WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:13.440 And good morning, welcome to day three of resurrect your spirit and your business. 2 00:00:13.440 --> 00:00:19.280 Welcome back for those of you that are coming back and welcome for those of you, it's your 3 00:00:19.280 --> 00:00:20.280 first time. 4 00:00:20.280 --> 00:00:22.160 I'm so glad you're here. 5 00:00:22.160 --> 00:00:29.560 This is a series that God had me start leading over 10 years ago and the testimonies have 6 00:00:29.560 --> 00:00:33.400 been so profound and I was thinking about it today. 7 00:00:33.400 --> 00:00:40.400 You know, the reason for this, if you think about it, you know, we celebrate Easter or 8 00:00:40.400 --> 00:00:46.360 Resurrection Sunday every year and it just kind of comes fast and it kind of goes fast 9 00:00:46.360 --> 00:00:56.320 and to take a week to really dive in to what scripture says and we talked about it yesterday. 10 00:00:57.320 --> 00:01:04.800 We were co-crucified, we were co-buried and we were co-raised. 11 00:01:04.800 --> 00:01:12.720 And so to take the time to prepare our minds and our hearts and relive that each year, 12 00:01:12.720 --> 00:01:19.960 we go into Resurrection Sunday, I think was such a fresh, fresh, you know, approach. 13 00:01:19.960 --> 00:01:27.440 So, so glad that you're here with me and you know, for those of you, just a quick review 14 00:01:27.440 --> 00:01:32.240 on Monday, that was a foundation. 15 00:01:32.240 --> 00:01:35.880 It was about reconnecting. 16 00:01:35.880 --> 00:01:43.240 It was about Jesus prayer for us to have the awareness that we are one. 17 00:01:43.240 --> 00:01:51.040 This was so important for us to get because it's easy to feel separated. 18 00:01:51.040 --> 00:01:58.520 God is way out there, far away, I'm here trying, I'm hoping somehow I can connect with God 19 00:01:58.520 --> 00:02:04.120 and Jesus just told a different story and he tried to say, hey, the Father and I are 20 00:02:04.120 --> 00:02:05.120 one. 21 00:02:05.120 --> 00:02:11.960 I'm in the Father, the Father's in me, I'm in you, we are one and if you each can understand 22 00:02:11.960 --> 00:02:17.280 that and walk in oneness, there's a whole shift that happens. 23 00:02:17.280 --> 00:02:22.880 And so we did some powerful work around that oneness on day one, right? 24 00:02:22.880 --> 00:02:31.000 And then yesterday, we released what was blocking the flow, right? 25 00:02:31.000 --> 00:02:41.440 We really did some deep work, letting go of the burdens, the fear, the shame, the striving 26 00:02:41.640 --> 00:02:57.280 the old agreements, excuse me, and understanding that many times we think we're stuck because 27 00:02:57.280 --> 00:03:00.240 we don't know what to do next. 28 00:03:00.240 --> 00:03:05.760 But the real reason that we're stuck and I got this from Jay Shetty, it was so powerful, 29 00:03:06.000 --> 00:03:10.760 it's one of the most listened to podcasts. 30 00:03:10.760 --> 00:03:16.800 And when Jay Shetty talked about actually, when we feel stuck, it's because we're trying 31 00:03:16.800 --> 00:03:23.520 to recreate the past, we're trying to, he was on the Mel Robbins, it was Mel Robbins 32 00:03:23.520 --> 00:03:30.960 best of, and we're trying to hold on to something from the past. 33 00:03:30.960 --> 00:03:34.500 And so we can't go forward, and we feel stuck. 34 00:03:34.500 --> 00:03:39.740 So we dealt with that yesterday, something so, so strong. 35 00:03:39.740 --> 00:03:48.860 And yet, once something is released, then it has to be replaced. 36 00:03:48.860 --> 00:03:55.340 So we're not just called to feel free, I mean, whom the sun sets free is free indeed, right? 37 00:03:55.340 --> 00:04:01.260 We're free, but we're not just called to be free for a moment, we're called to live from 38 00:04:01.260 --> 00:04:04.140 a new identity. 39 00:04:04.140 --> 00:04:06.260 And that's what today is about. 40 00:04:06.260 --> 00:04:11.900 And this is probably, I think each day is so important and so foundational, but today 41 00:04:11.900 --> 00:04:20.140 is probably one of the most important days, because this real issue of our identity, who 42 00:04:20.140 --> 00:04:30.460 we believe we are, who we see ourself, who we're showing up as actually drives everything. 43 00:04:30.460 --> 00:04:43.460 And so most women don't have a strategy problem, they have an identity problem, right? 44 00:04:43.460 --> 00:04:50.900 And so it's so important, and that's what today is about. 45 00:04:50.900 --> 00:05:00.020 It's about resurrecting our spirit, our business, by releasing. 46 00:05:00.000 --> 00:05:12.080 rewiring our identity. In other words, living from who God says you are. And that's powerful. 47 00:05:12.800 --> 00:05:18.640 So, yesterday you released what was weighing you down, but once something's released, 48 00:05:18.640 --> 00:05:23.840 it has to be replaced. So, you don't change your life by trying harder. 49 00:05:24.800 --> 00:05:34.240 You change your life by beginning to see yourself differently. You know, if a woman still sees 50 00:05:34.240 --> 00:05:41.840 herself as behind, I shared yesterday, one of the most brilliant women I know, top one, two, 51 00:05:41.840 --> 00:05:48.320 three percent in her industry, she's just absolutely so far advanced, and yet she sees 52 00:05:48.320 --> 00:05:55.520 herself as behind. She sees herself as not doing enough. She sees herself as a failure. So, this 53 00:05:55.520 --> 00:06:02.320 is not an external strategy problem. This is an internal thing, right? And so, if as women, 54 00:06:02.320 --> 00:06:10.320 we see ourselves as behind or not enough or overlooked or too much or not qualified or 55 00:06:10.320 --> 00:06:20.240 someone who's always struggling, here's the key. We build, we decide, we lead, we price, we speak, 56 00:06:21.040 --> 00:06:33.840 we show up from that place. So, there's a very powerful scripture in 2 Corinthians 5, 17. 57 00:06:34.800 --> 00:06:41.120 And I'm reading from the Amplified translation. I like reading from different. I'll read from five 58 00:06:41.120 --> 00:06:48.000 or six translations. So, this one is the Amplified, which is really good if you're trying to just 59 00:06:48.000 --> 00:06:57.840 expand, understand the meaning of the words. And so, it says, therefore, if anyone is in Christ, 60 00:06:58.400 --> 00:07:10.160 that is grafted in. And you know what? Yeah, I did. Okay. That is grafted in. So, remember 61 00:07:10.160 --> 00:07:14.960 day one, we talked about that when you were leaning on the vine and we talked about the 62 00:07:14.960 --> 00:07:23.840 vine and the branches where they become so intermingled. If we're joined to Christ that way 63 00:07:24.160 --> 00:07:31.120 by faith, then this text and scripture tells us we're a new creature. 64 00:07:32.800 --> 00:07:39.840 Like we're brand new. I don't know if most of us really, really get the depth of this. 65 00:07:41.040 --> 00:07:48.480 We're reborn, we're renewed by the Holy Spirit. And it says the old things have passed away 66 00:07:49.120 --> 00:08:02.400 and behold, new things have come. And so, just let that sink in because this is a scriptural truth. 