WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:10.120 And good morning. Happy, happy, happy new year for those of you that are listening to 2 00:00:10.120 --> 00:00:18.680 this in real time. I'm so excited to spend this year with you. I'm just absolutely convinced 3 00:00:18.680 --> 00:00:25.760 God is just moving so powerfully with you. Prosper women. I'm just touched. I'm humbled. 4 00:00:25.760 --> 00:00:31.880 I'm overjoyed to spend this year with you. So we're going to start with prayer. And then 5 00:00:31.880 --> 00:00:35.800 I've got a brief teaching that I'm going to be sharing with you. And then we'll come back 6 00:00:35.800 --> 00:00:44.400 for community time together. So let's just open this year up with prayer. So Father, 7 00:00:44.400 --> 00:00:55.600 I just thank you. This is the day and this is the year that you have made. And we rejoice 8 00:00:55.600 --> 00:01:03.360 in it. Redo again. Bring back the joy. Lord, you said in Nehemiah 8.10 that the joy of 9 00:01:03.360 --> 00:01:10.640 the Lord is our strength. And so I just declare and decree for all prosper women that joy 10 00:01:10.640 --> 00:01:18.920 will be a big part of their day and of their year as they serve you, as they grow in you, 11 00:01:18.920 --> 00:01:26.600 as they love more, give more, learn more. We just give so much thanks. And on this call right here, 12 00:01:26.600 --> 00:01:31.880 right now, we just invite such an awareness of your presence. Open our spiritual senses, 13 00:01:31.880 --> 00:01:41.080 Lord. We want to hear you. We want to see you. We want to know you. We just ask that you open 14 00:01:41.080 --> 00:01:46.040 our spiritual senses to receive what you have for us today. Speak to each woman right where 15 00:01:46.040 --> 00:01:53.480 she needs to be spoken, Lord. Give her the daily manna that she needs for today. Let your spirit 16 00:01:53.480 --> 00:01:58.520 flow through every word. May the words of my mouth, the meditation of my heart be pleasing 17 00:01:58.520 --> 00:02:07.160 in your sight. In Jesus name. Amen. And amen. All right. Let me share the screen, pop on the 18 00:02:07.160 --> 00:02:13.640 worksheet. You should have all gotten it in your portal. If any of you have any challenges 19 00:02:13.640 --> 00:02:21.800 with getting it or anything, just reach out to me. But here we are. We're going to start right here 20 00:02:21.800 --> 00:02:32.760 and let's just see. There we go. All right. So we are talking about creating a new year in this new 21 00:02:32.760 --> 00:02:40.600 year. Why do I phrase it that way? Well, you know, they say that we don't live, you know, 50, 60, 70 22 00:02:40.680 --> 00:02:52.440 years, but we live the same year, 50, 60, 70 times. Why? Because so many of us humans have the tendency 23 00:02:53.080 --> 00:03:02.280 to live in the past. And so we think about what happened to us. We think about circumstances. We 24 00:03:02.280 --> 00:03:09.640 think about what's not working. Even five minutes ago is the past, right? And so as we think about 25 00:03:09.640 --> 00:03:15.560 that and we stimulate the feelings that that brings and we release the neurochemicals that 26 00:03:15.560 --> 00:03:24.280 that brings and we, we, we strengthen those neural pathways. We live it again and again and again. 27 00:03:24.280 --> 00:03:34.440 And so to truly live a new year, to truly achieve our goals, we have to release those things and 28 00:03:34.440 --> 00:03:42.920 truly be present in the now, you know, the past does not exist. It is stored as memory, unless we 29 00:03:42.920 --> 00:03:49.400 choose to bring it back. And the future is not yet. It's simply a fantasy. So the past is a memory. 