WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:14.560 all right family how are you doing let me put that bad boy down okay so let me 2 00:00:14.560 --> 00:00:22.440 check that that is good okay are you seeing me let me just message you as 3 00:00:22.440 --> 00:00:32.479 well that we are back on here we go 4 00:00:32.720 --> 00:00:37.400 neither how's it going now is that an improvement in any way give me a thumbs 5 00:00:37.400 --> 00:00:41.320 up if that's better 6 00:00:41.320 --> 00:00:54.840 all right so neither can you give me a heads up is that it's an improvement 7 00:00:54.840 --> 00:01:13.680 anyway see you there much better visual okay sweet and audio so I think we 8 00:01:13.680 --> 00:01:18.280 should be we should be we should be good all right give me a thumbs up if that's 9 00:01:18.280 --> 00:01:28.720 working primo we're back in the game now so welcome back I want to welcome you 10 00:01:28.720 --> 00:01:36.320 all it is great to have you here and I want to launch into this session number 11 00:01:36.320 --> 00:01:42.880 two on the processing failure template I want to take a moment to share with you 12 00:01:42.880 --> 00:01:49.160 again I was about to I was about to tell you the story of what happened with my 13 00:01:49.160 --> 00:01:54.920 finger all right so this finger here oh my gosh that's a little bit nasty but 14 00:01:54.920 --> 00:01:59.560 that's what you get okay so that finger there has been completely chopped off 15 00:01:59.560 --> 00:02:04.440 you can see gnarliness so I'm gonna get a little bit vulnerable with you in this 16 00:02:04.440 --> 00:02:11.440 process because hey good to have you all here by the way I see Phil, Dot, Christine 17 00:02:11.440 --> 00:02:18.680 Nita, Bex, Ords, Dot and who else is out there 18 00:02:18.680 --> 00:02:27.960 oh primo so this is better Curie great to see you too Phil my man primo so it 19 00:02:27.960 --> 00:02:36.400 was the very last log of the day the very last log of the day and we were 20 00:02:36.400 --> 00:02:44.240 right here on the church property we're cutting up a bunch of logs and I was 21 00:02:44.240 --> 00:02:47.960 loading the machine I was loading the log splitter so we had a log splitter there 22 00:02:47.960 --> 00:02:54.800 it's on a hydraulic action and just goes and just pulverizes those locks pretty 23 00:02:54.800 --> 00:03:00.920 much no log stands a chance against the log splitter of doom and so while I was 24 00:03:00.920 --> 00:03:04.880 loading the machine one of my friends who was who was working with me is 25 00:03:04.880 --> 00:03:10.080 actually one of our internships internship students he was daydreaming 26 00:03:10.080 --> 00:03:14.800 while he was daydreaming just randomly pulled the lever while I was loading the 27 00:03:14.800 --> 00:03:22.680 machine and released the hydraulic blade of doom which just instantly cut 28 00:03:22.680 --> 00:03:27.560 right through my finger on the very last log of the day we've been working on it 29 00:03:27.560 --> 00:03:35.120 for ages and then boom there it goes ah so cut it cut it off and he like he 30 00:03:35.120 --> 00:03:40.520 wasn't real compassionate at all he was I was a little bit bummed out with the 31 00:03:40.520 --> 00:03:47.080 level of compassion and it was anyway he's like oh oh my gosh so there I was 32 00:03:47.080 --> 00:03:52.600 holding my own finger I'm looking at my bone it's bleeding and I'm like oh my 33 00:03:52.600 --> 00:03:57.360 gosh and I said to him oh can you go and grab the end of my finger and he went 34 00:03:57.360 --> 00:04:01.800 over and have had a bit of a boy look it was a pretty half-hearted attempt by 35 00:04:01.800 --> 00:04:05.880 the way and he's like I can't find it it's the big chunk of finger sitting 36 00:04:05.880 --> 00:04:08.400 over there on the ground somewhere you'll find it and so he went back and 37 00:04:08.400 --> 00:04:15.560 he found this big chunk of my finger I ended up getting raced to well we kind 38 00:04:15.560 --> 00:04:19.480 of did boost round pretty quickly to the medical center and we got to the medical 39 00:04:19.480 --> 00:04:23.200 center they put they injected me right they wanted to put I was like yeah get 40 00:04:23.200 --> 00:04:28.480 some painkilling drugs in me fast they put the needle into my finger but then 41 00:04:28.480 --> 00:04:32.560 they poked the needle right through so I had a needle going right in and right 42 00:04:32.560 --> 00:04:36.080 out and then they started pumping out the drugs and the drugs just dripping 43 00:04:36.080 --> 00:04:39.880 out of the needle and just dripping onto the floor I'm like no I want that in my 44 00:04:39.880 --> 00:04:46.040 blood I want that in my blood anyway