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Hello. Welcome. Hello. Hello. As y'all are joining, so good to see you. Hi there. Lisa,

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are you new? Are you joining us for the first time tonight? I think so. I recognize a new

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name. Yeah. Welcome and a new face. So glad to have you with us. Anyone else joining tonight

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for your first live session with us? If so, put that in the chat. We want to welcome you

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as well. My name is Bethany Cooper. I'm one of the master hardware coaches here in the

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community. I'm so glad to have an opportunity to coach with you all and be here. We just

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had a gentleman that accidentally got the wrong link. So at this time, we are not merged

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with men and women together. We may do that at some point in the near future, but if y'all

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see a guy, maybe just send me a private message in the chat and I'll try to get him to the

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right place. Um, so just want y'all to know that, but yeah, we're going to have a great

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time tonight for those that are joining new for the first time. Welcome. We would love

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to know who you are. Put that in the chat for us. And then, um, for my ladies coming

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back, welcome back. Roseanne, thank you. I curled my hair a little bit when you wear

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it straight a lot, the curl here in Florida, it just doesn't stay. There's so much humidity.

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My hair just doesn't hold it, but I appreciate that. So a couple housekeeping things tonight.

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As we get started. Um, so you all, let's just talk about why do we even post in the

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group? So in the last year single app in your heartwork group under the community tab, why

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do we encourage you to post in there? Well, hurt in community, healed in community. We

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believe that strongly hurt in relationship, healed in relationship. So this gives you

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an opportunity to practice coming out of hiding, allow yourself to be seen, heard, known, and

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loved to be accepted. And where God can also just really work out insecurities in you there.

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You'll see all different kinds of things surface, especially those of you, if you have struggled

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to have relationship with women in a healthy dynamic, this is going to be where the enemy

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is going to try to keep you from posting in the group. He'll try to give you all the reasons.

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And as soon as you post, you'll start to feel anxiety and all that kind of stuff. I want

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you to know that's normal, but the way to, um, heal through that is to post, to engage,

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to show up because if we isolate and pull back and we don't post, well, then that's

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not leading us towards the healing that we actually need. Because so many times we don't

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even realize how issues among women, us having issues with other women and not being able

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to build community actually can also impact our love relationship with a spirit mate in

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the future. And so the more that y'all work out those dynamics here and kind of just press

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through that, come into the group and even say, I'm, I'm afraid to post, I'm afraid to

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say the wrong thing, whatever your thing is, let us know that because again, those can

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be revealing for healing. If that is not something you're afraid of at all, that's awesome. If

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you're brand new, we highly recommend doing an introduction post, or if you haven't done

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one yet, where you put a picture that you love of yourself, it can be you by yourself,

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you with your animals, you doing something you love with kids, whatever you're comfortable

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with. But then also in the text, sharing a couple of things about yourself, what led

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you here? You know, if you took modern dating sucks first, and then you're here in the heartwork,

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let us know those things. Maybe a friend referred you, um, what are, what are you hoping to

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accomplish? Maybe a couple hobbies that you love, you know, you get to share whatever

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you want, but those are just some ideas for you. And why does that matter? Well, the reality

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is, is some of these women on the journey with you here in the heartwork at this time

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could actually end up becoming some of your bridesmaids. I know it might seem like a stretch,

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but I promise because I've been here for five and a half years, I ended up being in one

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of my, um, friends in my group when I started in her wedding. Um, and so it happens all

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the time. It happens way more than you think. So allow yourself in this season to make some

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new friends. Okay. Show up for yourself most importantly, because it is about you. It's

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not about us, even though we love to hear from you. This is about you, the whole, everything

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that is available, what we put into it is what we're going to get out of it. Um, and

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so, oh, Lisa used to live in Orlando. Yeah. Lots of humidity here. Um, one of my other

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off keeping tonight is distractions will come no matter what you are going to find one distraction

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after another, after another, we'll pop up guys that are old, that you haven't even talked

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to forever. We'll start to resurface. And some of you are going to be like, oh my gosh,

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it's meant to be, let's just press pause on that and make sure we're doing our heartwork.

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And at the end of heartwork, you can then discern at that time, if it is a guy that

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God is bringing back around, or is it the enemy sending him back in to get you off track?

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You know, back to those hurts habits and hang ups and all of those things.

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The other thing is like some of y'all are going to have like your kids are going to

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have problems left and right where you're going to be on these sessions and they're

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going to need stuff and just yeah, of course kids need things but more than normal.

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Maybe some of you hopefully this doesn't happen, but I just want you to know that it can happen.

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Sometimes people will start to have health problems.

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Just the enemy is going to try to distract you from your healing.

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He doesn't want you to heal and move forward.

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Don't be afraid of it.

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Just be aware of it.

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Remember that the Lord gives us authority to tread upon serpents, okay?

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So what I mean by that is stand in the authority that God has given you and pray for yourself.

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Pray that you would be able to stand guard, you know, guard your heart and mind through

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Christ Jesus and stand firm on the word.

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All right.

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So remember to stay focused.

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Don't give up because if you just keep taking one step, one imperfect action every single

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day, you will finish this heart work and it will be done successfully.

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And there's no perfect.

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Okay.

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So this is about your journey and getting out what you need.

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Last one tonight is prophetic ministry night was last night.

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We had a great time.

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We did do some prophetic ministry at the beginning and then we just took some time to pray for

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a couple of different things that the Lord is putting in my heart.

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Some things that we just needed to cover in the community.

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So that replay, if it's not up under replays already, it's going to be there either tonight

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or in the morning tomorrow.

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All right.

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Let's pray and dive in.

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Father, thank you so much for this night.

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God I thank you for what you're doing in our hearts.

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God I thank you for expanding our capacity to receive your goodness.

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God I thank you that you would help us to hear what your spirit is saying louder than

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any voice of the enemy.

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God I thank you that our former years are going to be greater than our latter years.

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God that you would bring things out of darkness into the light so they can, they can be revealed

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for healing, even aspects and, and things about ourselves and our past that we've long

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forgotten, not even ever thought of in a long time, but God, you know, the things that are

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holding us back.

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You know, the things that keep us stuck or I thank you that you'll help us to step further

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into the fullness of who you have created us to be originally your original plan and

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purpose for us.

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God, let it become a part of who we are more every day.

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Holy Spirit, we thank you for your presence here.

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I thank you that you'll guide and direct every conversation, every breakout room, every coaching

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part of this session.

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And we just thank you for all you're going to do.

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Thank you for supernatural breakthroughs in Jesus name.

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Amen.

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Tonight, we are talking about supernatural surrender ladies.

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And so I do want to kind of reference in your first week, you're going to find, well, for

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those of you that just started, hopefully you're going to go through that welcome section

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and get, you know, comfortable with just kind of the dynamics of the course.

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If you have questions, you can come in and post a question.

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Did you guys, did you all know you can literally post a question in the group too?

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If you don't know what to do, just ask us, we'll do our best to help you.

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And if we can't help you with something, we'll definitely direct you to our admin or tech

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team.

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You know, there's certain things that we as the coaches, you know, aren't going to be

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able to do for you if it's a tech issue.

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So we'll send you to them, but whatever your questions are, let us know.

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But in week one, there is a video about the Jesus Cares Board.

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And I do want to kind of reference just that video.

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Make sure you all watch it, really pray into it.

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And the importance of this board, I really want to encourage you to take time to pray

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about the cares that you need to cast on your board.

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Actually, just want to pull up now that I think about it and show you guys, I haven't

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done this for a while, but I just feel like I need to do it tonight.

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So give me a minute.

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We'll get there.

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I'll pull this up.

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I want to show you some examples.

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Now, yours don't have to look anything like this.

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Oh, it's not going to let me open it.

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Well, maybe I'll try to work on that while you all are in your breakouts and I can try

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to pull it up.

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But I was going to show you just different Jesus Cares Boards, but basically, it's casting

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your cares and your worries and your fears, anything that's like weighing you down onto

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your board.

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And literally, as you're doing it, just pray and thank God for working supernaturally in

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that area.

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And you'll be amazed at what will happen.

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I'd highly recommend praying over your board often.

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And when you pray over it, I don't want you to pray necessarily with fear, intrepidation

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or anxiety.

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But I want you to really work on partnering with God.

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Thank you.

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God, thank you that you're working supernaturally in every one of these areas.

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God, help me to continue to surrender the pen to you, to trust you with whichever one

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you're praying over or the board in general.

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And the reason I say that is because so many times when we pray, we pray from a posture

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of limiting belief systems or lack, that it's hard for God to do these things when it is

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easy for him.

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Now, the timing is important.

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God will not force people to do things.

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So if you're praying for a person,

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if you're praying for them to change,

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understand that God will not trump their free will.

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He will invite them into change.

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He pursues people with his loving kindness

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to lead us all to repentance.

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Okay, so as you're praying for people, just remember that.

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But that doesn't mean we stop praying.

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It doesn't mean we stop giving them to Jesus,

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thanking him for what he's doing,

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and know that every prayer,

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no matter how long it takes

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for that person to experience transformation,

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every prayer is a seed that is sown

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that will reap a harvest in due season, okay?

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All right, yeah.

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Would love for you to put in the chat,

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if you've already done your Jesus Cares Board,

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I saw a couple people,

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Rachel said she just posted hers tonight,

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and, oh, that's fun, Daniel saw hers,

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and then Jess said it's been a game changer for her.

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And so it's just an amazing aspect

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of just letting it off of us and putting it onto him.

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All right, so remember that in this,

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as you guys are walking out supernatural surrender,

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in addition to the Jesus Cares Board,

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as you're praying into even your own heart healing,

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into your future, and when you all are done with this phase,

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and you move into the next phases,

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really supernaturally surrendering that pen

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for God to write your love story.

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I promise you, he writes the best love stories,

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but it takes us choosing to surrender and partner with him.

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So we wanna let God add his super with our natural.

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We have natural ability, we have natural thoughts,

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but we wanna allow God to add his super to our natural

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and really release and relinquish control.

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Remember, releasing means we allow something to move,

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act, or flow freely on our behalf, excuse me.

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So we're saying, okay, God, I can't do this,

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but God, I trust that you can.

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I trust that you can move on my behalf in this situation

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and that you are working things all together for good.

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You're moving things around.

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I took this course years ago and this woman was,

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her big saying was that Jesus is a dot connector

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and that God and Jesus and the Holy Spirit,

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they're really good at connecting the dots.

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And that has always stuck with me

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and I really believe that is so true.

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John 15, four through five says this,

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remain in me and I also, excuse me,

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remain in me as I also remain in you.

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No branch can bear fruit by itself.

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It must remain in the vine.

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Neither can you bear fruit unless you remain in me.

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I am the vine, you are the branches.

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If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit.

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Apart from me, you can do nothing.

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So again, it's just that reminder that we need him.

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We need him for everything that we do.

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God is a gentleman.

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He's not gonna force his way in, ladies.

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It's really important for you to grasp that

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and really get that deep in your spirit.

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He is asking us to remove do not enter signs

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from our hearts, our souls, our spirits.

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You know, areas that we're afraid to let God into.

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He's not gonna barge the door down.

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He's asking, he's standing at the door and he's knocking

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and we get to give him permission to enter.

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And this is why even when we pray

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to accept Jesus as our Lord and Savior,

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we pray to receive him as our Lord and Savior.

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Don't you think that's interesting?

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He invites us and we get to choose to be one with him

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as he is one with the Father.

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to enter every area of our heart.

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He wants to bring love.

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He wants to pour out liquid love

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into every area and aspect of your being

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and heal you from the inside out.

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He loves you so much

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that he doesn't wanna leave you broken, right?

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It's up to us to accept the invitation.

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Revelation 3.20 says,

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behold, I stand at the door and knock.

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If any man hears my voice and opens the door,

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I will come into him and will sup with him and he with me.

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This is so intimate language, such intimate language.

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He's saying he's gonna come in and dine with us

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if we will open the door to him.

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That was Revelation 3.20, Lisa.

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God is all about relationship, ladies.

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It's up to us to open.

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it's not just he's gonna come in and ravage it.

