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Good morning, my time. I guess it's afternoon in some other places.

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How's everyone doing today?

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I'm doing well. How are you?

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Doing all right. Yeah, not too bad.

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Sienna, Maura, how are you guys doing?

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I'm doing okay.

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I'm okay.

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Love it. Got some okays.

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All right. I don't know where Danielle is. Let's see.

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I might just be running a little bit late.

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Is everybody, everyone listened or read their book or no?

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Yes, yes, yes, yes. Okay. I did as well. I didn't forget.

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Although I forgot last week, but then hilariously,

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I think I listened to like the first two parts the first week when we were starting.

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So it ended up fine.

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Can you repeat what the question was?

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I just wanted to know if everyone had listened or read the book.

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The last part of, if not, no worries. Just kind of wondering.

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Of who moved my cheese.

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I've read it before. It's been a long time.

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Yeah, that's okay.

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I've been in sick in bed for three weeks.

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There's been a lot more people sick in the last couple of months.

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Very long.

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Yeah.

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For like 10 days, I was just not productive.

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Really, really out.

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And then it was like a domino.

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It was my youngest brought it and then everybody has got it.

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Yep.

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Hi, Daniel.

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Yeah.

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Are you guys talking to someone sick?

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I'm I feel that I'm getting, I'm like kind of getting out,

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out of something myself. So, yeah.

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Well, hi everyone. Pardon my tardiness. I.

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Yeah.

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Well, Hey, Mara. Hey, Sian. Hey, Christie. Hey, Gabby.

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Good to see all of your beautiful shining faces.

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Yay.

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Well, Gabby could, should we just jump in with the book and then.

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All right. We're going to dive in.

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Hey.

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Hey, Margo.

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Okay.

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So let's talk about the book.

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I'm seeing a lot of head nods.

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Awesome.

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Okay. I'm just going to do a quick.

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Overview, you know,

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and then let's just talk about this last part of the book.

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I'd love to hear some of your thoughts and some of your takeaways.

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So the fastest way to change is a laugh at your own folly.

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I thought that was an interesting.

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Line and then talked about, you know,

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how there's always cheese out there.

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It's just a matter of going past your fear.

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And he talked a lot about enjoying the adventure.

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He talked a lot about the fear of being scared.

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And that's something that's difficult to do while, you know,

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you're having fear-based thoughts, right. Or like scared of,

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of change and.

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Oh, he said this.

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Line I thought was really powerful feel like the people who feel like

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victims are the ones that get sicker than those that just let go and

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let go.

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And so he talked about how he was like,

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I'm not going to let go of my life or my circumstances.

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And then talked about how then I think they now went into the reunion

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and they were talking about how they wish they had.

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Moved with cheese sooner in their life and seeing how.

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how, you know, you can actually enjoy change,

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enjoy stepping into unknown.

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Oh, and then he started talking at the very end.

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I don't know if you guys kind of read

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to the very end of the book,

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cause I listened to it, but he,

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it was like a, I don't know what it's called,

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not a foreword, but an epilogue maybe

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at the end of the book,

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where when the author's speaking, okay.

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So acknowledgement is a lot of times what it's called.

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Okay, that, when he was talking,

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it was cool to like hear his voice

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and hear how he had this one little idea,

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this story, how this one little story

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of 20 years of his lived life

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went out to literally make a mark in the world

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and have millions and millions and millions of copies.

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I thought that's really powerful story.

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And then he said that, he said two things.

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He said, number one, most people are afraid

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that change will lead to something worse.

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That's what keeps a lot of people stuck.

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And then he said the number one page

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that people ask him to autograph

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was the question we kind of touched on.

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Yes, last week, which maybe we can even touch on it again

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this week, but it's the question,

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what would I do if I wasn't afraid?

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He said, that's like one of the most powerful

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and like important parts of the book

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that he's seen after all of his people reading his book.

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how everybody needs to learn how to have skills with change

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and how the three are anticipate change,

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take new actions and laugh at yourself.

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Those are like the three antidotes, right?

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That he mentioned about having these skills for change.

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And then the last thing that he said

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was that consequence slash pain is a powerful teacher.

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And it can be really difficult to imagine something better

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when you keep thinking so fear-based.

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And so he talked, you know,

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then he went on to talk about the peaks and valleys

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and how we have sequences in life with that.

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And those who are able to manage their peaks

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and manage change are the ones that have quicker success.

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Okay, so that's kind of a broad like overview of the end.

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So I'd love to kind of hear were any, you know,

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what were some of your takeaways?

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What was something that really stood out to you

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that you're kind of taken from this book?

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It can even be from the book as a whole too,

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because not everyone's been on our calls,

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but yeah, the floor is open.

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I'll share.

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Just because the timing is crazy.

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So like the last three weeks I've been just like

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so out of it, not like,

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I've been reading, listening to personal development,

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but this is the first book,

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like I'm gonna say 2008 maybe.

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This is the first book that I ever read

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in personal development.

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and I'm gonna listen to it either today or tomorrow,

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it's really short.

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And I think I just tossed this book away,

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like going through old books like a month ago.

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But it's speaking to me because it's like,

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I lost my Facebook.

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I started my Facebook in 2008,

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same time as I read the book.

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And my friend was saying,

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well, maybe it's the universe's way of saying to start over

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or something like that.

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I appealed my Facebook, almost 5,000 friends.

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All my images are on there

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that I've collected through the years.

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And it's a huge loss,

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but it's just like wiped all these years away

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of mistakes and triumphs,

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just all this stuff.

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And just what you were speaking is just like,

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it's a fresh start and going back to the beginning

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of where everything began.

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So I don't know,

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I'm just really feeling what you shared, Danielle.

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And this happened like right after we had our meeting too,

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like I journaled a lot.

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And I found my journal this morning.

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And I'm like, okay, I gotta go like reread what I wrote.

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And I don't know.

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So yeah, I just wanted to share that.

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It feels like a fresh start.

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That's awesome.

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That's really cool.

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You read this book so long ago too.

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Anybody else wanna share some wins

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or takeaways from the book

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or the last part of the third chapter there?

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Oh, go ahead, Christie.

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I was gonna say,

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it was interesting to me that there were some parallels

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with the 67 day yearbook

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where they talked about visualizing success

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and visualizing where you want it to be to be able to.

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start to get there. And also just having those positive affirmations that he was writing

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on the wall in the cheese block. I guess I was reading and I wasn't listening to it,

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but he was writing messages to himself on the wall and for his counterpart to follow

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him to find those messages and be able to find the new cheese if he chose to leave his

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safety of cheese station C. And so, you know, in the 67 day year, she talks a lot about

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visualizing your success and having the Post-it notes and accumulating Post-it notes over time

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and having your affirmations that you say to yourself every day. But this was in the 90s was

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when this was originally published. And it's so short, but it captures a lot of those concepts

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that I think others are repeating and popularizing on social media nowadays. And maybe this was like

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one of the first books that really brought it up. And I actually read it when I used to work at

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this store in the mall called Successories and they have these motivational prints that

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businesses would hang on the wall. And it was a pretty boring job, but they had this book there

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and I read it whenever I worked there. That's cool.

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That's great for boring jobs. We all have.

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Carrie, do you want to go next? Sure. So I will say like the theme of

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like savoring the journey has definitely been a theme. I feel like like I think something I

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woke up this morning and it was like one of the first things I saw somebody had shared about

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slowing down and savoring the journey. And I think even like at church right now, we're doing like

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the book, we're doing the story of David and Goliath at church. Like that seems to be the

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message. It's like a four or five week series. And it's like, you know, Goliath is like this huge

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mountain. So just whatever your Goliath is, it's whatever your Goliath is. It's not obviously a

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real life giant, but whatever it is, work, personal relationship, anything. But your God has to be

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greater. And it's kind of like with a business, right? What hurdle is in front of you? That's

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your Goliath that keeps you stuck or in fear. But David didn't look at it that way. David,

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you know, his God was bigger than any Goliath. So it's just, yeah, it's all it's been in my face.

