All right, good morning, or good afternoon, or good evening, depending when you are listening
to this.
Welcome, welcome, welcome.
I believe today is incredibly important day.
We are in gate two.
There's 12 gates for the series we're doing, From Pressure to Partnership.
I want to welcome each and every one of you here, and this is going to be the journey.
What does it look like to move in each step, to move away from pressure and go deep into
partnership, partnering with God in life, in business, in relationships, in every area
of your life.
So I'm so glad that you chose to be here.
Those of you listening to the replay, we missed you, but glad you're listening.
I want to open in prayer, and I want to open with a question, and we're going to dive deep
today.
I believe today is going to be a day of transformation.
I open by saying the scripture, that whom the sun sets free is free indeed.
I believe this is the season that God is setting women free from shackles that have been placed
on them by past conditioning, by their own thinking, by the world standards, by so many
things are causing this pressure, and to truly rise into the fullness of all God has
created you to be.
That's my heart.
That's my passion.
I live to see women equipped and empowered to prosper in all things, spiritually, physically,
relationally, in all things, 3 John 2.
So welcome, welcome, welcome, and the Holy Spirit, we just invite you to just flood this
atmosphere, speak through my mouth, open our spiritual senses to hear what you are
saying for us today.
I call forth breakthrough, breakthrough, Lord, to stand on your word, to walk out your word,
to feel your presence, to partner with you in all things.
We love you.
We welcome you in Jesus' name, amen, amen.
So we're talking about why pressure increases when peace is dependent on external conditions.
Now if you missed yesterday for the Power Hour, which is also part of the Prosper Leader
Membership, do you want to go back and get that because we really covered some beautiful
scriptural foundation for what I'm talking about today.
So today I'm not going to go as deep into the scriptures because we spent an hour on
that yesterday and it was beautiful.
So if you don't have the replay for that, ask, we'll get you settled, but today we're
talking about why does pressure increase when our peace is dependent on conditions.
So I want you just to think about for a moment, when was the last time that you felt uncertain?
And it might've been one minute ago, might've been 10 minutes ago, might've been yesterday
last week.
When was the last time you felt uncertain?
And maybe it was a payment that was delayed.
Maybe it was a relationship issue.
Maybe it's a health concern.
Maybe it's no new clients, your business isn't growing at the speed you want.
Maybe it just feels like silence, like you don't feel like God is hearing you.
Maybe it's an unexpected expense, right?
Maybe it's just uncertainty, like everything's so uncertain, everything's changing so fast
right now, you don't know what's coming next.
So just tap into that for a second.
What happened?
When was the last time that you felt uncertain?
Uncertainty, walking in certainty, and I equip faith in certainty as one of the most
powerful ways that we can live.
And the opposite is walking in uncertainty.
So when was the last time?
And now as you think about that,
notice what happened inside of you.
A lot of what we do today is going to be about awareness.
I am a firm believer that awareness is the first
step to transformation.
We can't change what we don't see.
We can't change what we're unaware of, what we don't know.
And so as we become aware,
we can activate our God-given ability to choose and our life can
begin to change.
So much of what I'm doing today is around awareness
because so much of what we're doing, we're just unconsciously,
we're just existing. We're sleepwalking. We're creatures of habit.
We're creatures of programming and we're just living out patterns and
we're repeating patterns, right?
And so when you felt uncertain, a payment was delayed.
There was relationship struggles. There was a new health issue,
a new symptom popped up in your body.
Your business was limping along you.
You had an unexpected expense.
You just have the sense of what's going to happen tomorrow.
Can I make it through the day?
Notice what's happening inside of you.
Take a note for a minute. What happens? What's your pattern?
Do your thoughts race?
Do you become an over thinker?
Do you get a sense of urgency?
Does a, does a kind of panic or anxiety rise up?
Did your breathing change? Do you get more shallow? Do you get more fast?
Things when our nervous system is dysregulated, right?
Or did you immediately start
trying to fix, start trying to solve,
start trying to control, start trying to predict, I've got to fix this.
I've got to make it happen. I've got to control this.
I've got to solve this. What,
what rose up within you
just to have an awareness
because we've been programmed to think that
our life is happening to us,
that the things that are happening outside the
circumstances,
the conditions are what's causing
my peace or my pressure.