30 00:03:49.400 --> 00:03:57.800 The future is a fantasy. All that we ever have is this very moment, this holy instant. And, you know, 31 00:03:57.800 --> 00:04:04.520 Jesus spent so much time teaching that when he said, don't worry about tomorrow. He said, 32 00:04:04.520 --> 00:04:13.560 tomorrow has enough cares of its own, but live each day. And so if maybe this is one of the things, 33 00:04:13.560 --> 00:04:18.440 as we talked about what you're going to add and, and what you're going to release, maybe you're 34 00:04:18.440 --> 00:04:25.880 going to release spending so much time reflecting on the past. Just look at it as a field, glean, 35 00:04:25.880 --> 00:04:32.840 go back over your past, figure out what were the blessings? What were the lessons? Hold onto those 36 00:04:32.840 --> 00:04:39.960 and then take the rest and say, I forgive you. I forgive myself. I forgive everyone and everything. 37 00:04:39.960 --> 00:04:47.800 I release you. I bless you. And maybe what we're going to add is to stay present right here, 38 00:04:47.800 --> 00:04:54.920 right now, as we partner with God, Lord, you and I right here, right this moment, keep me present, 39 00:04:54.920 --> 00:04:59.800 keep me present right here, right now. And as we do that. 40 00:05:00.000 --> 00:05:07.040 We truly began to create a new year and achieve our goals, right? 41 00:05:07.040 --> 00:05:11.480 So on your worksheet, your template, you'll be able to work on this and go deeper. 42 00:05:11.480 --> 00:05:16.400 I'm just going to give some high points and then we'll get together for some community 43 00:05:16.400 --> 00:05:17.400 time. 44 00:05:17.400 --> 00:05:19.760 But I gave you some keys, all right? 45 00:05:19.760 --> 00:05:25.800 And the first one is being clear on your desires. 46 00:05:25.800 --> 00:05:28.920 You see, this is what truly moves us. 47 00:05:28.920 --> 00:05:34.920 Those things in your heart that you feel most passionate about, those things that when you 48 00:05:34.920 --> 00:05:37.820 think about them, they make you come alive. 49 00:05:37.820 --> 00:05:42.880 Those things that you dream about, those things that just mean the world to you, those things 50 00:05:42.880 --> 00:05:49.360 that God has shown you, he's promised you, those things that you've just, they're stored 51 00:05:49.360 --> 00:05:50.960 in your heart. 52 00:05:50.960 --> 00:05:58.040 You know, there's a verse in scripture when Mary found out she was pregnant and of course 53 00:05:58.040 --> 00:06:02.520 she hadn't had any relationship and so it was pretty shocking to her and the first 54 00:06:02.520 --> 00:06:07.320 thing she did was surrender and said, according to your will, let it be done. 55 00:06:07.320 --> 00:06:08.560 This is the case for all of us. 56 00:06:08.560 --> 00:06:17.200 The first thing we do is we surrender and then the angel spoke to her and then she said, 57 00:06:17.200 --> 00:06:21.120 then it says that Mary stored these things in her heart. 58 00:06:21.120 --> 00:06:22.960 And so we do the same. 59 00:06:22.960 --> 00:06:26.080 We store these things in our heart. 60 00:06:26.080 --> 00:06:29.040 I love the word desire. 61 00:06:29.040 --> 00:06:37.160 In my life, I try to replace the word want with the word desire, de, death of, sire, 62 00:06:37.160 --> 00:06:38.160 the father. 63 00:06:38.160 --> 00:06:43.120 You see, they're those things when you've purified your heart, your desires are God 64 00:06:43.120 --> 00:06:44.120 given. 65 00:06:44.120 --> 00:06:47.080 They're the things that are of the father. 66 00:06:47.080 --> 00:06:54.840 And that's why Psalms 37 says, trust in the Lord, do good, dwell in the land and feed 67 00:06:54.840 --> 00:06:55.840 on his faithfulness. 