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Welcome to Supernatural Saturday.

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If you're new here, thank you for joining us.

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We're so glad that you're here with us.

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This is the session that we have every week, and it's usually me that's teaching it, where

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we look to the Lord and we ask God, what are you doing?

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What are you up to?

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We want to come along on that adventure.

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We want to call shotgun and get in that vehicle and go with you.

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And so that is what we do on Supernatural Saturdays.

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We ask, what is our current prophetic reality?

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We all know that there's reality, and then there's reality, right?

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There's facts that everyone in this call right now has some facts in their life.

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Some things that, yeah, they might be true, but truth, the greater truth of God, his prophetic

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reality trumps our reality and it trumps our facts, right?

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And so we want to know what that is so that we can go about our day, our week, our life,

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knowing that God is for us, God is with us.

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And if we can get into alignment, that's really what this call is all about.

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If we could get into alignment with what God is doing, with what he is saying, with what

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he sees and not with what we see, then we can be victorious.

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And so we started doing this right at the beginning, and I want to take us down memory

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lane a little bit today, this morning, especially for all you new people, people that have joined

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us within the last few months, within the last year.

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You may not know how all this started, but you're going to know after today, because

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at my house right now, I have one of our master coaches.

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She also works on our team, pretty much runs the entire program.

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And her name is Bethany Cooper.

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But when she came to me back in 2021, her name was Bethany Stanko, and she was a single

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Pringle just like the rest of you.

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She was someone who was hoping to be married.

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She was someone who had been through a divorce, someone who had been through a lot of heartache,

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someone who had had a lot of tragic things happen in her life.

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She was someone who loved God.

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She was someone who had done a lot of ministry type work and other type of work and had already

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done a lot of coaching work.

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That's why she ended up on our team.

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And she has been a beautiful blessing.

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But she, like all of you, someday got success here, used to be called when she was with,

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when she first came, it used to be called married in 12 months or less.

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There's a lot of different reasons why we have evolved and come to a new name of last

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year's single.

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I won't get into all that right now, because I want to focus on the legacy and lineage

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of this movement on this call today, and where you are being swept up in that same wave.

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So she came to us, she had success, she met Brian, and they're married now.

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They've been married for several years now, I think four.

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And she is on our team.

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She's one of our master coaches in heart work, but also does a lot of administrative stuff

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for us as well.

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And we could not do it without her.

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And the reason why her and Brian are at my house, they stayed with us for 48 hours for

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two days, is because there's a new era of last year's single donning.

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There's a new era donning friends, and it's never been a better time to be part of this

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movement because of what's coming.

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So they were here because we were working on some administrative things and some creative

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things that we are going to be rolling out in this new era of last year's single here

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very, very, very soon, probably within the next month.

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And so hang tight, buckle your seatbelts, friends, because the adventure is only going

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to get better.

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But we have so many amazing things happen today.

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Not only that, are they here and they're actually headed back to Florida because they actually

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pastor a church.

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Bethany's a pastor and she married a pastor and they pastor a church in Fort Myer, Florida.

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And a lot of you have hopes and dreams and passions and God has a partner for you.

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God gave Bethany the perfect partner.

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Why?

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Because she was already a pastor.

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She had already been pastoring people, shepherding people.

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She had already been doing ministry work, even though she had a regular J-O-B, she also

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had been doing ministry work for many, many, many years.

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And God gave her a husband that also wants to do ministry work and also was doing ministry

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work.

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He was already a pastor.

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He already was pastoring a church when she met him.

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And since she met him, they've pastored two different churches and now they pastor a two

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church campus where they are in Fort Myer because God knows you.

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And we always say this in last year's single, but I'm going to go ahead and say it again

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today.

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God knows who you are.

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He knows where you are.

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He knows what you need and he knows how to get it to you.

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But can I tell you something else?

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Everyone that works with me here in last year's single, all of our coaches, all the people

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that are on my staff, save one.

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Save two, I'm sorry.

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All of them are success stories of this program.

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And the two that aren't married yet are going to be.

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But the rest of them, all of them,

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they came here just like you,

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and they became a success story.

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And then because of what they did

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in their personal life already,

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they were already coaches, they were already teachers,

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they were already whatever it was that we were hiring,

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they ended up on our team.

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Isn't that fun?

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So fun.

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And one of those chicky mamas is getting married today.

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Our own Andrea Jesselnek is getting married today.

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She is getting married today at 6 p.m.

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Once again, another story of someone

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who came here completely single, got success,

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and was on our team as a coach.

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She's one of our heartwork coaches,

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and she is going to be getting married.

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I was supposed to be at that wedding, you guys.

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I had a plane ticket, I had a hotel room.

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But because of all of these changes

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to the movement that we're making,

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and the last 48-hour basically marathon

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of getting done what we need to be getting done,

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and the fact that on Sunday afternoon, evening,

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I'm gonna be doing our last book club of summer,

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starting the very last installment

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of our book club for summer.

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I wasn't able to go, but that's okay,

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because I'm gonna watch it online.

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And I wanna tell you guys something.

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God is doing big things.

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And if you feel like you've been left out,

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I wanna ask you this.

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There's only 170 of you here live.

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Why do you think you're here?

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I mean, you literally could be anywhere else.

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You could not know about last year's single.

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You could have never heard my name before.

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You could have never signed up.

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You maybe saw an ad or you saw something,

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you didn't click on it, you didn't come here.

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I believe that you've been pre-positioned to be here.

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Now, not predestined, don't get it twisted,

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and don't send me an email.

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Pre-positioned, why?

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Because this is a marriage and family revival

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that God has given us to steward.

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And for those of you that don't know the story,

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I had just come home from my mother's funeral.

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I had prayed for years and years and years and years

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and years to be reconciled to my mother.

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We were estranged.

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My mother was not a safe or healthy person.

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And the last four years of her life,

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we were reconciled and she got a lot of healing

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and we were able to finally have a relationship

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before she went on to heaven.

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Sad that it didn't last longer on earth,

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but I'm looking forward to someday in the far, far future,

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being with her in heaven and having a continuation of that.

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In fact, my next book that I will be releasing

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is about the mother-daughter relationship

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and just troubled mother and daughter relationships

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and those that have lost their mothers

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and either their mothers are dead to them in this life

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because they can't be with them,

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they have to be no contact

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because their mothers are not safe

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and or their mothers are just gone on.

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And so, but anyway,

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I was coming home from that funeral

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and I was exhausted, friends.

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I had spent four years back and forth,

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taking care of my mom,

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doing a lot of emotional labor in that situation

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because, you know, it was so raw, you know,

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having this woman who had been kind of the graze villain

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of my story all of my life,

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having her so weak in front of me

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and, you know, basically every day,

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letting go of this life more and more

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and going on to heaven

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and the softness that came with that

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and the forgiveness that came with that

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and all the different things

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and I was just emotionally and physically

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and mentally and spiritually exhausted

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and I came back to my house.

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It was normal for me to be gone from my house in Texas

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for months at a time,

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just down ministering to

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and taking care of my mother practically

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as she was in surgeries and rehabs

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and, you know, all different types of things

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as she was, you know, fighting her disease and dis-ease

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and I went home.

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I went up into my office.

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I sat down and all over my walls

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were lists of my students

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and lists of teaching

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and all different types of things

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because I was teaching heart work at the time.

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I had written a book called The Heart Work

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and I was teaching heart workshops,

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not just to singles, to everybody

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and God said to me,

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he said, Jackie, I want you to sit down

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and make a list of the top 10 breakthroughs

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that people have when they do heart work with you.

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because I already knew that it was a supernatural modality

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that God had given me.

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And it was a tipping point ministry

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where people who had never been able

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to get breakthrough before would come

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and they would do hard work with me

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and they would get breakthrough.

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And so I made the top 10 list.

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I sat and I prayed about it.

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I thought about it and I made the top 10 list

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because friends, I was kind of done.

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I was fried and I really didn't want to continue

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to do what I was doing.

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Because let me tell you something

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about doing emotional healing with people.

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It's exhausting.

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It takes a lot out of you.

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And I had already had all of what I had taken out of me

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with ministering to my mother

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and all the things that I had been doing.

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So I made the list.

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And you guys, the top thing on the list,

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and I wouldn't have seen it

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had God not had me made this list,

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was they get married.

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Which I of course loved

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because I've always been the matchmaker.

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I had helped 15 of my friends get married.

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I'm always the person that's matchmaking people

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and helping people get married.

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And I just love, love.

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And so when I saw that that was the number one thing

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that my students that were single,

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because not everyone was single,

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that came through my heart workshop,

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the number one thing that happened to the single people

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is their heart softened, it changed.

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Their view of God, themselves and others changed

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and they got married, supernaturally.

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Where there had been no one, now there was someone

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and they got married.

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And God highlighted that to me.

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And he said, Jackie, he said, will you help me?

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He didn't say you're going to,

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he didn't say you have to, he said, will you?

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It was an invitation.

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He said, will you help me

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get my single sons and daughters married?

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Will you help me?

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He said, I want my single sons and daughters married.

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Please listen.

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I want my single sons and daughters to be married.

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Will you help me get them married?

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Will you take your matchmaking gift?

