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Alright, you guys, there's about 21 of you here, so there's about 4 of you missing.

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So welcome to VIP coaching.

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I'm so excited.

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I've been talking about this all day.

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I'm so very, very excited.

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You should be excited too because I was looking through all the pictures of my former one-on-one

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clients, anyone who's done any sort of VIP intensive one-on-one with me and all of them

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have had significant breakthrough and most of them besides maybe 2 or 3 are married.

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And so we have a very high percentage of transformation at this level of coaching.

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But that being said, there's a few caveats to that and one of the caveats is that I'm

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going to show up.

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I'm going to give you all the tools and all the resources and all the gifting that God

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has placed inside of me to get you unstuck out of your own way moving forward.

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Remember we say we're not stuck on the outside, we're stuck on the inside, but I will show

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up.

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You have to show up.

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And I don't just mean show up like here in the Zoom room, but you have to show up to

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your one-on-ones.

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You have to implement.

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The next 90 days, you need to act like you are in military boot camp.

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Has anyone ever actually been to military boot camp?

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Nobody?

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Not one person in here that we should thank for their service?

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No one?

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I was in the Marines.

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Oh, you were in the...

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She wasn't just in the military.

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She was in the Marines.

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All right.

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Okay.

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So you know that when you go to Parris Island or wherever it is that you trained, and hopefully

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it wasn't Parris Island, but I think that's where they send all y'all.

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It's intense, right?

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That's why it's called an intensive.

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Is everyone aware that they signed up for an intensive?

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All right.

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I promise you that we are going to laugh through the pain.

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We are going to laugh a lot because you guys know I love to laugh.

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It's the spoonful of sugar that helps the medicine go down.

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The good news is that so many of you have done so much work already.

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So this is a tipping point situation.

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This is a situation where everything that you have learned, whether it was here, whether

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it was in therapy, whether it was in some other program that you were in, it's all going

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to come together in order to create a tipping point for you.

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And that's what I believe that my one-on-one coaching is all about.

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I believe that it's about a tipping point.

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There may be some things that you've heard before, but guess what?

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They're going to hit it a little differently because this is all that I do.

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All that I do is help people to get out of their own way and get out of God's way in

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the area of their love lives.

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But because we're not one-faceted, it affects every other area of your life as well, right?

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And for all of you that have done the heart work, let me see the hands of people who have

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actually gone through my heart workshop.

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Raise your hand.

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Maybe your little avatar hands so I can actually see because it's more difficult to see.

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If you've actually done specifically the heart work, my proprietary protocol of inner healing.

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Maybe two-thirds of you.

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So one of the things – I'm just seeing, is anyone else – oh, you guys are starting

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to take your hands down.

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So one of the things that we talk about in there is supernatural surrender, which is

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going to be a really big part of the very first part of what we do together because

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we have to get out of God's way.

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It's really important.

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So many of us, we're doing a lot of heavy lifting that we don't need to do.

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It's hard to see it clearly yourself when you're doing it, but we have to get out

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of God's way and so we're going to be doing that as we go forward into this first phase.

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But for those of you that did the heart work, you know I talk about Jenga in that curriculum,

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right?

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Has anyone ever played Jenga?

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Do you all at least know what Jenga is?

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So for those of you that don't know what Jenga is, it is a game.

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It is a game of wooden blocks.

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It's like a tower created of blocks and they're all connected to each other.

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The game is kind of like pick-up sticks.

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You have to pull one out.

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The first person to go pulls one of the blocks out, you know, hoping that they're not going

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to pull out a load-bearing wall.

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They're not going to pull out something that's going to cause the rest of the blocks

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to fall down because the person that eventually is that poor soul that pulls out the block

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that causes it to fall, they're the person that causes the game to be over.

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And then you get to count how many blocks you have and whoever has the most blocks pulling

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them out without causing the tower to fall, they win, okay?

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So that's kind of how the game works.

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But I believe that God revealed to me years ago that he is a master at Jenga, meaning

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that even though we're all here because we want acceleration in our love lives, there

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are other people.

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pieces of our lives, because we are multifaceted, we are physiological, we're not just one thing,

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we're a spirit that lives in a body that possesses a soul.

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And because of that, there's some other things oftentimes that the master Jenga player will

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deal with before he deals with whatever it is that is stopping the acceleration of your

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love story.

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I can tell you that 100% of my success stories, as far as people that are married to their

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spirit mates right now, as we're speaking, all of them were sabotaging themselves in

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an area of their love life.

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All of them were in their own way in their love life.

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There wasn't even one of them that was doing all I can, Jackie.

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Listen, I love you for saying that, and I love you for believing that, but I promise

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you it's not true.

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It's 100% not true.

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Just like the fitness coach that reached out to me and he said, Hey, cause you know, I'm

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in menopause.

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I want to lose a few pounds, you know?

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And he reached out to me and he said, what have you tried already?

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And you know what?

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I answered him.

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I said, I haven't tried consistency.

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Let's all just laugh at that because we are pretty programmed to do something until it

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doesn't work and stop doing it.

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And sometimes we don't give it very long to work.

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Right?

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And so the bottom line is, is that I gave you a 5,000 page questionnaire.

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For those of you that complained about it, I'm sorry, but I'm not sorry.

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Okay.

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It is thorough just like I am.

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Now you guys, those of you that know me in last year, single, you know, bits and pieces

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of me, but you do not know me as a one-on-one coach and you bout to, okay, cause you signed

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up for this.

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And guess what?

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There are people on a waiting list waiting to take your spot.

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So lock in.

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All right.

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This questionnaire is thorough for a reason because I don't have 20 years to get to know

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you over the course of, you know, being in relationship with each other.

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I have to take a crash course in you.

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And that way I can look at it through the eyes of Holy spirit, through the eyes of all

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the skills, all the tools, all the resources, my matchmaking gift and my coaching gift and

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see what is going to be the biggest point of breakthrough for you over the next 90 days.

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Why 90 days?

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Because 90 days is scientifically proven to be the amount of time that it takes to change

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a habit and to have some sort of transformation.

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Now I love all of you and I'm rooting for all of you to win, but there are some people

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that I'm looking at right now that even though you paid the fee to be here, you're, you're

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going to leave.

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Like, you're not going to leave.

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You're just not going to show up.

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You're not, we're going to email you.

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We're going to tell you, Hey, we're here.

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We're here.

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Got to lock in.

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Got to come back.

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And some of you may, and some of you might not.

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And I know that's really hard to believe because you're like, Jackie, why in the world would

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anyone pay money and then waste it?

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Really?

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Anybody have a gym membership that they never go to?

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An expensive gym membership that you never go to?

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You had really good intentions when you signed up for that gym membership, didn't you?

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You believed that it was going to be the magic bullet of change for you, didn't you?

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So I'm here to tell you tonight on orientation on kickoff night that you are the magic bullet

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of change, not the gym.

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That you are the magic bullet of change in your love life.

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Not God, not Jackie, you.

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And so more than ever before, I want you to show up for yourself.

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A lot of you show up for other people, and that's going to be one of the things that's

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going to get revealed in this 90 days.

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That part of the reason why you don't have what you want in life, not just the love story,

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but other things as well, is because you're too busy showing up for everybody else.

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You're too busy putting all kinds of needs before your own.

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That's going to be true for some of you.

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And for some of you, what's going to be true is the reason why you don't have what you

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want in life is because you're way too independent.

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You're hyper-independent, which is a trauma response, and you don't know how to ask for

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help.

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You're not putting other people's needs before yours, but you have needs that cannot be met

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except by other people, and you're not asking for help because you don't know how.

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There's still others of you that are going to find out that the reason why you haven't

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had success or breakthrough in other areas of your life is because you don't have the

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staying power, the consistency to follow through.

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You start well, but you don't finish well.

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Others of you are going to find out that you've just been sitting in the way the whole time

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because you're trying to figure out everything by yourself, and I don't mean the kind of

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people that are not asking for help.

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for help. You are asking for help. You've taken all the courses, you've taken all the classes,

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you've done all the things, but you're forgetting the supernatural part of your love story.

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You're working at like a job and it's not working out. So that's why I gave you a 5,000 page

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questionnaire because I need to get to know you and I need to put together a plan. So even though

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I gave you a outline of the type of coaching we're going to be doing, by the way, subject to change

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because I'm going to be led by God. That's what I do best. And we're going to cover the components

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and we're going to really dig in and we're going to get so much breakthrough and you're going to

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begin to have freedom right away. All of my one-on-one clients start to hear God more clearly

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than they've ever heard in their life. They start to have dreams more than they've ever had in

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their life. It's kind of like the hard work on steroids. I had a one-on-one client come to me

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the other day and say, but by the way, besides you guys, I had two one-on-one clients. I haven't

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taken one-on-one clients for two years. And she came to me, she's one of my only one-on-one

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clients. She came to me and she said, you know, it's so crazy. She said, I, you know, I just,

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you know, I love God and I've heard from God before, but ever since I started coaching,

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I'm hearing him so clearly. I'm having so many moments of clarity. And she told me about a friend

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of hers, which referred her to my coaching, someone who's a success story of mine. And she

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said, I had a dream that this person was pregnant with twins. And she said, do you know, do you know,

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like, do you know about that? And I was like, no, I haven't heard anything. She contacted the person

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and guess what? They are indeed pregnant. It's too early to know whether it's twins or not, but

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she's hearing from God. She's downloading things. Now it's all secret. Somebody can tell you who she

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is or who they are. But the thing is, is that that's one of my success stories and she's having

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a baby. And I'm excited about that. But at the same time, you see what begins to happen. And yes,

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I am driving your expectation up because that's part of the process. Part of the process is the

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supernatural hope that's going to come upon you because that is one of the gifts that I carry.

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And I'm going to release it over you because hope becomes faith that becomes miracles.

