WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:12.280 So, welcome, ladies, welcome to this of course is our prosper leader member call, and I'm 2 00:00:12.280 --> 00:00:16.680 so excited to share what we're going to share tonight. 3 00:00:16.680 --> 00:00:21.320 Of course, these calls are always divided into two parts, besides the time that we spend 4 00:00:21.320 --> 00:00:24.700 just getting to know each other and breakout rooms. 5 00:00:24.700 --> 00:00:29.180 It's a time for me to do a little teaching and then we do community time to let it really 6 00:00:29.180 --> 00:00:34.240 dive in and go deeper in whatever area that you're needed. 7 00:00:34.240 --> 00:00:40.900 So I'm going to go ahead and open with prayer, and then I'm going to share, let me close 8 00:00:40.900 --> 00:00:45.360 some of these windows and see what I can do here a little bit. 9 00:00:45.360 --> 00:00:46.360 Okay. 10 00:00:46.360 --> 00:00:48.560 All right. 11 00:00:48.560 --> 00:00:50.280 So let's open with prayer. 12 00:00:51.060 --> 00:00:59.740 Father, I just thank you for this opportunity for us to come together to learn, to grow, 13 00:00:59.740 --> 00:01:12.060 to share, to give, to receive, to just circulate, to flow, to allow thoughts and ideas and strategies 14 00:01:12.060 --> 00:01:18.840 and creativity to come into a place that is just fertile. 15 00:01:18.840 --> 00:01:23.000 We just invite your presence to flood the airways here. 16 00:01:23.000 --> 00:01:27.260 We ask that you cover the technology, that everybody's able to receive what they came 17 00:01:27.260 --> 00:01:28.680 here to receive. 18 00:01:28.680 --> 00:01:33.860 And we ask that we cover our spiritual senses, that we receive what we came here to receive. 19 00:01:33.860 --> 00:01:40.380 So speak clearly, let what needs to come forth for each woman to step into the fullest aspect 20 00:01:40.380 --> 00:01:46.820 and dimension of who she's created to be, to achieve and live and realize her goals, 21 00:01:46.820 --> 00:01:50.080 dreams, and desires that you've placed in her heart. 22 00:01:50.080 --> 00:01:53.720 So I just speak blessings in Jesus name. 23 00:01:53.720 --> 00:01:54.720 Amen. 24 00:01:54.720 --> 00:01:55.720 Okay. 25 00:01:55.720 --> 00:01:57.940 I'm going to share a screen. 26 00:01:57.940 --> 00:02:02.660 Let me tell you the concept here today. 27 00:02:02.660 --> 00:02:08.600 The thoughts that was coming to my spirit was desiring to help you deepen. 28 00:02:08.600 --> 00:02:12.860 Don't want things to go so fast because as you know, learning from me can be like drinking 29 00:02:12.860 --> 00:02:13.860 from a waterfall. 30 00:02:13.860 --> 00:02:17.460 I have plenty to share and lots to go. 31 00:02:17.460 --> 00:02:29.380 And so we just had really powerful time of that workshop that we just did. 32 00:02:29.380 --> 00:02:31.220 And I'm letting more people in there. 33 00:02:31.220 --> 00:02:40.180 So we just did this workshop on goals, activation, and it brought up a lot of very powerful, 34 00:02:40.180 --> 00:02:41.340 important things. 35 00:02:41.340 --> 00:02:46.860 So in the workshop, getting a lot of people coming in the work in the waiting room. 36 00:02:46.860 --> 00:02:47.860 Okay. 37 00:02:47.860 --> 00:02:49.980 Let's just see what I can do here. 38 00:02:49.980 --> 00:02:52.300 Let you get in here. 39 00:02:52.300 --> 00:02:53.300 Okay. 40 00:02:53.300 --> 00:02:59.340 So, so it brought up some important points when it comes to goal setting, because here 41 00:02:59.340 --> 00:03:07.660 we are in the new year, here we are in the new year and forgive me for the destruction. 42 00:03:07.660 --> 00:03:11.380 People are just popping in here to wanting to help them get in. 43 00:03:11.380 --> 00:03:12.380 So good. 44 00:03:12.380 --> 00:03:13.380 All right. 45 00:03:13.380 --> 00:03:22.020 So here we are in the new year and we're talking about goal setting and with this goal setting, 46 00:03:22.020 --> 00:03:25.580 we say, well, most people know the basics. 