All right. Welcome to Supernatural Saturday, you guys. Today is February 14th, also known
as Valentine's Day. And you know, people make a big deal about this holiday. We'll call
it a holiday lightly. I mean, the origins of it are pretty macabre. St. Valentine and
all the different things, you know, what happened later. I mean, obviously all of the saints
were martyred in some way, but the bottom line is, is that we have made this into a
very huge pressure cooker for singles, right? It's like, Oh, I got to have someone on Valentine's.
I want to have a Valentine. And it starts all the way back in grade school. Doesn't
it? I don't know about you guys, but I went to parochial school. I went to Catholic school
from first grade. I'm sorry, from second grade to fifth grade. And we had a lot of events.
We had a lot of celebrations in private school. And one of the things that we did, and we
did this in public school too. Now that I'm thinking about it, in fact, it kind of got
worse as I got older, if I'm being honest. But one of the things that we did is we had,
you know, you're, you're supposed to make a little Valentine's box. Did you guys do
this as well? We made a Valentine's box or you brought a bag and you decorated it. And
they had you do this before Valentine's getting ready. The anticipation of Valentine's was
building and building and building and building. You know, you're making this box and you're,
you're decorating or you're making a special bag. And what was that for? Everyone in the
class was supposed to bring a Valentine. You guys, they still sell them. But when we were
kids, that's all they sold. And that was a little paper Valentine's that came in the
box. You took them out. You, you took them off their perforation. You separated them
and you wrote on the back of them, or you just wrote someone's name. Usually just wrote
someone's name on it because the card said everything that you needed to say. It said,
you're cute. It said, um, I like you or, you know, it said something like, you're awesome.
You know, just something kind of neutral. And of course you wanted to take the ones.
Yeah. We had conversation hearts. We had a little hearts, a little, the little candies.
I just had a Valentine's, um, wasn't really a Valentine's, but it's around Valentine's
day, but we had a singles event here in Austin, Texas called off the apps. And I ordered a
bunch of cookies that look like conversational hearts. And those were a big hit. And those
were super cute. Let me see what this says real quick. It says start AI. Oh yeah. My
AI companion wants to come into the meeting to take notes for me. This is a feature of
zoom. You guys, it's not mine. Okay. And so we'd be waiting and anticipating and, you
know, usually we had a crush or someone we liked, even in grade school, you had a boy
or a girl that you hoped would give you, you know, one of those better Valentine's in your
bag, something that gave you some sort of clue, some sort of idea, how they felt about
you, right. That they thought you were pretty, or they thought that you were fun or just
whatever. And so I will tell you that I have been five, eight since the fifth grade I'm
five 10. Now, um, the boys didn't like me. Um, so boys, how do you like me now? Um, but
they didn't like me then you guys, they didn't like me in grade school. They also didn't
like me in high school. I was taller than most boys until later in the years. And so
in high school, even I had an out of town boyfriend. I was one of those girls that had
an out of town boyfriend. I had a boy that I met at camp who also is my ex-husband and
the father of my daughter Reagan. And I met him when I was 12, you guys. And so we had
a long distance, like writing love letter relationship. From the time we were 12, we
started dating in person at 16. We broke up at not at, we broke up at 17. We started dating
in person at 15. We broke up at 17. We got back together at 19. We got married at 20.
We got divorced at 32. Okay. So, um, yeah, not kind of the love story that you want,
but it was, it was a love story that I have when I was a kid, but I never had proximity
love story. I never dated a boy that came to my house and picked me up that went to
my school. And some of you guys had those. Um, but Valentine's day has always been a
lot of pressure. I remember in high school, the Valentine's, the paper Valentine's turned
into about two weeks before Valentine's day, during your lunch period, you could buy a
carnation. They had white ones, red ones, and pink ones. And they all meds meant something
different. The red ones meant love. The pink ones meant, I don't know, like maybe,
and that white ones meant friendships. You could give them to your same sex friends,
you know, and people were popular, uh, got a lot of those. And then during homeroom on
Valentine's day. And if Valentine's day was on the weekend, it would be that Friday homeroom.
They would deliver these carnations and everybody would wait for the knock on the home.
from door of that flower delivery was usually the student council because it was some kind
of fundraiser for them and they would show up and those carnations would be marked with
people's names and they would start handing them out.
You guys, I think that I said this on a prayer morning, but I never got any carnations, not
from friends.
I was really bullied in school.
I didn't have a lot of friends in school that went to my school.
I had a lot of friends that I knew from other places, but not from school.
And one year during lunch period, I specifically went to a lunch period of a lesser grade where
no one knew me and I sent some carnations to myself.
So that when that homeroom door knock happened and they came in with the carnations, I wouldn't
be sitting there with all the other losers that didn't have a carnation.
And you know what?
There's nothing wrong with buying flowers for yourself, ladies.
If you want to buy flowers for yourself today, you do it, girl.
You buy flowers for yourself.
Gentlemen, if you want to buy yourself some candy or donuts or pastries or whatever it
is that guys want, some banana bread.
I heard that men want banana bread for Valentine's day.
My husband is over here saying, yes, he does want that.
And so if you want some banana bread, then dang it, either make yourself some, there's
good recipes on the internet, or you can buy yourself some because it's okay to treat
yourself.
And I just want to let you guys know, this is not the subject of today's Supernatural
Saturday, but it's okay to treat yourself, treat yourself.
It's all right.
Make sure that you're taking care of you.
You want something today, treat yourself.
It's important that we understand that we're in a love relationship with ourselves way
before we let someone else join the party.
That's not conceited.
That's not narcissistic.
If you don't love yourself, actually it will come out in your choices.
It will come out in the choices that you make about everything about food, about clothing,
about rest, taking some time to rest.
It'll, it'll come out in obviously your romantic choices.
And so it's really important that we start to love ourselves.
You want to take yourself out tonight?
Good luck getting a reservation even for one anywhere.
But if you want to take yourself to a movie, if you want to take yourself somewhere this
weekend, then you need to do it.
Sorry guys, I just got off the news and I'll talk about that in a second and my mouth is
kind of dry.
Okay.
So also, also we have a speed dating event.
We have partnered with arc for a speed dating event.
It's not today on Valentine's day, it is tomorrow on Sunday.
And the link to join that is in the resource group in your app.
So whatever app group you're in, go to the resource tab, click it and you will find the
link to get registered for that.
And it's tomorrow.
It's not today.
All right.
I went and saw that solo mio also with a gallon time with my friend, Bethany, we went and
saw solo mio.
It was kind of slow.
It was really cute.
I love the ending.
If you haven't seen it, the endings fun.
So yeah, go see it for sure.
