And I'm just really, I'm really kind of pumped up
to get the ball rolling, to get things going.
And I have people right now that I could send you all.
And so I just, and I want you to get really confident
and comfortable.
And the only way to get comfortable is just to do it.
Totally.
And it's easier to do it on other people, I will say.
Yeah.
Practicing muscle at home is way harder
than when I'm in a session with someone in general.
Really?
No, I mean, it's just like, yeah.
I think maybe your spirit clicks in.
Yeah.
You're intuitively also following.
Yeah.
Like trusting more.
Trusting more.
And you have to.
I don't know.
It's, yeah.
I mean, I started out practicing it on myself
just because I wanted to make sure
that it wasn't anything weird and that it worked.
And so I learned how to do it on myself.
But then I prefer doing it on someone else.
I also feel like it's a little easier to do it
on someone that I don't know very well.
So like when I try to do my own kids,
it's a little harder because I don't know
if you are somehow, you're too connected to them
and you can kind of get in the way,
like get your own self in the way of it a little bit.
Well, you know what you want.
What I want, what I think.
Yeah.
You're like, um, yeah.
Exactly.
This is not good for you.
I can tell.
And I do it.
I mean, I do muscle test my family,
but it's a little more difficult, in my opinion.
That's my opinion.
Yeah.
I could do that.
But I think that's why you can chart,
I mean, you can do one for free
and you don't have to feel bad if it doesn't work
because you're just practicing.
You're just trying.
I know that this is what I've been thinking
is I'm like, I do have lots of people in town
that would meet with me,
but they're like my prospective clients too.
So you want to screw up the first time you want it.
Monica, I have like friends who are like,
they know my past with inner healing and whatever.
So they're like, yeah, I want to meet with you.
And I'm like, am I screwing this up?
Am I screwing up right now?
Well, so you might be getting in your own head,
even having that thought.
Oh, true.
So I've just been doing all my family members,
but they're all so hard to do, like you're saying.
It's like, oh my gosh.
I mean, it may be different for you.
Maybe your family is more comfortable.
I don't know.
Maybe it's easier for you.
My brother was really easy.
See what Carly Euler told me?
Yeah.
Here, come up here and talk to her.
I understand.
I mean, it's not like anything or something,
but it helped me.
Was she, she said, hi Susie.
So my friend Carly Euler,
I don't know if you know Carly,
but she's been doing this.
I know who she is, yeah.
She's been doing this for a while now.
And she said that she treats it like,
she goes like, if it's hard for her to find what it is,
she'll put her arm out like this.
Have you heard this one?
And then she just uses two fingers to like press down.
And then she'll really feel it stop
and not go any further.
If it's a yes, right?
The stop.
And then it'll just like keep going down
like an elevator if it's a no.
Okay.
That one kind of helped me.
Okay.
Whatever.
She said that there's something about this muscle
is easier to move around.
She read it somewhere.
That's what she uses, so.
I didn't know.
That's a good one too.
That's good.
That one actually helped me.
I mean, you kind of,
you kind of have to get out of your head
and just go for it.
And so when you're,
when you're practicing on yourself,
I've, I think it's helpful
because you can find stuff about yourself
and you're going to know that it's right or wrong.
And so when it's,
you'll, you'll get it.
It's just,
I think it's one of those things
where you get the feel for it
and then,
and then you have it.
Yeah.
It's like riding a bike.
Yeah.
I'm assuming.
Yeah.
For me, what helped is doing the blind tests
with the joy and the shame on the cards.
And then not just being like,
oh my gosh,
Doing the blind test on the cards.
Actually like noting how many you get right
and how many you get wrong.
Cause sometimes you're like,
oh my gosh,
I got that one wrong again,
you know,
but if you look at it,
actually I have way more right than I have wrong.
And every time I do it
just for 20 minutes or something
and I take a percentage of how many,
you know,
and I'm like,
oh, 75%.
And that's okay.
The first is 50%.
What method are you using when she does that?
What method are you using?
Oh yeah.
I switch in between sometimes,
but I do this.
She does two fingers.
She pushes her finger.
Pushes the finger down.
Oh that way.