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But once again, I cannot show up for you. That's the one thing that I cannot do. That's one thing

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God cannot do. You have to show up for yourself, but you can expect to start to get clear about

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yourself, about God, about men, about women, about marriage. We have one brave man that decided to

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join this estrogen party tonight and through the next 90 days, he's going to make it. He'll be fine.

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And who knows? One of you might marry him. I said it. And the reason why is because it could

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happen. It does happen a lot around these parts. And so who knows? You may meet your guy here and

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he may meet his girl here, or he might marry one of your friends, right? Someone that you know,

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your cousin, your sister, somebody. The only person we know he's not going to marry is your

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brother or your uncle. So it's going to be safe. It's going to be good. Tan's like, no,

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we're not that desperate yet. We're good. All right. I'm so excited to get started. I need

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a little information from you. So if you go ahead and put in the chat, what time zone are you guys

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in? I want to see what part of the country you guys are in. All right. I'm gonna take off my

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glasses so I can see up close. Let's see. We have EST, we have Central, Pacific, PST. Okay. So we

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have two PSTs, three PSTs, four PSTs. We have a lot of Eastern. We have mostly Eastern and Pacific.

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Looks like mostly Eastern though. Okay. A couple mountains and two centrals. Okay. I am normally

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in Central time zone. I'm in Central time zone right now. I live in Austin, Texas. It doesn't

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matter to me. I don't want to make it too late for the Eastern people, especially the people that

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want to go to bed by eight o'clock. You will not be going to bed by eight o'clock on Mondays and

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Thursdays. Okay. So get ready, drink some extra coffee, you know, whatever you got to do,

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take your vitamin B12 because you guys are going to be the ones up the latest. Now, for those of

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you that said you're in PST, would you be able to start our sessions on Monday and Thursday by 5

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PM or do you need 530? Put it in the chat.

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Okay. Two said five. Either is okay. Five is okay. So we only need one, only one.

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person, Sakura, you said 5.30, can you make 5 work since everyone else is okay with 5

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because the Eastern people are going to be getting late for them the later that we start.

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What time do you get off?

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I get off exactly at 5, but I have a client who likes to talk, so that's the only thing.

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Can you put up a boundary with that client and say, I got a hard stop?

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See, that's one of the things you're going to learn here, because you know you ain't

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getting paid for after that, right?

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Okay, you guys, we're going to split it in half, we're going to say 5.15, do you work

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from home there?

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All right, you guys, so 7.15 for the centrals, Mountain, that's 6.15 for you, 7.15 and 8.15

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I promise I'll have you guys to bed by 9.30.

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Don't get scared, and Sakura, you are going to cut that person off, you're going to tell

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them ahead of time, you're going to say, hey, listen, on Mondays and Thursdays, I have a

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hard stop at 5 o'clock.

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All right, sounds good, and hey, for everyone who can show up at, we'll go ahead, here's

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the thing, we won't get into any nitty-gritty until she gets here at 5.15, but we'll go

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ahead and start, okay?

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For those of you who want to come at that time, we can just do a little, you know, hi,

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how are you, do a little check-in, different things.

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For those of you that are in the intensive, you're going to have a one-on-one session

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with me where we're going to put together, because of the questionnaire you gave me,

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I don't have to talk to you for 20 hours to find out everything about you, we're going

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to start, we're going to hit the ground running, and we're going to put together a plan that

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I think is going to be the plan for the 90 days.

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to be doing things in the coaching, you're going to be on a very customized and specific

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plan, every single one of you.

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Some of you have more one-on-ones because you're in the second tier of the coaching

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and only one of you has the most one-on-one access.

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Good news is a little bit of Jackie goes a long way, all right?

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Some of you that have a lot more of me are going to be like, please, because I'm not

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going to take it easy on you because I love you and I want you to have breakthrough.

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So you cannot be thin-skinned, all right?

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I'm not your therapist, I'm not your counselor, and I'm not your pastor.

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I'm your coach and coaching is what I do.

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You know what coaches do?

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Coaches help you to become your optimal self.

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That's what coaches do.

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Course coaches help you to push yourself, don't they?

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They help you to go faster, go farther, jump higher, shoot better.

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That's what they help you do.

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They help you see the things that are keeping you from your prime performance so that you

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can go to the next level.

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This is all about next level, all right?

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You are going to feel the love though and you are going to feel God's love and his compassion

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but you are going to have transformation because it's a tipping point.

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So if you show up, you will have breakthrough, okay?

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Those are the two promises.

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If you show up, you will have breakthrough.

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I fully expect to be at some of your weddings next year.

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I fully expect all of you to have breakthrough.

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There's a reason why.

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Once again, I do have a couple one-on-one clients that have not gotten breakthrough

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in the area of their love lives but they also were people that did not really show up, okay?

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They heard the advice, they heard the coaching but they did not apply the coaching.

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So you can't just be hearers of the words, you have to be doers of the words.

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And so if you do that and so I hope that all of you have made a decision to kind of set

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aside this 90 days for yourself, to really invest in yourself, to really focus on yourself

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because not just your love life that is going to improve, it's not just your love life that's

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going to accelerate, it's other areas of your life as well.

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You might be asked to let go of some, you know, some things that are holding you back.

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Like look, we haven't even gotten started and already Sakira is being asked to have

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better boundaries with the client because guess what, Sakira matters too, doesn't she?

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She's in a helping profession like so many people are and it's easy when you're in a

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helping profession because you got in that profession to help people to get overextended,

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to over function.

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I was telling my little brother right on the phone before I got on the phone, before I

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got on the call tonight, I was telling my little brother who I call my little brother

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but he's 37 years old but I said to him on the phone, I said, I said, listen little brother

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because there's something going on right now with a family member.

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I said, before you are tempted to over function.

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Because I've learned a lot of lessons in over-functioning, and hopefully I'm breaking

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that pattern.

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You know, before you over-function in this situation, before you try to play hero in

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this situation, and this is what I told him plain as day and I'm going to say it to

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I said, you and I both have a mother that is in the grave, and thank God Jesus rose

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from the grave and she went to heaven, but we have a mother that's no longer on earth

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with us because she put everyone before herself.

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Our mother was in her early 60s when she lost her earthly assignment and had to go

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to heaven because her body couldn't take any more of earth, okay?

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And so we have to learn how to have boundaries and how to have balance.

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And each and every one of you, whether you know it or not, you have an empire inside

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of you, and we have to exchange that empire for the kingdom of God.

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Each one of you has a whole set of laws and rules and belief systems and mindsets and

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all different types of ways that you function and how you show up in this world, and we

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have to exchange that for the kingdom of God.

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We have to become very kingdom in the ways that we conduct our lives, the way that we

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show up, and the way that we do relationship, the way that we express ourselves, the way

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that we present ourselves.

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And so if you look through that syllabus, you see all kinds of amazing things that we're

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some activation, some interactions.

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And remember, you have that one-on-one to get even deeper in there.

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All of you are already going to have your idea of these are the ways that I'm stuck.

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These are the things that I need to look out for most in this 90 days when it comes to

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me and how I'm showing up in the world.

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And then on Thursdays, pure coaching, pure Q&A, pure feedback, pure coaching, and there's

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going to be things to coach on because there's going to be a lot of challenge that's going

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on in between me and you guys, both personally and privately and also publicly.

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So get used to the other people here because all of you are in a hybrid of group and one-on-one

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So I'm going to take questions after I do a little bit of housekeeping logistics.

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You guys all have an app.

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A lot of you asked, hey, how do I get here tonight?

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Right there on your live sessions, if you go to your app, Last Year Single, some of

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you are in different groups on that app because you're in Last Year Single.

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So you need to go to the VIP coaching tab because you have more than one tab in that

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app.

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So go to VIP coaching, and at the top, you'll see that there's a toolbar, and it says members,

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and I'm on my phone.

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I don't know what it looks like on your laptop, but on my phone, it says members.

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That's all of you.

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It says content.

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That's going to be where all the content lives, everything, every worksheet, everything that

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you need to be successful.

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That content will all be there.

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For the first week that we're going into this coming week, it will be there.

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It'll be on a drip, so it won't be there before you need it, but it will be there before

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you need it.

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So it'll be there on Friday.

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It'll be there tomorrow, the content.

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Okay, live session links, you see it's a calendar.

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It has all the live session links already there.

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All you have to do is click that link, and it'll take you straight to the live session

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when the live session is happening.

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All your replays will live under recorded sessions.

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If you miss anything, then you will be able to watch it and replay it.

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Under content right now, you have the welcome packet.

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So you have start here for VIP coaching, it's a little video from me.

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video.

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You have your first two steps.

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Your first two steps were to fill out the questionnaire and to introduce yourself, and

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it specifically said with a picture and with a text that says who you are, why you're here,

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who you are, where you are, and what you're believing for, why'd you sign up for coaching

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right now, and what are you believing to happen in your life in the next 90 days.

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You guys, those are your first two steps.

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Both of those steps should already be finished.

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in one sitting, it's really easy just to leave it open as a tab on your computer and just

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come back to it.

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You could just leave it open and then just come back to it.

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It's not that kind of form.

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So just leave it open and come back to it, but you do need to finish it in one sitting

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pretty much because once again, you can't save your answers.

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Fortunately, it's not built on that type of technology.

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Picture and the questions answered

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because everyone wants to get to know you

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and I wanna see your pictures.

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Those are your first two steps.

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is the schedule.

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by the areas that we're gonna be covering.

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Very important, you guys.

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So many of you guys are not just stuck on the inside,

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you are stuck on the outside, okay?

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The outer work.

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And no, I'm not gonna put you on the biggest loser

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or on a diet or tell you that you gotta lose weight

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or whatever, okay?

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I want you to have a breakthrough in 90 days.

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And only very specific things can happen in 90 days.

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All right, so don't worry, it's not gonna be like that.

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I'm going to help you to show up as your best self

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by giving you all the information that I know

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about how people have success

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in not just meeting the opposite sex,

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but also attracting the opposite sex

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and also sustaining attraction with the opposite sex.

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All right, and then phase three, dating like a matchmaker,

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which is gonna be really important.

