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Hello, everyone. Hi, hi, hi.

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So good to see you guys.

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I'm so glad that you're joining us for this single spotlight tonight.

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This is being recorded just FYI, and we require everyone that comes to our single spotlight nights to have your camera on.

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So if you are someplace where you can't turn your camera on, unfortunately, you will not be able to stay.

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We do have a replay.

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It will just only be a replay of the Q&A with our spotlight for the night.

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It won't be all the other shenanigans that might happen.

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It'll just be a short little Q&A, and it will be emailed to the email address that you opted in when you joined our single spotlight list.

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And so camera's on if you're going to stay.

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Otherwise, our trusty co-hosts will be removing you.

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I know that sounds so sad, but they will be removing you in about three minutes and three seconds.

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OK, and so camera's on.

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You're like, but I'm not camera ready.

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It's said in your email, be camera ready, whatever you consider camera ready.

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All right.

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If I can show up with wet hair that I've braided and now I'm some ridiculous version of Rapunzel and Pocahontas mixed together because I got in at 2 a.m. last night.

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2 a.m., y'all.

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Why? Because my flight was delayed and they lost my suitcase.

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Praise the Lord.

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Hallelujah.

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What is that Justin Bieber song?

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Everything.

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Hallelujah.

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Everything.

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Hallelujah.

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The good news is that I did get my suitcase back.

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The bad news is I missed my Uber and I still had to pay for it.

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Hallelujah.

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But I'm here because the show really, truly must go on.

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It really must.

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And no one knows that better than our spotlight for tonight.

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You guys, I had a great spotlight lined up with two of the funniest guys I have ever met, especially funny together.

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These guys are not new to me.

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I've known them for five years.

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Dave, can you believe that?

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We've known each other for five years now.

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I love these guys.

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I would vouch for them.

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I would refer them personally, professionally.

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They're incredible dudes.

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Lucky for you, they're single and ready to mingle.

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And so that's exciting.

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And we're going to spotlight them tonight.

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I haven't spotlighted either one of them in a really, really long time.

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And they are back around these parts.

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And so I thought, hey, what better thing to do than to kick off summer spotlight season than to get Josh and Dave, Dave and Josh, in here for some shenanigans because they are goofballs together.

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And I love that.

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Do we love funny guys?

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We love funny guys, don't we?

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No pressure, Dave, because you're carrying it alone now.

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But Josh had a family emergency, so he can't be here.

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But Dave is amazing.

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and we're gonna have a good time with him.

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My trusty co-host Cheryl,

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for some reason people are needing to be admitted.

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If you haven't seen that,

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I am getting requests to admit people to the group.

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I don't know why that is turned on, but it is.

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And so if you could man that,

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and then for all of you newbies that just joined us,

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you gotta have your camera on,

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otherwise we gotta delete you from the program tonight.

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And you're like, why is that?

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Because it's single spotlight.

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And if people are willing to be spotlighted for you,

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then you need to show up respectful

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and spotlighted for them.

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You guys, as a dating coach and as a matchmaker,

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I've literally heard every story you can think of.

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And that's why the Jackie show is coming out.

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I'm gonna take a few minutes to promo.

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People wanted me to do a podcast forever.

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Jackie, do a podcast.

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Jackie, do a podcast.

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I've been on so many other people's podcasts.

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People are like, Jackie, you love to talk.

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You love to yap.

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You're a yapper.

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Why don't you have a podcast?

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I will tell you, I don't like prerecorded.

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I like live.

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And so that's why I don't have a podcast.

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I used to have a show.

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It was called The Wake Up Call With Jackie,

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and it was on Periscope.

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Does anyone remember Periscope back in the day?

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I had a live show on Periscope

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called The Wake Up Call With Jackie.

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It was so fun.

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I loved it so much,

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except for all the creepy men that wanted to see my feet.

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Besides that, I loved it.

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Now, you guys don't know about the Periscope days.

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The Periscope days were full of trolls

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that would just post in the comments,

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show me your feet, show me your feet, show me your feet.

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And I didn't even know that was a thing

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until I knew it was a thing.

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So back in those Periscope days,

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The Wake Up Call With Jackie was amazing.

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It's what led to my very first heart workshop

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back way back 2014, 2015.

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And I'm gonna bring The Wake Up Call With Jackie

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back to iTunes, to Spotify,

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except it's just gonna be called The Jackie Show now,

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because I think we can all agree that I'm a whole show.

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And it's going to have a segment on it called The Audacity.

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And I think you're gonna really love it

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because it's going to make you feel so much better

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about your dating life.

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When you hear about the dating life of others,

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you're gonna realize that you don't have it as bad

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as you think you do,

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and that there's still hope out there,

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and there's still good men,

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there's still good women out there.

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And so that is going to be a really fun time.

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So The Audacity is gonna premiere at the end of July.

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It's just The Jackie Show,

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but that's gonna be one of the main setups

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or main section segments.

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But I will have single spotlights on The Jackie Show.

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I will have all kinds of education on The Jackie Show

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for all of you that need help in your relationships,

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in your pre-relationships,

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for those of you that are single

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and don't even have a date lined up.

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And I hope that you will join us for that

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on YouTube, Spotify, or iTunes.

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And so that's coming out soon.

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So if you like a little dose of Jackie in your pocket,

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in your back pocket, in your phone,

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that's gonna happen soon, and it's gonna be fun.

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All right, I've given people a few minutes

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to all get let in from the waiting room.

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We have about 81 of you live here tonight.

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For those of you that just jumped on,

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so sad to say that half of our dynamic duo cannot be here

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because of a family emergency, unforeseen, and unavoidable.

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But one half is, and that half is super tall.

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That half is gonna fill up the whole screen.

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I don't know if you remember this.

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I'm spotlighting him now.

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Everyone welcome, Dave Dawson.

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But I don't know if you remember this or not,

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but back in the day when you were in my heart workshop,

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back in married in 12 months or less days,

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I remember asking you how tall you were.

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And then when you told me, I was shocked.

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I was shook.

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I was like, oh, I expected you to say like,

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you know, five, you know, 5'11", six foot tall, you know,

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but then you were like, but actually,

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and then I thought it was a joke at first.

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Same with Paul.

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Do you remember tall Paul?

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Do you remember tall Paul from those days?

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Was he from Ontario?

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He was the only one that's ever been taller than you.

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Wait, you're muted.

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Let's find out what's going on with you.

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Hold on.

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This right here is David Dorman.

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Okay.

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Also known as the IT department.

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Double D.

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You guys heard him, but I didn't.

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So don't talk because I need,

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you guys can hear me, right?

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Maybe put headphones in.

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No one can hear me?

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Yeah, I can hear you.

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I can show you my feet if you like in the meantime,

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because I've been collecting lots of socks.

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See, here are my crazy socks tonight.

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There you go.

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Yeah, since we're talking about feet pics.

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All right, friends.

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Hold on one second.

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We have no sound.

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I know you guys can hear us both, but I can't.

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and hear him and that will be an issue here

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in just a minute.

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First woman to ever tell me it's an issue

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that she can't hear me.

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So it's great.

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She's going to play this back and be like,

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what an idiot.

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What are you doing?

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What's on those socks?

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Good question.

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Uh, summer vacation.

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There is a little camper van and some

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palm trees starts.

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And then sometimes it goes, okay.

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At one point in time, I had like 80 pairs

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of socks and I kept poking my toes through

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them, so not purposely.

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Unintentionally.

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Anyway, I was going to tell you the joke

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that I, Josh and I had planned for tonight.

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Um, I'm six foot four, but Josh was going

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to come on and say with the American

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conversion rate, that's down to five, nine.

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And I was more opening line, but Josh

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isn't here because of the family emergency.

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So anyway, I am six foot four.

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I'm taller than Jackie and she still

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can't hear me, which is amazing.

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The power I have right now, your twin bro

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is six, six tremendous.

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I still can't hear you.

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Good times.

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Anyway.

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Hi, I'm Dave.

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Um, great.

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Thanks Lynn.

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It's excellent.

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Tell us about myself, Sarah.

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For sure.

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I'm Dave.

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I'm six foot four.

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I live in Western Canada province of Alberta.

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I see some cheering.

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That's tremendous.

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Um, yeah.

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What do I, uh, I lead men's ministry.

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Oh, here we go.

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Marilyn says she's missed my humor.

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Fantastic.

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Finally, there's one person I was getting,

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but, uh, yeah, I, I really fired up about,

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uh, leading men.

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I have, um, a small group in my church

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called, uh, called rescue mission.

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So there's a bunch of guys with

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PTSD in my group as well.

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So I really feel just so, um, my big desire

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is just calling men to a higher standard.

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Uh, I work in sports media, so you can

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Google me and I'm there probably,

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hopefully for all the good reasons.

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Uh, any of the bad reasons, I guess

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I can't do anything about that.

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Cause they say what's on the internet

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is always on the internet.

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And now Jackie has totally given me this

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show so I can go off script completely.

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That's fantastic.

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I'm sure I'll just unmute everybody's

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mic like it used to be back in the day.

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And it was just a circus.

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It was awesome.

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Um, no, I'm kidding, Jackie.

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Uh, I love Jackie.

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Her and I have just become great friends

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over the years.

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I'm so grateful for her, uh, relationship

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and, and, uh, just what her mentorship

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and what she's been able to do through

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so many great women and so many great men.

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And thank you.

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I have a voice for sports media.

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Um, I've been told early in my life,

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I have the face for radio as well.

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That's the easy joke.

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I know no one's actually told me that,

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but, um, I'm 47 years old.

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I don't have any kids.

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Um, often I throw in the knot that I

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know of, but that's not really funny.

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It's why I usually say that, but, uh,

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I just did here and it's recorded.

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So there's nothing I can do now,

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but I'm 47.

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Are you, are you already being a loose

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cannon?

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What are you doing?

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Never.

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You can always trust me.

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Listen, I got on here and this is what

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I heard when I got on.

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I shouldn't have said that, but I did.

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And it's being recorded.

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I'm like, Oh, Oh no.

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All right.

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So you guys technical difficulties

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here at the Casa.

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So that's fine.

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I'm just going to be on my husband's

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uh, phone here and we're just going to

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jump in.

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All right.

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So you guys, we have a hard stop

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because I had a book club tonight.