47 00:03:25.580 --> 00:03:26.580 They know. 48 00:03:26.580 --> 00:03:27.580 Okay. 49 00:03:27.580 --> 00:03:31.460 Write down your goals, yada, yada, yada, list them, whatever, write down your goals 50 00:03:31.460 --> 00:03:33.540 and have a plan. 51 00:03:33.540 --> 00:03:34.540 Okay. 52 00:03:34.540 --> 00:03:36.180 You know, yada, yada, yada. 53 00:03:36.180 --> 00:03:37.740 Have a plan. 54 00:03:37.740 --> 00:03:38.740 Take action. 55 00:03:38.740 --> 00:03:39.740 Okay. 56 00:03:39.740 --> 00:03:46.500 So most of us can kind of figure out intuitively what it takes to have a goal, right? 57 00:03:46.500 --> 00:03:51.460 So you're writing down clearly what it is you're making a plan. 58 00:03:51.460 --> 00:03:58.700 Maybe you need to get some support and accountability, but why is it that most people do not achieve 59 00:03:58.700 --> 00:04:00.180 their goals? 60 00:04:00.180 --> 00:04:04.220 And so of course I did the goals activation. 61 00:04:04.220 --> 00:04:05.860 So it wasn't about goal setting. 62 00:04:06.540 --> 00:04:12.340 It was about activation and I filled in a lot of the holes, a lot of the gaps that get 63 00:04:12.340 --> 00:04:17.300 left out of most of this training, right? 64 00:04:17.300 --> 00:04:24.860 And so we cover some really important holes and if you've missed that training, it's in 65 00:04:24.860 --> 00:04:28.980 the prosper leader membership site, it's, there's a special group for it there. 66 00:04:28.980 --> 00:04:32.500 You should have gotten the link if you need the link to be able to join. 67 00:04:32.500 --> 00:04:35.460 I sent it to you, but let me know, go in. 68 00:04:36.060 --> 00:04:37.060 You can watch it. 69 00:04:37.060 --> 00:04:45.260 So today I want to talk about two of those gaps, two of those holes that keep us from 70 00:04:45.260 --> 00:04:46.820 achieving our goals. 71 00:04:46.820 --> 00:04:47.820 Okay. 72 00:04:47.820 --> 00:04:50.900 One is limiting beliefs. 73 00:04:50.900 --> 00:04:52.140 Okay. 74 00:04:52.140 --> 00:04:57.300 One is limiting beliefs and the other is values conflict. 75 00:04:57.300 --> 00:04:59.420 Now I sent you. 76 00:05:00.000 --> 00:05:08.320 of the the values conflict so that you could determine the values clarification so you could 77 00:05:08.320 --> 00:05:13.440 determine your values and you could start looking at where they conflict. So I'm going to do a real 78 00:05:13.440 --> 00:05:20.080 quick review of these two things and then mostly we're going to get real practical. We're going to 79 00:05:20.080 --> 00:05:28.480 gather together and look at what are these things that are keeping us from being where we desire to 80 00:05:28.480 --> 00:05:38.640 be. So I'm going to go ahead and share the screen and I'm going to go ahead and open. Hopefully it's 81 00:05:38.640 --> 00:05:48.080 just really easy to open. Yeah okay so we'll start with this one first. So let's make this where you 82 00:05:48.080 --> 00:05:57.760 can see it bigger and let's make this like that. Okay so let's talk about the two things. It's the 83 00:05:57.760 --> 00:06:04.960 limiting beliefs and the values conflicts. These are the things that truly keep us from realizing 84 00:06:04.960 --> 00:06:12.960 our goals. Okay so let's talk about that. What is a limiting belief? So limiting beliefs are 85 00:06:12.960 --> 00:06:23.520 negative or low frequency thoughts of self-imposed limitations. I bolded some things because I want 86 00:06:23.520 --> 00:06:30.160 you to really get the gist of this. This is not something happening to you. This is something 87 00:06:30.160 --> 00:06:37.840 happening in you that you can be aware of. So we have this belief system, this thought form 88 00:06:38.800 --> 00:06:45.920 that is self-imposed. We're creating this. That's beautiful because that means if you created it, 89 00:06:45.920 --> 00:06:52.160 you can uncreate it. That's good news. Okay if you created this, if this is self-imposed, 90 00:06:52.160 --> 00:06:59.200 this is a prison that you can unlock. You have the key. Whatever you've created, you can uncreate. 91 00:06:59.200 --> 00:07:03.680 Isn't that beautiful? Because God didn't create these limitations. These are self-created. These 92 00:07:03.680 --> 00:07:10.240 are man-created and so these are self-imposed limitations that we hold about ourselves. 