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Like, I feel like every day the message from this book has been in my face and just

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pushing things forward. That's awesome.

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I think for me, the like, right when I started to listen to it again, it's like all flows together.

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So like, I don't know, was this part of last week's conversation or this week, but

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the quote that stood out to me from the book was how it's like reflecting. And he says,

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he or she says, it is safer to search in the maze than remain in the cheeseless situation.

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And that really struck me. And because in a way that I was kind of like giving myself kudos,

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because there's a lot of things that I may, and we may resist because we don't really want to do

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or want to be there. But to also celebrate, like when you do it anyways, and like you acknowledge,

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like, all right, I don't want to be in a cheeseless situation. So that means I'm taking

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this in this action. And they may not feel great. And I may not be super excited about

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what I'm doing it. And I just like it was a moment of realizing

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that I am able to identify like a cheeseless situation. And I am able to think of, you know,

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my brain can strategize in terms of like, okay, what action is this calling for this that I'm

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not in a cheeseless situation, and then having the courage to do so. So but as much as like,

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um, it sucks. I it was just like a good reminder of like, I do know how to do this.

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I have this skill. And I'm in a process of where I'm exercising this skill again.

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And yes, I am in a tank top. I can be in a tank top year round, pretty much.

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Carrie. Pretty much.

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Anybody else have anything they want to share?

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I just wanted to share also to Carrie's point about the journey, you know, the

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beginning of the book with like scurry and sniff,

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they seem to like find cheese station and very quickly,

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you know, they iterated to a new solution quickly.

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And the journey came for,

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I guess it was Hall,

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who it took him like a lot of time, it seemed to iterate.

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And he even kind of went backwards to go forwards again,

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and then kind of like took another step back

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and then went further forward into the maze.

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And had to kind of continuously reassure himself

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that this is really what he wants to do.

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And he is still like on the right path.

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And I feel like that is pretty symbolic

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because there are times when we're all like sniffing scurry,

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it's like super easy for us to go on to the next thing.

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And then there are other times when that journey

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does feel like a maze that you're backtracking

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and things aren't going in a very linear path

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from C to N quickly.

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It feels like you're fighting for every step

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and having to like constantly put those messages

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in front of yourself to keep going.

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And I had like, you know,

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some just personal experience in the last week

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of it was like fighting for what I wanted.

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And I feel like the book was pretty timely

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for us to read it.

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That's awesome.

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I want to piggyback both on what Gabby and Christy said

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about Gabby, you were saying how,

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like it's a choice to stay in a cheeseless situation.

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And none of us really, like if you say it for me,

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if I say it out loud,

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I don't want to be in a cheeseless situation,

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but if I'm too scared to get out of the cheeseless

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situation, and then like, I thought it was,

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I thought it was brilliant from the author

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to have two mice and two little people.

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And that like, it would just very clear

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that even though people are smarter than mice,

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well, maybe they aren't in all cases.

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And how many times are we overanalyzing to the extreme

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instead of just, I don't know,

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let's just go for a walk and sniff it out,

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like stupid mice, because they're not that dumb

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and they knew how to get their cheese

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before the scared little person.

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And then the lost little person

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who's overthinking everything.

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And the mice were probably like,

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duh, what like took you so long to get here?

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And so I'm trying to my brain to think about,

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okay, it's okay to be a dumb mouse.

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Maybe I'm making this way more difficult on myself

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than it really needs to be.

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And I'm just, I'm my own,

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like I've said this to myself

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on more than one occasion in the past six months,

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like what is my biggest stumbling block?

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And it's me and it's my mindset.

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And it's just a mindset.

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It's not even reality.

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It's just thoughts that are getting in my way.

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And the mice aren't thinking,

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they're just using their instincts.

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So why are we making this so difficult?

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What's funny is that we have, we have instincts.

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Like we do, we all have them.

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There's probably a situation that comes up

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and we have the thought

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and then immediately additional thoughts

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or beliefs follow it.

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And then that like deters us from instincts.

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That made me think of one of the things I liked

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and he says in the book is when you change

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what you believe, you change what you do.

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And then I kind of was thinking like almost

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in reverse engineering that I was like,

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okay, if you're doing things,

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like we're all doing things, right?

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And they're not working.

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And they're not having the effect that we want,

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then why not start,

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how did I think of this?

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I forgot, it was like,

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it was kind of like a reverse process.

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It was like, a lot of times we think about changing

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what you believe and change what you do.

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Well, how about starting to think about what am I doing

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that's not working or not having the effect that I want?

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And then kind of working backwards of like,

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okay, well then I could do this

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and then that can change my belief also.

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And instead, and it's another,

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way of like looking at what's happening around you and identifying whether it's

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working or not and then choosing to go into action about it. But anyways, I also

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for some reason, this was kind of funny guys, I don't know if I wasn't paying

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attention to this the first time I was listening to it, but I was like, Smith and

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Scurry, I'm like, what do they do? I was like, him and Haw have their

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personalities. I was like, what's different about Smith and Scurry? And then he said

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it was like, oh, Smith like sniffs out the situation and Scurry like moves into

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action. I was just laughing at myself that it took me the whole book. But

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anyway, anything else from anybody?

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Well, I'd love to add on as somebody who's obsessed with mindset and the way

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that our brains function. You know, I think a lot of this does come down to

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just our fear, our fear of the unknown. Like it's we cannot see the future. The

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only way to see it is to do it. There is literally no other way. And so anxiety

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and worry, a lot of it stems from your brain creating a scenario in the future

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of what said thing is actually going to look like. And then it keeps us stuck

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instead of actually just going like you mentioned, Gabby, and like the book talks

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about in the maze, like just actually going out and doing it, and then finding

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out. And what really stuck out to me was, it's a thought. So our thoughts are

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connected to our emotions, which are connected to our beliefs, right? And

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that's what Shannon Irvine talks about. That's like the 67 year book that

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Christy mentioned, we all read that and went through that at one point in

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Mindset Monday. And our thoughts, Mar, you had a good question, too, of like,

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it's me like, why? And it's like, well, because our brains are made to keep us

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safe. And so when when you have taken a step into courage, you have taken a step

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into creating something that is different, and it didn't work. Boom,

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there's evidence. I don't this doesn't work. So now we have now we have a

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decision, our brains got to be like, Okay, am I going to try again? Am I going

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to look for the cheese again? Or am I going to kind of stay stuck? Because now

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that I was rejected, and it didn't work once, is that going to happen again? And

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here's the reality, the answer actually is yes. Something's not going to work

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again, something's going to be scary again, something's going to give us

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evidence for our, you know, unbelief. But that's where the courage comes in to

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say, Hey, I'm, I'm still gonna try. Right? That's where like, you all are in a

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positions in all of your lives in any different in different ways with this,

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you know, okay, the business hasn't worked for the 10th time, what do I do

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now? Or social media hasn't worked for this amount of time? What do I do now?

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You know, or, um, you know, this thought, I'm afraid that change will lead to

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something worse that, believe it or not, this is a thought that that is keeping

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me even stuck now in my life. Like, honestly, I've been thinking like, oh,

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it's gonna just get worse. How could it get better when I've just had an amazing

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life? Amazing this amazing that how on how, how, how good to get better? It's

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like, well, actually, it can, if I so decide that it will, right. And so taking

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it's a courageous thought. Because it requires it requires a level of faith

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and a level of being rejected again, and going into a valley again. And he said

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at the end of this book, which I thought I'm like, Oh, I want to read his book,

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like, peaks and valleys, I think is what it was called. But he was just saying,

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when you're in a peak, you need to learn how to manage it, which is number one,

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remember how you got there to stay humble and curious, and three, keep the

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resources at the peak for when you go back into the valley. So I love this. I

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love this way of thinking, expecting the valley, it and not getting arrogant in

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the peak, which honest, which I am so guilty of. I mean, that that actually

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really hit my heart. He was saying, like, you know, don't get arrogant and stay

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grateful for more when you get into the valley. And and, and I think it can be

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really easy. I say this on Mindset Monday, it can be really easy to get stuck in

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that valley or like in Stockville and staying there because it becomes

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comfortable. Now it's known. Now I actually know what to expect when I'm

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not quite taking the full step or the risk. I'm just kind of scooting by,

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right? Things are okay, but they could be better. They could be worse, right? But I

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know a lot of you said yes to building businesses because you want better. You

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want to see something you've never seen before. And it really just requires a

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level of courage and a level of belief that you you

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maybe have not had yet.

