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Welcome everyone. I'm so excited that you're here. Welcome to VIP coaching. I'm

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Jackie Dorman. I'm sure you know that. And I haven't opened my coaching books

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personally for two years. But I've been wanting to create an intimate VIP cohort

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like this for a really long time. And so guess what? It's time. It's your time and

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it's my time. So for the next 90 days we're going to dig in. We're gonna have a

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lot of fun but we're also gonna do some serious work together. Some hard work and

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other kinds of work. We're gonna get you out there dating. We're gonna get you

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going after real transformation. But here's the deal. You didn't just sign up.

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You have to show up. I can't show up for you. You've got to come to our weekly

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live coaching sessions and cohort. You got to be ready to participate. Ready to

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be teachable. If you have to miss a session for any reason, watch the replay.

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Get caught up. Do the assignments and really dig in. You're gonna get out of

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the next 90 days whatever you're willing to put into them. And there's one more

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thing I want to tell you. You cannot be thin-skinned. You know who I am. You

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signed up to coach with me. You know that I got real talk, right? I'm on your

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side and I'm for you which means sometimes I'm gonna push back. Sometimes

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I'm gonna challenge what you're telling yourself or point out something that you

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might be missing. It's not to embarrass you at all. It's not to offend you but if

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it does then it's possible that it's pointing to an unhealed part of your

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heart. There's a reason why you're stuck in certain areas of your life including

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your love life. You know that I say when you're stuck on the inside

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you're stuck on the outside, right? You're never just stuck on the outside. You're

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always stuck on the inside. And so we're gonna get down to those roots and I need

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you to trust God in me that he's a master Jenga player and sometimes he's

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gonna pull out pieces that you're not expecting. I know you just want to run

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into your love story but that might not be what happens right away in this 90

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days. Sometimes we're gonna deal with some other things, some uncomfortable

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things and that's okay because we can do hard things and we especially can do

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them together. Do not underestimate the people that also signed up for this

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cohort with you. I feel like you guys have been hand-selected to be together.

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You might meet some of your new best friends here. You might meet someone who

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is part of your love story. So lean into the community. Here's your first two next

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steps. The very first thing I want you to do is complete your VIP coaching

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questionnaire. It's different than the questionnaire that you qualified for

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coaching with. You're gonna find it here in your welcome packet. I want you to be

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completely honest. The only person who's gonna read it is me and so please make

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sure that you're being honest with yourself and with me because this is

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where I'm gonna see your story, your patterns, where you've been and where I

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think you need to go next. The second thing I want you to do is

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introduce yourself in our private Facebook group. Post a photo of yourself,

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not a video and tell us who you are, why you chose now for this level of coaching

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and what you are hoping to transform in your life over the next 90 days. Do not

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lurk. We have no lurkers in this group. Let us know you. You guys ready?

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For the next three months, 90 days, 12 weeks, I'm gonna show up for you and I

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need you to show up for yourself and for each other. Let's do the work. Let's

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have some fun and let's see what type of change can happen in 90 days. Welcome to

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VIP coaching. Let's go.