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All right. Good morning and good afternoon and good evening.
I know we've got people all over the world.
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It said goals activation whatever reason the first slide didn't show but welcome welcome welcome. I am Brenda, this is the goals activation masterclass.
Let me tell you a little bit about what this is and what it isn't so you can get the most out of this of course you've set your intention so you know where you're desiring to go individually.
Most people know that goal setting is actually pretty basic. You can you can Google it anywhere you can probably write the steps if I asked you, right so you get really clear and you write your goals, and then you turn it into a plan, and then you take action.
You can put some filler in there you prioritize you get accountability you commit, but the gist of setting a goal. I think most people know I don't think it's lack of knowledge about how to set a goal.
My experience has been that there's these things in between that actually are more powerful than those steps. And that's why I'm calling this a goal activation masterclass it's not a goal setting.
It's a goal activation, which means yes you're going to get clear on your goals and yes you'll know some of the steps, but we're going to be looking at the things that will actually put power behind your goals, we're going to be looking at the things that are
going to infuse you with energy and life and infuse your goals with energy and life. Right. So those are the things, and I'm telling you on this particular one, I'm going to let the Holy Spirit lead as to what I cover because I've got enough content to start talking
and you'll be long past your bedtime. So not going to do that to you I'm going to cover the main things as they come up and as I feel led by the Holy Spirit we're going to start with prayer, and we're going to dive right in.
So Father I just thank you for this moment in history.
At this moment, Lord, we just call on you to help us to drop all thoughts from the past.
The past does not exist it's simply a memory, it's just simply a pathway in our brain.
But it's not something we can go back and change we can't live in it, unless we want to drag it into the now. So we ask that whatever wants to come from the past well I tried and it didn't work well I failed while I do this while I'm not
well I'm not all that stuff from the past.
We just ask that that get buried in the sea of forgetfulness.
We ask, even though this is goal setting and focuses on the future, that the future will also be quieted right now that we will be fully present here and now, and that you will open our spiritual senses that we will hear what you Holy Spirit have to say to
us right here, right now. So I asked you speak through my mind you speak through my mouth that you allow this course to be everything that you wanted to be, and that every single person listening both now or later in the prosper leader membership or wherever they
hear this recording that they will get exactly what they need to get to step into their divine call their divine purpose to operate in the fullness of who they were created to be.
And I ask all of that in Jesus name.
Amen. Amen. So again, this is the goals activation. And so, if you are an author a speaker a coach a healer and entrepreneur a solopreneur, and you have goals dreams desires, and you desire to learn how to successfully set and achieve goals, and you desire
tools strategies to make this year, different than you're in the right place.
I have to tell you that my first experience and goal setting happened about 30 years ago, and I was in a job I like to call it a job from hell maybe some of you have had that.
boss from hell. Maybe some of you have had something like that. Her name was Trudy. And
I was working because of my background with counseling and so on. I was working in a
counseling center where people should have sanity, but they didn't particularly. And this job was so
stressful that I can tell you I was just getting started. I'd come back as a missionary. I didn't
have money. I got this through a temp agency and I, um, it would, it'd be so stressful that
literally every day I would take my lunch break to get in my car, my old Ford Granada with green
seats. Okay. This thing was, that's a whole story in and of itself. And I would drive myself to the
park where I would sit and cry and eat my PB and J sandwich that I had made for myself for lunch.
And I don't know if it was a person I was working with that felt sorry for me,
had compassion. The Lord spoke to her from heaven. I don't know, but she handed me my first,
um, I'm giving my age away, cassette deck, personal development, cassette deck. You see
it on the screen here. It was Brian Tracy. That's me standing next to the success legend,
Brian Tracy. I've had some wonderful encounters with him. Amazing man. Um, and I listened to the
psychology of achievement, which was really goal setting extraordinary. And I did exactly what he
said in there. And so I created, uh, the exact goal that I had for a job. It definitely wasn't
working in hell with the boss from hell. And I knew I wanted to work with people from other cultures.
I knew I wanted to use my teaching and speaking skills. And so I did the research found what
companies had that and found three companies, went to the first one, got myself suited up,
walked in the door. There was nothing advertised. There was no job. I was just showing up saying
here, you need me. Right? So it was a very bold move. It took a lot of courage, but I had set a
goal and I was very clear on it. I knew the wise. And so there I was, I drove my, you know, white
Ford Granada with green seats into this business in, in, uh, an office park. And I walked in and
sitting right at the front was the founder of this organization. His name was Joe. And I shook hands
and I introduced myself and I told him why he needed to hire me. And the interesting fun thing
is he did. And, um, you know, this is, this is, you know, going way back. I don't know now, 30
plus years. And so I can, I can remember, you know, I don't remember now is 12, $1,500 a month.
But what I know is in a matter of months doing this, I had increased to $2,200 a month just
in the first couple of months there. And I was doing everything that I loved. And of course I
have applied the things that I've learned. Um, this is me. Uh, and I, I wanted to show a picture
with Brian, but I couldn't find it when we were in a restaurant and I was actually showing him
the psychology of achievement. And he looked at it and he smiled and he said, that's the first one I
ever produced. So you just never know, you know, how, how it happens, but that's how my goal setting
got started. And it started me on a trajectory of success. And yet what I found is that even
the things he taught are so basic, it's easy to do, but it's also easy to not do. You see,
this is the challenge with goal setting. It's easy to do, but it's easy to not do. So how do we get
around that dichotomy? So what I'm going to teach you, I can tell you that has led to over 30 years
of, of goal setting. And so it was this first job. And then I left there, I fired that job and made
my first six figure income in sales. Um, I ranked at the highest level with a Canadian nutritional
network marketing company using these same things that I'm teaching only expanded and so much after
30 years, uh, went on. Of course, most of you know, to found a international nutritional network
marketing corporation and ultimately landed me where I am here as, as founder of prosper in all
things where you find me right now. And I was sharing with the people before, and this is
something also about grace and about timing. As you set your goals. I think it was Bill Gates
that said we often overestimate what we can do in a year.
So when we don't accomplish that we beat ourselves up, but we underestimate what we can do in 10 years.
And this is the 10 year anniversary for prosper in all things. And I still have the goals written out every aspect that I put up on the wall 10 years ago.
And the beautiful thing is that now 10 years later, all of those have been fulfilled except one. So, you know, there now is a website there now is a beautiful coach certification program there now is prosper TV.
There now, you know, is a membership site. So I can tell you that stay the course with what you learn today. We're going to break it down what can you do this year what can you do this month, but we're also need to be patient.