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And that's where, and the belief comes

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from seeing and doing the things, right?

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So, and I will say, the last thing I wanna say is,

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you know, I think a lot of disappointment can come in too

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when you try something over and over again

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and it just doesn't work.

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It can be very disappointing.

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I feel that emotion a lot actually recently in my life.

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And yeah, so on a personal level,

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I'm thinking about fostering kids

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and I've actually tried to foster kids three times now

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and it's not worked.

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So part of me is like,

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is it actually gonna work the fourth time?

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Is this it really?

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Like, I don't know, you know?

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But the only way I'm going to know is if I try.

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I won't know unless I do the thing, right?

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Unless I, you know, I've been on 69 first dates.

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Well, I have a lot of evidence for dating not working out,

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but what about the 70th?

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And what if it takes me 20 more?

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Am I still willing to put myself out there

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and to try to go after this beautiful role

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and gift of being a wife and having a family

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that I so desperately wanted, you know?

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But to say all that, you know,

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it does take a lot of courage to try again

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and to get out of the,

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when you're out of the peak and in the valley,

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I think it's really revealing

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of who we are and what we believe.

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And I love how this book basically says,

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you can make a change at any time.

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You can make a change at any moment, any day.

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Just do one thing different today.

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That's literally how simple actually change can be.

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And not only that, but what would it look like to say,

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oh, change is exciting.

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Change is fun.

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I'm gonna embrace this.

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It's actually gonna lead me to something better.

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And I think those are the kind of thoughts that,

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in Mindset Monday, we're talking about abundance thinking.

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Those are abundant thoughts right there.

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They're not scarcity.

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They're abundant, right?

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Like there's an abundance of G's out there for all of us.

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It's just a matter of staying the course

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and getting our hands on it when it finally happens.

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Yeah.

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I wanna kind of piggyback off that to Margo's comment.

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She's saying that's exactly how she's feeling

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about the leave coming up

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because last time it wasn't a good experience.

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And we have to actively remember how our brain is wired.

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We have to actively remember like it wants to keep me safe

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and that's not a bad thing.

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But if we can be proactive in remembering that,

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and so we can expect when we're gonna have like this anxiety

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about things that, okay, I know that this is,

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I'm gonna probably feel a type of way.

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I'm gonna have some type of thoughts

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and they're gonna want me to stay in place

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in an effort to keep me safe.

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You can start to preemptively prepare for that actually

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the more and more skilled you get at this.

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And I think that's another benefit

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of anticipating the values like what Danielle is saying.

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And again, it's a different,

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we're not waiting for the shoe to drop.

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It's a different mindset.

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It's just understanding that we have cycles

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and it's actually really important

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for us to go through the cycles in order to grow.

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If you wanna stay the same forever,

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then sure, don't go through a cycle.

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If you wanna be, which one?

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Him?

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Doesn't wanna buy him cheese?

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Angry and bitter.

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Go ahead, go ahead.

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Anyways, any lingering thoughts

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before we kind of transition into office hours?

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I'd like to say one more thing.

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I think I'm looking in the room

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and I think we're all in a similar generation.

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And I'm thinking about my parents

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and the generation above them.

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On a lot of them, I feel like resemble Hall, right?

497
00:39:05.260 --> 00:39:08.380
Who's stuck, who's like really angry,

498
00:39:08.380 --> 00:39:10.260
who really doesn't want change to come,

499
00:39:10.260 --> 00:39:13.060
who's really like avoiding it at all costs.

500
00:39:13.060 --> 00:39:15.660
And I think this book came out at an interesting time

501
00:39:15.660 --> 00:39:18.900
because he is that generation, he's that age

502
00:39:18.900 --> 00:39:22.700
where he was talking about how change happened in the 90s

503
00:39:22.700 --> 00:39:25.940
was very different than 2008.

504
00:39:25.940 --> 00:39:27.740
Well, we're in 2026.

505
00:39:27.740 --> 00:39:29.220
Let's talk about how much change

506
00:39:29.220 --> 00:39:33.140
has just happened from 2008 to now.

507
00:39:33.140 --> 00:39:35.900
I mean, radical, radical shifts.

508
00:39:35.900 --> 00:39:37.500
And now we've got AI coming in.

509
00:39:37.500 --> 00:39:39.660
I think in a matter of two to three years,

510
00:39:39.660 --> 00:39:41.380
we're gonna be like, wow, look at all this change.

511
00:39:41.380 --> 00:39:43.820
And now it's even, change is happening,

512
00:39:43.820 --> 00:39:45.220
like he said, quicker.

513
00:39:45.220 --> 00:39:46.900
And I think he's right.

514
00:39:46.900 --> 00:39:51.900
And so the quicker we can decide we are people

515
00:39:52.500 --> 00:39:54.580
who want to change and embrace change.

516
00:39:54.580 --> 00:39:56.540
I'm gonna tell you right now,

517
00:39:56.540 --> 00:39:58.380
that is courageous right there.

518
00:39:59.260 --> 00:40:00.100
That's courageous.

519
00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:00.960
That's a mark of courage.

520
00:40:00.960 --> 00:40:06.000
That's a mark of a powerful person, because I will tell you right now, my

521
00:40:06.000 --> 00:40:11.060
parents and my grandparents, they are, they would rather never change and their

522
00:40:11.060 --> 00:40:14.400
life reflects it, and they're not really people who people like to be around.

523
00:40:14.880 --> 00:40:18.400
And I think it's very powerful to be the person other people want to be around.

524
00:40:18.860 --> 00:40:19.200
Right.

525
00:40:19.200 --> 00:40:23.100
And you, you embracing change helps other people even want to be around you more.

526
00:40:23.620 --> 00:40:24.040
Right.

527
00:40:24.040 --> 00:40:25.920
And be like, wow, she's embracing that change.

528
00:40:25.920 --> 00:40:26.700
She's doing that.

529
00:40:26.700 --> 00:40:27.920
Well, maybe I could do it too.

530
00:40:28.860 --> 00:40:29.780
And it's inevitable.

531
00:40:29.780 --> 00:40:32.120
And I think, yeah, I just think it's awesome.

532
00:40:32.120 --> 00:40:36.260
You all are deciding, like you're all agents of change and you're deciding to

533
00:40:36.260 --> 00:40:40.620
do that and there are bumps along the road, but there's, but it's either that

534
00:40:40.620 --> 00:40:41.540
or what, stay the same.

535
00:40:41.540 --> 00:40:45.200
And like, we have all decided, no, we're not going to be staying in Stockville.

536
00:40:45.940 --> 00:40:47.060
Let's be agents of change.

537
00:40:47.100 --> 00:40:47.940
Let's embrace it.

538
00:40:49.180 --> 00:40:50.380
And that's all I wanted to say.

539
00:40:50.440 --> 00:40:51.940
And I thought this was a really great book.

540
00:40:51.940 --> 00:40:54.660
So thanks Carrie for the recommendation.

541
00:40:54.840 --> 00:40:58.200
I think this is a book we can all reference and we can share with other

542
00:40:58.200 --> 00:41:01.320
people too, if they're struggling with change, you know, it's a real light,

543
00:41:01.320 --> 00:41:02.160
easy read.

544
00:41:03.300 --> 00:41:04.480
Yeah, absolutely.

545
00:41:05.120 --> 00:41:10.140
That kind of transitions us into our next book and in our schedule.

