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Hey hey, this is us. We are live. I'll be waiting for you to join me. I'll be waiting for you.

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So yeah, here I am. I've just put the link out into Facebook world. So I guess you guys will

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take a little while to get here. So yeah. It's such a beautiful day. Such a beautiful day.

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Hey hey, and I'll be waiting for you. I'll be waiting for you.

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Oh look, we've got someone there. Who's this watching live? Don't watch live. Click on the

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link and come join me in the Zoom room. Come join me in here in the Zoom room. This is where,

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this is where you want to be. Come and join. Come and join me. Oh Esther, we got someone.

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We got our first person. Esther's here. Hey Esther. Hey Esther. How you doing Esther?

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How's it going? It's good. It's good. Oh, we've got another person. Here we go. Welcome.

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Oh Esther, how are you? What's happening? What's happening? Well, I've been a lot of,

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I've been a lot on Facebook this week. Yes. Yes. Totally. Yeah.

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But that's good. We've had a wonderful time. I've been learning a lot. Yeah. So

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all's fine in the Netherlands. Oh, that's very good. Very, very good.

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Now I'm just going to do one tech thing here.

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I'm just doing one thing here.

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But Carol, tell me about your week.

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Tell me about my week. Yeah. I've ordered lots and lots of plants for in the garden.

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Oh, yes. What are plants? Well, there were packages of, we want a border,

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but we have an acre of land. So that means a lot of plants. So I've ordered a lot. Next week,

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we're going to have to put them in the ground. So we're working hard. Yeah, that sounds great.

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Yeah.

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There we go. Wonderful. Good. Did you turn that beard?

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Uh, no, no, I might. I might this summer for my daughter's wedding.

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Oh, no, I was actually thinking it didn't look like it had been trained,

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looked free and happy. That's good. Yes. Yes. I turned mine. I turned mine.

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This is my beard. When I let it really go loose, it goes a little bit more

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extreme than this. It's a little bit more extreme, but not much.

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Bonnie, how are you doing? Wonderful. Thumbs up. We're about to you, Bonnie.

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Unmute and chat with us. Oh, good to see you. I just, I just was checking in and

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just saw that you came live. So, oh, yeah, perfect. We're about to tell you, Bonnie.

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Good. I'm good. Can you hear is I my I having speaker issues,

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so I don't know if my quality is coming through. We're hearing you fine. We're about to tell you.

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Yeah.

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So, yeah.

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I can now hear you.

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Can you hear me all right?

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Yeah, where are you, Bonnie?

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I'm in Michigan.

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Great.

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Go, Michigan.

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That's very good.

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Very good.

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Great to hear.

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Well, good to have you with us, Bonnie.

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And so we've got Priyadarshini.

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Who is that?

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Are you there?

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Hi.

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Yeah.

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Do you have a nickname?

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Or did I say that right?

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What's the best way to say your name?

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You said it right.

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It's my middle name.

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First name is Ida.

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First name is?

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Indira.

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Indira.

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Wonderful.

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Well, that's great.

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And we're about to you today.

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Thank you.

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Where are you today?

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I'm from Germany, Hamburg.

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Hamburg.

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Wonderful.

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Well, great to have.

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We've got Germany, the Netherlands, Michigan.

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Michelle, where are you?

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Michelle, can you hear us all right?

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Yeah, I can hear you.

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Great.

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We're about to you today, Michelle.

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I'm from England in the UK.

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Yeah.

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That photo of yours that pops up on Zoom

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looks a little bit of Coronation Street-y.

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So you're in England.

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And Steph, where are you today?

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Hi.

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I'm in Hawke's Bay, New Zealand.

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Hawke's Bay, New Zealand.

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Haven't gone anywhere?

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Good stuff.

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OK, cool.

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Slightly shaken last night, Benji, as you were too.

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Yeah, I've slept through.

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I didn't really notice that.

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I'm very happy about that.

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And I was very happy to be asleep last night.

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So Steph and just not too far from Steph,

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they had a big earthquake last night.

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It was like a 7.1?

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Yeah, I think they've upgraded it to 7.3 or something.

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Keeps changing.

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Oh, that's fun.

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But damage-wise, it hasn't done that much, has it?

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I've had a look around here.

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All I've seen is kind of a bit of a crack

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between where the wall and the ceiling join.

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There's a little bit of that's all I can see.

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I haven't seen, I can't see anything, any other damage.

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Nothing fell off shelves or anything like that.

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When I was in Te Anau, I was down at the church late one

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night praying and just really going after God.

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It was a pretty epic, pretty epic moment, right?

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Because I started praying and then, you know,

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like in Acts and that, you know, multiple times,

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the place where they're praying starts shaking.

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So I'm praying.

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I'm praying away.

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And then I feel like the room, like when the auditorium

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starts going, whoo, whoo, whoo, whoo,

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the Oats just starts moving a little bit.

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I'm like, oh, come on, like this is the encounter

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I've been going after.

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I'm like, yes.

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And then I'm like, yeah, come on.

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And then I look at the speakers, you know,

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that are on pole speakers and then it starts going

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ka-di-ka-di, ka-di-ka-di.

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You know, they're rocking.

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I'm like, holy, they're about to fall over.

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I realized I was actually an earthquake

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and I was pretty disappointed.

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I was pretty disappointed.

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I thought I was about to get sucked into heaven,

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sucked through the roof or something

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while it was going to happen.

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No, no, just an earthquake.

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Disappointed.

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Well, why don't we get a couple of volunteers

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who would like to pray for us?

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That would be wonderful.

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Indira, it would be great to have you pray

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if you're happy to pray for us to get started.

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And maybe Steph, if you warriors want to kick it off,

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that'd be great.

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Sure, I can pray.

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Yeah, wonderful, please do.

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And then Steph, just follow along.

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Father, I thank you for this beautiful day

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and for the breath in our lives.

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I thank you we all can come there in your mighty name.

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I thank you Lord for the privilege of internet

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that we can, from different nations that we can join.

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And thank you for being our corner and foundation rock.

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Thank you Lord for your beauty in us

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and for the salvation and for the gift of Holy Spirit.

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Thank you Father for all the love that you offer us

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and for the plans that you have for us.

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Thank you Holy Spirit for your presence

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and leaders as we do.

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I give everything into your mighty hands.

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In the name of Jesus, I praise and thank you Lord.

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Amen.

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Hallelujah.

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Yes, thank you, Lord. Thank you. Lord, we acknowledge you today. Trinity. Oh, thank you, Lord. Thank you,

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Lord. Thank you, Father, that you go before us. That you make a way for us, Lord. Father,

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we thank you, Lord, for Benji and the Dream Team and for all the work that he's been doing, Lord.

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Father, we thank you so much for the masterclasses and thank you for just your ongoing,

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what's the word I'm after? Your ongoing, not only your presence, Lord, but challenging. I know that

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you've been challenging me and opening up my eyes and changing mindsets. Father, that you continue

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to bring in new people along to the group. Father, that you will challenge them and open up their

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minds and their hearts. We thank you, Lord, in Jesus' wonderful name. Thank you, Yeshua. Amen.

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Amen. Father, we thank you for your sacred glory. We thank you for your sacred presence.

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We thank you for everything that you're doing right now. We thank you for who you are.

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We thank you for the hour that we're alive in history right now. We thank you that

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this is an hour of radical grace. We thank you that this is an hour of a massive kingdom expansion.

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We thank you that this is an hour of the glory of God going out like never before. We thank you

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that this is an hour where you're releasing new dynamics of angelic activity, new realms of grace,

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things that have been prophesied for centuries that are actually beginning to unfold in our day.

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Lord, we thank you that this is an hour of the unveiling of the sons of God. We thank you that

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you are doing a mighty work in the earth right now. We thank you, Lord, that this is an hour

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where we can stand. Papa, I just thank you so much for who you are, for what you are doing

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in our lives. We welcome you, welcome you, welcome you right now in Jesus' name. Amen.

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Amen. Well, guys, good to be with you. It is an exciting time in world history,

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dynamic time in world history. How are you guys doing?

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Yeah, doing good, doing good. We are week three on the adventure. We've been looking at stewarding

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success this week. Last week was a big deal on processing failure. This week, we've been looking

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at stewarding success, and people have been starting to share their definitions of success,

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which is awesome. Open mic time, guys. What do you want to chat about? What has been interesting?

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What has been challenging? Where's everyone at? If you can unmute and take the mic.

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Okay. Shall I jump in? Yeah, definitely. Jump in there.

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I think what was... I loved your two different ways of describing two different kinds of success.

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Yes. Yes.

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I was really thankful to give words that I recognize that in my own life. Of course,

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there is stuff that I want to work on, and there's always room for improvement,

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but there's also a lot of stuff to be really thankful for. That was really great. Defining

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success in those seven areas. Achievement-based success versus lifestyle-based success.

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Yes, exactly. It's great to define where you want to go, but it also made me realize all the things

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that we have achieved, and the lifestyle we've built together, and the fruit that that has

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already given us. It was a lot of dreaming, but also a lot of thankfulness.

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Oh, that is excellent. That's really, really good to hear.

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Now, did you sign a personal commitment?

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Not yet, because I did the replay from...

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monday this today oh yeah and i did wednesday today so with all the the inner circle stuff going on

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it's just yeah and i don't want to rush it i'd rather do it later and do it good

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then uh i don't want to rush it so yeah very good and um i think that in what are we what

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we're week three now see when we're gonna

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we're week three now i'm just going to look at my calendar

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now we're in a lockdown at the moment in new zealand where i am one so are we

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three we've been for two and a half months locked down have you been two and a half months yeah

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ah sneaky

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um so um i've got a once a year if i can well at least once a year if i can we have the raw

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do you guys know what the raw is do you guys have the raw hi patty

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hi elise welcome um so do you guys know what the roar is i don't you don't know what the roar is

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anyone here know what the roar is okay so the roar the roar is when um red stags in new zealand go

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into the rut and they start roaring all over the place it's crazy wild exciting um and there is

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there are not many things in the whole world that are as exciting as being in the being in

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the bush being in the forest just meters away from a big angry red stag that is releasing a

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full-blown roar it's like thunder like it goes whoa like it shakes right through your bones

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around it's like wow what was that and you know there's a big guy right there's like oh my gosh

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uh that is one of the most oh look right there um patty's got a stag in the in the back but that's

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not a that's not a red stag is it patty what stag is that is that like a white tail no it's not a

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white tail i didn't mean a white tail i was going to say like a samba but it looks too big for a

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samba how do you have to unmute i'm sorry i don't know i don't know i just love him

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stags always remind me of jesus

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he kind of looks a little bit like a red spread but he's got a bit of a

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bit of a pointy pointy nose on him there it looks a little bit like rudolph

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um cool yeah so in a few weeks time uh the roar will be on and as long as i'm not in lockdown

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i'll be disappearing for um for a little bit so i think we will be just about at the end then it's

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like week seven or eight um of the process so i'll keep you guys in the loop but we might have

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like one or two cat we might have a little catch-up moment there so everyone kind of catch

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up before we do the last bit if i'm in the if i'm out in the wilderness hunting uh hunting stags so

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yeah um so who are everyone else like open mic time jump in here let me know what you um

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what you have been thinking about and processing this week as we've been doing the stewarding

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success template i have to be honest i haven't i've started with mine um well you don't have to

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be honest it's your choice uh but wow um i was just so surprised i don't know if it makes sense

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but how much resistance there is for really for success um just i've been i mean i thought i was

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one of my way over the last few years but i've realized that you know i did it in such a

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precocious way that i'm like oh my hat i really need to go and this week with the um

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with the mass the the uh marketing just stir up so many stuff and and what you said in the bio

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you know acts yes yeah everything is just like coming together and it's like

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wow

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and yeah today in a live video i was just

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I actually deleted the first part and then I went again and about a third way I could really feel

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that the Holy Spirit was taking over. So you did a live video yourself this morning? Yes,

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and then you know you can feel that there's really love, you're speaking, it's authentic,

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but up to that point it's like, yeah, but I want to be there all the time.