And so we think if we can just change the conditions,
if the condition circumstances can just change, I'll have peace.
I'll be happy.
Okay, good.
Christine said panic and urge to do something.
Yeah. And if you relating to that,
despair, shame. Oh, so far as, as nausea.
Wow. Good. Collette's sharing anxiety.
What happens when things feel uncertain?
Most of us think that this pressure is coming from circumstances.
Here's the revelation. Here's the awareness. Number one,
y'all ready? Awareness. Number one,
most often that pressure is revealing.
It's a revelation for you. It's a clue
where your sense of safety
has become attached to circumstances attached to
conditions.
We have this need to feel safe.
We want to feel safe.
When that sense of safety is attached to something outside of
ourselves, a certain condition happening, a certain circumstances,
that's what the pressure is revealing so that you're going to be able to see
it like a red light on your dashboard, red light flashing,
where am I attaching my sense of safety?
I haven't felt safe in forever. I can't even tell you when I felt safe.
Okay. Good.
Cause if it's attached to someone or something,
you're going to feel safe.
And if you're attached to something,
happening outside of you, we're going to feel that. Now, I'm not
you're going to feel safe.
saying that we just go put ourselves in dangerous
conditions of, you know, abuse or whatever and go, oh, la-dee-da.
I'm not saying ignore the circumstances, don't get me
wrong. But I am looking at the ones, like some of you said it
in the opening. I experienced certain conditioning in Catholic
school or parenting. And that conditioning, I then took on
myself and made it my own pressure. Okay. I did the same
thing. If you've read my book, I did the same thing. I call it
the inner slave woman. If you're not familiar with my book, I
think you'll very much enjoy it in this conversation. Show it
here. I talk about the inner slave woman, and it's that
conditioning became the inner slave woman that drove me. Okay,
so I understand that. So we attach it. So here's the key
point from this, as we keep on going. Pressure increases when
peace becomes dependent on conditions. The more we rely on
all the stuff outside. So think about what destabilizes your
peace the fastest. Let's talk about this. What destabilize?
What takes away your peace? What takes away your peace? Is it
money? Is it uncertainty? Is it health? Is it approval? Is it
outcomes? Is it relationships? Is it performance? Is it not
knowing? What tends to take away your peace? What just robs your
peace instantly? What is it? I'd love feedback. You could just
say it, or you could put it in the chat. What tends to
destabilize your peace the fastest? All of the above. Okay.
Money. Okay, good. Who else? What takes away your peace? I
grew up with that. Susie and I, I inherited that. When money was
in the bank account, my parents were happy. Right? When money
was down, when business was down, like the dinner table was
not a place you wanted to hang out. Right? You know, I get it.
And then I married into the same thing. Okay, so I get it. All
right. So money and health. Okay. What is it that
destabilizes your peace the fastest? Approval, performance,
relationships, outcomes, silence, not knowing. What
takes away your peace? Awareness is this first step of
transformation. All of you are welcome to unmute or put it in
the chat. Because we're going to talk about this and work
through it powerfully. Anybody else? Is it mainly money and
health for all of you? Or is there any ones we didn't
mention yet?
Okay, so I typed it out, but I didn't hit. Okay. So money very
much. So especially right now, like, Sharon, I'm at the end of
unemployment, I only have maybe one to two checks coming in. And
I have a house and a special needs son to provide for. So
I'm kind of in fight or flight 24 seven right now. Okay. And so
in regards to money, so even though my parents have money, my
mom is still always very much afraid clutching to everything,
looking for everything on set, which I'm not saying it's wrong
to steward your money properly. Sure. But always in my head,
it's a resounding it that that her voice just echoes. Sure. And
she just, when I was working, previously, I was a 911
dispatcher. So it was a very good job. But it was also very
high pressure. And, you know, 24 seven, we had to work the shift
to work and stuff. So she said, Oh, don't lose that job. Don't
Lose that job, don't lose that job.
And then I did end up getting terminated
after I sued them on a workman's comp issue.
They weren't paying me for,
it was clear as a bell it happened there.