546
00:41:10.140 --> 00:41:15.800
So just the, I think the only announcement I have is about our next book.

547
00:41:15.800 --> 00:41:21.800
So we are going to, our next book is going to be the She Means Business by

548
00:41:21.900 --> 00:41:22.820
Carrie Green.

549
00:41:22.820 --> 00:41:24.580
This is like, who moved my cheese?

550
00:41:24.580 --> 00:41:26.540
And She Means Business is kind of like tied in the boat.

551
00:41:26.540 --> 00:41:31.260
So we just decided, I decided that we'll just move into She Means Business.

552
00:41:31.540 --> 00:41:35.380
We are going to have normal office hours next week.

553
00:41:35.900 --> 00:41:38.140
So that's the 28th.

554
00:41:38.860 --> 00:41:45.380
And then on May 5th is when we will do the first like book club session for She

555
00:41:45.380 --> 00:41:46.100
Means Business.

556
00:41:46.140 --> 00:41:50.860
So it gives you a couple of weeks to acquire said book and get reading.

557
00:41:51.160 --> 00:41:52.720
I haven't looked at it yet, so I don't,

558
00:41:52.760 --> 00:41:55.920
we haven't put out a schedule yet for like what chapters and stuff we'll be

559
00:41:55.920 --> 00:41:57.240
doing each week.

560
00:41:57.840 --> 00:42:02.240
But that'll be posted in the inner circle group in the app.

561
00:42:02.240 --> 00:42:06.480
So just be looking for that announcement probably sometime this week or so.

562
00:42:08.480 --> 00:42:09.320
We'll post it.

563
00:42:09.720 --> 00:42:13.720
Perfect. But that is going to be the next one. Any questions on that?

564
00:42:16.400 --> 00:42:17.220
Nope.

565
00:42:18.000 --> 00:42:21.200
Okay. I've got a fun question for today.

566
00:42:22.720 --> 00:42:25.680
So you guys should just know, I mean, this should not be surprising,

567
00:42:25.720 --> 00:42:29.600
but like I use chat GPT sometimes to like, give me some questions,

568
00:42:29.600 --> 00:42:32.440
some discussion topics. And it's always, I know it's chalk.

569
00:42:32.840 --> 00:42:35.720
It's always like, I just love, I'm like,

570
00:42:36.000 --> 00:42:39.960
I want it to like inspire creative thinking, problem solving,

571
00:42:40.200 --> 00:42:44.240
abundance mindset, all this stuff. So like, just know that.

572
00:42:45.140 --> 00:42:48.380
This question is not meant to debilitate.

573
00:42:48.380 --> 00:42:52.860
You is meant to inspire you and get your brain moving.

574
00:42:53.140 --> 00:42:57.820
So if you had to make a thousand

575
00:42:57.820 --> 00:43:02.820
dollars in the next 30 days with what you have going on right

576
00:43:02.820 --> 00:43:05.980
now, what would you do?

577
00:43:07.100 --> 00:43:08.380
That's today's discussion topic.

578
00:43:08.520 --> 00:43:13.520
And I like this because we all have the knowledge and ability to do this.

579
00:43:15.760 --> 00:43:18.400
And we all have the knowledge at our fingertips. Also,

580
00:43:18.440 --> 00:43:23.200
we all got a ton of knowledge just within our Rainmaker community.

581
00:43:25.480 --> 00:43:28.600
So I just kind of want to hear, and if you need to up it to like 5,000,

582
00:43:28.600 --> 00:43:31.120
10,000, I don't know, maybe a thousand is too easy.

583
00:43:31.940 --> 00:43:35.540
I love this. I watch these YouTube questions all the time.

584
00:43:38.740 --> 00:43:42.140
And now I'm challenged. I'm just wanting to share that.

585
00:43:45.940 --> 00:43:50.940
I would love for everybody. I want everyone to answer at least a tent to

586
00:43:50.940 --> 00:43:55.940
like, doesn't have to be a perfect answer, but at least a test to kind of,

587
00:43:55.940 --> 00:43:57.180
to kind of like,

588
00:43:57.800 --> 00:44:01.400
doesn't have to be a perfect answer, but at least a test to come up.

589
00:44:02.080 --> 00:44:05.480
I think doing the, um, releasing the vibe,

590
00:44:06.240 --> 00:44:11.240
I have like.com vibe websites.com and just go in with what Steven talked about.

591
00:44:15.440 --> 00:44:17.200
At one point, you know,

592
00:44:17.200 --> 00:44:22.040
just creating the AI websites with the new go high level thing.

593
00:44:22.040 --> 00:44:25.200
I've been playing with that and trying to figure out how to work that even

594
00:44:25.220 --> 00:44:28.820
though I've been doing like the lovable websites and stuff like that for a

595
00:44:28.820 --> 00:44:32.820
while. But, um, I've already got my first client with that.

596
00:44:33.860 --> 00:44:37.780
Now it's just a matter of like, really, um,

597
00:44:37.820 --> 00:44:41.500
the next step is getting used to the builder.

598
00:44:42.860 --> 00:44:46.380
And, um, I've been thinking about doing ads for that,

599
00:44:46.380 --> 00:44:51.020
like the four 97, um, website or funnel, um,

600
00:44:51.340 --> 00:44:52.180
and launching that.

601
00:44:53.160 --> 00:44:57.600
So how many would you need to sell to make a thousand dollars to, okay.

602
00:44:57.960 --> 00:45:00.040
Or that would.

603
00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:02.000
be like four four dollars away from

604
00:45:02.900 --> 00:45:05.780
Yeah, yeah, so basically two or three

605
00:45:07.080 --> 00:45:08.540
and

606
00:45:08.540 --> 00:45:10.540
then to get to

607
00:45:10.800 --> 00:45:16.560
How like what are your numbers? How many leads do you need to bring in? What's your conversion rate?

608
00:45:16.560 --> 00:45:18.560
You know start thinking about those things

609
00:45:18.720 --> 00:45:20.840
Actually, I've done this before with WordPress

610
00:45:21.400 --> 00:45:26.620
Years ago because I wanted to make like three four thousand dollars to go to a conference

611
00:45:26.940 --> 00:45:29.580
And I did it in two weeks, so it's something I've done before

612
00:45:31.220 --> 00:45:34.900
And the numbers were like I reach out to

613
00:45:37.660 --> 00:45:42.220
Ten people and get one I think it was I think those were my conversions

614
00:45:44.900 --> 00:45:48.020
Okay, I love it good thought

615
00:45:49.460 --> 00:45:53.500
And you have the option to go and do it if you choose I'm gonna do it

616
00:45:54.340 --> 00:45:56.340
for me, so

617
00:45:56.340 --> 00:45:58.340
just to kind of do an example of like

618
00:45:59.140 --> 00:46:05.260
Someone who would be starting more at scratch mode because a lot of you are very actively working all of you're working in your business

619
00:46:05.420 --> 00:46:10.460
So the question Margo was if you had to make a thousand dollars in the next 30 days with what you have

620
00:46:11.100 --> 00:46:16.380
Currently going on in your business. What would you do and so what I currently have going on my business is not much

621
00:46:16.380 --> 00:46:21.780
Not anything. It's just some ideas because as I've shared with you all it's not something I'm moving forward, but

622
00:46:22.420 --> 00:46:24.980
it's probably the thing that I

623
00:46:25.940 --> 00:46:28.900
Because I have all this knowledge at my fingertips

624
00:46:28.900 --> 00:46:34.460
I could move forward with the least amount of time like away from family and stuff

625
00:46:34.780 --> 00:46:37.940
So something I've played around with for my brand is a course

626
00:46:39.620 --> 00:46:45.820
So a course that would be available to families and individuals that are in my avatar, but also sold to churches

627
00:46:46.780 --> 00:46:52.380
So for me, it's like in a month. I could technically create said course market said course