What can you do 10 years. If you, if you stay with it. So here's Brian, again, and this was when amazingly enough 20 years after that, that I was invited to be on his television show who would have thought person that I first started me on that one day
that I would be on his television show. And he says something really powerful here. And he says that success is goals.
Wow, I really love that. I really love that that success is goals, and all else is commentary.
And so this is the beauty of being human, of being able to set goals and achieve them. This is where I believe that God is ever expanding, and he's created us to be ever expanding.
So success is goals and all else is commentary. This is the great discovery throughout all human history, your life only begins to become a great life. When you clearly identify what it is that you want, make a plan to achieve it, and then work to achieve
that plan every single day. So there it is, in, in a nutshell, this is what I learned 30 years ago, and yet, why is it that we do not. So there's something he says in there that I'm going to, I'm going to start with, first of all, and that is having a plan,
and so he says to align our goals in accordance with God's will and leadership. We must first understand the difference between a goal and a plan.
That's worth taking notes.
Do I understand the difference between a goal and a plan.
He said somewhere else, a goal without a plan is a hallucination.
A goal without a plan is a hallucination. Okay, so we often either don't have clarity on the goal. So we say, I want to make more money.
I want more money. Okay.
Cool. You know Tony Robbins will say here's a dollar, you got more money, you achieved your goal.
Right. So, we have these very vague goals.
This is this is the first thing is we don't get really specific.
Right. So the second part of what makes a goal a reality is there's a specific plan there's a set of steps necessary to achieve those goals.
And so we will go through that. Some of you got my emails and there's other things that happen with our goals, and that we have to get clear on.
And so one of those is getting really clear on your values, values are what really drive you they are what's really important to you.
And so we were talking before.
One of the people that was here live was talking about my email that I sent out about gas and brakes like why do I always put the gas and brakes on.
Either you got a values conflict. Okay. And so what does that look like.
So for example, let's suppose that your core value is security and safety.
Really, I need to feel safe and secure.
And your other value is, I desire to have my own business and the freedom and joy of being an entrepreneur.
Now do you see where there's a conflict.
You see, one is pushing towards safety and security and one is going into never never land that doesn't have any safety or security. Now you got a values conflict.
Okay. And now what will happen is those will be warring against each other, you know, two pigs in a blanket right i mean you're just going to have gas and brakes going on.
Okay. So, what do you do with that.
There's a really powerful technique.
Okay, I'm giving you right off the bat, I told you this is gonna be spirit, let whatever
comes up.
So very powerful technique.
I actually learned this from my coach, Derek Rydell.
So I didn't invent this, but it's it's brilliant, okay.
And that is you bring those two things together.
Okay, let me give you another example to that one.
For me, I always thought my high value is freedom.
And I also desire to have a business, but I had the value conflict that wow, the bigger
the business I build, the less freedom that I'll have.
That would be a conflict because the you know, I had built a huge network marketing company
and it didn't have freedom for me and have freedom for the reps, but not for me, I was
speaking all the time and you know, working all the time.
So okay, so how do I bring that together, I've got this value of freedom.
And I've got this value of desiring to have a business.
And now they're at war.
Here's how it looks.
The bigger I grow my business, the more freedom I have.
And the more freedom I have, the more creative and the bigger I build my business.
And the bigger I build my business, isn't this true?
And it's been true for me, the bigger I build my business, you know, I've got someone that
handles all my lead generation, I don't have to think about leads, I got infinite leads
coming to me already.
You see, I don't have to think about that.
I've got someone that's a brilliant copywriter.
I don't have to write anything.
The bigger I grow my business, the more freedom I have.
That's so true.
You see, I can, I can work from anywhere.
I have the resources, I have the people, I have the help.
You see how that works?
So now I just took what used to hold me back personally, this is my story.
I was really afraid to grow my business because I was afraid I wouldn't have freedom.
You see how that works?
So part of this, if you haven't done a values analysis, I've got templates to help you with
that.
We need to look at your values.
We need to look at where is there a values conflict, right?
If it's not that, then there's probably a limiting belief.
Now do you see how the things I'm teaching you, you can have a goal, you can have a plan,
you can even start to take action.
But if there's a values conflict, see how that fits in between, you're not going to
do anything.
Gas and brakes.
You see why I'm teaching a goals activation.
There's a difference than goal setting, goal activation.
So I've got to look at my values.
I also have to look at my beliefs.
If I have a belief that money is evil and that I'm really afraid if I make a lot of
money, this is also a value conflict.
But I think to myself, if I make a lot of money, I'm afraid I'm going to be really greedy.
I'm going to be selfish.
I'll lose my character because I have the belief that all rich people are really greedy,
selfish, because that's what the movies teach, right?
If you watch any movie, the business guy is always the bad guy.
Always.
He's selfish.
He doesn't love his wife.
He steals.
He lies.
He cheats.
They always make the rich business guy, he's the villain.
And we learn this from childhood.
And so you've got this unconscious stuff that says, man, I don't want to have money.
And yet what does God do with his beloved?
What did he shower on Abraham?
What did he shower on Isaac?
What did he shower on Jacob?
What did he shower on all of his beloved?
What does the Bible promise?
God is infinite abundance and we're made in his image and he wants us to walk in this
infinite abundance.
Somebody needs to mute.
I'm getting some background noise.
Okay.
So again, then it's a belief system.
All right.
In light of this right here, a goal is a desired result.
So the goal is where do you want to end up?
What does it look like at the end of this picture?
The plan is how am I going to get there?
Here's another one.
See the Holy Spirit's just bringing stuff up.
Okay.
Most of you know that I personally use the prosper daily plan.
This is available to all of you.
There is several reasons for that.
One of them is every day I am writing down my mission.
So you have your vision, okay?
The mission is how you do your vision.
I write my mission down every day.
I then write my goals down every day on the prosper daily plan and the goals are in line
with the mission.
So I'm seeing my mission where I'm trying to get.
It's a type of goal in a way.
Where am I trying to get and how am I going to get there?
Okay.
Underneath that, you put your goals.
What are the goals?
Now, whatever works for your brain, that could be for that day or it could be for that week
or it could be for that month.
I usually do my goals for the month.
Okay.
So I'm writing down my monthly goals.
If you've ever heard of SMART goals,
they're very specific, they're very measurable.
I can take action on them.
They're very realistic, right?
They're very time sensitive.
So when I write down my goals,
you know, 10 new members of the Prosper Leader membership,
you know, by the end of this month, that's very specific.
It's very doable, it's very measurable.
It's powerful, it's in alignment, okay?
So writing down the goals every single day is another way
because that means every time I sit at my desk,
I fill out a Prosper Daily Plan,
I am writing my goals every single day.