68 00:06:55.840 --> 00:07:00.440 I want you to just get a feeling of that, like feed on God's faithfulness. 69 00:07:00.440 --> 00:07:06.880 He's a faithful God, feed on it, delight, be in the light yourself also in the Lord. 70 00:07:06.880 --> 00:07:12.400 So as you feed on God and you're in this, this high frequency of delight, it says he'll 71 00:07:12.400 --> 00:07:15.400 give you the desires of your heart. 72 00:07:15.400 --> 00:07:18.080 It'll come to pass, right? 73 00:07:18.080 --> 00:07:20.560 Psalms 20 verse four, same thing. 74 00:07:20.560 --> 00:07:23.960 May he grant you your heart's desires. 75 00:07:24.080 --> 00:07:27.800 And let me tell you, I said, I replaced the word want. 76 00:07:27.800 --> 00:07:34.400 Want means extreme lack and lack is always an illusion. 77 00:07:34.400 --> 00:07:36.320 It's not God's order. 78 00:07:36.320 --> 00:07:37.720 It's not his universe. 79 00:07:37.720 --> 00:07:40.660 If you look at God, he's infinite. 80 00:07:40.660 --> 00:07:43.880 The universe is ever expanding. 81 00:07:43.880 --> 00:07:47.880 We still discover new planets, new varieties of animals. 82 00:07:47.880 --> 00:07:49.800 Just look at the leaves on the trees. 83 00:07:49.800 --> 00:07:56.080 Just look at the lushness of all the animals, of everything, you know, the cattle on a thousand 84 00:07:56.080 --> 00:07:57.080 hills, right? 85 00:07:57.080 --> 00:08:00.640 The gold, the ore, the things that continue to be discovered. 86 00:08:00.640 --> 00:08:05.320 God is just infinite creativity, infinite abundance, lavish abundance. 87 00:08:05.320 --> 00:08:10.520 So lack is something that comes in our own mind because we focus on it. 88 00:08:10.520 --> 00:08:12.400 It's an illusion. 89 00:08:12.400 --> 00:08:20.480 And in fact, God spoke to me a very powerful word over this past year about striving. 90 00:08:20.480 --> 00:08:27.240 And he said, striving is also an illusion because you're trying to get something that 91 00:08:27.240 --> 00:08:29.560 you already have. 92 00:08:29.560 --> 00:08:34.640 Because when you have Christ in you, you have access to all wisdom, all resources, all goodness, 93 00:08:34.640 --> 00:08:37.179 all power, all authority. 94 00:08:37.179 --> 00:08:40.400 You have access to everything you see. 95 00:08:40.400 --> 00:08:47.600 And so striving and thinking that you lack and focusing on want is the opposite effect 96 00:08:47.600 --> 00:08:50.880 of what we're trying to create as we create a new year. 97 00:08:50.880 --> 00:08:55.880 This is why David could say in Psalms 23, the Lord is my shepherd. 98 00:08:55.880 --> 00:08:58.000 I shall not want. 99 00:08:58.000 --> 00:08:59.640 I shall not lack. 100 00:08:59.640 --> 00:09:01.480 He made that declaration. 101 00:09:01.480 --> 00:09:02.480 I shall not. 102 00:09:02.480 --> 00:09:03.480 No, no, no. 103 00:09:03.480 --> 00:09:04.900 Because he's my shepherd. 104 00:09:04.900 --> 00:09:07.200 He leads me beside the still waters. 105 00:09:07.200 --> 00:09:10.040 He makes me lie down in green pastures. 106 00:09:10.040 --> 00:09:11.880 He's my shepherd. 107 00:09:11.880 --> 00:09:13.000 God is my leader. 108 00:09:13.000 --> 00:09:14.400 I follow him. 109 00:09:14.400 --> 00:09:17.840 Those that are led by the spirit are the sons and daughters of God. 110 00:09:17.840 --> 00:09:22.220 We never lack, never have the righteous been forsaken nor begging for bread. 111 00:09:22.220 --> 00:09:25.080 We do not lack as children of the king. 112 00:09:25.080 --> 00:09:26.080 Okay. 113 00:09:26.080 --> 00:09:28.580 And so you get clear on your desires. 114 00:09:28.580 --> 00:09:30.520 And this really matters, right? 