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again. All right, welcome back. I'll tell you what, I have a way each day you're gonna see,

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like, I want you to understand that because some of you have stuff happen and you beat yourself up,

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right? Things don't go right. This is day three. I've messed up three different ways, okay? Can we

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just be real? Like, stuff happens, okay? And you gotta give yourself some love and you gotta keep

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on going. Day one, I sent it to the wrong Facebook page, Earlene covered me. It's always great to

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have a team beside you. I mean, day two, I don't know, I forgot what I did. But today, I just,

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oh, I shut it down before the VIP. Today, I just shut it down, period. So guys, if I can do this,

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you can do this. It's just all about showing up, warts and all. So you guys are seeing, you know,

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when it comes to tech, this stuff happens. I'm so excited to be here and welcome back to all of you.

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Carrie, I want to introduce my dear friend who's going to start us off to this rocking session.

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Thank you so much. You know, Brenda and I have been masterminding together for about 15 years and

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the wonderful piece about masterminding with Brenda is she sees inside of you, right? She sees

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what's there that sometimes we, maybe we don't see it, maybe we just don't admit it. And either way,

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she brings that out. I know I talk about vision myself with people, but we seldom can do it for

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ourselves. And just recently, Brenda updated my vision to one of those visions that went,

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oh, wait, I'm not sure I can, I can see that yet. I have to read it. I didn't even read it for the

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first couple of days because I wasn't sure I was ready to step into it and that I had to

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read it and step into it. And I just want you to remember where you've come from since Monday,

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the confidence that we started with, and then the vision. And here's the real important part.

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You have to think of yourself as a premium brand. You can't just keep bobbing and weaving

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and figuring out where your brand is. You have to be it to attract it. And today our Brenda

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Byers is going to tell us how to attract it, who we want to attract, but we are primed to be it,

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to attract it. Please welcome Brenda Byers. Thank you, Carrie. Thank you. I love you, sister. I love

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you. I wish you guys could have been a fly on the wall. This is what I've gotten to see so many times,

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the power of a vision. And I just watched literally life and light. Now, you got to know,

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Carrie's a powerhouse, okay? We mastermind together for a reason. And she's a wordsmith.

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She is just an incredible coach. She's an incredible leader. I love her. She's a sister.

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She's a friend. Our birthdays are really close to each other. We celebrate. And so, Carrie,

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thank you for that. And it just thrilled me. It reminded me again why Habitat 2.2 says,

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write the vision and make it plain so those who see it may run with it. Because you know what?

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Not only did light just flood into Carrie with that vision that day, I literally watched a

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transformation. But she had so much pep in her step when it says you may run with it. Like,

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she ran out the door. She was running with it. And so, if any of you did not happen to see

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either of the replays, you can grab those in the Prosper Women Facebook group until Sunday.

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Anyway, those are you that are VIP. You've got them forever. You're in a special group.

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But yes, Monday, we talked about confidence. Because confidence is the absolute foundation

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of everything you do. And we've been talking about how success loves speed. We've got to.

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There is such a rapid acceleration. Things are changing so fast. The market is flooded. You

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know, you may not be showing up. AI is showing up. People using AI are showing up. People that

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are building a premier brand, people that know who they are, people that are excited, they're

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showing up. And so, you've got to show up. And you've got to show up with confidence. This is

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so powerful. This morning, I looked up this verse. It's Hebrews 10, 35 and 36. And it says,

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verse 35 says, do not throw away your confidence.

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it will be richly rewarded.

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There is a reward attached to this confidence.

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Part of how to get that confidence,

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we did that success stacking.

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We taught you how to do this.

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We taught you, you've got the tools.

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Like Kerry said, use them every day.

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Anchor, anchor, anchor,

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keep that confidence, keep it going.

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It goes on to say that that way you'll persevere.

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With confidence, you'll persevere

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and you'll have done the will of God

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and you'll receive what he has promised.

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So you want, you've got those promises.

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We talked about it yesterday.

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You've got those promises in your heart.

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You've gotten a word from God.

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You've gotten a desire in your heart.

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You've known what you're supposed to be doing, right?

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And it's the confidence.

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It's the confidence that's gonna allow

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that to come through you.

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Remember, many people are just waiting on God,

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but God's waiting on you.

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God's not gonna do it for you, usually.

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He's gonna do it through you.

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And the first step is confidence.

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So you're gonna remember,

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make that part of your daily practice.

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That success stacking becomes a habit,

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becomes part of your daily practice.

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Because right now, success loves speed.

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You've gotta be showing up.

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You've gotta be showing up now.

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Because next year's too late, in my opinion.

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I don't mean next year like as in next month.

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I mean, waiting months,

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you're getting behind her and behind her, okay?

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I'm telling you, things are moving fast.

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You all feel it.

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Now is the appointed time.

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Today is the day for you to act.

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Then yesterday, we went even deeper.

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When we're talking about vision and expectation,

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you learned how to unhitch.

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We're gonna do a lot of unhitching, okay?

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And the visual in my head when I think of hitching,

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many of you, it's like,

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you know in the back of the car,

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any of you have had a camper?

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Any of you had a trailer and there's like that ball,

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there's that hitch that goes on there.

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Y'all know what I was talking about, right?

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So we kind of have that.

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And of course, we're meant to hitch to the Holy Spirit.

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We're meant to hitch to God.

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We're meant to hitch with a team, right?

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But sometimes the trailer that hooks on that,

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we hitch to the wrong things.

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And we hitch to the news.

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That doesn't work very well, okay?

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They're all the statistics.

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The more news you watch,

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the more likely you're gonna be depressed.

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I mean, there's so many statistics about that.

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So recommending, turn that off, right?

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So we hitch to circumstances.

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We've gotta unhitch from circumstances, right?

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We gotta unhitch from when they talk about the economy,

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when you apply this is that you are not being moved

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by your circumstances, right?

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Scripture talks to us about us being rooted and planted

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like in love, right?

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Our roots are so deep in love.

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God is love.

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Our roots are so deep.

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We're rooted and we're planted, right?

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And we're planted by a river, right?

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So our leaves don't wither.

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When you're planted by that,

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when you're on the rock,

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your circumstances don't move you.

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You move your circumstances.

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That's a distinction.

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You might wanna put that in the chat right now.

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You might wanna lock that in.

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I move my circumstances by the grace of God.

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My circumstances don't move me.

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I move my circumstances.

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I say to the mountain in Jesus' name,

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be thou removed.

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And it's cast into the sea.

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I say that to the mountain of debt.

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I say that to the mountain of fear.

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I say that to the mountain of whatever it is

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that has just like planted itself in front of you

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trying to keep you from your vision.

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So today, today we're talking about your who.

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We're talking about your premier client.

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I desire to even create new vocabulary.

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You've all heard, get your avatar, get your this.

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And so many people have been playing with avatars.

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I wanna move way past avatars

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because you're becoming a premier brand

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because you're premier

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and you're gonna have premier clients.

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There's a big distinction between an avatar

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and your premier client.

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Write down the word premier.

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I want you to feel into that.

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Now, why do I say that?

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Because many people have chosen their who.

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Let me tell you, over these past couple of years,

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I have talked to and.

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I've done phone calls with thousands of coaches.

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So my fingers on the pulse.

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Those of you that are coaches and consultants,

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I hear what you're doing.

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I hear what you're seeing.

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I hear what you're going through.

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And I can tell you there are some real messed up things

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that don't work about the way we're handling avatars.

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So first of all, there's lack of clarity.

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The average woman, female coach comes to me, a couple men too,

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but the average female Christian coach comes to me.

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And I say, do you have an avatar?

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And they say, oh, yeah.

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I say, do you have an ideal client?

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They say, oh, yeah.

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And I go, OK, good.

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Who's your ideal client?

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And they go, women over 50.

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First of all, that's not a niche.

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That's like half the world.

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That's like half the population, OK?

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I believe in thinking big.

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But we need to narrow it down just a little bit.

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And so there is such a distinction.

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Can you serve everyone?

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Yes, God's equipped you to bless anyone

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that comes in your path.

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But when we're talking about building a premier brand,

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you guys know what I'm trying to say.

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When we're talking about that, we've

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got to make some shifts in how we view.

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So first of all, we got to get clarity, right?

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A 50-year-old homeschool mom that's

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still got a dozen kids and grandkids

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and is living life that way, a 50-year-old entrepreneur,

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a 50-year-old who has played the cards right,

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has retired, is traveling the world,

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a 50-year-old burned-out CFO.

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Can you tell that there might be a distinction,

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that they might have different desires,

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they might have different pains, they

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might have different needs?

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Like, do you guys feel that, right?

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So first of all, we've really lacked clarity.

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If I was going to give you one strategic thing right now,

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you've got to get so clear.

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I'm a proponent.

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And some people will argue with me,

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this is just my experience 30 years.

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This is just what I find works.

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You guys may have a different one.

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Micro-niche.

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Micro-niche.

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Drill it down.

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And you're going to do this with the Holy Spirit,

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but drill it down, OK?

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So and this is part of what I really

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do when I'm coaching, to get you to really drill it down.

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Here's a quick example, all right?

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Micro-niche.

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Thank you, Linda, for posting that.

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Micro-niche.

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It's an important thing to think about.

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So here's a way of looking at it.