67 00:08:02.400 --> 00:08:10.480 This is what Jesus came to do for us. And yet, the power of choice, we can still hold on to the old. 68 00:08:11.440 --> 00:08:19.520 You know, when Jesus came in or not Jesus, but when God came in and set the Israelites free from 69 00:08:19.520 --> 00:08:27.760 Egypt, even though they were mistreated, they were slaves, they were starving, they had a miserable 70 00:08:27.760 --> 00:08:35.360 existence, they had a tendency, our nature is to keep looking back. I want to go back. I want to 71 00:08:36.320 --> 00:08:42.799 go back. And we do that. We want to go back and we hold on to the old. The old might be something 72 00:08:42.799 --> 00:08:50.240 our parents said, the old beliefs, the old identity, but this is saying that the new has come. 73 00:08:51.200 --> 00:09:02.000 And so, your life will not consistently rise above the identity that you're still agreeing with. 74 00:09:02.000 --> 00:09:11.440 Remember, we talked about yesterday, the power of agreement. And so, I want to share 75 00:09:12.560 --> 00:09:20.240 from my book. And if you haven't gotten this, this started, this is Total Soul Prosperity. 76 00:09:20.240 --> 00:09:27.600 And you can get it at totalsoulprosperity.com. It's on Amazon. We actually made the top 10 77 00:09:27.600 --> 00:09:35.040 in women in business on Amazon, which is pretty exciting. And so, this actually originally started 78 00:09:35.040 --> 00:09:41.760 as a 300-page book. And my publisher made me get it down to under 100 pages, which was absolute 79 00:09:41.760 --> 00:09:46.480 torture. It was hard enough writing it and then getting rid of 200 pages was insane. 80 00:09:47.200 --> 00:09:55.840 But the reason was, this was meant to be like little tiny that you can just absorb and apply. 81 00:09:55.840 --> 00:09:59.760 So, a lot of what I'm teaching today, you can really go deeper. 82 00:10:00.000 --> 00:10:07.000 here. And so Shaylee just put the link for totalsoulprosperity.com in the chat. 83 00:10:07.200 --> 00:10:10.880 And and the beauty of this is when you go 84 00:10:10.880 --> 00:10:14.680 there, not only can you order the book, but you get a seven day total soul 85 00:10:14.880 --> 00:10:20.080 prosperity reset. So if you haven't done that, that's each day you get a special 86 00:10:20.280 --> 00:10:23.160 email from me, it's got a recording, it's got a teaching. 87 00:10:23.160 --> 00:10:24.800 And so if you love what you're getting 88 00:10:24.800 --> 00:10:27.480 today, it's a way to have that keep coming. 89 00:10:27.680 --> 00:10:33.800 Well, in their chapter five, you can see I mark up my own book and I read it. 90 00:10:34.000 --> 00:10:35.760 I get inspired all over again myself. 91 00:10:35.960 --> 00:10:37.880 Right. So 92 00:10:38.080 --> 00:10:42.760 chapter five is about purpose and identity. 93 00:10:42.960 --> 00:10:45.320 Who are you? 94 00:10:45.520 --> 00:10:47.560 And so I'm going to just read a little bit 95 00:10:47.760 --> 00:10:51.480 from the first page and then we're going to do some deep work. 96 00:10:51.680 --> 00:11:00.600 So it says the great sculptor, Michelangelo, was one was once asked 97 00:11:00.800 --> 00:11:09.520 how he created the masterpiece David from a massive slab of marble. 98 00:11:09.720 --> 00:11:11.640 I mean, that's just a fascinating thing 99 00:11:11.840 --> 00:11:15.680 that this incredible if you've been to the Louvre, this incredible sculpture came 100 00:11:15.680 --> 00:11:18.960 out of this block of marble. 101 00:11:19.160 --> 00:11:22.960 His answer was revealing. 102 00:11:23.160 --> 00:11:30.840 I simply chipped away everything that is not David. 103 00:11:31.960 --> 00:11:34.400 Isn't that a fascinating thought? 104 00:11:34.600 --> 00:11:42.840 I simply chipped away everything that is not David. 105 00:11:43.000 --> 00:11:49.640 And I go on to say the sacred work of chipping away everything that is not you 106 00:11:49.840 --> 00:11:55.160 is what leads to total soul prosperity, chipping away the beliefs, 107 00:11:55.360 --> 00:12:03.880 the labels and the limitations placed upon you, the false identities you've worn, 108 00:12:04.080 --> 00:12:09.360 the fears that have kept you small, silent and stuck. 109 00:12:09.600 --> 00:12:12.560 You can know your purpose 110 00:12:12.760 --> 00:12:19.840 when you can't know your purpose, when you don't know who you are. 111 00:12:20.040 --> 00:12:25.800 Now, in my book, I tell the story of my own transformation and the inner slave 112 00:12:26.000 --> 00:12:29.040 woman, and so I go on to say, who am I? 113 00:12:29.240 --> 00:12:35.920 The slave woman's fear based script tells us that we can't stop 114 00:12:36.080 --> 00:12:43.520 because your value is determined by not by who you are, but by what we do 115 00:12:43.720 --> 00:12:48.240 and what we achieve, we become human doings. 116 00:12:49.280 --> 00:12:52.920 We are who God says we are. 117 00:12:53.120 --> 00:12:57.280 This is a fundamental truth, 118 00:12:57.480 --> 00:13:05.320 and so that's what we're talking about today with understanding our true identity. 119 00:13:05.320 --> 00:13:10.680 This shapes everything that you do. 120 00:13:10.880 --> 00:13:15.400 It's it's it's profound when you think about it. 121 00:13:15.600 --> 00:13:18.280 OK, now. 122 00:13:18.480 --> 00:13:24.600 I'm going to shut some things down on the computer because I move stuff around 123 00:13:24.600 --> 00:13:27.320 and I can't find the share screen there, it is came back. 124 00:13:27.520 --> 00:13:31.480 OK, so let's go back to where we were. 125 00:13:32.200 --> 00:13:39.120 So your life will not consistently rise above the identity you're still agreeing 126 00:13:39.320 --> 00:13:40.560 with. 127 00:13:41.880 --> 00:13:47.840 I simply chipped away everything that's not David, identity is revealed. 128 00:13:48.040 --> 00:13:49.040 Just think about this. 129 00:13:49.240 --> 00:13:51.160 We think it's something we got to become, 130 00:13:51.360 --> 00:14:01.360 but identity is revealed by removing what is not truly you. 131 00:14:02.000 --> 00:14:06.200 It's those thoughts I'm behind, I'm not enough, I always struggle, 132 00:14:06.400 --> 00:14:10.200 I have to prove myself, I'm not good. 133 00:14:10.400 --> 00:14:12.200 Do you know how many clients have come 134 00:14:12.400 --> 00:14:17.760 to me that say I'm just not good at sales and we turn that around? 135 00:14:17.960 --> 00:14:20.920 In fact, one of the recent ones that told me she's not good at sales, 136 00:14:21.120 --> 00:14:25.160 she made sixteen thousand dollars in her first two months working with me. 137 00:14:25.360 --> 00:14:28.120 So it's these things that we're holding 138 00:14:28.120 --> 00:14:29.200 onto. 139 00:14:29.400 --> 00:14:33.280 And the key is you're not you're not your mistakes, 140 00:14:33.480 --> 00:14:38.600 that your mistakes don't define you, you're not your exhaustion. 