And good morning, good morning for those of you that are listening in morning, some of
you are on all time zones everywhere.
Welcome, welcome to the Prosper Leader membership call.
I'm super excited.
And those of you that are listening live, this is a really powerful season.
One of the reasons, one of the goals and the heart behind the Prosper Leader membership
is to each month, not only gather together, not only fellowship, not only grow, not only
pray, not only share connections and community, but to hold you accountable to your goals.
Many people have their goals front of mind, you know, new year's resolutions, but we know
by this time halfway into the year, it's easy to get into routines, to forget those goals,
to not have any accountability, any tools and resources to get those goals.
And so today, because we are mid year, we're going to come back around.
We're going to take a fresh look at them.
And so this is your chance to make mid course adjustments, right?
It's like when you look at the if you've got a rocket going to the moon, it's never a straight
shot to the moon.
It's constant corrections.
It deviates a little bit and you get yourself right back on track and it deviates just a
little bit and you get yourself right back on track.
So today is that.
It's about you getting back on track with the goals, dreams and desires that God has
put in your heart.
And it's about sisters praying for each other and us really, really all linking arms, crossing
that finish line, whatever that is for you, that God has given you on your divine course.
So I'm going to open with prayer and then we're going to be working on a worksheet.
We're going to do this together.
Some of it you're going to you've got it already in your portal.
And so you're going to be able to go back and complete it and go even further because
we have not enough time to go the length I'd love to go with this.
I could spend the morning workshop on this, but at least we're going to get your mind
back on it, get you fine tuned, pointed in the right direction.
So with that, let's start with some prayer.
Oh, Father, I just thank you.
I thank you for the gift of life.
You chose for us to wake up this morning.
You chose to put breath in our lungs, to have our heart beat and to allow us another day,
another moment, and to allow us to come together as women that love you and love each other.
And so we just invite the awareness of your presence.
You've promised you never leave us, you never forsake us.
In fact, you've promised that you live in us, that we are the temples of your Holy Spirit,
that we have the mind of Christ, that we have power and authority.
So Lord, I ask that every single woman that is here together, gathered individually and
as a collective, as your body, we ask together, Lord, whatever needs to be said today, it'll
be said.
Whatever needs to be remembered today will be remembered.
Whatever needs to be chosen or decided today will be done.
Whatever needs to be awakened or refreshed, whatever needs to be healed, I ask for total
spirit, soul, and body healing.
I'm asking that every single woman in the Prosper Leader membership will prosper in
every area of her life, mentally, physically, emotionally, spiritually.
You've called us to prosper in all things and be in health, even as our soul, our mind,
will, and emotions prospers.
Lord, I ask that you bring our mind into alignment, that you renew our mind.
We're transformed by the renewing of our mind.
I ask that you renew our mind today.
I ask that the words of our mouth and the meditations of our heart will be pleasing
in your sight.
I ask that you strengthen every one of us, listening live and listening to the recording,
that you strengthen us with might in our inner woman.
I ask that we will be aware of how great is your love for us.
How high, how wide, how deep is your love for us?
We give thanks, in Jesus' name, amen.
Well, welcome, welcome, welcome.
Thank you for going through.
I know many of you are on your way to many, many, many things,
and you're still choosing to be here.
So, yay. I am going to share the screen now.
Those of you that are new, I'm just going to remind you,
there's a couple places that you're going,
and I know that can be confusing.
You are all in my coaching portal.
My coaching portal, that's where all my coaching clients are.
It's where I email you from.
It's where I deliver worksheets,
and they're interactive worksheets
so that you can go in and complete them,
and I see them, and I comment,
and it allows me to keep resources coming to you.
And that's, of course, all of you are in that.
And then, as Prosper Leader members,
you all have full access to membership.prosperandallthings.com,
the Prosper membership site.
That is where lots and lots of goodies are there for you,
and there's fresh things being added.
By the way, some of you had asked that I put on there
the four agreements Bible study.
There's a 12-week Bible study.
