WEBVTT 1 00:00:02.000 --> 00:00:04.000 You 2 00:00:04.000 --> 00:00:06.000 You 3 00:00:06.000 --> 00:00:08.000 You 4 00:00:08.000 --> 00:00:10.000 You 5 00:00:10.000 --> 00:00:12.000 You 6 00:00:12.000 --> 00:00:14.000 You 7 00:00:14.000 --> 00:00:16.000 You 8 00:00:16.000 --> 00:00:18.000 You 9 00:00:18.000 --> 00:00:20.000 You 10 00:00:20.000 --> 00:00:22.000 You 11 00:00:22.000 --> 00:00:24.000 You 12 00:00:24.000 --> 00:00:26.000 You 13 00:00:26.000 --> 00:00:28.000 You 14 00:00:28.000 --> 00:00:30.000 You 15 00:00:30.000 --> 00:00:32.000 You 16 00:00:32.000 --> 00:00:34.000 You 17 00:00:34.000 --> 00:00:36.000 You 18 00:00:36.000 --> 00:00:38.000 You 19 00:00:40.000 --> 00:00:54.000 Hey everybody 20 00:00:54.000 --> 00:00:58.000 Hey senior, I had a home today 21 00:00:58.000 --> 00:01:02.000 Oh, I have a really, really good day today 22 00:01:02.000 --> 00:01:04.000 I have a really good day 23 00:01:04.000 --> 00:01:06.000 Hey, Linda 24 00:01:06.000 --> 00:01:12.000 It's gonna be 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00:04:04.000 --> 00:04:06.000 It's gonna be a really good day 102 00:04:06.000 --> 00:04:08.000 It's gonna be a really good day 103 00:04:08.000 --> 00:04:10.000 It's gonna be a really good day 104 00:04:10.000 --> 00:04:12.000 It's gonna be a really good day 105 00:04:12.000 --> 00:04:14.000 It's gonna be a really good day 106 00:04:14.000 --> 00:04:16.000 All right, acknowledging your feelings 107 00:04:16.000 --> 00:04:18.000 Lisa, if you're full and avoiding 108 00:04:18.000 --> 00:04:20.000 Trying to come around and grow out and shoot 109 00:04:20.000 --> 00:04:22.000 Good, I see you girl 110 00:04:22.000 --> 00:04:24.000 I see you 111 00:04:24.000 --> 00:04:38.000 All right, Linda, you're feeling grateful 112 00:04:38.000 --> 00:04:40.000 rushed 113 00:04:40.000 --> 00:04:42.000 and also accomplished 114 00:04:42.000 --> 00:04:44.000 'Cause you're right three hours 115 00:04:44.000 --> 00:04:46.000 ahead, that's right 116 00:04:46.000 --> 00:04:48.000 Good, love that 117 00:04:48.000 --> 00:04:52.000 All right, Cianne, love 118 00:04:52.000 --> 00:04:54.000 hearing you feeling motivated, that's great 119 00:04:54.000 --> 00:04:56.000 Love it, welcome everyone 120 00:04:56.000 --> 00:04:58.000 We're just popping in the chat 121 00:04:58.000 --> 00:05:00.000 How you're feeling today, hey Ken 122 00:05:02.000 --> 00:05:08.560 Hey, Amanda we're just popping in the chat. How you feeling today? We're just kind of warming up into the call 123 00:05:08.560 --> 00:05:16.800 I've got some announcements coming your way today and then I want to talk a little bit about 124 00:05:16.800 --> 00:05:20.080 change 125 00:05:20.080 --> 00:05:23.720 And then I'd love to do some coaching if anybody 126 00:05:23.720 --> 00:05:27.200 Feeling stuck 127 00:05:27.200 --> 00:05:35.500 Okay, Kendall lots on the to-do list. Yep. Here you on that 128 00:05:35.500 --> 00:05:39.780 Having a full to-do list can feel really overwhelming 129 00:05:39.780 --> 00:05:42.760 right sometimes 130 00:05:42.760 --> 00:05:45.200 So I hear yeah 131 00:05:45.200 --> 00:05:50.160 so as you guys know mindset Monday is a place where I 132 00:05:50.160 --> 00:05:55.880 We get to just come and number one be yourself take a look at your feelings 133 00:05:55.880 --> 00:06:02.160 Right because they're connected to a thought and then also be vulnerable and also just get a reset 134 00:06:02.160 --> 00:06:09.000 I think I've been doing I was thinking about this you guys for those of you who've known me for a while 135 00:06:09.000 --> 00:06:15.520 Or you just came into mindset Monday, but I've been doing this every week 136 00:06:15.520 --> 00:06:19.560 for a little over two years I 137 00:06:20.240 --> 00:06:23.280 Mean I have not really missed the mindset Monday 138 00:06:23.280 --> 00:06:28.340 I have come rainshine sick or whatever you guys told me last week. I was sick 139 00:06:28.340 --> 00:06:37.640 Update I'm feeling a lot better a lot better. I would say I'm like 90% to normal. So I'll take it. I'll take it 140 00:06:37.640 --> 00:06:48.800 But we have some really exciting changes that are happening and I'm gonna begin to talk about them in the month of May and 141 00:06:49.640 --> 00:06:52.600 so the first announcement is 142 00:06:52.600 --> 00:06:55.320 I'm looking at my calendar 143 00:06:55.320 --> 00:07:01.240 We are not going to be meeting the last month of or the last Monday in May due to the holiday 144 00:07:01.240 --> 00:07:07.040 So that will be a holiday the 25th. So in May we've got three weeks and 145 00:07:07.040 --> 00:07:12.160 Then you've got some change coming. So 146 00:07:12.160 --> 00:07:16.960 I'd love to hear from you all 147 00:07:18.000 --> 00:07:20.000 Hey, Karima welcome girl 148 00:07:20.000 --> 00:07:22.640 I'd love to hear from you in the chat 149 00:07:22.640 --> 00:07:25.480 When I say the word change 150 00:07:25.480 --> 00:07:30.720 Or things are about to change. I'd love to hear your thoughts 151 00:07:30.720 --> 00:07:38.320 I'd love to hear your thoughts like what are you where does your brain go when you hear the word change or you think? 152 00:07:38.320 --> 00:07:40.320 Oh, man things are gonna change. I 153 00:07:40.320 --> 00:07:47.120 Love to start in the chat. Let's talk about change because the reality is life is full of change 154 00:07:47.520 --> 00:07:53.920 Constantly, it's constant change and especially I would say as an entrepreneur, right? There's a lot of change 155 00:07:53.920 --> 00:07:58.120 So let's let's talk about it real quick. I'd love to hear your thoughts your feelings 156 00:07:58.120 --> 00:08:02.080 around change I 157 00:08:02.080 --> 00:08:14.800 Taught a whole mindset Monday on change and I was trying to find the canvas deck that I created. I couldn't find it in time. So 158 00:08:16.720 --> 00:08:21.000 I'm gonna share a couple thoughts on change and that story and then I want to hear from you guys 159 00:08:21.000 --> 00:08:26.600 Okay, cool stands like excitement and curiosity something new 160 00:08:26.600 --> 00:08:35.760 Perfect for the season. It sounds like you're open to some change in your life right now. Okay, that's great. I'm hearing openness. Okay, Karima's like adapts in pivot 161 00:08:35.760 --> 00:08:39.360 You adapt and you pivot to change great 162 00:08:39.360 --> 00:08:45.960 What are what is what's that other people what do you all think about or feel about change? 163 00:08:46.520 --> 00:08:48.520 I 164 00:08:48.520 --> 00:08:52.000 So I 165 00:08:52.000 --> 00:08:58.960 My nature is to resist actually I resist change pretty 166 00:08:58.960 --> 00:09:03.080 Naturally, I'm like 167 00:09:03.080 --> 00:09:08.800 I don't like change. No, I don't want change. No key things the way they are 168 00:09:08.800 --> 00:09:13.120 No, thank you think we got a good thing going here. Why change it? 169 00:09:14.680 --> 00:09:22.480 So my my nature is there is this. Oh, all is this change still my last breath until it's like, you know what? 170 00:09:22.480 --> 00:09:26.000 Things got to change, you know 171 00:09:26.000 --> 00:09:34.520 That's my initial reaction anybody else feel that like maybe there's some resistance and then when I take a step back 172 00:09:34.520 --> 00:09:41.400 I'm like change. I love what you said Kendall. It's important for growth exactly 173 00:09:41.880 --> 00:09:48.440 It is not and I'll add on to the important. It's necessary. It's just necessary 174 00:09:48.440 --> 00:09:52.760 Change is a need 175 00:09:52.760 --> 00:10:00.000 Because what's the alternative what's the alternative let's I 176 00:10:04.400 --> 00:10:11.000 If you don't change, if you stay who you are, if you stay where you're at, 177 00:10:11.000 --> 00:10:15.520 what does that ultimately cost you? 178 00:10:15.520 --> 00:10:18.360 Because there's a cost in change, am I right? 179 00:10:18.360 --> 00:10:24.040 When change comes up, something is, there's a, something has to pay the price. 180 00:10:24.040 --> 00:10:26.600 There's a cost to change. 181 00:10:28.200 --> 00:10:37.020 And the cost is leaving behind what you've known to grab on and look for 182 00:10:37.020 --> 00:10:38.880 something ahead that's different. 183 00:10:38.880 --> 00:10:41.600 Exactly. 184 00:10:41.600 --> 00:10:42.700 Garimah, I love it. 185 00:10:42.700 --> 00:10:46.760 You, or you stay stagnant, right? 186 00:10:46.760 --> 00:10:49.440 You either stay stagnant and things don't change. 187 00:10:49.440 --> 00:10:50.560 That's the cost. 188 00:10:50.560 --> 00:10:56.680 And another word for stagnant, as you guys know, that I use, the place that we all do 189 00:10:56.680 --> 00:11:00.560 not like to go, but find ourselves there is stuck, Bill. 190 00:11:00.560 --> 00:11:06.840 And it's a terrible, it's a really slow death. 191 00:11:06.840 --> 00:11:09.080 It really is what that place is. 192 00:11:09.080 --> 00:11:11.560 And see, and I saw you wrote Dev in the chat. 193 00:11:11.560 --> 00:11:20.480 And honestly, change is costly, but we have to look at what kind of cost do you 194 00:11:20.480 --> 00:11:22.600 want to pay for your life? 195 00:11:24.040 --> 00:11:29.040 What kind of costs do you want to pay for your life? 196 00:11:29.040 --> 00:11:33.120 Because at the end of the day, nobody will ever make you change. 197 00:11:33.120 --> 00:11:35.680 How many of you have tried to make someone else change? 198 00:11:35.680 --> 00:11:36.840 Good luck. 199 00:11:36.840 --> 00:11:38.080 Good luck. 200 00:11:38.080 --> 00:11:39.600 It don't work like that. 201 00:11:39.600 --> 00:11:43.000 You can't make somebody do something they don't want to do. 202 00:11:43.000 --> 00:11:44.760 You can't make somebody change. 203 00:11:44.760 --> 00:11:46.960 You can't force somebody into change. 204 00:11:46.960 --> 00:11:50.400 But what you can do is you can embody change. 205 00:11:50.880 --> 00:11:58.080 And you can create an environment for change to be something you embrace, 206 00:11:58.080 --> 00:12:00.560 something that's beneficial when I see those words. 207 00:12:00.560 --> 00:12:04.600 I like those, something that's necessary, something that's good. 208 00:12:04.600 --> 00:12:10.000 And for the for the parents on here, right, teaching your children, hey, 209 00:12:10.000 --> 00:12:11.360 we embrace change here. 210 00:12:11.360 --> 00:12:13.440 Change is good for us. 211 00:12:13.440 --> 00:12:14.880 It's probably going to be rocky. 