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Miracle March
Welcome to Miracle March. We're still going March 9
Hey Lindsay, hey Linda
Good to see you girl. Welcome. Hey, okay
God is doing miracles miracles are happening in the month of March
So welcome come on in everyone
All right
All right, how's everyone feeling today it's just me and Lindsay on camera right now, I love it
How's everyone feeling pop in the chat, let's do a quick check-in
Stu feeling check-in. How's everyone feeling this Monday?
March 9
2026 pop in the chat. How's everyone feeling today? Hey Linda?
How's everyone feeling today pop it in the chat
Hey Christy, hey Jana. Hey Aaron welcome
Um, so good to see you all and be with you today
All right, yeah
How's everyone feeling this morning
Pop your feelings in the chat
Remember our feelings are so important and I think a lot of people
There's this there's this phrase in the entrepreneur world that's like F your feelings
You guys have heard that like F your feelings get to work F this
like get focused and
Guess what? I don't like that and I'm not a fan of that because
Your feelings are
Connected to a thought and
Your thought is connected to a belief, right? So anytime you're feeling something
It is it is to be paid attention to actually it's it's to take a look and see
say, huh, what is, what is that feeling?
And what is that thought behind the feeling?
We cannot forget this.
So if anybody's telling you F your feelings, who cares?
Anybody, I don't know if anyone was raised like this.
I know I was, you know, like our parents generate, I know we're all
in different generations here, but I think, I think the millennial
generation is the generation that's really come awake to our feelings.
And are like, wait a minute, our feelings are actually trying to tell us something
and it doesn't make us weak or strong.
It doesn't make us good or bad feelings are actually, I like to look at them
as neutral at, at face value.
And then, okay, what is, what is my feeling trying to tell me?
God made us emotional beings and some of us feel deeper than others.
Some of you are more thinkers and maybe you actually need to learn how to feel.
And that is why every, some people say, I know some of you are over thinkers,
you know, the term, like if you're an over thinker, so sometimes that
actually means you're an under feeler.
And sometimes the feelings are actually what needs to be taken look at.
And then find the thought and the behind that thought is the belief.
And we are, you know, our mindset is basically essentially our, it's our belief system.
That's what our mindset, mindset, belief system, because at the end of the day,
your results today right now are a direct result of what you think
and what you believe about you.
And that is actually meant to be an empowering statement, not a shame statement.
Right?
This is all about how can I be in charge?
How can I be in tune?
I talk, I remember last week talking with you, Linda, like about scheduling, right?
This is where the scheduling comes in.
I'm in charge of me.
I'm in, I get to choose.
And actually sometimes we, you've heard this, like I can't control my feelings.
Maybe you can't control the onset of a feeling.
Okay.
The onset of the feeling, like they just onset, they just come to us, but what we
can't control are our thoughts and our thoughts are connected to our feelings.
Right?
And so that's why we started the year off in January about how to, you know, be,
how to know our thoughts, how to create a brain prime, how to have thoughts on
automation that work for you and not against you that work for your business
and for your goals and not against you.
And so I just was thinking, um, how important it is.
Like our field, there's just, there's somebody in the business world who's
creating a whole brand around F your feelings and she's really successful.
I'm not going to like, I think she's very successful in certain ways, but I
think she's also missing an emotional aspect there that I just really wanted
to bring light in the beginning of our call here.
And so also if you're not sure how you feel, then there is this thing called
a feeling wheel that you can Google.
It's literally called feeling wheel.
Have you guys heard of it?
Do you know what that is?
I literally use it all the time.
In fact, uh, my mug today is a feeling well, and there's mud.
I mean, it's a whole thing, right?
And so, so, um, there's no shame if you're feeling, you know, happy,
sad, if you're feeling depressed, bored, peaceful, disgusted,
disappointed, amazed, cheerful, rejected, horrified, anxious, tender,
thankful, annoyed, disrespected.
Eager, you know, there's literally so many emotions that we experience, but
do you know how to name them?
Cause that's the first step, right?
How do you feel?
So all that to say, how's everyone feeling today?
Pop in the chat.
I know a few of you did.
I just wanted to leave a little space again for everybody
to respond to this question.
How are you feeling right now?
This morning, this afternoon, and this moment, how do you feel?
All right.
Lindsay's feeling hopeful, the sun's shining.
I know that's, that's interesting, right?
Like when the sun's out, I tend to feel happier and cheerful or cheerful.
That's there's science behind all that.
In fact, going out in the sun and having the sun hit your face will, is
an immediate form of dopamine and helps your nervous system, so that makes sense.
All right, Linda's feeling encouraged and focused. Love that.
Chrissy is feeling a little stressed and overwhelmed.
Awesome. Thanks for sharing.
Lindsey,
okay, yeah, I know, right?
Our feelings are a gift. Yeah, I love your tender heart, Lindsey. I think it's beautiful.
All right, Sherry's feeling fine.
Sherry is feeling a bit restless.
Andre's mom.
I always tell you that. She's feeling calm.
Amy's feeling stressed.
And Jana's not sure.
All right, Jana, so maybe you're feeling
confused?
Is that like, because you're not sure would be confusion maybe is the feeling word for that? Is that a line?
Is that a line?
Okay, great. So Jana's feeling confused.
And Aaron's feeling good.
All right, and I am feeling,
I personally am feeling a little bloated and I feel expectant. Those are my two feeling words.
So,
all right.
Here's what I was thinking for today. It's Miracle March.
I
put a big poster in my kitchen that says Miracle March and I am keeping track of the miracles that pop up in this month.