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And so we want to make sure that we

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jump right into all of your questions.

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If you have questions for our

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bachelor this evening, Dave Dawson,

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did you tell them where you're from?

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I did tell him how tall you were.

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I said, I'm six foot four.

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And the joke that Josh and I had planned

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up until today during this family

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emergency was I'm six foot four.

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Josh was going to come in and say,

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but that's five nine with the American

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conversion rate.

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So it might be less than that.

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It might be five, three in this economy.

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But anyway, uh, that's who I am.

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And, and I, what I said, what I said,

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I shouldn't have said that was I say

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that I don't have any kids, but I,

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sometimes I say not that I know of,

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but that's not very nice.

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So, and I didn't say that, but I did.

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So anyway, that's

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very funny.

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And also not true.

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Also not true.

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Because this guy loves Jesus.

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All right.

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I know a lot of you are like, there's

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no men on earth that love Jesus anymore.

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Well, that's not true.

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In fact, Dave not only loves Jesus,

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but he also leads other men not to

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just love Jesus, but also to kind of

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restore the masculinity.

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Uh, the divine masculinity.

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I think that we've, I think people

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think that we've been having a

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recession of that and, you know, have

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you seen all these princess memes where

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guys are dressed like princesses and

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it's like the real dating problem is

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that men want to be treated like

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princesses and it's just this whole

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thing.

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And I think that that kind of

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propaganda has caught on in the way

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that a lot of women think that men

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are not masculine anymore.

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don't want to pursue, they don't want to initiate, they don't want to lead. And so Dave, not only is

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not one of those men that doesn't want to lead, initiate or pursue, he also is helping other men

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to step up into their masculinity, not just in dating, but just in life. And so talk about that,

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talk about your passion for men's ministry there. And did you, you told them that you live in

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Canada though, right? Yeah. I talked a little bit about, um, men's ministry here already, but yeah,

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I really wanted to unpack that a little more. We're getting some great questions here. Thanks

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so much, ladies. This is fantastic. So yeah, my big, uh, my big passion is just biblical

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masculinity and how it can compliment, um, the feminine, the divine feminine. And it's,

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I think just in today's world, you know, the enemy from day one, even from trying to get

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online here, my, my battery died on my computer. I'm logging in. It's going crazy. Like

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the enemy hates godly men and godly women, godly relationships. He hates it. And that's why Jackie's

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ministry has exploded. That's why Jackie, the heart work when, you know, when I first went

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through years ago, that's why it's just been so beneficial. And that's why I think what Jackie,

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the Lord has given Jackie a burden for is so powerful is because there's such a thirst.

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I think when men and women really dive in to what the divine feminine and the divine masculine

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really looks like, I think I have such a passion for, um, just allowing men to be the best version

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of themselves. And I just finished, um, my second semester of our, our small group at my church

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called rescue mission. And two of the, your buds falling out here, two of the pinnacles, two of the

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points that I really believe that biblical masculinity is surrounded around her meekness

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and self-control. So meekness, gentleness, hand in hand, but meekness is power under control.

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So the ability to have strength, but bridled strength. So knowing that a man can protect,

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a man can provide, and a man can take care of situations, but have it under control and

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self-control being able to put the urges to the side and, and honor the Lord with that.

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So I'm so passionate about men. And I'm so passionate about, um, just, you know, at my age

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47, I don't have kids. I've never had kids and I'm up to whatever the Lord has planned for my life,

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whether it's someone else's kids or, or having kids of my own, I'm very surrendered to that. And

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I really do believe that at whatever age you're at, like, I only started going to the gym two

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years ago. And I'm like, I, this is something brand new. I'm Lord, this is something you want

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for my life. I'm all in. So that's kind of who I am as a person. I believe that you're never too old,

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that you're never too young, that if the God's given you a burden and at a piece and a purpose,

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then he's going to honor you with that. So

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now I can't hear Jackie. So the tables are turned here.

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All right. Lots of great comments here. Uh, Desiree says,

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you can hear me. Everything's good. All right. Perfect. All right. So you guys,

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we don't have a lot of time. We do have a hard stop. So I want to make sure that you guys get

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your questions answered. Please put them in the chat. I will ask the ones that I think are

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appropriate. If you ask something that I don't think is for public consumption, and then I will

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not ask that question. Um, I do want to say this, that, you know, when men get up into their mid to

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late forties, early fifties, and they have never been married, a lot of women think that it's

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because they're very picky or they're an avoidant attacher. Right. And so what do you say to that,

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Dave? Yeah, that's a great question. I appreciate you asking that. And I think for most of my life,

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I bloomed late. My dad died when I was young. So it took me quite a long time to understand

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what masculinity looked like to me. I was raised by my mom and my sister. So naturally, um, there

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isn't a lot of masculinity that comes from women. So there were a lot of things that, a lot of

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things that the Lord needed to work out in me. And I think that, you know, I'm going through

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Jackie's program the first time I still had a lot of pride. I still had a lot of, a lot of hurt. And

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I'm really, really grateful that the Lord has really instilled in me the ability to just get

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really addicted to feedback and coaching. And I love it. Um, so, and then I blossomed late started

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my career in my early thirties. So, um, traveled quite a bit of my career and then COVID hit. So

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during the time that I thought I was fairly ready, um, that really hit me hard, um, lost

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everything in my career, had to rebuild it again. So, and then really started to dig in and do the

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hard work and the important things and realize that stewardship is the one thing that I always,

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um, really needed work on. And the father has just drawn me so close to him and allows,

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really allowed me to see what healthy masculinity looks like. And, um, I think for a lot of men,

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pride is probably the one thing, right?

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a fix and we can't fix ourselves. It's difficult. And there are a lot of men I think out there that

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are picky because maybe they're too afraid to navigate through the herd inside. So therefore

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they want to try and make something else perfect because they're too afraid to look internal.

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So for a lot of the men that I. That's good. That's some good feedback. So let's ask you

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this. So in my book club, for those of you that did not join this last time around,

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we are going to be doing a special Sunday session. So if weeknights do not work for you,

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please watch your email. We're going to be doing an early evening Sunday session.

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For those of you in other countries, for those of you that just are busy on weeknights. Okay. But

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we're talking about non-negotiables versus preferences, Dave. So let's talk about a few

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of your non-negotiables. Now that you've done the work, you've been digging into masculinity.

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You're stepping into a place and season where you feel like you're ready more than ever to

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partner because friends, it's all about progress, right? It's not about perfection. And as you've

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been learning that, what is now on your non-negotiable list in a partner? Yeah. What do

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you got? That's so good. That's so good. As being an Oilers fan, Geraldine, actually I'm from

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Winnipeg. So I'm a Jets fan. So I'm open. I love making fun of the Oilers. It's good. The

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non-negotiables being a Toronto Maple Leafs fan. If you're like, that's done. No, I'm just kidding.

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But I think in, I don't have to dig in too deep to say that, you know, we live in a pretty

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polarizing world, right? There are a lot of things that I had a friend years ago, about 15 years ago,

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when he first met his wife, he said that he believes in a separation of church and state.

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And I think that often sometimes, you know, politics and faith can be separated. I think

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for me, I'm not going to talk about politics. That's not what I'm saying, but I'm talking about

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some of the things that I just think it's so important to be united in some of the things

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you believe in, right? I believe in healthy masculinity, healthy femininity. I believe in,

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you know, I think it's important to talk about politics because I will tell you,

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I was just on Fox News, you know, Fox News has made me their relationship correspondent. So I

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go on there quite a bit now to weigh in on relationship stuff. And they were talking about,

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um, they were asking me, what are the biggest deal breakers that I'm seeing that maybe weren't

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deal breakers 10 years ago. And I'm telling you politics is a deal breaker. Now it's not a

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preference. It used to be maybe that Democrats and Republicans, I'm just going to use our parties in

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America. I know you live in Canada, but I'm just going to use our parties. It used to be that maybe

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a Democrat can marry a Republican and live happily ever after. But now there's such polarizing

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issues. There's so many things that have happened pretty much from 2020 on that have caused that

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chasm to widen to the point where it has become a deal breaker because it's no longer just about

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what you believe hypothetically. Now it's about lifestyle, Dave. It's become a lifestyle

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situation. It's become an ethics situation, a moral situation. So feel free to be, um, unfiltered

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Dave that I know you to be, and just talk about what are your non-negotiables because we're trying

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to find you a wife here. So what are your non-negotiables? Okay. I'm just going to throw

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it out bold. I don't usually go for Jackie. I try to be more ball or meek and gentle.

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Wild huck. Let's go. Yeah. Um, obviously, um, things are in Canada. Yes. I'm open to moving

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by the way, but things in Canada, um, are probably just as polarizing as they are in America. And I

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think that we've had a liberal government here for 10 years and our country is falling apart.

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It's, it's, it's, it's awful. Um, so yeah, I, I, I wanted, I, I, I vote on the right side of it.

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I don't dislike people who are liberal. I think it's, you know, it's not what it is, but if someone's

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going to have liberal values that generally follows X, Y, and Z who, you know, those kinds of things.

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So I don't feel that, you know, a wife and I wife and I, my wife could align if she was on the side

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of X, you know, filling all those isms along with it. So. Absolutely. All right. So ladies,

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you know, you need to, you need to think about what he's saying right now, as far as your

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non-negotiables. I know that, you know, as Christians, we want to be loving, want to be

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caring. We think, oh yeah, you know, it's not that big of a deal. It's not a big deal until it becomes

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a big deal. And especially if you raise children together, um, these issues just become big deals

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because we don't live in the same world that we even lived in 10 years ago. So let's make

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sure we're paying attention to that. So someone who's conservative, who has conservative values,

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who believes in life, who believes in, um, you know, all the things that conservative

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values stand for deal breaker, what else is on your deal breaker list?

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Oh, um, one that's always kind of been there and I, I don't want to loop it in with, um,

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you know, a liberal value. But I really believe that, you know, I've been a man for 47 years.

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Don't plan to ever be a woman. But from what I understand that you'd be one ugly woman.