And support angel angel productions.
You know that that's, I mean, it's, they're making wholesome stuff.
You know, they're the, they're the original producers of the chosen and they're making
good stuff.
Okay.
So yeah, go see that angel studios.
They're making some, some better, some better stuff that doesn't have all the gratuitous
sex and violence and profanity.
Um, I do have friends that use that, that app to cleanse the movies.
You can watch all the popular movies, but you can watch it through, I think it's called
angel as well.
Is that what it's called?
Angel video or something?
No, that the thing that cleanses the movies and takes all the crap out of them.
It's called Vin angel.
I have it.
Okay.
There you go.
Bit angel.
I knew that angel was in the title.
So you guys, you can, you can buy that subscription and you can watch movies and you can decide
what you want taken out.
There's some movies that the movie would probably only be 20 minutes long if you had all the
stuff taken out that you didn't want to see.
But yeah, that's also, um, and also an option for those of you that want to watch some of
your favorite movies, but you feel kind of convicted about the fact that they have a
bunch of garbage in them, right?
Movies are trash nowadays and you're watching a movie and it's really good.
And you get really just get slimed by it because eventually they have some kind of scene in
there where you're like, that wasn't even necessary.
It wasn't necessary to the plot.
They just have to put it in there because it's propaganda.
now, right? And they're trying to desensitize us to violence or
to gore or to, you know, sex outside of covenant relationship.
And, you know, a lot of movies are just even soft pornography
nowadays. And so we definitely have to be careful of that. So
also not what Supernatural Saturday is about. Supernatural
Saturday is kind of about what happened to me today. So today I
was on ABC in New York City at the Disney at Disney Productions
at Disney studios. I was on remote from here, from my
podcast studio, but I was invited to be there in person.
You guys, I've done about four or five news clips this this
week. Six, my husband's saying six, I did six appearances on
different news broadcasts on television all over the country,
Las Vegas, Idaho, Atlanta. You know, so we are spreading the
word about last year's single. So expect a lot of new people
in this net, you know, new men, ladies in this net, because men
watch the news. And so I did that. And then I did some
podcasts this week. I also did some radio interviews this week
on on drive time, which is mainly men listening as well to
that. What's so exciting about that is not just throwing out
the net to bring in new people, but God is really getting the
word out of what we're doing around here. And you know, it's
really fun. But you know, Valentine's week is is my Super
Bowl. It's my Super Bowl. Because this is the week where
everyone has their minds focused on love. And so if you are
having a hard time, because you're having FOMO on Valentine's
Day, there's no reason for you to have FOMO. You need to take
care of yourself, love yourself well. Understand that this could
be your last Valentine's Day single. And also understand that
people put their highlight reels of all the presents they got or
the dinner they're going to but those relationships are trash.
Are you listening to me? Not all of them, but a lot of them. You
guys I know a lot of married folks and you do too that their
relationships are really not that great. Are they? They don't
get along they fight. They make all kinds of underhanded
comments to each other. There's just a lack of respect. There's
a lack of humility. There's a lack of honor. Marriage is
struggling out there. And so it's good that you've been in
here doing the work so that you don't have a marriage like that.
No marriage is perfect. And there's always going to be
conflict. But healthy conflict and conflict are not the same
thing. And so when you see people's highlight reels of
people posting their bouquets of roses in there, and they're
trips and their dinners and all the things you need to
understand that that is for the gram. Who knows what those
relationships are like behind closed doors. And I'm just going
to tell you, because this is what I do, as my vocation,
marriage is struggling, and a lot of married people are
struggling. So do not think the grass is greener on the other
side, it is good that you are taking time to defuse the bombs
that are waiting to go off someday in marriage so that that
doesn't happen. So that's good stuff. Okay. So you might say,
Jackie, why are you not in New York City? Why aren't you there
taking advantage of that amazing opportunity? Well, I'm glad you
asked. Because I had the flights booked, I had the hotel room
booked. And you guys it is what's it called fashion week in
New York City right now. And so it was stacked in New York City,
it was hard to find a hotel room, I really had to do a lot
of, you know, digging and research to be able to get there
in the first place. And then I just had to cancel it. And the
reason why I had to cancel it is because I wasn't ready for it.
And that is what today's Supernatural Saturday is about.
So I want to ask you this question, have you ever in your
life had an opportunity come? And you couldn't take it? And it
wasn't because God didn't open the door for you? It wasn't
because you didn't have favor, it was because you were not
ready. You were not ready. And I wasn't ready, you guys, because
I've been putting off some really important things that
have to do with my hormones. I've been so busy with you guys
last year, single and all the things that we do behind the
scenes to try to get that net out there to get more singles in
to make more community based matches, to give you guys what
you need. And I love what I do. But the problem is, is that I've
neglected some things that I need to be doing for myself. I
took a sabbatical last summer for the same reason. I didn't
take a sabbatical because I wanted to you guys I took a
sabbatical because I hit a wall. It was a forced sabbatical
because my body just
thought it stopped working. My digestive health stopped working. I lost over 20 pounds
because I couldn't eat. It was just not a good scene. And you would think I would learn from
that. And I did learn some things from that, but guess what? A lot of times, as soon as whatever
the crisis is, it's over. It doesn't matter if it's a health crisis or some other kind of crisis,
we're a hundred miles an hour back at the same old crap as we were before because we didn't learn
our lesson. And I just want to tell you that I believe that there's all kinds of amazing
opportunities with your name on them in 2026. We're only 45 days in friends. That's it. 45
days into 2026. And I believe that there's all kinds of open doors, all kinds of favor,
all kinds of things over the horizon that you cannot see coming that are coming, but God is
giving us a grace period right now to get ready for them right now. That was what was on my heart.
Jackie, use this as an example, kind of air, your dirty laundry, let people know that you're
not perfect. Let them know that you're, you know, we're in the same pants as they are basically.
But I didn't learn. I learned some things. Okay. I did, um, from my crash out last summer,
but I still have been busy doing other things and not getting this hormone stuff regulated.
And ladies over 50, you know what I'm talking about? You know, menopause is it's a whole thing.
It's a whole thing. And it affects how you feel. It affects your energy level. It affects your
sleep. And so that's something that has been really affected for me lately. They try to
change my, my dose of hormones. And when they changed it to fix one thing, they broke five
other things. And so I really, really want it to go. I want it to go to New York city.
I want it to be on ABC live in New York city at Disney studios. I wanted to do that. And you know
what? There'll be more opportunities. I'm sure of it, but God is giving me this grace period,
this acknowledgement of, Hey, you know what? You miss this opportunity because you weren't
ready because you've been putting things off that you don't need to be putting off anymore.