93 00:07:10.800 --> 00:07:16.240 Okay could be about God, could be about others, could be about life, could be about money, could 94 00:07:16.240 --> 00:07:26.800 be about business. There's all kinds of them and these prevent us from achieving your goals 95 00:07:27.600 --> 00:07:38.800 or living the abundant life that God has for us. These are really important to become aware of. 96 00:07:38.880 --> 00:07:45.920 This is a big deal. So there are these ingrained thought patterns. The Bible also calls them 97 00:07:45.920 --> 00:07:53.040 strongholds. They're like fortresses in the neuropathways. They become so, you know, every 98 00:07:53.040 --> 00:07:58.480 time you, you know, nerves that fire together, wire together. So it, you know, starts out as a 99 00:07:58.480 --> 00:08:04.480 little dirt road, a little belief and then, you know, the truck keeps going over it, over the pathway 100 00:08:04.480 --> 00:08:09.440 and now it becomes a two-lane highway and it keeps going over it and now it becomes a four-lane 101 00:08:09.440 --> 00:08:15.600 freeway and this happens in our brain and it becomes a stronghold. It becomes such a belief 102 00:08:15.600 --> 00:08:21.120 system that we don't even often distinguish it from reality. It becomes very real for us 103 00:08:21.120 --> 00:08:28.880 and it blocks then the truth. Okay so the little t truth that we begin to live and accept blocks 104 00:08:28.880 --> 00:08:36.880 the capital T truth of God and the truth of who we really are made in the image of God and so this 105 00:08:36.880 --> 00:08:45.280 limiting belief is something, it's a state of mind that you think is true. It's true for you, right? 106 00:08:45.280 --> 00:08:50.640 I mean when you focus on lack, you can find lack everywhere. When you're afraid, I mean it's so 107 00:08:50.640 --> 00:08:57.360 real. You can feel it every part of your body. So it feels very real to you but in the big scope of 108 00:08:57.360 --> 00:09:05.520 things, the capital T, it's not real. It's an illusion and so part of our journey is replacing these 109 00:09:05.520 --> 00:09:14.800 illusions that are based on fear with the truth which is based on love, okay? And that's our journey 110 00:09:14.800 --> 00:09:23.760 to really know ourselves and to replace these lie-based things in our head, right? And so 111 00:09:24.400 --> 00:09:30.000 it's a thought or a state that you think is the absolute truth but it stops you. Here's the key, 112 00:09:30.000 --> 00:09:37.360 why does it matter? Why does it matter, okay? Because it stops you from having. Maybe it's the 113 00:09:37.360 --> 00:09:41.760 money, maybe it's the lifestyle, maybe it's the freedom, maybe it's the relationship, maybe it's 114 00:09:41.760 --> 00:09:49.040 the health. It stops you from having. It stops you from doing. Maybe it's, you know, the world travel 115 00:09:49.040 --> 00:09:54.240 or writing the book or building the seven-figure business or, you know, learning to fly a jet plane, 116 00:09:54.240 --> 00:09:59.840 whatever. It's this limiting belief is very serious. It's keeping you from having. It's keeping you 117 00:10:00.000 --> 00:10:02.160 from doing, and even more importantly, 118 00:10:02.160 --> 00:10:05.480 it's keeping you from being the being 119 00:10:05.480 --> 00:10:08.040 that God created you to be. 120 00:10:08.040 --> 00:10:11.320 So examples of limiting beliefs can be, 121 00:10:11.320 --> 00:10:15.520 I'm not good enough, I'm not worthy, 122 00:10:15.520 --> 00:10:18.000 I'll never be successful. 123 00:10:18.000 --> 00:10:21.200 And so these beliefs can maybe be buried a little bit 124 00:10:21.200 --> 00:10:22.440 that they're unconscious, 125 00:10:22.440 --> 00:10:24.440 that's why we wanna dig them out, 126 00:10:24.440 --> 00:10:27.840 or they can just be based on past experiences, 127 00:10:27.840 --> 00:10:29.720 societal messages. 128 00:10:29.720 --> 00:10:31.280 And these are so insidious, 129 00:10:31.280 --> 00:10:34.240 like I think I brought this up in the workshop. 