else doing whatever, and I'm like the main guy in—it looks like in the photo

589
00:33:40.440 --> 00:33:45.000
I'm the main guy in the group who wants to be involved with hanging out with women.

590
00:33:45.000 --> 00:33:49.240
And even I got a good review with Angela, who is a travel agent.

591
00:33:49.240 --> 00:33:55.320
I even brought up my—brought up Amazon because I'm a driver, and that brought—sparked a

592
00:33:55.320 --> 00:33:56.960
conversation really well.

593
00:33:56.960 --> 00:34:00.560
Sounds like you're growing—I mean, Hunter, it seems like—I mean, you're growing by

594
00:34:00.640 --> 00:34:01.640
leaps and bounds, dude.

595
00:34:01.640 --> 00:34:09.800
Like, and, you know, it's—I mean, it's about the reps, right, eventually something's going

596
00:34:09.800 --> 00:34:10.800
to fall.

597
00:34:10.800 --> 00:34:14.199
And I had a little negative thing where I shouldn't have brought up the thing, and I'm

598
00:34:14.199 --> 00:34:19.440
37, and I feel like I'm wasting my life, I come—well, at least in my mid-30s, I got

599
00:34:19.440 --> 00:34:25.480
my own job, especially around swimming delays that I was on the beach with her during 1941.

600
00:34:25.480 --> 00:34:26.920
So you learned what not to do.

601
00:34:26.920 --> 00:34:27.920
Don't do it again.

602
00:34:27.920 --> 00:34:28.920
I know.

603
00:34:29.159 --> 00:34:34.920
And I also, like, I had a situation in Nassau, and I was like, we got lost because the communication—because

604
00:34:34.920 --> 00:34:39.960
the app where we communicate, like, the chat only works when you're around the ship, and

605
00:34:39.960 --> 00:34:42.679
when—not so much with free Wi-Fi or network.

606
00:34:42.679 --> 00:34:44.639
So I was like, you know what, I'm going to get lost.

607
00:34:44.639 --> 00:34:47.960
I see couples, and they're girls in G-string bikinis.

608
00:34:47.960 --> 00:34:52.320
I want my spear—walk with my spearman dress and exact bikini.

609
00:34:52.320 --> 00:34:54.719
And I got—that's the enemy poking, saying, this should be you.

610
00:34:54.719 --> 00:34:57.800
He said, you know what, I'm not going to fuss, I'm going to enjoy myself.

611
00:34:57.800 --> 00:34:59.920
If I can't learn to enjoy myself, how am I going to love—

612
00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:03.060
Someone else. I was like, and some women helped me try to,

613
00:35:03.060 --> 00:35:04.980
I was like, you know what, we can't communicate.

614
00:35:04.980 --> 00:35:06.300
Let's make this a learning lesson

615
00:35:06.300 --> 00:35:08.000
when we go to the next island.

616
00:35:08.000 --> 00:35:10.120
And I, they liked the fact that I developed a trait

617
00:35:10.120 --> 00:35:12.320
of a positive attitude.

618
00:35:12.320 --> 00:35:14.520
No, dude, no, nobody wants a freaking,

619
00:35:14.520 --> 00:35:16.760
oh, the world is terrible.

620
00:35:16.760 --> 00:35:18.680
You know, nobody wants to marry Eeyore, dude.

621
00:35:18.680 --> 00:35:20.320
Like if you're an Eeyore, I'm sorry.

622
00:35:20.320 --> 00:35:22.000
If you're an Eeyore, become a Tigger,

623
00:35:22.000 --> 00:35:24.760
or at least get some sunshine.

624
00:35:25.680 --> 00:35:28.880
Exercise, a little sunshine, maybe a little cookie.

625
00:35:28.880 --> 00:35:29.900
Have a cookie.

626
00:35:31.520 --> 00:35:32.360
I got a tan too.

627
00:35:32.360 --> 00:35:34.240
Oh, dude, I love your tan lines.

628
00:35:34.240 --> 00:35:36.160
I neglected to put on sunscreen

629
00:35:36.160 --> 00:35:38.240
so that some of the women, some of the ladies would know.

630
00:35:38.240 --> 00:35:39.280
You look amazing.

631
00:35:39.280 --> 00:35:40.560
Hunter, keep that look, dude.

632
00:35:40.560 --> 00:35:41.560
I'm telling you, bro.

633
00:35:41.560 --> 00:35:42.920
Abram, go ahead.

634
00:35:42.920 --> 00:35:44.080
Abram, what's up, dude?

635
00:35:46.080 --> 00:35:49.360
Mike, you got to finish about the finances,

636
00:35:49.360 --> 00:35:50.560
or you don't want to finish.

637
00:35:50.560 --> 00:35:52.000
Okay, so, all right, you guys.

638
00:35:52.000 --> 00:35:52.840
You have to finish.

639
00:35:52.840 --> 00:35:54.160
So here.

640
00:35:54.560 --> 00:35:58.040
So this is kind of like a situation where,

641
00:35:58.040 --> 00:36:01.960
okay, am I willing to take on a partner if she has debt?

642
00:36:01.960 --> 00:36:02.800
It's not that.

643
00:36:02.800 --> 00:36:05.040
Or like some kind of financial, like.

644
00:36:05.040 --> 00:36:07.640
It's more complicated than that, but.

645
00:36:07.640 --> 00:36:10.480
I think a lot of us have to struggle with that decision.

646
00:36:10.480 --> 00:36:15.480
Well, here's, so I think, okay, so you're always gonna,

647
00:36:15.920 --> 00:36:18.520
I mean, I get brought,

648
00:36:18.520 --> 00:36:20.960
everybody brings all these crazy scenarios to me, right?

649
00:36:20.960 --> 00:36:23.040
And they're like, what is the principle?

650
00:36:23.040 --> 00:36:27.040
So they're looking for a principle, like a law, a rule,

651
00:36:27.040 --> 00:36:27.880
right?