That is huge, okay?
Then you notice on the Prosper Daily Plan
for the plan part of it
is I'm breaking it into 20 minute chunks.
I'm writing down what I absolutely will do.
I'm making declarations,
and we'll talk about this at the end of this course,
what I will do,
and then I'm breaking that into 20 minute chunks,
actions that I can specifically do.
So I'm always progressing toward a worthwhile goal,
always on focus.
When I sit down and work, I'm working off of that.
Nothing else, if it's not written on the Prosper Daily Plan,
it's not happening, okay?
So these are some, you know,
extra little tips that I just gave you.
So your goals are both an inner game,
which I just got done sharing some of the inner game, right?
And an outer game.
I wanna mention on the inner game,
because you might be in one of these four stages
of personal growth,
and you're gonna look at goal setting very differently.
The goal is to get to level four,
but we're all somewhere between one and four.
So the four stages of personal growth,
where most people are is in victim consciousness,
consciousness, victim consciousness.
What does that look like?
Things are happening to me, okay?
And not through me, they're happening to me.
And what I desire is out there.
So my life is always as a victim thinking
that something has to change for me
to be happy, healthy, prosperous.
So when the president changes,
I'll be happy, healthy, prosperous.
When the government changes, when I retire,
when I get a raise, when I get a job,
when I get married, when I get divorced,
we're always looking for something outside of ourselves
for us to go forward with our goals.
So if this is where you are,
then your first step of goal setting
is to get out of the victim consciousness
and begin to take responsibility for your life,
that God has given you the ability to choose,
God has given you the ability to take action
and that things are happening through you, not to you.
Could you push your mute button, please, somebody,
if I have to go looking for you,
but if you could make sure you're muted,
I'm getting background noise from somebody.
Make sure, thank you.
Okay, and so from that, whoops, let's go back.
From the victim consciousness, you grow, okay?
You grow into these stages,
you get into manifest consciousness
and that you may be here because you're live at this,
my suspicion is you're in the manifest consciousness.
That means you become aware
that you can change your thoughts,
that your thoughts are up to you.
You can change your beliefs, you can change your words,
you can change your actions.
And so you start becoming aware
that as you change your words,
as you change your thoughts, as you change your beliefs,
as you change your actions, then you change your results.
Okay, so the manifest consciousness means
I can really manifest what I desire in my life.
If I learn, like scripture talks about,
we're transformed by the renewing of our mind.
If I learn to do that,
then I'm entering in more of this manifest consciousness.
Okay, manifest consciousness.
Then we get into number three,
and that is a vessel consciousness, okay?
And so a vessel consciousness or a channel, okay,
now you're starting to realize, okay,
so manifest consciousness, I need to make it happen.
I got to do my declarations, I got to do my affirmations,
I got to do my daily disciplines,
I got to make it happen, okay?
That's way better than victim that I'm just like,
I'm just in the sea and I'm being bobbed up and down.
It's the next level that, wow,
God gave me the ability, okay, to make things happen.
But this-
level is even higher, you no longer feel you have to make things happen, you begin to allow
them to happen.
And so you cultivate a place of openness and receptiveness, you're a Romans 12, you know,
I offer myself as a living sacrifice, Lord, think through me, coach through me, work through
me, you know, build through me, and you're you're co laboring with God, you become aware
that you know, you're working, speaking, writing, teaching, co creating with God, okay, higher
level of consciousness, then I got to make it happen, which is a which is a real striving
energy, it's a push, it's a shove, it's a and, and this one is more of, you know what,
there's abundance everywhere, there's opportunity, I carry the Spirit of God in me, I have the
mind of Christ, Lord, I'm open, I'm receptive, you've called me to this, build this through
me, teach me, show me, right.
And then ultimately, you get into very few people get into number four.
And we may come in or out of that, which is being consciousness.
And so being consciousness is like Jesus, the Father and I are one, I'm in the Father,
the Father's in me, you are we're in each other.
And you're just in this place of literally being your goal.
And we're going to talk about how to implement this.
So as you're looking at your goals, you're looking at where am I at, and then you're
making sure some of the basic things your goals need to be positive.
This is really important, okay, because many people make negative goals.
I want to stop overeating.
That's a negative goal.
I want to quit smoking, right?
So the brain doesn't understand it's just like telling your kids not to, to not spill
their milk, okay?
Don't spill your milk.
What do you think chances are really high, because the brain doesn't understand negative.
So it has to picture spent is spilling the milk in order to try to figure out what don't
spilling the milk.
And by that time, already, they've spilled the milk.
I remember when my kids, I used to read Bernstein bears to them.
And the Papa bear was always doing stuff.
And he's like, don't when you're writing, make sure that you don't hit the trees, because
that's really dangerous.
Don't hit the trees, smack, Bernstein bear hits the tree.
And then he looks at his son, of course, that I'm trying to show you what not to do, right?
So you learn from me, right?
But this is what we do.
We can't look anybody that that knows, you know, a race car driver, and they're spinning
out of control, they've got to look where they're trying to go, they can't look at where
they're going.
And so, so this has to be positive, it has to be present tense has to be personal, this
has to really matter for you.
You can't be living someone else's goals.
This has to be yours, it has to be possible.
And it has to be prioritized.
Okay, you've got a lot of goals, which ones are we going to do first, what's most important
here.
And I'm going to add this, it has to be based on truth.
It can't be based on lies.
Okay, so lack is a lie.
Even if you feel it right now, it's a lie.
Abundance is the truth of God.
There's infinite abundance available to you right now.
If you are trying to make your goals based on lack, and you're going, I need to do this
because I don't want to lose my home because I don't want to be homeless because I don't
want my kids to be out on the streets, where, right, the energy flows where the attention
goes, where is my attention going?
What am I looking at?
I'm looking smack at the tree of what I don't want.
You have to focus on what you desire, not what you don't desire.
Too many people spend all their time focusing on what they don't desire.
I don't desire to be broke.
I don't desire to be fat.
I don't desire to be single.
And they stay in that place.
So part of being positive has to be based on the truth of God, okay, has to be based
on abundance and not based on fear, okay, because fear is the opposite of love.
Fear is lovelessness.
Fear is not of God.
That's why the Bible says perfect love casts out fear.
Fear is just pure lovelessness, okay?
So it's a lie.
So we have to replace fear-based thinking with love-based thinking, okay?
We have to replace the lies with truth.
So it's very, very important that these are some of the things overall.
So that's inner stuff.
That's the inner game.
So let's talk about the outer game, okay?
Here are some steps that we're going to talk about.
We're going to do a little bit of practice as we go through.
