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All right, welcome, welcome, welcome, prosper, ladies, welcome to the first day, well, we're

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a couple days into it, but welcome to the second half of 2022.

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Who is ready to completely rock it this year, to finish this year so strong?

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You know, if you're ready, me too, me too.

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And isn't it fun that we get to do this the first Tuesday of every morning of each month

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to really just get us started?

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And that's the goal of today.

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We have, of course, the first Tuesday of the month is to really kickstart our month.

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And I've got some fun exercises for you.

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I also put into your portal, I sent it just a little while ago, I sent the template, the

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worksheet to be working on.

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And it's really a continuation of what we started last month, which is getting so clear

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on our goals and visions.

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And so I put some more things I'm going to go over today to just keep your mind on what

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really matters.

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And that's really the theme.

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You see, there's a lot of noise, you know, in addition to the firecrackers that many

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of us fell asleep to and woke up to, there's a lot of noise in the space.

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And so to really go forward, ladies, it requires a new kind of discipline.

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And it's a discipline of what we're allowing into our gates, right?

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What we're allowing ourselves to look at both with our external eye, what are you looking

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at?

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And with our internal eye, what are you looking at, right?

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And our ears, our ear gates, right?

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Because sensationalism sells, negative news sells, negative stories, sensational stories

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on social media sells, and it's designed purposely to pull you in, to suck you in.

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I'm curious, I've been really aware of this.

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Have any of you found yourself?

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Are you aware of your awareness?

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Have you found yourself looking at your phone or computer?

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Let me just let a couple people in here really quick.

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There we go.

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All right.

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Close that down.

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Good.

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All right.

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And welcome, Jenny, hopefully you're getting in.

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You guys have some new people to get to know.

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So have you found yourself on your phone or on your computer?

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Tell me if you've experienced this.

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And suddenly you just like, it's like you come out of a hypnosis.

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You realize you've been there longer than you thought.

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And it might be a minute, five minutes, 10 minutes, 30 minutes, but how's this happen?

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Is it just me?

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Or is this happened to any of you?

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Do you find yourself just sucked into the scroll?

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Let me see your hands.

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I'm going to look where I can see you all.

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Right.

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And so this is really, if you stop and look at it for a second, it's going unconscious.

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We're unconscious in that moment.

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Our mind is being pulled and driven.

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You're not in the driver's seat when that is happening.

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And so it is so important right now to have such as keen sense of awareness.

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And so as we go in to start the second half of the year, I'm going to start with prayer.

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We're going to do some exercises.

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You're going to have time to get together and have some community time, but I want to

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open with that thought of what are you giving your attention to?

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Now any of you that have had fun dabbling in quantum physics, which of course replaced

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the physics that most of us were taught in school, the Newtonian physics, the quantum

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physics teaches us something amazing about God, about life and about who you are.

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And what it teaches is that there's these infinite possibilities like the quantum field

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that we all live in this, this, this amazing soup, this, this spirit soup.

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substance soup, this life soup that we're in, this quantum space is like a million, million,

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million, million, million particles dancing all around you. All of them representing a

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different possibility. And when we give our attention, negative attention, focusing on

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what we lack, on what's missing, on what's broken, or positive attention, focusing on what we desire,

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our goals, right? We latch onto one of those possibilities. I see like, I don't know, in my

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sanctified imagination, it's like I see like a million balls or whatever, like those games,

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and it's like when we give our attention, either our attention, focusing, and this is why it's so

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important to be aware of what you're focusing on, aware of your awareness. This is what makes us

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different than all the creatures, all the animals, at least as far as we know from science, who knows,

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but what makes us different is called metacognition. We have the ability to think

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about our thinking. And what we give our attention to, what we focus on, literally collapses that

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possibility into form. It's dancing, wave, particle, boom, it collapses into form.

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And so moment by moment, by giving our attention, we're giving it life, we're bringing it into

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existence, we're making it real. And so I've got some exciting things we're going to work on this

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morning as we get ready for the second half of the year to truly place our attention and our

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intention in ways that are creative, that open possibilities, that allow you to step into the

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fullness of who God made you to be. See, I love, and those of you that have already started digging

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through the materials, I was congratulating Julie earlier. Man, she is just going through

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all the courses in there. It's so awesome. Congratulations. I see you. I see you.