652
00:36:28.720 --> 00:36:33.720
And what I've learned is, so my divorce,

653
00:36:34.000 --> 00:36:35.800
like my ex, right?

654
00:36:35.800 --> 00:36:40.800
I had my, it says in the abundance of counselors,

655
00:36:41.000 --> 00:36:44.600
I had my evangelical church friends, which I love greatly,

656
00:36:44.600 --> 00:36:46.040
which I, that's the way it was.

657
00:36:46.040 --> 00:36:49.080
And then I had a couple of spirit filled guys over here,

658
00:36:49.360 --> 00:36:53.360
and I kid you not, I talked to my evangelicals,

659
00:36:53.360 --> 00:36:57.440
who was, which, cause I was an evangelical, right?

660
00:36:57.440 --> 00:36:59.240
And it went horrifically,

661
00:36:59.240 --> 00:37:01.120
cause they were giving me principles.

662
00:37:01.120 --> 00:37:03.760
My spirit led people over here are like,

663
00:37:03.760 --> 00:37:05.280
well, that sounds like a terrible idea.

664
00:37:05.280 --> 00:37:06.400
Why did you do that?

665
00:37:06.400 --> 00:37:07.240
Like, cause I didn't talk to.

666
00:37:07.240 --> 00:37:08.400
What do you mean by a principle, Mike?

667
00:37:08.400 --> 00:37:09.240
What do you mean?

668
00:37:09.240 --> 00:37:10.080
Like, can you give me an example?

669
00:37:10.080 --> 00:37:12.080
Okay, so you read a thing in a book.

670
00:37:12.080 --> 00:37:14.040
This is great for marriage, right?

671
00:37:14.040 --> 00:37:17.480
Well, that may be great for marriage,

672
00:37:17.480 --> 00:37:20.360
that may be great for their marriage,

673
00:37:20.360 --> 00:37:22.200
to whoever that wrote that book's marriage,

674
00:37:22.200 --> 00:37:23.920
but for your marriage, it may be very different.

675
00:37:23.920 --> 00:37:26.400
And that principle, like, I mean,

676
00:37:26.400 --> 00:37:29.680
there's certain principles that are like, you know, can we?

677
00:37:29.680 --> 00:37:31.160
Oh, you're saying they try to give you advice,

678
00:37:31.160 --> 00:37:34.080
but it wasn't like applicable, or it was irrelevant,

679
00:37:34.080 --> 00:37:35.160
or it wasn't hitting the nail on the head.

680
00:37:35.160 --> 00:37:40.160
It was relevant to them and their walk,

681
00:37:40.200 --> 00:37:43.080
but it didn't work for mine, and it blew up my situation.

682
00:37:43.080 --> 00:37:44.800
And I wish I'd listened to the Holy Spirit

683
00:37:44.800 --> 00:37:46.700
a heck of a lot more.

684
00:37:47.580 --> 00:37:48.500
So you took their advice,

685
00:37:48.500 --> 00:37:50.700
and then you tried to apply it, and it kind of.

686
00:37:50.700 --> 00:37:52.820
And it fricking exploded.

687
00:37:52.820 --> 00:37:56.060
So if you don't hear the Holy Spirit,

688
00:37:56.060 --> 00:37:57.860
principles are great, right?

689
00:37:57.860 --> 00:38:01.900
Like, you know, five love languages, those are principles.

690
00:38:01.900 --> 00:38:04.260
Those are all really great principles.

691
00:38:04.260 --> 00:38:06.280
Which ones to apply at what given time,

692
00:38:06.280 --> 00:38:08.020
that would be a Holy Spirit thing, okay?

693
00:38:08.020 --> 00:38:09.580
You see that, like, right?

694
00:38:09.580 --> 00:38:14.100
So, you know, when she says, this is my love language,

695
00:38:14.100 --> 00:38:16.020
but your spirit's saying, no, it's not.

696
00:38:16.340 --> 00:38:18.220
She thinks it is, it's really this one.

697
00:38:18.220 --> 00:38:21.900
Then you can tinker and, like, go with the spirit

698
00:38:21.900 --> 00:38:24.340
and see if she comes up.

699
00:38:24.340 --> 00:38:27.020
Or, like, which one brings the most,

700
00:38:29.060 --> 00:38:31.020
fills her love tank the most, right?

701
00:38:31.020 --> 00:38:34.340
So, but if you don't know which one it is,

702
00:38:34.340 --> 00:38:36.340
and she just says it's this one,

703
00:38:36.340 --> 00:38:38.100
go off that principle, do the best.

704
00:38:38.100 --> 00:38:39.460
Because even in that principle,

705
00:38:39.460 --> 00:38:41.700
there's different nuances to it.

706
00:38:41.700 --> 00:38:45.580
That person with that love language is going to,

707
00:38:46.100 --> 00:38:47.540
they'll, like, do X, Y, and Z.

708
00:38:47.540 --> 00:38:51.020
Well, X and Y may be great, but the Z doesn't work for them.

709
00:38:51.940 --> 00:38:56.020
So, being led by the spirit.

710
00:38:56.020 --> 00:39:00.020
So, helping somebody financially before you're married.

711
00:39:00.020 --> 00:39:02.340
If you're in a committed, if you're engaged,

712
00:39:03.940 --> 00:39:05.860
you guys are kind of figuring that out.

713
00:39:07.700 --> 00:39:10.060
Taking on the debt, that's, I,

714
00:39:10.900 --> 00:39:12.780
that is, that's a legitimate thing.

715
00:39:13.780 --> 00:39:18.220
No, no, I, so, so yes, so Andrew, so that was my point.

716
00:39:18.220 --> 00:39:19.940
Right, right, like, like, okay.

717
00:39:21.940 --> 00:39:23.060
Man, so I'm going to,

718
00:39:25.380 --> 00:39:28.540
if you feel the Lord, so pray about it.

719
00:39:28.540 --> 00:39:29.380
Like, Lord,

720
00:39:33.820 --> 00:39:37.540
okay, I am in a lot of situations where

721
00:39:39.300 --> 00:39:41.020
the Lord's like, I want you to help this person

722
00:39:41.780 --> 00:39:43.900
financially or otherwise, right?

