So the other mode is overcoming mode.
You wanna get people into overcoming mode.
I did this with Susie and my class
and people that I do online.
You want to make sure people are in overcoming mode.
And that's the other thing.
We are literally, we are built to face adversity
and to overcome them.
And you know this because you look at people
that have survived, for instance, like the Holocaust
and these major things and they,
there's this inner drive to push through.
Everybody has this built-in inner drive
to push through difficult things.
And so when that gets compromised,
that natural drive, also the nervous system,
again, is a sign that your body's meant to help you.
When the nervous system sends out
the flight or flight energy,
that's to help you face that difficulty,
that stressful situation.
And it's to help you.
And it actually does in the short term.
It helps you in the short term.
And then after, if you're in a car accident
or any kind of trauma, any kind of stress,
it could be something major or it could be something minor
but it affected you in a big way.
Whatever it is, the fight or flight energy
helps you initially just kind of get through it.
And then your nervous system is designed
to then turn on the other branch of the nervous system,
which calms you down.
So there's one that pumps you up.
It actually pulse, it's pulsing energy.
It pulses energy through your muscles, everything.
And then the other side is meant to calm you back down.
And what happens is sometimes that calm down part
of the nervous system, it doesn't stop.
It calms down, down, down, down, down.
And then a person is like, they can't move.
Like the people that get so depressed,
they can't get out of the bed.
Is that the parasympathetic?
Yeah, the parasympathetic nervous system.
That part of their nervous system
that's meant to calm them down got out of balance.
It went too far.
And those people are definitely not
in overcoming mode at that point.
Because that's when people feel hopeless,
they feel like giving up, they feel defeated.
So the opposite of overcoming mode is defeat mode.
So you've got overcoming mode versus defeat mode.
And if somebody's in defeat mode,
they're not gonna be able to persevere
and push through what they're going through.
Or the things that they've faced.
So that's my other goal with people,
is to help them to shift into overcoming mode,
regardless of what their circumstances have been.
And then once they're in that,
moving forward in their life, same thing.
You're coaching them on, okay,
how do you face difficult things in the future
and function as an overcomer?
Because it's already who you are.
You know, Jesus overcame the greatest enemy of humanity.
The biggest enemy of humanity was death.
Because God didn't create us to die.
He created us to live eternally with him.
So death was the biggest, strongest enemy of humanity.
Jesus overcame it.
And so if Jesus overcame the biggest,
the biggest thing there is to overcome,
and then he crucified us with him and rose us with him,
and now we're his embodiment, we're overcomers.
It's who we are.
So the overcoming mode is an operating system
that is activated, and once overcoming mode is activated,
you know, that's when you can leave the past in the past,
where it belongs.
You know, you don't need to dwell or stay in your,
you leave the past in the past.
You take only, you take only what you gained and learned.
And that's what we wanna coach people into,
is that no matter what happened, you gain something,
and you gain something, you learn something,
and something gets added to you for an upgrade.
And that's just the truth.
So when someone isn't, when overcoming mode is activated,
they're able to do that.
They're able to leave the past in the past.
They're able to recognize and see what they have gained
or what has been added to them because of that,
and then they proceed forward.
So you wanna get them in forward motion.
You don't want people to get stuck, immobilized,
not able to move forward.
And you know, they're gonna have increased,
they're gonna have gained something.
They even gain authority.
That's what Jacob Reeve used to always teach. Every single thing that you walk
through in this life and you overcome, you gain authority in that area. And so
you always increase because of your circumstances. You don't
decrease. You always increase. You always upgrade. You always gain. Always. And so we
want to get people to that and operating in overcoming mode, not defeat. And you
know, so this is when I use this. Since we're pre-programmed to endure
hardship, to persevere through difficulties, and to move through
adversity, you know, I use this when someone is stuck in defeat. I mean, they
believe they've been defeated. They feel that they're defeated. That there's no
hope for them. They don't see any way forward or out. You know, this
usually has to do with discouragement, like massive discouragement,
disappointment, those types of things. Doubt. And there will always be some
beliefs in there with someone who's in defeat mode. Some limiting
beliefs, hindering beliefs that are keeping them down in a pit. And I mean,
that sounds very extreme. And it can be very extreme. But it can also be more
subtle, where maybe somebody's not depressed, where they can't get out of
bed. But they're just kind of functioning in this low, kind of low way. And they're
just not really free or fully pressing on ahead. It's kind of dimmed down.
Yeah, yeah. Identity and spirit. Everything's just kind of dimmed. The identity and the spirit is dimmed down.
It's kind of like going in a circle. That's really good. And you know, we're supposed to be shining. I mean, yeah, yeah.
