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Hi.

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Are you doing?

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Good.

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How are you?

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Doing okay?

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Good.

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I know Margot.

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Well, Margot emailed saying she wasn't going to be on, but then she was just in the waiting room, so I don't know what this is.

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I'm not sure.

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So, let's see.

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If it's just me and you today, we'll have a little call.

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Fabulous.

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How's the last week been?

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Good.

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Yeah.

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It's been good.

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I'm supposed to be working at the dentist office today, but my dad was sick.

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So, I had like an unplanned day to do things.

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But I had nothing planned to do.

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So.

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Yeah.

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So, I went to breakfast with my husband and now I'm working on some content for his business.

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So, probably not what I should be doing, but.

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Well, do you do a lot of stuff for his business?

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Um, I do a lot of like.

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The like social media and like images and I created like their websites, so they have.

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Um, like I made like a website for them where they can do quotes, people can submit quotes.

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Um, and then I have like a website that I created for them.

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Um, for like job applications.

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And I created like, I have a couple articles that I've like created into websites for like,

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actually it was what I was telling you from the last book or like the cost of the decks.

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That's what I'm working on today is trying to finalize that so I can post share that.

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Um, and then.

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Um, his cousin has a business where they, it's like a tree service.

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So I have, I've created their websites for their estimates.

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Um, and I run like their Google ads for them.

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Um, yeah, which I mean, for my husband side of it, like, obviously when he makes money, I make money for his cousin.

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I don't actually benefit from that financially.

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They've offered to like pay me for things that I've done, like building the website and stuff.

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Um, but I kind of just treat them like a learning experience.

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So if I ever do like decide, I want to do something like that.

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I have, you know, and like, I mean, their business does really well.

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Um, like their tree service.

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And so like if a Google ad.

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Spins a lot of money, but they get one or two jobs out of it.

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Like that's that they're, they're good.

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So I don't feel like nervous to do something wrong because it doesn't affect them, but so much.

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I get it.

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I'd be the same.

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Yeah.

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So I don't know.

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And it's, I mean, it's fun.

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I like doing it.

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So I don't get to do.

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How has

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Your your personal content like Instagram content been going?

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It's going good. I

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Have a really hard time because I'm so used to the performance of like PVC style content

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swapping that for my new content like I

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Get really good feedback and I feel really good like making it and stuff

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But like the views are not what my PVC views were

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But I have to work hard to like stay out of my head with that because

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You know, obviously the numbers are gonna look different

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quality numbers are better than

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large numbers of useless people and

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My follower count is still dropping

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Which is good

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It's good. I still have a lot of men in there. So it's good that they're unfollowing me because they're not

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quality people, but yeah, it's just one of those like mental barriers you have to like

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You're cleaning house right now. Yeah. Mm-hmm

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I'm in a a clear transitioned phase

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My fiber guys

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Finally, I think fixed my email

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He told me just a little while ago. He was like wrapping a few things up with it

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So that's good. Yeah, so hopefully I'll be able to send some emails

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I did like a video this week where I like shared like an income report for August and

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I'm like kind of the goal is to

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Show the process like as I'm building these things out and

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So I'm like but now you know, it's it's already the end of September. So I'm like I need to do something to

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Make September's income report look

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But cuz like last for August, you know, I had greenhouse members and I had

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Inner circle people so I had like that income to show and I'm not doing any workshops right now because I don't have my emails

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I'll messed up

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So yeah

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But I'm gonna not let myself worry about it because if it if I have to show next month that my income's down

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Well, that's part of the process

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Yeah, and I'm so I'm actually I finally made myself start going through my broken buttercracks

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I think I told you before that I had like a packaging issue

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in one of my orders, maybe it was like I it was like in a thousand unit order and

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I had started all of a sudden getting all these returns for broken buttercracks and

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So now I have this nice beautiful badge on my Amazon account that says frequently returned

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And they will not take it off. I mean you have to like

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Come up from the ashes and basically get no returns in order to fix it

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But I fixed it like I fixed the packaging issue and my manufacturer replaced all the broken ones

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Have not gone through them every time I've gotten one of them

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I've just like stuck at my basement because it was just so like disheartening

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But I have an event next month like an in-person

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sale that my church does and so I've been

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Because the top part of the crock is broken, but the bottom part is not

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So it's kind of I don't know. I mean you could use it for

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Candle I don't know so I was just I'm I'm pulling so now I'm like pulling all those bases out

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to figure out what I can do with them to try to sell them at the sale and

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So I have this like big box of all these like broken buttercracks

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So I'm going to make some content with that

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My I was so my husband was like taking the trash off and I was like don't touch my broken crocks and he was like why

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I'm like cuz I need it for content

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That's hilarious. I think I handled a good idea

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Mine goes

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Mean you could sell them a set and like they're maybe like a ramekin

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Mm-hmm. I'm trying to remember the size, but yeah, it's like a ramekin size

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Yeah, it's like I mean

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I feel like Margo would have ideas although. I don't know if she can talk Margo. Do you have ideas?