723
00:39:43.900 --> 00:39:45.380
And there's other situations where I get in

724
00:39:45.380 --> 00:39:47.180
and they're, and I'm like, oh, I think I should.

725
00:39:47.180 --> 00:39:50.900
And he's like, no, not this one, right?

726
00:39:50.900 --> 00:39:52.100
So, pray about it.

727
00:39:52.100 --> 00:39:56.900
Ask your spiritual mentors, like, is this what, like,

728
00:39:56.900 --> 00:39:59.660
so that's, whenever I have a question, I have, I have,

729
00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:07.800
for around me that I go to and I go, Hey, you guys, because I know I'm not the best

730
00:40:07.800 --> 00:40:09.600
judge, right?

731
00:40:09.600 --> 00:40:13.760
For spirit led mentors, people who listen, who hear, who have a history of hearing God

732
00:40:13.760 --> 00:40:16.880
well and have helped my situation, right?

733
00:40:16.880 --> 00:40:22.780
Not just random people who like, sorry, I'm a little bit all over the place, but I go

734
00:40:22.780 --> 00:40:23.780
to them.

735
00:40:23.780 --> 00:40:28.280
I'm like, you're saying you need to guard yourself by getting some help from some advice

736
00:40:28.280 --> 00:40:34.120
from other people, because outside your back and it will be to your detriment, right?

737
00:40:34.120 --> 00:40:37.560
And because some people, if they're working off of principle, we'll be like, that's a

738
00:40:37.560 --> 00:40:38.560
terrible idea.

739
00:40:38.560 --> 00:40:44.100
But it may be that God put you in that situation to be the very person to help, right?

740
00:40:44.100 --> 00:40:50.580
So like, but unless now, if you're in a relationship with somebody, you're already going to be

741
00:40:50.580 --> 00:40:52.380
wanting to help.

742
00:40:52.380 --> 00:40:57.420
So like, like if you talk to your spiritual mentors and they're like, we think that's

743
00:40:57.420 --> 00:40:58.420
a great idea.

744
00:40:58.420 --> 00:40:59.420
Great.

745
00:40:59.420 --> 00:41:00.420
Go for it.

746
00:41:00.420 --> 00:41:01.420
Do it.

747
00:41:01.420 --> 00:41:02.420
God's in it.

748
00:41:02.420 --> 00:41:06.220
If they say, no, it's a bad idea, then I'd still press in.

749
00:41:06.220 --> 00:41:12.040
But I would listen to, but I, and I, good advisors, and that's the thing, you guys find

750
00:41:12.040 --> 00:41:18.220
good advisors that, um, the situation I'm in, I would not have ever entered in except

751
00:41:18.220 --> 00:41:23.060
for two of the people who I trust the most that I think this is from God.

752
00:41:23.060 --> 00:41:26.620
Because I wanted nothing to do with, I mean, like absolutely nothing.

753
00:41:26.820 --> 00:41:30.980
I was running the opposite direction and they're like, Mike, we see God in this and we think

754
00:41:30.980 --> 00:41:31.980
you should pursue it.

755
00:41:31.980 --> 00:41:32.980
Right?

756
00:41:32.980 --> 00:41:33.980
Yeah.

757
00:41:33.980 --> 00:41:37.580
And I think it's important to get the right type of advice because like, um, I was on

758
00:41:37.580 --> 00:41:42.980
this online Facebook group called expats living in the Philippines, like people that are like

759
00:41:42.980 --> 00:41:44.780
Americans living in the Philippines.

760
00:41:44.780 --> 00:41:48.780
And a lot of them were telling me like, you shouldn't be with this girl, you know, like,

761
00:41:48.780 --> 00:41:49.780
cause she's a breadwinner.

762
00:41:49.780 --> 00:41:52.180
And I'm like, well, you don't know who she is.

763
00:41:52.180 --> 00:41:53.440
You don't know what I've been through.

764
00:41:53.440 --> 00:41:56.540
And I think that what a breadwinner, a breadwinner, you know,

765
00:41:57.460 --> 00:42:01.660
they're saying, you know, it's like too much of a financial burden.

766
00:42:01.660 --> 00:42:02.660
I shouldn't be with her.

767
00:42:02.660 --> 00:42:05.460
But it's like, well, I've discerned that I want to be with her.

768
00:42:05.460 --> 00:42:10.060
Like, uh, I don't think that their advice is like sound, um,

769
00:42:10.060 --> 00:42:12.060
in your circle.

770
00:42:12.060 --> 00:42:13.060
Yeah.

771
00:42:13.060 --> 00:42:15.060
I mean, they're pulling things out of there anyways.

772
00:42:15.060 --> 00:42:16.060
Um, yeah.

773
00:42:22.060 --> 00:42:25.060
So Meg, you said my beard looks good on you.

774
00:42:25.580 --> 00:42:27.580
Your beard looks good on you, Hunter.

775
00:42:27.580 --> 00:42:28.580
Keep it, dude.

776
00:42:28.580 --> 00:42:29.580
You look, dude, you look amazing.

777
00:42:29.580 --> 00:42:32.580
Well, why doesn't Andrew have his beard?

778
00:42:32.580 --> 00:42:34.580
Well, not as thick as like mine is.

779
00:42:34.580 --> 00:42:38.580
Cause you know, like you got to do what the ladies, what your lady wants.

780
00:42:38.580 --> 00:42:41.580
But anyway, I'm not saying that's what happened, but he looks great too.

781
00:42:41.580 --> 00:42:46.580
But Hunter, I'm saying that that look is really good for you and you should try it out and

782
00:42:46.580 --> 00:42:47.580
see how it goes.

783
00:42:47.580 --> 00:42:49.580
So anyways, circling back around.

784
00:42:49.580 --> 00:42:50.580
Okay.

785
00:42:50.580 --> 00:42:54.580
So in every decision, you know, this isn't just in relationships, guys.