141 00:14:38.800 --> 00:14:44.320 You are who God says you are. 142 00:14:44.520 --> 00:14:50.600 This is the defining moment, just let that soak in, 143 00:14:50.800 --> 00:14:53.680 just kind of put your hand on your heart. 144 00:14:53.880 --> 00:14:58.120 I am who God says I am. 145 00:14:58.320 --> 00:14:59.920 Well, then it really. 146 00:15:00.000 --> 00:15:06.560 behooves you to know who God says you are so that we're lining up with truth and not fear-based lies. 147 00:15:06.560 --> 00:15:12.000 Remember yesterday we talked about the split in the road and things are either fear-based, 148 00:15:12.000 --> 00:15:18.480 which are lie-based, or love-based, which are truth-based. And if we go down the monorail of 149 00:15:18.480 --> 00:15:23.440 the lie-based, fear-based, and we make our decisions and we speak that over ourselves 150 00:15:23.840 --> 00:15:29.200 and that becomes our identity, it produces completely different results 151 00:15:30.160 --> 00:15:40.160 than when we step into who God says that we are. And this is why the words I am that we 152 00:15:40.160 --> 00:15:50.800 started talking about yesterday are the most important words. You have to become conscious 153 00:15:51.760 --> 00:16:00.720 of what you are putting after those words. Keep in mind where those words showed up. 154 00:16:02.080 --> 00:16:12.240 Moses, who was raised in Egypt as the prince of Egypt, raised in luxury and the finest and the 155 00:16:13.200 --> 00:16:23.280 highest teaching. And he had a day where he anger took over and he killed somebody and his truth 156 00:16:23.280 --> 00:16:31.280 was going to be revealed and he ran away. And so here is a prince with access to everything 157 00:16:32.080 --> 00:16:40.800 and he's now living, tending sheep. And they're not even his own sheep, right? And 158 00:16:42.160 --> 00:16:49.520 he's living as a nothing and one day he sees the burning bush and he's captivated. It's a bush on 159 00:16:49.520 --> 00:17:00.400 fire but it doesn't burn up, right? And so he goes up to the bush and he hears the voice of God. 160 00:17:02.240 --> 00:17:08.240 And he gets his divine call, his divine assignment to set God's people free. 161 00:17:10.160 --> 00:17:17.040 And now identity, Moses wants to know who am I talking to? Who gives you the right to say this? 162 00:17:17.040 --> 00:17:31.040 Who are you? Who shall I say sent me? And God says, I am who I am. Tell them I am has sent 163 00:17:31.120 --> 00:17:37.440 you. So I want you to understand the energy, the frequency of these words. And these words are 164 00:17:37.440 --> 00:17:46.320 speaking of your identity and what you're coming into agreement with. So what are the things that 165 00:17:46.320 --> 00:17:57.200 come after I am? Do you say, I'm just getting too old? Imagine this one, I'm broke. Or even worse, 166 00:17:57.200 --> 00:18:00.800 you wonder why we get sick and things like that. I'm sick and tired of. 167 00:18:03.520 --> 00:18:12.400 Or we have these, I am not that we speak. In the book, I share a story of one of my, 168 00:18:12.400 --> 00:18:19.360 true story of one of my clients who said, I am not, I'm not a good speaker. They're going to 169 00:18:19.360 --> 00:18:26.560 be disappointed. And we did the work around that and she just nailed it. And she has gone on to 170 00:18:26.560 --> 00:18:32.880 nail it. She made six figures in her first 90 days, working with me. First 90 days in business, 171 00:18:32.880 --> 00:18:39.440 she finished out a couple hundred thousand her first year. We had to break out of the, I am not, 172 00:18:39.440 --> 00:18:46.640 I'm not good at sale. I'm not a good speaker. I'm just not, blah, blah, blah. And we got to step 173 00:18:46.640 --> 00:18:56.000 into, I am. And so I want you to think about whatever you place after those words, you guard 174 00:18:56.000 --> 00:19:04.080 that. This is a sacred treasure. You guard what you put after because it's a form of agreement. 175 00:19:04.080 --> 00:19:11.520 That which we put after the words, I am, is what you are agreeing to. And so it shapes your 176 00:19:11.520 --> 00:19:20.960 atmosphere. It, it, it reinforces your identity, right? And so these kinds of things that we say 177 00:19:20.960 --> 00:19:34.880 become identity agreements to whatever you attach to the words, I am. This, this has to be, if you 178 00:19:34.880 --> 00:19:39.040 were going to guard anything, you know, we're told to stand guard at the door of our mouth. 179 00:19:40.000 --> 00:19:45.920 We're told that the power of life and death is in the tongue. If you're going to guard anything 180 00:19:45.920 --> 00:19:53.920 from now on, the minute I am starts to come out. Even if you shorten and say, I'm whenever I am 181 00:19:53.920 --> 00:19:59.440 comes out, we've got to guard that. That's holy ground. That's the name of God. 182 00:20:00.000 --> 00:20:07.520 But if you wouldn't say it about God, don't say it about yourself. 183 00:20:08.400 --> 00:20:15.680 Now, I'm going to teach you a little a little tool, this is a little a little 184 00:20:15.880 --> 00:20:21.960 hack, OK, and there's three levels, there's I choose, 185 00:20:22.160 --> 00:20:27.440 I feel and I am. 186 00:20:27.640 --> 00:20:29.080 OK. 187 00:20:30.880 --> 00:20:34.160 Often we're not at the place, we haven't 188 00:20:34.360 --> 00:20:38.760 developed the neural pathways to really believe what we say, we know the power 189 00:20:38.960 --> 00:20:43.200 of words, but if your mind doesn't believe it. 190 00:20:43.400 --> 00:20:46.560 And I have a I have a YouTube that I did 191 00:20:46.760 --> 00:20:50.080 a series like many years ago, probably 10 years ago. 192 00:20:50.280 --> 00:20:51.760 And I was talking about this. 193 00:20:51.960 --> 00:20:57.560 I am and you could go around and say, I am a duck. 194 00:20:57.760 --> 00:20:59.040 I am a duck. 195 00:20:59.080 --> 00:21:02.200 I am a duck and you're not going to become a duck. 196 00:21:02.400 --> 00:21:05.000 Why? Because your brain is going, you're nuts. 197 00:21:05.200 --> 00:21:07.280 You're not a duck. Stop saying that. 198 00:21:07.480 --> 00:21:12.920 So sometimes if we say I am rich, I am a millionaire. 199 00:21:12.920 --> 00:21:14.840 Your brain's doing the same thing as the duck. 200 00:21:14.840 --> 00:21:15.920 It's going, yeah, right. 201 00:21:15.960 --> 00:21:17.320 Look at your checkbook lately. 202 00:21:17.520 --> 00:21:18.960 Who are you kidding? OK. 203 00:21:19.160 --> 00:21:21.800 And so we've got to break into that. 204 00:21:22.000 --> 00:21:24.480 And so what I found in coaching all these 205 00:21:24.480 --> 00:21:29.520 years is kind of a kind of slide in the back door and get this kind of fruit 206 00:21:29.720 --> 00:21:32.560 because it's so powerful what you put after I am. 207 00:21:32.760 --> 00:21:39.880 So the way that I kind of slide in the back door is I start first with I choose. 