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She's actually gonna be running errands. So she might be driving and things like that. Oh, that's a lot of updates, though

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I didn't realize you

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Work on your cousin's business as well as your husband and your dad

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So I said you think lots of hats

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Yes, I was gonna I thought of this here today, so I don't know if you don't remember this conversation

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But remember how you're like I need more so I'm gonna try to remember to bring it

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I'm it's just empty. Just waiting. Well, I literally the other day cuz I'm I'm

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Probably I'm like three-quarters of the way with Monful

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Mm-hmm, and I tried to like go online and find where I could order them and just put like simply here a lot on the front of them

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The only thing it's like I'd really find them was like Etsy

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I looked at some other play, but they don't look the same and I just want them to match

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I know I know why they'll match for you. Yes, that'll get me through a little bit farther

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Maybe we'll do another one, but it won't say Rainmaker family in horror. Mm-hmm

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Well, if you find out where they get the maida, let me know

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Have to ask maybe Megan knows I'll have to ask her

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This seems like maybe something Tammy might have known to you probably did

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Say I didn't keep up with Tammy. I don't think

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But yeah, they're nice I'll bring this one for you. I'm it's later than saying I'm a printer for

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No, since off. Yeah since Colorado. So like

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Perfect and the only reason why I haven't used it is because I prefer a spiral bound

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Mm-hmm. I'm right. I can hold it back cuz I'm right on these pages. It's easy. Mm-hmm. Yeah

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Yeah, and I think typically I would if I was to keep it on my desk

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I think I would prefer a spiral bound, but because I'm like constantly throwing this in a bag to take

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To the dentist office or out of town or the beach wherever I'm like constantly going

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I think that not having that spiral on it helps. It's just easier to throw everywhere

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Well, I my plan today was to follow up on our conversation last week

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From just a little bit of gold. I feel like goal setting sounds so

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narrow even though that's what it was not that just what it is, but

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I'm trying to find my thread. I have nips on this

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Where did I put it in it? I don't know where I went

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Where where is my

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Um, where else I would have risen mine

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But remember writing them down and then but where did I write in

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Oh, here we go there is, okay

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And we left off on talking about habit

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Yeah, I remember we talked about things we need to stop doing

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But where did I write said things

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I make a note in my phone

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I read them back to you again. Would you have left it at the dentist office by chance?

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No, I was all last week. So I was sitting right at this spot. And sometimes I'll do

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like stuff like that. I'll do it in my phone if I don't have anything, but I was sitting right here.

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I'm just going to keep saying hi, Margot. Bye, Margot.

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Driving in my connection sucks.

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Every good Margot, I'm for not talking, you're being gone.

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I will share for Margot. She has, you said, four people for her workshop today, her fermentation

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workshop today, and five scheduled for Fridays. So that's a big win for Margot. And we're cheering

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her on for her. That's awesome. What's a fermentation workshop?

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How to make sour crow and kombucha? Oh, I love it. There's a lot of things you could do

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for fermentation because a lot of things are fermented. Yeah, I know it's like my sourdough,

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festive. Yeah, so it's in the same kind of stream as sourdough as far as it's a fermented food,

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but we're going to be talking, like those two are pretty basic places to start and talking

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about the benefits of fermentation and why people use it and how you can use it as a preservation

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method for food. I want to go to your workshop so badly. I know.

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Margot is coming to, she's coming into my workshop to talk to Milo homies.

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When I was telling them about her, they were all like, where's her workshop? I want to go. And I'm

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like, well, it's in Canada. So, by all means, go to said workshop, but.

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I will get something online at some point. I just need a minute to get it right.