786
00:42:55.100 --> 00:42:58.100
You need those people around you for every decision.

787
00:42:58.100 --> 00:42:59.100
Right.

788
00:42:59.100 --> 00:43:02.100
And like, I'm really humble.

789
00:43:02.100 --> 00:43:09.100
If you want to be honest, like this gal, I would have never picked her in 10,000 years.

790
00:43:09.100 --> 00:43:12.100
I would have swiped left on, I would have swiped on her, you know, like,

791
00:43:12.100 --> 00:43:14.100
right's good, left's bad, whatever.

792
00:43:14.100 --> 00:43:15.100
I would have not.

793
00:43:15.100 --> 00:43:16.100
Left bad.

794
00:43:16.100 --> 00:43:17.100
Okay.

795
00:43:17.100 --> 00:43:20.100
So I was on 12 apps, I should know, but it's been a while.

796
00:43:20.620 --> 00:43:26.620
I never would have pursued her in a million years.

797
00:43:26.620 --> 00:43:29.620
Yet I find myself, I just don't want to be with anybody else.

798
00:43:29.620 --> 00:43:30.620
Right.

799
00:43:30.620 --> 00:43:37.620
Like, and so like, um, that says a lot to me, like my, my, and I feel safe with her.

800
00:43:37.620 --> 00:43:43.620
So my, like my bot, which is not, which for me, that's, um, when I feel safe with somebody

801
00:43:43.620 --> 00:43:47.620
that's significant, um, because most of my life I haven't.

802
00:43:47.620 --> 00:43:57.620
So like investing in somebody who's, so there's some legal stuff she's in and I have the capacity

803
00:43:57.620 --> 00:44:04.620
to do all the paperwork, um, because I've done it before, um, and do the filing fees

804
00:44:04.620 --> 00:44:05.620
and stuff.

805
00:44:05.620 --> 00:44:06.620
Right.

806
00:44:06.620 --> 00:44:07.620
And I have this thing.

807
00:44:07.620 --> 00:44:10.620
So I'm not saying I'm not spending billions of dollars.

808
00:44:10.620 --> 00:44:11.620
Right.

809
00:44:11.620 --> 00:44:15.620
But at the same time, um, there's a real big hitch and she's trapped.

810
00:44:15.620 --> 00:44:16.620
Right.

811
00:44:16.620 --> 00:44:17.620
Yeah.

812
00:44:17.620 --> 00:44:19.620
Lawyers are 200 to 500 bucks an hour.

813
00:44:19.620 --> 00:44:20.620
400 an hour.

814
00:44:20.620 --> 00:44:21.620
Yeah.

815
00:44:21.620 --> 00:44:22.620
Yeah.

816
00:44:22.620 --> 00:44:23.620
So here they're four to four to six.

817
00:44:23.620 --> 00:44:24.620
Right.

818
00:44:24.620 --> 00:44:25.620
Yeah.

819
00:44:25.620 --> 00:44:26.620
For good ones.

820
00:44:26.620 --> 00:44:27.620
Yeah.

821
00:44:27.620 --> 00:44:28.620
Yeah.

822
00:44:28.620 --> 00:44:30.620
And so like, um, and I already spent 30 grand on, right.

823
00:44:30.620 --> 00:44:33.620
But so because I spent 30 grand, I learned how to do all the paperwork.

824
00:44:33.620 --> 00:44:34.620
Right.

825
00:44:34.620 --> 00:44:35.620
Right.

826
00:44:35.620 --> 00:44:36.620
And I got really good at lawyer speak.

827
00:44:36.620 --> 00:44:42.620
And so, um, I've helped, I'm not an attorney and don't ask me because I'm not giving you

828
00:44:43.620 --> 00:44:45.620
advice, um, because I won't and I can't.

829
00:44:45.620 --> 00:44:51.620
Um, but what I do is I know how to fill out papers and I can submit them to somebody who

830
00:44:51.620 --> 00:44:55.620
knows how to read them correctly and do the right things and whatever that costs, I'll

831
00:44:55.620 --> 00:44:57.620
pay it to get it done.

832
00:44:57.620 --> 00:44:59.620
And rather than spending 20 grand.

833
00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:03.500
grand could be 500 bucks, right?

834
00:45:03.500 --> 00:45:06.380
Like, you know, or whatever, like an hour, right?

835
00:45:06.380 --> 00:45:10.100
So see, so I just, thank you, Abram, for pressing that.

836
00:45:10.100 --> 00:45:11.020
I didn't want to talk about it,

837
00:45:11.020 --> 00:45:14.220
but I think if you're gonna give 100 grand to somebody,

838
00:45:14.220 --> 00:45:17.540
don't, no, no, no, but like,

839
00:45:17.540 --> 00:45:20.460
if 500 bucks can help somebody be free,

840
00:45:20.460 --> 00:45:21.620
I would do that too.

841
00:45:21.620 --> 00:45:24.100
Abram, if you were like, Mike, I'm stuck,

842
00:45:24.100 --> 00:45:28.340
I'm really screwed right now, I'd do it for you, right?

843
00:45:28.340 --> 00:45:29.180
So it's not-

844
00:45:29.180 --> 00:45:30.660
It's not, but it's not.

845
00:45:30.660 --> 00:45:32.660
And I've been blessed to be a blessing.

846
00:45:32.660 --> 00:45:35.180
So if you've been blessed to be a blessing,

847
00:45:35.180 --> 00:45:37.220
and be smart, because there's,

848
00:45:37.220 --> 00:45:39.560
takers don't have any boundaries, right?

849
00:45:39.560 --> 00:45:43.780
They'll just take, but like, I really hate,

850
00:45:43.780 --> 00:45:45.580
okay, deliverance, we started out

851
00:45:45.580 --> 00:45:46.780
talking about deliverance, right?

852
00:45:46.780 --> 00:45:47.700
What is deliverance?

853
00:45:47.700 --> 00:45:50.660
If somebody's stuck, right?

