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Hey everyone, welcome to mindset Monday

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We're gonna get going here in a minute

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Miracle March

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Welcome to Miracle March. We're still going March 9

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Hey Lindsay, hey Linda

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Good to see you girl. Welcome. Hey, okay

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God is doing miracles miracles are happening in the month of March

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So welcome come on in everyone

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All right

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All right, how's everyone feeling today it's just me and Lindsay on camera right now, I love it

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How's everyone feeling pop in the chat, let's do a quick check-in

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Stu feeling check-in. How's everyone feeling this Monday?

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March 9

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2026 pop in the chat. How's everyone feeling today? Hey Linda?

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How's everyone feeling today pop it in the chat

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Hey Christy, hey Jana. Hey Aaron welcome

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Um, so good to see you all and be with you today

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All right, yeah

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How's everyone feeling this morning

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Pop your feelings in the chat

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Remember our feelings are so important and I think a lot of people

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There's this there's this phrase in the entrepreneur world that's like F your feelings

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You guys have heard that like F your feelings get to work F this

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like get focused and

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Guess what? I don't like that and I'm not a fan of that because

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Your feelings are

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Connected to a thought and

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Your thought is connected to a belief, right? So anytime you're feeling something

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It is it is to be paid attention to actually it's it's to take a look and see

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say, huh, what is, what is that feeling?

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And what is that thought behind the feeling?

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We cannot forget this.

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So if anybody's telling you F your feelings, who cares?

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Anybody, I don't know if anyone was raised like this.

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I know I was, you know, like our parents generate, I know we're all

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in different generations here, but I think, I think the millennial

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generation is the generation that's really come awake to our feelings.

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And are like, wait a minute, our feelings are actually trying to tell us something

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and it doesn't make us weak or strong.

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It doesn't make us good or bad feelings are actually, I like to look at them

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as neutral at, at face value.

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And then, okay, what is, what is my feeling trying to tell me?

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God made us emotional beings and some of us feel deeper than others.

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Some of you are more thinkers and maybe you actually need to learn how to feel.

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And that is why every, some people say, I know some of you are over thinkers,

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you know, the term, like if you're an over thinker, so sometimes that

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actually means you're an under feeler.

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And sometimes the feelings are actually what needs to be taken look at.

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And then find the thought and the behind that thought is the belief.

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And we are, you know, our mindset is basically essentially our, it's our belief system.

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That's what our mindset, mindset, belief system, because at the end of the day,

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your results today right now are a direct result of what you think

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and what you believe about you.

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And that is actually meant to be an empowering statement, not a shame statement.

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Right?

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This is all about how can I be in charge?

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How can I be in tune?

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I talk, I remember last week talking with you, Linda, like about scheduling, right?

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This is where the scheduling comes in.

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I'm in charge of me.

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I'm in, I get to choose.

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And actually sometimes we, you've heard this, like I can't control my feelings.

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Maybe you can't control the onset of a feeling.

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The onset of the feeling, like they just onset, they just come to us, but what we

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can't control are our thoughts and our thoughts are connected to our feelings.

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And so that's why we started the year off in January about how to, you know, be,

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how to know our thoughts, how to create a brain prime, how to have thoughts on

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automation that work for you and not against you that work for your business

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and for your goals and not against you.

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And so I just was thinking, um, how important it is.

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Like our field, there's just, there's somebody in the business world who's

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creating a whole brand around F your feelings and she's really successful.

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I'm not going to like, I think she's very successful in certain ways, but I

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think she's also missing an emotional aspect there that I just really wanted

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to bring light in the beginning of our call here.

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And so also if you're not sure how you feel, then there is this thing called

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a feeling wheel that you can Google.

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It's literally called feeling wheel.

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Have you guys heard of it?

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Do you know what that is?

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I literally use it all the time.

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In fact, uh, my mug today is a feeling well, and there's mud.

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I mean, it's a whole thing, right?

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And so, so, um, there's no shame if you're feeling, you know, happy,

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sad, if you're feeling depressed, bored, peaceful, disgusted,

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Eager, you know, there's literally so many emotions that we experience, but

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do you know how to name them?

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Cause that's the first step, right?

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How do you feel?

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So all that to say, how's everyone feeling today?

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Pop in the chat.

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I know a few of you did.

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I just wanted to leave a little space again for everybody

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to respond to this question.

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How are you feeling right now?

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This morning, this afternoon, and this moment, how do you feel?

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Lindsay's feeling hopeful, the sun's shining.

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I know that's, that's interesting, right?

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Like when the sun's out, I tend to feel happier and cheerful or cheerful.

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That's there's science behind all that.

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In fact, going out in the sun and having the sun hit your face will, is

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an immediate form of dopamine and helps your nervous system, so that makes sense.

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All right, Linda's feeling encouraged and focused. Love that.

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Chrissy is feeling a little stressed and overwhelmed.

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Awesome. Thanks for sharing.

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okay, yeah, I know, right?

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Our feelings are a gift. Yeah, I love your tender heart, Lindsey. I think it's beautiful.

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All right, Sherry's feeling fine.

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Sherry is feeling a bit restless.

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Andre's mom.

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I always tell you that. She's feeling calm.

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Amy's feeling stressed.

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And Jana's not sure.

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All right, Jana, so maybe you're feeling

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confused?

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Is that like, because you're not sure would be confusion maybe is the feeling word for that? Is that a line?

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Is that a line?

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Okay, great. So Jana's feeling confused.

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And Aaron's feeling good.

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All right, and I am feeling,

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I personally am feeling a little bloated and I feel expectant. Those are my two feeling words.

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Here's what I was thinking for today. It's Miracle March.

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put a big poster in my kitchen that says Miracle March and I am keeping track of the miracles that pop up in this month.

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I would love to start our call off.

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We talked about a miracle. We talked, we defined it last week.

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It's something supernatural, something that's hard to explain, something that maybe there's a fruit of labor.

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We can finally see a miracle is actually seeing

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what we've been waiting or working towards.

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Another word could be a win.

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And the reason I'm using miracle is because

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I'm believing there's even bigger things that we're going to be seeing in this month

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that are just bigger, that we can just encourage each other,

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that the miraculous still happens. And you guys know this, our reticular activator system,

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I call them our antennas, our RAS,

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is in our brain

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and what it does is it's like little antennas and it's constantly searching for evidence for what you believe. It's evidence for what you

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want to see.

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So when I tell you look for miracles and be on the lookout for miracles,

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you're going to see more because you have set an intention. We're setting that intention in this month

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to see things happen.

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I don't want, there is no wrong miracle.

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There's nothing no wrong about it. You can't answer this question wrong, by the way. Okay, that's number one. And then

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was, I met with my counselor last week and she was talking about how there is a shit, like

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economists are talking about how there is a big shift that is going to happen in our world in the next decade.

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And have you guys seen online like people talking about there being a cashless society? What's going towards a cashless society?

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Elon Musk was talking about how

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within the next 10 years, he says,

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you know, we're going to all be in

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an AI currency.

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whatever, those are just all thoughts rooming in the world today. And I'm just like

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whether that happens or not,

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what I believe matters

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is number one, miracles still take place. So I don't care whether we have cash or not, whether your business is working or not, whether

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you're feeling encouraged, inspired, ready to go, or you are not.

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A miracle does not depend

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on what we do. That is also something that's really beautiful about a miracle.

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And I think that that's forgotten in the business world if people don't believe in them.

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And again, if you're not, if you don't believe in God, or you

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believe in a higher power, like even that would be like a miracle, like things that are just hard to explain.

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really believe that's what we're supposed to be focusing on part of our calls in this month. So

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in a minute, I'm going to open the floor to if anybody wants to share some miracles that they've seen in the last week.

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I have a topic for us today. All right, does that sound good?

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All right, who, anybody want to

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start? Anybody want to?

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You can unmute and share your miracle.

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Anybody has them?

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I can go. Okay, go ahead. Start us off.

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So this, keeping a long story short, my 18 year old daughter is making choices that are

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not bad choices, but they're choices that scare me.

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And, um, I've been praying for several months about like either God would close a window

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or God would make me okay with her choice.

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And basically it's, um, has to do with moving out of the house and all that stuff.

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And I, this last week, I could tell you the specific moment where I switched from fear

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and anxiety over her choice to celebrating her and being along for the ride and being

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supportive.

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And I know like with, like on my own, that would not have happened.

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So I know that that was a miracle.

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That is a miracle.

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Doesn't it feel good to be at peace and celebration and say, I'm for you.

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I'm with you.

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And it's, it's so good.

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It's more than just, I'm okay with this.

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It's I'm, I'm celebrating it and I'm happy for her and I'm excited for her.

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And last week I couldn't have told you that any of those feelings for her were inside

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me at all.

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Celebrating.

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That's awesome.

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Who's next?

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Let's get this miracle train going.

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I'll go.

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Kate.

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I celebrated a one year of post-op on my ankle.

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I have been on a crazy health journey this last year, a lot of changes, a lot of hard,

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but it's bringing about good fruit.

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But this week after months and months of not being able to walk normally or drive normally,

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I was going to an appointment and I was just like calm and stuff, but like I looked down

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at my feet and realized I was driving with my right foot, which I haven't done for a

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Wow.

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And I was just like, finally, it was like a miracle to me because I have been, you know,

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having to loophole around everything.

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Not being able to use my right ankle for this long.

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And I was just like, what?

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I didn't even notice that I was doing it.

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I was just driving normally.

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This is so crazy.

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Like my brain even allowed me to just not even think about it.

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This is so cool.

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That is huge.

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Especially for all those months.

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So huge.

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I will take it.

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She will.

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We celebrate.

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We're celebrating with you.

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That's a miracle.

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Awesome.

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Who's next?

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I will go next.

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All right.

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My miracle happened, yeah, this is a new week.

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Last week.

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So I actually had where my husband was supposed to take care of stuff and something for the

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kids and he did not.