We're a light on the hill. It's already who we are. And it says, let your light
shine before men. And someone who's in defeat, like Nicole just said, they're
gonna be dim. They're gonna be very dim. And honestly, when we, and I've been in
this. I've been in this mode. So, I recognize it. But when we get in
this, it is, number one, you're not gonna be shining your light. Because you know,
your light is very dim. But it also creates a lot of stress. And here
we go back into stress mode. So, a lot of times you'll have someone that's not in
healing mode and not in overcoming mode. Because when you're not functioning fully
and who you are, when your identity is dimmed, your light is dimmed and you're
just like almost like barely just barely living. Living enough just to get through.
Your spirit is down there going, wait a second, I'm made for more. And I'm it's
I'm not, it's this isn't me. And so, your spirit gets really discouraged. And your
body will react to that even. Your body can malfunction because of your
living. Almost like it, I don't know, just like half of who you really are. Maybe
even less. I don't know. But it's like I feel it as we're talking. Just what that
feels like. And it's very harmful. It's very harmful to someone who's functioning
like that. Mentally, emotionally and physically as well and spiritually. It's
very, very stressful. No, nobody knows how to get out of it. Nobody does. That's
what they're feeling. Yeah. And you know, we go, we function off of our feelings
and our experiences. Because that's what that's what the subconscious mind
operates from. And so, if you feel like, oh everything's hopeless. This is just
how my life is. And you're stuck in that, you're just gonna function down there.
You know, that's just. And it's it's really sad. I mean, it feels like a
tragedy to me. It feels like a tragedy for someone to have so much. Everybody,
every human being has so much capability and potential for their lives. And you
know, all of us, you all are the only ones on this planet that are you at this time.
In history. And you're the only one of you that will ever be in this world. And
so, that means you have something so significant and valuable and powerful to
contribute to the world. And think about it, if that's just capped off down here
somewhere. Like how tragic. How tragic for you. Tragic for the people that could
benefit from who you are. The impact that coulda, woulda, shoulda happened. Like how sad.
I know, it's so sad. So, when do you use this? So, this is another question that I
ask. Are you in overcoming mode or defeat mode? So, you do that after you like
release things from healing? If they get into healing mode, then you do this? So, there's not an order to this. I'm
just giving you options. Oh, yeah. You're kind of sensing after hearing their story
and what's going on. It's more of a sensing. What question you're gonna ask.
So, these are just other... These are just more little focuses to kind of... Because
we were talking... It's kind of like a puzzle piece when you meet with someone.
You're getting all these things and you're trying to put the puzzle together.
And this just helps in my opinion. And so, I use this... I focus on overcoming mode
when someone is struggling with depression for sure. If someone comes in
with depression. If someone is stuck in a continuous struggle like... I see this
pattern. Like someone has this big struggle in their life. They get through
it and then they have another one. And they seem to go like just walk through
life from one struggle to the next. And we all go through struggles. But that is
not abundant life. So, that's not God's intention for us to live in continuous
struggle. It's not. So, if someone has developed a pattern where they just go...
They're just living and struggle all the time. Check this. Or... Yeah. Honestly, it's
any time. Like you can sense it. Just use your discernment or... And I use it...
And maybe someone's not really fully depressed or something like that. But I
also use it when someone comes in. And I usually get like a feel for it. When you
know that someone's kind of failing to thrive. Remember when you had babies? Well,
and you're at the doctor and they make sure... You don't want your baby to be
failing to thrive. Fail to thrive. They checked out at the doctor's visit. And so,
when someone comes in, sometimes you can get just tell. This person is failing to
thrive. Like they could be doing so much more. They're capable of so much more. And
they're not. It's like a baby that's failing to thrive. So... And then the other
thing is that people that have just been shut down by their circumstances. So,
maybe it's just been too much, too many. Maybe they haven't had the support but
they come to you. And it's just this backlog of stuff that they've been
through and they're just shut down. And they're... They cannot move forward. Or they
they can but they don't know that they can. And they don't know how. It's
overwhelmed. Overwhelmed. Drowning. Oh, that's good. A drowning feeling. Yes, yes.
That's good. That's good. So, yeah. So, you're using all your prophetic senses.
Your discernment. So, your spirit is working too. Yeah. And this is where
you're going to get your own style of discovering how you sense that. And
that's what's so cool because you're learning about yourself too. And you're
growing. So, you're always growing and learning more. And that is actually
life-giving to you when you're learning and you're growing and you're... You're
moving forward. It's life-giving to you. And so that's really great. So, I'm going to
get to that. This is how. So, you know, you're going to muscle test, muscle test,
are you an overcoming mode? And if you get a yes, you're going to ask, you know,
what is... What is hindering them? What is hindering you? So, if you get a no? Yeah.
