WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:09.120 All right, good morning, or good afternoon, or good evening, depending when you are listening 2 00:00:09.120 --> 00:00:10.120 to this. 3 00:00:10.120 --> 00:00:12.360 Welcome, welcome, welcome. 4 00:00:12.360 --> 00:00:16.680 I believe today is incredibly important day. 5 00:00:16.680 --> 00:00:20.240 We are in gate two. 6 00:00:20.240 --> 00:00:30.960 There's 12 gates for the series we're doing, From Pressure to Partnership. 7 00:00:30.960 --> 00:00:38.840 I want to welcome each and every one of you here, and this is going to be the journey. 8 00:00:38.840 --> 00:00:49.520 What does it look like to move in each step, to move away from pressure and go deep into 9 00:00:49.520 --> 00:01:00.280 partnership, partnering with God in life, in business, in relationships, in every area 10 00:01:00.280 --> 00:01:01.760 of your life. 11 00:01:01.760 --> 00:01:04.599 So I'm so glad that you chose to be here. 12 00:01:04.599 --> 00:01:10.400 Those of you listening to the replay, we missed you, but glad you're listening. 13 00:01:10.400 --> 00:01:18.320 I want to open in prayer, and I want to open with a question, and we're going to dive deep 14 00:01:18.320 --> 00:01:19.320 today. 15 00:01:19.320 --> 00:01:24.000 I believe today is going to be a day of transformation. 16 00:01:24.000 --> 00:01:30.640 I open by saying the scripture, that whom the sun sets free is free indeed. 17 00:01:30.640 --> 00:01:38.640 I believe this is the season that God is setting women free from shackles that have been placed 18 00:01:38.640 --> 00:01:46.600 on them by past conditioning, by their own thinking, by the world standards, by so many 19 00:01:46.600 --> 00:01:54.560 things are causing this pressure, and to truly rise into the fullness of all God has 20 00:01:54.560 --> 00:01:55.880 created you to be. 21 00:01:55.880 --> 00:01:56.880 That's my heart. 22 00:01:56.880 --> 00:01:57.880 That's my passion. 23 00:01:57.880 --> 00:02:06.440 I live to see women equipped and empowered to prosper in all things, spiritually, physically, 24 00:02:06.440 --> 00:02:10.720 relationally, in all things, 3 John 2. 25 00:02:10.720 --> 00:02:15.160 So welcome, welcome, welcome, and the Holy Spirit, we just invite you to just flood this 26 00:02:15.160 --> 00:02:23.800 atmosphere, speak through my mouth, open our spiritual senses to hear what you are 27 00:02:23.800 --> 00:02:27.000 saying for us today. 28 00:02:27.000 --> 00:02:35.840 I call forth breakthrough, breakthrough, Lord, to stand on your word, to walk out your word, 29 00:02:35.840 --> 00:02:41.000 to feel your presence, to partner with you in all things. 30 00:02:41.000 --> 00:02:42.000 We love you. 31 00:02:42.000 --> 00:02:47.960 We welcome you in Jesus' name, amen, amen. 32 00:02:47.960 --> 00:03:02.440 So we're talking about why pressure increases when peace is dependent on external conditions. 33 00:03:02.440 --> 00:03:07.560 Now if you missed yesterday for the Power Hour, which is also part of the Prosper Leader 34 00:03:07.560 --> 00:03:13.240 Membership, do you want to go back and get that because we really covered some beautiful 35 00:03:13.240 --> 00:03:17.360 scriptural foundation for what I'm talking about today. 36 00:03:17.360 --> 00:03:21.560 So today I'm not going to go as deep into the scriptures because we spent an hour on 37 00:03:21.560 --> 00:03:24.080 that yesterday and it was beautiful. 38 00:03:24.080 --> 00:03:29.520 So if you don't have the replay for that, ask, we'll get you settled, but today we're 39 00:03:29.520 --> 00:03:38.400 talking about why does pressure increase when our peace is dependent on conditions. 40 00:03:38.400 --> 00:03:50.040 So I want you just to think about for a moment, when was the last time that you felt uncertain? 41 00:03:50.040 --> 00:03:53.640 And it might've been one minute ago, might've been 10 minutes ago, might've been yesterday 42 00:03:53.640 --> 00:03:54.640 last week. 43 00:03:54.800 --> 00:03:58.440 When was the last time you felt uncertain? 44 00:03:58.440 --> 00:04:01.560 And maybe it was a payment that was delayed. 45 00:04:01.560 --> 00:04:04.480 Maybe it was a relationship issue. 46 00:04:04.480 --> 00:04:07.400 Maybe it's a health concern. 47 00:04:07.400 --> 00:04:12.920 Maybe it's no new clients, your business isn't growing at the speed you want. 48 00:04:12.920 --> 00:04:18.180 Maybe it just feels like silence, like you don't feel like God is hearing you. 49 00:04:18.180 --> 00:04:24.600 Maybe it's an unexpected expense, right? 50 00:04:25.560 --> 00:04:32.080 Maybe it's just uncertainty, like everything's so uncertain, everything's changing so fast 51 00:04:32.080 --> 00:04:35.120 right now, you don't know what's coming next. 52 00:04:35.120 --> 00:04:39.320 So just tap into that for a second. 53 00:04:39.320 --> 00:04:41.040 What happened? 54 00:04:41.040 --> 00:04:51.520 When was the last time that you felt uncertain? 55 00:04:51.520 --> 00:04:57.320 Uncertainty, walking in certainty, and I equip faith in certainty as one of the most 56 00:04:57.320 --> 00:04:59.400 powerful ways that we can live. 57 00:05:00.000 --> 00:05:02.760 And the opposite is walking in uncertainty. 58 00:05:06.920 --> 00:05:08.320 So when was the last time? 59 00:05:10.320 --> 00:05:13.080 And now as you think about that, 60 00:05:14.800 --> 00:05:17.440 notice what happened inside of you. 61 00:05:19.080 --> 00:05:23.080 A lot of what we do today is going to be about awareness. 62 00:05:23.240 --> 00:05:27.840 I am a firm believer that awareness is the first 63 00:05:27.840 --> 00:05:29.760 step to transformation. 64 00:05:29.880 --> 00:05:32.000 We can't change what we don't see. 65 00:05:32.000 --> 00:05:35.160 We can't change what we're unaware of, what we don't know. 66 00:05:35.480 --> 00:05:38.080 And so as we become aware, 67 00:05:38.240 --> 00:05:42.920 we can activate our God-given ability to choose and our life can 68 00:05:42.920 --> 00:05:44.120 begin to change. 69 00:05:44.400 --> 00:05:48.880 So much of what I'm doing today is around awareness 70 00:05:50.000 --> 00:05:53.360 because so much of what we're doing, we're just unconsciously, 71 00:05:53.360 --> 00:05:57.360 we're just existing. We're sleepwalking. We're creatures of habit. 72 00:05:57.360 --> 00:06:02.480 We're creatures of programming and we're just living out patterns and 73 00:06:02.480 --> 00:06:05.320 we're repeating patterns, right? 74 00:06:06.000 --> 00:06:10.000 And so when you felt uncertain, a payment was delayed. 75 00:06:10.000 --> 00:06:13.800 There was relationship struggles. There was a new health issue, 76 00:06:13.800 --> 00:06:16.080 a new symptom popped up in your body. 77 00:06:16.320 --> 00:06:19.040 Your business was limping along you. 78 00:06:19.280 --> 00:06:21.920 You had an unexpected expense. 79 00:06:22.320 --> 00:06:25.400 You just have the sense of what's going to happen tomorrow. 80 00:06:25.400 --> 00:06:27.240 Can I make it through the day? 81 00:06:27.600 --> 00:06:31.000 Notice what's happening inside of you. 82 00:06:31.880 --> 00:06:34.920 Take a note for a minute. What happens? What's your pattern? 83 00:06:35.120 --> 00:06:37.000 Do your thoughts race? 84 00:06:38.040 --> 00:06:40.640 Do you become an over thinker? 85 00:06:41.520 --> 00:06:44.280 Do you get a sense of urgency? 86 00:06:45.400 --> 00:06:49.480 Does a, does a kind of panic or anxiety rise up? 87 00:06:49.520 --> 00:06:54.280 Did your breathing change? Do you get more shallow? Do you get more fast? 88 00:06:55.640 --> 00:06:59.680 Things when our nervous system is dysregulated, right? 