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Great, great, so resistance to success. Yeah, good stuff. Right, someone else jump in here.

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Yeah, come on, Canada.

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Oh, hang on, we can't hear you guys, you muted yourself again.

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Actually, maybe I muted you by accident. How's that? Can you guys hear me now?

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I think I muted you by accident. Yeah, no worries. We're a bit behind on our homework,

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but it's the perfectionist in me that wants to do it just so. So we're working our way through it,

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and Ron and I are going to take some time together this week and just continue to work on it

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from finishing the dreams and the failures and successes. We have had some success in life. I

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know I have had some success just in the world's eyes, but it's more achievement-based success,

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and so it could be gone tomorrow. I don't necessarily feel like it makes me who I am.

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A lot of people would say, okay, that's who you are, but I don't really feel like that defines me,

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and so I'm really open to what God is wanting for myself and for Ron in the future, and I'm

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so excited about all these classes. I do feel a bit bad I haven't finished my homework,

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but I'm not going to let that stop me from continuing. Yeah, for sure. Hey, maybe we should

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have a break week next week just to lever and catch up because we're also simultaneously

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going to run a Kindan Economics Masterclass next week, and that's going to be some pretty epic

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content there. How about we just take a break next week because it's actually better if we

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do this over a longer period of time. It consolidates rather than having a rush and

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miss stuff. It's better to take a break, let people catch up. How about we do that next week?

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We will pause this and let everyone catch up, and even if you're not catching up, you can at

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least not get further behind or join the Masterclass that's going to happen next week. It's

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going to be a great Masterclass on Kingdom Economics. Got some cool voices going to be

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contributing into that space. That's going to be a pretty cool adventure. How does that sound?

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Next week, and we'll probably do this a couple of times just to let everyone catch up and just

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to reduce the overwhelm because overwhelm is a pretty realistic thing for people.

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I'll give you an example. Last year, I set a goal to run my first 20 kilometers, so I wanted to do

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20 in 2020, but it wasn't happening. October was coming and I was like, hey, I haven't got

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many months left to do this 20k run, and I hadn't been doing all that much running. I've been doing

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workouts regularly, multiple workouts a week, but the running I've been doing more like once a

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fortnight, I'd go for a 5k run and that wasn't really enough to prep me for a 20k run. I was

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thinking, oh, I've got to start stepping up. Come the start of November, I started stepping up my

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training for running this 20k, doing this 20k run that I wanted to do. Then right as just a day or

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so after I started stepping up the training, my little girl Zoe and I and another little girl

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were riding on this little kid's quad bike, and Zoe got a fright and pulled the steering,

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excuse the driving, got a fright and pulled the steering and flipped us all off the back,

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and I broke my wrist. I was like, ah, and it was a really quite a good break. I broke right through

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the skateboard going right through it. They put me in the cast and they're like, okay, you know

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that even like no running, nothing, don't even try and do anything.

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with it for you know like five weeks and then right but that is like as soon as that five weeks was up

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it was December and I was like oh my gosh there's a there's no time left in the year for me to hit

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my goal which I was like ah and so I was like oh man time's running out to get this goal of running

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20ks and so I'd done one little run just in my driveway you know and that was it and then it

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was Christmas and so uh for all of November and most of December all I've done is just one little

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run up and down my driveway and um and now it's Christmas and I've got literally only you know

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what from Christmas what have you got a week and it's not a good week for doing running and things

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is it so but I was like I said to because I and I thought to myself I've got I've got one choice

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one chance to make this work because my brother and my brother-in-law both run marathons on a

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regular basis that's nothing for them you're like well it is a big deal but they both do that

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type of stuff so they've got that mindset and psychology and it's like hey you guys want to do

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a 20k run with me and they were like they were they were keen but just kind of a bit funny for

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them because um you know I haven't done that type of thing and my brother had done you know he just

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did an over 20k run just that week on the way to Christmas it's just like a little thing you know

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just for fun he was prepping for a 60 kilometer mountain run and I was like okay guys would you

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do this with me so they said yes so I start doing this run so it was a big deal right this is and

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you guys might have this on your goal so this was in terms of that you know stewarding success

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it was kind of coming down because I had this goal I really wanted to do it and it's both this

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was both an achievement based success moment and a lifestyle based success thing because I really

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wanted to have I want that fitness as a part of my lifestyle and all that comes with that I want

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that as a part of my lifestyle so it's achievement based success and lifestyle based success kind of

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mingled together and then I've also got like this is my one chance because I knew that if

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if I wanted any chance of doing this like having my brother and my brother-in-law around me who

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have got the psychology around me would give me a strategic advantage and I needed every advantage

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possible because I wasn't fit enough I hadn't trained I've done anything for this so they said

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yes so we did it we left it I don't know I think we got up at like I got up at half past four or

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something on the uh I think it was new year's what the boxing day I think was the day after Christmas

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um boxing day or the day after boxing day and so we started out on this run

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it didn't start out very good I think I had three I had to make three trips four trips to the toilet

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before we by the time we're ready and like there's only three kilometers and uh fortunately I staged

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it out so that you know like in the very first section I knew where there was a bunch of toilets

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so I had to uh I had to steward the facilities well and I was like man this is not going this

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is not going great to start out but anyway I cleared the system out and uh and then I was

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starting to go and then um it was going right but then one of my foot my I think one of my feet I

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think my left foot is slightly bigger than my right foot and so I started getting pins and

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needles in my foot and I was doing everything I could to kind of open my shoe up and I was like

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oh man like my foot was going numb like ah but after the first 10 kilometers I'm just kind of

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pressing through it it kind of came right and then the next five k's was kind of going all right five

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k's was great and then at five k's in we were in a different city to where we live but then we saw

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some really good friends of ours from our hometown we're like oh my gosh hello and we stopped and

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chatted with him for a moment because it was a big deal to see these guys but then after that my

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body started wanting to shut down it's like oh no like we should not have stopped but we couldn't

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we could just couldn't go past these guys because they were such good friends so we had to make a

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big deal and say hello but then my body was just like oh no you shouldn't have stopped it was like

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oh it was winding down and shutting down I was like ah then so what I couldn't what I realized

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was I couldn't sustain the intensity my body was literally going to give up so but then I had this

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like yay jesus bright moment I was like actually I can't sustain this intensity

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but I can keep going if I reduce the intensity so I just reduced the intensity

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and I I changed into sloth mode and I was like

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the slow motion sloth mode just keep one foot in front of the other but um but I made it I got

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there I got the goal I was totally wasted but I actually thought I did the 20 k's in 2020

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the furthest I've ever run in my life and um and actually got there

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wasn't the most tragic timing ever.

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But I got there, and two of the things,

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the two big things that got me there,

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one was the mindsets, having been surrounded

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by the psychology of others who knew they could do it.

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So that's a real big deal of who you are gonna be around.

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You know, those mindsets that you're gonna be around

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are gonna be a big deal around,

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in terms of if you can make it or break it.

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So, you know, Elise, for example,

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you're talking about how success has been a real barrier,

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has been a real struggle.

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But, you know, ask yourself, who have you been around?

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Have you been around people

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who push the envelope for success?

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Or are you experiencing, are you coming around,

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are you finding you're around mindsets right now

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who are more passionate than other people have been?

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Or is there a, just in terms of mindsets,

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do you feel like right now in your life

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you're encountering some new mindsets

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that are challenging you to go further,

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to dream bigger, to run harder?

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How would you say that is for you, Elise?

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You're asking me?

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Yeah.

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Well, in this group, I've seen,

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I mean, I've seen you and I've seen a lot of the team members

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and I'm like, wow, I'm not walking there.

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And that is very inspirational and very, you know, inspiring.

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But my husband is strong.

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He's taken the spiritual lead.

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But in our church, we are kind of leaders.

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And yeah, so we are not official, yeah.

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The church is a bit traditional,

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not traditional in this traditional sense.

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It's a community church,

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but there's a lot of things that's lacking.

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And I find more spiritual food in this group than in church.

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But it wasn't like that in the past in South Africa.

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So I miss that strong people around me.

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Yeah.

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So you're definitely feeling that benefit of mindsets

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and people around you that are helpful.

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And then another cool thing,

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I was running with a little bag,

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like it didn't really have much in it as well,

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like a couple of musibar, you know, in my phone,

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nothing really, nothing very heavy.

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But one of my brothers took that, you know,

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just took that little, just that little burden away,

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just because I was, you know,

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I was running there with someone else.

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He's like, oh, hey, I'll just take your little bag.

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And it wasn't, you know, there was really not much in it,

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but it was just, it was a psychological boost.

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It was a slight, a slight change.

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It was, you know, it didn't even weigh a kilogram,

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you know, it was probably 600 grams.

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So it wasn't like it was a heavy thing,

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but it was just encouragement.

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Encouragement, that little thing

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was just such a boost of encouragement,

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just helped me to keep going.

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And for example, you know,

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all the stories of the failures that everyone's found,

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you know, who's found that that's been like,

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reading those has actually been so,

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actually there's been a little boost from every single one.

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There's been a little inspiration.

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There's been a little encouragement from everyone.

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It's been really good, eh?

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Yeah.

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And so I guess what I'm saying is,

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what I'm saying is, next week, let's take a break,

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just to reduce the intensity,

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because there's no pressure.

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We're under no pressure in terms of a finished date.

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You know, there's no urgency.

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We're not strict on that.

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We can just share the journey.