I mean, nine of us went to the ER from an incident,
a construction accident there at work.
So it was ridiculous.
They were freighting me.
Anyways, a year later after that, they canned me.
And so my mom, I know it wasn't like her fault
that I lost that job, right?
But it was just always in my head, don't lose that job.
And it's almost like it somehow comes to fruition.
Yes, yes, out of the heart flow the issues of life.
You know, when Job went through stuff,
he said that which I feared most has come upon me.
So we are gonna talk about the mind-heart-mouth connection.
And it just happens that those of you,
cause we have, oh, I got people trying to join the call.
I'm just leaving them there, oops.
And so yes, we've got in the Prosper Leader membership,
we've got all ranks of people.
We've got people earning six, even seven figures.
We've got people that are homeless
and just barely making it.
So this message is true,
no matter what your outward conditions are, okay?
The fact is that it's not weakness that this sets us off
and destabilizes us, but it's what happens naturally
when our nervous system has learned
to locate safety externally, okay?
And here's the problem with this.
Here's the big problem.
External reality is always changing.
The economy is always changing.
The government's always changing.
Money is changing.
People are changing.
The stock market is changing.
Business is changing.
My goodness, never more than right now,
the algorithms of social media are changing
and wreaking havoc on our businesses, right?
And what used to work doesn't work
and people are changing and our bodies are changing.
And so conditions, the problem with conditions
and circumstances is they're always changing.
And so can you imagine you've got this shifting sand
and we're trying to build our security
on something that's constantly changing.
It's a moving target, right?
And Jesus had a lot to say about that.
We're gonna talk about it in a minute.
Building on a rock or building on the sand.
But what I want you aware,
awareness is the first step of transformation
no matter what your situation.
Because I have found this is the same.
I'm doing coaching with seven-figure coaches.
I'm doing coaching with six-figure coaches.
I'm doing coaching with five-figure.
I'm doing brand new that they've got zero
and it's the same.
Guess what?
The seven-figure is afraid of losing it
or the sudden dips because they built quite a team
and they're just as scared as the one that's just starting
and they don't know where their clients.
So I don't want you to think that this is,
it's exactly what we're talking about,
that conditions change.
I remember getting into coaching thinking
if I can just make my first $1,000 a month,
if I can just make my first $5,000 a month,
if I can just make my first $10,000 a month,
if I can just have my first $20,000 a month,
it doesn't matter.
When the point I want you to get is that
when we built our piece on these external conditions,
then our inner world,
our thoughts, our feelings, our emotions, our health,
our inner world constantly feels unstable.
Does that make sense?
Is that resonating?
So we have this pressure loop.
Let me show the screen really quick.
I wanna show you something.
As soon as this shares.
Okay, we have this pressure loop, okay?
And the pressure loop is that
we have this external uncertainty,
something outside of us changes.
The finances change, the relationship change,
the government change, the housing changes,
the job changes, the boss changes.
We got this external uncertainty,
and then we feel this.
internal instability. So we start to feel fear and a sense of urgency. So we feel the need to react
and control. We've got to solve this. We've got to fix this. We've got to do something right away.
I've got to get clients. I've got to get money. I've got to get and we get and we get and we get
and we get and we get until we start feeling incredible exhaustion. And we often disconnect.
We feel hopeless and despair and many of you mentioned shame or guilt or we just hopelessness
or whatever and of course we disconnect. We stop showing up. We stop doing the thing that builds
and we feel even more pressure. This is the pressure loop and this is why we've got a
condition right now where women are absolutely overworking like crazy overworking. It's not
uncommon for them to tell me they're working 40, 50, 60, 70 hours a week and they're overthinking.
They can't shut it down. They go to sleep and they can't shut it down and so they start doom
scrolling or they over consume information or they emotionally spiral or they panic or they
struggle to sleep or to rest or they stop having clarity. They think they're not hearing from
God because we're in the fight or flight. We're in the sympathetic nervous system. We're in the
survival mode and this narrows. Remember fear constricts and contracts in our body. It contracts
in our brain. We move from creativity into survival. Our blood flow everything goes into
the center. We're not in a creative proactive mode. Everything starts shrinking. We talked
about the sponge that we squeeze and so when the nervous system feels unsafe it starts becoming
reactive. So I want you to remember reaction. Okay let's just put it this way. Let's make
general statement. Everything you do, everything you say, everything you think is either driven by
fear or faith and under faith I would put love, peace, joy, all the fruits of the spirit. We're
either driven like that thought is either fear-based or love-based. Fear-based or faith-based.
