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All right, so welcome back.

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This is really the third part in this series.

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We did the Power Hour, and we talked about vision

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and Habitat 2-2.

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And then we did, earlier today at 8 AM on Thursday mornings,

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we did from pressure to partnership,

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moving from an internally contracted state

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to an expansive state.

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Now, this is the third part, we're at office hours.

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Now we start applying this to our business.

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And this is where you get to bring questions,

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comments, ideas.

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And so, we get the foundation of the word,

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then we embody it, and then we build it.

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Okay, you see how this all fits together.

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And so you can go back to the replays

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if you missed any of it.

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Okay, so the thing that we've talked about

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throughout this week is that vision creates clarity.

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So when we get into the business side of things,

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vision creates clarity.

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And clarity creates confidence.

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People want more confidence in their business.

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The confidence comes as a result to having clarity.

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The more clarity that you have, the more confidence.

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And this is a lot what I do in a breakthrough intensive,

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that's where the confidence comes and everything shifts

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because you have clarity, okay?

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It's what I do in coaching, you have the clarity.

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So before the first call, as I was talking to Stacy,

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I began to help her get clarity

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by looking at her analytics.

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So she's putting up a reel every single day.

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I said, there's some really important analytics we need.

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Like congratulations for being consistent,

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but we need to know, I want you to,

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I showed her how to get the analytics,

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and then let's have chat GPT,

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which we highly educate chat GPT to know us.

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So it's like training an employee.

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You got to make sure that it knows you,

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it knows your vision, it knows your style

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so that it produces the fruit that you want.

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And so part of feeding it and teaching it

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is that it's got the analytics.

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So I said, let's look at the analytics

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from your social media.

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And it became, it could be Claude, it can be,

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it doesn't matter, whatever AI,

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I just happened to speak that

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because she was already using chat GPT, okay?

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So it doesn't matter, whatever you're comfortable on.

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Okay, so once you study those analytics,

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you can really know some things

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and you can know where the bottleneck is, okay?

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So she sent me her analytics

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and she didn't know what to do with it

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right at the beginning.

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And she hadn't fed it to chat GPT,

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she just sent me her analytics.

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And I caught something right away.

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People were watching the reel for three seconds only.

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Okay, this is a really common problem.

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So posting or what, you know,

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these reels are going out and going out,

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the reels 25, 50, 60 seconds,

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they're watching three seconds of it and they're gone.

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We know something from that.

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Clarity produces confidence.

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What's the clarity?

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We need a hook.

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The first thing out of your mouth,

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when you do a reel,

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it's got to give them a reason

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to keep watching and stick around.

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So we know where the bottleneck is.

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Now we can create some really powerful hooks.

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Otherwise you're just producing all this stuff

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but they're not hearing you.

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They're gone before you even finish your first sentence.

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So this is where clarity creates confidence

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and then confidence then creates the action.

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So a lot of people think,

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a lot of women think they need more information,

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but often they really don't, they just need clarity.

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So that's why a lot of this,

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what is God asking you to do right now?

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Who exactly do you serve?

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What problem do you solve?

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What now problem that the person you serve has?

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What is just, you don't have to know the whole thing.

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What is your next step?

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What is the decision you've been avoiding?

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So today let's really focus on removing

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some of the confusion and creating some momentum, okay?

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Now, I don't like to just start focusing

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on obstacles or problems.

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So I always, if I'm coaching you,

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you know the first thing I do is say,

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what's your wins this week?

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week right so let's start first based on what you've been learning and what you're doing what

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are your wins like like Jackie had a win she started pulling her vision board back out you

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know that's a win getting back in touch right um what are some of your wins that you had you can

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either just speak them or put them um in the as you've been learning as you've been doing some of

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the stuff what are some of your wins nobody has a single win come on now don't be hypercritical

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of yourself well when i ask you about my dreams i think that was a for me a revelation that god

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has been speaking to me good i just didn't recognize it because it's been going on for

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months he's probably saying hey hey dummy you don't see a pattern yet that's so cool

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so where you thought god wasn't speaking the win is oh maybe he is how cool is that i celebrate

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that with you that's awesome who else okay who else what kind of wins let's start with that

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let's build whatever we focus on expands you want more wins give me some wins i have a win

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from yesterday um he sat me down and took me back to some stuff and he basically said i want

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you to use what you have jackie again you've gotten off um you're not paying attention basically to

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that and so i think of the woman that had the oil and the bratty always takes me to that you use

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what you have you use what you have and and it just again and so i written a thing like last

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year and i i think i had it posted with another um group that i was in but god said you're done

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that's really what i wanted you to do is to post that for free because there's a lot of women going

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through that yeah okay i'm gonna be obedient but he wants me to pull it back out yeah and i think

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that's going to be a part of um bringing women in who are going through you know who are wanting to

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emerge and it's through grief and change and it's just a simple six-step study and and and i'm just

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gonna start there yeah so good yeah good love that love that jackie um one of the templates we

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have in coaching is what's in your hand and that's the thing that god always asks what's in your hand

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and um and it's powerful that you come to that realization i've seen the hugest things just

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asking that question and you know god asked moses what's that in your hand and we tend to minimalize

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oh it's just a staff no when we partner remember this about partnership partnering with god when

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you partner with god that parts the red sea that gets water out of a rock that leads a multitude

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it's not just a staff right and you're right you know what's in your house the oil right or what's

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what do you have just one rice cake so throughout scripture you see that where god says what have i

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already given you what are you going to do and that's being you know faithful with little ruler

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over much i have you been faithful with what he's already given you right that's that's a key

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so i love that that's such a great win jackie congratulations i love that

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who else anybody has some wins

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i have a mental win okay um i now can see and actually believe that

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different is available to me no i'm not stuck i'm in transition nice

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yeah so good feeling put that in writing and look at that every day so good christine

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um different is available i'm not what was it that you said stuck in transition

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i'm not stuck i'm in transition okay that's a good word that's a good word see how that

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can just break things open so again what we're talking about this is all a common theme when we

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get a word you get that's a revelation right we get an awareness we get a dream we get these are

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all words that god is showing us now it's what we do with it right so okay now you know different

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is available um there's another way i've heard it i can choose differently right i can choose to

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see this differently i can choose to do this differently um and so now

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When something comes and you want to go hide in fear or you want to put the blanket over

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your head or, you know, binge on Netflix or overeat or whatever, I can choose differently.