So once I have these goals.
Here are some questions, and I'm going to break these down.
But they're great questions.
Who do I need to become?
So let's say I desire to be the founder of a seven-figure
business or an eight-figure business.
Who do I need to become?
I desire to be a great leader.
I desire to be an amazing wife or husband.
Who do I need to become to fulfill that goal?
Now, do you see how that's so much higher than higher
level of thinking?
And at the same time, what must I release?
What have I been holding on to that's not
allowing me to achieve that?
I've shared with some of you that I
don't know if it's been a year now, six months,
I just got motivated to absolutely clean out
my living room.
And in a matter of 24 hours, I gave away everything in there.
The tapestries on the wall, the couches, the rugs,
everything was out.
It was an empty room.
And then I was able, because I created the space, which
is a principle, creating the space for what you desire.
I had created the space.
You see, I can't hang new curtains
with the old curtains still on the rug.
I can't keep bringing in new clothes in my closet.
There's going to reach a breaking point
until I get rid of the old.
Now, a minimalism principle is every time I bring something
in, I have to take something out.
That's a basic minimalism, minimalist principle.
So what must I release?
And that doesn't have to be only possessions.
One of the things we have to release is an old identity.
So if you're holding the identity of I'm a smoker,
but my goal is to quit smoking.
So we got a negative goal.
I have to stop smoking.
But my identity is I'm a smoker.
I've always been a smoker.
I've been a smoker for 40 years.
Do you see the problem?
These things I'm sharing with you, these are like the mud.
These are like the quicksand.
You start driving down the path, you're in your Jeep, right?
And I'm ready to achieve these goals.
And the mud is getting thicker and thicker and thicker.
And you're sinking down and sinking down, right?
Why?
Because these are the sticky things.
So this talks about when I say I am a smoker,
when we put the word I am in front of something,
first of all, those are the most powerful words
in the universe.
They're the name of God.
So anything you put after I am, if you wouldn't put it
after God, don't put that.
So if you say I am, let's say broke, OK,
would you say that about God?
Then don't say it about you as a son or daughter
of the most high God.
But that's one part of I am, because it's very powerful.
Second part of it is I am represents your identity.
When you're saying I am, you understand
this is like my core being.
I am.
And so if I am thinking that my identity,
this is an area I think about often,
even with AA or the 12-step program, I love it.
I think it helps so many people.
I think it's amazing.
Many family have gone through it.
But I always wonder about walking around all the time
and saying I am an alcoholic.
I just wonder about that.
I can't help if that doesn't sabotage in some way.
It's just my own thinking.
I love the program.
I'm not dissing it.
But I feel that it would be better to say I am a recovered
or recovering or something in front of it.
Somehow make it present tense and where you desire to be.
So what must I release?
It might be an identity.
It might be old thinking.
It might be old habits.
We'll talk more about that.
What do I have?
This is another big one that we really neglect.
This is another big one.
What do I have?
And then also, what do I need to accomplish this?
What do I need?
I need a web developer that really knows.
I need a social media expert.
What do I need to achieve?
I desire to be an eight-figure thought leader.
What do I need?
We have to think about these things.
And what do I need to let go of?
These are really important questions.
This is the quicksand stuff that gets
between setting the goal and taking action.
It's this stuff.
You understand?
Okay, and so what do I have a need and then of course the plan and the action so let's
get a little deeper into this.
Okay.
So, right now take out a piece of paper, take your pen, and really quick, just on the spot
write down three goals right now and if you want to do it in three areas cool do a business
do a family or do a health whatever three goals, write them down right now fast three
goals quick as you can raise your hand those of you that are live once you've written
them three goals, boom, raise your hand.
Those of you listening online three goals write them down quick don't overanalyze just
write the first three things that come to you three goals, quick.
Raise your hand when you've got them put in the chat when you've got them.
Okay.
You got your three goals.
Let me see I'm gauging by those of you that are live, raise your hand when you've got
them.
Okay.
All right.
Give it another second.
Some of you haven't raised your hand you got them okay you got them all right, so you identify
these top three goals in writing.
Now what we know scientifically these are probably the most accurate.
We can do all kinds of exercises but you know your mind knows your spirit knows.
So whatever you wrote down is probably your top goals.
I just prioritized them for you.
This is an old trick that is really accurate.
Okay.
So you take a look at what is that.
So this is what we just did is called the three goal method.
Okay.
Now, step two with that is we're going to clarify and amplify those goals.
Okay.
So I want you to pick one, the one that really jumps out at you that you really really would
like to have in this year.
Just pick one right now kind of draw a box around it.
We're going to focus on that because we don't have time to do all three.
So just put the box around that one.
Okay.
And now I'm going to ask you five times why.
Okay.
So if you say I have the goal to XYZ, okay, why write down why.
And once you've once you've written down the first why and you guys can be my gauge
here live.
Just put a one up that you've you've done you've done the first why.
Okay.
Everybody got the first why.
Okay, beautiful.
Now, I want you to do it the second time.
Go even deeper.
So let's say I desire to to have, you know, lose 30 pounds.
Why?
Because I want to have more energy.
Okay.
Second, why?
Why?
Why do you want to have more energy?
So take what you just wrote down and ask why about that?
Why?
Why do you want that thing that you just wrote?
Why?
So I want to lose, I desire to lose 30 pounds.
Why I desire to have more energy.
Why?
So I can play with my grandkids, right?
Okay.
Number three, take that one.
You just wrote down why?
Number three, you wrote down for the next one, why?
That's level three of why.
So I desire to lose 30 pounds.
Why?
So I can have more energy.
Why?
So I can play with my grandkids.
Why?
This is three or four.
Where am I at?
This is three.
Okay.
We're going to do it two more times.
Okay.
So I desire to lose 30 pounds.
Why?
So I can have more energy.
Why?
So I can play with my grandkids.
Why?
Okay.
So now we're going to take that one.
We're going to do number four.
The last thing.
So, so I desire to lose 30 pounds.
Why?
So I have more energy.
Why?
So I can play with my grandkids.
Why?
So that they think that I'm a loving grandma.
Okay.
So next one, why?
Okay.
And then we're going to do the last level.
Now by this last level, you should be working past the superficial and you should find that
you're getting deeper and deeper, closer to what really matters to you.
By the fifth level, it really should be tapping into a feeling or a quality.
So for example, you know, I desire to lose 30 pounds.
Why?
I to have more energy why so I can play with my grandkids why so I can be loving, loving
grandmother, why, so I feel valuable or so I feel love.
See, so I feel purposeful.