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I would. Thank you. And I'm a very handsome man. I've never considered it ever. I do enjoy all

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the things being a man brings, including being on this show, which is there'd be a weird spot

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to admit that I want to be a woman, but anyway, awkward. But no, I feel that I'm, I'm really open

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to, you know, like traditional values in this economy. I know sometimes dual income is the way

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to go. I, you know, I, I want to be a provider. I want to be a protector. I want to emotionally

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protect and provide at some point in time, I want to be the leader. And I think that, you know,

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without digging in too deep in that, I think sometimes there's a lot of hurt and Jackie does

480
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such an incredible job, allowing women to dive in and repair. But I don't know if I could be

481
00:26:06.000 --> 00:26:10.400
compatible with a woman who wants to leave my family. I need to be the guy who's through the

482
00:26:10.400 --> 00:26:16.080
Lord. So I hope that you're hearing that his non-negotiable is a woman who has done her

483
00:26:16.080 --> 00:26:21.840
heartwork. So a woman who's done her heartwork, she's not in her toxic masculine. She's not trying

484
00:26:21.840 --> 00:26:29.600
to control. She's not trying to push an agenda to feel safe. Okay. So someone who's already done

485
00:26:29.600 --> 00:26:34.400
that work, he's done that work. So he's wanting someone who's done that work. Someone who knows

486
00:26:34.400 --> 00:26:39.360
how to be in her feminine knows how to be soft. Okay. I know him. So I'm just going to go ahead

487
00:26:39.360 --> 00:26:43.280
and speak for him. He's not looking for a doormat. He would never do well with that. He's not looking

488
00:26:43.280 --> 00:26:49.440
for someone without an opinion, but he is looking for someone who knows how to fight fair. Someone

489
00:26:49.440 --> 00:26:56.640
who has unpacked their boxes. Uh, if, if another man has hurt you and you have not healed from it,

490
00:26:56.640 --> 00:27:02.080
this is not the right match for you. Okay. You got to go do that work instead of projecting

491
00:27:02.080 --> 00:27:09.760
that onto another person. So that's good. Right. That's good. I think it is. I think it's a,

492
00:27:09.760 --> 00:27:13.680
it's on, it's on my list. Yeah. It looks, what does it look like to be married to you?

493
00:27:13.680 --> 00:27:17.600
Kind of walk us through a day of what it looks like to be your wife, Dave.

494
00:27:17.600 --> 00:27:24.080
Okay. Well, uh, I'll probably get up in the morning and I, um, uh, it'd be awkward. I'd be,

495
00:27:24.080 --> 00:27:28.880
you know, probably stand on the balcony in my shorts and you'd be like, what is this guy doing?

496
00:27:28.880 --> 00:27:35.440
And I do look at mating call out and know what's weird, awkward again. So, and call, um, no, I, uh,

497
00:27:35.440 --> 00:27:41.360
I'll be really goofy. I think we're going to be, I'll be at 12 years old until I'm 110, but I'll

498
00:27:41.360 --> 00:27:46.160
write you a little notes. I'll call compliment. She'll surprise you at work. I'll take you for

499
00:27:46.160 --> 00:27:51.040
lunches. You know, I'll, you know, on a weekend, I'll put a blindfold on you, take you to the

500
00:27:51.040 --> 00:27:55.360
airport and say, Hey, get on a plane. And when I take the blindfold off when we're landing,

501
00:27:55.360 --> 00:27:58.800
and it might be your favorite spot you wanted to go, I'll take you for fun picnic. So I'll,

502
00:27:59.520 --> 00:28:04.480
I'll want to do a bonfires. Um, we'll watch chick flicks together. We'll go shopping.

503
00:28:04.480 --> 00:28:10.000
I'll probably take you to a lot of sporting events. Um, I might belch from time to time,

504
00:28:10.000 --> 00:28:15.600
but I'll apologize after, um, other than that, you know, I'll be best friends with your brother.

505
00:28:15.600 --> 00:28:20.720
I'll probably be better friends with your dad than you are. Um, I'll always call you beautiful.

506
00:28:20.720 --> 00:28:25.360
Doesn't matter. You know, even on your days that you don't feel it, I'll make sure you feel it.

507
00:28:25.360 --> 00:28:30.000
I'll make sure your girlfriends know how beautiful you are and everybody I'll make sure in public

508
00:28:30.000 --> 00:28:34.400
that they know you're mine. And if a guy winks at you and looks at you, I'll just laugh and go,

509
00:28:34.960 --> 00:28:40.560
she's mine, bro. She's hot. Isn't she? So, um, yeah, I'll pray over you. I'll lead you,

510
00:28:40.560 --> 00:28:46.240
you know, I'll take you into church and I'll make sure that we're speaking prophetically together.

511
00:28:46.240 --> 00:28:50.080
Um, I'll get up every morning and pray over you. I'll stay late and read the word at night.

512
00:28:50.800 --> 00:28:56.160
Um, yeah, I want to, if you have kids, I want to take your son to sporting events.

513
00:28:56.720 --> 00:29:01.120
Um, I'll protect your daughter. I'll walk on the inside, the outside lane. When we're walking on

514
00:29:01.120 --> 00:29:04.800
the street, I'll make sure that, you know, if there's a weird guy in front of you, I'll step

515
00:29:04.800 --> 00:29:10.560
in front. Um, I'll do whatever I can to sacrifice my time for you. Um, and that's what I really

516
00:29:10.560 --> 00:29:16.480
believe. God has called me to be as a man. Um, I'll always be, I won't always be perfect. I'll

517
00:29:16.480 --> 00:29:21.200
probably make a lot of mistakes. You'll get mad at me. Um, we'll play fight. I'll tickle you a lot.

518
00:29:21.200 --> 00:29:26.720
I'll probably pin you down. Um, but I'll, I'll always love you. And that's what it'd be like

519
00:29:26.720 --> 00:29:30.240
to be married to me. And you'll be probably a lot shorter than me. If you're taller than me,

520
00:29:30.240 --> 00:29:33.440
that okay. I don't know if that's a deal breaker, but that would be,

521
00:29:34.880 --> 00:29:40.560
I'd be a very, very tall, very, very tall woman. I mean, they do exist, but they're few and far

522
00:29:40.560 --> 00:29:45.120
between. And I don't think we have any of them here. So, so, but you know, there's always a

523
00:29:45.120 --> 00:29:50.320
stereotype, Dave, I want to just get into some stereotypes real quick that tall men. So men

524
00:29:50.320 --> 00:29:55.920
that are above like six, three. So tall, tall men, they always like really short women. So

525
00:29:55.920 --> 00:29:59.760
you always see these six, five guys with these four 11, five foot chicks.

526
00:30:00.000 --> 00:30:04.400
So like, is this real? Is that true? Are you attracted to very, very small women?

527
00:30:05.300 --> 00:30:07.600
Like fun sized women?

528
00:30:07.600 --> 00:30:10.700
I do like fun size. I'm not going to I'm not going to lie.

529
00:30:10.700 --> 00:30:16.900
I mean, I yeah, I dated a woman who was 510, you know, almost married her.

530
00:30:17.600 --> 00:30:20.800
So I don't I don't prefer taller.

531
00:30:20.800 --> 00:30:23.200
Be careful, Dave, because I'm 510 and even though I'm married,

532
00:30:23.200 --> 00:30:25.500
I could still be offended by any tall girl jokes.

533
00:30:25.800 --> 00:30:27.800
It's true. But I mostly just DM those to you.

534
00:30:27.800 --> 00:30:30.700
I wouldn't. Well, actually, I'd make fun of you to your face as well.

535
00:30:31.000 --> 00:30:32.100
I don't talk behind people's back.

536
00:30:32.100 --> 00:30:34.500
It's more fun to make fun of someone through their face because you can see

537
00:30:34.500 --> 00:30:35.100
their reaction.

538
00:30:35.100 --> 00:30:35.700
It really is.

539
00:30:36.000 --> 00:30:36.300
Yeah.

540
00:30:36.300 --> 00:30:37.400
Why did you marry her?

541
00:30:37.400 --> 00:30:38.400
What happened to her?

542
00:30:38.600 --> 00:30:40.500
I was an immature jerk.

543
00:30:41.000 --> 00:30:41.700
She lived in Seattle.

544
00:30:41.700 --> 00:30:43.100
But it had nothing to do with her height.

545
00:30:43.500 --> 00:30:44.400
No, not at all.

546
00:30:44.400 --> 00:30:45.100
We were incredible.

547
00:30:45.100 --> 00:30:48.800
She was perfect in a lot of ways for me at that time, but I was an immature

548
00:30:48.800 --> 00:30:50.100
jerk and I broke her heart.

549
00:30:50.900 --> 00:30:56.100
But yeah, and that was 15 years ago and the Lord has done incredible work

550
00:30:56.100 --> 00:30:59.200
in me and I still have a long way to go.

551
00:30:59.200 --> 00:31:05.100
But yeah, I've certainly, yeah, 5'8", 5'7", whatever, you know.

552
00:31:05.200 --> 00:31:08.300
Yeah, I like really feminine, fashionable girls.

553
00:31:08.300 --> 00:31:08.800
That's still short for you.

554
00:31:09.100 --> 00:31:10.300
Yeah, it is still short for me.

555
00:31:11.100 --> 00:31:12.000
Okay, but that's good.

556
00:31:12.000 --> 00:31:15.500
Okay, so we talked about some non-negotiables that Dave has.

557
00:31:15.500 --> 00:31:17.100
Let's talk about some preferences.

558
00:31:17.300 --> 00:31:21.100
So he likes feminine women and that looks like something.

559
00:31:21.100 --> 00:31:24.300
So that looks like women that dress feminine, that act feminine.

560
00:31:24.300 --> 00:31:25.900
Can you describe that a little bit more?

561
00:31:26.200 --> 00:31:28.100
Like, okay, you're in a room full of women.

562
00:31:28.100 --> 00:31:29.700
You just walked into a room full of women.

563
00:31:29.700 --> 00:31:30.900
They're all dressed differently.

564
00:31:30.900 --> 00:31:31.900
They're all different heights.

565
00:31:31.900 --> 00:31:33.000
They have different hair color.

566
00:31:33.300 --> 00:31:35.600
Who would you notice right off the bat?

567
00:31:36.000 --> 00:31:38.200
Well, if somebody was wearing a balloon hat, I'd probably notice them

568
00:31:38.200 --> 00:31:40.700
first and be like, that's some crazy style.

569
00:31:40.700 --> 00:31:41.400
That's unreal.