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Let's just talk money.

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Let's just talk willing to travel and go great lengths

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to meet this person, OK?

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Who's more likely to make more money

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and have people go far and wide to meet them?

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A pediatric brain surgeon or a GP, a general practitioner.

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The general practitioner does ingrown toenails,

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does tonsillitis, does it all.

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The pediatric brain surgeon.

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Who makes more money?

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Put it in the chat.

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And if they're good and they become a premier brand,

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which one are people going to travel far and wide to get to?

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That's what you want to get to, OK?

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So to do this, to really activate and accelerate

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and move into your premier who, I'm

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going to tell you three things that you've got to do.

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Then I'm going to share some inspiration.

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Then we're going to do some exercises.

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You don't want to stick around to the end,

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because always down to the last minute is juicy, OK?

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Number one, you have to activate your God-given ability

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to choose.

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God-given ability to choose.

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Activate choice.

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You get to choose your who.

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You get to choose.

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Stop doing it by default. So not only are many coaches not

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clear, and like those of you that are doing businesses,

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this applies as well.

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So I know like yesterday, Tim, you mentioned businesses.

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You can really become a specialist

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with a certain business, OK?

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Activate.

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You get to choose your who.

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And I encourage you to do that prayerfully,

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that you choose the ones God has appointed you to work with,

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not by default.

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Here's the second thing I hear.

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Who is your avatar?

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And they go, well, entrepreneurs.

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And I'm like, oh.

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Wow, good.

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Do you know entrepreneurs?

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Do you love entrepreneurs?

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And they go, no, I've heard they're

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the ones that have money, and they'll invest in coaching.

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Eh, wrong answer.

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Eh, wrong answer.

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Did you get that?

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Love that sound effect.

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Eh, the buzzer, wrong answer.

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No, no, no, no, no.

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That's not how we make choices.

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They go, well, this group doesn't have money.

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This group, like, all money is available

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throughout all groups, OK?

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It's more important, the value that you are adding.

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So you get to choose, number one.

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Number two, this is super important.

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We're talking about unhitching, right?

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So yesterday, unhitching circumstances.

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Today, unhitch opinion.

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Write that down.

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Put it in the chat.

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Unhitch from the opinions of others.

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That means we unhitch from the praises of men.

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We unhitch from the criticism of men.

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I'll tell you what, this takes out more women

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than anything I have seen.

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They go back, and they tell their family.

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And their family, like, blasts them with dynamite.

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And boom, that's the end of that idea.

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They tell their friends.

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Boom, that's the end of that, right?

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When I started my first company, it

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ended up being a multi-seven-figure network

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marketing company.

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When I started it, I went to my dad first to tell him.

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I was so excited.

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Like, we approached him that we were

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going to start this nutritional network marketing company.

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We had vision.

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We were in our 20s.

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We were, like, passionate, right?

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And oh my goodness, he made fun of me.

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He said I was looking at a crystal ball.

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He said it would never work.

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I mean, I heard it all.

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So look, you're not alone.

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All of us that have moved forward, opinions of others.

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There's a Bible verse, Proverbs 29 and 25,

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says the fear of man is a snare.

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We've got to unhitch from their praise.

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We've got to unhitch from their criticism, period.

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End of subject, OK?

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Just a quick visual.

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Jesus, Jesus, he's on his way.

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They're tossing robes in front of him in the ground.

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They're waving palm branches.

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They're saying, blessed be the name of the Lord.

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Messiah is here.

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They're so excited, right?

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Three days later, they're screaming, crucify them.

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Crucify him.

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Crucify him.

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People are fickle.

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People are fickle.

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They will love you sometimes.

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They will not love you so much other times.

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People are fickle.

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We need to live for an audience of one, God.

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Be right with God, live for an audience of one.

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OK, so number two, unhitch.

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Number three, elevate your self concept,

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how you see yourself.

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What do I mean by that?

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We've got to line up how we see ourselves with truth,

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with how God sees us.

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Too long, we've said, I'm too, I'm too old,

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I'm too fat, I'm too skinny, I'm too dumb,

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I'm too, I, you know, I'm not enough.

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I lack the education.

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I'm too old.

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I lack, you know, all of these stories

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don't match up with who God says you are.

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God says you're a son.

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God says you're a daughter.

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God says you're the, you're filled with the Holy Spirit.

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God says you have the mind of Christ.

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God says you have power and authority.

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God says that the spirit of God lives in you.

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Like we've got to elevate who we are

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and step into that power.

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Make sure that we're not buying into lies.

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I know all the stuff that was spoken over you as a child

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in bad relationships, all this stuff, I get it.

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I get it.

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I've been there with you.

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I don't have time to go into it.

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I get it.

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All I'll say is I get it.

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Unhitch, unhitch sisters and brothers, unhitch.

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From the opinions of others, elevate your self concept.

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All right, I want to share a little story

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for some inspiration.

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And it's the story of the prodigal son.

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It's in Luke 15.

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I recommend you go back, you read it

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in different translations.

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I'm just gonna pull a few jewels out of this scripture

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that I believe applies to where we are today

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when we're talking about our premier client, okay?

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So the story is that there's a wise king, all right?

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There's a wise king and he's a father and he's got two sons.

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And one of the sons is there serving the father.

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He's got issues.

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I won't talk about him.

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He's got his own issues.

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The other son kind of gets a wild hair,

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goes to the father, says, give me my money.

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You owe it.

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But to me, I don't want to wait till you kick the bucket.

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I want the money.

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I want the money now.

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Give it to me.

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This is my Brenda's condensed version, OK?

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Brenda's translation here.

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You guys can go read it exactly.

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All right, so he goes to the father.

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And so the father gives him the money, and he leaves.

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He doesn't have the wisdom to accompany the money,

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so he does all the things that you

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can do when you suddenly have a lot of money, right?

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So he did the perhaps drugs, whatever

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those were back then, the alcohol, the wine, the women,

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the song.

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He did the whole thing.

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And like most people that have won the lottery or sports

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teams or anything, he blew through the money

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like no tomorrow.

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It was gone.

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This is statistically what happens

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if you haven't dealt with your money story.

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But that's another topic for another time.

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So he blows through the money.

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He finds himself in trouble.

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He needs food.

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He's starving.

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He takes a job.

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And he takes a job doing the lowest possible thing

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he could do.

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As a good Jewish boy, he takes a job taking care of the pigs.

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So I want you to get this.

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There he is in the pig pen.

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He is the son of a king.

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He's the son of a wealthy father.

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He's been raised to be wealthy and strong.

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And now he finds himself in the pig pen, in the mud,

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eating the pig's food.

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I think it's the Amplified translation says

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he was eating the pig's food, which was carapods.

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And it says, and he would have continued to do that,

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but it could not satisfy.

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And so what I want you to write down next to the pig pen,

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the first phase of his journey.

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This is a hero's journey, Kelly.

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Kelly teaches the hero's journey.

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And so there he is.

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He's gone on the adventure.

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And now here he is in the pig pen.

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What I want you to write down next to that is settling.

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Settle.

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Settling.

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Because I want you to see yourself in this story.

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Where in this journey have you settled?

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I'm talking as I've talked to all the women coaches,

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all the women entrepreneurs, all the women network marketers,

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where are they settling?

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Often working for free.

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Do you know how many coaches, when I say, OK,

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you've been a year since you've certified two years,

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how many clients do you have?

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And they go, well, I've had three.

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And I'm going, OK, that's awesome.

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And they go, but they were free.

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OK, that's great.

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We'll get a good testimony out of that.

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It's good that you got practice.

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But time keeps passing.

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And they just keep giving it away.

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They go, well, this is a whole nother.

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I won't get into the mindset.

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But what I'm doing is ministry.

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How can I charge for it?

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All right.

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That's a whole nother money story we'll work on.

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God, money, and me.

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But for now, they're giving it away free.

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Or how many of you are guilty of this?

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Undercharging.

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Undercharging.

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Put in the chat.

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And I want to get where I can see the chat here.

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Put in the chat if you have, say, undercharge.

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If you know you've been undercharging.

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It goes like this.

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Well, it's $10,000.

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But for you, I'll give it for $7,500.

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But if you know, I know money is tough for you.

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If you do it today, I'll do it for $3,000.

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Actually, I'll even do it for $250.

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Real stories, guys.

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Real stories.

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I hear it all day long.

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OK, I'm seeing it.

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Undercharge, undercharge, undercharge, undercharge.

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Definitely undercharge.

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Yes, undercharge, yes.

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OK, so I'm talking to my people.

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You understand.

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We've all done it, OK?

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This is the pig pen.

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This is where we're settling.

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Because we didn't do those first three things.

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We didn't activate our God-given choice.

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We didn't unhinge from the opinions of others.

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We were more concerned what they would think

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or what they were going through.

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And we didn't elevate our self-concept

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to match who we really are, OK?

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But there's a powerful part in the story where

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it says, he came to himself.

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He came to himself.

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It's like revelation kicked in.

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I pray that's true for you today.

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I pray in what you're hearing today and in these three days,

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you came to yourself.

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And this is the self-image that I'm talking about,

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where you go, wait a minute, wait a minute, wait a minute.

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What was I thinking?

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Wait a minute.

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Why am I doing this?

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Why am I not charging?

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Why am I struggling?

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I hear.

