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Hey hey hey family, hope you're doing good. I'm looking forward to this session

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Kingdom Building Community Part 3 on Courageous Communication. We're also going

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to do a quick recap on Part 1 and Part 2. Great to have you here joining the live

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whether you are live or whether you're joining delayed. It is an honor, it is a

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delight to have you on board. Sandy I can see you there. Welcome, welcome, welcome. I

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hope you've had an amazing weekend. Beautiful. So you can see some of the

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recap stuff here. This was Part 1, right here. Part 1, boom. This was Part 2, boom

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right there. So we are exploring this whole concept of Building Kingdom

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Community. Let's just do a high-five if you're out there whether you're watching

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live or delayed. It is great to be with you. Joe I see you there. Robert I see

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you there. Sandy, great to have you there. Just give a thumbs up, a fist bump, boom

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if you're out there. It is great to be together today. Just a short but punchy

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session which I think you are going to love and it's going to be a great time.

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Man, are you guys hot where you are? What's the temperature where you, wherever

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you are in the world? For me, 28 degrees I just saw in the car. So that's getting

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pretty, pretty cranking hot. Angela, great to see you there too. Well what's it like

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wherever you are in the world? And once again, massive love to you all. What have

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you been doing for the weekend as well? Why don't you just shout out in the

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comments what's been happening for you for the weekend, what's been good, what's

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been going well for you. I'm excited for this session and I'm excited as well for

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the 8th. December the 8th is coming up next week. I want to do a recap with you

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on how you've been going with your goals. So what is the goal that you've

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been working on for December the 8th? What have you been working on? What have

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you been prioritizing? I am excited to hear what people have been doing towards

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their goal for December the 8th. We're going to do a bit of a review on that. So

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excited for that. Love you guys heaps and let's have a little pray. Just a quick

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one and then boom. We're going to do a recap on these moments and then today

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it's courageous communication. I am excited for what this means. Bex, great to

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have you. Angela, great to have you. And for everyone else, whether you're joining

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live or delayed, as always it is a delight to share this journey with you.

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Why don't you pray with me? If you feel like the Lord gives you a word for

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the family or just a word in general, feel free to type that in. Share that

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with us all. It is amazing to hear what God is doing in your lives, through your

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lives and let's get into it. Very cool. Thank you for sharing

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that. Sandy as well, great testimonies. I appreciate those testimonies. Let's pray.

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Trinity, Papa, Holy Spirit, Jesus, you have got relationships down. You have figured

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out how to have perfect relationships. You have got divine family sorted on

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every angle. And Trinity, we invite you right now into this moment and we invite

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you into our personal worlds. We invite you into our lives. We invite you into

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our relationships to bring alignment where we need alignment. And Trinity, I

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ask as well for a fresh, a completely fresh wave of surrender to hit our

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hearts where you are the supreme value, where you are the supreme priority, where

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our lives are in alignment with Matthew 6 which says,

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Seek first the kingdom of God. We just ask you to bring alignment into our worlds

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right now. We just position our hearts right now to be those that would

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be in alignment with your priorities, Jesus, as you have said to us. Seek first the

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kingdom of God and His righteousness and all these things will be added unto you.

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Trinity, we ask right now that you breathe revelation to us, that you take these words

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that I pray.

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I ask that you initiate divine conversations.

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I ask that you release a spirit of wisdom and revelation.

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I ask that you release powerful people in this time, in Jesus' name.

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Holy Spirit, I just ask for a fresh wave of your presence.

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I ask for a fresh wave, a fresh wave of your presence, a fresh wave of your glory.

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I ask that that would wash over us, wash through us.

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We give our attention to you right now.

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We give our whole being to you right now.

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We surrender afresh to you right now.

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Like Jesus said, we pray not our will be done, but your will be done.

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Not our will, but your will be done.

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Come afresh on us, and I just ask that your will would be done in every single relationship

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that we have.

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I ask that alignment would come to every single relationship that we have, and that heaven

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would be manifest in every relationship that we have.

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Because right now, I do sense that we're actually in, we're in the slipstream of heaven.

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We're in the sweet spot of heaven.

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We're in this place where we're getting on board with what heaven is doing.

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The greatest way to get momentum in our spiritual lives and in our lives in general is not just

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to pray that God would back what we're doing, but to find out what heaven's doing and back

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what heaven's doing.