That's one of the coolest.
Oh, that's a cool way.
Yeah.
I really like that one.
So that do the blind testing with their cards.
That's a great way to practice on yourself.
Yeah.
It's easy.
Right.
Yeah.
My problem is,
I'm doing this
and it just would either,
whether it was yes or no,
it wouldn't go where it would go.
Like it just.
Yeah.
Kind of feel what is.
I'll try those other ways.
Yeah.
So when you feel what's different,
when you feel what's no,
it's different.
It's different.
Yeah.
Maybe it's different for you.
And I just wasn't feeling any different.
And that's why I'm like,
am I doing it wrong?
Is it just not the technique for me?
It's a little discouraging.
It is discouraging.
I agree.
I've had some discouraging times.
You've had discouraging times?
Well,
and it's hard when you feel discouraged
about the muscle testing.
Cause it's literally the door
to everything you've just learned.
So it's like,
you can't,
you can't practice with all that unless you get.
Yeah.
Yeah, so I understand that discouraging feeling. I think like I just met with my brother. I tried to
Yeah, so well, this is just the beginning and I know it was a lot and I'm sure it was overwhelming
That's the four-day thing trying to pack it all in it was a lot
But this is just the beginning and that was like the huge umbrella of everything
And then what I envision which is what happened to me when I went through
That same thing is that you will find your own
Style like you're gonna tailor it to who you are how you operate how you think
You know and you're gonna develop your own
Personal niche and way that you do it so you don't have to be an expert at every single area that was covered
And I don't think anybody will be an expert at all of those. So you're gonna find where you kind of gravitate to
Certain categories in certain areas like I know some people that do use muscle testing just to find
you know allergies and
Vitamin deficiencies and that's really important
But I don't really do that because it's not my thing and I always go for the emotional stuff
Always because I feel more comfortable. I feel like I'm better at that
and
So I think that
Yeah
But I think even for you all you're gonna be different than me like that's why I want a team because I think that everybody's
Gonna have different things that they have authority in or stand out and even depending on like what you've been through personally and what?
You've overcome personally
So I think it's this is gonna be really really great to have a team and you don't have to be perfect
I want to I want to
kind of
Get that in drill that in you don't have to be perfect right now
You don't have to have your lives don't have to be perfect. You're not disqualified because you were depressed for a week or whatever
That's just regular life, you know
We're all gonna have ups and downs and it's good. That's just how it is
So the fact that you're willing and you're showing up
That's all you that really that's the main thing and then becoming confident in it because I really think you know
That's what that's why David could face Goliath because he knew his skill. He already knew what he could do
He knew he was good with the slingshot. Yeah, he'd been doing it. So it wasn't like oh my gosh, what am I gonna do?
He knew what he could do and he was super confident in it and he had no doubts at all. And so
I'm becoming confident and how you do it and your area of expertise
That's gonna be key. And the only way that you can do that is by trying it
So that's why you're doing practice hour because at first it may be wrong and it may feel weird you make
But that's okay. That's that's how you do it. And it's I don't think it's gonna take that long to get proficient
I just don't yeah, and even to even to this day
Sometimes I'll muscle test someone and I'll always go back and check it like is this right?
Yes, is this right and I'll double it and I'll even go back sometimes and be like wait a second. Was this the age?
Yeah, because
You know, we're just people
Yeah, you know you all have your own personal victories your own personal knowledge, you know your own
Personality and you all have like a unique value and contribution. So that's why I'm I'm I have this like a vision in my heart
I can't even articulate it fully of this team of these different things going on that can help people with every kind of issue in
The world, you know, yeah and to be ready to go with that
So, all right, you got to get ready to share who you are. It's more about like sharing who you are with the world
You're all ready wired for this. Otherwise, you wouldn't be here like you gravitated towards this
and so
It's just a matter of
Discovering it being confident in it and then sharing it with whoever comes your way
So I wanted to add a few more things
So when I went through Robin's thing, I just started doing it and because I'd been in inner healing and counseling
I just started adding some things
in my sessions that
Seem to work really well and seem to help kind of if you're not really sure what's going on to kind of fine-tune some things
even more and