130 00:10:34.240 --> 00:10:37.480 An example is start watching cartoons, 131 00:10:37.480 --> 00:10:40.020 watching TV, or when you happen to be, 132 00:10:40.020 --> 00:10:41.120 I don't encourage watching it, 133 00:10:41.120 --> 00:10:44.160 but let's say you're watching, you're watching movies. 134 00:10:44.160 --> 00:10:48.560 Look at businessmen or businesswomen. 135 00:10:48.560 --> 00:10:53.120 How often in the movies are they generous 136 00:10:53.120 --> 00:10:58.120 and creative and virtuous and loving, wonderful people? 137 00:10:58.440 --> 00:11:00.280 How often? 138 00:11:00.280 --> 00:11:02.200 You can put in the chat. 139 00:11:02.200 --> 00:11:05.160 My experience, almost never. 140 00:11:05.160 --> 00:11:10.080 They're dishonest, lying, cheating, crooked, conniving. 141 00:11:10.080 --> 00:11:12.160 I mean, how many of you, put it in the chat 142 00:11:12.160 --> 00:11:13.360 if you know that's true. 143 00:11:13.360 --> 00:11:15.720 How many of you see in the movies, 144 00:11:15.720 --> 00:11:19.320 successful entrepreneurs, millionaires, 145 00:11:19.320 --> 00:11:21.160 billionaires, business builders, 146 00:11:21.160 --> 00:11:24.440 how many of you see them on the media 147 00:11:24.440 --> 00:11:26.660 as wonderful role models? 148 00:11:27.620 --> 00:11:29.060 This is something to think about. 149 00:11:29.060 --> 00:11:31.940 This is programming from the time we're three, four, five, 150 00:11:31.940 --> 00:11:33.220 we're just bringing this in. 151 00:11:33.220 --> 00:11:34.500 It's always the villain. 152 00:11:34.500 --> 00:11:36.660 It's always the cheater, the liar. 153 00:11:36.660 --> 00:11:41.260 So these things then by osmosis, 154 00:11:41.260 --> 00:11:42.740 we think there are beliefs, 155 00:11:42.740 --> 00:11:45.580 but they're not even our beliefs, right? 156 00:11:45.580 --> 00:11:49.980 And so it's important to identify and challenge these 157 00:11:49.980 --> 00:11:52.620 so that you can step into the fullness 158 00:11:52.620 --> 00:11:54.740 that God has for you. 159 00:11:54.740 --> 00:11:56.340 And I've told you this before. 160 00:11:57.020 --> 00:12:01.420 One way to identify a lie is it's heavy and it constricts. 161 00:12:02.380 --> 00:12:05.060 If it feels heavy, it's probably not based on the truth. 162 00:12:05.060 --> 00:12:09.180 If it's very contractive, constipated, constricted, 163 00:12:09.180 --> 00:12:12.260 it's probably lie-based, okay? 164 00:12:12.260 --> 00:12:16.420 And so notice like fear, which is lie-based, 165 00:12:16.420 --> 00:12:21.100 whole body contracts, fear in the economy, 166 00:12:21.100 --> 00:12:24.140 whole economy contracts, you see? 167 00:12:24.140 --> 00:12:26.300 And so that's how you can tell it's lie-based. 168 00:12:27.260 --> 00:12:30.860 Expansive, light, right? 169 00:12:30.860 --> 00:12:33.300 So very important to know. 170 00:12:33.300 --> 00:12:35.780 And so truth is very light and expansive. 171 00:12:35.780 --> 00:12:38.820 So I put 2 Corinthians 10, five, right? 172 00:12:38.820 --> 00:12:43.820 So in as much as we refute arguments and theories 173 00:12:45.300 --> 00:12:49.380 and reasonings and every proud and lofty thing 174 00:12:49.380 --> 00:12:54.380 that sets itself up against the true knowledge of God. 175 00:12:54.820 --> 00:12:56.420 Now, where is all this happening? 176 00:12:56.420 --> 00:12:59.020 Where are these arguments, these theories, 177 00:12:59.020 --> 00:13:02.580 these reasonings, these proud and lofty things? 178 00:13:02.580 --> 00:13:04.420 In our thoughts. 179 00:13:04.420 --> 00:13:06.220 You see, the Bible is in the mind. 180 00:13:06.220 --> 00:13:08.780 So every thought and purpose. 181 00:13:08.780 --> 00:13:10.900 And so we take it captive, okay? 182 00:13:10.900 --> 00:13:15.380 We begin to hold it and be aware of it and renew it. 183 00:13:15.380 --> 00:13:17.820 So here's some of them, okay? 184 00:13:17.820 --> 00:13:19.500 Here are some limiting beliefs. 185 00:13:19.500 --> 00:13:23.140 Anything based on lack is a limiting belief. 186 00:13:23.140 --> 00:13:26.100 The truth is the universe is so abundant. 