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He wants to come in and sit with us and have a meal.

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So he wants to have a conversation with us.

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He wants to guide us into those revealings for healing.

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Some of you will have things percolate to the surface.

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don't dismiss thoughts during this season.

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You might think, well, that's kind of weird.

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I had this lady several years ago now.

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She had this, I don't even remember fully

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what the whole story was,

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but she had this kind of story, image, memory,

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if you will, coming up from the playground

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when she was a kid.

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happening on the playground.

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and just ask God some really good questions.

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Ask God really good questions.

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Lord, this memory is coming up.

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Can you show me what you're trying to reveal to me?

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Is this connecting to anything else

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that I can't remember right now?

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And she just took some time.

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You all, that story ended up connecting

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to something regarding her uncle

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that she had long forgotten about.

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And that then led to some other things.

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and hadn't asked those questions,

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she might not have been able to kind of

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follow that with the Lord,

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if you understand what I'm saying.

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I hope and I pray that you all will grow

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in more confidence that you hear the Lord

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and that he's with you

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and he's helping you kind of navigate this

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and he doesn't leave you to walk alone.

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So just kind of some important concepts

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that will also come up within us.

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Even though we are all different ages of women,

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some of us, I have,

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I think our youngest lady in here is like 19.

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and even some in their low 80s.

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in different ages are in here.

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they're in the other groups,

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but really God is doing something so wonderful.

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sometimes we have what I call

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little girl tantrums on the inside.

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Like we don't want to let go

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and everything on the inside is saying,

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I do it myself.

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I wanna just do this myself.

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Like I've got this.

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And we actually don't have this.

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from things that it needed when we were younger

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and we got neglected or we felt unheard

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or maybe someone was always controlling us.

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if you hear that in any way, shape or form,

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like that, I've got this,

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I don't even know if I wanna not be single ever again,

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but you have a desire for marriage,

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pay attention to those things.

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Those are all revealings for healing, okay?

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Sometimes people have thoughts like,

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it's just easier to be single,

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but yet they're believing for a spouse.

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Do you see how those contradict each other?

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it's just easier to be single.

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in other ways it's really hard

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to just be single by yourself.

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So there's no easy road, okay?

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And having a partner to do life with is incredible.

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Two people becoming one isn't always an easy thing,

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but man, when it's good and it's amazing

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and you can work as a team, it's just an amazing blessing.

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And so really try to lean away from thoughts like that

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and pay attention, journal, write those things down

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so that you can ask the Lord,

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when is the first time I had this thought?

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When's the first time I partnered with the lie

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that what's coming up in my spirit

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is maybe some of you have had parents say over you,

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you're never gonna get married,

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you're never gonna attract anybody that's good.

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I don't know, that's just what's coming up in my spirit.

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you wanna really ask the Lord,

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when's the first time that I heard this

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and because I was wounded, I started believing it, okay?

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All right, I'm gonna go on to the next one.

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This is stuff that we can hear too.

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Really important that you understand this.

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God is not gonna just say to you, go figure it out.

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Good luck, kid, I hope you make it.

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get. No, he's going to say, you know, I love you. I'm with you. I never leave you or forsake you.

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That is the voice of God. And so if you're hearing other things and you're believing in abandonment

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and you're believing that God comes through for everybody else but you, again, these are areas we

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also need to supernaturally surrender. Again, how do we do that? Well, we let his super,

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we ask for his help with our natural God. This is what I'm hearing. I'm hearing that you're

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going to leave me, that you abandon me, that you don't come through for me. And I don't want to

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believe this anymore. Can you show me the first time that I believed that you abandoned me and

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that you're not a promise keeper, but you're a promise breaker? And see where he leads you.

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All right, here's a couple things. These are some practical ways that I do it myself or God,

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I've got this, shows up in our daily lives. I'm going to try to go through some of these really

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quickly. In relationship, and there's so many more than this, but in relationship,

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controlling conversations or outcomes during conflict, rather than seeking God's wisdom

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first. Making major relationship decisions without prayer or godly counsel.

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Trying to earn love through performance instead of resting in God's unconditional love.

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In finance and career, making financial decisions based solely on our own understanding

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without seeking God's direction. Hoarding resources out of fear instead of trusting God

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as our provider. Parenting and family, trying to control our children's every choice instead

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of training them and trusting God with their hearts. Fixing every problem for our kids rather

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than allowing them to learn and grow through challenges. Personal growth, white knuckling

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through bad habits instead of inviting God into the transformation process. Ladies, this is

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including sexuality struggles that you might be having, maybe eating, gossiping, inviting the

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Lord into these habits in these areas. And there's so many others, but those just came up

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in my spirit to just, this is where it's important to invite God into the process.

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Here's another one, trying to heal our own emotional wounds without letting God into the

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painful places. And you know, it's interesting. There's some people still out there today that

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believe that all this heart healing stuff is just like not needed. They can just tough through

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and just be fine. Well, the reality is no matter if they think that or not, here's the truth.

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Hurt always shows up somewhere. Always. They just might not be able to recognize it. They

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might not be self-aware or maybe they just don't care. I don't know, but I'm telling you that the

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more that you lean into this, the more freedom you get, you will start to experience transformation

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from the inside out. And other people are going to notice. Some people are going to be like,

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Oh my gosh, what's going on with you? You're like glowing. I can tell something's different.

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Like literally some of you are going to start to hear people say those kinds of things to you.

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John 14, 25 through 27 says this.

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So ladies, the important thing there is the Holy Spirit. He's going to help you. He's that advocate.

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He's the counselor, our guide. We don't have to dig for things. Okay. What I mean by that

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is you don't have to try to figure out what's wrong with you. Okay. That's not what we want

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you to do. You don't have to get on the phone and talk to your parents about all the generational

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bad stuff that your parents or grandparents and all like that actually can bring more harm to you

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than good. If you end up having an organic conversation with a parent or sibling or something,

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that's great, but don't force that kind of stuff because that is kind of digging.

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And so we encourage you to ask the Lord to reveal things for healing, to bring things that are in

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darkness into the light. That's something that I pray every time before I coach to trust what

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he brings up, lean into the Holy Spirit, which I already kind of talked about. And then I want to

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encourage you all to kind of think of this phrase. I love this phrase. God gave it to me

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with how I told you that example of the lady that had the memory from elementary school on

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the playground. What I told her to do is pull the thread. So what I mean by that is when that memory

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comes up, or even that thought,

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thought about yourself that could be positive or negative, when that comes up, that you

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pull the thread, you ask God about it.

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Lord, why are you showing this to me right now?

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And some of you, it's going to be when you're having fun.

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Some of you, it's going to be when you're having a hard day.

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Some of you, like something will happen, it might trigger you, you know, just again, be

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really aware of your process.

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All right, so your breakout question for tonight is this, what are some things God is nudging

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you to surrender to him?

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What are some things that God is nudging you to surrender to him in that tonight, you know,

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this week, whatever, however you guys want to answer that.

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All right, let me get these breakout rooms ready.

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I'm going to do eight minutes.

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If there's three of you in a room, that's totally fine, Megan, if there's three of you

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in a room, you're going to do two, four, six, about two minutes each.

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If there's only two of you in a room, you're going to have about four minutes.

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Okay.

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So again, the question is, what are some things God is nudging you to surrender to him today?

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For those of you that are new, in a moment here, I'm going to push the button and that's,

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you're going to get a prompt up on your, on your screen, and you'll just click to join

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that room.

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Okay, here you go.

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Go ahead and click to join those rooms as fast as you can.

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All right, I'm going to start to pray here in just a minute.

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I got to get a couple of people situated in rooms by themselves here.

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All right, Father, thank you so much for everything that you're doing.

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God, I thank you for the revealings, for healing that are happening.

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God, I thank you that you know, every aspect of who we are.

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Oh, Danielle, did you just join us or you got kicked out of the room?

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Yeah, I think I just got kicked out.

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I'm not sure what happened.

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I was in there and then I wasn't.

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If you tap on the bottom, it might give you the option to rejoin.

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If not, I can just put you in a new room.

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I don't see an option.

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Okay, give me one sec.

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We'll get this worked out.

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Sorry about that.

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Oh, that's all right.

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Anna, Danielle accidentally got kicked out of the room, so I'm just going to put you

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all in different rooms now.

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Okay?

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Thank you.

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Oh, you're welcome.

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I don't see your name.

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Oh, there we go.

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I put you there.

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All right, you should have seen that pop up there.

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I got it.

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Thanks.

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Awesome.

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So, Lord, we just thank you for continuing to work in us and, Lord, helping us to see

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what we cannot see for ourselves.

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Lord, even areas where maybe we're not self-aware, maybe there is stuff that we are doing, that

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we are saying, ways that we are partnering with negative, just when I'm hearing my spirit,

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self-deprecating thoughts, God, I thank you that you'll help us to recognize those things

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that are not a part of heaven, that are not a part of your voice, that are not a part

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of your heart towards us.

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God, I pray that you would just, Lord, help us to, when we look in the mirror, see ourselves

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clearly.

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God, I thank you that you are the maker of heaven and earth.

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Nothing is too hard for you.

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And just as you, as Jackie, excuse me, as you led Jackie to write in her book, you know,

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when we lean into the supernatural surrender, all the things that can happen when we get

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out of the way and take our hands off the wheel.

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And so, Lord, we thank you that you're continuing to remove the debris from trauma, from pain,

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from the things that we've gone through in the past.

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And I thank you that you're just reframing our minds.

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God, that you're shifting perspectives.

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I thank you where we, yes, Lord, where we made inner vows and we tried to partner with

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those to protect ourselves.

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Lord, I thank you that you would reveal those inner vows to us and you would help us to

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come out of alignment and agreement with them and come into alignment with your truth about

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who you are, about the plans and the purposes that you have for us and all that is in store.

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James 4.7 in the Passion Translation says,

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So then surrender to God, stand up to the devil and resist him, and he will turn and

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run away from you.

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Proverbs 3.5 in the Message Translation, I don't know if someone just popped on, we lost

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someone, says this,

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Trust God from the bottom of your heart.

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Don't try to figure out everything on your own.

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Listen for God's voice in everything that you do.

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Everywhere you go, He's the one who will keep you on track.

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Don't assume that you know it all.

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There's a scripture that also, excuse me, there's a scripture also that comes to mind

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about, you know, the voice of the Lord or the, yeah, God being the voice behind us telling

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us the way to go.

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And I think of that a lot just because for me, it helps me to think that God is that

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close to me, that He's going to be there not shouting at me, but He's that voice that,

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that whispering, yeah, and being our rear guard totally, that He's with us and He's

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like helping us navigate.

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So, so often we think like He's far away from us and that we're just trying to figure it

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out like in a dark room on our own.

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And sometimes it can feel like that.

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And I understand that.

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But the reality is, is that He is close to us.

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He is close to us and He wants to help us every step of the way.

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The word also declares that He will light a lamp unto our feet and a light unto our

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path, be a lamp unto our feet and a light unto our path.

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And so even as we go and we take imperfect action, I totally believe that God will light

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the way as we go.

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Sometimes so many of us, I used to be like this, I was so afraid of making mistakes that

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sometimes it was kind of like I would sit in the boat, like terrified to make a move

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one way or the other.

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And the Lord really has had to teach me how to trust Him, even if I make a mistake.

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And so I want to encourage some of you to not, you know, hold back out of fear.

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Last night during the prophetic ministry night, at one point that kind of came up like when

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we walk into a room, like really standing in the fact that the Holy Spirit is on the

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inside of us, that Jesus is with us and we take Him with us everywhere that we go.

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And to start partnering with like that when we walk into a room, and this is not a prideful

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thing, but when we walk into your room, we bring them with us.

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So we make things better, like things shift and it's a good thing.

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Obviously if we're a really super negative person, that might not be the case, but because

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we might be allowing our flesh to be more dominant than our spirit.

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And so that's when those cannot show up in that way where the spirit can't show up, but

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it totally is possible.

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And we hear it in stories, even I think of Dolly Parton, like everyone's just talking

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about how amazing, you know, she's been her entire life.