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Yeah. Right. So different is available. I have choices. Different is available.

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And I'm no longer going to see myself as stuck. I'm not stuck.

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So I love that. That's a beautiful, I like have that in writing, speak it, declare it.

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That's a beautiful, love that. Thank you for sharing that. Okay. So now as we move into this

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and you want support, what, what feels like, here's some questions you guys, you ask me,

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I'm here to serve you. Okay. What feels most unclear right now? Or what decision have you

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been postponing? Or if you had absolute clarity, what would you do next? Right. Let's look at some

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of these things to be able to apply it and move forward. If you're feeling stuck, we can talk

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about that. We can do a hot seat. Anybody that's feeling stuck, we can do a hot seat around the

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stuckness. I have a question. So as you suggested, I watched the successful sales conversation.

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Okay. Good for you. I was watching. Thank you. That's a win. That's a win right there.

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True, true, true. Thank you. I was watching it yesterday and listening to it. And

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one thing that, that came up, okay. So you know how you mentioned before the way we do one thing

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is how we do everything basically. Right. So I'm kind of at a loss because I am terrific. And it's

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so funny that it is used car sales. Cause you know, we kind of put a negative connotation

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on used car sales, but you know, I get it, but that's actually what I'm very good at.

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So for many years I have bought and flipped cars, fix them up and clean them up and sold them.

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I am so good at it. Very good. Okay. So how does me being a good salesman in that,

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not translate to me being a good salesman in anything else that I'm trying to sell?

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That's a great question. And, and it actually can Christine. And here's what I'm going to suggest.

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It's a practice called success stacking, success stacking. So we build on previous successes that

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we have. And so we stack the next successes that we want on those previous. So when I was really

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good at that, you start, you start looking at that. Were you able to communicate the benefits?

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Were you able to describe it? Were you able, like what was some of this when you were having that

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success? What was some of those things that did you have confidence? Did you have clarity? Did you have.

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Probably clarity. And because I love cars, I always have. Okay, good. So because I was doing

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something that I love. So there was a level of passion. I had a vision. I knew what that car

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was going to look like or what I wanted to do it. I had a level of confidence, right? And you

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tap into the feeling like, I want you to just picture, go back in that moment to like a car that you just like, you just, whatever, you flipped it, you transformed it. Like the great feeling you made a profit on it. You just, you felt so proud of yourself. You were doing what you love. And can you kind of feel that feeling?

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And then you take that same feeling and you go, and that's how it is right now. As I share supplements

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that I love and I believe in and I can confidently know, I could like you, you success stack, you carry

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the success you experienced in one thing into another thing. Does that help you?

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Yeah. And I just kind of got a revelation that it's my self-esteem is about myself because I'm

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trying to sell health products, but I'm not exactly the picture of health.

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Good. Okay. So we're not, we're not perfect. This is true.

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true of everybody. Coaches get imposter syndrome. Coaches go, I don't have my life put together.

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How can I possibly coach? I remember when I did the event, I had a full day. I had a

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beautiful resort and I had a full day event, $597. Women came and I was doing the event

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called God, Love and Me. And I stood up and I said, my assistant is here. She's willing

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to give you your money back. I can't teach you about love. What do I know about love?

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It looks like I'm going to be going through a divorce. I'm in a toxic marriage. What do

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I know about love? I can't coach you. I thought, Christine, truly in my heart of hearts, that

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was the end of my coaching career. I fully expected all women. I said, you're a Christian.

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I know Christians don't believe in divorce. I don't believe in divorce. But this looks

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like what's happening. I know you probably don't want a woman coaching you that's divorced.

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I was so stuck in my story, Christine. I didn't stop to think 50% of the women in the audience

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were probably divorced statistically, almost 60%. I didn't think about that. I thought

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I was the only one and I did not have my act together. I had no business coaching.

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And I literally had told my assistant she was ready. She was going to give $600 back

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to every single woman. They were going to go home and prosper and all things was done.

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That's what I saw. Because I had to be an integrity. I wanted to be an integrity. And

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I thought that was the end. And what happened, Christine, changed my life. And it'll change

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your life. Not a single woman asked for a refund. Instead, what happened, the women

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gather around me and gave me this huge group hug on this event changed my life. I cry when

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I just think about it. I'll never think again about it. And quite the contrary, they sat

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down the Holy Spirit moved. It was one of the best events I've ever done. There's large

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coaches that are very successful right now that got birthed in that room as I laid hands

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on them and prayed. And that was the day, Christine that God used to rip my mask off.

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I had been so good at wearing a mask and acting like my life was okay. And I was just servant

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and I'm just like, you know, and I just showed up naked and unashamed. Right. And God used

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it. So when we drop this idea, number one, that we have to be perfect before we can serve.

