So, Father, I thank you so much for these beautiful women.
I thank you for this day.
You created this, you created us, you ordained this moment before the foundation of the world.
So we just ask right here, right now, that we'll be present, that we'll release everything
from the past, other than gleaning from the field of the past.
You've been showing me the past is a field.
So we can go back to that field and harvest it.
What were the lessons?
What were the blessings?
To take whatever really serves that we want to take into the now, we can glean it and
the rest, the woulda, coulda, shoulda, the guilt, the blame, the shame, the regret, all
of that we leave in the past that does not exist anymore.
And we drop the need to go into the future.
We look at how we can best live in this moment, the only moment that there really is, which
is now, this sacred, holy instant.
This is where you are.
This is where the miracles are.
This is where truth is.
This is where transformation happens.
If we get into the future, we get into fear, doubt, worry.
We get into the past, we get into blame, shame, all of that.
But when we're right here, this is the place transformation can happen.
This is the place awareness can open.
This is the place miracles happen.
This is the place of your presence.
We just invite the awareness that you are here and that you are working.
And we just ask that what you intend for this call to come forth.
I ask for supernatural wisdom and discernment and understanding and revelation.
I ask that your glory flood this place.
I ask that your healing touches every body and mind and soul.
Total restoration, total healing, renewal of energy, renewal of our mind.
Lord, you've called us and told us that we're seated in high places with you.
May we have a high place vantage point.
You've said we are more than conquerors.
We are not victims.
We are not worms.
We are not defeated.
We are more than conquerors.
And so I ask that whatever needs to come forth on this call, it'll come forth powerfully.
Whatever questions need to be answered, whatever strategies need to be revealed, whatever limiting
beliefs need to be uncovered and broken, whatever strongholds need to be broken, whatever healing
needs to happen, whatever insights and understanding needs to come forth, I ask that it come forth
powerfully.
I thank you for the spirit of unity and the love in the Prosper Leader community.
May we have even more love.
I ask it all in Jesus' name, amen.
So I'm going to open with a few thoughts and then we'll have conversation around them and
you could just be taking notes as some insights come.
My thoughts were, first of all, that we had three really big chunks of teaching and I
want you to be able to digest it and let it just really work into your system and create
transformation and really work.
I do not like the concept of education, of stuffing a lot of facts in the head, right?
I like transformation, renewing of the mind, okay?
So I'd like enough time for you to really chew on it and be able to absorb it and be
able to use it and to share, like Victoria shared earlier, to share when there's breakthrough
too because when one person is lifted up, so is everyone else.
It's good for everyone.
So thank you for sharing that, to have the awareness that, wow, I can have a different
money mindset.
That's huge.
You're not stuck with the old mindset.
You can change that.
We're transformed by the renewing of our mind, Roman says.
So we had the sales conversation masterclass a few months ago, and that was like five hours
with the Q&A and the teaching, right?
And so the idea there was to really get you confident so that as you-
you do have a client in front of you, you can really serve, you
can really get the sales, you can be growing your income,
growing your impact. And then we realized that you've got to be
able to have follow up, because most of it doesn't happen on
that call that lays the foundation. And so I did the
fortune is the follow up masterclass, right. And so if
you haven't done those, go back, I recommend them, you know, for
you, um, you know, they're free to you as a prosper leader
member, they're there for you. And so, uh, you know,
congratulations, you know, for those of you that did, you know,
100% of your follow ups, that was pretty incredible. And
getting new clients and extension of clients. So we did
the sales, we did the follow up, and then I realized, hey, you
can do all the sales and all the follow up. But if your money
mindset, your beliefs around money are whacked, then you're
not going to be any better off. And so of course, I did God
money in me. And of course, we have the q&a this Saturday. So
that was a lot of stuff and intense, I gave you a lot of
material. And so this is a really good place to digest it.
And so any questions about that any applications about that any
celebration, I'd like to, you know, be able to serve on that.
And then I'm going to give you a couple leading thoughts to
to think about, um, as you're getting ready to finish out this
year. And so here's some of the thoughts. And it's so interesting
when God's showing you something, I'll be one of the
ways he works with me is he gives me an idea. And then I'll
open a book, and it'll talk about that. And I'll open a
totally different book. And it'll talk about that. And I'll
open a totally different book. And it'll talk any of you
experience that. So I've got three books open right here, all
saying the exact same thing. And I and they're years apart when I
read them. And it's not recent, other than one of them. And so
they're all saying the same thing. And I thought, okay, the
message that you told me to bring up is what I supposed to
bring up, and it just got validated. And so I'm going to
share a few thoughts from a few books to get your mind thinking.
And, and so the idea that was coming to me about you was
number one, what are you giving your power to? Okay, so who or
what is controlling you? What, what, what belief about
yourself? What belief about the world? What belief about money?
Or, or what is it that you're giving your power to that? Or
what are what are you believing? What are you giving your power
to that is keeping you from from your true desires and what it is
you desire to create? Let's break through that. And as part
of breaking through that, I was reminded of something I taught
you guys quite a while ago, but I want to bring it back again.
How many of you remember Justin Ipov? Sounds like a Russian name
Justin Ipov. J-U-S-T-A-N-I-P-O-V, Justin Ipov. Any of
you? Or has it been too long for most of you? Okay. Um, that
stands for just an interesting point of view. Just an
interesting point of view, Justin Ipov. I've taught a lot
of my clients about Justin Ipov. It goes along with the same,
maybe Course in Miracles or many other books where you know,
nothing really has meaning until we give it meaning, right? We're
the one that attaches meaning, okay. And so you know, this is
just a this is just a drink, you know, I could describe what it
is, it's delta E. But if I give it the meaning that this feeds
my brain, and I'm going to have more focus, then that becomes
the meaning. If I give it the meaning, you know, this is where
we get the I talked about in the money, the placebo, the nocebo,
the placebo, I give it the meaning, this is really going to
help me and it will I give it the meaning is really going to
harm me and it will. Well, same thing with our limiting
beliefs. Okay. And so what are you believing? What are you
giving your power to is that you don't believe you're smart
enough, you don't have enough time, you don't have enough
money, you don't have enough experience, you don't have, or
like, what is it that you're giving your power to that we
need to get a breakthrough. So you finish this year that that
no longer is affecting you. So that's the first part of the
conversation around what interesting, you know, point of
view, have you made significant, okay. And so there's a there's a
workbook on on money. And it says something really
interesting.