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And that way, we effortlessly get the momentum of heaven on what we're doing.

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We don't want to just ask God, bless what we're doing.

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We want to find out what heaven's heartbeat is, and I just sense this really strongly

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right now, that this is heaven's heartbeat, that this generation, and I'm prophesying

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this over us right now, I'm prophesying two things.

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I'm prophesying that this is heaven's heartbeat right now, that this generation would be a

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generation that manifests heaven, manifests divine family in all of its relationships.

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And I'm prophesying that, so I'm prophesying that that's the heart of the Trinity, that

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the Trinity is really emphasizing that, empowering that, releasing that, endorsing that, unleashing

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that on us, that the heartbeat of heaven is divine relationships, divine family.

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So I'm prophesying that's happening, and I'm prophesying as well that we're getting on

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board with it, and as we're getting on board with that, we're going to receive the momentum

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of heaven because we've engaged ourselves, we've aligned ourselves with the heartbeat

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of heaven.

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So I prophesy for us in Jesus' name that we are aligning with the heartbeat of heaven,

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and I prophesy over your relationships that you'll receive the momentum of heaven over

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your relationships as you're aligning with the heart of heaven for your relationships

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in Jesus' name.

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I just declare over your relationships right now, over the good, the bad, and the ugly,

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over our relationships, over mine, over yours, over all of ours, I prophesy over our relationships

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right now in Jesus' name.

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I prophesy a divine alignment, and I prophesy breakthrough in Jesus' name.

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I prophesy over those relationships, the good, the bad, and the ugly.

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I prophesy over those relationships that there's going to be coming breakthroughs, and I prophesy,

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I see just a breaking through, I actually see a picture of a chest, and out of this

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chest, out of this person's torso, I see all these flowers growing up, beautiful flowers

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growing up out of their heart, out of their chest, flowers blossoming and blossoming and

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blossoming, and what I hear the Lord saying about that blossoming is that there's a new

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level of security coming on us as we're discovering our sonship, there's a new level of security

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coming on us, and that new level of security, that new level of intimacy, that new level

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of safety is going to become the garden, that sense of security in our identity, knowing

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who we are is going to become the garden, and out of that security, boom, boom, boom,

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boom, boom, beautiful, beautiful flowers are going to blossom up in our relationships,

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beautiful relationships, divine relationships, divine family are going to blossom up out

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of that, it's going to manifest heaven on earth, amen, beautiful, well bless you guys,

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love you so much, and just give a thumbs up, a thumbs bump if you would love that to be

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your reality, I'm believing that's going to be happening for us like never before, it's

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great as well to see testimonies coming of people seeing breakthroughs and seeing good

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things happening in their relationships, I'm excited about that, I'm so happy about that,

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I'm delighted about that, give a thumbs up, give a fist bump, give an amen, a praise him

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or whatever you want to do if you're all about that, if you're like yes, I want that, I want

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to see divine relationships flow out of your heart, flow out into your world and see your

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world filled.

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up with divine relationships. Amen. I think there's a lot of people passionate

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about that. I definitely feel that's the heart of the trinity for this

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generation to pioneer in it. To go where no other generation has gone before. So

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put on your pioneer, I guess, I don't know, whatever pioneers we're put on your

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pioneer mindset. Put on your pioneer mindset. Let's take new territory in

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this whole area of going deep in relationships, of being vulnerable in

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relationships, and bringing heaven to earth through our relationships. Okay, so

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let's start off with a quick recap. So part one. Part one we looked at what

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you're responsible for in a relationship, what I'm responsible for in a

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relationship, and what other people are responsible for. So very quickly, we as

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individuals are always responsible to keep our honor on. That looks like never

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being offended. Jesus, there's nowhere in the divine life, right, there's nowhere

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in the life of sonship, there's nowhere in this this realm of the divine life

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where offense is ever justifiable. Alright, so if you're offended, if we're

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offended, we've stepped outside of, we've stepped outside of our calling. There's

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nothing in your calling, there's nothing in your mandate which has called you to

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be offended or called me to be offended. We're called, but what we're definitely

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called for is honor. So regardless of our relationship, regardless of other

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people's behaviors, our calling is honor. Boom. Our calling is forgiveness. And

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other people, you know, we give them honor and we give them forgiveness

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regardless of their behavior. Whether or not someone is being trustworthy, whether

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or not their behavior is respectful or not, our responsibility is

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honor and forgiveness. It's other people's responsibility in a relationship

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to earn our trust and to earn our respect. So I just want to write a

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couple more things up. Say powerful people with me. Say powerful people.