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And just share what you do know what God has done for you and what God has done for other

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people. And this is the, this is the analogy I always teach. And it doesn't matter if you're

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in sales or you're a speaker or anything. This analogy is true. There's a camera, there's

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lens, there's a camera. If I have my camera pointed at you, I'm not looking at me. I'm

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looking at you. How can I serve you? How can I love you? How can I help you have breakthrough?

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How can I pray for you? My camera's pointed that way. If at any minute I turn my camera

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toward me and I don't have that, I'm not very good at sales. I'm, I'm an imposter. I don't

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understand. I don't have my life together. The whole thing breaks down in speaking and

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coaching and sales. So the key is keeping the camera on serving. And I'm so here to serve you

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with what God has given me. I want you to have the best experience with these supplements,

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the best experience with your health. I'm still growing. God's still working on my health. I'm

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not perfect, but what I know is that these do this and I'm here to serve you. Does that,

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does that make sense? Does that help? Yeah. You got me all crying this morning. Thank you.

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Welcome to the club.

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My eyes are just watering here. Okay. So does that help you? Yes. Good. So keep the camera

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and keep your vision. Um, and take the action. Just keep taking daily action.

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Beautiful. Beautiful. Who else has a question along that?

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If I had absolute clarity, what would I do next?

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What obstacle, we just talked about this, is feeling larger than it actually is.

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So talk to me about where you are in your business.

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Is someone feeling stuck?

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Let's do some hot seating.

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I'm starting to get clarity.

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I had my prayer time before our power hour yesterday, and it really surprised me what

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ability to read and understand blueprints, not like a house blueprint, but a blueprint

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in the spiritual.

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And yet where I struggle is the next step.

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And in my mind, I'm like, okay, Lord, if I have the ability to see the blueprint, see

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the pathway, see how to put this all together, then why can I not see the next step?

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I love that.

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I love that.

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So let's do a few questions, okay?

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So what would moving forward look like?

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If you did take the next step, what would it look like?

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I don't even know how to answer that.

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I really don't.

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Can you describe the end, like you have the blueprint, can you describe the end vision?

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One of the things you and I had talked about prior was building an online space and the

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way that I've seen it done and has been done over the years just is not me.

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It doesn't resonate with me.

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So the things I heard yesterday and then Tuesday night, our business actually had three of

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our leaders doing a presentation and they were saying the same basic thing, that basically

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things have changed and people want connection.

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They don't want sell, sell, sell.

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prayer time.

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But still I'm like, okay, then how do I reach these people?

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I'm not a coach.

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I'm in the health business, but I know how important the community is and being able

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to make those connections the proper way.

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So you started in the right way in some sense, and this is where many people start, which

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is sometimes they don't know what they, I'm not going to use the word want, that's the

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They don't know what they want.

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I've replaced the word want as much as possible in my vocabulary with desire because want

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means extreme lack.

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So many people can't totally see what they desire.

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I don't desire to be like this.

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I don't desire to be dot, dot, dot, dot, dot.

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When I, when I build my business, I don't desire it to treat people this way.

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What's the opposite?

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I want it.

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I want to treat people like individuals made by God.

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I don't desire to like just sell something and then disappear.

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Look at them as my electricity bill.

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I desire to build relationships.

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So in my, when I finished this picture, it's going to be very honoring of who they are

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and it's going to be very relationship oriented.

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When I, and so you just flip what you've seen because, because that is usually God raising

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Usually starts with what we call in business, a gap.

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There's, there's a gap.

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People are not getting this right.

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Jesus, right on that.

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So that was my response to that is, wait a minute, everybody's doing this way, but that's

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not how Jesus did it.

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I don't want, I don't desire this, this, this, I desire this.

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Now, how can I, how can I best do that?

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If I, and then you start asking the question, what's possible?

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possible. If I was going to build relationships online, if people were going to feel valuable,

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if I was going to create community, what's possible? How could I do that? Right? Okay.

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What would be the first step? What would be just the simplest step? Well, let me test

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this. How about if I just have a conversation and I'm going to learn from that conversation?

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I'm just going to be real and talk to someone online and begin to have a conversation. So

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it's like, what is the simplest? Now, in order to build it out with the most effectiveness,

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you need clarity for absolute sure. Okay. And the clarity starts with the vision. Have

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a kick to, to have I written out to the best of my ability, the God given vision God has

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shown me for my business. My business exists to do what for who God is always about serving

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people. So what in my business, how am I serving God's people? Okay. That's the vision. How

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am I, how am I changing things? Okay. Clarity around who I serve, who is God calling you

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to serve? And a lot of times it's just you, it's the woman just like you. Cause that's

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what you know best. So very often you're called to serve. So you think about that or it's

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very often you five years ago or you 10 years ago, right? The women I serve are very often

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going through what I went through 10 years ago. And you don't have to have it all together.

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Like we were talking with Christine, but what you learned over those five years or those

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10 years that helped you go from being that person to who you are now, that's what you

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bring to the table and how you can serve. So now if you know her, now you've got to

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be very clear because in this day and age, people don't want fluff. They want you to

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solve a real problem. So what is the now problem that I solve and how do I solve it uniquely?

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What's unique about me? How do I solve it uniquely? Okay. And we don't even build and

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get clarity around what we offer until we've got those things because it's got to be, where's

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the camera? It's got to be based on that. Okay. Is that yesterday? The Lord told me

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the broken hearted. Say it again. Yesterday the Lord told me the broken hearted. Okay.

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So that's really a great start. Now we've got to get a little more specific. Okay. Because

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who or why or what aren't they broken hearted about, right? Are we dealing with the broken

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hearted because they're grieving and they lost their parents? Are they dealing with

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the broken hearted because they're having trouble in their relationship with their kids?