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I actually really want to go in person. Like, that's really what I want to do. So, online would

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be great, but I also want to go experience it. Well, and that's why, because several of the

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two of the girls that are in my community, like they really want to do some type of lab events,

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but they're, I mean, very new, extremely brand new to business. And so, that's why I feel like

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her coming in and talking. Like, I think what she's doing will be doable for them. You know what I

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mean? Like, it won't sound like some far off idea. It'll sound like something they can actually like

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put together and handle. Well, where I want to build off of today is I want to circle back to

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the habit. So, I know Michael's trying to find her paper, but here's a note. If you remember,

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we ended last week with, what is the habit that we need to break? That's been, you know,

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probably the habit that got in the way in the last six to nine months. Mardo, I remember you

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talked about working, the thing that really got in the way. But not only do we need to break the

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habit, we also need to create a new habit. Like, what is the habit that needs to replace the bad

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one to achieve the goals that you have in the next two? To achieve the thing that what needs to

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happen in the next 90 days that would build towards the year-long lifelong goals. That's where I want to

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start. Michaela, I'm drawing a blank on what you said you're a bad, like, I'm a bad habit,

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habit that needs to break was. Do you remember by any chance? I'm pondering.

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I want to say, oh, was it multitasking? Probably. As I'm multitasking today, like,

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an idiot. No. I mean, that's, I mean, for sure, something for me. I mean, I would say that, yes.

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has gotten in the way?

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Why is it so compelling to do that habit?

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I think it's because for me, I mean, for multitasking, I mean, I feel like my brains

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run in 700 miles an hour at all times, and I think that, or at least I tell myself whether

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it's true or not, I don't know, but I like to tell myself that because I only have these

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like random little bursts of time to do things, right, because, I mean, I work 12 days a month,

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which is nothing, and I get a week off every third week.

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And so I feel like because I have all these things I want to do, whether it's like stuff

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I want to do around my house, my business, my husband's business, like whatever, I try

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to like pile it all in at one time.

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And I can, and also like the internet, like even today, like I was trying to, I was working

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on his website on lovable, but you know, like you send it the stuff and it loads.

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And I don't want it.

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I can't just sit there and watch it.

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So then I like jump over to another task, and then like circle back to lovable, and yeah.

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So I think it, yeah, I think my brain just.

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It's always like thinking about all the other things I have to do, you know?

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And so I will try to not give into the desire to swap, but it doesn't always work.

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Like even though like last week I was like, I was going to take a day and just like record

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content.

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And I did record a lot of content last week.

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But like the plan was record the content and then another day edit it.

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But like after I recorded the content, like I needed to edit it then, because I knew what

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sections to cut out and things like that, then because I've just done it.

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So I don't know, maybe I just have like an unrealistic expectation to think I could just

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record one thing after the other.

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But I mean a couple of them to depend.

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So like with the like lovable is a good example, that may not be multitasking, like you could

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be working in the same lane, right, of your business or task thing.

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And it's like, all right, got to load that.

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There's another still very closely associated task that I need to do.

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So I'm just going to work on that versus working on a lovable over here.

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Just loading.

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Let me go try to record a clip really quick or let me go try like that is a little different

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and that tends to create the exhaustion and my one question with the recording content

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editing.

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I mean, did you, were you supposed to be doing something else after you recorded the content

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and then by editing, you like didn't do that thing?

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I was supposed to be recording more content.

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So the goal was to get as much recorded as possible and I didn't like fully edit it.

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Like I didn't like add text or anything like that, but I just like cut out the sections

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that were and maybe I just need to kind of plan for that in my mind, like record it and

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clip it down and then move on to the next one.

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But I just had a really hard time moving on to the next video when that one felt so incomplete,

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I guess.

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I think there's room.

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It could be you adjust the expectations in it or you create like a note taking system.

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We're like, all right, now I'm not going to forget where things need to be clipped.

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I would have the same issue to be fair, like, I'm going to forget and it's going to take

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time to go back and watch and figure out where clips later on.

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Yeah, I am getting faster at it.

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So that's good.

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I did because I just randomly decided to do one on Sunday morning and I did not have time

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to record a talking head reel on Sunday morning.

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And I literally had the period of like maybe five minutes total to record, edit, put words

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and everything, sound effects, whatever, and post it and somehow it happened.

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- Yeah, I'm kidding.

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- Yeah.

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But if you want to circle back to the habit that you need to breathe

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I can yeah, I think I think last week. I might have said my job

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Like my nine to five job, but I also think

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another one for me is just like

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Doubting myself

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Mm-hmm

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Kind of ends up in a spiral of like I can't do this or like why am I even trying sometimes

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What I do when I feel that way is like I'll just change channels and do something else

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Like when I had my nine to five, I would just be like I have to focus on my job because that's the priority

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and I could you know put my business on the back burner and

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Then same with like my kids or my house or whatever like I would if I was feeling overwhelmed

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And I was feeling like I can't do this or I was doubting that I would be successful

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I would just put it aside and work on some things that I

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Would pretend in my head was more important

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So I think that's another thing and getting rid of the job

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even if it's temporary

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Has removed a big chunk of responsibility from my life. So there is time and I don't really have that excuse anymore