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So we'll just take a break,

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and then the following week we'll get back into week four.

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Yeah.

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Cool, open mic.

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Who else wants to chuck something else in?

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Hey, yes, hand goes up, quick.

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The thing for me in all of this is time management, really.

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I really need some help with time management.

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Everything else, well, apart from getting my head

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round all the tech, I'm emailing support ever such a lot.

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They're amazing, and they're helping me a lot.

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But yeah, it's a time thing for me,

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that I've got so much that I want to be doing,

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and so much in my heart that is burning.

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And I do ask Holy Spirit to help me prioritise,

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and I've always made to-do lists.

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I think now I need a not-to-do list.

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Interestingly enough, that will be coming up soon, too.

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But did you see the balance sheet

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at the bottom of the week three template?

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Sorry, what?

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What was that?

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Did I see the balance sheet at the bottom of the week three template?

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Who saw that? Yeah, I've actually done it.

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I finished it this for the first time.

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I think I finished it.

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I was determined to get it done quickly this time.

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So. Yeah.

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So I am kind of working on that one.

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And I tend to try and fit in more than I can possibly do, I suppose.

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Yeah. Which

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which just means sometimes that,

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you know, that this thing is that it's balance.

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You know, it is balance, and that's the whole dynamic

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of this week of just discussing success,

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because, you know, we looked at the achievement

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by success guys who got a way out of whack.

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You know, there's some pretty crazy stories.

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They write like Tiger Woods.

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How crazy is that?

454
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I don't know how he had time for both when he was having so many fears.

455
00:36:13.680 --> 00:36:18.600
On average, he admitted to having at least 120 different women

456
00:36:18.960 --> 00:36:21.160
during their five year marriage.

457
00:36:21.320 --> 00:36:22.360
That's a lot of time.

458
00:36:22.360 --> 00:36:27.840
That's a time commitment that on average is one new affair every two weeks.

459
00:36:29.280 --> 00:36:33.160
You know, as well, as well as sleeping with his wife, you know,

460
00:36:34.200 --> 00:36:37.680
and that's and that's assuming that he only had, you know,

461
00:36:37.720 --> 00:36:41.400
and assuming he only had sex with each affair one time.

462
00:36:41.960 --> 00:36:44.640
That's still a commitment once every fortnight.

463
00:36:44.640 --> 00:36:48.160
Yeah, but no doubt the addiction level

464
00:36:48.560 --> 00:36:53.920
that that was, it was probably much more like five times a week.

465
00:36:55.320 --> 00:37:00.400
That's you know, so he's got a I'm like, how did he play any golf?

466
00:37:04.160 --> 00:37:05.160
He was already busy.

467
00:37:05.160 --> 00:37:07.320
He already had full time occupation.

468
00:37:07.320 --> 00:37:09.280
It's amazing that he fitted any golf in there.

469
00:37:12.160 --> 00:37:14.520
I suppose he had loads of opportunities.

470
00:37:14.520 --> 00:37:16.920
I suppose there were lots of ladies

471
00:37:16.920 --> 00:37:19.000
that were throwing themselves at him anyway.

472
00:37:19.960 --> 00:37:21.840
Big time goes out that much.

473
00:37:21.840 --> 00:37:24.960
I bet they didn't come around to his house. No.

474
00:37:27.960 --> 00:37:28.840
You know, I bet they didn't.

475
00:37:28.840 --> 00:37:30.360
I bet they didn't come out to his house,

476
00:37:30.360 --> 00:37:32.560
and I bet he wasn't just hanging out with them in his bedroom.

477
00:37:33.120 --> 00:37:35.080
You know, that means you have to go out.

478
00:37:35.080 --> 00:37:38.520
Who goes out five times a week?

479
00:37:38.520 --> 00:37:40.960
I wouldn't want to go out.

480
00:37:40.960 --> 00:37:43.000
I hardly ever go out. I love not going out.

481
00:37:43.000 --> 00:37:46.040
I love not going out. I love staying home.

482
00:37:46.360 --> 00:37:47.760
People get excited about going out.

483
00:37:47.760 --> 00:37:50.960
I'm like, yes, I'm staying at home. This is great.

484
00:37:53.880 --> 00:37:56.920
Going out is nice, too, and it's a special occasion,

485
00:37:56.920 --> 00:37:59.640
but like going out five times a week or three times a week,

486
00:37:59.640 --> 00:38:01.400
I'm like, oh, I'd be bored.

487
00:38:01.400 --> 00:38:02.840
I'd be bored of all that going out.

488
00:38:02.840 --> 00:38:04.760
I want to stay home and relax.

489
00:38:06.840 --> 00:38:08.120
Who likes to stay out?

490
00:38:08.120 --> 00:38:11.080
How many times a week do you like to go out?

491
00:38:13.280 --> 00:38:15.440
If you're going out, how many times a week do you like to go out?

492
00:38:16.920 --> 00:38:18.840
Esther likes to go out. Zero.

493
00:38:20.520 --> 00:38:22.600
Bonnie, how many times a week do you want to go out?

494
00:38:24.280 --> 00:38:27.520
Zero. Lorraine and Ron, how often do you like going out?

495
00:38:29.440 --> 00:38:32.120
Twice a week? Once or twice?

496
00:38:32.480 --> 00:38:34.480
Steph? A few times a week?

497
00:38:35.520 --> 00:38:39.040
Elise? Couple?

498
00:38:39.600 --> 00:38:40.200
Indira?

499
00:38:40.560 --> 00:38:42.160
How many times do you like to go out a week?

500
00:38:43.160 --> 00:38:44.160
You don't know?

501
00:38:44.160 --> 00:38:46.160
I have to work, so I have to go out.

502
00:38:47.160 --> 00:38:50.760
But I'm just meaning for social stuff, not just for work, but you know, like.

503
00:38:54.880 --> 00:38:57.720
Maybe two or three times, not much.

504
00:38:57.720 --> 00:39:00.960
Three times a week? Now, Kerry, is that three or zero?

505
00:39:03.280 --> 00:39:06.120
Zero. Zero.

506
00:39:06.120 --> 00:39:07.880
So Kerry doesn't like to go out.

507
00:39:08.680 --> 00:39:10.800
Zero. So Kerry doesn't want to go out.

508
00:39:10.840 --> 00:39:13.120
Patty, how many? Once or twice, you say?

509
00:39:14.320 --> 00:39:18.920
Well, two or three, maybe, depends on which energy I've got left.

510
00:39:20.520 --> 00:39:22.360
Michelle, how often do you want to go out a week?

511
00:39:24.480 --> 00:39:26.840
It depends where you're going out and what you're doing.

512
00:39:26.880 --> 00:39:31.960
I mean, I'd go out every night if I could, but that's because I'm just a sociable person.

513
00:39:32.840 --> 00:39:33.800
That's right. Here we go.

514
00:39:33.800 --> 00:39:36.000
All party. That's good. That's good.

515
00:39:36.000 --> 00:39:37.400
Hey, and that's important.

516
00:39:37.400 --> 00:39:42.120
That's why it's good to define success for yourself, right?

517
00:39:42.120 --> 00:39:44.080
Because for some people, success is

518
00:39:45.880 --> 00:39:47.720
never having to leave the house.

519
00:39:47.720 --> 00:39:49.800
They're like, ah, this is perfect.

520
00:39:50.280 --> 00:39:54.360
And for others, that is such a miserable existence,

521
00:39:54.560 --> 00:39:57.120
you know, that you just couldn't imagine it.

522
00:39:57.120 --> 00:40:00.040
And then for other people, like the concept of having to go out every.

523
00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:10.080
single night just sounds terrifying. So it kind of depends on me. I'm like an introvert, extrovert,

524
00:40:10.080 --> 00:40:15.200
kind of don't really care where I am. I'm going to get into whatever it is, but drop me in the

525
00:40:15.200 --> 00:40:19.200
wilderness for two weeks and I don't have to speak to anyone and I'm going to be having the time of

526
00:40:19.200 --> 00:40:28.480
my life. I will be, I get into this really epic state of silence that I love and I'll be so happy

527
00:40:28.480 --> 00:40:35.520
not to see a soul, not to talk to anyone and I'll just be in this like silent communion with God

528
00:40:35.520 --> 00:40:40.560
for days on end and I absolutely love it. It's really rare for me to get that nowadays because,

529
00:40:41.120 --> 00:40:45.920
but when I do get it, oh I love silence and I'll be just so happy just to, you know,

530
00:40:45.920 --> 00:40:52.160
be only opening my mouth to eat food or to pray. That's fine with me, but oftentimes when I get

531
00:40:52.160 --> 00:40:57.600
in that state as well, often even my prayer times become very, very quiet. You know, oftentimes like

532
00:40:57.600 --> 00:41:02.160
if I go to a state of prayer and fasting or a time of really seeking the Lord, I set some time aside.

533
00:41:02.160 --> 00:41:07.920
Often instead of getting loud and rowdy in prayer, it actually gets really, really still, which is quite cool.

534
00:41:10.320 --> 00:41:14.000
Solomon, you know, he, the thing that set him apart is he had a listening ear.

535
00:41:20.160 --> 00:41:24.800
How do I balance social media? You drowned in Facebook this week trying to keep up with the

536
00:41:24.800 --> 00:41:29.600
posts and interacting even here on the Sonship Group. Difficult to keep up even though I really

537
00:41:29.600 --> 00:41:37.840
want to. Well, that at the end of the day, it always, you just have to, you have to bring it back

538
00:41:37.840 --> 00:41:44.960
to balance and balance comes back to your definition of success because your definition

539
00:41:44.960 --> 00:41:51.680
of success is going to determine where your priorities are, right? And so for me,

540
00:41:51.680 --> 00:41:59.920
and I've been having this conversation lately as well, like do I, if there's someone that's

541
00:41:59.920 --> 00:42:04.560
hating on some of my comments, right, or some of my posts, say I've got someone who really hates

542
00:42:04.560 --> 00:42:09.680
what I'm doing and they're getting all worked up and calling me all sorts of names or whatever,

543
00:42:09.680 --> 00:42:15.520
how much time am I going to give that person knowing that if I engage with that comment,

544
00:42:16.480 --> 00:42:20.800
the time that I put into that comment is time that I don't give to my children?

545
00:42:21.840 --> 00:42:27.760
So balance, that's why the balance sheet is really important at the bottom of the

546
00:42:27.760 --> 00:42:35.440
stewarding success because, you know, if we were like Tiger Woods, we don't care about our family,

547
00:42:35.440 --> 00:42:39.360
you know, in that sense, you know, like you can neglect your family, like if you, but you know,

548
00:42:41.920 --> 00:42:47.520
you have this, your definition of success and that's why it's important, take that time to

549
00:42:47.520 --> 00:42:52.960
define success for you and not, don't do it in a shallow way, do it in a deep contemplative,

550
00:42:53.520 --> 00:42:57.920
do it as a deep contemplative meditation of how you define success.