And it says really to change your financial situation, I didn't put this in our course, but to change your financial situation, you must learn to be in allowance of all things.
Okay, let's explain how that fits in with interesting point of view. So, if something comes because we're just living and they're not even true necessarily it's just points of view that you've accepted as truth or rejected.
Right. So, if you've accepted that, that there's a lack of money that there's not enough.
Or if you've accepted in our family there's there's there's never enough nobody in our family gets rich, whatever. Okay, then you have gotten in agreement, you've gotten in agreement with that point of view it's just a point of view, everything
is just a point of view, but you've gotten in agreement with that point of view. Okay, the moment you do that, you make it solid you make it part of your reality.
Okay. So, let me explain what I mean.
So, we know from quantum physics I think I shared this a little bit in the money right everything's in wave form like when they did the double slit experiment everything all the molecules, just in wave form.
When we absorb when we observe them when we give them our attention, the moment we pay attention to them, they come out of the way form and they become particle form they become solid.
This is our whole world God has created infinite potential for you.
Unlimited he said all things are possible with God, you have access to anything and everything.
Infinite potential.
So from that point of view, if you come into agreement with it, like, there's not enough to go around by coming into agreement with it it becomes solid, it now becomes part of your life it becomes effect right becomes real for you, solid.
If you say it's not true and you resist it, and now you go to war against it if you will, same thing.
You gave it attention. The wave becomes a particle, it becomes real.
And of course we know whatever we resist persists.
Right, we know energy flows where the attention goes whatever we focus on expands I can say this a dozen different ways, what we resist persist why because it becomes solid, so we make a war against cancer and cancer rates go up we make a war against
drugs and there's even more drugs we we do a war against violent even more you see, where is it solving anything, not.
So, if we agree with something we make it real it becomes solid. If we resist something we make it real, and it becomes solid. So how do you avoid all of them, you understand that everything is just an interesting point of view.
So whatever someone says about money whatever they say about sickness whatever they say you have the ability to say oh interesting point of view you don't have to agree you don't have to resist you don't have to fight it just interesting point of view that
interesting point of view that you have that point of view. Okay. And, um, and so you can, that's not part of my reality. Right. And so I was, I was reading from a book, and this is all going to come together, I pray, I was reading from a book,
and this is a man who tapped the secrets of the universe, and the interviewer this is a man who made it big in music, made it big in art painting, made it huge in sculptures, made it huge in horse riding and horse training made it huge and ice skating
made it huge in science, and all he did was tap into the God power that is available to all of us. Okay. And so they asked him do you ever have failure. And he says that's just, that's not even part of my reality and that that doesn't exist I mean there can be
stepping stones but that's just not part of my reality. And when I read that it reminded me you know my daughter had come home and said mom everybody's sick everybody's catching stuff and I says okay well, that's not part of my conversation that's not part
of my reality. And, you know, well it's you know it's flu season it's cold season. No, there's four seasons in the Bible there's no allergy season in the Bible there's no flu season in the Bible there's that was invented by drug companies that is a point of view.
Okay. So, how many are you are with me so far give me a snap. Are you following because I know I'm sharing a lot again but I want to open this conversation. So, they asked him because then he got into the scientific knowledge he was the one that discovered
how to make hydrogen water he, he was discovered two of the of the elements and the hydrogen bomb and
you know, all of this stuff, right?
And so in the interview, it says,
tell me how you acquired your scientific knowledge.
So he already had all the financial, the art,
the sculpture, the sports, everything.
And now he's like the final stage of his life.
He's like doing all this science.
And he says, how did you acquire your scientific knowledge?
You say you never studied physics
and you've read but few books in your life.
And this was his answer.
It is because I always looked for the cause behind things.
The word cause is all in capitals.
I always looked for the cause
and I didn't fritter away my time analyzing effects.
So the word effects is all in capital.
He replied, listen to this, all knowledge exists as cause
and it's simple.
It's limited to light and the electrical wave of motion.
Now this was written in 1921, I think,
which records God's thinking into matter.
I've talked to you about substance, right?
He says effect, E-F-F-E-C-T, effect is complex,
infinitely complex.
So cause, very simple, bottom line, right?
Effect, complex, infinitely complex,
but one can have no knowledge of effect.
One can be informed of effect.
Information is not knowledge.
Our educational process informs us,
but until we recognize the internal truth,
which underlies that information,
we have no knowledge of it.
Like food in the grocery store,
it's not nourishment until it's converted
into the bloodstream.
All knowledge is possible for anyone
and the cosmos gives it.
He said, can you tell me the process
by which this all knowledge came to you?
Was it a gradual process, the interviewer's asking,
the result of earnest seeking, or was there a high point,
a period of revelation or illumination?
Mr. Russell replied, I will put it very simply.
In May, 1921, God took me up into a high mountain
of inspiration and intense ecstasy.
A brilliant flash like lightning severed
my bodily sensation from my consciousness
and I found myself freed from my body
and holy in the mind universe of light, which is God.
And then God said to me, behold thou the unity
of all things in light of me
and the seeming separateness of all things
in the two lights of my divided thinking.
See thou that I, the undivided, unchanging one,
am within all divided things centering them
and I am without all changing things controlling them.
And he says, and then the secrets came to me
and I understood the cause of all effects
for there's very little to know.