115 00:09:30.520 --> 00:09:36.640 Because you, you read in Proverbs written by the wisest king, that hope deferred makes 116 00:09:36.640 --> 00:09:39.000 the heart sick. 117 00:09:39.000 --> 00:09:44.040 But when a desire is fulfilled, it's the tree of life. 118 00:09:44.040 --> 00:09:49.240 You understand as you have these God given desires and you surrender them to the Lord 119 00:09:49.240 --> 00:09:52.160 and you, you, you do these things that we're talking about. 120 00:09:52.160 --> 00:09:53.600 These desires get fulfilled. 121 00:09:53.600 --> 00:09:56.400 It's actually a tree of life for you. 122 00:09:56.400 --> 00:09:57.480 Okay. 123 00:09:57.480 --> 00:09:59.960 And so you're going to take some time to clarify your. 124 00:10:00.000 --> 00:10:03.280 desires. There's also in your portal, 125 00:10:03.280 --> 00:10:08.280 you can go down to the bottom to files and you can also find the tournament of 126 00:10:08.520 --> 00:10:13.160 desires if you want to do it in each of your life areas. Okay. 127 00:10:13.640 --> 00:10:14.920 And secondly, 128 00:10:14.920 --> 00:10:19.800 then you have your desire and now you're going to go a level deeper by getting 129 00:10:19.800 --> 00:10:23.440 clear on your why. You see, 130 00:10:24.000 --> 00:10:28.800 the thing that pops up as a desire is not usually the thing. In other words, 131 00:10:28.800 --> 00:10:31.440 it's not actually the house that you desire. 132 00:10:31.680 --> 00:10:34.800 Even though it feels like you want that house, you desire that house. 133 00:10:35.000 --> 00:10:39.120 That's not what it is. It's not the life partner. It's not the car. 134 00:10:39.120 --> 00:10:40.960 It's not the money. 135 00:10:41.360 --> 00:10:45.440 It is the feeling that those things give you. 136 00:10:45.560 --> 00:10:48.240 You see the truth of what you desire is a feeling. 137 00:10:48.320 --> 00:10:52.360 And that's unique for each one of us based on our values. But it's, 138 00:10:52.360 --> 00:10:55.200 it's the feeling you desire to feel loved. 139 00:10:55.200 --> 00:10:57.840 You desire to feel significant. 140 00:10:57.840 --> 00:11:00.840 You desire to feel secure. 141 00:11:01.160 --> 00:11:06.160 And so a powerful exercise to clarify your desires as you give it to the Lord is 142 00:11:07.600 --> 00:11:11.920 you really tap into what is the feeling that you desire. 143 00:11:12.240 --> 00:11:16.600 And so you can play a little game where you just keep asking yourself why. 144 00:11:17.080 --> 00:11:21.280 So for example, I, I want, I desire a new car. 145 00:11:21.640 --> 00:11:26.000 Why? So I can go where I want to go. 146 00:11:26.560 --> 00:11:31.040 Why? So I can go on dates. Why? 147 00:11:31.920 --> 00:11:35.480 So I can meet my life partner. Why? 148 00:11:36.120 --> 00:11:39.480 So I can fall in love. Why? 149 00:11:40.320 --> 00:11:44.680 So that I can feel loved. I have someone to share my life. 150 00:11:45.200 --> 00:11:48.720 So where, what, what is it that you're really going after? It's not the car. 151 00:11:48.720 --> 00:11:51.160 It's the feeling of love you see. 152 00:11:51.560 --> 00:11:52.880 And so when you do that, 153 00:11:53.120 --> 00:11:57.520 it deepens and it releases those neuro chemicals and it widens those 154 00:11:57.560 --> 00:12:00.440 strengthens those neural pathways. Okay. 155 00:12:00.640 --> 00:12:02.840 So you're getting clear on your desire. 156 00:12:02.880 --> 00:12:04.680 What is the feeling behind it? 157 00:12:05.320 --> 00:12:08.440 And we're going to talk about that feeling again in a minute about activating 158 00:12:08.440 --> 00:12:10.920 that. And then we look at, well, 159 00:12:11.240 --> 00:12:14.480 what's blocking you because it's already in you. 160 00:12:14.720 --> 00:12:19.080 So what is it that's keeping you from experiencing that? Right? 