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the story over and over again. Beautiful friend, she might be

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on the call my hairdresser, Doretta, tell a story like

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they'll come in with their sad story about not being able to

516
00:25:09.760 --> 00:25:13.600
afford to do hair. And I mean, she she doesn't do it anymore.

517
00:25:13.600 --> 00:25:17.160
But she used to just really drop down the prices. And you know,

518
00:25:17.160 --> 00:25:19.960
it's costing her the ingredients and all her time and all of

519
00:25:19.960 --> 00:25:23.440
that stuff. And then she'll read in social media, and they're on

520
00:25:23.440 --> 00:25:28.400
a cruise. And they just went to a movie, a showing theater that

521
00:25:28.400 --> 00:25:31.800
was so expensive. It's like, wait a minute, why are we doing

522
00:25:31.800 --> 00:25:35.760
this? Why are we doing this? So he came to himself. And then it

523
00:25:35.760 --> 00:25:43.080
says that he said, he said, I will go. I love when we get to

524
00:25:43.080 --> 00:25:46.560
hear what they said. I love it when Scripture gets us into the

525
00:25:46.560 --> 00:25:49.200
self talk, because that's where it all starts, right? What are

526
00:25:49.200 --> 00:25:53.600
we thinking? What are we speaking? Right? And, and so, so

527
00:25:53.600 --> 00:25:59.760
there he is in the pig pen. He comes to himself. And he said,

528
00:26:00.720 --> 00:26:07.400
I will go, I will go to my father, there's some powerful

529
00:26:07.400 --> 00:26:11.480
words in that self talk. Okay, so this is part of your phase,

530
00:26:11.600 --> 00:26:15.480
you've got to elevate your self talk, put that in the chat, I've

531
00:26:15.480 --> 00:26:19.800
got to elevate what I'm saying to myself, I've got to elevate

532
00:26:20.160 --> 00:26:25.080
my vocabulary. Who knows that wealth has a different

533
00:26:25.080 --> 00:26:29.320
vocabulary than poverty? Who knows that confidence has a

534
00:26:29.320 --> 00:26:32.960
different vocabulary? Who knows that love has a different

535
00:26:32.960 --> 00:26:38.880
vocabulary than fear? Yes, yes, or yes. So elevate my

536
00:26:38.880 --> 00:26:44.520
vocabulary, elevate my self talk, elevate my words. And so

537
00:26:44.520 --> 00:26:51.600
he said to himself, I will go. Now, there's two very powerful

538
00:26:51.600 --> 00:26:56.680
there's the most powerful words in the universe are I am. Okay,

539
00:26:56.680 --> 00:26:59.400
those are the names of God. So when you do your affirmations,

540
00:26:59.400 --> 00:27:03.320
you want it to start with I am. And you never want to put

541
00:27:03.320 --> 00:27:06.400
anything after I am that you wouldn't say about God. So don't

542
00:27:06.400 --> 00:27:11.120
say I am broke. Right? Do not say things like that. I am sick

543
00:27:11.120 --> 00:27:13.800
and tired. Do not say things like that. If you wouldn't say

544
00:27:13.800 --> 00:27:17.640
it about God, don't say it about yourself, those beautiful,

545
00:27:17.680 --> 00:27:23.720
holy, holy words, I am guard those. Use those carefully,

546
00:27:23.760 --> 00:27:27.520
right. But here's the next two most powerful words. So I am

547
00:27:27.560 --> 00:27:32.760
that's your affirmations. I will. That's your declarations.

548
00:27:32.800 --> 00:27:38.360
He made a declaration, I will every day part of your morning

549
00:27:38.360 --> 00:27:43.560
spiritual practice, make declarations, the things that

550
00:27:43.560 --> 00:27:49.200
you absolutely will do no matter what I will, he said, I will go

551
00:27:49.200 --> 00:27:55.120
to the Father. So he elevated his vocabulary from victim. Oh,

552
00:27:55.120 --> 00:27:59.560
woe is me a Jewish boy in the mud eating pig food. I've lost

553
00:27:59.560 --> 00:28:03.000
all my money. I have no hope. I'm so depressed. I don't know

554
00:28:03.000 --> 00:28:05.400
what I'm going to do. I don't know what I'm going to eat next.

555
00:28:05.400 --> 00:28:10.160
I don't feel satisfied. I'm so disappointed. So he had to

556
00:28:10.160 --> 00:28:13.400
elevate his self talk because that was creating a certain

557
00:28:13.400 --> 00:28:18.840
state. When we meditate, meditate is so powerful. When we

558
00:28:18.840 --> 00:28:24.440
meditate on what's wrong, when we when we activate the mind,

559
00:28:24.480 --> 00:28:29.320
heart, mouth connection, the mind, heart, mouth connection,

560
00:28:29.320 --> 00:28:32.880
that's how God works. So when we think the thoughts and they're

561
00:28:32.880 --> 00:28:36.480
low frequency thoughts, and then we get into the tone of

562
00:28:36.480 --> 00:28:40.960
that we feel that in our heart as a man thinketh in his heart,

563
00:28:40.960 --> 00:28:44.920
so is he and then we speak those words, that's the sickle that

564
00:28:44.920 --> 00:28:49.840
brings it to pass. And so when we are thinking when we're

565
00:28:49.840 --> 00:28:54.320
feeling when we're speaking low frequency stuff, it keeps us in

566
00:28:54.320 --> 00:28:58.600
the mud, it keeps us settling, it keeps us sick and broken,

567
00:28:58.600 --> 00:29:02.320
tired and disgusted and busted and all of those things, right?

568
00:29:02.440 --> 00:29:08.320
We've got to elevate from that victim into victor into

569
00:29:08.320 --> 00:29:14.640
victorious, we have to take action. Is this resonating with

570
00:29:14.640 --> 00:29:18.000
any of you? Is this fire? Put some fire in the chat? Am I

571
00:29:18.000 --> 00:29:21.000
talking to any of you? Is this the right message for the right

572
00:29:21.000 --> 00:29:23.800
moment? Put some fire in the chat. There we go. Thank you for

573
00:29:23.800 --> 00:29:28.160
the fire. Lots of fire. Okay, so we've got to elevate our self

574
00:29:28.160 --> 00:29:32.600
talk. So he said, I will go this was a powerful declaration.

575
00:29:32.840 --> 00:29:37.640
Every morning in the prosper daily plan. See if I got mine

576
00:29:37.640 --> 00:29:42.760
handy. You've got to put on the top. You got to put your I will

577
00:29:42.760 --> 00:29:46.440
so those are the things you're absolutely committed to doing.

578
00:29:46.840 --> 00:29:52.600
Okay, I will. So he said, I will go. And then here is the most

579
00:29:52.600 --> 00:29:55.560
important part of the whole story because none of it would

580
00:29:55.560 --> 00:29:58.800
matter. You can have the right thoughts, you can have the right

581
00:29:58.800 --> 00:30:00.120
feelings, you can have the right

582
00:30:00.000 --> 00:30:02.520
Some of you have been doing that for years.

583
00:30:02.520 --> 00:30:04.200
You're like, yeah, yeah, yeah, I do.

584
00:30:04.200 --> 00:30:05.920
I do my affirmations.

585
00:30:05.920 --> 00:30:07.320
I make my declarations.

586
00:30:07.320 --> 00:30:08.180
I visualize.

587
00:30:08.180 --> 00:30:08.800
I vision.

588
00:30:08.800 --> 00:30:10.280
I have my vision board.

589
00:30:10.280 --> 00:30:13.680
You miss this final step.

590
00:30:13.680 --> 00:30:15.200
This is a big one.

591
00:30:15.200 --> 00:30:17.000
Who knows what the final step is?

592
00:30:17.000 --> 00:30:18.360
Who knows what I'm going to say?

593
00:30:18.360 --> 00:30:20.680
Who's following me?

594
00:30:20.680 --> 00:30:23.520
We might do the whole mind, heart, mouth, but we miss one.

595
00:30:23.520 --> 00:30:25.480
There we go, Stephanie.

596
00:30:25.480 --> 00:30:27.160
And she is such a woman of action.

597
00:30:27.160 --> 00:30:28.160
She got it.

598
00:30:28.160 --> 00:30:31.840
Action, action.

599
00:30:31.840 --> 00:30:38.760
It says, after he said, I will go, he wasn't just talk.

600
00:30:38.760 --> 00:30:42.480
It says he got up and he went.

601
00:30:42.480 --> 00:30:43.880
He got up.

602
00:30:43.880 --> 00:30:45.720
He took action.

603
00:30:45.720 --> 00:30:50.280
He put one foot in front of the other.

604
00:30:50.280 --> 00:30:52.440
This is so often what's missing.

605
00:30:52.440 --> 00:30:54.880
Sometimes it's just stinking thinking,

606
00:30:54.880 --> 00:30:57.120
and we can shift that.

607
00:30:57.120 --> 00:31:00.320
Sometimes it's just being in very low frequency,

608
00:31:00.320 --> 00:31:01.400
and we can shift that.

609
00:31:01.400 --> 00:31:03.080
There's powerful things to do.

610
00:31:03.080 --> 00:31:06.960
But what I really see lacking is action.

611
00:31:06.960 --> 00:31:09.080
And I mean right action.