89 00:07:00.680 --> 00:07:05.360 Or did you immediately start 90 00:07:05.360 --> 00:07:09.520 trying to fix, start trying to solve, 91 00:07:09.520 --> 00:07:14.520 start trying to control, start trying to predict, I've got to fix this. 92 00:07:14.520 --> 00:07:18.640 I've got to make it happen. I've got to control this. 93 00:07:18.640 --> 00:07:21.920 I've got to solve this. What, 94 00:07:22.680 --> 00:07:25.840 what rose up within you 95 00:07:31.200 --> 00:07:35.520 just to have an awareness 96 00:07:38.000 --> 00:07:42.480 because we've been programmed to think that 97 00:07:42.720 --> 00:07:45.080 our life is happening to us, 98 00:07:45.080 --> 00:07:49.360 that the things that are happening outside the 99 00:07:49.360 --> 00:07:50.720 circumstances, 100 00:07:50.720 --> 00:07:54.800 the conditions are what's causing 101 00:07:55.640 --> 00:07:57.240 my peace or my pressure. 102 00:07:58.360 --> 00:08:01.320 And so we think if we can just change the conditions, 103 00:08:01.320 --> 00:08:05.160 if the condition circumstances can just change, I'll have peace. 104 00:08:05.160 --> 00:08:06.000 I'll be happy. 105 00:08:08.320 --> 00:08:09.680 Okay, good. 106 00:08:10.440 --> 00:08:14.800 Christine said panic and urge to do something. 107 00:08:16.000 --> 00:08:18.240 Yeah. And if you relating to that, 108 00:08:19.880 --> 00:08:24.480 despair, shame. Oh, so far as, as nausea. 109 00:08:26.200 --> 00:08:30.400 Wow. Good. Collette's sharing anxiety. 110 00:08:34.280 --> 00:08:36.760 What happens when things feel uncertain? 111 00:08:37.919 --> 00:08:42.799 Most of us think that this pressure is coming from circumstances. 112 00:08:43.960 --> 00:08:47.080 Here's the revelation. Here's the awareness. Number one, 113 00:08:48.080 --> 00:08:50.160 y'all ready? Awareness. Number one, 114 00:08:51.840 --> 00:08:56.440 most often that pressure is revealing. 115 00:08:56.920 --> 00:09:00.080 It's a revelation for you. It's a clue 116 00:09:01.560 --> 00:09:04.800 where your sense of safety 117 00:09:06.360 --> 00:09:10.800 has become attached to circumstances attached to 118 00:09:10.800 --> 00:09:11.800 conditions. 119 00:09:11.960 --> 00:09:14.000 We have this need to feel safe. 120 00:09:15.720 --> 00:09:17.280 We want to feel safe. 121 00:09:18.800 --> 00:09:23.600 When that sense of safety is attached to something outside of 122 00:09:23.600 --> 00:09:28.480 ourselves, a certain condition happening, a certain circumstances, 123 00:09:29.360 --> 00:09:34.160 that's what the pressure is revealing so that you're going to be able to see 124 00:09:34.160 --> 00:09:37.800 it like a red light on your dashboard, red light flashing, 125 00:09:37.840 --> 00:09:40.480 where am I attaching my sense of safety? 126 00:09:43.040 --> 00:09:48.000 I haven't felt safe in forever. I can't even tell you when I felt safe. 127 00:09:48.320 --> 00:09:50.400 Okay. Good. 128 00:09:50.560 --> 00:09:53.840 Cause if it's attached to someone or something, 129 00:09:54.840 --> 00:09:56.160 you're going to feel safe. 130 00:09:57.800 --> 00:10:00.120 And if you're attached to something, 131 00:10:00.000 --> 00:10:08.360 happening outside of you, we're going to feel that. Now, I'm not 132 00:10:01.560 --> 00:10:02.760 you're going to feel safe. 133 00:10:08.360 --> 00:10:12.080 saying that we just go put ourselves in dangerous 134 00:10:12.080 --> 00:10:17.160 conditions of, you know, abuse or whatever and go, oh, la-dee-da. 135 00:10:17.160 --> 00:10:20.060 I'm not saying ignore the circumstances, don't get me 136 00:10:20.060 --> 00:10:24.800 wrong. But I am looking at the ones, like some of you said it 137 00:10:24.800 --> 00:10:30.840 in the opening. I experienced certain conditioning in Catholic 138 00:10:30.840 --> 00:10:35.260 school or parenting. And that conditioning, I then took on 139 00:10:35.260 --> 00:10:40.560 myself and made it my own pressure. Okay. I did the same 140 00:10:40.560 --> 00:10:44.600 thing. If you've read my book, I did the same thing. I call it 141 00:10:44.600 --> 00:10:49.800 the inner slave woman. If you're not familiar with my book, I 142 00:10:49.800 --> 00:10:57.520 think you'll very much enjoy it in this conversation. Show it 143 00:10:57.520 --> 00:11:01.880 here. I talk about the inner slave woman, and it's that 144 00:11:01.880 --> 00:11:06.520 conditioning became the inner slave woman that drove me. Okay, 145 00:11:06.640 --> 00:11:11.480 so I understand that. So we attach it. So here's the key 146 00:11:11.480 --> 00:11:18.160 point from this, as we keep on going. Pressure increases when 147 00:11:18.160 --> 00:11:22.920 peace becomes dependent on conditions. The more we rely on 148 00:11:24.120 --> 00:11:29.200 all the stuff outside. So think about what destabilizes your 149 00:11:29.200 --> 00:11:32.600 peace the fastest. Let's talk about this. What destabilize? 150 00:11:32.600 --> 00:11:38.920 What takes away your peace? What takes away your peace? Is it 151 00:11:38.920 --> 00:11:47.320 money? Is it uncertainty? Is it health? Is it approval? Is it 152 00:11:47.320 --> 00:11:51.400 outcomes? Is it relationships? Is it performance? Is it not 153 00:11:51.400 --> 00:11:58.000 knowing? What tends to take away your peace? What just robs your 154 00:11:58.000 --> 00:12:02.080 peace instantly? What is it? I'd love feedback. You could just 155 00:12:02.080 --> 00:12:05.920 say it, or you could put it in the chat. What tends to 156 00:12:05.920 --> 00:12:16.160 destabilize your peace the fastest? All of the above. Okay. 157 00:12:19.400 --> 00:12:28.360 Money. Okay, good. Who else? What takes away your peace? I 158 00:12:28.360 --> 00:12:34.080 grew up with that. Susie and I, I inherited that. When money was 159 00:12:34.080 --> 00:12:38.280 in the bank account, my parents were happy. Right? When money 160 00:12:38.280 --> 00:12:43.480 was down, when business was down, like the dinner table was 161 00:12:43.480 --> 00:12:48.080 not a place you wanted to hang out. Right? You know, I get it. 162 00:12:48.320 --> 00:12:52.800 And then I married into the same thing. Okay, so I get it. All 163 00:12:52.800 --> 00:12:59.840 right. So money and health. Okay. What is it that 164 00:12:59.960 --> 00:13:07.680 destabilizes your peace the fastest? Approval, performance, 165 00:13:07.680 --> 00:13:16.600 relationships, outcomes, silence, not knowing. What 166 00:13:16.600 --> 00:13:20.000 takes away your peace? Awareness is this first step of 167 00:13:20.000 --> 00:13:23.840 transformation. All of you are welcome to unmute or put it in 168 00:13:23.840 --> 00:13:27.440 the chat. Because we're going to talk about this and work 169 00:13:27.440 --> 00:13:34.720 through it powerfully. Anybody else? Is it mainly money and 170 00:13:34.720 --> 00:13:37.560 health for all of you? Or is there any ones we didn't 171 00:13:37.560 --> 00:13:38.360 mention yet? 172 00:13:39.600 --> 00:13:47.960 Okay, so I typed it out, but I didn't hit. Okay. So money very 173 00:13:47.960 --> 00:13:53.720 much. So especially right now, like, Sharon, I'm at the end of 174 00:13:53.720 --> 00:13:58.720 unemployment, I only have maybe one to two checks coming in. And 175 00:13:58.760 --> 00:14:07.920 I have a house and a special needs son to provide for. So 176 00:14:07.920 --> 00:14:15.440 I'm kind of in fight or flight 24 seven right now. Okay. And so 177 00:14:16.120 --> 00:14:21.960 in regards to money, so even though my parents have money, my 178 00:14:21.960 --> 00:14:26.080 mom is still always very much afraid clutching to everything, 179 00:14:26.320 --> 00:14:29.320 looking for everything on set, which I'm not saying it's wrong 180 00:14:29.320 --> 00:14:33.840 to steward your money properly. Sure. But always in my head, 181 00:14:33.960 --> 00:14:40.200 it's a resounding it that that her voice just echoes. Sure. And 182 00:14:40.520 --> 00:14:46.640 she just, when I was working, previously, I was a 911 183 00:14:46.640 --> 00:14:50.120 dispatcher. So it was a very good job. But it was also very 184 00:14:50.120 --> 00:14:55.480 high pressure. And, you know, 24 seven, we had to work the shift 185 00:14:55.480 --> 00:15:00.000 to work and stuff. So she said, Oh, don't lose that job. Don't 186 00:15:00.000 --> 00:15:02.280 Lose that job, don't lose that job. 187 00:15:02.280 --> 00:15:06.680 And then I did end up getting terminated 188 00:15:06.680 --> 00:15:10.600 after I sued them on a workman's comp issue. 