So,
I would love to start our call off.
We talked about a miracle. We talked, we defined it last week.
It's something supernatural, something that's hard to explain, something that maybe there's a fruit of labor.
We can finally see a miracle is actually seeing
what we've been waiting or working towards.
Another word could be a win.
And the reason I'm using miracle is because
I'm believing there's even bigger things that we're going to be seeing in this month
that are just bigger, that we can just encourage each other,
that the miraculous still happens. And you guys know this, our reticular activator system,
I call them our antennas, our RAS,
is in our brain
and what it does is it's like little antennas and it's constantly searching for evidence for what you believe. It's evidence for what you
want to see.
So when I tell you look for miracles and be on the lookout for miracles,
you're going to see more because you have set an intention. We're setting that intention in this month
to see things happen.
And
I don't want, there is no wrong miracle.
There's nothing no wrong about it. You can't answer this question wrong, by the way. Okay, that's number one. And then
number two, I
was, I met with my counselor last week and she was talking about how there is a shit, like
economists are talking about how there is a big shift that is going to happen in our world in the next decade.
And have you guys seen online like people talking about there being a cashless society? What's going towards a cashless society?
And
Elon Musk was talking about how
within the next 10 years, he says,
you know, we're going to all be in
an AI currency.
Okay, so
whatever, those are just all thoughts rooming in the world today. And I'm just like
whether that happens or not,
what I believe matters
is number one, miracles still take place. So I don't care whether we have cash or not, whether your business is working or not, whether
you're feeling encouraged, inspired, ready to go, or you are not.
A miracle does not depend
on what we do. That is also something that's really beautiful about a miracle.
And I think that that's forgotten in the business world if people don't believe in them.
And again, if you're not, if you don't believe in God, or you
believe in a higher power, like even that would be like a miracle, like things that are just hard to explain.
Or like, hey, I did this thing and then this thing happened.
So
I
really believe that's what we're supposed to be focusing on part of our calls in this month. So
in a minute, I'm going to open the floor to if anybody wants to share some miracles that they've seen in the last week.
And then I
I have a topic for us today. All right, does that sound good?
All right, who, anybody want to
start? Anybody want to?
You can unmute and share your miracle.
Anybody has them?
I can go. Okay, go ahead. Start us off.
So this, keeping a long story short, my 18 year old daughter is making choices that are
not bad choices, but they're choices that scare me.
And, um, I've been praying for several months about like either God would close a window
or God would make me okay with her choice.
And basically it's, um, has to do with moving out of the house and all that stuff.
And I, this last week, I could tell you the specific moment where I switched from fear
and anxiety over her choice to celebrating her and being along for the ride and being
supportive.
And I know like with, like on my own, that would not have happened.
So I know that that was a miracle.
Yeah.
Yes.
That is a miracle.
Yay.
Doesn't it feel good to be at peace and celebration and say, I'm for you.
I'm with you.
Right.
And it's, it's so good.
It's more than just, I'm okay with this.
It's I'm, I'm celebrating it and I'm happy for her and I'm excited for her.
And last week I couldn't have told you that any of those feelings for her were inside
me at all.
Exactly.
Yeah.
All right.
Celebrating.
That's awesome.
Yay.
All right.
Who's next?
Let's get this miracle train going.
Okay.
I'll go.
All right.
Kate.
I celebrated a one year of post-op on my ankle.
I have been on a crazy health journey this last year, a lot of changes, a lot of hard,
but it's bringing about good fruit.
But this week after months and months of not being able to walk normally or drive normally,
I was going to an appointment and I was just like calm and stuff, but like I looked down
at my feet and realized I was driving with my right foot, which I haven't done for a
year.
Wow.
And I was just like, finally, it was like a miracle to me because I have been, you know,
having to loophole around everything.
Not being able to use my right ankle for this long.
And I was just like, what?
I didn't even notice that I was doing it.
I was just driving normally.
And I was like, what?
This is so crazy.
Like my brain even allowed me to just not even think about it.
And I was like, what?
This is so cool.
Yeah.
That is huge.
Especially for all those months.
So huge.
I will take it.
She will.
We celebrate.
We're celebrating with you.
That's a miracle.
Awesome.
Who's next?
Okay.
I will go next.
Okay.
All right.
My miracle happened, yeah, this is a new week.
Last week.
So I actually had where my husband was supposed to take care of stuff and something for the
kids and he did not.
So I was pissed because it was the day I was out the whole day.
So I sent off this text message and he was mad and we got into the text.
So later I was like, okay, we need to talk about it.
I didn't go into the talk expecting good, actually I went in for a fight, but not a
physical fight.
So I was like still mad.
But God like flipped that conversation to where it was actually very good.
And we actually got on the same page and stuff.
And I was shocked after the fact, I was like, wait a minute, I wasn't expecting that.
Because we do have different parenting styles when it comes to the kids.
We have different parenting styles.
He likes to go soft.
I like to go aggressive and stuff.
But yeah, we grew up with different parents.
So yeah, I have different, yeah.
So yeah, and I was like, genuinely shocked at it.
And I was like, okay, God, I don't know what the heck you did there, but I like it.
It's good.
So just want to share that.
Yeah, that is so good when you again, that's a miracle because you went in expecting one
thing and you came out with a completely different thing.
And all you did was show up and you were open.
And it usually goes the other way, right, right, which listen, this is very normal for
our brains.
You guys know this when our brains have evidence over and over and over again of a, of a, of
an outcome of something that is what you begin to expect, right?
And so just to be able to be given a different outcome from that, that conversation is a
miracle.