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This is when I heard that I was a matchmaker.

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Now I had always been a matchmaker

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and I had matchmade many, many people,

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but no one had ever called me a matchmaker

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until God said that I had a matchmaking gift.

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He said, will you take this matchmaking gift

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that I've given you?

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And will you take the heartwork that I've given you?

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And will you put these two things together?

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And will you call it married in 12 months or less?

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And will you begin to teach it?

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And I was like, wait, what?

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Married in 12 months or less?

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Okay, God, you had me until there.

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And this is what he said.

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I said, we're going to get in trouble for that,

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for that branding, God.

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Because I had worked in media for a long time.

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I'd worked in television.

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I had been on a lot of branding products, projects.

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And I just said, God,

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we're going to get in a lot of trouble for that branding.

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People are going to push back.

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People are going to get mad when they hear that branding.

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Some people are going to love it

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and some people are going to hate it.

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And he said, yes, he said, but he said,

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if you do your heartwork,

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it doesn't have to take a long time.

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Married in 12 months or less,

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because if you surrender,

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if you allow God to defend you

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and you take down your walls,

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if you do your heartwork,

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if you're coachable, if you're teachable,

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it doesn't have to take a long time.

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Remember, we're not dealing with high school students

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that need years and years

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to develop their self.

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We're not talking about people who,

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for whatever reason, need time.

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We're talking about people

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that are single and ready to mingle.

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We're talking about people

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that are old enough to know better.

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We're talking about people, a lot of times,

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the people that have come through this movement

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have been single for a really long time

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and they've almost given up on this

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because they just don't understand

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why it's not working out for them.

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And then God went on to talk to me about the curse

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and about why people are single in the year,

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at that time, 2020.

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You guys, it was 2020 when this happened.

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It was February, 2020.

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And do you guys all know what happened in March of 2020?

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Hey, Chelsea.

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You guys remember what happened in March of 2020?

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Does everyone remember?

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I'll remind you.

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The whole world shut down and we had a pandemic.

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So in February of 2020,

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God told me to launch this ministry to singles.

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And in March of 2020, the whole world shut down.

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And guess what that caused?

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That caused a captive audience.

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It caused a captive audience, you guys.

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And by January of 2021, we had our first marriage.

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By January of 2021, the first of my son's marriage,

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the first of my students got married

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and then like popcorn kernels.

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In fact, we used to call them popcorn kernels

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at the beginning.

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I'm kind of reminiscing about the beginning of this movement.

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Pop, pop, pop, pop, pop, pop, pop, pop, pop, pop, popcorn.

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In fact, Carla Johnson's on here

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and she is one of our phase two dating coaches.

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Carla Johnson is a little popcorn kernel that popped as well.

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And guess what?

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Carla Johnson is one of our phase two dating coaches.

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She also was a single Pringle, ready to mingle.

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And guess what?

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Carla Johnson is one of our phase two dating coaches.

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She had never been married.

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She had a young son and she was mourning a lot of different things when she came into

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the program and wanting a lot of breakthrough and she got all of that breakthrough and here

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she is not only married but also paying her healing and her breakthrough forward into

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all of you as one of your coaches.

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And so I just want to let you guys know that's how this all started.

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It started with a question.

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It started with an invitation.

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It started with God's heart and it still is all of those things.

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It's still the same invitation and it's still God's heart for his single sons and daughters

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that they will be partnered.

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He said that he wanted to create kingdom alliances for the things that would be coming in the

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future.

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Kingdom alliances, lineage and legacy for the things that would be coming in the future.

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And so first of all, thank you for entrusting us with this area of your lives.

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And I think that you guys know by now that it's not necessarily a bait and switch, but

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we sell you what you want and give you what you need, meaning that you came here to be

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married, but you've gotten a whole lot more, a whole lot more heart healing, a whole lot

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more clarity and perspective.

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Hopefully you've grown closer to God.

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You begin to understand yourself at a higher level and also others, right?

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That is really what we want more than anything.

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And that's what God wants more than anything is that you would be healed in your relationship

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with him, yourself and others.

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Reconciled to God, right?

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Made whole in Christ and healed in marriage.

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That is definitely what it is that we have wanted for all of you and what God has wanted

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for all of you.

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And that is what we do here.

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So friends, when we first started, I'm just trying to stop, uh, and you know, God said

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there was going to be this huge wave and I don't want to call it a tsunami because tsunamis

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are very destructive.

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Don't ask me why, but I was looking at videos of tsunamis last night and I was just like,

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whew, tsunamis.

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Oh, I know why.

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Because there was an earthquake.

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You guys hear about this earthquake off Mexico and there was a tsunami warning, right?

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And tsunamis are really scary.

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And even though I'm in Texas and that doesn't affect me in any way, shape or form because

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I'm landlocked, I don't got any water here, but I will say that tsunamis are, you know,

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quite a force to be reckoned with.

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So think of it that way.

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Don't think of like the actual, the actual tsunami wave that causes destruction and you

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know, people lose their lives.

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Don't think of that, but think of a force to be reckoned with.

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Think of a huge tidal wave that sweeps up everything in its path kind of in a good way.

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And that's what this is.

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That's what God described it as.

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He said that there was going to be a shaking.

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You know, tsunamis are created by earthquakes, aren't they?

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Mostly they're created by underground earthquakes.

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And so when that happens, it creates that wave.

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And so God said that there was going to be a shaking.

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And I just want you to remind you guys that pandemic hadn't started yet.

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I didn't even know about it.

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None of you knew about it.

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I didn't know about it.

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So when God spoke this over me, he wasn't just whistling Dixie, was he?

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Because there was going to be a shaking.

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And he said, as a result of the shaking, there was going to be a huge tidal wave of revival

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for marriage and family.

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And you guys, and I'm happy to report now that we have probably somewhere around 1,800

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and 1,900 success stories in the last six years.

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But I really don't want you to believe that I'm satisfied with that or that I think that

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that describes the tidal wave that I want to see.

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It does not.

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I want to see so much more.

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And so today, I just want to stop and say thank you to all of you for entrusting us

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with this movement, for trusting us with your love stories, for coming here, being teachable,

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being coachable, surrendering to God, giving him your yes.

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We had no idea.

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When I said yes to God, I had no idea that thousands of people would come through these

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doors.

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I had no idea that we would witness 1,800 and 1,900.

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under marriages already,

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and I feel like we're just getting started.

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What we were just working on for the last 48 hours

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is the new era of last year single.

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We're not changing the name, don't worry about that.

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No more name changes,

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but we are going to roll out something

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that I think is gonna help so many people

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get really, really micro-focused on what they need

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to focus on in order to move forward in their love lives.

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And that includes you guys.

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You're not gonna be left out.

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You're not gonna be left out.

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It's not gonna just be the new people coming in

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that are gonna benefit from the new ways of doing things

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and the new program

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and the new community-based matchmaking app

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and all the things.

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It's gonna be you as well.

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But I had no idea that all this was gonna happen.

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I had no idea that we'd be celebrating

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dozens and dozens and dozens and dozens

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of babies being born because of this movement.

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You guys, several of our success stories

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just had babies this week.

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Just had babies a couple days ago.

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Another one had a set of twins

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and now she just had another baby.

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And so many babies.

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Yes, Carla Stacey is about to pop.

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I don't think she had her baby.

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I think she's like 39 weeks, right?

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I don't think that her baby's born yet.

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Guys, let's talk about Stacey for a minute

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because some of you are Stacey's.

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And here's the thing.

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I know that you don't know this,

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but behind the scenes,

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we call you guys by successful students' names

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because all of you, even though you're individual,

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and I don't want this to take away from your individuality,

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you have a lot in common with people

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that have had success in this program.

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Even though you're you,

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you have some characteristics and some traits

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of people that we have served before, okay?

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So for instance, Stacey.

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Stacey is one of my OGs.

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She was kind of in the same bridal party

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as Bethany Cooper and Carla Johnson,

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some of the first women that trusted me in this area

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to be their dating coach and their matchmaker

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and just step into this movement, right?

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And so Stacey had never been married

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and she was one of our girls that,

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you know, she, and you're gonna see yourself

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in this description.

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Some of you are gonna see yourself,

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never been married on the younger side,

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you know, in her later 30s.

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And she wanted, you know,

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a very specific type of man of God.

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She wanted a man of God,

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but she wanted a very specific type of man of God.

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She had it all figured out what she wanted.

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She had a really long list

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and she also had some relationship anxiety.

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She was scared of relationship

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because she had never been in one.

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Not only was she single,

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but she had really never been in a relationship before.

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And we coached with her and we peel back those layers

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like a, you know, a beautiful flower helped open up,

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helped blossom that rose, okay?

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You could say peel back the layers like an onion,

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but that's not really a good typology, right?

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Stinky onion.

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Just help her to blossom, help her to open up,

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help her to get to a place

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where she can receive the love that God has for her.

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And that was really important

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because you know what happened next?

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Stacey got COVID.

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That's how old this story is.

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This was a 2020 story.

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Stacey got COVID and she got it bad.

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She got hit.

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She got hit by a Mack truck of COVID.

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And so she was home and she was sick.

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And guess what?

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There was a guy at her church.

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That's right.