551
00:43:00.560 --> 00:43:07.680
Yeah, and then out of that definition of success, yeah, we'll come to next step,

552
00:43:07.680 --> 00:43:12.800
but out of that definition of success, you will have to, you know, you will then have to balance,

553
00:43:12.800 --> 00:43:19.120
okay, so how much time do I put into my kids? How much time do I put into my business? How much time

554
00:43:19.120 --> 00:43:27.200
do I put into my fitness? Yesterday I got up just before 2am and, but I had to have a little nap in

555
00:43:27.200 --> 00:43:37.360
the afternoon to carry on through the day and, you know, what time am I going to finish work? Because

556
00:43:37.360 --> 00:43:42.480
I know that if I work too late, that puts pressure on my marriage, puts pressure on my family.

557
00:43:43.040 --> 00:43:50.640
And so the working late puts pressure on, but the working early doesn't. So I have to figure out

558
00:43:50.640 --> 00:43:55.360
balance, okay, so if I want to do extra work, I kind of have to get up extra early as opposed to

559
00:43:55.360 --> 00:44:00.480
working extra late. Extra late doesn't necessarily work that well, but even this week I've had to do

560
00:44:01.040 --> 00:44:06.080
some extra late. I've had to do some stints. I'm looking forward to the weekend because it's kind

561
00:44:06.080 --> 00:44:11.200
of a bit more of a relax and a chill. I'll still do a couple of things over the weekend, but

562
00:44:11.200 --> 00:44:18.160
it won't be the intensity, you know, it'll be like, ah, get to rest. So those things all

563
00:44:18.160 --> 00:44:24.560
balance out, you know, like balancing workouts and going for runs and doing all those things,

564
00:44:24.560 --> 00:44:31.280
all balancing out. So that balance sheet is so, so critical because if you aren't, and this is

565
00:44:31.280 --> 00:44:38.080
the thing about intentionality with how you're trying to succeed. If you're not intentional,

566
00:44:38.800 --> 00:44:44.800
your life will get out of balance. You know, like the chaos will come if you're out,

567
00:44:44.800 --> 00:44:46.800
if you're not intentional, but Steph, let's go with you.

568
00:44:55.040 --> 00:44:59.840
Sorry, I had to unmute myself. I just hear, I've had.

569
00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:03.440
People will say to me, they say, oh, how are you doing?

570
00:45:03.440 --> 00:45:06.760
And they'll say, I don't know if it's a Kiwi thing,

571
00:45:06.760 --> 00:45:09.160
they'll say, oh, are you busy, are you busy?

572
00:45:09.160 --> 00:45:14.160
And I say now, well, actually, rather than being busy,

573
00:45:15.840 --> 00:45:18.960
I'm trying to be intentional about what I'm doing.

574
00:45:18.960 --> 00:45:23.000
And they go, oh, you can see this look on their face,

575
00:45:23.000 --> 00:45:26.280
like of shock of like, what the heck does that mean?

576
00:45:26.280 --> 00:45:31.280
And people seem to think that like often,

577
00:45:33.240 --> 00:45:37.200
busyness is successful, if that makes any sense.

578
00:45:37.200 --> 00:45:38.600
Yeah, exactly.

579
00:45:38.600 --> 00:45:43.360
Yeah, because my life has, in the last,

580
00:45:43.360 --> 00:45:45.800
or since lockdown, really, last year,

581
00:45:45.800 --> 00:45:49.680
my life is completely different to what it was.

582
00:45:51.240 --> 00:45:54.080
And so I suppose people would say like,

583
00:45:54.080 --> 00:45:57.640
with business and stuff, there was retraining,

584
00:45:57.640 --> 00:46:01.320
I did retraining and stuff and successful, I guess,

585
00:46:01.320 --> 00:46:06.320
in that kind of realm.

586
00:46:06.520 --> 00:46:10.240
But now doing all this, doing the systems for success

587
00:46:10.240 --> 00:46:13.680
is really, what am I trying to say?

588
00:46:13.680 --> 00:46:18.120
I had to really, I guess my dreams and visions

589
00:46:18.120 --> 00:46:20.360
had kind of disappeared.

590
00:46:20.360 --> 00:46:22.440
Like I was a bit, I've been a bit lost.

591
00:46:22.440 --> 00:46:25.720
I didn't know, it was like, oh, Lord,

592
00:46:25.720 --> 00:46:28.640
what am I doing from day to day to day?

593
00:46:28.640 --> 00:46:32.160
So I've gone from being busy

594
00:46:33.880 --> 00:46:36.480
and really stewarding my time,

595
00:46:36.480 --> 00:46:38.360
and yep, I do this, this, and this,

596
00:46:38.360 --> 00:46:43.360
to now that I've got most of my time is nothing,

597
00:46:44.240 --> 00:46:46.040
if you want to put it that way.

598
00:46:46.040 --> 00:46:49.040
I'm still seeing clients with massage in the biofields

599
00:46:49.040 --> 00:46:52.880
and spending more time with my daughter

600
00:46:52.880 --> 00:46:54.920
and my grandchildren and stuff like that.

601
00:46:56.560 --> 00:46:58.760
And I'm caretaker at the center that I live at,

602
00:46:58.760 --> 00:47:00.480
so I can potter around in the garden

603
00:47:00.480 --> 00:47:01.320
and do stuff like that.

604
00:47:01.320 --> 00:47:05.440
But my life is so completely different.

605
00:47:05.440 --> 00:47:10.440
So it's that whole giant of distraction is like,

606
00:47:11.080 --> 00:47:13.120
when we did that part, it was like,

607
00:47:13.120 --> 00:47:17.160
it was like, I felt like it was a real slap in the face,

608
00:47:17.160 --> 00:47:21.800
like, oh my gosh, that's really going on in my life.

609
00:47:21.800 --> 00:47:25.960
So it's having the discipline to do these things

610
00:47:27.080 --> 00:47:30.560
and to do this, like the stewarding and all of that stuff.

611
00:47:32.680 --> 00:47:35.040
So it's kind of opposite for me.

612
00:47:35.040 --> 00:47:39.560
It's like I can be easily distracted of doing nothing.

613
00:47:39.560 --> 00:47:43.520
Yeah, so my life's very, very different to what it was.

614
00:47:43.560 --> 00:47:47.280
So it's like flipped on its end, if that makes any sense.

615
00:47:47.280 --> 00:47:48.800
Yeah, very good, very good.

616
00:47:50.840 --> 00:47:52.440
Couple of thoughts come to mind,

617
00:47:55.080 --> 00:47:57.680
not exactly on track, but just reminded me of this,

618
00:47:57.680 --> 00:48:00.960
that a salary is the price they pay you

619
00:48:00.960 --> 00:48:02.240
to forget your dreams.

620
00:48:04.400 --> 00:48:06.680
And sometimes survival, right?

621
00:48:06.680 --> 00:48:11.680
Survival, the need for survival gives you some type of perk.

622
00:48:13.760 --> 00:48:15.720
There's some type of perk for survival.

623
00:48:17.320 --> 00:48:19.680
And that perk, that prize, whatever it is,

624
00:48:20.640 --> 00:48:23.800
that thing that we start chasing in our day job

625
00:48:23.800 --> 00:48:27.360
or in our business, that thing that we're chasing

626
00:48:27.360 --> 00:48:32.360
that gives us a little perk that just enables us to survive,

627
00:48:32.520 --> 00:48:36.640
that perk is the thing that actually

628
00:48:36.640 --> 00:48:38.280
causes us to forget our dreams.

629
00:48:39.280 --> 00:48:42.880
You know, you're so busy chasing this thing

630
00:48:42.880 --> 00:48:44.880
that enables you to survive,

631
00:48:44.880 --> 00:48:48.720
that you forget about why you're really here.

632
00:48:48.720 --> 00:48:50.640
Yeah, that's right.

633
00:48:50.640 --> 00:48:53.440
And then another thing with busyness is I think that,

634
00:48:54.840 --> 00:48:58.800
I think that people who value being busy

635
00:48:58.800 --> 00:49:01.640
more often unsuccessful people

636
00:49:01.640 --> 00:49:05.360
trying to justify their own failures.

637
00:49:06.240 --> 00:49:08.600
Yeah, like busyness is such a justification.

638
00:49:08.600 --> 00:49:09.440
Oh, have you done this?

639
00:49:09.440 --> 00:49:10.760
I've been busy.

640
00:49:10.760 --> 00:49:11.600
Busy doing what?

641
00:49:11.600 --> 00:49:12.440
If you actually question the middle,

642
00:49:12.440 --> 00:49:14.840
like what have you actually been doing?

643
00:49:14.840 --> 00:49:17.320
I've actually been mucking around and being distracted,

644
00:49:17.320 --> 00:49:19.680
but I'm just calling it busy to justify the fact

645
00:49:19.680 --> 00:49:20.840
that I have wasted my life.

646
00:49:20.840 --> 00:49:22.520
And so I don't feel as bad as I do.

647
00:49:22.520 --> 00:49:24.880
So I feel pretty bad, but realistically,

648
00:49:24.880 --> 00:49:27.080
if I was to actually take ownership of my life

649
00:49:27.080 --> 00:49:28.840
and what I'm actually doing, I would feel terrible.

650
00:49:28.840 --> 00:49:30.800
So let's just say I've been busy.

651
00:49:31.240 --> 00:49:34.280
We can chase busyness and chase distractions

652
00:49:34.280 --> 00:49:37.480
because they are a justification.

653
00:49:37.480 --> 00:49:39.320
It's a really narcissistic place to be,

654
00:49:39.320 --> 00:49:42.360
but that busyness and those distractions

655
00:49:42.360 --> 00:49:47.360
enable people to justify your own failed existence

656
00:49:47.400 --> 00:49:49.400
in a way of saying it.

657
00:49:50.520 --> 00:49:51.880
Because there's so many people,

658
00:49:51.880 --> 00:49:54.360
there's things that they want to do in their life,

659
00:49:54.360 --> 00:49:56.360
but they don't have the time to do it.

660
00:49:56.360 --> 00:49:58.560
And so I think that's a really good point.

661
00:50:00.000 --> 00:50:01.840
they all say, they say to me,

662
00:50:01.840 --> 00:50:03.200
oh, I'm too busy to do that.

663
00:50:03.200 --> 00:50:05.960
Or, oh, I'm too busy to do an online course.

664
00:50:05.960 --> 00:50:07.360
And I sometimes I say,

665
00:50:07.360 --> 00:50:09.960
well, what's your favorite program you're watching?