And what it does is it's telling your brain, God's trying to show you, Hey, this is actually
look what's possible.
Look what can happen.
See miracles also reveal possibility where otherwise it would have seemed impossible.
A miracle comes in and say, wait a minute, it's actually possible there.
There can be something different and we want to hold on to these moments.
I'm actually writing them down.
So I'm going to keep a list of us for the rest of the month so that we can look back
and remember these things because listen, write these down because your brain is going
to forget.
We are so easily forget where we have come from.
And when we, when we have healing, we forget, we forget, we, especially when we're just
so used to rejection or disappointment or, you know, whatever.
That's why we don't want to get comfortable in that space.
So we look for miracles.
It's one way to do that.
So, so good.
Thank you so much for sharing.
Anybody else?
Miracles?
Yeah.
Go ahead, Sherry.
Okay.
Well, this isn't like a recent thing.
I mean, maybe it's been like a few months now already, but for like six years, I think
six years straight, I, I've had this really terrible gut problem with all these terrible
symptoms, you know, like soft bowels and diarrhea, you know, bloating and my tummy felt like,
like bubbles popping and just such a very uncomfortable feeling for like six years.
And I went to so many different doctors, tried so many different supplements, tried
different diets, nothing, nothing.
I could figure out what the cause was, you know, I couldn't figure out what the cause
was or what the, you know, the solution was, it just, it was crazy.
I kept trying and trying and trying and just no luck.
And then finally one day I was looking at a video online and, and I, I, it was, it was,
it was actually a cancer video, but, but it was, it was talking about fasting.
And so I thought, you know, I, I, I actually researched it more and I saw more videos and
more reading about it.
And it said that, you know, it could possibly cure just about any, anything that you have
going on.
So I, I decided to try it and I fasted, water fasted for seven days straight, just no food
with just only water.
And it was hard, but, but I was determined and what happened after that, the first day
after I started eating again, it, I felt fine, but then the next day I started getting symptoms
again.
But, but then after that, all my symptoms went away.
Wow.
That's amazing.
Yeah.
And it stayed away, but then it, the, the video said, well, you can, you can do this
every like every five or six weeks and do a seven day water fast every five to six weeks.
You can, you can, you don't have to have it seven days.
Every time you can decide how many days it just depends on the person, you know?
Yeah.
No, that's amazing.
Okay.
So then after, after like five or six weeks, I did another fast.
It was not seven days, it was five days.
And because you know, sometimes when, when your symptoms start going again, you want
to do it again.
And so I did another five days fast and, and, and, and it helped.
And then after that, I waited another five or six weeks and I, I did a three day fast
and then another, I don't know, five or six or more.
I don't remember how long it was.
I did another like day fast.
And so like, the thing is, is I know that if my symptoms start, start, try to start
coming up again, I know the cure for it.
I don't know what the cause was, but I know the cure and it works.
Yay!
Celebrating you, Sherry.
That's awesome.
Thanks.
It feels, any, anybody here dealing with health stuff, you know, on and off in our lives,
it's just so refreshing to find something that works and that takes a lot of discipline
too.
And you know, fasting is a regular part of my life as well.
So I completely agree and believe that, that God actually gave us fasting to heal parts
of our bodies.
So that's, that's amazing, Sherry.
Congratulations.
Thank you.
Celebrating you.
Yay!
All right.
Anybody else?
Oh, sure.
I've got a blessing.
I'm kind of still in the throes of like baby life and my nine month old has slept through
the night the past four nights, which has not really been the norm.
So that's been really huge.
And he's kind of like also sleeping in a little bit.
The time change, but you know, we'll give it, we'll give it to him.
And then, yeah, also when we go to church on Sundays, I have him with me because the
timing sometimes he like needs to nap or I don't want him to get sick or something with
the kids church.
But with the timing of the time change, we just, my husband was like gone for the day.
And so I was just like, let's just do it.
We all went and I dropped him off the baby off at the kids church.
And I was just like able to go into the main sanctuary area and it just was such a different
experience just like, I don't know, being, being with everybody in the sanctuary, cause
it's really loud.
So I usually have my baby out in the foyer area.
So it was just such a, I guess, I don't know, miracle, but just like blessing to be like,
it was my first time getting to be in the sanctuary and like the five months that we've
been in our new town.
So it was really nice.
So yeah.
That's huge.
That is a miracle.
Yeah.
Everyone out here, he's a mom.
Come on.
Like that's amazing.
Yeah.
The kids church are like, this feels like a, you know, I don't know, like having a babysitter.
It's like, Oh my hour.
And I didn't have any of either of my kids.
It was just nice.
I really felt like I got to hear from God, um, and that hour and yeah, it was, it was
great.
So yeah.
Your nervous system probably needed that hour.
Yes.
Yeah.
Celebrating that miracle.
Love it.
Anybody else?
Okay.
I'll share mine.
I've got a list of like 10, so I'm going to share with the one that I really feel.
Is so, uh, powerful because it's not something I ever have done before, but it has been a
decade in the, in the process of work.
So you guys know I'm single, never married.
I went on, um, 68 first dates in my life.
Um, and that is my version of putting myself out there and, you know, giving, giving my
heart out, giving chances to good guys.
And the guys just keep getting better.
They just keep getting better and better and better.
Oh man.
Cause one of my brain crimes is I am surrounded by Christian, wealthy, emotionally available
and stable men.
So I say that to myself every day.
And one popped up on my, on my radar two and a half weeks ago.
And I took a chance and I said yes to a date.
And it turned into a few dates actually.