612
00:31:09.080 --> 00:31:11.080
Who remembers the success equation

613
00:31:11.080 --> 00:31:12.800
I gave you at the beginning of the call?

614
00:31:12.800 --> 00:31:13.840
Who was paying attention?

615
00:31:13.840 --> 00:31:14.720
Who took notes?

616
00:31:14.720 --> 00:31:15.920
Or who's a client?

617
00:31:15.920 --> 00:31:19.480
What is the success equation I've used for 30 years?

618
00:31:19.480 --> 00:31:21.040
What is it?

619
00:31:21.040 --> 00:31:22.800
What's the success equation?

620
00:31:22.800 --> 00:31:24.040
Write it down.

621
00:31:24.040 --> 00:31:24.800
Let me see it.

622
00:31:24.800 --> 00:31:27.000
Who's got the success equation?

623
00:31:27.000 --> 00:31:28.000
Come on.

624
00:31:28.000 --> 00:31:29.160
I'm waiting.

625
00:31:29.160 --> 00:31:31.880
Tick, tick, tick, tick, tick, tick, tick.

626
00:31:31.880 --> 00:31:32.520
OK.

627
00:31:32.520 --> 00:31:34.600
Speed is so important, Fonda.

628
00:31:34.600 --> 00:31:35.120
You're right.

629
00:31:35.120 --> 00:31:36.080
Success is speed.

630
00:31:36.080 --> 00:31:37.600
But I gave you.

631
00:31:37.600 --> 00:31:38.120
OK.

632
00:31:38.120 --> 00:31:38.680
That was good.

633
00:31:38.680 --> 00:31:40.400
We did talk about faith, flexibility.

634
00:31:40.400 --> 00:31:41.080
There we go.

635
00:31:41.080 --> 00:31:41.840
Somebody got it.

636
00:31:41.840 --> 00:31:43.440
Kelly got it.

637
00:31:43.440 --> 00:31:45.160
Oh, well, she got two out of the three.

638
00:31:45.160 --> 00:31:45.720
Help her out.

639
00:31:45.720 --> 00:31:46.520
OK.

640
00:31:46.520 --> 00:31:47.760
Stephanie got it.

641
00:31:47.760 --> 00:31:48.720
All right, Stephanie.

642
00:31:48.720 --> 00:31:50.280
You're just rocking it today.

643
00:31:50.280 --> 00:31:51.280
You got it twice.

644
00:31:51.280 --> 00:31:52.000
OK.

645
00:31:52.000 --> 00:31:53.320
The success equation.

646
00:31:53.320 --> 00:31:54.480
Stephanie put it there.

647
00:31:54.480 --> 00:31:56.000
Mindset.

648
00:31:56.000 --> 00:31:58.240
Yes, we've got to deal with the mindset immediately.

649
00:31:58.240 --> 00:31:59.800
It starts with our thoughts.

650
00:31:59.800 --> 00:32:01.200
Plus, skill set.

651
00:32:01.200 --> 00:32:02.480
Yes, we've got to elevate.

652
00:32:02.480 --> 00:32:04.920
I'm teaching you how to elevate your skill set.

653
00:32:04.920 --> 00:32:09.320
Plus, right action equals results.

654
00:32:09.320 --> 00:32:11.800
We've got to take right action.

655
00:32:11.800 --> 00:32:15.800
And we've got to do it now because success loves what?

656
00:32:15.800 --> 00:32:20.600
Success loves speed.

657
00:32:20.600 --> 00:32:22.000
Yes, Earlene got it.

658
00:32:22.000 --> 00:32:23.400
She was the fastest.

659
00:32:23.400 --> 00:32:25.640
And Earlene is an action taker.

660
00:32:25.640 --> 00:32:28.000
She was almost the first of everything I've ever created.

661
00:32:28.000 --> 00:32:29.680
First in coach certification.

662
00:32:29.680 --> 00:32:31.360
First in the membership site.

663
00:32:31.360 --> 00:32:33.960
She is a woman of action.

664
00:32:33.960 --> 00:32:35.440
You've got to get to know Earlene.

665
00:32:35.440 --> 00:32:37.000
She's awesome.

666
00:32:37.000 --> 00:32:38.400
OK.

667
00:32:38.400 --> 00:32:41.240
So let's do a little meditation to sink it in.

668
00:32:41.240 --> 00:32:43.840
And then I'm going to give you a powerful action

669
00:32:43.840 --> 00:32:46.040
that you can take right now to get you there

670
00:32:46.040 --> 00:32:47.480
with the premier clients.

671
00:32:47.480 --> 00:32:48.160
OK.

672
00:32:48.160 --> 00:32:49.360
So stay with me.

673
00:32:49.360 --> 00:32:51.040
Let's just take a breath for a second.

674
00:32:51.080 --> 00:32:55.120
Let's do a little meditation to soak this in.

675
00:32:55.120 --> 00:32:55.920
OK.

676
00:32:55.920 --> 00:32:58.040
So just close your eyes.

677
00:32:58.040 --> 00:32:58.800
Get settled.

678
00:32:58.800 --> 00:33:01.680
Feel your feet on the ground.

679
00:33:01.680 --> 00:33:02.760
Take a deep breath.

680
00:33:05.960 --> 00:33:06.680
Let it out.

681
00:33:10.280 --> 00:33:12.720
And another one, a deep, deep breath.

682
00:33:16.800 --> 00:33:19.480
And let it out.

683
00:33:19.480 --> 00:33:22.600
We're coming into this moment.

684
00:33:22.600 --> 00:33:23.680
The past is gone.

685
00:33:23.680 --> 00:33:24.760
It's only a memory.

686
00:33:24.760 --> 00:33:26.120
We can't change it.

687
00:33:26.120 --> 00:33:28.360
We can glean from it.

688
00:33:28.360 --> 00:33:29.560
We can harvest.

689
00:33:29.560 --> 00:33:30.640
Harvest the blessings.

690
00:33:30.640 --> 00:33:33.480
Harvest the lessons.

691
00:33:33.480 --> 00:33:36.040
The past is gone.

692
00:33:36.040 --> 00:33:37.840
The future's not yet.

693
00:33:37.840 --> 00:33:40.880
None of us knew the pandemic or the lockdown was coming.

694
00:33:40.880 --> 00:33:43.600
None of us knew AI was coming.

695
00:33:43.600 --> 00:33:46.800
We don't know the future unless God reveals it to us.

696
00:33:46.800 --> 00:33:49.240
The future's not yet.

697
00:33:49.240 --> 00:33:54.680
What God has given us is this moment and the next moment

698
00:33:54.680 --> 00:33:55.520
and the next.

699
00:33:55.520 --> 00:34:01.120
It's always in the now, the holy, sacred now.

700
00:34:01.120 --> 00:34:03.840
This is what we have.

701
00:34:03.840 --> 00:34:08.159
And so our breath, which is also the breath of God,

702
00:34:08.159 --> 00:34:12.800
ruach, is what brings us into the present.

703
00:34:12.800 --> 00:34:14.719
Jesus was so into the present.

704
00:34:14.719 --> 00:34:16.920
He'd always say, don't worry about tomorrow.

705
00:34:16.920 --> 00:34:18.320
He'd say today.

706
00:34:18.320 --> 00:34:19.679
He'd say now.

707
00:34:19.679 --> 00:34:22.400
Well, I mean, you see all those words throughout scripture

708
00:34:22.400 --> 00:34:26.440
about right now, about this moment, right here.

709
00:34:26.440 --> 00:34:28.840
We block out everything that happened in the past.

710
00:34:28.840 --> 00:34:29.880
We forgive it.

711
00:34:29.880 --> 00:34:31.080
We release it.

712
00:34:31.080 --> 00:34:32.280
We bless it.

713
00:34:32.280 --> 00:34:36.320
Even one minute ago, even an hour ago, we forgive it.

714
00:34:36.320 --> 00:34:37.400
We forgive ourselves.

715
00:34:37.400 --> 00:34:38.320
We forgive others.

716
00:34:38.320 --> 00:34:39.600
We release it.

717
00:34:39.600 --> 00:34:40.480
We bless it.

718
00:34:40.480 --> 00:34:42.679
We do not carry that stuff.

719
00:34:42.679 --> 00:34:44.440
It's gone.

720
00:34:44.440 --> 00:34:47.239
We just glean the blessings.

721
00:34:47.239 --> 00:34:52.560
But we plan ourselves right here in the now.

722
00:34:52.560 --> 00:34:59.040
And so right here in this moment, I want you to be still.

723
00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:14.160
Be still, be still, and ask the Father, ask the Spirit.

724
00:35:14.160 --> 00:35:21.140
Show me who I am in your eyes.

725
00:35:21.140 --> 00:35:27.660
Show me who I am.

726
00:35:27.660 --> 00:35:38.340
And whatever comes to you, beloved daughter or son, powerful warrior, whatever it is,

727
00:35:38.340 --> 00:35:39.780
step into that for a moment.

728
00:35:39.780 --> 00:35:40.780
Come into agreement.

729
00:35:40.780 --> 00:35:43.460
You know, the power of agreement is so powerful.

730
00:35:43.460 --> 00:35:49.780
Come into agreement with who God says you are.

731
00:35:49.780 --> 00:35:54.680
Whenever you start to judge yourself and call yourself or be judged, come into agreement

732
00:35:54.680 --> 00:35:58.240
with who God says you are.