And he said, it was shown to me in entirety,
the illusion of the separation.
Okay, so he's talking about, you really wanna have wisdom,
always look at the cause, not the effect.
This goes back to what I taught you in the money one
about judge not by appearances.
Don't look at your bank account, that's an effect.
Money is an effect, go back to the source.
That goes back to what I read to you from the abundance book
about how we gave away our power because we objectified
when we believe that money was source,
that instead of being effect, that it was cause,
we gave our power, we gave away our God-given power
and gave it to the money
like I shared in that course, right?
So this says the exact same thing.
It says that we tend to, it says,
are you focusing on God as your abundance
that constitutes the supply?
It says, or do you want more money,
more prosperity in your life
than shift from a consciousness of effect?
In other words, the material world that you see
to a consciousness of cause, God, spirituality.
When you give power to an effect,
you are giving it your power.
You're actually giving the effect power over you.
Money have power.
If you say yes, then you've given it your power,
and you become the servant.
You have reversed the roles.
When you get back to spirit, the Holy Spirit in you,
God in you, the inner presence, the true you,
then you know the only source is God's presence within you.
When your mind is on source, it's on cause,
the supply flows freely.
Listen to this.
If your mind is on the effect, you block the flow.
The more impersonal, we were impersonal
when I said interesting point of view.
It's another way of saying the more impersonal,
that no matter what they say about money or about sickness
or anything else that you're hearing,
you can look at it impersonally and say,
interesting point of view.
Now, what's the truth of God?
What's the truth of Holy Spirit?
What's the truth about that matter?
Do you guys kind of feel that?
And so the more personal you become in your relationship
with the true source of your money,
the greater the abundance in your life.
But remember, if you constantly look to effect,
the visible form, you will create a mutation.
And it will actually block,
it'll actually lessen the amount of money.
So in other words, the more you stress over the money,
the more you focus on the lack of the money,
the more you give it your power, the less of it you'll have.
Okay, so that's a lot from three books,
but I wanted to open it so that now
when we're looking at what you're believing,
we could maybe back up a little bit
and be able to look at it and even about ourselves say,
oh, interesting point of view
that I have that point of view.
You can even be open that way yourself.
Like what point of view did I receive?
Interesting point of view that I received
that point of view.
So with that being said,
now let's go back to the original question.
What interesting point of view
have you been giving your power to
that maybe you're ready to release as you finish this year?
Or what interesting point of view do you need support in
that you think you need something
to be able to finish strong,
have the clients, have the abundance,
have the results, whatever it is.
And let's talk about that collectively
and get some breakthrough.
So it might be looking at who or what's running you.
It might be, what are you thinking about the most?
It might be, where do you most need support or prayer?
It might be, what advice do you need?
It might be, what are you resisting?
What are you making solid?
What are you giving life to?
Because you're really resisting it.
What are you giving life to?
What are you giving your power?
It could be any of those things.
Okay, so let's kind of open to a wonderful conversation
and prayer and breakthrough to finish this year strong.
So give me a snap.
Do you like this topic?
Is this something interesting to you?
How many of you like this is really something,
those of you that I can see.
All right, so go ahead and hit reaction.
You can raise your hand.
It's my opportunity to coach you, to mentor you.
It's your community's opportunity to lift you up in prayer,
to share their ideas, to us really to come together
to make sure that we finish this year so strong.
So be bold, be courageous, come forth,
so that we can really get some transformation.
So click on reactions, raise your hand,
and let's talk about this.
How is this resonating with you?
What is it bringing up?
What's true?
What do you need support around?
Did I overwhelm you, underwhelm you?
I'll go.
Okay, I can't see who said it.
Oh, sorry, I'll put my hand up.
Ah, okay, Victoria, I see you now.
When you put your hand up, I can see you.
Okay.
Yeah, just, you know, there's,
I give a lot of power to my,
I've got a real, my habit with my phone is kind of,
I mean, I'm working on it,
but so I can actually block myself out,
but it's just, you know, I don't watch TV.
It's just kind of a mindless activity,
but it really is kind of out of control.
It steals my time away from God.
It steals my time away from prayer.
You know, it's just a,
it's a coping skill, I guess.
So that's like one.
And then two is, you know, when I tested positive,
I was just about to start a four day,
stretch of work. So I lost like 48 hours of work. And my first
reaction was, Oh, man, I should have just done. Why did I take
the test? You know, I mean, it was my choice. I was trying to
learn how to do it. But I'm so and then I just stopped worrying
about it. But you know, I need I need to be home. I just reframe
that whole situation and flip it instead of worrying about how am
I going to pay my bill, you know, that worry, worry, worry.
So I just, that's a new thing for me. So I'm, I immediately
go ahead. I'm sorry. I know. So I immediately went to fear. Okay.
And then I stopped, I caught myself and said, Nope, I'm not
gonna go there. I'm gonna be fine. I always am. And I'm just
gonna enjoy the time off and recover.
Love that. I love that. So there's a lot of cool things
that you did. And I think I want to, I want to bring these
forward, because we're all dealing with this. And I don't
think there's any of you that that are not even myself, we
just keep every time we stretch, and we get out of our comfort
zone, there's a whole new level of feeling like, how am I going
to afford that? How am I going to do that? And I like every
time that we make that stretch, whether we leave the comfort of
a job and security, or whether you know, we miss because of
sickness or, you know, family dynamic. So, so we all are
dealing with that. And so I had the thought earlier, and you
guys might want to do this yourself, if you were going to
draw a circle of your day of 24 hours, and you're going to make
a pie chart. And so, you know, take and take a piece of that
pie of that 24 hours, and how much of that 24 hours is spent
on fear, worry, let's give it a slice of the pie. This is just
my own idea that came to me earlier. So, you know, if you
figure half of the pie is 12 hours, you know, quarter of the
power pie is four hours of the day, you know, how much of it
would you say that fear tries to come in or worry or how am I
going to do this or anxiety or doubt how much of it and then in
that same pie, how much is dedicated to praise or joy or
love or beauty or high frequency? Like how much of the
day and is it is it more than the fear? Is it the same as the
fear? Like look at the pie kind of make it relative to each
other? What would you say that is dedicated to to that to love
to beauty? Okay, how much of the pie is dedicated to growing you?