And I haven't done that in a long time because I can tell after one date, whether I want
to see them again or not, I, my discernment is up and I know a lot more what I'm looking
for at this point in my life.
And, um, and I was, my birthday is this week and I'm throwing a little party and I invited
him and he was, I was like, no pressure, like, you know, we're both extroverts.
He's a big party person.
So I was like, no big deal.
Right.
I'm sure he'll, he'll want to come.
And he said, yes.
And so I was so excited about that.
And, um, and then I abruptly got a call on Friday night and he ended our connection just
like that, just boom, just done.
And this is not new.
I have been in this position quite a few times of my life at this point, but here's what,
here's the miracle.
I did not go into any form of defeat.
I did not blame.
I did not curse.
You want to know, this was miraculous.
What I did was I actually was so grateful.
I got on my knees and I began to worship and I just worshiped in this rejection and it was a
miracle because this phone call was so shocking to my system. I was like, wait, I was not expecting
this. There was shock and I was a little tired so I didn't respond. I responded fine but I didn't
get to bless him and tell him what a difference he made in my life in two and a half weeks.
And so guess what? I blessed him two days later and I just told him, I just uplifted him because
men I think are not uplifted enough. They're not encouraged enough. And so I literally blessed this
man. I encouraged him. I told him all the amazing things that this man just brought into my life.
He restored joy in my life where I needed it and God used this man. And who am I to let the
rejection get in the way? That's a miracle. And I'm like, God, I have waited for a decade to
respond this way. And I'm like, we could even be friends. Maybe we could be friends. I don't know.
I've never even had that thought before. It's usually like, oh, get out of my life, whatever.
And so that was just so much strength and resilience and I believe a miracle of like
all of these years of all of this emotional turmoil. And my heart aches. My heart is sick,
literally for my husband. But I get to go to God who is my first husband and my first lover and
be like, wow, thank you for all that I actually really need is found in you whether I'm married
or not. And so that was a miracle that happened that and even my friends, my local friends were
like, whoa, this is different. This is we never seen you react like this before. I say, yeah,
it's a miracle. That's what that is. You know, and just continually fixing my eyes on God and
fixing my eyes on something greater than what I can see. And that is a miracle. And we get to do
that all day, every day. We get to say, wait, how is this rejection? So, so I like to, I like to
take this belief and I've had this thought on replay in my life for a long time, but it also,
you know, our beliefs are tested when things happen. And so I say, rejection is not personal.
It's not when I'm rejected. It doesn't have to do with me. It has to do with the person
rejecting. Think about this. When you reject somebody or you reject something or you tell
something, no, you're doing the rejecting. That's your choice, right? So it's personal to you,
to the rejecter, not the one being rejected. And, and I believe that is something that we
constantly need to be reminded of in business, because there is a lot of rejection that happens
in building a business. And the rejection can also show up in, in, in yourself, like self-rejecting
self saying, saying, you know, I'm not good enough. I'm, this isn't going to work. This
works for other people. This doesn't work for me or partnering with what your nervous system
has like, you know, felt or been comfortable with for so long. And so I just believe that
that is a belief that I have been saying on and off for years. And I have, this guy was like,
how could anyone reject you? And I'm like, they don't, they reject themselves. I'm actually not
the one rejected, you know? And he was like, wait, what? And I was like, yeah, let that sink in.
And then he went on to reject me two and a half weeks later. And it's like, because you weren't
in alignment with where I'm going. That's why, right. That doesn't have to do with you. I'm
actually showing up authentically and I got big goals and big dreams and he doesn't, and, and it
revealed itself. And he was like, I can't do this. I don't want this. I said, cool. This is what I
want, you know, and from a very healthy space, empathetic space, not like a get on my pedestal.
I've, you know, I feel like God's healed me a lot in that. So, so I just really wanted to share. I
feel like that was something I really wanted us to remember in business building and in like getting
your habits together and like saying, no, think about it. Think about this. Like you reject all
the time. You say no to maybe a food you would rather have eaten in the day. Why would you reject
a certain type of food? That's maybe not maybe because it's not good for you and you decided,
I don't want that. So now who's like, that's a good thing. Right. And it, or, or, you know,
you reject something you're healthy.
husband says, because you're not on board. It's not Godly. It's
not working, you know, and it's like, Okay, let's work this out.
Let's figure this out, right? Because you ultimately, the
rejection again, it's not personal. It's personal. It's
not personal to you. It's personal to the person giving
it. Does that make sense? That's what I wanted to remember.
Remind all of us that I really felt like, because see, when
we're looking for miracles, the opposite of a miracle is
rejection. It's a no, it's a, it's a, that's impossible.
That's never gonna happen. And so I think, in looking for
miracles this month and looking for the impossible to be
possible, there's when rejection comes, how do you want to handle
that? And you get to choose you get to choose. What does this
really mean? What am I making it mean about me? What am I making
it mean about God? What am I making it mean about my
business? It's really important that we are in tune with that.
Because at the end of the day, you each are your own CEO. And
you each get to create, you know what you want to see in your
life. So does anybody have any questions about rejection? Any
thoughts or questions about that?
I have a I don't have a question. I have a statement
what I'm still mulling that over, in my mind about I, in
some instances, I get where the other person is, is reject is
the reject is rejecting. And they're the rejector and not
they're not rejecting me, they're rejecting their own
thought, their own ideas about whatever that situation is.