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Love right underneath her nose.

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You know how many people we have helped find love

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that was right underneath their nose the whole time?

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It was right there the whole time,

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but they didn't see it.

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They didn't recognize it.

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They never gave it a second thought.

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And that's Stacey's love story.

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He was right there the entire time.

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And guess what?

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When she got sick with COVID,

511
00:23:51.360 --> 00:23:52.400
he started coming over to her house

512
00:23:52.400 --> 00:23:54.480
and dropping things off on her porch.

513
00:23:54.480 --> 00:23:56.440
Just some guys she went to church with.

514
00:23:57.760 --> 00:24:02.280
Dropping off games and puzzles and crossword puzzle books

515
00:24:02.280 --> 00:24:05.040
and food and different things.

516
00:24:05.040 --> 00:24:06.680
And he liked her.

517
00:24:06.680 --> 00:24:09.880
And she kind of knew at some level that he had liked her,

518
00:24:09.880 --> 00:24:11.760
but she just dismissed it in her mind.

519
00:24:11.760 --> 00:24:13.400
It was not even an option.

520
00:24:14.320 --> 00:24:15.760
But now that this was happening,

521
00:24:15.760 --> 00:24:18.640
she had to pay attention to it, right?

522
00:24:18.640 --> 00:24:21.640
Because this chivalry has to be rewarded in some way.

523
00:24:21.640 --> 00:24:23.600
So she has to talk to him.

524
00:24:23.600 --> 00:24:25.600
He wanted to go out with her when she got better,

525
00:24:25.600 --> 00:24:26.880
yada, yada, all the things.

526
00:24:26.880 --> 00:24:30.040
And I remember the days that she would come into

527
00:24:31.080 --> 00:24:32.520
the coaching calls.

528
00:24:32.520 --> 00:24:34.960
And she'd be like, no, no, no.

529
00:24:34.960 --> 00:24:36.520
And the reason why was because

530
00:24:36.520 --> 00:24:38.800
he wasn't what she had imagined.

531
00:24:38.800 --> 00:24:42.240
And the main reason was because he was younger than her.

532
00:24:43.400 --> 00:24:45.720
If I remember ladies, correct me if I'm wrong,

533
00:24:45.720 --> 00:24:47.200
those of you that know the story,

534
00:24:47.200 --> 00:24:49.320
he's several years younger than her,

535
00:24:49.320 --> 00:24:51.600
maybe five or more years younger than her.

536
00:24:53.040 --> 00:24:56.320
And that weirded her out, maybe even more than that.

537
00:24:56.320 --> 00:24:58.320
And she didn't like that.

538
00:24:58.320 --> 00:25:00.320
There was just things about it that if.

539
00:25:00.000 --> 00:25:08.360
he allowed herself, it would give her the ick, and not because it should.

540
00:25:08.360 --> 00:25:13.560
But I'll just tell you guys one thing, that all of us, because the movement was much smaller

541
00:25:13.560 --> 00:25:17.400
then, all of us were totally Team Cody from the beginning.

542
00:25:17.400 --> 00:25:24.200
We were like, no, yes, he's the guy, he's the guy, he's the guy.

543
00:25:24.200 --> 00:25:28.300
And somewhere along the line, God shifted her heart, because when someone loves you

544
00:25:28.300 --> 00:25:31.740
really well, it's kind of hard not to love them back.

545
00:25:31.740 --> 00:25:35.600
And she got engaged, she got married, and now she's having a baby.

546
00:25:35.600 --> 00:25:39.900
But there's some of you that if we were talking behind the scenes, we'd be like, okay, yeah,

547
00:25:39.900 --> 00:25:42.620
let's take all the Stacys and let's put them over here.

548
00:25:42.620 --> 00:25:44.320
Who are the Stacys?

549
00:25:44.320 --> 00:25:49.420
People who have a list a mile long, people who are kind of in their own way and in God's

550
00:25:49.420 --> 00:25:56.340
way with that list, good, wonderful women, maybe even men, we wouldn't call y'all Stacey,

551
00:25:56.340 --> 00:26:00.860
we'd call you, I can think of another name, but I'm not going to, there's another guy,

552
00:26:00.860 --> 00:26:02.700
but I'm not going to get into his story right now.

553
00:26:02.700 --> 00:26:07.060
But we might call, you know, we might just categorize you that like that, why?

554
00:26:07.060 --> 00:26:09.020
So that we know what we're dealing with.

555
00:26:09.020 --> 00:26:14.220
We're dealing with people who have a really strong idea of what this has to look like

556
00:26:14.220 --> 00:26:15.700
in order to be from God.

557
00:26:15.700 --> 00:26:20.340
Are you guys following me?

558
00:26:20.340 --> 00:26:27.300
It has to be from God if it has these things.

559
00:26:27.300 --> 00:26:30.500
And so helping you break free from that, helping you break out of that, helping you to have

560
00:26:30.500 --> 00:26:33.740
an open mind and open heart to whatever it is that God has for you.

561
00:26:33.740 --> 00:26:39.380
Do you think that I knew back in 2019 that this is what I'd be doing with my life?

562
00:26:39.380 --> 00:26:42.340
And when I say doing it with my life, you guys, I'm not kidding.

563
00:26:42.340 --> 00:26:45.040
I eat, breathe, sleep this.

564
00:26:45.040 --> 00:26:46.700
There are no breaks.

565
00:26:46.780 --> 00:26:47.780
There are no breaks.

566
00:26:47.780 --> 00:26:50.980
That reminds me of when my twin grandbabies were born.

567
00:26:50.980 --> 00:26:56.300
You know, anytime you'd set one down, the other one would be like crying.

568
00:26:56.300 --> 00:26:58.820
And we started making up little voices for them.

569
00:26:58.820 --> 00:27:02.940
And they were like, you're sitting down, no breaks, no breaks for you.

570
00:27:02.940 --> 00:27:07.140
There are no breaks, you know, and there are no breaks to this movement.

571
00:27:07.140 --> 00:27:12.220
Soon as you try to get a cup of coffee or something, no breaks.

572
00:27:12.220 --> 00:27:15.300
You're not on break.

573
00:27:15.820 --> 00:27:18.500
It has been the most rewarding ministry that I've ever done.

574
00:27:18.500 --> 00:27:23.420
I've been in ministry for 30 years, and this is the most rewarding ministry that I have

575
00:27:23.420 --> 00:27:25.740
ever, ever done in my life.

576
00:27:25.740 --> 00:27:31.160
And so it is a pleasure to serve all of you, and I cannot wait to see what happens next.

577
00:27:31.160 --> 00:27:33.280
And I hope that you feel the same way.

578
00:27:33.280 --> 00:27:36.940
And I hope that you don't just feel that way about yourself, but I hope you feel that way

579
00:27:36.940 --> 00:27:42.380
about the other 208 people on this call besides you.

580
00:27:42.380 --> 00:27:45.500
I hope that you feel that way.

581
00:27:45.500 --> 00:27:47.260
Andrea's getting married today.

582
00:27:47.260 --> 00:27:51.860
I don't know if all of you know who Andrea is or if you've ever seen her, but she's gorgeous

583
00:27:51.860 --> 00:27:53.940
inside and out.

584
00:27:53.940 --> 00:27:57.380
I mean, she is so pretty on the outside.

585
00:27:57.380 --> 00:27:59.020
Her beauty is striking.

586
00:27:59.020 --> 00:28:00.660
She's stunning.

587
00:28:00.660 --> 00:28:03.660
I've been with her in person, and I've been in awe of her.

588
00:28:03.660 --> 00:28:08.740
Like she's a movie star, and you know, I'm not an ugly duckling.

589
00:28:08.740 --> 00:28:16.300
But when I get around her, I'm like, wow, how can someone be so physically pretty and

590
00:28:16.300 --> 00:28:18.860
perfect, you know?

591
00:28:18.860 --> 00:28:22.500
And the reason why I say all that to you is because she has never been married in her

592
00:28:22.500 --> 00:28:23.620
entire life, you guys.

593
00:28:23.620 --> 00:28:25.900
She's going to be 50 years old.

594
00:28:25.900 --> 00:28:28.260
She's never been married in her entire life.

595
00:28:28.260 --> 00:28:31.740
So for those of you that were counting yourselves out because you're like, oh, I'm just not

596
00:28:31.740 --> 00:28:35.780
what guys like or gentlemen, you're just like, I'm not just what women like, you know, I

597
00:28:35.780 --> 00:28:37.860
don't have it on the outside.

598
00:28:37.980 --> 00:28:38.980
I'm not tall enough.

599
00:28:38.980 --> 00:28:39.980
I'm not short enough.

600
00:28:39.980 --> 00:28:40.980
I'm not this enough.

601
00:28:40.980 --> 00:28:41.980
I'm not that enough.

602
00:28:41.980 --> 00:28:48.540
Okay, anyone who meets Andrea can probably objectively agree that she is a very beautiful

603
00:28:48.540 --> 00:28:52.980
person and yet she was still single.

604
00:28:52.980 --> 00:28:57.320
So it doesn't have anything to do with that, does it?

605
00:28:57.320 --> 00:28:59.420
And that may be a little heartwork that you need to do.