161 00:12:19.120 --> 00:12:22.240 I like always the metaphor, uh, Dave, 162 00:12:22.280 --> 00:12:26.440 the Michelangelo when he was carving out of the stone, David, 163 00:12:27.120 --> 00:12:31.960 and he just had this big block of marble and he chip away, chip away, chip away, 164 00:12:32.000 --> 00:12:35.320 chip away. And he said, how do you do that? 165 00:12:35.320 --> 00:12:39.520 How do you bring like David out of this block of marble? And he said, 166 00:12:39.560 --> 00:12:44.440 I simply chip away everything. That's not David. That's not that right. 167 00:12:44.960 --> 00:12:48.320 And it's the same thing in our life. Everything that we're carrying. 168 00:12:48.320 --> 00:12:52.640 That's not that it's not the will of God. It's not the goodness of God. It's, 169 00:12:52.640 --> 00:12:56.760 it's fear. It's doubt. It's worry. It's lack. Those are the things we release. 170 00:12:56.760 --> 00:12:59.240 We release, we release, okay. 171 00:12:59.400 --> 00:13:03.640 The old perspectives that, uh, I'm abandoned, 172 00:13:03.640 --> 00:13:06.840 that I'm alone, that I I'm never going to have enough, 173 00:13:06.880 --> 00:13:11.360 that I'll never find love that, you know, whatever the old perspectives, 174 00:13:11.360 --> 00:13:13.280 the old narratives and stories, 175 00:13:13.280 --> 00:13:17.240 the old beliefs that then no longer serve you. 176 00:13:17.640 --> 00:13:21.520 Right. And, you know, I was thinking as I wrote this, you, 177 00:13:21.560 --> 00:13:26.480 you can't hang new curtains without taking the old 178 00:13:26.480 --> 00:13:30.240 ones down, right. You, you can't put on clean, new, 179 00:13:30.240 --> 00:13:34.480 beautiful clothes without taking off the old, you, 180 00:13:34.560 --> 00:13:36.720 you can't take something into your hands. 181 00:13:36.720 --> 00:13:41.920 If you're still squeezing the old, dirty, sticky candy from childhood, 182 00:13:42.160 --> 00:13:46.000 you can't open and receive the goodness, 183 00:13:46.040 --> 00:13:50.920 the faithfulness of God. Right. And so as we hold on, we can't, they, 184 00:13:50.920 --> 00:13:56.000 they, they don't go together, right. Fear and love can't coexist, 185 00:13:56.000 --> 00:14:00.160 right. Fear and faith can't coexist. Lack and abundance can't coexist. 186 00:14:00.520 --> 00:14:04.160 We have to release these things. And, um, 187 00:14:04.680 --> 00:14:08.640 and if you haven't read the book, letting go, that's a really good one. 188 00:14:08.800 --> 00:14:12.800 If you're having struggles with letting go, working through that, letting go. 189 00:14:13.560 --> 00:14:17.440 Okay. Um, by Dr. David Hawkins. So, 190 00:14:17.520 --> 00:14:22.120 so whatever your narratives about love, about money, about God, about yourself, 191 00:14:22.640 --> 00:14:24.800 they've gotten you where you are right now. 192 00:14:25.280 --> 00:14:29.840 What your experience today is the beliefs, 193 00:14:29.880 --> 00:14:30.720 perspectives, 194 00:14:30.720 --> 00:14:35.520 narrative stories that you've been holding onto yesterday and last week and last 195 00:14:35.520 --> 00:14:39.520 year, that's, what's created your life as it is today. 196 00:14:40.120 --> 00:14:43.000 And so the cool, amazing thing, 197 00:14:43.000 --> 00:14:47.120 the good news is that we can create a new one. 198 00:14:47.720 --> 00:14:51.720 We can do a new one. Now I picked out of the, um, like, 199 00:14:51.760 --> 00:14:54.160 I guess I brought it out of the amplified. It's also very, 200 00:14:54.160 --> 00:14:57.160 very good in the passion translation, um, 201 00:14:57.160 --> 00:15:00.000 a key verse for this, that you could be meditating. 