How much are you investing in, in growing and growing you and
you know, you got to mark out of there, obviously, you know, if
there's six, seven, eight hours of sleep and eating, you know,
just go ahead and, you know, mark out what you know, you're
not doing anything because you're sleeping, you're eating
your whatever. And then, you know, of that, you've probably
got, you know, tasks that you're working or you're doing to, you
know, grow your business or something, either work or
building your business. And you could divide that in half or
quarter or whatever, how much of that are you giving, serving,
loving, absolutely enjoying work, you're just like, you're
you're giving, you're you're loving, you're serving, it just
feels so good. And how much of that are you doing what you
don't like? And so now the reason that I have you do that
is just for the purpose of awareness, and also conscious
choice, right? So if you look at that, and you know, if fear is a
small, tiny sliver, and you go, wow, I just don't even give it
much thought all day long, okay, you're in a great space, you
know, now, okay, how can I increase more of my giving and
love, or maybe there's only a sliver for growing, I've really
got to expand that, you know, I know that as I grow my business,
my income will grow. And so you can kind of have a visual to
say, is this look how you want it now, if fear is taking, you
know, six hours of the day that it just keeps every hour, it
comes to your mind, and at least 20 minutes of every hour, you're
wrestling with this, you know, we know that we've got to look
at, okay, how can I replace that perfect love casts out fear. And
so now I need to be on a deliberate strategy. And what
are some of the tools I can do? So for example, I will listen to,
I'll listen to meditations on YouTube, that are really about
about that, with with frequencies, right? Music
frequencies.
change our frequency. Of course, obviously, in prayer and praise
and scripture, in affirmations, in declarations, in all of those
type of things that are designed to really change your frequency,
right. So, so what I really want to congratulate you on with
that, Victoria, is the awareness that you've gotten since you've
been doing all of this that it didn't take you under that you
like you said, you reframed it, right? So, so you were able to
say, okay, I'm not going to go into resistance. I'm not going
to put a story like, wow, now I'm really gonna lack Wow, this
really sucks. I'm really frustrated about this. I'm very
unhappy. I'm very scared. You said, Okay, I get to be home.
And you can look at it and say, wow, what's, what's the good
here that I'm not seeing? Right? And, and, you know, what's the
blessing here? What's the lesson? And, and God, how do you
want me to use this time? How could I really multiply? And as
I was sharing at the beginning of the call, you know, there's a
whole lot of people, I'm really offering my coach certification
for this very reason. There's a whole lot of people that did
come home sick and say, you know, I think I'd like to be
home a whole lot more. How can I create that? Right? And that's
the purpose of, you know, the coach certification. So I want
to congratulate, you know, you on, you know, on the reframe.
And then, is there any area in that that you need support, or
you have questions, or you'd like anything, ideas, support,
prayers, anything around that? Or do you feel like, you know, I
have the awareness, I handle it, I feel good?
Yeah, um, I still need to, well, just to further me down the
road, I still need to get with you and have you like, look at
my offer. I'm getting I was getting hung up on that. Like,
is it too complicated? Is it too much? You know? Okay, that's a
special lesson. Can I just do that by email?
Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, absolutely. That's, you know,
that's, you know, the equation that I share of results mindset
plus skill set plus action, right. So a lot of this that
we're talking right now is mindset, but it also could very
much be skill set that we need to look at, right. So skill set,
meaning I'm I don't have an irresistible offer, or, you
know, skill set might be I'm still, you know, not making it
on the sales call or skill set might be I don't really know,
you know, whatever it is. So So yeah, absolutely. Your offers
should be irresistible. It should focus on benefits and not
features. It should be simple. Um, you know, it should have
language that's that's very dynamic. So good. Good. All
right. And let's see someone else have their hand up. Let me
look and find it. Okay, Kate. Um, love it. Sure. First of all,
are you are you complete on that? Victoria? Yes. Okay, let's
get let's give Victoria snap. Thank you for being willing.
First, thank you for sharing that. And congratulations on on
the on the reframe there. That was really good way to to do
that. Okay. And, and, you know, one of the ways you can tell is,
are you feeling heavy? Or are you feeling light? Okay, if
you're feeling heavy, you're in some kind of lie, it's not in
alignment with God. Okay, it's not in alignment with truth. If
you're feeling very light, very expansive, you're in alignment
with the truth of where you're at. So when you start to feel
heavy, and you start to go, okay, where am I constricting?
Okay, where am I blocking the flow? Where is their fear, then
I need to do things to get back into the truth and to expand.
And that's why I said at times, I just listen to a meditation,
or I go into praise, or I go into worship, or I, I read, I,
you know, and so that's what we do with with that. So you can
always tell, am I am I contracting? Do I feel heavy? Or
am I light, your body doesn't lie, your body tells you where
where you're at. And it tells you something else, too. You
noticed in the book that we read, the first thing that had
to happen is he had to get out of our out of body. Because as
soon as you're stuck in body, you're already condensed, you're
making life about the physical and life is not about the
physical life is energy, life is spiritual, you're a spiritual
being having a physical experience, you are not your
body. Right. So, you know, if I if you lost your hand and your
arm, you're still you, you might not have a hand.