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It's always around relationships. Usually broken hearted is relationships. Are they

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broken hearted because life hasn't turned out the way that they thought it would turn

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out and they feel stuck in they're not living out their divine purpose. Like, so we get

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even more specific on that. So God is giving you revelation and then we just, we drill

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it down to where you could really recognize her because now realistically, if you're online,

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we'll talk online or offline. If you're online. Okay. Where does this person hang out? Cause

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that's where I need to be. Are they broken hearted because addiction has ravished their

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house, their, you know, their home. I need to be an addiction support groups. I'm talking

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to women that are stuck in addiction. Are they broken hearted because they're a rape

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and incense, you know, victim. So I wouldn't be general broken hearted. I mean, you can,

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but like a 20 year old, you know, single mom is going to have very different vocabulary

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desires, goals, dreams, and a 60 year old trying to figure out retirement that's single

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or a widow. Like they hang out in different places. They speak a different language. So

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practically speaking, this is why tight niches work practically speaking so that you can really

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understand them and know where they hang out. I know one thing that spoke to me when I first

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joined the company.

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I'm with is I was listening to somebody in person speak and one of the things they I can't remember the verse

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Itself off the top of my head, but the one about

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Hope deferred makes the heart six. Yes when the desire comes

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It's a tree of life tree of life and one of the one of the translation says when the longing comes

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Yes, it's a tree of life and I sat there and just fall

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Beautiful. There was something in that

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Deferred yeah, so I want to help when that's your clue. Yeah, that's your clue

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So you start talking about that and you start looking at what makes the heart deferred and that becomes your vocabulary

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that becomes your posts and the people are going to gravitate that really understand that and then you're able to and then

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So when the desire is fulfilled, it's the tree of life

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So then it becomes how can I take someone whose hope has been crushed and

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Help them and so then it's like, okay

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What are the three or the five steps that I can take someone who's feeling completely hopeless?

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What do we need to work on so that their desire can be fulfilled?

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Okay, and and and you start looking at that. What is it?

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You know really that's when you read when you read my book, I mean, that's how the prosper system was developed

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It was like how do I take a woman that's bound up with the interslave woman?

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With the striving and the stressing and the sacrificing what really matters? How do I take her from that to total soul prosperity?

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Okay, and that became the prosper system. And so it becomes your signature system as to how you deliver. Okay, and

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And and and one of the things you know that I do in coaching is I

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Don't just stay stuck on a product

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I don't because the product could be suddenly taken off the market or

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An ingredients illegal or someone like anything the company goes out of business

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Did you just lose all your work forever? I'd much rather build around who God makes you

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And the product is one of the tools and there's other tools. It might be coaching is one of the tools

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It might be a prayer support. It might be a community it might be and

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so now when we build we're building on a rock of

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Jesus and the word and the vision he's given me and these are tools

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With network marketers, you know the two things I have to do and you know

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30 years plus experience in network marketing with network marketers two things that I have to

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They don't just say well, I'm a distributor with XYZ company. They're making their identity of being a distributor

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No, that's a role. That's not your identity

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this works for the parent and the goldfish and the great-grandparent and the baby and

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Just like throw spaghetti on the wall and hope it sticks right that's a network marketing paradigm

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and that's not really working right now people need to feel seen and heard that you understand them and

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So when I'm speaking to the women that are being drawn to me

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it's because I there's there's these things are in common to all of us right and

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So that's what I recommend

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So, what do you what do you take away from that what I just shared what what's the single action you could take in

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The next day around what we just talked about

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Reach out

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Privately somebody said something the other night. We don't run out of people we run out of courage. Yeah good

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No, there are people that we are connected to that maybe in a certain way. We haven't approached them

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We haven't spoken to them or whatever so yes, that would be my house

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So what's the action you're going to take this week?

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Do I need a number like I'm going to reach out to some of those people right should I put a number on it?

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You do what you need. I want to know what action you're gonna take

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I'm gonna reach out privately to a couple people that I haven't either talked to in a very long time or okay

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Not to sell them something but just to see how they're doing and what's happening and build relationship

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Beautiful. Okay. I can't wait to hear because that's that's putting you into action and you're moving. Okay. Love it

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Thank you for sharing. Okay, is that helpful? Do you feel complete? Yes

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Okay, I'm gonna go back once we have the recording and take a bunch of notes. Okay, beautiful

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Great. Great. Great. Great. Okay. All right. How are we doing on time?

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We got enough time for

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Someone else, who would like a little help?

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Who would like to be supported?

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Where are you feeling stuck?

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Let's work through it.

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So when we're talking about this vision,

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what would moving forward look like?

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Just start there.

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What would moving forward look like?

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If you feel stuck, what would moving forward look like?

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Like in this case, it would look like me

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starting to connect with people.

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That would be moving forward.

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If I was making connections, and if I'm asking questions,

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and I'm learning about them, I'm discovering the needs out

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there.

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And by the way, the words that they share with you,

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write them down.

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They're the best words.

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Later, when you do social media posts, when you market,

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use the words your audience is giving you.

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Best words.

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Very best words.

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And so then, what's the simplest next step?

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I'm going to start talking to a couple of people.

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Not complicated.

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Simplest next step.

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What am I making harder than I need to be?

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What am I avoiding?

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Like you said, with courage.

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If I had courage, what would I do?

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What would courage do?

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OK.

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00:36:29.520 --> 00:36:31.840
Any other questions?

450
00:36:31.840 --> 00:36:37.640
As it applies, we're starting in this theme is around vision.

451
00:36:37.640 --> 00:36:40.160
So the first thing is we're getting really clear.

452
00:36:40.160 --> 00:36:43.800
What's the vision for this business?

453
00:36:43.800 --> 00:36:44.680
What's the vision?