628
00:46:53.100 --> 00:46:56.820
Sell said course if I needed $1,000

629
00:46:58.180 --> 00:47:00.740
or more so that's my

630
00:47:01.300 --> 00:47:07.660
my next steps would be to actually outline the course and fill it like make the course and then

631
00:47:08.420 --> 00:47:10.420
move on to

632
00:47:10.540 --> 00:47:15.940
probably organic reach outs would be the first thing to go to a faster response rate and

633
00:47:16.260 --> 00:47:18.940
then having to figure out the paid ads and

634
00:47:19.860 --> 00:47:21.860
working people through the funnel

635
00:47:22.380 --> 00:47:24.380
I

636
00:47:38.300 --> 00:47:44.060
Kind of did this exercise and a couple weeks ago before I got sick and started

637
00:47:44.580 --> 00:47:47.380
and it's basically kind of

638
00:47:47.940 --> 00:47:52.420
Like you can't make physical product in 30 days or less

639
00:47:52.420 --> 00:47:54.660
It's super difficult to do that

640
00:47:54.660 --> 00:48:00.660
And so it goes down to like a digital project product or a knowledge-based product

641
00:48:01.180 --> 00:48:04.300
and I decided that it would be

642
00:48:05.980 --> 00:48:12.140
Consulting in the industry that I have years of experience in in order to

643
00:48:12.660 --> 00:48:18.420
Find potential future customers for my cyclotron. And so trying to solicit

644
00:48:19.140 --> 00:48:24.780
Companies that I would want to help get to the next phase

645
00:48:24.780 --> 00:48:29.300
So that they could help me get to my next phase and we could potentially work together in the long term

646
00:48:29.300 --> 00:48:33.140
And so I started posting on LinkedIn and

647
00:48:34.980 --> 00:48:38.500
Commenting on other people's stuff and like making all of these

648
00:48:38.540 --> 00:48:44.820
Connections in my space that maybe I should have already had but I wasn't really active on LinkedIn and

649
00:48:46.100 --> 00:48:53.660
And then I got like a DM from somebody asking if I would be able to consult on his project

650
00:48:54.420 --> 00:48:58.340
Which was unpaid. I was frustrating and then I got

651
00:48:59.860 --> 00:49:03.860
Contacted by basically a recruiter who places

652
00:49:03.940 --> 00:49:07.620
C-suite executives on a consulting or a contract basis

653
00:49:07.620 --> 00:49:14.260
And I just had my first interview yesterday with a company that would actually pay me to do it

654
00:49:14.260 --> 00:49:16.580
But their timeline is beyond 30 days

655
00:49:16.580 --> 00:49:23.300
And so I feel really invigorated this week on posting on LinkedIn and doing cold reach-outs for

656
00:49:24.420 --> 00:49:29.060
Things that are well aligned with where I eventually want to be and

657
00:49:29.060 --> 00:49:33.700
And working towards making connections and network in this space

658
00:49:34.580 --> 00:49:36.580
going forward

659
00:49:36.580 --> 00:49:38.500
That's awesome

660
00:49:38.500 --> 00:49:43.220
I love that and that's where I want to say you said eventually be you want to eventually be in this place

661
00:49:43.220 --> 00:49:46.100
Well eventually doesn't have to be so far out in the future guys

662
00:49:46.660 --> 00:49:50.580
A lot of the times I know for myself. It's like well, maybe like at some point

663
00:49:51.140 --> 00:49:55.940
Or some some way in the future or eventually and I can't

664
00:49:56.660 --> 00:49:58.180
Goodbye

665
00:49:58.180 --> 00:49:59.400
Goodbye

666
00:49:59.400 --> 00:50:01.220
Thank you

667
00:50:00.000 --> 00:50:02.000
move towards those things now,

668
00:50:01.220 --> 00:50:03.140
Anyway, I'll see you next time

669
00:50:02.000 --> 00:50:04.040
which would move the timeline up

670
00:50:04.040 --> 00:50:06.900
of being in that space sooner.

671
00:50:08.280 --> 00:50:11.360
So just something to think about there.

672
00:50:11.360 --> 00:50:13.280
Yeah, we were talking last week about,

673
00:50:13.280 --> 00:50:15.740
I was like, what would you do if you weren't afraid?

674
00:50:15.740 --> 00:50:18.400
And the reality is like,

675
00:50:18.400 --> 00:50:22.200
we are physically moving to another state.

676
00:50:22.200 --> 00:50:24.640
I have to like do all these things

677
00:50:24.640 --> 00:50:28.360
before I can be relocated.

678
00:50:28.360 --> 00:50:32.460
And so I'm like just giving myself permission to say,

679
00:50:32.460 --> 00:50:35.160
you know, the future starts in August

680
00:50:35.160 --> 00:50:37.740
whenever I'm unpacked in my new house.

681
00:50:37.740 --> 00:50:40.100
And that's when I can do all these other things.

682
00:50:40.100 --> 00:50:43.500
But between now and August, I need a few thousand dollars.

683
00:50:43.500 --> 00:50:45.860
So I guess I'll be consulting.

684
00:50:45.860 --> 00:50:46.700
Great.

685
00:50:50.340 --> 00:50:51.940
It serves double duty

686
00:50:51.940 --> 00:50:54.300
because it gives you the money for now

687
00:50:54.300 --> 00:50:55.780
and connections for later.

688
00:50:59.360 --> 00:51:01.600
So I'll have an idea.

689
00:51:03.400 --> 00:51:06.760
I think for me, it would probably be

690
00:51:07.840 --> 00:51:11.080
hosting some kind of class or workshop,

691
00:51:11.080 --> 00:51:13.440
which is kind of my,

692
00:51:13.440 --> 00:51:16.560
that's my go-to when I have been in this situation

693
00:51:16.560 --> 00:51:17.400
in the past.

694
00:51:17.400 --> 00:51:18.920
Although I just did a vendor show this weekend.

695
00:51:18.920 --> 00:51:20.560
That was like Friday, Saturday, Sunday.

696
00:51:20.560 --> 00:51:21.760
And I did that.

697
00:51:21.760 --> 00:51:23.200
I made over a thousand.

698
00:51:23.200 --> 00:51:25.760
So that's also a possibility,

699
00:51:25.760 --> 00:51:29.240
but I happen to have all of the product like on hand.

700
00:51:29.240 --> 00:51:32.360
So I didn't have to like order a lot of extra stuff

701
00:51:32.360 --> 00:51:33.200
or whatever.

702
00:51:33.200 --> 00:51:36.560
I just took what I had and sold a lot of stuff,

703
00:51:36.560 --> 00:51:37.640
made a lot of new contacts.

704
00:51:37.640 --> 00:51:42.640
But I think more guaranteed for me would be

705
00:51:44.200 --> 00:51:48.800
create like a class or a workshop or a retreat.

706
00:51:48.800 --> 00:51:50.240
The retreats always do really well.

707
00:51:50.240 --> 00:51:52.240
They're usually at a higher price point.

708
00:51:53.240 --> 00:51:56.760
Schedule that out, fill it.

709
00:51:56.760 --> 00:52:01.240
And then that would probably be the thing.

710
00:52:03.440 --> 00:52:04.720
Yeah.

711
00:52:04.720 --> 00:52:07.200
That's like short and sweet, but.

712
00:52:07.200 --> 00:52:08.520
That's okay.

713
00:52:08.520 --> 00:52:10.080
Doesn't have to be complicated.

714
00:52:14.040 --> 00:52:16.280
Carrie, Garima, Maura, any ideas?

715
00:52:18.400 --> 00:52:21.360
Well, yeah, I can go.

716
00:52:22.240 --> 00:52:24.840
Well, basically I met somebody.

717
00:52:26.040 --> 00:52:29.520
She has like a bridal store

718
00:52:29.520 --> 00:52:34.280
and she gave me an idea to bring my product.

719
00:52:34.280 --> 00:52:37.080
She has like, she has a lot of foot traffic.

720
00:52:37.080 --> 00:52:40.840
It's a corner store with like glass windows.