187 00:13:26.100 --> 00:13:29.180 Just try to get to the end of the galaxies. 188 00:13:29.180 --> 00:13:32.060 Try to, we're still discovering planets and stars. 189 00:13:32.060 --> 00:13:35.340 It's the universe is ever expanding. 190 00:13:35.340 --> 00:13:38.500 So go out as far as you can go 191 00:13:38.500 --> 00:13:42.060 and you'll never reach the abundance of God, okay? 192 00:13:42.060 --> 00:13:46.100 Go in as far as you can go is microscopic, microscopic. 193 00:13:46.100 --> 00:13:47.380 It's infinite. 194 00:13:47.380 --> 00:13:49.740 So whether you go all the way in as far as you can, 195 00:13:49.740 --> 00:13:51.660 all the way out as far as you can, 196 00:13:51.660 --> 00:13:53.100 God is a God of abundance. 197 00:13:53.940 --> 00:13:54.860 The world is abundant. 198 00:13:54.860 --> 00:13:57.580 There is no lack, okay? 199 00:13:57.580 --> 00:13:59.540 There's just temporary perceived lack 200 00:13:59.540 --> 00:14:02.860 in our 3D world that we create, okay? 201 00:14:02.860 --> 00:14:05.620 And so even though the lack appears very real, 202 00:14:05.620 --> 00:14:08.100 you go, well, you ought to see my bank account, right? 203 00:14:08.100 --> 00:14:09.900 You ought to see my piggy bank. 204 00:14:09.900 --> 00:14:13.020 It's still not based on the truth of who you are 205 00:14:13.020 --> 00:14:15.820 and the infinite potential that you are, 206 00:14:15.820 --> 00:14:17.660 the infinite possibilities, 207 00:14:17.660 --> 00:14:21.420 the infinite capacity that is within you, 208 00:14:21.420 --> 00:14:24.580 the infinite abundance that is available to you. 209 00:14:24.580 --> 00:14:26.260 So we have to retrain, right? 210 00:14:26.260 --> 00:14:27.980 Scripture says we're transformed 211 00:14:27.980 --> 00:14:30.100 by the renewing of our mind. 212 00:14:30.100 --> 00:14:33.900 So we have to retrain our mind. 213 00:14:33.900 --> 00:14:35.300 And so it's really important. 214 00:14:35.300 --> 00:14:37.260 Here's a policy that I have. 215 00:14:37.260 --> 00:14:40.300 Never make a decision based on lack. 216 00:14:41.500 --> 00:14:43.700 If you're making a decision because you have fear, 217 00:14:43.700 --> 00:14:45.580 because you think you lack, 218 00:14:45.580 --> 00:14:48.380 don't make a decision based on that, okay? 219 00:14:48.380 --> 00:14:49.900 Because it's not based on truth. 220 00:14:49.900 --> 00:14:50.740 It's based on fear. 221 00:14:50.740 --> 00:14:51.820 It's based on lack. 222 00:14:51.820 --> 00:14:55.180 And so I love, you know, David, 223 00:14:55.180 --> 00:14:56.860 I love Psalms 23. 224 00:14:56.860 --> 00:14:58.980 It's so rich, right? 225 00:14:58.980 --> 00:14:59.820 And he says, 226 00:15:00.000 --> 00:15:09.120 my shepherd. The Amplified translation says to feed, to guide, to shield me. And he says, 227 00:15:09.120 --> 00:15:17.120 he makes a declaration, I shall not lack. I shall not lack. Psalms 23.1 bottom line. 228 00:15:17.760 --> 00:15:29.120 So what we do is we identify and then we replace. Okay. So you, you start renewing your mind, 229 00:15:29.120 --> 00:15:35.200 identifying and replace and you train your mouth. There's you, you, you know, the Bible says, 230 00:15:35.200 --> 00:15:40.160 stand guard at the door of my mouth. Cause words, you know, scripture says the power of life and 231 00:15:40.160 --> 00:15:46.240 death is in our tongue. We speak life or we speak death all the time over our body, over our family, 232 00:15:46.240 --> 00:15:51.840 over our money, over our bank account, over our business. It's serious. Words created the 233 00:15:51.840 --> 00:15:58.640 universe. Um, you know, the scripture says in the beginning was the word and the word became flesh. 