666
00:50:09.960 --> 00:50:12.720
Are you binge watching any series at the moment?

667
00:50:12.720 --> 00:50:17.320
You know, maybe turn the TV off and, you know.

668
00:50:17.320 --> 00:50:18.160
I've watched so much

669
00:50:18.160 --> 00:50:20.840
that Netflix charged me twice this month.

670
00:50:20.840 --> 00:50:23.960
Yeah, that's right, that's right.

671
00:50:23.960 --> 00:50:25.800
Yeah, yeah.

672
00:50:25.800 --> 00:50:28.080
Yeah, exactly, exactly.

673
00:50:28.080 --> 00:50:32.400
And the real issue is that people don't take ownership

674
00:50:34.600 --> 00:50:35.840
and justify.

675
00:50:37.680 --> 00:50:40.480
And the same, we have to be really careful here too,

676
00:50:40.480 --> 00:50:43.040
that when we're looking at the balance sheet,

677
00:50:43.040 --> 00:50:44.560
that we're not justifying.

678
00:50:44.560 --> 00:50:47.040
You know, actually you have to take real extreme ownership

679
00:50:47.040 --> 00:50:49.240
of, oh, are you overwhelmed this week?

680
00:50:49.240 --> 00:50:50.440
Well, that's your fault.

681
00:50:51.720 --> 00:50:54.920
Okay, that's your responsibility

682
00:50:54.920 --> 00:50:57.280
of whether you're overwhelmed this week or not,

683
00:50:57.280 --> 00:50:59.760
because you are the powerful person

684
00:50:59.760 --> 00:51:02.800
that gets to choose what you do and what you don't do.

685
00:51:02.800 --> 00:51:05.120
And that ultimately has to come back down

686
00:51:05.120 --> 00:51:06.520
to what your priorities are.

687
00:51:08.000 --> 00:51:10.920
And are you acting in alignment with your priorities?

688
00:51:10.920 --> 00:51:12.200
And your priority this week

689
00:51:12.200 --> 00:51:14.600
might be different to your priority next week,

690
00:51:14.600 --> 00:51:16.600
but you have to really identify what your priority is.

691
00:51:16.600 --> 00:51:19.320
Like, this fella over here

692
00:51:21.400 --> 00:51:23.560
has got my priorities for the week.

693
00:51:23.560 --> 00:51:25.160
You know, where my time has to go,

694
00:51:25.160 --> 00:51:27.320
what's urgent, what needs to be done?

695
00:51:27.320 --> 00:51:28.720
Well, it's all right there.

696
00:51:31.040 --> 00:51:33.440
And that's where your intentionality comes out,

697
00:51:33.440 --> 00:51:35.320
to-do lists, not to-do lists.

698
00:51:35.320 --> 00:51:38.480
Like, this is where I'm gonna spend my time.

699
00:51:38.480 --> 00:51:40.280
And then looking at the priorities

700
00:51:40.280 --> 00:51:41.480
and looking at the time

701
00:51:41.480 --> 00:51:44.240
and realizing most of the time there's not enough time.

702
00:51:45.280 --> 00:51:49.280
So how am I going to resolve that dilemma?

703
00:51:49.280 --> 00:51:53.640
Well, it might be that I'm gonna have to get up early

704
00:51:53.640 --> 00:51:57.640
a couple of times this week so that I can expand my time.

705
00:51:57.640 --> 00:52:00.720
Or it might be I'm gonna have to cut something out

706
00:52:01.800 --> 00:52:04.680
in order to prioritize the priorities.

707
00:52:04.680 --> 00:52:06.600
But it's that thing of getting balance

708
00:52:06.600 --> 00:52:10.800
and not being, you know, not justifying.

709
00:52:14.960 --> 00:52:15.800
Does that make sense?

710
00:52:15.800 --> 00:52:19.960
Who feels like we can easily fall into that trap

711
00:52:20.000 --> 00:52:21.520
of justifying

712
00:52:23.120 --> 00:52:28.120
when really the real issue is

713
00:52:29.080 --> 00:52:30.640
that we haven't prioritized,

714
00:52:30.640 --> 00:52:32.440
or we haven't been intentional,

715
00:52:32.440 --> 00:52:33.880
or we haven't actually thought this through,

716
00:52:33.880 --> 00:52:35.360
or we actually did get distracted,

717
00:52:35.360 --> 00:52:37.400
or we actually did just waste an hour

718
00:52:37.400 --> 00:52:41.600
on this dumb thing that we weren't supposed to be doing

719
00:52:41.600 --> 00:52:45.000
that has now put even more pressure on our priorities.

720
00:52:45.000 --> 00:52:48.200
And now we just blame something else

721
00:52:48.200 --> 00:52:51.320
for the fact that really we were distracted.

722
00:52:51.320 --> 00:52:54.120
And that's the real reason why we're not living our dreams.

723
00:52:54.120 --> 00:52:55.880
But you can imagine doing that.

724
00:52:55.880 --> 00:53:00.720
You imagine the price of that distraction as a lifestyle.

725
00:53:00.720 --> 00:53:03.200
Imagine, you know, how much time is wasted over a week,

726
00:53:03.200 --> 00:53:05.920
over a year, over 10 years.

727
00:53:05.920 --> 00:53:08.760
Well, that time over 10 years is the difference

728
00:53:08.760 --> 00:53:11.160
between whether you live your dreams or not.

729
00:53:12.080 --> 00:53:15.400
Yeah, and so that attitude of justifying

730
00:53:15.400 --> 00:53:18.200
that half an hour distraction here and there,

731
00:53:18.200 --> 00:53:19.960
that one thing is the one thing

732
00:53:19.960 --> 00:53:22.920
that's actually costing us our wildest dreams.

733
00:53:22.920 --> 00:53:25.000
And we don't even realize the price that it's paying

734
00:53:25.000 --> 00:53:27.680
because we're not seeing it in perspective of,

735
00:53:27.680 --> 00:53:29.000
actually, over 10 years,

736
00:53:29.000 --> 00:53:31.200
this is gonna cost me my wildest dreams.

737
00:53:32.840 --> 00:53:35.360
But in the moment, we justify it.

738
00:53:35.360 --> 00:53:36.240
Yeah, oh yeah, it's okay.

739
00:53:36.240 --> 00:53:38.520
And then the next day we, ah, it's okay.

740
00:53:38.520 --> 00:53:40.200
And then again, and again, and again, and again.

741
00:53:40.200 --> 00:53:42.920
But over 10 years, the real price we pay is,

742
00:53:43.800 --> 00:53:47.640
if that half an hour had been put into something intentional

743
00:53:47.640 --> 00:53:48.760
would have been the difference

744
00:53:48.760 --> 00:53:50.920
between me living my wildest dreams or not.

745
00:53:58.200 --> 00:54:00.840
I see Ron nodding his head.

746
00:54:06.080 --> 00:54:10.160
Yeah, I so much appreciate this group and you, Benji.

747
00:54:11.160 --> 00:54:14.160
I'm a contractor and I prided my site,

748
00:54:17.720 --> 00:54:20.440
so much on the fact that I had a lot of work

749
00:54:20.440 --> 00:54:22.040
and I was busy, busy, busy.

750
00:54:22.040 --> 00:54:24.720
And it's like, how are you doing?

751
00:54:24.720 --> 00:54:26.240
I'm really, really busy.

752
00:54:26.240 --> 00:54:31.240
And I determined being successful is being so busy

753
00:54:33.040 --> 00:54:34.320
and having lots of work.

754
00:54:34.320 --> 00:54:37.680
And it's like, man, I could work 12 to 16 hours a day

755
00:54:37.680 --> 00:54:38.680
and go, go, go.

756
00:54:38.960 --> 00:54:42.320
But was I really fulfilling my dreams?

757
00:54:42.320 --> 00:54:44.280
No, not at all.

758
00:54:44.280 --> 00:54:46.760
I knew there was so much more,

759
00:54:46.760 --> 00:54:51.760
but I was so busy focusing on being successful in work

760
00:54:52.160 --> 00:54:54.560
and accomplishing this.

761
00:54:54.560 --> 00:54:57.560
And it's almost like by the grace of God,

762
00:54:57.560 --> 00:55:00.160
this whole COVID thing came about.

763
00:55:00.000 --> 00:55:01.760
I went, thank you, Lord.

764
00:55:01.760 --> 00:55:04.560
Cause it just put the brakes on so much.

765
00:55:05.480 --> 00:55:07.040
And then it was like, okay, now what?

766
00:55:08.000 --> 00:55:11.680
And it was like, now you have a lot of free time and it's like, I got to stay busy.

767
00:55:11.680 --> 00:55:12.600
I got to stay busy.

768
00:55:13.640 --> 00:55:18.040
And you know, when we went through your, your, your thing about achievement

769
00:55:18.040 --> 00:55:23.480
based success and lifestyle based success, it just opened up a lot of like, like

770
00:55:23.480 --> 00:55:24.840
it's like the lights turned on.

771
00:55:24.840 --> 00:55:25.160
Right.

772
00:55:25.200 --> 00:55:27.480
And it's like, so now what?

773
00:55:27.840 --> 00:55:30.640
And it's like, and now I want to be intentional.

774
00:55:31.040 --> 00:55:32.360
I want to take the time.

775
00:55:32.400 --> 00:55:38.640
I want to change my mindset and, and go after the things that I know God has for

776
00:55:38.640 --> 00:55:39.000
me.

777
00:55:39.520 --> 00:55:43.280
And it's like, and it was almost like he was saying, well, when are you going to

778
00:55:43.280 --> 00:55:45.760
finally step into what I have for you?

779
00:55:45.760 --> 00:55:49.720
Because there'd be so many promises spoken over our lives over where we're in

780
00:55:49.720 --> 00:55:53.600
and I, and it's like, when are we going to actually step into it?

781
00:55:54.320 --> 00:55:55.600
Well, we're just too busy.

782
00:55:56.240 --> 00:56:02.720
And, and now it's like, we're even taking this next week off and we just want to

783
00:56:02.720 --> 00:56:05.520
hunker down in, in, in all of this.

784
00:56:05.520 --> 00:56:12.000
And, and, and it's like when you said that the, the concept or the idea of

785
00:56:12.000 --> 00:56:13.320
success is shalom.

786
00:56:13.320 --> 00:56:18.840
And it's like, when you describe shalom, it's like, it's like, I want to stop

787
00:56:18.920 --> 00:56:26.600
rest in him, rest in, hear from him and, and just download what the father has for

788
00:56:26.600 --> 00:56:34.960
us and then change my mindset and change my priorities and reboot for this new

789
00:56:34.960 --> 00:56:36.640
season we're walking into.