570
00:31:41.400 --> 00:31:43.400
Like, you could pull that off, but no, I wouldn't be.

571
00:31:43.600 --> 00:31:45.700
I mean, maybe some people are into balloon hats.

572
00:31:45.700 --> 00:31:48.700
I'm not judging, but Jackie's got counseling services for that.

573
00:31:48.700 --> 00:31:54.700
But no, yeah, I really, you know, and it was outspoken and Jackie's

574
00:31:54.700 --> 00:31:57.800
known me for years and I can certainly, you know, entertain a room,

575
00:31:57.800 --> 00:32:00.400
but I'm, I am the extroverted introvert.

576
00:32:00.400 --> 00:32:06.500
So I just as much enjoy, I love gentle and calm and, you know, girly,

577
00:32:06.500 --> 00:32:11.000
you know, she doesn't have to be the one gathering everyone in the

578
00:32:11.000 --> 00:32:15.300
room, she doesn't have to be super outgoing, but I do well with

579
00:32:15.300 --> 00:32:19.300
people who can compliment me in situations that she doesn't have

580
00:32:19.300 --> 00:32:21.200
to be the center of attention.

581
00:32:21.500 --> 00:32:24.500
She can be at times, but, um, somebody who's certainly,

582
00:32:24.800 --> 00:32:27.500
well, you know, everyone has a type and see, you wouldn't know any

583
00:32:27.500 --> 00:32:30.400
of what you're talking about right now until you talk to people.

584
00:32:30.400 --> 00:32:33.900
So if you walk in the room and you're just looking, yeah, just look

585
00:32:33.900 --> 00:32:37.700
at the only thing that are, are, are involved right now.

586
00:32:37.700 --> 00:32:38.100
All right.

587
00:32:38.200 --> 00:32:39.800
I generally wrong too.

588
00:32:40.300 --> 00:32:43.700
I mostly somebody who's got a style that works for her.

589
00:32:43.800 --> 00:32:47.300
And there are guys out there who want the, I use the term Barbie

590
00:32:47.300 --> 00:32:49.500
doll, and I'm not that kind of guy.

591
00:32:49.600 --> 00:32:52.100
I'm not looking for the girl and the beautiful dress and all that

592
00:32:52.100 --> 00:32:53.500
stuff, if she can rock it.

593
00:32:53.500 --> 00:32:54.000
Great.

594
00:32:54.400 --> 00:32:56.900
If you know, we're at a black tie event.

595
00:32:56.900 --> 00:32:57.400
Sure.

596
00:32:57.400 --> 00:33:01.000
But if it's just a coffee shop, someone who can, she's into her

597
00:33:01.000 --> 00:33:04.300
style, whether that's a nice scarf or a tank top or whatever the

598
00:33:04.300 --> 00:33:07.700
day is, and I can see that she's comfortable in it, that she, she

599
00:33:07.700 --> 00:33:10.000
thinks that she's beautiful and what she's wearing could be sweat

600
00:33:10.000 --> 00:33:11.900
pants and a, and a sweatshirt.

601
00:33:11.900 --> 00:33:15.000
And I'd be like, wow, like dark hair generally I'm attracted to, but

602
00:33:15.000 --> 00:33:16.700
I've also dated blonde women.

603
00:33:16.700 --> 00:33:17.800
Like it's, I don't know.

604
00:33:17.900 --> 00:33:22.600
Just the, the femininity, the gentleness, the, the joy, the, the

605
00:33:22.600 --> 00:33:25.000
passion, the, the, the one who smiles.

606
00:33:25.000 --> 00:33:25.900
I love smiling.

607
00:33:25.900 --> 00:33:27.700
It's a horrible drug of mine.

608
00:33:27.700 --> 00:33:33.000
And but yeah, so she doesn't have to be super over, but just the

609
00:33:33.000 --> 00:33:34.200
joy and the peace.

610
00:33:34.800 --> 00:33:38.500
It's easy to see when you're, when you have peace in your heart, you

611
00:33:38.500 --> 00:33:41.100
can see peace and that's attractive to me.

612
00:33:41.100 --> 00:33:42.400
I love when a woman is peaceful.

613
00:33:42.400 --> 00:33:43.500
That's the first thing I noticed.

614
00:33:43.500 --> 00:33:45.500
Usually dark hair, very likely not going to lie.

615
00:33:46.000 --> 00:33:48.500
Um, and yeah, that's probably what I noticed first.

616
00:33:50.100 --> 00:33:50.600
Okay.

617
00:33:51.000 --> 00:33:51.600
Do you hear that?

618
00:33:52.200 --> 00:33:52.700
All right.

619
00:33:53.400 --> 00:33:54.100
None of that.

620
00:33:54.100 --> 00:33:55.200
None of that's deal breakers.

621
00:33:55.200 --> 00:34:01.100
Those are all preferences and David Dave has done his work enough to

622
00:34:01.100 --> 00:34:06.500
know that, you know, God can send a curve ball, you know, something

623
00:34:06.500 --> 00:34:11.199
that's not your normal, uh, type necessarily, and you could still be

624
00:34:11.199 --> 00:34:11.800
drawn to it.

625
00:34:12.100 --> 00:34:14.199
So he was talking about peaceful woman.

626
00:34:14.300 --> 00:34:19.400
A woman who has presence, someone who holds herself confidently is

627
00:34:19.400 --> 00:34:26.100
peaceful, not, you know, trying to get attention necessarily, uh, someone

628
00:34:26.100 --> 00:34:28.100
who's comfortable in her own significance.

629
00:34:28.100 --> 00:34:28.699
That's good.

630
00:34:29.100 --> 00:34:31.500
Uh, now you told them what you do for a living, right?

631
00:34:31.500 --> 00:34:34.000
Did you tell them what you do when I was not on?

632
00:34:35.000 --> 00:34:37.600
A lot of things that I said when you're not on here to go back and

633
00:34:37.600 --> 00:34:38.100
watch it.

634
00:34:38.100 --> 00:34:38.500
I know.

635
00:34:38.500 --> 00:34:39.699
I'm sorry about that.

636
00:34:39.699 --> 00:34:42.800
I, you know, the technical difficulties are real.

637
00:34:43.100 --> 00:34:46.900
So, uh, you did tell them that you, that you work in sports.

638
00:34:49.300 --> 00:34:49.600
Yeah.

639
00:34:49.600 --> 00:34:53.699
So that's, uh, there are situations that I'm around lots of people.

640
00:34:53.699 --> 00:34:54.699
There's a spotlight.

641
00:34:54.900 --> 00:34:56.100
Um, yeah.

642
00:34:56.199 --> 00:34:57.500
So that's just, yeah.

643
00:34:59.000 --> 00:34:59.500
So.

644
00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:06.120
Um, having a wife, having a woman in your life who is supportive of what you do and

645
00:35:06.120 --> 00:35:11.000
you know, interested in what you do, I think would be a preference, not a deal breaker,

646
00:35:11.000 --> 00:35:16.720
but I think it could be good to have someone who, you know, wants to support and even as

647
00:35:16.720 --> 00:35:19.760
interested in your career.

648
00:35:19.760 --> 00:35:21.960
And I think that that's important.

649
00:35:21.960 --> 00:35:23.920
Um, right.

650
00:35:23.920 --> 00:35:24.920
Don't you think?

651
00:35:24.920 --> 00:35:25.920
Yeah.

652
00:35:25.920 --> 00:35:26.920
And I do.

653
00:35:26.920 --> 00:35:30.120
One of the things that, uh, the Lord has really revealed to me and praying and asking for

654
00:35:30.120 --> 00:35:34.440
what qualities he wants me to have in a wife is somebody who's got a gift with a prophetic

655
00:35:34.440 --> 00:35:37.280
and it doesn't have to be speaking in tongues and all that stuff.

656
00:35:37.280 --> 00:35:40.760
That's not what I mean, but somebody who is really in tune with the Lord.

657
00:35:40.760 --> 00:35:44.560
And if I'm having a tough day, she knows exactly how to speak into me.

658
00:35:44.560 --> 00:35:50.160
If I am, you know, I'm being, being a goof or a tool, then she's like, Hey, you know

659
00:35:50.160 --> 00:35:51.160
what?

660
00:35:51.160 --> 00:35:52.160
The Lord's telling me you got to smarten up here.

661
00:35:52.160 --> 00:35:53.160
You're not reading the word enough.

662
00:35:53.160 --> 00:35:55.400
You're not spending more time, enough time at the gym.

663
00:35:55.400 --> 00:35:56.400
You're not eating healthy.

664
00:35:56.880 --> 00:36:00.160
Um, or maybe she just got an encouraging word for someone else.

665
00:36:00.160 --> 00:36:01.160
We're at a restaurant.

666
00:36:01.160 --> 00:36:03.560
Hey, the Lord's telling me that we had to go give that guy a hundred bucks.

667
00:36:03.560 --> 00:36:04.560
Okay, cool.

668
00:36:04.560 --> 00:36:05.560
You're right.

669
00:36:05.560 --> 00:36:08.960
So, um, those are things that I absolutely love and I am really praying for that.

670
00:36:08.960 --> 00:36:09.960
And, um, and yeah, sure.

671
00:36:09.960 --> 00:36:10.960
I work in broadcast.

672
00:36:10.960 --> 00:36:16.000
I, I, I, I know the Lord has called me to do bigger things in ministry.

673
00:36:16.000 --> 00:36:22.720
So if she has a passion to be involved administratively, or the Lord's going to call on her life, I

674
00:36:22.720 --> 00:36:23.720
want to partner up.

675
00:36:23.720 --> 00:36:24.720
I want to do it together.

676
00:36:24.720 --> 00:36:25.720
Like my life.

677
00:36:25.720 --> 00:36:26.720
Isn't my journey.

678
00:36:26.720 --> 00:36:28.720
Hey, you're going to jump on my back and we're going to follow my career.

679
00:36:28.720 --> 00:36:30.160
I want to do it together.

680
00:36:30.160 --> 00:36:31.680
I want to do great things.

681
00:36:31.680 --> 00:36:35.160
You know, I could be doing this great national broadcast.

682
00:36:35.160 --> 00:36:37.760
And then she gets a word from the Lord tonight and says, Hey, we've got to move to Dallas

683
00:36:37.760 --> 00:36:38.760
tomorrow.

