you
I've got so much to be thankful for
Look I got a roof and a bed a couple groceries to stay fit
I've got a phone and clean water
and some shoes when I
think I could ever need
I've got so much to be thankful for
Hey Amy, Hey Ariel, Hey Fiona
I have lights and a fan
A couple people who know who I am
I have a car and clean clothes
I have the sun and air in my lungs
and a big mess that I get to clean
and a big mess that I get to clean up
Most of all, one thing's true
Jesus I'm grateful for you
Today I've got so much to be thankful for
I woke up this morning thinking
Thank you lord
Giving me everything
I could ever need
I've got so much to be thankful for
I woke up this morning thinking
Thank you lord
Giving me everything
I could ever need
I woke up this morning thinking
Thank you lord
Giving me everything
I could ever need
I woke up this morning thinking
Thank you lord
I've got so much to be thankful for
Say it again
I've got so much to be thankful
Awesome, awesome
Alright let's read the chat
What are we thankful for today?
Michaela you just walked into your house from San Diego
That's great
Alright
Margo's thankful for her wood stowed
It's cold
Oh yeah she's back in the cold
Back
I hear that
Michaela's seeing her babies after the retreat
Thankful for
Ariel, thankful for this call, this outlet
Me too
And I'm even more grateful because
Half of you
We all just got to see each other in person
24 hours ago
How cool is that?
I'm so thankful for that
Christy's thankful for central heating
Can I get an amen?
The ability to work on your business
Amazing Cherie
How awesome is that?
I agree
Jana's thankful for the sun shining today
Yes
Same
So I
Plot twist
I changed my flight last minute
And I decided to stay in San Diego
So
I am
Still looking at sun
I was not ready to go home in the snow
So
Here's the beauty
of, you know,
working online, working remote, having a flexible schedule
is to be able to do things like that.
So I'm also, Jana, I'm right there with you.
I'm thankful for the sun that I am still in today.
Melissa is thankful for this call. Yes.
And the sun that was shining yesterday.
Love that.
Amy's thankful for her family.
Good sleep last night.
Yes. Hey, Garima.
Good to see you, girl. Welcome.
And OK.
Well, Karin got nine hours of sleep last night.
Let's go.
That's got to be like a win.
Like who?
When's the last time anyone here has got nine hours of sleep?
That's impressive.
Wow. Oh, man, so good.
Yes.
Just read in the chat here.
Yeah, Melissa, no sun for you.
I know it's sad.
OK, so I I just think it's so powerful
that, you know, a lot of us were just in in person together.
And so here's what I'd like to do with this call.
Not everybody was in person, and I understand that.
But and yesterday we talked about
or not yesterday.
Wow. You guys, I'm honestly still kind of waking up.
I'm not going to lie to y'all.
I'm used to Eastern and like you can kind of see the bags that are like
happening under my eyes because this calls at nine a.m.
here, and I'm used to like having a whole four hours
of being awake before I take your guys this call.
So I'm kind of like waking up still.
But so.
What was I saying last week?
We share some of you shared vision boards.
Remember, that was so fun.
That was so powerful.
So what I want to do for this call, this is what I'd like to do on this call.
For those of you who didn't share your vision board or parts of it
and you want to, I want to give you the space
to share, because how many of you know, when you share something
and you let other people have eyes on it, it makes it all the more powerful.
And then there's also more accountability there, right?
So I want to give space for those of you.
I'm seeing quite a few of you who already did share,
but I know there's some of you on here who didn't share.
So I want if that's you and you want the opportunity, I want to do that.
And then here's what I think would be powerful.
Those of you who did go to the in-person event this past week.
I would love to open up the space here to share
one gold nugget, like one really
like thing that just stuck with you that you feel like
would be able to secondhand bless somebody else in the room today.
Because I think we've got about 50% of you were at the event
and 50% of you weren't.
And so for those of you who weren't, how cool would it be to hear,
you know, some takeaways and then you'll be able to grab something
from from the room last week in this room.
And I also think.
And even though half of you were in the event,
it doesn't you have a different takeaway, you have something different
that landed in your in your spirit, in your heart, in your mind for you.
OK, Gareem is like, great idea.
I'd love to hear from you. Awesome.
Cool. So that's what I want.
That's what I would love for this call to look like is those of you who
want to share your vision board.
I want some space for that.
And then I want those of you who are at the retreat be thinking about like
what's one of your takeaways you want to share with the group?
And that could look like something that really impacted you
and it can impact the room.
That can look like an action step you took or something you created
while you were even there or like some ideas you have for your business.
Does that make sense, everyone? Does that sound good?
Is everyone ready to get some blessed, get blessed on this call today?
So I would love to start with those who.
Want to share their vision board.
So we'll start with that.
And if that's you, I'd love for you to raise your virtual hand.
Yes, Sheree's already on it.
Awesome. If that's you, I want you to raise your virtual hand
and then we will go through.
And like I want you to give you a couple of minutes to kind of share with us,
like, you know, your why behind what you put on your vision board,
and then we will go into sharing some takeaways.
All right, Sheree, start us off, girl.
Let me make you let me make you co-host so that you can share your screen.
Oh, and remember, if you guys, like, have any word of encouragement while somebody's
sharing, right, drop it in the chat, or if something resonates with you, drop it in the
chat.