So this is not a condemnation session. This is not a pressure session, but this is a revelation
session for us to do what we need to do in order to be ready for what God has for us.
Okay. And the other thing that I was doing is I overscheduled myself as well.
So even if I was feeling great and I was sleeping great, my hormones were balanced and all that
stuff was great. I still would have really put myself in some, in a bad situation to take this
opportunity because I had myself all scheduled out with all kinds of other things this week,
including a singles event. And that's not a bad thing, but that singles event ended late at night,
11, 12 o'clock at night. And I would have had to leave at four o'clock the next morning to go to
New York. And while four hours of sleep is plenty, if you don't have to do that all the time,
I already was only getting like four hours of sleep. So there was just all kinds of reasons
why it just wasn't the right thing to do. And I got to take the opportunity. I was on remote.
I just didn't get to go there in person. So let me ask you this, be honest with yourself,
be honest with God. He already knows. So you can't lie to him. What have you been putting off?
You can tell us nothing. We don't know because we don't know your private prayer history.
We don't know your procrastination history. We don't know what your house looks like,
or your closets look like. We don't know what your schedule looks like. Only you know that.
So you're on the honor system right now. What have you been putting off? Also,
what haven't you scheduled that needs to get scheduled? And you think about it all the time.
Oh, I need to do that. I need to do that. I need to do that. I need to do that. I need to schedule
someone to come and pick up this junk in my front yard. I need to do that. You're like,
well, how does the junk in my front yard have to do with my love life? It is taking up bandwidth.
It is taking up margin. Whether you know it or not, we are like a browser with a million windows
open. Have you ever had a million windows open on your browser? All the ladies should be saying yes,
because I know you do. Right? Every once in a while, I have to take my phone and I have to
swipe up and I have to close every single app that I have open. And it's usually about 50 or 60.
Because let's go from one thing to another, one thing to another. I know that we pride ourselves
on multitasking, but it gets a little crazy after a while. Okay. So what paperwork isn't done?
Someone has paperwork out there that needs to be finished.
Paperwork that you haven't filled out. Maybe it's for registration for something.
Maybe it's filling out something so that you can get an upgrade on something. I don't know,
but someone has paperwork out there that hasn't been done. Cindy's saying it's retirement paperwork.
Come on.
What haven't you gotten finished?
What part of your house, your apartment,
your condo, your townhome, you're double wide?
No judgment.
I think it'd be fun.
I actually am like, I'd like to live in an RV.
I like to live in a van down by the river, okay?
I'm good.
Smaller spaces that are more organized.
But what part of your home is still in chaos?
What part of your house is still a browser window open
just draining your battery,
draining your energy continuously?
You guys, we're in a grace period.
The theme, if you need a theme
for Supernatural Saturday today, it is grace period.
God is giving us a pregnant pause
to be able to do what we need to do.
You know, ladies that have had children,
go ahead and liken it to nesting.
Getting done a whole bunch of stuff
because you know that in the days to come,
you're not gonna have time to do that
because you're gonna be busy loving on
and enjoying the promises of God.
Does that resonate with anyone?
Being able to enjoy,
for those of you that have never had children,
there's this, like biologically, like from your body, okay?
What happens is, is you go into this state during your,
usually during your second and third trimester
where you're just getting a whole bunch of stuff done.
It's called nesting.
And the reason why you're doing it
is because your body knows biologically,
it's kind of hardwired in us,
that after the promise gets here, the baby,
after the promise gets here,
you will not have time to do that stuff.
And that stuff needs to be done.
So whether it's building a nursery,
whether it's buying little tiny clothes
or getting diapers ready or cooking and freezing meals,
if you have other children and a husband, whatever it is,
you know, you're getting that stuff done
because you want to make sure
that you can step into that new season
without any kind of, you know, stress.
And you guys, God wants us to step into this new season,
2026, without tripping over the threshold
and going flying into the new season, face first.
I've already missed one opportunity in 2026.
And I can tell you right now, I'm not gonna miss anymore.
I'm not gonna miss anymore.
So what conversation, let's get practical.
What conversation still needs to be had?
It hasn't happened.
What conversation still needs to happen
to your employer about the unpaid overtime
that you're working?
Maybe the conversation is to your elderly parents
because they expect you to be there 24 seven
and you have a life too.
You can't be there 24 seven.
I know you love your mom.
I know you love your dad.
I know you love your uncle, your aunt,
whoever the elderly person is that you're taking care of.
But you can't, maybe it's to your children
that you can't be Nona, you can't be grandma or grandpa.
You can't be their babysitting service 24 seven
because you have a life too.
You love your grandkids, but you have a life too.
Maybe that's the conversation.
Maybe you have to have a conversation with an assistant
live because it's time for mom or dad to go there,
whether they like it or not.
I remember when my father-in-law moved to Texas,
he wanted to live out here in the country.
We have plenty of room, but he has macular degeneration.
We were going to have to take his car keys when he got here.
Part of the reason why we moved him here
is because his neighbors were telling us
that he was driving blind, okay?
He was knocking over garbage cans.
He was doing all kinds of stuff out there in Reno
where he lived and we're like, hey,
Rob, it's time for you to come
and live in Texas near family.
And he's retired from the Air Force.
So he has an amazing pension.
So unlike a lot of, you know, senior citizens,
he's 86 years old, he has the finances to live
in what I call one of these resorts for old people.
You guys, I would live there.
It's for 55 and up and actually I'm almost there.
I'm 51, so I can live there soon, can't I?
It's like a cruise ship.
You walk in, it's beautiful, like a hotel.
And it has a, you know, it has a beautiful restaurant
that serves amazing food three, four times a day and snacks.
There's a lounge and a bar, they have happy hour.
There's a gym, there's a movie theater.
It's like a cruise ship.
And then he has a nice one bedroom apartment
on the third floor.
There's an elevator, of course,
and all the different things.
And so I, we went and toured these places
and I let him know, hey, you're gonna move here.
You can afford it with no problem.
It's not a stretch.
And you're gonna be around your peers.
You're gonna be around people to talk to and things to do.
And, you know, they have a shuttle that takes people
anywhere and everywhere they wanna go
because you can't drive anymore.
You gotta take your keys.
And we hate to do that.
We know you've, you know, it's sad when people
lose parts of their independence, you guys,
but it's for their safety and the safety of other people.
And he knew that he needed to do it.
So it wasn't a wrestling.
But these are conversations that need to be had and I don't know why I'm staying so long
on this because it's really important for some of you, I think.
But he wanted to live out here on our property and you guys, there's nothing out here.
It's several miles to the concrete jungle.