454
00:36:44.680 --> 00:36:46.200
Why am I even doing this?

455
00:36:46.200 --> 00:36:49.840
What has God shown me?

456
00:36:49.840 --> 00:36:53.560
And the more you communicate vision,

457
00:36:53.560 --> 00:36:58.320
the more you're really going to attract people.

458
00:36:58.320 --> 00:37:01.040
People will follow a vision even more

459
00:37:01.040 --> 00:37:06.520
than they will follow a product or a service or anything else.

460
00:37:06.520 --> 00:37:09.600
To answer your question, I think moving forward

461
00:37:09.600 --> 00:37:12.640
would look like for me to make a decision.

462
00:37:12.640 --> 00:37:13.760
We've talked a lot.

463
00:37:13.760 --> 00:37:17.600
And you said get clear on your vision.

464
00:37:17.600 --> 00:37:20.720
And then Christine said that about selling cars.

465
00:37:20.720 --> 00:37:25.600
I think I need to take an introspective look at what

466
00:37:25.600 --> 00:37:28.840
I'm good at and what I'm drawn to and make a decision

467
00:37:28.840 --> 00:37:31.880
this week on what it is I want to move forward to.

468
00:37:31.880 --> 00:37:35.120
Because you can't reach a goal if you don't know what it is.

469
00:37:35.120 --> 00:37:37.600
So I think that's mine.

470
00:37:37.600 --> 00:37:41.600
I need to decide what it is I want to do online.

471
00:37:41.600 --> 00:37:42.800
So good.

472
00:37:42.800 --> 00:37:44.920
So good.

473
00:37:44.960 --> 00:37:50.560
You know, I'm going to give you two words to think about.

474
00:37:50.560 --> 00:37:51.880
They're different.

475
00:37:51.880 --> 00:37:54.880
And one is choose.

476
00:37:54.880 --> 00:37:57.880
And the other is decide.

477
00:37:57.880 --> 00:38:00.000
I really like the English language

478
00:38:00.000 --> 00:38:01.440
and the roots of words.

479
00:38:01.440 --> 00:38:04.800
And so I use words very carefully.

480
00:38:04.800 --> 00:38:08.120
And you can see which word fits for you.

481
00:38:08.120 --> 00:38:10.640
So choose is exactly that.

482
00:38:10.640 --> 00:38:13.280
I can choose something.

483
00:38:13.280 --> 00:38:16.280
But then I can choose differently.

484
00:38:16.280 --> 00:38:20.640
I was choosing to believe this.

485
00:38:20.640 --> 00:38:23.240
And now I'm choosing to believe this.

486
00:38:23.240 --> 00:38:25.640
I was choosing to not do this.

487
00:38:25.640 --> 00:38:29.280
And now I'm choosing to do this.

488
00:38:29.280 --> 00:38:34.120
And so your God-given ability to choose is your superpower.

489
00:38:34.120 --> 00:38:35.920
I may have chosen this in the past.

490
00:38:35.920 --> 00:38:39.320
I may have chosen bad habits in the past.

491
00:38:39.360 --> 00:38:43.880
But I'm choosing different now.

492
00:38:43.880 --> 00:38:45.440
I can choose differently.

493
00:38:48.640 --> 00:38:49.360
So choose.

494
00:38:49.360 --> 00:38:52.040
I can choose again.

495
00:38:52.040 --> 00:38:55.680
I can choose again.

496
00:38:55.680 --> 00:38:58.080
I chose this, but I can choose again.

497
00:38:58.080 --> 00:39:00.880
Decide is very different.

498
00:39:00.880 --> 00:39:04.400
So you use that word very carefully.

499
00:39:04.440 --> 00:39:10.400
Anything that ends in the word side, C-I-D-E, think about,

500
00:39:10.400 --> 00:39:12.800
what words can you think about that end in side?

501
00:39:12.800 --> 00:39:15.000
Can you think of any words?

502
00:39:15.000 --> 00:39:19.480
Suicide, homicide, genocide.

503
00:39:19.480 --> 00:39:24.160
Genocide, herbicide, insecticide, pesticide.

504
00:39:24.160 --> 00:39:26.200
OK, do you notice something?

505
00:39:26.200 --> 00:39:27.400
Yeah, they're killers.

506
00:39:27.400 --> 00:39:32.080
It means kill off the option.

507
00:39:32.400 --> 00:39:36.720
If I decide something, I kill off the options.

508
00:39:36.720 --> 00:39:42.320
So a decision is really important.

509
00:39:42.320 --> 00:39:46.880
I'm deciding I will no longer.

510
00:39:46.880 --> 00:39:49.040
I break association with lack.

511
00:39:49.040 --> 00:39:54.080
I have decided I will not tolerate lack in my vocabulary.

512
00:39:54.080 --> 00:39:55.480
I'm cutting off options.

513
00:39:55.480 --> 00:39:56.880
I won't speak it.

514
00:39:56.880 --> 00:39:58.200
I won't think it.

515
00:39:58.200 --> 00:39:59.840
It's not tolerated.

516
00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:05.000
That's a decision, decide, I'm cutting off all options.

517
00:40:06.700 --> 00:40:10.740
Trying something new, I'm going to choose to do this.

518
00:40:10.740 --> 00:40:13.260
And if that doesn't work, I'm gonna choose again.

519
00:40:13.260 --> 00:40:16.380
I'm gonna choose to start this diet.

520
00:40:16.380 --> 00:40:19.460
That didn't really work for me because of this.

521
00:40:19.460 --> 00:40:20.980
I'm allergic to the ingredients.

522
00:40:20.980 --> 00:40:24.260
I'm gonna choose again, just a little differently.