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And she came from nothing, you all, she came from nothing.

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And God really, you know, just really wrote an amazing story out of her life, which I

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think of her as one of the people that we can think about.

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This is someone who walked into a room and made a difference, right?

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And we have so many, Mother Teresa obviously comes to mind.

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There's so many people that I can think of that I'm so grateful that they were on this

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earth.

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Even people in my own life that went before me, that were mentors, that poured into me,

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that encouraged me and all the things, I would not be who I am without them.

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Jackie Dorman is one of those people.

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So grateful for her program here and the opportunity to coach and do what I do.

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And so I want to encourage you all to believe for good things to come and for God to shift

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the things that are happening and to line them up for your good.

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Jeremiah 17, 9 through 10 in the message translation says this,

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The heart is hopelessly dark and deceitful, a puzzle that no one can figure out, but I,

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God, search the heart and examine the mind.

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I get to the heart of the human.

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I get to the root of things.

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I treat them as they really are, not as they pretend to be.

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So powerful.

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So remember, the Lord is telling us right there that he's going to be the one to examine

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the mind and to get to the root of the matter.

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It makes me think of Psalm 50, 10.

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I think it is where it says,

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Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me.

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God can come in and literally cleanse us from the inside out to make us, you know, that

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crimson red, white as snow.

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Our past doesn't define us.

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Old relationships before don't define us.

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They don't mean or like mar what can happen in the future.

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I mean, I've made plenty of mistakes and, um, man, I'm so grateful to have the husband

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I have now and to see, you know, how God has been redeeming my story for sure.

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And I'm sure I'll make more mistakes in the future.

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And that's just kind of part of growth in life.

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So I want to encourage y'all to not be too hard on yourselves.

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Give yourselves lots of grace as you're growing in this process.

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Welcome back.

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We have a few more seconds and then everyone will be here.

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Hello.

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Hello.

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Welcome back.

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All right.

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Hi, everyone.

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Okay, so we're going to talk really quickly. I want to read

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something that stood out to me when I was just kind of looking

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for scriptures to read while y'all were in the breakouts

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tonight. And this is just from the heart workbook. But again,

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as I was flipping through, it just kind of caught my eye

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tonight. Um, control is an illusion, ladies, and out of

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control can be a good and even healthy place to be. Think

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about that. Yeah, I heard that Sarah. It's a good one, right?

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Let's, let's think about the areas. And maybe just jot some

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notes down for yourself or in your phone that you try to

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control the situation. Yeah, I'll definitely say that again,

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Jess. Um, and this is in I'll just tell you what chapter it's

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in. Chapter three, supernatural surrender. And it's in the

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section where she's talking about Are you done yet? Kind of

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like kids are like, Are we there yet? And says, Are we done yet?

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But this is what it said. Control is an illusion, ladies,

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and out of control can be a good and even healthy place to be.

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Now when she's talking about this, and I'm going to go on to

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read a little bit more there. When she's talking about this,

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we're not talking about being toxic and unhealthy here. But

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what she is talking about is some of us try to control

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everything. And how it's all going to work out and play out

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and when it should happen and how it should happen. And all

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these things that sometimes we actually miss out on some things

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that would be really great, because we're doing that. And

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some of us even, you know, do that with our kids. And it might

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be good for us just to let go a little bit and let God kind of

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work in them in that situation. If we want to be real, we're

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never really in control of anything except ourselves, our

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beliefs, and our response. But Jackie, I'm just trying to have

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healthy boundaries. No, you're just trying to keep from

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getting hurt. The more hurt we are, the more we try to control

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our environment. Keep everyone right where we want them to be

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so they cannot hurt us. But when we do that, we can't live

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abundantly. We have a decision to make. Are we ready to

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surrender? Are we ready? Have we come to the end of ourselves?

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If so, it's about time we start yielding to God. The word yield

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means to give up, to give in, to let go, to throw in the

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towel, to concede and wave the white flag. So ladies, are you

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ready to surrender? Your activations this week, there's

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gonna be a couple of them. I'm not going to explain them all

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right now. I'm just going to go through them very quickly. I'm

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going to put them up in the group as soon as we're done here

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tonight. So you'll find them there under the announcements

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tab, because when I pin them, they'll go under the

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announcements tab for you. There's three. The number one is

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complete that permission slip. So if you haven't done that

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already, or even if you've already done it, you might need

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to supernaturally surrender again, choose to surrender

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again, print that slip out, fill it out, pray, write whatever you

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feel led. And just know some of you might need to go beyond the

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couple little lines that are there. You might need to write

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on the back of yours and ask God for some help to surrender some

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things. And so if there's stuff coming up in you tonight, I

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highly recommend for you to fill out a fresh slip and really say,

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Okay, Lord, I'm going to surrender these new things to

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you that I may not have even thought of the first time

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around. And then I want you to guys to put that up somewhere

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you see it a lot, pray it out loud that surrender prayer. I

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used to pray that thing every day when I get would get ready

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for work. And I'm not exaggerating you all. I put it

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in my bathroom where I could see it. I was single didn't matter.

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And even if I had kids like well, I do my spiritual daughter

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saw it when they would come over and you know, I'm good with

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that. Like I am okay. And they were teenagers. So I didn't mind

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for them to see even things I had written on there. Number

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two is your Jesus cares board. If you haven't done it already,

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definitely want you all to work on that and then post a picture

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of it in the group. Tell us how that process went for you. If

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you have questions about it, let us know. And then the third one,

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I'm not going to read these to you necessarily right now, but

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I'm one. I'm going to put this in the post for you. There's

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what I call them is morning and evening surrender moments. Okay.

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So this would be something that you might want to copy and paste

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or even retype out for yourself because I don't know if our app

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actually lets you copy text, but just you can write it down.

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With your pen on a piece of paper literally guys old school go old school back in the day when I took this course it wasn't even that long ago five and a half years ago.

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y'all I took all kinds of notes with my pen we have people all the time, like I can't copy this get your pens out write it out.

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You can do it all right so there's going to be one for the morning and there's going to be one for the evening and so just kind of encouraging all again this is not a religious thing if you forget it's okay if you don't ever do it totally fine this is just something I'm making available to you.

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For those of you that really struggle highly recommend this for it's for everybody, but where before you get out of bed there's a little prayer it's like literally.

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Two sentences that you're going to pray before you go to bed at night there's a little prayer you can pray and so i'm going to give that to you on the group okay so.

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Again that'll be up under the announcements tab tonight when we finish here, so we go into a group coaching at this time anyone that is willing to share with the whole group.

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If you want to put your hands up and then we will will let you share and then we'll coach and go from there is there anyone that wants to go tonight.

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All right, Danielle go ahead.

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I am having such a hard time with this and it's partly why i'm still in heartwork.

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i'm i'm I just.

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So what's the biggest fear.

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it's it's that he's gonna be poor and i'm going to be poor and I might as well stay single.

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Okay, like this is why the never will I ever date was so impactful for me this week and I feel like and I took those questions you gave me to the Lord.

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about his profession i'm really.

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i'm not gonna go a bunch into my story, whatever I just have big dreams and visions to get out of middle class and I started businesses, I have my own assets, I have my own house i've been a really good steward.

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And I really struggle with men who make less than me or are it's not even the stewardship.

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I know that some men are really good stewards but still don't have that much money or make a lot in their profession and I feel like God revealed to me because I asked him, why do I care so much about this.

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Because see when I go on dates i've been on 70 plus first days, by the way, over in eight years and it's just been terrible and great, but I think when it gets on the profession subject I cringe internally if they're not like doing something that I find.

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Respectable or that would align with my vision for my life that I feel like i've partly been given as a woman and with God and i'm just struggling to surrender this part.

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Like and I don't want to control it, but I kind of do because I want him to be doing X, Y and Z.

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Well, then think here's the thing that I think is really important so let's pause here for a SEC.

686
00:43:08.120 --> 00:43:13.080
I understand what you're saying and I might have already said this to you, but here's the here's the reality to.

687
00:43:14.520 --> 00:43:22.840
Some people even you all this might even be you all that i'm talking about here in a moment when you meet your spirit mate.

688
00:43:24.120 --> 00:43:36.320
may not be fully into who you're going to become you know I understand what you're saying and i'm not even saying God's going to ask you to marry someone that isn't making good money okay.

689
00:43:37.280 --> 00:43:51.120
What I am saying is that would we want to be counted out if a man dated us and we weren't making as much as him and he had that kind of same heart posture.

690
00:43:52.080 --> 00:44:05.800
Where we fear so we want to get to the root of the fear okay there's nothing wrong with because to me I kind of consider this on a level because I feel like what you feel called to matters Daniel okay.

691
00:44:06.240 --> 00:44:15.720
And there's a certain level of where you feel like God is leading you and so to me this kind of partners with the spiritual DNA that you want the guy to have not only do you want them to believe in the Lord.

692
00:44:16.000 --> 00:44:25.280
But it sounds like you really would love to be partnered with an entrepreneur who's making good money, you know yeah the reality is also that you want to think about.

693
00:44:25.880 --> 00:44:36.040
Is where did the fear come from, because that was the first thing that you said I'm afraid he's going to be poor so i'm going to be poor, so let me ask you a question.

694
00:44:38.360 --> 00:44:40.280
Did your parents struggle with money.

695
00:44:40.280 --> 00:44:59.720
So no, I actually come from a pretty financially responsible line and i'm the third to go to college and i've actually didn't pay for college because of a trust fund so i'm actually the third in my line to be given these gifts from my family and, therefore, I was kind of give.

696
00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:06.640
I was born in a standard, but here's the interesting thing is my family are poverty thinkers,

697
00:45:06.640 --> 00:45:12.160
so, and they're not believers. So like, save, save, save, don't you dare give, stockpile.

698
00:45:12.960 --> 00:45:19.200
And so my, you know what, I thought my fear was security because I would like to have,

699
00:45:19.200 --> 00:45:24.720
I want security, but God revealed to me, Danielle, you've never been without and you never will.

700
00:45:24.720 --> 00:45:29.600
Like, again, I have the belief he's going to provide for me. I have so many testimonies.

701
00:45:29.600 --> 00:45:35.360
I'm living in a house I didn't, I have, I didn't even have a job, like, but he revealed to me.

702
00:45:35.360 --> 00:45:43.600
And I, it was like, I want freedom and I want choice in what I do professionally when I do

703
00:45:43.600 --> 00:45:48.560
get married. So I'm nervous. I'm nervous talking right now. I don't know if anyone can relate

704
00:45:48.560 --> 00:45:53.440
what I'm about to say, but I'm just like, am I going to be controlled? Am I going to be like,

705
00:45:53.440 --> 00:45:59.200
told like, no, you can't do that. And then I'm going to be like, regret getting married

706
00:45:59.200 --> 00:46:05.280
and just been like, well, I was better off where I was. Why did I take that as an example?

707
00:46:05.280 --> 00:46:12.160
Like how, where, where. Yeah. My dad controlled my mother and told her, you cannot stay at home.

708
00:46:12.160 --> 00:46:18.400
You must work. So my mom became a working mother. And to this day, she wishes she could have stayed

709
00:46:18.400 --> 00:46:25.280
at home and she was never given the chance. And my dad is a penny pincher, whatever y'all want

710
00:46:25.280 --> 00:46:30.880
to call it. Money doesn't grow on trees. The rich stink. Like that's what I was raised in

711
00:46:30.880 --> 00:46:38.160
and still live with. And I'm so scared of that. I'm scared. And, and I am the type of woman who

712
00:46:38.160 --> 00:46:43.520
said being single is better, which is why I think I'm still single. And I want to get out of this

713
00:46:43.520 --> 00:46:48.320
though. Cause I want to get married and start my family. And I've, I've met men who were like,

714
00:46:48.320 --> 00:46:53.200
I don't actually care what you do. I want you to be healthy. And I want God to lead this family.