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So I was pissed because it was the day I was out the whole day.

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So I sent off this text message and he was mad and we got into the text.

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So later I was like, okay, we need to talk about it.

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I didn't go into the talk expecting good, actually I went in for a fight, but not a

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physical fight.

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So I was like still mad.

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But God like flipped that conversation to where it was actually very good.

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And we actually got on the same page and stuff.

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And I was shocked after the fact, I was like, wait a minute, I wasn't expecting that.

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Because we do have different parenting styles when it comes to the kids.

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We have different parenting styles.

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He likes to go soft.

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I like to go aggressive and stuff.

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But yeah, we grew up with different parents.

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So yeah, I have different, yeah.

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So yeah, and I was like, genuinely shocked at it.

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And I was like, okay, God, I don't know what the heck you did there, but I like it.

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It's good.

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So just want to share that.

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Yeah, that is so good when you again, that's a miracle because you went in expecting one

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thing and you came out with a completely different thing.

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And all you did was show up and you were open.

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And it usually goes the other way, right, right, which listen, this is very normal for

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our brains.

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You guys know this when our brains have evidence over and over and over again of a, of a, of

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an outcome of something that is what you begin to expect, right?

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And so just to be able to be given a different outcome from that, that conversation is a

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miracle.

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And what it does is it's telling your brain, God's trying to show you, Hey, this is actually

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look what's possible.

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Look what can happen.

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See miracles also reveal possibility where otherwise it would have seemed impossible.

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A miracle comes in and say, wait a minute, it's actually possible there.

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There can be something different and we want to hold on to these moments.

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I'm actually writing them down.

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So I'm going to keep a list of us for the rest of the month so that we can look back

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and remember these things because listen, write these down because your brain is going

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to forget.

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We are so easily forget where we have come from.

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And when we, when we have healing, we forget, we forget, we, especially when we're just

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so used to rejection or disappointment or, you know, whatever.

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That's why we don't want to get comfortable in that space.

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So we look for miracles.

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It's one way to do that.

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So, so good.

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Thank you so much for sharing.

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Anybody else?

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Miracles?

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Yeah.

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Go ahead, Sherry.

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Okay.

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Well, this isn't like a recent thing.

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I mean, maybe it's been like a few months now already, but for like six years, I think

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six years straight, I, I've had this really terrible gut problem with all these terrible

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symptoms, you know, like soft bowels and diarrhea, you know, bloating and my tummy felt like,

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like bubbles popping and just such a very uncomfortable feeling for like six years.

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And I went to so many different doctors, tried so many different supplements, tried

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different diets, nothing, nothing.

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I could figure out what the cause was, you know, I couldn't figure out what the cause

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was or what the, you know, the solution was, it just, it was crazy.

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I kept trying and trying and trying and just no luck.

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And then finally one day I was looking at a video online and, and I, I, it was, it was,

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it was actually a cancer video, but, but it was, it was talking about fasting.

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And so I thought, you know, I, I, I actually researched it more and I saw more videos and

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more reading about it.

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And it said that, you know, it could possibly cure just about any, anything that you have

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going on.

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So I, I decided to try it and I fasted, water fasted for seven days straight, just no food

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with just only water.

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And it was hard, but, but I was determined and what happened after that, the first day

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after I started eating again, it, I felt fine, but then the next day I started getting symptoms

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again.

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But, but then after that, all my symptoms went away.

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Wow.

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That's amazing.

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Yeah.

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And it stayed away, but then it, the, the video said, well, you can, you can do this

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every like every five or six weeks and do a seven day water fast every five to six weeks.

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You can, you can, you don't have to have it seven days.

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Every time you can decide how many days it just depends on the person, you know?

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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No, that's amazing.

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Okay.

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So then after, after like five or six weeks, I did another fast.

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It was not seven days, it was five days.

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And because you know, sometimes when, when your symptoms start going again, you want

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to do it again.

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And so I did another five days fast and, and, and, and it helped.

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And then after that, I waited another five or six weeks and I, I did a three day fast

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and then another, I don't know, five or six or more.

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I don't remember how long it was.

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I did another like day fast.

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And so like, the thing is, is I know that if my symptoms start, start, try to start

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coming up again, I know the cure for it.

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I don't know what the cause was, but I know the cure and it works.

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Yay!

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Celebrating you, Sherry.

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That's awesome.

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Thanks.

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It feels, any, anybody here dealing with health stuff, you know, on and off in our lives,

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it's just so refreshing to find something that works and that takes a lot of discipline

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too.

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And you know, fasting is a regular part of my life as well.

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So I completely agree and believe that, that God actually gave us fasting to heal parts

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of our bodies.

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So that's, that's amazing, Sherry.

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Congratulations.

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Thank you.

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Celebrating you.

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Yay!

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All right.

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Anybody else?

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Oh, sure.

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I've got a blessing.

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I'm kind of still in the throes of like baby life and my nine month old has slept through

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the night the past four nights, which has not really been the norm.

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So that's been really huge.

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And he's kind of like also sleeping in a little bit.

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The time change, but you know, we'll give it, we'll give it to him.

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And then, yeah, also when we go to church on Sundays, I have him with me because the

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timing sometimes he like needs to nap or I don't want him to get sick or something with

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the kids church.

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But with the timing of the time change, we just, my husband was like gone for the day.

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And so I was just like, let's just do it.

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We all went and I dropped him off the baby off at the kids church.

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And I was just like able to go into the main sanctuary area and it just was such a different

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experience just like, I don't know, being, being with everybody in the sanctuary, cause

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it's really loud.

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So I usually have my baby out in the foyer area.

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So it was just such a, I guess, I don't know, miracle, but just like blessing to be like,

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it was my first time getting to be in the sanctuary and like the five months that we've

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been in our new town.

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So it was really nice.

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So yeah.

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That's huge.

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That is a miracle.

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Yeah.

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Everyone out here, he's a mom.

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Come on.

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Like that's amazing.

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Yeah.

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The kids church are like, this feels like a, you know, I don't know, like having a babysitter.

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It's like, Oh my hour.

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And I didn't have any of either of my kids.

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It was just nice.

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I really felt like I got to hear from God, um, and that hour and yeah, it was, it was

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great.

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So yeah.

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Your nervous system probably needed that hour.

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Yes.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Celebrating that miracle.

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Love it.

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Anybody else?

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Okay.

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I'll share mine.

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I've got a list of like 10, so I'm going to share with the one that I really feel.

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Is so, uh, powerful because it's not something I ever have done before, but it has been a

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decade in the, in the process of work.

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So you guys know I'm single, never married.

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I went on, um, 68 first dates in my life.

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Um, and that is my version of putting myself out there and, you know, giving, giving my

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heart out, giving chances to good guys.

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And the guys just keep getting better.

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They just keep getting better and better and better.

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Oh man.

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Cause one of my brain crimes is I am surrounded by Christian, wealthy, emotionally available

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and stable men.

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So I say that to myself every day.

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And one popped up on my, on my radar two and a half weeks ago.

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And I took a chance and I said yes to a date.

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And it turned into a few dates actually.

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And I haven't done that in a long time because I can tell after one date, whether I want

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to see them again or not, I, my discernment is up and I know a lot more what I'm looking

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for at this point in my life.

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And, um, and I was, my birthday is this week and I'm throwing a little party and I invited

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him and he was, I was like, no pressure, like, you know, we're both extroverts.

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He's a big party person.

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So I was like, no big deal.

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Right.

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I'm sure he'll, he'll want to come.

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And he said, yes.

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And so I was so excited about that.

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And, um, and then I abruptly got a call on Friday night and he ended our connection just

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like that, just boom, just done.

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And this is not new.

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I have been in this position quite a few times of my life at this point, but here's what,

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here's the miracle.

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I did not go into any form of defeat.

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I did not blame.

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I did not curse.

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You want to know, this was miraculous.

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What I did was I actually was so grateful.

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I got on my knees and I began to worship and I just worshiped in this rejection and it was a

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miracle because this phone call was so shocking to my system. I was like, wait, I was not expecting

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this. There was shock and I was a little tired so I didn't respond. I responded fine but I didn't

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get to bless him and tell him what a difference he made in my life in two and a half weeks.

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And so guess what? I blessed him two days later and I just told him, I just uplifted him because

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men I think are not uplifted enough. They're not encouraged enough. And so I literally blessed this

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man. I encouraged him. I told him all the amazing things that this man just brought into my life.

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He restored joy in my life where I needed it and God used this man. And who am I to let the

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rejection get in the way? That's a miracle. And I'm like, God, I have waited for a decade to

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respond this way. And I'm like, we could even be friends. Maybe we could be friends. I don't know.

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I've never even had that thought before. It's usually like, oh, get out of my life, whatever.

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And so that was just so much strength and resilience and I believe a miracle of like

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all of these years of all of this emotional turmoil. And my heart aches. My heart is sick,

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literally for my husband. But I get to go to God who is my first husband and my first lover and

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be like, wow, thank you for all that I actually really need is found in you whether I'm married

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or not. And so that was a miracle that happened that and even my friends, my local friends were

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like, whoa, this is different. This is we never seen you react like this before. I say, yeah,

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it's a miracle. That's what that is. You know, and just continually fixing my eyes on God and

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fixing my eyes on something greater than what I can see. And that is a miracle. And we get to do

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that all day, every day. We get to say, wait, how is this rejection? So, so I like to, I like to

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take this belief and I've had this thought on replay in my life for a long time, but it also,

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you know, our beliefs are tested when things happen. And so I say, rejection is not personal.