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You guys, I've been a matchmaker for a really long time

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and I'm really good at matchmaking.

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There's a reason why.

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And so I'm gonna teach you how to do that

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in your everyday life for yourself.

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And then hopefully you'll use that for others at some point.

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But remember, it's going to be designed and customized

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to you based on where it is that you're stuck

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and what it is that you need.

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It's not gonna be generic.

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Now, while these subjects, they're not generic,

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but they aren't customized the way that you're coached

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in each of these sections is customized.

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Does that make sense?

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You do need all of these subjects,

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but all of you need different variations of the subject,

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different levels of the subject,

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different tweaks in these subjects.

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All right, all right.

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So we start our Monday, Thursday rotation next week.

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every other week, coaching sessions,

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you guys will begin your coaching next week as well

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after our Monday session.

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one-on-one session, you'll be receiving an email

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with a link to schedule that, okay?

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done before you schedule that.

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For all of you that are in the intensive,

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have to have your questionnaire finished.

455
00:27:50.720 --> 00:27:52.680
And let's say you have to have it finished

456
00:27:52.680 --> 00:27:55.600
for at least 24 hours, five at times to look it over

457
00:27:55.600 --> 00:28:00.600
before you actually schedule your one-on-one with me, okay?

458
00:28:01.720 --> 00:28:02.920
All right, and you guys,

459
00:28:02.920 --> 00:28:04.800
make sure that you schedule that one-on-one

460
00:28:04.800 --> 00:28:06.760
at a time that you have no distractions.

461
00:28:06.760 --> 00:28:09.240
If you're a parent, your kids are in bed asleep,

462
00:28:09.240 --> 00:28:11.680
or well, it'd have to be early in the morning

463
00:28:11.680 --> 00:28:12.740
if that was happening.

464
00:28:12.740 --> 00:28:14.320
Your kids are with their other parent,

465
00:28:14.320 --> 00:28:17.200
or you get a sitter, like you wanna be able to lock in

466
00:28:17.200 --> 00:28:18.400
to that one-on-one session.

467
00:28:18.400 --> 00:28:21.160
Do not waste it, okay?

468
00:28:22.120 --> 00:28:25.540
Because we're gonna dig in,

469
00:28:25.540 --> 00:28:27.400
and we're not gonna waste any time with niceties,

470
00:28:27.400 --> 00:28:29.720
like, hello, hey, hey, how's your week going?

471
00:28:29.720 --> 00:28:30.660
That's good, no.

472
00:28:31.660 --> 00:28:33.140
I'll have already looked over your questionnaire,

473
00:28:33.140 --> 00:28:34.640
we're gonna go right after it, okay?

474
00:28:34.640 --> 00:28:38.120
Because it's really important that you get breakthrough,

475
00:28:38.120 --> 00:28:39.240
and I want you to have that.

476
00:28:39.240 --> 00:28:41.420
I don't want anyone walking away from this 90 days

477
00:28:41.420 --> 00:28:44.400
that actually showed up for themselves

478
00:28:45.400 --> 00:28:48.100
and said, you know, I don't feel different, no.

479
00:28:49.100 --> 00:28:49.920
That's not gonna happen.

480
00:28:49.920 --> 00:28:52.200
So I'm excited, I hope you're excited,

481
00:28:52.200 --> 00:28:54.800
I hope that it isn't scaring you already,

482
00:28:54.800 --> 00:28:56.880
because I do promise we will have fun as well.

483
00:28:56.880 --> 00:28:58.440
And it's gonna be so great for you

484
00:28:58.440 --> 00:28:59.800
to see each other's breakthroughs,

485
00:28:59.800 --> 00:29:01.000
and do you know that you're gonna be part

486
00:29:01.000 --> 00:29:02.900
of each other's breakthroughs as well?

487
00:29:04.160 --> 00:29:05.000
Isn't that fun?

488
00:29:05.000 --> 00:29:07.320
You are gonna be part of each other's breakthroughs.

489
00:29:07.320 --> 00:29:08.760
Some of the most significant breakthrough

490
00:29:08.760 --> 00:29:10.000
that you get in this intensive

491
00:29:10.000 --> 00:29:12.280
is gonna be something that somebody else shared or said,

492
00:29:12.280 --> 00:29:13.840
not even something that I said.

493
00:29:16.340 --> 00:29:18.160
Yep, it's gonna happen.

494
00:29:18.920 --> 00:29:20.240
Something life-changing is gonna happen

495
00:29:20.240 --> 00:29:21.800
through someone else.

496
00:29:21.800 --> 00:29:24.080
And because, oh, so don't me forget,

497
00:29:24.080 --> 00:29:27.560
so you have the app, and that's where all that stuff is.

498
00:29:27.560 --> 00:29:31.040
The content's there, the live session links are there,

499
00:29:31.040 --> 00:29:33.240
the recorded sessions are there,

500
00:29:33.240 --> 00:29:34.760
so the replays are there.

501
00:29:34.760 --> 00:29:35.760
You know what's not there?

502
00:29:35.760 --> 00:29:37.600
Community, for a reason.

503
00:29:37.600 --> 00:29:38.720
Because the app's kind of clunky,

504
00:29:38.720 --> 00:29:40.660
and I don't like to do community on it,

505
00:29:40.660 --> 00:29:43.280
so I put all the community in a bonus Facebook page,

506
00:29:43.280 --> 00:29:44.640
because you know what, I can go live in there,

507
00:29:44.640 --> 00:29:46.200
I can make little videos during the week,

508
00:29:46.240 --> 00:29:48.160
I can ask you guys questions,

509
00:29:48.160 --> 00:29:49.960
you know, I can do a roll call.

510
00:29:49.960 --> 00:29:51.560
By the way, you will have a roll call

511
00:29:51.560 --> 00:29:54.080
at the end of every week, starting next week.

512
00:29:54.080 --> 00:29:56.040
At the end of the week, you will have a roll call.

513
00:29:56.040 --> 00:29:56.920
What is that?

514
00:29:56.920 --> 00:29:58.980
I will ask you specifically to tell me

515
00:29:58.980 --> 00:30:00.680
where you are with your coaching.

516
00:30:00.000 --> 00:30:04.320
program. Where are you with your coaching program? Some of you intensive students might

517
00:30:04.320 --> 00:30:08.000
not have had your one-on-one yet, so you can just show up and tell us what breakthroughs

518
00:30:08.000 --> 00:30:13.360
you're getting. But all of you within the next couple of weeks will have your own specialized,

519
00:30:13.360 --> 00:30:17.760
customized coaching program. And that is where you will weigh in. That was Reagan that just

520
00:30:17.760 --> 00:30:23.040
walked by. I'm at her house right now. This is not my house, this lovely, beautiful house,

521
00:30:23.040 --> 00:30:32.480
not mine. But I will be in my office, in my studio when we start on Monday. And so you will

522
00:30:32.480 --> 00:30:38.400
lock in, you will have roll call every single week. I will expect you to answer that roll call

523
00:30:38.400 --> 00:30:43.040
over the course of the weekend. I'll put it up on Friday and I will want an answer from everyone

524
00:30:43.040 --> 00:30:47.200
before we have class on Monday. Because depending on what you say in that roll call,

525
00:30:47.200 --> 00:30:52.160
that is what we will kick off our activations with on our Monday session.

526
00:30:53.600 --> 00:30:58.240
All right. So for all of you that have been playing any level of victim,

527
00:30:59.120 --> 00:31:07.200
that's going to end during this 90 days. You are seen, known, and loved by God. God is for you,

528
00:31:07.200 --> 00:31:14.320
which means automatically life is for you. Is life perfect? No. But do you have access to win?

529
00:31:14.320 --> 00:31:21.920
Yes, you do. And you are going to win. All right. All right. All right. So that is what I wanted to

530
00:31:21.920 --> 00:31:26.720
share with you guys tonight. I'm just trying to think of if there's anything else. Always be

531
00:31:26.720 --> 00:31:31.840
watching your email. We send things out via email. All of you intensive students will be getting your

532
00:31:31.840 --> 00:31:39.120
schedule, your link to schedule, your one-on-one via email. I will put anything that pertains to

533
00:31:39.120 --> 00:31:46.640
everybody, I will post it in the app and in the Facebook. All right. And then also,

534
00:31:46.640 --> 00:31:52.240
if you have questions, and you will, during the course of coaching that we don't cover on a Monday

535
00:31:52.240 --> 00:31:56.720
or a Thursday, if something's going on, if you want feedback about something, you're going to

536
00:31:56.720 --> 00:32:02.480
post that in the Facebook community. Okay. And the reason why is because once again, it's just much

537
00:32:02.480 --> 00:32:06.720
easier. If you guys have ever used this app, because you're in last year single, you will see

538
00:32:06.720 --> 00:32:13.680
that it is clunky as it can be. I do not like it. It's clunky. All right. And so over there is where

539
00:32:13.680 --> 00:32:18.720
I can respond. I can respond thoroughly. Sometimes I don't even see people's questions in the app

540
00:32:18.720 --> 00:32:23.520
because the app eats it. It eats the question and then it's gone. And I have no idea what happens.

541
00:32:23.520 --> 00:32:27.360
The good news is, you guys, is that we are releasing, for those of you that are in last

542
00:32:27.360 --> 00:32:32.880
year single, we are going to be releasing very soon the new last year single app, which includes

543
00:32:32.880 --> 00:32:40.080
community-based matchmaking. So very excited about that. And then obviously all of you are going to

544
00:32:40.080 --> 00:32:44.720
be part of Jackie's list. As one-on-one clients, you get to be part of something called Jackie's

545
00:32:44.720 --> 00:32:50.480
list. That's a short list of singles that I have that I do a lot of matchmaking from. People ask

546
00:32:50.480 --> 00:32:57.280
me every single day on the internet, like on my Instagram, they, they DM me and they say,

547
00:32:57.360 --> 00:33:02.560
oh, hey, can you matchmake me? Oh, hey, I'd like to purchase matchmaking services. Oh,

548
00:33:02.560 --> 00:33:06.640
hey, you know, I'd like to pay you to matchmake me. And this is something that I don't know.