721
00:52:40.840 --> 00:52:43.640
She suggested me to bring my product

722
00:52:43.640 --> 00:52:46.440
and with a QR code on it,

723
00:52:46.440 --> 00:52:48.760
she can place it on the window

724
00:52:48.760 --> 00:52:51.560
where it's like the most foot traffic.

725
00:52:52.440 --> 00:52:54.920
And she can maybe showcase it

726
00:52:54.920 --> 00:52:57.720
as for the wedding registry stuff.

727
00:52:57.720 --> 00:53:01.040
I never looked at that angle before.

728
00:53:01.040 --> 00:53:03.640
So I'm gonna try it out

729
00:53:05.160 --> 00:53:09.320
to physically actually put it out there

730
00:53:09.320 --> 00:53:11.440
in a store in Cincinnati.

731
00:53:11.440 --> 00:53:16.440
So, which is kind of, so far it's all Amazon.

732
00:53:16.800 --> 00:53:20.720
So I'm gonna try it out, giving an attribution link

733
00:53:20.720 --> 00:53:25.200
and see if I can bring traffic like this.

734
00:53:25.200 --> 00:53:26.720
And if it clicks, or I mean,

735
00:53:26.720 --> 00:53:29.280
if this is an experience to learn,

736
00:53:29.280 --> 00:53:30.560
maybe I can talk to her.

737
00:53:30.560 --> 00:53:35.080
She can give me more leads or learn from this experience

738
00:53:35.080 --> 00:53:38.000
and try it out.

739
00:53:38.000 --> 00:53:39.440
So that's what I'm gonna do.

740
00:53:41.120 --> 00:53:41.960
Love it.

741
00:53:41.960 --> 00:53:43.200
That's a cool opportunity.

742
00:53:44.280 --> 00:53:46.520
Yeah, thanks.

743
00:53:46.520 --> 00:53:48.000
Maura, did you have anything?

744
00:53:48.760 --> 00:53:49.600
Hmm.

745
00:53:50.560 --> 00:53:53.400
Yeah, well, mine comes down to energy

746
00:53:53.400 --> 00:53:55.680
because there's a lot of things I can do.

747
00:53:55.680 --> 00:53:57.520
I'm just not doing them.

748
00:53:57.520 --> 00:54:02.520
But on top of my blog and stuff that I wanna do with AI,

749
00:54:03.160 --> 00:54:06.920
I also have an eBay business, so, or an eBay store.

750
00:54:06.920 --> 00:54:10.560
So that's like the easiest way I can make $1,000,

751
00:54:10.560 --> 00:54:13.920
but it's just, you know, like with eBay,

752
00:54:13.920 --> 00:54:16.160
I don't know if anyone else has ever done it,

753
00:54:16.160 --> 00:54:19.920
but it's what you put into is what you get out of it.

754
00:54:19.920 --> 00:54:21.800
And if you're not active on the platform

755
00:54:21.800 --> 00:54:26.440
and creating new listings on a regular basis,

756
00:54:26.440 --> 00:54:28.560
then your sales just tank.

757
00:54:28.560 --> 00:54:33.560
And I have a lot of inventory that's not listed

758
00:54:33.800 --> 00:54:36.440
that is just sitting in my office.

759
00:54:36.440 --> 00:54:38.160
And every time I walk in my office,

760
00:54:38.160 --> 00:54:39.840
I'm like, my office is ugly

761
00:54:39.840 --> 00:54:41.800
and I need to get this stuff moving.

762
00:54:42.800 --> 00:54:46.240
So if someone can give me a shot of energy,

763
00:54:46.240 --> 00:54:48.880
I'm motivated to do that.

764
00:54:48.880 --> 00:54:53.880
I'm also very much letting fear hold me back

765
00:54:55.480 --> 00:54:57.640
from my AI stuff.

766
00:54:57.640 --> 00:54:59.520
And so I've also...

767
00:55:00.000 --> 00:55:05.440
but that's like not really to be discussed here like Gabby we meet later

768
00:55:05.440 --> 00:55:10.400
this week you and I can talk about that but the other thing I've wanted to try

769
00:55:10.400 --> 00:55:19.520
is just doing Amazon reviews and has anyone on here done that because like to

770
00:55:19.520 --> 00:55:27.720
me I'm at home all day I shop on Amazon close to daily I have so many products I

771
00:55:27.720 --> 00:55:33.120
can review it doesn't take a lot of time or effort I'm already an influencer

772
00:55:33.120 --> 00:55:38.640
and have a storefront like I already have it all set up ready to go so if I

773
00:55:38.640 --> 00:55:43.360
needed to make a quick thousand dollars then I actually just have to do what I

774
00:55:43.360 --> 00:55:51.000
already have in front of me I'm just not doing it so that's something I've heard

775
00:55:51.000 --> 00:55:54.600
you say pretty much every time we talk Maura what do you think it's gonna take

776
00:55:54.600 --> 00:56:00.920
to change that that of me not doing it yes you're like you like a fear hold you

777
00:56:00.920 --> 00:56:05.200
back you're aware of that and the energy is you you know is actually going to be

778
00:56:05.200 --> 00:56:10.800
unpredictable that's predictable predictably unpredictable what is gonna

779
00:56:10.800 --> 00:56:20.160
change that um I don't know I mean I want to physically get better I don't

780
00:56:20.160 --> 00:56:28.320
with POTS and in chronic fatigue and my doctors keep telling me that like

781
00:56:28.320 --> 00:56:39.880
recovery is possible when I've done everything under the Sun but it probably

782
00:56:39.880 --> 00:56:47.720
just comes down to mindset and for a while I have felt like I'm just I don't

783
00:56:47.880 --> 00:56:57.680
have the motivation and I don't and so I guess okay sorry this is I'm verbally

784
00:56:57.680 --> 00:57:04.640
processing I think what will get me to change if I had accountability or if I

785
00:57:04.640 --> 00:57:11.200
had like this group I've been haven't had a group before and if we all said

786
00:57:11.200 --> 00:57:18.960
hey and may let's see who can make $1,000 then I might be motivated to

787
00:57:18.960 --> 00:57:23.680
actually do it because right now there's nothing telling me that I have to do

788
00:57:23.680 --> 00:57:33.600
that other than my body keeps telling me not to do that if that makes sense yeah

789
00:57:33.600 --> 00:57:39.440
it does Danielle I thought you and you it makes complete sense first of all who

790
00:57:39.440 --> 00:57:45.520
else has been where Mars talking about okay okay so we've got two options here

791
00:57:45.520 --> 00:57:56.760
number one I'm telling you right now in 30 days go make $1,000 boom right now

792
00:57:56.760 --> 00:58:03.440
done I said it but I don't think it's really that right I think sometimes we

793
00:58:03.440 --> 00:58:07.680
think it's accountability because we could sit here and say that which I mean

794
00:58:07.680 --> 00:58:11.920
team if y'all want to let's go let's make a little let's do it you know we

795
00:58:11.920 --> 00:58:16.520
can start right now end of May check back in see who's made a thousand bucks

796
00:58:16.520 --> 00:58:21.240
who's done it first you know but I think you're on to something more with the

797
00:58:21.240 --> 00:58:26.360
mindset I think that's also a part of it right because you have so many

798
00:58:26.360 --> 00:58:31.040
neuropathways going on in your brain that are keeping you safe and stuck real

799
00:58:31.040 --> 00:58:37.320
nice and comfy and stuck on the couch and I've been there I have been there I

800
00:58:37.320 --> 00:58:41.640
will be there again I'm not I'm not judging you I don't I don't I'm just

801
00:58:41.640 --> 00:58:48.000
letting you know you're right and I'm she allowed to have a mindset session

802
00:58:48.000 --> 00:58:54.760
with me Gabby is that like cuz I know I had I've had one with somebody on this

803
00:58:54.760 --> 00:59:03.160
call before so yeah okay all right Mara because what I do is I work with mine

804
00:59:03.160 --> 00:59:06.680
people's minds and I know exactly like kind of what you're talking about so