Sorry. Oh, yeah. What is hindering you from... Oh, yes. Like that I'm not an overcoming mode. Either way.
However, you can ask it that way. Okay. You can ask... You can ask, what's the
underlying cause? Yeah. Or you can ask, what is what is hindering you from... What
is hindering you? And then you go to the map. And then you go to the map and
whatever comes up. And this usually has a lot of trapped emotions of, you know,
hopelessness, disillusionment, those types of things. Usually has a lot of
those, a lot of negative beliefs. And then... Yes? When you go to like the emotions
of beliefs, do you test like whether you need to know what age and everything? Age
and all that info? Or do you just test for the age and where it was? Because I was
with somebody who she didn't... She tested to see if we even needed to know
anything else or we can just release. You know, for this, I usually ask like with
the healing mode, how long? Like how long have you been in a defeat mode? Like how
long? I think it's just...
helpful for them and for you to know kind of what it is like.
Yeah, and I feel like the age, asking the age and all that
stuff, it's almost more helpful for the client. Yeah, person
like helps them connect. It helps them connect helps them
connect. Yeah, are always helpful for me. I know when I
was doing. And so what you're looking for, what you're looking
to say, the other thing was asking on the timing. I know a
lot of times Holly when we met, it helped me then relating to
whatever the whatever the topic area is. And then I'm going back
to that age, you know, we were talking about what did anything
happen at that age or anything during that time, which helps
get down to the cause then? Yes, it does. Yeah, it helps get down
to the cause. It helps you connect, connect the dots. And I
think for the for the releasing it, the more information that
you can bring to your conscious awareness, the better.
Yeah, easier just to release. Yeah. So so when you're when
you're testing for this overcoming mode, you're
basically looking for the blocks, like what is blocking
them from functioning and as over overcomer, because it's
your, it's your natural ability to overcome is more your natural
ability. And so what is blocking that? So you're looking for the
blocks. And so when you remove the blocks that are blocking
them from functioning as an overcomer and overcoming mode,
you're actually unlocking, you're unlocking the strength
and the courage to move. So you're unlocking something for
them. And the same thing with the healing mode, when you
remove the healing blocks, you're unlocking the natural
healing systems and mechanisms.
So, um, whatever comes up when you ask, you know, are you in
heal overcoming mode and what's blocking it, whatever comes up,
you're going to just follow the mind map and then clear the
blocks. So whatever it is, whatever's blocking them. And
then you want to ask if they've shifted into overcoming mode
after you release the stuff. And if not, that means there's just
more. So there's just more blocks. So you just want to find
them all however long it takes and clear them all for them. And
it may require some inner healing for these for this type
of session. And I'm going to go through that in just a minute,
I'm going to go through the inner healing. That's also
something that's very profound for this type of person and this
type of situation where they feel just really discouraged,
really overwhelmed, and they're just like, I don't know, I don't
know. And this is really great, because I did this for all once
people get into overcoming mode. I mean, they usually notice a
difference. They notice a hope like they they notice that they
have hope where they didn't before at all. And that's a
that's a big thing. Honestly, you know, it says that it's a
big deal. But it's a big deal. And it's a big deal. And it's a
and that's a that's a big thing. Honestly, you know, it
says that faith, hope and love are the are the biggest things.
Yeah, they're the greatest. So when someone can get their hope
back, that's a huge, huge victory. Because their heart is
sick. Yeah, when you have no hope, the heart is sick when you
have no hope. Yeah. Yeah. That's right. It says that it does.
Yeah, usually. Yeah, hope deferred makes the heart sick.
That's what I'm talking about. Literally. Yes. Yeah. Yeah. I
think the process of even helping them get breakthrough on
a couple things gives them hope, you know, yeah. Oh, like that
puts you into overcoming mode. It does. Hope does. Yeah, just a
little bit of hope. Just a little bit. It can grow. It can
grow. And you know, I also people report that they have a
little more almost like excitement or enthusiasm about
what's ahead about their future. Whereas before, they like, saw
nothing bright in their future at all, which is why would you
want to get out of bed if there's nothing in your future
that's could ever be good again, or whatever. So they feel
enthusiasm, excitement about the future, which is huge. Again,
it's a huge gift to them. And just encourage just to
encourage to keep going. And we all need that. I mean, everybody
needs to feel encouraged to keep going. And when someone is in
overcoming mode, you they're also able to encourage
themselves. And sometimes we just need to encourage
ourselves. It's kind of like you do with your little kid when
they're, you know, running their race, and you stand on the side,
you can do it, keep going, keep going. I mean, it just helps.
Sometimes I do that to myself. Yeah.