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It's not when I'm rejected. It doesn't have to do with me. It has to do with the person

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rejecting. Think about this. When you reject somebody or you reject something or you tell

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something, no, you're doing the rejecting. That's your choice, right? So it's personal to you,

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to the rejecter, not the one being rejected. And, and I believe that is something that we

488
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constantly need to be reminded of in business, because there is a lot of rejection that happens

489
00:32:59.840 --> 00:33:09.200
in building a business. And the rejection can also show up in, in, in yourself, like self-rejecting

490
00:33:10.240 --> 00:33:17.280
self saying, saying, you know, I'm not good enough. I'm, this isn't going to work. This

491
00:33:17.280 --> 00:33:22.640
works for other people. This doesn't work for me or partnering with what your nervous system

492
00:33:22.640 --> 00:33:30.640
has like, you know, felt or been comfortable with for so long. And so I just believe that

493
00:33:30.640 --> 00:33:38.720
that is a belief that I have been saying on and off for years. And I have, this guy was like,

494
00:33:38.720 --> 00:33:46.240
how could anyone reject you? And I'm like, they don't, they reject themselves. I'm actually not

495
00:33:46.240 --> 00:33:53.440
the one rejected, you know? And he was like, wait, what? And I was like, yeah, let that sink in.

496
00:33:54.160 --> 00:33:59.520
And then he went on to reject me two and a half weeks later. And it's like, because you weren't

497
00:33:59.520 --> 00:34:04.880
in alignment with where I'm going. That's why, right. That doesn't have to do with you. I'm

498
00:34:04.880 --> 00:34:09.520
actually showing up authentically and I got big goals and big dreams and he doesn't, and, and it

499
00:34:09.520 --> 00:34:14.400
revealed itself. And he was like, I can't do this. I don't want this. I said, cool. This is what I

500
00:34:14.400 --> 00:34:21.280
want, you know, and from a very healthy space, empathetic space, not like a get on my pedestal.

501
00:34:21.280 --> 00:34:25.920
I've, you know, I feel like God's healed me a lot in that. So, so I just really wanted to share. I

502
00:34:25.920 --> 00:34:31.679
feel like that was something I really wanted us to remember in business building and in like getting

503
00:34:31.679 --> 00:34:38.080
your habits together and like saying, no, think about it. Think about this. Like you reject all

504
00:34:38.080 --> 00:34:45.040
the time. You say no to maybe a food you would rather have eaten in the day. Why would you reject

505
00:34:45.040 --> 00:34:50.159
a certain type of food? That's maybe not maybe because it's not good for you and you decided,

506
00:34:50.159 --> 00:34:57.520
I don't want that. So now who's like, that's a good thing. Right. And it, or, or, you know,

507
00:34:57.520 --> 00:34:59.920
you reject something you're healthy.

508
00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:03.260
husband says, because you're not on board. It's not Godly. It's

509
00:35:03.260 --> 00:35:06.840
not working, you know, and it's like, Okay, let's work this out.

510
00:35:06.840 --> 00:35:11.560
Let's figure this out, right? Because you ultimately, the

511
00:35:11.560 --> 00:35:14.560
rejection again, it's not personal. It's personal. It's

512
00:35:14.560 --> 00:35:16.520
not personal to you. It's personal to the person giving

513
00:35:16.520 --> 00:35:20.920
it. Does that make sense? That's what I wanted to remember.

514
00:35:20.940 --> 00:35:24.440
Remind all of us that I really felt like, because see, when

515
00:35:24.440 --> 00:35:28.540
we're looking for miracles, the opposite of a miracle is

516
00:35:28.540 --> 00:35:35.620
rejection. It's a no, it's a, it's a, that's impossible.

517
00:35:35.620 --> 00:35:41.380
That's never gonna happen. And so I think, in looking for

518
00:35:41.380 --> 00:35:44.820
miracles this month and looking for the impossible to be

519
00:35:44.820 --> 00:35:50.820
possible, there's when rejection comes, how do you want to handle

520
00:35:50.820 --> 00:35:56.260
that? And you get to choose you get to choose. What does this

521
00:35:56.620 --> 00:35:59.700
really mean? What am I making it mean about me? What am I making

522
00:35:59.700 --> 00:36:02.900
it mean about God? What am I making it mean about my

523
00:36:02.900 --> 00:36:07.620
business? It's really important that we are in tune with that.

524
00:36:07.940 --> 00:36:12.980
Because at the end of the day, you each are your own CEO. And

525
00:36:13.020 --> 00:36:16.860
you each get to create, you know what you want to see in your

526
00:36:16.860 --> 00:36:21.180
life. So does anybody have any questions about rejection? Any

527
00:36:21.180 --> 00:36:23.060
thoughts or questions about that?

528
00:36:25.980 --> 00:36:29.140
I have a I don't have a question. I have a statement

529
00:36:29.140 --> 00:36:35.620
what I'm still mulling that over, in my mind about I, in

530
00:36:35.620 --> 00:36:40.260
some instances, I get where the other person is, is reject is

531
00:36:40.260 --> 00:36:44.580
the reject is rejecting. And they're the rejector and not

532
00:36:44.660 --> 00:36:46.980
they're not rejecting me, they're rejecting their own

533
00:36:46.980 --> 00:36:50.500
thought, their own ideas about whatever that situation is.

534
00:36:51.140 --> 00:36:55.020
Some instances, I'm thinking, like, I can't, I'm trying to

535
00:36:55.020 --> 00:36:59.700
make it apply across the board. Yeah. You know, I mean, for

536
00:36:59.700 --> 00:37:04.900
myself, I realized I'm a very, like, if I if I like you, or I

537
00:37:04.900 --> 00:37:09.220
love you, and you love me, I want you to agree with me not,

538
00:37:09.260 --> 00:37:11.740
you don't have to agree on everything. But when you don't

539
00:37:11.740 --> 00:37:15.820
agree, I take it really personally. Like, it's like,

540
00:37:15.940 --> 00:37:21.780
it's personal. Yeah, is that I can't take it that personal,

541
00:37:21.780 --> 00:37:25.340
because that is the other person's thought about it. If I

542
00:37:25.340 --> 00:37:31.860
have a belief in and standing or standard or whatever it is that

543
00:37:31.860 --> 00:37:36.820
I know is true. Whatever you say about it, or someone else says

544
00:37:36.820 --> 00:37:42.380
about it, that does not apply to me. Unless I do it in my

545
00:37:42.380 --> 00:37:45.700
mind, I realized, okay, you know, you are right. So I don't

546
00:37:45.780 --> 00:37:49.260
entirely put your thoughts off the table. But if I don't find

547
00:37:49.260 --> 00:37:52.660
that you're right, I have to learn to not take it so

548
00:37:52.660 --> 00:37:55.620
personal. If this is what I believe, this is what I believe.

549
00:37:56.700 --> 00:38:01.100
And guess what, same for that person. If that's what you

550
00:38:01.100 --> 00:38:04.140
believe, then that's what you believe. And now we're talking

551
00:38:04.140 --> 00:38:07.940
like Christian principles are like a spiritual principle. Even

552
00:38:07.940 --> 00:38:10.820
at the end of the day, maybe you're interpreting something

553
00:38:10.820 --> 00:38:13.820
and you think this is the godly or right way. And like, this is

554
00:38:13.820 --> 00:38:17.260
not because I do believe there is like, there is like a narrow

555
00:38:17.260 --> 00:38:19.820
path and a wide path. Like we each get a choice. There's then

556
00:38:19.820 --> 00:38:22.820
not saying there's, you know, this is honoring, this is

557
00:38:22.820 --> 00:38:26.540
dishonoring, right? That's not necessarily what I'm talking

558
00:38:26.540 --> 00:38:30.340
about. But even in the rejecting of this is the right way, this

559
00:38:30.340 --> 00:38:35.180
is the way I think we need to go. That is their own belief.

560
00:38:35.180 --> 00:38:40.300
And how many of you can change somebody else's belief? Can you

561
00:38:40.300 --> 00:38:44.500
eat? You're barely able to change your own. It takes work

562
00:38:44.500 --> 00:38:48.820
to just change our own beliefs. And take ownership of our own

563
00:38:48.820 --> 00:38:52.460
thoughts, let alone let alone somebody else's.

564
00:38:53.140 --> 00:38:57.220
You can only share. You can only Yeah, that's it.

565
00:38:58.100 --> 00:39:02.540
And then and then accept. There's got to be a form of

566
00:39:02.540 --> 00:39:05.980
acceptance. Because here's the thing, if you refuse to accept

567
00:39:05.980 --> 00:39:09.900
somebody who's rejecting you, then now now that's going to

568
00:39:09.900 --> 00:39:12.580
start to hurt you. And then bitterness, resentment, like

569
00:39:12.580 --> 00:39:17.140
things are going to start to form inside of you. Yeah. Um,

570
00:39:17.340 --> 00:39:20.260
and that's a whole nother topic acceptance, actually, within

571
00:39:20.260 --> 00:39:24.060
rejection, but like being No, that's good, Linda. Thanks for

572
00:39:24.060 --> 00:39:27.620
sharing that you're not the only one here who's like, you

573
00:39:27.620 --> 00:39:30.060
know, recovering people pleaser than anybody. I don't like when

574
00:39:30.060 --> 00:39:34.140
people reject me, I want to be like, I, I want, I don't want to

575
00:39:34.140 --> 00:39:38.820
take it personal. But the more you can, this is the this is the

576
00:39:38.820 --> 00:39:43.820
thing is you're, you are separating yourself from the

577
00:39:43.820 --> 00:39:48.340
rejection. You're separating yourself and you're saying it's

578
00:39:48.340 --> 00:39:52.380
not personal to me, it's actually personal to you. And if

579
00:39:52.420 --> 00:39:55.580
you want to talk more about that, that's where you can begin

580
00:39:55.580 --> 00:39:58.460
to understand and have empathy for the person that's where

581
00:39:58.460 --> 00:39:59.940
empathy comes in. I see your

582
00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:05.280
point. I don't take it, but I can see where you're coming from. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.

583
00:40:06.080 --> 00:40:10.000
Oh, that's good. Anybody else have a question about rejection or thought about it?