606
00:28:59.420 --> 00:29:02.020
It really doesn't have to do with that.

607
00:29:02.020 --> 00:29:13.780
Of the 1900-ish success stories that I've seen, I've seen every type of person, physically,

608
00:29:13.780 --> 00:29:18.900
age-wise, color, height, weight.

609
00:29:18.900 --> 00:29:21.300
I've seen everything you can think of.

610
00:29:21.300 --> 00:29:24.540
Every kind of person get married.

611
00:29:24.540 --> 00:29:29.600
Every kind of person.

612
00:29:29.600 --> 00:29:36.280
Every kind of person.

613
00:29:36.280 --> 00:29:38.840
So what does that mean?

614
00:29:38.840 --> 00:29:42.800
That means that there's somebody for everybody.

615
00:29:42.800 --> 00:29:50.680
If you live in America, there's still 65 million Christian singles per the last census.

616
00:29:50.680 --> 00:29:51.680
And you know what?

617
00:29:51.680 --> 00:29:55.520
You only need one.

618
00:29:55.520 --> 00:29:58.160
You only need one.

619
00:29:58.160 --> 00:30:00.240
And I want you to check your heart how you respond.

620
00:30:00.000 --> 00:30:01.600
to what I just said.

621
00:30:01.600 --> 00:30:03.640
You might not have said it out loud,

622
00:30:03.640 --> 00:30:05.200
you might not have typed it in the chat,

623
00:30:05.200 --> 00:30:08.400
but when I said that there's 65 million singles

624
00:30:08.400 --> 00:30:11.440
left in America and you only need one,

625
00:30:11.440 --> 00:30:14.800
whatever you reacted to that statement

626
00:30:14.800 --> 00:30:17.480
tells you something really important about your heart.

627
00:30:17.480 --> 00:30:20.280
If I said that and you said, they're not where I live,

628
00:30:27.080 --> 00:30:29.880
I want you to really think about what your response was.

629
00:30:29.920 --> 00:30:32.080
Your internal response to what I just said.

630
00:30:34.400 --> 00:30:38.360
Because it should be, wow, that's a lot of people.

631
00:30:40.000 --> 00:30:41.400
And I only need one.

632
00:30:44.240 --> 00:30:45.440
I only need one.

633
00:30:50.760 --> 00:30:51.600
Just one.

634
00:30:53.880 --> 00:30:55.880
Oh yeah, well I bet they're all younger.

635
00:30:58.240 --> 00:30:59.680
Bet they're not as old as me.

636
00:31:00.680 --> 00:31:01.720
There's a lot of people.

637
00:31:05.360 --> 00:31:06.200
Come on.

638
00:31:07.160 --> 00:31:09.480
Take a couple seconds to do an inventory

639
00:31:09.480 --> 00:31:10.880
of your response to that.

640
00:31:16.840 --> 00:31:19.000
So Andrea is getting married today.

641
00:31:19.000 --> 00:31:21.720
Incredibly beautiful woman, not just outside though.

642
00:31:21.720 --> 00:31:23.160
I don't want to dumb her down to that,

643
00:31:23.160 --> 00:31:24.360
but I'm just trying to make a point

644
00:31:24.360 --> 00:31:28.680
by saying that about her, but on the inside.

645
00:31:28.760 --> 00:31:32.080
And she grew tremendously in this program.

646
00:31:33.040 --> 00:31:36.680
She's an incredible testimony of God's faithfulness

647
00:31:36.680 --> 00:31:37.960
and she's getting married.

648
00:31:37.960 --> 00:31:40.520
In just a couple of weeks, Mary is getting married.

649
00:31:41.720 --> 00:31:44.500
She found her Star Wars nerd husband.

650
00:31:46.040 --> 00:31:49.880
They're both gonna nerd out for the rest of their lives

651
00:31:49.880 --> 00:31:51.680
and it's gonna be beautiful.

652
00:31:51.680 --> 00:31:52.900
Their engagement pictures,

653
00:31:52.900 --> 00:31:55.120
they have lightsabers to each other.

654
00:31:55.120 --> 00:31:57.320
Like, you know, they're holding lightsabers

655
00:31:57.320 --> 00:31:59.760
up in the cross thing, you know,

656
00:31:59.760 --> 00:32:01.160
you do when you're fighting someone

657
00:32:01.160 --> 00:32:02.920
with a lightsaber or whatever.

658
00:32:02.920 --> 00:32:05.080
You know, I mean, I'm not a Star Wars nerd,

659
00:32:05.080 --> 00:32:06.880
but I'm telling you, it's beautiful.

660
00:32:08.400 --> 00:32:10.880
They have matching jerseys on and another picture.

661
00:32:10.880 --> 00:32:11.720
Why?

662
00:32:11.720 --> 00:32:13.680
Because she found her partner.

663
00:32:13.680 --> 00:32:15.000
She found someone

664
00:32:17.480 --> 00:32:19.080
that likes what she likes,

665
00:32:20.680 --> 00:32:22.000
that she can get along with,

666
00:32:22.000 --> 00:32:25.040
that she can do things with and love.

667
00:32:25.040 --> 00:32:27.900
And, you know, and their love story has not run smooth.

668
00:32:27.900 --> 00:32:29.420
There's been a lot of rocky points

669
00:32:29.420 --> 00:32:31.440
with some health issues and different things

670
00:32:31.440 --> 00:32:33.540
and all the stuff and they've overcome it.

671
00:32:35.040 --> 00:32:36.880
But she sent me a message, you guys.

672
00:32:36.880 --> 00:32:39.280
She sent me a message yesterday or the day before

673
00:32:39.280 --> 00:32:41.840
and thanking me for this movement,

674
00:32:41.840 --> 00:32:45.440
thanking me for her success, for helping her be successful,

675
00:32:45.440 --> 00:32:48.320
but also thanking me, not just because she found her husband

676
00:32:48.320 --> 00:32:50.560
but because she found her sisters.

677
00:32:50.560 --> 00:32:53.900
She has found amazing friends in this community,

678
00:32:54.960 --> 00:32:58.200
lifelong friends, lifers in this community.

679
00:32:58.200 --> 00:32:59.760
And the same goes with Andrea.

680
00:33:01.200 --> 00:33:05.320
At Andrea's wedding, there are women from this community

681
00:33:05.320 --> 00:33:08.200
that she didn't know before, but now she knows

682
00:33:08.200 --> 00:33:11.480
and she's sisters with, and they're at her wedding.

683
00:33:11.480 --> 00:33:13.000
They're there helping her now.

684
00:33:15.680 --> 00:33:18.020
Because remember, God said that he wanted there

685
00:33:18.020 --> 00:33:20.320
to be a revival of marriage and family

686
00:33:21.080 --> 00:33:22.200
and not just your families that you're gonna build

687
00:33:22.200 --> 00:33:27.080
with your spirit mate, but this family, this family.

688
00:33:27.080 --> 00:33:30.160
That's why this isn't just a business or even a ministry.

689
00:33:30.160 --> 00:33:33.080
This is a movement because it doesn't just create husbands

690
00:33:33.080 --> 00:33:34.640
and wives, it creates family.

691
00:33:36.440 --> 00:33:38.000
Family like Brian and Bethany Cooper

692
00:33:38.000 --> 00:33:39.800
that are here at my house right now.

693
00:33:41.280 --> 00:33:43.000
She's not just a coach, she's not just a leader.

694
00:33:43.000 --> 00:33:44.640
They're our family.

695
00:33:44.640 --> 00:33:46.200
In fact, you guys probably don't know this

696
00:33:46.200 --> 00:33:48.660
but I walked Bethany down the aisle.

697
00:33:49.660 --> 00:33:51.340
I'm gonna cry.

698
00:33:51.340 --> 00:33:53.180
I walked Bethany down the aisle

699
00:33:54.260 --> 00:33:57.260
because before her wedding, her mother passed away.

700
00:34:00.580 --> 00:34:03.500
Not right before a wedding, but leading up to her wedding,

701
00:34:03.500 --> 00:34:05.620
her mother had passed on.

702
00:34:05.620 --> 00:34:07.460
She was never close to her father.

703
00:34:08.340 --> 00:34:11.440
And so she asked me, I've been asked to officiate weddings.

704
00:34:11.440 --> 00:34:13.940
I've been asked to make a toast at a wedding.

705
00:34:13.940 --> 00:34:16.880
I've been, I haven't been asked to be a bridesmaid yet.

706
00:34:16.880 --> 00:34:19.199
So ladies, maybe you'll be the first one to be like,

707
00:34:19.199 --> 00:34:21.520
will you be my bridesmaid?

708
00:34:21.520 --> 00:34:26.520
But Bethany asked me to walk her down the aisle and I did.

709
00:34:29.400 --> 00:34:31.679
Because she's not just a coach or a leader.

710
00:34:31.679 --> 00:34:34.260
She's not just an administrator, she's family.

711
00:34:38.719 --> 00:34:40.280
And I'm saying all this because we're looking

712
00:34:40.280 --> 00:34:42.400
for new coaches for this new era.