790
00:56:37.120 --> 00:56:40.960
And Lorraine just found out yesterday, the day before that, you know, like, you

791
00:56:40.960 --> 00:56:44.280
know, her work, it's like, you know what, there's not going to be any work for the

792
00:56:44.280 --> 00:56:45.680
rest of the year, right?

793
00:56:45.680 --> 00:56:48.320
You're getting paid, but there's no work.

794
00:56:48.320 --> 00:56:55.400
So it's basically, yeah, it's, it's an incredible position.

795
00:56:56.240 --> 00:56:57.400
So what are we going to do with that?

796
00:56:58.400 --> 00:57:00.560
Just go on vacation and go fishing.

797
00:57:00.760 --> 00:57:06.280
Yeah, that's maybe one day, but, but my priorities are, I want to change my

798
00:57:06.280 --> 00:57:13.560
mindset and be intentional and, and achieve the goals that God has for me.

799
00:57:14.200 --> 00:57:17.200
And so we're actually taking the week off.

800
00:57:17.480 --> 00:57:22.480
We're going up to the mountains, the place, and, and we weren't able to use

801
00:57:22.480 --> 00:57:24.560
it because of the restrictions.

802
00:57:24.560 --> 00:57:26.080
Now there was a door open.

803
00:57:26.120 --> 00:57:29.400
We're going to go, we're taking all this.

804
00:57:29.400 --> 00:57:32.800
We're going to finally catch up.

805
00:57:32.800 --> 00:57:33.720
That's why we're happy.

806
00:57:33.720 --> 00:57:35.280
Oh, we get to catch up next week.

807
00:57:35.280 --> 00:57:43.080
We get to, you know, so yeah, so, so, but, but lining up with people that

808
00:57:43.080 --> 00:57:50.240
are intentional that want this mindset, you know, change, it's very exciting.

809
00:57:50.280 --> 00:57:57.080
And, and to link up with people that, that, uh, you know, that,

810
00:57:57.080 --> 00:57:58.520
that are on the same page.

811
00:57:58.560 --> 00:58:03.000
And, and so I feel very, very blessed to be a part of this.

812
00:58:03.040 --> 00:58:04.200
You have no idea.

813
00:58:04.320 --> 00:58:05.360
It's incredible.

814
00:58:06.360 --> 00:58:07.120
That is awesome.

815
00:58:07.880 --> 00:58:08.800
Yeah, me too.

816
00:58:09.800 --> 00:58:11.320
Well, that is great news.

817
00:58:11.360 --> 00:58:12.000
Great news.

818
00:58:12.000 --> 00:58:12.160
Right.

819
00:58:12.160 --> 00:58:13.840
Who else wants to jump in on the open mic?

820
00:58:14.600 --> 00:58:20.440
Um, and share because, um, just again, being time sensitive of everyone's

821
00:58:20.440 --> 00:58:30.760
priorities, we won't drag it out today, but, um, uh, Oh yeah.

822
00:58:30.760 --> 00:58:36.880
So if you've got, um, if you've got, yeah, anything you want to say, then just

823
00:58:36.880 --> 00:58:39.040
yeah, anything you want to say, then just do it.

824
00:58:48.640 --> 00:58:50.040
Kerry, go for it.

825
00:58:52.560 --> 00:58:52.920
Yeah.

826
00:58:54.600 --> 00:58:55.400
Uh, sorry.

827
00:58:55.400 --> 00:58:58.720
I had the internet connection, so I had to switch between the devices.

828
00:58:59.080 --> 00:58:59.800
Uh, no problem.

829
00:58:59.800 --> 00:59:01.160
No, thanks for allowing me.

830
00:59:01.720 --> 00:59:02.400
Yeah, welcome.

831
00:59:05.640 --> 00:59:05.920
Yeah.

832
00:59:05.920 --> 00:59:06.440
Kerry.

833
00:59:06.880 --> 00:59:07.800
Kerry, what's happening?

834
00:59:10.520 --> 00:59:13.920
Um, Kerry farms, alligators, and she'd like to tell you guys all about it.

835
00:59:13.920 --> 00:59:17.200
She's, uh, she's got some exciting things happening with the alligators.

836
00:59:17.200 --> 00:59:19.520
Kerry, why don't you tell us about your alligators that you're farming?

837
00:59:20.720 --> 00:59:21.880
My alligator farm.

838
00:59:22.240 --> 00:59:22.600
Yeah.

839
00:59:22.720 --> 00:59:23.320
Tell us about it.

840
00:59:23.960 --> 00:59:28.200
Well, there's lots of crocodiles in Australia, but I've moved out of that area.

841
00:59:28.760 --> 00:59:31.840
Um, I wouldn't like to wrestle with one.

842
00:59:31.840 --> 00:59:32.760
That's for sure.

843
00:59:33.200 --> 00:59:34.040
You would like to?

844
00:59:34.600 --> 00:59:43.360
No, it would be a horrible demise, but just, just, um,

845
00:59:43.360 --> 00:59:44.280
I was talking about that, guys.

846
00:59:44.280 --> 00:59:45.640
She does not have an alligator farm.

847
00:59:45.640 --> 00:59:47.240
They don't have alligators in Australia.

848
00:59:48.240 --> 00:59:49.720
No, we don't have alligators.

849
00:59:49.960 --> 00:59:51.720
We have crocodiles.

850
00:59:52.880 --> 00:59:54.520
Big saltwater crocs.

851
00:59:54.520 --> 00:59:55.520
Nasty things.

852
00:59:56.440 --> 00:59:56.720
Yeah.

853
00:59:56.720 --> 00:59:59.480
Nasty things, quite like, um.

854
01:00:00.000 --> 01:00:01.800
15 foot long.

855
01:00:01.800 --> 01:00:04.360
Oh, some are huge up here.

856
01:00:04.360 --> 01:00:09.360
Even bigger, longer, 20,000 leagues under the sea stuff.

857
01:00:10.760 --> 01:00:14.760
So how I've been feeling is,

858
01:00:14.760 --> 01:00:19.760
because I never really defined my failures as failures,

859
01:00:19.960 --> 01:00:24.480
that was difficult to adjust to that.

860
01:00:24.480 --> 01:00:29.480
And then with coming into trying to define success,

861
01:00:29.480 --> 01:00:32.320
I kind of got caught in the middle of that

862
01:00:32.320 --> 01:00:34.520
and felt a lot of overwhelm,

863
01:00:34.520 --> 01:00:36.680
but I've really been working on balancing

864
01:00:36.680 --> 01:00:38.560
the areas of my life.

865
01:00:39.680 --> 01:00:44.680
So, but at times I haven't wanted to go near,

866
01:00:46.120 --> 01:00:50.240
I've just put my phone away and said, I'm not going there.

867
01:00:50.240 --> 01:00:52.720
And I found it a bit challenging

868
01:00:56.440 --> 01:00:58.280
with the tech side of it,

869
01:00:58.280 --> 01:01:02.280
being frustrated with that, wanting to do so much,

870
01:01:02.280 --> 01:01:04.520
all of that, and really just trying to keep

871
01:01:04.520 --> 01:01:07.920
my own personal stuff happening in the middle.

872
01:01:11.400 --> 01:01:14.560
But yeah, just really, and what I really miss

873
01:01:14.560 --> 01:01:19.000
is the time that I used to be able to spend with God,

874
01:01:19.000 --> 01:01:22.240
just in prayer and meditation and getting a lot of answers.

875
01:01:22.240 --> 01:01:27.240
And now I try to juggle that in between everything as well.

876
01:01:29.280 --> 01:01:32.160
But I've been really enjoying Acts.

877
01:01:32.160 --> 01:01:33.800
Yeah, who's been trapping along

878
01:01:33.800 --> 01:01:35.840
with reading the book of Acts?

879
01:01:35.840 --> 01:01:37.600
It's been great.

880
01:01:37.600 --> 01:01:38.680
Have you enjoyed that?

881
01:01:38.680 --> 01:01:41.080
I've been like, I love that book.

882
01:01:41.080 --> 01:01:42.560
It has been so good.

883
01:01:43.680 --> 01:01:46.760
Who felt, has anyone done today's one?

884
01:01:46.760 --> 01:01:48.320
Yep.

885
01:01:48.320 --> 01:01:50.360
Yeah, okay, well, I just thought that,

886
01:01:50.360 --> 01:01:53.960
that was like so on point for us,

887
01:01:53.960 --> 01:01:57.440
just globally, like where the world is at right now.

888
01:01:58.040 --> 01:02:00.040
Where the world is at right now is so crazy.

889
01:02:00.040 --> 01:02:01.720
And I'll just put this out there.

890
01:02:01.720 --> 01:02:03.400
I know that there's some conversations

891
01:02:03.400 --> 01:02:05.840
that I'm intentionally not having right now,

892
01:02:05.840 --> 01:02:07.840
but it's because we are in the background

893
01:02:07.840 --> 01:02:11.040
building our own platform, right?

894
01:02:11.040 --> 01:02:13.800
We are spending thousands of dollars right now.

895
01:02:13.800 --> 01:02:16.280
I've got a guy full-time working in this area.

896
01:02:16.280 --> 01:02:18.960
We are building our own platform,

897
01:02:18.960 --> 01:02:21.080
and it's gonna be a platform

898
01:02:21.080 --> 01:02:23.520
where we can have any conversation we wanna have.

899
01:02:24.520 --> 01:02:29.520
But right now, for me, the way that social media works

900
01:02:29.760 --> 01:02:32.120
is that social media is a big fat cow,

901
01:02:32.120 --> 01:02:34.840
and I wanna milk it like a big fat cow.

902
01:02:36.520 --> 01:02:38.240
Because if it wasn't for social media,

903
01:02:38.240 --> 01:02:40.880
I wouldn't have been able to connect with any of you.

904
01:02:40.880 --> 01:02:43.680
So for me, social media is how I actually connect,

905
01:02:43.680 --> 01:02:47.000
how we're building a movement of kingdom royalty,

906
01:02:47.000 --> 01:02:48.600
discipling nations through fulfilled dreams.

907
01:02:48.600 --> 01:02:50.920
This is how the movement's starting.

908
01:02:51.160 --> 01:02:54.000
But we're basically connecting with people on social media,

909
01:02:54.000 --> 01:02:57.240
then stepping into creating our own platform,

910
01:02:57.240 --> 01:02:58.920
but it's the pipeline, right?

911
01:02:58.920 --> 01:02:59.760
So it's the pipeline.

912
01:02:59.760 --> 01:03:03.400
So I'm being sensitive and cautious presently

913
01:03:03.400 --> 01:03:06.360
so I can funnel people into our own platform

914
01:03:06.360 --> 01:03:08.400
so that on that new platform,

915
01:03:08.400 --> 01:03:10.560
I'm future-pacing the conversation, right?

