So, welcome, ladies, welcome to this of course is our prosper leader member call, and I'm
so excited to share what we're going to share tonight.
Of course, these calls are always divided into two parts, besides the time that we spend
just getting to know each other and breakout rooms.
It's a time for me to do a little teaching and then we do community time to let it really
dive in and go deeper in whatever area that you're needed.
So I'm going to go ahead and open with prayer, and then I'm going to share, let me close
some of these windows and see what I can do here a little bit.
Okay.
All right.
So let's open with prayer.
Father, I just thank you for this opportunity for us to come together to learn, to grow,
to share, to give, to receive, to just circulate, to flow, to allow thoughts and ideas and strategies
and creativity to come into a place that is just fertile.
We just invite your presence to flood the airways here.
We ask that you cover the technology, that everybody's able to receive what they came
here to receive.
And we ask that we cover our spiritual senses, that we receive what we came here to receive.
So speak clearly, let what needs to come forth for each woman to step into the fullest aspect
and dimension of who she's created to be, to achieve and live and realize her goals,
dreams, and desires that you've placed in her heart.
So I just speak blessings in Jesus name.
Amen.
Okay.
I'm going to share a screen.
Let me tell you the concept here today.
The thoughts that was coming to my spirit was desiring to help you deepen.
Don't want things to go so fast because as you know, learning from me can be like drinking
from a waterfall.
I have plenty to share and lots to go.
And so we just had really powerful time of that workshop that we just did.
And I'm letting more people in there.
So we just did this workshop on goals, activation, and it brought up a lot of very powerful,
important things.
So in the workshop, getting a lot of people coming in the work in the waiting room.
Okay.
Let's just see what I can do here.
Let you get in here.
Okay.
So, so it brought up some important points when it comes to goal setting, because here
we are in the new year, here we are in the new year and forgive me for the destruction.
People are just popping in here to wanting to help them get in.
So good.
All right.
So here we are in the new year and we're talking about goal setting and with this goal setting,
we say, well, most people know the basics.
They know.
Okay.
Write down your goals, yada, yada, yada, list them, whatever, write down your goals
and have a plan.
Okay.
You know, yada, yada, yada.
Have a plan.
Take action.
Okay.
So most of us can kind of figure out intuitively what it takes to have a goal, right?
So you're writing down clearly what it is you're making a plan.
Maybe you need to get some support and accountability, but why is it that most people do not achieve
their goals?
And so of course I did the goals activation.
So it wasn't about goal setting.
It was about activation and I filled in a lot of the holes, a lot of the gaps that get
left out of most of this training, right?
And so we cover some really important holes and if you've missed that training, it's in
the prosper leader membership site, it's, there's a special group for it there.
You should have gotten the link if you need the link to be able to join.
I sent it to you, but let me know, go in.
You can watch it.
So today I want to talk about two of those gaps, two of those holes that keep us from
achieving our goals.
Okay.
One is limiting beliefs.
Okay.
One is limiting beliefs and the other is values conflict.
Now I sent you.
of the the values conflict so that you could determine the values clarification so you could
determine your values and you could start looking at where they conflict. So I'm going to do a real
quick review of these two things and then mostly we're going to get real practical. We're going to
gather together and look at what are these things that are keeping us from being where we desire to
be. So I'm going to go ahead and share the screen and I'm going to go ahead and open. Hopefully it's
just really easy to open. Yeah okay so we'll start with this one first. So let's make this where you
can see it bigger and let's make this like that. Okay so let's talk about the two things. It's the
limiting beliefs and the values conflicts. These are the things that truly keep us from realizing
our goals. Okay so let's talk about that. What is a limiting belief? So limiting beliefs are
negative or low frequency thoughts of self-imposed limitations. I bolded some things because I want
you to really get the gist of this. This is not something happening to you. This is something
happening in you that you can be aware of. So we have this belief system, this thought form
that is self-imposed. We're creating this. That's beautiful because that means if you created it,
you can uncreate it. That's good news. Okay if you created this, if this is self-imposed,
this is a prison that you can unlock. You have the key. Whatever you've created, you can uncreate.
Isn't that beautiful? Because God didn't create these limitations. These are self-created. These
are man-created and so these are self-imposed limitations that we hold about ourselves.