523
00:40:24.260 --> 00:40:27.420
So choice allows you to keep choosing again,

524
00:40:27.420 --> 00:40:28.500
and that's not a problem.

525
00:40:28.500 --> 00:40:31.660
Just choose again, I made a bad choice

526
00:40:31.660 --> 00:40:33.300
and I get to choose again.

527
00:40:33.300 --> 00:40:36.420
Decide means I'm cutting off all options.

528
00:40:36.420 --> 00:40:39.340
Does that, so just as we communicate,

529
00:40:39.340 --> 00:40:43.580
we'll all have a certain vocabulary going forward, right?

530
00:40:43.580 --> 00:40:46.620
So what things do you need to choose?

531
00:40:47.740 --> 00:40:51.200
And what things do you absolutely need to decide?

532
00:40:52.060 --> 00:40:54.220
You gotta cut off all other options.

533
00:40:56.220 --> 00:40:57.620
Okay, is that helpful?

534
00:40:59.460 --> 00:41:02.680
There's things in our life we need to choose moving forward.

535
00:41:04.780 --> 00:41:07.140
But we give ourselves freedom that we'll choose again.

536
00:41:07.140 --> 00:41:09.620
I'm gonna start a walking program.

537
00:41:10.540 --> 00:41:11.780
My knees are really hurting.

538
00:41:11.780 --> 00:41:13.820
I'm gonna change to a rebounding.

539
00:41:13.820 --> 00:41:16.300
I choose, that's okay.

540
00:41:16.300 --> 00:41:19.780
No judgment in changing and choose again what works.

541
00:41:19.780 --> 00:41:22.340
But there's things I need to decide.

542
00:41:24.340 --> 00:41:26.500
I will have a morning spiritual practice.

543
00:41:26.500 --> 00:41:28.180
That's non-optional, God did it.

544
00:41:28.860 --> 00:41:31.380
He told me to do it, I am deciding.

545
00:41:31.380 --> 00:41:34.120
I'm choosing it and I'm deciding.

546
00:41:35.260 --> 00:41:37.620
I will not leave the house or leave this room

547
00:41:37.620 --> 00:41:39.420
until I've spent some time with God.

548
00:41:39.420 --> 00:41:41.700
So do you feel the difference in those?

549
00:41:42.700 --> 00:41:44.140
What comes up for you?

550
00:41:44.140 --> 00:41:46.720
I'd like just one minute right now,

551
00:41:46.720 --> 00:41:48.660
everybody just give me a sentence.

552
00:41:48.660 --> 00:41:50.580
This is really important.

553
00:41:50.580 --> 00:41:52.780
Your number one takeaway

554
00:41:52.780 --> 00:41:54.940
as to how you're going to apply this.

555
00:41:54.940 --> 00:41:57.660
Because application is where it's at.

556
00:41:58.100 --> 00:42:00.500
How are you going to go forward

557
00:42:00.500 --> 00:42:02.880
based on what you gleaned here?

558
00:42:07.180 --> 00:42:10.060
And it can be, you just say, I choose or I decide.

559
00:42:10.060 --> 00:42:11.560
That could be your takeaway.

560
00:42:15.100 --> 00:42:15.940
Go ahead.

561
00:42:18.660 --> 00:42:20.940
I'd like each person to make one sentence.

562
00:42:20.940 --> 00:42:23.720
This is where you bless everybody else

563
00:42:23.720 --> 00:42:25.920
and it's where you move yourself forward.

564
00:42:26.920 --> 00:42:28.840
You choose to play.

565
00:42:30.560 --> 00:42:31.400
Decide.

566
00:42:32.400 --> 00:42:37.400
Okay, and what are you going to decide, Jackie?

567
00:42:39.360 --> 00:42:42.640
Well, I had a meeting yesterday with God again,

568
00:42:43.880 --> 00:42:45.920
just laying down, taking a break

569
00:42:45.920 --> 00:42:49.500
and like things just started to come.

570
00:42:49.500 --> 00:42:52.120
And he really said,

571
00:42:52.120 --> 00:42:55.160
Jackie, you ought to start with the book first

572
00:42:55.200 --> 00:42:57.120
as you go out.

573
00:42:57.120 --> 00:42:59.240
I want you to use the book first

574
00:42:59.240 --> 00:43:01.240
before you go out into coaching.

575
00:43:01.240 --> 00:43:03.240
Okay, good.

576
00:43:03.240 --> 00:43:04.600
I'm making that decision.

577
00:43:04.600 --> 00:43:05.880
Okay, good.

578
00:43:05.880 --> 00:43:07.600
Trust him with it.

579
00:43:07.600 --> 00:43:09.400
Good, perfect.

580
00:43:09.400 --> 00:43:12.020
All right, who else?

581
00:43:21.840 --> 00:43:24.300
And bottom line, Jackie, you're deciding to start.

582
00:43:24.300 --> 00:43:26.540
You're deciding to move forward.

583
00:43:26.540 --> 00:43:29.260
Yes, it was becoming heavy

584
00:43:29.260 --> 00:43:32.500
and I was becoming discombobulated.

585
00:43:32.500 --> 00:43:35.260
And he's like, no, you're being double-minded, stop.

586
00:43:35.260 --> 00:43:37.440
Yeah, good, good.

587
00:43:37.440 --> 00:43:39.700
So I'm deciding to start, period,

588
00:43:39.700 --> 00:43:42.260
with what I have, with what's in my hand.

589
00:43:42.260 --> 00:43:44.820
So good, that's what's in your hand.

590
00:43:44.820 --> 00:43:45.660
Who else?

591
00:43:45.660 --> 00:43:48.060
Everybody need to participate in this one.