All right, Sheree.
Do I just put share?
I'm on my phone.
Do I push share?
Yes.
It should be able to work.
Let's see.
Share screen.
Okay.
Good.
I hope this is like, okay.
We do not see it yet.
Okay.
All right.
Okay.
Oh, yes.
Okay.
Can you all see it?
Okay.
Can everyone see it?
Okay.
We're getting some head nods.
Yay.
Okay.
Sheree, tell us about this.
Okay.
So, I know that when I started my business, I don't want to be small.
The top left corner is me speaking at a conference to women, and I'm a seven-figure brand.
That's what my goal is.
That's how I'm going to show up, and it's really, really been challenging.
There's definitely some resistance there, but when I put it on the board, it's me with
my pink business suit and pink business desk and computer, really because it's part of
my fashion-forward brand that I'm slowly creating.
And I know that I'm meant for more, so that's what that seven-figure brand means.
I think that all of this is creating vision, and on the middle top is me and my husband
actually enjoying to be away from our six kids and enjoying travel and enjoying adventure
without having to worry about finances and with actually having someone care for our
kids so we can spend that time together.
Both of these pictures of family, I want to be able to give my kids the opportunity
to travel and style.
Number one, travel.
But number two, to travel big, travel to the beach, travel to our high-end ski trip to
show them the ability that from working hard, these things are possible.
I am a mom of six kids, so this bottom left.
I have extreme diastasis recti, and I will correct it.
I will be healthy, and I will be fit so that I can come to my business and to my family
at my best.
So that is a picture of that.
And again, pink makes a difference.
Right now, I have a pink fashion-forward pickleball brand that I'm building.
So that's what that has to do with, but also for me to come to the best of my ability.
To the right is our dream home.
This is my dream kitchen.
It's white.
It's a huge island for all of our kids, but there will be huge ceiling-tall windows so
that I can look out the window and see our land that we've bought in a really, really
peaceful, bright place.
And I'm really enjoying these things to the best of my ability.
Wow.
Everyone, give her a round of applause.
Thanks, guys.
That was amazing, Cherie.
Thank you.
Wow.
Did I do okay?
You did amazing.
I loved the pink addition at the end there, right?
That represents the land and part of the avenue that you're working on to get you there.
And didn't you guys sense how much confidence she spoke when she was talking about her vision
board?
That's what I'm talking about.
Again, a reminder of the whole point of a vision board is it reflects your 3D vision
and your truth brain prime, and it's a representation of what's possible.
And we want to continually show our brains and tell our brains, not remind.
Tell.
You're telling.
You're declaring.
I will.
I have.
I am.
Right?
And then our brains begin to believe what's possible.
I've already seen a difference of putting it forward, and I had missed the live videos
of all of this.
And so this whole week has been like, I will come on this call, and I will do my vision
board.
And it really has made a difference already.
And so declaring all these things possible.
Yes.
Thank you.
Hello.
So excited.
Thanks for starting us all so powerfully there, Sheree.
And so good to see you.
Good to see you.
Yeah, seriously.
Anna, practically for the vision board,
you can just go on Canva
and literally just type in vision board
and just find one that you like,
and then you start plugging in your own images into that.
Okay, let's go next, Garima.
Hello, it's so good to see you.
Hey, good to see you.
See, I'm jealous.
I know, Garima and I are neighbors practically,
and she's in the cold still.
It's gonna snow tomorrow,
so I'm glad you're not flying in to Cincinnati.
So it's gonna snow, so just stay there, stay there.
I'll stay till Wednesday, that's what I chose.
Okay, sounds good.
All right, let me just share my screen.
Did you make me co-host?
I did, yep.
Okay, all right.
Let me see, I'm on my phone,
so trying to see if that works.
Screen, share entire screen.
Sorry, I tend to talk when I work.
Let me look at, do you see it?
Okay, yeah, so it's a little cut off.
Okay, yeah, we can see it.
Let me just zoom.
Yeah, zoom out a little bit.
Okay, let me just, key changes, let me just zoom out.
Let me try one thing.
I think I'm in my editor, that's why it's like that.
Get out of Canva.
Do you see it now, the whole thing?
Yes.
All right.
Can you really zoom?
Hold on.
Zoom in a little bit?
Do you guys see it okay?
Okay, we're good, yep, we see it, yep.
You see it?
Yep.
Okay, so.
Tell us about it.
So yeah, so I mean, my vision board is more about,
so my vision is more about getting more independence
with my schedule, so I have the flexibility
for like, I can have unlimited vacations.
I control my time.
I mean, not control, I mean, I have abundance of time
where I can do things that I really wanna do,
the things that I love.
I can travel more, create more memories and experiences
with the finite time that we have in our life.
On my business front, I just, I'm thriving.
I have a business which is like on autopilot.
I'm my own inner cheerleader.
I believe in myself.
I don't need any validation from outside.
I am rooting for myself and I'm aligned
with the frequency or the, I am the channel for wealth
and the wealth flows through me.
I'm aligned to it and I have more than enough for me
and also to share it with everybody, those who are in need
so I can give back generously without even thinking about it
and I can actually work for causes
that are very near and dear to me
and I don't have to hold back.
I can write checks which are like,
I don't have to think, and I am in a space
where I have my dream house.