I've started getting that up there,
so your requests, we're making it happen.
The God, Health, and Me five-day course is now live on there,
so you also can find that.
So if you're new and you haven't familiarized yourself
with the Prosper membership site, go in there,
have some fun.
As a Prosper Leader member,
you have full access to everything on the site,
plus free access when I do live workshops,
like we had two great ones last month.
That's also up there, learning about copywriting,
learning about lead generation,
so sharing resources with you.
There's little short things like Prosper Inspiration.
If you just want to be inspired and you want to go in there
for five minutes, 10 minutes,
just get your mind in a good place.
And then there's, you know, if you want to do a binge,
the Prosper membership site is really,
I call it an NFlix, so there's no trademark issues.
It's an NFlix of faith-based personal development.
Everything in there is faith-based.
It's all based on scripture, and it's all science-backed.
You know me, I love combining brain science,
quantum physics, scripture.
So lots of stuff.
If you're brand new, I recommend you start
with the Manifest Love, Health, and Prosperity course
or the Jumpstart.
That's a really great thing to start.
It's five days, so you can go in
and do a little bit every day and get your feet wet.
But the point is, get in the habit of going in there
and renewing your mind.
You're transformed by the renewing of your mind,
and I am always adding resources.
So I desire this to be the world's greatest.
Yeah, let's just go for the world, not just America,
but the world's greatest membership site.
And you know why?
Because you're in here, and people always
comment after they join, what an amazing group of women.
So that's God.
So glad you're here.
OK, I'm going to share the screen,
and here is what we are working on today.
And well, I did have it up.
Where did it go?
There it is.
OK, so again, it really doesn't matter where you are.
It's so easy as women to think that you're behind
or you're not enough or whatever.
It doesn't matter what you have or you haven't achieved,
because as I remind you all the time, the past is gone.
That means even five minutes ago, the past is gone.
You can't do anything about it.
You can harvest blessings from it.
You can go back and you can say, what
was the blessings of my past?
What was the lessons?
You can glean and harvest.
But beyond that, you must be willing to release it,
not keep dragging it into your now,
because you can't change it.
It doesn't exist.
It's only a memory cell.
It doesn't exist.
So to keep going back to the past is an effort in futility.
And so it doesn't matter what happened
the first half of the year, other than just
glean the blessings that you can thank the Lord.
or glean the lessons.
What did you learn from it?
How can you improve?
And then move on and get in the divine now, right here.
This is where God is.
This is where miracles happen.
This is where you have your God-given power of choice
to do things differently.
So we're not beating ourselves up.
We're not in guilt or shame or regret.
And if you had a fantastic six months,
hey, we celebrate with you,
but it doesn't matter, you're here now.
This is the time to recalibrate.
This is the time to evaluate and look at it,
at where you are.
So the first thing you're going to do,
and you have this template in your portal.
It'll be under worksheets.
You can go in and start working on it.
I gave some extra days for it
so you could work on it a little bit every time.
And so you also can print these out.
There's always a little printer button on the bottom right.
It'll save it as a PDF to your computer
and you can print these out.
So you're going to start with celebrating your wins.
I don't know how many of you ladies,
it's so easy to focus on what's wrong,
what's incomplete, what you didn't do,
what you're missing, what you're lacking.
This leads to discouragement and frustration.
So it's really important
to have a regular practice of gratitude.
And okay, if you didn't make the big wins
that you wanted to be where you are,
start with micro wins.
What things did you do?
What are some little micro wins?
And so this is going to be your place.
You're going to write them down.
You all know also that you have a daily
and you can go into in your Prosper members,
not the membership site, the coaching portal under files,
you can go into files and you could go,
it's at the very bottom.
I think it's called the updated Prosper daily plan,
updated Prosper daily plan.
So you can go in there and get that file
and also open it up, download it to your computer,
print it out.
That is what I operate on every single day.
I fill this out first thing every morning.
This will keep you on track.
And so of course the top part really has to do
with your morning routine, your morning spiritual practice.