Are you following me? There's two tracks. It's like those monorails goes two directions and we're
always choosing and we're acting on fear or we're acting on love. We're speaking fear or we're
speaking love. You've got to always just be aware of what track are you on and so when you're reacting
then it's fear-driven. You can know you're on that monorail. When you're discerning and you're
hearing the voice of God and you're feeling that's peace-led. That's faith-led. Okay so if you remember
the scripture in Matthew 7 and I went back and and read it today when Jesus was talking about
building on his word and he talked about two conditions. One was building on sand, two
foundations. One was building on sand and one was building on a rock. They're building a house
so they're both building houses. Both of them. One's building it on sand and one's building on
the rock. This is in Matthew 7. You can read it later today. The storm hits both houses.
The rain, the torrents, the winds, all that is described in the storm. The storm hit both houses.
Understand that storms are part of nature. Storms are part of life. Storms are going to hit
and I don't care how much money you have, how big a house you live in, how good looking your
husband is or whatever else, right? How perfect of a body you have. Storms are going to hit all of us.
Okay so storm hit both houses. The difference was the foundation.
What are we building our house on? We've got to constantly ask that. What am I building on right
now? What am I building on? I want you just to like let this get in you for just a second.
Okay who loves the beach? I'm such a beach girl. I'm such a water girl. Okay put me in your water.
I'm in my happy place. I you know I can't tell you how happy I am.
I get when I get on the water. Any of you water girls here? Okay. And so just picture yourself
for a moment. And you're at the beach, and you're barefoot. Just feel that sand underneath your feet.
Maybe it's a little cool. And just I love the feeling of the sand on my feet. It's such a good
feeling. I love it. And you're standing there, and the child in you comes up, and you start
building a little sandcastle. And so you started just building it. You had a little container,
and you could take that little container that you found, and you could kind of stack it up,
and you built this little sandcastle. And you're feeling pretty proud of yourself. You forgot how
artistic you are. Like, do you see your sandcastle? You got your feet there in the sand,
and you got this sandcastle. And then the storm comes, the wave comes. What happens to that
sandcastle? Reminds like a lot of our life. Now, I want you to picture you're on that same coast,
and you're standing on a solid rock. We've got big rocks in the northern California coast.
And the wave hits, and it splashes all around you, and everything around shifts.
But not you. You're standing on the rock. This is what Jesus was teaching. This is
what this course is about. Moving from building from pressure to building partnership. Partnership
is that rock. Partnership is knowing who you are, your identity in Christ. Partnership is knowing
that you're one with God, and having this communion, the vine and the branches communion.
Partnership is hearing the voice of God. Partnership is a sense of certainty, of knowing
that no matter what the storm is, you're okay. And this is what we're moving to. And if I apply this
if I apply this to business, okay, outside in, let's make this very, very practical and very,
very real. Outside in business looks like panic posting. I'm going to post ads everywhere. I'm
going to just try to get some business. Outside in looks like reacting emotionally, trying to
force clients, trying to, you know, gel up. It looks like inconsistency. It looks like comparing.
It looks like trying to force outcomes, right? Manipulation. It looks like overworking, and
it looks like chasing trends, chasing gurus, changing the way that you build your business
every five minutes. Fear-based decisions. That's outside in business.
Partnership business. Partnership-based business building. When God is our partner,
it looks like discernment. God talked to me about this situation.
In Gate 1, we talked about your morning spiritual practice as the foundation. If you miss Gate 1,
go back and listen to last week's. We laid the foundation of the morning spiritual practice.
The role of hearing from God. I taught you a way of journaling, and you guys got to do that with my
purple pen, pink pen method. Hearing the voice of God for your business.
We talked about breathing and restoring peace. We'll do some more of that today.
We talked about clarity, and we talked about building relational connection.