916
01:03:10.560 --> 01:03:13.240
Because I know that there's so much

917
01:03:13.240 --> 01:03:14.680
that we wanna say right now,

918
01:03:14.680 --> 01:03:17.560
but if we say everything we wanna say right now,

919
01:03:17.560 --> 01:03:18.680
we won't have a platform.

920
01:03:18.680 --> 01:03:19.960
So in that sense,

921
01:03:20.000 --> 01:03:22.640
if we say everything we wanna say right now,

922
01:03:24.840 --> 01:03:28.440
even what I do say, some stuff gets banned, you know?

923
01:03:29.720 --> 01:03:32.360
But if I say everything that I wanna say now,

924
01:03:32.360 --> 01:03:34.280
we'll cut the pipeline,

925
01:03:34.280 --> 01:03:37.720
which means that we will restrict the flow.

926
01:03:37.720 --> 01:03:39.720
But once we've, like our own platform,

927
01:03:39.720 --> 01:03:42.440
once that goes live in a couple of months,

928
01:03:42.440 --> 01:03:44.040
then we're gonna have a space

929
01:03:44.040 --> 01:03:46.360
that we can have any conversations we like,

930
01:03:46.360 --> 01:03:47.200
which is pretty exciting.

931
01:03:47.200 --> 01:03:48.240
You guys think that's exciting?

932
01:03:48.240 --> 01:03:49.640
That's gonna be fun, right?

933
01:03:51.880 --> 01:03:54.560
Do you guys want me to share like two minutes

934
01:03:54.560 --> 01:03:57.600
on the new platform, like our long-term vision for that?

935
01:03:57.600 --> 01:04:00.120
Of what we're building in the background?

936
01:04:00.120 --> 01:04:02.800
Okay, so what we're building in the background,

937
01:04:02.800 --> 01:04:04.880
what we're gonna do ultimately

938
01:04:04.880 --> 01:04:07.560
is it's gonna be like an entire city

939
01:04:09.920 --> 01:04:10.880
in one platform, right?

940
01:04:10.880 --> 01:04:13.040
So there'll be different levels of access.

941
01:04:13.040 --> 01:04:15.560
So there'll be, so it's a website.

942
01:04:15.560 --> 01:04:16.760
You'll be able to go to that website

943
01:04:16.840 --> 01:04:17.680
and on that website,

944
01:04:17.680 --> 01:04:19.720
you'll be able to see on the surface,

945
01:04:19.720 --> 01:04:21.200
you know, kind of like a bit of stuff.

946
01:04:21.200 --> 01:04:22.920
And then if you create a free account,

947
01:04:22.920 --> 01:04:24.880
you'll get access to a whole lot more stuff.

948
01:04:24.880 --> 01:04:28.880
And then you'll be able to have like a $10 a month

949
01:04:28.880 --> 01:04:31.640
subscription, and then you'll get like access

950
01:04:31.640 --> 01:04:32.480
to a whole lot of stuff.

951
01:04:32.480 --> 01:04:34.560
And then if you're in the inner circle, for example,

952
01:04:34.560 --> 01:04:35.680
it'll go right deep

953
01:04:35.680 --> 01:04:37.440
and you'll get access to nearly everything.

954
01:04:37.440 --> 01:04:38.920
There'll still be a few private rooms

955
01:04:38.920 --> 01:04:41.200
and things like that in there that you can have access to,

956
01:04:41.200 --> 01:04:43.480
but there'll be all sorts of things.

957
01:04:43.480 --> 01:04:47.880
So you imagine like what we're gonna do

958
01:04:47.880 --> 01:04:49.960
is we're gonna create lots of strategic partnerships.

959
01:04:49.960 --> 01:04:52.280
We wanna, one example is we wanna find

960
01:04:52.280 --> 01:04:54.680
the 50 most influential voices

961
01:04:54.680 --> 01:04:56.720
that are really adding huge value

962
01:04:56.720 --> 01:04:58.400
in every sphere of influence.

963
01:04:58.400 --> 01:05:00.440
So a little bit like a Christian network.

964
01:05:00.000 --> 01:05:03.340
in the sense of, okay, what are the 50 most like,

965
01:05:03.340 --> 01:05:07.260
most, 50 voices that we want to hear from the most

966
01:05:07.260 --> 01:05:08.620
in terms of even just entertainment.

967
01:05:08.620 --> 01:05:09.860
We love these movies the most.

968
01:05:09.860 --> 01:05:11.100
We love this entertainment the most.

969
01:05:11.100 --> 01:05:14.340
We love this health information the most.

970
01:05:14.340 --> 01:05:16.520
We love these workouts the most.

971
01:05:16.520 --> 01:05:18.660
We love, we love this.

972
01:05:18.660 --> 01:05:20.940
This is like the preaching, the church side of it.

973
01:05:20.940 --> 01:05:21.780
This is the worship.

974
01:05:21.780 --> 01:05:22.600
This is the entertainment.

975
01:05:22.600 --> 01:05:24.380
This is like, you know, interesting stuff.

976
01:05:24.380 --> 01:05:28.080
And then having like a place as well,

977
01:05:28.080 --> 01:05:30.860
like a whole homeschool dynamic on there as well.

978
01:05:30.860 --> 01:05:35.340
Online education from kids up to university

979
01:05:35.340 --> 01:05:37.100
that actually operate on our platform.

980
01:05:37.100 --> 01:05:39.220
Not necessarily recreating everything,

981
01:05:39.220 --> 01:05:40.580
but we become the platform

982
01:05:40.580 --> 01:05:42.580
where all of this stuff takes place.

983
01:05:42.580 --> 01:05:45.500
There'll also be a market, you know,

984
01:05:45.500 --> 01:05:47.100
where people can have their own shop

985
01:05:47.100 --> 01:05:49.820
and sell their own stuff on the platform.

986
01:05:49.820 --> 01:05:52.380
So it'll be like a big mall.

987
01:05:52.380 --> 01:05:54.060
So if you will go there, it'll be like a big mall.

988
01:05:54.060 --> 01:05:55.020
We'll have counselors.

989
01:05:55.020 --> 01:05:56.740
So any type of counseling you need,

990
01:05:56.740 --> 01:05:58.920
you'll still be able to have counseling there.

991
01:05:58.920 --> 01:06:00.760
If you have a professional service

992
01:06:00.760 --> 01:06:03.240
that you'd like to have this professional service

993
01:06:03.240 --> 01:06:05.720
for other, you know, other kingdom people,

994
01:06:05.720 --> 01:06:07.720
then you can list your professional service

995
01:06:07.720 --> 01:06:08.560
and people can connect

996
01:06:08.560 --> 01:06:10.440
with all these different professional services,

997
01:06:10.440 --> 01:06:12.920
all these things, all these free trainings,

998
01:06:12.920 --> 01:06:15.520
like entertainment, reality TV.

999
01:06:15.520 --> 01:06:18.640
There'll be heaps of stuff all happening on that one site.

1000
01:06:18.640 --> 01:06:20.920
So that's what we're building in the background,

1001
01:06:20.920 --> 01:06:21.760
which is kind of fun.

1002
01:06:21.760 --> 01:06:24.640
And it'll also mean that we won't be restricted

1003
01:06:24.640 --> 01:06:26.560
in the content that we want to bring.

1004
01:06:27.220 --> 01:06:29.060
And it's all being built from the ground up

1005
01:06:29.060 --> 01:06:30.380
by kingdom people.

1006
01:06:30.380 --> 01:06:34.140
So it'll be like completely kingdom.

1007
01:06:34.140 --> 01:06:34.980
We won't be vulnerable.

1008
01:06:34.980 --> 01:06:36.380
We won't be able to get cut off at the knees.

1009
01:06:36.380 --> 01:06:37.540
So that's kind of fun.

1010
01:06:39.100 --> 01:06:42.940
So that'll be a picture for success for us as well

1011
01:06:42.940 --> 01:06:44.540
as we build into that.

1012
01:06:47.180 --> 01:06:48.020
Cool, guys.

1013
01:06:48.020 --> 01:06:49.980
Who's, Gail, good to have you joining us,

1014
01:06:49.980 --> 01:06:51.540
jumping in here with us.

1015
01:06:52.540 --> 01:06:54.660
Who else is keen to just share a little bit

1016
01:06:54.680 --> 01:06:56.880
where they're at and what's been happening?

1017
01:07:11.520 --> 01:07:13.440
Kerry, are you done?

1018
01:07:13.440 --> 01:07:14.280
Yeah.

1019
01:07:16.040 --> 01:07:17.280
Yeah, say something else.

1020
01:07:21.800 --> 01:07:22.760
You have to unmute again.

1021
01:07:22.760 --> 01:07:23.600
I muted you.

1022
01:07:25.480 --> 01:07:26.320
Okay.

1023
01:07:31.520 --> 01:07:33.400
Yeah, you haven't unmuted yet.

1024
01:07:33.400 --> 01:07:35.760
So there you go.

1025
01:07:35.760 --> 01:07:38.200
Okay, got it.

1026
01:07:38.200 --> 01:07:43.200
One thing that has been amazing is I read the thing

1027
01:07:44.200 --> 01:07:48.080
about going into 100X and just getting some friends.

1028
01:07:48.080 --> 01:07:50.760
So that is sort of avalanched.

1029
01:07:50.760 --> 01:07:53.320
And I have got so many friend requests

1030
01:07:53.340 --> 01:07:57.180
and taken on so many friends from everywhere.

1031
01:07:57.180 --> 01:07:59.620
But not only that, I've been connecting one-on-one

1032
01:07:59.620 --> 01:08:02.820
with people, which is, and it's been,

1033
01:08:02.820 --> 01:08:06.100
so it's just been unbelievable.

1034
01:08:06.100 --> 01:08:11.100
And with that as well, lots of people like Pakistan,

1035
01:08:12.880 --> 01:08:17.220
young ladies who are trying to feed the poor,

1036
01:08:17.220 --> 01:08:20.120
lots of stuff like that from all over.

1037
01:08:20.120 --> 01:08:22.220
So it's really been heartwarming as well.

1038
01:08:23.120 --> 01:08:24.359
That's great.

1039
01:08:24.359 --> 01:08:28.960
I get a constant stream of people asking for money

1040
01:08:28.960 --> 01:08:33.880
and things like that more than I can ever reply to.

1041
01:08:33.880 --> 01:08:36.040
So I, especially when you tell people

1042
01:08:36.040 --> 01:08:38.240
you're gonna give away $10,000,

1043
01:08:38.240 --> 01:08:40.200
then they're like, oh, sweet, well,

1044
01:08:40.200 --> 01:08:42.319
yes, you can just do, you can give me whatever

1045
01:08:42.319 --> 01:08:43.359
I ask for as well.