So I want you to get down to the state of the very feeling or the quality, by the time
you get down you're drilling down like a, like a well, and you're getting to the truth
of who you are.
So get it down to what is it that you really want to feel or what is it that you really
desire to be.
It might be, you know, let's say I didn't do the grandkids let's say I desire to lose
30 pounds, why, so that I can wear better clothes, why, so that, and I might get there
fast so that I feel attractive, why, you know, that's it, I just desire to feel I desire
to feel sexy or attractive.
Okay, so you might have been able to do it in three times but usually by five you get
down to the core what is it that you desire to feel.
That's where the juices for your goal.
So for those of you here live.
How many of you hit that you've got to like the feeling quality where you just like it
went like yes that's exactly what I really really desire.
I desire to feel secure I desire to feel loved I desire to feel, you know, spiritual
I desire to feel sexy whatever it is I desire to feel secure safe I desire to feel loved
I desire to feel, and go ahead and maybe put in the chat, I would love to see this from
some of you tell me about what is it that what was the feeling did you land on the final
feeling and just put the word, it could be loved, secure, happy, faithful, sexy I don't
know what it is put down what you came to on the goal, what was it just put it in the
chat.
What did you arrive at enough, okay, that's a big one so many people feel they're not
enough I want to feel okay confidence I desire to feel I desire to feel joy, I desire to
feel secure a couple of you have put could secure, okay, that's a big one I desire.
You see, this is important because now you're getting to the bedrock of your goals, and
you're going to be more motivated.
If you are looking at that feeling so thank you those of you that wrote some into.
We're getting a lot of confidence secure.
You got some joy.
Okay.
God's order love, I desire to feel that things are in God's order I desire to feel love.
Just really walk in the love of God.
I desire to feel powerful.
I desire to feel fulfilled.
That's another one or I desire to feel purposeful, okay.
Take it further to a feeling, instead of quality of life, go even deeper what does
that feel like what do you feel, I, it's a feeling, I feel purposeful I feel, you know,
whatever it is try to take it all the way to the end, I feel loving, I feel happy, I
feel confident all of those, okay, beautiful you guys did a great job you can do more of
this when you get home for, you know, time sake I'm, I'm rushing through a lot of this
I'm giving you tools, it's up to you to use the toolbox Okay, I desire to feel peace that's
a big one.
That's a big one, you know I know both my values and my goals tend to lead to both piece
that's one of my highest values, anything that robs my piece is too expensive, okay,
and freedom, you know, and so now I have to merge things like I shared with you before
how can I have this and freedom, right.
So beautiful.
Okay.
Wonderful.
I'm going to put that down.
We'll keep going.
So, um, all right.
So now the tool that you can apply this to.
And this is something that you do on a daily basis, so you're you're writing your goals
down.
Okay, you're writing your goals down, and then you're drilling into that goal you're
making a positive making it personal bringing it, you know, right there.
And by the way, all these slides will be available to you on the prosper leader site so you should
be able to have all of these so you don't have to take just notes for notes taking really
let this dive in for you.
So here's a tool that is fantastic.
You guys get ready snap your fingers and tune in if you're really ready for a powerful tool.
I said, give me a tool.
Give it to me, Brenda, give me a tool, OK?
All right.
By the way, that itself is a tool.
Tony Robbins gave me that more than 30 years ago,
that you get into the feeling of it.
So I desired at that time to be a confident speaker
on the stage.
I desired to just be this amazing public speaker.
When I first, I mean, when Tony Robbins was
in like a small room with like 100 people or whatever,
we're going way back, right?
And what you did is you got into that state.
That's a feeling quality is a state.
You got into the state, and you remember the closest
that you can in your mind of when
you had the closest to that.
And you get into that feeling state,
and then you anchor it with something in your body.
For me, that's why I snap my fingers
without thinking about it, because I've been doing that
for 30 years, OK?
So you see me walking up to a stage, and I'm about to speak.
Anybody that knows me, I'll be walking.
I was doing it on the hall before I came here,
before I taught.
This ignites every part of my nervous system,
because it's been anchored in.
So that's a tool.
I'm giving you tools that you can apply, OK?
So you've got this feeling.
You've got this goal, and you've got this feeling,
and you're going to practice anchoring it in, OK?
And remember I said in the prayer,
like eliminate looking into the past,
eliminate looking into the future, and live it now.
Because the problem with most people with goals
is they actually see it in their mind in the future.
This is a problem.
So it's like the horse with the carrot in front of the stick.
No matter how much, the horse can walk for 100 miles.
The horse can run as fast as he can.
The horse can gallop.
That carrot is going to be in front.
This is what we do in our mind with our goals.
It's always somewhere in the future.
It's not here.
It's not now.
So I do this for all the different areas of my life.
So if I was an eight-figure thought leader, OK?
And I might be picking out clothes
while I'm shopping with my daughter.
Might be going through Macy's or something.
And if I was an eight-figure thought leader,
would I wear this?
What would I wear?
And I'll ask the Holy Spirit, show me.
How do I bring my present circumstances
to line up to be in alignment with where I desire to be?
I'm bringing it to now, right?
If my goal was to have my home be a gorgeous home,
then I look at something in there.
I brought it a little different.
I have a vision to have a retreat on three continents.
So I often play with that in my home.
If my home was that retreat, if I had the retreat,
this is what God's given me right here, right now.
If I had that retreat, would I hang that on the wall?
Would I have that plant?
Would I?
You see how you do that?
So you look at these qualities, and you imagine yourself, OK?
I'm the top social media marketing expert in the world.
What am I thinking?
What would I be thinking about on a regular basis?
What would I be feeling?
And we got to that feeling tone.
I'd be feeling confident.
I've been feeling creative.
I'd be feeling on my game.
I'd be feeling resourceful.
I'd be feeling.
And you get into the feeling tonality of that.
What would I be doing?
I would be having this much time for creating,
and maybe I would drop all the marketing.
Maybe everybody would be coming to me,
and I would simply be creating and meeting
with my new clients, whatever.
What would I be doing?
And most of all, who would I be being?
I would be being what?
Creative, resourceful, loving, dynamic, confident.
And so the idea of this is basically
designing a life that aligns and activates you, OK?
So these are the qualities of taking whatever it is,
and you're activating the idea of visualizing.
You're activating your God-given image maker
that you are seeing yourself already as that.
You're seeing yourself as that.
I shared with someone who is in direct selling,
who has a goal in network marketing,
who has a goal to get to a level.
And I thought back.
Again, I go way back on this stuff.
I thought back like 30 years ago,
and I was this young 20-something,
and I was in this nutritional network marketing company.
And I had been living this goal.