189 00:15:10.600 --> 00:15:12.040 They weren't paying me for, 190 00:15:12.040 --> 00:15:15.160 it was clear as a bell it happened there. 191 00:15:15.160 --> 00:15:19.280 I mean, nine of us went to the ER from an incident, 192 00:15:19.280 --> 00:15:21.940 a construction accident there at work. 193 00:15:21.940 --> 00:15:23.280 So it was ridiculous. 194 00:15:23.280 --> 00:15:24.640 They were freighting me. 195 00:15:24.640 --> 00:15:29.280 Anyways, a year later after that, they canned me. 196 00:15:29.280 --> 00:15:33.880 And so my mom, I know it wasn't like her fault 197 00:15:33.880 --> 00:15:35.480 that I lost that job, right? 198 00:15:35.480 --> 00:15:38.240 But it was just always in my head, don't lose that job. 199 00:15:38.240 --> 00:15:43.240 And it's almost like it somehow comes to fruition. 200 00:15:45.120 --> 00:15:50.120 Yes, yes, out of the heart flow the issues of life. 201 00:15:50.320 --> 00:15:52.060 You know, when Job went through stuff, 202 00:15:52.060 --> 00:15:56.640 he said that which I feared most has come upon me. 203 00:15:56.640 --> 00:16:01.080 So we are gonna talk about the mind-heart-mouth connection. 204 00:16:01.080 --> 00:16:04.840 And it just happens that those of you, 205 00:16:04.840 --> 00:16:08.680 cause we have, oh, I got people trying to join the call. 206 00:16:08.680 --> 00:16:10.580 I'm just leaving them there, oops. 207 00:16:11.600 --> 00:16:16.600 And so yes, we've got in the Prosper Leader membership, 208 00:16:18.640 --> 00:16:21.400 we've got all ranks of people. 209 00:16:21.400 --> 00:16:24.700 We've got people earning six, even seven figures. 210 00:16:24.700 --> 00:16:26.380 We've got people that are homeless 211 00:16:27.120 --> 00:16:27.960 and just barely making it. 212 00:16:27.960 --> 00:16:30.380 So this message is true, 213 00:16:30.380 --> 00:16:35.340 no matter what your outward conditions are, okay? 214 00:16:35.340 --> 00:16:40.340 The fact is that it's not weakness that this sets us off 215 00:16:41.300 --> 00:16:45.660 and destabilizes us, but it's what happens naturally 216 00:16:45.660 --> 00:16:48.980 when our nervous system has learned 217 00:16:48.980 --> 00:16:53.660 to locate safety externally, okay? 218 00:16:53.660 --> 00:16:56.400 And here's the problem with this. 219 00:16:56.400 --> 00:16:58.520 Here's the big problem. 220 00:16:58.520 --> 00:17:02.000 External reality is always changing. 221 00:17:02.000 --> 00:17:04.319 The economy is always changing. 222 00:17:04.319 --> 00:17:06.000 The government's always changing. 223 00:17:06.000 --> 00:17:07.720 Money is changing. 224 00:17:07.720 --> 00:17:08.920 People are changing. 225 00:17:08.920 --> 00:17:10.720 The stock market is changing. 226 00:17:10.720 --> 00:17:12.359 Business is changing. 227 00:17:12.359 --> 00:17:14.960 My goodness, never more than right now, 228 00:17:14.960 --> 00:17:18.520 the algorithms of social media are changing 229 00:17:18.520 --> 00:17:22.119 and wreaking havoc on our businesses, right? 230 00:17:22.119 --> 00:17:24.420 And what used to work doesn't work 231 00:17:24.420 --> 00:17:28.580 and people are changing and our bodies are changing. 232 00:17:28.580 --> 00:17:32.740 And so conditions, the problem with conditions 233 00:17:32.740 --> 00:17:36.420 and circumstances is they're always changing. 234 00:17:36.420 --> 00:17:40.860 And so can you imagine you've got this shifting sand 235 00:17:42.700 --> 00:17:46.860 and we're trying to build our security 236 00:17:46.860 --> 00:17:48.940 on something that's constantly changing. 237 00:17:48.940 --> 00:17:51.820 It's a moving target, right? 238 00:17:52.400 --> 00:17:54.680 And Jesus had a lot to say about that. 239 00:17:54.680 --> 00:17:57.120 We're gonna talk about it in a minute. 240 00:17:57.120 --> 00:18:00.040 Building on a rock or building on the sand. 241 00:18:00.040 --> 00:18:01.360 But what I want you aware, 242 00:18:01.360 --> 00:18:03.740 awareness is the first step of transformation 243 00:18:03.740 --> 00:18:05.760 no matter what your situation. 244 00:18:05.760 --> 00:18:08.080 Because I have found this is the same. 245 00:18:08.080 --> 00:18:10.580 I'm doing coaching with seven-figure coaches. 246 00:18:10.580 --> 00:18:12.920 I'm doing coaching with six-figure coaches. 247 00:18:12.920 --> 00:18:14.560 I'm doing coaching with five-figure. 248 00:18:14.560 --> 00:18:17.560 I'm doing brand new that they've got zero 249 00:18:17.560 --> 00:18:19.400 and it's the same. 250 00:18:19.400 --> 00:18:21.080 Guess what? 251 00:18:21.100 --> 00:18:23.980 The seven-figure is afraid of losing it 252 00:18:23.980 --> 00:18:27.260 or the sudden dips because they built quite a team 253 00:18:27.260 --> 00:18:30.260 and they're just as scared as the one that's just starting 254 00:18:30.260 --> 00:18:31.580 and they don't know where their clients. 255 00:18:31.580 --> 00:18:33.760 So I don't want you to think that this is, 256 00:18:33.760 --> 00:18:35.820 it's exactly what we're talking about, 257 00:18:35.820 --> 00:18:38.520 that conditions change. 258 00:18:38.520 --> 00:18:41.100 I remember getting into coaching thinking 259 00:18:41.100 --> 00:18:45.540 if I can just make my first $1,000 a month, 260 00:18:45.540 --> 00:18:47.980 if I can just make my first $5,000 a month, 261 00:18:47.980 --> 00:18:50.540 if I can just make my first $10,000 a month, 262 00:18:50.880 --> 00:18:53.640 if I can just have my first $20,000 a month, 263 00:18:53.640 --> 00:18:56.080 it doesn't matter. 264 00:18:56.080 --> 00:18:58.660 When the point I want you to get is that 265 00:18:58.660 --> 00:19:03.660 when we built our piece on these external conditions, 266 00:19:04.600 --> 00:19:06.640 then our inner world, 267 00:19:08.040 --> 00:19:10.680 our thoughts, our feelings, our emotions, our health, 268 00:19:10.680 --> 00:19:13.880 our inner world constantly feels unstable. 269 00:19:13.880 --> 00:19:15.400 Does that make sense? 270 00:19:15.400 --> 00:19:16.760 Is that resonating? 271 00:19:17.760 --> 00:19:22.540 So we have this pressure loop. 272 00:19:22.540 --> 00:19:25.940 Let me show the screen really quick. 273 00:19:25.940 --> 00:19:27.580 I wanna show you something. 274 00:19:30.740 --> 00:19:33.700 As soon as this shares. 275 00:19:33.700 --> 00:19:38.700 Okay, we have this pressure loop, okay? 276 00:19:40.000 --> 00:19:43.220 And the pressure loop is that 277 00:19:43.220 --> 00:19:45.740 we have this external uncertainty, 278 00:19:45.760 --> 00:19:47.820 something outside of us changes. 279 00:19:47.820 --> 00:19:50.640 The finances change, the relationship change, 280 00:19:50.640 --> 00:19:53.840 the government change, the housing changes, 281 00:19:53.840 --> 00:19:55.600 the job changes, the boss changes. 282 00:19:55.600 --> 00:19:58.600 We got this external uncertainty, 283 00:19:58.600 --> 00:20:00.120 and then we feel this. 284 00:20:00.000 --> 00:20:09.040 internal instability. So we start to feel fear and a sense of urgency. So we feel the need to react 285 00:20:09.040 --> 00:20:13.920 and control. We've got to solve this. We've got to fix this. We've got to do something right away. 286 00:20:13.920 --> 00:20:19.600 I've got to get clients. I've got to get money. I've got to get and we get and we get and we get 287 00:20:19.600 --> 00:20:26.400 and we get and we get until we start feeling incredible exhaustion. And we often disconnect. 288 00:20:26.400 --> 00:20:33.360 We feel hopeless and despair and many of you mentioned shame or guilt or we just hopelessness 289 00:20:33.360 --> 00:20:39.840 or whatever and of course we disconnect. We stop showing up. We stop doing the thing that builds 290 00:20:39.840 --> 00:20:50.240 and we feel even more pressure. This is the pressure loop and this is why we've got a 291 00:20:50.240 --> 00:20:59.280 condition right now where women are absolutely overworking like crazy overworking. It's not 292 00:20:59.280 --> 00:21:06.160 uncommon for them to tell me they're working 40, 50, 60, 70 hours a week and they're overthinking. 