212 00:12:14.880 --> 00:12:19.440 It's probably going to be painful, but that's the first. 213 00:12:20.440 --> 00:12:23.920 Of staying where you're at and things staying the same. 214 00:12:23.920 --> 00:12:29.560 So I'm seeing a lot of you are like, I'm down with change. 215 00:12:29.560 --> 00:12:31.720 It's not my favorite, but I'm down. 216 00:12:31.720 --> 00:12:33.440 So look, you're all business owners. 217 00:12:33.440 --> 00:12:37.200 So you know, you know that you have to change things going. 218 00:12:37.200 --> 00:12:40.120 So things change, business has to change. 219 00:12:40.120 --> 00:12:44.560 And so as the rainmakers, we've been doing a lot of shifting 220 00:12:44.560 --> 00:12:46.760 and a lot of changing over the year. 221 00:12:46.760 --> 00:12:52.000 It's actually been a whole year, tomorrow will be the day, a year ago, 222 00:12:52.000 --> 00:12:57.120 that we had a big, a lot of people let go in our community. 223 00:12:57.120 --> 00:13:01.880 And where some of us decided to stay and to still build 224 00:13:01.880 --> 00:13:05.520 and still grow and to kind of ride the change out. 225 00:13:05.520 --> 00:13:07.320 And I'm one of those people. 226 00:13:07.320 --> 00:13:08.720 I have been one of them. 227 00:13:08.720 --> 00:13:12.280 There's only a few working right now on the team, probably like 10. 228 00:13:12.280 --> 00:13:14.080 And I'm one of them. 229 00:13:14.080 --> 00:13:17.720 And I've been faithful and I've been consistent on this portion 230 00:13:17.720 --> 00:13:21.960 of the business because it's felt, I mean, this is my gifting. 231 00:13:21.960 --> 00:13:23.640 This is my bread and butter. 232 00:13:23.640 --> 00:13:27.520 This is, you know, what I do in two other communities that, you know, 233 00:13:27.520 --> 00:13:28.680 I have my own clients. 234 00:13:28.680 --> 00:13:30.640 I, I feel very gifted. 235 00:13:30.640 --> 00:13:33.880 I feel very thankful to have had this opportunity to build mindset 236 00:13:33.880 --> 00:13:37.240 Monday and to be with you all for so long. 237 00:13:38.040 --> 00:13:47.040 And so the time has come where mindset Monday is no longer going 238 00:13:47.040 --> 00:13:49.360 to be a part of the Rainmaker community. 239 00:13:49.360 --> 00:13:57.680 So this call is no longer going to be an option 240 00:13:57.680 --> 00:14:02.720 for anybody who's involved in the community. 241 00:14:02.720 --> 00:14:05.480 And I just got this news last week. 242 00:14:06.360 --> 00:14:09.760 About a week ago, we were having a call and that was Stephen and Megan. 243 00:14:09.760 --> 00:14:14.680 And we were talking and, you know, they, it's just kind of where 244 00:14:14.680 --> 00:14:19.400 the business is going, you know, change again, changed things are changing. 245 00:14:19.400 --> 00:14:21.280 They're changing the way that they do things. 246 00:14:21.280 --> 00:14:22.720 And it has nothing to do with me. 247 00:14:22.720 --> 00:14:23.800 It has nothing to do with you. 248 00:14:23.800 --> 00:14:25.320 It has nothing to do with this call. 249 00:14:25.320 --> 00:14:27.960 And it's simply a change in the business. 250 00:14:27.960 --> 00:14:35.400 And so we're still kind of looking at some details and things like that. 251 00:14:35.400 --> 00:14:38.320 But definitely this call will be available in May. 252 00:14:38.320 --> 00:14:40.320 So we've got three more weeks. 253 00:14:40.320 --> 00:14:46.960 Now, here's the really cool thing is. 254 00:14:46.960 --> 00:14:52.120 I have, I'm nervous. 255 00:14:52.120 --> 00:14:59.520 I've decided that I am going to keep the call going on my own. 256 00:15:07.000 --> 00:15:08.000 Thank you, Lisa. 257 00:15:08.000 --> 00:15:15.000 I have had many of people say, how can I get access to mindset Monday call, 258 00:15:15.000 --> 00:15:18.000 even though I'm not in the Rainmaker community anymore? 259 00:15:18.000 --> 00:15:22.000 And well, I'm going to, I'm going to create it. 260 00:15:22.000 --> 00:15:31.000 I'm going to do probably a small, like membership monthly kind of fee. 261 00:15:31.000 --> 00:15:35.000 And you'll have access to mindset Monday calls every Monday, same time. 262 00:15:35.000 --> 00:15:41.000 That's kind of, we're going to, I'm going to kind of just keep doing what I've been doing for years because it works. 263 00:15:41.000 --> 00:15:44.000 And then, you know, I've got curriculum for a year. 264 00:15:44.000 --> 00:15:53.000 I also have had dreams of growing mindset Monday into its own, like thing. 265 00:15:53.000 --> 00:16:04.000 It's just community of people who want to grow their mindset and want to, you know, leave encouraged, inspired and have that touchpoint every week. 266 00:16:04.000 --> 00:16:13.000 It's not therapy, obviously, but like, you know, it's a, it's its own version of like, you know, taking care of yourself and tending to your mind. 267 00:16:13.000 --> 00:16:19.000 I just call it lines that Monday, but, you know, Stephen was like, yeah, yeah, I think you've created something really cool here. 268 00:16:19.000 --> 00:16:26.000 And, you know, I'd love to see you just keep rolling with it. If you want, you know, if that's something you want to do. 269 00:16:26.000 --> 00:16:32.000 And I've had quite a few people actually been asking for this. So. 270 00:16:32.000 --> 00:16:40.000 I'm just going to do it. And we're going to see how this goes. It's going to be very seamless in the sense of I'm just going to create a new. 271 00:16:40.000 --> 00:16:48.000 Back end system and what that looks like is a sign up link and a zoom link. Okay, it's going to be that simple in the beginning. 272 00:16:48.000 --> 00:16:55.000 And if anybody here wants to continue in mindset Monday, then, you know, I'll. 273 00:16:55.000 --> 00:17:01.000 You know, Stephen and Megan were like, you should give a rate maker special and I was like, absolutely, because if anybody. 274 00:17:01.000 --> 00:17:14.000 If you guys want to continue on this journey with me, then you'll be like a founding, a founding member in my, in my membership. I don't, I don't have full vision for where it's going to go or where, where, where I want to take it. 275 00:17:14.000 --> 00:17:20.000 But it's going to be just like this, but just more of me. And it's going to be. 276 00:17:20.000 --> 00:17:32.000 Just not with a rain maker community. Last thing I'll say is there's a few people who've actually done this in the rain maker community over the years, they were like helping the business with a certain. 277 00:17:32.000 --> 00:17:42.000 Product or a certain thing and then they just kind of went and did their own thing and then Stephen just recommends people to go to that person, you know, for PPC or. 278 00:17:42.000 --> 00:17:58.000 You know, building, building out a funnel. And for me, it's like mindset work. It's encouragement. It's, you know, working on motivation, things like that. 279 00:17:58.000 --> 00:18:08.000 Just like what we've been doing. It's going to be essentially the same, but probably a little better, because it's going to be my thing and I'm going to take a lot more responsibility for it. So. 280 00:18:08.000 --> 00:18:14.000 That's the change that's coming. All right, so get excited. The open. 281 00:18:14.000 --> 00:18:26.000 I'm going to be working on like the system and the links and where you can sign up and I'm thinking and be like a low ticket membership monthly kind of thing at first. 282 00:18:26.000 --> 00:18:35.000 And, you know, yeah, so because it's just, it's not going to be offered in this community anymore. 283 00:18:35.000 --> 00:18:37.000 As of. 284 00:18:37.000 --> 00:18:46.000 I'm thinking the end of May is when this will end in this community and we will kind of transition out into. 285 00:18:46.000 --> 00:18:51.000 You know, my zoom link and my membership. So. 286 00:18:51.000 --> 00:18:57.000 I will keep, I will keep you posted on that. And I, I knew this day would come at some point. 287 00:18:57.000 --> 00:19:00.000 I just didn't think it would be this week. 288 00:19:00.000 --> 00:19:06.000 I knew things were changing. I just wasn't necessarily expecting that myself. 289 00:19:06.000 --> 00:19:20.000 We also, you know, we were thinking, you know, continue through the end of May because then I'm going to be at the retreat. I'm going to see some of you with a retreat and kind of just letting everybody know. Hey, this is a service. This is available for you at a, at a small. 290 00:19:20.000 --> 00:19:26.000 You know, monthly membership kind of thing. We may have one more call in June here. 291 00:19:26.000 --> 00:19:33.000 But let me get all those details for you. Thank you guys so much for congratulating me. That means a lot to me. 292 00:19:33.000 --> 00:19:49.000 I've actually had two businesses reach out asking me if I could coach their people too. So, you know, vulnerable. Listen, everyone I'm being so vulnerable here like this is scary for me. 293 00:19:49.000 --> 00:20:00.000 Like, there's a lot of unknown here. It's kind of like, oh, I wasn't necessarily thinking about that. But wait, I have had dreams and visions and I see like hundreds of people coming on my mindset Monday. 294 00:20:03.760 --> 00:20:08.200 And I mean, you guys know, some of you've been with me for years, 295 00:20:08.200 --> 00:20:11.800 you know what I bring to the table, and I'm consistent, I'm reliable, 296 00:20:11.800 --> 00:20:15.480 and I show up and I want to coach, and I love you guys, seriously. 297 00:20:15.480 --> 00:20:18.800 And I was like, I don't want to leave, I don't want to end this. 298 00:20:18.800 --> 00:20:22.640 There's something in me that's like, I don't think it's time to end this. 299 00:20:22.640 --> 00:20:26.600 I don't know if you guys feel the same way, but I'm like, 300 00:20:26.600 --> 00:20:33.800 "Oh, it's not an ending time." It's almost like an expansion time, 301 00:20:33.800 --> 00:20:35.000 and I'm going to step into that. 302 00:20:35.000 --> 00:20:39.200 I don't quite know what that's going to look like yet, and I'm okay with that, 303 00:20:39.200 --> 00:20:40.400 because that's how business works. 304 00:20:40.400 --> 00:20:44.400 That's how stepping into the more of our calling. 