Okay could be about God, could be about others, could be about life, could be about money, could
be about business. There's all kinds of them and these prevent us from achieving your goals
or living the abundant life that God has for us. These are really important to become aware of.
This is a big deal. So there are these ingrained thought patterns. The Bible also calls them
strongholds. They're like fortresses in the neuropathways. They become so, you know, every
time you, you know, nerves that fire together, wire together. So it, you know, starts out as a
little dirt road, a little belief and then, you know, the truck keeps going over it, over the pathway
and now it becomes a two-lane highway and it keeps going over it and now it becomes a four-lane
freeway and this happens in our brain and it becomes a stronghold. It becomes such a belief
system that we don't even often distinguish it from reality. It becomes very real for us
and it blocks then the truth. Okay so the little t truth that we begin to live and accept blocks
the capital T truth of God and the truth of who we really are made in the image of God and so this
limiting belief is something, it's a state of mind that you think is true. It's true for you, right?
I mean when you focus on lack, you can find lack everywhere. When you're afraid, I mean it's so
real. You can feel it every part of your body. So it feels very real to you but in the big scope of
things, the capital T, it's not real. It's an illusion and so part of our journey is replacing these
illusions that are based on fear with the truth which is based on love, okay? And that's our journey
to really know ourselves and to replace these lie-based things in our head, right? And so
it's a thought or a state that you think is the absolute truth but it stops you. Here's the key,
why does it matter? Why does it matter, okay? Because it stops you from having. Maybe it's the
money, maybe it's the lifestyle, maybe it's the freedom, maybe it's the relationship, maybe it's
the health. It stops you from having. It stops you from doing. Maybe it's, you know, the world travel
or writing the book or building the seven-figure business or, you know, learning to fly a jet plane,
whatever. It's this limiting belief is very serious. It's keeping you from having. It's keeping you
from doing, and even more importantly,
it's keeping you from being the being
that God created you to be.
So examples of limiting beliefs can be,
I'm not good enough, I'm not worthy,
I'll never be successful.
And so these beliefs can maybe be buried a little bit
that they're unconscious,
that's why we wanna dig them out,
or they can just be based on past experiences,
societal messages.
And these are so insidious,
like I think I brought this up in the workshop.
An example is start watching cartoons,
watching TV, or when you happen to be,
I don't encourage watching it,
but let's say you're watching, you're watching movies.
Look at businessmen or businesswomen.
How often in the movies are they generous
and creative and virtuous and loving, wonderful people?
How often?
You can put in the chat.
My experience, almost never.
They're dishonest, lying, cheating, crooked, conniving.
I mean, how many of you, put it in the chat
if you know that's true.
How many of you see in the movies,
successful entrepreneurs, millionaires,
billionaires, business builders,
how many of you see them on the media
as wonderful role models?
This is something to think about.
This is programming from the time we're three, four, five,
we're just bringing this in.
It's always the villain.
It's always the cheater, the liar.
So these things then by osmosis,
we think there are beliefs,
but they're not even our beliefs, right?
And so it's important to identify and challenge these
so that you can step into the fullness
that God has for you.
And I've told you this before.
One way to identify a lie is it's heavy and it constricts.
If it feels heavy, it's probably not based on the truth.
If it's very contractive, constipated, constricted,
it's probably lie-based, okay?
And so notice like fear, which is lie-based,
whole body contracts, fear in the economy,
whole economy contracts, you see?
And so that's how you can tell it's lie-based.
Expansive, light, right?
So very important to know.
And so truth is very light and expansive.
So I put 2 Corinthians 10, five, right?
So in as much as we refute arguments and theories
and reasonings and every proud and lofty thing
that sets itself up against the true knowledge of God.
Now, where is all this happening?
Where are these arguments, these theories,
these reasonings, these proud and lofty things?
In our thoughts.
You see, the Bible is in the mind.
So every thought and purpose.
And so we take it captive, okay?
We begin to hold it and be aware of it and renew it.
So here's some of them, okay?
Here are some limiting beliefs.
Anything based on lack is a limiting belief.
The truth is the universe is so abundant.
Just try to get to the end of the galaxies.
Try to, we're still discovering planets and stars.
It's the universe is ever expanding.
So go out as far as you can go
and you'll never reach the abundance of God, okay?