293 00:21:06.160 --> 00:21:11.840 They can't shut it down. They go to sleep and they can't shut it down and so they start doom 294 00:21:11.840 --> 00:21:19.120 scrolling or they over consume information or they emotionally spiral or they panic or they 295 00:21:19.120 --> 00:21:25.840 struggle to sleep or to rest or they stop having clarity. They think they're not hearing from 296 00:21:26.400 --> 00:21:33.920 God because we're in the fight or flight. We're in the sympathetic nervous system. We're in the 297 00:21:33.920 --> 00:21:43.600 survival mode and this narrows. Remember fear constricts and contracts in our body. It contracts 298 00:21:43.600 --> 00:21:50.400 in our brain. We move from creativity into survival. Our blood flow everything goes into 299 00:21:50.400 --> 00:21:58.080 the center. We're not in a creative proactive mode. Everything starts shrinking. We talked 300 00:21:58.080 --> 00:22:06.480 about the sponge that we squeeze and so when the nervous system feels unsafe it starts becoming 301 00:22:06.480 --> 00:22:13.600 reactive. So I want you to remember reaction. Okay let's just put it this way. Let's make 302 00:22:14.320 --> 00:22:21.760 general statement. Everything you do, everything you say, everything you think is either driven by 303 00:22:21.760 --> 00:22:29.520 fear or faith and under faith I would put love, peace, joy, all the fruits of the spirit. We're 304 00:22:29.520 --> 00:22:37.280 either driven like that thought is either fear-based or love-based. Fear-based or faith-based. 305 00:22:37.280 --> 00:22:43.280 Are you following me? There's two tracks. It's like those monorails goes two directions and we're 306 00:22:43.280 --> 00:22:50.560 always choosing and we're acting on fear or we're acting on love. We're speaking fear or we're 307 00:22:50.560 --> 00:22:58.880 speaking love. You've got to always just be aware of what track are you on and so when you're reacting 308 00:23:00.000 --> 00:23:06.960 then it's fear-driven. You can know you're on that monorail. When you're discerning and you're 309 00:23:06.960 --> 00:23:14.480 hearing the voice of God and you're feeling that's peace-led. That's faith-led. Okay so if you remember 310 00:23:14.480 --> 00:23:22.000 the scripture in Matthew 7 and I went back and and read it today when Jesus was talking about 311 00:23:22.000 --> 00:23:28.960 building on his word and he talked about two conditions. One was building on sand, two 312 00:23:28.960 --> 00:23:35.360 foundations. One was building on sand and one was building on a rock. They're building a house 313 00:23:36.080 --> 00:23:44.640 so they're both building houses. Both of them. One's building it on sand and one's building on 314 00:23:44.640 --> 00:23:52.800 the rock. This is in Matthew 7. You can read it later today. The storm hits both houses. 315 00:23:54.160 --> 00:24:01.920 The rain, the torrents, the winds, all that is described in the storm. The storm hit both houses. 316 00:24:02.960 --> 00:24:09.120 Understand that storms are part of nature. Storms are part of life. Storms are going to hit 317 00:24:09.280 --> 00:24:15.920 and I don't care how much money you have, how big a house you live in, how good looking your 318 00:24:15.920 --> 00:24:24.000 husband is or whatever else, right? How perfect of a body you have. Storms are going to hit all of us. 319 00:24:25.280 --> 00:24:31.920 Okay so storm hit both houses. The difference was the foundation. 320 00:24:32.080 --> 00:24:40.080 What are we building our house on? We've got to constantly ask that. What am I building on right 321 00:24:40.080 --> 00:24:47.760 now? What am I building on? I want you just to like let this get in you for just a second. 322 00:24:48.400 --> 00:24:54.320 Okay who loves the beach? I'm such a beach girl. I'm such a water girl. Okay put me in your water. 323 00:24:54.320 --> 00:24:59.760 I'm in my happy place. I you know I can't tell you how happy I am. 324 00:25:00.000 --> 00:25:07.040 I get when I get on the water. Any of you water girls here? Okay. And so just picture yourself 325 00:25:07.040 --> 00:25:16.000 for a moment. And you're at the beach, and you're barefoot. Just feel that sand underneath your feet. 326 00:25:16.800 --> 00:25:22.880 Maybe it's a little cool. And just I love the feeling of the sand on my feet. It's such a good 327 00:25:22.880 --> 00:25:31.440 feeling. I love it. And you're standing there, and the child in you comes up, and you start 328 00:25:31.440 --> 00:25:37.760 building a little sandcastle. And so you started just building it. You had a little container, 329 00:25:37.760 --> 00:25:41.600 and you could take that little container that you found, and you could kind of stack it up, 330 00:25:41.600 --> 00:25:46.560 and you built this little sandcastle. And you're feeling pretty proud of yourself. You forgot how 331 00:25:46.560 --> 00:25:51.600 artistic you are. Like, do you see your sandcastle? You got your feet there in the sand, 332 00:25:51.600 --> 00:26:00.880 and you got this sandcastle. And then the storm comes, the wave comes. What happens to that 333 00:26:00.880 --> 00:26:15.360 sandcastle? Reminds like a lot of our life. Now, I want you to picture you're on that same coast, 334 00:26:16.240 --> 00:26:26.160 and you're standing on a solid rock. We've got big rocks in the northern California coast. 335 00:26:28.160 --> 00:26:36.240 And the wave hits, and it splashes all around you, and everything around shifts. 336 00:26:36.800 --> 00:26:48.080 But not you. You're standing on the rock. This is what Jesus was teaching. This is 337 00:26:48.640 --> 00:26:55.600 what this course is about. Moving from building from pressure to building partnership. Partnership 338 00:26:55.600 --> 00:27:02.880 is that rock. Partnership is knowing who you are, your identity in Christ. Partnership is knowing 339 00:27:03.760 --> 00:27:10.000 that you're one with God, and having this communion, the vine and the branches communion. 340 00:27:10.000 --> 00:27:16.080 Partnership is hearing the voice of God. Partnership is a sense of certainty, of knowing 341 00:27:16.080 --> 00:27:25.920 that no matter what the storm is, you're okay. And this is what we're moving to. And if I apply this 342 00:27:25.920 --> 00:27:36.800 if I apply this to business, okay, outside in, let's make this very, very practical and very, 343 00:27:36.800 --> 00:27:44.640 very real. Outside in business looks like panic posting. I'm going to post ads everywhere. I'm 344 00:27:44.640 --> 00:27:51.120 going to just try to get some business. Outside in looks like reacting emotionally, trying to 345 00:27:51.120 --> 00:27:58.720 force clients, trying to, you know, gel up. It looks like inconsistency. It looks like comparing. 346 00:27:58.720 --> 00:28:05.440 It looks like trying to force outcomes, right? Manipulation. It looks like overworking, and 347 00:28:05.440 --> 00:28:12.240 it looks like chasing trends, chasing gurus, changing the way that you build your business 348 00:28:12.240 --> 00:28:19.920 every five minutes. Fear-based decisions. That's outside in business. 349 00:28:22.000 --> 00:28:29.600 Partnership business. Partnership-based business building. When God is our partner, 350 00:28:31.360 --> 00:28:37.440 it looks like discernment. God talked to me about this situation. 351 00:28:38.400 --> 00:28:43.600 In Gate 1, we talked about your morning spiritual practice as the foundation. If you miss Gate 1, 352 00:28:43.600 --> 00:28:50.080 go back and listen to last week's. We laid the foundation of the morning spiritual practice. 353 00:28:51.360 --> 00:28:57.760 The role of hearing from God. I taught you a way of journaling, and you guys got to do that with my 354 00:28:58.720 --> 00:29:06.240 purple pen, pink pen method. Hearing the voice of God for your business. 355 00:29:06.240 --> 00:29:12.240 We talked about breathing and restoring peace. We'll do some more of that today. 356 00:29:14.000 --> 00:29:22.320 We talked about clarity, and we talked about building relational connection. 