You have to be able to drive if you live out here.
And we're super busy.
We own our own company and we also have other things that we're super busy with and all
the things he would have been isolated out here.
No one to talk to, nothing to do most of the time, nowhere to go anywhere unless we took
him.
It would have been a bad decision.
And so I know that a lot of you are like, well, I'd love for, I'd love to take care
of my, my mother, my father, my elderly grandmother, whoever it is in your home.
Make sure that you're, you're not doing that out of misplaced loyalty.
You need to do what's best for you and for them.
Okay.
For you and for them, it has to be a win-win situation.
And so he is so happy he's lived there for three years now.
And he talks all the time about how much he loves it there.
He loves it there.
So maybe that's the conversation you need to have.
Okay.
Whatever those conversations are, they are, and like I said, they're, they're draining
your energy because you haven't had them yet.
So let's make sure that we have those conversations.
All right.
So there are things that are coming to you right now, go ahead and put them in the chat.
This is an interactive supernatural Saturday.
I see some people already put stuff up.
You know, some of you, you've been knowing that you need to move for a long time.
Okay.
They raised your rent.
You need to look for a better place.
You need to look for a better job.
Some of you have been needing to look for a better job for a long time, and then you'd
be able to afford to live where you're living now.
Some of you have roommates that it's time for them to go.
It's been time for them to go for a long time.
It's your house.
You love it.
You've had roommates.
Maybe you don't need it financially anymore, but you need to make room for your spirit
mate because guess what?
Your spirit mate is not going to want to live in a house with you and roommates.
Okay.
So maybe that's the situation that you need to resolve.
All of us have things that we need to do because when our time of visitation comes, you guys,
it's going to come.
Let me liken it to labor.
When labor comes, there's no, Oh wait, wait, wait, I got to go do this first.
No, there's none of that.
And remember when Jesus was walking the earth, there were people that could have been part
of Jesus's posse.
I know that he only chose 12 and I know that that's the recorded history, but we don't
know.
There could have been other people that could have been part of that inner circle, but when
he passed by their town, they wanted to go, but they couldn't because they had too many
loose ends to tie up.
And some of them made good excuses like, Oh, Hey, let me go bury my father.
And Jesus was like, let the bed, let the dead bury the dead.
Jesus was like, look, you know, if it's not the right timing for you, then just go do
what you got to do because we got to move forward.
And you guys, the kingdom is moving forward.
It's a forward moving model.
And so we don't want to miss out on any more opportunities, do we?
And once again, you guys, it's not about condemnation.
And so if you leave supernatural Saturday today, feeling like a loser and feeling bad
about yourself and feeling FOMO of all the things you've missed out on, you're missing
the point.
The point is, is that 2026 only has 45 days crossed off on the calendar.
There's a whole year in front of us.
And I believe that it's a year where the siege is over and the manifestation is here of the
promises of God.
We've already seen that happening in the first 45 days of this year with long awaited prayers
being answered.
Are you ready to take advantage of your day of visitation?
Are you, are you ready to estate planning?
You know, we need to do that.
I'm only 51 years old.
We're healthy.
David is 54 years old, but we don't have a will.
We don't have an estate.
My mom didn't leave a will.
She passed away at 64 years old.
She didn't leave a will or an estate.
She didn't leave anything to her children from her first marriage, me and my older brother.
I'm taking care of my older brother who's been homeless.
I'm the one that helped him get into a house.
My mom's money just went to, you know, her spouse when she passed away.
He doesn't have necessarily, you know, he's not our father, so he doesn't necessarily
have any, you know, I mean, in my opinion, he does.
But you know, things could have been different.
If my mom would have taken care of her business, if she would have tied up her loose ends.
And so it's important that we do that friends.
It's important that we do that.
You know, it's, it's important that we get done what we need to get done, however, however
that needs to happen.
And so I see people talking about how they need to get their health in order.
There's some of you that, you know, you've got some situations going on with your hormones.
You got some situations going on with all different types of things and you need to
get them resolved.
You need to get them resolved.
I'm just looking through here, weight loss.
Guys, I had a client that came in
and she had some huge breakthroughs.
I thought of her this morning.
So I'm glad someone said weight loss
because it's not about you not being able to attract someone.
It's not necessarily about the way you look or attraction.
It's about your health and it's about your energy level.
It's about all kinds of different things.
And if you say, oh, I have lots of energy now,
I'm a hundred pounds overweight.
I have a lots of energy and I think I look good.
Well, you know what?
Wait till you're 10 years older than now, right?
15 years older than now.
I can say at 51 years old,
it's hard to get the weight off already.
It's gonna even get harder
and you're gonna start feeling worse and worse.
So, you know, you can make excuses or we can make progress.
So she came into my program.
She was only in her thirties,
but she's probably 150 pounds overweight.
And she had gone through a divorce.
In fact, you guys that have been here for a while
have heard me tell her story before.
Her husband ghosted her.
He just didn't come home from work one day.
No explanation.
And then she got divorce papers in the mail.
She called missing persons.
She thought something terrible had happened to him.
She didn't even let her know that he was leaving.
That's a trauma, you guys.
That's a big T trauma to go through.
Until someone contacted her,
I think it was several days later
and let her know that, you know, that he wanted a divorce.
No explanation of why.
She thought they had a great marriage.
That's even worse.
If you have a really, you know,
if you have a trash marriage where you're always fighting
and it's always bad, you know, then that makes sense.
But when everything's copacetic and everyone seems happy
and someone does that, that's a big T trauma.
So she came into our community with that trauma
and we helped her do hard work and we helped her unpack it.
And God did some miracles along the way.
After being in our community for about a year and friends,
she needed a year of healing, at least a year of healing.
And when she was in for about a year or more,
she ran into her husband.
Remember, she had never seen him ever again.
The divorce was done by paperwork.
It was done by mail.
She never talked to him.
She never got a chance to find out.
She never got any closure.
She ran into him at a coffee shop.
And now it had been six years or more
since this had happened.
She'd only been with us for a year and a half,
but that had happened to her
at least five or six years before.
And when she ran into him, he's like,
I'm so glad I'm running into you.
I've wanted to contact you for years
and just let you know that this is about nothing about you.
It was all about me.
He wanted to meet up with her and talk more.
She said, yes, she got closure.
She got to understand what was going on
in his life at the time.
She'd already forgiven him.
And maybe that's the work that you need to do.
Those are the loose ends that you need to tie up.
Maybe you haven't done that forgiveness work.
For those of you that are just starting with us
in phase one, you need to focus on your heart work.
Please make sure that you do that
because that is the best thing that you can do
to make sure that you're prepared for what's coming in 26.