713
00:34:42.400 --> 00:34:45.040
So if you've ever wanted to be a coach, if you are a coach,

714
00:34:45.040 --> 00:34:47.000
if you're already a coach in your life,

715
00:34:47.000 --> 00:34:48.600
it doesn't matter what you're coaching.

716
00:34:48.600 --> 00:34:50.600
If you have the skills to be a coach,

717
00:34:50.600 --> 00:34:53.159
if you're a therapist, if you're a counselor,

718
00:34:53.159 --> 00:34:55.719
that also is the skill set to be a coach.

719
00:34:55.719 --> 00:34:57.800
We are going to need more one-on-one coaches

720
00:34:57.800 --> 00:34:59.520
for where we're going and what we're doing.

721
00:34:59.520 --> 00:35:00.360
And so.

722
00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:03.240
Please email us if that's something that you want to do.

723
00:35:03.240 --> 00:35:05.940
But friends, I just want to let you know

724
00:35:05.940 --> 00:35:10.280
that our entire team was where you are someday, right now.

725
00:35:10.280 --> 00:35:13.180
One day, you will be where they are.

726
00:35:13.180 --> 00:35:15.520
But they all used to be where you are, doing what?

727
00:35:15.520 --> 00:35:18.200
Praying, wandering, believing.

728
00:35:20.160 --> 00:35:21.880
But now they're leading others

729
00:35:21.880 --> 00:35:24.600
because that's what legacy looks like.

730
00:35:24.600 --> 00:35:26.100
That's what legacy looks like.

731
00:35:26.100 --> 00:35:31.100
So I know you came here looking for a spouse,

732
00:35:31.900 --> 00:35:34.600
but I also want you to be here looking for your people.

733
00:35:36.220 --> 00:35:37.860
Some of the greatest miracles of your life

734
00:35:37.860 --> 00:35:40.160
may just be sitting in the Zoom room with you.

735
00:35:41.380 --> 00:35:42.860
A lot of you have reported to me

736
00:35:42.860 --> 00:35:45.700
that you're doing life alone, that you feel very solitary.

737
00:35:45.700 --> 00:35:47.740
Go ahead and put in the chat if that's you.

738
00:35:47.740 --> 00:35:49.580
Like, I'm lonely, I'm doing life alone,

739
00:35:49.580 --> 00:35:51.080
I feel very solitary.

740
00:35:52.660 --> 00:35:54.400
I don't have people to do life with

741
00:35:54.400 --> 00:35:57.080
and I don't have people to go on vacation with.

742
00:35:57.080 --> 00:36:01.400
I spend a lot of time just moseying around by myself.

743
00:36:01.400 --> 00:36:03.960
Come on, put it up.

744
00:36:05.160 --> 00:36:06.700
Maybe you just don't have any single friends.

745
00:36:06.700 --> 00:36:07.600
All your friends are married

746
00:36:07.600 --> 00:36:10.600
and they're always busy with their families and yada, yada.

747
00:36:13.600 --> 00:36:14.440
Because remember,

748
00:36:14.440 --> 00:36:17.200
isolation has never been God's design, only family.

749
00:36:17.200 --> 00:36:18.640
Family is God's design.

750
00:36:24.760 --> 00:36:26.000
Family, you guys.

751
00:36:27.920 --> 00:36:29.400
And I wanna remind you guys of something

752
00:36:29.400 --> 00:36:30.680
because we had a little blowout

753
00:36:30.680 --> 00:36:32.840
about Women's Prayer Monday through Friday.

754
00:36:32.840 --> 00:36:34.640
And every Monday through Friday,

755
00:36:34.640 --> 00:36:36.440
when we gather for prayer,

756
00:36:36.440 --> 00:36:38.960
we are there to lock arms with each other,

757
00:36:39.880 --> 00:36:41.800
to do something much bigger

758
00:36:41.800 --> 00:36:43.560
than just check a spiritual box.

759
00:36:45.560 --> 00:36:47.120
Ladies' Prayer Monday through Friday

760
00:36:47.120 --> 00:36:49.040
is about covering this movement.

761
00:36:49.040 --> 00:36:50.360
You guys, we would not be here

762
00:36:50.360 --> 00:36:52.160
if it wasn't for the women's prayer.

763
00:36:52.160 --> 00:36:53.600
Covering this movement.

764
00:36:53.600 --> 00:36:55.040
You guys, we would not be where we are.

765
00:36:55.040 --> 00:36:57.680
We wouldn't have 1900-ish success stories.

766
00:36:57.680 --> 00:36:58.920
We probably have more than that.

767
00:36:58.920 --> 00:37:02.280
We wouldn't have that if it wasn't for prayer.

768
00:37:02.280 --> 00:37:03.880
And you guys make up that hedge.

769
00:37:03.880 --> 00:37:05.520
You guys make up that covering.

770
00:37:06.520 --> 00:37:08.160
That's why we pray the way we do.

771
00:37:08.160 --> 00:37:10.560
That's why we pray in the order that we pray in.

772
00:37:10.560 --> 00:37:12.480
We pray over the leaders.

773
00:37:12.480 --> 00:37:13.760
We pray over, because why?

774
00:37:13.760 --> 00:37:15.240
Because leadership attracts warfare.

775
00:37:15.240 --> 00:37:16.080
That's why.

776
00:37:17.040 --> 00:37:20.200
I have never been so beat up and bruised and kicked around

777
00:37:20.200 --> 00:37:22.800
in any other ministry that I've ever been part of.

778
00:37:24.400 --> 00:37:25.240
Why?

779
00:37:25.240 --> 00:37:26.440
Because the enemy hates family.

780
00:37:26.440 --> 00:37:27.880
He hates marriage.

781
00:37:27.880 --> 00:37:29.240
He hates covenant.

782
00:37:30.320 --> 00:37:32.040
We're on the front lines of this, y'all.

783
00:37:32.040 --> 00:37:33.320
You're on the front lines of this.

784
00:37:33.320 --> 00:37:34.680
We need your prayers.

785
00:37:36.440 --> 00:37:37.680
We need your covering.

786
00:37:39.440 --> 00:37:41.240
So praying over every coach, every leader,

787
00:37:41.240 --> 00:37:44.040
every volunteer, every marriage

788
00:37:44.040 --> 00:37:46.720
that has been created through this movement.

789
00:37:46.720 --> 00:37:48.800
Every future marriage.

790
00:37:48.800 --> 00:37:49.760
Ladies, you show up.

791
00:37:50.320 --> 00:37:51.160
Gentlemen, I don't know if you know this,

792
00:37:51.160 --> 00:37:52.760
but the ladies show up every day of the week

793
00:37:52.760 --> 00:37:55.480
to pray over the divine masculine in the earth,

794
00:37:55.480 --> 00:37:58.640
to pray over men, to pray over the revival of men,

795
00:37:58.640 --> 00:38:01.360
to pray over their future spirit mates,

796
00:38:01.360 --> 00:38:04.240
to pray over y'all in the program.

797
00:38:04.240 --> 00:38:07.440
Those ladies pray Monday through Friday over you.

798
00:38:12.160 --> 00:38:13.640
That's what we're doing there.

799
00:38:15.760 --> 00:38:17.520
When I started this, when I said yes,

800
00:38:17.520 --> 00:38:18.640
when I gave God my yes,

801
00:38:18.640 --> 00:38:22.200
the very first thing that I did was I instituted prayer.

802
00:38:22.200 --> 00:38:25.080
And OGs like Carla and Bethany and anyone else on here

803
00:38:25.080 --> 00:38:26.640
who's an OG, they can attest to you

804
00:38:26.640 --> 00:38:28.480
that I led all of those prayer meetings

805
00:38:28.480 --> 00:38:30.040
Monday through Friday myself.

806
00:38:32.800 --> 00:38:34.720
Every day of the week, I showed up for prayer

807
00:38:34.720 --> 00:38:36.640
for anyone who wanted to show up for prayer.

808
00:38:36.640 --> 00:38:39.360
And then little by little, prayer leaders started emerging

809
00:38:39.360 --> 00:38:40.680
and we started getting other people

810
00:38:40.680 --> 00:38:41.920
to lead some of those prayers.

811
00:38:41.920 --> 00:38:44.320
And then I was only a couple days a week

812
00:38:44.320 --> 00:38:47.280
and then I was only one day a week, which is Saturday now.

813
00:38:49.280 --> 00:38:50.640
And my team will also tell you

814
00:38:50.640 --> 00:38:52.840
that I never let anyone else take Saturday.

815
00:38:53.880 --> 00:38:55.800
If I'm on vacation, if I'm traveling,

816
00:38:55.800 --> 00:38:57.720
if I'm on a cruise ship, it doesn't matter.

817
00:38:57.720 --> 00:39:02.320
I wanna show up here and release what God is saying

818
00:39:02.320 --> 00:39:03.160
over all of you.

819
00:39:03.160 --> 00:39:04.680
That's how important it is to me.

820
00:39:06.760 --> 00:39:08.400
That's how important it is to me.

821
00:39:09.760 --> 00:39:12.880
So friends, if you're brand new,

822
00:39:12.880 --> 00:39:15.640
I want you to step into the lineage

823
00:39:15.640 --> 00:39:16.960
that God has brought you to,

824
00:39:16.960 --> 00:39:20.840
which is this last year single family.