I have all the things to make me comfortable
so that I can focus on my vision.
My life is balanced, aligned.
I'm connected with nature.
I am doing things that enriches my soul
and I'm connected with divine energy where I get guidance
and I do, there's no path of resistance.
My mind, my mind is not in the way
for what nature has planned for me.
I am not creating any friction.
I am at ease.
I am in harmony.
I am on autopilot.
I am like enjoying every minute intentionally
because every small win counts.
I don't, I'm not just waiting for big things to happen.
I am making it happen every day
and I am cherishing it and acknowledging it
and absorbing it to the best.
That's what the essence of this vision board is.
Woo!
Oh, yes, Garima, we celebrate you.
And wow.
How about when she said, I'm doing things that enrich my soul?
I like felt that in my inner being
because sometimes it's the soul that also, you know, that we can forget about.
So, wow.
So powerful, Garima.
And I'm so excited for you.
And and I agree that right in the middle where it says
do things at your own pace, life's not a race.
Yes.
You did to read that again today and be reminded of
like you get to do things at your own pace.
So, so good, Garima.
We're celebrating you.
We're excited for you.
And thanks for sharing with us.
You inner cheerleader, you.
Yes, I'm very, very grateful for this community.
And, you know, I'm so blessed to have you all.
Yeah. Yes.
We're blessed to have you.
Thank you so much.
Wow. So good, man.
And I'm I'm already feeling excited.
Anybody else like it's such a gift
to be able to cheer one another on and see what's in each of our hearts,
because, you know, we don't we don't do this all the time
with even our friends, you know, and this is the stuff that matters.
You know, these are this is the intimate, vulnerable parts of us.
And who says we can't have these things?
Who says we can't create lives that lead to these things? Right.
Nobody. We are the ones who block our own blessings most of the time.
So that's why this call is so important.
And I was telling I was actually telling Chelsea earlier
just how blessed I am to be a part of this community
and be on this particular call.
And I've just been seeing you all show up so consistently,
no matter how you feel or what's going on in your business.
And I think it's really important to continually remind each other
of what's possible and get each other excited.
And we also know that excitement doesn't always last.
And I do want to touch on that point at some at some point in this call, too,
because we're half of you are kind of coming off of a of a really big high.
Right. And the business.
So we'll talk about that in a minute.
I want to just open the floor.
Is there anybody else who wanted to share their vision board
with us on this call?
OK, I think that's it for the moment.
I think most people of you, you all have.
OK, so it's kind of to wrap this three to four day series up or
you created your truth brain prime, right, which is when you
write your negative thought down.
You refute it and then you replace it.
And then that replacement is your truth brain prime.
And with your new positive thoughts, you record yourself
and you listen to it morning and night for 67 days.
And that is scientifically how a new neural pathway is created.
Now, doesn't always happen that way for everybody.
Sometimes it takes a little longer.
Sometimes it takes a little shorter.
Sometimes you fall off track and you stop listening to your truth brain prime.
So guess what?
If that's any of you today, all it's super simple.
You just start again.
That's it.
You just start again.
You just start listening to it again because there's some it's something about,
you know, in the conference, we had a speaker at the very end
who was giving out words of encouragement to other people.
We had two speakers do that, and they were specifically speaking
words of affirmation, encouragement.
I got one, too, in the background, which was really cool.
And those are really, really powerful when somebody else sees something in you.
But what the speaker said at the end and he is, he said,
yes, we need to be reminded of the greatness inside of us.
But at the end of the day, we have to be the ones
to agree with the greatness inside of us,
agree with where, you know, our calling is,
and then take the steps accordingly. Right.
Because sometimes we're not going to have that affirmation when we need it.
And so what a powerful way to listen to your own voice
when you don't even believe your own words.
That's the power of listening to yourself, your own specific voice,
speaking life and truth over your brain.
And then for those of you who know God or, you know, have a relationship with God,
that's also part of your brain prime.
You know, God doesn't say mean, nasty, depressing, degrading things to us.
It will never, ever come out.
Of God's mouth, right.
in the nature of God with.
And so of that, and you shared it with us,
you can continually keep doing that.
I still have a 3D vision that I want to write out
for my wedding day, for example.
I haven't done that yet, but it's in my truth brain prime,
and it's in my vision board.
So that's always a skill you can do.
If you have 10 minutes and you're
feeling blocked creatively, or you're
feeling blocked in your business,
do a 3D vision brain prime real quick.
Start, write about a part of your life
that will get you excited.
And write about a part of your life
that you want to see happen.
And then that's where we came to these vision boards.
So you see, it's not just any old vision board.
It's very specific.
It's tailored to your brain.
It's tailored to where you want to go,
and the things you want to see in your life.
And how beautiful has it been to see
everybody's look so different?
To the colors, to the things that people want,
to the aesthetics, to what their business
wants to create for them.
And I think it's so beautiful.
Mikayla, thanks.
Mikayla popped hers in the chat, so I just saw that.
Thanks, Mikayla, for sharing.
Do you want to, I think you're working,
or not available to talk.
I don't think you're working, but you just got home.
But if you want to.
Yeah, I'm here.
I said, I was commenting underneath it.
I'm commenting underneath it.
I said, I don't think I should be
trusted on a recorded line.
I haven't slept since yesterday morning at 5 AM in San Diego.