Some instances, I'm thinking, like, I can't, I'm trying to
make it apply across the board. Yeah. You know, I mean, for
myself, I realized I'm a very, like, if I if I like you, or I
love you, and you love me, I want you to agree with me not,
you don't have to agree on everything. But when you don't
agree, I take it really personally. Like, it's like,
it's personal. Yeah, is that I can't take it that personal,
because that is the other person's thought about it. If I
have a belief in and standing or standard or whatever it is that
I know is true. Whatever you say about it, or someone else says
about it, that does not apply to me. Unless I do it in my
mind, I realized, okay, you know, you are right. So I don't
entirely put your thoughts off the table. But if I don't find
that you're right, I have to learn to not take it so
personal. If this is what I believe, this is what I believe.
And guess what, same for that person. If that's what you
believe, then that's what you believe. And now we're talking
like Christian principles are like a spiritual principle. Even
at the end of the day, maybe you're interpreting something
and you think this is the godly or right way. And like, this is
not because I do believe there is like, there is like a narrow
path and a wide path. Like we each get a choice. There's then
not saying there's, you know, this is honoring, this is
dishonoring, right? That's not necessarily what I'm talking
about. But even in the rejecting of this is the right way, this
is the way I think we need to go. That is their own belief.
And how many of you can change somebody else's belief? Can you
eat? You're barely able to change your own. It takes work
to just change our own beliefs. And take ownership of our own
thoughts, let alone let alone somebody else's.
You can only share. You can only Yeah, that's it.
And then and then accept. There's got to be a form of
acceptance. Because here's the thing, if you refuse to accept
somebody who's rejecting you, then now now that's going to
start to hurt you. And then bitterness, resentment, like
things are going to start to form inside of you. Yeah. Um,
and that's a whole nother topic acceptance, actually, within
rejection, but like being No, that's good, Linda. Thanks for
sharing that you're not the only one here who's like, you
know, recovering people pleaser than anybody. I don't like when
people reject me, I want to be like, I, I want, I don't want to
take it personal. But the more you can, this is the this is the
thing is you're, you are separating yourself from the
rejection. You're separating yourself and you're saying it's
not personal to me, it's actually personal to you. And if
you want to talk more about that, that's where you can begin
to understand and have empathy for the person that's where
empathy comes in. I see your
point. I don't take it, but I can see where you're coming from. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
Oh, that's good. Anybody else have a question about rejection or thought about it?
Okay. I want to know, I want you to type in the chat, everybody, please. I would like everyone
to be a part of this. I want to know how are you doing? If you could sum up your business journey
right now, like, how are you feeling about it? And is rejection like a part of it right now?
Are you, you know, are you seeing rejection show up somehow in your business? That's maybe
So I just want each of you to take a moment and I would like you to pop this in the chat. This
is going to help me see where each of you are at right now with your business. So like,
how are you feeling about your business? And what's your relationship with the rejection
in regards to it? Is there something that's popped up in rejection? Is there,
is it stalling you? Are you like, I've been rejected and I'm still going or
that's kind of what I would like to hear from each of you right now in the chat.
All right, I'm looking. You can't get this wrong, by the way, just where you're at. I know
this is vulnerable. I want to, I feel like we're supposed to go there right now. And I just want
to hear from each of you. Like, how are you feeling? Where you at in your business? And
is rejection a part of it right now? And how's that looking? Is it stalling you? Is it holding
you?
All right, I see. I'm brightening this down and I'm taking a look at it all. And then we're going
to talk about it.
Well,
I just read yours. And yes, it does make sense.
Yeah, Lindsay, how are you feeling about your business? And is rejection a part of
it? Like, is it keeping you stalling? Or is any part of rejection a part of it? Okay.
You all are amazing. First of all. Um, this is good. This is so good. All right. All right.
Now that you've identified
right now, how you're feeling, and maybe where some rejection
is in your business. What I want you to answer this question,
truthfully, and honestly, for yourself right now, we're going
to take the opinion that rejection is not personal. Okay,
we're going to take that view in light of that view. Some of you
talked about how you are feeling like you're rejecting yourself.
So in a way it's personal, but I want you we're going to go deep
here in a minute. Okay, we're going to go I want you to just
get really honest with yourself. Are you ready? I believe each of
you are about to have a breakthrough right now. I'm
declaring breakthroughs ever every single one of you on this
call in the next 15 minutes, every single one of you are
leaving, and you're not going to be sold. And you're not going to
be disillusioned, not going to be stagnant. You're not going to
be standstill. Okay, because these things, these things,
there's something that is holding each of you back. There
is a belief or there is a thing or there is a fear that is
holding you that is keeping you still, we are not standstill or
stagnant or or not wanting to work on money or or not wanting
to work on the business or you know, there's a reason there's a
reason. There is a reason we don't get stuck for no reason.
It doesn't just happen out of the blue. And rejection can
sometimes play a really big role. So right now we're just
going to get carry I want you to get curious and be really kind
to yourself. Okay, we're giving it we're going to like do big
hugs right now. Okay, we're doing hugs, we're being nice
for being kind, but we want we want to find something right
now. So where do you what is this is my question? What is the
thought behind what you wrote in the chat? Or what is your
belief behind what you wrote in the chat? That's why I want you
to like write down for yourself right now. There's stuff like
there's something we want to uncover underneath the
stagnation or the stalling or the feeling tired. The
disillusionment the rejecting I want you to do your best right
now to try to find out what is my thought or what is my belief
driving what you wrote in the chat? Does that make sense?
That makes sense, everybody?
What is your thought or your belief driving behind what you
wrote in the chat here?