234 00:15:58.640 --> 00:16:05.520 So the word begins, the word is foundational to everything. And so we have to renew our minds, 235 00:16:05.520 --> 00:16:11.760 our thinking, and we have to train our mouth that we will never speak lack. That's a, that's a 236 00:16:11.760 --> 00:16:18.000 discipline, right? Discipline. Same word is disciple. Never speak lack. And that comes in 237 00:16:18.000 --> 00:16:24.160 all forms. Not saying I lack time, not saying I lack money, not saying I lack knowledge, 238 00:16:24.160 --> 00:16:30.720 not saying I lack experience, not saying things like I'm too blah, blah, blah, or I'm not blah, 239 00:16:30.720 --> 00:16:37.040 blah, blah, right? I'm not smart enough. I'm too old. No, no, no, no, no. We have to renew 240 00:16:37.040 --> 00:16:42.640 our mind. And so there's a place for you to look at where is that happening? And then you replace 241 00:16:42.640 --> 00:16:49.280 it with new statements based on truth. And ideally, you know, if it's scripture that you follow and 242 00:16:49.280 --> 00:16:55.600 whatever it is that you follow for truth, for me, I like finding a scripture, but it doesn't matter. 243 00:16:55.600 --> 00:17:01.520 It can be, it can be anywhere. It can be in a proverb, but you know, wherever you find that 244 00:17:01.520 --> 00:17:10.800 true statement, you want to replace the lie with truth. Okay. And so you replace, I'm too old to 245 00:17:10.800 --> 00:17:18.160 start something new with something like it's never too late to learn, grow, and try new things. And 246 00:17:18.160 --> 00:17:23.920 then you might find a scripture to match it. Like scripture says in Isaiah 40, that he renews 247 00:17:23.920 --> 00:17:31.040 our youth, that he causes us to mount up with wings of Eagles, that we, we walk and we don't go 248 00:17:31.040 --> 00:17:38.000 reary and we run and we don't faint, right? So we want to replace that with those kinds of images, 249 00:17:38.000 --> 00:17:44.800 especially, and feelings, same thing, thoughts based on fear. Okay. Thoughts based on fear. 250 00:17:45.760 --> 00:17:54.800 So, so like, like lack fear is not based on the truth of God and a little going a little further 251 00:17:55.520 --> 00:18:02.160 fear is the absence of love. So for example, darkness is not a thing. Darkness is simply 252 00:18:02.160 --> 00:18:08.000 the absence of a thing. Darkness is the absence of light. Darkness can't survive as long as they're 253 00:18:08.000 --> 00:18:12.400 light. The minute, I don't care if it's just you light a lighter or, you know, a flashlight or 254 00:18:12.400 --> 00:18:18.000 anything, a dark room, a candle, just one flicker and the room is lit up. Darkness cannot stand in 255 00:18:18.000 --> 00:18:23.600 light. And the same relationship, fear is not a thing. It's an absence of thing. I want you to 256 00:18:23.600 --> 00:18:29.840 understand that fear is an absence of love. So just like light is an absence of darkness, fear is an 257 00:18:29.840 --> 00:18:36.320 absence of love. It's lovelessness. Whenever you do something in fear, it's lovelessness. And that's 258 00:18:36.320 --> 00:18:42.720 why scripture says that perfect love drives it out. So, you know, 1 John 4, 8 says there's no 259 00:18:42.720 --> 00:18:51.360 fear in love. Dread does not exist, but full grown or in the amplified complete or perfect, or some, 260 00:18:51.360 --> 00:19:00.160 some translations say mature love turns fear out the door. Others say expels or kicks it out the 261 00:19:00.160 --> 00:19:08.000 door. Okay. So it can't, it can't exist. All right. And same thing, Psalms 23, just a few verses after 262 00:19:08.000 --> 00:19:14.320 what we just read. I love this in the passion translation. It says, even when your path takes 263 00:19:14.320 --> 00:19:22.880 me through the valley of deepest darkness, fear will never conquer me. And so you make a choice 264 00:19:22.880 --> 00:19:27.840 that you will not walk in fear, that wherever fear comes in, you're going to replace it with more love. 265 00:19:27.840 --> 00:19:34.800 Okay. Because you already this here it is reading Psalms 23, 4, it says fear will never 266 00:19:34.800 --> 00:19:43.440 conquer me for you already have your authority talking about God is my strength and my peace 267 00:19:44.160 --> 00:19:51.600 and the comfort of your love takes away my fear. So when you feel fear, you dive deep into the 268 00:19:51.600 --> 00:19:58.960 love of God and you find promises on