then they raced me went down to 45 00:04:46.040 --> 00:04:50.680 Invercargill Hospital didn't really race to be honest we raced down there and 46 00:04:50.680 --> 00:04:56.920 then when we got there it was like in total slow motion so they I was hours 47 00:04:56.920 --> 00:05:01.000 and hours in there and then the next day 48 00:05:00.000 --> 00:05:04.000 it was the next day before they did too much they gave it a little bit of a tidy up the next day i 49 00:05:04.000 --> 00:05:11.840 had this uh surgeon he was from somewhere in like somewhere like eastern europe sounding type accent 50 00:05:11.840 --> 00:05:19.040 and he just did the roughest kind of butchery shop job on my finger that uh i think you'd probably 51 00:05:19.040 --> 00:05:22.720 ever see it was so rugged i was looking at him i was going are you gonna do any trimming with that 52 00:05:22.720 --> 00:05:27.200 and he's like yeah there's just a swelling yeah and i was like whoa dude that's not swelling i 53 00:05:27.200 --> 00:05:34.640 can tell it's like a big lump of flesh so anyway i watched them check this out with um with just a 54 00:05:34.640 --> 00:05:40.880 little bit of anesthetic and i watched them as they cut out my knuckle and flicked it and then 55 00:05:40.880 --> 00:05:45.520 got rid of it so they cut out my knuckle that was remaining there i watched them they cut it out like 56 00:05:46.320 --> 00:05:50.960 out comes the knuckle and they fold it over and boom and actually one gnarly thing is that they 57 00:05:50.960 --> 00:05:55.120 actually left some nail bed in there so this is this is like this is me getting super vulnerable 58 00:05:55.120 --> 00:06:02.800 with you but i've got a tusk that grows grows out there let's see if this will focus there you go oh 59 00:06:05.200 --> 00:06:08.640 that get that autofocus going there so anyway there's a tusk there that little 60 00:06:08.640 --> 00:06:15.680 bit of nail bed that goes up there so all right so now boom into the into the heart 61 00:06:15.680 --> 00:06:21.680 into the meat of what we want to talk about in processing value sometimes you have an experience 62 00:06:21.680 --> 00:06:28.640 right so that was a nasty experience with a log splitter uh you could also say it was a nasty 63 00:06:28.640 --> 00:06:34.800 experience with uh so you know a student or an intern it was there was nasty experiences there 64 00:06:34.800 --> 00:06:38.080 there was a nasty experience with the nurse there's a nasty experience with the doctors 65 00:06:38.080 --> 00:06:42.400 there's no nasty experience with the hospitals uh you could you could take a lot of negative 66 00:06:42.400 --> 00:06:48.160 moments in there in terms of like how you're going to process failure so 67 00:06:48.160 --> 00:06:56.000 so let's focus in on the log splitter right because i live in fjordland where there's a lot 68 00:06:56.720 --> 00:07:05.040 of snow it gets real cold we're not too far from antarctica and it requires we have firewood all 69 00:07:05.040 --> 00:07:12.160 the time so big question did was i after that too afraid to use a wood splitter now 70 00:07:12.960 --> 00:07:17.200 i want to just want you to think about this in the context of your own life we have different 71 00:07:17.200 --> 00:07:22.320 failures that cause different reactions and different responses and the question that i want 72 00:07:22.320 --> 00:07:32.560 to ask us for for all of us right now is have you had a negative experience that is now causing you 73 00:07:32.560 --> 00:07:38.720 in some way to shrink back from life have you had a negative experience that is in 74 00:07:39.360 --> 00:07:46.880 in some way causing you to just restrict yourself or hold back from 75 00:07:49.200 --> 00:07:55.120 living your best life are there risks that you're not taking because of a negative experience you've 76 00:07:55.120 --> 00:08:00.800 had in your past now if i decided that because i had this negative experience with a log splitter 77 00:08:02.080 --> 00:08:06.320 i'm never going to use log splitters again you know i could i could i could do that 78 00:08:07.200 --> 00:08:14.320 but i need i need firewood so i just i didn't but question was here's the question was i afraid 79 00:08:14.320 --> 00:08:20.240 of log splitters after that time the answer actually is yes there was a there was like 80 00:08:20.240 --> 00:08:25.600 something there's kind of like this there's something on the inside of me that had it was 81 00:08:25.600 --> 00:08:31.520 just a little bit nervous around log splitters ever since there's been a little bit of nervousness 82 00:08:31.520 --> 00:08:36.159 in me around log splitters but that hasn't stopped me using them i've gotten comfortable 83 00:08:36.159 --> 00:08:42.320 with them i actually didn't stop me i was straight back in it uh the next firewood season but i love 84 00:08:42.320 --> 00:08:48.480 something i love this thought that fear is not uh sorry courage is not the absence of fear 85 00:08:49.200 --> 00:08:58.160 it's doing something even when you're afraid so is fear is the fear of failure robbing you 86 00:08:58.960 --> 00:09:04.960 from any from taking any actions in your life right now is the fear of failure robbing you 87 00:09:04.960 --> 00:09:10.720 from stepping into any opportunities that might be available to you in your life this is a really 88 00:09:10.720 --> 00:09:15.440 important question so well the probably the big question that i want to focus on for this 89 00:09:15.440 --> 00:09:20.800 particular session is are there any and if you guys have any you just feel free to chuck these 90 00:09:20.880 --> 00:09:27.360 down right now are there any actions in your life that you're not taking right now 91 00:09:28.320 --> 00:09:35.360 because of a fear of failure is fear restricting you from taking some amazing opportunities 92 00:09:36.880 --> 00:09:46.960 i have a great quote from danny silk danny silk says that he has got zero room for fear in his 93 00:09:46.960 --> 00:09:52.640 life he's got zero room for fear in his life he also says he's got zero room for hate in his life 94 00:09:52.640 --> 00:09:58.160 what great quotes what a great mindset but do you have room for fear in your life do you have 95 00:09:58.160 --> 00:09:59.760 a room for a little bit of fear 96 00:10:00.000 --> 00:10:09.440 or a lot of fear, what's your relationship with fear? What is your relationship with fear like? 97 00:10:09.440 --> 00:10:17.520 And have you come to that place where you are allowing fear to restrict you and you're allowing 98 00:10:17.520 --> 00:10:22.880 fear to rob you of your destiny, you're allowing fear to rob you of your calling and rob you of 99 00:10:22.880 --> 00:10:27.280 opportunities and rob you of your best life? I think that's a question that I want us to 100 00:10:27.280 --> 00:10:38.080 really process. Is the fear of failure restricting us in any way? Do you want to be like Danny Silk 101 00:10:38.080 --> 00:10:46.880 or are you like Danny Silk where you have got zero room for fear in your life? Interestingly, 102 00:10:46.880 --> 00:10:56.720 on the topic of fear, the most common command in the Bible, the single most common command 103 00:10:56.800 --> 00:11:06.080 in the Bible is, do not be afraid. There's no command that God gives us more than the command 104 00:11:06.640 --> 00:11:15.520 of do not be afraid. How amazing is that? Do not be afraid. So Joshua 1 verse 6 is a great 105 00:11:15.520 --> 00:11:25.440 example of this where it says, do not be afraid, be strong and courageous for you will lead these 106 00:11:25.440 --> 00:11:33.360 people to inherit the land that I have promised to them. Do not be afraid, be strong and courageous 107 00:11:33.360 --> 00:11:39.840 for you will lead these people to inherit the land that I have promised them. And I want to 108 00:11:39.840 --> 00:11:44.560 say to you, as you're dreaming, as you're thinking about the call of God in your life, as you're 109 00:11:44.560 --> 00:11:48.320 thinking about the Ephesians 3 20 life that you're called to, here's something I want to say to you. 110 00:11:49.280 --> 00:11:56.640 You will lead these people to inherit the land that God has promised them. There is an inheritance 111 00:11:56.640 --> 00:12:01.600 that you're called to break through into. You carry something phenomenal, something beautiful, 112 00:12:01.600 --> 00:12:06.240 something that no one else can carry, something that no one else has access to. You're going to 113 00:12:06.240 --> 00:12:13.040 release a measure of inheritance that no one else is going to release. No one can be you. You're the 114 00:12:13.440 --> 00:12:20.480 only you, you're the best you, and there's an opportunity for you. It's the call of God in 115 00:12:20.480 --> 00:12:26.880 your life. It's the invitation of Jesus Christ to step into your high calling and that high calling 116 00:12:26.880 --> 00:12:34.560 on your life is to lead these people to inherit the land that the Lord has promised them. But 117 00:12:34.560 --> 00:12:38.880 in order to do that, we're going to have to step beyond fear. We're going to have to step beyond 118 00:12:38.880 --> 00:12:48.000 fear. So I just want to ask, is there anywhere that fear is restricting in your life? Because 119 00:12:48.000 --> 00:12:54.800 if it is, it's robbing you or it's robbing me. Wherever there's fear, it robs us of our destiny. 