Yeah, so Mikayla, you know what?
What better time to trust you than right now?
Am I right, ladies?
Like, come on, that's more real, I think,
than we think that it is.
So hey, Mikayla was a problem solver,
because her flight got canceled last minute.
And she came up with a solution.
And you did it, Mikayla.
You got home, praise God.
So do you want to share anything about your vision board?
I want to give you the opportunity.
Yeah, I mean, I just have our garden, our dream garden.
I'm going to pull it up.
Yeah, that works.
I'm missing the technical things.
I got you.
All right, it's pulled up.
Can you all see this?
All right, Mikayla, tell us about the vision
behind the vision here.
OK, so this is in the left is our garden
that we're going to have this year.
We had one last year.
It was great.
But this year, I want it to be pretty.
Last year, it was functional.
And then I have, like, I want to do more.
I've been doing more homemade, home-cooked,
like making my own biscuits.
I've been doing sourdough for a while,
but I made my first butter, my first buttermilk,
and my first homemade biscuits right
before I came to San Diego.
So we got snowed in, and I like to do things like that.
And then the picture of me looking out on the farm
that we're going to have, because we've
been looking for 10 years to buy a piece of land.
And so this is my farm that I'm going to have.
And those are my products that we're going to have.
So I already have the butter crock,
and then the salt cellar is going to launch this year.
I'm going to have a women's retreat.
It's right beside the vision board.
That's supposed to be me.
At least Chattagy BT thinks that's me.
And then the lower right, that actually does look like me.
And that's me speaking.
I like that it puts my husband on the front row there,
looking like he's cheesed and he's happy.
That's not what he looks like, but sort of is, I guess.
I mean, kind of.
And yeah, the picture with the ocean
was just kind of like a feeling of free, right?
So my whole word for this year is contentment.
And I've never had a word before.
That's not ever been my thing.
But this year, it just kept coming to me, like contentment.
And it really is just about being content in the season
that I'm in now.
So in all aspects, where the business is
and our personal life.
We bought our starter home 10 years ago,
and I'm still sitting in it.
And for so long, I've been just like stressing about, you know,
wanting to build, that's my dream kitchen there.
Um, and actually, uh, recently I was sitting in my living room and I was
looking at our kitchen now and I was like, God, I hate that kitchen.
And like, I say that, but like I designed that kitchen, like Colby built it.
I designed it exactly the way I wanted.
Um, but my style is just so different now than what it was 10 years
ago when I designed the kitchen.
And I just thought like, what a blessing it is that God didn't provide me that
house, you know, the property to build on, because then I would have built that
kitchen and I would have been so upset.
Like now this is my dream kitchen.
Like, that's it.
Um, and then there's me and Colby riding first class, which I did actually really
try when I rebooked my tickets, we were flying through the night and Colby was
like, I think it might be worth it to book first class.
Um, it was booked.
I didn't get to do that.
We almost didn't even get to sit together and I don't like to fly.
So that wouldn't have been pleasant, but it was literally probably
the worst flight of my life.
And then, um, all the way to the left is that chat to BT says that's me running.
Um, I love to run and it's like a peace of mind thing more
so than a exercise thing.
Um, I started during COVID because I had a newborn and we were staying with my
parents because we didn't have good internet.
My husband was working from home and I was like going out of my head, right?
Like, and I don't know, like, it was just like Forrest Gump.
Like I just started running and like, I just felt like my mind
like got like, so clear.
Danielle, stop laughing.
I told you not to put me on record.
But, um, last year in September, actually on my birthday weekend, we went out for
my birthday and I tore a ligament in my knee.
And so I've been doing physical therapy ever since.
And I, I have been given the clearance to run again.
I just have not worked up the courage to do said running again, because it really
like my knee popped completely out of place.
So it was like a terrifying experience.
Like it was stuck, like it was stuck.
Um, so I've been kind of, I've been nervous to do it, but it's on
my vision board, so it has to happen.
And I think that everything else is pretty much self-explanatory.
But that is amazing, Michaela.
Thank you.
Yay.
Give her a round of applause.
Hasn't slept for 24 hours.
You'll know I'm done.
Okay.
And I'm going to stop sharing.
So I love how you put running on there, uh, because not everybody here knows that
she's dealing with an injury and actually she can't like even running right now
feels like a stretch.
And so that's, that's the point of having a vision.
Our visions have to supersede what we currently see.
It's the whole point.
And our brains can believe whatever we tell it.
I'm telling you, it's like tapping into this power we have been given in our brains.
And you know, even Michaela, uh, anybody relate to this one?
She said, you know, I designed a, I designed my kitchen 10 years ago and like I've outgrown
it.
Like it, I'm a different woman.
Now I have different style.
And how many of you are feeling like your life, like there's parts of your current life
that you can see that you feel like you've outgrown or you're, you're just ready for
something else.
Anybody else like feeling that 10, there's a tension that comes upon us and there's a
real tension because it's requires growth, right?
To go, to do something different, to see something you've never seen before.
It requires something of you that you, you ha it demands growth.
It demands growth.
Now, where does growth come from y'all?
Not the comfort zone.
No, it comes from being out of your comfort zone, out of things that do not feel very
good.
So I want to remind you all that doing this kind of work in your mind is really, really
important to go beside you as you grow and go beside you as you build, go beside you
as you say yes to things that you've, you don't know what's going to happen.