825
00:39:22.000 --> 00:39:24.120
I want you to step into the massive wave

826
00:39:24.120 --> 00:39:27.040
of kingdom marriages that's already in progress

827
00:39:27.040 --> 00:39:28.760
and is only gonna get bigger.

828
00:39:31.200 --> 00:39:32.320
I don't want you to mail it in.

829
00:39:32.320 --> 00:39:35.200
I want you to step in to the move of God

830
00:39:36.560 --> 00:39:38.640
where healthy marriage becomes normal again.

831
00:39:38.640 --> 00:39:39.960
You guys, we're bringing marriage back.

832
00:39:39.960 --> 00:39:41.320
People don't like marriage anymore.

833
00:39:41.320 --> 00:39:43.120
We're bringing marriage back.

834
00:39:43.120 --> 00:39:45.200
Where families are being restored.

835
00:39:47.160 --> 00:39:49.560
Not just your future family, your current family.

836
00:39:49.560 --> 00:39:52.080
So many people that have come into this movement

837
00:39:52.080 --> 00:39:54.520
have buried axes with their siblings,

838
00:39:54.520 --> 00:39:56.600
have reconciled with their parents.

839
00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:03.440
Have begun to talk again and have connection with their children

840
00:40:05.920 --> 00:40:10.280
This is a movement where those of you that are single parents that have young children at home

841
00:40:10.280 --> 00:40:14.280
This is a movement where your children are going to grow up seeing what covenant actually looks like

842
00:40:15.360 --> 00:40:18.760
This is so much bigger than your dating life. This is revival and

843
00:40:20.080 --> 00:40:27.260
Just like a wave gathers everything in its path. We believe God is moving in a way that will touch countless lives

844
00:40:28.260 --> 00:40:30.260
Because of you

845
00:40:31.980 --> 00:40:36.580
All we have to do is stay in the stream of what God's doing stay in the current of what he's doing and

846
00:40:37.140 --> 00:40:39.140
We will be world changers

847
00:40:40.180 --> 00:40:43.180
So many of you have sent each other to this movement

848
00:40:43.940 --> 00:40:48.320
Raise your hand if you're here because someone else from this movement sent you here

849
00:40:48.320 --> 00:40:50.320
You

850
00:40:52.680 --> 00:40:58.200
Someone else sent you here told you about it one of the people that have had success here

851
00:41:01.280 --> 00:41:03.280
Come on get your hands up

852
00:41:03.280 --> 00:41:05.280
You

853
00:41:16.040 --> 00:41:23.640
At least 21 people on this call 22 people are continuing to put their hands up are here because someone else sent them here

854
00:41:33.280 --> 00:41:37.040
I want you to ask God this question. Who should I be telling about this movement?

855
00:41:37.680 --> 00:41:39.680
Who should I be inviting here?

856
00:41:40.200 --> 00:41:42.200
I've been so focused on myself

857
00:41:43.240 --> 00:41:46.680
And so focused on what I need what I want

858
00:41:49.320 --> 00:41:51.320
Who should I be telling

859
00:41:54.160 --> 00:42:00.680
And friends it that's not that's not because we need you to bring more people to this movement we have new people join every day

860
00:42:01.680 --> 00:42:06.460
But it's because you are revivalist and that looks like something

861
00:42:07.040 --> 00:42:10.320
You are a marriage and family revivalist. You're not just here

862
00:42:11.240 --> 00:42:13.240
to ride the wave

863
00:42:17.080 --> 00:42:19.080
You're not just here for that

864
00:42:21.360 --> 00:42:25.040
I've had people come to me and say hey, you know, I joined I joined

865
00:42:25.960 --> 00:42:27.440
This program

866
00:42:27.440 --> 00:42:29.440
Because someone told me about it in a bathroom

867
00:42:29.960 --> 00:42:30.480
Yeah

868
00:42:30.480 --> 00:42:35.400
I was in the bathroom because I was on a bad date and I was crying and some woman came out of the stall and

869
00:42:35.400 --> 00:42:40.240
Said, you know what you need, honey. You need last year single and told me about it

870
00:42:41.360 --> 00:42:45.480
One day I was walking down the streets in Orange County, California

871
00:42:45.480 --> 00:42:48.120
I was there on business and I was just walking down the street

872
00:42:48.800 --> 00:42:50.800
by Corona Del Mar and

873
00:42:51.200 --> 00:42:53.200
this woman and

874
00:42:53.320 --> 00:42:56.640
Probably her mother walked past me and this woman was just

875
00:42:57.600 --> 00:43:03.800
telling her mom about this awful date that she had been on and how she just wants to give up and she's just done dating and

876
00:43:03.800 --> 00:43:05.800
She just doesn't want to do this anymore

877
00:43:06.320 --> 00:43:07.400
and

878
00:43:07.400 --> 00:43:09.400
I heard her

879
00:43:09.480 --> 00:43:12.720
Because God let me be in the right time the right place at the right time

880
00:43:13.640 --> 00:43:17.680
And I just said hey, excuse me. I said I can't help but overhear you

881
00:43:17.680 --> 00:43:19.680
I'm not eavesdropping and I'm not trying to

882
00:43:20.320 --> 00:43:23.200
You know, not my my own business, but I just want to let you know

883
00:43:23.200 --> 00:43:27.320
I'm a dating coach at a matchmaker and I'm the founder of this thing called last year single and

884
00:43:28.480 --> 00:43:32.400
You know, here's my Instagram and I'd love to help you

885
00:43:35.560 --> 00:43:38.320
And she joined because I was at a festival the other day

886
00:43:39.880 --> 00:43:43.680
It was in May actually I was walking around at a festival huge festival

887
00:43:44.240 --> 00:43:48.440
75,000 people in Austin, Texas the poppy festival and

888
00:43:49.360 --> 00:43:54.360
This woman just said hey, are you Jackie and I was like, uh, yeah

889
00:43:55.120 --> 00:43:57.120
And she said I'm one of your success stories

890
00:43:58.280 --> 00:44:03.120
Said I got married because of you you guys I've been stopped at three different airports

891
00:44:04.280 --> 00:44:11.140
Three different airports on three separate occasions by a couple that I helped get married

892
00:44:11.500 --> 00:44:14.940
Three different airports and I didn't just help them get married

893
00:44:14.940 --> 00:44:18.900
You did why because you've been praying because you've been covering because you're a revivalist

894
00:44:21.420 --> 00:44:28.220
Three different airports and just recently you guys I was at a business event that was at Disneyland Hotel in

895
00:44:28.740 --> 00:44:30.580
California, that's where

896
00:44:30.580 --> 00:44:37.780
The seminars were in the conference room at Disneyland and then they sent us to Disneyland, you know for two days

897
00:44:38.300 --> 00:44:41.700
But when I was in the hotel at the conference Disneyland Hotel

898
00:44:42.340 --> 00:44:47.020
Anaheim, California, I went to the bathroom. I left the business meeting

899
00:44:47.020 --> 00:44:50.740
I went to the bathroom and I'm in the bathroom and I went to the bathroom

900
00:44:50.740 --> 00:44:56.580
I'm washing my hands and I'm drying my hands and I'm about to leave to leave the bathroom and

901
00:44:58.420 --> 00:45:00.420
I

902
00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:06.760
A young woman comes in probably about 33, 34 years old and she opens the door and I

903
00:45:00.860 --> 00:45:03.620
Washed my hands and I was washing my hands

904
00:45:06.760 --> 00:45:11.700
look up and she gasps and she's like, are you Jackie Dorman?

905
00:45:11.700 --> 00:45:14.540
And I was like, oh my God.

906
00:45:14.540 --> 00:45:16.280
I was like, yes.

907
00:45:16.280 --> 00:45:21.960
And she said, oh my God, she's like, I'm so excited to meet you.

908
00:45:21.960 --> 00:45:23.600
She's like going on and on.

909
00:45:23.600 --> 00:45:30.520
She's one of the people on Instagram who the work that we're doing has impacted, has changed

910
00:45:30.520 --> 00:45:35.560
the way that she shows up in the world.

911
00:45:35.560 --> 00:45:38.320
Changed the way that she is looking at her love life.

912
00:45:38.320 --> 00:45:39.760
Changed the way that she's dating.

913
00:45:39.760 --> 00:45:40.760
Changed the way...

914
00:45:40.760 --> 00:45:41.760
Why am I saying this?

915
00:45:41.760 --> 00:45:45.880
Because it's a wave.

916
00:45:45.880 --> 00:45:49.220
It's a wave, you guys.

917
00:45:49.220 --> 00:45:54.460
And this new era of last year's single is going to bring so many people in with the

918
00:45:54.460 --> 00:45:55.540
wave.

919
00:45:55.540 --> 00:45:57.420
Is it going to bring your spirit mate in?

920
00:45:57.420 --> 00:45:58.420
Probably.

921
00:45:58.420 --> 00:45:59.420
Probably.

922
00:45:59.420 --> 00:46:00.420
Come on.

923
00:46:00.420 --> 00:46:27.180
Probably.

924
00:46:27.180 --> 00:46:28.180
Here's the thing.