357 00:29:23.280 --> 00:29:33.680 We talked about aligned action. We talked about peace with movement, and so this awareness that 358 00:29:33.680 --> 00:29:38.720 you're getting today is learning to ask questions. Is this fear-based, or is this faith and love 359 00:29:38.720 --> 00:29:48.720 based? Before posting, am I reacting, or am I responding? Am I reacting, or am I responding? 360 00:29:49.680 --> 00:29:55.120 Am I driven by fear, or am I driven by faith and discernment? Am I following the last thing 361 00:29:55.120 --> 00:29:59.920 that God told me to do? Am I moved? Those that are led by the 362 00:30:00.000 --> 00:30:02.440 The Holy Spirit are the sons and daughters of God. 363 00:30:02.440 --> 00:30:05.200 Am I being led by the Holy Spirit 364 00:30:05.200 --> 00:30:13.200 or am I being driven by fear, doubt, lack, uncertainty? 365 00:30:13.200 --> 00:30:16.800 Before overworking, am I building from pressure 366 00:30:16.800 --> 00:30:19.800 or am I building from partnership? 367 00:30:19.800 --> 00:30:21.360 Here's the key. 368 00:30:21.360 --> 00:30:26.040 You do not create your best work from survival mode. 369 00:30:26.040 --> 00:30:30.160 How many of you figured that out? 370 00:30:30.160 --> 00:30:32.520 When you're in survival mode, it's not your best work. 371 00:30:32.520 --> 00:30:34.680 It's not your most creative work. 372 00:30:34.680 --> 00:30:39.840 It's not the masterpieces you're so proud of. 373 00:30:39.840 --> 00:30:45.080 So when pressure rises, the money, the busyness, 374 00:30:45.080 --> 00:30:48.280 the information, the people pleasing, the avoidance, 375 00:30:48.280 --> 00:30:55.960 all of that, take a look at what's happening in your body. 376 00:30:55.960 --> 00:30:59.920 And then go back to what we learned last week. 377 00:30:59.920 --> 00:31:01.520 Put your hand on your heart. 378 00:31:05.880 --> 00:31:11.560 Jesus said, I am the vine. 379 00:31:11.560 --> 00:31:12.600 You are the branches. 380 00:31:15.520 --> 00:31:18.160 Abide in me. 381 00:31:18.160 --> 00:31:33.400 Scripture says, Christ in me, the hope of glory. 382 00:31:38.520 --> 00:31:42.520 So take a breath and first just come to the awareness. 383 00:31:42.520 --> 00:31:43.160 Wait a minute. 384 00:31:43.160 --> 00:31:43.720 Wait a minute. 385 00:31:43.720 --> 00:31:45.400 I understand I'm feeling pressure. 386 00:31:45.400 --> 00:31:47.840 I'm looking at the outside. 387 00:31:48.520 --> 00:31:51.840 I'm having an external locus of control, 388 00:31:51.840 --> 00:31:53.880 thinking that outside can solve it. 389 00:31:53.880 --> 00:31:56.920 If I can just get money, if I can just get clients, 390 00:31:56.920 --> 00:32:01.800 if I can just get customers, if I can just get a man, 391 00:32:01.800 --> 00:32:04.240 then I'll be happy, healthy, prosperous. 392 00:32:04.240 --> 00:32:07.480 We're on the sand. 393 00:32:07.480 --> 00:32:10.520 So awareness, we switch it. 394 00:32:10.520 --> 00:32:16.600 And we start to remember the word of God 395 00:32:16.600 --> 00:32:22.320 that peace was a gift from Jesus and given to me. 396 00:32:22.320 --> 00:32:25.040 Peace is within. 397 00:32:25.040 --> 00:32:27.000 It's actually a frequency. 398 00:32:27.000 --> 00:32:29.320 That's a whole other subject within us. 399 00:32:29.320 --> 00:32:32.360 Wisdom is within. 400 00:32:32.360 --> 00:32:35.400 Peace is within. 401 00:32:35.400 --> 00:32:39.760 So I don't have to abandon my peace to regain control. 402 00:32:40.120 --> 00:32:44.920 And so we start operating not on the world system. 403 00:32:44.920 --> 00:32:48.680 We start operating on a kingdom, a kingdom mindset. 404 00:32:48.680 --> 00:32:50.160 Jesus shocked them. 405 00:32:50.160 --> 00:32:52.120 They want to build an external kingdom. 406 00:32:52.120 --> 00:32:54.720 And he said, the kingdom of God is within you. 407 00:32:54.720 --> 00:32:56.800 Can you imagine the shock? 408 00:32:56.800 --> 00:33:01.320 The kingdom of God is within you. 409 00:33:01.320 --> 00:33:04.080 This was the change between the Old Testament 410 00:33:04.080 --> 00:33:05.680 and the New Testament. 411 00:33:05.680 --> 00:33:08.160 If you know instruction, you know 412 00:33:08.640 --> 00:33:11.320 If you know in scripture, the Old Testament, 413 00:33:11.320 --> 00:33:14.840 the Old Covenant had rituals and works. 414 00:33:14.840 --> 00:33:16.480 You could take this many steps. 415 00:33:16.480 --> 00:33:19.120 You could build a fire on these days. 416 00:33:19.120 --> 00:33:21.240 You could work on these days. 417 00:33:21.240 --> 00:33:24.720 You could eat these foods like it was an external. 418 00:33:24.720 --> 00:33:26.320 And the Holy Spirit would come on you 419 00:33:26.320 --> 00:33:31.160 from the outside in the New Testament after Christ. 420 00:33:31.160 --> 00:33:33.040 Christ in me, the hope of glory. 421 00:33:33.040 --> 00:33:37.400 And once Christ went back, the Holy Spirit in me. 422 00:33:37.440 --> 00:33:39.880 I'm the temple of the Holy Spirit. 423 00:33:39.880 --> 00:33:43.640 It's within, out of the heart flows the issues of life. 424 00:33:44.640 --> 00:33:46.720 So we're learning now to move 425 00:33:46.720 --> 00:33:49.320 from the world system of external control. 426 00:33:49.320 --> 00:33:50.760 If I have a big enough house, 427 00:33:50.760 --> 00:33:52.320 if I have a big enough business, 428 00:33:52.320 --> 00:33:54.160 if I have enough money in the bank, 429 00:33:54.160 --> 00:33:56.080 if I have a good looking husband, 430 00:33:56.080 --> 00:33:58.920 if I have external locus of control 431 00:33:58.920 --> 00:34:02.360 into an internal locus of control. 432 00:34:02.360 --> 00:34:05.680 And I'm tuned in and tapped into that. 433 00:34:07.800 --> 00:34:12.239 So that it becomes presence first. 434 00:34:13.520 --> 00:34:17.719 If we were looking at the board I created, presence first. 435 00:34:17.719 --> 00:34:20.360 And that presence from that presence of God, 436 00:34:20.360 --> 00:34:24.880 from the awareness of God's presence in me comes peace. 437 00:34:24.880 --> 00:34:28.880 And from that peaceful place comes discernment. 438 00:34:28.880 --> 00:34:30.000 Some of you need to see it. 439 00:34:30.000 --> 00:34:32.080 Let me share the screen again real quick. 440 00:34:33.159 --> 00:34:34.719 I'm sorry, I'm getting to preaching 441 00:34:34.719 --> 00:34:36.480 and we're gonna do some more interacting. 442 00:34:36.520 --> 00:34:39.239 I just get excited about this 443 00:34:39.239 --> 00:34:40.800 because I see the transformation. 444 00:34:40.800 --> 00:34:43.840 When I got this, my life changed. 445 00:34:43.840 --> 00:34:45.199 When you get this, 446 00:34:45.199 --> 00:34:47.560 I promise your life is completely different. 447 00:34:47.560 --> 00:34:50.440 So we're coming from a place of presence. 448 00:34:50.440 --> 00:34:52.400 God, thank you that you said 449 00:34:52.400 --> 00:34:54.040 I'm the temple of the Holy Spirit. 450 00:34:54.040 --> 00:34:56.520 Thank you for your presence. 451 00:34:56.520 --> 00:34:59.600 Thank you, Christ in me, the hope of glory. 452 00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:08.000 Thank you, I have the mind of Christ. Presence first, so that peace emerges from that. Because 453 00:35:08.000 --> 00:35:14.720 if I have God in me, I have peace in me, which can now lead me to have the mind of Christ, 454 00:35:14.720 --> 00:35:24.560 which is discernment, which can lead me to take aligned action. Aligned action. 455 00:35:24.560 --> 00:35:37.200 Okay? And so, this is why Jesus could sleep in the storms. This is why Paul could worship in 456 00:35:37.200 --> 00:35:44.400 prison. It's not denial. I'm not saying the circumstances are not there or they're fun. 457 00:35:44.400 --> 00:35:52.960 I have faced extraordinary circumstances. You're looking at a woman that is a product 458 00:35:52.960 --> 00:36:00.160 of a bipolar drug-addicted mother, a sexual predator father, emotionally abusive. Okay, 459 00:36:00.160 --> 00:36:05.520 I understand conditions. I know what it is to move in an empty house and not know where the 460 00:36:05.520 --> 00:36:11.360 next dime is going to come from. I didn't come from money. I know what it is to lose everything. 