Now, here's one other thing I want to say is you don't know how things are going to
look.
We, the whole point is we do these vision things.
is we do this mindset work, but at the end of the day,
the result may take another 10 years.
It may take for some of us six months
to see some of these things realized.
And do not, don't get caught up in timelines.
Notice how all, notice the work we've just done
over the past like six weeks, there was no timeline.
Did you all notice that?
The only timeline was doing 67 days for your brain prime.
That's it.
And there's a reason for that,
for when you're doing visualizations in the brain.
Now, there is a time for a timeline,
but not in this particular kind of work
because this really can set off a lot
of scarcity and anxiety.
And so first we wanna kind of say,
how can we switch our thoughts up
so that they're in alignment with where we wanna go
and then begin to create timelines.
So I wanna say one thing is earlier, Amy,
I saw your question in the chat
and Amy asked about from the 67 day book,
from the book we just read
and all of this work we've just done.
Do you guys remember kind of how to break down the boulder,
the rock and the pebble?
So this kind of is like the next step is like,
okay, I have this grandiose vision
that obviously a vision,
the whole point is we don't see it yet.
How do I like bring that down to the day-to-day?
And this is really important too,
because it is in your day-to-day that stacks
to be able to create and go towards the vision.
So a bolt, like a big idea is something in your business
like think about your bigger boulder being,
this is something I wanna get done
in the next couple of months.
That's what a boulder is.
What do I want to see done in the next couple of months?
Now we're gonna start to put a little bit
of timeline on things, okay?
So where, in the next couple of months,
let's just say you wanna launch your product, okay?
Or put on a retreat or get two new clients
or I'm trying to think of everyone in the room here.
Um, finish your funnel and get leads in your funnel.
Okay, those could be like bigger,
I want this done in the next one to three months
kind of thing.
You first figure that out and then you break it down
into what are the specific things I need to get done
to get there.
So if it's, you know, getting,
well, I'm trying to think of a very practical step
for you guys.
If it's, you know, launching your second product,
you break it down and say, okay, what are the next pillars,
the next rocks that I need to focus on?
And those take like hours.
Think in terms of hours, not months, but like hours.
Like, okay, if I'm going to make sure my listing
is up to date, that's gonna take me quite a few hours
to finish, you know, we're talking new images
or looking at your language or working with somebody
to help create that, right?
Like all of that will take a couple of hours.
And then the pebbles, you break it down
like 30 minute chunks.
Okay, what can I do this week in 30 minutes,
30 minutes, 30 minutes, 30 minutes to go towards that?
Does that make sense, everybody?
I'm doing it a little general here
because all of you are working on something
a little different in your business right now.
And so also 30 minutes is the recommended time
for your brain to like be able to start
and finish one thought.
That's what Shannon Irvine says.
Now you guys have heard it.
All of you know how your brain works best.
Maybe you like to do one hour on, one hour off.
Maybe you like to do three hour chunks of like deep work
and then you're done for the day, right?
Or, you know, you have that one half hour in the day
and it's sacred.
So you pick the next best task to do in that time.
That's gonna move you forward
towards what you're working on.
Okay, Amy, what's your question?
Okay, thanks.
So I guess it was my understanding
that you have your boulder
and then the rocks are like the 30 minute chunks, right?
I guess I'm confused with the pebbles are supposed to be.
So I think she was saying,
so like,
Like you have one of your boulders
and then the 30 minute thing to break it down
are the rocks.
And then I get, so yeah, what are the, I guess, pebble.
I guess I'm confused on the pebble part.
Okay, maybe I said it wrong,
but essentially the idea is you have something small
like that's achievable in a day, which is like a pebble.
Like it's really, really small.
It's breaking like your big vision
down into something really, really tangible.
So like, so for you, that's, you know, whatever's tangible.
Like I can actually get done today.
Something that takes you 10 to 12 hours,
you're not going to get done in a day.
You might not even get it done in a week.
It may take you two to three weeks kind of depending
on how much time you like are creating to work
towards your vision.
So essentially it's 30 minute chunks throughout your week
that kind of go towards the bigger project
that goes towards the vision.
Okay.
Is that helpful?
Yes.
Yeah, it is.
I think I'm just getting stuck on the labels of the things
and I'm like wanting to see like, I don't know.
Okay.
What the pebbles are.
I don't really explain it in the book
and I think I'm just getting stuck there
and I need to just be like.
So here's what I want to say to you.
Break down, did you do your time audit?
No, I haven't.
Okay, that's your first step.
That's why you're feeling stuck.
Okay.
Because you can't even like find a 30 minute chunk
in your day if you don't know when you're available
or have committed to a time to work.
Okay.
So do that.
I'm telling you that's gonna help you
so that you know what you're working with, your own time.
Then you can be like, okay, this is the chunk of time
I'm gonna work on here.
This is the chunk I'm gonna work on here.
Okay.
Okay?
Okay.
All right, you got this girl.
I'm reading what Christie said in the chat real quick.
Oh, an anti-vision board.
That's interesting.
Has anyone heard of an anti-vision board?
That's interesting, yeah.
I think a lot of the times when people are talking
about vision board,
that's supposed to be a really positive motivational thing.