God has you on an accelerated plan.
And it's important that you do this
so that you don't have to continue to pull off the freeway,
liken it to a race car that keeps having
to go into the pit stop.
You don't want to do that.
You want to keep going, right?
And so she got this.
Let's make sure everyone's muted.
She got this beautiful gift.
And we don't always get that gift, you guys.
We don't all get the apology that we deserve all the time.
It's true, we don't.
We have to forgive people who are never going to be sorry.
That is true as well.
But she did get that gift and that was beautiful.
And so then after that,
she was really ready to start dating.
And she got out there and she realized
that her weight was causing her.
She's beautiful, by the way.
Beautiful, inside and out.
But her weight was causing her.
It wasn't that people didn't want to go out with her
because of her weight,
but she didn't want to go out with people
because of her weight.
It was affecting her self-esteem.
It was affecting how she viewed herself.
It was affecting about whether or not she wanted to,
you know, get married and have naked time in the future.
We used to have a program of preparation
where we were walking and eating Whole Foods
and drinking water called Getting Ready for Naked, ladies.
GRFM, or no, GRFN, GRFN.
Instead of get ready with me, it was get ready for naked.
And one of our ladies, one of our OGs
made that acronym up back in the day
because she was getting ready for naked.
And gentlemen, that applies to you too.
We don't want to see all that, okay?
Come on, get it together.
Do some manscaping, men's shape too, just so you know,
and not just your face, all right?
Go get a little wax, a wax, wax,
if that's what you need to do.
If you have hair on your chest, good.
If you have-
Hair on your back?
Nah, nah, that's a nah.
That's a nah for me and many women too.
My husband's over here laughing.
Okay, so maybe that was just some practical things
that need to happen.
Anyway, friends, she started with a trainer.
She started losing weight.
She did what she needed to do.
She came to our first Austin retreat
where we had a say yes to the dress.
She didn't like the way that she looked
in those wedding dresses when she tried them on.
That also became a catalyst for her.
And guess what?
On that day, she did fall in love with a dress
that she couldn't wear at her current weight,
but we purchased that dress for her
here at Last Year Single.
We bought that dress for her.
We sent that dress home for her,
even though she didn't have a boyfriend yet
because she loved it so much
and she did what she needed to do, you guys,
so that when she did cross paths
with her future spirit mate,
that she would feel good about herself
and feel ready in herself.
And she's happily married, y'all,
and she's been happily married for some time now.
And so praise the Lord.
Okay, all right, you guys,
what healing step have you delayed?
What are you not doing?
All right, so you guys all know,
I was supposed to go to New York City.
I didn't get to go,
and it wasn't because the door wasn't open.
These are important facts about this situation.
And it wasn't because I wasn't qualified.
I did the interview remote and I killed it.
You know, I did, y'all.
So it was great.
It was a great interview.
And it wasn't because God doesn't favor me.
It was because my hormones are out of whack.
I didn't go get the testing done.
I've had the test scripts to get the testing done
to find out what's going on with my hormones
and how we can balance them for a while now.
And I just have not prioritized getting there.
I can spiritualize it.
I can call it warfare,
but it's just plain old procrastination, you guys.
It's plain old over-scheduling on my part.
I'm over-scheduled.
Once again, I didn't learn my lesson from this summer,
but I promise you, I'm gonna learn it now.
Because I made a decision when I had to cancel
those flights to go to New York City
that this isn't gonna happen again.
And I want you to make a decision
that this isn't gonna happen again for you,
fill in the blank.
You are going to be able to step
into your time of hesitation when it comes,
because we're mismanaging our time.
We're mismanaging our bodies.
We're mismanaging a lot of things.
And remember, there's a lot of stories in the Bible
that are not about you being special
or you being qualified.
They're about timing.
There's a lot of stories in the Bible
that are about management.
In fact, I can think of one scripture that says
that if you're faithful over a few things,
the little things that he will give you more
to be faithful over, right?
You'll become ruler over many things.
What's ruler mean?
You'll have authority over more stuff.
Is anyone resonating with me today?
Come on, you guys.
Let me go up in that chat here and see.
Someone's like, I need to get rid of that sugar.
God's been on me to get rid of that sugar.
Some of you guys' A1C looks like an SAT number.
No, friends, get it down, get it down, get it down.
You don't have to be diabetic.
You don't have to be pre-diabetic, gonna be diabetic.
You can get it down.
Why, how?
Hydrate, get off the sugar, prioritize fiber.
We live in a protein society.
Eating too much protein makes me fat, specifically meat.
If I eat a lot of meat, I'm gonna be a big girl, okay?
And so fiber is your friend.
Make sure you're getting fiber.
Some of you guys have put off, you know,
you hit a certain age and you gotta get a certain test,
you know, and I'm not about big pharma,
but I am about preventative things like colonoscopies.
You might wanna get that done.
You might wanna see what's been going on in there
for the last 50 years.
I think 50 is the age that you get that at.
So yes, I have had that.
And you guys may or may not wanna try this,
but I actually did mine unmedicated.
I did mine without anesthesia because I found out
that you're allowed to request to do it.
And it's not bad at all, you guys.
It doesn't, it's not painful at all
in any way, shape or form.
Now, if you're afraid of medical stuff
and you're afraid of, you know,
you have the fear of being in pain,
then, you know, go ahead and let them knock you out,
get a driver, drive you home.
But doctors do it unmedicated.
I found that out.
And so I did that as well.
And guess what?
In and out, in and out, fast, fast, fast.
It was good.
All right, so let's talk about a couple scriptures.
And you guys, these are more spiritual contacts.
They have to do with the return of Christ.
Let's just talk about it.
The gospel of Matthew.
And we see that the parable of the 10 virgins,
five are ready, five are not, right?
The difference, preparation.
They all believed that what they were waiting for
was coming.
And this is what I'm going to liken it to,
because yes, I understand what these scriptures are about.
The second coming of Christ.
I understand.
they're about, but we can use this as an example during what we're talking about right now.
And why can we, because it's about being prepared for what you believe is coming.
Remember how I always say that belief requires action. Preparation is that action. So they all
believed that the bridegroom was coming at some time. They didn't know the day they didn't know
the hour, but they knew he was coming and five were ready. And guys, I want to propose this to
you. All of you gentlemen included that if you really believe that your spirit mate was coming,
you would stay prepared for them. You would stay prepared for them. You would continue to do what
happens is, is that we actually really don't believe in the promise anymore. It's been too
long on one of my, my most recent Instagram videos. You guys I'm on fire over there.
You're going to have to go watch my videos because I have been wild and out. You guys
see me wild and out back here, but the public doesn't know that version of me.