461 00:36:11.360 --> 00:36:20.240 So, I'm not talking Pollyanna, sisters. It feels real. But there's something more real than the 462 00:36:20.240 --> 00:36:30.240 real that you're seeing through your five senses. It's not denial. It's authority. It's internal 463 00:36:30.240 --> 00:36:42.240 authority. So, partnership begins when your inner world is no longer enslaved to external conditions. 464 00:36:42.800 --> 00:36:48.960 When you're external, you've got freedom. You've got partnership. When what you see is not defining 465 00:36:48.960 --> 00:36:53.920 your peace, what you're experiencing in the external world, I don't care what your bank 466 00:36:53.920 --> 00:37:04.800 account has or what the doctor's statement says, your peace, your inner world, your nervous system 467 00:37:04.800 --> 00:37:12.160 regulation is no longer enslaved to external conditions. Is this making sense? Am I talking 468 00:37:12.160 --> 00:37:16.640 where you live? Are you picking up what I'm putting down? Give me a note in the chat. 469 00:37:17.600 --> 00:37:21.920 Are you picking up what I'm putting down? That was some heavy teaching, 470 00:37:21.920 --> 00:37:27.680 but that awareness is the foundation of where we're going to go and what can completely change 471 00:37:27.680 --> 00:37:34.880 how you build. It completely changes how you're operating moment by moment. 472 00:37:37.600 --> 00:37:43.280 Okay, Sharon. Yes. Thank you, Colette. It's fantastic. Keep going. Okay. Picking it up. 473 00:37:43.280 --> 00:37:47.920 Natalie says, good morning, sister. I didn't say good morning to you yet. Okay. 474 00:37:52.000 --> 00:37:56.160 So, I want you to think really quick. We talked about this. 475 00:37:56.160 --> 00:38:00.800 When uncertainty rises, where do you instinctively go for safety? 476 00:38:04.400 --> 00:38:11.840 Where do you instinctively go for safety? So, here's the key. The goal is not controlling the 477 00:38:11.920 --> 00:38:23.360 storm. The goal is not controlling the storm. It's becoming anchored deeper than the storm. 478 00:38:25.360 --> 00:38:29.600 Becoming anchored deeper than the storm. 479 00:38:33.120 --> 00:38:41.440 So, yesterday, we really dug deep into Ephesians 3, 16 to 19 in the power hour. 480 00:38:41.840 --> 00:38:45.600 If you didn't listen, go back and listen to that. It's all part of the 481 00:38:45.600 --> 00:38:50.720 Prosper Leader membership. We're building on that foundation today. 482 00:38:53.440 --> 00:39:00.480 But I want to remind you quickly before we do some exercises and really apply this. 483 00:39:03.200 --> 00:39:09.120 Picking it up in the amplified translation in case you missed yesterday. This was Paul's prayer. 484 00:39:10.000 --> 00:39:20.160 This becomes our prayer. May he grant you, Christine, Natalie, Sharon, Susie, Stacey, 485 00:39:20.800 --> 00:39:30.400 may he grant you, out of the rich treasury of his glory, that's the source, 486 00:39:30.960 --> 00:39:44.640 to be strengthened and reinforced with mighty power. Where? In the inner man. 487 00:39:47.360 --> 00:39:52.480 By the Holy Spirit himself indwelling in your innermost being and personality. 488 00:39:52.480 --> 00:39:59.120 Do you see that biblically we must learn to operate inside ourselves? 489 00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:07.600 out. We've got to stop doing the world's plan of operating outside in. Verse 17, 490 00:40:07.600 --> 00:40:15.880 may Christ through your faith actually dwell, settle down, abide, make his 491 00:40:15.880 --> 00:40:25.880 permanent home where? In your hearts. Then may you be rooted deep in love and 492 00:40:25.880 --> 00:40:35.280 founded securely on love. 18, that you may have the power and be strong to 493 00:40:35.280 --> 00:40:46.480 apprehend and grasp the experience of the love. It's breadth, it's length, it's 494 00:40:46.480 --> 00:40:57.240 height, it's depth. And here's the outcome, that you may really come to know. Not head 495 00:40:57.240 --> 00:41:02.120 knowledge, not that was a good sermon knowledge, that you may really come to 496 00:41:02.120 --> 00:41:07.560 know. The Amplified says practically through experience for yourself. What I'm 497 00:41:07.560 --> 00:41:13.080 sharing today is just theory until you experience it for yourself. You have the 498 00:41:13.080 --> 00:41:20.080 opportunity today. It says experience practically through yourselves the love 499 00:41:20.080 --> 00:41:27.320 of Christ which far surpasses mere knowledge without experience. Look at the 500 00:41:27.320 --> 00:41:35.320 result, that you may be filled through all your being, having the fullness of 501 00:41:35.320 --> 00:41:47.440 God, the richest measure of divine presence, that you become a body wholly 502 00:41:47.440 --> 00:41:57.440 filled and flooded with God himself. If that's not a description of partnership, 503 00:41:57.440 --> 00:42:03.840 I'm a body. I'm going through motions, I'm making calls, I'm getting clients, I'm 504 00:42:03.840 --> 00:42:13.880 coaching, but I'm wholly filled with God. So that it becomes God live through me, 505 00:42:13.880 --> 00:42:20.200 God coach through me, God teach through me, God serve through me, God love through 506 00:42:20.200 --> 00:42:31.240 me. And so the shift, and by the way we haven't talked about the mouth, we've 507 00:42:31.240 --> 00:42:35.680 started talking a little bit about the mind, and we're talking about the heart a 508 00:42:35.680 --> 00:42:41.400 lot right now, where it all starts, okay? We haven't talked about the mouth. It's 509 00:42:41.400 --> 00:42:45.680 for another time, but you've got to stand guard at the door of your mouth, that 510 00:42:45.680 --> 00:42:53.440 what you're speaking is not counteracting and negating your prayers. 511 00:42:53.440 --> 00:42:58.800 So you pray, God thank you that you supply all my needs according to your 512 00:42:58.800 --> 00:43:03.000 riches. Thank you that you are my shepherd, I shall not lack. Like you're 513 00:43:03.000 --> 00:43:07.240 praying those prayers, and you're declaring it. Now don't go out and tell 514 00:43:07.240 --> 00:43:12.240 people how broke you are. Don't spend all your time focusing, thinking, meditating 515 00:43:12.240 --> 00:43:16.000 on your circumstances, telling everyone your circumstances, writing about your 516 00:43:16.000 --> 00:43:19.560 circumstances, talking about your conditions. Stop giving power to 517 00:43:19.560 --> 00:43:25.120 conditions, and give power to Christ in you. So no matter what your eyes see, 518 00:43:25.280 --> 00:43:30.880 because I'm telling you the inside comes first, and you don't see it. I plant a 519 00:43:30.880 --> 00:43:37.160 seed in the ground, any of you gardeners, I don't see the roots going deep. I don't 520 00:43:37.160 --> 00:43:41.680 see the stem trying to break through the ground. It looks like nothing is 521 00:43:41.680 --> 00:43:47.960 happening. Same, you're planting new seeds in your heart. Initially it's going to 522 00:43:47.960 --> 00:43:52.280 look like it's not working. You're going to be challenged. Your bank account is 523 00:43:52.280 --> 00:43:56.040 going to scare you perhaps. Some of you, your bank account scares you because 524 00:43:56.040 --> 00:43:59.720 it's so full that you're afraid you're going to lose it. Some of you it scares 525 00:43:59.720 --> 00:44:05.160 you it's so empty. I see it across the boards. I'll never forget as a young 526 00:44:05.160 --> 00:44:10.920 woman, I was in my 20s, and I was mentoring a 40-something multimillionaire, 527 00:44:10.920 --> 00:44:17.200 and I was mentoring him, and he owned hotel chains all across California. I 528 00:44:17.200 --> 00:44:21.880 went to his mansion on the golf course. I'm in my late 20s, and I'm mentoring 529 00:44:21.880 --> 00:44:26.920 this man, and he said something about being broke, and my jaw fell to the 530 00:44:26.920 --> 00:44:32.760 ground. I'm looking around. How can you be broke? And he looked at me, and he said 531 00:44:32.760 --> 00:44:37.240 something I've never forgotten. He said, Brenda, we're just all broke on a 532 00:44:37.240 --> 00:44:43.240 different level. You know what he was communicating? He was communicating that 533 00:44:43.240 --> 00:44:53.680 broke is a mindset, because you and I are living wealthier than kings lived in 534 00:44:53.680 --> 00:44:59.440 the past. Most of us have access to running water, hot water no less, that we 535 00:44:59.440 --> 00:45:01.960 can leisurely... 