And there's like this tendency to say, you know,
like where you are now, it's not a bad thing.
You're building your future self
in everything that you've done before
is like building blocks to your future.
It's all positive, positive, positive.
But I think like, you know, just in a tangible way,
like taking a picture of your real life, current kitchen
and then putting it beside like your dream kitchen,
like you can feel your brain like moving away from like,
okay, that's who I was, that's what I wanted then.
But this is where I wanna be now, kind of, you know,
where you're making a path in your brain,
like how to get there.
Yeah, no, that's really cool.
I don't remember who said that.
That's really cool.
Who was it?
I'm typing up my notes.
Well, Chrissy's starting us off.
So from the next 10-ish minutes,
we're gonna do some takeaways.
So keep that in mind, just like we've got 10-ish minutes.
So don't like take up the whole 10 minutes with your share,
but like something that'll support us
or add to the group.
So Chrissy, who was that?
Zach, who had a baby at like less than 12 hours
before speaking.
Yes.
It was one of his like, you know,
ramblings beyond the slides.
Yeah, no, thank you.
That is so, I'm totally missed that part.
So see, this is why that's really cool.
She just shared something that I was in the room
and I didn't even catch.
So now we all get to catch this.
We get to like add that into our toolbox here.
So thank you.
Yeah, Zach, literally his wife had a baby
like 12 hours prior and then he drove
and was up on that stage, y'all.
That was wild.
It was wild.
All right, who's next?
Who wants to share a takeaway
or something you thought was really interesting
or who's next?
Michelle.
I can go Danielle.
Okay, Michaela, sure.
Yeah, I was just really trying
to make me say something stupid.
Yeah, yes.
So I think that.
I mean, everybody was amazing, like freaking mind blowing. But
I think Colin Boyd made like the probably like where I was like
where I am like he I think he made because I literally was
like working on my conversion story. And I think I was putting
way too much thought into it. And like he literally just
walked up and gave a conversion story. And then explained like,
Hey, this is what you're feeling and why you're feeling it. So I
think that was really helpful. He said, you know, for like your
conversion story, like don't just talk about like, don't just
tell the story, like be conscious of how you tell it,
like, when, you know, whatever the thing is, like, whatever. So
you find, you know, you figure out what your moment was, where
like, things changed, you go back to when you like first
realized the problem, and describe that moment. And he
said to like, use the senses, you know, what, what did you see
like in that moment? What did you hear in that moment? How did
you then go to like, switch over like how you feel. And so that
was really helpful to me, like, I literally went back to my room
and well, actually, the next morning, because the time
change had me up every morning, like 4am. So the next morning,
like sat down and wrote my conversion story. And it was so
different than because I mean, I do, you know, I like to write,
but I'm not very descriptive with like, the senses. And I
thought that was really helpful.
I love that. Thanks for sharing that. And also, it kind of
aligns with the 3d vision, like writing to where Shannon says to
you know, incorporate all of your senses. So especially
Colin said this to you know, when you're speaking in front of
a group, and if you begin to feel emotional about it, number
one to like, look like look up because there's something about
looking up that calms your brain in that moment. So I thought
that was like a real practical tip for all of us who are going
to go speak in front of people. And then also, he said, if
you're feeling emotional, he said, it's okay to feel
emotion. But remember that feeling that emotion when
speaking is for the for the person you're speaking to not
just for you. And I thought that was really powerful to also I'm
reading Colin Boyd's book. And I was reading it right before I
got there. And he was a last minute add on to the retreat.
And so I was like fangirling and I and he signed my book. And
I was like, just that was such a special moment for me as somebody
who was not expecting to meet him or anything. And he's just
like a normal person. Anybody else like these speakers are just
like normal people who decided to take a risk and go all in on
themselves and go all in on their businesses. And now they
have all of these success stories that they get to share
with other people and teach other people how to do it. So I
thought that was really, really cool. I'll find I'll find a link
to his book, Shuri. What else? What are some other takeaways
for you guys? Something you want to share?
I can share something. I think like when I went to the in
person event in October, I didn't even have my like
business or anything. Well, I had a business and then I had
like an Amazon product that I was like attempting to do
something with. And then I jumped into the business
accelerator and went like, kind of 180 in a different direction.
And that has been great. But I've been really specific in the
like digital products that I'm building. And really focused on
like that, like area like niche if you want to. And I think I
think it was like everybody, all of the speakers contributed to
this, but I think it was the process of like, starting the
book writing that got me to kind of like shift my mindset from
like, because I'm looking at like immunity support for busy
moms if I'm going to be like really specific, but as I was
writing things down about like the ideal avatar and like, what
I want to provide them, it got a lot deeper into like, helping
them like believe in themselves, helping them like know their
worth, right, which is like so much deeper than just like
providing tips on immune support. So I think it was just
that, like, being there and working through some of those
processes and like, getting deeper into me and what healed
me and got me to where I am realize that I need to share
that with other people more fully. So it was just a bit of a
like transformation in my business and my goals and like
where I think I'm going. So that's kind of like a personal
take, maybe not something that everybody can like, take from.
But, um, uh, yes, girl, anybody taking from what Margo just said,
like realizing that the, the deep, this is, this is a brand.
Boom. There it is. It's not a product. It's deeper.
And you just got connected, more connected with that. Margo.
How beautiful.