549
00:33:06.640 --> 00:33:12.080
I don't know if a lot of people know I've said it, but maybe you didn't catch it. I don't actually

550
00:33:12.080 --> 00:33:17.840
charge for matchmaking. I don't monetize matchmaking. I think that it's not monetizable,

551
00:33:17.840 --> 00:33:22.320
meaning that the people that can pay for it are often not the people that have done the work and

552
00:33:22.320 --> 00:33:27.200
can actually be matchmade. And so because of that, I have something called Jackie's list.

553
00:33:28.000 --> 00:33:33.680
And you know, I can't manage to make everybody, but I keep people on a list on a little roster.

554
00:33:33.680 --> 00:33:38.800
And usually it's my one-on-one clients that get on that roster and very close family friend

555
00:33:38.800 --> 00:33:45.760
referrals. So like right now, a really close friend is on my roster. I had a really close

556
00:33:45.760 --> 00:33:50.160
friend, you guys, and she passed away when she was only 46 and it was really sad. She was sick

557
00:33:50.160 --> 00:33:55.760
for six years and you know, just very, very, very close friend of mine. And I matchmade her,

558
00:33:56.480 --> 00:34:03.760
her widower, her husband. I matchmade him and not right after she passed away, like three years

559
00:34:03.760 --> 00:34:09.440
later, I matchmade him and he is now remarried to the woman that I introduced him to. So I do

560
00:34:09.440 --> 00:34:14.880
things like that. I do things like that regularly in my community and my friend group. But as far

561
00:34:14.880 --> 00:34:19.760
as with this community, the singles community at large, I have Jackie's list. And guess what?

562
00:34:19.920 --> 00:34:26.239
Our new app is going to have an area right for you guys that says Jackie's list. And so that will be,

563
00:34:26.239 --> 00:34:30.639
you know, your profiles. I will be prompting you. So get ready because when we get to the

564
00:34:30.639 --> 00:34:34.320
outer work, I'm going to be prompting you to get new pictures. Some of y'all don't have good

565
00:34:34.320 --> 00:34:40.159
pictures. I love you, but those pictures do not look like you look now. They were 20 pounds ago

566
00:34:40.159 --> 00:34:44.639
or 20 years ago. And it's not true of everyone, but some of you it is true of, and you need new

567
00:34:44.639 --> 00:34:51.679
pics. Do you have to go spend hundreds of dollars on new pics? No. Why? Because we live in a digital

568
00:34:51.679 --> 00:34:56.639
era. You don't have to do that. Do you have an iPhone? Okay. All right. So do you have a Droid?

569
00:34:56.639 --> 00:34:59.840
They take even better pictures. Don't tell anyone I said that.

570
00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:04.000
but they do, they do.

571
00:35:04.000 --> 00:35:06.160
So we're gonna teach you exactly what to do.

572
00:35:06.160 --> 00:35:10.160
This is, you know, this intensive is part spiritual,

573
00:35:10.160 --> 00:35:13.520
it's part practical, it's part mental,

574
00:35:13.520 --> 00:35:16.760
it's part emotional, it has all the elements in it.

575
00:35:16.760 --> 00:35:19.480
But there's gonna be a lot of practical application

576
00:35:19.480 --> 00:35:22.000
because you don't just need to be inspired.

577
00:35:22.000 --> 00:35:23.720
It's not gonna just be inspirational.

578
00:35:23.720 --> 00:35:25.760
It's gonna be hands-on practical

579
00:35:25.760 --> 00:35:27.960
and you're gonna have homework to complete

580
00:35:27.960 --> 00:35:29.560
in order to put your best foot forward.

581
00:35:29.560 --> 00:35:31.280
And some of you need new pictures.

582
00:35:31.280 --> 00:35:32.600
You just do.

583
00:35:32.600 --> 00:35:34.280
You're baiting your hook with the wrong thing

584
00:35:34.280 --> 00:35:35.840
and we're not gonna catch the kind of fish

585
00:35:35.840 --> 00:35:39.240
that you wanna catch if we don't put our hook in

586
00:35:39.240 --> 00:35:40.440
with the right bait.

587
00:35:40.440 --> 00:35:41.280
All right.

588
00:35:43.960 --> 00:35:45.920
Vivian's like, we want the coach and bring it.

589
00:35:45.920 --> 00:35:47.520
Oh, I will, Miss Vivian.

590
00:35:47.520 --> 00:35:48.560
Oh, I will.

591
00:35:48.560 --> 00:35:49.840
Okay, all right.

592
00:35:49.840 --> 00:35:51.840
So this is Q&A time.

593
00:35:51.840 --> 00:35:54.040
So that's pretty much everything that I wanna ask you.

594
00:35:54.040 --> 00:35:56.360
I might get, my memory might get jogged for something else.

595
00:35:56.360 --> 00:36:00.280
This is recorded and it will go into the recorded sessions

596
00:36:00.280 --> 00:36:03.320
in the app, the replays, okay?

597
00:36:03.320 --> 00:36:05.720
But go ahead and ask your questions.

598
00:36:05.720 --> 00:36:06.560
Who's got one?

599
00:36:06.560 --> 00:36:07.400
Go ahead and raise your hand

600
00:36:07.400 --> 00:36:08.800
so it's not sort of a free for all.

601
00:36:12.480 --> 00:36:13.720
Nobody has a question?

602
00:36:13.720 --> 00:36:15.040
Am I being that thorough?

603
00:36:21.280 --> 00:36:22.600
Not one question?

604
00:36:23.600 --> 00:36:25.400
Are y'all scared to ask a question?

605
00:36:27.760 --> 00:36:28.920
I have a question.

606
00:36:28.920 --> 00:36:29.960
All right, awesome.

607
00:36:30.960 --> 00:36:33.040
Oh, some hands went up, but I'll go ahead.

608
00:36:33.040 --> 00:36:33.880
Yeah.

609
00:36:33.880 --> 00:36:35.200
If that's okay.

610
00:36:35.200 --> 00:36:39.120
As far as like on the match community matchmaking,

611
00:36:39.120 --> 00:36:42.040
I assume there's a question there about can you relocate

612
00:36:42.040 --> 00:36:44.680
or are you flexible or you know, that type of question.

613
00:36:44.680 --> 00:36:46.320
I was just curious about that.

614
00:36:46.320 --> 00:36:48.360
Yeah, the new app is going to have

615
00:36:48.360 --> 00:36:51.520
community-based matchmaking capability

616
00:36:52.520 --> 00:36:56.040
and you will, if anyone's ever been on Spirit Mate Match,

617
00:36:56.040 --> 00:36:58.960
it really kind of hones in on all the different

618
00:36:58.960 --> 00:37:00.760
sort of non-negotiables and deal breakers

619
00:37:00.760 --> 00:37:03.000
and different things that people have as far as preferences

620
00:37:03.000 --> 00:37:04.960
and this will have the same capability.

621
00:37:11.280 --> 00:37:13.800
All right, I'm going to ask my question.

622
00:37:13.800 --> 00:37:16.280
So have you, Jackie, ever had a situation

623
00:37:16.280 --> 00:37:19.120
where you did the coaching like you're doing now

624
00:37:19.280 --> 00:37:22.080
and you know, the person did all the work,

625
00:37:22.080 --> 00:37:24.080
followed everything and you could see the growth

626
00:37:24.080 --> 00:37:27.320
and for some reason you still weren't able to

627
00:37:27.320 --> 00:37:30.400
get them a match or they weren't able to find anyone?

628
00:37:32.200 --> 00:37:37.080
I have somebody who I think did the best that they could

629
00:37:37.080 --> 00:37:40.400
in the mindset that they were in at the time.

630
00:37:40.400 --> 00:37:45.400
Did they really, you know, were they really willing to,

631
00:37:45.400 --> 00:37:47.400
you know, make some of the changes

632
00:37:47.480 --> 00:37:49.600
that were a little bit more extreme?

633
00:37:50.880 --> 00:37:52.360
No.

634
00:37:52.360 --> 00:37:56.760
And, you know, or I should just say not yet, right?

635
00:37:56.760 --> 00:37:59.840
Because they're actually kind of young

636
00:37:59.840 --> 00:38:02.440
and so it's not over yet.

637
00:38:02.440 --> 00:38:07.120
But I have never had anyone in one-on-one coaching

638
00:38:07.120 --> 00:38:10.600
that has not gotten some significant

639
00:38:10.600 --> 00:38:13.760
kind of life breakthrough if they show up

640
00:38:13.760 --> 00:38:14.960
and if they do the work.

641
00:38:15.760 --> 00:38:16.880
There are a couple of people

642
00:38:16.880 --> 00:38:18.760
that have done one-on-one coaching with me

643
00:38:18.760 --> 00:38:20.760
that are not married.

644
00:38:20.760 --> 00:38:23.160
One of them had a pretty tragic accident

645
00:38:23.160 --> 00:38:26.200
right after coaching, like kind of during coaching.

646
00:38:26.200 --> 00:38:30.360
They fell and just had a bunch of surgeries

647
00:38:30.360 --> 00:38:32.040
and a whole, lost their job

648
00:38:32.040 --> 00:38:34.400
and all kinds of crazy things happened.

649
00:38:34.400 --> 00:38:35.920
So they sort of were out of the game

650
00:38:35.920 --> 00:38:38.960
as far as dating is concerned

651
00:38:38.960 --> 00:38:42.120
for a few years after coaching.

652
00:38:42.120 --> 00:38:44.000
In fact, in the midst of coaching.

653
00:38:44.000 --> 00:38:46.320
Now that's not any kind of harbinger, y'all.

654
00:38:46.320 --> 00:38:47.440
So don't be afraid of that.

655
00:38:47.440 --> 00:38:51.200
Like, oh no, the enemy, the devil, warfare, no.