805
00:59:06.680 --> 00:59:10.720
would you want to do an hour session where I kind of help you create some new

806
00:59:10.720 --> 00:59:17.800
neuropathways around time and energy yes okay there's a million cool because we

807
00:59:17.800 --> 00:59:20.400
just talked about this yesterday on mindset Monday which I know you're not

808
00:59:20.400 --> 00:59:24.120
on that only some of you are on this call and we talked about like having an

809
00:59:24.120 --> 00:59:27.600
abundance mindset around time and money and you know all those different areas

810
00:59:27.600 --> 00:59:32.800
of our lives and how if we it's a you're a perfect example of having a scarcity

811
00:59:33.040 --> 00:59:38.120
thought keeps you stuck and I haven't I mean I've said I've said it so many

812
00:59:38.120 --> 00:59:41.840
times I've tried all these health things and nothing seemed to work you know it

813
00:59:41.840 --> 00:59:45.640
took me about 13 years to finally get some breakthrough but it didn't have to

814
00:59:45.640 --> 00:59:50.320
take that long actually it did it I was just a little stubborn and stuck so so

815
00:59:50.320 --> 00:59:53.840
I'll get with you we'll have a we'll have a call we'll have a session it'll

816
00:59:53.840 --> 01:00:00.720
help you that sounds amazing cool love to help you out there

817
01:00:00.000 --> 01:00:01.720
Aerie, did you have anything?

818
01:00:05.960 --> 01:00:08.680
So I already do over $1,000.

819
01:00:08.680 --> 01:00:12.160
And so I was like, OK, how could I up the ante?

820
01:00:12.160 --> 01:00:19.040
Maybe like $1,000 sales instead of $1,000.

821
01:00:19.040 --> 01:00:21.120
But we need to run ads.

822
01:00:21.120 --> 01:00:23.840
That's actually what we're going through right now.

823
01:00:23.840 --> 01:00:28.200
We need to start running ads and bring brand awareness and stuff.

824
01:00:28.200 --> 01:00:30.440
I was talking to an influencer.

825
01:00:30.440 --> 01:00:31.960
So we've been going back and forth.

826
01:00:31.960 --> 01:00:34.280
And I just don't know if I'm quite there yet

827
01:00:34.280 --> 01:00:36.680
to afford what she wants to charge.

828
01:00:36.680 --> 01:00:44.720
So I was asking chat and the CEO in the 8Fig AI toolkit

829
01:00:44.720 --> 01:00:47.560
for a new startup, how do you do it?

830
01:00:47.560 --> 01:00:52.560
And they're more affiliate as opposed to a flat rate fee.

831
01:00:52.560 --> 01:00:54.960
So I'm not sure if the influencer will work out.

832
01:00:54.960 --> 01:00:57.480
But at the end of the day, we need

833
01:00:57.480 --> 01:01:01.840
to start running ads and driving traffic to our website.

834
01:01:01.840 --> 01:01:04.000
OK.

835
01:01:04.000 --> 01:01:05.720
Thanks for sharing.

836
01:01:05.720 --> 01:01:07.400
Danielle, do you want to have an idea?

837
01:01:17.000 --> 01:01:18.920
I'm just closed right now.

838
01:01:18.920 --> 01:01:24.320
Let's just say you needed $1,000.

839
01:01:24.360 --> 01:01:27.000
Y'all, we're laughing because are you referring

840
01:01:27.000 --> 01:01:29.080
to what we talked about on the call yesterday?

841
01:01:29.080 --> 01:01:31.120
I mean, not necessarily.

842
01:01:31.120 --> 01:01:31.620
OK.

843
01:01:34.440 --> 01:01:42.080
OK, so well, I'm honing in on my babysitting skills.

844
01:01:42.080 --> 01:01:48.440
So I just made $1,000 last week babysitting.

845
01:01:48.440 --> 01:01:50.640
So that's a skill I've got in my back pocket.

846
01:01:50.640 --> 01:01:55.600
I started as a college lady, college girly.

847
01:01:55.600 --> 01:01:56.440
OK.

848
01:01:56.440 --> 01:02:00.040
So I'm telling you, people have asked

849
01:02:00.040 --> 01:02:02.480
me to watch their kids the entire month of April.

850
01:02:02.480 --> 01:02:03.640
I don't understand how.

851
01:02:03.640 --> 01:02:04.560
I don't know why.

852
01:02:04.560 --> 01:02:06.560
I've said yes because it's made sense.

853
01:02:06.560 --> 01:02:08.440
And I've made over $1,000.

854
01:02:08.440 --> 01:02:09.680
OK, so that's nice.

855
01:02:09.680 --> 01:02:12.200
Also, I just rented a room.

856
01:02:12.200 --> 01:02:13.840
I just switched my entire house up.

857
01:02:13.840 --> 01:02:17.680
The family I was living with moved out.

858
01:02:17.680 --> 01:02:18.600
That moved in with me.

859
01:02:18.600 --> 01:02:20.440
They just moved out last week.

860
01:02:20.440 --> 01:02:21.640
This past week.

861
01:02:21.640 --> 01:02:23.640
And somebody is moving in today.

862
01:02:23.640 --> 01:02:27.000
And I decided to charge $1,000 for one room.

863
01:02:27.000 --> 01:02:29.880
And so I got creative and kind of am

864
01:02:29.880 --> 01:02:32.280
re-leveraging my home right now.

865
01:02:32.280 --> 01:02:37.280
So there's $1,000.

866
01:02:37.280 --> 01:02:40.080
That's funny.

867
01:02:40.080 --> 01:02:43.320
OK, I also have a client who's ending with me.

868
01:02:43.320 --> 01:02:46.160
And I think what I'm going to do is offer some more time

869
01:02:46.160 --> 01:02:46.880
to work with me.

870
01:02:46.880 --> 01:02:49.080
And then that would easily be over $1,000.

871
01:02:49.080 --> 01:02:50.760
So.

872
01:02:50.760 --> 01:02:59.560
And OK, this cannot leave this call.

873
01:02:59.560 --> 01:03:01.160
I know most of you.

874
01:03:01.160 --> 01:03:04.520
Mara and Sian, not so much.

875
01:03:04.520 --> 01:03:06.440
But I'm looking forward to getting to know you,

876
01:03:06.440 --> 01:03:07.800
especially at the retreat, Sian.

877
01:03:11.680 --> 01:03:12.720
Oh, I'm nervous.

878
01:03:12.720 --> 01:03:18.520
OK, so I think I'm going to start

879
01:03:18.520 --> 01:03:22.920
my own Mindset Monday brand.

880
01:03:22.920 --> 01:03:25.880
And Rainmakers actually will no longer have it

881
01:03:25.880 --> 01:03:29.040
at all in the near future.

882
01:03:29.040 --> 01:03:31.760
So I'm going to start a low ticket membership

883
01:03:31.760 --> 01:03:34.320
and literally just continue Mindset Monday.

884
01:03:34.320 --> 01:03:38.040
But it's going to be more my thing and not Rainmakers.

885
01:03:38.040 --> 01:03:40.040
So.

886
01:03:40.040 --> 01:03:41.480
And let's see where it goes.

887
01:03:41.480 --> 01:03:43.520
All of you on this call are going to be the first

888
01:03:43.520 --> 01:03:46.920
to be invited to it, just so you know.

889
01:03:46.920 --> 01:03:48.480
And it's going to be a low ticket.

890
01:03:48.480 --> 01:03:49.800
And it's going to be fun.

891
01:03:49.800 --> 01:03:52.320
It's going to be really similar to what I've just been doing,

892
01:03:52.320 --> 01:03:55.160
but even a little more Danielle.

893
01:03:55.160 --> 01:03:56.720
So.

894
01:03:56.720 --> 01:03:59.640
So yeah, I'm going to take that plunge, probably.

895
01:03:59.640 --> 01:04:00.840
I don't know when.