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Alright, powerful people. Powerful people. Look at this concept. Powerful people don't

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try and control other people. Alright, even when their behavior is

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disrespectful, even if they're breaking people's trust, powerful people don't try

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to control other people. Now, I've got multiple situations that happen on a

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regular basis where I'm like, oh my gosh, I would love to control your behavior

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right now because you seem to be out of control. The behavior that they're

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demonstrating, it's not respectful. It's disgraceful behavior. It's hurting

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other people and it's like, oh my gosh, I don't respect that behavior. I can't trust

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that person right now, but I will honor them and I will forgive them because I'm

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a powerful person. Here's something about powerful people. Powerful people, get

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ready for this. Powerful people control themselves. Alright, this is massive.

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Powerful people control themselves, not others. Boom. Having said that, then we

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also looked at part two, was healthy boundaries. Even though we don't control

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other people, even though we're not offended and we're not in a place of

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being offended and bitter, that doesn't mean that we let people walk all

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over us. It doesn't mean that we all of a sudden devalue ourselves. It

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doesn't mean that at all. It also means that we have healthy boundaries. Boom.

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Healthy boundaries. So, we looked at this in part two, healthy boundaries, and we

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looked at boundaries protect what we value. Yes. So, if you value being safe and

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someone else is being disgraceful, they're being unsafe, they're being

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disrespectful, if they're breaking your trust for example, we can keep our honor

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on. We will keep our honor on. We will keep in this place of

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forgiveness. Oh my gosh, I just realized that an important cable is missing. Here

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it is. I've just found it. One moment there guys. I just realized my

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battery cable wasn't plugged in, but in about 11 seconds, oh, bump in about 11

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seconds it will be.

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and that will make life easy.

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Perfect.

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PMO just bubbed that,

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bubbed that tripod there a moment.

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So what do you do

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if you're a powerful person

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and other people seem out of control?

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What do we control?

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we control ourselves.

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And we're not about controlling other people,

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but we definitely do control ourselves.

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We control our world.

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We control our boundaries

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with healthy boundaries.

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So, healthy boundaries is awesome.

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Healthy boundaries protect

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what we value.

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they show the way home to other people.

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Healthy boundaries and powerful people

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reflect the nature of the Father

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in the sense that they're not about vanishing people.

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The boundaries that healthy, powerful people put in place

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are boundaries that are all about bringing people home.

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So many of us in this world,

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I mean, let's not just blame our enemies,

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but so many of us,

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let's not just blame people who are persecuting us

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or people who are messed up.

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We're all in this together.

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We're all in this together.

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And relationships across the board,

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all over the world,

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from governments down to slums,

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relationships have been so messy.

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So we're in this together,

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figuring it out together,

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working through it together,

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creating a brand new world, if you want.

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So we're pioneers of this whole new concept.

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We're pioneers of healthy relationships.

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We're pioneers of it.

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that we're encountering,

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that we're having challenges with,

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have never learned about being powerful people.

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any of this kingdom building community stuff.

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They've just experienced their whole life,

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people trying to manipulate and control them.

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Just give me a like, yes, an amen, a thumbs up,

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if you have been someone who's tried to manipulate

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and control other people.

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I just got to say, yes,

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there's plenty of times in my life

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where I've tried to manipulate.

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I've tried to control other people.

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I might have felt unsafe.

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I might have really wanted something.

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I might have felt like this was the best way

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to get what I wanted in the situation.

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where I engaged in manipulation and control.

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we're in this process of relearning

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what healthy relationships looks like.

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Yeah, and I've experienced it myself too.

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I've definitely experienced it.

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Give a thumbs up if you've experienced

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manipulation and control.

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where people have controlled you.

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You've experienced that twisted dynamic of manipulation.

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Pretty much all of us have experienced that.

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many people have their normals are really unhealthy.

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take that into account,

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and have a lot of grace for each other

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because we're on this journey together.

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We're in this together

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where we're working through our unhealthy normals.

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and we're figuring out how to do this,

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how to go forward together.

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especially in the church,

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especially with our believers, our friends,

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because we want to be deep.

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is a place where we experience our biggest, deepest hurt.