So I've been, I've been saying all kinds of crazy stuff. And one of the things I said is that
people believe that God is running the worst DMV ever the worst DMV ever, because you take a number
and you sit down, but they don't call your number until you're too old to drive. Okay. That's what
a lot of people believe about the promises of God. It's like, Oh, I'm here in the waiting room.
I'm in the waiting room. You know, the things that you want, some of them have an expiration
date on them. So God's got to give them to you now. And it could be possible that you're not
even recognizing opportunities simply because you're that unprepared for them. And so I really
want you to get ready. So the people that were ready, the virgins in this parable, they had
reserve. That's what the oil represents. They had reserve. They had margin. Okay. They had extra,
they had readiness. They were ready. They were ready. Okay. So God is not punishing us because
we're unprepared. I want to make sure that you're not hearing that in today's supernatural Saturday,
but the door still closes the door to go to New York closed for me today. You need to see that.
Yes. A, a less, a less good door opened. I got to be on there remotely, but being in person,
that would have been gold. So I got the bronze medal instead of instead of the gold medal. Okay.
And so we just want to make sure that we're, we're prepared for gold. Proverbs 24, seven,
put your outdoor work in order and get your fields ready. After that, build your house
order proceeds expansion. You guys, we got to put things in order. If we want to be in a building
phase, God wants to build with you. He does. And if we build without him, we're building in vain.
That's what it also says in Proverbs, but God provides for his lovers, even while they're
sleeping. That's what it also says in Proverbs. So if we get stuff ready, if we clean out the
bucket, God will fill it. It's important. Okay. So we don't build the house first.
We don't, we prepare the field first. See that. Hold on a second. I want to see something here.
Is that my beautiful Vicky and her boyfriend there? All right. So Vicky did a couple of years
of prepping in here for this blessed day. It's a perfect example right there. And now she's showing
up on Valentine's day on supernatural Saturday with her man. Hi Vicky's man. Oh, with flowers.
Looky there. Come on, you guys. Let's celebrate with our sister.
And go ahead. And if you ladies remember, of course I'm a geo or OG, excuse me. I'm so excited.
I can't remember. I was, I was only praying for a canine to love. That's true. Well, I was working
through my health issues. Yeah. David showed up when I unhid my dating profile for 15 minutes
because it'd been hidden. I wasn't looking. I wanted a dog. I unhid it for 15 minutes.
He clicked like, I love that. You guys remember that word that we had in 20 and 24 about David's
from the field coming. And so, um, I love the name David, obviously I'm married to David as well.
And, um, so David, welcome. So glad that you're here with us. And it's so glad that you're there
with Vicky. That's so exciting, Vicky. Thank you so much for sharing. All right, you guys come on.
Whoever's given up hope and it's showing in your preparation. Let's get back on the preparation
train. Okay. Luke 16, 10, let's go here. Whoever can be trusted with little can also be trusted
with much. That's the scripture that I quoted a little bit earlier from a different translation.
If we can manage the small things in our lives, you guys, God can trust us in authority with
bigger things. Why would heaven increase the weight on you? God loves you. Why would he give
you, you know, why would he put more weight on you? If you can't already handle the weight that's on
you now, God doesn't want to crush you. He doesn't want to put more weight on the foundation.
Say this in the challenge.
And a lot of you came through that challenge back in the day, but if you're
going to build an addition onto your house and look relationship, romantic
relationship, family, marriage is a huge addition that you're putting onto your
house.
If you call the contractor, the very first thing they're going to do is look
at your foundation and see if your foundation can handle it.
If not, they're going to, they're going to recommend foundation
work before they start building.
If they're a credible contractor, otherwise the whole thing's going to come
down and you guys, I've seen plenty of people come running in here a thousand
miles an hour, thinking that they're ready, not wanting to do the work, just
wanting to get to the romance part of things.
And they do get there really quickly and then crash.
Okay.
They start running into all kinds of attachment style wounds and trauma stuff.
They start, they pick people who are not healthy because they're not healthy.
I mean, just all kinds of things happen.
And so if we can't manage the small things, why would have an increase the
weight?
And it's important to understand that God's not looking for perfection.
You guys, he's looking for readiness.
I'm going to say that 15 more times.
If you need me to, he's not looking for perfection.
He's looking for readiness.
You just do your part.
He's got to do his, and I'm not talking about just your romance.
I'm talking about everything.
You do your part and he will do his part.
A lot of us never make it to God's part.
We're constantly praying for God to do his part.
Do your part.
Oh God, do your part.
Do your part.
God, I need you to do your part.
And yet our part is sitting here undone.
And without knowing it, we're unconsciously saying, God, I'll do my
part after I see you do yours.
God, I'm not going to break my own heart by getting ready and then showing up
and being like, did I shave my legs for this?
I've been disappointed too many times, God.
And so I'm going to need you to do your part first before I do my part.
No friends.
That's not how it works.
Faith without movement, without action is dead religion.
If you believe it, act on it, do your part.
You're not going to be disappointed.
The times that we've been disappointed is because we've been out of timing.
We've been trying to do things that, you know, haven't, haven't
been the best things for us.
Um, but we just want them because we're trying to fill some sort
of God shaped hole in our lives.
There's all different reasons why that happens.
And then there's just a process with God's promises.
There's a process.
There's a maturity process inside of us.
Once again, not perfection, just readiness.
You don't give your keys to your Ferrari, to a five-year-old you don't.
When they're 16, you might, if they're responsible 16 year old,
but not when they're five.
Okay.
And so God's not trying to crush you.
There's another scripture in Proverbs that says, and it's
one of my favorite scriptures.
It actually was one that we covered in the wisdom challenge this year.
And it was my Proverbs.
It's proverb 10 22.
And it just says that the increase of God comes without sorrow.
God's not going to give us things that we're not ready for.
Okay.
He wants to increase you.
He wants to build, but the fields need to be tended to first.
And you guys, once again, this is a beautiful pregnant pause.
It's a beautiful grace period that God is allowing us right now, right now.
Let's take advantage of it.
You guys, let's get the small things in order so that we can have
authority over the larger things.
And just so you know, marriage and family is a much larger thing.
It's going to take a lot more of you than whatever you're giving right now.
You think that you're overextended now you just wait, baby.
You got to make a lot of margin for this in your life.
And if that means having some empty spaces in your schedule, a lot of times
single people will overschedule themselves.
So they don't have to be alone and they don't have to be depressed and they
don't have to think about being single.
So they're trying to keep themselves busy and I get that.
But if that's you and you're doing that, you're going to have to prune your
schedule and make room for relationship.