It's got a place where every day
you can write down your mission,
how you serve, your mark, your goal and your method,
how you're going to get there.
It also has you break it down into 20 minute chunks,
what you will do.
And so you can go study that.
I've talked about that before,
but there's a place right at the top
to write your wins every day.
There's a place to write two wins every single morning.
So keep in your mind celebrating what's working.
So right now, just take your pen on your journal
and then you can go in and complete this.
I want you to think about for this six months,
what are one, two, three, five wins?
What has happened so far this year?
Write it down.
Let's celebrate it.
And if you want, you can pop it into the chat as well
and I'll recognize it there as well.
So what were your wins?
What were your wins?
Did you make a bold move?
Did you start something?
Have you been creating a new habit?
Is there something that you've introduced a new habit?
Have you made some changes in your health?
Have you made some changes in your spiritual life?
Have you started a morning spiritual practice?
What are the wins?
Write them down.
I celebrate with you.
I congratulate with you.
Write down three, four, five.
It's so important, ladies, to celebrate yourself.
It's a way of honoring God
to do it with an attitude of praise.
When we celebrate wins, we're thanking God
that he gave us the ability, that he gave us life,
that he gave us the power, that he gave us the ideas,
that he gave us the mind, that he gave us the creativity.
So we're celebrating who God made you to be,
what God's doing in your life.
Some of you started new Facebook groups, I saw.
Some of you have started new businesses.
Some of you have gotten re-involved.
You got off course from the pandemic
and you've got-
I'm back, re-involved, re-involved.
So I want to just congratulate you.
And I just want to congratulate Renee
on continuing to develop her apps.
She wrote in here, she got clarity.
She's launching a podcast.
Oh, and she hired Caroline for lead generation
after last call.
And I saw her little grandson arrived.
So lots of things celebrating there.
And this one just says user.
So I can't tell who it is.
Maybe pop your name in there.
But getting closer to launching your life coaching business,
I celebrate with you.
So you've taken some steps to get there.
And Natalie, woo, sprint triathlon.
Go girl.
OK.
So some of you, you can keep putting your wins in there
as we go.
I'll try to notice it and recognize it.
Congratulations.
And so this is the place that we really walk in gratitude.
And so take the time.
Take the time to really focus on what's working.
Remember, you can write this down.
If you haven't heard me say it 1,000 times,
I'll say it 1,001.
What you focus on expands.
So if you want more of something, think about it.
Talk about it.
Meditate on it.
Like where you're putting energy flows where the attention goes.
So be sure you guys are muting yourself.
I'm hearing some background noise.
Might be you, Gail.
And so remember, whatever you focus on expands.
So if you want more of it, so if you're
focusing on what's broken, what's missing, what's lacking,
you're going to get more focusing on that.
This is why we replace the word want with desire.
Because want, the word want means extreme lack.
That's why David said, the Lord is my shepherd.
I shall not want.
Want means extreme lack.
So if you keep saying, oh, I just want, I really want,
you're keeping it away from yourself
because you're really saying, I don't have it.
I lack it.
So remember, if we're focusing on what's working,
on what we have, on what the blessing is,
and so this is going to be a place for you to list,
what are some people that you're really grateful for?
What are some opportunities that have happened?
What are some open doors?
What are some unexpected things that God has done?
Unexpected, to not take those for granted.
A couple of days ago, I arrived to go to my niece's graduation.
And this is how, when you just continuously are reminded
who you are in Christ, and you're
reminded Romans 8, 28, that every single thing is
working together for your good, then
you stop focusing on what's broken and not working,
and you focus on what's working.
So it takes us four hours to get there.
The line is crazy.
We're trying to get in.
And my niece was supposed to have left the tickets there
at the gate.
And we get to the gate, and the security woman says,
we don't hold envelopes.
There's nothing here.
No, we don't have that.
If you don't have a ticket, I'm showing a picture of the ticket
she sent me.
No, we can't use that.
And I'm like, what's possible, Lord?