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Congratulations. I'm watching you guys. I'm praying for you. I'm watching. I'm thinking

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about you. So in there, of course, is the manifest love, health, and prosperity. There's the five-day

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challenge. Then there's the 90-day challenge. And I'm adding some more to that to keep putting those

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up there for you. So there's always new content. Always be checking and seeing. There's always new

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content. And so the manifest love, health, and prosperity, the word manifest means manos, hands,

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to bring it into existence where you can touch it, where you can see it. And I like to say that

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this is the most gorgeous, beautiful, amazing part of how God made us to be able to experience that,

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to be able to know that he has given us the ability to control our thoughts, right? Scripture

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says take every thought captive. So we can't get lost in the scroll. We can't get sucked into

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the circumstances. What wants to pull at you is the circumstances.

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So we take every thought captive that we're directing. We're keeping our eyes fixed. We saw

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about Jesus that said his eyes were fixed like flint, right? We keep our eyes fixed

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on the high-frequency things, right? If you've heard the verse, whatsoever is lovely, whatsoever

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is beautiful, whatsoever, if there be any virtue, if there be any, fix your mind. You see, we want

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mind. You see, we must learn to fix our mind in the direction. You fix your mind. You have

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the ability as opposed to being sucked into all of these conversations and circumstances and

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focusing on what's broken and what's not working. So we've got the mind, the way that God made us,

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the mind, the heart, our feelings. We are electromagnetic beings. Our feelings,

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each one has a frequency. It vibrates. And these feelings are affecting our bodies,

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the state of our health. The frequency we're at is determining the state of our health.

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And we know that it radiates out many, many feet all around us, influencing our environment,

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influencing others.

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And so we've got our mind, we've got our heart to stay in very high frequency so you can

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feel yourself.

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You can tell if it feels heavy, if it feels heavy, you're in a dense, low frequency.

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You know, do you wait, you ever wake up that, that, that heaviness of the world, that, that

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downness.

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I felt it the other day, I woke up and there was this heaviness.

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You have to be proactive at that moment.

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So you can pray, you can worship, you can listen to the word, you can turn on great

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music, you can dance, you can go for a walk, you can move, you can raise your frequency.

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So you've got the mind, the heart, and finally the mouth, mind, heart, mouth connection,

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what you're speaking into existence, right?

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These are your God-given tools for manifesting as we go into the second half.

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So it starts, awareness is the first step, being aware.

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Make sure you guys mute yourself, I hear some, some noise.

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All right, let's start with prayer and we'll dive, we'll dive right in and we'll have some

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time to practice this.

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Oh, father, I just thank you.

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I give thanks for this day that you chose to give us another day of life, another opportunity

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to experience you in fresh ways.

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Lord, I'm asking for a fresh move of your spirit on every woman represented here and

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every woman that listens to the recording, a fresh move of your spirit to refresh, to

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revitalize, to awaken.

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You've said so many times, awaken, oh sleeper, Lord, wherever we've slumbered, wake us up.

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Lord, we come to you asking that this time right now, we'll be so aware, open our spiritual

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senses, we'll be so aware of your presence and of the possibilities that you've given

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us.

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We're alive, we're breathing, we can think thoughts, we can feel feelings, we can speak

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words and we can take action.

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You've given us the power of choice to choose our thoughts, to choose our attitude, to choose

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our words, to choose our actions.

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Lord, help us walk into the season consciously.

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We just invite the awareness of your presence right now.

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Wake us up, Lord.

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Speak to us.

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Let the words of our mouth, the meditations of our heart be pleasing in your sight.

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We give thanks in Jesus name, amen, amen.

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All right, I'm going to share a couple of thoughts and then I'm going to let you practice

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and get together with each other.

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Good morning to some of you that joined that I didn't get to say good morning yet and let

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me share the screen here real quick and find the course that I have.

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All right, so you should have gotten this in your portal and so again, welcome.

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This is part two, guys.

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If you love part one of this year, the first half of 2022, if you loved it, woohoo.

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We've had some amazing things happen celebrating with you, Renee, your beautiful grand baby.

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What a miracle, what a miracle story, right?

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So we've had some beautiful things happen.

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We've had some sad things happen.

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The beautiful thing is we're starting the second half of the year and we can do this

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consciously.

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We can do it deliberately and so you begin and you say, what level are you committed

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to playing at in this second half?

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Write down the number, tell yourself, are you committed to playing at a two, at a five?

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Are you absolutely committed to playing at a 10?

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Lord, here I am, full on, ready, commit.

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And then we're going to talk about activation and action.

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So start by being clear.

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Now be clear, especially with your number one.

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And for those of you that can multi-focus, maybe two or three, but the more you add,

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the less you're really able to give it the time, the intention, the attention.

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So what is for this second half of the year, I want you to write it down right now.

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The intention, is it your body and health?

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Is it to walk in a new level of health?

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Is it your business?

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Are you taking it to a new level?

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Is it a relationship?

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Is there some healing?

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Is there some investing in relationships?