684
00:36:38.760 --> 00:36:42.600
Like the Lord needs me to go and help this single mom and I'll just play and be like,

685
00:36:42.600 --> 00:36:43.600
you're right.

686
00:36:43.600 --> 00:36:44.600
We're moving.

687
00:36:44.600 --> 00:36:45.600
Right.

688
00:36:45.600 --> 00:36:49.080
So it's a, it's a, a team effort and that's really what I wanted.

689
00:36:49.080 --> 00:36:52.560
So for those of you that were asking earlier, you know, does he want someone to Lord over

690
00:36:52.560 --> 00:36:53.560
and dominate?

691
00:36:54.400 --> 00:36:56.080
He's going to be in charge, blah, blah, blah, blah.

692
00:36:56.080 --> 00:37:01.200
You can see now that his definition of leadership is more like what I call West coast swing

693
00:37:01.200 --> 00:37:02.480
leadership.

694
00:37:02.480 --> 00:37:06.880
If you've ever been in the dancing world, then you know that both partners have to equally

695
00:37:06.880 --> 00:37:11.120
bring it to the table in order for that dance to work.

696
00:37:11.120 --> 00:37:12.600
And so that's what he's talking about.

697
00:37:12.600 --> 00:37:16.080
He's talking about a partnership where you're leaning into each other's strengths that you're

698
00:37:16.080 --> 00:37:18.760
minimizing each other's weaknesses.

699
00:37:18.760 --> 00:37:23.040
My husband is this kind of man as well, where, you know, I'm an easer.

700
00:37:23.040 --> 00:37:27.640
And if you guys know what that word means in the Hebrew, it means God as help.

701
00:37:27.640 --> 00:37:28.640
God is rescuer.

702
00:37:28.640 --> 00:37:29.960
That's what help meet means.

703
00:37:29.960 --> 00:37:36.920
And so a healthy feminine force in a man's life is going to be a warning in the prophetic

704
00:37:36.920 --> 00:37:40.720
of intuition, women's intuition, Hey, I don't think we should make that deal.

705
00:37:40.720 --> 00:37:43.760
I don't think that business partner has your best interests at heart.

706
00:37:43.760 --> 00:37:47.920
You know, men are well served to listen to their wife's advice.

707
00:37:47.920 --> 00:37:52.720
We see this in a lot of instances in the Bible of the divine feminine being used in

708
00:37:52.720 --> 00:37:55.160
the lives of men through their wives.

709
00:37:55.160 --> 00:38:00.160
You see that with, you see that with, um, with a pilot's wife, she's like, you shouldn't

710
00:38:00.160 --> 00:38:01.680
have anything to do with this man.

711
00:38:01.680 --> 00:38:06.840
You see that in Abigail and David, you see that in that story, you see that in lots of

712
00:38:06.840 --> 00:38:07.840
stories.

713
00:38:07.840 --> 00:38:11.400
And then we've seen that played out in history over and over and over again.

714
00:38:11.400 --> 00:38:14.400
And I see that played out in my marriage every single day.

715
00:38:14.400 --> 00:38:22.640
And so, um, Dave is a, is a man who knows the actual powerful partnership of having

716
00:38:22.640 --> 00:38:33.960
a healthy hearted, warring and, um, powerful spiritual wife.

717
00:38:33.960 --> 00:38:34.960
Okay.

718
00:38:34.960 --> 00:38:37.480
So that should answer your question for those of you that are like, what does that look

719
00:38:37.480 --> 00:38:38.480
like?

720
00:38:38.480 --> 00:38:42.120
Is he wants to, cause some of you have toxic leadership in your past.

721
00:38:42.120 --> 00:38:48.680
You had a man who was overplaying the, I'm the man card and that didn't work out that

722
00:38:48.680 --> 00:38:49.680
great.

723
00:38:49.680 --> 00:38:50.680
And I'm sorry for you.

724
00:38:50.680 --> 00:38:51.680
And I'm sorry for that.

725
00:38:51.680 --> 00:38:56.320
And I've experienced that myself, but there are strong men that like strong women.

726
00:38:56.320 --> 00:39:01.840
As long as those strong women know that they don't have to be in a toxic strength.

727
00:39:01.840 --> 00:39:03.840
They can just be in their feminine strength.

728
00:39:03.840 --> 00:39:04.840
And that's it.

729
00:39:04.840 --> 00:39:05.840
Um, okay.

730
00:39:05.840 --> 00:39:06.840
Can I add a point to that?

731
00:39:06.840 --> 00:39:07.840
I think what you said is so beautiful.

732
00:39:07.840 --> 00:39:08.840
Yeah, you can.

733
00:39:08.840 --> 00:39:09.840
And I have a couple more questions I want to get in before we got it.

734
00:39:10.840 --> 00:39:11.840
I just want to give you a time.

735
00:39:11.840 --> 00:39:12.840
So, you know, we have seven minutes.

736
00:39:12.840 --> 00:39:13.840
Yeah.

737
00:39:13.840 --> 00:39:14.840
Okay.

738
00:39:14.840 --> 00:39:15.840
Excellent.

739
00:39:15.840 --> 00:39:16.840
I'm account.

740
00:39:16.840 --> 00:39:17.840
Whoa.

741
00:39:17.840 --> 00:39:18.840
Voice crack came at the right time.

742
00:39:18.840 --> 00:39:19.840
Oops.

743
00:39:19.840 --> 00:39:20.840
I'm going to put my laptop in and it's gone all crazy.

744
00:39:20.840 --> 00:39:25.800
Um, excuse me, I'm accountable to the Lord, right?

745
00:39:25.800 --> 00:39:31.400
So that's the thing that if I'm not treating you properly, the Lord's, he's going to hold

746
00:39:31.400 --> 00:39:34.760
me to that standard and I'm going to have to answer to him.

747
00:39:34.760 --> 00:39:39.000
So that's what I think is so incredible about the God that we serve that, you know, I want

748
00:39:39.160 --> 00:39:40.160
to be a protector.

749
00:39:40.160 --> 00:39:44.320
And I, and I, I think that's so powerful that I'm accountable to the Lord.

750
00:39:44.320 --> 00:39:49.200
So if I'm not walking in line, I got to answer to him and that's much more fearful than anything

751
00:39:49.200 --> 00:39:50.200
else for me.

752
00:39:50.200 --> 00:39:51.200
It's beautiful.

753
00:39:51.200 --> 00:39:52.200
Okay.

754
00:39:52.200 --> 00:39:53.200
We're going to speed round speed questions.

755
00:39:53.200 --> 00:39:59.520
Dave, I'm going to ask you the question and you're just going to give a brief answer because

756
00:39:59.520 --> 00:40:00.040
we want to get it.

757
00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:01.940
and as many as we can, speed round,

758
00:40:01.940 --> 00:40:03.980
speed questions, ladies, about logistics.

759
00:40:03.980 --> 00:40:06.260
He's already said he's willing to relocate.

760
00:40:06.260 --> 00:40:08.620
You know, he's not gonna marry you for a green card.

761
00:40:08.620 --> 00:40:10.060
And just so you guys know,

762
00:40:10.060 --> 00:40:14.740
we have had a lot of American Canadian success stories

763
00:40:14.740 --> 00:40:16.100
in last year's single,

764
00:40:16.100 --> 00:40:19.100
and relocating from Canada is not easy.

765
00:40:19.100 --> 00:40:20.140
It is not easy.

766
00:40:20.140 --> 00:40:20.980
We've had it,

767
00:40:20.980 --> 00:40:22.860
and it's probably one of the hardest countries

768
00:40:22.860 --> 00:40:24.180
for some reason to relocate from.

769
00:40:24.180 --> 00:40:26.980
Canada does not wanna let their people go.

770
00:40:26.980 --> 00:40:27.820
All right?

771
00:40:27.820 --> 00:40:29.200
He's starting to fine people.

772
00:40:29.200 --> 00:40:31.960
He's charging them thousands of dollars to leave Canada.

773
00:40:31.960 --> 00:40:32.800
Yeah, it's great.

774
00:40:32.800 --> 00:40:33.620
Communism's awesome.

775
00:40:33.620 --> 00:40:35.280
So maybe Perry's not softening him up.

776
00:40:35.280 --> 00:40:37.360
I thought for sure it would be like,

777
00:40:37.360 --> 00:40:40.880
you know, California girls, they're incredible.

778
00:40:40.880 --> 00:40:42.040
Din, din, din.

779
00:40:42.040 --> 00:40:42.880
Okay, no?

780
00:40:42.880 --> 00:40:43.720
All right.

781
00:40:43.720 --> 00:40:45.000
It's all good.

782
00:40:45.000 --> 00:40:48.560
Okay, what age range are you looking for?

783
00:40:48.560 --> 00:40:49.560
He wanna, do you,

784
00:40:49.560 --> 00:40:51.600
I know that you're okay with other people's children,

785
00:40:51.600 --> 00:40:53.920
but do you still wanna have a bio baby?

786
00:40:53.920 --> 00:40:55.760
I'm up for whatever the Lord has planned.

787
00:40:55.760 --> 00:40:56.600
Whatever the Lord has planned.

788
00:40:56.600 --> 00:40:57.420
What are you hoping?

789
00:40:58.260 --> 00:40:59.280
But you don't have to have it.

790
00:40:59.280 --> 00:41:00.520
It's not a deal breaker.

791
00:41:00.520 --> 00:41:01.360
No, no.

792
00:41:01.360 --> 00:41:04.800
But I'm, if that's, if I can, I enjoy,

793
00:41:04.800 --> 00:41:07.500
if I love my wife and the Bible says I should love my wife

794
00:41:07.500 --> 00:41:08.760
and part of the process is that,

795
00:41:08.760 --> 00:41:10.800
then hey, let's have at her.

796
00:41:12.240 --> 00:41:13.460
Okay.

797
00:41:13.460 --> 00:41:14.300
All right.

798
00:41:14.300 --> 00:41:15.840
Current book that you're reading.

799
00:41:15.840 --> 00:41:17.600
Are you reading a book?

800
00:41:17.600 --> 00:41:19.200
Ah, I don't read at all.

801
00:41:19.200 --> 00:41:20.040
You're reading, wait, you're reading.

802
00:41:20.040 --> 00:41:20.880
I can't read.