1046
01:08:43.359 --> 01:08:45.359
But I only give people stuff

1047
01:08:45.359 --> 01:08:46.800
in the context of relationship.

1048
01:08:46.800 --> 01:08:50.560
So in social media, you get all sorts of things,

1049
01:08:50.580 --> 01:08:52.540
like some, if you're a single lady,

1050
01:08:52.540 --> 01:08:54.420
you get thousands of guys going,

1051
01:08:54.420 --> 01:08:59.420
hey, I'm the one, we should get together.

1052
01:09:01.260 --> 01:09:04.700
And then you get all sorts of people asking for money,

1053
01:09:04.700 --> 01:09:06.979
you get scammers, you get all sorts of distractions

1054
01:09:06.979 --> 01:09:07.819
and chaos there.

1055
01:09:07.819 --> 01:09:11.380
So again, that's like a space that you have to navigate at.

1056
01:09:11.380 --> 01:09:14.220
And if you feel like you're, it's winning,

1057
01:09:14.220 --> 01:09:17.859
then great work, but it is definitely

1058
01:09:17.859 --> 01:09:19.500
a dynamic space to be in.

1059
01:09:19.520 --> 01:09:20.560
But that's cool to hear, Kiri.

1060
01:09:20.560 --> 01:09:23.279
I'm stoked that you're building connections there.

1061
01:09:23.279 --> 01:09:24.479
Yeah, it's been good.

1062
01:09:24.479 --> 01:09:27.760
And I'm really well-versed in scammers.

1063
01:09:27.760 --> 01:09:31.160
And so I usually pick them from a mile off.

1064
01:09:31.160 --> 01:09:32.439
Yeah, so it's been good.

1065
01:09:32.439 --> 01:09:35.319
It's something that I would never have done.

1066
01:09:35.319 --> 01:09:37.279
Brilliant, that's very cool.

1067
01:09:37.279 --> 01:09:39.240
Gail, how you doing?

1068
01:09:39.240 --> 01:09:40.680
I'm fine.

1069
01:09:40.680 --> 01:09:43.240
I've had an amazing time with Elise.

1070
01:09:43.240 --> 01:09:44.060
Oh, great.

1071
01:09:44.060 --> 01:09:46.319
With Jordan, she, and we've just finished.

1072
01:09:47.140 --> 01:09:49.899
She put me, she got me doing the post, you see,

1073
01:09:49.899 --> 01:09:52.220
and I'm not really, I'm not good on computer,

1074
01:09:52.220 --> 01:09:54.140
but she, I posted a few things

1075
01:09:54.140 --> 01:09:55.820
and I posted one this morning.

1076
01:09:55.820 --> 01:09:57.340
So she helped me.

1077
01:09:57.340 --> 01:09:59.660
And as soon as I post the post,

1078
01:10:00.000 --> 01:10:07.120
at the poverty one, I had all these calls, I had all these messages and so I'm rushing around

1079
01:10:07.120 --> 01:10:13.360
anyway I got hold of Elise and she said this is what you have to do and I thought I actually

1080
01:10:13.360 --> 01:10:18.320
moved them to you Benji because I thought that it should have been you to tell them

1081
01:10:18.960 --> 01:10:25.840
but Elise said to me no, she said this is yours and I went oh my gosh what do I do?

1082
01:10:26.800 --> 01:10:34.640
Anyway I got there and thoroughly loving it I didn't think I would, business I'm not there

1083
01:10:35.680 --> 01:10:41.760
yeah business minded I'm not but I thoroughly enjoyed it this morning with Elise so

1084
01:10:41.760 --> 01:10:47.440
I'm so pleased that she's there and I can turn to her when I need help. That's great great stuff

1085
01:10:48.240 --> 01:10:55.440
so on this whole dynamic of stewarding success and the balance sheet and with everything that's

1086
01:10:55.520 --> 01:11:01.920
happening in your life staying balanced I just want to create open mic again a little bit now

1087
01:11:01.920 --> 01:11:06.320
Patty is your hand up or across I can't tell if your hand is supposed to be up or across no that's

1088
01:11:06.320 --> 01:11:12.320
good I was just checking in case you were trying to get attention but if you've got something

1089
01:11:12.320 --> 01:11:17.840
really keen on your heart to share then go for it otherwise we've had a good chat and we'll wrap it

1090
01:11:17.840 --> 01:11:21.280
up but if there's something that's really on your heart that you want to share about this whole

1091
01:11:21.280 --> 01:11:27.920
process of creating the balance sheet of stewarding success then feel free to jump in now.

1092
01:11:38.320 --> 01:11:42.000
How did you guys what do you guys think about the stories of the different people

1093
01:11:42.720 --> 01:11:49.040
there that you know we shared in the template of that whole dynamic of you know

1094
01:11:49.040 --> 01:11:54.080
sometimes things just get way out of balance in one area. Awesome I loved it.

1095
01:11:56.960 --> 01:12:00.480
Great keep going great very cool very cool.

1096
01:12:08.800 --> 01:12:11.920
Well no one's no one's jumping onto the mic so I think I'm just gonna

1097
01:12:12.560 --> 01:12:18.080
we'll wrap it up there it's been a great chat and and then just we I'll spread the word on

1098
01:12:18.080 --> 01:12:25.040
this but we will take a break next week so that everyone can be caught up and we can just reduce

1099
01:12:25.040 --> 01:12:31.280
the intensity a little bit so that you know it's not too much we want to avoid overwhelm you know

1100
01:12:31.280 --> 01:12:37.280
like if you like when I was on that run I was at the point of overwhelm if I tried to maintain the

1101
01:12:37.280 --> 01:12:43.040
intensity I would I would have had to stop whereas I just reduced the intensity a little bit and I

1102
01:12:43.040 --> 01:12:47.840
mean yes I could finish I could go the whole distance so um well next week we will take a

1103
01:12:47.840 --> 01:12:55.200
break from this in terms of we won't put out new content don't take a break in terms of you know

1104
01:12:55.200 --> 01:13:00.160
catching up and being where you want to be but just in terms of I won't put out new new video

1105
01:13:00.160 --> 01:13:05.360
content next week we'll have a break from the video content so that people can make sure that

1106
01:13:05.360 --> 01:13:10.320
they're really stewarding what they've got and I think that'll be awesome for everyone and then

1107
01:13:10.320 --> 01:13:14.640
we'll we'll pick up again and then we'll have another little break when uh when the time comes

1108
01:13:14.640 --> 01:13:24.800
for me to go hunting stags if we're not on lockdown yeah all right well uh why don't we

1109
01:13:24.800 --> 01:13:28.320
have a couple people who want to pray to wrap it up and that'll be us for today

1110
01:13:28.320 --> 01:13:40.800
okay yes please elise elise and one other who would like to pray

1111
01:13:43.200 --> 01:13:48.320
elise and patty fantastic guys take it away

1112
01:13:48.880 --> 01:14:00.880
oh lord thank you that um we know that you you are a loving father

1113
01:14:02.960 --> 01:14:10.880
and jesus that you come as a friend next to us and your holy spirit is all around us and inside

1114
01:14:10.880 --> 01:14:16.480
of us and encouraging us and comforting us in those areas where we need comfort

1115
01:14:18.720 --> 01:14:24.240
and you speak truth and you remind us of all things and thank you for this community of

1116
01:14:24.240 --> 01:14:30.640
believers lord and i thank you for benji and for his heart and and the team that has come around

1117
01:14:30.640 --> 01:14:40.480
him and we we ask lord that you will take each one of us deeper deeper deeper deeper

1118
01:14:41.040 --> 01:14:47.680
deeper that we would hear your heartbeat that we will be in step with you that we will run

1119
01:14:47.680 --> 01:14:54.080
when you say run that we will stop when you say stop and that we would know that we hear your

1120
01:14:54.080 --> 01:15:02.080
voice that your voice is clear and that your voice is clear

1121
01:15:00.000 --> 01:15:10.080
is that nothing can come against us because we have you who is greater inside of us.

1122
01:15:12.320 --> 01:15:17.280
Your Lord, thank you for that. Thank you for that knowledge. Thank you for that encouragement.

1123
01:15:18.240 --> 01:15:28.240
We honor you. We worship you and we thank you. Amen.

1124
01:15:30.000 --> 01:15:44.320
Father, we praise you and we thank you that you have raised up men and women of

1125
01:15:45.760 --> 01:15:53.760
fire and passion with your desire to see heaven come on earth in very practical ways, Lord.

1126
01:15:54.720 --> 01:16:02.400
Thank you, Father, that you have birthed dreams and visions like the one you put in Benji's heart,

1127
01:16:02.400 --> 01:16:09.040
Lord, which is not just a personal thing that you've called him to do, but that you've called

1128
01:16:09.040 --> 01:16:17.280
him to equip and empower so many others to do it, Lord. I just praise you and I thank you, Lord,

1129
01:16:17.360 --> 01:16:26.720
that this is the day and this is the time and we are the people, Lord God, that we don't need to

1130
01:16:26.720 --> 01:16:35.200
wait for another day and another time because you are stirring the hearts of your people. You are

1131
01:16:35.200 --> 01:16:43.840
telling us we can do it together. We can do it. We can overthrow those giants and dragons of

1132
01:16:43.840 --> 01:16:51.280
darkness. We can see them topple and see your kingdom come on earth as it is in heaven. Your

1133
01:16:51.280 --> 01:17:00.480
kingdom increase of righteousness, peace and joy, of justice and truth, Jesus, that you will be

1134
01:17:00.480 --> 01:17:07.680
crowned king of the whole earth, that you will cause all the nations to come to you through

1135
01:17:08.560 --> 01:17:14.240
this dream and this vision that you've put into Benji's heart, Lord, and other people's hearts.

1136
01:17:15.360 --> 01:17:23.360
Oh, Father, we're so blessed, so privileged, Lord, to be a part of what you are doing now in this day.

1137
01:17:23.360 --> 01:17:30.080
It is truly the best of times and the worst of times, it seems, to be alive, Lord, but we don't

1138
01:17:30.080 --> 01:17:38.000
want to miss anything of what you want to do in each of our lives to see your dream, your desire

1139
01:17:39.040 --> 01:17:47.520
fulfilled and to see Jesus receive the travel of his soul and be satisfied. Thank you, Lord.

1140
01:17:50.240 --> 01:17:56.080
Amen. Great stuff, family. Well, love you very much and for those that are going to be part of

1141
01:17:56.080 --> 01:18:00.720
it, it's going to be a great week next week as well with the Kingdom Economics Masterclass. So

1142
01:18:01.600 --> 01:18:10.240
love you very much to all of you and we'll see you soon. Love you. Bye-bye. Cheers. Bye.