the love of God. And you know, I remember, you know, when this 269 00:19:58.960 --> 00:19:59.920 whole, you know, 270 00:20:00.000 --> 00:20:06.960 pandemic started and all of that. I remember that I was 271 00:20:06.960 --> 00:20:10.040 very fortunate, I started listening and you guys can find 272 00:20:10.040 --> 00:20:16.300 it online, Creflo Dollar, World Changer Ministries, he does like 273 00:20:16.300 --> 00:20:19.720 a 20 minute thing every morning, he's been doing it for over two 274 00:20:19.720 --> 00:20:24.840 years. And basically, he does a short teaching. And he does 275 00:20:24.840 --> 00:20:30.520 Psalms 91. And he calls it being Psalms 91 equipped. Well, 276 00:20:30.520 --> 00:20:34.640 there's an example of how every single day renewing your mind, 277 00:20:34.640 --> 00:20:39.160 you're focusing on Psalms 91, which says it will not come near 278 00:20:39.160 --> 00:20:44.600 my dwelling, you know, it says he makes he places me above my 279 00:20:44.600 --> 00:20:48.720 fears. And so so you start getting that vocabulary. And so 280 00:20:48.720 --> 00:20:52.560 he'll always say, Okay, your Psalms 91 equipped. And I did 281 00:20:52.560 --> 00:20:57.160 that. And you know, God's mercy is great. We were exposed so 282 00:20:57.160 --> 00:21:01.880 many ways my son and I that we're living here. And we were 283 00:21:01.880 --> 00:21:06.280 Psalms 91 equipped, it did not come near us. And so this is 284 00:21:06.280 --> 00:21:10.800 really important to change your your thought form about what 285 00:21:10.800 --> 00:21:13.960 you're believing about what are you believing about sickness? 286 00:21:14.400 --> 00:21:17.080 What are you believing about germs? What are you believing 287 00:21:17.120 --> 00:21:20.840 about aging? Have you bought into the lie? Yeah, when you get 288 00:21:20.840 --> 00:21:23.360 older, you know, your joints start hurting? No, they don't. 289 00:21:23.360 --> 00:21:25.120 Not if you have the right nutrition and the right 290 00:21:25.120 --> 00:21:28.720 exercise. No, you don't. You know, I was just reading one of 291 00:21:28.720 --> 00:21:32.440 the older women, oldest women just died 119 years old. She 292 00:21:32.440 --> 00:21:38.280 just died. She from France. And she even got COVID. And she was 293 00:21:38.280 --> 00:21:41.600 so healthy. She didn't even notice it. She said, she tested 294 00:21:41.600 --> 00:21:45.600 positive. But you know, it just wasn't in her mindset. So you 295 00:21:45.600 --> 00:21:49.480 have to understand what are you allowing? You're the gatekeeper. 296 00:21:49.720 --> 00:21:52.920 Right? You're just cycling your mind. So what are you believing 297 00:21:52.920 --> 00:21:56.240 about aging? What are you believing about, you know, 298 00:21:56.240 --> 00:21:59.240 disease? What are you believing about sickness? What are you 299 00:21:59.240 --> 00:22:03.760 believing all of those things, right? And you get to choose to 300 00:22:03.760 --> 00:22:09.840 make it part of your reality. Okay, so that's one aspect to 301 00:22:09.880 --> 00:22:15.440 look at. And then I gave you all a worksheet, I'm not going to go 302 00:22:15.440 --> 00:22:20.840 over it right now. But a values clarification. So if you didn't 303 00:22:20.840 --> 00:22:25.920 do that, that is also available for you. And if you didn't do 304 00:22:25.920 --> 00:22:32.240 the, you know, the worksheet, the seminar, um, you know, it's 305 00:22:32.280 --> 00:22:36.880 it's really understanding these value conflicts. And I changed a 306 00:22:36.880 --> 00:22:40.960 slide since you did it, I condensed our workshop into a 30 307 00:22:40.960 --> 00:22:44.120 minute one that I did for Sacramento Association of Health 308 00:22:44.120 --> 00:22:50.600 Underwriters. And so, um, so this, you know, was the way to 309 00:22:50.600 --> 00:22:54.040 describe it, right values, conflicts look something like 310 00:22:54.040 --> 00:22:58.680 this. So this is another area that keeps us from achieving our 311 00:22:58.680 --> 00:23:02.920 goals, right? So a value conflict, you know, I want to 312 00:23:02.920 --> 00:23:07.120 