715
00:46:53.200 --> 00:46:58.320
And I've met men who are like, Oh no, the woman should stay at home no matter what. And it's like,

716
00:46:58.320 --> 00:47:04.160
well, that's a little much too. Like, yeah, you want options balanced. It sounds like you want

717
00:47:04.160 --> 00:47:09.280
someone that's balanced. I would really encourage you to lean into this thing regarding your dad

718
00:47:09.280 --> 00:47:14.720
and mom, because when you were talking, that's where you were getting kind of like, it's more

719
00:47:14.720 --> 00:47:20.720
about the fear of someone holding you back. I really guess it's not just money. This is about,

720
00:47:20.720 --> 00:47:25.360
you are afraid someone's going to hold you back from something that you want to do. So for

721
00:47:25.360 --> 00:47:31.040
example, if your mom wanted to stay home and your dad held her back well, and you saw that you

722
00:47:31.040 --> 00:47:35.360
witnessed that, what did your mom say? Like you might even need God to bring to your memory.

723
00:47:35.360 --> 00:47:40.880
Like what were things that you heard your mom say, you know, did she resent your dad for that?

724
00:47:41.760 --> 00:47:47.280
And so as a kid, you absorbed all of that. And so there's probably things still in your

725
00:47:47.280 --> 00:47:56.000
subconscious that men are controlling. Yeah. She said, Oh, well, I really wanted to buy new

726
00:47:56.000 --> 00:48:00.720
couches, but your dad wouldn't let me. And she was a work. She was working by the way.

727
00:48:02.960 --> 00:48:10.000
This is, this is a really big root for you. I'm very confident of this. And so I really want to

728
00:48:10.000 --> 00:48:14.800
encourage you just to take some time in prayer this week and ask the Lord. These are some things

729
00:48:14.880 --> 00:48:18.080
you already know, several of these things quickly that I'm asking you,

730
00:48:18.720 --> 00:48:23.360
but what we need God to show you is the stuff that you don't remember right now.

731
00:48:24.560 --> 00:48:31.440
That is under the surface of all this things that you heard your mom say that you then started

732
00:48:31.440 --> 00:48:38.320
partnering with or being afraid of, because we want, again, we want to get to the root of the

733
00:48:38.400 --> 00:48:45.760
fear. Because the fear, fear is the opposite of love. Okay. So fear has to do with torment,

734
00:48:46.400 --> 00:48:52.480
control, you know, anxiety, where love is going to help you be at peace.

735
00:48:53.200 --> 00:49:01.760
Love is going to create freedom. Like a true like person like Brian doesn't control me.

736
00:49:02.720 --> 00:49:11.040
He partners with me. Okay. He cheers me on. There might be times where Brian might say, Hey,

737
00:49:11.920 --> 00:49:17.680
not sure I like how that person's treating you. You know, and he might make a recommendation,

738
00:49:17.680 --> 00:49:22.480
but he still doesn't say, you have to stop doing this, or you're not allowed to do this,

739
00:49:22.480 --> 00:49:27.280
like that, that verbiage doesn't exist in our home. I'm not like that with him either.

740
00:49:27.280 --> 00:49:34.240
And so what you're really desiring is someone that is a mutual partner with you. Yeah. Who

741
00:49:34.240 --> 00:49:43.120
doesn't try to control you? Who loves you? Wow, that's so good. Yeah. And so you may need to get

742
00:49:43.120 --> 00:49:48.320
some prayer sheets out to forgive your dad because it sounds like to even the thing about your mom,

743
00:49:48.320 --> 00:49:52.640
like, I wanted to buy new couches, and he wouldn't let me. And I'm sure that was so

744
00:49:52.800 --> 00:49:57.040
And I'm sure that was so frustrating for her as she's also working and making money.

745
00:49:57.840 --> 00:49:59.840
And so if he can, if he

746
00:50:00.000 --> 00:50:10.000
Um, if he did the finances as well in the home, okay, see, and not that that's a bad thing. Okay. Brian really enjoys doing the finances.

747
00:50:10.000 --> 00:50:25.000
Um, I went through a lot of financial trauma before I met him. And so even he and I, we've kind of done our finances a little different until like, and as I've gotten more comfortable, we've merged things more and more, but I went through a lot of financial manipulation with my ex-husband.

748
00:50:25.000 --> 00:50:41.000
And so, uh, there's just been a lot. And so he had a lot of grace for me and helped kind of like in the process, support me in my healing, instead of being like, it's my way or the highway, I'm doing this all right now where we're not getting married. You know what I'm saying?

749
00:50:41.000 --> 00:50:42.000
Yeah.

750
00:50:42.000 --> 00:50:46.000
But I also have to watch that. I don't lean too much into, I can't do this.

751
00:50:46.000 --> 00:50:47.000
Right.

752
00:50:47.000 --> 00:50:49.000
I'm afraid. So there's a balance there.

753
00:50:49.000 --> 00:50:50.000
Right.

754
00:50:51.000 --> 00:50:57.000
And so this is just another step for you to kind of come out of that place of fear and hiding essentially.

755
00:50:57.000 --> 00:50:58.000
Yeah.

756
00:50:58.000 --> 00:51:18.000
Whether you realize it or not, when you partner with, oh my gosh, if I get married, I'm not going to have freedom. I'm not going to have choices. Like I'm not going to, I'm going to be poor. You know, it's, it's, it's literally holding you back from attracting someone that is actually what you want and need. Yeah.

757
00:51:19.000 --> 00:51:21.000
But it's okay. Like you're not alone. You're in good company.

758
00:51:21.000 --> 00:51:23.000
That's why I'm here.

759
00:51:23.000 --> 00:51:33.000
That's right. That's why you're here. And you know, this is where these revelations, it's just, you know, another, another dot that's getting connected for you tonight. So let us know how that goes.

760
00:51:33.000 --> 00:51:34.000
Okay.

761
00:51:34.000 --> 00:51:37.000
And yeah, we're going to be cheering you on and praying for you this week about that.

762
00:51:37.000 --> 00:51:39.000
Ooh, thank you so much.

763
00:51:39.000 --> 00:51:42.000
You did great. I love it. I love your hat, by the way.

764
00:51:42.000 --> 00:51:44.000
Amen. Period.

765
00:51:45.000 --> 00:51:46.000
Yeah, I love it.

766
00:51:46.000 --> 00:51:47.000
Great.

767
00:51:47.000 --> 00:51:50.000
You're welcome. Ailyn, go ahead.

768
00:51:50.000 --> 00:51:56.000
Okay. So, do you remember that house situation? Hi.

769
00:51:56.000 --> 00:51:59.000
Yes, I do. Last, that was last week, I think, right?

770
00:51:59.000 --> 00:52:00.000
Yeah.

771
00:52:00.000 --> 00:52:01.000
Yeah.

772
00:52:01.000 --> 00:52:08.000
So, God just, he just flat out told me, no, he said, you just have to wait.

773
00:52:08.000 --> 00:52:09.000
Okay.

774
00:52:09.000 --> 00:52:23.000
He just said, you're not getting the house. You just have to wait. And so then I had sent the email to cancel it. And then I told my parents the next day, well, I told my mom.

775
00:52:23.000 --> 00:52:33.000
And then she's like, well, I wasn't like expecting you that from you. Because we've always said Ailyn's going to do what she was going to do, even if it's by not saying anything, she's still going to do it.

776
00:52:33.000 --> 00:52:34.000
Okay.

777
00:52:34.000 --> 00:52:47.000
So, I'm still surrendering it, because there's a lot of me that just wants to have my own stuff, my own place.

778
00:52:47.000 --> 00:53:00.000
And I went on an open house, just because it was literally like a minute away from my grandma's house. And I was just like, at the stoplight, it says open house on this street, and I'm like, brother, it's right there.

779
00:53:00.000 --> 00:53:11.000
So, then my grandma and I go, and this is bad. So, we're talking in Spanish, and she's like, not the best at Spanish, but it's okay.

780
00:53:11.000 --> 00:53:20.000
And I just kind of played dumb. Like, I didn't know that much English, because God was telling me, Ailyn, you don't need to be doing this right now.

781
00:53:20.000 --> 00:53:39.000
And I was just like, okay, but I'm just going to finish this one, because I'm already here. But I didn't say much in English, because God had told me, nope. And then she wanted my contact information, and I was just like, I'll reach out to you.

782
00:53:39.000 --> 00:53:58.000
I'm not giving you my contact information. And so, it was difficult, because then my mom asked me yesterday, she's like, so, what's the plan? And usually, I'm already like, okay, I want to do X, Y, and Z.

783
00:53:59.000 --> 00:54:15.000
But then I had to tell her, I was like, well, I just have to wait. Like, she's not trying to kick me out. I'm not trying to kick you out, but I told her, I was like, I just have to stay here. Like, God's telling me, don't move.

784
00:54:15.000 --> 00:54:30.000
Like, my aunt could have said, well, she has said, she's like, Ailyn, you can just go rent. And I'm like, yeah, you're right, I could. You know, but then God's telling me, nope, you're not even doing that. So, I'm just like, ugh.

785
00:54:30.000 --> 00:54:49.000
And there could be something He's protecting you from, you know. Sometimes there's just things coming down the road that we don't know are coming. And it doesn't even necessarily mean something bad. It might be something good that you're like, oh, I'm so glad I didn't get that house yet, because now I can do this or whatever, you know.

786
00:54:49.000 --> 00:54:59.000
And so, and that's the glorious thing in the whole surrendering. And sometimes it is just, it makes me think of this is not the same as what you're saying at all.

787
00:55:00.000 --> 00:55:02.320
because it's about bathroom and cleaning up.

788
00:55:02.320 --> 00:55:04.880
I used to work at this company

789
00:55:04.880 --> 00:55:08.960
where the company I worked for was on the same floor

790
00:55:08.960 --> 00:55:12.060
as the bankruptcy court.

791
00:55:12.060 --> 00:55:16.620
And when I say this, if any of you have filed bankruptcy,

792
00:55:16.620 --> 00:55:19.280
this is not judgment against any of you or anything,

793
00:55:19.280 --> 00:55:21.100
but it just happened.

794
00:55:21.100 --> 00:55:23.520
A lot of times on bankruptcy court days,

795
00:55:23.520 --> 00:55:26.480
the bathrooms would be left kind of really dirty.

796
00:55:26.480 --> 00:55:29.840
And we were the only two organizations on that floor.

797
00:55:29.880 --> 00:55:33.240
And so the days that we would just be there,

798
00:55:33.240 --> 00:55:36.960
our group of people didn't like leave trash

799
00:55:36.960 --> 00:55:38.000
all over the floor.

800
00:55:38.000 --> 00:55:42.620
All that to say, this one day in particular,

801
00:55:43.520 --> 00:55:45.760
I was in the bathroom and there was just paper towels

802
00:55:45.760 --> 00:55:47.120
all over the floor.

803
00:55:47.120 --> 00:55:51.540
And I totally could have left them there.

804
00:55:51.540 --> 00:55:54.840
But the Lord said to me, I want you to pick those up.

805
00:55:56.300 --> 00:55:59.460
And I even remember saying, well, Lord, they're not mine.

806
00:55:59.460 --> 00:56:00.660
Now I care about the bathroom.

807
00:56:00.660 --> 00:56:02.360
I care about cleanliness and all that stuff.

808
00:56:02.360 --> 00:56:03.580
But I just remember thinking,

809
00:56:03.580 --> 00:56:05.020
well, I don't know whose hands touched that.

810
00:56:05.020 --> 00:56:07.300
I don't, you know, they're not mine.

811
00:56:07.300 --> 00:56:08.740
And the Lord's like, I know,

812
00:56:08.740 --> 00:56:10.460
but I want you to pick those up.

813
00:56:10.460 --> 00:56:12.460
And y'all, we can just take a paper towel

814
00:56:12.460 --> 00:56:13.860
and pick them up with another paper towel.

815
00:56:13.860 --> 00:56:16.620
So it's not like, but in that moment, you know,

816
00:56:16.620 --> 00:56:21.620
God was just asking me to see if I would be willing.

817
00:56:23.780 --> 00:56:26.300
And so I did, I cleaned those paper towels up.

818
00:56:26.300 --> 00:56:28.380
And this isn't like a pat me on the back kind of story.