656
00:38:52.840 --> 00:38:55.880
But then also the other person,

657
00:38:55.880 --> 00:38:57.200
the young person that I'm thinking of

658
00:38:57.200 --> 00:38:58.400
off the top of my head,

659
00:38:58.400 --> 00:39:00.960
they just, they live in a very,

660
00:39:02.400 --> 00:39:04.960
they live in a geographically hard place for singles

661
00:39:04.960 --> 00:39:07.200
or really hard place for singles.

662
00:39:07.200 --> 00:39:10.720
And they, you know, they were thinking about moving

663
00:39:10.720 --> 00:39:12.640
when we started coaching.

664
00:39:12.640 --> 00:39:14.960
And we talked about it.

665
00:39:15.880 --> 00:39:18.040
I think it was a really good idea for them to,

666
00:39:18.040 --> 00:39:20.640
they were gonna go back home to where they were from,

667
00:39:20.640 --> 00:39:22.560
which is kind of like the Midwest.

668
00:39:22.560 --> 00:39:24.080
And especially at their age

669
00:39:24.080 --> 00:39:25.720
and especially with their mindsets,

670
00:39:25.720 --> 00:39:28.000
I really think that it was a really good idea

671
00:39:28.000 --> 00:39:28.960
for them to do it.

672
00:39:28.960 --> 00:39:32.640
I really felt like that was gonna be a game changer.

673
00:39:32.640 --> 00:39:35.240
But then they didn't.

674
00:39:35.240 --> 00:39:36.960
So they still stayed where they are,

675
00:39:36.960 --> 00:39:38.080
where they're living now.

676
00:39:38.080 --> 00:39:41.360
And they're continuing to have the same exact

677
00:39:41.360 --> 00:39:44.400
kind of luck with the dating apps

678
00:39:44.400 --> 00:39:45.240
and the different things.

679
00:39:45.240 --> 00:39:46.840
Cause they live in a very superficial place,

680
00:39:46.840 --> 00:39:47.680
live in California,

681
00:39:47.680 --> 00:39:48.960
but they live in a place in California

682
00:39:48.960 --> 00:39:50.640
that's very, very, very superficial

683
00:39:50.640 --> 00:39:52.120
where there's very few Christians.

684
00:39:52.120 --> 00:39:54.040
And so friends, I'm not gonna lie to you.

685
00:39:54.040 --> 00:39:57.480
There are some of you that I had a word in 2023 for singles

686
00:39:57.480 --> 00:39:59.800
and it was relocate, relocate, relocate.

687
00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:03.480
saying all of you are going to relocate, but you might relocate zip codes.

688
00:40:03.480 --> 00:40:07.440
You might relocate an area code or a job or church.

689
00:40:07.680 --> 00:40:11.360
You know, there might be a significant change that actually needs to be made in

690
00:40:11.360 --> 00:40:15.440
order for you to get a new lease on life, not just to meet someone and get married

691
00:40:15.440 --> 00:40:18.080
to someone, but also to get out of stagnation.

692
00:40:18.120 --> 00:40:19.040
Does that make sense?

693
00:40:20.760 --> 00:40:24.800
Now, we don't know what that is yet because we haven't gotten into coaching yet,

694
00:40:25.120 --> 00:40:30.120
but there will be some people that are here right now that will not either live

695
00:40:30.840 --> 00:40:35.360
in the same house in 2027. They won't live in the same zip code.

696
00:40:35.360 --> 00:40:37.920
They won't go to the same church. They won't have the same friend group.

697
00:40:38.120 --> 00:40:43.120
Something about your life is going to significantly shift after this intensive

698
00:40:43.720 --> 00:40:47.160
because you know in your heart that it needs to,

699
00:40:47.160 --> 00:40:51.000
and yet you've been stuck for too long and it's part of how you're stuck.

700
00:40:51.480 --> 00:40:55.680
So whether it's a group of people, whether it's a location, something,

701
00:40:56.760 --> 00:40:57.760
does that answer your question?

702
00:41:00.400 --> 00:41:02.960
Yes, it does. Cause it's just kind of like,

703
00:41:03.520 --> 00:41:05.840
I guess I'm searching for guarantees,

704
00:41:05.960 --> 00:41:10.960
but I understand how things work that we do have to put in our part and,

705
00:41:11.240 --> 00:41:13.920
and through your experience, since you've done this for a while,

706
00:41:13.920 --> 00:41:17.560
just curious on how that looks when you do.

707
00:41:18.000 --> 00:41:19.520
Cause like you said in the beginning, I,

708
00:41:19.800 --> 00:41:22.200
I feel like I've done everything I can.

709
00:41:22.200 --> 00:41:25.920
So I'm looking forward to see where I haven't.

710
00:41:27.520 --> 00:41:29.040
But yeah, that answers my question.

711
00:41:30.200 --> 00:41:32.560
And it's not about, it's not about doing anything more.

712
00:41:32.560 --> 00:41:35.800
It could be about doing less. It could be about, you know,

713
00:41:35.800 --> 00:41:37.320
being open to a certain different,

714
00:41:37.560 --> 00:41:41.400
if it's only about getting married that we're talking about. Cause once again,

715
00:41:41.640 --> 00:41:43.800
people are gonna get so many different types of breakthrough here,

716
00:41:44.000 --> 00:41:47.960
but if it's only about getting married, it could be, it could be about, you know,

717
00:41:47.960 --> 00:41:51.320
a different type of attraction. It could be about a different type of man.

718
00:41:52.240 --> 00:41:56.760
It could be about all kinds of things. So you know,

719
00:41:56.760 --> 00:42:01.760
I can't tell you how many success story testimonies I get that include the

720
00:42:02.080 --> 00:42:06.320
phrase. I would have never dated this man without your coaching,

721
00:42:08.920 --> 00:42:10.520
you know, and that scares some of you.

722
00:42:10.520 --> 00:42:14.320
Some of you just got scared when I said that you're like, Oh God,

723
00:42:14.320 --> 00:42:18.560
what does that mean? It just means that their type wasn't working for them.

724
00:42:18.560 --> 00:42:20.440
How about that? We'll just leave it at that.

725
00:42:20.440 --> 00:42:24.120
But the bottom line is is that they wouldn't have even, even the phrase,

726
00:42:24.360 --> 00:42:27.240
I wouldn't have even given this person a second glance.

727
00:42:27.240 --> 00:42:31.280
I wouldn't have even noticed this person. I wouldn't have given them a chance.

728
00:42:31.400 --> 00:42:33.440
Yes. I've heard all of that.

729
00:42:33.640 --> 00:42:37.720
All of that over and over and over and over and over again.

730
00:42:38.960 --> 00:42:39.800
So

731
00:42:39.800 --> 00:42:41.120
not trying to scare anybody,

732
00:42:43.880 --> 00:42:46.560
but yes. And, and, you know, and you guys,

733
00:42:46.560 --> 00:42:48.080
there are no guarantees in life, right?

734
00:42:48.080 --> 00:42:51.960
And for those of us that need certainty and want certainty, of course we do.

735
00:42:51.960 --> 00:42:55.440
We all want certainty. We all want to know that whatever it is that we do,

736
00:42:55.480 --> 00:42:58.960
or whatever it is that we invest in is a, is a sure thing.

737
00:42:59.120 --> 00:43:00.160
We all want a sure thing.

738
00:43:00.360 --> 00:43:05.360
So hopefully we're going to be able to release some of that and to allow God to

739
00:43:05.360 --> 00:43:06.560
do what only he can do.

740
00:43:06.600 --> 00:43:10.960
Because there are some supernatural elements to every love story,

741
00:43:11.240 --> 00:43:15.480
but the two mistakes that I see people make the most is they try to do too much

742
00:43:15.520 --> 00:43:18.520
of themselves. Like they're working at like a job.

743
00:43:18.520 --> 00:43:22.240
They're doing too much of themselves and not really letting there be any

744
00:43:22.240 --> 00:43:25.720
supernatural element to it, or they're expecting God to do it all.

745
00:43:26.440 --> 00:43:27.440
So we want to balance.

746
00:43:27.720 --> 00:43:30.040
We're going to do what we can do and we're going to believe God to do what he

747
00:43:30.040 --> 00:43:30.880
can do.

748
00:43:30.880 --> 00:43:33.480
So we're going to do what we can do and we're going to believe God to do what he

749
00:43:33.480 --> 00:43:34.320
can do.

750
00:43:34.480 --> 00:43:38.800
Once again, haven't done it in, I haven't done this since 2020,

751
00:43:40.080 --> 00:43:41.320
but I haven't done even,

752
00:43:41.320 --> 00:43:45.320
I haven't even opened my books for one-on-one coaching in, in over two years.

753
00:43:45.960 --> 00:43:48.960
Like, you know, to any, there, there's a couple of people that I'm coaching,

754
00:43:48.960 --> 00:43:52.520
but they're like special cases. So I haven't been like, yeah,

755
00:43:52.520 --> 00:43:54.480
I'm taking one-on-one clients. Yeah. I'm going to put it out there.

756
00:43:54.480 --> 00:43:57.280
I'm taking one-on-one clients. So there's a reason why you guys made the cut.

757
00:43:57.280 --> 00:43:59.360
I'm going to put it out there. I'm taking one-on-one clients.

758
00:43:59.360 --> 00:44:01.200
I'm going to put it out there. I'm taking one-on-one clients.

759
00:44:01.200 --> 00:44:02.640
I'm going to put it out there. I'm taking one-on-one clients.

760
00:44:02.640 --> 00:44:04.520
So there's a reason why you guys made the cut.

761
00:44:04.760 --> 00:44:06.360
It's a reason why you guys got here first.

762
00:44:06.360 --> 00:44:07.760
And it's a reason why you're all together.

763
00:44:07.760 --> 00:44:12.320
And it's a reason why we're doing it now in the fall of 2026.

764
00:44:12.360 --> 00:44:15.080
So let's just trust that process. Helen, what do you got?