We talked about aligned action. We talked about peace with movement, and so this awareness that
you're getting today is learning to ask questions. Is this fear-based, or is this faith and love
based? Before posting, am I reacting, or am I responding? Am I reacting, or am I responding?
Am I driven by fear, or am I driven by faith and discernment? Am I following the last thing
that God told me to do? Am I moved? Those that are led by the
The Holy Spirit are the sons and daughters of God.
Am I being led by the Holy Spirit
or am I being driven by fear, doubt, lack, uncertainty?
Before overworking, am I building from pressure
or am I building from partnership?
Here's the key.
You do not create your best work from survival mode.
How many of you figured that out?
When you're in survival mode, it's not your best work.
It's not your most creative work.
It's not the masterpieces you're so proud of.
So when pressure rises, the money, the busyness,
the information, the people pleasing, the avoidance,
all of that, take a look at what's happening in your body.
And then go back to what we learned last week.
Put your hand on your heart.
Jesus said, I am the vine.
You are the branches.
Abide in me.
Scripture says, Christ in me, the hope of glory.
So take a breath and first just come to the awareness.
Wait a minute.
I understand I'm feeling pressure.
I'm looking at the outside.
I'm having an external locus of control,
thinking that outside can solve it.
If I can just get money, if I can just get clients,
if I can just get customers, if I can just get a man,
then I'll be happy, healthy, prosperous.
We're on the sand.
So awareness, we switch it.
And we start to remember the word of God
that peace was a gift from Jesus and given to me.
Peace is within.
It's actually a frequency.
That's a whole other subject within us.
Wisdom is within.
Peace is within.
So I don't have to abandon my peace to regain control.
And so we start operating not on the world system.
We start operating on a kingdom, a kingdom mindset.
Jesus shocked them.
They want to build an external kingdom.
And he said, the kingdom of God is within you.
Can you imagine the shock?
The kingdom of God is within you.
This was the change between the Old Testament
and the New Testament.
If you know instruction, you know
If you know in scripture, the Old Testament,
the Old Covenant had rituals and works.
You could take this many steps.
You could build a fire on these days.
You could work on these days.
You could eat these foods like it was an external.
And the Holy Spirit would come on you
from the outside in the New Testament after Christ.
Christ in me, the hope of glory.
And once Christ went back, the Holy Spirit in me.
I'm the temple of the Holy Spirit.
It's within, out of the heart flows the issues of life.
So we're learning now to move
from the world system of external control.
If I have a big enough house,
if I have a big enough business,
if I have enough money in the bank,
if I have a good looking husband,
if I have external locus of control
into an internal locus of control.
And I'm tuned in and tapped into that.
So that it becomes presence first.
If we were looking at the board I created, presence first.
And that presence from that presence of God,
from the awareness of God's presence in me comes peace.
And from that peaceful place comes discernment.
Some of you need to see it.
Let me share the screen again real quick.
I'm sorry, I'm getting to preaching
and we're gonna do some more interacting.
I just get excited about this
because I see the transformation.
When I got this, my life changed.
When you get this,
I promise your life is completely different.
So we're coming from a place of presence.
God, thank you that you said
I'm the temple of the Holy Spirit.
Thank you for your presence.
Thank you, Christ in me, the hope of glory.
Thank you, I have the mind of Christ. Presence first, so that peace emerges from that. Because
if I have God in me, I have peace in me, which can now lead me to have the mind of Christ,
which is discernment, which can lead me to take aligned action. Aligned action.
Okay? And so, this is why Jesus could sleep in the storms. This is why Paul could worship in
prison. It's not denial. I'm not saying the circumstances are not there or they're fun.
I have faced extraordinary circumstances. You're looking at a woman that is a product
of a bipolar drug-addicted mother, a sexual predator father, emotionally abusive. Okay,
I understand conditions. I know what it is to move in an empty house and not know where the
next dime is going to come from. I didn't come from money. I know what it is to lose everything.
So, I'm not talking Pollyanna, sisters. It feels real. But there's something more real than the
real that you're seeing through your five senses. It's not denial. It's authority. It's internal
authority. So, partnership begins when your inner world is no longer enslaved to external conditions.