584
00:40:14.720 --> 00:40:21.680
Okay. I want to know, I want you to type in the chat, everybody, please. I would like everyone

585
00:40:21.680 --> 00:40:30.480
to be a part of this. I want to know how are you doing? If you could sum up your business journey

586
00:40:30.480 --> 00:40:42.480
right now, like, how are you feeling about it? And is rejection like a part of it right now?

587
00:40:43.360 --> 00:40:48.320
Are you, you know, are you seeing rejection show up somehow in your business? That's maybe

588
00:40:49.280 --> 00:40:52.720
So I just want each of you to take a moment and I would like you to pop this in the chat. This

589
00:40:52.720 --> 00:40:56.240
is going to help me see where each of you are at right now with your business. So like,

590
00:40:56.240 --> 00:41:03.120
how are you feeling about your business? And what's your relationship with the rejection

591
00:41:03.120 --> 00:41:06.960
in regards to it? Is there something that's popped up in rejection? Is there,

592
00:41:07.840 --> 00:41:11.520
is it stalling you? Are you like, I've been rejected and I'm still going or

593
00:41:13.280 --> 00:41:16.320
that's kind of what I would like to hear from each of you right now in the chat.

594
00:41:48.320 --> 00:42:02.000
All right, I'm looking. You can't get this wrong, by the way, just where you're at. I know

595
00:42:02.000 --> 00:42:06.000
this is vulnerable. I want to, I feel like we're supposed to go there right now. And I just want

596
00:42:06.000 --> 00:42:10.800
to hear from each of you. Like, how are you feeling? Where you at in your business? And

597
00:42:10.800 --> 00:42:17.840
is rejection a part of it right now? And how's that looking? Is it stalling you? Is it holding

598
00:42:17.840 --> 00:42:29.520
you?

599
00:42:48.800 --> 00:42:52.480
All right, I see. I'm brightening this down and I'm taking a look at it all. And then we're going

600
00:42:52.480 --> 00:42:59.520
to talk about it.

601
00:42:59.520 --> 00:43:05.200
Well,

602
00:43:59.520 --> 00:44:23.840
I just read yours. And yes, it does make sense.

603
00:44:23.840 --> 00:44:30.200
Yeah, Lindsay, how are you feeling about your business? And is rejection a part of

604
00:44:30.200 --> 00:44:36.120
it? Like, is it keeping you stalling? Or is any part of rejection a part of it? Okay.

605
00:44:36.120 --> 00:44:58.560
You all are amazing. First of all. Um, this is good. This is so good. All right. All right.

606
00:44:58.560 --> 00:44:59.960
Now that you've identified

607
00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:03.600
right now, how you're feeling, and maybe where some rejection

608
00:45:03.600 --> 00:45:09.200
is in your business. What I want you to answer this question,

609
00:45:09.560 --> 00:45:13.400
truthfully, and honestly, for yourself right now, we're going

610
00:45:13.400 --> 00:45:19.120
to take the opinion that rejection is not personal. Okay,

611
00:45:19.120 --> 00:45:25.880
we're going to take that view in light of that view. Some of you

612
00:45:25.880 --> 00:45:29.400
talked about how you are feeling like you're rejecting yourself.

613
00:45:30.760 --> 00:45:34.880
So in a way it's personal, but I want you we're going to go deep

614
00:45:34.880 --> 00:45:37.880
here in a minute. Okay, we're going to go I want you to just

615
00:45:37.880 --> 00:45:41.760
get really honest with yourself. Are you ready? I believe each of

616
00:45:41.760 --> 00:45:46.080
you are about to have a breakthrough right now. I'm

617
00:45:46.080 --> 00:45:48.480
declaring breakthroughs ever every single one of you on this

618
00:45:48.480 --> 00:45:50.400
call in the next 15 minutes, every single one of you are

619
00:45:50.400 --> 00:45:53.920
leaving, and you're not going to be sold. And you're not going to

620
00:45:53.920 --> 00:45:58.080
be disillusioned, not going to be stagnant. You're not going to

621
00:45:58.080 --> 00:46:07.800
be standstill. Okay, because these things, these things,

622
00:46:08.960 --> 00:46:13.560
there's something that is holding each of you back. There

623
00:46:13.560 --> 00:46:16.960
is a belief or there is a thing or there is a fear that is

624
00:46:16.960 --> 00:46:21.360
holding you that is keeping you still, we are not standstill or

625
00:46:21.360 --> 00:46:29.560
stagnant or or not wanting to work on money or or not wanting

626
00:46:29.560 --> 00:46:34.840
to work on the business or you know, there's a reason there's a

627
00:46:34.840 --> 00:46:39.080
reason. There is a reason we don't get stuck for no reason.

628
00:46:39.080 --> 00:46:42.960
It doesn't just happen out of the blue. And rejection can

629
00:46:42.960 --> 00:46:47.520
sometimes play a really big role. So right now we're just

630
00:46:47.520 --> 00:46:50.160
going to get carry I want you to get curious and be really kind

631
00:46:50.160 --> 00:46:53.360
to yourself. Okay, we're giving it we're going to like do big

632
00:46:53.360 --> 00:46:56.840
hugs right now. Okay, we're doing hugs, we're being nice

633
00:46:56.840 --> 00:47:00.320
for being kind, but we want we want to find something right

634
00:47:00.320 --> 00:47:07.320
now. So where do you what is this is my question? What is the

635
00:47:07.320 --> 00:47:10.880
thought behind what you wrote in the chat? Or what is your

636
00:47:10.880 --> 00:47:19.080
belief behind what you wrote in the chat? That's why I want you

637
00:47:19.080 --> 00:47:24.120
to like write down for yourself right now. There's stuff like

638
00:47:24.120 --> 00:47:28.200
there's something we want to uncover underneath the

639
00:47:28.200 --> 00:47:34.160
stagnation or the stalling or the feeling tired. The

640
00:47:34.160 --> 00:47:46.160
disillusionment the rejecting I want you to do your best right

641
00:47:46.160 --> 00:47:49.720
now to try to find out what is my thought or what is my belief

642
00:47:49.760 --> 00:47:57.280
driving what you wrote in the chat? Does that make sense?

643
00:48:00.360 --> 00:48:01.400
That makes sense, everybody?

644
00:48:11.280 --> 00:48:15.720
What is your thought or your belief driving behind what you

645
00:48:15.760 --> 00:48:16.840
wrote in the chat here?

646
00:48:31.520 --> 00:48:34.800
Okay, now share it in the chat. Yes. I wanted to give you a

647
00:48:34.800 --> 00:48:37.920
moment to like think about it. Because sometimes it can be hard

648
00:48:37.920 --> 00:48:50.040
to find the thought behind or the belief behind it. This is

649
00:48:50.040 --> 00:48:54.880
vulnerable. Okay, this is good. You might feel exposed a little

650
00:48:54.880 --> 00:48:57.480
bit, but that's not what I want. We're we're after breakthrough

651
00:48:57.480 --> 00:49:01.640
here. We're after new thoughts. We're gonna have a turnaround

652
00:49:01.640 --> 00:49:06.000
right now. It's about to be 14 little mini miracles in our

653
00:49:06.000 --> 00:49:17.760
brains right now. So when you're ready, when you have the

654
00:49:17.760 --> 00:49:19.240
thought, go ahead and write in the chat.

655
00:49:36.000 --> 00:49:39.760
Good job, everybody. Keep them coming. You're doing great.

656
00:50:00.000 --> 00:50:28.520
I'm going to, I'm going to wait, like, another minute.

657
00:50:28.520 --> 00:50:35.120
Hey, Garima, I saw that you just joined what we're, we're kind of doing a live coaching

658
00:50:35.120 --> 00:50:36.240
with everybody.

659
00:50:36.240 --> 00:50:41.000
But I, the first question was where, you know, how would you sum up your business right now?

660
00:50:41.000 --> 00:50:45.000
And where is rejection playing a role or a part of it?

661
00:50:45.000 --> 00:50:53.320
And now I'm asking everybody to write, what is the thought or the belief behind that?

662
00:50:53.320 --> 00:50:56.520
What is driving, driving that?

663
00:50:56.520 --> 00:50:59.380
All right.

664
00:50:59.380 --> 00:51:05.240
This is basically what we're doing right now is we're trying to reveal where you're stuck

665
00:51:05.240 --> 00:51:08.520
or where you're not able to move forward.

666
00:51:08.520 --> 00:51:15.760
And then what we're about to step into is you each creating a new thought for yourself.

667
00:51:15.760 --> 00:51:23.440
Because remember, if you have a thought on replay, that is what a neuro pathway is.

668
00:51:23.440 --> 00:51:26.080
It's a thought on replay over and over and over and over and over and over and over

669
00:51:26.080 --> 00:51:30.680
and over and over and over and over and over and over again, that is the result of that

670
00:51:30.680 --> 00:51:31.680
thought.

671
00:51:31.680 --> 00:51:32.680
Okay.

672
00:51:32.680 --> 00:51:38.520
Now, some of you are having thoughts right now that are not, they're not working for

673
00:51:38.520 --> 00:51:39.520
you.

674
00:51:39.520 --> 00:51:45.400
Some of you have some that are right now, if they're working, great.

675
00:51:45.400 --> 00:51:48.520
If they're not working, then they need to change, right?

676
00:51:48.520 --> 00:51:53.480
This is, this is the whole thing about not seeing the results that you want.

677
00:51:53.480 --> 00:51:56.880
Where's like one little change you can do this week.

678
00:51:56.880 --> 00:52:01.240
And the one little change can be a new thought.

679
00:52:01.240 --> 00:52:02.240
That's what we're going to do this week.

680
00:52:02.240 --> 00:52:03.240
All right.

681
00:52:03.240 --> 00:52:04.240
Is everyone ready?