803
00:41:20.880 --> 00:41:21.700
Are you audio blind?

804
00:41:21.700 --> 00:41:23.320
I think you're reading,

805
00:41:23.320 --> 00:41:26.360
I think that you're reading this book.

806
00:41:26.540 --> 00:41:27.660
Modern dating sucks.

807
00:41:27.660 --> 00:41:29.580
I'm pretty sure this is what you told me you were reading.

808
00:41:29.580 --> 00:41:30.700
You said it was amazing.

809
00:41:30.700 --> 00:41:31.540
You love it.

810
00:41:31.540 --> 00:41:32.360
It's so good.

811
00:41:32.360 --> 00:41:35.060
I would endorse it on my Instagram and all of my broadcasts.

812
00:41:35.060 --> 00:41:36.740
And for sure, yeah.

813
00:41:36.740 --> 00:41:38.060
Yeah, yeah.

814
00:41:38.060 --> 00:41:38.900
Okay.

815
00:41:38.900 --> 00:41:40.260
What other book are you reading?

816
00:41:40.260 --> 00:41:42.380
I think the only book that is probably most important

817
00:41:42.380 --> 00:41:43.220
to read is this guy.

818
00:41:43.220 --> 00:41:45.980
And they say that a man of the Bibles that's falling apart

819
00:41:45.980 --> 00:41:47.300
belongs to a man whose life isn't.

820
00:41:47.300 --> 00:41:48.140
Is that how it goes?

821
00:41:48.140 --> 00:41:50.260
I don't know, but look at like the cover is falling off.

822
00:41:50.260 --> 00:41:51.100
But word of God right here.

823
00:41:51.100 --> 00:41:52.160
It depends on whether you ran it over

824
00:41:52.160 --> 00:41:54.020
with your car accidentally when it fell out

825
00:41:54.020 --> 00:41:55.080
because you weren't paying attention.

826
00:41:55.080 --> 00:41:55.920
But yes, I think.

827
00:41:55.920 --> 00:41:57.820
One of the only things I haven't run over with my car

828
00:41:57.820 --> 00:41:58.860
actually is a Bible.

829
00:42:00.740 --> 00:42:02.140
What's your favorite movie?

830
00:42:03.020 --> 00:42:05.100
Oh, I love Hitch.

831
00:42:05.100 --> 00:42:06.140
Hitch is a good one.

832
00:42:07.060 --> 00:42:08.260
I love that one.

833
00:42:08.260 --> 00:42:09.420
Yeah, it's a great one.

834
00:42:09.420 --> 00:42:13.220
I have watched Den of Thieves probably 39 times.

835
00:42:13.220 --> 00:42:14.580
I watch it about every month.

836
00:42:14.580 --> 00:42:15.420
It's ridiculous.

837
00:42:15.420 --> 00:42:16.420
Den of Thieves, okay, write that down.

838
00:42:16.420 --> 00:42:17.260
I gotta watch that.

839
00:42:17.260 --> 00:42:18.080
I haven't seen that.

840
00:42:18.080 --> 00:42:19.100
It's with Gerard Butler.

841
00:42:19.100 --> 00:42:20.980
It's, I just love that.

842
00:42:20.980 --> 00:42:22.500
I just love the masculinity in there.

843
00:42:22.500 --> 00:42:24.180
They're all like brash and,

844
00:42:24.200 --> 00:42:26.240
but it's like a bank heist movie and.

845
00:42:26.240 --> 00:42:27.680
Oh, I love that.

846
00:42:27.680 --> 00:42:29.040
I love that.

847
00:42:29.040 --> 00:42:31.600
He did answer Hannah, the age range.

848
00:42:31.600 --> 00:42:33.440
He just said he's open to whatever woman

849
00:42:33.440 --> 00:42:34.520
he falls in love with.

850
00:42:34.520 --> 00:42:36.880
He doesn't need someone who's a baby factory still.

851
00:42:36.880 --> 00:42:41.680
He's just, he's in love with who he falls in love with.

852
00:42:41.680 --> 00:42:42.880
That's that.

853
00:42:42.880 --> 00:42:44.080
Right, what else we got?

854
00:42:46.000 --> 00:42:48.360
One woman says, how old am I willing to go?

855
00:42:48.360 --> 00:42:49.200
And I.

856
00:42:49.200 --> 00:42:50.200
I mean, it's such a dumb question

857
00:42:50.200 --> 00:42:52.880
because here's the reason why I hate questions like this.

858
00:42:52.880 --> 00:42:54.500
I don't hate your question, Lynn.

859
00:42:54.500 --> 00:42:58.200
This is the reason why these questions are just,

860
00:42:58.200 --> 00:42:59.040
they're fruitless.

861
00:42:59.040 --> 00:43:01.760
And the reason why is because I know this from experience.

862
00:43:01.760 --> 00:43:04.020
Everyone who's ever been successful in my program

863
00:43:04.020 --> 00:43:05.460
knows this from experience.

864
00:43:05.460 --> 00:43:09.660
When you meet someone, you're not meeting a number.

865
00:43:09.660 --> 00:43:10.780
You're not meeting a height.

866
00:43:10.780 --> 00:43:12.620
You're not meeting a number on their birth certificate.

867
00:43:12.620 --> 00:43:14.300
You're not meeting a number in their bank account.

868
00:43:14.300 --> 00:43:15.380
You're meeting them.

869
00:43:15.380 --> 00:43:20.260
And if you fall in love with them, you just do, period.

870
00:43:21.540 --> 00:43:22.580
You just do.

871
00:43:23.240 --> 00:43:24.760
First of all, I'm gonna tell you something about men

872
00:43:24.760 --> 00:43:25.600
that you need to know.

873
00:43:25.600 --> 00:43:28.160
They're a super bad judge of age.

874
00:43:28.160 --> 00:43:31.680
They have no idea how old you are.

875
00:43:31.680 --> 00:43:33.160
They don't.

876
00:43:33.160 --> 00:43:33.980
They don't.

877
00:43:33.980 --> 00:43:36.360
They could think you're 32 and you're 52.

878
00:43:36.360 --> 00:43:37.880
They just don't know how old you are.

879
00:43:37.880 --> 00:43:40.040
They just, they're a bad judge of that.

880
00:43:40.040 --> 00:43:40.880
So.

881
00:43:40.880 --> 00:43:42.440
I had a woman in my church who was 28 who was into me

882
00:43:42.440 --> 00:43:43.680
and I thought she was in her 40s.

883
00:43:43.680 --> 00:43:46.480
So, I don't know, didn't work out.

884
00:43:46.480 --> 00:43:48.940
I love the question, do I eat healthy?

885
00:43:48.940 --> 00:43:51.360
So for the last two years, gave up sugar.

886
00:43:51.360 --> 00:43:52.940
The only time I have sugar is in my coffee.

887
00:43:52.940 --> 00:43:53.780
That's it.

888
00:43:53.780 --> 00:43:55.060
Oatmeal for breakfast, eggs for lunch,

889
00:43:55.060 --> 00:43:57.620
chicken or rice for supper, strawberries as dessert.

890
00:43:57.620 --> 00:44:01.900
Second supper is sometimes ground beef and rice, broccoli.

891
00:44:01.900 --> 00:44:02.740
And strawberries.

892
00:44:02.740 --> 00:44:03.740
It's so funny that it's second supper

893
00:44:03.740 --> 00:44:06.640
because you're like the very opposite of a hobbit.

894
00:44:06.640 --> 00:44:08.580
I mean, you're like so tall.

895
00:44:08.580 --> 00:44:09.420
But let me ask you,

896
00:44:09.420 --> 00:44:11.140
did you lose like a considerable amount of weight

897
00:44:11.140 --> 00:44:12.220
when you gave up sugar?

898
00:44:12.220 --> 00:44:13.820
Just asking for a friend.

899
00:44:13.820 --> 00:44:17.060
I had 34% body fat two years ago,

900
00:44:17.060 --> 00:44:21.600
which was really bad for six foot four and 45 years old.

901
00:44:21.600 --> 00:44:23.320
I just measured two months ago,

902
00:44:23.320 --> 00:44:25.600
I'm down to 18.3% body fat.

903
00:44:25.600 --> 00:44:27.520
I work out to worship music.

904
00:44:27.520 --> 00:44:28.520
I work out to worship.

905
00:44:28.520 --> 00:44:29.360
And so I just dedicated my time to worship.

906
00:44:29.360 --> 00:44:30.960
Give up sugar, ladies.

907
00:44:30.960 --> 00:44:31.800
Give it up.

908
00:44:31.800 --> 00:44:32.680
It doesn't like you.

909
00:44:32.680 --> 00:44:33.520
You love it.

910
00:44:33.520 --> 00:44:36.060
And you only love it because you're not having sex.

911
00:44:36.060 --> 00:44:36.900
I just want to let you know,

912
00:44:36.900 --> 00:44:38.000
the only reason that you love sugar

913
00:44:38.000 --> 00:44:39.200
is because you're not having sex.

914
00:44:39.200 --> 00:44:41.560
It is proven scientifically that women

915
00:44:41.560 --> 00:44:44.320
who are not having sex crave sugar.

916
00:44:44.340 --> 00:44:47.200
And you're going to have sex someday,

917
00:44:47.200 --> 00:44:49.100
but maybe if you give up sugar now,

918
00:44:49.100 --> 00:44:51.920
you'll get closer to having sex sooner.

919
00:44:51.920 --> 00:44:53.220
You know what I'm saying?

920
00:44:53.220 --> 00:44:54.060
Okay.

921
00:44:54.060 --> 00:44:54.880
All right, Gabe.

922
00:44:56.740 --> 00:44:58.580
You know, the five year ago version of me

923
00:44:58.580 --> 00:45:00.380
would have jumped in on that one, but.

924
00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:01.600
I've learned to bite my tongue, Jackie.

925
00:45:01.600 --> 00:45:04.000
You know, you'd be impressed.

926
00:45:04.000 --> 00:45:07.240
Well, I mean, you know, I mean, it's fun.

927
00:45:07.240 --> 00:45:08.080
OK.

928
00:45:08.080 --> 00:45:09.120
Are you dating?

929
00:45:09.120 --> 00:45:10.800
Are you open to dating outside your race?

