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And I'm just really, I'm really kind of pumped up

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to get the ball rolling, to get things going.

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And I have people right now that I could send you all.

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And so I just, and I want you to get really confident

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and comfortable.

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And the only way to get comfortable is just to do it.

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Totally.

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And it's easier to do it on other people, I will say.

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Yeah.

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Practicing muscle at home is way harder

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than when I'm in a session with someone in general.

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Really?

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No, I mean, it's just like, yeah.

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I think maybe your spirit clicks in.

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You're intuitively also following.

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Yeah.

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Like trusting more.

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Trusting more.

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And you have to.

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I don't know.

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It's, yeah.

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I mean, I started out practicing it on myself

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just because I wanted to make sure

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that it wasn't anything weird and that it worked.

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And so I learned how to do it on myself.

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But then I prefer doing it on someone else.

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I also feel like it's a little easier to do it

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on someone that I don't know very well.

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So like when I try to do my own kids,

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it's a little harder because I don't know

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if you are somehow, you're too connected to them

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and you can kind of get in the way,

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like get your own self in the way of it a little bit.

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Well, you know what you want.

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What I want, what I think.

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You're like, um, yeah.

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Exactly.

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This is not good for you.

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I can tell.

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And I do it.

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I mean, I do muscle test my family,

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but it's a little more difficult, in my opinion.

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That's my opinion.

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I could do that.

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But I think that's why you can chart,

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I mean, you can do one for free

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and you don't have to feel bad if it doesn't work

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because you're just practicing.

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You're just trying.

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I know that this is what I've been thinking

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is I'm like, I do have lots of people in town

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that would meet with me,

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but they're like my prospective clients too.

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So you want to screw up the first time you want it.

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Monica, I have like friends who are like,

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they know my past with inner healing and whatever.

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So they're like, yeah, I want to meet with you.

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And I'm like, am I screwing this up?

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Am I screwing up right now?

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Well, so you might be getting in your own head,

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even having that thought.

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Oh, true.

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So I've just been doing all my family members,

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but they're all so hard to do, like you're saying.

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It's like, oh my gosh.

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I mean, it may be different for you.

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Maybe your family is more comfortable.

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I don't know.

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Maybe it's easier for you.

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My brother was really easy.

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See what Carly Euler told me?

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Here, come up here and talk to her.

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I understand.

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I mean, it's not like anything or something,

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but it helped me.

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Was she, she said, hi Susie.

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So my friend Carly Euler,

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I don't know if you know Carly,

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but she's been doing this.

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I know who she is, yeah.

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She's been doing this for a while now.

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And she said that she treats it like,

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she goes like, if it's hard for her to find what it is,

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she'll put her arm out like this.

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Have you heard this one?

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And then she just uses two fingers to like press down.

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And then she'll really feel it stop

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and not go any further.

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If it's a yes, right?

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The stop.

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And then it'll just like keep going down

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like an elevator if it's a no.

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That one kind of helped me.

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Whatever.

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She said that there's something about this muscle

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is easier to move around.

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She read it somewhere.

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That's what she uses, so.

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I didn't know.

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That's a good one too.

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That's good.

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That one actually helped me.

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I mean, you kind of,

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you kind of have to get out of your head

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and just go for it.

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when you're practicing on yourself,

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I've, I think it's helpful

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because you can find stuff about yourself

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and you're going to know that it's right or wrong.

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And so when it's,

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you'll, you'll get it.

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It's just,

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I think it's one of those things

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where you get the feel for it

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and then you have it.

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It's like riding a bike.

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I'm assuming.

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For me, what helped is doing the blind tests

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with the joy and the shame on the cards.

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And then not just being like,

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oh my gosh,

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Doing the blind test on the cards.

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Actually like noting how many you get right

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and how many you get wrong.

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Cause sometimes you're like,

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I got that one wrong again,

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you know,

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but if you look at it,

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actually I have way more right than I have wrong.

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And every time I do it

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just for 20 minutes or something

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and I take a percentage of how many,

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you know,

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and I'm like,

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oh, 75%.

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And that's okay.

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The first is 50%.

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What method are you using when she does that?

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What method are you using?