Yeah. I think that's what it was. It was like,
I've been working on like a product that has a very specific offering or a
couple of products.
But I think what I ended with was like a brand that I
want to, which is kind of already what I'm about,
but it was so much clearer, like the past feels clearer.
I have a book that's like started about that, that I like,
I'm ready to like write out.
I wish I had a day in the sun like Michaela did yesterday.
So I could have made some progress, but, um, yeah,
like just really transformational, I guess.
So if you have the opportunity to go to one in the future,
I would highly encourage it.
Yeah. No, thanks for saying that.
We are planning on we're planning our next guys.
We are planning our next event in the next two weeks.
So we will have details months in advance this time.
Okay. We're up in our game over here. So be on the lookout.
It's probably going to be some time in may. So yes, we're,
we're trying not to do Memorial day weekend. So we are,
we are, I can't tell, I don't have all the deets stay tuned.
We're some time in may. So yeah,
exactly. See,
it's like a lot harder to just pick a day to like build to do this.
So, um,
we're leaning towards the middle of may in between both of those holidays.
So we'll keep you guys posted. All right, Melissa.
Okay. All right. Um,
I, uh, so I think to kind of go along with what Margo said,
it's kind of in that same line, but I think I went into it into the weekend,
like thinking I have two opposite, not opposite,
but like two very different directions. Like I have this,
I'm going through the brand building course and coming up with something, you
know, and it's got to do with this thing. And then I also did the,
then I did the AI AI, uh, certification course. And I'm like, okay,
I love this. Like, I just have so much fun with it.
And so what I ended up when I went in and went into the weekend,
I had this website I built and it was from the AI
certification. So it was targeting,
making websites for service businesses.
So I started out like thinking snowplow businesses,
but as I'm thinking about the brand building stuff,
and then we go into this thing and I'm like thinking about like
what, and that last guy,
so there's a last guy who talked and he's talking about how we all have a core
value and a core kind of purpose that was put into us from before
we were born. And no matter what vehicle or what thing we
choose,
there's still that core value and that core thing that goes with you.
And you have to tap into it and you have to like do the work to make sure you
know what that is and make sure you're staying true to it.
And it just like dawned on me and I'm like, well,
it does make sense because I was thinking AI separate,
like other brand buildings separate, but like the core value was service.
Like I was like,
I want to serve the people who serve and I love to help people.
And if I like the very first thing I did when I got to this conference was,
I don't know a single person. And I saw Sally, who's not on here,
but I'm like, aren't you Sally? And she's like, well, yes, I am.
And I was like, well, if you're going to be here for a minute. Oh yeah.
I just bought this computer and this phone and I don't know how to use it.
And I'm like, well, I can show you. And like, like within like,
I'm not even kidding, 15 minutes. I'm like, she gave me her password.
And I was like, you know, setting her up. But it was like,
I just recognized like I come alive when I get to like just help people.
And so the actual,
there is really not a difference between the two directions.
It's all coming from the same core value that I want to serve.
And I want to help people who serve and help people.
So that was just like really helpful and really exciting
because it made me more excited to like follow this AI
direction because it's fun for me. I'm good at it.
And then it doesn't like, I used to think before this weekend,
well, I'm doing that thing,
but that's not the real thing that I'm like really like want like,
cause I was thinking about the brand building and now I'm like,
it's all part of the same inspiration, I guess.
So anyway, so that was that. I will say one other.
thing is, and I put this on the little gap, Gabby put something for comments, but like
I'm telling you what, like, Danielle, your voice is like in my head all the time, like
even when you went up at that, she, when you sit in the room and you're listening to people,
you will hear Danielle going, come on, come on, like, Bridget, come on, it's like, now
I have it in my head, and I'll just like, say it to myself, like, come on, that's right,
come on, bring it sister, you know, I just love that, it was wonderful to have that in
person.
Oh man, what a powerful share, Melissa, I'm just here, what I'm hearing is your vision's
expanding and you're getting more clarity, and that, it's really, sometimes an in-person
event triggers that, like, triggers something different in all of us, it's really, we can't
pinpoint exactly what's going to happen for each person, but there is something really
powerful about getting in the room and literally rubbing shoulders with people we spend so
much time with online, so thank you for that, Melissa, and yes, I am your girl, I am a hype
woman from the audience, I will let y'all, if y'all are speaking someday, I will, and
I'm in the audience, you will know I am there, because I know how that changes the atmosphere
of a room too, and yeah, it was just really powerful, and just seeing every speaker's
different personality and what they brought and how they found success in their business,
I think was a really great outline of just different types of ways to build our business,
and yes, and then exactly, Margot, the passion, like, they're all in tune with their passion
and like, what they want to see in the world, and let's not forget, for example, Colin has
been in business for almost 18 years, so that makes sense, like, I'm like, wow, imagine
myself in 18 years, you know, I haven't given up, I kept going, you know, Colin talked about
how he used to have like half of a client when it was like, they're kind of paying me,
they're kind of not, and then he spoke at an event, and at that event, out of 100, I
think it was 68 people, like 140 opted into his free thing that he gave, and from there,
he had 10 paying clients, and over that one event, turned into a six-figure business,
like he went from like $400 a month to over six figures within like a couple of weeks.