733
00:35:58.240 --> 00:36:01.400
Come into alignment.

734
00:36:01.400 --> 00:36:10.160
And now I want you to see yourself that same place you were yesterday when you saw yourself

735
00:36:10.160 --> 00:36:15.760
by that stage, when there was throngs of people coming to see you.

736
00:36:15.760 --> 00:36:20.160
They were coming from the West and the South and the East and the North.

737
00:36:20.160 --> 00:36:23.200
They'd been called divinely for such a time as this.

738
00:36:23.200 --> 00:36:33.760
They'd been called to you because they are the premier clients that you're called to

739
00:36:33.760 --> 00:36:36.760
serve.

740
00:36:36.760 --> 00:36:45.240
They're the ones that God chose that said, I'm going to take your name, fill in the blanks,

741
00:36:45.240 --> 00:36:54.360
Sally, Sue, Joe, Earlene, I'm going to take, and I'm going to match with the ones that

742
00:36:54.360 --> 00:36:56.760
they have what each other needs.

743
00:36:56.760 --> 00:37:00.140
They're going to, they're going to go to higher levels because of each other.

744
00:37:00.140 --> 00:37:04.440
Because who knows, who knows that, that we're learning from our clients and our clients

745
00:37:04.440 --> 00:37:07.560
are learning from us and we're elevating together.

746
00:37:07.560 --> 00:37:12.160
Every person you serve is elevating you.

747
00:37:12.160 --> 00:37:20.480
Every person you bless them, you pour in, you add value and they bring back so much,

748
00:37:20.480 --> 00:37:24.040
especially when you're working with your premier client.

749
00:37:24.040 --> 00:37:34.000
And so you, you see those premier clients coming to you and then God shows you, child,

750
00:37:34.000 --> 00:37:40.440
you've been faithful, good and faithful daughter, good and faithful son.

751
00:37:40.440 --> 00:37:44.880
You've got gifts in you, daughter, son.

752
00:37:44.880 --> 00:37:50.900
I want to, I want to remind you right now, you're not here to get anything.

753
00:37:50.900 --> 00:37:52.800
You don't need to get clients.

754
00:37:52.800 --> 00:37:54.560
You don't need to get income.

755
00:37:54.560 --> 00:37:57.520
You don't need to get this or get that.

756
00:37:57.520 --> 00:38:02.200
Let me tell you the secret, my son, my daughter, you know why you're here.

757
00:38:02.200 --> 00:38:07.880
You're here to release the gifts that I've placed in you.

758
00:38:08.680 --> 00:38:12.660
just see that, every time you just touch into your heart, you touch into your spirit and

759
00:38:12.660 --> 00:38:16.260
you look in your hand and there's a gift and you hand it out.

760
00:38:16.260 --> 00:38:18.600
It might be the gift of faith and you hand it out.

761
00:38:18.600 --> 00:38:21.540
It might be the gift of wisdom and you hand it out.

762
00:38:21.540 --> 00:38:26.000
It might be the gift of words of knowledge and you, you hand it out in it.

763
00:38:26.000 --> 00:38:31.020
It might be the gift of prophecy and you hand it out and it it might be the gift of strategy

764
00:38:31.020 --> 00:38:32.560
and you hand it out.

765
00:38:32.560 --> 00:38:35.160
It might be the gift of teaching and you hand it out.

766
00:38:35.240 --> 00:38:37.800
It might be the gift of encouragement.

767
00:38:37.800 --> 00:38:43.120
Just see yourself right now, grab those gifts one at a time and the line is long and you

768
00:38:43.120 --> 00:38:48.360
just hand the gift and the person loves you and is radiating, is filled with joy and off

769
00:38:48.360 --> 00:38:51.800
they go and the next one comes in you, you hand them the gift.

770
00:38:51.800 --> 00:38:54.240
What are the gifts that God's given you to give?

771
00:38:54.240 --> 00:39:00.120
What are the gifts he's placed inside of you right now that you're called to give for such

772
00:39:00.120 --> 00:39:02.840
a time as this?

773
00:39:02.840 --> 00:39:07.320
What are the gifts that you've been gleaning, you've been studying, you've been praying,

774
00:39:07.320 --> 00:39:14.520
you've been learning, you've been coaching, you've been doing it all and these gifts have

775
00:39:14.520 --> 00:39:18.700
accumulated in you but they're not meant to stay there.

776
00:39:18.700 --> 00:39:21.840
If they stay there, that's constipation.

777
00:39:21.840 --> 00:39:29.080
If you do not activate the flow, that's spiritual and financial constipation.

778
00:39:29.080 --> 00:39:34.440
You must activate the flow, you must add value, you must give these gifts.

779
00:39:34.440 --> 00:39:39.760
Any of you that have felt a pinch that way, it's because you've got to activate the flow

780
00:39:39.760 --> 00:39:42.880
right here, right now, right now, give it.

781
00:39:42.880 --> 00:39:45.680
So just feel that spirit of giving.

782
00:39:45.680 --> 00:39:49.840
Sometimes you give money, sometimes you give love, sometimes you give time, sometimes you

783
00:39:49.840 --> 00:39:55.680
give wisdom, sometimes you give, but you give, you give, you add value, you add value, you

784
00:39:55.680 --> 00:40:00.000
add value.

785
00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:00.000


786
00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:03.360
reminded as you're giving, you're reminded of the story of

787
00:40:03.360 --> 00:40:07.320
the prodigal son. That yeah, once you were in the pig pen,

788
00:40:07.320 --> 00:40:13.880
and you settled, and once you didn't believe in yourself, but

789
00:40:13.880 --> 00:40:17.760
you made a declaration and you took action, you realize you're

790
00:40:17.760 --> 00:40:23.880
only right here right now, because you took action. And

791
00:40:23.880 --> 00:40:26.960
then you remember the story of the prodigal son, that it was

792
00:40:26.960 --> 00:40:33.120
only after he took action that the father met him. And then the

793
00:40:33.120 --> 00:40:37.920
father just showered on him. And I want you to imagine the

794
00:40:37.920 --> 00:40:42.120
father showering on you right now. The first thing the father

795
00:40:42.120 --> 00:40:50.000
did was put sandals on his feet. Not barefoot. Barefoot is

796
00:40:50.000 --> 00:40:56.120
slavery. You are not a slave. God has not called you a slave.

797
00:40:56.120 --> 00:40:59.160
There's a difference between a servant, one who serves out of

798
00:40:59.160 --> 00:41:02.760
love and gives their gifts, and a slave. You are not a slave.

799
00:41:02.880 --> 00:41:06.680
And the father, the father God put the sandals on, put the

800
00:41:06.680 --> 00:41:10.360
sandals on you right now. You are no longer your past. You are

801
00:41:10.360 --> 00:41:14.440
no longer your fears. You are no longer your mistakes. Put the

802
00:41:14.440 --> 00:41:20.720
sandals on now. Right there in front of everybody, the sandals

803
00:41:20.720 --> 00:41:26.720
are on. The father put a ring on the son's hands. The ring was

804
00:41:26.760 --> 00:41:32.760
authority. You have authority in the name of Jesus. Put the ring

805
00:41:32.760 --> 00:41:36.840
on. It was only after action happened. But now it's time to

806
00:41:36.840 --> 00:41:41.760
put that ring on. That ring has a seal. That seal you can press

807
00:41:41.760 --> 00:41:45.680
into the wax and you can leave a mark. You can leave an imprint

808
00:41:45.720 --> 00:41:51.400
everywhere you go. That ring is your authority. He put a robe

809
00:41:51.760 --> 00:41:54.600
after he took action and he walked and he went there and he

810
00:41:54.600 --> 00:42:01.080
took action. The robe on, the true identity, who you are, the

811
00:42:01.080 --> 00:42:06.160
son, the daughter of the Most High God, the son, the daughter

812
00:42:06.200 --> 00:42:11.400
of the Most High God. And so you give the gifts. And you

813
00:42:11.400 --> 00:42:15.120
understand that you have elevated and that you're here on

814
00:42:15.120 --> 00:42:24.480
this planet for such a time as this. All right, take a take a

815
00:42:24.480 --> 00:42:30.040
deep breath. Let that settle in. Maybe write a quick note in your

816
00:42:30.040 --> 00:42:36.680
journal right now. Maybe pop something in the chat, just to

817
00:42:36.680 --> 00:42:40.520
solidify it. That's an action. Writing in the chat is an

818
00:42:40.520 --> 00:42:59.280
action. Wow. Amen. Amen. Powerful. Powerful. Yes. Yes,

819
00:42:59.280 --> 00:43:13.120
yes, yes. Yes. It's time for such a time as this. Yes. Yes.