Go in as far as you can go is microscopic, microscopic.
It's infinite.
So whether you go all the way in as far as you can,
all the way out as far as you can,
God is a God of abundance.
The world is abundant.
There is no lack, okay?
There's just temporary perceived lack
in our 3D world that we create, okay?
And so even though the lack appears very real,
you go, well, you ought to see my bank account, right?
You ought to see my piggy bank.
It's still not based on the truth of who you are
and the infinite potential that you are,
the infinite possibilities,
the infinite capacity that is within you,
the infinite abundance that is available to you.
So we have to retrain, right?
Scripture says we're transformed
by the renewing of our mind.
So we have to retrain our mind.
And so it's really important.
Here's a policy that I have.
Never make a decision based on lack.
If you're making a decision because you have fear,
because you think you lack,
don't make a decision based on that, okay?
Because it's not based on truth.
It's based on fear.
It's based on lack.
And so I love, you know, David,
I love Psalms 23.
It's so rich, right?
And he says,
my shepherd. The Amplified translation says to feed, to guide, to shield me. And he says,
he makes a declaration, I shall not lack. I shall not lack. Psalms 23.1 bottom line.
So what we do is we identify and then we replace. Okay. So you, you start renewing your mind,
identifying and replace and you train your mouth. There's you, you, you know, the Bible says,
stand guard at the door of my mouth. Cause words, you know, scripture says the power of life and
death is in our tongue. We speak life or we speak death all the time over our body, over our family,
over our money, over our bank account, over our business. It's serious. Words created the
universe. Um, you know, the scripture says in the beginning was the word and the word became flesh.
So the word begins, the word is foundational to everything. And so we have to renew our minds,
our thinking, and we have to train our mouth that we will never speak lack. That's a, that's a
discipline, right? Discipline. Same word is disciple. Never speak lack. And that comes in
all forms. Not saying I lack time, not saying I lack money, not saying I lack knowledge,
not saying I lack experience, not saying things like I'm too blah, blah, blah, or I'm not blah,
blah, blah, right? I'm not smart enough. I'm too old. No, no, no, no, no. We have to renew
our mind. And so there's a place for you to look at where is that happening? And then you replace
it with new statements based on truth. And ideally, you know, if it's scripture that you follow and
whatever it is that you follow for truth, for me, I like finding a scripture, but it doesn't matter.
It can be, it can be anywhere. It can be in a proverb, but you know, wherever you find that
true statement, you want to replace the lie with truth. Okay. And so you replace, I'm too old to
start something new with something like it's never too late to learn, grow, and try new things. And
then you might find a scripture to match it. Like scripture says in Isaiah 40, that he renews
our youth, that he causes us to mount up with wings of Eagles, that we, we walk and we don't go
reary and we run and we don't faint, right? So we want to replace that with those kinds of images,
especially, and feelings, same thing, thoughts based on fear. Okay. Thoughts based on fear.
So, so like, like lack fear is not based on the truth of God and a little going a little further
fear is the absence of love. So for example, darkness is not a thing. Darkness is simply
the absence of a thing. Darkness is the absence of light. Darkness can't survive as long as they're
light. The minute, I don't care if it's just you light a lighter or, you know, a flashlight or
anything, a dark room, a candle, just one flicker and the room is lit up. Darkness cannot stand in
light. And the same relationship, fear is not a thing. It's an absence of thing. I want you to
understand that fear is an absence of love. So just like light is an absence of darkness, fear is an
absence of love. It's lovelessness. Whenever you do something in fear, it's lovelessness. And that's
why scripture says that perfect love drives it out. So, you know, 1 John 4, 8 says there's no
fear in love. Dread does not exist, but full grown or in the amplified complete or perfect, or some,
some translations say mature love turns fear out the door. Others say expels or kicks it out the
door. Okay. So it can't, it can't exist. All right. And same thing, Psalms 23, just a few verses after
what we just read. I love this in the passion translation. It says, even when your path takes
me through the valley of deepest darkness, fear will never conquer me. And so you make a choice
that you will not walk in fear, that wherever fear comes in, you're going to replace it with more love.