under an arm, but you're not your body if you lost both. And
we've seen enough shark attacks, what whatever her name was that
you know, lost her legs or lost her arms. We've seen you know,
what's the wonderful speaker that has no legs and no arms,
it gets up there and speaks to kids, right? So he's still
right. So you could lose everything, your eyes, your
ear, you're still you, you are not a body. And so we have to
get out of body consciousness. And so sometimes when we get
really stuck, then remember, I taught you during like, even the
money we practice with radiating, we get out of our
body, we've got to get expansive. And the truth is not
stuck. Right? So another thing to think about is it heavy? Is
it light? Am I really in my body? Okay, Kate, I'm ready. I
mean,
that's good. Um, as I was just sitting here thinking about, you
know, where my attention is, and what I'm resisting, or all that
that's happening, just in the last, I would say in this last
week, I've become a little bit too future focused on
recognizing that I'm going to be traveling for a full month,
December to January. And it's like, Oh, wait a second, how do
I offer a four month program to, and I'm just starting to be
like, um, like, I got up yesterday and actually spent
time figuring out what I wanted to do, and was really clear. And
let me do this masterclass. And let me do these group sessions
this month and this month. And, and then I then this morning, it
was back to like the foot on the brake, like, what are you doing?
Like, I don't know, I just feel like there's some energy going
to resistance, and there's energy going to worry and
problem solving and trying to plan the future. And what I
really want to do is just step back and take a winter break and
just write and be by myself and not have my energy scattered.
And so I'm just kind of all over the place right now.
Okay, okay. I, I love that. So I want to be sure that I'm, I'm
hearing you and, and really clarifying. So is the resistance
that I'm hearing is that you're you're going against your own
desires that in other words, what what your spirit and your
soul is really crying for is I just want to take a couple
months off. In which case we look at what's possible, right?
The big question is what's possible. And, and, and also we
look at, instead of either or we get more expansive, right? And
so sometimes the heaviness is that we've made an either or
either I can be working or I can be vacationing. Oh, well, maybe
I can be doing both what's possible. Okay. And so when you
get into a what's possible, if you're looking at what do I
really desire? What's my heart really crying for? What's
possible? Well, now there's like infinite, we're not collapsing
it, there's infinite possibilities, right? So, um, as
someone who has spent about 30 years building a business for
fun on the road, um, meaning that I can build my business,
like deliberately, long before COVID-2014 went for this
business, I went 100% online, because I desire if I want to be
in Belize, or I want to be in Tahoe, or I want to be in
Europe, I'd like to build my business anywhere, all I need is
a laptop, that's the beauty of technology, right? And so I for
one have had a lot of fun before this being a founder of a
network marketing company building my business from
wherever I want to play. And I can take an hour out and do a
call and then you know, go explore Paris or go explore
Israel or go explore whatever I can, you know, I can do that.
That's one possibility. The other possibility is I can
create something that is almost totally online. And so then I
come back and the coaching part is when I get back. The other
possibility is I sell for January once I get back, and I
take off that time. So they're like, I'm only throwing out
there's possibilities. So get out of the either or get to
what do I truly desire? Because the risk is desire? What do I
truly desire? And then once you got what I desire, I desire to
rest, I desire to not coach at all. Okay, then what's possible?
How do I make that happen? Or I desire to have fun and build my
business? What's possible? You see? So am I answering what
you're asking?
Yeah, yeah. It's just clarity that there's a lot more space
for the both and if I let go of the resistance in the wrestling
like that's taking up a lot.
Yeah, yeah, it does. It does.
And I think one thing that I wrestle with in making those
decisions, whether I allow both end or I feel like I have to pull back or whatever is, um,
just boundaries around my mental energy. Like, like, I feel like I have to coach or right.
I don't, I don't, I can't turn my coaching brain off in order to allow myself that. And
I'm like, do I, so I just need to get clear on what is it I really desire there.
Yeah. What do you desire? And also what are you making true? So if you say I can't coach
and right, is that really true? I know a whole lot of people that coach and right. So is that
really true? Right. That's just past experience, right? There you go. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. There you
go. Okay. I think that's where that. Yeah. Okay. Yeah. So now we get out of the, I can't do this
and that, and we get into what would I love to do? What would give me bliss and how could I do that?
How could I do both? Or how could I do neither? What did it, whatever it is that your heart's
really, you know, what's the Holy spirit speaking to you? And then you get into, well, what's
possible, what else is possible? Okay. And you know, um, this is another thing and I'm going
to see if I can find it really quick. And as, and if anybody else has any feedback, it goes right to
what you said that I read from this, from the same book. And this is so important for everybody that
I'm going to just grab this really quick for you because, uh, what you said is so true about the
mental energy and how, if we, um, if we don't stay in a place of beauty and love and enjoyment,
there it is. Okay. So, um, so they said, um, here's the one I asked about, you know,
a defeat. And, and he said, I don't recognize, you know, as defeat, it's interesting experiences
in life. They're valuable stepping stones. A defeat is a condition which one must accept in
order to give it reality. So there we go again, we talked about it. I accepted it becomes real.
And he said, I refuse to give it reality by accepting totally different three books saying
the same thing. Right. And so he said in my philosophy, I've written these words, defeat,
I shall not know. It shall not touch me. I will meet it with true thinking, which is what we've
been saying. What's the truth. Scripture says the truth, capital T will set you free. What's the
truth. He said, re resisting it, um, will be my strengthening. So I want you to notice something
right here. Um, where he talks about what that does to your body. There's a couple places,
but this is one. And they said, what's the great passion of your life. He was being interviewed
and he said, beauty, beauty. And he replied without hesitation. He said, beauty and worthiness
to live life as a masterful interpreter of the light. And so the interviewer said,
what do you mean by beauty? And he said, perfection of rhythm, balance, perfection of
rhythm. Everything in nature is expressed by rhythmic waves of light. And so then he goes on,
he says, um, our thoughts have to be balanced. He said, ugliness, fears, failure, and diseases
arise from unbalanced thoughts and actions. Therefore think beauty always. If one desires
vitality of body and happiness in his life philosophy, this principle is stated this way.