That's the power, right, of like getting in the room, meeting the right people, hearing
what somebody else has to say, and how that could impact you, or how you could say something
to impact somebody else, and exactly, they all met at events like this, that's what we're
doing here too, we don't actually know where all of our businesses are gonna go, but here's
what matters, is, you know, being the CEO of your own life, and your own direction on
where you want to go, and like grabbing what you need for that, and that's what this community
is for, we all want to see each other win as well, right, we were, you know, Michaela
was talking about a retreat, I actually got an idea for a retreat and a book as well,
myself, this weekend, that was not on my radar, like at all, yeah, and then it just like clicked,
and then I'm, I like took action in it, and now I have, now I have like 24 potential leads
for this retreat, like from doing just one thing, and it's just like, I've never, I've
never ran a retreat before, by the way, I've helped run other people's events, but I've
never actually done it before, but it's like, you know, why not, you know, why not, it could
be a really cool thing, and then I think another thing is, you know, there can also
just be a lot of resistance in rooms like this too, because it's like, our brains just,
we have negative thoughts and beliefs that also come up, you know, when we're in the
room with successful people who have actually gone to do the thing, and so I thought it
was really powerful how, you know, anybody, like when this guy was going to get up, Billy
Sticker, and he was going to talk about writing a book, you know, I guarantee you there were
thoughts in the room like, well, I'm not writing a book, like how am I going to write a book,
what do you mean, that's a lot, and then he just broke it down on how quick you could
actually just like self-publish and get a book made, and like he just, it was, he, anybody,
he just made it seem so easy, and I was like, okay, I guess I'm about to be a published author
in the next six weeks too, like throw that on, why not, you know, as it
being a lead magnet and he talks about it being a lead magnet and creating.
Oh, what's the word?
When you guys, what's the word?
My brain is going blank when it's creates
authority, like authority when you go into places, what's the word I'm looking for?
Not authority, but.
Well, anybody know what word I'm trying to find?
Credibility. Yes, that's it.
Credibility, you know.
And so I thought that was really powerful, too.
And there's just like a lot of things we can all do for our businesses.
Are there recordings from the event?
I do not think there are not.
No, we were not recording it.
That is something that consider going forward, though, right?
That's probably something we could look into on how to record and then get those.
I'm going to add that to our list of things to think about.
So, oh, well, everybody.
Thank you so much for just saying yes
to your own dreams and your own self and your own vision.
And then that gets you into a room like this.
Now, some of you this week, your motivation and feelings
are going to wear off if they haven't already.
And so how you stay centered
is you come back to your brain prime, you come back to your vision
and you come back to what is my next best step?
That's where these little pebbles, these little like next best steps
to move your business forward this week.
That's what you come back to.
And hopping on a call this week,
that is where you need support.
And for example, if you're in, you know,
if you join the membership after your business accelerator,
we have a book we're doing.
So like showing up to that call tomorrow, that's tomorrow.
Or if you have your one on one coach or you meet with Gabby,
making sure you're meeting with her, checking with her.
Maybe there's a skill you need to learn this week and you want to put it off.
Well, set a 30 minute timer, work on it and celebrate yourself.
Say, good job, brain.
We did that 30 minute task and then keep going.
Do the next thing. All right.
OK, so we'll be on next week.
So next week I have a surprise guest coming on
and I'm going to interview her
and it's going to be really a really powerful session.
So that'll be next week.
And then, yeah, I'll have probably a different topic for you on the 16th
and then we'll do some on the spot mindset coaching on the 23rd.
And then that's kind of the vision for February.
All right. I'm so proud of all of you.
Keep going. Keep building.
This is a new week, a new month.
How refreshing, how exciting to know.
Hey, one speaker said this.
He said, if I'm standing up here and I'm successful
and I'm able to teach all of you this, then why can't you do it?
Why can't you?
And I say and I say, I leave that with all of us.
Why can't why not us? Right. Why not us?
So enjoy your week to make sure you have some fun,
create some joy, some smiles.
And I so look forward to being with you all next Monday.
I will say this and to the person on this call who I'm going to be interviewing.
You're still going to be here no matter what.
My sister is due with her baby.
On Monday.
So and I'm the one who gets to support her in that,
you know, around all that, so there is a small chance
I might not be leading the call, but somebody else would lead it.
Or worst case, we would have to cancel and we'll just pick back up the week after.
But I wanted to let you guys know that.
So also, if you could pray for my sister, she's
y'all remember when you had your first baby, she's nervous,
she's feeling some anxiety, but she's like she has all her affirmations.
She has she's like has her plan.
She's like, I'm open to my plan going to a whole nother plan.
I'm like, that's the spirit.
That's the mindset, because it rarely goes to plan.
Am I right? Am I right, everyone? So
all things. Yeah, I am so honored to be able to support her in this.
It's such a vulnerable thing to let somebody in on. Right.
And I didn't realize how vulnerable that was.
So so, yeah, I might or I might be an ant by the time I see you guys next Monday.
I will see. OK, thank.
you everybody. I'm okay, Karin, I will. I appreciate that. I
might actually take you up on that. Okay. Cool. I just
appreciate all of you have an amazing week. I will. I got you
girl. Thank you so much. No, I got you. Oh, no, you got me.
Yeah. Yeah. Okay. All right. All right, everyone. Enjoy your
week. I'll see you next Monday. Bye.