Okay, now share it in the chat. Yes. I wanted to give you a
moment to like think about it. Because sometimes it can be hard
to find the thought behind or the belief behind it. This is
vulnerable. Okay, this is good. You might feel exposed a little
bit, but that's not what I want. We're we're after breakthrough
here. We're after new thoughts. We're gonna have a turnaround
right now. It's about to be 14 little mini miracles in our
brains right now. So when you're ready, when you have the
thought, go ahead and write in the chat.
Good job, everybody. Keep them coming. You're doing great.
I'm going to, I'm going to wait, like, another minute.
Hey, Garima, I saw that you just joined what we're, we're kind of doing a live coaching
with everybody.
But I, the first question was where, you know, how would you sum up your business right now?
And where is rejection playing a role or a part of it?
And now I'm asking everybody to write, what is the thought or the belief behind that?
What is driving, driving that?
All right.
This is basically what we're doing right now is we're trying to reveal where you're stuck
or where you're not able to move forward.
And then what we're about to step into is you each creating a new thought for yourself.
Because remember, if you have a thought on replay, that is what a neuro pathway is.
It's a thought on replay over and over and over and over and over and over and over
and over and over and over and over and over and over again, that is the result of that
thought.
Okay.
Now, some of you are having thoughts right now that are not, they're not working for
you.
Some of you have some that are right now, if they're working, great.
If they're not working, then they need to change, right?
This is, this is the whole thing about not seeing the results that you want.
Where's like one little change you can do this week.
And the one little change can be a new thought.
That's what we're going to do this week.
All right.
Is everyone ready?
I'm going to go through each of you rapid fire here and I want you to pay attention.
Everyone pay attention.
Okay.
So.
All right, Kendall, I'll start with you.
No, no, I'm starting with, who am I starting with?
Hold on.
Okay.
All right.
Lindsay, I'm starting with you.
I think.
Hold on.
No, no, no.
You are at the bottom.
Sorry, guys.
All right.
Kendall, I'm starting with you.
You said, I'm not going to get it done by the time I feel like I need her once I have
it done.
That's going to create disappointment from my husband and cause him to question if it's
worth continued investment in Rainmakers.
Okay.
So I'm sure those thoughts are creating anxiety, feeling like you're stuck, feeling like what,
you know, is this really, is this like you said, I get distracted with all these excuses.
There's overwhelm.
All right.
So Kendall, I want you to create a new positive thought that is going to work for you.
Here's the thing.
Your brain doesn't believe it, but in order to believe it, you've got to start saying
it.
All right.
So maybe Kendall, something you need to do this week is to re-evaluate your timeline
because it looks like time is something that is frustrating you.
So I would like you to like take a real look at like, what is my timeline?
Like what is, what's realistic?
And then I, instead of your husband questioning your worth, I want you to question it yourself.
What is worth it for you?
What do you think you need?
That's what I want you to do this week.
Like with this thought, okay?
Because hear this, everybody, if you're questioning, is this worth it?
Is this worth it?
It's a good question.
It is.
But the first question is, am I worth it?
And what do I, what do I want?
That's where our investments come.
They stem from what do I want?
What is worth it for me?
And sometimes we just forget that along the process when we are discouraged or rejected
or things aren't looking the way that we expected them to.
So we're kind of coming back.
Does that make sense for you, Kendall?
I want you to do that this week.
Okay.
All right, Kate, you're saying someone is better than me.
So why should I try?
Someone else shines better, better, does better, looks better, sings better.
Okay.
Well, if you keep having that thought, then you're going to continue to shrink back smaller
and smaller and smaller.
And that's what's happening, right?
Exactly.
So.
up. You want to change that up and do have a positive thought
about yourself. And instead of saying somebody's better than
me, I want you to say something positive about you and what you
bring to the table. Because while there may be true, listen,
there's always somebody better at all of us than things.
That's actually true. However, if you believe it's true, then
it's stopping you from showing up authentically in your voice
and what you're called to. So instead of saying something is
someone is better than me, I want you to say what you are
good. I want you to write this week about what you are good at
and what you bring to the table because there is no other Kate
in the world. So if you think about this isn't for everybody,
since there's only one of you, then you actually do the best of
what you bring to the table. But your brain does not believing
that right now it's agreeing that somebody's doing it better.
So I want you I want this week I want you to say I want you to
literally write down like what you are good at what you shine
in what you do good at not what somebody else does. Okay, and
then that's what I want you to do this week. Okay, Jenna,
you're not sure you want to keep going with your business. So
that makes sense, right? When you start feeling stuck when you
start questioning, like, do I really want to do this? You can
get it could be very stagnant. And I know you came on to the
call feeling confused. So here's what I'd like you to do this
week. I want you to write down pros and cons. Have you done
that yet? Okay, that's what I want you to do this week. I want
you to actually get on paper. What is working in my business?
Why do I want to do this? And what are what are the cons? And
I want you to take a hard look and I want you to ask yourself
what would it look like to keep going? And what would it look
like to stop? Because you haven't since you haven't
actually put it on paper yet. It's bought it's boggled up in
here and you're just going to keep getting stuck and stagnant
if you don't like actually take a good look at it. And nobody's
forcing any of you all to you don't have to continue with your
business if you don't want to there is no forcing here. That's
why this exercise is like, what, what do you want? And like, I
want you to take a look at it and make a decision for
yourself. And I want you to do that this week. And I want you
to be like really honest with yourself. Here's the reality,
there are a lot of cons in the beginning of building a
business. There's a lot, it takes a lot to do this. But it's
not it's not anything that's impossible, right? Unless you
decide that it is. And you decide that this isn't what I
want. And this isn't possible for me. So that's why it's
important for you to like write down and be like, Okay, what's
the pros? What's the cons? And I want you to be like, Okay, if I
go down this way, what would this look like? If I go down
this way? What would it look like? And that is going to help
you at least take a look at like, what you're actually
looking at instead of making up a bunch of stuff in your head.