682
00:52:04.240 --> 00:52:09.200
I'm going to go through each of you rapid fire here and I want you to pay attention.

683
00:52:09.200 --> 00:52:12.200
Everyone pay attention.

684
00:52:12.200 --> 00:52:13.200
Okay.

685
00:52:13.200 --> 00:52:14.200
So.

686
00:52:14.200 --> 00:52:17.760
All right, Kendall, I'll start with you.

687
00:52:18.000 --> 00:52:22.200
No, no, I'm starting with, who am I starting with?

688
00:52:22.200 --> 00:52:23.200
Hold on.

689
00:52:23.200 --> 00:52:24.200
Okay.

690
00:52:24.200 --> 00:52:25.200
All right.

691
00:52:25.200 --> 00:52:26.200
Lindsay, I'm starting with you.

692
00:52:26.200 --> 00:52:27.200
I think.

693
00:52:27.200 --> 00:52:28.200
Hold on.

694
00:52:28.200 --> 00:52:29.200
No, no, no.

695
00:52:29.200 --> 00:52:30.200
You are at the bottom.

696
00:52:30.200 --> 00:52:31.200
Sorry, guys.

697
00:52:31.200 --> 00:52:32.200
All right.

698
00:52:32.200 --> 00:52:33.200
Kendall, I'm starting with you.

699
00:52:33.200 --> 00:52:47.080
You said, I'm not going to get it done by the time I feel like I need her once I have

700
00:52:47.080 --> 00:52:48.080
it done.

701
00:52:48.080 --> 00:52:50.840
That's going to create disappointment from my husband and cause him to question if it's

702
00:52:50.840 --> 00:52:53.680
worth continued investment in Rainmakers.

703
00:52:53.680 --> 00:52:54.760
Okay.

704
00:52:54.760 --> 00:53:02.400
So I'm sure those thoughts are creating anxiety, feeling like you're stuck, feeling like what,

705
00:53:02.400 --> 00:53:09.920
you know, is this really, is this like you said, I get distracted with all these excuses.

706
00:53:09.920 --> 00:53:10.920
There's overwhelm.

707
00:53:10.920 --> 00:53:11.920
All right.

708
00:53:11.920 --> 00:53:22.160
So Kendall, I want you to create a new positive thought that is going to work for you.

709
00:53:22.160 --> 00:53:23.160
Here's the thing.

710
00:53:23.160 --> 00:53:26.480
Your brain doesn't believe it, but in order to believe it, you've got to start saying

711
00:53:26.480 --> 00:53:27.480
it.

712
00:53:27.480 --> 00:53:28.480
All right.

713
00:53:28.480 --> 00:53:34.880
So maybe Kendall, something you need to do this week is to re-evaluate your timeline

714
00:53:34.880 --> 00:53:40.800
because it looks like time is something that is frustrating you.

715
00:53:40.800 --> 00:53:45.000
So I would like you to like take a real look at like, what is my timeline?

716
00:53:45.000 --> 00:53:47.440
Like what is, what's realistic?

717
00:53:47.440 --> 00:53:56.400
And then I, instead of your husband questioning your worth, I want you to question it yourself.

718
00:53:56.400 --> 00:53:58.640
What is worth it for you?

719
00:53:58.640 --> 00:54:01.440
What do you think you need?

720
00:54:01.440 --> 00:54:03.780
That's what I want you to do this week.

721
00:54:03.780 --> 00:54:07.680
Like with this thought, okay?

722
00:54:07.680 --> 00:54:11.040
Because hear this, everybody, if you're questioning, is this worth it?

723
00:54:11.040 --> 00:54:12.040
Is this worth it?

724
00:54:12.040 --> 00:54:13.680
It's a good question.

725
00:54:13.680 --> 00:54:14.880
It is.

726
00:54:14.880 --> 00:54:16.680
But the first question is, am I worth it?

727
00:54:16.680 --> 00:54:19.040
And what do I, what do I want?

728
00:54:19.040 --> 00:54:20.480
That's where our investments come.

729
00:54:20.480 --> 00:54:23.000
They stem from what do I want?

730
00:54:23.000 --> 00:54:26.640
What is worth it for me?

731
00:54:26.640 --> 00:54:30.640
And sometimes we just forget that along the process when we are discouraged or rejected

732
00:54:30.640 --> 00:54:32.760
or things aren't looking the way that we expected them to.

733
00:54:32.760 --> 00:54:33.760
So we're kind of coming back.

734
00:54:33.760 --> 00:54:36.000
Does that make sense for you, Kendall?

735
00:54:36.000 --> 00:54:38.000
I want you to do that this week.

736
00:54:38.000 --> 00:54:39.000
Okay.

737
00:54:39.000 --> 00:54:44.400
All right, Kate, you're saying someone is better than me.

738
00:54:44.400 --> 00:54:45.600
So why should I try?

739
00:54:45.600 --> 00:54:49.400
Someone else shines better, better, does better, looks better, sings better.

740
00:54:49.400 --> 00:54:50.400
Okay.

741
00:54:50.400 --> 00:54:54.440
Well, if you keep having that thought, then you're going to continue to shrink back smaller

742
00:54:54.440 --> 00:54:56.480
and smaller and smaller.

743
00:54:56.480 --> 00:54:58.680
And that's what's happening, right?

744
00:54:58.680 --> 00:54:59.680
Exactly.

745
00:54:59.680 --> 00:55:00.180
So.

746
00:55:00.000 --> 00:55:05.140
up. You want to change that up and do have a positive thought

747
00:55:05.140 --> 00:55:09.340
about yourself. And instead of saying somebody's better than

748
00:55:09.340 --> 00:55:13.560
me, I want you to say something positive about you and what you

749
00:55:13.560 --> 00:55:18.020
bring to the table. Because while there may be true, listen,

750
00:55:18.020 --> 00:55:20.280
there's always somebody better at all of us than things.

751
00:55:20.720 --> 00:55:27.420
That's actually true. However, if you believe it's true, then

752
00:55:27.420 --> 00:55:31.820
it's stopping you from showing up authentically in your voice

753
00:55:31.820 --> 00:55:34.900
and what you're called to. So instead of saying something is

754
00:55:34.900 --> 00:55:38.580
someone is better than me, I want you to say what you are

755
00:55:38.580 --> 00:55:42.140
good. I want you to write this week about what you are good at

756
00:55:42.140 --> 00:55:44.980
and what you bring to the table because there is no other Kate

757
00:55:44.980 --> 00:55:49.300
in the world. So if you think about this isn't for everybody,

758
00:55:49.540 --> 00:55:54.620
since there's only one of you, then you actually do the best of

759
00:55:54.620 --> 00:56:00.140
what you bring to the table. But your brain does not believing

760
00:56:00.140 --> 00:56:02.260
that right now it's agreeing that somebody's doing it better.

761
00:56:03.100 --> 00:56:05.700
So I want you I want this week I want you to say I want you to

762
00:56:05.700 --> 00:56:08.820
literally write down like what you are good at what you shine

763
00:56:08.820 --> 00:56:14.460
in what you do good at not what somebody else does. Okay, and

764
00:56:14.460 --> 00:56:18.180
then that's what I want you to do this week. Okay, Jenna,

765
00:56:18.180 --> 00:56:20.380
you're not sure you want to keep going with your business. So

766
00:56:20.380 --> 00:56:23.140
that makes sense, right? When you start feeling stuck when you

767
00:56:23.140 --> 00:56:26.580
start questioning, like, do I really want to do this? You can

768
00:56:26.580 --> 00:56:30.460
get it could be very stagnant. And I know you came on to the

769
00:56:30.460 --> 00:56:33.100
call feeling confused. So here's what I'd like you to do this

770
00:56:33.100 --> 00:56:38.060
week. I want you to write down pros and cons. Have you done

771
00:56:38.060 --> 00:56:42.540
that yet? Okay, that's what I want you to do this week. I want

772
00:56:42.540 --> 00:56:47.540
you to actually get on paper. What is working in my business?

773
00:56:47.540 --> 00:56:52.260
Why do I want to do this? And what are what are the cons? And

774
00:56:52.260 --> 00:56:55.340
I want you to take a hard look and I want you to ask yourself

775
00:56:58.260 --> 00:57:01.260
what would it look like to keep going? And what would it look

776
00:57:01.260 --> 00:57:04.860
like to stop? Because you haven't since you haven't

777
00:57:04.860 --> 00:57:08.020
actually put it on paper yet. It's bought it's boggled up in

778
00:57:08.020 --> 00:57:10.500
here and you're just going to keep getting stuck and stagnant

779
00:57:10.500 --> 00:57:15.220
if you don't like actually take a good look at it. And nobody's

780
00:57:15.220 --> 00:57:18.260
forcing any of you all to you don't have to continue with your

781
00:57:18.260 --> 00:57:21.420
business if you don't want to there is no forcing here. That's

782
00:57:21.420 --> 00:57:25.860
why this exercise is like, what, what do you want? And like, I

783
00:57:25.860 --> 00:57:28.060
want you to take a look at it and make a decision for

784
00:57:28.060 --> 00:57:32.460
yourself. And I want you to do that this week. And I want you

785
00:57:32.460 --> 00:57:36.100
to be like really honest with yourself. Here's the reality,

786
00:57:36.140 --> 00:57:38.780
there are a lot of cons in the beginning of building a

787
00:57:38.780 --> 00:57:43.780
business. There's a lot, it takes a lot to do this. But it's

788
00:57:43.780 --> 00:57:46.780
not it's not anything that's impossible, right? Unless you

789
00:57:46.780 --> 00:57:50.460
decide that it is. And you decide that this isn't what I

790
00:57:50.460 --> 00:57:53.820
want. And this isn't possible for me. So that's why it's

791
00:57:53.820 --> 00:57:57.140
important for you to like write down and be like, Okay, what's

792
00:57:57.140 --> 00:58:00.140
the pros? What's the cons? And I want you to be like, Okay, if I

793
00:58:00.140 --> 00:58:02.500
go down this way, what would this look like? If I go down

794
00:58:02.500 --> 00:58:05.140
this way? What would it look like? And that is going to help

795
00:58:05.140 --> 00:58:09.380
you at least take a look at like, what you're actually

796
00:58:09.380 --> 00:58:12.020
looking at instead of making up a bunch of stuff in your head.