592
00:43:48.900 --> 00:43:49.940
I put mine in the chat,

593
00:43:49.940 --> 00:43:53.700
but I plan to write down my vision clearly.

594
00:43:53.700 --> 00:43:54.780
I haven't done that yet.

595
00:43:54.780 --> 00:43:57.300
I need to put a lot of details in that

596
00:43:57.300 --> 00:44:02.300
in order to choose my future, life, and so on.

597
00:44:03.140 --> 00:44:05.220
I love that.

598
00:44:05.220 --> 00:44:08.060
You're putting in writing, Habakkuk 2-2,

599
00:44:08.060 --> 00:44:10.540
and I love that you're choosing your life.

600
00:44:10.540 --> 00:44:12.600
You're choosing your future.

601
00:44:12.600 --> 00:44:14.220
I love that.

602
00:44:14.220 --> 00:44:15.580
Good, who else?

603
00:44:15.580 --> 00:44:20.580
Okay, Beth, I decide to share my heart with others.

604
00:44:23.780 --> 00:44:24.780
Beautiful, Beth.

605
00:44:26.220 --> 00:44:28.700
I didn't see some of you guys are writing down.

606
00:44:28.700 --> 00:44:31.260
Yeah, I put, I choose to spend time

607
00:44:31.260 --> 00:44:32.940
to hear God's next for me.

608
00:44:32.940 --> 00:44:34.620
Love that, Linda.

609
00:44:34.620 --> 00:44:37.900
And I appreciate you addressing the choosing

610
00:44:37.900 --> 00:44:39.560
and that it doesn't,

611
00:44:39.560 --> 00:44:41.460
because I think there's a part of me that thinks,

612
00:44:41.460 --> 00:44:43.500
well, I've partnered here and I've done that

613
00:44:43.500 --> 00:44:44.600
and I've done these things,

614
00:44:44.640 --> 00:44:47.240
and does it make me just look like

615
00:44:47.240 --> 00:44:49.880
as flaky as the cereal box, you know?

616
00:44:49.880 --> 00:44:53.520
Yeah, I love that.

617
00:44:53.520 --> 00:44:55.000
I'm just saying.

618
00:44:55.000 --> 00:44:56.840
No, I'm so glad that you're saying that.

619
00:44:56.840 --> 00:44:57.680
That's really important.

620
00:44:57.680 --> 00:44:58.840
A lot of people feel that,

621
00:44:58.840 --> 00:45:00.000
and there's a...

622
00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:07.520
freedom in choose, especially if you tend to be self-critical, you know, choose is probably

623
00:45:07.520 --> 00:45:09.200
better than decide.

624
00:45:09.200 --> 00:45:14.760
I'm just going to choose today to hear the voice of God and then I'll know after that.

625
00:45:14.760 --> 00:45:16.840
And then I'm going to choose, right?

626
00:45:16.840 --> 00:45:23.920
So we're just making one inspired choice at a time.

627
00:45:23.920 --> 00:45:26.720
We don't have to have everything figured out.

628
00:45:26.720 --> 00:45:31.360
We're making one inspired.

629
00:45:31.360 --> 00:45:38.440
Love that, love that, okay.

630
00:45:38.440 --> 00:45:42.080
So decide to share heart is Beth.

631
00:45:42.080 --> 00:45:43.080
I love that.

632
00:45:43.080 --> 00:45:44.080
That's beautiful.

633
00:45:44.080 --> 00:45:48.440
You're being open, choosing to spend time with God, Linda, love that.

634
00:45:48.440 --> 00:45:52.480
Plan to work on my vision and order, Colette says.

635
00:45:52.480 --> 00:45:55.800
I plan, so I choose, right?

636
00:45:55.800 --> 00:46:03.000
I choose, I would put instead of plan, I choose to write down my vision clearly.

637
00:46:03.000 --> 00:46:05.520
I choose, you're activating your God-given choice.

638
00:46:05.520 --> 00:46:11.920
I choose to write my vision in order to choose my future life work.

639
00:46:11.920 --> 00:46:12.920
Love that.

640
00:46:12.920 --> 00:46:13.920
Okay.

641
00:46:13.920 --> 00:46:16.240
Christine envisioned myself succeeding in car sale.

642
00:46:16.240 --> 00:46:17.240
Okay.

643
00:46:17.240 --> 00:46:21.720
That's from a before, um, stepping into that feeling.

644
00:46:21.720 --> 00:46:22.720
Okay.

645
00:46:22.720 --> 00:46:26.880
I'm choosing to success stack, Christine, correct?

646
00:46:26.880 --> 00:46:33.960
What you learned, I I'm choosing to success stack on my previous successes to apply them

647
00:46:33.960 --> 00:46:37.280
to future successes, right?

648
00:46:37.280 --> 00:46:42.320
I'm choosing to success stack.

649
00:46:42.320 --> 00:46:45.200
You get what I mean when I say success stack, right?

650
00:46:45.200 --> 00:46:46.200
Okay.

651
00:46:46.200 --> 00:46:47.200
Good.

652
00:46:47.200 --> 00:46:48.560
Uh, Bev, I have not heard from you.

653
00:46:48.560 --> 00:46:49.880
I know you're getting ready.

654
00:46:49.880 --> 00:46:51.600
Can you unmute by chance?

655
00:46:51.600 --> 00:46:52.600
We don't see you.

656
00:46:52.680 --> 00:46:57.560
Does anyone acknowledge that you're here?

657
00:46:57.560 --> 00:47:03.240
Any choice or decision?

658
00:47:03.240 --> 00:47:04.600
Can you even hear me, Bev?