120 00:12:54.800 --> 00:13:00.640 Wherever there's fear, it robs us of that. So I hope you really, really enjoy this template, 121 00:13:00.640 --> 00:13:06.720 and I hope you really enjoy looking as well. In this template, there is a lot of stories, 122 00:13:06.720 --> 00:13:18.480 really awesome stories. There's amazing stories in this template, and these stories talk about 123 00:13:18.480 --> 00:13:25.680 people who have been through failure over and over and over again, like Walt Disney and 124 00:13:27.200 --> 00:13:34.960 Colonel Sanders and Steve Jobs. Some of these phenomenal leaders that have actually shaped the 125 00:13:34.960 --> 00:13:42.000 world that we live in. They've been through failure after failure after failure. One amazing 126 00:13:42.000 --> 00:13:47.120 thing about all these characters is that they did not let failure define them. They didn't let 127 00:13:47.120 --> 00:13:55.280 failure stop them in their tracks. They didn't let the fear of failure bind them up and leave 128 00:13:55.280 --> 00:14:07.360 them restricted from being who they're called to be. So as we just bring this into a close 129 00:14:07.360 --> 00:14:14.160 for the session, as we bring it into a close, I want to ask you to think about this. 130 00:14:14.880 --> 00:14:25.280 Is there an area in your life where the fear of failure has bound you up, has held you back, 131 00:14:26.080 --> 00:14:32.720 and has restricted you from being who you know you're called to be, and doing what you know 132 00:14:32.720 --> 00:14:39.600 you're called to do? The most helpful thing that I ever heard on this whole topic was so beautiful, 133 00:14:39.840 --> 00:14:50.000 so simple, so powerful. 1 John 4.18 says that perfect love casts out all fear. Perfect love 134 00:14:50.000 --> 00:15:02.000 casts out all fear. And the truth, John 4.18 says, is that perfect love casts out all fear. 135 00:15:00.000 --> 00:15:06.640 832. You will know the truth and the truth will set you free. So I want to encourage you, take that 136 00:15:07.520 --> 00:15:13.440 area of your life to Jesus. Do some processing with Him. Take it in there. Maybe get some, 137 00:15:14.160 --> 00:15:17.920 get some help, get some perspective, get some friends, get some encouragement. 138 00:15:18.480 --> 00:15:24.160 You know, the word encouragement, the very core of it, the very core of that word is courage. And 139 00:15:24.160 --> 00:15:30.160 encouragement will impart courage to you in the process of breaking free from failure and 140 00:15:30.160 --> 00:15:34.720 processing failure accurately in a way that you come to understand you're not defined by your 141 00:15:34.720 --> 00:15:40.000 failures. They've got no ability to define you and get free from failures and get into that place 142 00:15:40.000 --> 00:15:45.440 where you can risk again, you can dream again, you can dream big, you can risk big and you can 143 00:15:45.440 --> 00:15:52.080 run into the opportunities and the high calling that Jesus has for you. Love you guys and may 144 00:15:52.080 --> 00:16:00.160 the love of Jesus cast out all fear and have an amazing week. Remember, this week we're doing a 145 00:16:00.160 --> 00:16:06.720 discipline challenge. Okay, so I can see some photos are starting to come into the group about 146 00:16:08.160 --> 00:16:14.400 the disciplines that you're engaging. So why don't you take some photos? I'm aiming to take 21 147 00:16:14.400 --> 00:16:19.280 photos and put them up in the next seven days of disciplines. Three a day is what I'm aiming for. 148 00:16:19.280 --> 00:16:24.880 So I want to challenge you, jump on board with the discipline challenge. We've got the balance 149 00:16:24.880 --> 00:16:30.320 sheet that we've already completed and in that balance sheet it shows 21 different disciplines. 150 00:16:30.320 --> 00:16:37.920 Now I mentioned before in a previous video I said I talked about accountability and how 151 00:16:37.920 --> 00:16:41.920 accountability is one of the last templates. It's part of the motivator template but accountability 152 00:16:41.920 --> 00:16:46.480 is so powerful. So I want to encourage you, put it up there, let's get vulnerable, let's get 153 00:16:46.480 --> 00:16:51.120 accountable, let's get intentional about sharing with each other the things that we're doing 154 00:16:51.120 --> 00:16:57.680 intentionally to orient our lives towards success. Love you, have an amazing week. I'll see you again 155 00:16:57.680 --> 00:17:01.840 on Wednesday but I'll be chucking up some more photos of my disciplines and I'll be chucking up 156 00:17:01.840 --> 00:17:07.440 one more tonight of soccer which was a great night tonight and soccer is what I do for fun. 157 00:17:07.440 --> 00:17:10.720 Bless you, see you soon guys. Love ya.