536 00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:07.040 really stand in a shower, most of us have access to a roof over our head, most of us are not eating 537 00:45:07.040 --> 00:45:15.200 sand to get our stomach to stop hurting, and we're picking up and on one device we're taking pictures, 538 00:45:15.200 --> 00:45:23.040 listening to music, sending messages, checking social media, using a computer, using AI, like 539 00:45:23.040 --> 00:45:28.720 we live like kings would have dreamt to live how we live, and yet we feel more broken, more 540 00:45:28.720 --> 00:45:38.640 dissatisfied than anyone in history. What is up? Broke is a mindset, that just came out of 541 00:45:39.360 --> 00:45:44.640 out of the spirit, that's not in my notes, hopefully you got this. Okay, 542 00:45:46.080 --> 00:45:54.640 the world system is conditions first, peace second. So think about sentences that you're saying, 543 00:45:54.640 --> 00:46:13.120 I'll relax when, finish that sentence, I'll relax when, I'll feel safe when, I'll breathe when. 544 00:46:14.960 --> 00:46:20.080 Now if we're operating in the world system, not the kingdom system, and you finish those sentences, 545 00:46:20.080 --> 00:46:34.480 grab this, peace stays postponed. It's always out there somewhere, love, peace, joy, all the stuff we want, 546 00:46:34.480 --> 00:46:39.120 it's the carrot and the stick, it's always out in front of us, out in front of us, 547 00:46:39.920 --> 00:46:44.800 peace stays postponed, because it's dependent on external conditions. 548 00:46:45.120 --> 00:46:49.120 That's not the kingdom way. 549 00:46:51.840 --> 00:46:57.600 So today was about awareness, and it was about becoming anchored, 550 00:46:59.280 --> 00:47:04.480 because women, and I did far more teaching than we're going to do in most of them, most of it's 551 00:47:04.480 --> 00:47:09.360 going to be a lot of experience and immersion, but I felt like I needed to lay this foundation. 552 00:47:09.840 --> 00:47:13.200 Hopefully it doesn't feel like too much teaching to you. 553 00:47:14.080 --> 00:47:21.280 Was this teaching laying a foundation for you? Because I know, I repent, I got in my teacher mode. 554 00:47:22.720 --> 00:47:28.560 I know, but this is what the Lord is speaking right now. If we don't get this, we can't move forward 555 00:47:29.600 --> 00:47:33.920 doing what God's called us to do, sisters. We got to break out of this mold. 556 00:47:34.880 --> 00:47:37.040 We got to break out of this mold, sisters. 557 00:47:38.320 --> 00:47:42.640 So this morning is not about becoming passive, it's about becoming anchored, 558 00:47:44.240 --> 00:47:49.840 because when you are internally anchored, when you're coming from that internal locus of control, 559 00:47:50.640 --> 00:47:53.040 you can be still and know that he is God. 560 00:47:54.880 --> 00:48:00.000 You can do what I taught last week, that we experienced together that morning spiritual 561 00:48:00.000 --> 00:48:11.280 practice. So you can hear clearly what God has for you. His mercies are new every morning. 562 00:48:12.720 --> 00:48:19.360 Did you discover his mercies today? Isaiah says he's doing a new thing. 563 00:48:20.960 --> 00:48:28.640 Are you aware of the new thing? He's going to make rivers in the desert. Are you aware of the rivers? 564 00:48:28.640 --> 00:48:35.840 We can hear. When we're coming from this internal, we can hear more clearly, and then we can discern 565 00:48:36.400 --> 00:48:42.960 more wisely. Is this the right time? Is this the right season? Is this the right, 566 00:48:44.240 --> 00:48:51.040 etc., etc., so that we can lead more powerfully? 567 00:48:51.360 --> 00:48:56.960 God's calling you to lead. You cannot lead from fear. You cannot lead from reaction. 568 00:48:58.160 --> 00:49:03.840 You can't even lead yourself from that place, let alone other people. So many of you have a vision, 569 00:49:03.840 --> 00:49:08.640 and you've seen yourself leading multitudes. God has called you to lead. 570 00:49:08.640 --> 00:49:13.920 You cannot lead from the world system. It's sand. It's constantly torn down. 571 00:49:13.920 --> 00:49:25.040 You can lead more powerfully, and you can build more sustainably. 572 00:49:28.640 --> 00:49:32.240 You're not exhausting yourself. You're not burning out your adrenal glands. You're not 573 00:49:32.240 --> 00:49:41.920 living constantly in nervous system dysregulation. You can rest. You can enjoy. You can dance. 574 00:49:42.480 --> 00:49:48.400 You can experience this greater peace. And so pressure says, it all depends on me. 575 00:49:48.960 --> 00:49:55.360 Partnership says, I'm led. I'm supported. I'm connected. 576 00:49:58.560 --> 00:49:59.360 So 577 00:50:00.000 --> 00:50:11.840 So if you remember the success formula that I've given you, 578 00:50:11.840 --> 00:50:13.360 I'll put it in the chat. 579 00:50:13.360 --> 00:50:29.400 It's mindset plus skill set plus right action equals results. 580 00:50:29.400 --> 00:50:31.480 Take a look at that. 581 00:50:31.480 --> 00:50:38.680 Mindset plus skill set plus right action equals results. 582 00:50:38.680 --> 00:50:43.200 Everything on the left side is determining the right side. 583 00:50:43.200 --> 00:50:47.400 If your results are not where you desire them to be, 584 00:50:47.400 --> 00:50:50.800 your internal results of love, joy, peace 585 00:50:50.800 --> 00:50:54.480 that we've talked about today, and your external results 586 00:50:54.480 --> 00:51:00.160 of abundance, prosperity, and all that you're creating, 587 00:51:00.160 --> 00:51:04.440 if the result is not there, one or all of those three things 588 00:51:04.440 --> 00:51:05.360 is off. 589 00:51:05.360 --> 00:51:07.840 Today, we focus a lot on mindset. 590 00:51:07.840 --> 00:51:09.120 We're going to cover skill set. 591 00:51:09.120 --> 00:51:12.600 We're going to cover action. 592 00:51:12.600 --> 00:51:15.280 We talked today about the mindset that's keeping 593 00:51:15.280 --> 00:51:16.920 almost everybody stuck. 594 00:51:16.920 --> 00:51:19.240 Most of the women, this was born out 595 00:51:19.240 --> 00:51:22.000 of me talking to hundreds and hundreds of women 596 00:51:22.000 --> 00:51:26.280 who are dysregulated in their nervous system, who 597 00:51:26.280 --> 00:51:30.320 are in a panic, who are in fear, who 598 00:51:30.320 --> 00:51:33.440 feel like they're suddenly not hearing from God, 599 00:51:33.440 --> 00:51:37.120 who are finding that their efforts are not working. 600 00:51:37.120 --> 00:51:39.200 So this is the mindset side. 601 00:51:39.200 --> 00:51:42.120 There is a skill set side. 602 00:51:42.120 --> 00:51:45.400 And there is a right action. 603 00:51:45.400 --> 00:51:51.120 And all of that has to begin with clarity. 604 00:51:51.120 --> 00:51:53.440 If you're looking, well, what do I do next? 605 00:51:53.440 --> 00:51:57.800 How do I really put this in place? 606 00:51:57.800 --> 00:51:58.600 OK. 607 00:51:58.600 --> 00:52:03.400 Everything that we're talking about today is included. 608 00:52:03.400 --> 00:52:09.200 Everything is included in the Prosper Leader membership. 609 00:52:09.200 --> 00:52:11.040 That's the link to that. 610 00:52:11.040 --> 00:52:15.520 If you don't have that, you want to be a Prosper Leader member. 611 00:52:15.520 --> 00:52:16.440 Why? 612 00:52:16.440 --> 00:52:17.720 It's heaven and earth. 