They had this goal to become.
It was called a field advisor, right?
So become a field advisor.
And I was in this.
And so I had, you know, I had put,
I'll just kind of show where I can talk to you guys.
So I had put up the pin,
there was this pin that had diamonds
all the way around the outside that made you,
I think you had, I don't remember,
like 20 people in your line or something.
So I had these 20 diamonds around the pin
and I just imagined myself that I was that,
I was that top position, I was that field,
and I felt I was a confident speaker,
I was a confident leader,
I was just an expert at what I did,
and I always just pictured I am a field advisor
and I dressed like a field advisor
and I fought like a field advisor
and I spoke like a field advisor.
This is a true story.
So I go to this conference, right?
And I'm near the front row,
the president and the vice president is there,
there's massive crowd of people,
you know how network marketing is, right?
So everybody's in the audience and the energy is so high
and you're just getting caught up with the energy of it all.
And they say, okay, what I'd like right now
is all of you who are field advisors, please stand.
I was up on my feet standing and all of a sudden it hit me.
Oh crap, I'm not a field advisor yet.
I'm standing, everyone's looking at me.
I became a field advisor that month.
But do you see, I had lived it so many times
before I actually lived it.
This is the goal of what we're talking about.
You're moving beyond this thought,
this new year's resolution, this piece of paper,
you're moving beyond that to who must I become,
to I am that, and I'm gonna start building my life
that my home represents that.
You know, I write three words every year, right?
And my three words this year, and by the way, again,
like all the other principles I've taught you,
I write them every single day.
It's on the Prosper Daily Plan.
I write those three words every day.
They always come true.
So this year it's uplift my heart like I'm doing today.
I pray I'm uplifting you.
I pray that there's just this uplift
that you step into the fullness
of who God has called you to be.
So uplift, up-level, I desire to up-level my thinking,
up-level my body, up-level my relationship with God,
up-level, right, just up-level, and upgrade.
I desire to upgrade all kinds of things.
Do you know the power of writing
those three words down already?
We're only on day, what, 13, 14 of the month.
Sometimes it's really silly stuff,
but it's living it.
It's living that person, right?
So I have a toaster.
It still works.
It's really ugly.
It's really old, kind of matches my old Ford Granada.
It's green too.
I don't know how I inherited this thing,
but it's really ugly.
I have a can opener that just really doesn't work.
You know what?
This is my year to upgrade.
I have the most amazing can opener.
I have the most amazing toaster.
This thing is so thick.
You can defrost on the top of it.
You can put bagels in it.
You can, right?
Simple things, but it is making sure
that the details of your life line up
with who you say you are, line up with your goals.
So do you get the feeling here
that goals aren't something way out there?
Goals aren't something outside of yourself.
Goals are something that you're living,
being, feeling, speaking, doing.
Do you get the distinction?
This isn't taught.
Every goal setting thing I go to, it's outside.
Write down your goals.
Okay.
Divide it up into steps.
Okay.
Prioritize it.
Okay.
Work your way down the list.
Okay.
Get an accountability partner.
Okay.
If that was working, we'd all have our goals.
Am I cracking you guys up?
Okay.
But is it true or is it true?
Am I speaking truth here?
If it was working, we'd all be at our goals.
Why?
You know, this past Friday,
it's 80, 90% have already given up
on their new year's resolution.
It's over.
It's done.
You're here.
Because you're focusing on the feeling tonality.
If you understand the psychoneuroimmunology of that,
the feeling tonality actually changes your entire chemistry.
You have neuropeptides that go to every part of your body
that line up with that.
And by the way, the heart sends more messages to the brain
than the brain to the heart.
And your heart is radiating energy.
Everything is radiating energy.
is energy. That's how God made the world. Everything is energy. Your heart is radiating
energy. We've measured it up to 15 feet. So all of this is not just fluff. This is not
psychobabble. This is influencing what's coming into your life. This is what's going through
your body, that you're stepping into this and you are being it. Okay. Got off on a little
tangent, but we're all good. Okay. We're back. So next. Okay. So you begin asking yourself
some questions. Some of the most powerful things that you can do is ask yourself questions.
Okay. So here's some of the questions we talked about. What do I have? I, if I've coached
with you, you've done what's in your hand exercise. If you haven't done that, go back
and do it. Ask me for it. What's in, what's in your hand. Right. And so, uh, what do I
have that I can start using right now? You all have something that you can start with.
You have gifts and talents. You have resources, you have connections, you have people that
you know, you have contacts, you have something. And the key is to begin to apply what you
have. Okay. And we talked about this earlier. I love this picture, right? Because the kitty
is so often who we see ourself as, and the lion is who God has made you to be. And so
that's why this is such a powerful picture. I, um, I had my daughter earlier and she was
feeling, um, a little bit discouraged and down, um, in herself and was going down that
that road. And the Holy spirit just came upon me. I was doing my makeup, getting ready
to come here. And I grabbed my daughter and I said, there's something on my heart. I need
to tell you. And I got her right in front of me. And I go, I want you to stop focusing
on who you're not stop focusing on what's wrong, what's broken, what, what's lacking,
what you're not being, or what you're not doing. I want you to stop that right now.
Because energy flow is where the attention goes. And I want you to remember right here,
right now, and I'm speaking to all of you that are listening to me live and online.
I want you to remember who you are as a son or a daughter of the most high God. Who are
you? You have the mind of Christ. You are the temple of the Holy spirit. You are a container
for God. That means you have all access to all wisdom, all resources. You have the power
of life and death in your tongue. Yeah. You may need to catch up. There may be a learning
curve. You may need to get some skills. You may need to learn some things. You may need
to let go of some things you've been holding on to tight. You know, God's trying to give
you this thing and you're holding on to sticky candy and he can't pry your fingers open to
give you what he wants to give you. Right? So you might have to release some things,
old identities, old beliefs, old ways of thinking, old ways of talking. You may have to step
into a new, bigger identity, but you must remember right here, right now, who you are.
You are that lion because you carry the lion of Judah in you. You were made in God's image.
So when you look at your goals, you cannot look at, Oh, I've always tried this and I,
and it just never works. I, I just tend to get started and then I give up. I, I just
think maybe it's in my family. It's in my genes. Maybe now you're in the victim consciousness,
get up at least to the manifest consciousness. I will do this. I will take these actions
and even more so get into this one, right? The channel consciousness that says, God,
right now, do this through me. This is way bigger than me, but you put me here. I trust
you. Teach me, speak through me, right through me, coach through me, heal through me. You
become that vessel. It's not about you anymore. It's about God in you. It was never meant
to be about you. We're just vessels or all the way into the being that you're going around.