When you're external, you've got freedom. You've got partnership. When what you see is not defining
your peace, what you're experiencing in the external world, I don't care what your bank
account has or what the doctor's statement says, your peace, your inner world, your nervous system
regulation is no longer enslaved to external conditions. Is this making sense? Am I talking
where you live? Are you picking up what I'm putting down? Give me a note in the chat.
Are you picking up what I'm putting down? That was some heavy teaching,
but that awareness is the foundation of where we're going to go and what can completely change
how you build. It completely changes how you're operating moment by moment.
Okay, Sharon. Yes. Thank you, Colette. It's fantastic. Keep going. Okay. Picking it up.
Natalie says, good morning, sister. I didn't say good morning to you yet. Okay.
So, I want you to think really quick. We talked about this.
When uncertainty rises, where do you instinctively go for safety?
Where do you instinctively go for safety? So, here's the key. The goal is not controlling the
storm. The goal is not controlling the storm. It's becoming anchored deeper than the storm.
Becoming anchored deeper than the storm.
So, yesterday, we really dug deep into Ephesians 3, 16 to 19 in the power hour.
If you didn't listen, go back and listen to that. It's all part of the
Prosper Leader membership. We're building on that foundation today.
But I want to remind you quickly before we do some exercises and really apply this.
Picking it up in the amplified translation in case you missed yesterday. This was Paul's prayer.
This becomes our prayer. May he grant you, Christine, Natalie, Sharon, Susie, Stacey,
may he grant you, out of the rich treasury of his glory, that's the source,
to be strengthened and reinforced with mighty power. Where? In the inner man.
By the Holy Spirit himself indwelling in your innermost being and personality.
Do you see that biblically we must learn to operate inside ourselves?
out. We've got to stop doing the world's plan of operating outside in. Verse 17,
may Christ through your faith actually dwell, settle down, abide, make his
permanent home where? In your hearts. Then may you be rooted deep in love and
founded securely on love. 18, that you may have the power and be strong to
apprehend and grasp the experience of the love. It's breadth, it's length, it's
height, it's depth. And here's the outcome, that you may really come to know. Not head
knowledge, not that was a good sermon knowledge, that you may really come to
know. The Amplified says practically through experience for yourself. What I'm
sharing today is just theory until you experience it for yourself. You have the
opportunity today. It says experience practically through yourselves the love
of Christ which far surpasses mere knowledge without experience. Look at the
result, that you may be filled through all your being, having the fullness of
God, the richest measure of divine presence, that you become a body wholly
filled and flooded with God himself. If that's not a description of partnership,
I'm a body. I'm going through motions, I'm making calls, I'm getting clients, I'm
coaching, but I'm wholly filled with God. So that it becomes God live through me,
God coach through me, God teach through me, God serve through me, God love through
me. And so the shift, and by the way we haven't talked about the mouth, we've
started talking a little bit about the mind, and we're talking about the heart a
lot right now, where it all starts, okay? We haven't talked about the mouth. It's
for another time, but you've got to stand guard at the door of your mouth, that
what you're speaking is not counteracting and negating your prayers.
So you pray, God thank you that you supply all my needs according to your
riches. Thank you that you are my shepherd, I shall not lack. Like you're
praying those prayers, and you're declaring it. Now don't go out and tell
people how broke you are. Don't spend all your time focusing, thinking, meditating
on your circumstances, telling everyone your circumstances, writing about your
circumstances, talking about your conditions. Stop giving power to
conditions, and give power to Christ in you. So no matter what your eyes see,
because I'm telling you the inside comes first, and you don't see it. I plant a
seed in the ground, any of you gardeners, I don't see the roots going deep. I don't
see the stem trying to break through the ground. It looks like nothing is
happening. Same, you're planting new seeds in your heart. Initially it's going to
look like it's not working. You're going to be challenged. Your bank account is
going to scare you perhaps. Some of you, your bank account scares you because
it's so full that you're afraid you're going to lose it. Some of you it scares
you it's so empty. I see it across the boards. I'll never forget as a young
woman, I was in my 20s, and I was mentoring a 40-something multimillionaire,
and I was mentoring him, and he owned hotel chains all across California. I
went to his mansion on the golf course. I'm in my late 20s, and I'm mentoring
this man, and he said something about being broke, and my jaw fell to the
ground. I'm looking around. How can you be broke? And he looked at me, and he said
something I've never forgotten. He said, Brenda, we're just all broke on a
different level. You know what he was communicating? He was communicating that
broke is a mindset, because you and I are living wealthier than kings lived in
the past. Most of us have access to running water, hot water no less, that we
can leisurely...