819
00:56:28.380 --> 00:56:29.820
This is just real life, ladies,

820
00:56:29.820 --> 00:56:31.860
how we learn to surrender and obey.

821
00:56:33.660 --> 00:56:37.240
A couple weeks later, the same thing happened.

822
00:56:38.500 --> 00:56:39.780
And I did it again.

823
00:56:39.780 --> 00:56:42.220
And then after that, I don't know,

824
00:56:42.220 --> 00:56:44.380
it was a couple months later,

825
00:56:44.380 --> 00:56:46.940
something happened where I had to make a decision

826
00:56:46.940 --> 00:56:49.020
and there was something God was asking me to do.

827
00:56:49.020 --> 00:56:50.940
And it was a bigger deal.

828
00:56:50.940 --> 00:56:54.540
And God reminded me of those days.

829
00:56:54.540 --> 00:56:58.540
And he reminded me that my willingness to be obedient

830
00:56:58.540 --> 00:57:01.340
led me to this bigger opportunity and thing

831
00:57:02.300 --> 00:57:05.140
with another opportunity to be obedient.

832
00:57:05.140 --> 00:57:08.860
And so sometimes it's about surrender.

833
00:57:08.860 --> 00:57:13.460
It's just about learning to crucify our flesh.

834
00:57:13.460 --> 00:57:14.540
And it's not so much

835
00:57:14.540 --> 00:57:16.540
that God's withholding something from us,

836
00:57:16.540 --> 00:57:19.580
it's that he's preparing us for something else.

837
00:57:19.580 --> 00:57:21.540
And so if we can really shift our hearts

838
00:57:21.540 --> 00:57:24.540
when we surrender into those kinds of mindsets

839
00:57:24.540 --> 00:57:28.900
and heart postures, we will see.

840
00:57:28.900 --> 00:57:33.180
And this is where, this is practice for your love story too.

841
00:57:34.100 --> 00:57:36.620
Because you might go on a date with a guy one day

842
00:57:36.620 --> 00:57:38.360
and he might be a nice guy,

843
00:57:39.260 --> 00:57:43.940
but he might not be the best guy and best match for you.

844
00:57:43.940 --> 00:57:45.220
And so God might say to you,

845
00:57:45.220 --> 00:57:47.540
hey, like, I know he's a really nice guy,

846
00:57:47.540 --> 00:57:50.260
but I really want you to kind of keep going.

847
00:57:51.780 --> 00:57:55.860
And learning discipline now and learning to surrender now

848
00:57:55.860 --> 00:58:00.580
is going to help you be prepared to surrender more later.

849
00:58:00.580 --> 00:58:02.580
And so I really wanna encourage you to keep going,

850
00:58:02.580 --> 00:58:03.460
keep listening.

851
00:58:03.460 --> 00:58:05.940
It's really awesome that you're self-aware

852
00:58:05.940 --> 00:58:09.220
and that you know God is kind of saying these things to you.

853
00:58:09.220 --> 00:58:12.500
And even your family is seeing that shift in you, right?

854
00:58:12.500 --> 00:58:14.140
Your mom's like, wait, what?

855
00:58:14.140 --> 00:58:16.300
You normally just do what you want.

856
00:58:16.300 --> 00:58:18.740
That's a good thing that they're seeing that in you.

857
00:58:18.740 --> 00:58:22.260
And I feel like more of that is gonna,

858
00:58:22.260 --> 00:58:23.860
it's gonna impact people in ways

859
00:58:23.860 --> 00:58:27.460
that you don't even realize right now, yeah.

860
00:58:27.460 --> 00:58:30.620
But your house will come one day and who knows,

861
00:58:30.620 --> 00:58:34.940
it might be, let me just plant this seed too.

862
00:58:34.940 --> 00:58:38.900
It might just be that your spirit mate

863
00:58:38.900 --> 00:58:41.720
is hoping that when he meets you,

864
00:58:41.720 --> 00:58:44.820
that he will be able to get a house with you together.

865
00:58:44.820 --> 00:58:47.580
And it doesn't mean that you couldn't still do that, okay?

866
00:58:47.580 --> 00:58:49.980
But, you know, sometimes it is even that

867
00:58:49.980 --> 00:58:52.300
regarding like you're saving money,

868
00:58:52.300 --> 00:58:54.220
you know, when you meet your spirit mate,

869
00:58:54.220 --> 00:58:56.220
like you'll have a little bit more money

870
00:58:56.220 --> 00:58:58.060
maybe to save towards a wedding.

871
00:58:58.060 --> 00:59:00.380
Like ladies, it's a good thing if you have help

872
00:59:00.380 --> 00:59:03.220
and we don't have to just do it ourselves and be on our own,

873
00:59:03.220 --> 00:59:05.780
even though I love, you know, independence too.

874
00:59:05.780 --> 00:59:07.940
So I get that as well for you.

875
00:59:07.940 --> 00:59:09.140
Can I say something?

876
00:59:09.140 --> 00:59:10.260
Yeah, absolutely.

877
00:59:11.180 --> 00:59:13.900
Okay, so I didn't know if it was like God

878
00:59:13.900 --> 00:59:16.380
or just me dreaming this dream,

879
00:59:16.380 --> 00:59:21.380
but it was like after heartwork and everything

880
00:59:23.100 --> 00:59:24.180
that last week,

881
00:59:26.300 --> 00:59:30.360
God, I was going on my way with my son,

882
00:59:30.360 --> 00:59:32.080
like on a road trip to Missouri.

883
00:59:32.080 --> 00:59:33.340
I don't know why to Missouri,

884
00:59:33.340 --> 00:59:35.820
but we were going there with my aunt

885
00:59:35.820 --> 00:59:37.600
and like she had been inviting me to Dallas,

886
00:59:37.600 --> 00:59:39.140
but we weren't going to Dallas.

887
00:59:40.220 --> 00:59:42.540
And this is part of that, I'm not moving kind of deal

888
00:59:42.540 --> 00:59:44.820
that he's been talking to me about.

889
00:59:44.820 --> 00:59:49.820
But a third of Missouri is like forest, which I didn't know.

890
00:59:52.000 --> 00:59:56.460
And you know how in those like parks,

891
00:59:56.460 --> 00:59:59.380
like a national forest park,

892
00:59:59.380 --> 01:00:00.220
there's those little-

893
01:00:00.000 --> 01:00:02.600
boxes for those people to sit in or something.

894
01:00:02.600 --> 01:00:05.740
Yeah, well, we're on the road,

895
01:00:05.740 --> 01:00:07.320
and so the road's like this,

896
01:00:07.320 --> 01:00:09.200
and then down here's the forest,

897
01:00:09.200 --> 01:00:10.960
and this beautiful waterfall.

898
01:00:12.360 --> 01:00:15.240
And the guy comes out, I think, of the box,

899
01:00:15.240 --> 01:00:16.480
because I didn't see it,

900
01:00:16.480 --> 01:00:18.380
and we just stopped, and he was like,

901
01:00:19.320 --> 01:00:22.520
hey, do you guys need help with your car or something?

902
01:00:22.520 --> 01:00:24.440
And I don't know why,

903
01:00:24.440 --> 01:00:28.240
but I knew this is my husband.

904
01:00:28.240 --> 01:00:29.320
And he didn't like,

905
01:00:30.440 --> 01:00:34.320
I just knew that he was white, and that's all I knew,

906
01:00:34.320 --> 01:00:37.340
and that he wasn't what I was expecting.

907
01:00:38.760 --> 01:00:41.720
And I think that has to do with what you just said.

908
01:00:43.680 --> 01:00:45.600
I know it kind of sounds off,

909
01:00:45.600 --> 01:00:47.200
but it's making sense to me.

910
01:00:47.200 --> 01:00:49.840
It doesn't, it doesn't sound off at all.

911
01:00:49.840 --> 01:00:52.740
And so here is a great example, ladies,

912
01:00:53.860 --> 01:00:56.360
of you all not minimizing things

913
01:00:56.360 --> 01:00:58.480
that you're hearing and saying.

914
01:00:58.480 --> 01:01:00.800
God gave her a dream,

915
01:01:00.800 --> 01:01:03.080
and is planting seeds in her spirit

916
01:01:03.080 --> 01:01:05.540
about her spirit mate, okay?

917
01:01:05.540 --> 01:01:08.080
Now, one of the things, super important,

918
01:01:08.080 --> 01:01:11.080
that I really wanna make sure all of you hear me say,

919
01:01:11.080 --> 01:01:12.240
when you have dreams,

920
01:01:12.240 --> 01:01:15.200
even though in your dream you saw him as white,

921
01:01:15.200 --> 01:01:17.840
don't hold too tight to that, okay?

922
01:01:17.840 --> 01:01:20.700
Your spirit mate might end up being Caucasian.

923
01:01:20.700 --> 01:01:23.620
But if you hold too tightly to that,

924
01:01:23.620 --> 01:01:26.040
because that could actually mean something different,

925
01:01:26.720 --> 01:01:29.720
because dreams are all about symbolism, okay?

926
01:01:29.720 --> 01:01:31.520
Highly recommend,

927
01:01:31.520 --> 01:01:33.160
it sounds like you already looked into Missouri

928
01:01:33.160 --> 01:01:35.680
a little bit, but I would look into like,

929
01:01:35.680 --> 01:01:39.600
what is the name Missouri mean, okay?

930
01:01:39.600 --> 01:01:41.360
And just see if that leads you anywhere.

931
01:01:41.360 --> 01:01:42.760
And again, this isn't so much about

932
01:01:42.760 --> 01:01:44.200
how to find your spirit mate,

933
01:01:44.200 --> 01:01:46.200
but what you can take away from this

934
01:01:46.200 --> 01:01:48.920
is God is also encouraging you

935
01:01:48.920 --> 01:01:50.640
that your spirit mate is coming.

936
01:01:50.640 --> 01:01:53.000
And you were just on this drive with your son,

937
01:01:53.000 --> 01:01:54.700
and out pops this guy.

938
01:01:56.880 --> 01:01:59.200
And so, ladies, it's really important

939
01:01:59.200 --> 01:02:01.400
to just trust the Lord in what he's showing you.

940
01:02:01.400 --> 01:02:04.000
He's planting seeds, he's encouraging you

941
01:02:04.840 --> 01:02:07.440
that this is something he has for you.

942
01:02:07.440 --> 01:02:10.640
And the fact that you saw you were in a forest,

943
01:02:10.640 --> 01:02:13.080
it was all beautiful and peaceful,

944
01:02:13.080 --> 01:02:14.960
to me is God just saying like,

945
01:02:14.960 --> 01:02:19.520
hey, this process for you is gonna be a good thing.

946
01:02:19.520 --> 01:02:21.760
It's gonna be a peaceful experience.

947
01:02:22.720 --> 01:02:26.120
Like right around that time, you saw a waterfall,

948
01:02:26.120 --> 01:02:28.720
and then the guy came out, okay?

949
01:02:28.720 --> 01:02:33.200
So again, all peaceful, beautiful kind of experiences.

950
01:02:33.200 --> 01:02:34.880
And then the guy came out,

951
01:02:34.880 --> 01:02:38.120
and he said, do you need help with your car?

952
01:02:39.160 --> 01:02:43.620
So there you have a guy also offering to help you, okay?

953
01:02:43.620 --> 01:02:45.320
Anyways, those are a couple of little tidbits.

954
01:02:45.320 --> 01:02:46.540
I love dreams, you all.

955
01:02:46.540 --> 01:02:48.240
We're not gonna get into dream interpretation

956
01:02:48.240 --> 01:02:49.520
here tonight necessarily,

957
01:02:49.520 --> 01:02:52.200
but I wanted to share a couple of those things

958
01:02:52.200 --> 01:02:56.040
because there's a lot of really cool symbolism

959
01:02:56.040 --> 01:02:56.880
in your dreams.

960
01:02:56.880 --> 01:02:59.200
So I hope you pray into that more

961
01:02:59.200 --> 01:03:01.140
and ask God to show you a little bit more

962
01:03:01.140 --> 01:03:03.600
of what he's trying to say in that dream as well.

963
01:03:04.560 --> 01:03:05.380
Thank you.