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And then as far as like building a new habit. I'm

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Trying to

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Like I'm also bad for like jumping from thing to thing and like

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multitasking

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Like crazy, but I'm trying really hard not to do that

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I'm kind of multitasking right now because I'm driving

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to a store to get some supplies that I need for this afternoon and

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On this call, but I figured I could maybe join in for part of the call at least

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while I was driving

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I was driving always feels like a waste of time for me because I'm like I'm just sitting in the car doing nothing

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Yep, I'm the same way

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For the when you're talking a minute ago about like probably one of the things that comes up is like the doubt or

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like overwhelmed slash doubt will call it and

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that is

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Uncomfortable and so it sounds like to escape that discomfort you jump to a different task that can feel more

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Accomplishing or maybe rewarding or just easier feels good for whatever reason

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So what do you say for you a habit that you might want to create is

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practicing

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tolerating that

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discomfort of

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Doubt and overwhelm and sitting in those moments. Maybe a little bit longer than you've been doing and

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This is one of those this is a hard one because this is like the whole like slow down to speed up kind of concept

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It is yeah slow down in your mental emotional health

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To process tolerate build up the resiliency to this comfort in order to

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Men speed up and because you see it up by having in this case

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You know less of those moments of overwhelmed out that kind of disrupt your overall progress. Does that make sense?

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Mm-hmm. Yeah, and I think that that kind of

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So I've been really focusing on like

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My schedule and my timeline like you and I talked about and then also

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Like focusing on one task at a time

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So like making kind of a schedule making myself a to-do list

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But then like choosing the one task that's the most relevant and getting it done or the most like I have to do it today because of XYZ

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And I think in doing that I

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Removed some of the overwhelm

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Because I have a plan like when I hit Monday, I'm like I need to do this this and this today in order for the next

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Couple of days to go the way they're supposed to go. So it's like I got rid of the like

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9 to 5 that was filling my 9 to 5 basically

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Yeah, and I've now I filled it with lots of other activities and actions and work that needs to be done

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related to my business or my home or my kids but because

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It's like there's like a plan. I guess I'm not experiencing that same level of doubt or overwhelm

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that I was and

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I'm seeing

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Like people are registering for my workshops people are like I almost sold out of my arm stand product system

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I did like a bread flight.

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It was like three different flavors

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of like mini breads for the season.

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And they sold out really fast.

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So there's just like, I'm getting all of this feedback

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that like people want what I'm offering.

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And I just need to like stick to my plan, get the things done,

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and then like execute the thing, the workshop, whatever,

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in a way that they're going to have a good experience

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and want to come back or share with friends or whatever.

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So yeah, I think that's great.

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That's awesome.

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As far as to follow up on the time thing,

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how has it been going with or like if you remember

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we did the kind of like rating and grading it

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on your energy, like how much energy you take?

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Has that been helpful?

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Yeah.

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Yeah, because so I had the yoga and oils retreat

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that I did on Sunday.

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And we had five people that came, which was a nice size.

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The max we can fit is eight in my house.

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But those are so energy consuming.

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And so as I was looking at my like on Sunday evening

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after everybody left, I was like, I'm going to clean up.

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And then I'm going to rest for the evening.

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But I was like, also I need to rest tomorrow like Monday

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because I'm still going to be tired.

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So like what do I absolutely have to get done on Monday?

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And then what can I do Tuesday, whatever, whatever.

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So I took like a critical look at like how much energy

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does this require?

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And when does like when's the deadline for it?

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And I shifted some things around, which is why I originally

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wasn't going to join today's call because I was like,

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I'm probably going to be prepping for the workshop.

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But the drive kind of allowed me a little bit of extra time.

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No.

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So yeah, so it's been helpful.

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Good.

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Good, I'm glad.

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And then for both of you, I'm curious if you could also

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remind me if you remember what like what's the 90-day goal?

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Like what's this quarter for goal that is like a stepping

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stone to the year long goal, life on goal, whatever.

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Like what's the thing that needs to happen in the next 90 days?

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Mine is to get my book, my like immune support book published.

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OK.

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Michaela, do you remember yours?

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I don't remember what I put last week,

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but I would say my goal is I would say my goal

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is to using the content that I'm creating,

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figure out what it is that my audience wants me to build,

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and then build it, or share what I've already built.

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Because since I'm hoping that one of those things ends up

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being what they need.

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But I've kind of had like the expectation in my mind

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that like by the time I come to San Diego,

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like I know what I need to focus on.

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You know, I'm hoping that I get enough engagement and responses

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and things like that, that I know like what the thing is

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that I need to focus on, so.