854
00:45:50.660 --> 00:45:53.420
Inner healing, I do a lot of inner healing with people.

855
00:45:54.260 --> 00:45:56.620
One of my gifts is to help people get unstuck.

856
00:45:57.540 --> 00:45:59.160
And if that requires money, great.

857
00:46:00.000 --> 00:46:02.640
Dude, I have, I've been blessed.

858
00:46:02.640 --> 00:46:04.440
I make some money, right?

859
00:46:04.440 --> 00:46:09.120
And so, and Andrew, I just share that because,

860
00:46:09.120 --> 00:46:11.680
I don't know, I don't know what the amount is,

861
00:46:11.680 --> 00:46:13.320
and I can't, I figured the Philippines,

862
00:46:13.320 --> 00:46:15.080
the conversion rate's probably pretty good.

863
00:46:15.080 --> 00:46:16.720
Could be completely wrong.

864
00:46:16.720 --> 00:46:21.720
But if she's stuck, and your advisors say,

865
00:46:22.000 --> 00:46:24.240
hey, we think it's a good idea for you to help,

866
00:46:24.240 --> 00:46:26.720
but I would listen to those who you trust,

867
00:46:26.720 --> 00:46:29.400
who have a history that you can trust.

868
00:46:29.400 --> 00:46:30.880
And so.

869
00:46:30.880 --> 00:46:34.160
Well, of course, she doesn't want me to help, so.

870
00:46:35.000 --> 00:46:37.120
Well, and so I broached it this way.

871
00:46:37.120 --> 00:46:38.560
I was like, hey, you know what?

872
00:46:38.560 --> 00:46:43.560
I have these skills, and I can help you get,

873
00:46:43.960 --> 00:46:45.600
I understand that you're stuck,

874
00:46:45.600 --> 00:46:48.480
and I can help you get unstuck if you want to.

875
00:46:48.480 --> 00:46:50.400
If not, I mean, like, it's like,

876
00:46:50.400 --> 00:46:52.480
if you want to get unstuck, I will help you.

877
00:46:52.480 --> 00:46:56.040
If not, you can continue there, right?

878
00:46:56.240 --> 00:46:59.240
And just, and set them free to make the decision.

879
00:46:59.240 --> 00:47:00.840
But, you know, you're like,

880
00:47:00.840 --> 00:47:02.720
I'd really like to see you unstuck.

881
00:47:03.640 --> 00:47:04.880
Yeah.

882
00:47:04.880 --> 00:47:07.400
Right, like, so.

883
00:47:07.400 --> 00:47:10.960
Well, 500 bucks to her is like five grand, right?

884
00:47:10.960 --> 00:47:13.760
I mean, I can go a lot farther over there.

885
00:47:13.760 --> 00:47:15.600
Over there, so yeah, and so,

886
00:47:15.600 --> 00:47:18.880
and like, you guys, I make a ton of money.

887
00:47:18.880 --> 00:47:20.280
I have a ton of money in the bank.

888
00:47:20.280 --> 00:47:22.720
So, okay, so I'm not sacrificing,

889
00:47:22.720 --> 00:47:25.360
okay, another principle, right?

890
00:47:25.520 --> 00:47:29.160
Don't put things on credit cards to help somebody, right?

891
00:47:29.160 --> 00:47:31.400
Don't, I mean, like, if you're okay,

892
00:47:31.400 --> 00:47:32.800
okay, unless, well, I don't,

893
00:47:32.800 --> 00:47:34.600
actually, I don't see the Lord ever saying that.

894
00:47:34.600 --> 00:47:37.600
But like, you know, like, just,

895
00:47:37.600 --> 00:47:42.600
but like, it's all Holy Spirit counsel, right?

896
00:47:43.320 --> 00:47:44.840
What if you were, I mean,

897
00:47:44.840 --> 00:47:46.720
and this just happens to me all the time,

898
00:47:46.720 --> 00:47:48.920
that I happen to be the person that God brought in

899
00:47:48.920 --> 00:47:51.280
to help people get free, right?

900
00:47:51.280 --> 00:47:54.040
In every area of their lives, it seems like.

901
00:47:54.040 --> 00:47:55.320
And so, and Andrew,

902
00:47:55.320 --> 00:47:58.560
it may be that you guys came together to do that,

903
00:47:58.560 --> 00:48:02.200
but you only know if you're talking vertically, right?

904
00:48:02.200 --> 00:48:04.520
And horizontal people agree.

905
00:48:04.520 --> 00:48:08.960
And so, but in any decision, you should be doing that,

906
00:48:08.960 --> 00:48:10.800
in any big decision, right?

907
00:48:12.480 --> 00:48:14.000
Sorry, I didn't mean to belabor that point,

908
00:48:14.000 --> 00:48:17.160
but I think it's, I've watched so many people,

909
00:48:21.560 --> 00:48:22.920
so much destruction.

910
00:48:24.160 --> 00:48:26.480
By people talking about something

911
00:48:26.480 --> 00:48:28.640
that they thought they knew,

912
00:48:28.640 --> 00:48:30.160
and that God wasn't in it.

913
00:48:30.160 --> 00:48:31.760
And I watched relationships go away

914
00:48:31.760 --> 00:48:34.000
that should have never gone away, right?

915
00:48:34.000 --> 00:48:38.440
And, I mean, and there's some people

916
00:48:38.440 --> 00:48:41.880
who are in relationships that shouldn't be anymore, right?

917
00:48:41.880 --> 00:48:43.480
I've seen it go both directions, right?

918
00:48:43.480 --> 00:48:47.800
Like, I watched abuse, being, somebody being abused,

919
00:48:47.800 --> 00:48:49.480
and I'm like, you need to get out.

920
00:48:49.480 --> 00:48:50.680
Well, my pastor said, no.

921
00:48:50.680 --> 00:48:52.800
I was like, dude, you need to get away.

922
00:48:52.920 --> 00:48:55.360
He's gonna kill you, right?