305 00:20:44.400 --> 00:20:47.300 So I feel like there is a calling on this for me. 306 00:20:47.300 --> 00:20:48.200 I don't even know. 307 00:20:48.200 --> 00:20:53.200 There's something in me that I'm able to serve and coach and inspire people, 308 00:20:53.200 --> 00:20:56.000 and that's just been seen over the years. 309 00:20:56.000 --> 00:20:59.000 And with the other communities that I'm a part of. 310 00:20:59.000 --> 00:21:02.200 So I love you guys so much. 311 00:21:02.200 --> 00:21:07.600 Truly, it's been, well, I'm going to start crying for a moment, 312 00:21:07.600 --> 00:21:11.600 but it's been a joy to get to know you all. 313 00:21:11.600 --> 00:21:18.000 And if I could spend my days doing work like this, 314 00:21:18.000 --> 00:21:22.800 it feels like a dream come true for me and a joy, 315 00:21:22.800 --> 00:21:27.400 and I love seeing people get unstuck, because being stuck is a terrible place to be. 316 00:21:27.400 --> 00:21:30.800 And I know building a business requires a lot of change. 317 00:21:30.800 --> 00:21:34.000 It requires a different way of thinking. 318 00:21:34.000 --> 00:21:38.600 And that's still scary. 319 00:21:38.600 --> 00:21:40.100 It's not like I have all the answers. 320 00:21:40.100 --> 00:21:44.200 I just know I'm willing to go to those places. 321 00:21:44.200 --> 00:21:45.400 I'm willing to be uncomfortable. 322 00:21:45.400 --> 00:21:47.200 I'm willing to try things out. 323 00:21:47.200 --> 00:21:50.000 And it just feels like a resounding yes to try this out. 324 00:21:50.000 --> 00:21:53.200 So thank you, Linda, exactly. 325 00:21:53.200 --> 00:21:58.200 It's like, man, this is such a powerful call. 326 00:21:58.200 --> 00:22:00.800 And, you know, I've just got to think in. 327 00:22:00.800 --> 00:22:03.600 I think everybody should get on a call like this weekly. 328 00:22:03.600 --> 00:22:06.400 OK, it's just like a tune up for the brain, right? 329 00:22:06.400 --> 00:22:08.000 It's like, we all need this. 330 00:22:08.000 --> 00:22:11.800 But it's also, if you're trying to serve everybody, you end up serving nobody. 331 00:22:11.800 --> 00:22:16.200 So let's keep you all posted. 332 00:22:16.200 --> 00:22:18.500 But I want you to just be thinking, you know, 333 00:22:18.500 --> 00:22:21.900 is mindset, Monday, something you want to still have in your life. 334 00:22:21.900 --> 00:22:27.700 And, you know, if so, be on the lookout because I'm going to be getting some links and stuff together. 335 00:22:27.700 --> 00:22:32.800 And probably come, I'm thinking the first or second week of June, you know, 336 00:22:32.800 --> 00:22:39.800 I'm going to be switching over to to a different zoom link and a different way of just the back end. 337 00:22:39.800 --> 00:22:45.400 But the content and who I am and things like that, that's going to stay the same, if not even better, right? 338 00:22:45.400 --> 00:22:48.200 So, so, yeah, cheers to change. 339 00:22:48.200 --> 00:22:54.500 And to this community and and seeing where things are going to go. 340 00:22:54.500 --> 00:23:01.200 And one one not thing I want to say about change is change really does. 341 00:23:01.200 --> 00:23:08.400 It has the opportunity to reveal where your heart is and what you really want. 342 00:23:08.400 --> 00:23:17.600 You know, do I want said thing, you know, is what's what's something worth for me, right? 343 00:23:17.600 --> 00:23:22.400 And in building a business, learning, marketing, learning, how to put yourself out there, 344 00:23:22.400 --> 00:23:32.800 learning how to get, you know, legions, how to get clients, like all of that is constantly going to be changing. 345 00:23:32.800 --> 00:23:36.600 When you find something that works, it works. 346 00:23:36.600 --> 00:23:39.300 And then there comes a time where it doesn't work anymore. 347 00:23:39.300 --> 00:23:41.400 And sometimes it's not even good or bad. 348 00:23:41.400 --> 00:23:45.400 It's just like, OK, we need to pivot and do something else. 349 00:23:45.400 --> 00:23:48.700 OK, so that's kind of what this call is going to look like. 350 00:23:48.700 --> 00:23:54.400 And what I just think it's a great lesson and just a lesson in real time, right? 351 00:23:54.400 --> 00:23:57.300 Of like, hey, this, this is what's changing. 352 00:23:57.300 --> 00:23:59.400 And hey, this is where we're going to go. 353 00:23:59.400 --> 00:24:01.800 And let's try something new out, you know? 354 00:24:01.800 --> 00:24:06.700 So anybody have any questions or thoughts about kind of what I just shared? 355 00:24:14.100 --> 00:24:14.600 OK. 356 00:24:14.600 --> 00:24:21.100 I'm proud of you. 357 00:24:21.100 --> 00:24:24.300 All the things, Anna. 358 00:24:24.300 --> 00:24:29.100 Yeah, change is scary, but you know what? 359 00:24:29.100 --> 00:24:30.500 We are going to learn from you. 360 00:24:30.500 --> 00:24:39.100 So that is going to be a motivation for me because I'm also in a place where there might be changed. 361 00:24:39.100 --> 00:24:45.100 So, yeah, but with God, all things are possible. 362 00:24:45.100 --> 00:24:46.400 That's true. 363 00:24:46.400 --> 00:24:49.500 So, so, yeah, congrats. 364 00:24:49.500 --> 00:24:50.300 Thank you. 365 00:24:50.300 --> 00:24:52.100 Thank you so much. 366 00:24:52.100 --> 00:24:57.700 Yeah, and I'm thinking about change, like something has to go. 367 00:24:57.700 --> 00:24:59.100 Something has to go. 368 00:25:03.600 --> 00:25:06.600 You can't, everything can't just come in. 369 00:25:06.600 --> 00:25:09.540 There's not rooms for all the new, right? 370 00:25:09.540 --> 00:25:10.540 Something has to go. 371 00:25:10.540 --> 00:25:13.140 This is talked about in scripture all over the place 372 00:25:13.140 --> 00:25:15.280 where God says, I'm doing something new. 373 00:25:15.280 --> 00:25:20.280 Make way, make way, even Jesus was told. 374 00:25:20.280 --> 00:25:24.580 John the Baptist had make way for the one who's coming. 375 00:25:24.580 --> 00:25:26.380 They've got to make way, right? 376 00:25:26.380 --> 00:25:31.380 And making way, and then John 15 talks about, you know, 377 00:25:31.380 --> 00:25:36.200 pruning, pruning things, pruning things. 378 00:25:36.200 --> 00:25:39.320 Things have to go for something new to come in. 379 00:25:39.320 --> 00:25:41.160 Anybody plant people here? 380 00:25:41.160 --> 00:25:45.920 Have any plant people, plant moms in the room, or Linda? 381 00:25:45.920 --> 00:25:50.280 You know, when your plants dying 382 00:25:50.280 --> 00:25:54.320 and parts of the leaves are withering, 383 00:25:54.320 --> 00:25:56.720 they literally have to be plucked out. 384 00:25:56.720 --> 00:25:58.400 They have to be plucked out. 385 00:25:58.400 --> 00:26:02.600 They have to go for the new plant to come through. 386 00:26:02.600 --> 00:26:05.680 And so I'd love to take the next part of our call is, 387 00:26:05.680 --> 00:26:08.080 you know, I'd love to coach some of you on the spot here. 388 00:26:08.080 --> 00:26:10.600 Like, are you, is there a place in your life 389 00:26:10.600 --> 00:26:12.760 where you're like, man, I really need to change 390 00:26:12.760 --> 00:26:14.320 or I'm really struggling with this. 391 00:26:14.320 --> 00:26:16.100 I could use some support here. 392 00:26:16.100 --> 00:26:19.060 Or are you, anybody feeling like, 393 00:26:19.060 --> 00:26:22.720 oh, I know I need to let go of this thing. 394 00:26:22.720 --> 00:26:27.600 But I don't, I can't see what's next. 395 00:26:27.600 --> 00:26:29.400 I'm scared. 396 00:26:29.400 --> 00:26:32.520 It hurts, but it's a good thing. 397 00:26:32.520 --> 00:26:33.800 Let's, let's not forget this. 398 00:26:33.800 --> 00:26:36.520 Sometimes change requires letting go of a good thing 399 00:26:36.520 --> 00:26:39.840 for a better thing to come in, right? 400 00:26:39.840 --> 00:26:41.040 And it's all in risk. 401 00:26:41.040 --> 00:26:42.560 It's, I see your hand, Linda. 402 00:26:42.560 --> 00:26:44.240 Anybody else wanna put your virtual hand up 403 00:26:44.240 --> 00:26:45.600 and I'll get to you. 404 00:26:45.600 --> 00:26:46.960 And it's just like, 405 00:26:49.880 --> 00:26:53.200 it can be hard, like, and it can be easy to stay stuck 406 00:26:53.200 --> 00:26:58.240 if you're feeling the change 407 00:26:58.240 --> 00:27:00.840 or you're taking it on in a negative way, right? 408 00:27:00.840 --> 00:27:04.320 You're flooding your brand of negative thoughts. 409 00:27:04.320 --> 00:27:08.880 It can really, really resist you to stepping into that new. 410 00:27:08.880 --> 00:27:11.640 So, so if there's any of you who are feeling that 411 00:27:11.640 --> 00:27:14.760 or you want some support around that, let's get into it. 412 00:27:14.760 --> 00:27:18.200 And as you guys know, when I coach somebody, 413 00:27:18.200 --> 00:27:20.800 it is a second hand blessing for you. 414 00:27:20.800 --> 00:27:24.040 So, be listening is something's, you know, 415 00:27:24.040 --> 00:27:25.920 relating with you, grab it. 416 00:27:25.920 --> 00:27:28.640 If you have something to support or encourage or give 417 00:27:28.640 --> 00:27:31.520 to the person I'm coaching, pop it in the chat. 418 00:27:31.520 --> 00:27:35.440 And I love doing this and let's get into it. 419 00:27:35.440 --> 00:27:36.840 So, okay, Linda. 420 00:27:36.840 --> 00:27:41.680 Tell me, tell me where you're at. 421 00:27:41.680 --> 00:27:43.720 How you feeling, how you doing? 422 00:27:43.720 --> 00:27:49.320 Well, I put in there by faith about learning about change 423 00:27:49.320 --> 00:27:53.680 'cause I'm not really good at it. 424 00:27:53.680 --> 00:27:56.120 And it takes me a while 'cause it took me a while 425 00:27:56.120 --> 00:27:59.080 to get used to mindset Monday. 426 00:27:59.080 --> 00:28:01.000 Didn't quite understand the concept, 427 00:28:01.000 --> 00:28:02.480 the whole nine yards of it. 428 00:28:02.480 --> 00:28:04.200 I didn't, for a long time, I didn't understand 429 00:28:04.200 --> 00:28:08.040 why people even went to get therapy, you know, as believers. 430 00:28:08.040 --> 00:28:09.560 I say as believers, you know? 431 00:28:09.560 --> 00:28:10.400 I hear you. 432 00:28:10.400 --> 00:28:13.720 I couldn't grasp, really grasp that. 433 00:28:13.720 --> 00:28:17.240 So, I feel like now that I've grasped it, 434 00:28:17.240 --> 00:28:20.760 mindset Monday is not going away, but it's changing. 