613 00:52:17.720 --> 00:52:20.360 Wednesday, it's our time to pray for each other, 614 00:52:20.360 --> 00:52:21.880 to have mountain-moving prayers. 615 00:52:21.880 --> 00:52:26.360 And it's our time to dive into a promise for the week. 616 00:52:26.360 --> 00:52:30.800 Thursdays, we're doing this at 8 AM. 617 00:52:30.800 --> 00:52:32.960 8 AM Wednesdays, power hour. 618 00:52:32.960 --> 00:52:37.080 8 AM Thursdays, we're moving from pressure to partnership. 619 00:52:37.080 --> 00:52:40.200 You're going to leave a 12-week immersion feeling 620 00:52:40.200 --> 00:52:44.240 partnered with God, operating on all 621 00:52:44.240 --> 00:52:47.400 that God has created for you to have a powerful partnership, 622 00:52:47.400 --> 00:52:48.560 no longer from pressure. 623 00:52:48.560 --> 00:52:50.440 Pressure will no longer be part of what you're 624 00:52:50.440 --> 00:52:53.040 doing after these 12 weeks. 625 00:52:53.040 --> 00:52:56.040 And then we go, right after this, 626 00:52:56.040 --> 00:53:02.280 we go into office hours at 9 AM, which is like one minute away. 627 00:53:02.280 --> 00:53:05.880 That's where we strategically work on your business. 628 00:53:05.880 --> 00:53:10.920 Now, beyond that, if you don't have clarity in your business, 629 00:53:10.920 --> 00:53:12.680 then you're probably swimming in mud. 630 00:53:12.680 --> 00:53:14.400 And you don't know what to do next. 631 00:53:14.400 --> 00:53:15.760 And you don't have a plan. 632 00:53:15.760 --> 00:53:17.320 And you don't know who you're serving 633 00:53:17.320 --> 00:53:19.360 and how you're serving, and what you're offering, 634 00:53:19.360 --> 00:53:21.680 and what to charge, and how to get leads, 635 00:53:21.680 --> 00:53:22.840 and all of that stuff. 636 00:53:22.840 --> 00:53:25.720 That's all swimming in the mud clarity issues. 637 00:53:25.720 --> 00:53:27.720 You need to have a call with me. 638 00:53:27.720 --> 00:53:32.480 And we need to most likely do a breakthrough intensive so 639 00:53:32.480 --> 00:53:35.800 that you are so absolutely clear on your vision, your mission, 640 00:53:35.800 --> 00:53:40.560 your niche, your irresistible offer, how it's unique, 641 00:53:40.560 --> 00:53:44.120 what your pricing is, how you're generating leads, 642 00:53:44.120 --> 00:53:46.600 what you're marketing, what your messaging is. 643 00:53:46.600 --> 00:53:49.480 That's a one-day business breakthrough intensive, 644 00:53:49.480 --> 00:53:51.680 or we break it into a couple of days. 645 00:53:51.680 --> 00:53:53.440 You need to have a call with me. 646 00:53:53.440 --> 00:53:55.240 You've got to have clarity. 647 00:53:55.240 --> 00:53:57.160 Once you've got clarity, you're going 648 00:53:57.160 --> 00:54:00.800 to start getting clients right away, customers right away. 649 00:54:00.800 --> 00:54:01.680 You can move. 650 00:54:01.680 --> 00:54:03.400 You can go forward. 651 00:54:03.400 --> 00:54:09.640 Then it's probably either a skill set or a right action 652 00:54:09.640 --> 00:54:10.440 thing. 653 00:54:10.440 --> 00:54:13.800 A skill set, for example, might be 654 00:54:13.840 --> 00:54:16.680 that you don't know how to have a successful sales 655 00:54:16.680 --> 00:54:21.240 conversation, or you don't know how to follow up. 656 00:54:21.240 --> 00:54:25.720 Included in the Prosper Leader membership is access. 657 00:54:25.720 --> 00:54:27.320 And by the way, I've been working on it, 658 00:54:27.320 --> 00:54:29.360 and it's getting better and better by the moment. 659 00:54:29.360 --> 00:54:32.920 Keep watching the changes as we grow together. 660 00:54:32.920 --> 00:54:35.880 I am making so that you know exactly where 661 00:54:35.880 --> 00:54:38.960 to go in the Prosper Leader vault. 662 00:54:38.960 --> 00:54:40.800 This is where, as a Prosper Leader, 663 00:54:40.800 --> 00:54:44.000 this is where all your resources are. 664 00:54:44.000 --> 00:54:46.720 So I've got some start here for you. 665 00:54:46.720 --> 00:54:48.640 I walk you through the instructions. 666 00:54:48.640 --> 00:54:51.240 That's brand new, this start here. 667 00:54:51.240 --> 00:54:53.040 Some free resources. 668 00:54:53.040 --> 00:54:54.920 This is where the power hour, you 669 00:54:54.920 --> 00:54:57.000 want some more word and prayer. 670 00:54:57.000 --> 00:54:59.360 The past ones are here. 671 00:54:59.360 --> 00:55:01.320 This is where. 672 00:55:00.000 --> 00:55:05.840 we store today what we're doing. Office hours is how we work on your business. You need some 673 00:55:05.840 --> 00:55:11.600 skill set. Learn how to have everybody that watches this successful sales conversation, 674 00:55:12.800 --> 00:55:17.440 they start having sales. Everyone that watches the fortune is in the follow-up, 675 00:55:17.440 --> 00:55:25.040 they start having follow-up. So I won't go long into this, but that's going to give you 676 00:55:25.040 --> 00:55:33.360 the skill sets, all right, and you'll have the direction for right action. For those of you that 677 00:55:33.360 --> 00:55:40.720 need, like you really desire help implementing, like the systems, the step-by-step, the hold your 678 00:55:40.720 --> 00:55:48.720 hand, usually I do that in the Total Soul Prosperity 90 day. Okay, that's the coaching, 679 00:55:48.720 --> 00:55:54.240 one-on-one coaching, plus you get all of the Prosper Leader membership. So I give you that 680 00:55:54.240 --> 00:56:01.360 overview so you can find where you are to take your next step. At minimum, you want to be a 681 00:56:01.360 --> 00:56:07.360 Prosper Leader member so that you're connected with each other, with me, with heaven and earth 682 00:56:07.360 --> 00:56:13.520 teaching, so that you feel guided and held and guarded and you have the tools that you need. 683 00:56:14.400 --> 00:56:19.680 If you need to go further and you want coaching, let's have a call, let's find out. You may or may 684 00:56:19.680 --> 00:56:25.680 not, let's find out what you need and where you are, okay, but I wanted you to have a sense of that. 685 00:56:26.240 --> 00:56:31.920 All right, what I'd love really quick, because we're already supposed to be in office hours, 686 00:56:31.920 --> 00:56:40.880 what I would love really quick is your number one takeaway that you're actually going to apply 687 00:56:40.880 --> 00:56:46.960 or do different. Is it that you're going to have awareness so that you can begin to look inside? 688 00:56:47.920 --> 00:56:54.800 Is it that you're going to guard your mouth? Is it that you're going to declare and be careful 689 00:56:54.800 --> 00:57:01.200 what you're saying? What did you pick up today that I laid down, because I'm about action and 690 00:57:01.200 --> 00:57:08.080 applying, that can move you from pressure to partnership? What is it? You're welcome to just say it 691 00:57:09.840 --> 00:57:15.120 or you're welcome to type it in real quick and then we're going to start working on your business 692 00:57:15.120 --> 00:57:19.200 and office hours for anybody that wants to stick around for that, okay? 693 00:57:22.320 --> 00:57:30.080 Guarding my mouth, okay? Declarations can be really huge for you. Yes, declaring, Natalie. I start 694 00:57:30.080 --> 00:57:35.120 waking up and just let those declarations flow. I found some beautiful music that's built on 695 00:57:35.120 --> 00:57:41.760 declarations I can share with you. Okay, so it sounds like words so that you don't negate your 696 00:57:41.760 --> 00:57:47.920 prayers. It sounds like that jumped out. Okay, we're going to make sure that I give you the tools 697 00:57:47.920 --> 00:57:54.960 to make sure that that is key, that you know some ideas how to declare to get results, 698 00:57:55.840 --> 00:58:02.880 what scripture says about that. Okay, blessings, blessings. All right, sisters, I'm going to stop 699 00:58:02.880 --> 00:58:08.800 the recording on this and then we're going to move into office hours, which is where we work 700 00:58:08.800 --> 00:58:16.880 on your business. So, let me stop this recording if I can figure out how. Let's see. Stop recording.