202 00:15:00.000 --> 00:15:11.680 on is found in Ephesians 4, Ephesians 4, 22 to 24. I'm reading from the Amplified. I recommend you 203 00:15:11.680 --> 00:15:18.880 read it in several translations. Read it in the Passion translation. So rich, but it says basically 204 00:15:18.880 --> 00:15:27.040 in a nutshell what I've been saying here. Strip yourself of your former nature. Put off and 205 00:15:27.040 --> 00:15:37.760 disregard, discard your old unrenewed self. That fearful self, that childhood self that still 206 00:15:37.760 --> 00:15:45.600 thinks that it's not enough or that it can't have enough or that it's too old or too dumb or too 207 00:15:45.600 --> 00:15:51.920 whatever. Those stories. Strip yourself. It doesn't line up with the truth of who you are. It doesn't 208 00:15:51.920 --> 00:16:00.000 line up with the truth of who God says that you are. Let's see. I'm getting some people trying to 209 00:16:00.000 --> 00:16:07.680 join. Let me do that real quick. Okay. So that old stuff from childhood that we brought 210 00:16:07.680 --> 00:16:12.800 that we're not good enough, we're not smart enough, we don't have enough, all that stuff that we're alone, 211 00:16:12.800 --> 00:16:18.400 that we're abandoned, that no one loves us, that we lack, all of that stuff, it doesn't line 212 00:16:18.400 --> 00:16:24.160 up with the capital T truth. It doesn't line up with the truth of who you really are, who God 213 00:16:24.160 --> 00:16:32.400 says that you are, who God is. It doesn't line up. And so discard that. Discard that self that 214 00:16:32.400 --> 00:16:39.760 characterized your previous manner of life. And it became corrupt, right? 215 00:16:39.760 --> 00:16:46.800 Because it sprung from delusion, right? It was a delusion. You've always been enough. You've always 216 00:16:46.800 --> 00:16:52.480 had enough, especially when you've received Christ, Christ in you, the hope of glory. That means you 217 00:16:52.480 --> 00:16:59.680 have access. You have the mind of Christ. You have the authority. You have the power. You have 218 00:16:59.680 --> 00:17:06.800 everything that you could ever ask, hope, or imagine, you see? And so because of that, 219 00:17:06.800 --> 00:17:16.880 anything else is delusion. And it says be constantly renewed. Renew. Where? In the spirit 220 00:17:16.880 --> 00:17:22.800 of your mind. This is all mental, guys. This narrative, this story that you've been living, 221 00:17:22.800 --> 00:17:32.000 it's all between your two ears, okay? And so you renew, right? Scripture says that's how 222 00:17:32.000 --> 00:17:39.520 we're transformed, by the renewing of our mind, okay? By having a fresh mental and spiritual 223 00:17:39.520 --> 00:17:47.840 attitude. So it's a new year. Choose a fresh mental attitude. Lack? Gotta go. Fear? Gotta go. 224 00:17:48.960 --> 00:17:56.480 Love? Gotta come. Because love is who you are. Love is who God is. Love is the truth, okay? And so we're 225 00:17:56.480 --> 00:18:03.600 putting on new mental, new spiritual attitude. And that's a new nature. That's what the Bible 226 00:18:03.600 --> 00:18:10.720 calls the regenerated self, right? The one that's created in God's image. The one that's God-like, 227 00:18:10.720 --> 00:18:18.400 that walks and co-creates, that has the perfect peace that passes all understanding. The one that 228 00:18:18.960 --> 00:18:25.360 is in the world, but not of the world. The one that's not moved by circumstances, but moves the 229 00:18:25.360 --> 00:18:32.240 circumstances. You see? The one that the joy of the Lord is your strength. That's the renewed 230 00:18:32.240 --> 00:18:38.800 self. That's what God's calling you to. That's how the world needs you to show up. That's how 231 00:18:38.800 --> 00:18:45.680 you need to show up, because it's