208 00:21:40.080 --> 00:21:44.240 And by the way, I got this from a very powerful book. 209 00:21:44.240 --> 00:21:46.200 If you don't have this in your bookshelf, 210 00:21:46.400 --> 00:21:49.560 it's called Feelings Buried Alive, Never Die. 211 00:21:49.760 --> 00:21:52.480 And I've used this in coaching for years. 212 00:21:52.480 --> 00:21:55.520 The back of it has probable symptoms, 213 00:21:55.720 --> 00:21:59.600 like you're experiencing your knee is swollen or your toothaches or, 214 00:21:59.800 --> 00:22:02.840 you know, you've got anemia or whatever. 215 00:22:03.040 --> 00:22:05.680 We know scientifically and we know 216 00:22:05.880 --> 00:22:09.760 biblically there's an emotional, spiritual root under every disease. 217 00:22:09.760 --> 00:22:10.840 OK, I'm not going to go. 218 00:22:11.040 --> 00:22:15.040 You can learn about that in the prosper membership in God, health and me. 219 00:22:15.040 --> 00:22:17.520 I really go into detail in some of that stuff. 220 00:22:17.720 --> 00:22:24.560 But in this book, I love this this sequence of I choose I feel I am. 221 00:22:24.760 --> 00:22:28.080 So we start always when we want to make 222 00:22:28.280 --> 00:22:33.280 a shift, we start with our God given ability to choose. 223 00:22:33.480 --> 00:22:39.080 And this is such a huge freedom and it's such a huge taking back your power. 224 00:22:39.280 --> 00:22:42.160 OK, because when we're at the victim level 225 00:22:42.160 --> 00:22:45.840 and I know we don't call ourselves a victim, but we often live as a victim. 226 00:22:45.840 --> 00:22:51.080 And so when we're at the victim level of consciousness, that we think that things 227 00:22:51.280 --> 00:22:54.440 are just happening to me, you'll hear a victim. 228 00:22:54.640 --> 00:22:56.960 It's just life is just happening. 229 00:22:57.160 --> 00:23:01.760 OK, the next level is when we step into this. 230 00:23:01.960 --> 00:23:05.480 I choose and you start to realize 231 00:23:05.680 --> 00:23:09.920 that your thoughts are powerful, your words are powerful and you have 232 00:23:10.120 --> 00:23:14.520 the ability to choose and you can begin to choose your thoughts. 233 00:23:14.520 --> 00:23:20.480 That's why scripture says be transformed by the renewing of your mind. 234 00:23:20.680 --> 00:23:24.040 Right. It's why Paul said whatsoever is pure, 235 00:23:24.040 --> 00:23:27.080 whatsoever is lovely, if there be any virtue, if there be any praise, 236 00:23:27.280 --> 00:23:29.800 fix your mind on these things. 237 00:23:30.000 --> 00:23:34.840 So, you know, scripture says take every thought captive. 238 00:23:35.040 --> 00:23:38.040 The Bible wouldn't tell us to do something if it's not possible. 239 00:23:38.240 --> 00:23:40.160 So it starts with awareness. 240 00:23:40.360 --> 00:23:42.840 Wow, I'm not a victim. 241 00:23:43.000 --> 00:23:44.120 I can choose. 242 00:23:44.320 --> 00:23:46.440 I can choose different thoughts. 243 00:23:46.640 --> 00:23:49.760 And now what we're talking about, I can choose different. 244 00:23:49.760 --> 00:23:51.000 I can choose different beliefs. 245 00:23:51.200 --> 00:23:52.560 I can choose different words. 246 00:23:52.760 --> 00:23:54.760 I can choose different actions. 247 00:23:54.960 --> 00:23:59.000 When you take back your God given ability to choose, 248 00:23:59.200 --> 00:24:02.080 it puts you in a whole new level of power. 249 00:24:02.280 --> 00:24:06.920 You start operating from an internal locus of control instead of thinking that the 250 00:24:07.120 --> 00:24:11.080 world has to change your boss or the economy or your husband or something has 251 00:24:11.080 --> 00:24:13.600 to change for you to be happy, healthy, prosperous. 252 00:24:13.800 --> 00:24:16.440 You start to come back and take back your power. 253 00:24:16.640 --> 00:24:21.000 So we start with I choose. 254 00:24:21.200 --> 00:24:25.920 Right. So maybe you're saying I am abundant. 255 00:24:26.120 --> 00:24:31.920 I have access to so many resources, but you don't really believe it. 256 00:24:32.120 --> 00:24:36.440 Well, we back it up and we start to say I choose. 257 00:24:36.600 --> 00:24:45.040 I choose to think and choose to speak and choose to believe that I am abundant. 258 00:24:45.240 --> 00:24:47.800 I choose to act. 259 00:24:48.000 --> 00:24:54.320 I choose every part of me to live that truth and your whole world starts to change. 260 00:24:54.520 --> 00:24:56.360 So we start with I choose. 261 00:24:56.560 --> 00:24:59.800 Then the next level of existence. 262 00:25:00.000 --> 00:25:08.760 physiologically and spiritually is I feel. I feel. And so I 263 00:25:08.760 --> 00:25:15.440 choose, then we go into I feel. And now you tap into the feeling 264 00:25:15.440 --> 00:25:21.840 tonality of abundance. I choose to feel abundant. And you can do 265 00:25:21.840 --> 00:25:27.240 this with anything healthy, strong, you know, bold, right? I 266 00:25:27.240 --> 00:25:36.080 choose to be bold, I feel bold, I choose to be love, I, I feel 267 00:25:36.200 --> 00:25:45.520 love, I choose to walk in peace, I feel peace. And so we know 268 00:25:45.720 --> 00:25:50.680 that those feelings carry a frequency. And I don't want you 269 00:25:50.680 --> 00:25:55.840 to get all weird on me. This is this is science. Everything has 270 00:25:55.840 --> 00:25:59.280 a frequency, everything that God created has a wavelength, and 271 00:25:59.280 --> 00:26:03.320 it can be a low frequency, a high frequency. And what we know 272 00:26:03.320 --> 00:26:07.080 with feelings, and it's been measured both with machines and 273 00:26:07.080 --> 00:26:12.400 with applied kinesiology, I'm trained to do this. And anything 274 00:26:12.400 --> 00:26:20.880 below 250 produces disease in the body, and everything above. 275 00:26:20.880 --> 00:26:24.320 And so it's interesting, what are the highest frequencies? 276 00:26:24.800 --> 00:26:29.280 Love, joy, peace, huh? Fruits of the Holy Spirit. God knew what 277 00:26:29.280 --> 00:26:33.960 he was doing. So we go from I choose to I feel because those 278 00:26:33.960 --> 00:26:38.040 feelings release something called neuropeptides. Candice 279 00:26:38.040 --> 00:26:41.840 Peart calls them molecules of emotion. And they go throughout 280 00:26:41.840 --> 00:26:44.600 your whole body, and they change, they change your health, 281 00:26:44.600 --> 00:26:48.160 and they change things within and without. So we go from I 282 00:26:48.160 --> 00:26:54.680 choose to I feel to now we can say I am and you've kind of 283 00:26:54.720 --> 00:26:58.920 backed it in that your brain begins to believe it and you 284 00:26:58.920 --> 00:27:05.360 say, I am abundant, I am abundant. And so this is the way 285 00:27:05.360 --> 00:27:11.040 that you can have this really start proving true for you. Okay, 286 00:27:11.120 --> 00:27:16.280 and I found this hack really makes a difference. Okay, so we 287 00:27:16.280 --> 00:27:21.560 start with I choose and we go to I feel, then we go to I am. So 288 00:27:21.560 --> 00:27:26.600 those things that you desire to be more of, you can you can walk 289 00:27:26.600 --> 00:27:32.040 through this. Now, let's live from biblical truth. Okay, let's 290 00:27:32.080 --> 00:27:37.720 let's live from this. This is Galatians 220. And this is in 291 00:27:37.720 --> 00:27:44.840 the amplified translation. It says, I have been crucified with 292 00:27:44.840 --> 00:27:48.000 Christ. Remember, we're talking this resurrection week going 293 00:27:48.000 --> 00:27:51.920 into resurrection Sunday. Biblically, it says that it 294 00:27:51.920 --> 00:27:55.320 wasn't just Jesus that experiences that we co we did 295 00:27:55.320 --> 00:28:00.400 this together. Okay. And so I have been crucified with Christ. 