And I'm standing there, and I said,
these are the picture of the tickets.
And beautiful, the security guard,
this beautiful Black woman that is the security guard,
to keep us from being there, she says,
you know what I'm going to do?
I'm going to give you two of my tickets.
I've got two extra tickets.
And she hands me through the tickets.
And we walked in.
Blessings, blessings.
You've got to recognize those.
Thank God.
Talk about it.
Tell the stories what God is doing,
because what you focus on, there's more.
OK, now your next step, and you may have done this already,
is to pull out your goals that you started.
If you put them in writing, you know the Harvard study
that if it's in writing, you had way more chance
when they saw them, five years, 10 years, 15.
Those who put their goals in writing
had like 80% chance more of getting the goals.
So dig them up, have them in writing.
And so you look at what you had planned in January,
and is it still relevant?
Are the goals still relevant, or did some things change?
Our world's changing.
a lot right now. And so maybe some things you decided, you know, that's not as important.
Maybe you got a little health scare and you were really focusing on something monetary,
and you're like, you know what? Without my health, I can't do anything. I'm going to adjust.
Now, top priority is going to be health. I'm going to go in the prosper membership. I'm going to
listen to God, health, and me, manifest love, health, and prosperity. I'm going to make changes,
whatever it is. Are they still relevant or do you need to tweak them? And the other thing is you're
going to make sure that your goals are not vague. Okay. I'm coaching all day. And a lot of times
the goals are so vague, you know, I want more money. Okay. Well, here's a penny. Now you got
more money. Congratulations. Right? I want more clients. Okay. So if you get one client this year,
did you reach your goals? Right? So they need to be really specific. I just want to be happier.
Okay. One question you can ask is how will you know, if you've gotten this goal, how will you
know? It needs to be specific. It needs to be measurable. It needs to be achievable that you
believe in your mind, you can do it. And you're willing to commit. It needs to be relevant. It needs
to be important to you. And it needs to be based on time, have a certain date by September 30th,
by December. Okay. And so you're going to have very smart goals, and then you're going to turn
them into a positive affirmation that you can speak all the time. This can be on your lips.
Now, if you've done the jumpstart, the manifest love, health, and prosperity, you know that I
talk about the biblical mind, heart, mouth connection that God has given us. So it's the
thoughts that we think. And when you add the feeling, because it's not empty, our feelings,
it's amazing what we know with science now, right? Our feelings release a cascade of hormones known
as neuropeptides that go specifically through your body. Okay. And so they're changing your
literal body. And we know that the heart releases electromagnetic energy many, many, many feet out.
So when you are holding a feeling, this is why it's so important to choose high frequency,
choose, use your God-given choice to choose high frequency. So if you're finding yourself
in a low frequency, if your set point has been more toward the hum drum, I don't know, I'm
depressed. If you're tending there, you have to be aware and do those things to begin
changing that. Turn on a praise record and get your praise on, exercise, turn on music that you
love and dance, go out in nature, put your hands in the dirt, like do things to change your
frequency. Okay. So you're going to turn it into a positive affirmation. You're going to activate,
you're going to have the thought, you're going to feel in the feeling and you're going to speak it
and you want to make it in a present tense. So you're going to put yourself as if you're
already there. So for example, if your goal was to release 40 pounds by December 31st,
every day, many times a day, you're like, I am so excited. I have released 40 pounds. And you just
feel, my goodness, I feel so excited. I feel so proud. I feel so much lighter. I have so much
energy. I feel it. Right. Or, or maybe your goal was to write a book and you're like, oh, it's
September 30th. And I have already written seven chapters. How good it feels to have it done.
How good it is that I put it on my calendar and I've been doing it every day. And I love the
feeling and I love just looking at it and knowing and tweaking. And as you see, you get into
the specifics and the feeling tonality. And then of course, this is one of the most powerful
questions you can ask. Who do I need? Who, or what do I need to be to achieve this?