435 00:28:20.760 --> 00:28:25.560 And, but I needed to hear that about the whole biblical side 436 00:28:25.560 --> 00:28:27.960 of it 'cause you're right. 437 00:28:27.960 --> 00:28:30.880 Things change when Jesus came on the scene. 438 00:28:30.880 --> 00:28:33.080 And John the Baptist was warning them 439 00:28:33.080 --> 00:28:34.960 that things were going to change. 440 00:28:34.960 --> 00:28:37.880 So, I am about to tear up myself. 441 00:28:39.680 --> 00:28:40.680 Yeah. 442 00:28:40.680 --> 00:28:43.600 I don't, I'm learning to adapt to change 443 00:28:43.600 --> 00:28:46.800 and look at it in a better way, you know? 444 00:28:46.800 --> 00:28:51.800 Because, yeah, I can be in Stuckville for a while only, 445 00:28:51.800 --> 00:28:55.760 when I say that, only to understand 446 00:28:55.760 --> 00:28:59.320 that something has to change and to go after that change, 447 00:28:59.320 --> 00:29:02.400 whatever that change may be for that particular thing. 448 00:29:02.400 --> 00:29:07.400 So, that's where I am now learning to do something different, 449 00:29:08.800 --> 00:29:11.680 because the thing that you're doing, 450 00:29:11.680 --> 00:29:15.680 if it's not working, you have to do something different. 451 00:29:15.680 --> 00:29:18.360 Or else things are going to remain the same. 452 00:29:18.360 --> 00:29:20.760 You're gonna get the same outcome. 453 00:29:20.760 --> 00:29:23.960 But the comfort zone is, it's real. 454 00:29:23.960 --> 00:29:28.920 Being comfortable in something and not changing is real. 455 00:29:28.920 --> 00:29:30.760 It is. 456 00:29:30.760 --> 00:29:33.280 So, I'm at the point where we have a business 457 00:29:33.280 --> 00:29:35.160 and I've been trying new things. 458 00:29:35.160 --> 00:29:40.160 And I can't say I've gone into whatever new thing it was 100%. 459 00:29:40.160 --> 00:29:46.600 So, I'm learning to put my all into it to get my all out of it. 460 00:29:46.600 --> 00:29:52.280 You know, so that's where I am now trying to in there 461 00:29:52.280 --> 00:29:54.600 and say change is good. 462 00:29:54.600 --> 00:29:58.320 And all the things that the lady said in the comment 463 00:29:58.320 --> 00:29:59.520 that pivoting is good. 464 00:30:05.280 --> 00:30:12.840 dead thing the other leaves are not going to flourish as much right yeah well I 465 00:30:12.840 --> 00:30:22.600 love how you said put my all into it yes Amanda yes to get my all out of it 466 00:30:22.600 --> 00:30:32.580 right that's so yes exactly what really stood out to me too and I think that 467 00:30:32.580 --> 00:30:44.800 conceals costly and like what if I give my all and I don't out matches like my 468 00:30:44.800 --> 00:30:52.240 let my sacrifice my laying down my my all yeah we want to be assured if I'm 469 00:30:52.240 --> 00:31:00.200 giving my all I'm gonna get all out of it a bit but that's just not always case 470 00:31:00.200 --> 00:31:05.360 or sometimes it looks different right and I just had one I had one more 471 00:31:05.360 --> 00:31:10.480 question for you Linda you know you said I can be in suckville for a while same 472 00:31:10.480 --> 00:31:14.860 what up what do you think keeps you there do you feel like you are there right 473 00:31:14.860 --> 00:31:18.960 now I think what keeps you there is the hope that what I'm doing is going to 474 00:31:18.960 --> 00:31:26.960 work but I remember way back in rainmakers when you know I was in the 475 00:31:26.960 --> 00:31:31.600 process of launching my product and I remember Steven kept saying this and I 476 00:31:31.600 --> 00:31:37.880 heard it before if you if you're not at the point where you can believe he's 477 00:31:37.880 --> 00:31:43.360 believing for us or whoever it is you know with it was Steven Chelsea whoever 478 00:31:43.360 --> 00:31:49.240 was a we're believing for us so if I got to the point where he did it he 479 00:31:49.240 --> 00:31:53.000 believes that other people can do with is why he had the rainmakers and so I 480 00:31:53.000 --> 00:32:01.280 can do this yeah so it's the same thing with eight figure eight fig a AI I keep 481 00:32:01.280 --> 00:32:06.920 telling myself I can do that I can do this you know I'm not I'm not a person 482 00:32:06.920 --> 00:32:11.400 that doesn't understand things I understand things and how they work and 483 00:32:11.400 --> 00:32:15.160 I have to keep at it until the light bulb goes on the light bulb is going to 484 00:32:15.160 --> 00:32:20.920 go on that's right yeah you know so that's where I am now I saw it I saw 485 00:32:20.920 --> 00:32:26.120 rainmakers changing and the whole world has changed because of this so because 486 00:32:26.120 --> 00:32:30.680 of AI and I I don't want to be one of the people there was a graph that they 487 00:32:30.680 --> 00:32:34.920 showed and I think one percent of the people doing something with AI you know 488 00:32:34.920 --> 00:32:39.160 the people were just trying it out I want to be on that one percent even if it 489 00:32:39.160 --> 00:32:44.280 jumps to two percent I want to be in that group where I'm doing something with 490 00:32:44.280 --> 00:32:48.760 it on the good side of it because there's a whole bunch of nonsense going on but 491 00:32:48.760 --> 00:32:55.240 you know that it affects a good thing for people I love that you know so yeah 492 00:32:55.240 --> 00:33:01.640 yeah and I you said you know I I hope that what I'm going to do is going to 493 00:33:01.640 --> 00:33:06.920 work right and the oh there's only one there is 494 00:33:06.920 --> 00:33:14.760 literally only one way to know that to do it period yeah and they're there and 495 00:33:14.760 --> 00:33:18.040 lies the risk they're in lies getting under your comfort zone they're in lies 496 00:33:18.040 --> 00:33:21.800 saying oh my goodness I'm you know does anybody ever feel like when you take a 497 00:33:21.800 --> 00:33:25.560 risk it's like jumping off of a cliff am I going to be caught is this going to 498 00:33:25.560 --> 00:33:30.520 work out am I going to fly I don't know but here's 499 00:33:30.520 --> 00:33:33.640 here's Linda where you can also be rest assured 500 00:33:33.640 --> 00:33:37.720 and everybody else listening to who is taking risks in your business 501 00:33:37.720 --> 00:33:43.720 taking risks in other parts of your life you are more courageous by trying 502 00:33:43.720 --> 00:33:48.440 than by not and that is exactly how you get out of suck though is you try 503 00:33:48.440 --> 00:33:53.000 yeah and you try and you try and you try and I hear you you're like I want to be 504 00:33:53.000 --> 00:33:56.520 somebody's doing good with AI and here's the thing 505 00:33:56.520 --> 00:34:04.440 AI is not going away it is our new normal it will be our new normal for 506 00:34:04.440 --> 00:34:09.800 generations to come and I do think a lot of our the way 507 00:34:09.800 --> 00:34:14.440 that our mind works and our thoughts is what keeps you going it's what keeps 508 00:34:14.440 --> 00:34:18.679 you trying and wanting to be that one percent 509 00:34:18.679 --> 00:34:25.000 and and having a more positive look on it and and so that's that's encouraging 510 00:34:25.000 --> 00:34:30.280 Linda and I want to say I love love love how much 511 00:34:30.280 --> 00:34:33.239 transformation you've had you know you're like it took me a while to get used to 512 00:34:33.239 --> 00:34:39.159 mind that Monday right like it does it does it's a different way of 513 00:34:39.159 --> 00:34:43.880 it's like it's like a group therapy but it's not therapy it's like a group 514 00:34:43.880 --> 00:34:47.719 where we're all just you know working to get better and working on our minds 515 00:34:47.719 --> 00:34:52.760 that I think a lot of people let their minds go they don't tend to their minds 516 00:34:52.760 --> 00:34:55.719 and that's one of the biggest reasons why people don't have the results they 517 00:34:55.719 --> 00:34:58.280 want so Linda I've seen a lot of shift in you 518 00:34:58.280 --> 00:35:01.720 and a lot of change in you yeah 519 00:35:06.560 --> 00:35:10.320 I hope I can remain part of the group at least for a little while. 520 00:35:10.320 --> 00:35:15.200 Would absolutely love to have you and it would be sad to not. 521 00:35:15.200 --> 00:35:20.560 Same here. Yeah, you look gorgeous in that hat today too. 522 00:35:20.560 --> 00:35:28.640 Thank you. You're welcome. Yay, it's so good. All right, CN. 523 00:35:28.640 --> 00:35:36.880 I love girl. How can I help you? Are you feeling like you're on the brink of change? 524 00:35:36.880 --> 00:35:42.880 I'm on the brink of change for sure. And a couple things like, I think a couple weeks 525 00:35:42.880 --> 00:35:48.800 ago we did on the office call, or I can't remember which call we did like the $1000 challenge. 526 00:35:49.280 --> 00:35:57.200 And then I went in, totally went into scarcity mode. Carrying the $1000 really quick. 527 00:35:57.200 --> 00:36:01.840 And then I had like a breakthrough, because I have money like in my VIP. 528 00:36:01.840 --> 00:36:11.200 And so I borrowed some money for myself and paid most of this, my, my poaching program off. 529 00:36:11.760 --> 00:36:20.560 So I owe him out and that gave me freedom. Nice. And so I'm in the process of laying some stuff 530 00:36:20.560 --> 00:36:27.040 down like I need to cancel some of the payments that I've been making for my old, old mindset, 531 00:36:27.040 --> 00:36:33.920 stuff that I don't want to do anymore. Evaluate the things that like I want to make time for, 532 00:36:33.920 --> 00:36:38.000 because it's like I've had a lot of stuff going on. Well, like I've committed this and 533 00:36:38.000 --> 00:36:42.080 have committed that and it's like, I really just want to be fully committed to this 534 00:36:42.080 --> 00:36:49.280 and build it my, your business. Good. I've kind of made a decision regarding my business, 535 00:36:49.280 --> 00:36:52.800 what I wanted to look like, but I'm still like investigating it. And then I kind of made a 536 00:36:52.800 --> 00:36:58.800 powerful decision like I really don't want to launch until after San Diego. Okay. I mean, 537 00:36:58.800 --> 00:37:06.800 I want to like be building and creating, but I have a tendency to just like get an idea. And 538 00:37:06.800 --> 00:37:14.480 then I just build a funnel and I, and then I change my mind. I just really want to be solid 539 00:37:14.480 --> 00:37:19.440 in what I'm doing because I will take action, but it doesn't, my actions are just like, 540 00:37:19.440 --> 00:37:26.720 they don't get me anywhere. Okay, I'm going to stop you for a minute because you said something 541 00:37:26.720 --> 00:37:33.120 I, I believe everyone in this room can relate to you said, I get an idea, I build a funnel, 542 00:37:34.080 --> 00:37:42.160 and then I change my mind. Anybody else been there? Anybody else like not seen your idea through? 