765
00:44:17.160 --> 00:44:20.960
Should we wait before getting back on? Like, I'm not on apps right now.

766
00:44:21.000 --> 00:44:23.480
I got off a few months ago. Should I wait before,

767
00:44:23.560 --> 00:44:26.640
like you review my profile and yeah.

768
00:44:26.920 --> 00:44:28.400
Yeah. I'm so glad that you brought that up.

769
00:44:28.400 --> 00:44:31.640
Cause I wanted to mention that tonight. Um, I'm asking all of you now,

770
00:44:31.640 --> 00:44:33.440
it's not going to be forever. Okay.

771
00:44:33.600 --> 00:44:36.960
But I'm asking everyone to just go ahead and put your apps on pause.

772
00:44:37.720 --> 00:44:38.920
So if you're on apps,

773
00:44:39.880 --> 00:44:43.280
especially for those of you that are really on the apps, like you were really,

774
00:44:43.320 --> 00:44:45.440
you know, you really using it as a tool.

775
00:44:45.440 --> 00:44:49.240
Maybe you took my book club and you're using it as a tool and you're trying to,

776
00:44:49.520 --> 00:44:54.400
you know, do the things go ahead and pause it. Okay. Don't worry.

777
00:44:54.440 --> 00:44:57.240
We will unpause it. I believe apps can be a powerful tool,

778
00:44:57.240 --> 00:45:00.080
but only the right ones. And only if you use them.

779
00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:05.120
right way. Otherwise, you're going to cause massive frustration and disappointment and

780
00:45:05.120 --> 00:45:08.600
even put you in proximity to people that, you know how they always say, oh, they're

781
00:45:08.600 --> 00:45:12.780
a great tool because you'll meet people that you never would have met. Well, sometimes

782
00:45:12.780 --> 00:45:17.040
that's a good thing. You should have never met that person, okay? And you wouldn't have

783
00:45:17.040 --> 00:45:21.000
met them if you had your head on straight when you were on the app, okay? So we've got

784
00:45:21.000 --> 00:45:26.420
to make sure that there are, there's different people that we don't need to meet. We don't

785
00:45:26.420 --> 00:45:30.140
need to meet them. All right. So we want to make sure that we are using the apps with

786
00:45:30.140 --> 00:45:36.060
the right heart posture with the right information so that we can use it to be successful because

787
00:45:36.060 --> 00:45:40.940
a lot of people do meet their spirit mates on apps, but we've got to make sure we're

788
00:45:40.940 --> 00:45:47.660
doing it right. All right. Uh, Karen. So I'm currently in the heart work course. So should

789
00:45:47.660 --> 00:45:52.980
I put that on pause for now and then resume it once the 90 days are done? Well, I mean,

790
00:45:52.980 --> 00:45:59.500
I think they, I think they meet on Mondays, so you probably will need to do that. Now

791
00:45:59.500 --> 00:46:02.500
I'm not saying that you can't read your book or whatever. I mean, whatever you feel like

792
00:46:02.500 --> 00:46:06.780
you have bandwidth for, but the actual like meeting that they do is on Monday nights and

793
00:46:06.780 --> 00:46:12.980
we'll be meeting on Monday nights. Okay. Thank you. In fact, if you want Karen, just email

794
00:46:12.980 --> 00:46:18.980
admin at Jackie Dorman.com and have them put your subscription on hold. Pause it. Okay.

795
00:46:18.980 --> 00:46:33.740
Thank you. Yeah. Um, Amber. So we talked about the schedule, but you didn't talk about

796
00:46:33.740 --> 00:46:42.060
the dating time since at the bottom. I'm not going to yet. It's scary. I know it's scary,

797
00:46:42.060 --> 00:46:48.020
but it's going to be so good. It's going to be so good. It's going to be great. It's going

798
00:46:48.060 --> 00:46:51.780
to be wonderful. You're not going to be doing this by yourself. Okay. You'd be doing it with

799
00:46:51.780 --> 00:46:56.660
each other and you're going to be doing it with me. All right. So you don't have to be scared.

800
00:46:56.660 --> 00:47:02.660
Now you guys, we're not going to get to the outer work for about four weeks, but I really want to

801
00:47:02.660 --> 00:47:06.740
encourage you. And one of the things that we used to do early on back when my movement was called

802
00:47:06.740 --> 00:47:14.380
married in 12 months or less back in 2020, you know, March of 2020, um, it was, it was all female.

803
00:47:14.380 --> 00:47:19.740
We didn't let guys until October of 2020. So at the beginning it was all ladies. And one of the

804
00:47:19.740 --> 00:47:27.460
things that we had people do as soon as they came in to heart work was we had them, um, do three

805
00:47:27.460 --> 00:47:35.340
things, eat whole foods, drink water, and walk. When I say eat whole foods, we had them not eat

806
00:47:35.340 --> 00:47:43.220
anything that comes in a package. Okay. Eat whole foods. Yeah. And of course meat comes in a package,

807
00:47:43.220 --> 00:47:47.460
but you know what I'm saying? Don't eat any processed foods, foods that have been processed,

808
00:47:47.460 --> 00:47:53.940
eat them in their most original form. Okay. So that was one thing. And, and then drinking water,

809
00:47:53.940 --> 00:48:00.020
you know, they say that you should get as many ounces of water as your ideal weight, right? So

810
00:48:00.020 --> 00:48:05.380
if your ideal weight is 150, then 150, I think that's a lot of water. So if you just drink 70

811
00:48:05.380 --> 00:48:10.980
or 80 ounces of water a day, I think that you're good. Don't be drowning yourself in water. But a

812
00:48:10.980 --> 00:48:15.220
lot of people don't drink water. And you know what? You need to drink water. You do. And if you

813
00:48:15.220 --> 00:48:20.580
put a little electrolytes in there, even better, but also walking, I'm not going to say 5,000,

814
00:48:20.580 --> 00:48:26.740
7,000, 10,000 steps, but move your body. You got to move your body. And you know, just those three

815
00:48:26.740 --> 00:48:35.620
things. So many of those women in that early program lost 20, 30 pounds. You know, it doesn't

816
00:48:35.620 --> 00:48:42.660
have to be anything overboard, but I will say something. And you know, for those of you that

817
00:48:42.660 --> 00:48:46.660
are carrying a little extra weight, it's not meant to be offensive. I'm carrying extra weight. I'm

818
00:48:46.660 --> 00:48:52.740
also married. Okay. And so, you know, and I didn't carry extra weight until I went through menopause.

819
00:48:52.740 --> 00:48:57.140
And a lot of you have gone through menopause or you're in perimenopause even worse. You know,

820
00:48:57.140 --> 00:49:01.460
I think perimenopause is way worse than menopause. By menopause, you've kind of evened out a little

821
00:49:01.460 --> 00:49:08.500
bit, but I'm saying this because it's important. Can someone fall in love with you when you are not

822
00:49:08.500 --> 00:49:19.300
at your optimal physical person? You know, no one's trying to look like they did when they

823
00:49:19.300 --> 00:49:23.460
were 22. I hope you're not trying to look like what you did when you were 22, but can someone

824
00:49:23.460 --> 00:49:28.260
fall in love with you? If you're 20, 30 pounds overweight, can someone fall in love with you?

825
00:49:28.340 --> 00:49:37.620
If X, Y, Z, yes, of course. Now, are they going to be smoking hot? Probably not. Okay. Are they

826
00:49:37.620 --> 00:49:45.620
going to be what you're fantasizing about? Probably not. Okay. Also, are there lots and lots and lots

827
00:49:45.620 --> 00:49:54.260
and lots and lots and lots of men and women and women, Dan, that are not attracted to people

828
00:49:54.260 --> 00:49:59.860
that they say are overweight? Yes. Does it narrow the dating pool?

829
00:50:00.000 --> 00:50:02.880
Yes, by a lot.

830
00:50:02.880 --> 00:50:07.720
The number one thing that people say to me when they are sending me their laundry list

831
00:50:07.720 --> 00:50:13.440
of what they want in a spouse, what do you think the very first thing on the list is?

832
00:50:13.440 --> 00:50:16.720
For men and women, what do you think the very first thing on the list is?

833
00:50:16.720 --> 00:50:17.720
Someone take a guess.

834
00:50:17.720 --> 00:50:18.720
Physically fit.

835
00:50:18.720 --> 00:50:22.800
That's what they say.

836
00:50:22.800 --> 00:50:27.220
And everybody means something different by that, but that's what they say.

837
00:50:27.220 --> 00:50:31.060
They don't say overweight, they don't say not overweight because they don't want to

838
00:50:31.060 --> 00:50:35.260
be rude, but they say physically fit.

839
00:50:35.260 --> 00:50:36.340
Physically fit.

840
00:50:36.340 --> 00:50:41.140
So if you would not describe yourself, because that looks different on everybody.

841
00:50:41.140 --> 00:50:42.760
We're not all going to be skinny mini.

842
00:50:42.760 --> 00:50:43.760
I'm 5'10".

843
00:50:43.760 --> 00:50:45.100
I'm almost six feet tall.

844
00:50:45.100 --> 00:50:48.900
You guys, I have shoulders like a linebacker, okay?

845
00:50:48.900 --> 00:50:52.180
Broad shoulders, all right?

846
00:50:52.180 --> 00:50:56.300
I look super, super skinny at a size 10.

847
00:50:56.380 --> 00:50:57.380
I'm a big girl.

848
00:50:57.380 --> 00:50:59.140
I call myself a sturdy girl.

849
00:50:59.140 --> 00:51:03.980
I'm not going to ever be a teeny tiny little princess, little delicate thing.

850
00:51:03.980 --> 00:51:04.980
My husband's only 5'8".

851
00:51:04.980 --> 00:51:06.540
He's two inches shorter than me.

852
00:51:06.540 --> 00:51:12.140
He's never going to carry me anywhere, ever, doesn't matter how thin I get, okay?