Okay. Because you already this here it is reading Psalms 23, 4, it says fear will never
conquer me for you already have your authority talking about God is my strength and my peace
and the comfort of your love takes away my fear. So when you feel fear, you dive deep into the
love of God and you find promises on the love of God. And you know, I remember, you know, when this
whole, you know,
pandemic started and all of that. I remember that I was
very fortunate, I started listening and you guys can find
it online, Creflo Dollar, World Changer Ministries, he does like
a 20 minute thing every morning, he's been doing it for over two
years. And basically, he does a short teaching. And he does
Psalms 91. And he calls it being Psalms 91 equipped. Well,
there's an example of how every single day renewing your mind,
you're focusing on Psalms 91, which says it will not come near
my dwelling, you know, it says he makes he places me above my
fears. And so so you start getting that vocabulary. And so
he'll always say, Okay, your Psalms 91 equipped. And I did
that. And you know, God's mercy is great. We were exposed so
many ways my son and I that we're living here. And we were
Psalms 91 equipped, it did not come near us. And so this is
really important to change your your thought form about what
you're believing about what are you believing about sickness?
What are you believing about germs? What are you believing
about aging? Have you bought into the lie? Yeah, when you get
older, you know, your joints start hurting? No, they don't.
Not if you have the right nutrition and the right
exercise. No, you don't. You know, I was just reading one of
the older women, oldest women just died 119 years old. She
just died. She from France. And she even got COVID. And she was
so healthy. She didn't even notice it. She said, she tested
positive. But you know, it just wasn't in her mindset. So you
have to understand what are you allowing? You're the gatekeeper.
Right? You're just cycling your mind. So what are you believing
about aging? What are you believing about, you know,
disease? What are you believing about sickness? What are you
believing all of those things, right? And you get to choose to
make it part of your reality. Okay, so that's one aspect to
look at. And then I gave you all a worksheet, I'm not going to go
over it right now. But a values clarification. So if you didn't
do that, that is also available for you. And if you didn't do
the, you know, the worksheet, the seminar, um, you know, it's
it's really understanding these value conflicts. And I changed a
slide since you did it, I condensed our workshop into a 30
minute one that I did for Sacramento Association of Health
Underwriters. And so, um, so this, you know, was the way to
describe it, right values, conflicts look something like
this. So this is another area that keeps us from achieving our
goals, right? So a value conflict, you know, I want to
build a big, I want to build a big, you know, entrepreneurial,
I want to build a seven figure entrepreneurial event, business,
but my other value is safety and security. Okay, and now
you're just going to be going this way, do I get a job,
there's not money in my bank account, I don't feel safe. You
know, should I run? Should I cancel everything? Should I pull
back? Of course, that's making a decision based on fear, but you
got these forms locking between two contrary. So it's really
important that number one, you know, your values. And then
number two, you become aware, okay, which of these conflict
and apparent conflict. And so I taught you the way to bridge
those. Okay, so for me, you know, I gave you a real life
example, I desire to just keep growing my business, seven
figures, eight figures, just keep growing my business. But
one of my top values is freedom. And so past experience gave me
the limiting belief that the bigger I grew my business, I
would have to give up my freedom. And so then I had these
horns locking, I didn't want to grow my business unconsciously,
I did things to sabotage, I, I did things, I just couldn't get
myself to do the things I needed to do and don't understand why I
procrastinated, I sabotage things, right? Until I got
really clear. Oh, that's what was going on. And so how do you
stop this headlock? And how do you get to go in the same
direction, you can pull these horns apart and both walk side
by side, how do you do that? You bridge them together. So the
bigger my business grows, the more freedom I have, and the
more freedom I have, the bigger my business grows, and the
bigger my business grows, the more
freedom I have.
You bring those two apparent contradictions,
unlock the horns, get them to walk in the same direction.
So a very powerful and necessary tool.
So if you haven't gotten clear on your values,
because your values really drive you.
They are why you do things, because they're
the true things that are most important to you.
So your beliefs can be limiting, and they can limit you.
Your values are what ultimately is going to win.
You're going to do what you most value.
And so this is very important to get clear.
What is it that you truly value, and where
might there be a conflict so that we
can get these going in the same direction and you can enjoy?
So that's just a little overview.
Now let's gather together in community time
and put it to practical.
Let's put it into practical use.
So I'm going to go ahead and stop the recording here.