964
01:03:05.380 --> 01:03:06.220
You're welcome.

965
01:03:06.220 --> 01:03:07.040
Thanks for sharing.

966
01:03:07.040 --> 01:03:10.920
And way to go on, even though you went to the open house,

967
01:03:10.920 --> 01:03:12.160
you're still learning in that.

968
01:03:12.160 --> 01:03:14.420
And I'm really excited to hear

969
01:03:14.420 --> 01:03:16.720
where the supernatural surrender leads you in the future.

970
01:03:16.720 --> 01:03:17.680
It's gonna be good.

971
01:03:18.520 --> 01:03:19.560
Thanks for sharing.

972
01:03:19.560 --> 01:03:20.580
Rachel, go ahead.

973
01:03:22.040 --> 01:03:23.000
Hi there.

974
01:03:23.000 --> 01:03:26.580
I have two questions actually.

975
01:03:26.580 --> 01:03:29.100
One is because I'm new to this group,

976
01:03:29.100 --> 01:03:31.760
I wanted to know when someone's sharing

977
01:03:31.760 --> 01:03:34.540
or when we're in our breakout group or whatever,

978
01:03:34.540 --> 01:03:37.760
is it appropriate for us to comment

979
01:03:37.760 --> 01:03:41.160
or share what we think about things

980
01:03:41.160 --> 01:03:43.120
or how do you guys do that?

981
01:03:43.120 --> 01:03:43.940
That's okay.

982
01:03:43.940 --> 01:03:44.880
Great question.

983
01:03:44.880 --> 01:03:47.640
So we typically, I encourage you all,

984
01:03:47.640 --> 01:03:49.560
like, you know, just to say,

985
01:03:49.560 --> 01:03:52.120
thank you so much for trusting me with your story

986
01:03:52.120 --> 01:03:53.880
or verbiage like that.

987
01:03:54.840 --> 01:03:56.840
Because you guys don't have to like

988
01:03:56.840 --> 01:03:58.380
help each other figure it out.

989
01:03:58.380 --> 01:04:01.440
It's more about you guys just having a safe space

990
01:04:01.440 --> 01:04:03.800
to just say, hey, this is what's coming up in my spirit.

991
01:04:03.800 --> 01:04:05.560
This is what I'm processing.

992
01:04:05.560 --> 01:04:09.040
And the other sister or sisters in there just saying,

993
01:04:09.040 --> 01:04:10.800
thank you so much for sharing that with us.

994
01:04:10.800 --> 01:04:12.240
And so ladies, you know,

995
01:04:12.240 --> 01:04:14.140
if the other person doesn't try to help you,

996
01:04:14.140 --> 01:04:15.460
that's a good thing

997
01:04:15.460 --> 01:04:17.180
because that's what the coaches are for.

998
01:04:17.180 --> 01:04:19.220
So Rachel, yeah, really great question.

999
01:04:19.220 --> 01:04:22.100
And you know, sometimes people forget.

1000
01:04:22.100 --> 01:04:24.860
So sometimes people do shift into advice giving

1001
01:04:24.860 --> 01:04:25.700
and things like that.

1002
01:04:25.700 --> 01:04:28.820
And so just hold grace for each other if that happens.

1003
01:04:28.820 --> 01:04:30.820
But I don't know if that answered your question.

1004
01:04:30.820 --> 01:04:31.660
Yeah, yeah.

1005
01:04:31.660 --> 01:04:35.280
What about like in right now in the live stuff?

1006
01:04:35.280 --> 01:04:38.860
Like if, like I felt one time

1007
01:04:38.860 --> 01:04:41.180
that I felt like the Lord said something to me

1008
01:04:41.180 --> 01:04:42.020
for someone else,

1009
01:04:42.020 --> 01:04:44.380
like, is it appropriate to share that?

1010
01:04:44.380 --> 01:04:45.260
Or how do we do that?

1011
01:04:45.260 --> 01:04:46.100
Or when?

1012
01:04:46.100 --> 01:04:47.140
Or should we not?

1013
01:04:47.140 --> 01:04:47.980
Yeah.

1014
01:04:47.980 --> 01:04:48.820
What's your-

1015
01:04:48.820 --> 01:04:49.640
Yeah, great question.

1016
01:04:49.640 --> 01:04:53.580
So typically I would say you would hold that

1017
01:04:53.580 --> 01:04:55.340
and you would pray for them about that.

1018
01:04:55.340 --> 01:04:56.180
Okay.

1019
01:04:56.180 --> 01:04:57.140
Here's why.

1020
01:04:57.140 --> 01:05:00.060
Because you might just be really.

1021
01:05:00.000 --> 01:05:04.580
prophetic, Rachel, or have words of wisdom or discernment or words of knowledge, kind

1022
01:05:04.580 --> 01:05:10.560
of those giftings. And so God might kick that up in you more because our community is very

1023
01:05:10.560 --> 01:05:16.040
prophetic and we do operate in those gifts. And so people that have those gifts in them,

1024
01:05:16.040 --> 01:05:23.080
they get really stirred up in here in a good way. And so lean into that. But because of

1025
01:05:23.080 --> 01:05:29.760
the way we have our coaching set up, I'm really the only one giving coaching advice or feedback.

1026
01:05:30.240 --> 01:05:38.000
Now, you can absolutely love on and encourage and cheer your sisters on. So like how Danielle

1027
01:05:38.000 --> 01:05:42.080
said in there, that's such a sweet thought or, you know, where you guys are connecting and you're

1028
01:05:42.080 --> 01:05:48.720
building friendship and relationship. But sometimes God is showing us things for people

1029
01:05:50.800 --> 01:05:53.760
that maybe we'll have an opportunity to share with them even later.

1030
01:05:54.560 --> 01:05:56.240
Okay. Yeah, thank you.

1031
01:05:56.240 --> 01:06:01.920
Yeah, you're welcome. And ladies, this doesn't mean that what she's hearing is not important.

1032
01:06:03.200 --> 01:06:10.800
Okay. Super important for y'all to know that. And so I always like when I'm in even other

1033
01:06:10.800 --> 01:06:15.600
people's churches, because sometimes certain churches don't operate in the prophetic,

1034
01:06:15.600 --> 01:06:22.480
and I've had to learn that. And so if I got a prophetic word for someone where the church

1035
01:06:22.480 --> 01:06:28.000
didn't operate in that, I would just pray into that and hold it and really intercede for them

1036
01:06:28.000 --> 01:06:33.360
during the service. And so that's why even in these groups, that's why I've had to learn how to

1037
01:06:33.360 --> 01:06:39.120
help other people navigate that too. So Daniel said, how do we tag you in the app? Yeah, if you

1038
01:06:39.120 --> 01:06:45.600
just say at Bethany, sometimes our app works the way it's supposed to. And I see those. And sometimes

1039
01:06:45.600 --> 01:06:50.800
I don't. But my team members, the other coaches in there, if they see that you're saying something to

1040
01:06:50.800 --> 01:06:57.520
me, they'll at least say, Hey, did you see this if I haven't seen it yet? So if anyone did do that,

1041
01:06:57.520 --> 01:07:02.000
and I didn't see it, please know it wasn't intentional. Because I do try to even get in

1042
01:07:02.000 --> 01:07:05.760
and scroll through as many as I can to see if people have said stuff to me. Let's see.

1043
01:07:08.960 --> 01:07:13.440
Oh, I saw a question earlier, but I'm in a public windy place. I wasn't sure about talking out loud,

1044
01:07:13.440 --> 01:07:17.440
but thought I'd still ask just in case your answer. Let's see here.

1045
01:07:21.760 --> 01:07:26.640
Okay, just says I've been doing the revealing for healing exercise and giving it to God and having

1046
01:07:26.640 --> 01:07:31.600
him give me truth and all that. And I'll surrender and repent and lean into it. And he is revealing

1047
01:07:31.600 --> 01:07:37.120
so much. But after I go through the steps, I don't always feel all that different. Is that normal?

1048
01:07:37.120 --> 01:07:42.560
Do I need to do it again? Yes, that can be very normal. Just sometimes we don't feel any change

1049
01:07:42.560 --> 01:07:50.480
in the moment. But then like weeks down the road, it's all of a sudden like, oh, that weight is gone

1050
01:07:50.640 --> 01:07:55.440
now. Because we might enter a situation where we would have gotten triggered by something in the

1051
01:07:55.440 --> 01:08:03.600
past. And now we're like, oh, that didn't even bother me anymore. Sometimes we will feel something

1052
01:08:03.600 --> 01:08:11.600
like right away, it'll be big emotions. Sometimes. I guess one of the questions that I think is

1053
01:08:11.600 --> 01:08:24.720
important in this too, is do you feel numb? Okay. Okay, cool. Yeah. So if she felt numb,

1054
01:08:24.720 --> 01:08:28.640
what I would encourage her to do and Jackie talks about this in the coursework, once you get a

1055
01:08:28.640 --> 01:08:33.200
certain like, I think it's week three. Once you get to the end of week three, if you're still

1056
01:08:33.200 --> 01:08:39.600
feeling numb, you really need to go back and do week one and go back over weeks one, two and three

1057
01:08:39.600 --> 01:08:46.560
because for some of you, and it's not your fault, but you've been through so much that you've pushed

1058
01:08:46.560 --> 01:08:52.880
things down a lot. And so it might take a little longer for that to come to the surface for you to

1059
01:08:52.880 --> 01:08:57.760
feel emotion. And everybody's different. So some of you might not have big emotions, you might just

1060
01:08:57.760 --> 01:09:03.040
feel peace, or you might feel some kind of simple release. Or like I said, you'll be in a situation

1061
01:09:03.040 --> 01:09:08.399
and you'll be like, Oh my gosh, that used to bother me so bad. And now it doesn't, you know,

1062
01:09:08.399 --> 01:09:14.160
we'll be more of a simple, what I would call a simple change. But it's just as important. Does

1063
01:09:14.160 --> 01:09:20.080
that make sense? Yeah. Okay, I see you. Great question. Great, great question. All right,

1064
01:09:20.080 --> 01:09:26.000
Lisa, thanks for asking that. Just Lisa, go ahead. So I guess kind of like Rachel, since I'm new,

1065
01:09:26.000 --> 01:09:30.080
I'm kind of trying to figure out like, first of all, just kind of keeping up with everything.

1066
01:09:30.080 --> 01:09:34.560
I was even telling in the breakout, I actually dropped my master's class for this semester.

1067
01:09:35.359 --> 01:09:38.640
This is all so much and I just feel like the Lord's like, okay, the master's class is going

1068
01:09:38.640 --> 01:09:44.399
to be there. Like this hard work needs to happen now. So but like, so even for the group coaching,

1069
01:09:44.399 --> 01:09:50.080
like because I have had, it's very, it's just very interesting how so much stuff has happened

1070
01:09:50.080 --> 01:09:56.000
to me over the last couple of months. Like I did the book club with her, the most recent one. And

1071
01:09:56.000 --> 01:09:59.200
that's how I kind of got here. Although my friend Chrissy's also been in this.

1072
01:10:00.000 --> 01:10:06.420
for a while, and so she also recommended it, and so just even kind of trying to figure

1073
01:10:06.420 --> 01:10:10.460
out like what would I bring up during group coaching?

1074
01:10:10.460 --> 01:10:13.580
I mean, would I bring up anything that God's been revealing to me over the last week or

1075
01:10:13.580 --> 01:10:16.380
something that happened this last week, or kind of what is that?

1076
01:10:16.380 --> 01:10:20.900
Yeah, so normally what we do first, and it doesn't mean we can't ever go away from this,

1077
01:10:20.900 --> 01:10:25.380
but normally what we do is we talk about the question that I had you all talk about in

1078
01:10:25.380 --> 01:10:26.380
the breakout.

1079
01:10:26.380 --> 01:10:31.500
We're going to stay in the vein of where we are for that night, and every week's content

1080
01:10:31.500 --> 01:10:33.300
is different, okay?