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Yeah.

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So the challenge for you guys, October starts next week.

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OK, so anybody else is surprised by it like I am.

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This is your announcement, but it's next week, quarter four.

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And the challenge is to make some progress on this goal.

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So for you, Michaela, it might be what do you need to do?

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Like what can you do in the next week or two

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to gather that information?

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You know what I mean, to do some like market analysis,

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essentially, and some planning from that.

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And then for you, Mario, it's like, OK, like what can you

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do to start on this book, or like finish this book,

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or where does it need to start taking off?

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And plugging that into your every week.

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And I know you guys know that this is just

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like a really good reminder of--

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you have to start prioritizing it now.

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Otherwise, it's not going to happen, you know,

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by the end of quarter four.

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And it's going to be pushed back more and more.

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And if you remember one of the questions from last week,

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I think we went over it was like, what's the goal that kind

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of has gone from year to year, like unfinished year to year?

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And so the whole idea is to hopefully

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stop that cycle of something getting pushed year to year to year.

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Like, Mario, I think for you, like wanting

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to like leave your nine to five job permanently,

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and not just temporarily, it's probably one of your like--

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what needs to change our life and ourself to make those things a reality. So that's the homework,

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is basically scheduling your new habits and new activity to promote that 90-day goal.

486
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Everyone game for it, feeling good? Yeah. Yeah. I gotta get my two workshops done this week.

487
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Let it all have more space in my brain. Even after tonight's is done,

488
00:35:40.240 --> 00:35:48.080
all of the prep for Thursday will also be done. So yeah, it'll be easier. Yeah.

489
00:35:48.080 --> 00:35:55.040
And just remember too, like the whole idea is not to be just more busy. It's also like to remove

490
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the things that are in the way or taking up too much time or just not like aligned right now.

491
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They might be for later. So be open-minded with your schedule.

492
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Because you're both little busy bees who like to be busy.

493
00:36:13.040 --> 00:36:23.760
This is correct. Whereas I am like, please, everyone take all the things off my plate.

494
00:36:23.760 --> 00:36:29.680
I'll happily just lay here and do that. Well, you know, it's funny because like

495
00:36:29.680 --> 00:36:36.480
before I ever saw a rainmaker add and decided to change my life,

496
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I would literally like my week's off. I would literally plan like, okay, on Monday,

497
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I'm going to get all the things done so that on Tuesday, I can sit and become one with my couch.

498
00:36:51.520 --> 00:36:56.800
Or like I usually would at least take like one day and like go spend the day with my parents.

499
00:36:56.800 --> 00:37:05.520
Like we would like go shopping or whatever. And I don't, like I can't do that anymore.

500
00:37:05.520 --> 00:37:12.720
My mind doesn't allow it. So like the not this not last week, but the last time I was off,

501
00:37:12.720 --> 00:37:18.160
like my mom, we went shopping and it was like, she was like, this was so nice. Like we haven't done

502
00:37:18.160 --> 00:37:24.000
this in forever, like quite literally in three years since you decided to start your business.

503
00:37:24.000 --> 00:37:28.880
Oh, what happened?

504
00:37:28.880 --> 00:37:36.880
Called the bug. Yeah, but you can also schedule those days into, maybe not for every week,

505
00:37:36.880 --> 00:37:42.240
but you can have them. Yeah, yeah, there's definitely something to add as a priority for sure.

506
00:37:45.280 --> 00:37:49.680
All right, ladies. Well, I'm going to add today's a little early. I think everyone has their

507
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assignments. Is there any lingering thoughts or questions before we hop off?

508
00:37:54.320 --> 00:38:03.600
Did you send that email to everybody about the survey? Because I thought I submitted the survey,

509
00:38:03.600 --> 00:38:08.720
but maybe I didn't. Yes, I did send it to everybody and no, you did not because I don't see a response

510
00:38:08.720 --> 00:38:14.800
there. Oh, thank you for reminding me. Yeah, well, I saw it and I was like, I swear I did that.

511
00:38:14.800 --> 00:38:18.720
Maybe I started and didn't finish it. I don't know. I'll pull it up and look at it again then.

512
00:38:18.720 --> 00:38:20.880
Yeah, it's really fast, but I like to question.

513
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And then we'll have another one going out for food stuff. That's like the end of the week or whatever.

514
00:38:30.640 --> 00:38:37.360
Sometimes it's cool. All right, ladies. Well, I will see you on our calls or see you next week. Okay.

515
00:38:37.360 --> 00:38:39.760
Okay. All right.

516
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- Thank you.

517
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- Bye. - Bye.