923
00:48:55.360 --> 00:48:56.760
You know, and thankfully he hasn't,

924
00:48:56.760 --> 00:48:58.000
but like, you know, like, you know, like,

925
00:48:58.000 --> 00:49:01.120
but like when there's things where somebody's in danger,

926
00:49:01.120 --> 00:49:03.440
like principles suck.

927
00:49:03.440 --> 00:49:04.720
Well, you go back and love him.

928
00:49:04.720 --> 00:49:06.840
Well, no, get the heck out.

929
00:49:06.840 --> 00:49:08.840
Call the cops. Get away, huh?

930
00:49:08.840 --> 00:49:09.680
Call the cops.

931
00:49:09.680 --> 00:49:13.280
Yeah, get away, get safe, get people around you.

932
00:49:13.280 --> 00:49:15.960
And if he shows he can change, and he wants to change,

933
00:49:15.960 --> 00:49:19.080
and he stops abusing, then here, cool, great,

934
00:49:19.080 --> 00:49:22.560
but don't be a punching bag or a doormat,

935
00:49:23.320 --> 00:49:25.240
because of a principal and a bad pastor

936
00:49:25.240 --> 00:49:28.320
who's just talking out of, like, you know,

937
00:49:28.320 --> 00:49:33.280
like Jackie talks about, like there's a whole thing

938
00:49:33.280 --> 00:49:34.800
about the Jewish divorce.

939
00:49:34.800 --> 00:49:36.600
Like if the dude abuses you,

940
00:49:36.600 --> 00:49:39.120
that's grounds to divorce immediately, right, done.

941
00:49:39.120 --> 00:49:42.480
Like, so like, if he's hitting you,

942
00:49:42.480 --> 00:49:44.440
you have grounds for divorce, right?

943
00:49:44.440 --> 00:49:46.680
Now there was two rabbi or two, no, yeah,

944
00:49:46.680 --> 00:49:49.680
there was two rabbis, like, you know,

945
00:49:49.680 --> 00:49:51.400
like, you know, Jesus referenced the one

946
00:49:51.400 --> 00:49:53.240
that Jackie referenced.

947
00:49:53.240 --> 00:49:55.560
If you ever want to hear that Jackie did a great job

948
00:49:55.560 --> 00:49:56.880
and I need to go find it again,

949
00:49:56.880 --> 00:50:00.440
but my whole point is, guys, listen to the Holy Spirit.

950
00:50:00.000 --> 00:50:03.200
Surround yourself with people who hear God well.

951
00:50:03.200 --> 00:50:12.880
I mean, like I say, I've been in so many situations that violated principles that I knew, but

952
00:50:12.880 --> 00:50:18.360
I knew God was telling me to do it, and then I watched it out, and sure enough, it worked

953
00:50:18.360 --> 00:50:19.360
great.

954
00:50:19.360 --> 00:50:23.880
It ended up setting people free.

955
00:50:23.880 --> 00:50:26.000
Deliverance happens with demons.

956
00:50:26.000 --> 00:50:33.040
It happens physically, like setting people free from trafficking.

957
00:50:33.040 --> 00:50:35.440
Deliverance is, you know, financially there's deliverance.

958
00:50:35.440 --> 00:50:38.520
There's deliverance in so many different areas, right?

959
00:50:38.520 --> 00:50:42.840
And I'm realizing I'm a deliverance minister on so many different levels.

960
00:50:42.840 --> 00:50:48.920
You know, speaking of deliverance, before we close, I'd like, doesn't have to be now,

961
00:50:48.920 --> 00:50:54.320
but I'd like prayers from some friends of mine that are in a dark place.

962
00:50:54.320 --> 00:50:58.240
They're good people, but they're being attacked by the devil, and it's horrible.

963
00:50:58.240 --> 00:51:04.400
Yeah, he likes to remind me, well, we got five minutes, so what are their names?

964
00:51:04.400 --> 00:51:12.320
So Michael and Anna, they're like a good Christian couple.

965
00:51:12.320 --> 00:51:16.180
They're like a little bit younger than me, and they have two kids that were taken away

966
00:51:16.180 --> 00:51:23.520
from them because of child protective services with a false claim against them, and they

967
00:51:23.720 --> 00:51:29.680
won the court case, but the judge still won't give them their kids back because she's convinced

968
00:51:29.680 --> 00:51:35.280
that they actually abused them, and she wants them to get counseling.

969
00:51:35.280 --> 00:51:40.480
And they want to get counseling, even though they know they're innocent, but she's saying

970
00:51:40.480 --> 00:51:46.440
that they're cherry-picking a counselor to agree with them when they actually were just

971
00:51:46.440 --> 00:51:51.640
trying to get any counselor, and the court would not appoint the one for them.

972
00:51:51.680 --> 00:51:57.440
So this judge is just really evil, and she's against them for no reason, and they can't

973
00:51:57.440 --> 00:51:59.120
get their kids back.

974
00:51:59.120 --> 00:52:02.800
It's Michael and Anna?

975
00:52:02.800 --> 00:52:03.800
Yeah.

976
00:52:03.800 --> 00:52:08.000
So Lord Jesus, we just come and ask all of heaven to move in Michael and Anna's behalf

977
00:52:08.000 --> 00:52:09.600
to get them their kids back.

978
00:52:09.600 --> 00:52:15.560
Lord, that you would intercede, intervene with this judge, you bring whatever angelic

979
00:52:15.560 --> 00:52:16.560
assignments are needed.

980
00:52:16.560 --> 00:52:18.480
We just ask that the enemy would be rebuked.

981
00:52:19.480 --> 00:52:25.880
We put the cross of Jesus between the attacks and this couple, and we just proclaim freedom

982
00:52:25.880 --> 00:52:26.880
to her and her kids.

983
00:52:26.880 --> 00:52:32.720
Lord, I just pray for a redemption, restoration, and restitution, all that they've had to spend

984
00:52:32.720 --> 00:52:37.400
and all this extra time that the enemy would have to pay mightily, but Lord, would you

985
00:52:37.400 --> 00:52:41.800
set all those kids free and get that family back together in Jesus' name, amen.