I thank you father that you're in me. I'm hidden in you. I'm in them. They're in me.
We're all one.
Now we're operating that. So who must I become? You look at that picture right there.
Be reminded who must I become? Okay. What must I release? What must I release? What
beliefs have I been holding to? I'm not smart enough. I'm too old. I'm too whatever. What
kind of crazy things have you been telling yourself? What habits do I need to change?
What identity? I've got to change from I'm a smoker to I'm a non-smoker. I can't even
think about smoking. I'm a non-smoker. I'm, I got to change from I'm broke to are you
kidding? I'm so abundant. I'm a daughter of the most high God. Money comes to me easily
and effortlessly. I'm, I'm old. No, he says I, he restores my youth. He says he, he makes
me mount up with wings of Eagles. He says, you know, that I fly like an Eagle. He says
that he renews my youth. That's what my Bible says. He renews my youth. I had someone prophesy
over me a couple of days ago and they said, you know, God's renewing your youth because
you're coming to life from a place of fun and curiosity. And you've let go of the things
that make you old, the striving, the stress, the negativity, right? So what must I release?
What beliefs, what habits, what identity, what stuff do I need to release? What am I
still holding onto? Because I, maybe I have the belief in that I need security, the value
of security. Am I holding onto stuff that I really should have let go and bless someone
a long time ago? Because it doesn't even give me joy anymore. I mean, when I cleaned
out that living room, I had an old couch that was from my marriage. Like I don't need to
have that 10 years later. Now I've got a couch that just sparks so much joy. I love it. You
know? So, so like what stuff am I holding onto that? It doesn't even spark joy anymore.
Right. I look at what Marie Kondo, if you've ever done, you know, the magic of tidying
with Marie Kondo and she takes whatever it is, you know, like I love my Prosper Cup from
Prosper TV. Right. So, so I take my Prosper Cup and I hold it and it sparks joy. I look
at it and I smile. I want to share it with you guys because it sparks joy. Right. I love it.
That's all you want to surround yourself. If it doesn't spark joy, if you don't love it
and you're holding onto it, well, what if I don't get another cup? Well, you know what I,
what if I have to go cupless? You know, what if my life is forever without cups? You know,
that's a life that's not based on the truth of God. Right. I'm being funny to get you guys
thinking. All right. So the final step here is, is the plan. So remember we said goals without a
plan are a hallucination. Okay. And so gotta have a plan. So the ideal way is I like to do it this
way. Okay. If you've got two pages on a, on a journal, can I borrow your paper for just one
second? So if you've got two pages, Oh, it won't work with this camera anyway. Nevermind. You can
imagine it if you've got two pages on a journal. Okay. So on one side, you're putting the goal.
Okay. On the opposite page, you're putting all of the actions that you can think of actions that you
can think of. This is a form of a plan, right? So start, start a business, start a coaching business,
let's say, and you put every action that you can think of. Right. So I need to get a, let's say a
business license. Maybe I want to get a, you know, coach certification. I need to get a computer.
Maybe I need to get a camera for maybe I need to, you know, get a daytime. Like what are all the
actions? Maybe I need to make a list of all the people that I know. Maybe I need to show up and
do a Facebook live. Maybe. And you just write down all the actions that you can take. Okay. So
you know, maybe it's, I want to clean out a room. And so maybe the action is I'm going to buy
huge bags of those yard bags, and I'm going to have some boxes and I'm going to, and so
maybe the actions are, I'm going to take everything out of the master closet. This is
kind of a Marie Kondo way of doing it. Right. And then I'm, or I'll do this when I clean out my
office, I'm only going to put back in there, whatever I want to keep and everything else
either gets thrown away or given away. Right. So it gets put
away, thrown away, or given away. So you're taking really concrete and starting to put steps to it.
And again, you might want to look out, however much you want to look out. If you want to look
out 10 years from now, that's a great place to start. 10 years from now, this is what I want
my business to have. I want it to be earning this much. I want to be serving this many people. I
want to have this in place. Like I mentioned earlier, when I first built Prosper 10 years
from now, I wrote down everything. I'm going to need a website. I'm going to need a membership
site. I'm going to need a place for courses. I'm going to need a coach certification.
I'm going to need a television radio. I'm going to need to have books. I'm going to need to have,
and I just like wrote all that stuff. And then you break it down and you go, okay, that's 10 years.
Okay. Halfway would be five years. Where would I want to be in five years from there?
Well, maybe I don't have, you know, blah, blah, blah, but I have blah, blah, blah.
Okay. Now I take that five years. Where would I want to be in one year? Because we put that whole
10 year goal into a year. This is where we go wrong. Okay. So you got to be a little bit realistic
that way, you know, your time, your belief, all of that. So, okay. I broke it down five. Okay.
I broke it down one year. Okay. Where this time next year, where do I need to be? Maybe
if you've never earned a hundred thousand and your goal is, you know, in 10 years, I want to
be eight figures. Okay. Maybe in five years, I want to be seven figures. Maybe in a year,
I want to be six figures or three years. Like, do you see how I took that and I broke it down
into manageable chunks? Okay. So a year, and this is where we're really going to be working for the
purpose of this. You've got your big goals. You broke it down. Let's talk just 2023. If this,
if you're listening live this year, now take that year and break it in half.
If I'm going to finish this year with this in place in six months, where would I need to be?
So you've got the year in six months. Where do I need to be?
Okay. And you got the six month goal really clear. The feeling, the doing, what would I remember?
We're living it, right? Who do I need to be? What am I feeling? What am I doing? What are
the actions I'm taking? What am I saying? Okay. Six months now, halfway to that is three months.
So over these 90 days, my 90 day plan is. Okay. That's the three months. Okay. A third of that,
you see how when you chunk it down, it gets more and more realistic. Okay. That means,
and now your year really has a plan to it. You're not just hoping that at the end of the year,
somehow you're a six figure earner. Doesn't work that way. If it's six figures at the end of the
year, and maybe it's halfway, right? That it's halfway to the six figures. And then maybe in
the month, right? You break it down. How much do I need to be earning? Okay. And this month,
how much can I go toward that? Okay. And now what's most important is you do a prosper daily plan.
What do I need to do today? So you all know my favorite question. I've repeated it many times,
but if you're new, my favorite question is what is the single most important action?
What is the single most important action I can take today?
Because folks, the truth is you really only have today. You only have this moment. None
of us are guaranteed tomorrow. None of us knew COVID was going to happen. None of us,
we don't know a tree's going to hit your car. We just don't know what's going to happen.