1081
01:10:33.300 --> 01:10:36.500
And so as you're going through the course, you're going to have stuff stirred up where

1082
01:10:36.500 --> 01:10:42.220
you can also come in and post in the group, in that community tab, and let us know what

1083
01:10:42.220 --> 01:10:48.340
you're processing, do you have questions about the content, good things that are happening.

1084
01:10:48.340 --> 01:10:52.520
For those of you, if you didn't know, we also have a wins tab when you create a post.

1085
01:10:52.520 --> 01:10:56.760
If you're experiencing wins, we would love for you all to tell us that, because that's

1086
01:10:56.760 --> 01:11:01.680
what's going to help encourage each other, especially on days sisters are having a hard

1087
01:11:01.680 --> 01:11:02.680
day.

1088
01:11:02.680 --> 01:11:07.120
Seeing some of your all's wins, it's going to encourage other people, but yeah, so those

1089
01:11:07.120 --> 01:11:12.560
are some of the ways that we encourage you all to process kind of the as you go kind

1090
01:11:12.560 --> 01:11:13.560
of things.

1091
01:11:13.560 --> 01:11:14.560
Does that make sense?

1092
01:11:14.560 --> 01:11:19.600
I think so, because yeah, I mean, I know like even this last week, so then anything we bring

1093
01:11:19.600 --> 01:11:23.080
up in group coaching would be in relation to the breakout question.

1094
01:11:23.080 --> 01:11:29.040
Like what is typically, and then if I feel like we have extra time, which we typically

1095
01:11:29.040 --> 01:11:34.120
don't have, we typically unfortunately go over, but we're going to finish on time tonight,

1096
01:11:34.120 --> 01:11:35.120
y'all.

1097
01:11:35.120 --> 01:11:37.320
I can feel it.

1098
01:11:37.320 --> 01:11:38.920
But we try to stay in that vein.

1099
01:11:38.920 --> 01:11:43.720
But if I do really feel like the Lord is leading in a different direction, I always try to

1100
01:11:43.720 --> 01:11:45.320
follow the Holy Spirit.

1101
01:11:45.320 --> 01:11:49.640
And it doesn't mean that, let me say this, I think this is important too.

1102
01:11:49.640 --> 01:11:54.320
If you ask a question that is different than what we're talking about tonight, I'm not

1103
01:11:54.320 --> 01:11:57.480
going to be like, you can't ask that question.

1104
01:11:57.480 --> 01:11:58.480
Okay.

1105
01:11:58.480 --> 01:12:04.040
Now, if you start asking me dating questions, even though you were in Modern Dating Sucks,

1106
01:12:04.040 --> 01:12:08.320
while we're in the heart work, we encourage ladies to press pause on dating and trying

1107
01:12:08.320 --> 01:12:09.320
to meet guys.

1108
01:12:09.320 --> 01:12:15.760
And so I will try to encourage you to wait for dating questions for the next phase of

1109
01:12:15.760 --> 01:12:17.360
the program.

1110
01:12:17.360 --> 01:12:22.720
And so, but I still am not going to be like, you know, no, I'm just not going to do that

1111
01:12:22.720 --> 01:12:23.720
to you.

1112
01:12:23.720 --> 01:12:24.720
Yeah.

1113
01:12:24.720 --> 01:12:29.760
So just be comfortable as much as you can be, and we'll direct you and hopefully, you

1114
01:12:29.760 --> 01:12:33.760
know, help you process anything that you're kind of experiencing in that moment.

1115
01:12:33.760 --> 01:12:37.200
So then can I bring up or ask a question based on that?

1116
01:12:37.200 --> 01:12:38.200
Okay.

1117
01:12:38.200 --> 01:12:39.200
I might cry.

1118
01:12:39.200 --> 01:12:40.200
That happens often.

1119
01:12:40.200 --> 01:12:41.200
Sorry.

1120
01:12:41.200 --> 01:12:43.240
And I was sharing it in the breakout room too.

1121
01:12:43.240 --> 01:12:47.040
I think, I think one of the things that God's asking me to surrender.

1122
01:12:47.040 --> 01:12:51.480
So it's so random how like I technically wasn't dating, but it was probably more of an emotional

1123
01:12:51.480 --> 01:12:53.880
relationship over the last couple of months.

1124
01:12:53.880 --> 01:12:58.760
And we, we broke up or he quote broke up with me and very kind about it, but it was like

1125
01:12:58.760 --> 01:13:03.360
not a position, but I really felt like the Lord was like, this isn't it.

1126
01:13:03.360 --> 01:13:05.200
If it's ever it, it's not it right now.

1127
01:13:05.200 --> 01:13:06.960
Like you both, you know.

1128
01:13:06.960 --> 01:13:10.920
But with that, I felt like the Lord really showed me this week.

1129
01:13:10.920 --> 01:13:12.520
And I was again, talking to my friend Christy about it.

1130
01:13:12.520 --> 01:13:18.240
It was after one of the things that I was on this week, one of the group calls that

1131
01:13:18.240 --> 01:13:19.960
the Lord showed me, he gave me.

1132
01:13:19.960 --> 01:13:24.000
So when you were even talking about what he brings up to you, like I've been learning

1133
01:13:24.000 --> 01:13:27.800
that too, as far as like, that's really how the Lord talks is, you know, random thoughts

1134
01:13:27.800 --> 01:13:29.280
that pop in our mind that we think is ours.

1135
01:13:29.280 --> 01:13:31.600
And then we hang up the phone on the Lord.

1136
01:13:31.600 --> 01:13:37.520
But he showed me this image of my parents when I was little and trying to separate them

1137
01:13:37.520 --> 01:13:38.560
from an argument.

1138
01:13:38.560 --> 01:13:43.120
And it was this thought process because I was doing this with this person too.

1139
01:13:43.120 --> 01:13:46.460
And I was doing it here and I've done it, you know, since moving back, but just this

1140
01:13:46.460 --> 01:13:54.040
idea of somewhere along my life, I either took it upon myself or felt it was my responsibility.

1141
01:13:54.040 --> 01:13:58.960
And I feel like the Lord wants me to surrender it, that I am responsible for regulating

1142
01:13:58.960 --> 01:14:01.640
everybody's emotions.

1143
01:14:01.640 --> 01:14:06.440
And it's like, I can't, I'm trying to figure out my own, I can't regulate yours too.

1144
01:14:06.440 --> 01:14:09.520
I can't regulate my brothers or my mom's or this guy's or whatever.

1145
01:14:09.520 --> 01:14:12.200
And so I don't really know fully where that came from.

1146
01:14:12.200 --> 01:14:14.560
I feel like that's something he's having me process this week.

1147
01:14:14.560 --> 01:14:19.920
So yeah, so that's kind of what popped up this week.

1148
01:14:19.920 --> 01:14:24.720
That is totally within the supernatural surrender, by the way, so it's totally on what we're

1149
01:14:24.720 --> 01:14:26.000
doing tonight.

1150
01:14:26.040 --> 01:14:30.160
And it sounds like God is really inspiring this, you know, you have this image of what

1151
01:14:30.160 --> 01:14:31.440
happened with your parents.

1152
01:14:31.440 --> 01:14:37.600
Do you, um, have you ever processed forgiving your parents for being in that argument?

1153
01:14:37.600 --> 01:14:39.960
And like, I don't think so.

1154
01:14:39.960 --> 01:14:40.960
Yeah.

1155
01:14:40.960 --> 01:14:41.960
So, okay.

1156
01:14:41.960 --> 01:14:46.160
So in your welcome week, you'll have worksheets for every week of the course, but then they'll

1157
01:14:46.160 --> 01:14:47.880
also be throughout the course.

1158
01:14:47.880 --> 01:14:48.880
Okay.

1159
01:14:48.880 --> 01:14:52.160
So I want to encourage you to print off one of the forgiveness prayer sheets.

1160
01:14:52.160 --> 01:14:54.120
This is where we're just going to start.

1161
01:14:54.120 --> 01:14:59.000
And I want to encourage you, Lisa, um, and again, I don't know for sure, but I'm kind

1162
01:14:59.000 --> 01:15:00.000
of getting the feeling.

1163
01:15:00.000 --> 01:15:04.720
is even like as you start talking, there was a lot of like tenderness about this

1164
01:15:04.720 --> 01:15:12.520
memory that came up. So I want you to go at God's pace with this. Okay. Because I

1165
01:15:12.520 --> 01:15:18.160
have a feeling this might be connected to something more for you. And so as you

1166
01:15:18.160 --> 01:15:22.280
process this first layer, do a forgiveness prayer sheet to forgive your

1167
01:15:22.280 --> 01:15:27.360
parents for fighting in front of you in such a way that you felt like you had to

1168
01:15:27.360 --> 01:15:34.480
be the peacemaker. Okay. And then just follow if anything else comes up in your

1169
01:15:34.480 --> 01:15:37.440
spirit that you need to write out to forgive them, go ahead and just follow

1170
01:15:37.440 --> 01:15:43.520
the Lord with that. And let's just see gently what else comes up with this. But

1171
01:15:43.520 --> 01:15:47.680
the other thing I wanted to say is I think you're really onto something for

1172
01:15:47.680 --> 01:15:53.760
this. Just God asking you to surrender being responsible for right regulating

1173
01:15:53.760 --> 01:15:58.880
other people's emotions. I think you're dead on, especially if you're seeing that

1174
01:15:58.880 --> 01:16:06.360
showing up in other relationships, too. And so I'm going to ask you, I'm, and I

1175
01:16:06.360 --> 01:16:10.360
wouldn't do this all the time, because I want you to go in order. But I'm going to

1176
01:16:10.360 --> 01:16:15.400
want you to listen to the breaking soul ties video more than once. Okay. So I

1177
01:16:15.400 --> 01:16:20.560
would like you to go ahead and listen to it this week. It's in week three, I think.

1178
01:16:21.480 --> 01:16:26.480
And then stay in week one. But I want you to listen to that week that breaking soul

1179
01:16:26.480 --> 01:16:30.680
ties video. And then you'll go through your normal course. And then when you get

1180
01:16:30.680 --> 01:16:35.200
to week three, again, I want you to listen to it again. Here's why. I think that

1181
01:16:35.200 --> 01:16:40.400
there's some enmeshment that has happened in your family. Okay. And so if

1182
01:16:40.400 --> 01:16:44.400
you're not familiar with enmeshment, it's like where you know, people get all

1183
01:16:44.400 --> 01:16:49.320
enmeshed in their emotions or responsibility and what boundaries are

1184
01:16:49.320 --> 01:16:55.400
not there really, on a lot of levels. And so people don't know where they end,

1185
01:16:55.520 --> 01:17:02.760
and someone else begins. And so there might have been more situations than

1186
01:17:02.760 --> 01:17:06.120
what you remember right now where you felt like you had to step in and be the

1187
01:17:06.120 --> 01:17:11.160
peacemaker. And so part of this also, number three, I don't want to give you

1188
01:17:11.160 --> 01:17:14.840
too many, but these are this is the third one, this, I want you to write out

1189
01:17:14.840 --> 01:17:21.640
some kind of statement where it's like, I come out of agreement with the lie

1190
01:17:21.680 --> 01:17:28.240
that I am responsible, responsible for other people's emotions. Okay, I come

1191
01:17:28.240 --> 01:17:35.640
into agreement. I'm even feeling this myself, that Lord, I can trust you with

1192
01:17:35.640 --> 01:17:43.160
my emotions, and other people's emotions. Okay, just start there. And let's see

1193
01:17:43.160 --> 01:17:51.040
kind of even where that leads you as well. Yeah, the soul ties really resonates

1194
01:17:51.040 --> 01:17:55.400
because I do. I wasn't raised in that. But I do go to non denominational church

1195
01:17:55.400 --> 01:17:59.560
and the prophetic and whatnot. And so that, like, for example, with this, with

1196
01:17:59.560 --> 01:18:04.640
this guy stepping away, God gave me a dream, I asked him for one. And it felt

1197
01:18:04.640 --> 01:18:08.560
very unhealthy. It felt like I even in the book club, I asked her, it felt very

1198
01:18:08.560 --> 01:18:13.520
intense. intensity, not intimacy. Yeah. And so it's interesting, because this

1199
01:18:13.520 --> 01:18:16.440
morning, like literally this morning, because I've been crying off and on, I'm

1200
01:18:16.440 --> 01:18:20.720
like, why am I so you know, and I did, I felt I kept feeling like the soul tie.