930
00:45:10.800 --> 00:45:12.680
Are you open to, two people have asked this,

931
00:45:12.680 --> 00:45:15.160
so we're going to have to go ahead and go for it.

932
00:45:15.160 --> 00:45:17.920
Yeah, I'm open to whatever the Lord has planned for me.

933
00:45:17.920 --> 00:45:19.600
I am.

934
00:45:19.600 --> 00:45:23.760
Yeah, I find Arabic women extremely attractive.

935
00:45:23.760 --> 00:45:24.440
Extremely.

936
00:45:24.440 --> 00:45:26.040
There are women in my church.

937
00:45:26.040 --> 00:45:27.480
And he likes spicy women.

938
00:45:27.480 --> 00:45:29.960
He likes you to have a little sass to you.

939
00:45:29.960 --> 00:45:33.760
As long as you have a gentle heart, a little sass.

940
00:45:33.760 --> 00:45:35.040
I don't mind it.

941
00:45:35.040 --> 00:45:36.960
I like the gentleness, but there are times

942
00:45:36.960 --> 00:45:38.440
I need to be put in my place, right?

943
00:45:38.440 --> 00:45:40.800
So it's helpful, for sure.

944
00:45:40.800 --> 00:45:43.880
I can do and say dumb things.

945
00:45:43.880 --> 00:45:44.600
Yeah, they do.

946
00:45:44.600 --> 00:45:45.440
They do, yeah.

947
00:45:45.440 --> 00:45:46.520
OK.

948
00:45:46.520 --> 00:45:47.880
OK.

949
00:45:47.880 --> 00:45:49.360
We have blah, blah, blah.

950
00:45:49.360 --> 00:45:51.400
I'm looking.

951
00:45:51.400 --> 00:45:54.640
How come there's an American flag on your bookshelf?

952
00:45:54.640 --> 00:45:56.720
Because he, God bless America.

953
00:45:56.720 --> 00:45:57.800
Yeah, great story.

954
00:45:57.800 --> 00:46:01.080
So Josh, which I really wish he was on here.

955
00:46:01.080 --> 00:46:04.520
Josh, I met in Jackie's program.

956
00:46:04.520 --> 00:46:06.200
I was going through the airport one day,

957
00:46:06.200 --> 00:46:08.600
going to go visit Josh in the great US of A.

958
00:46:08.600 --> 00:46:14.160
And the guy goes, hey, who are you going to go visit?

959
00:46:14.160 --> 00:46:15.560
This guy, Josh, where'd you meet?

960
00:46:15.560 --> 00:46:16.480
In a dating program.

961
00:46:16.480 --> 00:46:18.680
He looks at me, goes, puts his head down.

962
00:46:18.680 --> 00:46:21.600
I'm like, no, he's my best friend.

963
00:46:21.600 --> 00:46:24.280
Anyway, that's Josh's hat right there.

964
00:46:24.280 --> 00:46:27.160
And there was actually a patch from when he was on the military.

965
00:46:27.160 --> 00:46:29.320
And he gave that to me in the story for another day.

966
00:46:29.320 --> 00:46:31.280
And then the great US of A flag, because that's

967
00:46:31.280 --> 00:46:33.480
the greatest country in the world.

968
00:46:33.480 --> 00:46:34.760
Oh my gosh, it's so true.

969
00:46:34.760 --> 00:46:36.080
And we all know it, OK?

970
00:46:36.080 --> 00:46:39.000
If you're from a different country, sorry not sorry.

971
00:46:39.000 --> 00:46:40.240
250 years strong.

972
00:46:40.240 --> 00:46:40.960
We're still great.

973
00:46:40.960 --> 00:46:41.760
We're still amazing.

974
00:46:41.760 --> 00:46:43.920
But I will say this.

975
00:46:43.920 --> 00:46:49.480
Josh and Dave met in the program like so many people,

976
00:46:49.480 --> 00:46:51.040
they met their best friend.

977
00:46:51.040 --> 00:46:53.120
We've had so many women meet their best friends.

978
00:46:53.120 --> 00:46:56.040
We've had people become bridesmaids and maids of honor

979
00:46:56.040 --> 00:46:59.880
and groomsmen and best men in each other's weddings

980
00:46:59.880 --> 00:47:01.160
meeting in last year's singles.

981
00:47:01.160 --> 00:47:02.680
So if you are here and you're not

982
00:47:02.680 --> 00:47:04.680
part of the greatest singles community on earth,

983
00:47:04.680 --> 00:47:07.120
in my opinion, especially for Christian singles,

984
00:47:07.120 --> 00:47:08.880
then you're going to want to look into last year's single.

985
00:47:08.880 --> 00:47:10.240
Also, join the book club.

986
00:47:10.240 --> 00:47:13.800
That's becoming another little village like that

987
00:47:13.800 --> 00:47:15.240
as well, where people are meeting

988
00:47:15.240 --> 00:47:16.640
some of their bestest friends.

989
00:47:16.640 --> 00:47:18.600
And so this is proof.

990
00:47:18.600 --> 00:47:23.280
Even men are meeting their best friends around these parts.

991
00:47:23.280 --> 00:47:24.800
So definitely jump in.

992
00:47:25.400 --> 00:47:29.840
So we're going to go ahead and wrap up.

993
00:47:29.840 --> 00:47:34.160
If you think that you're a match for Dave,

994
00:47:34.160 --> 00:47:36.880
not in your fantasy land, but in real life,

995
00:47:36.880 --> 00:47:39.120
you think that you're a match for everything

996
00:47:39.120 --> 00:47:43.040
that you've heard tonight, not in your de lulu,

997
00:47:43.040 --> 00:47:45.800
but in tru lulu, in tru lulu land,

998
00:47:45.800 --> 00:47:51.560
then I want you to email us at spotlight at JackieDorman.com.

999
00:47:51.560 --> 00:47:53.280
Cheryl, double check that.

1000
00:47:53.320 --> 00:47:55.440
Make sure that I'm giving them the right thing.

1001
00:47:55.440 --> 00:47:57.880
And send us pictures of you.

1002
00:47:57.880 --> 00:47:59.200
We need pictures.

1003
00:47:59.200 --> 00:48:01.920
We're just going to put it right in the garbage, okay?

1004
00:48:01.920 --> 00:48:03.400
If there's no pictures attached to it,

1005
00:48:03.400 --> 00:48:04.880
because we don't know who you are.

1006
00:48:04.880 --> 00:48:06.480
So a little bio of you,

1007
00:48:06.480 --> 00:48:10.000
why you think you'd be a match for Dave and some pictures.

1008
00:48:10.000 --> 00:48:13.880
Also, please feel free to refer your friends.

1009
00:48:13.880 --> 00:48:15.600
If when he was talking, you're like, oh my gosh,

1010
00:48:15.600 --> 00:48:17.760
he should totally meet my friend, Betty.

1011
00:48:17.760 --> 00:48:21.440
Then we want you to be the matchmaker.

1012
00:48:21.440 --> 00:48:23.080
We're asking you to be the matchmaker.

1013
00:48:23.080 --> 00:48:24.280
That's the only way this works.

1014
00:48:24.280 --> 00:48:25.640
If you haven't read my book,

1015
00:48:25.640 --> 00:48:27.520
the whole last chapter is about that.

1016
00:48:27.520 --> 00:48:29.160
Community-based matchmaking.

1017
00:48:29.160 --> 00:48:30.160
I want to announce here

1018
00:48:30.160 --> 00:48:33.800
that we have a community-based matchmaking app coming.

1019
00:48:33.800 --> 00:48:35.120
If you don't have a village now,

1020
00:48:35.120 --> 00:48:37.440
you will have a village because this app will allow you

1021
00:48:37.440 --> 00:48:40.560
to create a village within the strangers

1022
00:48:40.560 --> 00:48:42.600
that are not strangers on this app.

1023
00:48:42.600 --> 00:48:45.240
And you will be able to match each other.

1024
00:48:45.240 --> 00:48:48.200
You'll be able to meet a love story yourself.

1025
00:48:48.200 --> 00:48:50.120
It's going to have Jackie's list on there

1026
00:48:50.120 --> 00:48:52.400
of my preferred matches every week,

1027
00:48:52.400 --> 00:48:53.960
a different batch of people

1028
00:48:53.960 --> 00:48:56.520
under different criteria and circumstances.

1029
00:48:56.520 --> 00:48:58.120
You'll be able to go right to the link

1030
00:48:58.120 --> 00:49:00.320
for things like this, single spotlights.

1031
00:49:00.320 --> 00:49:03.320
In fact, I think that we want Dave to come back

1032
00:49:03.320 --> 00:49:05.720
and be our dating game bachelor.

1033
00:49:05.720 --> 00:49:07.160
Who's played the dating game with me?

1034
00:49:07.160 --> 00:49:10.040
Does anyone know what we're talking about?

1035
00:49:10.040 --> 00:49:11.720
Yeah, we did this back in the day with Dave

1036
00:49:11.720 --> 00:49:13.280
and he actually met someone.

1037
00:49:13.280 --> 00:49:14.840
They had a virtual date.

1038
00:49:14.840 --> 00:49:15.680
It was good.

1039
00:49:15.680 --> 00:49:18.560
In fact, I think that you kind of dated her for a minute.

1040
00:49:18.560 --> 00:49:19.960
Didn't you?

1041
00:49:20.800 --> 00:49:21.640
Another girl.

1042
00:49:21.640 --> 00:49:22.480
Yeah, yeah.

1043
00:49:22.480 --> 00:49:23.320
No, there were two.

1044
00:49:23.320 --> 00:49:24.160
No, you did.

1045
00:49:24.160 --> 00:49:25.000
I did.

1046
00:49:25.000 --> 00:49:26.000
I chatted with two of them.

1047
00:49:26.000 --> 00:49:31.000
And again, I was prideful and not in what I thought

1048
00:49:31.000 --> 00:49:31.960
where I should be.

1049
00:49:31.960 --> 00:49:32.800
But now, hey.

1050
00:49:32.800 --> 00:49:33.640
That was five years ago.

1051
00:49:33.640 --> 00:49:34.640
It was five years ago.

1052
00:49:34.640 --> 00:49:36.680
Lots happened in five years.

1053
00:49:36.680 --> 00:49:39.160
A lot, a lot, a lot.