who you really, really are, okay? And so then you take that, 232 00:18:45.680 --> 00:18:54.240 and you make a commitment to it, right? And so you commit to showing up. You commit to becoming 233 00:18:54.240 --> 00:19:01.920 this person. You commit to time with God. There's no substitute for time in the word. There's no 234 00:19:01.920 --> 00:19:11.280 substitute for growth, for taking the time to read every single day and grow. There's no substitute 235 00:19:11.280 --> 00:19:19.600 for reworking your language so that your words align with what you desire. For keeping 236 00:19:19.600 --> 00:19:26.400 your emotional state, your frequency in a place that aligns with what you desire. This requires 237 00:19:26.400 --> 00:19:37.760 commitment on your part. This is the secret. And I put in here a poem that I have been reading 238 00:19:37.760 --> 00:19:45.360 for over 30 years, and it just talks about the commitment. That until we have that commitment, 239 00:19:45.360 --> 00:19:52.720 there's hesitancy and ineffectiveness. And yet, when we do make that commitment, then Providence, 240 00:19:53.360 --> 00:19:59.840 capital P, God, moves, okay? And so that commitment leads to consistent 241 00:20:00.000 --> 00:20:07.120 see that consistency creates habits, our habits form character, and it creates momentum and 242 00:20:07.120 --> 00:20:09.200 it forms our life. 243 00:20:09.200 --> 00:20:15.520 And then we put the pedal to the metal, whatever we say we're going to do, we're committed, 244 00:20:15.520 --> 00:20:19.640 we're focused, we're growing into it, we calendar it. 245 00:20:19.640 --> 00:20:22.440 If it's not on the calendar, it's not going to happen. 246 00:20:22.440 --> 00:20:24.540 So you need to put it in writing. 247 00:20:24.540 --> 00:20:26.000 What time are you going to do that? 248 00:20:26.000 --> 00:20:27.800 What week are you going to do that? 249 00:20:27.800 --> 00:20:30.960 When are you going to complete that? 250 00:20:30.960 --> 00:20:37.680 And finally, the master key of all of this is be it. 251 00:20:37.680 --> 00:20:38.680 Be it. 252 00:20:38.680 --> 00:20:40.640 Who do I need to become? 253 00:20:40.640 --> 00:20:46.880 If I'm this seven or eight figure earner, if I'm this transformational leader, if I'm 254 00:20:46.880 --> 00:20:53.320 this highly sought out speaker, this highly sought out coach, this bestselling author, 255 00:20:53.320 --> 00:20:57.400 whatever it is, God's put on you, your heart, your desires. 256 00:20:57.400 --> 00:21:02.920 The real question is, who do I need to become to, to have that glorious marriage? 257 00:21:02.920 --> 00:21:06.560 Who do I need to be to be that amazing coach? 258 00:21:06.560 --> 00:21:08.640 Who do I need to be? 259 00:21:08.640 --> 00:21:14.880 And you become that now, remember all we have, we opened, all we have is this instant, this 260 00:21:14.880 --> 00:21:15.880 holy moment. 261 00:21:15.880 --> 00:21:18.800 That's all we have, this holy moment. 262 00:21:18.800 --> 00:21:26.560 So right now, if I am that bestselling author, if I am that seven, eight figure earner, if 263 00:21:26.560 --> 00:21:31.520 I am that bestselling author, that, that TEDx speaker, whatever it is, right? 264 00:21:31.520 --> 00:21:40.000 That largest philanthropist, if I'm that, how, if I was really that, how would I act? 265 00:21:40.000 --> 00:21:41.800 Would I, would I have the same language? 266 00:21:41.800 --> 00:21:43.920 Would I be speaking what I'm speaking right now? 267 00:21:43.920 --> 00:21:45.220 How do I need to speak? 268 00:21:45.220 --> 00:21:48.780 If I'm, if I'm going to step into that, I'm going to release everything. 269 00:21:48.780 --> 00:21:51.940 That's not that step into that. 270 00:21:51.940 --> 00:21:52.940 How do I need to speak? 