925
00:46:28.180 --> 00:46:31.300
The thing is that there's been several times in my life where I knew that something was

926
00:46:31.300 --> 00:46:32.300
imminent.

927
00:46:32.300 --> 00:46:35.580
I didn't know exactly when it was going to happen, but I knew that it was going to happen.

928
00:46:35.580 --> 00:46:38.500
It was going to happen very soon.

929
00:46:38.500 --> 00:46:41.900
For those of you that have had a baby, it's kind of like those last days before your due

930
00:46:41.900 --> 00:46:44.420
date where you're just kind of getting odds and ends done.

931
00:46:44.420 --> 00:46:48.860
Not until the last few minutes.

932
00:46:48.860 --> 00:46:52.340
You're getting odds and ends done because you know that you're not going to have time

933
00:46:52.340 --> 00:46:55.740
later.

934
00:46:55.740 --> 00:46:57.540
And I really feel that in my spirit right now.

935
00:46:57.900 --> 00:46:58.900
Come on, you guys.

936
00:46:58.900 --> 00:46:59.900
Come on.

937
00:46:59.900 --> 00:47:00.900
Come.

938
00:47:00.900 --> 00:47:01.900
Push into this moment with me.

939
00:47:01.900 --> 00:47:06.580
Kind of those last few moments before you're going to go on a trip and you know, hey, I

940
00:47:06.580 --> 00:47:08.540
got to get this stuff done right now.

941
00:47:08.540 --> 00:47:13.180
I got to get it done now because I'm not going to have time to do it later.

942
00:47:13.180 --> 00:47:16.380
Those last few moments, once again, for those of you that have had a baby where you know,

943
00:47:16.380 --> 00:47:19.940
hey, I got to get this stuff done now because when those contractions come, I'm not going

944
00:47:19.940 --> 00:47:22.020
to have time later.

945
00:47:22.020 --> 00:47:24.860
There's something coming that it's imminent.

946
00:47:24.860 --> 00:47:25.980
It's going to come.

947
00:47:25.980 --> 00:47:27.140
It's not maybe.

948
00:47:27.140 --> 00:47:28.980
It's not if it's going to come.

949
00:47:28.980 --> 00:47:33.100
It's just when it's going to come and it's coming and it's coming soon.

950
00:47:33.100 --> 00:47:35.620
And I'm just telling you guys, I feel that in my spirit.

951
00:47:35.620 --> 00:47:41.060
I wanted to have a phone call today, a supernatural Saturday call where we're just being thankful

952
00:47:41.060 --> 00:47:43.180
for all that God has done.

953
00:47:43.180 --> 00:47:50.780
But I'm telling you what he's going to do is going to blow all of our minds.

954
00:47:50.780 --> 00:47:56.260
This has just been the appetizer, friends.

955
00:47:56.260 --> 00:47:58.940
This has just been the first course, friends.

956
00:47:58.940 --> 00:48:01.180
I feel it in my spirit.

957
00:48:01.180 --> 00:48:05.460
There have been so many opportunities to just say, hey, you know, we did a good job.

958
00:48:05.460 --> 00:48:08.700
We helped almost 2000 people get married in the last six years.

959
00:48:08.700 --> 00:48:09.980
And you know what?

960
00:48:09.980 --> 00:48:10.980
We're kind of tired.

961
00:48:10.980 --> 00:48:14.460
And let's just go ahead and and retire while we can.

962
00:48:14.460 --> 00:48:15.460
It's been great.

963
00:48:15.460 --> 00:48:16.500
It's been a hit show, y'all.

964
00:48:16.500 --> 00:48:18.500
But let's not overstay our welcome.

965
00:48:18.500 --> 00:48:20.120
Let's move on to other things.

966
00:48:20.120 --> 00:48:24.940
And God's like, no, I'm just getting started.

967
00:48:24.940 --> 00:48:29.820
This hasn't even become what it's going to become, Jackie.

968
00:48:29.820 --> 00:48:34.740
Oh, you think that's a tsunami wave?

969
00:48:34.740 --> 00:48:37.460
You think that's a tidal wave?

970
00:48:37.460 --> 00:48:40.460
That's just a little baby wave.

971
00:48:40.460 --> 00:48:45.100
That's just a little baby wave.

972
00:48:45.100 --> 00:48:48.500
I feel like that when I was in California, I'm standing on the shore, I'm like, wow,

973
00:48:48.500 --> 00:48:49.500
those waves are big.

974
00:48:49.500 --> 00:48:54.940
There's a surfer saying and they're like, that's not a big wave.

975
00:48:54.940 --> 00:48:57.420
It's huge to me.

976
00:48:57.420 --> 00:49:04.320
But to people who know waves, it ain't big.

977
00:49:04.320 --> 00:49:07.960
And so it's normal for us to be like, wow, that was incredible.

978
00:49:07.960 --> 00:49:15.120
And God's like, if you think that's incredible, just watch and see what happens next.

979
00:49:15.120 --> 00:49:16.340
And how do I know that?

980
00:49:16.340 --> 00:49:19.700
I know that because of the dream that I had not that long ago.

981
00:49:19.700 --> 00:49:23.180
And I'm not a dreamer like a lot of you are.

982
00:49:23.180 --> 00:49:27.100
God doesn't talk to me that way very often.

983
00:49:27.100 --> 00:49:31.100
That's not one of the ways that God communicates with me.

984
00:49:31.100 --> 00:49:35.620
But I had a dream and in the dream, we were doing things the long way and the hard way.

985
00:49:35.620 --> 00:49:38.940
And God gave us access to the fast way.

986
00:49:38.940 --> 00:49:42.740
And he said to me when I woke up, it's time to stop doing things the long way and the

987
00:49:42.740 --> 00:49:43.740
hard way.

988
00:49:43.740 --> 00:49:46.000
I'm like, well, thanks for showing up because I didn't know I was doing things the long

989
00:49:46.160 --> 00:49:48.360
way and the hard way.

990
00:49:48.360 --> 00:49:51.480
There's a better way.

991
00:49:51.480 --> 00:49:54.240
There's a better way.

992
00:49:54.240 --> 00:49:55.240
And guess what?

993
00:49:55.240 --> 00:49:57.160
We're about to take part of that better way.

994
00:49:57.160 --> 00:49:59.960
So I hope that you feel really blessed this morning.

995
00:50:00.000 --> 00:50:02.580
or part of something that you've been handpicked by God,

996
00:50:02.580 --> 00:50:03.740
in my opinion.

997
00:50:03.740 --> 00:50:06.020
There's 214 of you right now on this call.

998
00:50:06.020 --> 00:50:07.900
There'll be people listening in replay.

999
00:50:07.900 --> 00:50:10.940
I'm talking to you replay listeners too.

1000
00:50:10.940 --> 00:50:15.540
You've been handpicked by God to be part of a revival

1001
00:50:15.540 --> 00:50:20.220
of marriage and family like the world has never seen before.

1002
00:50:21.780 --> 00:50:23.680
I don't know if you guys really understand this,

1003
00:50:23.680 --> 00:50:28.680
but marriage numbers are at an all time low in the earth.

1004
00:50:29.160 --> 00:50:30.760
People don't believe in marriage anymore.

1005
00:50:30.760 --> 00:50:32.860
The religious people say that we don't need

1006
00:50:32.860 --> 00:50:35.520
to be married anymore because we're married to Jesus.

1007
00:50:37.080 --> 00:50:39.380
Okay, we don't need to be married anymore.

1008
00:50:39.380 --> 00:50:41.960
That marriage shouldn't be our focus.

1009
00:50:41.960 --> 00:50:45.280
The feminists say that we should decenter men,

1010
00:50:45.280 --> 00:50:47.580
that men should not be the center of our lives,

1011
00:50:47.580 --> 00:50:49.180
that we should no longer be interested

1012
00:50:49.180 --> 00:50:50.580
in being someone's wife.

1013
00:50:52.380 --> 00:50:55.560
Modern culture says that there just isn't anyone

1014
00:50:55.560 --> 00:50:57.740
healthy enough to marry anymore.

1015
00:50:59.060 --> 00:51:01.020
And that you shouldn't really put yourself

1016
00:51:01.020 --> 00:51:03.860
in a vulnerable position by getting married.

1017
00:51:03.860 --> 00:51:06.240
You should keep a hold of all your own stuff.

1018
00:51:07.580 --> 00:51:10.540
You might maybe live with someone if you have,

1019
00:51:12.100 --> 00:51:14.860
and you might get married if you have a prenup

1020
00:51:14.860 --> 00:51:16.580
or if you have this or that,

1021
00:51:16.580 --> 00:51:19.060
but you really can't trust them.

1022
00:51:19.060 --> 00:51:21.780
The consensus out there y'all is that marriage

1023
00:51:21.780 --> 00:51:24.140
is a bygone thing.

1024
00:51:24.140 --> 00:51:29.140
But all of you are here.

1025
00:51:30.800 --> 00:51:33.200
All 213 of you now, we lost one.

1026
00:51:33.200 --> 00:51:38.000
You're all here because you still believe

1027
00:51:40.680 --> 00:51:43.720
in God's divine plan.

1028
00:51:44.760 --> 00:51:47.960
You still believe in man and woman coming together

1029
00:51:47.960 --> 00:51:50.880
in covenants and the two becoming one.