Uh, I need to be more disciplined. I need to be more consistent. I need to be more outgoing. I
need to be a stronger leader. I need to whatever. Okay. And, and so who do you need to be? And so
you're activating your mind, heart, mouth connection, and you're really tapping.
being in to the feeling. Here's the thing. There's a scripture,
I believe it's Mark 11. I don't I forgot to write down I believe
it's Mark 1124. But there's a scripture and it says this. It
says, whatever, or King James whatsoever. Okay, this is like
so inclusive, whatsoever. You desire. When you pray, believe,
or the Amplified translation says, have confident trust. The
original word for that believe is like lean your whole weight
like you're leaning against a wall. If I was teaching this
live, I would put my whole weight onto a wall to show you
what I mean. This is not mental belief. This is confident
trust. So whatsoever you desire when you pray, believe, believe
what that you have received. In other words, it's already a done
deal. And then you shall have it. This is a really powerful
biblical principle. Let me tell you that even the strongest of
Christians, so many women pray from a place of lack, not a
place of having this not a place of, you know what, God lives in
me all of his promises, all of his word is true. And I'm the
temple of the Holy Spirit. And he's already given me his
promises. And I'm already rich, because scripture says that
Christ in me is the hope of glory, that I'm the temple of
the Holy Spirit, that I have the mind of Christ, that I have
power that I have authority. So I want you to think about this
for a moment, if Christ is in me, you see, throughout all
history, the early Christians understood this, we've lost
this, they had an understanding of all sufficiency, that means
all sufficiency, having all lacking nothing, that is God in
you, that is Christ in you, the hope of glory, that is the Holy
Spirit in you, that is the mind of Christ in you. It's all
sufficient, it lacks nothing. So the key to you achieving this is
to not come from a place of lack. Oh, if only I wish I want
I want I want, which is keeping it from you. I don't have it.
I'm focusing how much I lack how much I don't have it. And by
that you're reinforcing lack. But when you're coming from a
place of having this, that's where gratitude comes in. That's
where praise comes in. That's where celebration, that's where
activating the flow, giving, activating the flow, right?
Because life is about flow. I breathe in and I breathe out, I
give and I receive. It's about activating the flow from a place
of having this. And so this verse is saying, whatever you
desire, that means you got to be clear on your desires. If you
haven't done the tournament of desires yet, that's also in your
files in your worksheets. You got to be clear what it is you
desire, the death of the sire of the father. So what is it? What
are the desires of your heart because scripture says he will
give you the desires of your heart, but you got to know what
your desires are. So whatever you desire when you pray, when
you pray, you're going to pray a prayer of having this, you're
going to pray a prayer of gratitude, believing that you've
already received it. Now, top secret, I can give you, you
start living as if it's already done. Some of you know that I
had not done much to my house. And one of the changes I made
this year is I really want to live I desire a house that I
just love every room. I just I just love the way I feel. It's a
place that just reflects the glory of God and the presence of
God and the peace of God. And so I began making shifts. I began
to say if this was the house, the room, the whatever that I I
absolutely love that represents the glory of God, the peace of
God, the abundance of God. What would it look like? And do you
know that I just continuously began making changes. And many
you know, God's put on my heart to have retreat centers on three
continents. And you know that I've led retreats for 30 years,
and it's just it's just my passion to have prosper
retreats where women come and get completely transformed. It's
just a big passion of mine. And yet, you know, COVID happened,
and I haven't gotten to Belize and I haven't purchased the
land, it just hasn't happened yet. And I thought, you know
what, this principle, I've got to live as if it's already done.
Do you know what I do in my house? If this is a prosper
retreat, what would it look like? What would it feel like?
What would it smell like? How would it be? What would what
music would be playing? What smells would be going through
the air? What? What colors would be used? What artwork would be
there? What? You see, you're all ready. So if you are already
whatever it is, some of you said, I'm about to start my
life coaching. All right, I'm already a successful life coach.