296 00:28:01.840 --> 00:28:12.840 It is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me. This becomes 297 00:28:13.000 --> 00:28:22.160 one of the most transformational ways to live. This, I think of 298 00:28:22.440 --> 00:28:26.680 the book practicing the presence by Brother Lawrence, it goes way 299 00:28:26.680 --> 00:28:31.120 back, I don't know, like the 1400s. Like way back, he was a 300 00:28:31.120 --> 00:28:37.280 monk. And he would just practice the awareness of the presence of 301 00:28:37.280 --> 00:28:42.160 God. This changes everything. Let me read it to you in the 302 00:28:42.160 --> 00:28:46.480 passion translation, it just goes even deeper, what we're 303 00:28:46.480 --> 00:28:52.800 talking about. My old identity. You know, the one I'm talking 304 00:28:52.800 --> 00:28:57.200 about, right? That I'm not enough. I can't get it right. 305 00:28:58.040 --> 00:29:04.120 I'm too stupid. I'm too old. I'm too whatever, that that one, my 306 00:29:04.120 --> 00:29:13.200 old identity, look at this has been co crucified, and no longer 307 00:29:13.680 --> 00:29:19.120 lives. Can you let that just settle in for a second those 308 00:29:19.120 --> 00:29:22.720 lies? What lies have you believed about yourself? You know 309 00:29:22.720 --> 00:29:29.880 what they are? Let's be let's be real. What is it? And can you 310 00:29:29.880 --> 00:29:36.240 understand in this resurrection week, that your old identity has 311 00:29:36.240 --> 00:29:43.000 been co crucified, and no longer lives? And here's the contrast 312 00:29:43.040 --> 00:29:51.360 that is so so cool. Christ now lives his life through me. This 313 00:29:51.360 --> 00:29:55.640 is why Scripture says Christ in me the hope of glory, right? It 314 00:29:55.640 --> 00:29:59.440 says I'm the temple of the Holy Spirit. It says I have the mind 315 00:29:59.440 --> 00:30:00.000 of Christ. 316 00:30:00.000 --> 00:30:07.000 So, I want you to get this for a second. I want you to just, 317 00:30:07.000 --> 00:30:12.000 this becomes the most beautiful prayer. First, awareness is the 318 00:30:12.000 --> 00:30:15.000 first step to transformation. So, in this Resurrection Week, 319 00:30:15.000 --> 00:30:22.000 if you can become aware of, wow, when Jesus died, my old nature 320 00:30:22.000 --> 00:30:28.000 died. My old and and and those who are so stuck in in, you 321 00:30:28.000 --> 00:30:31.000 know, I'm just a wretched sinner. I just like there's no 322 00:30:31.000 --> 00:30:37.000 hope for me. I'm despicable. That was old theology and and 323 00:30:37.000 --> 00:30:41.000 it's not what scripture teaches and so, if we can get clear 324 00:30:41.000 --> 00:30:48.000 that that stuff, that funk, that shame, that blame, that 325 00:30:48.000 --> 00:30:55.000 residual words spoken over us, that was co-crucified and now 326 00:30:55.000 --> 00:31:00.000 we're co-crucified. We're co-risen and it says, now, 327 00:31:00.000 --> 00:31:05.000 Christ lives in me. I'm gonna tell you the most powerful 328 00:31:05.000 --> 00:31:12.000 thing that I ever do. Before I speak, I say, Jesus, just speak 329 00:31:12.000 --> 00:31:18.000 through me today. Before I write, Jesus, just write through 330 00:31:18.000 --> 00:31:28.000 me today. Before I whatever coach, before I create, can you 331 00:31:28.000 --> 00:31:33.000 imagine the creator of the universe? Lives in you, the 332 00:31:33.000 --> 00:31:44.000 holy spirit. Your savior, your lord lives in you. And yet, 333 00:31:44.000 --> 00:31:48.000 when we're not aware of that, we keep trying to recreate the 334 00:31:48.000 --> 00:31:52.000 old with our own strength. And so, this becomes one of the 335 00:31:52.000 --> 00:31:58.000 most powerful teachings. I, you know, this is where I want you 336 00:31:58.000 --> 00:32:04.000 to understand. Um in Colossians 127 says, Christ lives in you 337 00:32:04.000 --> 00:32:07.000 and so, I want you to understand this is not positive 338 00:32:07.000 --> 00:32:12.000 thinking. This is this is not positive thinking. This is 339 00:32:12.000 --> 00:32:18.000 Christ in you. This is that union that we opened with. This 340 00:32:18.000 --> 00:32:28.000 is that new source. This is the life of Christ living as you. 341 00:32:28.000 --> 00:32:41.000 How amazing. Christ in me. Not trying harder but Christ in me. 342 00:32:41.000 --> 00:32:48.000 How beautiful of a thought. 343 00:32:51.000 --> 00:32:56.000 Here's the Colossians. Christ lives in you. This gives you a 344 00:32:56.000 --> 00:33:03.000 share assurance of sharing his glory. It's not self 345 00:33:03.000 --> 00:33:09.000 improvement. This is Christ in you. So, we're going to do a 346 00:33:10.000 --> 00:33:20.000 meditation to make that kind of come home and and land. And I'm 347 00:33:20.000 --> 00:33:25.000 going to be setting the stage and here's here's what I 348 00:33:25.000 --> 00:33:28.000 believe and here's what the Bible says. The Bible says 349 00:33:28.000 --> 00:33:32.000 everything that was written was written as an example for us 350 00:33:32.000 --> 00:33:37.000 and and although it's a historical, theological, all of 351 00:33:38.000 --> 00:33:42.000 I also believe it's a metaphorical. Meaning, every 352 00:33:42.000 --> 00:33:48.000 character in the Bible is you. Because we're one. So, 353 00:33:48.000 --> 00:33:53.000 everything we learn from a character in the Bible. We we 354 00:33:53.000 --> 00:33:58.000 really learn about ourselves. So, this is also from the same 355 00:33:58.000 --> 00:34:04.000 chapter in in my book and it's the story of of love and it's 356 00:34:04.000 --> 00:34:08.000 the story from Luke 15 of the prodigal son and I'm going to 357 00:34:08.000 --> 00:34:11.000 start by setting that stage and then we're going to live it a 358 00:34:11.000 --> 00:34:13.000 little bit in a guided meditation but let me just 359 00:34:13.000 --> 00:34:20.000 remind you if you're not familiar with this and let's 360 00:34:20.000 --> 00:34:25.000 see. Uh not sure about the Kindle Library, Linda. You'll 361 00:34:25.000 --> 00:34:32.000 have to ask me what that is. Okay. So, the story of love. 362 00:34:32.000 --> 00:34:40.000 He asked for the unthinkable. Father, give me my share of my 363 00:34:40.000 --> 00:34:45.000 inheritance now. In other words, I don't wanna wait till 364 00:34:45.000 --> 00:34:50.000 you die. Give me my money in advance. It was a demand that 365 00:34:50.000 --> 00:34:57.000 cut deep. The son's desire for money outweighed any love he 366 00:34:57.000 --> 00:35:01.000 had for his father. 