I will see beauty and goodness in all things from all that is unlovely. Shall my vision be
immune? And so, um, when, when you understand this, um, everything, when we just choose to
see, like I said earlier, what's the good in this that I'm not seeing again, whatever we focus on
expands. If you focus on lack, you're getting more focused on what you don't like you're getting
more. If you focus on what's beautiful here, what's good here, what's lovely here, which,
what does scripture say whatsoever is pure, lovely, beautiful. If there be any virtue,
if there be any praise, fix your mind on these things, 2000 years ago, scripture was already
saying, look, you must fix your mind on high frequency things. That's life. That's vitality.
You see? And so resistance is literally that it's what happens. You know, if you're driving with the
brakes on, you're going to wear off, you know, what happens if there's resistance, it slows
everything down. What happens in resistance and water. Right. And, and so.
We really have to look at, you know,
where am I not only giving my power away,
but you're bringing up another very important point, Kate,
where am I giving my life force?
Where am I giving my mental energy?
Where am I giving my strength away?
And, you know, when I was in Reno on Tuesday
at the Tapestry Women's Network,
there's a nonprofit there,
a gentleman that's had a nonprofit for like 20 some years
and Soulless Tree, and he is working with kids
that have been a witness to suicide,
or like he goes to the schools when there's violence
or whatever, and he's the one really helping the kids, okay?
And what he teaches them, I've never forgotten,
he teaches them to pour more life into every moment.
And I've been meditating on that for two days.
Also put the word love, but imagine your life
not only is taking staying in the now
to a whole nother level, not only stay in the present,
so I'm not in the past, I'm not in the future,
and in the now, how can I pour more life
and love into the now?
Can I see the love?
Can I see the beauty?
Can I take the time to watch the sunset?
Can I read the poetry?
Can I put on the beautiful music?
Can I smell?
Can I bring beauty into my home?
Can I bring beauty into my work?
Can I see beauty in my work?
Can I do, and this is life to the body,
life to the soul, yeah?
Yeah.
Is that helpful?
Absolutely.
Yeah, that's, I'm already trying to reframe here,
so it's good.
Well, let's give Kate a big snap,
because that was really useful for all of us.
See how we all win?
Julie just gave you a big heart.
See how we all win?
As we bring this forth, we're all struggling.
We're all fellow sojourners.
It's true for all of us.
And so as one gets lifted up,
we all together get lifted up.
So, okay.
Who else is going to be courageous
and come forth and share?
What do you need support, prayers?
Where are you giving your power?
What questions do you have?
What are you learning?
What is this stirring up for you?
And then Kate, go ahead and take your hand down.
And there we go.
All right, that way I can see.
Okay, looks like Mary Ann raised her hand.
There you are, beautiful.
All right.
I have been giving my power over to,
and I just realized this as we're sitting here
talking about it,
and I can actually feel this happiness
because I've been doing it.
And when I go on social media,
I compare myself to the other coaches.
Oh, what are they doing?
Oh, well, maybe I'm not doing it right,
or I haven't even started,
or I don't have enough experience.
And so, I mean, I'm catching those thoughts,
but just right now I realized that I've been doing that.
Yeah, well, good.
First of all, good awareness,
even that awareness is the first step
to transformation.
So, obviously scripture says to compare with one another
is not wise.
And that's the reason, and we all do it, right?
Especially social media has been terrible for that.
And it's really rough on the young people even more so,
because you would think looking at social media
that every single young person
is living as a multimillionaire, right?
And they're all in debt and not true.
So, social media is creating
all kinds of interesting things.
It's really interesting to just look at everybody
as your teacher and everybody as your student.
In other words, you're not thinking of yourself
as scripture says more highly than you ought,
because you've got a lot to learn from everybody.
And also everybody has a lot to learn.
That's why I love the Prosper Leader membership.
We're all learning from each other.
And that's the beautiful thing.
I think I've shared this with you,
but I had an experience once,
it's probably been 20 years ago now,
but I've never forgotten it.
Because I was young,
I was founder of a network marketing company.
And there was a dentist, a very successful dentist,
lived in the nicest of mansions.
I was still really growing and young,
and it was very successful.
And he became a distributor with our company.
And then there was another one that was a mom
and working from home and became a distributor.
And they had both.
scheduled appointments with me kind of back to back.
And so what was fascinating is how they compared each other
and made the other person like the other person
had it better.
And so the woman came and said,
you know, I'm not like the dentist.
I don't have just infinite files of people I can call.
I don't have built-in patients, you know,
that I could bring into this business,
this network marketing nutrition business.
So I'm really at a disadvantage, you know, to build this.
Cause I don't have patients.
I don't have files of, you know, a big Rolodex.
And then the doctor came in to meet with me and he said,
I'm not like these moms that can be home all day,
making calls and have so much time, right?
So, you know, it's this whole saying of the grass
is always greener on the other side.
We always think someone else has it better
and that they're further ahead
and that they're doing it better
and struggling less and making more.
And the truth is probably we're all, you know,
struggling, we're all growing, we're all learning.
And so you're doing beautiful and, you know,
appreciate you bringing the awareness.
How about you guys?
This is something you probably all can comment on.
Let's do this one as a group.
So, you know, how many of you have compared
and how many of you maybe have found a solution
to compare less?
Can you share with Marianne, what have you done?
Or are you stuck in that same thing?
Or have you found some ways to do less of that?
Anybody wanna share for everybody?
Do you find yourself comparing?
Have you gotten a breakthrough when it comes to comparing?
And how did you do that?
Hello, it's Kristen.
Hi Kristen.
Hello, I'm tired tonight,
but I would say I have been in that place of comparison.
I think for myself, the biggest thing is that
I had to just reconcile that my journey is my journey
and I'm not somebody else.
And I was listening to something recently
and I don't even know who, where,
but it was just kind of talking about like,
we can look at everybody else and say,
oh, well, they already have the business.