543 00:37:42.160 --> 00:37:49.680 So that right there is, I appreciate you starting out by owning your own scarcity 544 00:37:49.680 --> 00:37:54.480 because it's good, you know, you can't change anything you're not willing to look at or be aware of. 545 00:37:54.480 --> 00:37:59.440 And so when you're able to find your scarcity thoughts, and you can change them to abundant 546 00:37:59.440 --> 00:38:07.600 ones. So, Cian, is there a specific thought you're aware of that you've been having 547 00:38:07.600 --> 00:38:14.880 in regards to, I get an idea, I build a funnel and then I change my mind. Any other, 548 00:38:14.880 --> 00:38:22.480 I want to dig a little deeper into that thought. Is it something like, I don't follow through on 549 00:38:22.480 --> 00:38:30.800 what I do, or you know what, this hasn't worked, so why try, or I'm lazy, or I'm not, I don't finish 550 00:38:30.800 --> 00:38:35.360 what I start. Do you see what I'm saying? I want to kind of get to that part of your brain. Do you 551 00:38:35.360 --> 00:38:39.440 have a thought like that underneath this spot? Yeah, I think, I mean, I think it's just fear. 552 00:38:39.440 --> 00:38:49.200 What are you scared of? Just, I'm afraid to beat my funnels or my work being judged. 553 00:38:51.280 --> 00:38:57.040 So my funnel builder, and that's kind of maybe my identity. Like, when I was on a call with Garrett, 554 00:38:57.040 --> 00:39:02.080 JY, he's just like, "Your funnels suck." 555 00:39:02.080 --> 00:39:10.400 And, you know, it's just like, "I don't believe my funnels suck, but it's just like crushing." 556 00:39:10.400 --> 00:39:15.840 And then I'm like, "That was the actual language you were given." 557 00:39:15.840 --> 00:39:23.360 Oh yeah, I mean, I mean, he was my coach, and it was okay. I mean, you know, he coached me through 558 00:39:23.360 --> 00:39:32.240 that, but it's still like, or saying my funnel is kind of like, what do you call it? Turned the ear, 559 00:39:32.240 --> 00:39:38.400 like, can't remember the word he used, but basically it sucked. He did tell me it sucked, 560 00:39:39.040 --> 00:39:48.640 and just a gimmick. He called it a gimmick. Yeah. Yeah, so here's the power of a thought. 561 00:39:48.640 --> 00:39:54.480 That was somebody else's thought, somebody else's feedback, given to you that has stuck in your brain 562 00:39:54.480 --> 00:39:59.920 and has kept you from reaching your own level. 563 00:40:03.160 --> 00:40:06.040 and you know that you're working towards. 564 00:40:06.040 --> 00:40:09.120 So here's one thought I wanna give you. 565 00:40:09.120 --> 00:40:11.120 I might've said this on the call last week, 566 00:40:11.120 --> 00:40:13.320 but I love this thought. 567 00:40:13.320 --> 00:40:15.440 And I think it's gonna serve you really well, Sam, 568 00:40:15.440 --> 00:40:18.400 and anybody else who gets feedback, and you don't like it, 569 00:40:18.400 --> 00:40:22.960 feedback is neutral, 570 00:40:22.960 --> 00:40:28.360 unless you give it power. 571 00:40:29.360 --> 00:40:32.120 So if somebody says to you, your funnel sucks. 572 00:40:32.120 --> 00:40:36.160 Okay, thanks for the feedback. 573 00:40:36.160 --> 00:40:39.320 It's neutral, it's his opinion. 574 00:40:39.320 --> 00:40:44.920 Instead of making it mean something about you as a person. 575 00:40:44.920 --> 00:40:49.680 'Cause we can really get stuck here, right? 576 00:40:49.680 --> 00:40:52.880 So that's the first thought I want to leave you with, 577 00:40:52.880 --> 00:40:54.160 and everybody here, right? 578 00:40:54.160 --> 00:40:57.120 Let's say you're getting negative comments, 579 00:40:57.120 --> 00:40:59.440 you're getting on your product, 580 00:40:59.440 --> 00:41:01.840 your spouse said something to you last night, 581 00:41:01.840 --> 00:41:05.000 you didn't like, okay, we're gonna hear things 582 00:41:05.000 --> 00:41:08.480 we don't like for the rest of our lives, okay? 583 00:41:08.480 --> 00:41:10.240 We're all gonna be getting feedback. 584 00:41:10.240 --> 00:41:11.840 It's like, I don't agree with you. 585 00:41:11.840 --> 00:41:14.360 Well, it's like, hold on. 586 00:41:14.360 --> 00:41:16.200 It's neutral unless I give it power. 587 00:41:16.200 --> 00:41:19.240 So what are you essentially making it mean about you 588 00:41:19.240 --> 00:41:20.080 as a person? 589 00:41:20.080 --> 00:41:22.160 I love how you said my identity. 590 00:41:22.160 --> 00:41:24.520 'Cause what we don't wanna do is attach identity 591 00:41:24.520 --> 00:41:28.880 to our work, they're separate, they're separate. 592 00:41:28.880 --> 00:41:31.080 Who we are is first, 593 00:41:31.080 --> 00:41:34.680 and then what we do comes out of who we are, right? 594 00:41:34.680 --> 00:41:38.280 We are human beings, not human doings. 595 00:41:38.280 --> 00:41:40.440 We are B, we get the B first. 596 00:41:40.440 --> 00:41:41.320 So it's the end. 597 00:41:41.320 --> 00:41:45.760 I see a new thought for you instead of, you know, 598 00:41:45.760 --> 00:41:50.760 you said, I'm fear of my funnels and my work being judged. 599 00:41:51.320 --> 00:41:54.120 And so if you say feedback is neutral, 600 00:41:54.120 --> 00:41:59.000 can somebody really judge you? 601 00:41:59.000 --> 00:42:01.360 No, but I mean, it's just like I have the whole, 602 00:42:01.360 --> 00:42:05.160 you know, the whole concept of the neutral, 603 00:42:05.160 --> 00:42:08.320 but I don't know that I put it in that perspective. 604 00:42:08.320 --> 00:42:10.320 Great, so this is you for you. 605 00:42:10.320 --> 00:42:11.720 So this is great for your brain. 606 00:42:11.720 --> 00:42:12.840 Your brain's gonna love this. 607 00:42:12.840 --> 00:42:15.000 Yay, for breakers. 608 00:42:15.000 --> 00:42:15.840 All right. 609 00:42:16.880 --> 00:42:21.880 And you get to decide what feedback means to you, number one, 610 00:42:21.880 --> 00:42:27.800 'cause you, again, hear me out everybody. 611 00:42:27.800 --> 00:42:30.320 And Linda, we talked about this last week too. 612 00:42:30.320 --> 00:42:32.600 If you're gonna let somebody look at your stuff, 613 00:42:32.600 --> 00:42:33.760 you want to have feedback. 614 00:42:33.760 --> 00:42:35.200 You don't wanna be scared of it. 615 00:42:35.200 --> 00:42:37.880 You want somebody who's gone ahead of you and has success 616 00:42:37.880 --> 00:42:39.520 and then telling you their thoughts. 617 00:42:39.520 --> 00:42:42.000 We want that, we wanna welcome that, okay? 618 00:42:42.000 --> 00:42:43.280 Because that's how you get better. 619 00:42:43.280 --> 00:42:45.560 But what we don't want is for you to make it mean something 620 00:42:45.560 --> 00:42:47.520 about you as a person. 621 00:42:47.520 --> 00:42:52.520 And that's how you distinguish between identity and my work. 622 00:42:52.520 --> 00:42:55.840 And so saying something like feedback is neutral. 623 00:42:55.840 --> 00:42:58.560 That helps you stay in the work lane 624 00:42:58.560 --> 00:43:01.280 and not make it about you as a person. 625 00:43:01.280 --> 00:43:03.360 'Cause we want to better our work. 626 00:43:03.360 --> 00:43:05.480 And sometimes we, some of us need to hear 627 00:43:05.480 --> 00:43:06.400 that crucial feedback. 628 00:43:06.400 --> 00:43:09.120 My friends told me the other day, my friends, 629 00:43:09.120 --> 00:43:10.800 my close friend gave me some feedback. 630 00:43:10.800 --> 00:43:15.320 I was very hard to hear about my dating journey. 631 00:43:15.320 --> 00:43:16.920 She's like, I think you're becoming 632 00:43:16.920 --> 00:43:19.360 a little more close-minded. 633 00:43:19.360 --> 00:43:24.360 And I'm like, oh, no, I'm not close-minded, I'm really open. 634 00:43:24.360 --> 00:43:25.920 But it's like, am I though? 635 00:43:25.920 --> 00:43:27.320 What am I making that mean about me? 636 00:43:27.320 --> 00:43:28.400 Let me just sit back. 637 00:43:28.400 --> 00:43:29.880 This is my friend, you love me. 638 00:43:29.880 --> 00:43:32.880 Here's some feedback, let it be neutral, right? 639 00:43:32.880 --> 00:43:34.160 So I think that couldn't be really helpful 640 00:43:34.160 --> 00:43:35.520 for you, CN, going forward. 641 00:43:35.520 --> 00:43:39.240 And then deciding that your work is good 642 00:43:39.240 --> 00:43:41.560 and it's okay if it's judged, 643 00:43:41.560 --> 00:43:44.320 but it doesn't mean anything about you. 644 00:43:44.320 --> 00:43:45.680 Is that helpful? 645 00:43:45.680 --> 00:43:47.320 - Absolutely, yeah. 646 00:43:47.320 --> 00:43:49.720 - CN, you're building a business about this girl. 647 00:43:49.720 --> 00:43:50.880 Your funnels are awesome. 648 00:43:50.880 --> 00:43:52.440 This is what you want to spend. 649 00:43:52.440 --> 00:43:55.920 You're going all in on this, like be confident about that. 650 00:43:55.920 --> 00:43:57.400 Be like, my funnels are great. 651 00:43:57.400 --> 00:43:59.880 I'm working on bettering my funnels. 652 00:43:59.880 --> 00:44:01.400 I'm good at this, which you already know 653 00:44:01.400 --> 00:44:02.800 that you're good at making fun. 654 00:44:02.800 --> 00:44:06.280 That's not your problem, it's that you're limiting belief. 655 00:44:06.280 --> 00:44:07.800 But I think this is gonna serve you 656 00:44:07.800 --> 00:44:11.520 as you're getting coaching and working on it. 657 00:44:11.520 --> 00:44:12.400 Is that good? 658 00:44:12.400 --> 00:44:13.880 - Yes. 659 00:44:13.880 --> 00:44:15.560 - Awesome. 660 00:44:15.560 --> 00:44:17.520 I'm excited for you. 661 00:44:17.520 --> 00:44:20.360 - I need to book a call with you, I think. 662 00:44:20.360 --> 00:44:22.240 - We can definitely do that. 663 00:44:22.240 --> 00:44:23.440 Do you make that happen? 664 00:44:23.440 --> 00:44:24.280 All right. 665 00:44:24.280 --> 00:44:26.640 All right, thanks, girl. 666 00:44:26.640 --> 00:44:27.880 All right, next. 667 00:44:27.880 --> 00:44:32.240 Hi, Nompan, did I say your name right again? 