1201
01:18:20.720 --> 01:18:24.800
And so I broke the soul tie and blessed and do all the things. And I felt so much

1202
01:18:24.800 --> 01:18:28.840
lighter today. And I wasn't looking at Facebook, and I wasn't trying to see if

1203
01:18:28.840 --> 01:18:32.120
you watch my stories, like all that kind of stuff. And I was like, Oh, my word,

1204
01:18:32.120 --> 01:18:36.160
Lord, like, thank you. So I mean, like, we just we don't even, but we forget. I

1205
01:18:36.160 --> 01:18:39.440
mean, I'm glad that you brought that up. Because we do forget that it's not just

1206
01:18:39.440 --> 01:18:42.920
a like a spirit mate, or, you know, I mean, obviously, that one, we will have

1207
01:18:43.200 --> 01:18:47.120
the connection to become one. But like, you know, somebody we dated, or, you

1208
01:18:47.120 --> 01:18:51.320
know, any other things of that, but we also can have it with family, like, even

1209
01:18:51.320 --> 01:18:55.640
like, you know, your mom or your sister, you know, things of that nature. So yeah,

1210
01:18:55.680 --> 01:19:01.320
and it goes even deeper, wait till you listen to our video, because, um, y'all,

1211
01:19:01.320 --> 01:19:06.840
we can have soul ties with pets, with people that have passed away. Oh, my

1212
01:19:06.840 --> 01:19:11.480
gosh, I totally had soul ties with my one dog that I had to, it was really my

1213
01:19:11.480 --> 01:19:15.360
spiritual daughter's dog, it was bought for them. But like, I took care of his

1214
01:19:15.360 --> 01:19:19.800
name's Gussie, I took care of him, I walked in, like I did everything. And

1215
01:19:19.800 --> 01:19:24.080
when I broke up with their dad, for a while, I would take him for, you know,

1216
01:19:24.120 --> 01:19:28.880
like a kid, like I would take him for weekends and, or whatever. But he became

1217
01:19:28.880 --> 01:19:34.360
this pawn, just like the kids were. And so I had to just, and it wasn't really

1218
01:19:34.360 --> 01:19:39.240
good for the dog, honestly. But I'm saying all that to say, it was so hard

1219
01:19:39.240 --> 01:19:46.800
for me to let go of that dog. Like massively, because what I went through

1220
01:19:46.800 --> 01:19:52.480
dating him was so traumatic that I like really leaned on him for comfort. The

1221
01:19:52.480 --> 01:19:58.840
dog. Yeah. And so on, when I went through the soul ties and breaking the

1222
01:19:58.840 --> 01:20:00.040
soul ties, because that was at the

1223
01:20:00.000 --> 01:20:04.760
The time I had gotten my, like a new apartment, I was kind of moving a little further away

1224
01:20:04.760 --> 01:20:07.200
from that guy.

1225
01:20:07.200 --> 01:20:08.720
And I did the soul ties video.

1226
01:20:08.720 --> 01:20:12.840
And that's one of the things the Lord showed me is I had to break soul ties with, with,

1227
01:20:12.840 --> 01:20:13.840
with Gussie.

1228
01:20:13.840 --> 01:20:19.280
And I mean, it really, I actually was like, I don't want to yet.

1229
01:20:19.280 --> 01:20:21.960
You know, sometimes we feel that way, right?

1230
01:20:21.960 --> 01:20:28.240
So be open ladies, when you watch that video to what God shows you, and I'm a big advocate

1231
01:20:28.240 --> 01:20:35.720
for, um, sometimes we can only, well, for all videos, but like, we only have the capacity

1232
01:20:35.720 --> 01:20:41.260
to retain what we have capacity for, okay.

1233
01:20:41.260 --> 01:20:42.260
In that moment.

1234
01:20:42.260 --> 01:20:46.720
And for some of us, we might not have a lot of capacity the first time we listen.

1235
01:20:46.720 --> 01:20:50.680
And so we still might get revelation, but we might not get as much revelation as we

1236
01:20:50.680 --> 01:20:52.000
do the second time.

1237
01:20:52.000 --> 01:20:53.920
Does that make sense?

1238
01:20:54.600 --> 01:20:57.400
Can you have a soul tie with a place too?

1239
01:20:57.400 --> 01:21:00.600
Or is it really just more like living things?

1240
01:21:00.600 --> 01:21:08.160
I can't remember if places was listed or not, but I, I think that we can create those with

1241
01:21:08.160 --> 01:21:09.600
a lot of different things.

1242
01:21:09.600 --> 01:21:10.600
Yeah.

1243
01:21:10.600 --> 01:21:11.600
Like an unhealthy attachment at the very least.

1244
01:21:11.600 --> 01:21:12.600
Yeah.

1245
01:21:12.600 --> 01:21:13.600
No, that's great.

1246
01:21:13.600 --> 01:21:14.600
Thank you.

1247
01:21:14.600 --> 01:21:15.600
Yeah.

1248
01:21:15.600 --> 01:21:16.600
Yeah.

1249
01:21:16.600 --> 01:21:19.200
So like, for example, some people, um, and I understand why, but like, I would imagine

1250
01:21:19.200 --> 01:21:24.960
like, especially someone who loses a spouse and they always went to a certain place with

1251
01:21:24.960 --> 01:21:30.520
their spouse, not that they have a soul tie, but they could like, if there's this deep

1252
01:21:30.520 --> 01:21:36.560
grieving that they can never get past going to that place, or maybe even avoiding that

1253
01:21:36.560 --> 01:21:41.060
place, um, there might be something there, not saying for sure that there is, but people

1254
01:21:41.060 --> 01:21:43.160
might want to pray into that kind of stuff.

1255
01:21:43.160 --> 01:21:44.160
Yeah.

1256
01:21:44.160 --> 01:21:45.160
But great question.

1257
01:21:45.160 --> 01:21:50.240
Um, so such good conversation tonight, ladies, um, praying for you all.

1258
01:21:50.240 --> 01:21:52.200
I am going to go ahead and pray and close us out.

1259
01:21:52.200 --> 01:21:56.440
Um, cause I feel like it's good for us to really kind of sit with some of this tonight

1260
01:21:56.440 --> 01:21:58.040
that we've already heard about.

1261
01:21:58.040 --> 01:22:04.600
Um, and just know that the Lord sees your struggle with surrendering and he's not mad

1262
01:22:04.600 --> 01:22:06.880
at you when you struggle.

1263
01:22:06.880 --> 01:22:07.880
Okay.

1264
01:22:07.880 --> 01:22:09.520
He understands.

1265
01:22:09.520 --> 01:22:13.680
I mean, he, he created us, he gave us this flesh.

1266
01:22:13.680 --> 01:22:14.680
Okay.

1267
01:22:15.200 --> 01:22:21.280
And so, and even some of us, the stubbornness in our spirit, you know, that helped us survive

1268
01:22:21.280 --> 01:22:23.320
for a long time.

1269
01:22:23.320 --> 01:22:26.800
It's just not going to serve us anymore the way it used to.

1270
01:22:26.800 --> 01:22:27.880
Okay.

1271
01:22:27.880 --> 01:22:30.000
So letting that go is going to be really important.

1272
01:22:30.000 --> 01:22:31.640
I did see one other question here.

1273
01:22:31.640 --> 01:22:34.000
Daniel asked about the content recycling.

1274
01:22:34.000 --> 01:22:38.640
Um, it does like, so after a certain amount of weeks, like tonight I'm doing supernatural

1275
01:22:38.640 --> 01:22:43.440
surrender after a certain amount of weeks, I start back at supernatural surrender and

1276
01:22:43.440 --> 01:22:50.160
the core of my, um, my coaching notes are the same, but I never know what is going to,

1277
01:22:50.160 --> 01:22:53.400
y'all never know what's going to come out of my mouth sometimes cause the Holy spirit

1278
01:22:53.400 --> 01:22:54.440
is a part of this.

1279
01:22:54.440 --> 01:23:00.280
And so, um, yeah, they're, they're all a little bit different because of that aspect, but

1280
01:23:00.280 --> 01:23:02.480
the core notes are the same.

1281
01:23:02.480 --> 01:23:06.720
Um, but for some people they need to hear it a couple of times cause it helps them kind

1282
01:23:06.720 --> 01:23:08.320
of like what I was just saying.

1283
01:23:08.320 --> 01:23:12.680
Um, they might have not heard something that they needed to hear the first time around,

1284
01:23:12.680 --> 01:23:17.240
but everybody has to pray into, you know, some of y'all are going to be at the end of

1285
01:23:17.240 --> 01:23:20.040
five weeks, you're going to finish the course and you're going to be ready to move on.

1286
01:23:20.040 --> 01:23:21.640
And that's great.

1287
01:23:21.640 --> 01:23:25.280
And if others of you aren't quite ready, that's okay too.

1288
01:23:25.280 --> 01:23:28.040
Really encourage y'all to lean into the Holy spirit on that.

1289
01:23:28.040 --> 01:23:29.040
Right.

1290
01:23:29.040 --> 01:23:30.040
Okay.

1291
01:23:30.040 --> 01:23:31.040
Let us pray.

1292
01:23:31.040 --> 01:23:33.800
Father, thank you so much for everything that you're doing.

1293
01:23:33.800 --> 01:23:36.880
God, thanks for what you've already accomplished tonight.

1294
01:23:36.880 --> 01:23:41.520
I pray for revealings, for healing, just happening one after another, after another, God, let

1295
01:23:41.880 --> 01:23:43.880
it, let it be ignited in us.

1296
01:23:43.880 --> 01:23:46.880
Um, Lord, I just thank you.

1297
01:23:46.880 --> 01:23:53.080
Um, so I even think of, uh, the woman who lost the coin and she swept, um, every corner

1298
01:23:53.080 --> 01:23:55.400
of her house after she turned the light on.

1299
01:23:55.400 --> 01:24:00.200
Lord, I pray that you would just illuminate and turn the lights on within us, that you

1300
01:24:00.200 --> 01:24:02.920
would help us to allow you to sweep every corner.

1301
01:24:02.920 --> 01:24:07.840
God, where she found a coin, God, we're, we're looking for areas and want to know where we

1302
01:24:07.840 --> 01:24:09.080
need healing.

1303
01:24:09.080 --> 01:24:14.680
So God, where we've been stuck, yes, Lord, where we've been partnering with fear instead

1304
01:24:14.680 --> 01:24:15.680
of love.

1305
01:24:15.680 --> 01:24:20.720
I pray that you would reveal these areas to us again, help us to see what we can't see.

1306
01:24:20.720 --> 01:24:27.840
Lord, help us to be, um, yeah, Lord set free from chains and bondages so that we can be

1307
01:24:27.840 --> 01:24:30.420
chain breakers in the lives of other people as well.

1308
01:24:30.420 --> 01:24:35.120
We know it's all you doing it, but God, I thank you that you choose to use us in this

1309
01:24:35.120 --> 01:24:36.120
process.

1310
01:24:36.120 --> 01:24:39.520
I thank you for the healing path that you have us on that right now, these ladies, they

1311
01:24:39.520 --> 01:24:41.440
just get to focus on themselves.

1312
01:24:41.440 --> 01:24:44.000
They don't have to help anybody else in here.

1313
01:24:44.000 --> 01:24:49.200
So God, we thank you that you'll help them to take helper hats off, help them to just

1314
01:24:49.200 --> 01:24:55.080
receive and lean into your spirit for everything that they have need up in Jesus name.

1315
01:24:55.080 --> 01:24:56.080
Amen.

1316
01:24:56.080 --> 01:24:57.080
God bless you all.

1317
01:24:57.080 --> 01:24:59.640
I will see you all in the group this week at some point.

1318
01:25:00.000 --> 01:25:04.280
And we'll be back here next Monday night, 8 p.m.. Have a good week. Bye.