853
00:51:12.140 --> 00:51:16.860
I say all that to say that everybody's physical fit looks different, but if that is not, and

854
00:51:16.860 --> 00:51:20.980
I put it on the questionnaire, if that is not how you can describe yourself, then you

855
00:51:20.980 --> 00:51:23.540
need to ask yourself why.

856
00:51:23.540 --> 00:51:27.220
Because you're only going to be able to go as far as this body can take you, and if you're

857
00:51:27.220 --> 00:51:30.940
not taking care of this body, you need to ask yourself why, all right?

858
00:51:30.940 --> 00:51:32.300
Hopefully we can get to the bottom of that.

859
00:51:32.300 --> 00:51:39.620
Once again, you don't have to be skinny to be loved, but you do have to take care of

860
00:51:39.620 --> 00:51:49.180
yourself in order to attract someone who is healthy, healthy in their desire to be in

861
00:51:49.180 --> 00:51:50.820
relationship, okay?

862
00:51:50.820 --> 00:51:52.500
Because otherwise they're trying to rescue you.

863
00:51:52.500 --> 00:51:56.060
If you're not a healthy person, they're either trying to rescue you or they're not healthy

864
00:51:56.060 --> 00:51:57.060
too.

865
00:51:57.060 --> 00:51:58.060
We don't want that, either of those things.

866
00:51:58.060 --> 00:51:59.060
Okay, Summer, what's up?

867
00:51:59.060 --> 00:52:05.620
Yeah, I was just wondering because I had gotten on the app after the book club.

868
00:52:05.620 --> 00:52:11.140
One guy that I'm talking to ... Do you want me to just tell them that I'm going on a break

869
00:52:11.140 --> 00:52:14.180
right now, or how does that work?

870
00:52:14.180 --> 00:52:16.580
How deeply are you talking to this person?

871
00:52:16.580 --> 00:52:21.140
Very minimally, but he just asked me to go on a pickleball date.

872
00:52:21.140 --> 00:52:26.580
I don't really know him that well, and I was kind of not sure how I felt about that.

873
00:52:26.580 --> 00:52:30.580
I mean, did you want to go on the pickleball date?

874
00:52:30.580 --> 00:52:31.580
I'm in between.

875
00:52:31.580 --> 00:52:37.620
I'm pretty ... I don't feel extremely drawn to it, and I don't feel ... I'm just in between.

876
00:52:37.620 --> 00:52:41.180
Well, I'm a firm believer that we can't miss out on our spirit mates, so doing this work

877
00:52:41.180 --> 00:52:44.380
on yourself is not going to cause you to miss out on anything, but you guys, you're not

878
00:52:44.380 --> 00:52:47.140
going to be on a dating sabbatical for 90 days.

879
00:52:47.140 --> 00:52:49.180
I want you in the game.

880
00:52:49.180 --> 00:52:53.900
Even though we're getting off the apps right now, I'm not making you guys not date.

881
00:52:53.900 --> 00:52:57.580
If you meet someone in person and they ask you out, you can absolutely go on the date.

882
00:52:57.580 --> 00:53:00.740
In fact, some of the work that we're going to be doing the first three weeks, it's good

883
00:53:00.740 --> 00:53:04.380
to have some place to test it out, because it's going to be a lot of inner work about

884
00:53:04.380 --> 00:53:07.620
how you think about yourself and how you think about others, and it's really good to be able

885
00:53:07.620 --> 00:53:09.180
to test it out.

886
00:53:09.180 --> 00:53:13.020
You might give yourself a couple weeks buffer there, Summer, so that you can kind of lock

887
00:53:13.020 --> 00:53:17.300
in here and at least have your one-on-one session and stuff, but absolutely take a rain

888
00:53:17.300 --> 00:53:19.100
check for later if you want to.

889
00:53:19.100 --> 00:53:20.100
Okay.

890
00:53:20.100 --> 00:53:21.100
Thank you.

891
00:53:21.100 --> 00:53:22.100
Okay.

892
00:53:22.100 --> 00:53:23.100
Dan, I want to address something.

893
00:53:23.100 --> 00:53:24.100
Dan said, I get it, Jackie.

894
00:53:24.100 --> 00:53:25.100
I'm overweight.

895
00:53:25.100 --> 00:53:30.180
But Dan, if I'm not mistaken, didn't you lose lots and lots of weight?

896
00:53:30.180 --> 00:53:33.780
You can hear me, right?

897
00:53:33.780 --> 00:53:34.780
Yeah.

898
00:53:34.780 --> 00:53:35.780
I can hear you.

899
00:53:35.780 --> 00:53:36.780
Yeah.

900
00:53:36.780 --> 00:53:37.780
It was 12 years ago.

901
00:53:37.780 --> 00:53:38.780
260 pounds.

902
00:53:38.780 --> 00:53:39.780
That's nasty.

903
00:53:39.780 --> 00:53:40.780
Yeah.

904
00:53:40.780 --> 00:53:46.900
If there was a way that I can show the old picture and put it in this chat, maybe I'll

905
00:53:47.500 --> 00:53:48.500
do it in the thing.

906
00:53:48.500 --> 00:53:54.540
But yeah, 260 pounds and kidney stones will whip you into shape to gain, to get fit and

907
00:53:54.540 --> 00:53:55.540
lose weight.

908
00:53:55.540 --> 00:53:56.540
Oh, yes.

909
00:53:56.540 --> 00:53:57.540
Yes.

910
00:53:57.540 --> 00:53:58.860
Being in pain will cause all kinds of change.

911
00:53:58.860 --> 00:54:02.700
But I wanted to highlight that because that's amazing.

912
00:54:02.700 --> 00:54:03.700
That's incredible.

913
00:54:03.700 --> 00:54:04.700
Thank you.

914
00:54:04.700 --> 00:54:06.660
And so you're like, oh yeah, but I'm not where I want to be yet.

915
00:54:06.660 --> 00:54:09.740
Well, most of us aren't where we want to be in any area of our lives yet.

916
00:54:09.740 --> 00:54:10.740
Okay.

917
00:54:10.740 --> 00:54:12.620
So we're becoming, we're progressing.

918
00:54:12.620 --> 00:54:13.980
And so you look great.

919
00:54:13.980 --> 00:54:14.980
I've seen you.

920
00:54:14.980 --> 00:54:15.980
I've seen the pictures of you.

921
00:54:16.060 --> 00:54:18.500
I would never have guessed that you lost 260 pounds.

922
00:54:18.500 --> 00:54:19.500
That's incredible.

923
00:54:19.500 --> 00:54:24.740
Um, and so, you know, I just want to give honor where honor is due there because I believe

924
00:54:24.740 --> 00:54:26.300
that that is amazing.

925
00:54:26.300 --> 00:54:29.180
And so you've proven you can walk in and you're going to lock in here too.

926
00:54:29.180 --> 00:54:30.180
And it's going to be awesome.

927
00:54:30.180 --> 00:54:31.180
It's going to be awesome.

928
00:54:31.180 --> 00:54:32.180
All right.

929
00:54:32.180 --> 00:54:35.980
I mean, for what it's worth, if you want to look to like in July, I know like at the post

930
00:54:35.980 --> 00:54:41.020
time to see my idiot doctor who told me I'm overweight at two Oh one, I'm like, it's like

931
00:54:41.020 --> 00:54:42.020
Facebook.

932
00:54:42.020 --> 00:54:43.020
What do you think?

933
00:54:44.020 --> 00:54:48.780
Now versus how I looked at 260, you are going to laugh when you see that.

934
00:54:48.780 --> 00:54:49.780
Yes.

935
00:54:49.780 --> 00:54:50.780
Yeah.

936
00:54:50.780 --> 00:54:55.460
Well, you know, doctors only go by the numbers, you guys, I mean, the doctors told me that

937
00:54:55.460 --> 00:55:00.020
I should lose 50 pounds and I'm like, you realize that if I lose 50 pounds.

938
00:55:00.000 --> 00:55:07.560
I'm going to be like a size double zero. Right? Because, you know, I'm a big person. And so,

939
00:55:07.560 --> 00:55:12.680
um, that's just not going to work out. So yes, doctors only know they only go by the numbers.

940
00:55:12.680 --> 00:55:17.200
They're not paying that much attention. Okay. Went from two eight. Okay. That's amazing. Okay. All

941
00:55:17.200 --> 00:55:27.040
right, you guys. Well, we're excited to have all of you here and I've been talking about it all day.

942
00:55:27.040 --> 00:55:33.280
I'm, I'm just so excited. There was just such an excitement that came over me today of just being

943
00:55:33.280 --> 00:55:39.280
able to help people get breakthrough. When I think about that, the last time I had a, a small group

944
00:55:39.280 --> 00:55:44.960
like this, when I first started this program back in 2020, and we called it bride bootcamp. Okay.

945
00:55:44.960 --> 00:55:51.840
And, um, all of those people got massive breakthrough. I can't tell you how much

946
00:55:51.840 --> 00:55:55.480
breakthrough happened in that group. And I just know that it's going to be repeated here. And

947
00:55:55.960 --> 00:56:01.880
so I'm just so, so, so excited about that. Um, I've been to so many of those people's weddings.

948
00:56:01.880 --> 00:56:05.160
Some of those people became my coaches. If you guys have been through my program,

949
00:56:05.160 --> 00:56:10.040
you know, Bethany Cooper, she was in that her, her, her name was Bethany Stanko.

950
00:56:10.040 --> 00:56:15.800
And she was in that group and she worked at elevation church and you know, she had been

951
00:56:15.800 --> 00:56:22.120
single and for a long, long, long, long time. And, uh, she became a success story. She also

952
00:56:22.120 --> 00:56:28.680
became one of my coaches, uh, Carla Johnson, who is my phase two coach. She also was in that group.

953
00:56:28.680 --> 00:56:34.920
She was also single. She had never been married. She had a son, um, and she was a single mom,

954
00:56:34.920 --> 00:56:41.480
but she had never been married. She also was part of that group, um, that, you know, and there's so,

955
00:56:41.480 --> 00:56:46.360
so, so many people, another one of the coaches, uh, she came just really right after that group.