What do I think about how when I get up in the morning? How? How
do I start my day as a successful life coach? What
comes out of my mouth? What is my schedule look like? What do
I read? What do I tell people? What do I experience? Do you
understand? This is both a prayer and a principle. Whatever
whatsoever, you get to pick your choosing this whatsoever
you desire, when you pray, believe you have received it,
and you shall have it. So clear desires in writing gratitude
from a place of happiness, and then you break it into a plan.
It's on your calendar. And so now you're imagining you're
already living it, you're going to do these exercises, be as
creative as you can. Now we get really practical. And it's like,
okay, think about your next right action. You're going to
get to your goals, one right action at a time. I've never
forgotten when Oprah said that she says the way I got
everything all the way to the television shows to everything.
She says, I always ask myself, what's my next right action?
Most of you know, my favorite question in the morning is, what
is the single most important action I can take today? I'm not
in the past. I'm not in the future. I'm right here right
now today. What's the single most important action I can take
today to advance in the direction of my goals, dreams
and desires? So what's your next step? What's your next three
steps? And you're going to actually draw out a timeline.
We're going through from now through December 31. You got six
months to do this. What will it look like at the halfway mark?
When we're having this conversation? At the halfway
mark, right? And then break that up. If I need to be here at the
halfway mark, what needs to be done next month? What needs to
be done this month? And so you've got these markers,
breaking it down to tangible, many things. And by the way, if
you're good at doing this hats off to you. If you're not, if
you have not developed the discipline, the character of
success, create some outer structure. I was talking to
someone yesterday, and he could set goals till the cows come
home, but he doesn't do it. It doesn't get done. He can write
it on his calendar, and he doesn't do it. And so I said,
create an external type of thing to keep you on track. And
so I think he was removing some construction stuff. And so you
know what, call and set the appointment for the dump guy,
the truck to be there, set your set yourself in an artificial
situation. I mean, you create a deadline. So that puts some
pressure on yourself. So I need to have this done by, you know,
seven days, okay, the truck's gonna arrive. Or, you know, you
need to get your book to the proofreader by or you need to
bet, put some outside accountability, and you can ask
me to hold you accountable. Pull accountability sister here out
of this group. So, so create that situation. I'm going to
remind you something we started the year with, and now we're
going to have some some time together.
So, remember, do not allow the circumstances of life to control your circumstances.
Ladies, I think there's a good chance, if what I'm picking up in my spirit, there's still some fun to happen in our country and in our world.
There may be more things that come, be it sicknesses, be it economic constraints, be it food shortages, be it blackout, whatever, stuff is going to happen.
But circumstances don't define you. So I want you to write something down. When we started this membership I shared with you, God gave me these words when I started this membership.
When things look like they're contracting, when your bank account looks like it's contracting, when your clients look like they're contracting, something looks like it's contracting, expand.
Give more.
Play harder.
You think bigger.
In the middle of the pandemic, I said let's have a television show. In the middle of the pandemic, this membership site started. My website started. Expand in the face of contraction.
Minimalize what you're listening to with news. Minimalize your thoughts around fear and lack, because whatever you focus on, expand.
You focus on expanding. How can I add more value? How can I give more? How can I serve more, Lord? How can more life flow through me?
Life, God, is not withholding. This is from my coach. It's the most beautiful thing. Life is not withholding from you.
You are withholding from life.
How much of you are you going to allow to show up? How much of you are you going to allow to serve? How much of you are you going to allow to create?
How much of you are you going to show up? How much flow are you going to activate? Go back and listen to Jumpstart about activating flow.
Life is about flow. How much flow are you going to allow? How much of you in this next six months, no matter what the world does, you know what?
There's going to be tribulations. There's going to be trials, but the God in you is still powerful.
The God in you is still all sufficient. The God in you is still miracle working. You get to be the light of the world.
That's what scripture says. You get to shine when others dim. You get to be power when others are afraid.
This is the season. This is now. So do this work on your goals. Set yourself up for where we're going here.
Come from this place of having this activate the flow. Believe it's already done. Live from that place of gratitude that it's already done.
And as the scripture says, you shall have it.
All right, I'm going to stop.