Does that help Jana? Okay, good. Um, okay, Sheree. You've done it
wrong. Okay, so you have this thought, like, I've done it
wrong. I saw that you were like, I saw you list some of the the
wins, but then it's like, okay, like, where's the finances? Like
I'm waiting on some finances, right? So instead of I've done
it wrong, I want you to take a look this week at like, what am
I what can I do differently? And maybe where do I need to change
or tighten something up? That's what I want you to look at
yourself for yourself this week. Because in learning new skills,
we tend to do things wrong for a while until we get them right.
But it but behind that thought is like, I think there's I think
you just need to take a look to assure yourself that actually
you're doing things right. But the only way to do that is to
answer those questions. I said, does that does that make sense?
Is that helpful? All right, cool. All right, Chrissy, the
stress of this business is not worth it. It's not what I
expected it to be. Great. Okay, so you're having a mis
expectation sounds like with yourself. There's like, I have
this expectation. I thought it was gonna look like this. It's
actually looking like this. So here's what I'd like you to do
this week. I want you to write down what actually is stressing
you out from your business. Have you done that yet? Okay, so you
actually have like, key points, this task and this thing is
stressing me out. This thing here is where I'm getting my
So you've already done that. Okay, so then
Okay, so great, so you've already done step one.
So step two, I want on the next column, like next to those,
I want you to think about
what is the solution to each of those?
Have you done that?
Okay, that's your next step this week.
What is the solution to help get you out of anxiety?
You don't have to do any of them actually,
unless one feels really good and really peaceful,
then I want you to do that one.
But this will be the next step.
You identified, you've got your stressor.
Now I want you to write down what could problem solve this?
And then you'll be able to have even more clarity.
Is this worth it?
Do I wanna keep doing this?
And is this actually what I expected it to be?
Because maybe it actually is.
And then maybe you can say, okay,
because here's where everybody hear this
and you're not alone, Christine,
I'm right there with you.
Expectations are really tricky
because they can help us,
but sometimes they can really hurt us.
And so a phrase that I've said a lot in dating
and it's translated into growing businesses over the year
is have high standards, but lower my expectations.
So I keep my standard here,
but I lower the way that I'm gonna get to the standard
or how long it's gonna take me or what's required of me.
Cause Christy, let's not forget you're also,
I'm aware it's one minute over.
I'm gonna keep going for a couple more minutes.
Feel free to pop off if you need to.
Cause Christy, let's also not forget
that you're in transition.
You just made a big life decision.
And that also could be,
it's actually probably a good thing
that's like forcing you to kind of take a look at like,
what is my business?
Is this worth it?
Do, are these the things that I wanna keep going?
What is the problem?
How can I problem solve this?
And is this what I wanna keep doing?
And that's what I want you to do this week.
And then I also would like you to do,
you and maybe anybody else who's dealing
with an unmet expectation conversation with yourself,
you gotta revisit your expectations.
And are they realistic?
And are they in alignment with you?
Are they realistic?
And are they in alignment with who you are
and what you wanna do?
That's basically how you relook at an expectation.
I've actually just lowered my expectations for myself
over the last couple of weeks.
And I brought me a lot of peace.
Not my standard.
My standard is my goal.
My standard is, that's not changing.
But my expectations are, can lower.
I need to give everyone permission.
This is gonna sound really countercultural,
but this is what I've seen work with expectations
is if you lower them and make them realistic and aligned.
Realistic and aligned.
And only you can really answer that at the end of the day.
Okay, so I want you to do that this week, Christy.
All right.
Aaron said, I'm not smart enough to do this business.
Anybody else had that thought before?
I know I have.
Many, many, many, many, many a times.
So Aaron, I want you to really,
I want you to write down this week
where you have had success in your life
and where you think that you are smart enough.
Because I think your brain needs some evidence
that you are smart and you are capable of doing new skills.
Because you haven't got to this stage in your life already
without having conquered and been smart enough
to do quite a few skills.
And they can be parenting skills.
They can be social skills.
They can be life skills.
They can be health skills, okay?
I want you to do that this week
because what it's gonna do is it's going to,
it's going to help you have some evidence
of where you are smart.
And listen, this is for everybody.
Anytime you're saying I'm not smart enough,
it's normally not true.
What's behind that usually is I'm not sure
that I'm willing or wanting to do what it takes
to be good at such and such skill.
Because all of us are smart
and all of us are capable of doing a lot.
All right, Erin, is that helpful for you?
I want you to do that this week.
Oh no, I don't even think Erin was on here.
Dang it.
I just scrolled down.
All right.
She was gonna watch it though, so she'll get it.
Okay, okay, that's for you.
Erin.
All right, amazing.
And then, okay, the last person is Amy.
That I don't think I have, can, I have.
All right, Amy.
This is too good to be true.
What if this doesn't work for me?
I got tricks.
Let's see, is Amy on this call still?
Okay, she is.
So, I've definitely had those thoughts too.
And I think, again, this is tricky because,
I used that word on purpose.
We actually can be deceived sometimes
when we're in a low place and we just go
and we say, this is too good to be true.
This isn't gonna work for me.
Cause that is like a brain default.
Like, that is where your brain probably just goes naturally.
Naturally, right?
When things, when rubber hits the road,
when things are not working.
So, this is what I want you to do this week.
I want you to say, what if it was true?
Then what?