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What do you search?

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What is it that is super important for the second half of the year that we come and we go through

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the summer and we come in and you know September is a really brilliant time. That's all the Jewish

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holidays. There'll be a new burst of energy September, October, November. You start kind of

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hitting into Thanksgiving by the end of November, winding down December very often. Then we got

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holidays and all kinds of busyness going on. So we hit December. What is it that has changed for

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you? What did you give your focus, your attention, your intention? This is what I'm talking about,

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being conscious, not being driven by the wind, not being driven by the news, not being driven

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by circumstances. And here's why. When you really understand how God does everything, we work from

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the inside out. Consciousness precedes form. Things are spirit first. They're thought form.

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The spirit hovered over the earth and then there was a word and then there was form. It works the

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same way for us. Everything you're seeing in form was already thoughts. What you're seeing in your

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life is a reflection of what you've been thinking about, meditating about, fretting about, goal-setting

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about. What you're seeing is a reflection of what was in you. The outer world is the reflection of

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the inner world. That's why Job said, that which I feared has come upon me. He was meditating. I've

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got all this stuff. What if I lose it? Like wealthy people often do. What if I lose it? What if I lose

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it? What if I lose it? He said, that which I feared has come upon me. That meditation, that consciousness

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precedes form. And so we're doing this with awareness, but power of the Holy Spirit. We're

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being deliberate. You see, you're either building your life by design, consciously awake, or by

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default. You're just letting your mind go wherever it goes, where the news takes you. What's the

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popular thing today? What's the thing to be afraid of today? What am I missing? What's broken? You're

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either by design or by default. That's why scripture says, fix your mind. Now here's an

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exercise I want you to do. So did you write something down? Give me a high five. Did you

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write something down? Are you clear? Yeah? Okay. Now here's what I want you to do. I want you to practice

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the five levels of why. Okay. So I'm going to ask you right now, you could just take quick notes,

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look at what that goal, what that intention is. And now why? Write down why.

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So for example, I want to lose 30 pounds. My goal is 30 pounds in the next 30 days. Why?

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So I can be healthier. So I can have more energy. Okay, write down your first why. I want to make

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more money. Why? I want to spend more time with my loved ones. Why? Write down that first level

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of why. Okay, when you got it, give me a snap. Did you write down the why? Give me a snap.

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Once you've written it, give me a snap. I'll wait for you guys. Okay. All right.

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All right. Second level of why. So I want to lose 30 pounds. Why? So I can feel better and

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have more energy. Why? Here's your second why. Take it to the next level. Why?

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Write down the second level of why.

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You got it? One more time. Let's do it again. Third level. Why?

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Why? Brenda, I have a question. Yes. Well, on the second why, should the why spin off the first?

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Yes. Yes. Yes. Yeah. So you start with the first one. I want to lose 30 pounds. Why? So I can have

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more energy. Why? So I can do more things. Why? So I can accomplish my goals. Why? You're going

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like that. Okay. Keep spinning. So I want you to do that five times. Five levels of why.

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Five levels.

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So take a look at me once you, once you have that, once you've got those five levels, kind

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of look back up at the camera, if I see you looking down, I'm assuming you're still working

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I want to give you a second to do that.

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Oh yeah, that's great.

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Give me a heart.

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Thank you, Renee.

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You can give me a heart when you're done.

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That's cool.

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You know, you guys know how to do that in the reaction section there?

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There's little hearts.

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There you go.

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Let's do it again.

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By the way, welcome Jenny.

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Everybody.

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We have two new members, Victoria and Jenny.

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So we've got to give them lots of love.

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It'd be fun to get to know them.

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It looks like I've got all your attention.

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Now, how many of you, and you can give me a thumbs up for a heart or something.

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When you got to the bottom, did you finally get to a feeling?

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Did you get to, so I can feel happy or so I can feel loved or I can feel secure?

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Did any of you get to a feeling by the time you got, if not, you want to keep going deeper

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until you hit that feeling.

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You keep asking why until, so I want to make more money.

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So I can pay my bills.

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So I can be debt-free.

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So I can feel safe and secure.

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So I can have a sense of security because the truth is none of us are really going after

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We're not really going after the weight loss.

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We're not really going after things.

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We're going after the feeling that it gives us.

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We want to feel love.

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We want to feel peace.

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We want to feel safety.

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We want to feel, so tap into that feeling.

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And when you've tapped into that feeling, what, what is the feeling you're really going

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Cause it's going to be really important exercise.

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It's going to take you to a new level.

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So give me a thumbs up or, or a heart or something.

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Okay, good.

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Natalie's gotten there.