1054
00:49:39.160 --> 00:49:41.280
Okay, so we're going to do that.

1055
00:49:41.280 --> 00:49:42.800
We're going to have, and all of that stuff

1056
00:49:42.800 --> 00:49:45.400
will be baked into this app where you'll be able

1057
00:49:45.400 --> 00:49:48.480
to see what kind of singles events are in your area.

1058
00:49:48.600 --> 00:49:50.200
You can add to your village.

1059
00:49:50.200 --> 00:49:52.800
So many people tell me, Dave, that the biggest problem

1060
00:49:52.800 --> 00:49:54.640
isn't that they can't meet someone to date.

1061
00:49:54.640 --> 00:49:57.840
The biggest problem is that they just don't know anyone.

1062
00:49:57.840 --> 00:49:58.960
They don't have any community.

1063
00:49:58.960 --> 00:50:00.360
They don't have any friends.

1064
00:50:00.000 --> 00:50:04.080
They don't have, you know, when I say, Hey, you know, have your friends match you.

1065
00:50:04.080 --> 00:50:05.560
I don't have any friends.

1066
00:50:05.560 --> 00:50:06.560
That's a problem.

1067
00:50:06.560 --> 00:50:08.740
And it's the problem that's keeping a lot of people single.

1068
00:50:08.740 --> 00:50:12.720
And so we're bringing back the village and it's going to be great.

1069
00:50:12.720 --> 00:50:14.480
It's going to be wonderful.

1070
00:50:14.480 --> 00:50:19.760
And I hope that all of you decide to download that app and get involved right there.

1071
00:50:19.760 --> 00:50:21.680
Can I have a final word of an organ dot com?

1072
00:50:21.680 --> 00:50:22.680
Yeah.

1073
00:50:22.680 --> 00:50:25.760
The final word of encouragement from that Jackie, I think that I want, I want you to,

1074
00:50:25.760 --> 00:50:26.800
I want you to close this out.

1075
00:50:26.800 --> 00:50:28.780
I want everyone to look at the chat.

1076
00:50:28.780 --> 00:50:37.220
That's the email and you're going to put Dave Canada in the subject line.

1077
00:50:37.220 --> 00:50:38.220
You're going to give us your bio.

1078
00:50:38.220 --> 00:50:43.520
You're going to give us some pics of yourself and you're going to refer your friend.

1079
00:50:43.520 --> 00:50:45.140
If your friend is a match for Dave as well.

1080
00:50:45.140 --> 00:50:46.140
All right.

1081
00:50:46.140 --> 00:50:47.140
Dave, close us out.

1082
00:50:47.140 --> 00:50:48.140
Yeah.

1083
00:50:48.140 --> 00:50:49.140
I just want to really encourage.

1084
00:50:49.140 --> 00:50:51.940
I freely felt as I was praying and asking the Lord for a word to share here with you

1085
00:50:51.940 --> 00:50:56.660
guys that there's somebody here that you're in this group and your friends make fun of

1086
00:50:56.660 --> 00:50:57.660
you.

1087
00:50:57.660 --> 00:50:58.660
You're like, why are you in this?

1088
00:50:59.540 --> 00:51:00.540
What are you doing?

1089
00:51:00.540 --> 00:51:03.180
When I first joined, I got picked on by a lot of my buddies as well.

1090
00:51:03.180 --> 00:51:04.740
And I'm, this is for men.

1091
00:51:04.740 --> 00:51:09.100
Like there might be a woman in here who feels that, you know, she's, this is, she's tried

1092
00:51:09.100 --> 00:51:10.340
and this it's, it's hopeless.

1093
00:51:10.340 --> 00:51:15.820
I can think of, I'm not going to mention their names, but I remember watching different women

1094
00:51:15.820 --> 00:51:20.300
back in the day that just felt hopeless and they found their man and they go, there's

1095
00:51:20.300 --> 00:51:21.300
no possible way.

1096
00:51:21.300 --> 00:51:26.180
One woman lived in Florida and like her kid custody and all this crazy things happen to

1097
00:51:26.180 --> 00:51:29.180
And the Lord's like, now's your time, right?

1098
00:51:29.180 --> 00:51:31.380
So don't feel ashamed.

1099
00:51:31.380 --> 00:51:34.100
Don't feel like this is pointless.

1100
00:51:34.100 --> 00:51:37.780
Like what the Lord has given Jackie, a platform to do, and I'm not paid to say this.

1101
00:51:37.780 --> 00:51:38.780
Okay.

1102
00:51:38.780 --> 00:51:42.180
She paid me 20 bucks before, but that's really like a dollar 50 American if it's Canadian.

1103
00:51:42.180 --> 00:51:47.460
But no, I think that like, honestly, like what the Lord has given the ability for Jackie

1104
00:51:47.460 --> 00:51:50.540
to have a platform to do as helped save my life.

1105
00:51:50.540 --> 00:51:54.740
I brought me a best friend who's gone through some awesome stuff.

1106
00:51:54.740 --> 00:51:55.740
He's a military Josh.

1107
00:51:56.300 --> 00:51:57.300
Like you're going to get to meet him.

1108
00:51:57.300 --> 00:51:58.300
He's incredible.

1109
00:51:58.300 --> 00:52:03.220
So I really want to encourage you that just dig in even when it's hard, just make friends.

1110
00:52:03.220 --> 00:52:05.620
You're going to make some lifelong friends here and you're going to, it's going to be

1111
00:52:05.620 --> 00:52:07.140
worth it for sure.

1112
00:52:07.140 --> 00:52:08.140
Absolutely.

1113
00:52:08.140 --> 00:52:09.620
Thank you so much for that.

1114
00:52:09.620 --> 00:52:13.180
Now we've had almost a hundred women on here all night.

1115
00:52:13.180 --> 00:52:16.820
There's going to be so many other women watching this and replay guys.

1116
00:52:16.820 --> 00:52:17.820
Somebody knows Dave's wife.

1117
00:52:17.820 --> 00:52:18.820
You guys know what I say.

1118
00:52:18.820 --> 00:52:22.540
If you've been in any of my programs, you know that I love to say somebody knows somebody

1119
00:52:22.540 --> 00:52:25.240
who knows your spirit mate.

1120
00:52:25.240 --> 00:52:32.440
And so if we will put in the psychology of the six degrees of separation, the sociology

1121
00:52:32.440 --> 00:52:37.280
of the six degrees of separation, if we believe that we are connected to every single person

1122
00:52:37.280 --> 00:52:42.120
on this earth, all eight plus billion of us through just six contacts, which is true,

1123
00:52:42.120 --> 00:52:45.320
you guys, it's scientifically proven this is not a ruse.

1124
00:52:45.320 --> 00:52:51.840
Then we have the power to make sure that no one that's here, including Dave doesn't have

1125
00:52:51.840 --> 00:52:53.800
their spirit mate.

1126
00:52:53.800 --> 00:52:56.760
The power is in our hands, but only if we want it to be.

1127
00:52:56.760 --> 00:52:57.760
What does that mean?

1128
00:52:57.760 --> 00:53:02.960
That means that when you're going about your everyday life, be looking for people to meet,

1129
00:53:02.960 --> 00:53:05.200
not just for yourself.

1130
00:53:05.200 --> 00:53:09.040
I know a lot of people are just walking around like, Oh yeah, you know, yeah, that person's

1131
00:53:09.040 --> 00:53:10.680
interesting, but they're not for me.

1132
00:53:10.680 --> 00:53:11.680
They're too old for me.

1133
00:53:11.680 --> 00:53:12.680
They're too young for me.

1134
00:53:12.680 --> 00:53:13.680
They're too.

1135
00:53:13.680 --> 00:53:15.600
Look, if they're single, meet them.

1136
00:53:15.600 --> 00:53:16.640
Don't meet them for yourself.

1137
00:53:16.640 --> 00:53:18.400
Meet them for someone else.

1138
00:53:18.400 --> 00:53:20.840
Keep a little Rolodex, okay?

1139
00:53:20.840 --> 00:53:22.560
This is not just about you.

1140
00:53:22.560 --> 00:53:23.560
It isn't.

1141
00:53:24.320 --> 00:53:26.520
It's about the whole singles community at large.

1142
00:53:26.520 --> 00:53:29.120
And so let's be the difference.

1143
00:53:29.120 --> 00:53:31.200
Let's make the difference.

1144
00:53:31.200 --> 00:53:33.760
Everyone in, everyone want to be part of that?

1145
00:53:33.760 --> 00:53:36.680
You say you do, but she ain't been doing it.

1146
00:53:36.680 --> 00:53:37.680
All right.

1147
00:53:37.680 --> 00:53:42.800
So meet someone and share someone with someone else.

1148
00:53:42.800 --> 00:53:43.880
All right.

1149
00:53:43.880 --> 00:53:47.160
So if you have someone that needs to meet Dave, let's start there.

1150
00:53:47.160 --> 00:53:49.560
And thank you so much, Dave, for coming.

1151
00:53:49.560 --> 00:53:50.880
And we're going to do some more with Dave.

1152
00:53:50.880 --> 00:53:51.880
Who wants to see Dave again?

1153
00:53:51.920 --> 00:53:53.600
You want to see him in a dating game?

1154
00:53:53.600 --> 00:53:54.920
You know, that's going to be fun and funny.

1155
00:53:54.920 --> 00:53:55.920
That'll be really fun.

1156
00:53:55.920 --> 00:53:56.920
All right.

1157
00:53:56.920 --> 00:53:57.920
All the little hands going up.

1158
00:53:57.920 --> 00:53:58.920
All right.

1159
00:53:58.920 --> 00:53:59.920
Okay.

1160
00:53:59.920 --> 00:54:00.920
I got to run to book club.

1161
00:54:00.920 --> 00:54:03.120
Sunday's book club.

1162
00:54:03.120 --> 00:54:05.200
That is going out in your email tonight.

1163
00:54:05.200 --> 00:54:08.760
If you wanted to join, but you didn't get a chance to, then that's going to be your

1164
00:54:08.760 --> 00:54:09.760
session.

1165
00:54:09.760 --> 00:54:10.760
I'll see you soon.

1166
00:54:10.760 --> 00:54:11.760
Bye, Dave.

1167
00:54:11.760 --> 00:54:12.760
Bye.

1168
00:54:12.760 --> 00:54:12.760