820
00:43:14.160 --> 00:43:18.960
Love that. Love what you guys are writing. Love this. Love

821
00:43:18.960 --> 00:43:24.600
this. Beautiful things that you're writing. Slave. Someone

822
00:43:24.600 --> 00:43:28.720
walking barefoot. Yes. I'm a willing daughter. Things are

823
00:43:28.720 --> 00:43:31.760
going so fast. I can't read them right now. But I love that

824
00:43:31.760 --> 00:43:33.680
you're getting the depth of that. I'm going to go back and

825
00:43:33.680 --> 00:43:36.280
read every single one of these. I'll probably share a bunch of

826
00:43:36.280 --> 00:43:39.840
these with you. We'll keep this conversation going over in the

827
00:43:39.840 --> 00:43:43.560
Facebook group. If you're in the Facebook group, put some love in

828
00:43:43.560 --> 00:43:47.000
there. Come back today. One of the powerful things you can do

829
00:43:47.000 --> 00:43:50.560
in the Facebook group today, come back right under this

830
00:43:50.560 --> 00:43:54.480
stream and talk about what changed for you. That's anchoring

831
00:43:54.480 --> 00:43:58.400
it for you. That's anchoring it in the Prosper Women Facebook

832
00:43:58.400 --> 00:44:02.440
group. And yes, men are welcome over there too. Okay. What I

833
00:44:02.440 --> 00:44:06.560
want to share with you now, we've had amazing three days.

834
00:44:07.160 --> 00:44:11.120
And I think one of the things that you have gotten so, so

835
00:44:11.120 --> 00:44:16.800
clear is that we have a need for speed. That success, love,

836
00:44:16.800 --> 00:44:22.880
speed. Yes. And one of the things that I see in this time

837
00:44:22.880 --> 00:44:26.800
that we've been together, I've been giving you all the tools

838
00:44:26.800 --> 00:44:30.040
that I know right now, or at least as many as I can in one

839
00:44:30.040 --> 00:44:34.680
hour a day, right? To elevate. So I've given you the tools you

840
00:44:34.680 --> 00:44:37.720
can use over and over again to elevate your confidence, right?

841
00:44:37.720 --> 00:44:44.320
To elevate your faith and today to elevate. Now, all of that

842
00:44:44.320 --> 00:44:48.840
was for a reason. We have opened this conversation. We've kept

843
00:44:48.840 --> 00:44:53.480
this conversation the whole time that things are moving so, so

844
00:44:53.520 --> 00:44:59.360
fast. I cannot put out a stronger plea right now that you

845
00:44:59.360 --> 00:45:00.080
are here.

846
00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:05.000
by design for such a time as this.

847
00:45:05.860 --> 00:45:07.820
For such a time as this.

848
00:45:07.820 --> 00:45:11.620
You must take action now.

849
00:45:11.620 --> 00:45:15.820
We don't have, look, I've always offered 90 day programs,

850
00:45:15.820 --> 00:45:18.180
one year programs, all kinds of stuff,

851
00:45:18.180 --> 00:45:20.500
still do that where I hold someone's hand,

852
00:45:20.500 --> 00:45:22.340
get them from here to get them to there,

853
00:45:22.340 --> 00:45:23.840
lots of testimonies.

854
00:45:23.840 --> 00:45:26.580
But right now, that's not the season.

855
00:45:26.580 --> 00:45:28.900
Let me tell you what we need right now.

856
00:45:28.900 --> 00:45:30.400
We need action.

857
00:45:30.400 --> 00:45:33.880
We need to take this elevation that you've gotten,

858
00:45:33.880 --> 00:45:36.120
and we need to implement it.

859
00:45:36.120 --> 00:45:37.580
Now, I'm seeing this already.

860
00:45:37.580 --> 00:45:39.120
I was over on the Facebook group

861
00:45:39.120 --> 00:45:41.680
with you lovely ladies last night at 5.30,

862
00:45:41.680 --> 00:45:44.200
and we got talking about a vision statement.

863
00:45:44.200 --> 00:45:46.600
And we were talking about, well, how do you do that?

864
00:45:46.600 --> 00:45:47.560
How do you write that?

865
00:45:47.560 --> 00:45:50.040
And I gave you every secret that I know

866
00:45:50.040 --> 00:45:51.640
to write a good vision statement.

867
00:45:51.640 --> 00:45:56.220
But that's still information, it's not implementation.

868
00:45:56.220 --> 00:45:59.360
You need to implement it right now.

869
00:45:59.360 --> 00:46:03.160
Every single aspect that we're talking about all week,

870
00:46:03.160 --> 00:46:05.460
and this is going to continue.

871
00:46:05.460 --> 00:46:07.400
We're only halfway through.

872
00:46:07.400 --> 00:46:09.000
I'm gonna tell you tomorrow's gonna be

873
00:46:09.000 --> 00:46:10.600
about elevating your offer.

874
00:46:10.600 --> 00:46:13.800
That's gonna be around your money story, okay?

875
00:46:13.800 --> 00:46:15.320
I'm gonna tell you each day,

876
00:46:15.320 --> 00:46:17.760
build, and I'm gonna give you a little bonus.

877
00:46:17.760 --> 00:46:19.280
You're gonna put this on your calendar.

878
00:46:19.280 --> 00:46:24.160
Saturday, nine to 12, I'm doing a masterclass on identity.

879
00:46:24.160 --> 00:46:26.000
Those of you that are really truly ready

880
00:46:26.740 --> 00:46:29.060
to have those sandals on, that ring on, that robe on,

881
00:46:29.060 --> 00:46:31.660
you're gonna learn how to do that on Saturday.

882
00:46:31.660 --> 00:46:35.180
Normally I charge between 97 and 147.

883
00:46:35.180 --> 00:46:36.380
I'm not charging.

884
00:46:36.380 --> 00:46:37.700
God just put it on my heart.

885
00:46:37.700 --> 00:46:39.180
Saturday is my gift to you.

886
00:46:39.180 --> 00:46:40.500
The party's gonna continue.

887
00:46:40.500 --> 00:46:42.500
You're elevating, we're not stopping.

888
00:46:42.500 --> 00:46:44.020
You're showing up every day.

889
00:46:44.020 --> 00:46:47.220
Saturday, we're doing it Saturday morning, no charge.

890
00:46:47.220 --> 00:46:50.180
Okay, we'll be on the same Zoom link, everything.

891
00:46:50.180 --> 00:46:54.260
Okay, here is what I'm gonna suggest for you right now.

892
00:46:54.260 --> 00:46:57.440
So what I'm realizing is what you really need,

893
00:46:57.440 --> 00:47:01.120
and I created this just specifically for you,

894
00:47:01.120 --> 00:47:04.560
is you need implementation and you need it fast.

895
00:47:04.560 --> 00:47:08.180
Everything we've been talking about requires speed.

896
00:47:08.180 --> 00:47:09.440
You need speed.

897
00:47:09.440 --> 00:47:12.760
So I'm gonna just share my screen right now,

898
00:47:12.760 --> 00:47:15.080
and you all should be able to see this.

899
00:47:15.080 --> 00:47:17.000
I wanna share something that I created

900
00:47:17.000 --> 00:47:21.240
just for you for speed, okay?

901
00:47:21.260 --> 00:47:24.940
And it's called the Prosperity Accelerator.

902
00:47:24.940 --> 00:47:27.580
It's a five-day intensive.

903
00:47:27.580 --> 00:47:30.140
Now, many of you know I've done one-day intensives.

904
00:47:30.140 --> 00:47:35.140
I've taken this to the nth degree in a five-day intensive

905
00:47:36.480 --> 00:47:40.220
that is specifically designed to propel your coaching,

906
00:47:40.220 --> 00:47:42.260
your consulting, your service-based business

907
00:47:42.260 --> 00:47:44.000
to new heights, okay?

908
00:47:44.000 --> 00:47:45.220
So what's the difference?

909
00:47:45.220 --> 00:47:46.560
This is not information.

910
00:47:46.560 --> 00:47:48.180
You got enough information.

911
00:47:48.180 --> 00:47:49.340
It's not elevating.

912
00:47:49.340 --> 00:47:50.980
I've given you the tools to elevate.

913
00:47:51.720 --> 00:47:52.840
This is implementation.

914
00:47:52.840 --> 00:47:55.140
We're talking about whiteboard.

915
00:47:55.140 --> 00:47:59.240
We're talking about implementing your messaging,

916
00:47:59.240 --> 00:48:02.800
your marketing, so you can start getting a yes

917
00:48:02.800 --> 00:48:06.440
from your premier clients, so you can position yourself.

918
00:48:06.440 --> 00:48:09.000
No more confusion, no more guessing.

919
00:48:09.000 --> 00:48:10.440
What's my avatar?

920
00:48:10.440 --> 00:48:13.560
What's my USP, unique selling proposition?

921
00:48:13.560 --> 00:48:15.200
What's my big promise?

922
00:48:15.200 --> 00:48:16.760
What's my package?

923
00:48:16.760 --> 00:48:18.560
Is my package sexy?

924
00:48:18.980 --> 00:48:21.860
Many of you, we're gonna do a whole day on that.

925
00:48:21.860 --> 00:48:24.980
Like many of you, you have the wrong idea

926
00:48:24.980 --> 00:48:27.140
and you're focusing on the wrong thing

927
00:48:27.140 --> 00:48:30.260
and you're not reaching your ideal client,

928
00:48:30.260 --> 00:48:33.340
your premier paying client, okay?

929
00:48:33.340 --> 00:48:37.060
So we don't have time to have lots of changes.

930
00:48:37.060 --> 00:48:38.340
I'm gonna spend five days.

931
00:48:38.340 --> 00:48:40.920
I'm opening up the mornings and the evenings.

932
00:48:40.920 --> 00:48:45.920
This is gonna be very hands-on, very semi-private, okay?