really stand in a shower, most of us have access to a roof over our head, most of us are not eating
sand to get our stomach to stop hurting, and we're picking up and on one device we're taking pictures,
listening to music, sending messages, checking social media, using a computer, using AI, like
we live like kings would have dreamt to live how we live, and yet we feel more broken, more
dissatisfied than anyone in history. What is up? Broke is a mindset, that just came out of
out of the spirit, that's not in my notes, hopefully you got this. Okay,
the world system is conditions first, peace second. So think about sentences that you're saying,
I'll relax when, finish that sentence, I'll relax when, I'll feel safe when, I'll breathe when.
Now if we're operating in the world system, not the kingdom system, and you finish those sentences,
grab this, peace stays postponed. It's always out there somewhere, love, peace, joy, all the stuff we want,
it's the carrot and the stick, it's always out in front of us, out in front of us,
peace stays postponed, because it's dependent on external conditions.
That's not the kingdom way.
So today was about awareness, and it was about becoming anchored,
because women, and I did far more teaching than we're going to do in most of them, most of it's
going to be a lot of experience and immersion, but I felt like I needed to lay this foundation.
Hopefully it doesn't feel like too much teaching to you.
Was this teaching laying a foundation for you? Because I know, I repent, I got in my teacher mode.
I know, but this is what the Lord is speaking right now. If we don't get this, we can't move forward
doing what God's called us to do, sisters. We got to break out of this mold.
We got to break out of this mold, sisters.
So this morning is not about becoming passive, it's about becoming anchored,
because when you are internally anchored, when you're coming from that internal locus of control,
you can be still and know that he is God.
You can do what I taught last week, that we experienced together that morning spiritual
practice. So you can hear clearly what God has for you. His mercies are new every morning.
Did you discover his mercies today? Isaiah says he's doing a new thing.
Are you aware of the new thing? He's going to make rivers in the desert. Are you aware of the rivers?
We can hear. When we're coming from this internal, we can hear more clearly, and then we can discern
more wisely. Is this the right time? Is this the right season? Is this the right,
etc., etc., so that we can lead more powerfully?
God's calling you to lead. You cannot lead from fear. You cannot lead from reaction.
You can't even lead yourself from that place, let alone other people. So many of you have a vision,
and you've seen yourself leading multitudes. God has called you to lead.
You cannot lead from the world system. It's sand. It's constantly torn down.
You can lead more powerfully, and you can build more sustainably.
You're not exhausting yourself. You're not burning out your adrenal glands. You're not
living constantly in nervous system dysregulation. You can rest. You can enjoy. You can dance.
You can experience this greater peace. And so pressure says, it all depends on me.
Partnership says, I'm led. I'm supported. I'm connected.
So
So if you remember the success formula that I've given you,
I'll put it in the chat.
It's mindset plus skill set plus right action equals results.
Take a look at that.
Mindset plus skill set plus right action equals results.
Everything on the left side is determining the right side.
If your results are not where you desire them to be,
your internal results of love, joy, peace
that we've talked about today, and your external results
of abundance, prosperity, and all that you're creating,
if the result is not there, one or all of those three things
is off.
Today, we focus a lot on mindset.
We're going to cover skill set.
We're going to cover action.
We talked today about the mindset that's keeping
almost everybody stuck.
Most of the women, this was born out
of me talking to hundreds and hundreds of women
who are dysregulated in their nervous system, who
are in a panic, who are in fear, who
feel like they're suddenly not hearing from God,
who are finding that their efforts are not working.
So this is the mindset side.
There is a skill set side.
And there is a right action.
And all of that has to begin with clarity.
If you're looking, well, what do I do next?
How do I really put this in place?
OK.
Everything that we're talking about today is included.
Everything is included in the Prosper Leader membership.
That's the link to that.