You can't just say, okay, when a relationship comes, then I'll make room for it.
It doesn't work that way.
You're not going to.
And friends I've told you over and over again, that you really need to prune your
media habits.
And it's, it's worse now than ever.
You guys, the world's on fire with the Epstein files and the ice stuff and all
the crazy stuff that's on social media and everyone fighting and all the things
that are happening.
You're going to have to do a dopamine reset because we're burnt out.
A lot of people think they're burnt out on dating, but you're not burnt out on
dating. You're just plain burnt out.
Period.
You're burnt out.
We can only take so much bad news before our cortisol starts to activate
fight or flight response starts to activate.
You're showing up to these dates and you're not feeling chemistry.
That's because your pleasure center is fried.
Your chemistry is fried.
You can't feel anything because you're not just showing up to these dates
yourself. Your cortisol is also coming to these dates.
And so you guys, we need to do a little self care.
We need to do a little meditation, a little prayer.
We need to come off of the, of the, uh, of the apps.
If we need to need to come off of.
social media for a little while. If we need to, we do whatever we need to do in order
to get ourselves back centered again. That's a word for a lot of people. You get yourself
centered again. If you haven't felt chemistry with anyone that you've talked to, it's probably
because your chemistry is impaired. Guys, we we're, we're, we're spirits that live in
live in bodies that possess souls. We're complex, more complex. Remember we're fearfully and
wonderfully made. That's what that means. You're, you're complex. You're not a simplistic
being. And so right now we have to, we have to push the reset button. It's important to
do that. Okay. Um, and yes, um, this is not an ad for brick, but you can get brick. It's
really cheap. It's like 50 bucks and you can set the app on your phone to tell, to tell
it what you want to lock. And then when you tap your phone to it, it will lock those apps
so that you can't get into them. And so before you leave the house, you can lock certain
apps down. So you can't look at them, your news apps, certain social media apps. If you're
a doom scroller, you can do that. And guess what? You can't unlock it until you get back
home where the brick is. Cause you have to tap it again to unlock it. So that might be
a good tool for some of you if necessary. You guys, when I first started this back when
it was called marrying 12 months or less in 2020, I had a bunch of students that were
having weird wedding dreams and in the dreams, this is what was going on. They were about
to walk down the aisle, but they didn't have the right dress on. They didn't have a white
dress on or they didn't have the right shoes. Gentlemen, they had forgot the rings. You
know they had dreams where it was the, it was their wedding day, but they weren't ready.
They couldn't find their shoes. They couldn't find their dress. They weren't, they were
walking down the aisle. They didn't recognize the person at the end. They didn't know what
was going on. And this wasn't God shaming them. These were supernatural dreams. This
was an invitation to preparation. God wasn't saying, nope, you're a mess. You're not getting
married. He was saying preparation time is my mercy. The preparation time is my mercy.
He was saying, Hey, let's go get you ready. Let's go get you ready. A lot of people were
having dreams that, that other people were coming around them and trying to help them
get ready. Guess what? That's God's support. That's being God defended. That's this community.
We're all here to help each other get ready for the promises of God, not just weddings,
but also life and the things that God has that God wants to give all of us. All right.
So I believe we're in a grace period. We're at the beginning of the year. We're only 45
minutes in. I only have a couple more minutes, so I got to go fast. So whatever you got to
do friends, do it. Whatever conversations, whatever forgiveness you need to give, whatever
hard work you need to do. If you need to put out the resumes, some people said they need
to finish a book, do that. Um, clean the garage, fix the finances. You guys, you don't want
to go, you don't want to go into marriage with a bunch of debt. You're like, but I Jackie,
you know, it's, there's more, there's less coming in than I needs to go out. I understand.
But if you get with the Lord, he can give you a plan to get out of debt. And I'm not
talking about calling those debt cancellation companies. A lot of that's a scam. I'm talking
about when we got out of debt, it was way before I owned this business. We got out of
debt because God told us specific things to do. And we did those things. And then he started
to bless that. Remember we do our part and then God does his part. And it's not a 50
50 situation. You guys, your part might be 10% of just listing your debts and starting
to do a little bit of a snowball, starting to buy less stuff you don't need and put a
little tiny bit more money, even if it's a tiny bit, even if it's 10, $15 more towards
that credit card debt. And then boom, out of nowhere, you get an opportunity to make
a bunch of money and you're able to pay off that debt. You do your part. You show God
you're serious. And I promise you, in fact, we're going to get some testimonies on what
I just said. You stop just, you stop spending because you're depressed because you're in
debt. A lot of times when people are in debt, they'll medicate themselves by getting even
more in debt. If you stop doing that, all right, cut up the credit cards, get a payment
plan going, start paying whatever it is that you can, even if it's the minimum situation
and give it to God. I promise you some of you are going to see really amazing breakthrough
in that area. Okay. Cause we're in a grace period right now, you guys, because favor
is here. This is our year. 2026 is our year. It's your year. It's the best, the best year
I've ever seen for the kingdom of God to shine bright in the earth. Cause it's so dark. There's
so many opportunities for us, you guys, but we can't take advantage of those opportunities
because favor has to land on order. And so it's time for us to get things in order. A
lot of you have heard me tell the story back in my early discipleship. When I first, when
I first, I'd only been a believer for about 12 years. It was my early marriage to David.
God told me to pack a bag and set it by the front door. And you do that normally.
when you're going to go to the hospital and have a baby. Right.
And I didn't know what to put in the bag.
And I just put a little bit of everything in because I didn't know where I was
going.
And that bag sat there as a prophetic act to me that I needed to make sure that I
stayed prepared because God had things for me to do.
He did. He had things for me to do. And you guys,
I've been faithful over a lot of little things.
I know you see me here showing up like this,
and I'm still missing out on bigger opportunities, but I promise you,
I'm not gonna again, but these opportunities, even this, you guys,
it's amazing. And I can settle for just, you know,
sowing into your lives and helping you get married.
We've helped over 1600 people get married in the last five years, you guys.
And that's amazing, but there's bigger and there's better. But can I tell you,
this started out with, you know, me showing up on, on my social media.
I've been on, I've been on Facebook for over 10 years and just,
and posting encouragement for people and helping people.
And in the DMS counseling people and coaching people and having little
gatherings at my house called wow,
women and ministering to women and helping people and,
and having a prostitution, a prostitution ring,
no having a ministry for prostitutes, um, to,
to help them get out of prostitution.
And that turned into a prison ministry that turned into this,
that turned into that, that turned into beautiful ashes,
that turned into wow,
women that turned into a prayer call that I used to do when free conference
calling was came out, you could do free conference calls.