933
00:48:46.920 --> 00:48:49.460
And it's implementation.

934
00:48:49.460 --> 00:48:51.300
So you can register right now.

935
00:48:51.300 --> 00:48:53.060
It's only $5,000.

936
00:48:53.060 --> 00:48:54.800
I wanted to make it affordable.

937
00:48:54.800 --> 00:48:56.280
I wanted to make it fast.

938
00:48:56.280 --> 00:48:59.020
I wanted to make sure you could get results, okay?

939
00:48:59.020 --> 00:49:01.680
There's payment options if you want installments,

940
00:49:01.680 --> 00:49:04.340
but we're gonna do this on January 8th.

941
00:49:04.340 --> 00:49:08.500
Like we're not leaving January not ready, okay?

942
00:49:08.500 --> 00:49:11.660
Everything is in place by the second week of January.

943
00:49:11.660 --> 00:49:14.260
We're gonna get over New Year's and all that fluff

944
00:49:14.260 --> 00:49:15.680
second week of January.

945
00:49:15.680 --> 00:49:17.200
That week is dedicated to you.

946
00:49:17.200 --> 00:49:19.560
I'm with you in the mornings, holding your hands.

947
00:49:19.560 --> 00:49:20.760
I'm with you in the evenings.

948
00:49:20.760 --> 00:49:23.520
If mornings don't work, you can do both if you want.

949
00:49:23.520 --> 00:49:27.600
These are your times to work on what matters to you.

950
00:49:27.600 --> 00:49:30.040
January 8th through January 12th,

951
00:49:30.040 --> 00:49:31.840
you wanna register for that.

952
00:49:31.840 --> 00:49:34.760
The focus is gonna be on your packaging.

953
00:49:34.760 --> 00:49:37.840
Most people have no clue what a package is.

954
00:49:37.840 --> 00:49:38.880
I go, do you have,

955
00:49:38.880 --> 00:49:40.920
this is my thousands of conversations again.

956
00:49:40.920 --> 00:49:42.080
Do you have a package?

957
00:49:42.980 --> 00:49:45.260
15 hours for X dollars.

958
00:49:45.260 --> 00:49:46.100
No, no, no, no.

959
00:49:46.100 --> 00:49:48.340
Those are not packages, okay?

960
00:49:48.340 --> 00:49:51.100
Those are therapist model of hourly wages

961
00:49:51.100 --> 00:49:53.100
that comes from the industrial revolution.

962
00:49:53.100 --> 00:49:54.020
I won't get into all that.

963
00:49:54.020 --> 00:49:55.380
We don't do that here.

964
00:49:55.380 --> 00:50:00.020
You're going to have powerful premier packages.

965
00:50:00.000 --> 00:50:02.720
with no more in the pig pen.

966
00:50:02.720 --> 00:50:04.160
You're gonna have the right price.

967
00:50:04.160 --> 00:50:05.760
I'm gonna work around your money story.

968
00:50:05.760 --> 00:50:07.420
You're gonna have the right price.

969
00:50:07.420 --> 00:50:09.360
You're gonna have the right positioning.

970
00:50:09.360 --> 00:50:11.480
You're gonna have your offer unique,

971
00:50:11.480 --> 00:50:13.440
ready to go in the market

972
00:50:13.440 --> 00:50:17.640
to attract your premier clients who buy right now.

973
00:50:17.640 --> 00:50:20.800
Okay, the prosperity accelerator.

974
00:50:20.800 --> 00:50:23.480
You can register that top bar right there.

975
00:50:23.480 --> 00:50:26.240
The bottom bar, hey, I still have questions.

976
00:50:26.240 --> 00:50:27.880
I still not sure about something.

977
00:50:27.880 --> 00:50:29.080
Can I just talk to you?

978
00:50:29.120 --> 00:50:31.040
Absolutely, I'm here to talk to you.

979
00:50:31.040 --> 00:50:32.240
That's the bottom.

980
00:50:32.240 --> 00:50:35.560
So if you need to have a conversation schedule,

981
00:50:35.560 --> 00:50:37.600
that's the bottom QR code.

982
00:50:37.600 --> 00:50:42.600
The top one, those of you ready to take action now.

983
00:50:43.000 --> 00:50:44.400
Now let me tell you a bonus.

984
00:50:44.400 --> 00:50:45.480
It didn't need a bonus.

985
00:50:45.480 --> 00:50:46.320
It's already done.

986
00:50:46.320 --> 00:50:49.480
It's already complete, but I'm a giver.

987
00:50:49.480 --> 00:50:50.960
And there's something really important

988
00:50:50.960 --> 00:50:52.880
that's still missing in my opinion of this

989
00:50:52.880 --> 00:50:54.600
that I'm gonna give you for free.

990
00:50:54.600 --> 00:50:58.100
It is something that I have done for over 10 years.

991
00:50:58.100 --> 00:51:03.100
I have always, the least I've ever charged for it is $3,997.

992
00:51:03.700 --> 00:51:05.980
I'm throwing it in as a bonus.

993
00:51:05.980 --> 00:51:09.420
And it's about total soul prosperity.

994
00:51:09.420 --> 00:51:14.260
So on that Saturday, and I'm looking at my calendar.

995
00:51:14.260 --> 00:51:15.700
I think that's the 13th.

996
00:51:15.700 --> 00:51:20.700
Yes, Saturday the 13th, we are doing a masterclass

997
00:51:20.900 --> 00:51:23.900
and it's called Total Soul Prosperity.

998
00:51:23.900 --> 00:51:28.660
It's about manifesting love, health, and prosperity.

999
00:51:28.660 --> 00:51:31.180
Why am I adding this on?

1000
00:51:31.180 --> 00:51:33.980
Because getting you clients and getting you money

1001
00:51:33.980 --> 00:51:37.260
is not the end game.

1002
00:51:37.260 --> 00:51:40.900
It's a means because yes, I've already said yesterday,

1003
00:51:40.900 --> 00:51:43.740
be more so you can have more, so you can give more.

1004
00:51:43.740 --> 00:51:45.980
And you guys are givers, I know that.

1005
00:51:45.980 --> 00:51:48.700
So yes, it is about getting you profitable.

1006
00:51:48.700 --> 00:51:50.020
I have no problem with money,

1007
00:51:50.020 --> 00:51:51.820
no problem getting you profitable,

1008
00:51:51.820 --> 00:51:56.220
but not at the expense of your health,

1009
00:51:56.220 --> 00:51:58.340
not at the expense of burnout,

1010
00:51:58.340 --> 00:52:00.780
not at the expense of your family,

1011
00:52:00.780 --> 00:52:05.100
not at the expense of the things that you wanna do,

1012
00:52:05.100 --> 00:52:06.820
your passion, your vision.

1013
00:52:06.820 --> 00:52:11.140
Third John two is about total soul prosperity.

1014
00:52:11.140 --> 00:52:12.300
I'm gonna give you the tools.

1015
00:52:12.300 --> 00:52:14.140
Remember today I mentioned about the mind,

1016
00:52:14.140 --> 00:52:16.920
heart, mouth connection, we're gonna activate that.

1017
00:52:16.920 --> 00:52:19.820
I'm gonna teach you how to totally renew your mind,

1018
00:52:19.820 --> 00:52:21.100
change your thoughts.

1019
00:52:21.100 --> 00:52:22.620
These are things that are gonna stick with you,

1020
00:52:22.620 --> 00:52:24.140
stick with you.

1021
00:52:24.140 --> 00:52:26.500
The heart, how to activate your feelings,

1022
00:52:26.500 --> 00:52:29.140
change your health, change your relationships,

1023
00:52:29.140 --> 00:52:30.700
change your business.

1024
00:52:30.700 --> 00:52:32.220
All of that's gonna be included.

1025
00:52:32.220 --> 00:52:36.780
I'm gonna teach you how to truly use your mouth for power.

1026
00:52:36.780 --> 00:52:41.340
All of those things are going to be included.

1027
00:52:41.340 --> 00:52:43.180
Let me tell you, over the last 10 years,

1028
00:52:43.180 --> 00:52:45.720
the ones who have gone through that program,

1029
00:52:45.720 --> 00:52:48.020
it was called Manifest Love, Health, and Prosperity.

1030
00:52:48.020 --> 00:52:50.060
Some of you may have already gone through.

1031
00:52:50.060 --> 00:52:53.420
At the end, we'll always celebrate and have testimonies.

1032
00:52:53.420 --> 00:52:55.300
There were people that got married,

1033
00:52:55.300 --> 00:52:57.180
that wanted to have a partner and got married.

1034
00:52:57.180 --> 00:52:58.980
There were people that got their first house,

1035
00:52:58.980 --> 00:53:00.180
that always wanted a house.

1036
00:53:00.180 --> 00:53:01.660
There were people that got a car.

1037
00:53:01.660 --> 00:53:03.620
There were people that got their health back.

1038
00:53:03.620 --> 00:53:05.260
Miracles, miracles.

1039
00:53:05.260 --> 00:53:07.620
So this is tried and true.

1040
00:53:07.620 --> 00:53:11.200
It's just a bonus for you, okay?

1041
00:53:11.200 --> 00:53:15.060
If you act today, if you act today,

1042
00:53:15.060 --> 00:53:16.820
I'm gonna throw in one more bonus.