668 00:44:32.240 --> 00:44:33.680 And Enon Pahn. 669 00:44:33.680 --> 00:44:35.840 - No, you got it right the first time. 670 00:44:35.840 --> 00:44:36.880 - Enon Pahn. 671 00:44:36.880 --> 00:44:38.840 - Yeah, Enon Pahn, yes, you got it. 672 00:44:38.840 --> 00:44:39.680 - Okay, Enon Pahn. 673 00:44:39.680 --> 00:44:41.000 Hi. 674 00:44:42.360 --> 00:44:43.720 So congratulations. 675 00:44:43.720 --> 00:44:47.720 One, I just wanted to also let you know, 676 00:44:47.720 --> 00:44:50.680 for me, am I in my career journey? 677 00:44:50.680 --> 00:44:53.800 The mindset, Morna, has been my best investment. 678 00:44:53.800 --> 00:44:57.960 So we've been through this a lot. 679 00:44:57.960 --> 00:44:58.800 - Girl. 680 00:44:58.800 --> 00:45:00.000 - We've been through different things. 681 00:45:04.800 --> 00:45:07.020 and how I handle things. 682 00:45:07.020 --> 00:45:10.400 But yeah, still dealing with having that abundance, 683 00:45:10.400 --> 00:45:14.400 mine said, and I could practice it daily 684 00:45:14.400 --> 00:45:16.080 'cause we timey and everything, you know, 685 00:45:16.080 --> 00:45:17.680 my crazy life doesn't end. 686 00:45:17.680 --> 00:45:20.020 I add things every day. 687 00:45:20.020 --> 00:45:25.520 So right now, and a lot of the things I am, yes, 688 00:45:25.520 --> 00:45:29.160 change, I have a lot of possible changes going on 689 00:45:29.160 --> 00:45:31.640 which I need to embrace. 690 00:45:31.640 --> 00:45:34.480 But I'm also struggling a bit. 691 00:45:34.480 --> 00:45:39.400 So like my product did not do too well on Amazon. 692 00:45:39.400 --> 00:45:42.040 I pivoted and did a treat on Etsy. 693 00:45:42.040 --> 00:45:43.800 It's doing great on Etsy. 694 00:45:43.800 --> 00:45:47.240 It's doing good on Etsy, but I am not also. 695 00:45:47.240 --> 00:45:50.240 I need to, I don't know how to do this, 696 00:45:50.240 --> 00:45:54.680 but timey and set and actually putting in my all into it. 697 00:45:54.680 --> 00:45:56.880 So I haven't done any SEO 698 00:45:56.880 --> 00:46:00.040 or like I haven't done what I need to do, 699 00:46:00.040 --> 00:46:04.360 but I see cells coming in and I still use my Amazon 700 00:46:04.360 --> 00:46:06.920 because I use it for my MCF. 701 00:46:06.920 --> 00:46:08.880 So they fulfill my orders 702 00:46:08.880 --> 00:46:12.160 and I still get one Snowwell cells in Amazon. 703 00:46:12.160 --> 00:46:14.160 But my thing is, and then of course, 704 00:46:14.160 --> 00:46:15.840 I have other things going on in life, 705 00:46:15.840 --> 00:46:20.840 but it's just, I don't know how to put it. 706 00:46:20.840 --> 00:46:23.800 I have my product, so I don't have to always starch 707 00:46:23.800 --> 00:46:26.680 'cause they come to my house and they have my house. 708 00:46:26.680 --> 00:46:30.320 But it's just getting past, 709 00:46:30.320 --> 00:46:31.160 I don't know how to call it, 710 00:46:31.160 --> 00:46:33.920 getting past the disappointment a bit on Amazon, 711 00:46:33.920 --> 00:46:36.400 but you know, things go on different places 712 00:46:36.400 --> 00:46:38.000 and that's why you pivot. 713 00:46:38.000 --> 00:46:41.480 I think my product is more of a specialty luxury item. 714 00:46:41.480 --> 00:46:43.200 So it did better on Etsy. 715 00:46:43.200 --> 00:46:46.880 And I actually increased the price on Etsy 716 00:46:46.880 --> 00:46:48.200 and it's-- - Oh, nice. 717 00:46:48.200 --> 00:46:49.280 - Yes. 718 00:46:49.280 --> 00:46:51.200 And sorry, Kristina-- - Well, that's abundant 719 00:46:51.200 --> 00:46:53.160 mindset right there. - Yes. 720 00:46:53.160 --> 00:46:56.640 I tried that and it made up with, and it's better 721 00:46:56.640 --> 00:46:58.320 because it's actually profitable. 722 00:46:58.320 --> 00:47:02.600 So I did upgrade it on Amazon too, so it is. 723 00:47:02.600 --> 00:47:05.560 But it's, I think it's, like you said, 724 00:47:05.560 --> 00:47:08.240 sometimes you know what you need to do, 725 00:47:08.240 --> 00:47:13.200 but it's taking that step and I'm bracing that you can. 726 00:47:13.200 --> 00:47:15.680 I don't know if that's kind of like what I'm struggling with 727 00:47:15.680 --> 00:47:16.840 is-- - Yeah. 728 00:47:16.840 --> 00:47:18.400 - You can still-- - I hear you. 729 00:47:18.400 --> 00:47:21.560 - But you really need to, I don't know, 730 00:47:21.560 --> 00:47:25.120 believe in yourself and also we'll say, I don't. 731 00:47:25.120 --> 00:47:27.080 Yeah, so I'm kind of like-- - Yeah. 732 00:47:27.080 --> 00:47:29.800 - I hear you. 733 00:47:29.800 --> 00:47:33.280 Your brain sounding like probably a lot of us can relate to, 734 00:47:33.280 --> 00:47:35.120 right, juggling a lot of things. 735 00:47:35.120 --> 00:47:37.400 There's this appointment, I've tried this 736 00:47:37.400 --> 00:47:40.920 and finding out some things are working, 737 00:47:40.920 --> 00:47:44.440 whereas the first thing you tried didn't work as well 738 00:47:44.440 --> 00:47:46.160 as you thought. 739 00:47:46.160 --> 00:47:48.560 So you said, 740 00:47:50.120 --> 00:47:55.120 "I know what I need to do, but it's just taking that step." 741 00:47:55.120 --> 00:47:59.800 Where do you think you're feeling most stuck 742 00:47:59.800 --> 00:48:02.240 to take your next step? 743 00:48:02.240 --> 00:48:09.600 - I think part of it is me moving, 744 00:48:09.600 --> 00:48:12.640 like embracing the change and moving with it 745 00:48:12.640 --> 00:48:15.080 and actually doing the work. 746 00:48:15.080 --> 00:48:19.760 So I'm kind of, I don't know if I'm just, 747 00:48:20.760 --> 00:48:23.920 I'm stuck because like this week I talked to myself, 748 00:48:23.920 --> 00:48:26.800 I'm like, "Look, the product is not the product, 749 00:48:26.800 --> 00:48:30.760 "it's selling and you're not getting returns." 750 00:48:30.760 --> 00:48:33.960 And so that's good and it's reliable. 751 00:48:33.960 --> 00:48:36.800 So what's your problem? 752 00:48:36.800 --> 00:48:40.440 - So, well, what do you think it is? 753 00:48:40.440 --> 00:48:44.880 Are you, do you think it's partly the disappointment 754 00:48:44.880 --> 00:48:48.760 of like not ready to move on? 755 00:48:48.760 --> 00:48:51.240 - No, I think it's part of the disappointment 756 00:48:51.240 --> 00:48:56.400 of my first trial out and which, as I talked to you, 757 00:48:56.400 --> 00:48:58.040 I think I also need to embrace the fact 758 00:48:58.040 --> 00:48:59.440 that this was my trial product. 759 00:48:59.440 --> 00:49:01.040 So that was a test run. 760 00:49:01.040 --> 00:49:05.280 I think it's just sitting in the fact 761 00:49:05.280 --> 00:49:08.120 that it didn't do so well over there 762 00:49:08.120 --> 00:49:10.200 and it's like, you need to maybe getting 763 00:49:10.200 --> 00:49:12.240 that momentum back up. 764 00:49:12.240 --> 00:49:15.400 Kind of like the last momentum on it. 765 00:49:15.400 --> 00:49:18.400 And I'm also like what the last speaker was talking about. 766 00:49:18.400 --> 00:49:19.960 I started out a lot of things 767 00:49:19.960 --> 00:49:21.920 and I don't follow true to the end. 768 00:49:21.920 --> 00:49:27.600 - Let's just stop there for a moment. 769 00:49:27.600 --> 00:49:33.120 Again, this is so real 770 00:49:33.120 --> 00:49:35.280 and so many people struggle with this. 771 00:49:35.280 --> 00:49:38.040 So you were not alone in that. 772 00:49:38.040 --> 00:49:42.240 I don't even think that's your main problem though. 773 00:49:42.240 --> 00:49:47.240 I think you are still wanting to hold on 774 00:49:47.760 --> 00:49:50.320 to something that didn't quite work 775 00:49:50.320 --> 00:49:52.080 the way that you wanted it to 776 00:49:52.080 --> 00:49:53.520 instead of letting it go 777 00:49:53.520 --> 00:49:56.040 and seeing how something else could flourish 778 00:49:56.040 --> 00:49:56.960 in a different way. 779 00:49:56.960 --> 00:50:00.080 - Yeah, I think so too. 780 00:50:05.200 --> 00:50:15.760 Are you making it mean something about you like you've you failed or I messed up or I wasted this and that or 781 00:50:15.760 --> 00:50:19.040 Yeah, like it didn't work out 782 00:50:19.040 --> 00:50:22.320 And what does that mean about you? 783 00:50:22.320 --> 00:50:25.680 Yeah, I failed at it 784 00:50:26.960 --> 00:50:30.560 Or you know I did put in money did not 785 00:50:30.560 --> 00:50:34.000 make it back 786 00:50:34.000 --> 00:50:41.200 And it's trickling in but it's like how you show you want to go this route again. So I think it's just kind of 787 00:50:41.200 --> 00:50:47.440 That's good. Yeah, like I didn't do well 788 00:50:47.440 --> 00:50:51.360 Okay 789 00:50:51.360 --> 00:50:52.400 Good 790 00:50:52.400 --> 00:50:56.640 So this is good. This is what's actually going on is you're scared 791 00:50:57.280 --> 00:50:59.280 And 792 00:50:59.280 --> 00:51:01.760 You're wondering is this going to work out this time? 793 00:51:01.760 --> 00:51:05.200 Am I going to fail again? 