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They protect what we value.

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They show the way home.

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I was saying, I said last week

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that I'd do a little evaluation.

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Some of you did an evaluation

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on your top three relationships.

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I've definitely done an evaluation on that.

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How am I going with the balance?

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then my life will be out of balance

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really, really quickly.

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they're receiving the type of intimacy

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that my wife should receive,

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if that's where we were at,

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boom, that would create massive chaos in your world

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real fast.

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success when it comes to relationship with God,

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getting the priorities right, getting the balance right and putting those boundaries

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in the correct places, the safe places.

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So something that I, you know I just did a recap and I thought okay how am I going?

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divine dance, it's having my divine connection in place and sewing into that and so I'm

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just asking myself you know how am I going with the balance on that and to be honest

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I would love to spend way more time with the trinity.

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On a regular weekly basis I spend hours and hours in that place of going after relationship

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with the trinity, spend time in worship, spend time in creativity, I just, I love it you

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know and I'd like to spend more time there and you know same thing with my wife, I love

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hanging out with my wife, I love dreaming with her, I love working with her, I love

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just enjoying each other's company, I love talking things through, chatting things through,

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I love going on adventures with her, I want to spend way more time with her and my kids

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are amazing, I love them too, I want to spend way more time with them too and you know what

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life has a lot of time pressure on us and it can be really quite challenging to put

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that, put that in place but I was just doing an assessment for myself and I think, yeah

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I think I'm doing reasonably well on that, my priorities are definitely the trinity relationship,

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divine connection there, then my wife and then my kids, those are definitely my priorities

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and so I'm like okay how's the balance going?

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I think it's going alright but it's always really important to reassess that and it's

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important as well to ask the kids how's that going, you feeling connected, yesterday, just

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give some examples of things that I've done this week, well with the trinity I shared

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that I've spent hours and hours in just one on one time with the trinity, either creating

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things out of their presence, a lot of the time my time with the trinity looks like creating,

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being creative, articulating what they're putting in my heart, creating things with

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them, just in a one on one space, it's just me and the Lord and we're creating, it looks

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like praying in tongues, it looks like worship, it looks like studying the word, it looks

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like meditating on things, so boom that's been going great, things that I've done with

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my wife this week, a classic thing for us, one moment, a classic thing for us to do is

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chatting you know, and just even today, just even before I came through this, we're like

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we're regularly, regularly doing chats, doing plans, like okay how are we going with, what

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do you need, so something just this afternoon that we chatted through, Alana's like, I need

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some more kids free time to be able to accomplish these tasks I've got leading up to Christmas,

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so we're just sitting there hearing each other, what do you need, how can we do that, Alana's

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set time aside for me, just loving on me, and regularly it's this concept of okay what

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are we doing, what do we want to accomplish, chatting it through, so we've got a big dream

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that we're working on at the moment of doing some more renovations, well not renovations,

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just some upgrades on our house, new carpet, new curtains, we have an Airbnb house as well,

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so we're trying to work through that, so we had to do heaps of work on the property this

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week, so we chatted through that, lots of pillow talk, it's quite fun, I really love

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dreaming and building and creating, I think that's something I really love doing with my wife,

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so doing that, boom, it's been fun, really successful week on that front, Ezra, I took

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him for a date yesterday, he got to go and spend some of his birthday money, we went out,

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we had lunch together, we hung out together, and it was really cool, I regularly like to take my

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kids on one-on-one moments with Dad, so we did that yesterday, it was choice, I'm planning this

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week on getting some training with him on training him how to ride his bike, sweet, so that's been

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going good, I want to talk on this concept, I talked about it a little bit last time in part

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two, but I want to talk about courageous communication and I statements, alright,

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I statements, boom, there it is, I statements, like an eyeball, there we go, so I statements,

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it can be really, really challenging when we're having courageous communication with whoever it's

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with, it can be really, really difficult, I find that's one of the times, I get, it's a really

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vulnerable place, it's a place where you're like, oh my gosh, okay, this event has happened,

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Whatever it is, and you want, and maybe something's happened that's caused disconnection.

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To be honest, I actually had an experience of that just this afternoon.

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I totally failed at something.

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I totally failed, I totally dropped the ball.

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It wasn't intentional.

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I was like, oh my gosh, I really failed on that, and it caused a real strong reaction

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from someone.