956
00:56:46.360 --> 00:56:51.160
So she was kind of in the second phase of that group. My coach Renee Rizzo, 50 something years

957
00:56:51.160 --> 00:56:57.320
old had never been married. Um, she also got married. And so, um, and all of them married

958
00:56:57.320 --> 00:57:05.320
really incredible guys. So, um, but so many of the, the, that first, like maybe 40, 50 women that

959
00:57:05.320 --> 00:57:11.880
joined, uh, married in 12 months or last bride bootcamp back then, they, they all had very

960
00:57:11.880 --> 00:57:17.240
significant breakthrough. And so did the guys. In fact, Dan, I can tell you that a hundred percent

961
00:57:17.240 --> 00:57:24.360
of the guys that have cut that came in during that time, um, are married. So, um,

962
00:57:25.640 --> 00:57:29.880
yes, may the odds forever be in your favor because they are, so you have no excuse to be single.

963
00:57:29.880 --> 00:57:34.680
All right. So we're going to get you there. All right, friends, anybody else have any questions?

964
00:57:36.840 --> 00:57:39.960
All of you are good looking people. You're smart.

965
00:57:43.160 --> 00:57:45.960
Go ahead and put in the chat what you do for a living. Let's just have a little,

966
00:57:46.760 --> 00:57:49.880
I'm going to let you guys go. Cause I'd eight o'clock and I wanted to keep you for an hour

967
00:57:49.880 --> 00:57:54.280
tonight, but just go ahead and put what you do for your vocation. If you're retired, if you're,

968
00:57:55.000 --> 00:57:59.240
you know, if you're still in the military, what do you do? I just want everyone to see

969
00:57:59.240 --> 00:58:04.040
that from each other real quick. You have a pharmacist here. We have a special education

970
00:58:04.040 --> 00:58:11.640
teacher. That's beautiful to, um, customer support for tech company. Love that finance teacher,

971
00:58:11.640 --> 00:58:17.880
counselor, accountant, life and leadership coach. Love it. Work in finance, social work,

972
00:58:19.160 --> 00:58:29.480
psychotherapist, sales executive and FinTech. Oh, realtor. Love it. Childcare, but opening a

973
00:58:29.480 --> 00:58:33.400
tea room. Love that. Oh, petty. I love that. That's so great. Um,

974
00:58:34.280 --> 00:58:41.320
Shh, school administrator, all of your teachers, God bless you. Attorney, attorney,

975
00:58:42.040 --> 00:58:47.000
Vivian's an attorney, Vivian's an attorney. What kind of attorney are you, Vivian? Um,

976
00:58:47.000 --> 00:58:52.600
software strategist, love it. Partner management for healthcare company. Yes. Tech sales,

977
00:58:52.600 --> 00:58:57.960
marketing, and barista in this season. Love that. Um, I recently retired from nursing now

978
00:58:57.960 --> 00:59:01.960
kingdom life insurance agent and trading options. Love it. Um, what kind of lawyer?

979
00:59:03.480 --> 00:59:10.600
Can we see what she said? I've all have some really fun things happening.

980
00:59:17.240 --> 00:59:24.120
Sorry, I was, um, leaving this library, but, um, I'm a health law attorney. I represent

981
00:59:24.120 --> 00:59:31.960
biotechnology and medical device companies. Oh, awesome. Awesome. I love it. Okay. So cool. I know

982
00:59:31.960 --> 00:59:39.400
what that is. I know that is one of my, one of my, uh, very successful students, uh, company found

983
00:59:39.400 --> 00:59:45.480
a cure for sickle cell. So very cool. All right, you guys all doing amazing things in the world

984
00:59:45.480 --> 00:59:49.880
and you just need a partner, right? You just need a partner to do more amazing things with

985
00:59:49.880 --> 00:59:55.080
and community and all different types of things. So I'm looking so forward to getting started.

986
00:59:55.080 --> 00:59:59.080
You guys take the next few days to finish that questionnaire if you haven't finished it.

987
01:00:00.000 --> 01:00:03.720
And I'm going to get up the content for our coaching for next week.

988
01:00:04.040 --> 01:00:07.800
A lot of you have one-on-one, uh, one-on-one sessions already scheduled for

989
01:00:07.800 --> 01:00:10.640
those of you that are in the intensive, once again, we'll send you an email

990
01:00:10.640 --> 01:00:16.760
with the link to schedule yours as soon as you get your, um, your questionnaire.

991
01:00:16.760 --> 01:00:20.040
And then if you already have be looking for that, because you will be getting

992
01:00:20.040 --> 01:00:23.320
that, that very soon, that email probably tomorrow.

993
01:00:23.720 --> 01:00:24.200
All right.

994
01:00:24.200 --> 01:00:26.760
If you already have your questionnaire in and you're in the intensive, you're

995
01:00:26.760 --> 01:00:33.560
going to be getting your, um, your email tomorrow to schedule your coaching call.

996
01:00:34.120 --> 01:00:37.720
All right, Jackie, one quick question.

997
01:00:37.760 --> 01:00:41.440
Um, is it usually going to be an hour or is it like, sometimes it goes, I know

998
01:00:41.440 --> 01:00:42.720
like an hour and a half in some meetings.

999
01:00:42.720 --> 01:00:44.680
So I was just kind of curious what that would be.

1000
01:00:44.680 --> 01:00:48.560
Yeah, I think, I think that probably our Thursday meeting will be right about

1001
01:00:48.560 --> 01:00:50.400
an hour because it'll mostly just be coaching.

1002
01:00:50.400 --> 01:00:53.400
So all kinds of question, answer, question, answer, question, answer,

1003
01:00:53.400 --> 01:00:54.760
dig, dig, dig, question, answer.

1004
01:00:55.040 --> 01:00:59.680
The teaching portion on Monday probably will be about 75 minutes or maybe a

1005
01:00:59.680 --> 01:01:02.160
little bit more depending on how long the activations take.

1006
01:01:02.760 --> 01:01:03.040
Okay.

1007
01:01:03.200 --> 01:01:03.520
Thank you.

1008
01:01:03.520 --> 01:01:03.800
Okay.

1009
01:01:04.120 --> 01:01:04.560
Are we ready?

1010
01:01:05.120 --> 01:01:06.160
Are we meeting on labor day?

1011
01:01:07.520 --> 01:01:08.480
It is labor day.

1012
01:01:08.480 --> 01:01:10.800
You guys, it is labor day.

1013
01:01:10.880 --> 01:01:14.720
You know, I didn't really think about that because I don't take days off, so

1014
01:01:14.720 --> 01:01:18.560
I don't know anything about the days off, but, um, if you have to watch that

1015
01:01:18.560 --> 01:01:20.840
and replay that'll stink, but it is later in the night.

1016
01:01:20.840 --> 01:01:23.840
So maybe all your picnics and all your shenanigans will be over by then.

1017
01:01:24.320 --> 01:01:26.800
So, um, I'm going to pray for us, father.

1018
01:01:26.800 --> 01:01:29.400
God, thank you for this group of people, Laura, that you've brought together.

1019
01:01:29.400 --> 01:01:31.800
It's not by accident that they've come here together.

1020
01:01:31.800 --> 01:01:32.760
It's a divine appointment.

1021
01:01:32.760 --> 01:01:34.040
And so Laura, we thank you for that.

1022
01:01:34.400 --> 01:01:36.480
And we ask that you would just increase our expectation.

1023
01:01:36.480 --> 01:01:41.280
In fact, starting tonight, let us begin to, um, sense you in a different way.

1024
01:01:41.280 --> 01:01:44.800
Since your presence in a different way, since you drawing yourself to, uh,

1025
01:01:44.840 --> 01:01:49.640
drawing us to yourself in a different way, opening up parts of us, maybe that

1026
01:01:49.640 --> 01:01:54.080
we have had closed off for a long time, starting to remember things that we

1027
01:01:54.080 --> 01:01:55.600
haven't thought of in a long time.

1028
01:01:55.600 --> 01:01:59.600
Just let that revealing for healing starts starting tonight, tonight, starting now.

1029
01:02:00.040 --> 01:02:03.120
Um, we just pray, God, that you would just begin to allow us to dream with

1030
01:02:03.120 --> 01:02:06.280
you, whether that's at night or whether that's daydreaming during the day that

1031
01:02:06.280 --> 01:02:10.680
we begin to just think about what is possible and that our expectations would

1032
01:02:10.680 --> 01:02:14.480
rise and that our hope will begin to rise where we thank you, God, that you

1033
01:02:14.480 --> 01:02:17.640
have great things in store for each and every one of us that you haven't

1034
01:02:17.640 --> 01:02:21.200
forgotten us, that we haven't been forsaken, that we have been called into

1035
01:02:21.200 --> 01:02:23.040
the kingdom for such a time as this.

1036
01:02:23.480 --> 01:02:25.320
And that we are called to be partnered.

1037
01:02:25.320 --> 01:02:29.000
We are here because the desire of our heart is to be partnered.

1038
01:02:29.040 --> 01:02:31.960
And that you said that you wanted your kingdom sons and

1039
01:02:31.960 --> 01:02:33.480
daughters partnered in this season.

1040
01:02:33.760 --> 01:02:36.800
So Laura, we're just answering the call to be revivalists in marriage and

1041
01:02:36.800 --> 01:02:41.160
family, and we're asking you to do your part as we do ours in Jesus name.

1042
01:02:41.200 --> 01:02:41.640
Amen.

1043
01:02:42.320 --> 01:02:43.280
All right, friends.

1044
01:02:43.680 --> 01:02:46.320
I can't wait to be watching both groups.

1045
01:02:46.320 --> 01:02:49.680
Lots of different posting happening and watching your email and I'll see you soon.

1046
01:02:49.880 --> 01:02:50.160
Bye.