If you don't have that, you want to be a Prosper Leader member.
Why?
It's heaven and earth.
Wednesday, it's our time to pray for each other,
to have mountain-moving prayers.
And it's our time to dive into a promise for the week.
Thursdays, we're doing this at 8 AM.
8 AM Wednesdays, power hour.
8 AM Thursdays, we're moving from pressure to partnership.
You're going to leave a 12-week immersion feeling
partnered with God, operating on all
that God has created for you to have a powerful partnership,
no longer from pressure.
Pressure will no longer be part of what you're
doing after these 12 weeks.
And then we go, right after this,
we go into office hours at 9 AM, which is like one minute away.
That's where we strategically work on your business.
Now, beyond that, if you don't have clarity in your business,
then you're probably swimming in mud.
And you don't know what to do next.
And you don't have a plan.
And you don't know who you're serving
and how you're serving, and what you're offering,
and what to charge, and how to get leads,
and all of that stuff.
That's all swimming in the mud clarity issues.
You need to have a call with me.
And we need to most likely do a breakthrough intensive so
that you are so absolutely clear on your vision, your mission,
your niche, your irresistible offer, how it's unique,
what your pricing is, how you're generating leads,
what you're marketing, what your messaging is.
That's a one-day business breakthrough intensive,
or we break it into a couple of days.
You need to have a call with me.
You've got to have clarity.
Once you've got clarity, you're going
to start getting clients right away, customers right away.
You can move.
You can go forward.
Then it's probably either a skill set or a right action
thing.
A skill set, for example, might be
that you don't know how to have a successful sales
conversation, or you don't know how to follow up.
Included in the Prosper Leader membership is access.
And by the way, I've been working on it,
and it's getting better and better by the moment.
Keep watching the changes as we grow together.
I am making so that you know exactly where
to go in the Prosper Leader vault.
This is where, as a Prosper Leader,
this is where all your resources are.
So I've got some start here for you.
I walk you through the instructions.
That's brand new, this start here.
Some free resources.
This is where the power hour, you
want some more word and prayer.
The past ones are here.
This is where.
we store today what we're doing. Office hours is how we work on your business. You need some
skill set. Learn how to have everybody that watches this successful sales conversation,
they start having sales. Everyone that watches the fortune is in the follow-up,
they start having follow-up. So I won't go long into this, but that's going to give you
the skill sets, all right, and you'll have the direction for right action. For those of you that
need, like you really desire help implementing, like the systems, the step-by-step, the hold your
hand, usually I do that in the Total Soul Prosperity 90 day. Okay, that's the coaching,
one-on-one coaching, plus you get all of the Prosper Leader membership. So I give you that
overview so you can find where you are to take your next step. At minimum, you want to be a
Prosper Leader member so that you're connected with each other, with me, with heaven and earth
teaching, so that you feel guided and held and guarded and you have the tools that you need.
If you need to go further and you want coaching, let's have a call, let's find out. You may or may
not, let's find out what you need and where you are, okay, but I wanted you to have a sense of that.
All right, what I'd love really quick, because we're already supposed to be in office hours,
what I would love really quick is your number one takeaway that you're actually going to apply
or do different. Is it that you're going to have awareness so that you can begin to look inside?
Is it that you're going to guard your mouth? Is it that you're going to declare and be careful
what you're saying? What did you pick up today that I laid down, because I'm about action and
applying, that can move you from pressure to partnership? What is it? You're welcome to just say it
or you're welcome to type it in real quick and then we're going to start working on your business
and office hours for anybody that wants to stick around for that, okay?
Guarding my mouth, okay? Declarations can be really huge for you. Yes, declaring, Natalie. I start
waking up and just let those declarations flow. I found some beautiful music that's built on
declarations I can share with you. Okay, so it sounds like words so that you don't negate your
prayers. It sounds like that jumped out. Okay, we're going to make sure that I give you the tools
to make sure that that is key, that you know some ideas how to declare to get results,
what scripture says about that. Okay, blessings, blessings. All right, sisters, I'm going to stop
the recording on this and then we're going to move into office hours, which is where we work
on your business. So, let me stop this recording if I can figure out how. Let's see. Stop recording.