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I actually felt hurt from that.

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I was like, ah, it's someone who's really close to my world.

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It was my fault, to be honest.

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I stuffed up.

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I was like, oh no, I totally by accident just dropped the ball, and then they brought correction.

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They kind of did it in a way where I just felt, oh, I felt a bit of hurt from the way

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they did it.

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It was right of them to bring correction to me.

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Here's something that I want to share.

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Check this concept out.

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It's a really massive concept.

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How can we bring correction, because we need to be able to bring correction, and we need

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to be able to be corrected sometimes.

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I totally needed to be corrected today.

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How can we bring correction without damaging other people's strength?

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How can we bring correction?

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How can we even give other people information about how we feel, truly feel inside without

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attacking them?

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How can we give them information without attacking them, and in a way that makes them feel safe

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too?

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Because this is such a delicate process.

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If you're talking about your feelings or sharing how you're doing with people, especially if

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you're sharing, giving them feedback about how their behavior has impacted you, this

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is a place where there's landmines everywhere.

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We could just set landmines off all over the place, and you can make a bad situation

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worse if someone, say for example, this situation happened, I just dropped the ball by accident,

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but they're like, hey, this is really not okay, but the way they did it just felt like

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an attack.

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I'm like, ugh.

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So I engaged in courageous communication.

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Once again, I have to use this on a regular basis, but the process of courageous communication,

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it protected our connection, and at the end of that process of communication, and connection

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and courageous communication, our heart connection was actually stronger than before.

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And even just now, just during the live, I saw a text popped up on my phone from that

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person, and it's like, boom, the connection's been protected, the relationship's been protected.

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So when we value intimacy with other people, we can protect it, we can go after it.

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Here's a simple process, I mentioned this last week, but I want to highlight it.

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It's I-statements.

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So I-statements are really safe ways of giving communication of how you're doing.

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Here we go.

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So just say there's an example, something's happened, when something's happened that's

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caused you some pain, perhaps.

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You can say, when this happened.

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When it comes to courageous communication, it's so essential to keep everyone feeling

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safe.

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So think about the environment.

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Think about the timing of it.

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Think about the method.

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Are you going to do this by text, are you going to do this by phone, are you going to

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do this by a video call, are you going to meet face-to-face with a person, are you going

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to do it in a letter?

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Well, I tell you what, especially depending on the situation, face-to-face is best.

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Somewhere that's going to feel safe for everyone is best.

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So think about setting yourself up for success before you even engage the conversation.

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If this is the person in a rush, if they're in a rush to go somewhere, maybe try and find

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a better time, a better place to have a conversation where you can work this out in a safe way.

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So one of the things that you're doing with I-statements, which is something that powerful

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people do, they control themselves, you can give really, really good information.

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You can give really, really good information and you're talking about yourself, you're

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not talking about them.

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So you've got to avoid any form of accusation.

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You don't go in and say, you are a terrible person, boom, that's going to get them putting

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their walls up.

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They're not even going to care really what you say when you bring correction with accusation.

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So avoid accusation, just give them information about how you're doing.

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So first thing is, when this happened, just identify what it was that went down.

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by that moment. Boom! That's good information. They know exactly what event

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you're talking about. It's not hypothetical, it's very specific. There's

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some precision information. This is going to set them up to be able to succeed in

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responding in a way that's going to add value to how you're feeling and actually

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giving them even the opportunity to respond well, okay? When this

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happened, you're talking exactly what it was, I felt... Boom! It could be, for

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example, driving in a car. When you were driving at 184

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kilometers an hour in that dodgy little Daihatsu, I felt... Now this is where

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you're giving people really, really good information. I felt scared, unsafe, okay?

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Giving them great information. And then you could say, okay, we'll just take this

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example of a car. If I'm going to drive in a car with you, I need to feel... So this

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is the next key bit. I need to feel... Boom! I need to feel... And often it's going to

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feel safe, heard, valued. You can fill in a space. When this

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happened, when you drove at 184 kilometers an hour in your Daihatsu, I

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felt scared and unsafe. You could also say, when I asked you to slow

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down and you refused, I felt scared, unsafe, and unheard, alright? Then you're

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going to give them more information. I need to feel... I forgot the feel, this is

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the key bit. I need to feel... I need to feel safe, heard, and valued. And then some

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more real good information. I feel safe, heard, and valued when you... Boom! And then you

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get to fill in the dots there. And it might be, I feel safe, heard, and

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valued when you drive to the speed limit. So I hope that's been valuable for you.