1030
00:51:50.940 --> 00:51:54.160
You still believe that we are better together.

1031
00:51:54.160 --> 00:51:55.180
That is why you're here.

1032
00:51:55.180 --> 00:51:56.020
And guess what?

1033
00:51:56.020 --> 00:51:58.680
You are not in the majority of the people in this earth.

1034
00:52:01.200 --> 00:52:04.100
But we have an opportunity friends to show people

1035
00:52:04.100 --> 00:52:06.900
what marriage looks like.

1036
00:52:07.760 --> 00:52:12.340
We have an opportunity to shift

1037
00:52:12.340 --> 00:52:14.660
what people think family looks like.

1038
00:52:16.780 --> 00:52:20.500
We have an opportunity to restore people back

1039
00:52:21.080 --> 00:52:23.000
to God's divine purposes and plans for their life,

1040
00:52:23.000 --> 00:52:23.940
not just with marriage,

1041
00:52:23.940 --> 00:52:28.100
but specifically with relationship and family.

1042
00:52:30.400 --> 00:52:32.260
You're a revivalist.

1043
00:52:32.260 --> 00:52:34.400
Say that to yourself, I'm a revivalist.

1044
00:52:36.480 --> 00:52:38.840
Bethany and Brian Cooper are revivalists.

1045
00:52:38.840 --> 00:52:41.080
Andrea and now her new husband, Aaron.

1046
00:52:41.080 --> 00:52:42.720
I don't know if he knows what he's signing up for,

1047
00:52:42.720 --> 00:52:44.760
but he's gonna be a revivalist now.

1048
00:52:45.140 --> 00:52:50.140
Carla, Jeremy, revivalists, guys, so exciting.

1049
00:53:01.140 --> 00:53:04.180
I can't wait to show you guys what we have,

1050
00:53:04.180 --> 00:53:06.020
to show you what we've been working on,

1051
00:53:06.020 --> 00:53:09.260
working hard on and what we're gonna be rolling out.

1052
00:53:09.260 --> 00:53:10.820
It's gonna be amazing.

1053
00:53:10.820 --> 00:53:12.500
So many of you that feel like,

1054
00:53:12.500 --> 00:53:14.760
oh, you know, I just, I'm still just,

1055
00:53:14.760 --> 00:53:17.160
there's something I still need to just get past

1056
00:53:17.160 --> 00:53:18.000
and break through.

1057
00:53:18.000 --> 00:53:20.600
I need to get ready because I know my time is here

1058
00:53:20.600 --> 00:53:23.240
because I'm telling you in the spirit, you guys, I feel it.

1059
00:53:23.240 --> 00:53:25.600
Eminently, something is going to shift.

1060
00:53:25.600 --> 00:53:27.880
It's gonna be a very, very big shift.

1061
00:53:27.880 --> 00:53:31.600
And it's kind of caused a very, very big wave, right?

1062
00:53:31.600 --> 00:53:32.600
It's important.

1063
00:53:32.600 --> 00:53:35.700
And that reminds me, the last book club,

1064
00:53:35.700 --> 00:53:37.400
modern dating sex book club,

1065
00:53:37.400 --> 00:53:38.780
I'm doing it on a weekend night

1066
00:53:38.780 --> 00:53:41.000
because people are like weeknights are not good.

1067
00:53:41.000 --> 00:53:43.460
This is going to be the very last one of summer.

1068
00:53:43.460 --> 00:53:45.100
So make sure that you jump in there.

1069
00:53:45.100 --> 00:53:46.660
If you haven't already,

1070
00:53:46.660 --> 00:53:49.620
you can find the link in your groups.

1071
00:53:49.620 --> 00:53:53.700
This, it starts tomorrow, starts tomorrow at seven central.

1072
00:53:53.700 --> 00:53:56.300
So I hope to see those of you that have been holding out.

1073
00:53:56.300 --> 00:53:57.580
You're like, I really want to do it,

1074
00:53:57.580 --> 00:53:58.860
but I haven't been able to do it

1075
00:53:58.860 --> 00:54:00.260
because it wasn't on a night

1076
00:54:00.260 --> 00:54:02.300
that I could really make it happen.

1077
00:54:02.300 --> 00:54:03.980
Hopefully Sunday nights work for you

1078
00:54:03.980 --> 00:54:05.260
for the next five weeks.

1079
00:54:05.260 --> 00:54:07.540
We would love to see you there and make sure you sign up.

1080
00:54:07.540 --> 00:54:08.620
So Father God, we thank you

1081
00:54:08.620 --> 00:54:10.100
that you've made all of us revivalists,

1082
00:54:10.120 --> 00:54:11.640
that you called us all here together

1083
00:54:11.640 --> 00:54:14.160
to partner with you and to partner with each other.

1084
00:54:14.160 --> 00:54:16.040
And we are here for lineage.

1085
00:54:16.040 --> 00:54:17.200
We're here for legacy.

1086
00:54:17.200 --> 00:54:19.060
We're here for everything

1087
00:54:19.060 --> 00:54:22.120
that you have desired to see in the earth, Lord,

1088
00:54:22.120 --> 00:54:23.800
through your family.

1089
00:54:23.800 --> 00:54:25.720
And so God, I pray that each and every one of us

1090
00:54:25.720 --> 00:54:28.800
would feel that call in our lives to be revivalists,

1091
00:54:28.800 --> 00:54:30.040
to connect with others,

1092
00:54:30.040 --> 00:54:31.720
to help pull other people into the way

1093
00:54:31.720 --> 00:54:34.460
that are solitary, that are lonely,

1094
00:54:34.460 --> 00:54:37.160
that don't have family, that don't have community.

1095
00:54:37.160 --> 00:54:38.920
Lord, I pray that you would help us to see

1096
00:54:38.940 --> 00:54:40.940
that we're here to rebuild the village,

1097
00:54:40.940 --> 00:54:42.280
not just our village.

1098
00:54:42.280 --> 00:54:45.460
We're here to rebuild the village, not just our village.

1099
00:54:45.460 --> 00:54:46.900
And so Lord, we thank you, God,

1100
00:54:46.900 --> 00:54:50.220
that each and every person here has a spirit mate.

1101
00:54:50.220 --> 00:54:52.120
Each and every person that wants a love story,

1102
00:54:52.120 --> 00:54:54.420
that wants a partner, there is a partner for them.

1103
00:54:54.420 --> 00:54:58.300
You've empowered them to be able to be seen

1104
00:54:58.300 --> 00:55:00.140
and spotlighted by their.

1105
00:55:00.000 --> 00:55:05.520
partner by their spirit mate from heaven. So we pray now that those spotlights would shine bright and

1106
00:55:06.000 --> 00:55:08.960
even in the coming days Lord, we would hear supernatural

1107
00:55:09.840 --> 00:55:17.920
testimonies of this call and how people are becoming revivalists, how people are not just waiting for this team to do something for them,

1108
00:55:18.040 --> 00:55:24.680
but they are picking up the mantle themselves and they are doing something for others. Lord, what we help make happen for others,

1109
00:55:25.040 --> 00:55:31.120
you make happen for us. And so Lord, I pray that people right now, I just see this in the spirit you guys,

1110
00:55:32.160 --> 00:55:39.000
people's family crests are changing. Oh, come on, people's family crests are changing right now. Oh,

1111
00:55:39.840 --> 00:55:45.920
Jesus, I see the crests, they're changing. What's the family crest? It's that family emblem,

1112
00:55:45.920 --> 00:55:47.440
it's that symbol that

1113
00:55:47.440 --> 00:55:53.400
symbolizes your family tree and they had them in the olden days and a lot of people don't even know what their family crest is

1114
00:55:53.400 --> 00:55:56.440
anymore. A lot of people don't even know where they came from anymore.

1115
00:55:56.440 --> 00:56:01.240
But I hear God saying the people that come after you are gonna know where they came from.

1116
00:56:01.640 --> 00:56:08.280
The people that come after you are gonna know what their lineage is. They're gonna know what their legacy is. It's gonna be a strong

1117
00:56:08.720 --> 00:56:11.400
vine, a strong branch coming out of the vine,

1118
00:56:11.640 --> 00:56:16.360
that that branch is being retooled right now and that crest is being redone right now.

1119
00:56:16.360 --> 00:56:19.760
And he is grafting things into it and he is asking you,

1120
00:56:19.840 --> 00:56:26.200
will you allow me to shift your family tree? Will you allow me to shift your family crest?

1121
00:56:26.280 --> 00:56:28.160
Do you have to have control of it?

1122
00:56:28.160 --> 00:56:34.040
Or will you allow me, carte blanche, to do what I will? And so, Lord, we say right now, we surrender.

1123
00:56:34.040 --> 00:56:39.180
You can do what you will. You can make this branch strong. You can design it and fashion it

1124
00:56:39.180 --> 00:56:44.440
however you want to fashion it. Our crest can look however you want it to look, Lord.

1125
00:56:44.440 --> 00:56:49.420
If you pray that, pray that with me and say yes and amen. In Jesus' name,

1126
00:56:49.420 --> 00:56:51.500
thank you, Lord. I'll see all of you soon.