797
00:58:12.260 --> 00:58:21.420
Does that help Jana? Okay, good. Um, okay, Sheree. You've done it

798
00:58:21.420 --> 00:58:23.460
wrong. Okay, so you have this thought, like, I've done it

799
00:58:23.460 --> 00:58:26.420
wrong. I saw that you were like, I saw you list some of the the

800
00:58:26.420 --> 00:58:29.180
wins, but then it's like, okay, like, where's the finances? Like

801
00:58:29.180 --> 00:58:33.300
I'm waiting on some finances, right? So instead of I've done

802
00:58:33.300 --> 00:58:36.220
it wrong, I want you to take a look this week at like, what am

803
00:58:36.220 --> 00:58:41.340
I what can I do differently? And maybe where do I need to change

804
00:58:41.340 --> 00:58:46.140
or tighten something up? That's what I want you to look at

805
00:58:46.140 --> 00:58:52.540
yourself for yourself this week. Because in learning new skills,

806
00:58:52.540 --> 00:58:56.060
we tend to do things wrong for a while until we get them right.

807
00:58:56.420 --> 00:59:01.780
But it but behind that thought is like, I think there's I think

808
00:59:01.780 --> 00:59:05.260
you just need to take a look to assure yourself that actually

809
00:59:05.260 --> 00:59:09.220
you're doing things right. But the only way to do that is to

810
00:59:09.220 --> 00:59:11.700
answer those questions. I said, does that does that make sense?

811
00:59:12.060 --> 00:59:17.060
Is that helpful? All right, cool. All right, Chrissy, the

812
00:59:17.060 --> 00:59:19.060
stress of this business is not worth it. It's not what I

813
00:59:19.060 --> 00:59:23.180
expected it to be. Great. Okay, so you're having a mis

814
00:59:23.180 --> 00:59:27.740
expectation sounds like with yourself. There's like, I have

815
00:59:27.740 --> 00:59:31.180
this expectation. I thought it was gonna look like this. It's

816
00:59:31.180 --> 00:59:34.220
actually looking like this. So here's what I'd like you to do

817
00:59:34.220 --> 00:59:39.300
this week. I want you to write down what actually is stressing

818
00:59:39.300 --> 00:59:44.820
you out from your business. Have you done that yet? Okay, so you

819
00:59:44.820 --> 00:59:49.020
actually have like, key points, this task and this thing is

820
00:59:49.020 --> 00:59:53.900
stressing me out. This thing here is where I'm getting my

821
00:59:53.900 --> 00:59:59.860
So you've already done that. Okay, so then

822
01:00:00.000 --> 01:00:03.200
Okay, so great, so you've already done step one.

823
01:00:03.200 --> 01:00:06.720
So step two, I want on the next column, like next to those,

824
01:00:06.720 --> 01:00:09.160
I want you to think about

825
01:00:09.160 --> 01:00:11.160
what is the solution to each of those?

826
01:00:12.360 --> 01:00:13.320
Have you done that?

827
01:00:14.720 --> 01:00:17.360
Okay, that's your next step this week.

828
01:00:17.360 --> 01:00:21.020
What is the solution to help get you out of anxiety?

829
01:00:21.880 --> 01:00:24.520
You don't have to do any of them actually,

830
01:00:24.520 --> 01:00:26.800
unless one feels really good and really peaceful,

831
01:00:26.800 --> 01:00:28.300
then I want you to do that one.

832
01:00:28.300 --> 01:00:29.460
But this will be the next step.

833
01:00:29.920 --> 01:00:31.440
You identified, you've got your stressor.

834
01:00:31.440 --> 01:00:35.320
Now I want you to write down what could problem solve this?

835
01:00:35.320 --> 01:00:38.320
And then you'll be able to have even more clarity.

836
01:00:38.320 --> 01:00:40.280
Is this worth it?

837
01:00:40.280 --> 01:00:42.080
Do I wanna keep doing this?

838
01:00:42.080 --> 01:00:45.160
And is this actually what I expected it to be?

839
01:00:45.160 --> 01:00:46.760
Because maybe it actually is.

840
01:00:47.720 --> 01:00:49.480
And then maybe you can say, okay,

841
01:00:49.480 --> 01:00:52.060
because here's where everybody hear this

842
01:00:52.060 --> 01:00:53.240
and you're not alone, Christine,

843
01:00:53.240 --> 01:00:54.480
I'm right there with you.

844
01:00:55.480 --> 01:00:58.000
Expectations are really tricky

845
01:00:58.000 --> 01:01:03.000
because they can help us,

846
01:01:04.260 --> 01:01:07.300
but sometimes they can really hurt us.

847
01:01:09.260 --> 01:01:12.540
And so a phrase that I've said a lot in dating

848
01:01:12.540 --> 01:01:16.420
and it's translated into growing businesses over the year

849
01:01:16.420 --> 01:01:21.320
is have high standards, but lower my expectations.

850
01:01:21.700 --> 01:01:26.200
So I keep my standard here,

851
01:01:27.060 --> 01:01:30.660
but I lower the way that I'm gonna get to the standard

852
01:01:30.660 --> 01:01:35.660
or how long it's gonna take me or what's required of me.

853
01:01:36.260 --> 01:01:38.860
Cause Christy, let's not forget you're also,

854
01:01:38.860 --> 01:01:40.540
I'm aware it's one minute over.

855
01:01:40.540 --> 01:01:42.420
I'm gonna keep going for a couple more minutes.

856
01:01:42.420 --> 01:01:45.100
Feel free to pop off if you need to.

857
01:01:45.100 --> 01:01:46.780
Cause Christy, let's also not forget

858
01:01:46.780 --> 01:01:47.900
that you're in transition.

859
01:01:47.900 --> 01:01:50.420
You just made a big life decision.

860
01:01:50.440 --> 01:01:52.980
And that also could be,

861
01:01:53.840 --> 01:01:55.120
it's actually probably a good thing

862
01:01:55.120 --> 01:01:58.600
that's like forcing you to kind of take a look at like,

863
01:01:58.600 --> 01:02:00.840
what is my business?

864
01:02:00.840 --> 01:02:02.080
Is this worth it?

865
01:02:02.080 --> 01:02:07.080
Do, are these the things that I wanna keep going?

866
01:02:07.360 --> 01:02:08.320
What is the problem?

867
01:02:08.320 --> 01:02:09.640
How can I problem solve this?

868
01:02:09.640 --> 01:02:12.160
And is this what I wanna keep doing?

869
01:02:13.360 --> 01:02:14.720
And that's what I want you to do this week.

870
01:02:14.720 --> 01:02:16.320
And then I also would like you to do,

871
01:02:16.320 --> 01:02:18.140
you and maybe anybody else who's dealing

872
01:02:18.160 --> 01:02:22.000
with an unmet expectation conversation with yourself,

873
01:02:22.000 --> 01:02:24.160
you gotta revisit your expectations.

874
01:02:24.160 --> 01:02:25.280
And are they realistic?

875
01:02:25.280 --> 01:02:26.880
And are they in alignment with you?

876
01:02:26.880 --> 01:02:27.760
Are they realistic?

877
01:02:27.760 --> 01:02:29.400
And are they in alignment with who you are

878
01:02:29.400 --> 01:02:30.520
and what you wanna do?

879
01:02:31.560 --> 01:02:34.700
That's basically how you relook at an expectation.

880
01:02:36.400 --> 01:02:39.600
I've actually just lowered my expectations for myself

881
01:02:39.600 --> 01:02:40.640
over the last couple of weeks.

882
01:02:40.640 --> 01:02:42.760
And I brought me a lot of peace.

883
01:02:42.760 --> 01:02:44.680
Not my standard.

884
01:02:44.680 --> 01:02:45.920
My standard is my goal.

885
01:02:45.940 --> 01:02:48.500
My standard is, that's not changing.

886
01:02:49.540 --> 01:02:54.540
But my expectations are, can lower.

887
01:02:54.940 --> 01:02:56.780
I need to give everyone permission.

888
01:02:57.860 --> 01:02:59.760
This is gonna sound really countercultural,

889
01:02:59.760 --> 01:03:02.580
but this is what I've seen work with expectations

890
01:03:02.580 --> 01:03:06.300
is if you lower them and make them realistic and aligned.

891
01:03:06.300 --> 01:03:08.120
Realistic and aligned.

892
01:03:08.120 --> 01:03:11.300
And only you can really answer that at the end of the day.

893
01:03:11.300 --> 01:03:13.620
Okay, so I want you to do that this week, Christy.

894
01:03:14.600 --> 01:03:15.440
All right.

895
01:03:16.600 --> 01:03:19.320
Aaron said, I'm not smart enough to do this business.

896
01:03:19.320 --> 01:03:20.920
Anybody else had that thought before?

897
01:03:20.920 --> 01:03:22.160
I know I have.

898
01:03:22.160 --> 01:03:24.560
Many, many, many, many, many a times.

899
01:03:24.560 --> 01:03:26.760
So Aaron, I want you to really,

900
01:03:26.760 --> 01:03:28.920
I want you to write down this week

901
01:03:28.920 --> 01:03:31.640
where you have had success in your life

902
01:03:31.640 --> 01:03:34.560
and where you think that you are smart enough.

903
01:03:35.480 --> 01:03:38.160
Because I think your brain needs some evidence

904
01:03:38.160 --> 01:03:42.800
that you are smart and you are capable of doing new skills.