They already, you know, have X, Y, and Z.
But realizing that the gift that God has given me
is the gift that he's given me.
And that it doesn't matter how many of us they are,
the people who are attracted to you,
you're who, they're gonna be attracted to you.
Yes, yes.
And that you can do your thing differently.
And I went through that because I used to sit there
and I did all these programs and all this good stuff.
And then I kind of got despondent because of course,
like, oh, this can happen and this can happen.
And then I started doing it.
And I remember I was on another coaching call
with another coach that I was working with.
And one day he said, I got on and I was like,
God, I need somebody to pour into me
because I feel like I give so much in all these circles.
And he said, you don't need another program
because the things that you're learning
is not how God is gonna move through you
in this particular season.
And that was the greatest breakthrough that I had
because again, I was looking at,
oh my gosh, I'm not far enough, I'm not this.
And I remember one day in my quiet time during prayer,
I was like, God, I don't feel like I'm far enough ahead.
And he says, you're where you're supposed to be
because there's things that you need to learn on the journey.
And so don't keep, because again,
if I keep looking at what everybody else is doing,
I'm a rubberneck and I might have an accident, right?
Where I'm going, it's my journey.
And one of the things that in my weekly calls with Julie
and I told her this last weekend,
I love it because she says all the time,
the time it takes is the time it takes.
And so I can look at, yes, I should be further,
I could be further, I could be doing this, that and the third
and right now the reality is I'm where I'm supposed to be
and what I'm doing is where I'm supposed to be.
So that's helped me tremendously.
I love that.
Thank you for sharing that.
Thank you, Kristen.
Let's give her a snap.
Yeah.
So anyone else have feedback or does that,
do you feel complete on that?
Marianne, how do you feel on that?
See if I can see where you went.
Okay.
Where'd you go?
There you are.
I loved what she said.
How is God gonna move through you?
And putting the focus back on God
and how he gave me the idea, he put people on my path.
I'm, you know, you know, I'm focusing on the wrong thing. But
I love that. I love what she said about how, how God is going
to move through you. So that's helpful to me a lot. Wonderful.
Wonderful. Thank you. Thank you. Yes, Julie.
I love that to the shift of the focus, like what you're just
saying, Mary, about, you know, putting it back on God. And I've
been, I've been diving into the feeling spirit alive, never die.
Since you brought up, I've written that I'm reading like,
almost all the books, I think that you suggested, but it's
been awesome, because I've been stuck. And I feel like I've just
been really just feeding on it. So it's been great. But I've
been up and down motions, which is also great. So and after
operating by design, but just in that focus, a word that he gave
me this past week was gaze. And I looked it up in the 1828
dictionary. And it was just so powerful, how I didn't even
realize what it was, but it was like in time of prayer. And I
just was like, you know, fix my gate, put my gaze on your, you
know, don't go to the left, don't go to the right. But, you
know, we're just moving forward. And every moment moving forward,
it's the step by step together, you know, ordered our steps. And
so one of the I broke competition in like 2007. That's
when it was like, that was it. And one of the phrases in case
it helps is that I like I keep in front of my eyes is complain
equals remain. So it's whatever I think is outside of where Oh,
they have a blah, blah. It's like, that's just it. It helps
me quickly just say nope, not going there and keeping that
gaze on moving forward, you know, and, and also just putting
up anything before your site around, you know, maybe
wherever you personal like visiting boards and stuff, but
just words that are powerful, like when the vision appears,
or when the vision is clear, the vote, the results will appear or
stay focused in these things that feed us. Because what goes
in our eyes and ears is what's keeping our mind focused or, you
know, driven, driving towards where we're going. So yeah, not
competing, or comparing it. I don't know what the word would
be. But just not competing is, is a
like, I love that. I love that. realizing the divine order to
your life, you're not behind, you're not ahead, you are
exactly where you are called to be right now. And that allows
you to be present. God was showing me today, and I actually
wrote it in my journal. If you write on a piece of paper, if
you write the word nowhere, and then if you break it up between
the W and the H, it becomes now here. And so if you want to move
from nowhere, God was showing me this, as I was journaling, if
you want to move from feeling like you're nowhere, to you are
now, here, simply separate the now and realize. And so then you
are in a place where transformation can happen,
because you're now here. And now you're in the place to say, God,
what are you doing? You know, God is doing a new thing. It
says, Will you not see? Will you not perceive? Right? Will you
not be aware of what is in this holy moment in this holy
instant? What is right here that God is, is wanting to do. And so
when that's happening, you know, another another thing that
just hit me is, when you're tempted to compare, another
powerful thing is the power of blessing, and the power of
celebrating. So you see someone having success. And if you turn
that into a negative, you're keeping the success from
yourself. So if you if you look at that person's success, and
you go look at that, and you even send them a congratulations,
or I really celebrate you, or I love how you had that
breakthrough. You remember the boomerang effect, you can't give
anything that doesn't come back to you. And you can't keep
anything that you don't get, right. And so remember, we've
talked about the flow and activating the flow. So the flow
gets constipated, if I look and go, oh, they're better, and I'm
behind the flow gets constipated. If I look at it,
and I go look at that coach, look at that I celebrate. And
so I speak blessings, I might send a prayer, I might send
blessings and say, I'm just so blessed by your success.
Congratulations. And you actually get into the place
where you you feel their success boomerang effect, you're feeling
your own success, you're giving you're activating the flow.
then instead of being constipated. And the other thing is to also have it be encouraging to you.