367 00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:03.680 and still the father gave freely. 368 00:35:05.000 --> 00:35:08.440 With pockets full and outlook bright, 369 00:35:08.440 --> 00:35:10.680 the son left for a distant land. 370 00:35:10.680 --> 00:35:15.680 He felt free, but soon the money vanished, 371 00:35:16.880 --> 00:35:20.440 squandered again and again 372 00:35:22.240 --> 00:35:27.240 on pleasures that never satisfied, and then famine struck. 373 00:35:28.240 --> 00:35:33.240 He took a job feeding pigs, a Hebrew, 374 00:35:34.160 --> 00:35:38.400 knee deep in filth, starving, 375 00:35:38.400 --> 00:35:43.400 forced to eat the slop that fed the unclean animals. 376 00:35:43.660 --> 00:35:47.400 This wasn't just hunger, this was humiliation 377 00:35:50.880 --> 00:35:55.880 until he came to himself. 378 00:35:57.320 --> 00:36:01.400 I want you just to close your eyes for a minute, 379 00:36:02.240 --> 00:36:04.020 put your feet on the ground. 380 00:36:06.160 --> 00:36:08.700 Let's do a little bit of breathing. 381 00:36:10.440 --> 00:36:11.520 Let's do our breathing, 382 00:36:11.520 --> 00:36:16.520 that we breathe in to the count of four, we hold. 383 00:36:17.000 --> 00:36:20.040 Remember, to get into the parasympathetic, 384 00:36:20.040 --> 00:36:23.920 we breathe out and exhale longer than the inhale. 385 00:36:23.920 --> 00:36:26.200 So let's do that a couple of times just to center. 386 00:36:26.200 --> 00:36:27.800 So we breathe in, hold, 387 00:36:34.480 --> 00:36:36.680 then a long exhale. 388 00:36:40.040 --> 00:36:41.040 Let's do it again. 389 00:36:51.600 --> 00:36:52.440 Again. 390 00:36:56.800 --> 00:36:57.640 Hold. 391 00:37:04.040 --> 00:37:07.760 Holy Spirit, I just ask that you reveal the truth 392 00:37:07.760 --> 00:37:11.720 of this story in my sister's heart right now. 393 00:37:13.920 --> 00:37:15.520 So you're back in that movie theater 394 00:37:15.520 --> 00:37:17.200 with the overstuffed chair. 395 00:37:18.240 --> 00:37:21.900 You're so comfortable, you're so relaxed. 396 00:37:22.900 --> 00:37:25.220 You're looking at the screen 397 00:37:27.380 --> 00:37:32.380 and this time you see yourself, but you're confused. 398 00:37:33.180 --> 00:37:34.860 You're not at the beautiful lake. 399 00:37:36.220 --> 00:37:40.760 You're sitting in a pile of mud. 400 00:37:42.980 --> 00:37:47.360 It stinks, the flies are swarming. 401 00:37:48.360 --> 00:37:53.360 You wonder, how did I get here? 402 00:37:56.080 --> 00:37:59.880 Earning less than I deserve, not using my talents, 403 00:37:59.880 --> 00:38:04.880 not living my inheritance. 404 00:38:06.400 --> 00:38:10.160 You pick some of the carob pods, that's food for the pigs, 405 00:38:11.160 --> 00:38:15.920 trying to satisfy the gnaw in the pit in your stomach. 406 00:38:18.200 --> 00:38:23.200 You feel so stuck and then there's a thought. 407 00:38:26.440 --> 00:38:27.680 There's an awareness. 408 00:38:27.680 --> 00:38:31.040 It's an awareness that changes everything. 409 00:38:31.040 --> 00:38:36.040 You remember, for just a second, you remember who you are. 410 00:38:37.940 --> 00:38:41.180 You remember who your father is. 411 00:38:41.660 --> 00:38:46.660 You remember who you are a daughter of, a son of. 412 00:38:50.980 --> 00:38:53.260 You remember who you are 413 00:38:55.100 --> 00:38:58.600 and you activate your God-given ability to choose. 414 00:39:00.140 --> 00:39:03.480 And you start just by saying to yourself, 415 00:39:03.480 --> 00:39:04.840 I know what I'll do. 416 00:39:06.100 --> 00:39:09.800 I'm going to return to my father's house. 417 00:39:11.220 --> 00:39:14.660 So you get up and you shake the dust off of yourself 418 00:39:14.660 --> 00:39:17.060 in the mud as best as you can. 419 00:39:17.900 --> 00:39:22.900 And you say, and you practice repenting. 420 00:39:22.960 --> 00:39:27.960 You practice saying, father, I'm sorry, I've sinned. 421 00:39:28.380 --> 00:39:31.880 Father, I'm sorry, I forgot who I am. 422 00:39:31.880 --> 00:39:34.820 Father, I'm sorry, I blew it. 423 00:39:34.820 --> 00:39:36.820 I'm coming back. 424 00:39:36.820 --> 00:39:39.860 And you practice enough until the courage 425 00:39:39.860 --> 00:39:42.660 and the boldness rose up in you. 426 00:39:42.660 --> 00:39:44.740 And you put your feet on the ground 427 00:39:45.620 --> 00:39:50.340 and you start walking down the dusty road. 428 00:39:50.340 --> 00:39:53.980 You're tired, you're hungry, you're sore. 429 00:39:55.620 --> 00:40:00.220 Your shoulders droop, your knees hurt. 430 00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:03.200 Your legs are stiff, your arms are cramped, 431 00:40:04.240 --> 00:40:08.520 but you take a step down the road toward your father's 432 00:40:08.520 --> 00:40:10.160 and then another step. 433 00:40:11.240 --> 00:40:15.480 Something starts to build in you, a hope, maybe, 434 00:40:16.680 --> 00:40:21.680 a courage, I wonder what's possible, a strengthening. 435 00:40:25.720 --> 00:40:29.440 You're walking toward the father when all of a sudden 436 00:40:29.520 --> 00:40:34.520 at a distance, you see your father running towards you. 437 00:40:36.240 --> 00:40:41.200 It's unthinkable that he would disgrace himself, 438 00:40:41.200 --> 00:40:46.200 a king, that he would tie up his robe and run and greet you. 439 00:40:48.720 --> 00:40:53.720 And he comes with tears and he hugs you. 440 00:40:54.560 --> 00:40:59.560 The most loving, healing, warm hug of a father 441 00:41:00.320 --> 00:41:03.120 that says, you are completely loved, 442 00:41:03.120 --> 00:41:07.980 you are completely accepted, you are home. 443 00:41:08.880 --> 00:41:11.040 And he calls to the servants beside him and says, 444 00:41:11.040 --> 00:41:16.040 give me the finest robe, put a robe on my child. 445 00:41:16.920 --> 00:41:20.000 On my child. 446 00:41:22.720 --> 00:41:27.720 The robe is such a contrast to the dirty beggar clothes 447 00:41:28.360 --> 00:41:32.800 you've been wearing, even smells like the father 448 00:41:33.720 --> 00:41:36.080 and it represents royalty. 449 00:41:37.880 --> 00:41:41.480 You feel different with the robe. 450 00:41:41.480 --> 00:41:44.920 You're remembering again where you came from 451 00:41:44.920 --> 00:41:47.320 and who you are and who your father is. 452 00:41:47.320 --> 00:41:50.080 And he says, quick, give me the ring. 453 00:41:51.600 --> 00:41:54.240 And he puts the ring on your finger. 454 00:41:55.380 --> 00:42:00.040 It's the ring that you could dip into the wax 455 00:42:00.040 --> 00:42:03.920 and you could put it on any document and make it official. 456 00:42:04.880 --> 00:42:09.460 It was final word, it was the ring of authority. 