build a big, I want to build a big, you know, entrepreneurial, 313 00:23:07.120 --> 00:23:11.440 I want to build a seven figure entrepreneurial event, business, 314 00:23:11.440 --> 00:23:18.080 but my other value is safety and security. Okay, and now 315 00:23:18.080 --> 00:23:21.520 you're just going to be going this way, do I get a job, 316 00:23:21.520 --> 00:23:25.080 there's not money in my bank account, I don't feel safe. You 317 00:23:25.080 --> 00:23:28.480 know, should I run? Should I cancel everything? Should I pull 318 00:23:28.480 --> 00:23:31.840 back? Of course, that's making a decision based on fear, but you 319 00:23:31.840 --> 00:23:35.800 got these forms locking between two contrary. So it's really 320 00:23:35.800 --> 00:23:41.480 important that number one, you know, your values. And then 321 00:23:41.480 --> 00:23:46.240 number two, you become aware, okay, which of these conflict 322 00:23:47.080 --> 00:23:52.400 and apparent conflict. And so I taught you the way to bridge 323 00:23:52.400 --> 00:23:56.600 those. Okay, so for me, you know, I gave you a real life 324 00:23:56.600 --> 00:24:01.360 example, I desire to just keep growing my business, seven 325 00:24:01.360 --> 00:24:05.600 figures, eight figures, just keep growing my business. But 326 00:24:05.640 --> 00:24:10.480 one of my top values is freedom. And so past experience gave me 327 00:24:10.480 --> 00:24:13.040 the limiting belief that the bigger I grew my business, I 328 00:24:13.040 --> 00:24:16.240 would have to give up my freedom. And so then I had these 329 00:24:16.240 --> 00:24:19.720 horns locking, I didn't want to grow my business unconsciously, 330 00:24:19.720 --> 00:24:23.360 I did things to sabotage, I, I did things, I just couldn't get 331 00:24:23.360 --> 00:24:26.720 myself to do the things I needed to do and don't understand why I 332 00:24:26.720 --> 00:24:31.640 procrastinated, I sabotage things, right? Until I got 333 00:24:31.640 --> 00:24:37.240 really clear. Oh, that's what was going on. And so how do you 334 00:24:37.240 --> 00:24:40.800 stop this headlock? And how do you get to go in the same 335 00:24:40.800 --> 00:24:44.240 direction, you can pull these horns apart and both walk side 336 00:24:44.240 --> 00:24:49.000 by side, how do you do that? You bridge them together. So the 337 00:24:49.000 --> 00:24:53.760 bigger my business grows, the more freedom I have, and the 338 00:24:53.800 --> 00:24:57.360 more freedom I have, the bigger my business grows, and the 339 00:24:57.360 --> 00:24:59.760 bigger my business grows, the more 340 00:25:00.000 --> 00:25:01.080 freedom I have. 341 00:25:01.080 --> 00:25:05.000 You bring those two apparent contradictions, 342 00:25:05.000 --> 00:25:11.320 unlock the horns, get them to walk in the same direction. 343 00:25:11.320 --> 00:25:14.520 So a very powerful and necessary tool. 344 00:25:14.520 --> 00:25:16.960 So if you haven't gotten clear on your values, 345 00:25:16.960 --> 00:25:20.680 because your values really drive you. 346 00:25:20.680 --> 00:25:23.080 They are why you do things, because they're 347 00:25:23.080 --> 00:25:25.160 the true things that are most important to you. 348 00:25:25.160 --> 00:25:29.200 So your beliefs can be limiting, and they can limit you. 349 00:25:29.200 --> 00:25:32.680 Your values are what ultimately is going to win. 350 00:25:32.680 --> 00:25:35.720 You're going to do what you most value. 351 00:25:35.720 --> 00:25:38.640 And so this is very important to get clear. 352 00:25:38.640 --> 00:25:41.520 What is it that you truly value, and where 353 00:25:41.520 --> 00:25:44.280 might there be a conflict so that we 354 00:25:44.280 --> 00:25:49.040 can get these going in the same direction and you can enjoy? 355 00:25:49.040 --> 00:25:51.600 So that's just a little overview. 356 00:25:51.600 --> 00:25:54.600 Now let's gather together in community time 357 00:25:54.600 --> 00:25:57.440 and put it to practical. 358 00:25:57.440 --> 00:26:00.440 Let's put it into practical use. 359 00:26:00.440 --> 00:26:04.120 So I'm going to go ahead and stop the recording here.