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Um, unmute yourself, Natalie, what, what, what, what feeling did you come up with?

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Well, I actually started with a feeling and I ended with a feeling.

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Okay, good for you.

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All right.

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So you're already really in touch.

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That's that's awesome.

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So the ending feeling was joy.

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So all I want is just to feel a sense of joy, right?

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Brenda.

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I'd like to say mine would be to, um, to, to feel freedom.

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That's, that's a really common one.

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Freedom.

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So I can just feel free.

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Wonderful.

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So now here's what we're going to do.

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This is the really, really cool thing you, you describe in detail now that feeling.

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So, so what is that?

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What does that freedom feel like?

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What does that joy feel like?

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What is that?

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So you really tap into the tonality of that feeling.

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Now this is so big.

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This is like whole nother level of goal setting, right?

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Because most people stop with just the things I want to make more money.

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I want a new car.

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I want a husband.

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I want, you know, most people, I want to move into a house.

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We stop with the form, but what we're really going after is a state of being.

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That's always everything you're doing.

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You're going after a state of being it's that state of feeling love, of feeling secure,

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of feeling freedom, of feeling, and that, that is what you're really going for.

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Now here's where it gets super, super fun.

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You can do that now.

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So whatever that feeling is, you start asking yourself all day long.

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I want you to remember this feeling.

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So let's say that the feeling was love.

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If I was, this is going to be the exercise that you're going to do.

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That's really fun all day long.

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It'll change the way you do your life.

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I promise it'll change the way you do your life.

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So the question is, for example, love, if I really loved, okay, so you can go like this.

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If I really loved my body, I would, if I really loved my body, I would, and do that thing.

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Start living it now.

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Start living it now.

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And if I really loved my home, I would.

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If I, if I really loved my clients, I would.

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If I really loved my spouse, my significant other, I would.

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If I really loved this is like,

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if you start getting in the habit of doing this during the day,

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it'll change everything.

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I've completely like changed so much with this exercise.

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one of you said freedom, if I really was free,

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if I really have that sense of freedom, I would.

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If I was really free, I would.

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OK, or feeling successful.

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If I was really successful, I would now.

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Don't put it pie in the sky.

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If I was really successful, this is where you got to keep it right here.

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OK, not somewhere far in the future.

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or if I was very wealthy, I would.

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And people started putting all these pie in the sky things, right?

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I would eradicate homelessness.

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you know, that didn't have a parent.

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And so there was all these big things.

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It's that carrot way out there.

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OK, this is really important. Catch this.

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And I went back and responded to each one,

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so I would eradicate homelessness.

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Great. Go love on one homeless person right now.

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I would I would end, you know, foster foster kids.

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Great. Go go be a big brother and sister to one right now.

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You see, what we've got to do is pull it out of this nebulous.

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I can't do anything.

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Someday I'll do this to right here, right now.

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So you tap into that feeling you tap into.

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If I really had that feeling, what would I be doing?

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just in the last few days, and they had this big vision for running retreats.

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And I said, great.

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Run a one day retreat, run an afternoon retreat.

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Now do those things.

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Now you see, we tend to put it way far out.

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So what we're doing here is we're getting really clear

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on what it is that we desire.

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the actual feeling, the feeling that we're going after.

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And then we're beginning to live that feeling right now,

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because let me tell you, your circumstances don't determine your feelings.

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You do. God gave you the ability to do that.

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You can change your state at any moment.

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You can choose to love at any moment.

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You can choose to have joy at any moment.

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You can choose to walk in peace at any moment.

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You can. And remember, I taught you last time.

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You can tap into that feeling.

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Remember, I to remind you, remember, I talked about how the way God made us

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because of his spirit in us, because of him in us,

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we actually can, can, can be generators.

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So you can literally right now, you can generate the feeling of love.

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I promise you can generate the feeling of joy.

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You can generate the feeling of fulfillment.

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You can generate the feeling of freedom.

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And then once you generate it, you radiate it.

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You radiate it out all around.

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It's powerful, powerful, powerful that you can do.

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OK, so so then you start living it.

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You start practicing it right now.

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And, you know, one of the coaching clients had this vision for the gardens.

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I'm like, great. Start in your backyard.

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What would be in that garden?

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How would you nurture those plants?

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Who would you share it with?

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What seeds would you plant?

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You see, we bring it back home.

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We tap into what we really want.

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We get clear.

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We tap into the feeling tonality that we're going for.

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And then we live it.

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Now you start living this now,

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not someday, someday, honey. Right.

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All right. So work on this worksheet.

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There's actions for you to be able to take.

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And what I'm going to have you do right now is

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we're going to have you pair off and let me

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see, let me stop the recording here.