659
00:47:04.600 --> 00:47:08.840
I see you there.

660
00:47:08.840 --> 00:47:14.280
You have to unmute though.

661
00:47:14.280 --> 00:47:17.080
I know she gets ready in the morning.

662
00:47:17.080 --> 00:47:18.080
Okay.

663
00:47:18.080 --> 00:47:19.080
All right.

664
00:47:19.080 --> 00:47:24.880
Um, I think everybody else is shared and, um, we'll continue this conversation over

665
00:47:24.880 --> 00:47:31.080
in, I'm going to make a point throughout today to go over to the total soul prosperity Facebook

666
00:47:31.080 --> 00:47:37.840
group and, um, continue some of this conversation because that's going to keep it front of mind

667
00:47:37.840 --> 00:47:45.240
this week as we really activate our God given ability to choose, right?

668
00:47:45.240 --> 00:47:47.480
So that's a really great conversation.

669
00:47:48.480 --> 00:47:49.600
All right, sisters.

670
00:47:49.600 --> 00:47:52.000
I pray this is blessed to you.

671
00:47:52.000 --> 00:47:53.480
I'm so proud of you.

672
00:47:53.480 --> 00:47:55.880
Thank you for showing up.

673
00:47:55.880 --> 00:47:56.880
Thank you.

674
00:47:56.880 --> 00:47:59.800
Oh, there's a new one that I didn't see.

675
00:47:59.800 --> 00:48:02.440
Um, oh, go ahead.

676
00:48:02.440 --> 00:48:03.920
Do you want to say something clutter?

677
00:48:03.920 --> 00:48:06.280
You want to write something?

678
00:48:06.280 --> 00:48:10.120
No, I just wanted to type in there.

679
00:48:10.120 --> 00:48:11.120
Thank you.

680
00:48:11.120 --> 00:48:14.840
I really appreciate everything that you do and you don't just come on.

681
00:48:14.840 --> 00:48:16.280
You're prepared.

682
00:48:16.280 --> 00:48:17.280
You've studied.

683
00:48:17.280 --> 00:48:19.920
You've thought about this for years, I'm sure.

684
00:48:19.920 --> 00:48:24.960
And it's organized and, uh, you, you keep to your time and I just appreciate everything

685
00:48:24.960 --> 00:48:26.120
you do for us.

686
00:48:26.120 --> 00:48:30.160
I appreciate everyone who, who chimes in and helps me.

687
00:48:30.160 --> 00:48:33.640
I appreciate all the comments and, uh, all the prayers have been said for me.

688
00:48:33.640 --> 00:48:34.640
I don't feel worthy.

689
00:48:34.640 --> 00:48:36.520
I think that's part of my situation.

690
00:48:36.520 --> 00:48:40.920
I need to get down to why I don't feel worthy, you know, for God to do anything for me.

691
00:48:40.920 --> 00:48:42.720
And then when people pray for me, it blows me away.

692
00:48:42.720 --> 00:48:45.520
I don't feel worthy, but I do want to express my thanks.

693
00:48:45.920 --> 00:48:48.320
Oh, thank you so much.

694
00:48:48.320 --> 00:48:50.440
Um, I really appreciate you.

695
00:48:50.440 --> 00:48:55.120
You've been so, so lavish and generous and always appreciating.

696
00:48:55.120 --> 00:49:00.440
That's a beautiful gift that you have that you appreciate, um, the people around you.

697
00:49:00.440 --> 00:49:05.800
You appreciate, you appreciate your sister speaking up and I appreciate you take time

698
00:49:05.800 --> 00:49:08.520
to text me and encourage me.

699
00:49:08.520 --> 00:49:14.600
And, um, so that's a beautiful gift that you have the gift of, of appreciation.

700
00:49:14.680 --> 00:49:20.920
And in terms of the worthy, we can choose to no longer say that.

701
00:49:20.920 --> 00:49:28.000
We can choose to no longer say I'm not worthy and we can choose instead to say I'm worthy

702
00:49:28.000 --> 00:49:29.680
because he says I'm worthy.

703
00:49:29.680 --> 00:49:33.000
I choose to believe what God says about me.

704
00:49:33.000 --> 00:49:36.800
I choose to stand on his promises for me.

705
00:49:36.800 --> 00:49:41.680
I choose to believe he's no respecter of people.

706
00:49:41.680 --> 00:49:44.720
What he does for me is no different than what he does for you.

707
00:49:44.720 --> 00:49:49.720
You're his beloved daughter, daughter of the most high God.

708
00:49:49.720 --> 00:49:51.440
There's no difference.

709
00:49:51.440 --> 00:49:53.160
We're just serving one another.

710
00:49:53.160 --> 00:49:56.760
And yes, ladies, thank you for showing up.

711
00:49:56.760 --> 00:49:59.880
I know there's many that choose or have to listen to the.

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play. But when you're here and you're sharing, not only are you solidifying it for yourself,

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you're blessing everybody. Everybody is getting from that because if you're thinking it and

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feeling it, there's a really good chance that someone else is feeling it. And thank you,

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Christine, and thank you for being so willing to share and be vulnerable here. You're a blessing

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and you're a blessing to have in this group. I'm excited for the transformation that you're

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stepping into. You're getting awareness, and awareness is the first step to transformation.

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You're seeing. You're seeing possibilities. You're seeing differently, like you mentioned,

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right? That's a beautiful thing. So congratulations on that. All right, ladies,

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have a blessed, blessed week. Can't wait to hear your testimonies. That's where we'll really spread

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the love and let other people experience what we're experiencing in this room. So I'll see you

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in the Total Soul Prosperity Group. I'll leave a post and we'll see you over there. All right.

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Blessings.