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Four I statements that can really help you in the process of courageous

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communication. They are, when this happened, boom! The next one is, I felt... So it

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could be, I felt scared, unsafe. So this is statement number one. Statement number

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two. Statement number three. Statement number four, okay? When you drive at a

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hundred and forty kilometers, 184 kilometers an hour in your Daihatsu, I...

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That's statement number one. It's really specific. They know exactly what you're

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talking about. It's not hypotheticals, it's not maybes. You've pinpointed the

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exact scenario. I felt scared and unsafe. Boom! Number three I statement. I need to

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feel safe, heard, and valued. Number four, I... This is giving them really good

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information about what makes you feel safe. I feel safe, heard, and valued when

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you, and this, in this scenario, drive to the legal speed limit. Now if you're on

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the Autobahn, it might be a different story, but I don't think anyone's

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probably going to be feeling that safe in a dodgy old Daihatsu.

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Maybe a Daihatsu charade. Something that this is about is, powerful people are

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really good at giving other people information. Once you've done this, you

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put, you make the other person really powerful. Yeah, give a thumbs up if you

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like that. Give a thumbs up if, if you think that's going to be of value to you.

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If you're going to be able to use those I statements. Give me a little bit of a

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thumbs up. Whether you're watching live or delayed, I see all the comments and

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all the posts and all the likes. I keep an eye on that. So, give me a thumbs up

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if you think, boom, that's going to be valuable for me. I'm going to be able to

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use that really well. So, powerful people are not trying to control themselves.

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Powerful people are all about empowering others in this process. Powerful people

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give other people the information that they need to be able to make really good

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decisions. With this, once you've given someone all this information,

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They get to decide if they're going to respect it or not, okay?

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This is giving other people the opportunity to earn your trust, okay?

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You haven't been offended, you've walked in honor, you haven't been bitter, you've

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said you've forgiven them for whatever's going on

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and you've given them an opportunity to build trust

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and intimacy

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and it's their choice then what they choose to do

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afterwards. You might also incorporate this with healthy boundaries

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you might say for example in this particular situation you might say

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you might give them this information and say okay you've heard how I

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feel now I want to let you know my boundary

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my boundary is that I only drive with people, I only ride in the car with

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people that I feel safe with so if you can

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respect this boundary I'm happy to ride in the car with you

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if you can't respect this boundary then I am not going to ride in the car with

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you anymore, okay? It's a real good

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boundary, it's a very clear boundary, it shows them the way home, it shows

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them what you value, you value your life, you

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value safety, you value feeling safe, it shows them the way home

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it's like it's a really easy option for them they can choose if they're going to

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drive dangerously you're not going to be in

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the car with them and it also yeah definitely

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reveals your priorities for not dying in a car crash is a

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priority that I have in my life. Hope that's been really valuable to you

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these things start all start working together really really

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hand in hand and they might seem really basic

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but honestly the basics work well the basics are usually the

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basics because they're the absolute the absolutely

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foundational things to the structural integrity

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of success in life so these things are basic

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but they are the structural integrity for success in relationships they

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provide the structural integrity for how to have healthy relationships so

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love you guys hope you've had some value from this

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why don't you uh why don't you share a couple of things um if you're

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happy to it'd be great to have some have some thoughts here why don't you

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share a testimony of a healthy boundary that you've put in

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place why don't you you know it would be great to hear from

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people how you're using this practically

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have you put a healthy boundary in place somewhere and it would also be great to

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road test this why don't you give yourself the opportunity to road test

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this this week um is there a conversation is

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there a courageous conversation that you need to have

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it will be great to hear if you had a courageous conversation recently

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if you're going to have one it'll be great to hear the testimonies of our

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courageous conversations they are so powerful so

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bless you have a great day for the rest of the

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day and have a fantastic start to this week may you be blessed

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may you be prosperous may shalom fill your whole

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your whole life may balance come uh to every area of your life may success

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come to every area of your life may you thrive in every area of your life

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and remember december the 8th i'm looking forward to doing a review and

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hearing how are you going towards your goals

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what do you want can't wait to share that conversation with you as well

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bless you see you on tuesday afternoon uh for supernatural stories that's going

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to be really fun love you catch you later