457 00:42:09.460 --> 00:42:13.280 And you remember not only who you are, 458 00:42:13.280 --> 00:42:16.640 but you have authority. 459 00:42:20.300 --> 00:42:25.300 And he puts sandals on your bare feet. 460 00:42:26.560 --> 00:42:28.740 You're no longer walking on the dirt. 461 00:42:29.960 --> 00:42:32.740 You're walking in luxury sandals. 462 00:42:35.140 --> 00:42:37.500 And you remember the truth. 463 00:42:38.860 --> 00:42:43.200 You're not less than, you're not a slave. 464 00:42:44.040 --> 00:42:45.360 You're not a servant. 465 00:42:45.360 --> 00:42:48.680 You're not someone that has to perform to be loved. 466 00:42:48.680 --> 00:42:52.440 You're not someone that has to try to become somebody. 467 00:42:52.440 --> 00:42:56.960 You're not someone that has to hope that they have a future. 468 00:42:56.960 --> 00:43:01.200 You're not someone that wishes they could be good enough. 469 00:43:01.200 --> 00:43:06.200 You suddenly, the robe, the ring, the shoes on your feet, 470 00:43:07.840 --> 00:43:09.220 it all kicks in. 471 00:43:10.960 --> 00:43:12.340 I'm a daughter. 472 00:43:14.040 --> 00:43:15.360 I'm a son. 473 00:43:15.360 --> 00:43:20.360 I'm a child of the most high God. 474 00:43:22.600 --> 00:43:27.600 With authority, the power of life and death in my tongue, 475 00:43:28.720 --> 00:43:33.720 the mind of Christ, the spirit of God living in me. 476 00:43:34.080 --> 00:43:35.920 I don't have to prove. 477 00:43:35.920 --> 00:43:37.960 I don't have to fix. 478 00:43:37.960 --> 00:43:40.320 I don't have to strive. 479 00:43:44.200 --> 00:43:49.200 And peace starts to replace the fear. 480 00:43:51.400 --> 00:43:55.760 And joy starts to rise up. 481 00:43:55.760 --> 00:44:00.640 And you hear the father say, prepare the fatted calf. 482 00:44:00.640 --> 00:44:03.020 We're going to have a feast. 483 00:44:05.000 --> 00:44:06.060 A feast. 484 00:44:08.000 --> 00:44:11.720 What a contrast from eating pig food 485 00:44:13.320 --> 00:44:18.320 from just enough, from prayers of survival, 486 00:44:20.600 --> 00:44:24.840 from prayers of God, just help me make it through a day, 487 00:44:24.840 --> 00:44:29.840 from prayers, from striving, from hoping, 488 00:44:30.360 --> 00:44:35.360 from fixing to a feast, a celebration of joy, 489 00:44:36.080 --> 00:44:39.120 a celebration of joy, 490 00:44:39.120 --> 00:44:43.720 a remembering of the abundance that is available. 491 00:44:43.720 --> 00:44:47.840 The cattle on a thousand hills belong to you. 492 00:44:47.840 --> 00:44:50.960 The gold in a thousand hills. 493 00:44:50.960 --> 00:44:54.080 And you realize that you had been programmed 494 00:44:54.080 --> 00:44:59.080 with a belief in lack, that somehow you were not enough, 495 00:44:59.840 --> 00:45:01.840 that you were not good enough. 496 00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:07.440 you didn't have enough, that abundance was a concept for other people, not for you. 497 00:45:09.760 --> 00:45:16.720 And you step back into those shoes, you step back into that robe, you step back into that ring, 498 00:45:16.720 --> 00:45:28.880 you step back into who God, who the Father says you are. You hear the music, 499 00:45:29.680 --> 00:45:41.920 you feel the dancing. I'm a child of the King. I'm a daughter of the Most High, 500 00:45:41.920 --> 00:45:52.720 with access to all the resources. The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not lack. 501 00:45:53.280 --> 00:46:01.920 It's the Father's good pleasure to give me the kingdom. My God supplies all my needs according 502 00:46:01.920 --> 00:46:14.640 to His riches in glory. Suddenly you feel like dancing. The smell of the foods, the smell of 503 00:46:15.600 --> 00:46:25.600 the perfumes, the sound of the music, the dancing, the life, the hope, the possibility. 504 00:46:25.600 --> 00:46:34.640 You have nothing but gratitude in your heart. Thank you. Thank you. The thank you gets louder 505 00:46:34.640 --> 00:46:41.920 and louder. Thank you. Thank you for loving me unconditionally. Thank you for creating 506 00:46:41.920 --> 00:46:48.000 me in your image. Thank you for giving me all power and authority. Thank you for never 507 00:46:48.000 --> 00:46:57.680 leaving and forsaking me. Thank you that I have a hope and a future. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. 508 00:47:01.120 --> 00:47:08.560 You'll never crawl back as a beggar. You've been restored as a daughter. 509 00:47:09.440 --> 00:47:18.160 It's not about perfection. It's about position. 510 00:47:20.880 --> 00:47:30.880 And you say, I choose this truth from this day forward. I choose this truth over old labels. 511 00:47:31.040 --> 00:47:38.640 Labels. I choose agreement with God. I choose to see myself as God sees me. 512 00:47:38.640 --> 00:47:46.240 I choose to live from who He says I am. And I feel the peace replacing the pressure. 513 00:47:46.240 --> 00:47:53.360 And I feel the dignity replacing the shame and the guilt. And I feel the confidence replacing 514 00:47:53.360 --> 00:48:04.880 the fear because I am. I am new. I am chosen. I am led by God. I am fruitful. I am free from 515 00:48:04.880 --> 00:48:16.080 striving. I am aligned. I am equipped for what God has called me to do. And we add the declaration, 516 00:48:16.160 --> 00:48:28.000 I will. I will show up as the woman God says I am. I will speak only truth after the words I am. 517 00:48:28.720 --> 00:48:39.440 I will lead from connection. I will lead from presence, not pressure. 518 00:48:39.760 --> 00:48:49.040 And so, as we come back together, maybe wiggle your hands, wiggle your toes, kind of come back. 519 00:48:54.080 --> 00:49:00.800 What, maybe journal a second, maybe put in the chat that everybody can be blessed, 520 00:49:00.800 --> 00:49:10.960 everybody can be blessed. What false identity are you releasing? And what is God saying is true 521 00:49:10.960 --> 00:49:22.240 about you now? What are you replacing the lies with? What is God saying is true about you now? 522 00:49:25.280 --> 00:49:30.160 So, you can write the lie that you've bought into. You can write the truth. And I like to 523 00:49:30.160 --> 00:49:38.160 take the lie, and my hack is I like to take a red pen. I like to draw a line through to tell my brain 524 00:49:38.160 --> 00:49:45.840 that that lie is null and void. That lie no longer is going forward. So, you write the lie, you draw 525 00:49:45.840 --> 00:49:55.280 a line through it, and then you write the truth that lines up with who God says, what the Word says. 526 00:49:55.280 --> 00:49:58.080 And it's so 527 00:50:00.000 --> 00:50:18.080 powerful. So powerful. So, so powerful. What, why, what false identity are you releasing? 528 00:50:20.160 --> 00:50:27.200 And what truth are you replacing it with? 529 00:50:30.000 --> 00:50:42.720 Write it down. Write it down right now. Then we're going to apply it to your business. 