896
01:04:00.840 --> 01:04:03.600
OK, it's not out of the bag yet.

897
01:04:03.600 --> 01:04:05.560
But stay tuned.

898
01:04:05.560 --> 01:04:08.120
We literally were talking besides yesterday.

899
01:04:08.120 --> 01:04:09.480
It was yesterday.

900
01:04:09.480 --> 01:04:11.240
And I'm going to roll with it.

901
01:04:11.240 --> 01:04:13.200
I'm just not sure what day.

902
01:04:13.200 --> 01:04:14.440
Yeah.

903
01:04:14.440 --> 01:04:17.840
So yeah, definitely keep it to yourselves.

904
01:04:17.840 --> 01:04:19.720
Don't go sharing this around to anybody

905
01:04:19.720 --> 01:04:21.080
who's not on the call today.

906
01:04:21.080 --> 01:04:22.520
If they want to know about it, they

907
01:04:22.520 --> 01:04:24.440
could have been on the call today.

908
01:04:24.440 --> 01:04:25.160
So yeah.

909
01:04:25.160 --> 01:04:28.400
But the reason why I ask this question, y'all, is because,

910
01:04:28.400 --> 01:04:32.160
and I know this hasn't been the most exciting conversation,

911
01:04:32.160 --> 01:04:35.080
but I'm in calls with most of you.

912
01:04:35.080 --> 01:04:39.880
So commonly, I hear complaints of cash flow or things

913
01:04:39.880 --> 01:04:40.600
not working.

914
01:04:40.600 --> 01:04:42.240
And you know what, guys?

915
01:04:42.240 --> 01:04:44.000
You've just got to decide at some point.

916
01:04:44.000 --> 01:04:45.480
My brain is going to shift, and I'm

917
01:04:45.480 --> 01:04:47.120
going to do something different.

918
01:04:47.120 --> 01:04:49.160
So that's what today's exercise is.

919
01:04:49.160 --> 01:04:51.800
And I like that with what you have right now,

920
01:04:51.800 --> 01:04:54.360
because I don't think sometimes you realize

921
01:04:54.360 --> 01:04:58.160
how much knowledge is dumped into your Rainmaker training

922
01:04:58.160 --> 01:04:59.720
portal.

923
01:05:00.000 --> 01:05:01.400
Ways to make money.

924
01:05:01.400 --> 01:05:02.720
Business Accelerator course,

925
01:05:02.720 --> 01:05:04.200
literally apply it to any industry.

926
01:05:04.200 --> 01:05:05.760
Go start something new tomorrow

927
01:05:05.760 --> 01:05:09.280
and you have knowledge that you can apply to it, okay?

928
01:05:09.280 --> 01:05:12.000
So this is like a, I love Tough Love.

929
01:05:12.000 --> 01:05:12.840
You guys know that.

930
01:05:12.840 --> 01:05:14.280
That's like my MO.

931
01:05:14.280 --> 01:05:15.560
This is my Tough Love.

932
01:05:15.560 --> 01:05:19.120
You guys are all capable of doing the thing,

933
01:05:19.120 --> 01:05:22.720
of generating $1,000 in new revenue in the next 30 days.

934
01:05:22.720 --> 01:05:25.800
$10,000, whatever that number is

935
01:05:25.800 --> 01:05:27.800
that needs to challenge you.

936
01:05:28.680 --> 01:05:31.360
So I just want you guys to feel that push.

937
01:05:31.360 --> 01:05:32.520
I'm like, you can do it.

938
01:05:32.520 --> 01:05:34.960
I love that we can come to this call and share honestly,

939
01:05:34.960 --> 01:05:38.520
like things that are hard, disappointing, not working well.

940
01:05:38.520 --> 01:05:40.880
But I also don't want it to just be that.

941
01:05:41.840 --> 01:05:43.800
That's not what this community is for.

942
01:05:44.720 --> 01:05:46.840
This community is for you to also

943
01:05:46.840 --> 01:05:49.360
like get propelled into moving forward.

944
01:05:50.680 --> 01:05:53.720
So that's just like be thinking this week,

945
01:05:53.720 --> 01:05:55.840
if I really had to make $1,000 in revenue,

946
01:05:56.800 --> 01:05:58.640
or in profit, whatever you want to say,

947
01:05:58.640 --> 01:06:01.960
whatever you actually need in the next 30 days,

948
01:06:01.960 --> 01:06:02.800
what would I do?

949
01:06:02.800 --> 01:06:05.360
And this kind of circles back to when we were talking,

950
01:06:05.360 --> 01:06:07.680
going through the science of scaling,

951
01:06:07.680 --> 01:06:10.640
because having that like quick deadline

952
01:06:10.640 --> 01:06:12.920
with a certain amount attached to it is like,

953
01:06:12.920 --> 01:06:15.520
oh, this is gonna shift some priorities probably.

954
01:06:16.360 --> 01:06:19.800
I might not go watch TV tonight, or whatever.

955
01:06:21.320 --> 01:06:22.840
Or watch my YouTube videos.

956
01:06:23.040 --> 01:06:26.120
For me, I restarted my like Gilmore Girls.

957
01:06:26.120 --> 01:06:27.800
That's like when I'm, I've watched that show

958
01:06:27.800 --> 01:06:29.920
like more than a dozen times, y'all.

959
01:06:29.920 --> 01:06:33.400
Like my comfort show, which, okay, just the other day,

960
01:06:33.400 --> 01:06:35.640
sorry, tangent, squirrel moment.

961
01:06:35.640 --> 01:06:39.640
I did not, I've watched that show more than a dozen times.

962
01:06:39.640 --> 01:06:41.240
And just the first time,

963
01:06:41.240 --> 01:06:43.120
because we listened to Who Moved My Cheese,

964
01:06:43.120 --> 01:06:46.560
they dropped Who Moved My Cheese in a line in the movie

965
01:06:46.560 --> 01:06:48.000
that I never caught before,

966
01:06:48.000 --> 01:06:49.440
because I didn't know about it.

967
01:06:49.440 --> 01:06:50.800
And I caught it, I was like, see,

968
01:06:50.840 --> 01:06:52.080
and I caught it, I was like, see,

969
01:06:52.080 --> 01:06:53.840
it's new every time I watch it.

970
01:06:56.720 --> 01:06:59.280
Criminal Minds, yeah, that's a good one.

971
01:06:59.280 --> 01:07:01.200
What's-His-Face is quite attractive,

972
01:07:01.200 --> 01:07:04.160
so I also like Criminal Minds.

973
01:07:04.160 --> 01:07:05.240
I forget his name.

974
01:07:06.800 --> 01:07:08.800
Nice chocolate man, so.

975
01:07:13.280 --> 01:07:14.480
Anyways, all right, y'all.

976
01:07:14.480 --> 01:07:16.000
Does anybody have lingering thoughts?

977
01:07:16.000 --> 01:07:19.820
This is your Tesla push to, you can do all things.

978
01:07:21.800 --> 01:07:23.160
Through Christ who strengthens you.

979
01:07:23.160 --> 01:07:24.360
You can also do all things,

980
01:07:24.360 --> 01:07:27.760
because you have lots of knowledge at your fingertips.

981
01:07:27.760 --> 01:07:29.920
Sex and the City, that's my sister.

982
01:07:29.920 --> 01:07:31.920
My sister loves Sex and the City.

983
01:07:33.000 --> 01:07:34.080
I've never really watched it.

984
01:07:34.080 --> 01:07:36.480
I've seen snippets, but never really watched it.

985
01:07:38.000 --> 01:07:40.280
All right, y'all, so I will see you guys on calls,

986
01:07:40.280 --> 01:07:42.720
or I will see you next week on office hours.

987
01:07:42.720 --> 01:07:46.440
And then don't forget, in two weeks, we start She Means Business.

988
01:07:47.520 --> 01:07:50.720
All right, all right, have a good week, everybody.

989
01:07:50.720 --> 01:07:52.520
Thank you, bye-bye.