I want you to begin to actually ask yourself
the opposite of this, right?
You think you're getting tricked?
What if it's actually true?
And what if it does work?
Like, I want you to take some time
to actually write this down and think about this.
Cause it's going to put your brain into possibility.
Right now, this is more like impossible.
It's not gonna work.
But I want you to get into possibility.
Like how, what if this is true?
What if it does work for me?
Because it has worked for a lot of people
and it does work for a lot of people.
A lot of people in the world have a lot of success
running businesses.
All right, Amy, that's what I want you to do this week.
Also, maybe you have something similar going on
that Christy has, which is maybe there's an expectation
that's not being met or that hasn't been met.
What would it maybe look like to also lower
or shift your expectations right now?
Remember, an expectation,
we want to be possible and in alignment.
Right, like realistic and in alignment with who you are.
All right, I think I'm about done.
I think that's everybody.
All right, Lindsey.
Awesome.
That's exciting, Lindsey.
Yay, Lindsey made some really great decisions for you.
Getting out of feeling stuck in rejection.
That feels so good.
I mean, especially with like the miracle
with your daughter too.
I feel like that was like in alignment with that too.
Amazing.
Okay, Christy, lowering the time expectations.
Yeah, so Christy, we can also talk about this too
in the book club tomorrow too,
because time is really, it's interesting.
You know, the expectations we have for us in our time
and like what's actually possible, right?
And what is in alignment?
And I think with you right now,
it's also maybe asking, again, it's not alignment,
like what's in a line?
Because we're reading this book,
The Science of Scaling by Ben Hardy,
and he talks about how to scale your business
in three years and how to like work backwards from that.
And so it can just feel really intense.
It can feel like a lot, you know, with that time.
So Christy, that might be a part of that too,
but we'll definitely talk about that.
Okay, yay.
I know a few of you hopped on here a little bit late
and Garima, are you still on this call?
Let's see.
Okay, Garima is on this call.
I see what you wrote and, you know,
I don't need to have a business with millions in return.
Here's what's awesome.
You get to decide what you want.
What do you want?
What do you want then?
If you don't want millions,
no one's saying you have to, right?
If you have enough,
anybody struggle with this thought of like,
I'm content and I have enough.
And also there's more.
Anybody under like feel that tension in business building.
I think that's partly also what's going on.
And you Garima, right?
Cause we were taught to like, let's be grateful.
Let's be content.
Let's say, thank you God for what I have today
for all of my needs and more.
And if a lot of you in this call,
you have dreams, you have visions,
you have something inside of you
that is greater than what you have in the moment.
It is beyond, it's true.
stretching past the paycheck to paycheck life.
It's stretching past, okay,
like getting out of the stress and anxiety
of like, how do I live day to day?
How do I, cause that can also sometimes
there could be like some stress and anxiety with that.
Here's what I think is really important.
Garima, this is for you and maybe any of you as well.
Continue to be content and grateful.
We cannot overlook that.
If we are not content and grateful,
I promise you that's not gonna work for us.
That's not a good place to be.
Okay, so like maybe this week
you're doing a gratitude journal.
Maybe this week you're being specifically thankful
and content for what you can see and what you do have
and what is already in the scene for you.
But we also wanna believe for miracles.
We wanna believe for the things we have yet to see.
A lot of you are visionaries.
A lot of you have something inside of you
that is beyond what you've been given.
It is beyond.
And that is a good thing.
So hear me out, that's also good.
Having a vision, creating something greater
than what you're able to see, that is very godly as well.
There is a space in God's heart for both.
I see it all over.
So I also want you, Grima, to maybe take some time to say,
okay, what is, what do I want?
How much money do I want?
What does this business actually,
what do I want this to look like?
Okay, that's what I want you to do this week.
All right, we are past the hour.
I don't wanna, I'm feeling like I've got some energy left.
So anybody, anybody else have any questions
or any last minute support that they need
before we head off here?
Oh, thanks, Grima, yes.
Oh, that's a miracle too.
Yeah, I started feeling better.
Yes, my energy has definitely taken a turn.
I wrote on my journal, I wrote a turnaround week
at the top, the turnaround week.
All right, so awesome.
Okay, I've got two more topics I think would be fun this week
or these next two weeks.
I'm thinking nervous system,
can talk about our nervous system,
and then also habit stacking slash kind of like
how to look at our weeks a little bit differently.
Do both of those sound valuable to you?
For the next two weeks.
All right, awesome, Kate.
Oh, thanks for complimenting my jacket.
I appreciate that, it's in my color palette.
It's literally so much fun.
All right, nervous system reset.
Here's what I'm gonna do.
Next week, I'll do a nervous system reset
because I think that's gonna be helpful
after we've done some digging today
with like reduction in the business.
And then we'll do habits after that.
And then we'll do some more coaching after that.
And that's marked for us.
All right, awesome, ladies.
Okay, I bless you all with some movement this week,
taking steps towards your business,
remembering rejection isn't personal,
that you are worth it.
You get to decide what you wanna do
with your business this week
and what that looks like for you.
And you can't mess it up.
We can't mess these things up.
God works for us whether we work or not.
So miracles are coming.
So be on the lookout for your miracles
and we will spend part of our calls
doing that in the very beginning, all right?
All right, it was so good to be with you all this week.
I'm looking forward to seeing you all next Monday
and have an amazing rest of your week.
And we'll see you next week.
I will be one year older when I see you all.
Happy birthday.
Thank you.
I'm sure I'll have some birthday miracles
to share with you all next week.
So.
Get ready. All right. So good to be with you all. Bye. See you next Palm Day.