794 00:51:05.200 --> 00:51:09.520 Yeah 795 00:51:09.520 --> 00:51:14.000 Yeah, I'm kind of yeah and the starting is it's actually like I'm selling without any effort 796 00:51:14.000 --> 00:51:17.840 On this one like I'm getting cells without 797 00:51:17.840 --> 00:51:25.920 Like even when I turned off marketing completely, I still got a couple of cells here and there and it's like and so 798 00:51:26.720 --> 00:51:29.280 Honestly, same it's happened to me lately too 799 00:51:29.280 --> 00:51:35.600 I've got people out of the woodwork asking me to coach them and I'm doing zero marketing and I'm not even on social media 800 00:51:35.600 --> 00:51:39.120 So these 801 00:51:39.120 --> 00:51:40.960 seasons happen 802 00:51:40.960 --> 00:51:42.960 Here's what I want to leave you with 803 00:51:42.960 --> 00:51:46.080 I want you to take some time this weekend to ask yourself 804 00:51:46.080 --> 00:51:51.680 What does failure really mean because I think you have a really negative view on it right now 805 00:51:53.600 --> 00:51:57.520 Because you didn't fail unless you just unless you believe that you did 806 00:51:57.520 --> 00:52:03.280 There's just another way to look at it. There's another way for your brain to say wait. I tried this is not working 807 00:52:03.280 --> 00:52:05.600 I'm trying something else that actually is working 808 00:52:05.600 --> 00:52:08.960 and 809 00:52:08.960 --> 00:52:15.760 Spoiler alert next week. We're doing mines. We're doing mindset around money. That's what I'm tackling next week. Okay 810 00:52:15.760 --> 00:52:20.720 Everybody come on this call next week because we're going to be talking about money 811 00:52:21.200 --> 00:52:26.800 Because you also have a limiting mindset around money. I think like I like this was like I invested this 812 00:52:26.800 --> 00:52:30.880 And now I have to get this much back. I do I do have and I'm working 813 00:52:30.880 --> 00:52:34.240 And what if it comes back this route 814 00:52:34.240 --> 00:52:41.760 Who said it can and and and who you know just opening your mind to another way of looking at 815 00:52:41.760 --> 00:52:44.560 You know work output money input 816 00:52:44.560 --> 00:52:47.280 And that is a way of thinking 817 00:52:47.680 --> 00:52:51.520 And so we're gonna really we're gonna really touch base on that next week. So you guys 818 00:52:51.520 --> 00:52:57.600 Um, I think it's really gonna be super helpful next week's gonna be I've got like some questions written out 819 00:52:57.600 --> 00:53:01.280 I was gonna be more interactive and we're gonna really dig into that for all of you next week 820 00:53:01.280 --> 00:53:03.200 So 821 00:53:03.200 --> 00:53:08.640 That'll be helpful for you next week. But for this week, I really want you to take a look at what am I what am I making failure? 822 00:53:08.640 --> 00:53:13.280 Mean about me and and did I really fail? Okay 823 00:53:15.040 --> 00:53:19.120 And last thing I want you to make a list of all the things used to be did I 824 00:53:19.120 --> 00:53:22.160 Okay 825 00:53:22.160 --> 00:53:25.760 Like at least a list of 30 ideally 50 826 00:53:25.760 --> 00:53:29.840 Okay, well down 827 00:53:29.840 --> 00:53:34.400 This is a good exercise for anybody who's dealing with failure because it's obviously a success, right? 828 00:53:34.400 --> 00:53:38.800 And so if your brain needs just it needs some evidence 829 00:53:38.800 --> 00:53:42.880 of other ways you've been successful and I'm telling you it works because 830 00:53:43.600 --> 00:53:48.880 Anybody anybody here has known enough for enough. She is anything but a fail 831 00:53:48.880 --> 00:53:52.480 the things you 832 00:53:52.480 --> 00:54:01.120 Juggle the hats you wear the roles you play what you're doing for your generation where you've come from you were anything but a failure 833 00:54:01.120 --> 00:54:04.640 You are a huge success 834 00:54:04.640 --> 00:54:12.000 But it doesn't matter if I tell you that or us in the chat tell you that you have to believe that for you 835 00:54:12.000 --> 00:54:17.200 And these are two good steps for you this week. Thank you. I will do that's I'm working on that too 836 00:54:17.200 --> 00:54:26.960 Like this is your amazing. Yes. Yes. Thank you so much. You're welcome. Thank you. Thanks for letting us see you 837 00:54:26.960 --> 00:54:29.520 Thank you. Yes 838 00:54:29.520 --> 00:54:33.920 Thank you, you're welcome 839 00:54:33.920 --> 00:54:37.200 All right, uh, Laura. I'm gonna get to you 840 00:54:37.200 --> 00:54:41.360 I'm gonna say one more announcement real quick before in case anyone has to go at the top of the hour 841 00:54:42.240 --> 00:54:45.600 I'm gonna. I'm gonna coach Laura and then and then I'll end our call 842 00:54:45.600 --> 00:54:50.640 Um for those of you who weren't here. Things are changing. We love change 843 00:54:50.640 --> 00:54:56.960 We embrace it and mindset Monday will no longer be a part of the rainmaker community as of 844 00:54:56.960 --> 00:55:00.320 Probably the beginning of June 845 00:55:10.000 --> 00:55:23.000 And I will be having a link, a membership link, you all will get a discount being from the Rainmaker community coming over to to me and then I'll just have a new zoom link it's going to be really that simple it's going to be a really easy switch over. 846 00:55:23.000 --> 00:55:35.000 And then we will, I will be offering my set Monday on my own and working with you guys business as usual it just won't be offered in the Rainmaker community. 847 00:55:35.000 --> 00:55:42.000 Okay, so update on that and then, if you are so in the community, grab calls you need. 848 00:55:42.000 --> 00:55:54.000 If you're coming to San Diego with us in three weeks, be on the lookout for emails and updates as we continue to finalize all of our details over the next three weeks because that's what we'll be working on too it's going to be exciting. 849 00:55:54.000 --> 00:56:03.000 And that's it. So, cool. All right, Laura. How can I serve you girl how you doing what's going on. 850 00:56:03.000 --> 00:56:06.000 Good. I'm glad to know you're feeling better. 851 00:56:06.000 --> 00:56:22.000 Like 90%. Yeah. Well, this is, and I, if you say it's not okay then now, I won't share, but it's a little personal what I wanted to share because I know the answers that God knows. 852 00:56:22.000 --> 00:56:32.000 God is giving me the answers, but I need to vent and I need prayers, because I need guidance from other women. 853 00:56:32.000 --> 00:56:41.000 So, like I have no, no one to go to and, and speak my heart out. 854 00:56:41.000 --> 00:56:59.000 Yeah. Yeah, so this is definitely the space for that and as vulnerable as you want to be and feel comfortable we will receive that and I'm here to help you and coach you and venting here here to help you vet but also ideally I want to help you leave 855 00:56:59.000 --> 00:57:10.000 with a breakthrough and a next step or, you know, you feeling feeling better than you do right now. Does that sound okay. 856 00:57:10.000 --> 00:57:20.000 Sure story. We adopted our daughter when she was two years old. She came as a foster baby when she was five months old. 857 00:57:20.000 --> 00:57:37.000 Now she's 17. She's going to be 18 at the end of the year. She is then a very, very, very hard kid to raise and she has a lot of trauma we feared that she was sexually abused before she came into our care so before five months old. 858 00:57:37.000 --> 00:57:52.000 Cause she has shown some signs of phenology watching porn and things that I see that since she was very young that I don't see what they were coming from it was just very hard to. 859 00:57:52.000 --> 00:58:17.000 Anyways, she's a hard kid. She has autism. She throws tantrums for little things. And so at the end, at the end of last, at the end of two years ago, at the end of the year, I prayed to God very hard to help us find another family because my husband and I were not equipped. 860 00:58:17.000 --> 00:58:34.000 She was our only kid. We love her two pieces. But we didn't feel equipped to help her be independent one day. She was 16 at that time and we were like, she's not ready to be independent. She, she would not brush her teeth or take showers or cleaner. 861 00:58:34.000 --> 00:58:52.000 I think we don't tell her. So, we prayed to God for this. And he was, he was right. It was hard. I mean, how can you ask for another family for your kid, if you love her so much right. So God, God, some miracles. 862 00:58:52.000 --> 00:59:07.000 He's just put some many miracles into our lives. And he provided a school. Close, it's kind of close, not that close to our home that helps kids. We have the have challenges. 863 00:59:07.000 --> 00:59:21.000 Yeah, early learning disabilities, which he has, but challenges. And they had a housing program. And we were like, this is it. Even though she was not close to being ready to be in ninth grade. 864 00:59:21.000 --> 00:59:28.000 And she's been held two years now. She's, like I said, almost 18 and she's just, she's in ninth grade, but they accept her. Yeah. 865 00:59:28.000 --> 00:59:40.000 That was number one. And they accept her in the housing program. Number two, number three, we can't afford that school. We paid a little bit. It's almost free for us. 866 00:59:40.000 --> 00:59:50.000 So I feel that I can't complain. But there is another girl in this housing program that she's also adopted and she also has trauma. 867 00:59:50.000 --> 00:59:57.000 But she's very strong and she's very popular. And she's just this kid that everybody loves. 868 00:59:57.000 --> 01:00:00.000 But she takes faith, my daughter down every day. 869 01:00:02.000 --> 01:00:09.400 Because of that fate has been displaying behaviors that she like she concepts or or tells other people 870 01:00:09.400 --> 01:00:16.020 Talks back bad about Bella or the stuff at school with other people because she needs help 871 01:00:16.020 --> 01:00:23.640 And she doesn't you know helps me because she knows I'm just going to advocate and she's like because Bella is the other girl 872 01:00:23.640 --> 01:00:26.540 It's gonna get mad at me. So I 873 01:00:26.540 --> 01:00:29.280 She went to New York with the school 874 01:00:30.080 --> 01:00:32.680 Three weeks ago and failed with a wreck 875 01:00:32.680 --> 01:00:37.560 She didn't sleep on the plane went to there from Washington to Washington DC 876 01:00:37.560 --> 01:00:39.560 What you say to Washington DC? 877 01:00:39.560 --> 01:00:45.840 She was a wreck and she calls me crying and she said mom the girls are saying that I had to sleep on the floor 878 01:00:45.840 --> 01:00:50.280 So this mom a heart is like okay. She didn't sleep on the plane 879 01:00:50.280 --> 01:00:53.800 she's going through all day without sleeping and 880 01:00:53.800 --> 01:00:56.740 Then she has to sleep on the floor 881 01:00:57.240 --> 01:01:03.800 So I was trying not to make a big deal. What do you say sweetie? Talk to an adult, right? So anyways, Faith 882 01:01:03.800 --> 01:01:08.720 Had to sleep on a chair that night. So the second day was also a 883 01:01:08.720 --> 01:01:13.800 She was triggered right and at this coolie seeing this 884 01:01:13.800 --> 01:01:17.540 Especially the teacher that was in the tour seeing in this like oh 885 01:01:17.540 --> 01:01:22.080 She has to apologize and she made the whole team to look bad 886 01:01:22.520 --> 01:01:30.160 so last week she was made to apologize in in in front of the whole school only for you had to 887 01:01:30.160 --> 01:01:33.160 Only four kids 888 01:01:33.160 --> 01:01:35.920 Went to this trip the school has 889 01:01:35.920 --> 01:01:39.680 15 kids so in front of the whole school at 890 01:01:39.680 --> 01:01:41.880 It's a Christian school 891 01:01:41.880 --> 01:01:49.280 She had to apologize in front of the whole school to all the kids and say she was sorry for what she did and what she did was 892 01:01:49.280 --> 01:01:52.400 In her own way asking for help, right? 