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I switch in between sometimes,

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but I do this.

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She does two fingers.

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Pushes the finger down.

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Oh that way.

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That's one of the coolest.

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Oh, that's a cool way.

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I really like that one.

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So that do the blind testing with their cards.

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That's a great way to practice on yourself.

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It's easy.

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whether it was yes or no,

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it wouldn't go where it would go.

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Like it just.

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Kind of feel what is.

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I'll try those other ways.

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So when you feel what's different,

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when you feel what's no,

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it's different.

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It's different.

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Maybe it's different for you.

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And I just wasn't feeling any different.

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And that's why I'm like,

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am I doing it wrong?

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Is it just not the technique for me?

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It's a little discouraging.

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It is discouraging.

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I've had some discouraging times.

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You've had discouraging times?

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and it's hard when you feel discouraged

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about the muscle testing.

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Cause it's literally the door

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to everything you've just learned.

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So it's like,

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you can't,

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you can't practice with all that unless you get.

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Yeah, so I understand that discouraging feeling. I think like I just met with my brother. I tried to

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Yeah, so well, this is just the beginning and I know it was a lot and I'm sure it was overwhelming

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That's the four-day thing trying to pack it all in it was a lot

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But this is just the beginning and that was like the huge umbrella of everything

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And then what I envision which is what happened to me when I went through

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That same thing is that you will find your own

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Style like you're gonna tailor it to who you are how you operate how you think

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You know and you're gonna develop your own

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Personal niche and way that you do it so you don't have to be an expert at every single area that was covered

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And I don't think anybody will be an expert at all of those. So you're gonna find where you kind of gravitate to

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Certain categories in certain areas like I know some people that do use muscle testing just to find

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Vitamin deficiencies and that's really important

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But I don't really do that because it's not my thing and I always go for the emotional stuff

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Always because I feel more comfortable. I feel like I'm better at that

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But I think even for you all you're gonna be different than me like that's why I want a team because I think that everybody's

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Gonna have different things that they have authority in or stand out and even depending on like what you've been through personally and what?

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You've overcome personally

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So I think it's this is gonna be really really great to have a team and you don't have to be perfect

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I want to I want to

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Get that in drill that in you don't have to be perfect right now

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You don't have to have your lives don't have to be perfect. You're not disqualified because you were depressed for a week or whatever

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That's just regular life, you know

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We're all gonna have ups and downs and it's good. That's just how it is

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So the fact that you're willing and you're showing up

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That's all you that really that's the main thing and then becoming confident in it because I really think you know

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That's what that's why David could face Goliath because he knew his skill. He already knew what he could do

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He knew he was good with the slingshot. Yeah, he'd been doing it. So it wasn't like oh my gosh, what am I gonna do?

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He knew what he could do and he was super confident in it and he had no doubts at all. And so

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I'm becoming confident and how you do it and your area of expertise

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That's gonna be key. And the only way that you can do that is by trying it

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So that's why you're doing practice hour because at first it may be wrong and it may feel weird you make

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But that's okay. That's that's how you do it. And it's I don't think it's gonna take that long to get proficient

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I just don't yeah, and even to even to this day

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Sometimes I'll muscle test someone and I'll always go back and check it like is this right?

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Yes, is this right and I'll double it and I'll even go back sometimes and be like wait a second. Was this the age?

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You know, we're just people

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Yeah, you know you all have your own personal victories your own personal knowledge, you know your own

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Personality and you all have like a unique value and contribution. So that's why I'm I'm I have this like a vision in my heart

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I can't even articulate it fully of this team of these different things going on that can help people with every kind of issue in

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The world, you know, yeah and to be ready to go with that

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So, all right, you got to get ready to share who you are. It's more about like sharing who you are with the world

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You're all ready wired for this. Otherwise, you wouldn't be here like you gravitated towards this

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It's just a matter of

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Discovering it being confident in it and then sharing it with whoever comes your way

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So I wanted to add a few more things

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So when I went through Robin's thing, I just started doing it and because I'd been in inner healing and counseling

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I just started adding some things

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in my sessions that

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Seem to work really well and seem to help kind of if you're not really sure what's going on to kind of fine-tune some things

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even more and