1043
00:53:16.820 --> 00:53:19.820
I don't need to do this, but hey,

1044
00:53:20.580 --> 00:53:21.420
I'm all about action,

1045
00:53:21.420 --> 00:53:22.860
because I know you need to take action.

1046
00:53:22.860 --> 00:53:27.620
Final thing, you take action today and you register today.

1047
00:53:27.620 --> 00:53:32.180
I'm gonna give you three months of office hours.

1048
00:53:32.180 --> 00:53:35.520
On Thursdays at 9 a.m. Pacific time,

1049
00:53:35.520 --> 00:53:39.280
for my Prosper Leader members, I do office hours.

1050
00:53:39.280 --> 00:53:41.180
Powerful things happen in there.

1051
00:53:41.180 --> 00:53:43.620
That's where you can bring something to show me.

1052
00:53:43.620 --> 00:53:44.920
You can get my feedback.

1053
00:53:44.920 --> 00:53:47.240
You can ask me how to do something.

1054
00:53:47.240 --> 00:53:50.360
I'm gonna make myself available for 90 days with you

1055
00:53:50.360 --> 00:53:52.600
to hold your hand even further.

1056
00:53:52.600 --> 00:53:55.280
If you act today, I'm gonna open up

1057
00:53:55.280 --> 00:53:58.880
three months of office hours for you, okay?

1058
00:53:58.880 --> 00:54:02.180
So if you have any questions, reach out to me.

1059
00:54:03.520 --> 00:54:05.400
Not gonna make it any more complicated.

1060
00:54:05.400 --> 00:54:07.060
Success loves speed.

1061
00:54:07.060 --> 00:54:08.000
Take action.

1062
00:54:08.000 --> 00:54:11.240
Be like the prodigal son who not only says, I will,

1063
00:54:11.240 --> 00:54:13.600
but then he puts one foot in front of the other,

1064
00:54:13.600 --> 00:54:17.120
and it's as you're in action, the father moots you.

1065
00:54:18.040 --> 00:54:23.040
So tomorrow, tomorrow, tomorrow, going to be powerful.

1066
00:54:24.200 --> 00:54:25.800
Going to be powerful.

1067
00:54:25.800 --> 00:54:27.800
Tomorrow, we're going to be talking

1068
00:54:27.800 --> 00:54:30.900
about elevating your offer.

1069
00:54:30.900 --> 00:54:32.640
So whether you're in network marketing,

1070
00:54:32.640 --> 00:54:33.840
whether you're in B2B,

1071
00:54:33.840 --> 00:54:36.760
whether you're in coaching or consulting,

1072
00:54:36.760 --> 00:54:39.700
most of the time, the reason you're not succeeding

1073
00:54:39.700 --> 00:54:42.600
and you're not making money most of the time

1074
00:54:42.600 --> 00:54:44.800
is because you're not making an offer

1075
00:54:44.800 --> 00:54:49.360
or your offer is not lining up with your ideal client, okay?

1076
00:54:49.360 --> 00:54:52.400
This is a big, like either you're not making it at all,

1077
00:54:52.400 --> 00:54:54.700
you're not making it often enough.

1078
00:54:54.700 --> 00:54:58.560
The Facebook group is Prosper Women, okay?

1079
00:54:58.560 --> 00:54:59.800
Prosper Women.

1080
00:55:00.000 --> 00:55:03.680
Should be in the email I sent you this morning at the bottom.

1081
00:55:03.680 --> 00:55:05.040
Oh good, thank you, Linda.

1082
00:55:05.040 --> 00:55:06.480
She just popped it in there.

1083
00:55:06.480 --> 00:55:08.280
You guys are an amazing team.

1084
00:55:08.280 --> 00:55:11.280
So tomorrow is gonna be elevating your offer,

1085
00:55:11.280 --> 00:55:15.920
going from ho-hum to premier proposition.

1086
00:55:15.920 --> 00:55:16.760
Remember I said you gotta have

1087
00:55:16.760 --> 00:55:18.480
a unique selling proposition,

1088
00:55:18.480 --> 00:55:21.240
unique packages, premier packages.

1089
00:55:21.240 --> 00:55:22.920
You're gonna learn how to do that.

1090
00:55:22.920 --> 00:55:24.880
You're gonna have tools to elevate it.

1091
00:55:24.880 --> 00:55:26.560
You're gonna leave at a whole different level.

1092
00:55:26.560 --> 00:55:29.440
So we'll pick up there 9 a.m. tomorrow.

1093
00:55:29.440 --> 00:55:33.960
Look at us, we're finishing on the nose.

1094
00:55:33.960 --> 00:55:36.480
All right, put some fire in the chat.

1095
00:55:36.480 --> 00:55:40.120
Let me put a single word of how you would describe

1096
00:55:40.120 --> 00:55:43.320
what you're experiencing right now as we close this out.

1097
00:55:43.320 --> 00:55:46.920
And then I'm gonna go on in with the VIPs, okay?

1098
00:55:46.920 --> 00:55:49.440
So you're welcome.

1099
00:55:49.440 --> 00:55:52.640
Oh, a lot of fires, five fires, four fires.

1100
00:55:52.640 --> 00:55:54.120
Thank you for the fires.

1101
00:55:54.120 --> 00:55:57.480
Yes, yes, amazing, thank you.

1102
00:55:57.480 --> 00:56:01.720
Please add the class info in the chat.

1103
00:56:01.720 --> 00:56:05.360
Can someone put the link in the chat, please?

1104
00:56:05.360 --> 00:56:08.960
Can someone put the link in the chat, please?

1105
00:56:10.240 --> 00:56:12.720
Put the link in the chat.

1106
00:56:12.720 --> 00:56:14.520
I think I sent that to you, Arlene, too.

1107
00:56:14.520 --> 00:56:16.680
You should have it to be able to put the link in the chat

1108
00:56:16.680 --> 00:56:19.360
so everybody can have that there, too, okay?

1109
00:56:21.280 --> 00:56:23.960
All right, all right, you're welcome, you're welcome.

1110
00:56:23.960 --> 00:56:25.880
Great class, wonderful, wonderful.

1111
00:56:25.880 --> 00:56:27.720
There's the link for you guys.

1112
00:56:31.760 --> 00:56:34.320
Yeah, there it is, the Prosperity Activator, she grabbed it.

1113
00:56:34.320 --> 00:56:35.880
Thank you, Carrie, you're on it.

1114
00:56:35.880 --> 00:56:37.680
Thank you so much for doing that.

1115
00:56:37.680 --> 00:56:40.680
Okay, Andrea, okay, creative and inspired.

1116
00:56:40.680 --> 00:56:43.800
Ashley, I love that, take action on it.

1117
00:56:43.800 --> 00:56:48.800
All right, okay, good, Arlene just popped it there again.

1118
00:56:50.360 --> 00:56:52.080
Those of you that take action today

1119
00:56:52.080 --> 00:56:55.280
are gonna get the extra bonus of three months.

1120
00:56:55.280 --> 00:56:57.200
So we're gonna be together the next few days.

1121
00:56:57.200 --> 00:56:59.640
We're gonna be together on Saturday.

1122
00:56:59.640 --> 00:57:02.400
Blessings, blessings to each and every one of you.

1123
00:57:02.400 --> 00:57:06.280
Those of you that are VIP, hang tight,

1124
00:57:06.280 --> 00:57:07.880
stay on the line here.

1125
00:57:07.880 --> 00:57:09.240
I'm here to work with you.

1126
00:57:09.240 --> 00:57:11.400
Those of you who did the VIP upgrade,

1127
00:57:11.400 --> 00:57:13.080
stick around, the rest of you,

1128
00:57:13.080 --> 00:57:16.760
I will see you tomorrow morning, 9 a.m.

1129
00:57:16.760 --> 00:57:18.920
So thrilled to be here with you.

1130
00:57:18.920 --> 00:57:23.280
I may try to pop into the Facebook group.

1131
00:57:23.280 --> 00:57:24.720
I'll send a notice about it.

1132
00:57:25.160 --> 00:57:26.000
I've got a really full day,

1133
00:57:26.000 --> 00:57:27.840
but I may try to pop over there as well.

1134
00:57:27.840 --> 00:57:28.720
Leave your comments.

1135
00:57:28.720 --> 00:57:29.920
I will be reading them.

1136
00:57:29.920 --> 00:57:31.880
I will be responding.

1137
00:57:31.880 --> 00:57:32.920
Love you guys.

1138
00:57:32.920 --> 00:57:36.360
Thank you so much for being here.

1139
00:57:36.360 --> 00:57:38.320
Powerful, powerful day.

1140
00:57:38.320 --> 00:57:39.920
Blessings to each one of you.

1141
00:57:40.880 --> 00:57:44.240
Those of you that are VIP, hang tight, stick with me.

1142
00:57:46.000 --> 00:57:48.600
And the rest of you, I will see you in the Facebook group

1143
00:57:48.600 --> 00:57:52.080
and I'll see you tomorrow morning, 9 a.m. Pacific time.

1144
00:57:53.080 --> 00:57:55.160
VIPs, hang tight.

1145
00:58:01.600 --> 00:58:02.640
Did I stop recording?

1146
00:58:02.640 --> 00:58:04.400
No, I need to stop recording.