893 01:01:52.440 --> 01:01:54.440 That's how I see it 894 01:01:54.440 --> 01:01:58.960 Now I got an email from the housing program 895 01:01:58.960 --> 01:02:05.000 Which is about to end at the end of June they they said that which is true 896 01:02:05.000 --> 01:02:10.960 They did the needs of the kids of the program have changed and they are not equipped for this 897 01:02:10.960 --> 01:02:15.120 But anyways, I got an email from the program saying that if they doesn't do what it takes 898 01:02:15.120 --> 01:02:19.080 She's gonna be kicked out next week or this week on Wednesday 899 01:02:19.120 --> 01:02:26.040 If she gets more thumbs up than then down then she's gonna get kicked out and I'm like all of this is happening 900 01:02:26.040 --> 01:02:28.760 To my pro 901 01:02:28.760 --> 01:02:31.960 Yeah, even there with her every day because I 902 01:02:31.960 --> 01:02:36.280 weekend I am doing this because I need help we need help 903 01:02:36.280 --> 01:02:43.440 I mean is I say we but my husband he doesn't really have a lot of patience for her. He's a good dad. He's amazing 904 01:02:43.440 --> 01:02:45.120 He's an amazing. I know 905 01:02:45.120 --> 01:02:53.940 But somebody with trauma and being in dealing with this you're you know for 17 years can really weigh on on some bodies 906 01:02:53.940 --> 01:02:57.000 So I can't show enough for her anyways 907 01:02:57.000 --> 01:03:04.240 So it's like I know that I need to advocate and I know and I need to fight for this 908 01:03:04.240 --> 01:03:10.640 But I just need prayers for this conversation in the school because I already sent an email yesterday 909 01:03:10.640 --> 01:03:12.640 And I said I need to talk 910 01:03:13.040 --> 01:03:16.540 Yeah, to be heard because I'm her voice 911 01:03:16.540 --> 01:03:22.320 She really you really can't say it and she's purified of talking about what's going on 912 01:03:22.320 --> 01:03:28.080 So it's like at this point. I know what I need to do 913 01:03:28.080 --> 01:03:32.240 But I keep prayers because I need yeah 914 01:03:32.240 --> 01:03:36.800 Homeless and I need grace in my heart for yes, Laura 915 01:03:36.800 --> 01:03:42.400 Because what everything is going through is I mean, it's just difficult to deal with yes 916 01:03:43.040 --> 01:03:46.720 My daughter, she's in so much chorus. Oh, she's obese now 917 01:03:46.720 --> 01:03:54.320 After this program because she just yeah, she's on survival mode. I hear you 918 01:03:54.320 --> 01:03:59.840 Okay, here's what I want to do if anybody's um has a word of encouragement for Laura 919 01:03:59.840 --> 01:04:04.240 I'd like you to pop it in the chat. I feel like she could really use some encouragement of her as a mother 920 01:04:04.240 --> 01:04:11.440 As a woman of courage as a woman of grace if you have a word of encouragement. I'd love for you to pop that in for her 921 01:04:12.240 --> 01:04:14.240 um, I think that would really 922 01:04:14.240 --> 01:04:16.800 serve her 923 01:04:16.800 --> 01:04:18.800 Laura because I 924 01:04:18.800 --> 01:04:23.120 So I I acknowledge all that you said and I want to acknowledge 925 01:04:23.120 --> 01:04:26.160 raising a 926 01:04:26.160 --> 01:04:29.200 So I I went to a conference a couple weeks ago 927 01:04:29.200 --> 01:04:32.560 And I was reminded of the power of trauma on the brain 928 01:04:32.560 --> 01:04:36.640 And a child in their first two months of their life 929 01:04:37.200 --> 01:04:42.080 If they have had a lot of trauma can go on for for honestly for the rest of their life 930 01:04:42.080 --> 01:04:48.960 Even if they're adopted into a loving family like you Laura. So number one. This isn't personal. It's not about you 931 01:04:48.960 --> 01:04:52.320 I hear you you're you're up against trauma. You're up against 932 01:04:52.320 --> 01:04:54.640 generations 933 01:04:54.640 --> 01:05:00.000 above faith that you decided that came into your line and your world 934 01:05:07.720 --> 01:05:10.280 sure we've all we've all wanted to quit something we've been 935 01:05:10.280 --> 01:05:14.140 called to. Okay. Everyone's had these thoughts. Everyone's had 936 01:05:14.140 --> 01:05:16.860 thoughts. I want to give up the one thing I thought I've wanted. 937 01:05:16.860 --> 01:05:20.240 Okay, you hit your road bumps, you've done it, but you have it. So 938 01:05:20.240 --> 01:05:24.320 we have to remember you haven't, you're staying the court, Laura, 939 01:05:24.320 --> 01:05:30.560 you're being consistent. You're being. What's the word? You're 940 01:05:30.560 --> 01:05:34.880 fighting. And it's really hard to fight and advocate also when 941 01:05:34.880 --> 01:05:37.120 you're feeling a lot of feelings and dealing with a lot of 942 01:05:37.120 --> 01:05:43.120 trauma. So I think, and I just said this last week, you guys 943 01:05:43.120 --> 01:05:45.920 remember my story about going into the doctor's office and I 944 01:05:45.920 --> 01:05:49.680 advocated for myself. And I said, this is what I need. And I'm 945 01:05:49.680 --> 01:05:55.080 not gonna stand down until I get it. Laura, I think you do need 946 01:05:55.080 --> 01:05:58.480 to advocate and you do need to fight for this. And I already 947 01:05:58.480 --> 01:06:06.200 think you already have the grace in you to do that well. You 948 01:06:06.200 --> 01:06:12.040 already have it with the words bestowed it upon you. And you 949 01:06:12.040 --> 01:06:14.160 don't know what's gonna happen. You don't know if she's gonna 950 01:06:14.160 --> 01:06:17.040 kick that on Wednesday. That's scary. This is a lot of unknown 951 01:06:17.040 --> 01:06:19.760 talk about change, right? You're really dealing with change in 952 01:06:19.760 --> 01:06:24.520 this area of real life right now. And not to mention you. This 953 01:06:24.520 --> 01:06:28.080 feels like a lifeline, a big answered prayer, right? Like 954 01:06:28.080 --> 01:06:32.200 this school thinking, man, after years of prayers, this is the 955 01:06:32.200 --> 01:06:35.400 thing. This is what I need. This is what my daughter needs. And 956 01:06:35.400 --> 01:06:40.320 it's not going how you expect it. Anybody been there? That's 957 01:06:40.320 --> 01:06:47.800 real. So I want you to try to remain hopeful when you're 958 01:06:47.800 --> 01:06:52.840 thinking. I want you to remain hopeful. The Bible says if we 959 01:06:52.840 --> 01:06:59.560 hope for things we cannot see, you know, we can receive those, 960 01:06:59.560 --> 01:07:03.040 you know, faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain 961 01:07:03.040 --> 01:07:06.640 of what we can't see. So I just want to say, keep the hope and 962 01:07:06.640 --> 01:07:10.640 keep the faith that something good can and will come out of you 963 01:07:10.640 --> 01:07:19.120 advocating. And and let's say faith does get kicked down on 964 01:07:19.120 --> 01:07:21.240 Wednesday, because that sounds like it's a really big fear of 965 01:07:21.240 --> 01:07:27.560 yours right now. You don't know where God would want to take 966 01:07:27.560 --> 01:07:30.960 her next. What if there's actually a better place? That's an 967 01:07:30.960 --> 01:07:34.640 abundant, hopeful thought that takes everything inside of you 968 01:07:34.640 --> 01:07:40.000 to think, when you have a lot of hopeless thoughts, right? And 969 01:07:40.000 --> 01:07:45.640 you have a lot of evidence in your brain of things not working 970 01:07:45.640 --> 01:07:52.760 out. So this is a call to have a hopeful thought. It can be as 971 01:07:52.760 --> 01:07:58.320 simple as this is going to work out. This is going to work out. 972 01:07:58.320 --> 01:08:03.280 Linda's like, yes, I feel that thought this is going to work 973 01:08:03.280 --> 01:08:08.160 out. We don't know how we don't know when we don't know we 974 01:08:08.160 --> 01:08:11.400 don't know. This is where Laura, your faith in God is really 975 01:08:11.400 --> 01:08:16.880 being tested. Right? It's like, do you believe God's good and 976 01:08:16.880 --> 01:08:20.240 that he's going to work this out? And letting go of the 977 01:08:20.240 --> 01:08:25.520 timeline, though. I will not begin to stand your neck like 978 01:08:25.520 --> 01:08:30.439 this is easy. It's not taking on a child out of the foster care 979 01:08:30.439 --> 01:08:34.359 system who is absolutely probably was abused in this first five 980 01:08:34.359 --> 01:08:41.680 months of her life in a grotesque way. This is also the 981 01:08:41.680 --> 01:08:45.479 reality of a lot of kids in our world and a lot of people. And 982 01:08:45.479 --> 01:08:49.960 your love that you shown her Laura is going to produce fruit 983 01:08:49.960 --> 01:08:54.640 and already has in ways you don't know yet, we're not able to 984 01:08:54.640 --> 01:09:00.160 see. So keep the keep the course keep the course. Keep going. 985 01:09:00.160 --> 01:09:04.800 This is going to work out. Keep the course, keep being 986 01:09:04.800 --> 01:09:11.319 faithful. And I want you to look in the chat. Like I want you to 987 01:09:11.319 --> 01:09:16.479 grab these. Thank you everybody. This is so powerful. The lot of 988 01:09:16.479 --> 01:09:19.120 kind words and encouraging words for you right now that I 989 01:09:19.120 --> 01:09:23.399 really think you need maybe you can copy and paste all that and 990 01:09:23.399 --> 01:09:28.080 take this for you for the week for the next few days. How can I 991 01:09:28.080 --> 01:09:34.040 save this chat so I can read it? So you can go to you know what 992 01:09:34.040 --> 01:09:38.640 you you might not be able to. I don't know if you have access, 993 01:09:38.640 --> 01:09:44.120 but she's read. Yeah, she's are you on your laptop? I am. So 994 01:09:44.120 --> 01:09:47.160 you see the chat go to the upper right hand corner with those 995 01:09:47.160 --> 01:09:51.359 three dots are. If you click on those three dots it says save 996 01:09:51.359 --> 01:09:56.040 chat. Okay, then what you have to do is search for a meeting 997 01:09:56.040 --> 01:09:59.960 chat for this date on my computer saves the year.