You know, so if you see a coach that is, you know, making 2 million a year or 5 million a year or 10
million or whatever it is for you, a six figure, you see a coach that has a six figure income,
then you can say, wow, God, you're no respecter of people. That's so awesome. You did that for
her. That's so awesome you're doing. And I know if you'll do it for them, you'll do it for me
because you're no respecter of people. So I remember it started with the gifts of the Holy
Spirit when God really started teaching me about the gifts of the Holy Spirit. And I met a man and
he would just like prophesy and it would happen like within 24 hours, within 48 hours. And he'd
put his hands on someone's ears and he'd be able to hear and limbs would grow out. And I was seeing
all these miracles. And I remember saying to the Lord, I desire that. And so it wasn't feeling less
than it was. It was making me hungry because he was being salt. He was being light. I was thirsty.
I desired more of that. And so you're going, wow, you know, instead of me feeling less than I go,
wow, God, you bless this person. I celebrate. I celebrate that their coaching just hit, you know,
a hundred thousand. I celebrate that. It just hit a million or I celebrate. They just got their
first five clients or their first 500 or their group has 50 million, whatever it is. I celebrate
that. And I know you're no respecter of people and, and Lord, I would like that. I'm celebrating
with them. I'm looking at that. And I say, I desire that. I would like that. Thank you for
showing me that showing me it's possible. If it's been done, it can be done. Thank you for showing
it's possible. And so now you're in a very expansive state of not jealousy, not, you know,
whatever, but you are in a place of, of, of generosity. And those, by the way, are two very
different planes of existence. The plane of competition is a different plane than the
spiritual plane of, of lavish generosity, lavish generosity. And so it's again, what are we talking
about this whole call? Everything we've talked about could be summed up in one word and that's
reframe, right? Just change the meaning you're attached to it. So you change the meaning that's
not competition. That's an example. That's someone for me to celebrate. That's God showing me it can
be done. That's my inspiration. That's, you know, so what can I learn? How can that person be my
teacher? What can't, you know what did they do that I could emulate, you know, if it's really,
truly working, don't get caught up trying a million different things, but so anyway, does, does that,
does that help? Is that, is that useful? I gotta go. I can't see you. Where's Marianne?
Yeah, there you are. Is that, is that helpful? Yeah, there's a, there's a lot there. I'm taking
my focus off of, you know, everybody knows more than me. I didn't realize it till tonight.
It, I, it was there, but it wasn't, the spotlight wasn't on that. So yeah. Thank you ladies for
helping me. Yeah, thank you for bringing that forward and, and, and what a gift that you just
were for, for everybody. It's a reminder for, for everyone and you know, I had a, another experience
with a woman and she was going on and on and on about the things that were, were wrong and I
started asking her some questions. What's right about the situation? What's good about the
situation? What is it that you love about the situation? What's the blessing? What's the lesson?
You know, are you, are you speaking more about what you desire or about what you don't desire
because whatever you focus on expands and are you speaking on what's present and the abundance or
are you speaking about lack and she says, oh my gosh, you just gave me the awareness.
I've been focusing on what I don't want and so I'm creating more of it. So again, you know,
all of that is the same as far as that. Oh, I love all of this. Okay. What's coming up for you?
Anybody feeling like something's just really bubbling up that you would like to share?
Um, Google trust the slow work of God. Ooh, that looks very good. Thank you. Um,
um, I gotta make sure I write that down too. I don't know that one. So that's beautiful in the
chat. You guys are getting, um, trust the slow work of God. Okay. If I say something about that
really quick. Sure. My spiritual director.
just shared this with me today.
And I'm like, oh my gosh,
I've got to frame that and read that every morning.
It's powerful.
So I won't take time, but look it up.
Wonderful, wonderful.
I love it.
You know, this goes to being sure
that you're starting your morning powerfully every morning
with some good reading, some really high quality,
some meaty, meaty, meaty reading, okay?
I know I've been recommending a lot.
Some of you are reading, you know,
The Feelings Buried Alive.
Some of you are reading The Science of Getting Rich.
Some of you, you know,
there's so many really great books to study
and to focus on, which also, you know,
I shared a lot about this.
I won't go over it because it's in the money seminar.
Okay, what else is coming up for you guys?
Has this been a helpful format, by the way?
I would love your feedback on this.
I really felt led to do that.
So Kristen's giving a hard, you guys can even unmute.
Tell me what you like or don't like about this format.
I'm loving it.
Okay, all right, I love it.
And I love the feedback.
And, you know, Kate, I'm so glad you're part of this.
And if you guys haven't gotten to know Kate,
she is so wonderful about really helping process,
especially trauma and emotion that's stuck in the body.
And she's just really good at, you know,
she comes and brings forth all these things where,
you know, where she's feeling stuck in some ways
and we're able to process,
but she's got so much value that she brings
and each one of you do.
And so thank you so much for being part of this group.
And each of you are uniquely designed
and with unique gifts and with unique understanding
and unique revelations and unique experiences.
And there's no accident that you're here.
You are what makes this collective great.
You really are what makes this fabulous.
And so I want each and every one of you to know
that you're so important that you're here.
And I admire your courage when you come forth.
I know for some of you, you're introverts.
It's uncomfortable to come forth.
You know, thank you for stepping up
and being willing to share.
You really matter.
You're very significant and you're loved.
And for every breakthrough that you get,
everybody gets a breakthrough.
And I love that.
So I just want you to know that I, for one,
look forward to seeing you guys
and I celebrate you so much.
You're so beautiful and love the work that you're doing,
both within yourself and in your communities
and with your clients.
So thank you for being you,
truly from the bottom of my heart.
I just love, love, love each one of you.
All right.
So I think that we're at the bottom of the hour
and I think we are well-fed.
How are you feeling?
Are you all feeling pretty well-fed?
And something that you can begin applying right away
and making a change or a reframe
or something to go to the next level.
Of course, I will see you Saturday morning
with the Q&A for God, money and me.
So review, see what questions,
what applications to get the most out of that.
If you're listening to this live,
if you're not, nevermind that.
And I'm gonna stop the recording
and then I'll just, off the recording,
just have a final closing with you guys.
So let me stop that.