Okay. So the only thing that really you've been given is today. So I've got the big picture. I'm
trying to get here in 10 years. I'm trying to get here in five years. I'm trying to get here in three
years. I'm trying to get here this year. I've split that in half. I've split it into a 90 day plan.
And now I've split it to this month. Now I've got it today. And every single day I'm asking,
what's the single most important action I can take today to advance in the direction of my
goals, dreams, and desires. What do I need to do today? Imagine if every day you just took
one important action, even if you only worked five days a week, if it was a work thing,
that's 20 significant actions a month in your 90 day plan. That's 60 significant actions. I got a
business lesson. I set up, I got my domain. I made a video. I wrote a post. I started my blog.
Just one action a day.
The cumulative effect of this is so powerful, so powerful, OK?
And Napoleon Hill says the primary reason for failure
is people do not develop new plans to replace
those plans that didn't work.
In other words, they keep on doing the same thing
and expecting different results, OK?
So you've got to put action to it.
What is the single most important action?
You've got to go for it.
You've got to put action to it.
Two more things, too.
I'm going a little bit over because we
started a little late.
But these are really important.
And we'll wrap up with this.
And then I'm going to turn around,
let you meet the group live.
And we're going to have some processing time where
you make this real for you, OK?
So one powerful thing, and I don't
know if I mentioned I did on us gathering before,
but maybe not on this call.
Your habits define you.
Did I do that on this call or only before?
OK, so you are a product of your habits.
Everything, 90% of who you are is just simply habit.
You sleep on the same side of the bed.
You get up and you do the same thing.
You brush your teeth the same way.
You tie your shoes the same way.
You drive the same way.
Everything.
You put on your shoes the same way.
Everything we do is habit.
And so I've learned that if I want
to change something in my life, I simply
have to change a habit.
That's the master key of success.
Whenever I decide I want, well, we've
got to change the thinking, the identity,
but then now we're in the action part of it.
In the action part of it, I've got to create a habit, OK?
So there's a couple of ways.
Now, if you have not read the book Atomic Habits,
Atomic Habits.
I'll put a link in the chat in a second.
Atomic Habits.
Probably one of the most important books
that you can read for this whole goal setting.
You can listen to it on Audible.
Atomic Habits, OK?
I think it's James Clear.
He gets into some of this to really make your habits stick.
One of them, I call it something different than he calls it,
but I'm a really big believer in declarations.
It's on the Prosper Daily Plan.
A declaration is an I will statement.
So every day on the Prosper Daily Plan,
you've got three I wills.
For me, I often say, I will read and pray.
I will exercise.
I will write three pages.
That's an example of some of my declarations.
It's I absolutely will do this, right?
So we can intensify this declaration
by kind of merging it with an intention
and adding the action, the time, and the place.
This really is going to take you from fuzzy thinking
into really clear thinking.
So here's an example.
I will write at 8 AM in my office.
I will write.
I get more specific.
I will write 500 words at 8 AM in my office.
So I know what I'm going to do.
It's very specific.
I'll know if I've written 500 words or not.
I've got a time.
It's on my calendar.
If you don't have it on your calendar, it's a hallucination.
You'll never get to it.
And the place, because now for your brain,
that's really concrete.
OK, I will do yoga at 7 30 AM in my bedroom.
Or I will work out in the gym at 6 AM in my local gym.
Do you guys get the depth of this?
Do you see how real it is?
You can't squirm out of this.
This is not fuzzy thinking.
All right, now another level of this,
again, this is from Atomic Habits, is habit stacking.
This makes it even more real.
And what we know is that whatever we do
affects everything else that we do.
So habit stacking is to take a habit that you already have.
So for example, I get up.
And for me, these are some of my habits.
I get up in the morning.
And I always go to the kitchen.
And I pour some coconut water.
And I put a delta E in the coconut.
So I pour a delta E in my coconut water.
And then a lot of times, because my daughter's going to work,
I go ahead.
And while I'm in the kitchen, I make a smoothie.
And I get all my protein and all my veggies
and all my stuff in my smoothie.
I make amazing pina coladas or avocado melon,
all these amazing smoothies.
So I do those two things.
I get up.
I go to the kitchen.
That's just done.
So I'm kind of a two-fisted drinker, right?
And then I naturally go into my.
my office at home. I've got a big easy chair. It's my study chair. I got the light over
my head as I sit there. And I know that that's going to be my time with God. I'm going to
read. I'm going to pray. I'm going to meditate. I'm going to do the things that I do. Okay.
So I already have a cue, which a cue is a part of the habit. I got a cue that when I
wake up, I make my Delta E and my smoothie. I have my cue that once I have my Delta E
and my smoothie, I go into my office. I've got a place and it's a time. I set my alarm
the same every day. It's a habit. Right. And so I've got my drinks and I sit down and I've
got my table. I got my many color pens and you know, I've got my books. I got my Bible.
I got my highlighters and I sit there and it's my time with God. Okay. Now maybe you
are wanting to add having a spiritual practice, but you can't seem to get to it. Things always
interrupt and you, you just don't have a way to get to that. Habit stacking is, let's
say you drink coffee every morning. It's a habit. It's already there. Okay. So you say
after I make my coffee, I will read my Bible. There you go. You now, the cue that you're
teaching yourself, you're speaking this to yourself, habit stacking, right? So you take
something that you're already doing and you're putting the thing that you want to add and
you're making it very concrete that there's a cue. As soon as I make my coffee, I'm going
to read my Bible. That's how I'm going to wire my brain. I speak it. That makes it more
powerful. I hear myself. That makes it powerful. So you get up and you go, Oh, I'm, you talk
to yourself. Okay. You're not crazy. You talk to yourself and you go, okay, I'm going to
go make my coffee. And as soon as I make my coffee, I'm going to go grab my Bible. I'm
going to get my nice, easy chair and I'm going to sit there and God and I are going to have
time together. So I speak it. I have a very specific action. I have a very specific habit.
I promise you'll these things will stick when you start doing this. Okay. Put in the chat.
If that's helpful, let me know. Is that, is that something that will really make a difference?
Pop in the chat to see your comments. You guys are quiet. I'm, I'm wrapping it up now
because we are over and I want you to meet everybody here. So bottom line, commit, create
habits, set up accountability, have a community. This is why I have the prosper leader membership.
It's a community. All these masterclasses are free for prosper leaders. And so, um,
you know, if you haven't done that yet and you want to become a prosper leader member,
all of the resources twice a month, I go live these masterclasses, they're all included
as part of that. And you've got a community that is supporting you. Okay. And so I want
to thank you for being here. And now I am going to unpin myself. I'm going to stop recording
and I want you to meet.