986
00:52:41.800 --> 00:52:43.360
Thank you.

987
00:52:43.360 --> 00:52:52.040
Sorry, I've heard stuff like that before, and I just, yeah, it goes beyond.

988
00:52:52.040 --> 00:52:58.600
So we've got a couple minutes, any other prayer requests, anything that I can, I mean, was

989
00:52:58.600 --> 00:52:59.600
this helpful you guys?

990
00:52:59.600 --> 00:53:00.600
Yeah.

991
00:53:00.600 --> 00:53:03.080
I mean, I kind of free-willed a little bit, but like.

992
00:53:03.080 --> 00:53:04.080
Yeah, it was good.

993
00:53:04.080 --> 00:53:05.080
Yeah.

994
00:53:05.080 --> 00:53:08.400
Oh, hey, so I've got to show you guys this.

995
00:53:08.400 --> 00:53:10.760
So I was cleaning, right?

996
00:53:10.760 --> 00:53:11.760
And I found these.

997
00:53:11.760 --> 00:53:15.520
Have you guys heard of that game God of War on PlayStation?

998
00:53:15.520 --> 00:53:18.120
Oh, I've heard of it, I'm not familiar with it though.

999
00:53:18.120 --> 00:53:19.920
All right, look, dude, look what I found.

1000
00:53:19.920 --> 00:53:20.920
Oh, this is cool.

1001
00:53:20.920 --> 00:53:24.320
I found his blades with the chain, dude.

1002
00:53:24.320 --> 00:53:26.280
Oh, yeah, I've seen that, yeah.

1003
00:53:26.280 --> 00:53:30.680
A friend of mine bought these for me, and they hang on like a little wood plaque.

1004
00:53:30.680 --> 00:53:32.520
Oh, that's super cool.

1005
00:53:32.520 --> 00:53:39.040
So see, Andy, if you clean, you're going to find cool stuff that you own that you forgot

1006
00:53:39.040 --> 00:53:40.040
you owned.

1007
00:53:40.760 --> 00:53:47.560
Well, and you know, there is a prophetic principle in getting your house in order.

1008
00:53:47.560 --> 00:53:58.480
And like, Andy, it's just like getting your house ready for a spouse, I mean, I would

1009
00:53:58.480 --> 00:54:04.520
highly recommend, I can't highly recommend it enough because sometimes, actually quite

1010
00:54:04.520 --> 00:54:09.160
often in the natural, what happens in the natural brings the supernatural to pass and

1011
00:54:09.200 --> 00:54:10.200
things move.

1012
00:54:13.400 --> 00:54:18.400
But I'm really super stoked about your gig and your trip.

1013
00:54:18.600 --> 00:54:19.600
It's awesome to hear.

1014
00:54:20.080 --> 00:54:22.240
Yeah, and I did, I don't think I told you about that yet.

1015
00:54:22.240 --> 00:54:23.720
I actually did have my house cleaned.

1016
00:54:23.720 --> 00:54:30.120
I had some, I hired some friends to come clean my house, and I've been able to keep it

1017
00:54:30.120 --> 00:54:32.080
at least in somewhat good order.

1018
00:54:32.440 --> 00:54:33.440
How does it feel?

1019
00:54:33.680 --> 00:54:38.640
It feels really good. And I also have a dishwasher now, so I don't have to have

1020
00:54:39.480 --> 00:54:40.480
to mount a dishwasher all the time.

1021
00:54:40.480 --> 00:54:42.640
Oh, dude, dishwashers are really helpful.

1022
00:54:42.960 --> 00:54:48.960
It's a tabletop dishwasher, because I only have room for a real one.

1023
00:54:48.960 --> 00:54:51.000
So this one is good enough.

1024
00:54:51.960 --> 00:54:53.440
Dude, praise Jesus.

1025
00:54:53.440 --> 00:54:54.840
That's it. That's a gift, right?

1026
00:54:55.080 --> 00:54:59.440
Yeah. It's amazing, like, because now I don't have to, like.

1027
00:55:00.000 --> 00:55:05.200
Because the problem is that it's like, I didn't have the mindset to wash the dishes all the

1028
00:55:05.200 --> 00:55:06.600
time.

1029
00:55:06.600 --> 00:55:09.080
And that's why it didn't get done.

1030
00:55:09.080 --> 00:55:10.080
I was just like, I was just like, burned out.

1031
00:55:10.080 --> 00:55:11.080
Yeah.

1032
00:55:11.080 --> 00:55:12.080
And they stack up quick.

1033
00:55:12.080 --> 00:55:13.080
Yeah.

1034
00:55:13.080 --> 00:55:14.080
They stack up really quick.

1035
00:55:14.080 --> 00:55:17.600
Well, and you know, you guys, just to still, forgiveness is bad.

1036
00:55:17.600 --> 00:55:19.920
I mean, unforgiveness is bad, right?

1037
00:55:19.920 --> 00:55:22.440
Like, you know, it keeps you bound, right?

1038
00:55:22.440 --> 00:55:23.800
Like forgiveness is great.

1039
00:55:23.800 --> 00:55:27.960
You know, listen to the Holy Spirit, get people around you who hear the Holy Spirit because

1040
00:55:27.960 --> 00:55:33.720
you really, I mean, dude, there's so many things that I do that I won't move without

1041
00:55:33.720 --> 00:55:34.720
my friends.

1042
00:55:34.720 --> 00:55:40.120
Actually, I will move without their approval, but I would, I'm reticent to, and I actually

1043
00:55:40.120 --> 00:55:44.360
haven't ever, because they usually agree with what I'm sensing, right?

1044
00:55:44.360 --> 00:55:48.560
But I get that, go to them for confirmation, you know, and if the voice of the Lord, like

1045
00:55:48.560 --> 00:55:51.080
legitimately says, Hey, do this.

1046
00:55:51.080 --> 00:55:52.080
Well, didn't do it.

1047
00:55:52.080 --> 00:55:57.440
But like, you know, like I've had that never actually.