Because only a few people would show up to those sometimes no one,
and you needed at least one person listening to record.
And so my husband would have to dial in and listen so that I could record it
because a lot of people listened in replay.
And that turned into me being live on Periscope when that live streaming app
came up, came, um, came about.
And that was the wake up call with Jackie. And there was years of that.
And there was my blog, the real life unplugged with Jackie Dorman. You guys,
I've been doing this for a really long time, 28 years. Okay.
I've been faithful over little things.
And some of you have as well. And I'm telling you the bigger breakthroughs in
your life and whatever area you're hoping for breakthrough, they're here.
They're not coming. They're here. And so tie up your loose ends,
whatever that is. Okay. Pack the bag,
sit it by the door because we got to do this faith has to go first.
Faith opens the door. Okay. And then courage walks through it.
And that's what we need. All right.
My favorite story about this is Corrie ten boom and her dad,
her and her daddy at the train station, she knew he had the tickets in his pocket.
She wanted to hold her ticket.
And he said she didn't need her ticket until it was time to get on the train.
He said, you trust me. Right. And she said, yeah, I trust you. He's like, okay,
we'll just get prepared. Stand here, get ready for the train,
be watching for the train. And when the train gets here,
then that is what I'm going to hand you your ticket. And so friends,
faith packs the bag. Faith makes the space faith gets prepared. Okay.
Faith goes out and ties up the loose end, whatever that is for you.
Faith fills out the paperwork for retirement.
Some of you are not even getting the benefits that you can get from your job
because you haven't filled out some silly paperwork. You keep putting it off,
but it could be so much different. If you would just do it, get it done.
In fact, make a decision to get it done. Now,
hopefully some of you are going to schedule some stuff before this weekend's
even over before Monday even comes. All right. Okay. All right.
You guys ready? We're at the end of our time here.
You might be like me. You have 15,000 unread emails.
You guys delete the spam emails,
take a day to go through your emails and unsubscribe from all those lists.
You guys, if you want to keep that email address, you're like, Jackie,
that seems like such a waste of time. No, it's,
it creates a bandwidth problem when you know that there's 10,000 emails in there
that you have to keep sorting through to try to get the ones that are relevant
for you. Get rid of that stuff. Okay. Go through your phone.
Here's just some practical things. Go to your phone.
Go through your phone. We're going to go a little bit over today.
I don't care.
Go through your phone and delete all the old contacts and your contacts that you
don't use anymore that you don't need anymore. Delete those.
Why are they there? You don't know those people anymore.
You're not friends with those people anymore. Why would they still be there?
These are really practical things that you can do.
Delete the apps on your phone that you don't use anymore.
Clear out this expired food from your fridge. Okay. I just have a couple,
I have a list here.
Go through your following on social media and unfollow accounts that you no
longer want that drain you that you don't like.
It's okay to delete friends that you used to have that you're not friends
anymore. You don't need to clip up on their lives.
If you don't know them in person anymore and you don't want to know them in
person anymore, delete that. Okay. Go through your closet,
donate things. You guys, these are really simple things, really simple things,
really practical things that we can do.
Have a conversation that you've been avoiding.
I already talked about that throw away old and expired beauty products,
self-care products, get rid of that stuff. Medications, you know,
make sure you dispose of them responsibly. However that happens. Do that.
Write down three, three people that you need to forgive.
Write down three things you need to forgive.
forgive yourself for. Donate books that you've already read and that you're not going to read
anymore, that you don't want your library. It's kind of a one and done book. You don't want it for
perpetuity. Get rid of that. Write down three tasks that you've been avoiding. I'm going to
put these, I'm going to put these lists up. I'm going to put these lists up in the group so you
guys can see it. Clear out your junk drawers. You guys, come on. Find inspiring new phone
backgrounds, new wallpaper for your, for your phone. Every time you look at it, it inspires you
to do what you need to do. Reorganize the house, move the furniture around, get rid of stuff.
Send that text that you need to send. Write down three boundaries that you need to really hold
yourself to, whether it's telling your boss no more overtime without pay, whatever those
boundaries are. Come on, write them down and hold yourself to it. Write down three things that you
want to invest in, in yourself in the year 2026. You want to invest in your health. Okay. There's
easy ways to do that. Friends. You can start walking every day. This is a simple thing.
Make time for it. Like I don't have time for it. If you don't have time to take care of your body,
then you don't have time. You you're, you're cutting off your time on the earth.
Okay. You don't not have time to take care of yourself. Um, all right, let's see what else,
um, to do, to do go on a mass unsubscribes free in your email. That's really important. Um, get
your car, wash, clean out your car. Some of you will never be able to let a date ride in your car
because your car needs to be condemned by the health department. I'm just going to be honest
with you. You know who you are. Okay. There's stuff in your car that should not be there.
All right. Old food is nasty in there. I know lots of people with dirty, dirty, dirty cars,
and they don't have toddlers to blame for it. So let's get it together. All right,
let's get it together. I'm going to be your, I'm going to be your BFF today and kick you in the
butt. All right. Um, all right. What else? All right. And you guys, if you can buy yourself
some flowers today to symbolize a fresh start Valentine's day, treat yourself. And so father
God, we're so thankful for today. You guys, you guys were so thankful for today, father.
We're so thankful for you. And we ask you God, just to forgive us for everything that we've
been avoiding, everything that we haven't done, everything that we haven't submitted to all the
things that you've told us to do in prayer that we just haven't done. We're procrastinating. Laura,
we're asking for you to give us just a wave of grace of momentum, to be able to get this stuff
done. Don't let this just be a moment. Let this be momentum from this call today. We haven't been
not doing it out of rebellion. You know, our hearts, it's not about rebellion, but it's not
a distraction father out of busyness, Laura. So help us help us some of us even out of comfort
because the familiar has been comfortable to us for, but we want new, we want better. We want
best. We want what you have for us. So we're asking for expansion God, but we know that we
need preparation. So Lord give us the grace to do it during this grace period in Jesus name. Amen.
You guys, I love you. I believe this is a powerful supernatural Saturday. That's going to change our
lives. If we will do it. And I want you to show up tomorrow night, telling people what you're
going to do so you can hold yourself accountable, hold, let them hold you accountable. Okay. We're
all helping each other get ready right now. Think about us all being in the bridal chamber,
trying to help each other get dressed for the wedding. Okay. Not just for our human weddings,
but for all the things that God has designed us to do as the bride of Christ here on the earth,
we can do it and we can do it together. We need each other. And so do that. And we want lots of
testimonies this week on prayer, including faith Friday of what you're doing and what's happening
because of what you're doing. I'm expecting some quick turnarounds and I'll see you soon.