271 00:21:52.940 --> 00:21:54.060 How do I need to live? 272 00:21:54.060 --> 00:21:55.260 What habits do I need? 273 00:21:55.260 --> 00:21:57.740 What would I be reading this? 274 00:21:57.740 --> 00:22:03.540 Would I be spending all day scrolling social media as an eight figure influencer? 275 00:22:03.540 --> 00:22:08.780 Would I be spending all day, you know, scrolling social media as, as you know, whatever it 276 00:22:08.780 --> 00:22:09.780 is, right? 277 00:22:09.780 --> 00:22:11.300 Bestselling author, whatever, right? 278 00:22:11.300 --> 00:22:13.580 So what would I read? 279 00:22:13.580 --> 00:22:15.940 Who would I, who would I associate with? 280 00:22:15.940 --> 00:22:17.260 Who would I surround myself? 281 00:22:17.260 --> 00:22:20.940 Because I become like the people I associate with, who would I, who would I be hanging 282 00:22:20.940 --> 00:22:21.940 with? 283 00:22:21.940 --> 00:22:25.460 Who, how would I really spend my time? 284 00:22:25.460 --> 00:22:30.700 If I really loved my body, would I eat this? 285 00:22:30.700 --> 00:22:35.220 If I really love my body, would I, would I not exercise it? 286 00:22:35.220 --> 00:22:39.420 If I really love myself, would I talk like this? 287 00:22:39.420 --> 00:22:41.060 So you can, you can get it. 288 00:22:41.060 --> 00:22:42.820 How, how would I show up? 289 00:22:43.060 --> 00:22:44.060 Right? 290 00:22:44.060 --> 00:22:45.060 So I put in some blanks there. 291 00:22:45.060 --> 00:22:49.820 If I was really serious about whatever it is, your desire, being, having, doing, if 292 00:22:49.820 --> 00:22:55.460 I was really serious about it, then how do I need to show up? 293 00:22:55.460 --> 00:22:57.260 Who do I need to become? 294 00:22:57.260 --> 00:23:01.540 Then there's a place for you to put your biggest takeaway. 295 00:23:01.540 --> 00:23:02.540 Okay. 296 00:23:02.540 --> 00:23:06.540 So, um, little quick primer, spend some time. 297 00:23:06.540 --> 00:23:07.700 It's not due for a week. 298 00:23:07.700 --> 00:23:10.020 You can really sit with it and be with it. 299 00:23:10.220 --> 00:23:15.340 I also sent you the jumpstart so you can refresh, you know, activate your vision, activate the 300 00:23:15.340 --> 00:23:16.340 flow. 301 00:23:16.340 --> 00:23:20.220 Uh, so, you know, pull out your prosper daily plan. 302 00:23:20.220 --> 00:23:26.260 If you haven't been using that, whatever tools that you need, they're there for you to, to 303 00:23:26.260 --> 00:23:29.500 really truly make this year, not a repeat. 304 00:23:29.500 --> 00:23:31.900 This is not rinse and repeat 2022. 305 00:23:31.900 --> 00:23:34.100 This is not rinse and repeat 2021. 306 00:23:34.100 --> 00:23:35.100 Right? 307 00:23:35.100 --> 00:23:38.200 So who are you becoming this year? 308 00:23:38.200 --> 00:23:39.780 How are you showing up this year? 309 00:23:40.540 --> 00:23:46.140 What's, what's going to be different so that this year is truly a new year. 310 00:23:46.140 --> 00:23:48.100 All right. 311 00:23:48.100 --> 00:23:49.340 My heart is with you. 312 00:23:49.340 --> 00:23:52.860 I'm excited to come alongside of you. 313 00:23:52.860 --> 00:23:54.700 This is the place where we do it together. 314 00:23:54.700 --> 00:24:00.780 We link arms, we carry each other across our personal finish line. 315 00:24:00.780 --> 00:24:05.200 We show up, we love, we give, we activate the flow. 316 00:24:05.200 --> 00:24:08.880 We are open and receptive to receive. 317 00:24:08.880 --> 00:24:14.680 And this becomes a amazing, God filled, powerful, powerful year. 318 00:24:14.680 --> 00:24:20.480 All right, I'm going to turn off the recording and then we're going to have some time together.