905
01:03:43.660 --> 01:03:46.940
Because you haven't got to this stage in your life already

906
01:03:46.940 --> 01:03:49.620
without having conquered and been smart enough

907
01:03:49.620 --> 01:03:52.380
to do quite a few skills.

908
01:03:52.380 --> 01:03:54.100
And they can be parenting skills.

909
01:03:54.100 --> 01:03:55.580
They can be social skills.

910
01:03:55.580 --> 01:04:00.100
They can be life skills.

911
01:04:00.100 --> 01:04:03.900
They can be health skills, okay?

912
01:04:03.900 --> 01:04:05.540
I want you to do that this week

913
01:04:05.540 --> 01:04:09.200
because what it's gonna do is it's going to,

914
01:04:10.180 --> 01:04:14.180
it's going to help you have some evidence

915
01:04:16.100 --> 01:04:17.620
of where you are smart.

916
01:04:17.620 --> 01:04:19.220
And listen, this is for everybody.

917
01:04:19.220 --> 01:04:22.100
Anytime you're saying I'm not smart enough,

918
01:04:22.100 --> 01:04:24.460
it's normally not true.

919
01:04:24.460 --> 01:04:26.540
What's behind that usually is I'm not sure

920
01:04:26.540 --> 01:04:29.900
that I'm willing or wanting to do what it takes

921
01:04:29.900 --> 01:04:32.400
to be good at such and such skill.

922
01:04:33.420 --> 01:04:34.580
Because all of us are smart

923
01:04:34.580 --> 01:04:37.180
and all of us are capable of doing a lot.

924
01:04:39.460 --> 01:04:41.420
All right, Erin, is that helpful for you?

925
01:04:41.420 --> 01:04:43.020
I want you to do that this week.

926
01:04:47.580 --> 01:04:49.580
Oh no, I don't even think Erin was on here.

927
01:04:49.580 --> 01:04:50.420
Dang it.

928
01:04:52.660 --> 01:04:54.340
I just scrolled down.

929
01:04:55.820 --> 01:04:56.660
All right.

930
01:04:56.660 --> 01:04:58.500
She was gonna watch it though, so she'll get it.

931
01:04:58.500 --> 01:05:00.020
Okay, okay, that's for you.

932
01:05:00.000 --> 01:05:00.840
Erin.

933
01:05:02.520 --> 01:05:03.800
All right, amazing.

934
01:05:03.800 --> 01:05:08.240
And then, okay, the last person is Amy.

935
01:05:09.400 --> 01:05:12.000
That I don't think I have, can, I have.

936
01:05:14.040 --> 01:05:15.720
All right, Amy.

937
01:05:15.720 --> 01:05:16.840
This is too good to be true.

938
01:05:16.840 --> 01:05:18.160
What if this doesn't work for me?

939
01:05:18.160 --> 01:05:19.640
I got tricks.

940
01:05:19.640 --> 01:05:21.520
Let's see, is Amy on this call still?

941
01:05:22.800 --> 01:05:23.800
Okay, she is.

942
01:05:23.800 --> 01:05:26.600
So, I've definitely had those thoughts too.

943
01:05:26.680 --> 01:05:31.360
And I think, again, this is tricky because,

944
01:05:32.400 --> 01:05:33.800
I used that word on purpose.

945
01:05:34.680 --> 01:05:39.600
We actually can be deceived sometimes

946
01:05:39.600 --> 01:05:42.280
when we're in a low place and we just go

947
01:05:42.280 --> 01:05:44.840
and we say, this is too good to be true.

948
01:05:44.840 --> 01:05:46.080
This isn't gonna work for me.

949
01:05:46.080 --> 01:05:48.640
Cause that is like a brain default.

950
01:05:48.640 --> 01:05:53.640
Like, that is where your brain probably just goes naturally.

951
01:05:54.640 --> 01:05:56.080
Naturally, right?

952
01:05:56.080 --> 01:05:59.480
When things, when rubber hits the road,

953
01:05:59.480 --> 01:06:00.520
when things are not working.

954
01:06:00.520 --> 01:06:03.320
So, this is what I want you to do this week.

955
01:06:03.320 --> 01:06:06.520
I want you to say, what if it was true?

956
01:06:06.520 --> 01:06:08.040
Then what?

957
01:06:08.040 --> 01:06:10.600
I want you to begin to actually ask yourself

958
01:06:10.600 --> 01:06:11.880
the opposite of this, right?

959
01:06:11.880 --> 01:06:13.880
You think you're getting tricked?

960
01:06:13.880 --> 01:06:15.560
What if it's actually true?

961
01:06:16.680 --> 01:06:18.680
And what if it does work?

962
01:06:18.680 --> 01:06:19.920
Like, I want you to take some time

963
01:06:19.920 --> 01:06:22.440
to actually write this down and think about this.

964
01:06:24.600 --> 01:06:27.880
Cause it's going to put your brain into possibility.

965
01:06:27.880 --> 01:06:30.120
Right now, this is more like impossible.

966
01:06:30.120 --> 01:06:31.600
It's not gonna work.

967
01:06:31.600 --> 01:06:33.880
But I want you to get into possibility.

968
01:06:33.880 --> 01:06:35.960
Like how, what if this is true?

969
01:06:35.960 --> 01:06:37.000
What if it does work for me?

970
01:06:37.000 --> 01:06:39.400
Because it has worked for a lot of people

971
01:06:39.400 --> 01:06:41.200
and it does work for a lot of people.

972
01:06:41.200 --> 01:06:43.640
A lot of people in the world have a lot of success

973
01:06:43.640 --> 01:06:44.840
running businesses.

974
01:06:47.920 --> 01:06:50.040
All right, Amy, that's what I want you to do this week.

975
01:06:50.040 --> 01:06:52.880
Also, maybe you have something similar going on

976
01:06:52.880 --> 01:06:55.800
that Christy has, which is maybe there's an expectation

977
01:06:55.800 --> 01:06:58.240
that's not being met or that hasn't been met.

978
01:07:00.080 --> 01:07:02.480
What would it maybe look like to also lower

979
01:07:02.480 --> 01:07:05.560
or shift your expectations right now?

980
01:07:07.000 --> 01:07:09.040
Remember, an expectation,

981
01:07:09.040 --> 01:07:13.040
we want to be possible and in alignment.

982
01:07:14.600 --> 01:07:18.400
Right, like realistic and in alignment with who you are.

983
01:07:23.880 --> 01:07:26.720
All right, I think I'm about done.

984
01:07:26.720 --> 01:07:28.400
I think that's everybody.

985
01:07:28.400 --> 01:07:29.520
All right, Lindsey.

986
01:07:32.360 --> 01:07:33.200
Awesome.

987
01:07:35.760 --> 01:07:36.920
That's exciting, Lindsey.

988
01:07:36.920 --> 01:07:41.040
Yay, Lindsey made some really great decisions for you.

989
01:07:42.360 --> 01:07:44.360
Getting out of feeling stuck in rejection.

990
01:07:44.360 --> 01:07:45.320
That feels so good.

991
01:07:45.320 --> 01:07:46.920
I mean, especially with like the miracle

992
01:07:46.920 --> 01:07:47.760
with your daughter too.

993
01:07:47.760 --> 01:07:51.000
I feel like that was like in alignment with that too.

994
01:07:51.960 --> 01:07:52.800
Amazing.

995
01:07:55.240 --> 01:07:58.360
Okay, Christy, lowering the time expectations.

996
01:07:58.360 --> 01:08:01.440
Yeah, so Christy, we can also talk about this too

997
01:08:01.440 --> 01:08:05.120
in the book club tomorrow too,

998
01:08:05.120 --> 01:08:09.840
because time is really, it's interesting.

999
01:08:09.840 --> 01:08:12.200
You know, the expectations we have for us in our time

1000
01:08:12.200 --> 01:08:16.040
and like what's actually possible, right?

1001
01:08:17.000 --> 01:08:19.479
And what is in alignment?

1002
01:08:19.479 --> 01:08:20.880
And I think with you right now,

1003
01:08:20.880 --> 01:08:23.479
it's also maybe asking, again, it's not alignment,

1004
01:08:23.479 --> 01:08:24.800
like what's in a line?

1005
01:08:24.800 --> 01:08:26.600
Because we're reading this book,

1006
01:08:26.600 --> 01:08:28.439
The Science of Scaling by Ben Hardy,

1007
01:08:28.439 --> 01:08:31.080
and he talks about how to scale your business

1008
01:08:31.080 --> 01:08:35.520
in three years and how to like work backwards from that.

1009
01:08:35.520 --> 01:08:37.359
And so it can just feel really intense.

1010
01:08:37.359 --> 01:08:40.399
It can feel like a lot, you know, with that time.

1011
01:08:40.399 --> 01:08:42.120
So Christy, that might be a part of that too,

1012
01:08:42.120 --> 01:08:44.120
but we'll definitely talk about that.

1013
01:08:44.200 --> 01:08:45.040
Okay, yay.

1014
01:08:45.040 --> 01:08:48.279
I know a few of you hopped on here a little bit late

1015
01:08:48.279 --> 01:08:53.279
and Garima, are you still on this call?

1016
01:08:54.640 --> 01:08:55.479
Let's see.

1017
01:08:55.479 --> 01:08:57.399
Okay, Garima is on this call.

1018
01:08:57.399 --> 01:09:00.120
I see what you wrote and, you know,

1019
01:09:00.120 --> 01:09:02.920
I don't need to have a business with millions in return.

1020
01:09:02.920 --> 01:09:04.399
Here's what's awesome.

1021
01:09:04.399 --> 01:09:06.399
You get to decide what you want.

1022
01:09:07.520 --> 01:09:08.359
What do you want?

1023
01:09:08.359 --> 01:09:09.200
What do you want?

1024
01:09:09.200 --> 01:09:10.040
What do you want?

1025
01:09:10.040 --> 01:09:10.880
What do you want?