1048
00:55:57.440 --> 00:55:59.160
I've never heard the audible voice of God.

1049
00:55:59.160 --> 00:56:03.880
I mean, I've had a, Lord, we can work that out.

1050
00:56:03.880 --> 00:56:09.120
But you know, but like, I just, you guys, holy, like, listen to the Holy Spirit.

1051
00:56:09.120 --> 00:56:13.680
If you're in a relationship with somebody, you need somebody outside of you guys, because

1052
00:56:13.680 --> 00:56:21.320
you're inundated with endorphins and all that crap, like, and I know I'm tilted, right?

1053
00:56:21.320 --> 00:56:25.360
I'm like, how is, I'm like, how is this a good idea?

1054
00:56:25.360 --> 00:56:28.920
It seems, you know, like, you know, like, so you need those people to be like, yeah,

1055
00:56:28.920 --> 00:56:30.440
Mike, that's not a great idea.

1056
00:56:30.440 --> 00:56:32.120
I'm like, okay, cool.

1057
00:56:32.120 --> 00:56:34.560
Or I'm like, no, I'm not doing this.

1058
00:56:34.560 --> 00:56:35.560
Not a good idea.

1059
00:56:35.560 --> 00:56:36.720
They're like, no, we really think you should.

1060
00:56:36.720 --> 00:56:38.120
I'm like, no, we're good.

1061
00:56:38.120 --> 00:56:39.120
I'm totally good.

1062
00:56:39.120 --> 00:56:42.600
They're like, you know, all right, you know, are you, are you running from this?

1063
00:56:42.600 --> 00:56:44.200
I'm like, what?

1064
00:56:44.200 --> 00:56:45.200
No, never.

1065
00:56:45.200 --> 00:56:46.200
Who would?

1066
00:56:46.200 --> 00:56:47.200
Me?

1067
00:56:47.200 --> 00:56:53.040
Nah, I'm the, I'm the pastor guy, like the one that gives everybody else advice.

1068
00:56:53.080 --> 00:56:56.320
I don't know what you call me, call me all my stuff for, but you know, I feel really

1069
00:56:56.320 --> 00:56:57.320
loved, right?

1070
00:56:57.320 --> 00:57:01.800
And I have, and I allow people, certain people, you guys, and that's the other thing.

1071
00:57:01.800 --> 00:57:06.040
Make sure it's certain people that you trust that have a history of being good for you.

1072
00:57:06.040 --> 00:57:07.040
Right.

1073
00:57:07.040 --> 00:57:10.840
Don't trust somebody who's destroyed your life.

1074
00:57:10.840 --> 00:57:11.840
Right.

1075
00:57:11.840 --> 00:57:14.040
And so I'm going to pray.

1076
00:57:14.040 --> 00:57:15.040
What?

1077
00:57:15.040 --> 00:57:16.040
Oh, yeah.

1078
00:57:16.040 --> 00:57:20.720
So I'm going to pray us out, Lord Jesus, I just pray for all the men on this call.

1079
00:57:20.720 --> 00:57:24.400
The ones that aren't on the call, the ones in last year single, Lord, would you just

1080
00:57:24.400 --> 00:57:27.160
bring friends that hear you around them?

1081
00:57:27.160 --> 00:57:28.560
Would you give us wisdom?

1082
00:57:28.560 --> 00:57:29.560
We need wisdom.

1083
00:57:29.560 --> 00:57:31.680
We need discernment.

1084
00:57:31.680 --> 00:57:36.480
We want to walk in lockstep with you and do everything that you've called us to do, Lord.

1085
00:57:36.480 --> 00:57:37.640
We don't want to deter.

1086
00:57:37.640 --> 00:57:41.680
We love principles, but we want you to be the principal one we listen to.

1087
00:57:41.680 --> 00:57:47.840
Lord, would you just speak to us in new ways and open our eyes to see and our ears to hear.

1088
00:57:47.960 --> 00:57:52.600
I just pray for those who don't have anybody in their life right now, Lord, that you would

1089
00:57:52.600 --> 00:57:56.680
bring them and for those who do, that you would make it clear and you would help things

1090
00:57:56.680 --> 00:57:57.680
move on.

1091
00:57:57.680 --> 00:58:02.400
And I just pray for acceleration in this season.

1092
00:58:02.400 --> 00:58:05.520
And just thank you for all these men, these mighty men of valor.

1093
00:58:05.520 --> 00:58:10.960
You would watch over them and their worlds.

1094
00:58:10.960 --> 00:58:15.880
Would you make a path straight before them in favor with wisdom?

1095
00:58:15.920 --> 00:58:20.920
But Lord, would they, most of all, would they just know you deeper, Lord?

1096
00:58:20.920 --> 00:58:22.600
Would they get more of you?

1097
00:58:22.600 --> 00:58:27.560
Would they be okay, no matter whether there's somebody next to them or not?

1098
00:58:27.560 --> 00:58:29.360
Because you are next to them, Lord.

1099
00:58:29.360 --> 00:58:33.360
Would you help them all perceive and know that, in Jesus' name, amen.

1100
00:58:33.360 --> 00:58:36.120
Blessings, y'all.

1101
00:58:36.120 --> 00:58:37.120
Love you guys.

1102
00:58:37.120 --> 00:58:42.000
You know, thanks for letting me ramble for an hour.

1103
00:58:42.000 --> 00:58:45.160
I hope it benefits and blesses you all greatly.

1104
00:58:45.160 --> 00:58:46.160
All right.

1105
00:58:46.160 --> 00:58:47.160
See you guys.

1106
00:58:47.160 --> 00:58:48.160
Yep.

1107
00:58:48.160 --> 00:58:49.160
See y'all.

1108
00:58:49.160 --> 00:58:50.160
Blessings, guys.

1109
00:58:50.160 --> 00:58:51.160
Good night.

1110
00:58:51.160 --> 00:58:52.160
Night.

1111
00:58:52.160 --> 00:58:52.160