530 00:50:42.720 --> 00:50:49.440 Write it down. Write it down. 531 00:50:49.440 --> 00:51:10.480 Write it down. Let this just get in you this resurrection week. 532 00:51:11.680 --> 00:51:15.520 Never again to go back. You're not going back to the pig pen. 533 00:51:15.520 --> 00:51:22.320 That pig pen of believing that you're not enough, that you don't have enough, 534 00:51:22.320 --> 00:51:26.000 that you have to work hard to be enough, that you have to strive, 535 00:51:26.000 --> 00:51:30.800 that you have to perform, that you have to overgive. 536 00:51:30.800 --> 00:51:46.080 And if you want to share either in the chat, it'll go deeper for you and it'll bless everyone. 537 00:51:46.080 --> 00:51:50.880 Let's take this collective energy and just multiply, either write it in the chat 538 00:51:50.880 --> 00:51:57.840 or unmute yourself and share. This is where it really gets locked in. This is such a pivotal 539 00:51:58.400 --> 00:52:09.120 thing that affects everything you say and everything you do. 540 00:52:12.720 --> 00:52:17.280 And as you're writing some of that in the chat, I'm going to ask you a couple questions for 541 00:52:17.280 --> 00:52:21.360 business application because this is resurrect your spirit and your business. 542 00:52:22.320 --> 00:52:27.440 So, this is where we get really practical. How does a daughter 543 00:52:31.040 --> 00:52:37.440 price differently, set their pricing in their business? How does a daughter 544 00:52:37.440 --> 00:52:42.000 price differently than a slave or a servant who doesn't know their identity? 545 00:52:43.600 --> 00:52:46.080 Are you constantly discounting, giving free? 546 00:52:46.640 --> 00:52:57.440 How does a woman who has restored authority speak differently? Do you let your words be few? 547 00:52:59.040 --> 00:53:08.080 Are you less having to persuade and more showing up confidently? How does she sell differently? 548 00:53:08.080 --> 00:53:13.760 Does she sell from a place of overflow or desperation and lack of confidence? 549 00:53:14.560 --> 00:53:27.760 How does she make decisions differently? Remember we said yesterday or the day before, 550 00:53:27.760 --> 00:53:35.440 never make a decision based on fear or lack. Never make a decision based on fear or lack. 551 00:53:36.240 --> 00:53:44.000 There that will not be a good decision. So, how does she make decisions? If you realize the 552 00:53:44.000 --> 00:53:53.280 fullness that in you is the fullness of God and access to all of heaven and earth, 553 00:53:54.640 --> 00:53:56.560 how would you make decisions different? 554 00:53:56.880 --> 00:54:05.520 Would there be less settling, less performing, less striving? What would she stop apologizing for? 555 00:54:08.560 --> 00:54:16.480 Here's the big one. What fear-based behavior stops today? 556 00:54:17.440 --> 00:54:28.240 We left the pig pen. We're not going back. What fear-based behavior stops today? 557 00:54:30.800 --> 00:54:34.080 Because as your identity shifts, 558 00:54:34.800 --> 00:54:48.640 your message gets clearer, right? Your authority gets cleaner. 559 00:54:51.440 --> 00:54:59.040 Your decisions, once you've come home, once you're 560 00:55:00.000 --> 00:55:05.680 Wearing that robe and that ring of authority and those sandals, your shame is covered, 561 00:55:05.680 --> 00:55:10.960 your authority is restored, you're operating as a son and a daughter, not as a servant, 562 00:55:11.520 --> 00:55:19.120 not about perfection, it's about position. So your I am's become, I am new, I am chosen, 563 00:55:19.120 --> 00:55:28.720 I am aligned, I am equipped, I am free from striving. We've released those false identities, 564 00:55:28.720 --> 00:55:36.080 we're stepping to what God has said true, so that when we show up in business, we price differently, 565 00:55:36.080 --> 00:55:45.440 we speak differently, we decide differently, we stop shrinking, we stop overthinking, 566 00:55:45.440 --> 00:55:59.760 we stop undercharging, and we start leading. When identities shift, your decisions shift, 567 00:56:00.880 --> 00:56:10.800 and when decisions shift, your results shift. Let me say that one more time at the top of the hour 568 00:56:10.800 --> 00:56:18.880 here, when identity shifts, your choices and decisions shift, what you choose, what you decide, 569 00:56:19.920 --> 00:56:28.080 and when those decisions shift, no more, your results shift. 570 00:56:28.880 --> 00:56:40.800 So I have a success equation, you can write this down, mindset plus skill set plus right action 571 00:56:41.360 --> 00:56:46.240 plus right action equals results. 572 00:56:49.360 --> 00:56:59.840 Mindset plus skill set plus right action equals results. This is an equation, everything on the 573 00:56:59.840 --> 00:57:05.600 left side shapes the right, what's the results? It's not only peace, but it's profit, it's profits 574 00:57:05.600 --> 00:57:12.400 with peace, it's multiplying without striving, it's living that total soul prosperity, that's the 575 00:57:12.400 --> 00:57:20.320 results. Combination of three things, mindset, skill set, right action. This week, most of what I've 576 00:57:20.320 --> 00:57:28.800 shared with you, excuse me, is mindset. Some of you are still lacking in skill set, you don't know 577 00:57:28.800 --> 00:57:35.440 how to generate leads, you don't have clarity on your niche, you don't know. I get so many women 578 00:57:35.440 --> 00:57:41.200 that come to me after years and they still have no leads, they have no clients, they have no stable 579 00:57:41.200 --> 00:57:48.560 income, they have no system for growing their business, that's a skill set and they don't know 580 00:57:48.560 --> 00:57:56.080 what action to take. If that's you, Shaylee, can you put the link for having a conversation with me? 581 00:57:56.720 --> 00:58:02.960 Let's have a 15-minute conversation. Many of you are already clients, I love you, I adore you, 582 00:58:03.920 --> 00:58:10.320 let's include this in your coaching if we're not already, but if you're new to me, schedule a call 583 00:58:11.200 --> 00:58:17.600 and let's make sure that the mindset, the skill set and the right action is in place. 584 00:58:18.560 --> 00:58:24.880 All right, I want to congratulate you on finishing day three. I pray this has been transformational, 585 00:58:24.880 --> 00:58:28.480 we're building, building, building and we're going to keep on building all the way up to 586 00:58:28.480 --> 00:58:35.120 Resurrection Sunday. We built from connection, we built from releasing the old, we built into 587 00:58:35.120 --> 00:58:41.520 stepping into who God says we are, our identity. It's going to get juicy, stay with me, we'll be 588 00:58:41.520 --> 00:58:48.800 back again same time, same place tomorrow, Thursday, Friday and Saturday. By the time you go into 589 00:58:48.800 --> 00:58:53.840 Resurrection Week, you're going to be brand new. I'm so honored that you chose to spend this time 590 00:58:53.840 --> 00:58:58.160 with me and be part of this. Love you all, we'll see you tomorrow.