1026
01:09:10.880 --> 01:09:11.720
What do you want?

1027
01:09:11.720 --> 01:09:12.560
What do you want?

1028
01:09:13.560 --> 01:09:15.560
What do you want then?

1029
01:09:15.560 --> 01:09:16.680
If you don't want millions,

1030
01:09:16.680 --> 01:09:19.319
no one's saying you have to, right?

1031
01:09:19.319 --> 01:09:20.560
If you have enough,

1032
01:09:21.560 --> 01:09:23.240
anybody struggle with this thought of like,

1033
01:09:23.240 --> 01:09:25.279
I'm content and I have enough.

1034
01:09:25.279 --> 01:09:27.120
And also there's more.

1035
01:09:27.120 --> 01:09:30.800
Anybody under like feel that tension in business building.

1036
01:09:30.800 --> 01:09:32.720
I think that's partly also what's going on.

1037
01:09:32.720 --> 01:09:34.800
And you Garima, right?

1038
01:09:34.800 --> 01:09:37.560
Cause we were taught to like, let's be grateful.

1039
01:09:37.560 --> 01:09:39.319
Let's be content.

1040
01:09:39.319 --> 01:09:41.760
Let's say, thank you God for what I have today

1041
01:09:42.040 --> 01:09:44.160
for all of my needs and more.

1042
01:09:44.160 --> 01:09:48.160
And if a lot of you in this call,

1043
01:09:48.160 --> 01:09:50.760
you have dreams, you have visions,

1044
01:09:50.760 --> 01:09:53.319
you have something inside of you

1045
01:09:53.319 --> 01:09:57.800
that is greater than what you have in the moment.

1046
01:09:57.800 --> 01:10:00.240
It is beyond, it's true.

1047
01:10:00.000 --> 01:10:05.000
stretching past the paycheck to paycheck life.

1048
01:10:05.400 --> 01:10:08.760
It's stretching past, okay,

1049
01:10:08.760 --> 01:10:11.400
like getting out of the stress and anxiety

1050
01:10:11.400 --> 01:10:13.120
of like, how do I live day to day?

1051
01:10:13.120 --> 01:10:15.620
How do I, cause that can also sometimes

1052
01:10:15.620 --> 01:10:18.320
there could be like some stress and anxiety with that.

1053
01:10:19.760 --> 01:10:21.760
Here's what I think is really important.

1054
01:10:23.720 --> 01:10:27.280
Garima, this is for you and maybe any of you as well.

1055
01:10:27.280 --> 01:10:30.080
Continue to be content and grateful.

1056
01:10:30.080 --> 01:10:32.360
We cannot overlook that.

1057
01:10:32.360 --> 01:10:34.040
If we are not content and grateful,

1058
01:10:34.040 --> 01:10:36.200
I promise you that's not gonna work for us.

1059
01:10:36.200 --> 01:10:37.700
That's not a good place to be.

1060
01:10:38.600 --> 01:10:40.080
Okay, so like maybe this week

1061
01:10:40.080 --> 01:10:41.400
you're doing a gratitude journal.

1062
01:10:41.400 --> 01:10:44.480
Maybe this week you're being specifically thankful

1063
01:10:44.480 --> 01:10:47.640
and content for what you can see and what you do have

1064
01:10:47.640 --> 01:10:51.520
and what is already in the scene for you.

1065
01:10:51.520 --> 01:10:53.640
But we also wanna believe for miracles.

1066
01:10:53.640 --> 01:10:57.160
We wanna believe for the things we have yet to see.

1067
01:10:57.600 --> 01:10:59.040
A lot of you are visionaries.

1068
01:10:59.040 --> 01:11:02.280
A lot of you have something inside of you

1069
01:11:02.280 --> 01:11:06.440
that is beyond what you've been given.

1070
01:11:06.440 --> 01:11:08.240
It is beyond.

1071
01:11:08.240 --> 01:11:09.560
And that is a good thing.

1072
01:11:09.560 --> 01:11:12.440
So hear me out, that's also good.

1073
01:11:12.440 --> 01:11:14.840
Having a vision, creating something greater

1074
01:11:14.840 --> 01:11:17.840
than what you're able to see, that is very godly as well.

1075
01:11:18.800 --> 01:11:22.240
There is a space in God's heart for both.

1076
01:11:22.240 --> 01:11:23.380
I see it all over.

1077
01:11:24.380 --> 01:11:29.140
So I also want you, Grima, to maybe take some time to say,

1078
01:11:29.140 --> 01:11:30.780
okay, what is, what do I want?

1079
01:11:30.780 --> 01:11:32.060
How much money do I want?

1080
01:11:32.060 --> 01:11:34.180
What does this business actually,

1081
01:11:34.180 --> 01:11:35.820
what do I want this to look like?

1082
01:11:37.140 --> 01:11:39.420
Okay, that's what I want you to do this week.

1083
01:11:40.660 --> 01:11:45.180
All right, we are past the hour.

1084
01:11:45.180 --> 01:11:48.300
I don't wanna, I'm feeling like I've got some energy left.

1085
01:11:48.300 --> 01:11:52.660
So anybody, anybody else have any questions

1086
01:11:52.980 --> 01:11:55.180
or any last minute support that they need

1087
01:11:55.180 --> 01:11:56.500
before we head off here?

1088
01:12:08.100 --> 01:12:09.700
Oh, thanks, Grima, yes.

1089
01:12:09.700 --> 01:12:10.700
Oh, that's a miracle too.

1090
01:12:10.700 --> 01:12:12.260
Yeah, I started feeling better.

1091
01:12:13.340 --> 01:12:16.800
Yes, my energy has definitely taken a turn.

1092
01:12:16.800 --> 01:12:19.460
I wrote on my journal, I wrote a turnaround week

1093
01:12:19.460 --> 01:12:22.380
at the top, the turnaround week.

1094
01:12:23.660 --> 01:12:27.340
All right, so awesome.

1095
01:12:27.340 --> 01:12:32.340
Okay, I've got two more topics I think would be fun this week

1096
01:12:32.620 --> 01:12:33.640
or these next two weeks.

1097
01:12:33.640 --> 01:12:36.340
I'm thinking nervous system,

1098
01:12:36.340 --> 01:12:37.980
can talk about our nervous system,

1099
01:12:37.980 --> 01:12:42.980
and then also habit stacking slash kind of like

1100
01:12:43.100 --> 01:12:48.100
how to look at our weeks a little bit differently.

1101
01:12:49.460 --> 01:12:51.940
Do both of those sound valuable to you?

1102
01:12:52.780 --> 01:12:54.500
For the next two weeks.

1103
01:13:00.300 --> 01:13:01.700
All right, awesome, Kate.

1104
01:13:03.540 --> 01:13:06.720
Oh, thanks for complimenting my jacket.

1105
01:13:08.100 --> 01:13:10.740
I appreciate that, it's in my color palette.

1106
01:13:10.740 --> 01:13:12.540
It's literally so much fun.

1107
01:13:19.060 --> 01:13:21.340
All right, nervous system reset.

1108
01:13:21.340 --> 01:13:22.180
Here's what I'm gonna do.

1109
01:13:22.180 --> 01:13:25.860
Next week, I'll do a nervous system reset

1110
01:13:26.780 --> 01:13:28.300
because I think that's gonna be helpful

1111
01:13:28.300 --> 01:13:30.860
after we've done some digging today

1112
01:13:32.060 --> 01:13:34.580
with like reduction in the business.

1113
01:13:34.580 --> 01:13:39.580
And then we'll do habits after that.

1114
01:13:40.220 --> 01:13:42.100
And then we'll do some more coaching after that.

1115
01:13:42.100 --> 01:13:44.100
And that's marked for us.

1116
01:13:46.000 --> 01:13:48.400
All right, awesome, ladies.

1117
01:13:49.280 --> 01:13:54.280
Okay, I bless you all with some movement this week,

1118
01:13:54.320 --> 01:13:56.160
taking steps towards your business,

1119
01:13:57.120 --> 01:13:59.360
remembering rejection isn't personal,

1120
01:14:00.680 --> 01:14:02.360
that you are worth it.

1121
01:14:02.360 --> 01:14:05.120
You get to decide what you wanna do

1122
01:14:05.120 --> 01:14:07.360
with your business this week

1123
01:14:07.360 --> 01:14:10.240
and what that looks like for you.

1124
01:14:11.480 --> 01:14:16.240
And you can't mess it up.

1125
01:14:19.160 --> 01:14:21.000
We can't mess these things up.

1126
01:14:21.000 --> 01:14:23.640
God works for us whether we work or not.

1127
01:14:24.640 --> 01:14:26.680
So miracles are coming.

1128
01:14:26.680 --> 01:14:29.080
So be on the lookout for your miracles

1129
01:14:29.080 --> 01:14:32.760
and we will spend part of our calls

1130
01:14:32.760 --> 01:14:35.360
doing that in the very beginning, all right?

1131
01:14:36.960 --> 01:14:39.120
All right, it was so good to be with you all this week.

1132
01:14:39.120 --> 01:14:42.120
I'm looking forward to seeing you all next Monday

1133
01:14:43.120 --> 01:14:47.280
and have an amazing rest of your week.

1134
01:14:47.280 --> 01:14:48.220
And we'll see you next week.

1135
01:14:49.040 --> 01:14:52.540
I will be one year older when I see you all.

1136
01:14:52.540 --> 01:14:53.740
Happy birthday.

1137
01:14:53.740 --> 01:14:54.580
Thank you.

1138
01:14:55.540 --> 01:14:57.700
I'm sure I'll have some birthday miracles

1139
01:14:57.700 --> 01:14:59.380
to share with you all next week.

1140
01:14:59.380 --> 01:15:00.220
So.

1141
01:15:00.000 --> 01:15:06.000
Get ready. All right. So good to be with you all. Bye. See you next Palm Day.